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Speaker 1: Made a decision a face sunny Sun. I had a

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vision like night.

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Speaker 2: Too, mat Hey, everybody, it's for crying out loud.

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Speaker 3: It sure is what's happened. I've missed you this week.

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Much has happened?

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Speaker 4: Yes, and really not much.

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Speaker 3: I mean, what do you want from me? Like, you know,

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I'm just to live in my life, just a mom,

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just a mom. I just remembered this, and part of

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me thinks it's like good for Patreon, but another part

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of me is like, well, nobody's gonna know who I'm

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talking about, right, So, Xander, this is this is sad.

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This is not like funny.

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Speaker 2: Okay, stops laughing, Bunny, It's crazy.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: So the other day, Xander, like two nights ago, is like, hey, okay,

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I'm gonna call this kid Ted. He's like, hey, Ted

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is Xander's friend from school. They're not like they've seen

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each other outside of school, right like once or twice,

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but kind of a new friend from school.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Xander's like, hey, Ted is at the Bourbank Airport and

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wants to know if we can come pick him up.

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What So Ted is twelve or thirteen, right, I mean

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the same age as Xander. Yeah, and John and I

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were sitting like it's together. We're in our office, I know,

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and we're like, what what are you talking? What are

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you talking about? And he's like, no, seriously. Now we

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can hear Ted on the phone. Xander's got it like

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on speakerphone and Ted is kind of laughing. So we're like,

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what is going on with this kid? Ted's going like,

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I don't know my dad sposed to pick me up.

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I think he fell asleep, like nine o'clock at night.

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So we're like, is he serious? And then we're like,

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where's this where's the mom?

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Speaker 2: His?

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Speaker 3: Uh my mom's in Oregon. Oh my god, I don't

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know where my dad is, but I've been trying to

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call him for like, and so we didn't know what

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to do. But this kid also stays with his grandmother

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part time, right, so like I know that he's sometimes

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because when they were going to school, I know that

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he would sometimes because like his grandparents would come pick

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him up or he would be coming from his grandparents house. Right,

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So we're of course John I are immediately like, well,

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why where's your grandparents?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's not eleven pm, it's nine pm. But

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more than that, what the fuck, where are who's watching?

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This is not picking up a twelve or thirteen year

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old kid from the airport by themselves. This kid's just

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sitting by himself at the airport.

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Speaker 4: You gotta be kidding me.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, yeah, of course, like we'll go get him.

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But also I'm like he So he says, I don't

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have my uh, I don't know my grandparents phone number

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by heart. The story was getting gone, but it was weird.

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But doesn't he laughing? And then finally He's like, well,

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I'm laughing because I'm nervous, like I don't know what

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to do.

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Speaker 4: But doesn't he have his grandparents phone number and his phone?

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Speaker 3: So you would think that John's looking at me. I'm

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looking at John. We're like why why doesn't he have

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his the information in his phone? And Xander's like, what

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do you want from me?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, like I mean.

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Speaker 3: So then so John's like, okay, of course I'll go

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get him, but like, does he even already lives? He

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doesn't have his grandpas? Like where and where are we

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taking him? If the dads know where to be found?

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The mom's in Oregon? Where are we driving him to?

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And I was like, well, bring him to our house, right,

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So uh then but John's like, I just feel weird,

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Like it feels we wrong to go pick up someone

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else's kid. It sounds like a miscommunication. Who how is

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it possible this kid was just being left at an airport.

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Somebody's on their way to get him, right, Like, that's

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what we're thinking. So we're like, we don't want to

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get in trouble for going to pick up a kid.

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Somebody's on their way to get him.

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Speaker 2: There's and then they don't know kid went right, But

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he's like no, seriously, ted saying this desander, no seriously,

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Like I think my dad's asleep.

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Speaker 3: So then of course I'm like, wait, is he an alcoholic?

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What are you asleep when you're supposed to be going

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to pick up your kid? Dad is crazy? My mind

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is blown right now. And then the kid says, hold on,

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I'm gonna try to call my dad's friend. And then

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he says, but he knows the dad's friends. Imember not

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making this up, I guess. So he's like, I'm gonna

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call my dad's friend. And he said he better pick

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up because he lives in his car.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: I wish John was here to double you know, to

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swear by this story. Because so John and I are like,

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our mouths can't be where. I was like, wait, wait

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what I go? Wait, your dad's friend lives in his car,

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and your dad, you think, is asleep and can't get you,

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and your mom's in Oregon for no like, call your

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fucking mom and tell her to get the fucking dad

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on the phone. So then John and I are both

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like okay, well, I said, I think we should just

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go get him, like and let the chips fall where

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they may. And John's like okay. And then next thing

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you know, He's like, Okay, my dad's friend is coming

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to get me. But he didn't get picked up for

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another entire hour.

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Speaker 4: What does dad have to do?

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Speaker 3: Because we kept waiting, we kept saying, like, what's the update. Yeah,

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he lives in the car.

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Speaker 2: How long is it gonna take for him to get

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his shoes and socks?

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Speaker 3: I know, maybe he had to go panhandled for some

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gas money. Maybe, I mean that sounds that's horrible. I'm

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not trying to joke about it.

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 3: We were very distracted. We were like, okay, if he

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doesn't cut, we just kept waiting. We're like, if he

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doesn't come in the next like fifteen minutes, we're going

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to get him, right. But then then Sander's like, oh,

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he got.

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Speaker 2: Picked up by the way by his friends, by the day,

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by the dad's friend.

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Speaker 3: About what happened. Nope, that's crazy. Wow.

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Speaker 4: Parents of the year, I know, and.

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Speaker 3: We worry about like, you know, fifteen minutes of.

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Speaker 4: A volleyball exactly exactly.

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Speaker 3: You know, the bar has been set very low. Guys,

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take heart. Have you left your kid at the airport

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and ended because you fell asleep?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't, probably not, or you don't feel bad? Yeah,

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oh my wow. Yeah, So then that's it. He just

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Speaker 3: I have no update because these two are not like

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good friends, right, So that's weird that he called Xander too,

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time every day, well, I guess they talk. But there's

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like a little more to the story. I mean, the

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kid seems to have a very strange home life and

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has like internet romances often like it always has a

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new no, always has a new boyfriend or girlfriend or

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whatever's happening with some rando that they met online. But

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I don't think they're seeing these I don't think they're

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meeting up in person, really, but Xander's like, yeah, Ted's

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in another toxic relationship? Is Ted forty five?

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Speaker 4: I don't know what is going on with this Ted?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I've actually asked Xander to kind of make

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some distance, right, Yeah, okay, but then what are you

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gonna do? You're gonna go get the kid? Yeah, but

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I just don't know what. I don't even know if

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it's an unreliable narrator situation, so hard to know it.

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Speaker 2: But it seems to me that he must He was

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probably strand of course, yeah, but something is missing along

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that way.

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Speaker 4: Ted should have just went to.

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Speaker 2: The Burbank bar and had like at the airport, just

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had a beer, Yeah, to take the edge off from

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Speaker 3: Myself a non alcoholic. Can I get an old duels

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over here?

