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Speaker 1: Step into your past, step into your power. Well, she
said she'd like to come back. So we had to
have Sila to look back again. And I wrote Sila
today and I said, what would you like to discuss?
Speaker 4: Was there anything in particular?
Speaker 1: And Sheila set back a list of things that I go,
Apparently there's a lot happening than I'm not. I always
think i'd live in a bubble, Sheila, I don't know.
I really do used to, but I my bubble is
when I say the bubble, I mean like I'm I
don't know, I'm genuinely happy. I try to tune in,
tap in, kind of be guided.
Speaker 4: I like to be more.
Speaker 1: I think for the past couple of years I wasn't.
I used to always write when I was in radio
at the top of my page, be present. And that's
not anything you know, really, but it does give you
the ability to actually be there and enjoy the moment,
because the moment is all you got, right, That's all
we have. And so I feel like sometimes when I
say I live in a bubble, I don't. I'm not
sweating a whole bunch of stuff. I mean, I got stuff.
Speaker 4: I'm sweating. Believe me. I told you I'm running.
Speaker 1: I'm running home, making meatballs and trying to get a
kid fed because I found them eating Dorito's. Of five
minutes to six this morning, I hear.
Speaker 4: Crunch, crack, what what.
Speaker 1: I just I've been up for an hour an hour.
I can't figure it out. So I yes, I have
those things that would be concerns, but these bigger things
don't weigh on me.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't know what that is. I
don't know, but I would say whatever.
Speaker 1: I believe very very much so in energy, Oh yeah,
and I think that. Okay, tell me how radio waves
and satellite waves have worked, you know what I'm saying, right, Okay,
just to try to say to somebody well somewhere, probably
Tesla and then Marconi stole it. I don't really know,
but they harness the ability to communicate through radio, and
it was waves and it's sound and it's something that's
in the air. But if I don't have the right
device to tune into it, I can't hear it exactly.
And I think it's sort of the same thing with
the universe. It's all that way, It's all energy, and
you can I just think the whole idea to me
is to try to feel as good as you can.
Speaker 5: Exactly.
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you that, you know, Let's put it
this way. Sometimes revenge is better than spare. So when
I say feel as good as you can, I'm not
saying you know, I'm not one of those people. Hey
you gotta be happy. Yeah, I gotta think positive. I
forgive my friend. Fuck that, because there are just sometimes
you can't. But revenge is better than despair. Let's go
up the emotional scale, right right.
Speaker 5: Exactly exactly. Think it's really about how to affect your day. Yes,
you know, because if you're in the bubble, okay, but
when somebody comes into your energy field and they pokes
your bubble, oh yeah, they do a little bit more
than that. You know, it's like what, yes, it's like
then you realize it's like, wait a minute, I didn't
do anything to you. Why are you coming into my
field like this?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: But it affects you, that's so key, right, it does.
Speaker 5: And the reason why it affect you is because you're
human and you have an energy field around you.
Speaker 1: So with that, a lot of times I think that
there's sometimes I'll ask myself this question when I get
frustrated like that, and I think I'm probably repeating myself
to you. But what am I under the influence of
in the moment, under the influence of So if somebody
comes in and kind of pierces my bubble and I'm
going to give you my knee jerk reaction, I believe
our knee jerk reaction is what we were conditioned to write,
what we were taught to. The parent that used to
scream it you do you need to have your head examined?
Why would you do that? Right?
Speaker 4: And that's not no.
Speaker 1: But if we can step back and give yourself a beat,
so to speak, and then say, right, one of my
under the influence of here, do I want to be
under the influence of raw emotion and somebody else's energy,
or do I want to try to you know, let
that go? And So sometimes just standing there saying nothing
and doing nothing is I think the best thing you can.
Speaker 5: Do, exactly and just just send out compassion. Yeah, a
lot of people say, how do you send a compassion
when you can't stand the freak? It's like well, first
you got to understand about yourself. You know you do
it too. But it's like words project out. Words is energy,
and also actions speak louder the words.
Speaker 4: I agree.
