Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, back with something for you to think about.
Speaker 1: You were so in love and you messed around and
Speaker 1: found out who they really were. They cheated on you
Speaker 1: when you were at your lowest. They cheated on you
Speaker 1: when you were at your lowest. For many of you,
Speaker 1: that wasn't the first time you knew they were a cheater,
Speaker 1: but you didn't want to believe it. You let your
Speaker 1: love for them overshadow the truth and you went along
Speaker 1: with it. Some of you out there, you have never
Speaker 1: even told them you know they cheated, because you want
Speaker 1: that relationship so bad. That is nuts. That is nuts,
Speaker 1: but it's the truth. For a lot of people, they
Speaker 1: have not told their significant others that they know they've
Speaker 1: cheated on them because they want that relationship so bad.
Speaker 1: Why would you want someone who's cheating on you? And
Speaker 1: why haven't you communicated about that? People treat you how
Speaker 1: you let them treat you always and forever. But for
Speaker 1: them to cheat on you after Lowes's moment on your
Speaker 1: bed of sickness, when you lost everything, when you were
Speaker 1: lost and confused, when you were drained, when you were
Speaker 1: in pain, they cheated. That is not worthy of you.
Speaker 1: But you have to understand that some people are terminally ill,
Speaker 1: yet their significant others are cheating on them. How low
Speaker 1: can you go? How low can you go? I've heard
Speaker 1: the outlandish stories where a person is terminally ill and
Speaker 1: their significant other give them the okay to cheat. You
Speaker 1: have to have more integrity than that. You I mean,
Speaker 1: you cannot accept that as a pass to cheat on
Speaker 1: your terminally ill husband or wife or significant other. You
Speaker 1: should not take that as a pass. If they're terminally ill,
Speaker 1: you should be by their side, not cheating. That's not love,
Speaker 1: That's not how love goes. I don't care what they say.
Speaker 1: They're at the lowest moment in their lives. You should
Speaker 1: not be cheating. But a lot of people do it
Speaker 1: because that's what's in them. They want any opportunity to cheat,
Speaker 1: because they are broken people who have not changed, and
Speaker 1: to get involved with people like that knowing that they're
Speaker 1: cheatings because some of you know, you know, because you
Speaker 1: know how you got in the relationship with them in
Speaker 1: the first place. Some of you knew they were married,
Speaker 1: or you knew they had a significant other, and you
Speaker 1: still chose to be with them, not thinking that they
Speaker 1: were gonna ever cheat on you. Being at your lowest
Speaker 1: moment you found out that they were cheating, they probably
Speaker 1: was cheating before that. I'm pretty sure, because a cheater
Speaker 1: does what a cheater does. A cheat, they don't care
Speaker 1: how low you are. A cheater will do what a
Speaker 1: cheater does. The thing is you choosing to be in
Speaker 1: a relationship with a person that you know that's cheating,
Speaker 1: or a person that you found out was cheating when
Speaker 1: you were at your lowest. So if they'll cheat on
Speaker 1: you when you're at your lowest, they'll cheat period. It
Speaker 1: does not matter. And they have cheated, I'm pretty sure
Speaker 1: because if they waited till their lowest, til your lowest
Speaker 1: and cheated, oh they cheated. They've cheated before. So when
Speaker 1: it comes to cheaters, you have to look at yourself.
Speaker 1: And as I said, some of you knew the person
Speaker 1: was a cheater because they got in a relationship with
Speaker 1: you while they were married or with someone else, so
Speaker 1: you knew they were a cheater. But I don't know
Speaker 1: why people think, oh I love him so much or
Speaker 1: she loves me so much, they'll never cheat on me.
Speaker 1: Something is wrong with you, something is wrong with you,
Speaker 1: because if they cheated with on whoever they're with, they'll
Speaker 1: cheat on you. They will cheat on you. They was
Speaker 1: probably cheating on you the same time that they were
Speaker 1: trying to get with you, because that's what cheater does.
Speaker 1: They have multiple people. Don't think you're so special. That's
Speaker 1: the problem with a lot of people.
Speaker 2: People.
Speaker 1: They think they're so special. No, you're not. So many
Speaker 1: people could save themselves a lot of headache and heartache
Speaker 1: by facing the truth. The problem is they don't want
Speaker 1: to face the truth. They want to believe what they
Speaker 1: want to believe when it's not the truth. I don't
Speaker 1: care how beautiful you are, what you have, you can
Speaker 1: give a cheater the world, literally, they will still cheat
Speaker 1: on you. It has nothing to do with your beauty.
Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with your possessions. It has
Speaker 1: nothing to do with you. It is about who they
Speaker 1: are as a cheating So for a cheating to cheat
Speaker 1: when you're at your lowest, that is no surprise. It
Speaker 1: may be one to you, but it shouldn't be. It
Speaker 1: shouldn't be people who love the cheat. They are individuals
Speaker 1: who don't need to ever get into relationships. All they
Speaker 1: do is cause headache and heartache. That's all they do
Speaker 1: because they're so broken up and messed up mentally, they
Speaker 1: go around projecting their pains on whoever accepts them. But
Speaker 1: you have to know you and love you enough to
Speaker 1: not get in twine intertwined with these people, in entanglements
Speaker 1: with them. You should not ever allow yourself to get
Speaker 1: in that situation. And some of you have done it,
Speaker 1: you're doing it, and now you're at your lowest moment
Speaker 1: and you found out they're cheating on you because you
Speaker 1: thought you have it so good, you thought you were
Speaker 1: so special that they would do it, and they did
Speaker 1: it at your lowest That's not love. It's not love.