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Speaker 2: Dad's falling asleep, Mom's an organ It's just me and

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my thoughts.

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Speaker 4: Crying into his old duel.

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Speaker 2: I don't have a credit card, but uh sure would

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love some tostitos.

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Speaker 3: Cayln, What are you doing.

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Speaker 5: Right now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I was writing down a little write up for the

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show for later.

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Speaker 4: But where you were already?

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Speaker 3: We're nine minutes in. You already know what you're going

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Speaker 5: Well for the first part, but during that whole story,

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which did sound very interesting, Matt came in. So me

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and Matt like to run down our weekends together. So

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I was telling Mad about my weekends.

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Speaker 4: So that was morek being left at the airport.

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Speaker 3: What okay, how was your weekend?

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Speaker 5: It was very nice. Actually, I did some errands on

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Friday and I got Quentin Tarantino's new book. And I'm

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not a reader, but I was like, you know what,

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I'm going to fucking read a book. So I got

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his book and I started reading it, which I like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I gotta make a note, Sonny's gonna get all

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over that show.

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Speaker 5: Well, it's just it's Once Upon a Time in Hollywood. Oh,

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but it's a you know, it's a novel, and there's

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a lot more information on, like the backstory of the

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characters and the history of you know, this world that

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he created. So I've been reading that.

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Speaker 3: Did I tell you guys that I just saw Once

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Upon a Time in Hollywood for finally, No, I don't

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think So what do you think about? Is that your favorite?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: I actually saw it and I was kind of I

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was kind of disappointed. I mean, he's my favorite director. Yeah,

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movie theater and I was really disappointed. And then the

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final scene happens, and as soon as Brad Pittlan clicks

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his mouth and that dog bites that fucking Manson girl,

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the whole theater just erupted. It was like one of

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the greatest theater experiences I've ever had in my life.

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It was just cheering in the theater, excitement. It was

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the best. But the whole time, I'm hearing everybody like,

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this is so great, this is so great, and I'm like,

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I don't get it. I don't get why everyone likes

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this one so much. Maybe it's because I'm too young,

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Speaker 4: So I don't Sunny loved it.

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Speaker 5: But now that I'm reading the book, I'm starting to

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like get more backs around the characters and like understand

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it more. So. I planned to watch the movie again

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after I finish the book, so I am starting to

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and I like that I can like picture Brad Pitt

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and Leo in the book. But ultimately, in terms of

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his movies, it wasn't it wasn't one of my favorites.

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Speaker 2: It's well acted, Yeah, it is definitely well acted.

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Speaker 3: But it's not even really a character study because you

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don't really get to know these characters.

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Speaker 5: It's like I know, well, yeah, and that kind of

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like I knew there was more behind Brad Pitt and Leo,

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and like, I know that there's something there because he's

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been Tarantino has been doing all the shows lately on

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the podcast, so I've been hearing him talk about this

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over and over again, and there is like a really

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good backstory between the two characters that well, Brad Pitt

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is like a war hero and a murderer, and he's

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like a cold blooded, like straight up murderer.

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Speaker 5: I don't think so Quentin Tarantino like he was like

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writing this for like five years and then I think

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he just picked out all the parts to put the

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movie together. But yeah, there's a whole backstory on Cliff

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and being a war hero and being a murderer and

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getting into like dog fighting and Leonardo DiCaprio's character like

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suffering from bipolar and being an alcoholic, and you know,

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it's good, it's getting He's giving me the backstory that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they hinted at the Brad Pitt being a murderer,

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but they never When John and I watched it, we

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were like, okay, so I did right, I got. I

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mean they hain't said.

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Speaker 4: It right, but yeah, really.

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Speaker 3: But why not why not say there's no There's no

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harm in making that clear. It would make us such

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a more interesting character.

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Speaker 5: Well yeah, read the book.

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Speaker 2: Really funny because Mike August and Sonny.

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Speaker 2: Like discussion over Once upon a Time in Hollywood blowout. Yeah,

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because Sonny loved it, and Mike August is like, I

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love Tarantino, but I hate that's fucking movie. Like he's

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like he said, his whole thing was like, Brad Pitt

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is not Superman.

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Speaker 4: Why is he able to just beat up what's his face? Uh?

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Bruce Lee? Right?

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Speaker 2: You know, like come on, Cliff Booth is not beating

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up Bruce Lee like that? You know? And that this

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is what Mike Augus's argument was. And this is all

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filtered through Sonny too.

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Speaker 5: Well I kind of thought that too. I was like,

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that stunt man is beating up Bruce Lee? Like, how

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is that possible. And then again you read like this

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dude was and like hand to hand combat in World

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War Two, so like he he knows what he's doing

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a lot more than what you get out of just

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watching this.

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Speaker 4: And it should be Yeah, it should have been in

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the movie. It should have been.

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Speaker 3: I mean, listen, he had time.

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I mean, Tarantino does a lot of like those long

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scenes that are just drawn out, and it feels like

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he's just kind of like, you know, being he can

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do it because he's like Jack and I.

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Speaker 3: Was showing you know, yeah, yes, it was self indulgent,

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and it was definitely there was a lot of really

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cool stuff that he did as a director, but to

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show you like, hey, now I'm making a western like

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that's about black and white movie and it looks real, right,

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and now I'm making this movie and now I'm making

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this from the you know, sixties seventies, and you're like, okay, right,

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I get it. I get your good. But how about

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some story. Yeah, Sprinkling.

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Speaker 4: I loved the whole, the whole.

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Speaker 2: Los Angeles, you know, back in the day of what

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it looked like and how he got like the Pussycat

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Theater yeh, and like and also Sharon Tape going to

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the Mexican restaurant. I just which is still there that

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I've been to for lunch recently. You know all that

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stuff is they went to on Sunset, Yeah, El Coyote

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on Sunset, Yeah, said al Coyote.

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Speaker 4: Where did they go? Yeah, I think it is.

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Speaker 2: And then they went But then Cliff Booth and Brad

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Pitt and Leonardo went to in the place in the valley.

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Speaker 3: Oh, they went to a Foremosa. At one point they

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went to Foremost.

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Speaker 2: Then oh, and they went to Harry I mean Musso

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and Franks, which my dad used to take me to.

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Speaker 3: And that was little and eighteen dollars for a head

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of lettuce, right, you know they give it's a called

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a wedge salad.

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Speaker 4: Yes.

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Speaker 3: And what they do if they cut an iceberg iceberg head,

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they cut it into like a quarter. They just give

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it to you and then they give you a sided

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dressing and a slice of tomato and they charge you

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like eighteen dollars. I'm not exactly no, no, I know

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you're like, I could have just brought my own iceberg, right.

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There was no prep involved.

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Speaker 4: At all. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then yeah, so I liked I liked all

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that that iconic stuff.

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Speaker 3: But other than that, I mean, it wasn't dang yeah exactly,

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but it wasn't like amazing.

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Speaker 2: I you know, I was kind of disappointed with the end,

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to be honest, Like I get it. It was what

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if they went up the wrong driveway or whatever, but like.

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Speaker 4: It just threw me off the whole ending.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, didn't build really to that ending, right, I mean

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it was two different movies. It was like one movie

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about these two guys and then one movie about uh,

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you know, Charlie.