Speaker 5: Somebody could just be sitting there like this and you
know say mm hm yeah, I agree with you, and
you know damn well that they don't.
Speaker 4: Well do you believe this statement?
Speaker 1: And we can talk about beliefs because I know that
was one of the things. Yeah, But and beliefs to
me are just a thought you think over and over
and over. But I sometimes think that words don't teach.
Experience is what teaches. So I can tell you talk
to you till I'm blue in the face, but it's experienced.
But sometimes you did say like words have energy. Oh yeah, yeah,
because I used to think all the time like it's
just words, but but there's energy behind it. And the
old staying of sticks and stones may break my bon's
words will never hurt me. They will, yeah, because they can.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because sometimes those words are harmful, emotionally harmful, mentally harmful,
you know, like I never closed the door right or whatever.
It's like, you know, where's your brain type thing? And
so it goes inside and then when you do something wrong,
yourself saying the same things, well I should have known better. Well,
those are imprinted energy to your body thinking a negative thing. Well,
you didn't know better because you didn't.
Speaker 1: Know, you know.
Speaker 5: So that's that's the difference. That's about learning.
Speaker 1: What about giving yourself grace? Oh right, very important to do,
I think very important because we get angry as to
you know, I should be over here and wait. One
of the I think the big human things is to
always compare ourselves to see what you.
Speaker 5: Said, is that I should be over here? Those are
the should I should?
Speaker 1: I should?
Speaker 5: Well, why should you do that? Is because I want
I want to be a better person, or because it's
a nice thing to do, or because some and so
told me I needed to do this, And it's like, no,
it's called your should have wood is in kuldives, all right?
Is don't beat yourself up anymore? Those are mental in
prints withinside, all right. And then when you start to
realize that you don't have to do those things if
it's not productive for you, if it's not alignment with you,
if you're no longer prescribe to that anymore, I'm not
comfortable with that.
Speaker 1: So and again I know that you and I will
probably touch on many things we've we've already maybe that
I've already said, or you may have already said, but
I think it's so important to say again because we're
teats and sometimes we've got to get the energy out there.
You do. But I would think that a lot of times,
and I would go to uh, kids and and trying
to or anybody, anybody you're trying to maybe influence in
a positive way or something. I always now, I wish
I had thought this way when my older boys were younger.
There is no assertion. I can't assert something on you,
right and I and and somebody constantly harping on me heartbabe,
or you just become you become Charlie Brown's parents. And
you know what I'm saying, like nobody wants to hear
your stupid ass.
Speaker 5: I told you, you know, tomorrow you had appointment.
Speaker 1: So a lot of times with these guys, now I'll
try to sort of bring you over, almost Matador style
in a way to try to not trickery. But you know,
there's no reason, yell, and let's talk about this. Let's
try to figure it out. See where you are? Why
are you feeling this way, and I think like your
feelings are your guide. But a lot of times our
feelings get hurt because we're trying to serve outside of
ourselves when really I think we should sort of be
doing more internal stuff.
Speaker 5: Exactly exactly. Well, a lot of times some people are
just mimicking other people. This is what I should do, right,
But I'm really not being comfortable without doing that right,
you know. So it's like going inside and say, why
aren't I comfortable about that? And then it leads to
other things. Well, you know, it affects my moods, it
affects my income, it affects everything about me. Yes, but
you do it because you're programmed to do it, and
this is being a nice person, right, So this is
how you do.
Speaker 1: So when people okay, so this is great because what
you do is remove you get energy flowing. You remove blocks, right,
things that are blocking blocking people, And I think sometimes
it's our beliefs and things, and you want to have
that removed, right or or at least get the energy
flowing and start realizing that the power is Step into
your power.
Speaker 5: You've got the power everybody does. That's the energy that's here.
Now that is the quantum higher frequency power. And a
lot of people have never been taught that they have power.
They have to do this or this is bad, it's
going to happen.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 5: When I was doing a lot of hospice work, and
I still do hospice work, but it really I just
love what I do. Is because mostly the older people
that are afraid to pass over is because of the
things that they've been programmed to believe, right that they're
not worthy enough and guilty and all this other stuff.