Speaker 1: A cheatah don't know love. They don't feel good, they
Speaker 1: know what that feels like, but it's not love. A
Speaker 1: Cheatah don't love no one. They don't even love themselves.
Speaker 1: And you know it's so irritating because I've been there.
Speaker 1: I've been on the other side when they said, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you. I'll
Speaker 1: never do it again. All lies, all lies, because they
Speaker 1: surely will do it again. And they did not mean
Speaker 1: it what they said, because if they did, they would
Speaker 1: have never cheated in the first place. You think cheating
Speaker 1: don't hurt, You think cheating won't hurt. So you know
Speaker 1: that's a lie, and I'll never do it again. Lies, lies, lines.
Speaker 1: But to be cheated on at your worst, that's awful.
Speaker 1: That's awful, But so many people do it. So many
Speaker 1: people do it because of who they are, and so
Speaker 1: many people accept it because of who they are. It's
Speaker 1: a sad state either way. But I will forever say
Speaker 1: people will treat you how you have taught them. They
Speaker 1: will treat you how you you you have allowed. And
Speaker 1: I know it could be devastating for someone to cheat
Speaker 1: on you when you're in at your worst, But for me,
Speaker 1: if it were me, you get no tears from me.
Speaker 1: And yes, I've been cheated on, but let me tell you,
Speaker 1: I gave it another chance. But eventually I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what you do, what you do because obviously
Speaker 1: my love for you is not enough because you don't
Speaker 1: even love yourself. I love me, and I'm gonna show
Speaker 1: you I love me because I'm out. You know, everybody
Speaker 1: can't do that. Everybody can't walk away. Many should, but
Speaker 1: a lot of people can't walk away. But you can
Speaker 1: when you know yourself, when you love yourself and you
Speaker 1: know your worth, you know you deserve better than that.
Speaker 1: And that's who I was. So I can talk about
Speaker 1: things because I've been through a lot. I've been through
Speaker 1: a lot, but I thank God because that is where
Speaker 1: my strength lies in God, not in myself. I believe
Speaker 1: in me, and I love me, and I have faith
Speaker 1: in me, but for the most part, my strength comes
Speaker 1: from God. And I know everybody don't believe that that's
Speaker 1: your choice. I'm talking about me because in my darkest hour,
Speaker 1: that's who kept me. Many of you put all of
Speaker 1: your faith and everything into that significant other and they
Speaker 1: hurt you over and over and over again. It feels
Speaker 1: even worse when they do it when you're at your worst,
Speaker 1: when you're in a situation that you've never been in
Speaker 1: that breaks you down, and then they turn around and
Speaker 1: cheat on you. Awful, awful, awful, But so many people
Speaker 1: go through it, and I just will go back again
Speaker 1: and say, it's about who you are as a person.
Speaker 1: Most people don't know who they are. That's why they
Speaker 1: allow and accept so much in their lives. Most people
Speaker 1: don't love themselves, That's why they go along with so
Speaker 1: much foolishness that causes chaos and drama in their lives
Speaker 1: because they don't even know who they are. They don't
Speaker 1: know their work, they don't know their.
Speaker 2: Value, and even when they're cheated on in their worst times,
Speaker 2: they still want.
Speaker 1: To be with that person. That says something about you,
Speaker 1: not the cheater, because we know a cheater gonna do
Speaker 1: what a cheater does cheat, but it says something about
Speaker 1: you as a person allowing yourself to go through something
Speaker 1: like that, especially when they do it to you in
Speaker 1: your worst moment. But it does happen. So just remember,
Speaker 1: if you don't remember anything else, what you have shown
Speaker 1: a person, how you have taught them to treat you,
Speaker 1: is what they're gonna do. It's what they're gonna do, period.
Speaker 1: Because so many of you, you have no consequences. Then
Speaker 1: if you have no requirements of who you're with and
Speaker 1: they could just do whatever they want to do and
Speaker 1: they know it because you've shown them, nothing is gonna happen.
Speaker 1: And I'm all about positivity, never anything violent because it's
Speaker 1: not worth it. Let me tell you something, No man
Speaker 1: or woman who's doing you wrong is worth you becoming
Speaker 1: violent over, not one single person. If they're doing you wrong,
Speaker 1: they are not worth at all at all, and no
Speaker 1: shape form of fashion. So you think about that a
Speaker 1: lot of people have allowed individuals to land them in jail, prison,
Speaker 1: Greg because they were hurt so badly that they did
Speaker 1: the unthinkable. It is not worth it, especially a person
Speaker 1: that's doing you no good. They are not worth it.
Speaker 1: No shape form of fashion, no shape form of fashion. Besides,
Speaker 1: they do to you what you've allowed. They mess up
Speaker 1: on you in your worst times. Hm. Wow, that's all
Speaker 1: I'm saying, leaving it right there. Thank you so much
Speaker 1: for listening. Please share much much love. I in every
Speaker 1: episode the same and I hope you do it, think
Speaker 1: on it.