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Speaker 2: Charles Manson boom what. So did you have an exciting week?

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So I do this? Ah, this week I basically have.

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I'm getting ready for the Corolla family barbecue that's happening.

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I think I talked about it a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I know I'm going, But isn't it in August?

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Speaker 4: Can you come help me?

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Speaker 3: Of course, of course I can. Is it August?

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Speaker 4: Yes, it's like in a month.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's August twenty second, okay or twenty whatever, Saturday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll help you.

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Speaker 2: Well, the thing is is that it's at the flower Warehouse.

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Speaker 4: So now this is going to be my whole it's

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up that it's up.

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Speaker 2: The street at the car warehouse where Adam has all

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his It's like a junk yard basically right now, Oh

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that are uh huh, Like there's a lot of cars,

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a lot of car parts, trash, you know, dumpsters. It's

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just it looks like, yeah, a junk yard, and it

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needs to And yeah, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't do good in that environment.

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Speaker 2: Like everything is just like so overwhelming and I don't

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know where to begin.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you should hire somebody to do that part.

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one that orders the food and like make sure there's enough.

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Speaker 4: I'm doing that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But what I gotta do is here's the thing too,

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Adam you know, well, he's he loves to see somebody

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cleaning and organizing and blah blah blah blah blah. Right,

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and I feel like he'll he not that he's not

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taking this series, but I feel like he'll he'll help

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me more if I'm actually there, do Like, if I'm

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actually there cleaning and organizing, then he'll be like, oh,

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I'll tell Sean to get this done and move that

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and get this out of the way. You know, he'll

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he's going to be more helpful in that area. That's

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just the way I know, I know, but that's just

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the way.

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Speaker 3: He's gonna help you to prepare for got it. Isn't

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that sort of like when men watch the baby and

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their baby there, they call it babysitting, like their babysitting

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their own kids. Isn't that kind of like yeah, right, well,

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he's going to help you get ready for the right

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barrow of barbecue.

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Speaker 5: I was just gonna say, it's gonna be one heck

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of a task getting that ready for the barbecue, because,

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like you said, it looks like a junk yard. There

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are some there are a lot of old cars there,

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and I'm just curious to see how the next month

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is going to go.

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Speaker 2: All well, that's that's exactly what's been hanging over my head,

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like yeah, so but anyway, we're planning on getting the

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food and all the porta potties and all that kind

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of stuff. And the night before we're having a bar crawl.

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So because a lot of people fly in from out

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of town.

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Speaker 3: Right, they want multiple right to look forward to it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's like the rehearsal dinner before the barbecue.

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We're taking everybody that from out of town and then

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some out on bar crawls with all the Lackey's right klan. Yep. Yeah,

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I don't like to call him lackeys anymore because they've

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graduated from that. Maybe one still a lackey, Ryan, Yeah,

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he's a lackey for he's is Doctor Drew coming, Yes,

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doctor Dream He's coming, Doctor Drew. Your favorite lawyer is

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going to be there. Yeah, Garret gos everybody, doctor Bruce.

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Speaker 3: Oh, please tell me A. J. Bens is not coming?

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Speaker 4: No, no, okay, no, mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: He was there last time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: John almost had a fit, really really yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 3: Why Well you might remember that he basically went after

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my family right online, right, and and John read all

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the messages that he sent to me that were horrific,

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and John was just like what the fuck, like he

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wanted to confront him, and I was like absolutely not,

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absolutely not. The guy's nuts. I mean, in my opinion,

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we're not having any problems at the Crol Family Barbecue.

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Speaker 2: No. So yeah, well he's not coming now, well, he's

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not on the shows, you know what I mean, He's

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not right.

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Speaker 4: But a lot of the comedians that are from the

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shows will be there.

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Speaker 3: That's exciting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Kyle Dunningan or whatever, Beautie Pie, yeah yeah, and

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Dexter from Offspring.

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Speaker 4: Offspring is gonna.

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Speaker 3: Oh wasn't there. They were maybe gonna do last year,

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but then they couldn't and then Dawson.

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Speaker 2: Right, so what No, Like the year you came, it

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was our first family so we were deciding to do

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it every year. That was the inaugural family barbecue, and

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so we just had uh Loxy perform, Chris loxhim on

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his band, and Dawson perform.

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Speaker 4: But then now then last.

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Speaker 2: Year, last year we sa Covid Yes, we were going

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to have him come and but it got canceled. So

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and you know, we're trying to get Mark McGrath to

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to do some Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Remember when we had him on the show. Yea and

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his wife, Yes, how cute. It so fun. He was

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so sweet and like and.

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Speaker 4: I follow I I know, and I follow.

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Speaker 2: His wife on Instagram and I watched because they have

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boy girl twins.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they had just their their twins are really

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young at the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they were born like a couple months before or

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after our kids. So yeah, their kids are the same

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age and say, I've you know, like all her post

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and it's really Karen McGraths. She's adorable. Yeah, they're such

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a cute family. They're so cute.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they got teenagers now, those kids are huge.

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Speaker 3: I remember thinking this marriage is gonna last because they're

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just down to earth normal people.

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Speaker 2: Right, And you know he was with her I think

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before he got successful, because I just remember going to

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the k rock stuff and he was like, you know,

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the big star, and every chick wanted to like be

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with him, and everybody was falling all over themselves and

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carrying on, and it's like, but he's got a girlfriend.

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Everybody was like, right, he's got a girlfriend, and he's

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been with that girlfriend for a while. And then everybody was, well,

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now he's you know, mister rock star. That's gonna go

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by the wayside. And it's like here they are, twenty

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years later, whatever, still going strong.

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Speaker 4: It's really cute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I know, I'd like for we're gonna keep trying

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that avenue. It'll be fun to have him come perform, Yeah, totally.

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So there's that, and you know, just working on a

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stuff for Corolla Drinks, a lot of licensing, a lot

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of like really switching around. The fulfillment stuff is so

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alcohol business is so much red tape, so many hoops

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to jump through, and takes forever to get anything done.

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Every state's different, the laws are different in every state.

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It's just yeah, so trying to apply for licenses takes

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forever and got to have this before you do that.

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Speaker 4: It's just a lot of that. It's constant. It just

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doesn't stop.

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Speaker 2: It's never you can never get it to where exactly

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where you want it. We're still keeping keeping it going,

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like keeping things progressing every day because it's gonna go. Okay,

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you know, now we're set. We're not Bacardi right right,

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you know, And we don't have a sales team out there.

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We don't have people boots on the ground. It's just

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mostly all online for now. But but so we'll see. Yeah,

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we're starting up a new LLC with a new whiskey,

473
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,119
not the eight one eight, right, and with somebody that

474
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,279
knows the alcohol and has a lot of the connections

475
00:23:26,319 --> 00:23:28,039
and has a lot of the how to get it

476
00:23:28,079 --> 00:23:30,759
into the We know how to do it all. It's

477
00:23:30,799 --> 00:23:33,400
just we don't have the connections and we don't have

478
00:23:33,759 --> 00:23:36,880
the army of people that we need to hire. But

479
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,680
he knows how to navigate that and he's good. So anyway,

480
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,000
it's gonna be it's gonna be great. It'sn't been amazing

481
00:23:44,079 --> 00:23:48,440
how when we started this podcast we were just knee

482
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,319
deep in parenting all the time.