It's like, no, it's really about love. It's about we're
all worthy, you know, and to let that out. But
that's all programmed.
Speaker 4: Why why did we do that?
Speaker 1: You're not going to be able to answer, but well,
I don't mean you, but just in terms of like
when I say why did we, I guess the wei
is more of a it's more of a rhetorical we.
But all this control religion power, it was a way
to get people to act a certain way and do this.
I even see I've talked, you know about substitute teaching
and stuff, and I was in uh with younger kids
sixth grade today, they like, you can't talk in the
hallways and they're getting snapped that and I'm going just
let's just walk. If you want to talk to your
buddy next to you, and talk to your buddy next
to you, I appreciate it if we don't scream and
we're not running, okay, But there's we're so rigid on
everything that I feel like we make things worse.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, remember the energy now is everything's changing. Everything
is changing, and we're so used to doing it a
certain way, and it's like we get discombobulated when we
told we can't do this right. So that's what's happening now,
but it's also our evolution, evolution, meaning we are building
towards something different now and everything has to change so
that you can build different. And a lot of people
don't understand that they're always in the emotions. They're always
in it. Say, you know, they get out of source
when they can't be in control because that brings you know,
they have fear. They really it's fear withinside if they
can't control. Control is a way of not dealing with
pain or emotion stuff that's been stuck. So when you
think about the body mind connection, you know what you
think goes into your body and that's what the energy feels,
whether it's physical stuff, how you get migraines, or how
you respond to things. You know, how does it affect
your body?
Speaker 1: First?
Speaker 5: And then the emotions, you know, the things that you
aren't comfortable with and you're being forced to do something,
it's like that doesn't feel comfortable, right, or the mental things, well,
if you don't do it, you're not a good girl.
If you don't do this. That's the mental stuff, and
then you start telling yourself that, right, and then it
goes into the spiritual mind that you're not worthy enough,
right or good enough to do something, and so that's ridiculous,
but that's what we've been told. Yes, but it is
part of the evolution what humanity is going through right now.
And it's like everything is changing everything, but it's a
good thing. But we're always looking at that it's a
bad thing because we can't control it. It's we can't.
It's the stuff that is happening is about evolution. It
is about the energy and the earth.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, energy and the earth energy, and it's.
Speaker 5: All over the world now, you know, we're all seeing
it play out and many of them can't handle it.
So they're just you know, they're completely shutting down or
getting mean to other people.
Speaker 1: So what are we what do you think the energy
is doing or what are your know that it's doing.
Speaker 5: We're growing, evolving, we have to undo stuff that no
longer serve us. And you hear that all the time,
and you hear about shadows and what does that mean?
Speaker 1: Shadow work stuff like that.
Speaker 5: It just means negative stuff that doesn't let you go forward,
It keeps you stuck. And a lot of people say, well,
I like the way I am. You know, okay, that's great,
but how's that serving service?
Speaker 4: Serving? Doctor?
Speaker 5: Phil's that serving? And a lot of people say it's
not and it is. It'll get your button with everybody.
It's like, wait a minute, you know we're in this together,
We're humanity is in this together. We're all changing.
Speaker 1: Well, we've been told for we've been told. We've been told, well,
we've been we've been told, but we've also been told
almost like there's there's two schools here. One you got
to behave or this or that, you know, But the
people who have said were of one were of one.
And I always think, yeah, it's one source energy that
we're all tapped into and you're there.
Speaker 4: And I think it was always to me it was.
Speaker 1: The cool people that were telling me that. And I
say the cool people, But I mean, like Bob Marley
was very right, but I feel like he was very
tapped into what was happening.
Speaker 4: And maybe I'm wrong.
Speaker 1: I think that if you go back and you watch
interviews with Bob Dylan, don't even tell me that that
guy was tapped in in some way.
Speaker 5: Okay, so think of it this way. His talent, Yeah,
where did that come from?
Speaker 1: Well but exactly. But he would also but I'm talking
about like people go, you wrote that song and whatever.
