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Speaker 1: Will they go on a second date or will must

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be the last time they ever talked?

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Speaker 2: Kiss in the morning Second date update.

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Speaker 1: I'm kiss ninety five seven. All right, are you guys

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ready for a little second date update?

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Speaker 3: Yes, all right, today we're going to Cromwell, we have

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got Rich on the line.

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Speaker 4: Good morning Rich, Hi, good morning Hey.

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Speaker 3: So obviously you know second date update. You apparently went

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on a great first date. You were getting ghosted and

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you want to know why?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so the producer says, you went out with a

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girl named Lauren.

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Speaker 1: Tell me about this great date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so my friends actually sent me up with Floren. Uh,

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you know, I live in the city, but my my friends,

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I'm from here in Connecticut. So my friends sent me

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up with this girl from home, and they said she was,

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you know, an absolute perfect match. So I made the

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track and I you know, offered to take her out

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around here. So I came back and we met at

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a restaurant, and I mean it was a great time.

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It was a really good time. You know, she was funny,

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she's really smart. Okay, I mean she's definitely really hot.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 4: Beautiful, Yeah, yeah, no, she was like beautiful all around.

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I had a really good time. I thought she had

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a really good time. So after you know, it ended

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and I reached out to her for a second date.

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Speaker 5: No answer.

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Speaker 1: All right, so you're getting ghosted.

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Speaker 3: Basically, you thought the date was great, you you felt

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a connection. You thought she was hot. I mean, did

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you make her laugh? Did she seem comfortable?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean she seemed I mean I thought so

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that was my perspective of things, you know. So okay,

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I mean I thought it was a good date.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's a straightforward kind of date. So

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why don't we just call her? Yes, all right, Rich,

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I'm gonna put you on hold. You're gonna be listening in.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call up Lauren.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask her to be honest, and you can

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feel free to jump in at anytime.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yep, sounds good.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, sounds like a great guy.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 2: You know what's so funny is I feel like when

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you're set up, it's actually better because your friends know you.

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Like I was set up, and that's why my husband,

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Oh look stopped, he's a very lucky Hi.

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Speaker 1: Is this Lauren? Yes, hey, Lauren, it is Courtney Lauren,

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it's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 6: Hey, Lauren, it's Savannah Hei.

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Speaker 1: You're on the radio. Hi, Hey, all right, listen.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna just be honest, and I want you to

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be honest with us as well.

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Speaker 1: You are on second date update.

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Speaker 3: So apparently you went on a first date and it

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was fabulous and you are ghosting somebody.

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Speaker 1: And that's somebody you're ghosting is Rich.

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Speaker 5: Oh boy, Yeah, okay, I did.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 3: So I just I mean, obviously you're familiar with the show.

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We just want you to be honest. Rich Rich called us.

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He said the date was fabulous. He came in from

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the city to take you to dinner. He's I think

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he said she's hot, smoking hot.

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Speaker 6: Definitely, he definitely said smoking.

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Speaker 3: Okay, and he had a great He's reached out to

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you a couple times. He thought the date was great.

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Now you're ghosting him. Why are you ghosting him?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 5: I don't know if he told you this. He probably didn't, okay,

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because I guess I wouldn't vivoit with him. But before

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he came to meet me. On his way to come

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get me, he stopped at his parents' house and his

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mom was cooking dinner. And he ate dinner there. Before

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the date, he like was raving about his mom's food

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and how it's like so delicious, and so by the

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time he got to the restaurant, he wasn't hungry, and

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so I sat there eating a meal by myself. Oh

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and it was Yeah, it was weird. The vibes were

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weird because he was just kept talking about his mom

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and like, listen, I love a guy who like loves

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his family, Like that's actually pretty important to me. But

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it was. It was to the point where, you know,

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it felt like he was dating her and me. I

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don't know.

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Speaker 2: Wait, but if he wanted to have dinner at his

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mom's and why wouldn't he like invite you to drinks

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and like just not dinner, Like that doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. I agree, that's yeah, So he

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did weird.

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Speaker 3: You're telling me, Lauren, he didn't eat anything like he

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should have at least faked it and ate something. You

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sat by yourself, ate dinner, and all he did was

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talk about his mother.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, although might like total mama's boy. And I've had

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experiences in the past, and it's kind of a red

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flag for me at this point because of how many.

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Speaker 3: All right, well, listen, I want to bring rich in.

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Rich are you listening? Are you a mama's boy?

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Speaker 1: Did you make her sit and eat dinner all by herself?

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Speaker 4: But first of all, I mean, yes, I love my

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mother very much. I think that should be a huge

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green flag. But besides that point, I mean, it's not

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like I intended to, you know, go home and eat

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a full meal and then go on to state. I

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just happened to go home and my mom's cooking, and

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I rarely go home, I like rarely get to go home,

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and it just smelt so good. And my mother is

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such a good cook, and so I ate dinner. And

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she was really happy, and me and my mother really happy.

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And you know, I feel like at this age we

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should prioritize think our parents happy sometimes, right, so I.

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Speaker 5: Would prioritize making myself happy at this age, I feel

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like I don't know, I mean, I remember things.

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, it was a little shocking me here,

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Like you want somebody who's like mean to their mom.

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I mean, I wonder how well that will work out

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for you?

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Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, hold on, Rich There's like a big

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difference between being like a family kind of guy, which

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is wonderful.

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Speaker 6: Like being a family guy is wonderful.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: But when you're like an od mama's boy and it's

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like intrusive into the relationship, that causes issues in itself.

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I mean, I'm not a therapist, but that's just my

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two cents.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know I would like I said,

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I wouldn't call myself mama's way, but yeah, I love

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my mom.

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Speaker 1: Said Rich, Rich, we can't fall No, but he's a

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mama's boy. Rich. You came in all the way from

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this city.

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Speaker 3: And my guess is Lauren uh spent time on what

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she was gonna wear, maybe her makeup. She probably didn't

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have a lot to eat that day. She was gonna

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go to dinner with you and sit and chat and eat,

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And she sat and ate dinner by herself as a

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single woman. I'm sure Lauren, you felt I should have

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just stayed home, had dinner by myself, me and the dog.

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Because you're sitting there eating by yourself at a restaurant.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know how awkward it is to just slurp

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up spaghetti. Yea's the only one eating.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird. It's weird. Okay, it's kind of sexy

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if you really think about it.

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Speaker 3: Listen, Lauren, would you consider going on a second day

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you guys, if I paid for.

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Speaker 1: It and we'd like not have the food.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm sorry, I don't think I'm interested in the

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second date?

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, well listen, Rich tell you mom

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we said hi.

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Speaker 4: I will. Yeah, nothing I could do about that.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she's fabulous and she's a great cook. Yeah,

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all right, Well listen.

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Speaker 3: It's not a love match, obviously, but I appreciate both

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of you guys being on second date.

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Speaker 1: Update. I appreciate you.

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Speaker 3: Both being very honest too, and I hope you have

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a fabulous day.

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Speaker 5: Y