483
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:54,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's hard to think about anything else. Yeah, and

484
00:23:54,599 --> 00:23:57,359
now it's like, I don't even know where my kids are.

485
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,079
I mean, I know where my kids are. Actually they're

486
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:04,440
sleeping ten am. They still have a few more hours

487
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:07,799
to go in their sleep schedule. But it's just funny

488
00:24:07,799 --> 00:24:09,839
that I leave in the morning and I don't even

489
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,920
think about it. I mean, yeah, John's home right now,

490
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,680
but even if he wasn't, I'd be like, see you later,

491
00:24:16,519 --> 00:24:19,680
right same. I know a few things to do after

492
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,680
this too. I probably won't be home till like three.

493
00:24:22,599 --> 00:24:24,839
Speaker 2: But so, do you feel like you're Yeah, do you

494
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,680
feel like you're in the corner office?

495
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:28,559
Speaker 4: I do.

496
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:32,079
Speaker 3: But you know, things change in a different way, and

497
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:33,599
I know you're going to know what I mean where

498
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,279
you have to watch your kids in a different way.

499
00:24:37,319 --> 00:24:39,400
You have to watch their mental health, you have to

500
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:44,279
watch their uh what stuff they're keeping inside like, you

501
00:24:44,319 --> 00:24:47,640
have to watch their moods as opposed to just watching

502
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:52,039
their everyday existence and making sure but it's it's and

503
00:24:52,079 --> 00:24:54,680
it's not just about making sure they're happy, like making

504
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:58,000
them happy, it's making sure they're not depressed, that they're

505
00:24:58,079 --> 00:25:01,119
not suffering from anxiety and not telling you like you

506
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:04,599
have to be kind of vigilant. In fact, we just

507
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:08,640
I just got Sadie into therapy. Oh that's nice. Yeah,

508
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,240
And it's so funny because you would think of my

509
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:14,119
three that Sadie would be least likely to be the

510
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:17,319
one that would need to be prioritized for therapy right now.

511
00:25:17,839 --> 00:25:25,000
But she is, like we were noticing real just moods

512
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:31,640
and not share, not talking, and you can't get anything

513
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,240
out of her. She never wants to do anything, and

514
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,839
you gotta nip that shit in the butt. You gotta like,

515
00:25:38,039 --> 00:25:40,640
I can't let her slip through the cracks because my

516
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:44,960
other two are more vocal. You know, when Elbie was

517
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:49,599
having anxiety, it was real obvious it was disrupting our

518
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,359
lives and she was not functional.

519
00:25:54,319 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 2: But with Sadie, she can be real quiet about it.

520
00:25:57,039 --> 00:25:59,759
And then it's like you go, how long has she

521
00:25:59,799 --> 00:26:00,480
been like this?

522
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,559
Speaker 3: You know? Right, Wow, it seems like she's kind of

523
00:26:03,599 --> 00:26:05,480
always like this. And then I say to John, like,

524
00:26:05,519 --> 00:26:08,640
should we do something about this? And then you you know,

525
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:10,119
when they're quiet, you're.

526
00:26:10,039 --> 00:26:14,759
Speaker 2: Like, that's right, You're like, WOWE see how it goes. Yes,

527
00:26:14,839 --> 00:26:17,400
you have the next couple of weeks ago maybe when

528
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,440
this happens or maybe when that happens.

529
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 3: But it wasn't happening. But I got her in with

530
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:28,599
a therapist and I love loving this. Oh and she's

531
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:35,079
gone twice. She really likes it. And honestly, I think

532
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,160
it was like the idea of her being focused on

533
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,920
was very good for her, like the idea that somebody

534
00:26:42,079 --> 00:26:45,440
was recognizing that something's going on. And I told her,

535
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,960
I was like, Sadie, you know it doesn't have to

536
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:49,799
be this way, like you don't have to feel like

537
00:26:49,799 --> 00:26:52,400
this all the time, like I have no joy and

538
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,759
not want to do stuff. And that was kind of

539
00:26:54,799 --> 00:26:58,000
news to her. And I said, let me get you therapy.

540
00:26:58,039 --> 00:27:01,279
And then I did follow through on that shit. Yeah,

541
00:27:02,839 --> 00:27:07,759
unlike myself normally actually had some follow through. But yeah,

542
00:27:07,799 --> 00:27:10,359
so and I really liked the therapist because the therapist

543
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:15,119
followed up with me, like met Sadie. The last session

544
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,880
that she had. I was sitting outside the you know,

545
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,759
sitting in the waiting room, and I could hear I

546
00:27:21,799 --> 00:27:23,880
couldn't hear what they were saying. I mean it was

547
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,720
hard even though I had the cup up the glass

548
00:27:25,799 --> 00:27:28,039
up against the door, but I still couldn't make out

549
00:27:28,079 --> 00:27:33,880
these no but I could hear them laughing uproariously, and

550
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,119
there was a part of me Linette that was like,

551
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:39,000
what the fuck, Like how this bitch is witch?

552
00:27:39,519 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 2: Yeah?

553
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,559
Speaker 3: Esus her second meeting with my kid, and they're oh,

554
00:27:42,559 --> 00:27:44,880
they're having the greatest time, and I'm like, where's that

555
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,160
kid outside of therapy? Like, and why isn't she crying

556
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:48,680
a little bit?

557
00:27:48,759 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 4: Like shouldn't you a therapy?

558
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, So when they came out and they were like both.

559
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 2: Still laughing, and I was like, you're like, I'm like, wow,

560
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,920
I go sounds like a sounds like a real torturous

561
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,799
hour for you too. I mean I was being funny,

562
00:28:05,839 --> 00:28:08,960
and then they both started kind of laughing, and you know,

563
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,960
I was like that sounded like a lot of fun

564
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,839
happy for you guys. Yeah, you're like Lucy when Ethel

565
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,359
goes off with her new friend Carolyn goes shopping.

566
00:28:20,599 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, And then I was like, well, how was it

567
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,160
Sadie and she's like, great, that's.

568
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,519
Speaker 4: It, that's it. Don't you hate that when they come

569
00:28:27,519 --> 00:28:28,200
out of therapy.

570
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,839
Speaker 3: I do know that they It's like in the movies

571
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:34,880
where did you ever see? You probably didn't, but searching

572
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,799
for Bobby Fisher years ago, years ago, that movie Searching

573
00:28:38,799 --> 00:28:41,319
for Bobby Fisher, the scene stands out in my mind,

574
00:28:41,319 --> 00:28:44,200
which is that the kid goes to the chess master

575
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:49,319
played by Ben Kingsley and they're like they are playing games,

576
00:28:49,319 --> 00:28:51,920
they're not doing they're not actually playing chess. And then

577
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:56,680
the dad is like, well, what did you guys do?