He was like, yeah, it's just kind of it was divine,
he says, divine. It just came in. And I would
always go yeah. And you'll hear people say we talk
about that.
Speaker 5: I don't talk about something like that.
Speaker 4: It's like no, right and and and it's.
Speaker 1: Not probably God the way we always thought it was.
And the idea that I always think like, as long
as you're we have to have laws to right. We
can't have people running around doing crazy things. But for
the most part, you're not doing anything wrong or bad
for the most part, especially if you're coming from a
pure intention or whatever it is. So okay, well we'll
start with that premise. And then you got to realize
you'd never get it wrong. So why are we doing that?
Your eternal energy, so you're never gonna get it done.
So stop being mean to yourself because all that does
is put pressure on you. And then they say, shit
runs downhill. It's your family that feels that. It's your
you know what I mean, it's your kids, it's all
that's just stop, take a breath, relax, be I think
the only job.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: This sounds a little crazy, but I'm starting to believe
that in any moment, you have a choice. Right, Why
are you laughing at that?
Speaker 5: About choices? What we talk about. Yeah, it's always about choices.
Speaker 4: But you have a choice, and a lot of people don't.
Speaker 5: Believe they ever had a choice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you do what you do? Yeah, right. No
one else is controlling this. There's no body pulling the
puppet stretch and you have a choice. And in that
moment you have a choice, you go with the one
that feels the best and do it to its fullest,
whatever that is, for however long it takes, with no
worry about the outcome because most of the ninety percent
of the time, I'm going to say maybe higher the
outcome is going to be fine.
Speaker 4: Are great?
Speaker 5: Yeah, But also even if it doesn't pan out, you
learn part of your learning experience. You'll learn you say, Okay,
that doesn't work for me, I'm not gonna get that again. Right,
But a lot of people say what they if they
have a lot of issues in their tissues or things
that have been programmed inside them, they will go more
into the guilt and have more pain and more fear
of doing it again because it didn't work before. But
the energy was different before, and you were different before.
So in between those times, you've learned different lessons. Okay,
I'm going to do this, but I'm gonna tweak it
a little bit.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 5: That didn't kind of work.
Speaker 1: It's like a recipe exactly right, I mean exactly. I
had to do that my meat balls today. It wasn't
as good last.
Speaker 5: And just like you know, you can't undo what you
did before, but you and you don't. You can't project
what's going to happen now because you might choose different choice,
but you can live in today and try to make
it the best you can. And then realize, show see
the things where you're stuck. Why am I getting anger
about this? Why does that person's phrase or whatever? You know,
I've been hit like crazy from people that you know,
How can you say, you know, come from love? You know,
you've got to have You're supposed to be a compassion
person and you're not talking compassionate. But what's happening now?
It's like, oh, I'm saying he's put love out.
Speaker 4: There, you know, And well, what do they mean?
Speaker 1: What they do you? What do you say?
Speaker 4: Just political stuff?
Speaker 5: Political stuff that's happening now, and how can you But
they also are they don't understand that they don't know
what they don't know, and they're believing what they have
learned so far. And so maybe it's time for the
wake up call for the whole world. And that's what's happening.
Speaker 4: Well, I always think that, uh, certainly you could say
that at least the first time, maybe even now, President
Trump is polarizing for people.
Speaker 5: You know, Oh that's a whole story, right, yeah, But.
Speaker 1: I think that people get so angry about it, and
I go, Okay, the president of the United States traditionally
has been but who made those rules? Who made the
rules that they had to be presidential and act a
certain way and talk with this and do we did.
Now that somebody comes along and a lot of people say,
that's the guy I want in there, right, And so
that's what a democratic society is.
Speaker 4: And I don't know.
Speaker 1: I always say, Okay, then even if you weren't, try
to come together. Let's see what happens. We can't go.
Speaker 4: With this idea because all your I will say this.
Speaker 1: I am such a believer in the law of attraction
or the laws of the universe that the more you
push against something, you rail against it, you're going to
get more of it. Why will we never stop the
war on drugs?
