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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, back with something for you to think about.

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<v Speaker 1>You were so in love and you messed around and

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<v Speaker 1>found out who they really were. They cheated on you

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<v Speaker 1>when you were at your lowest. They cheated on you

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<v Speaker 1>when you were at your lowest. For many of you,

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't the first time you knew they were a cheater,

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<v Speaker 1>but you didn't want to believe it. You let your

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<v Speaker 1>love for them overshadow the truth and you went along

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<v Speaker 1>with it. Some of you out there, you have never

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<v Speaker 1>even told them you know they cheated, because you want

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<v Speaker 1>that relationship so bad. That is nuts. That is nuts,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's the truth. For a lot of people, they

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<v Speaker 1>have not told their significant others that they know they've

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on them because they want that relationship so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you want someone who's cheating on you? And

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<v Speaker 1>why haven't you communicated about that? People treat you how

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<v Speaker 1>you let them treat you always and forever. But for

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<v Speaker 1>them to cheat on you after Lowes's moment on your

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<v Speaker 1>bed of sickness, when you lost everything, when you were

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<v Speaker 1>lost and confused, when you were drained, when you were

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<v Speaker 1>in pain, they cheated. That is not worthy of you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you have to understand that some people are terminally ill,

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<v Speaker 1>yet their significant others are cheating on them. How low

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<v Speaker 1>can you go? How low can you go? I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>the outlandish stories where a person is terminally ill and

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<v Speaker 1>their significant other give them the okay to cheat. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to have more integrity than that. You I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you cannot accept that as a pass to cheat on

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<v Speaker 1>your terminally ill husband or wife or significant other. You

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<v Speaker 1>should not take that as a pass. If they're terminally ill,

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<v Speaker 1>you should be by their side, not cheating. That's not love,

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<v Speaker 1>That's not how love goes. I don't care what they say.

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<v Speaker 1>They're at the lowest moment in their lives. You should

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<v Speaker 1>not be cheating. But a lot of people do it

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what's in them. They want any opportunity to cheat,

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<v Speaker 1>because they are broken people who have not changed, and

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<v Speaker 1>to get involved with people like that knowing that they're

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<v Speaker 1>cheatings because some of you know, you know, because you

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<v Speaker 1>know how you got in the relationship with them in

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<v Speaker 1>the first place. Some of you knew they were married,

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<v Speaker 1>or you knew they had a significant other, and you

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<v Speaker 1>still chose to be with them, not thinking that they

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<v Speaker 1>were gonna ever cheat on you. Being at your lowest

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<v Speaker 1>moment you found out that they were cheating, they probably

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<v Speaker 1>was cheating before that. I'm pretty sure, because a cheater

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<v Speaker 1>does what a cheater does. A cheat, they don't care

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<v Speaker 1>how low you are. A cheater will do what a

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<v Speaker 1>cheater does. The thing is you choosing to be in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship with a person that you know that's cheating,

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<v Speaker 1>or a person that you found out was cheating when

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<v Speaker 1>you were at your lowest. So if they'll cheat on

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<v Speaker 1>you when you're at your lowest, they'll cheat period. It

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<v Speaker 1>does not matter. And they have cheated, I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 1>because if they waited till their lowest, til your lowest

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<v Speaker 1>and cheated, oh they cheated. They've cheated before. So when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to cheaters, you have to look at yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>And as I said, some of you knew the person

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<v Speaker 1>was a cheater because they got in a relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>you while they were married or with someone else, so

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<v Speaker 1>you knew they were a cheater. But I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why people think, oh I love him so much or

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<v Speaker 1>she loves me so much, they'll never cheat on me.

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<v Speaker 1>Something is wrong with you, something is wrong with you,

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<v Speaker 1>because if they cheated with on whoever they're with, they'll

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<v Speaker 1>cheat on you. They will cheat on you. They was

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<v Speaker 1>probably cheating on you the same time that they were

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get with you, because that's what cheater does.

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<v Speaker 1>They have multiple people. Don't think you're so special. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem with a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>People.

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<v Speaker 1>They think they're so special. No, you're not. So many

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<v Speaker 1>people could save themselves a lot of headache and heartache

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<v Speaker 1>by facing the truth. The problem is they don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to face the truth. They want to believe what they

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<v Speaker 1>want to believe when it's not the truth. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care how beautiful you are, what you have, you can

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<v Speaker 1>give a cheater the world, literally, they will still cheat

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<v Speaker 1>on you. It has nothing to do with your beauty.

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<v Speaker 1>It has nothing to do with your possessions. It has

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to do with you. It is about who they

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<v Speaker 1>are as a cheating So for a cheating to cheat

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<v Speaker 1>when you're at your lowest, that is no surprise. It

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<v Speaker 1>may be one to you, but it shouldn't be. It

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be people who love the cheat. They are individuals

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<v Speaker 1>who don't need to ever get into relationships. All they

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<v Speaker 1>do is cause headache and heartache. That's all they do

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<v Speaker 1>because they're so broken up and messed up mentally, they

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<v Speaker 1>go around projecting their pains on whoever accepts them. But

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<v Speaker 1>you have to know you and love you enough to

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<v Speaker 1>not get in twine intertwined with these people, in entanglements

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<v Speaker 1>with them. You should not ever allow yourself to get

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<v Speaker 1>in that situation. And some of you have done it,

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing it, and now you're at your lowest moment

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<v Speaker 1>and you found out they're cheating on you because you

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<v Speaker 1>thought you have it so good, you thought you were

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<v Speaker 1>so special that they would do it, and they did

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<v Speaker 1>it at your lowest That's not love. It's not love.