578
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,839
Like you weren't even playing chess, And because Ben Kingsley's

579
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:01,799
make a lot of money, it's like therapy is making

580
00:29:01,839 --> 00:29:03,319
like he has to pay him like whatever one hundred

581
00:29:03,319 --> 00:29:06,880
dollars or something. And then Kingsley's like, well that's you

582
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:11,400
don't just play chess like they were like literally playing

583
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,279
a board game. And it made me think of that,

584
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,599
like they sell Citi said they played a game, and

585
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,079
I was like, well, like like battleship right, what do

586
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,000
you mean a game? And she's like, no, like a

587
00:29:22,039 --> 00:29:26,400
game where like you like a answer questions, like it's

588
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:27,759
funny you know that's.

589
00:29:27,559 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 4: What Brittany does.

590
00:29:28,759 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 3: I thought that was cool though, Yeah, I was like, oh,

591
00:29:31,839 --> 00:29:35,839
that's tricky. That's how you get those teenagers, Like you

592
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,200
make it like a fun thing that you're doing or

593
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:40,079
you're playing a game, but you're really getting to know.

594
00:29:40,079 --> 00:29:43,039
Speaker 4: The kid exactly. That's what that's what she does.

595
00:29:43,039 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 2: Like she's got this room that's got like even for

596
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,920
young kids, all these little games, and then she plays

597
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,000
games to get to know them. And then she's got

598
00:29:53,039 --> 00:29:56,839
like because she's got that certain license the coaching, the coaching,

599
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,079
so she can show up and like throw the ball

600
00:29:59,119 --> 00:30:01,039
with them at the park, talk to him that way,

601
00:30:01,119 --> 00:30:03,119
like she'll find different ways.

602
00:30:02,799 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 4: To be right, to communicate with them. Yeah, I know,

603
00:30:06,839 --> 00:30:07,200
and I know.

604
00:30:07,319 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: It's like it sucks because when they get out of therapy,

605
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:11,960
you want to know, like, which you guys talk.

606
00:30:11,839 --> 00:30:16,559
Speaker 4: About, is how am I doing? Should I get a see.

607
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:20,079
Speaker 2: Year an a you know what I mean? Yeah? Yeah,

608
00:30:20,079 --> 00:30:23,359
And then they don't tell you. They're like everything is fine.

609
00:30:23,519 --> 00:30:26,759
Speaker 3: But the funny thing with Sadie though, is so when

610
00:30:27,359 --> 00:30:31,680
her first session, the therapist said do you want your

611
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,039
mom to come in? Like do you want she was

612
00:30:34,079 --> 00:30:36,759
actually asking me if I wanted to come in. And

613
00:30:36,839 --> 00:30:39,400
like with Elbe when Ilbie first when she was nine,

614
00:30:39,599 --> 00:30:41,559
so I definitely went in with her. Plus she was

615
00:30:41,559 --> 00:30:43,720
having anxiety, so that was part of she was like,

616
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:47,240
she's just going to start talking to this lady. I

617
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,839
could barely take the elevator up, so but with Sadie,

618
00:30:51,839 --> 00:30:54,480
you know, she's started thirteen. So I was like, well,

619
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,920
it's kind of up to Sadie. Like if I'm totally

620
00:30:58,799 --> 00:31:01,960
my name is Paul, this between yeah, you know, but

621
00:31:02,359 --> 00:31:04,200
if you want me to come in, I was. I

622
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,759
was really trying to overcompensate in parenting, like I was

623
00:31:06,759 --> 00:31:09,160
trying to show that I'm the greatest mom that's ever

624
00:31:09,279 --> 00:31:12,160
mommed like I'm like, no, I'm the type of mom

625
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,880
that like that's up to her, like if she wants,

626
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:19,680
if she whatever she feels comfortable with. Meanwhile, inside, honestly,

627
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,720
I was like I'm fine to just look at Facebook,

628
00:31:21,759 --> 00:31:25,400
you fix her. But but I didn't want. I wanted

629
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,480
to appear that I'm willing to be involved but also

630
00:31:28,559 --> 00:31:30,720
willing to let them do their I was like, whatever

631
00:31:30,799 --> 00:31:34,519
you think is best, and she's like, well, Sadie, do

632
00:31:34,559 --> 00:31:37,119
you want your mom to come in? And Sadie's like okay, mmm,

633
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:40,359
So I'm like all right, So so I go in

634
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,079
and then basically the therapist says, do you want to

635
00:31:44,079 --> 00:31:47,000
tell your mom? Do you want to tell me what's

636
00:31:47,039 --> 00:31:48,720
going on or why you're here? Do you want your

637
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,759
mom to And she's like, my mom can, So I

638
00:31:51,799 --> 00:31:55,200
say what's going on? You know? And then I'm like, okay,

639
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:57,440
so do you want me to go? I'm trying to

640
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,039
be like I don't. I'm not trying to be the

641
00:31:59,039 --> 00:32:03,839
mom that's taking over for my daughter's therapy session. And

642
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:05,599
then the therapist is like, do you want your mom

643
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,039
to stay or do you want your mom to go?

644
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:11,000
And Sadie's like whatever, Like now, Sadie's trying to be

645
00:32:11,039 --> 00:32:14,279
the best kid who's like really close with her mom, Like, oh,

646
00:32:14,359 --> 00:32:17,039
I love my mom, she can stay the whole whatever's

647
00:32:17,079 --> 00:32:21,160
good for her. I'm like no, And then I even said,

648
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,640
I go, are you going to talk about me if

649
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,480
I'm sitting in next to you, Like You're not gonna

650
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,480
feel comfortable talking about me? And then anyway, so later

651
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,160
she called me back in at the end of the

652
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,640
session and she said this is the first session and

653
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:36,960
she said, so like Sadie and I talked about the fact,

654
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:38,680
like she said, how involved do you want to be?

655
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,480
And I was like, whatever she needs, Like, if she

656
00:32:43,599 --> 00:32:46,000
wants me to be coming in and checking in on

657
00:32:46,039 --> 00:32:49,200
her goals and progress, I can. I could come in,

658
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:50,599
but I'm happy to like.

659
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 2: Let you guys do a thing, play parcheesy whenever it's

660
00:32:54,559 --> 00:32:55,960
good for you guys.

661
00:32:56,759 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 3: Play Sorry, you know, I just hear from the other

662
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:02,480
room go.

663
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:06,079
Speaker 2: Back for spaces, and I'm like, it's like a lot

664
00:33:06,079 --> 00:33:08,079
of money, I know.

665
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 3: But anyway, the point is that on the way home

666
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,640
I said to Sadie, I was like, oh, you know,

667
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:19,559
she said something to the effect of how do you

668
00:33:19,599 --> 00:33:23,799
get along with your family? And Sadie's like, good, really well,

669
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,440
and I thought, well, I want her to be able

670
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:32,160
to bit like, yeah, she hasn't learned yet. The therapy

671
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,039
is where you get to vent about, right. She will

672
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,480
she can tell the therapist that I'm an asshole and

673
00:33:37,519 --> 00:33:39,880
the therapist isn't going to tell me that. I was

674
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:41,839
trying to bring that up. I was like, you know, she.