Speaker 4: Because I can't shut your fucking mouth about it.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's so gross for me to say, but
that that's sort of what it is.
Speaker 4: Right now.
Speaker 1: I can sit here behind the microphone and say all
these wonderful things. But then in my own life I
don't always do this stuff. But I am seeing that
where I am in my world right now, it's freaking awesome.
Speaker 5: Oh I love my world. I just I'm happy for
the hope of humanity is that it's changing because it
needs change. Remember, I've got seventy years of wisdom here
of seeing things that doesn't make any sense. And it's like,
let's get back to common sense. You know, drugs aren't good.
Why would we you know, allow that. Why won't we
allow our you know, cops to do what they need
to do, you know, the catch and release stuff. It's like, well,
if they're doing something wrong, they should suffer the consequences
or learn from it, right, and if they learn from okay,
then you.
Speaker 4: Well go, that's a recipient.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: And so now it's like all different things are coming out,
but it's also you know, where the narrative is people
understanding of what's happening and and saying, you know, we
as a country are about freedom, yes, freedom and our
constitution and stuff like that, and we have a president
that is standing up for that. And it's hard for people,
if they don't like them for whatever reason, to accept that.
But let's let's give respect to our country. It's about
our country, right, you know. And so that's the whole key.
Speaker 1: About I think that's you have to look at the
bigger picture, right, because you're going to hear a bunch
of people they'll say things if we're going to talk
about the president, but he ran out sam University and
he did this, and how are you gonna Okay, fine, yeah, exactly,
but people put him in there. He is there, So
what are you going to do? You're gonna rally against it?
And I often think that if you're so up caught
up in who is the president of the United States? Okay,
many people haven't liked whoever is healthy office right for years?
But how much does the president impact your day to
day existence? So why, my friend, are you burning calories
on this and making yourself miserable and making everybody else miserable?
Speaker 4: Because if this is supposed to.
Speaker 1: Be a journey and your whole goal is really just
to feel good and be happy, and you've still got
the freedom to do what you want and go and
do what you want. And by the way, you have
the freedom to do what you want, you want to
go and continue to hate and get on the social
media and write something that's you know, a missive that
makes I don't think you're going to feel better when
you're done, but.
Speaker 5: Yeah, go ahead do it. So I mean, it's like
a lot of people don't realize, you know, they can
they can say they're going to be walking a life
for whatever, spirituality of your life or whatever. But their
words do show through, you know, when they come out anger.
That shows the issues and the tissues. That shows that
they're stuck on something, you know, and let's take a look.
Speaker 1: At that when we okay. So that this is interesting
because I think that sometimes, as you call it, the
issues and the tissues whatever that is, why do you
get angry about what this? Or why do you shut
down when something happens, or why do you act a
certain way? And a lot of that has to do
with conditioning that you may not be aware of. And
I was always one to I did talk therapy for
a while and I was thought, well, you know, maybe
that keeps you stuck in the current problem there. Yes,
But if you do it differently and you kind of go,
why is this and you realize from where you are today, that's.
Speaker 4: Bullshit, right, that's bullshit.
Speaker 1: That person's not here, that dominating figure that you felt
like you were going to embarrass it, they're not.
Speaker 4: Here, and it's bullshit. They're not thinking of it anyway.
Speaker 1: But sometimes you have to get to the root of
that to remove to change the belief, and you change
the belief, then you can start getting energy flown. But
that is something that I think you helped do with
the energy exactly exactly.
Speaker 5: Understand what energy medicine is. Energy medicine is is very documented, right,
It's it's datable stuff that has been scientifically documented. However
it has not been able to get out there right
because of many things going forward. Is that we're learning
new things, all right, So let's open the door to
learn new things. You know what is good for us
and what isn't good for us, And a lot of
people aren't ready to open that door yet.
Speaker 4: When you say, uh, what would you call it energy medicine.
Speaker 5: Energy medicine or energy psychology right, or anything to do
with energy. What does that have to do with my
physical body? Well, your electromagnetic field, your physical it's the
mind and body connection.