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<v Speaker 1>A cheatah don't know love. They don't feel good, they

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<v Speaker 1>know what that feels like, but it's not love. A

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<v Speaker 1>Cheatah don't love no one. They don't even love themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know it's so irritating because I've been there.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been on the other side when they said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>never do it again. All lies, all lies, because they

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<v Speaker 1>surely will do it again. And they did not mean

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<v Speaker 1>it what they said, because if they did, they would

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<v Speaker 1>have never cheated in the first place. You think cheating

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<v Speaker 1>don't hurt, You think cheating won't hurt. So you know

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lie, and I'll never do it again. Lies, lies, lines.

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<v Speaker 1>But to be cheated on at your worst, that's awful.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awful, But so many people do it. So many

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<v Speaker 1>people do it because of who they are, and so

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<v Speaker 1>many people accept it because of who they are. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a sad state either way. But I will forever say

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<v Speaker 1>people will treat you how you have taught them. They

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<v Speaker 1>will treat you how you you you have allowed. And

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<v Speaker 1>I know it could be devastating for someone to cheat

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<v Speaker 1>on you when you're in at your worst, But for me,

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<v Speaker 1>if it were me, you get no tears from me.

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<v Speaker 1>And yes, I've been cheated on, but let me tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>I gave it another chance. But eventually I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what you do, what you do because obviously

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<v Speaker 1>my love for you is not enough because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>even love yourself. I love me, and I'm gonna show

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<v Speaker 1>you I love me because I'm out. You know, everybody

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<v Speaker 1>can't do that. Everybody can't walk away. Many should, but

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people can't walk away. But you can

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<v Speaker 1>when you know yourself, when you love yourself and you

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<v Speaker 1>know your worth, you know you deserve better than that.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's who I was. So I can talk about

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<v Speaker 1>things because I've been through a lot. I've been through

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, but I thank God because that is where

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<v Speaker 1>my strength lies in God, not in myself. I believe

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<v Speaker 1>in me, and I love me, and I have faith

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<v Speaker 1>in me, but for the most part, my strength comes

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<v Speaker 1>from God. And I know everybody don't believe that that's

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<v Speaker 1>your choice. I'm talking about me because in my darkest hour,

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<v Speaker 1>that's who kept me. Many of you put all of

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<v Speaker 1>your faith and everything into that significant other and they

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<v Speaker 1>hurt you over and over and over again. It feels

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<v Speaker 1>even worse when they do it when you're at your worst,

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<v Speaker 1>when you're in a situation that you've never been in

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<v Speaker 1>that breaks you down, and then they turn around and

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<v Speaker 1>cheat on you. Awful, awful, awful, But so many people

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<v Speaker 1>go through it, and I just will go back again

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<v Speaker 1>and say, it's about who you are as a person.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people don't know who they are. That's why they

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<v Speaker 1>allow and accept so much in their lives. Most people

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<v Speaker 1>don't love themselves, That's why they go along with so

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<v Speaker 1>much foolishness that causes chaos and drama in their lives

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<v Speaker 1>because they don't even know who they are. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>know their work, they don't know their.

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<v Speaker 2>Value, and even when they're cheated on in their worst times,

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<v Speaker 2>they still want.

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<v Speaker 1>To be with that person. That says something about you,

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<v Speaker 1>not the cheater, because we know a cheater gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>what a cheater does cheat, but it says something about

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<v Speaker 1>you as a person allowing yourself to go through something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, especially when they do it to you in

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<v Speaker 1>your worst moment. But it does happen. So just remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't remember anything else, what you have shown

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<v Speaker 1>a person, how you have taught them to treat you,

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<v Speaker 1>is what they're gonna do. It's what they're gonna do, period.

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<v Speaker 1>Because so many of you, you have no consequences. Then

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<v Speaker 1>if you have no requirements of who you're with and

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<v Speaker 1>they could just do whatever they want to do and

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<v Speaker 1>they know it because you've shown them, nothing is gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm all about positivity, never anything violent because it's

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<v Speaker 1>not worth it. Let me tell you something, No man

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<v Speaker 1>or woman who's doing you wrong is worth you becoming

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<v Speaker 1>violent over, not one single person. If they're doing you wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>they are not worth at all at all, and no

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<v Speaker 1>shape form of fashion. So you think about that a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people have allowed individuals to land them in jail, prison,

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<v Speaker 1>Greg because they were hurt so badly that they did

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<v Speaker 1>the unthinkable. It is not worth it, especially a person

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<v Speaker 1>that's doing you no good. They are not worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>No shape form of fashion, no shape form of fashion. Besides,

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<v Speaker 1>they do to you what you've allowed. They mess up

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<v Speaker 1>on you in your worst times. Hm. Wow, that's all

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, leaving it right there. Thank you so much

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<v Speaker 1>for listening. Please share much much love. I in every

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<v Speaker 1>episode the same and I hope you do it, think

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<v Speaker 1>on it.