675
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,319
Speaker 2: Can't tell me anything you guys talk about, right unless

676
00:33:44,319 --> 00:33:45,920
it's something dangerous.

677
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 3: Yes, she will get She was like, I don't have

678
00:33:49,759 --> 00:33:51,960
anything bad to say. About you. I'm like, you will,

679
00:33:52,319 --> 00:33:55,079
just you will. I'm not that great.

680
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,960
Speaker 4: She listen and gets a yeah, I was just gonna say.

681
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,599
Speaker 3: Whereas Xander when he was in therapy, he didn't want

682
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,680
to do any kind of therapy on the phone or

683
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,159
on zoom because he was like, how am I going

684
00:34:08,199 --> 00:34:08,920
to talk about satan?

685
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:09,559
Speaker 2: Oh?

686
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,280
Speaker 3: You got things to say?

687
00:34:13,519 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 4: Yeah?

688
00:34:14,119 --> 00:34:15,280
Speaker 3: Right, not just about that.

689
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:15,639
Speaker 2: You know.

690
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:17,079
Speaker 4: Here's the thing, is it the same?

691
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 2: Well?

692
00:34:18,199 --> 00:34:20,280
Speaker 4: Wait, did Xander go to this therapist too?

693
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:20,880
Speaker 3: No?

694
00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 4: But you know that's a good thing.

695
00:34:23,119 --> 00:34:26,159
Speaker 2: I am very big on these teenagers starting therapy. All

696
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,280
of them should, yes, because here's the deal.

697
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:34,039
Speaker 4: I think. I know that my kids will always have.

698
00:34:34,039 --> 00:34:38,159
Speaker 2: Brittany now and until she retires. And the good thing

699
00:34:38,199 --> 00:34:40,440
is is she's young still, so I don't see her

700
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:44,159
going anywhere anytime soon. But they got used to therapy

701
00:34:44,159 --> 00:34:47,639
at a young age, right, so they will always go back.

702
00:34:47,519 --> 00:34:49,559
Speaker 4: To therapy when they need it. They're not going to be.

703
00:34:49,519 --> 00:34:51,519
Speaker 2: There's so many people I know that's like, just go

704
00:34:51,519 --> 00:34:53,280
go talk to a therapist, don't talk to me, Go

705
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,519
talk to a therapist, and they don't. They don't really

706
00:34:55,559 --> 00:34:58,559
have therapy in their lives. They weren't introduced to it.

707
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:02,119
Their parents didn't have therapy. That's it's so important to

708
00:35:02,119 --> 00:35:05,559
get it going now, because I could see Natalia as

709
00:35:05,599 --> 00:35:08,679
an adult wanting to go talk to a therapist and

710
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,239
finding her own and you know, in her area. Same

711
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,840
with Sonny too, Like they both you know, they got

712
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:17,239
to the point where it's like, I don't need to

713
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,239
go every week. But that's fine. You don't need to

714
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,559
go every week. And but at least they have established

715
00:35:22,599 --> 00:35:25,199
a relationship. Yeah, and now they know, at least while

716
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,679
their adolescents, they can go to Brittany. They can say,

717
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,599
I want to go talk to Brittany, because they do.

718
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,840
Sometimes I'll go, well, I think we should talk about

719
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:33,480
it with Brittany.

720
00:35:33,519 --> 00:35:34,639
Speaker 4: You know that comes up.

721
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:35,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's good.

722
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:37,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's great.

723
00:35:37,039 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 3: I was put in therapy at sixteen. Maybe younger I might,

724
00:35:42,599 --> 00:35:46,320
but because I just felt like I didn't realize that

725
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,199
my home life sucked as bad as it did in

726
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,440
my mind. I was made to feel like I was

727
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,239
the problem. So I was having a lot of trouble,

728
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,280
like I couldn't like a guy like I would like them,

729
00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:01,239
like them, like them, pine pine for them, these unrequited

730
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,239
you know things. And then if the guy liked me back,

731
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:07,480
I'd be like, oh shit, no, I'm not into it

732
00:36:07,559 --> 00:36:10,159
at all, and I'd get really scared, right, and I

733
00:36:11,039 --> 00:36:14,280
was like I couldn't break through, I couldn't have a boyfriend,

734
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,159
and I really thought something was wrong with me. So

735
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,800
my mom put me in therapy. Of course, the therapist

736
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:24,679
started to realize like, oh, your home life is jacked up,

737
00:36:25,199 --> 00:36:29,280
like this is not good, like your relationship with your parents.

738
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,920
And then you know, anyway, but that's at the stage.

739
00:36:33,079 --> 00:36:36,559
Like you said, just knowing that therapy was a good

740
00:36:36,599 --> 00:36:39,400
thing to do and having a therapist like support me

741
00:36:39,599 --> 00:36:42,280
and point out some things gently that we might have

742
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:47,000
been playing into it helped me. Years later, I sought

743
00:36:47,039 --> 00:36:50,159
therapy for eating disorder, you know, for lots of things.

744
00:36:50,159 --> 00:36:54,320
I was in therapy regarding my biological dad, like different

745
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:57,480
therapists over the years, for long periods of time, really

746
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:57,880
helped me.

747
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,159
Speaker 4: Yes, you see, Yeah, I don't think I.

748
00:37:00,119 --> 00:37:02,639
Speaker 3: Could have gotten married and had kids if I hadn't

749
00:37:02,639 --> 00:37:05,079
been in therapy for a while, right, and I would

750
00:37:05,119 --> 00:37:08,079
love elb elb needs to go back. If I had

751
00:37:08,119 --> 00:37:10,360
a lot of money, I would have all of them

752
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,800
in therapy at the same time. Yeah, John was just

753
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,039
in therapy for a year.

754
00:37:16,159 --> 00:37:19,039
Speaker 2: I would be back in therapy. Remember if I didn't

755
00:37:19,079 --> 00:37:20,079
have that crazy therapist.

756
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, that broke up.

757
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 2: She told you, don't leave a message call me. What

758
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:26,719
did she say, don't.

759
00:37:26,639 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 3: Well, there was a lot of rules. You had to

760
00:37:29,519 --> 00:37:31,039
call her. No, you had to call her, but she

761
00:37:31,039 --> 00:37:33,679
would answer the phone. You couldn't leave it. You couldn't

762
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:37,159
leave a message. You couldn't email her, but she would either.

763
00:37:37,199 --> 00:37:40,800
You could text her. And then she got mad because

764
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,599
I tried to reschedule an appointment like a couple times

765
00:37:43,599 --> 00:37:45,440
and she was like, I don't think you. I can't

766
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:46,719
put I'm taking you off the schedule.

767
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 4: Yeah.

768
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:50,519
Speaker 2: I can't stand therapist like that. The fucking Britney's got

769
00:37:50,519 --> 00:37:54,639
a place in Belize, probably off of the Corolla money

770
00:37:54,679 --> 00:37:56,719
she's made, I swear to God.