Speaker 1: Well you think it's the same thing. That's why it
kind of started out with radio. There are waves coming
through you. Can you see them? Can you touch them?
Can you grab them? Are you holding not? No, you
can't say we grab it same.
Speaker 5: Right exactly, but you but you trust it because you
know it's there because and just like getting in a car,
you know you don't have to go through the manual
every single time you do it. How do I turn
this on? Or whatever? You're used to just going with
the flow because you've been there before. It's just like,
we understand that it's energy, and we live in the
technology to understand it. One hundred years ago. No, two
hundred years ago, my gosh, we would be really be crazy.
So's it's evolution. We are evolving. It's energy. It's the
new energy, but the new planet, new things are happening,
and and and we had talked about this before. Sometimes
stuff have to completely break down before they can build
back up.
Speaker 4: Well, you got to think of like, okay, and that's
us too. No.
Speaker 1: I was just going to say, I think sometimes when
we talk about these things, people need examples, don't you
think in a way, you know, like when you say
sometimes you need to break down, think of yourself, like
all of a sudden, your world got turned upside down,
and what you do?
Speaker 4: You just you figured it out.
Speaker 1: And the more you relax, the better it got. The
easier it became when you weren't so panicked and worried
and pushing against I got to find another job, and
I'm begging on all these stories and knowing, and then.
Speaker 5: You get down on your knees and you say, please
help me.
Speaker 4: Yes you do.
Speaker 1: And then even there, it's like, Okay, hold on a second,
just take it a breath. But I want to go
back to one thing. And I know we every time
you're here, and I feel like I go being Well,
that's what it's about.
Speaker 5: It's like because because it triggers something else, because it's
all connected.
Speaker 1: Well, I wanted to say to you that as you're
talking about science and healing energy, and I may have
told you this already, Yes, that Saint John Fisher University
has an elective class and they're nursing exploring alternative modes
of healing. Now that's good reiki. And I don't know,
I think the I want to say the Bankston method,
but I don't. I'm wondering if I'm thinking something different.
But anyway, the different ways of healing people as of
you know, modality. So can we combine traditional Western medicine
with with you know, metaphysical.
Speaker 4: Type stuff, and can we do? Yes?
Speaker 1: We do, we do, we do, And you're seeing that
more and more and more. I don't know, I've never
I've never known it to be presented in an academic field. Well,
it's yes, you know what I mean, or a traditional
academic field like a university. I don't. I don't remember
they do.
Speaker 5: I went to Robert Wesley College and back in the
nineties they didn't have it. Then they started it. They did,
they started, but they never follow through with it. So
it's all about the learning about the communities and different
cultures and whatever and their spiritual beliefs, but they never
went on to what does that mean? How does that mean?
You know? When when you've got a patient that is indigenous,
all right, they want to have their medicine. Man there,
they want to have their they want to do.
Speaker 1: So cool now and.
Speaker 5: They say no, oh yeah, yeah, they say no, no,
you can't do that because of Okay, I get it,
I get it, but not respecting their culture.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right.
Speaker 5: So it's it's all about learning and and also nurses
and doctors, but mostly their nurses. Their job, they they
intuitively know how to do things. They in totally know
how to take care of the patient. Is because they're
tapped into that part of being a healer or a
role model or you know, their ethics what they want
to do and it's it's it's happening, and we've always
had it, but we didn't know how to identify it,
or we would talk with our other colleagues and talk
to them about it.
Speaker 1: So I haven't I haven't talked about this. I hope
the person doesn't upset. I had somebody in here who
is also a healer, and we talked about things before
we started. Said that a lot of times because they
remove things that there are low level frequency attachments to
them and will mess up the audio equipment. Okay, so
the person came in. The person came in one time
and I'm sitting here and they didn't say anything to me,
and I'm sitting here going, what is going on with
the cat? I can't get the gut that that. And
so the next time the person came in, they said,
do you mind if I bring something? And they basically
it was like an oil or something, and they touched
all all the equipment and we had no issues, no issues.