771
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 3: But speaking of therapy, be an anxiety. Yeah, so this

772
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,559
is this is a Geico segment. Yeah, but it's something

773
00:38:05,599 --> 00:38:08,119
that I wanted to talk about anyway. Oh good, So,

774
00:38:08,199 --> 00:38:10,280
but it's brought to you by Geico. Okay, so we're

775
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,920
going to be taking a road trip, h going to

776
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:17,800
San Francisco, right, And it's hilarious because as I've told

777
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,599
you before. I can't. It's I'm having more and more

778
00:38:20,679 --> 00:38:26,079
trouble being a passenger in a car. Like I always think.

779
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:29,679
Speaker 2: That John is going to shave off somebody's side mirror

780
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:34,880
a parked car. You know, I cannot handle any kind

781
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:38,199
of cliffs. I think he's going to hit cars on

782
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,440
the freeway. I'm always and I can't.

783
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:45,119
Speaker 3: It's really hard for me to even uh like keep

784
00:38:45,159 --> 00:38:48,559
my mouth shut when i'm when I think he's going, like,

785
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:51,599
I'm like, John, there's break lights in front of you, Like,

786
00:38:51,679 --> 00:38:53,800
I'm like, why are you speeding up? Like it's hard.

787
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,519
I try to control it and I can't. And I

788
00:38:56,559 --> 00:38:59,719
sit next to him all tents and yesterday John goes,

789
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,800
you know, we're gonna have to do something about your anxiety.

790
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,719
And we're going to be driving to San Francisco. And

791
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,320
he goes, are you watched take CBD? And I'm like,

792
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,320
I mean, he goes, maybe we should think about some

793
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:11,719
CBD for the for the road tree.

794
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 4: He's right, right, yes, shouldn't.

795
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 3: We shouldn't have to work around that. We shouldn't have

796
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,800
to fly to San Francisco five people because we can't

797
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:21,679
drive for five.

798
00:39:21,519 --> 00:39:22,519
Speaker 4: Hours, right right?

799
00:39:22,639 --> 00:39:25,559
Speaker 3: I agree, especially in this day and age with Elbie's

800
00:39:25,599 --> 00:39:27,800
going to be watching a movie in the car for

801
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,880
her film analysis class. Sadie and Xander will be, you know,

802
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,880
scrolling through TikTok. I mean they're going to be busy, Yes, absolutely,

803
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:36,679
And I'm going to be sitting in the front seat

804
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:38,880
next to John just white knuckling it.

805
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 2: But listen, it's a beautiful it's a beautiful uh trip,

806
00:39:44,039 --> 00:39:45,800
and you'll be looking at the ocean.

807
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 5: But also, I just wanted to add we were talking

808
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:52,599
about Tarantino's new book earlier that's that would be a

809
00:39:52,599 --> 00:39:55,760
fun audiobook, and Ryan who works here, said he got

810
00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:57,400
the audiobook and he was listening to it and he

811
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,719
said it was great. So just a suggestion that would

812
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:00,960
be a great audiobook thing.

813
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 3: That's a good idea. When John and I drove to

814
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:08,480
Big sur when we were first dating, we listened to Yeah,

815
00:40:08,519 --> 00:40:10,280
Oh No, No No. A couple of years ago, when

816
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,320
we went for our anniversary, we listened to a book

817
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:17,519
on tape about the one about the one about people.

818
00:40:17,559 --> 00:40:20,039
Oh my god, I can't remember what it's called, but

819
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:25,119
it's where people get so outed on social media. It's

820
00:40:25,119 --> 00:40:27,440
basically was the one of the original things about people

821
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,000
getting canceled. It's like when you go viral for doing

822
00:40:30,039 --> 00:40:33,360
something wrong on social media. Do you remember what book

823
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:35,159
I'm talking about. It was a big book for a while,

824
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,440
and it was it was all about the girl it started.

825
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,800
One of the stories was about that woman that made

826
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,480
a joke about AIDS when she was she was going

827
00:40:44,639 --> 00:40:49,639
she was she was being totally sarcastic and she was

828
00:40:49,679 --> 00:40:51,639
actually going to do some like I don't know, some

829
00:40:52,519 --> 00:40:55,000
job and then by the time she got off the plane,

830
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:57,639
her tweet had totally gone viral and she out fired

831
00:40:57,679 --> 00:41:01,199
from her job, and she was like the original canceled.

832
00:41:01,079 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 5: Is it called? So you've been publicly shamed?

833
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, we listened to that book on our drive.

834
00:41:08,079 --> 00:41:10,679
That's good, and that segment was brought to you by Geico.

835
00:41:11,119 --> 00:41:13,159
But you didn't know a commercial could be that fun.

836
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:20,519
I bet not. We're seamless. We are seamless, that's right. Yeah, Okay,

837
00:41:20,559 --> 00:41:24,119
so I talked about oh you know what I wanted.

838
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,199
Speaker 4: To tell you, But yeah, you want to talk about

839
00:41:26,199 --> 00:41:26,800
it on Friday.

840
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 3: I'm wondering if I should. Okay, you're like, we don't

841
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:37,960
have anything for Friday, so you've got something good. Save it? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

842
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:42,679
So Elbie is finishing this film analysis class that I

843
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,840
told you about. That's like a crazy amount of work.

844
00:41:45,199 --> 00:41:47,599
That was the thing where I did the orientation and

845
00:41:47,639 --> 00:41:51,480
it was insane nowhere. Yeah, so we're watching I'm watching

846
00:41:51,599 --> 00:41:55,400
some of these movies with her, and uh, one of

847
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,039
the movies we watched was Tutsi.

848
00:41:57,519 --> 00:42:00,599
Speaker 4: Oh nice, I freaking love that movie.

849
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,079
Speaker 3: All these movies, this is what I'm noticing. And this

850
00:42:04,159 --> 00:42:06,599
is kind of along along the lines of Once upon

851
00:42:06,639 --> 00:42:10,440
a Time in Hollywood but different. But Tutsie is one

852
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,480
of those movies. It's like a seventies movie even though

853
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,000
it was made in nineteen eighty two, where they take

854
00:42:16,039 --> 00:42:19,599
their time they set up the character. It's like, it's

855
00:42:19,679 --> 00:42:22,079
not he doesn't just dress up as a woman, like

856
00:42:22,159 --> 00:42:24,880
right at the beginning, like hey, let's jump right into

857
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,480
the comedy hijacking, right. They really set it up so that,

858
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:33,960
which makes it that much more satisfying. Right where Dustin

859
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:42,719
Hoffman's character Michael Michael Dorsey is going on all these

860
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:45,039
auditions and he's got a bit of an attitude problem

861
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:47,519
if you remember, and so like he's supposed to be

862
00:42:47,519 --> 00:42:49,840
playing a tomato and they want him to like sit

863
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,000
down and he won't sit down. And there's another one

864
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:53,920
where they want he's dying and they want him to

865
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,320
walk across the stage and die center stage and he's like, wait,

866
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,719
but I'm dying, and then he gets fired. So he

867
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,920
gets fired from all these jobs and it leads to

868
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,360
Sydney Pollack, who plays his agent, going, no one will

869
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:09,159
hire you, and then he's driven to like go try

870
00:43:09,199 --> 00:43:11,840
to audition for the job on the soap opera. Right,

871
00:43:12,159 --> 00:43:14,639
it's such a good movie and it totally holds up

872
00:43:14,679 --> 00:43:16,880
and l Be hated it every minute of it. He

873
00:43:17,039 --> 00:43:18,760
was like so bored.

874
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, Natalia probably wouldn't like it. I'm like, it's any

875
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,400
such a good movie. Yeah, I know.

876
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:26,559
Speaker 2: But you know, it's like back then, it was like

877
00:43:26,679 --> 00:43:29,960
slower times. You know, people didn't have the attention span.

878
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:34,199
You know, they had the attention Yeah, they don't have today,

879
00:43:34,519 --> 00:43:37,639
and that's you know, that's when people made movies and

880
00:43:37,679 --> 00:43:39,480
it could breathe and they took their time.

881
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

882
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,079
Speaker 2: Right now it's like it's a fast paced world. They

883
00:43:43,079 --> 00:43:44,440
cut to the chase really quick.

884
00:43:45,119 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 3: It's kind of fun though, doing this, kind of doing

885
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:49,719
it along with her, because then she had to write

886
00:43:50,079 --> 00:43:53,639
she has to do a different project for each movie,

887
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,159
and one of them was so I said, well, why

888
00:43:56,159 --> 00:44:00,480
don't you write an essay about how Michael Dorsey the

889
00:44:00,559 --> 00:44:04,320
character was a better man as a woman, because there's

890
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:06,400
a line where he says that the very enery says

891
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,920
to Jessica Lang, like I was a better man as

892
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,400
a woman than I ever was like as a man.

893
00:44:11,599 --> 00:44:13,400
And I was like, why don't you talk about that,

894
00:44:13,599 --> 00:44:15,920
Like about what did he learn having to be living

895
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,760
as a woman good about you know, feminism and about

896
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:25,039
what women face in the workplace and the sexual harassment

897
00:44:25,159 --> 00:44:28,800
that they receive and not being taken seriously, and what

898
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,719
does it teach him about empathy about his own behavior

899
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,559
when he was a man, how he treated women. Yes,

900
00:44:34,599 --> 00:44:38,719
And Albie's like, okay, okay, that's good. But it was

901
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,320
fun because then she was coming up with examples and

902
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:43,920
I was like, see, that's actually a deeper movie than

903
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:45,320
you thought it was, right.

904
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,159
Speaker 4: Right, right, She was like, oh, whatever.

905
00:44:48,559 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 2: It's fun to be able to help them, Like when

906
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,199
they do assignments like that that they stay not interested

907
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:55,480
and then you get them interested.

908
00:44:56,039 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 4: It's satisfying, you know, as a parent.

909
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,840
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's nice. It's like that's what other movies

910
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,400
as she watched, Well, I think I told.

911
00:45:04,199 --> 00:45:08,239
Speaker 3: You last week because we watched, Uh, what's the one

912
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,800
based on the Harper Lee book that you said that

913
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:12,760
Sonny liked.

914
00:45:12,679 --> 00:45:15,519
Speaker 4: The north By Northwest or one of those.

915
00:45:15,599 --> 00:45:20,599
Speaker 3: No, no, no, that's no, the to Kill a Mockingbird right, right,

916
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:21,920
to Kill a Mockingbird?

917
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:23,840
Speaker 2: Uh.

918
00:45:24,639 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 3: She watched had to rewatch Clueless, but Classics. She was

919
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:32,920
supposed to watch The kne Mutiny. Hope her teacher's not listening.

920
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,480
John watched it for her. Oh really, John Watt loves

921
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,719
those old war movies. And Albie was like, hell, no,

922
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,639
I'm not sitting through that movie. I'm trying to think.

923
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 4: Oh.

924
00:45:43,039 --> 00:45:44,199
Speaker 3: We watched Titanic.

925
00:45:44,559 --> 00:45:47,360
Speaker 4: Oh'sge Oh good. She's never seen Titanic.

926
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,039
Speaker 3: She'd never seen it, so she was like, good, excuse

927
00:45:50,119 --> 00:45:52,800
to watch she got to pick out of this big

928
00:45:53,079 --> 00:45:58,119
list of movies. So we watched Empire of the Sun. Oh,

929
00:45:58,280 --> 00:45:59,440
dear lord, that's.

930
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,199
Speaker 4: Born God, I know I don't like it.

931
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,800
Speaker 3: That is like watching paint dry. Right, it's Spielberg, but

932
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:09,880
it's so frigging more. It's terrible. Right, And John loves

933
00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:11,880
that movie, so he really wanted her to watch it.

934
00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,440
And we both suffered through it. Oohs, like two and

935
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:18,559
a half hours. They're all these movies are like epics.

936
00:46:18,199 --> 00:46:21,679
Speaker 4: I know, right, I know. They don't make epics anymore either.

937
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:23,199
Let's Quentin Tarantino.

938
00:46:23,559 --> 00:46:26,920
Speaker 3: Yeah there's been Titanic is three hours to right. It

939
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,639
kind of flies by, Yeah it does. These thirteen year

940
00:46:29,639 --> 00:46:32,199
olds are watching it like, you know, thirty times, I know.

941
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Speaker 2: But the thing is, it's like, yeah, they don't make

942
00:46:35,119 --> 00:46:38,000
these kinds of movies anymore. And that's why the oscars

943
00:46:38,039 --> 00:46:40,840
are not that great, because they're always you know, these

944
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:44,559
little independent movies and sometimes people see sometimes they don't.

945
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,280
Speaker 4: Most of the people see them from their screeners.

946
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 2: No, you know, in the middle of the country, I

947
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,239
don't know if they're watching you know, these small independent

948
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:58,440
movies right. Well, and like the Titanic, the whole everybody loved, right,

949
00:46:59,039 --> 00:47:00,960
they don't make those kind of A boat sinks.

950
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 4: The boat sinks.

951
00:47:02,679 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 3: You forget though, Like what a major disaster that was

952
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,400
right for the time, right, like it was one of

953
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:12,039
the biggest disasters they'd ever had at that time. Fifteen

954
00:47:12,119 --> 00:47:17,280
hundred people died, I know, hundred people at one time

955
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:18,480
in one accident.

956
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, Sonny talks about it a lot.

957
00:47:21,639 --> 00:47:24,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then he looks up like conspiracy theories, like

958
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:28,559
the Titanic wasn't supposed to It wasn't really the Titanic

959
00:47:28,599 --> 00:47:31,440
that sunk. It was something else. Have you heard that conspiracy?

960
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:36,480
That was a different boat. But what Yeah, Morgan, the

961
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:40,679
Stanley Morgan dude is the guy that owned the boat

962
00:47:41,199 --> 00:47:42,760
for the Titanic.

963
00:47:43,119 --> 00:47:45,559
Speaker 4: But I don't know. Did somebody did a switcher roo

964
00:47:45,639 --> 00:47:47,800
at the I don't know. Do you know what he's

965
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:48,320
talking about?

966
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:53,039
Speaker 3: No, Kaylin, No, all right, thank you, Kaylan, thanks everybody.

967
00:47:53,679 --> 00:47:57,000
You're a parent now, don't have it up.

968
00:47:56,599 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 2: It's angle