But the first time there was an issue, like I
couldn't figure it out. Sheila and I went, I don't
know if that stuff's real. But this person said, like,
I do that and I know that it's there, and
I'm just trying to protect your stuff. I don't want anything.
Speaker 5: Well that has to do with the consciousness, all right,
so what you think is what you project out, okay, right,
But also because of the energy field is so sensitive
now that we are having a lot of electrical stuff,
all right, okay, But also if you can say into
you know, everything's going to work, great, You're going to
command the energy to not have problems. And a lot
of people don't know how to do that. But that's
part of the learning price. Okay, I get it. Just
like with you know, metrogrape, mercury and retrograde. Right now
it effects I'd be oh, that's crap stuff, but now
everybody have experienced so that it's true. It does affect
the actual electricy.
Speaker 1: We think the mother went into retrograde every once in.
Speaker 5: A while, don't we all. We have to we have
to put our mother hat on, you know, we have
to protect our kids. But yeah, but there's so much
to that. But also, like when I do house clearing
health clensent, you know a lot of people say, oh, yeah,
I got this entergy and I've got all this. They
just told me what they have there. They put that there,
so I will purposely go in there and put the
positive in there, but also I will do the things
that make them comfortable. They feel that I have to
use sage to do a cleansing that way, or I
have to do sweet grass or whatever, like I'm actually
doing something. But all I have to do is just
go into the environment and put the positive energy in
there and teach them to have the positive energy. It's
all about the old ways of thinking and projecting. So
if you feel that you have a negative entergy or
something like that coming in, you have a negative energy. However,
there are lower frequencies and we can stand in our power.
I say, you cannot come into my energy field.
Speaker 1: It's interesting, Okay, just say just state it.
Speaker 4: There have been others that that.
Speaker 1: I'll ask you. I don't know where you stand these things.
Can we get a little weird?
Speaker 5: Pardon?
Speaker 4: Can I get a little weird?
Speaker 1: Please?
Speaker 5: Do? I probably get a lot weirder.
Speaker 1: I probably know more, I'm sure you do.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, everything.
Speaker 4: Why what do you mean called everything?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 5: Well, I've been called a witch. I've been called you
know they But but it was in a in a
woo woo stuff. Oh, get away from me with that
woo stuff. That's because that's the programming that they've had,
they don't have they don't have the teaching of it yet,
or that that's their own ignorance of not wanting to know.
Speaker 4: What do you say for people who have there's a book.
Speaker 1: Next time my reading last name, but a little slow here,
but it's it's sitting on my end table, and it's
about attachments to you, to us, and that everybody has
some attachments that you can probably people like you can
help remove. And but that there are some people who
die and they don't know that they've died, like either
they're too drug Yeah, they're too drugged up, or they
died so suddenly, and that they attached to somebody's human
energy and they're there and they almost and that if
you this sounds strange, but if you lay still and
say something like get yourself so close to a meditative
state and say, I know you're here and it's time
for you to go, okay, that really like you can
do that, I know, but that it's.
Speaker 5: So weird to me, Well it sounds weird. Yeah, it's
really amazing, isn't it.
Speaker 1: Well it is because if you do it, Because if
you do it and I've done it, you feel lighter exactly.
Speaker 5: And a lot of people say, well, I have to
protect myself. I have to do this. All you need
to do instead of letting anything negative come towards you,
whether it's entity or people or frequency, just say, if
you're not of the light, you do not have my
permission to come in. It's about you are sending in
your power, giving that entity knowing that it won't be allowed.
And that's where they will not touch somebody that isn't vulnerable.
If you're vulnerable, they're going to see that weak point.
Those are the issues in the tissues. Those are the
fear and the anger and distress and everything. They've been
programmed to believe this is going to happen. So they're
living in that fear. But if you put it out,
I am the light. Nothing can come near me but
the light.
Speaker 4: What do we okay?
Speaker 5: Which is the higher frequency is high?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 5: So just understand it, you know good or bad as
higher frequency lower frequency? And how does it affect me
my physical body, emotional, mental, and spiritual everything?
Speaker 1: So I would say, now, this is where I think
people sometimes have trouble because we're all croak I'll say,
we'll all croak. I say that physical yes, yes, well right,
but we don't die, okay. So but in that a
lot of times it becomes issues and the tissues that
get us out of the meat suit, so to speak.
And some of that stuff. Is it because we're so
I don't know in our head are we creating these
things for ourselves? We almost to where you said, And
I think this is really important that if somebody believes
they have an anim they have an entity, right, And
then if I come in there, I can basically just
try to spread positive energy and that's all I really
need to do.
Speaker 4: But I'll put on.
Speaker 1: The show, so to speak, and give them the sage
and stuff. And I don't mean to minimize that. That's
what I'm trying to say.
Speaker 5: You know, it's about what they believe.
Speaker 1: Yes, so if you believe, like I always wonder too.
Sometimes when people are told that they're very sick, that's right,
very quickly, that's right. But then there are other people
who all of a sudden you hear the story about
you know, we'll use the term beat it, or they've
they've lived with it and it didn't affect them much.
Speaker 5: That is okay, and it's about you know, you've been
told you're going to die. We just say no, no, no, no,
I'm going to take control of this. And that is
evidential stuff that's happened over and over and over again, right,
and people are coming forward with that.
Speaker 1: That's where I always think too, that they you know,
they go forth and tell no one. Those are the
times where you really almost have to keep people away.
I don't know about people well, but opinion away well
or their belief away. Oh absolutely, So I don't get
sucked into the well. No one's ever beat this. I
don't know how. God, you know, my uncle had this.
He was dead within a day.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 5: That's what I like about my classes is because I
teach him how to do that, okay, and to understand
what it is so that they will stand in their power.
And people don't understand that. So it's it's about your DNA.
So you started talking about people that almost died or
in limbo their souls type of thing. Yes, all right,
so that can happen too, and a lot of people say, well,
they're going to bring it in with their next lifetime
or they're not going to be a good karma Okay,
that's true or not true. But the difference is is
that now you can change that. In other words, the
things that you lived in other lifetimes does not have
to actually hurts your lifetime. This is the next coming
lifetime because the energy were that you're doing now, that's
called the ascension time. Ascension time is about actually building
up your consciousness, your higher consciousness, going within and changing
that consciousness field. So energy is consciousness and when you die,
your consciousness or your soul doesn't die. That energy comes
in with you. That's why a lot of people do
past life aggression and they want to know it is
about your soul never dies and anything you've encountered will
bring it in. The difference now is that we don't
have to bring in the dark stuff or the lower
frequency stuff. And that's where which is really good. People
are starting to understand that they have the actual ability.
And when you start seeing all these things in mainstream
or your own life of kids, we talked about that
the kids with a different frequency, they think differently. They
are different than we are. And it's another I.
Speaker 1: Always think that they're closer to source. They just got
here too, you know.
Speaker 4: I always think that we haven't. We haven't screwed them.
Speaker 1: Up enough yet.
Speaker 5: That's true too, And that's what energy psychology is is about.
They have wisdom from the soul, from the universe. They
just came from there, right, And so what is happening
is a lot of parents, young parents are recognizing when
their kid is like two or three years old and said, mommy,
remember when I was your mommy and I told you
not to go down the street and you did Anyway,
It's like a lot of Oh, that's ridiculous. You listen, so, yeah,
tell me more. Yeah, and that will open up the abilities,
all right, And that's kind of evidence showing it the
same with the kids, even the babies in the incubators
that are turning over they're trying to run out of
the incubators, or the two year old playing the piano.
You know, there's so much evidence out there that our babies,
that people that are born now are different.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I mean when you talk about evolution, I
always think like, we didn't bring anything in here. I
didn't come here and have to start over. I didn't
bring anything with me. Nothing's trucked in and I don't
have to start over. I'm not hunting and gathering. I'm
not doing this. Well, all the things are here.
Speaker 5: Well, what's going to happen in the next lifetime is
that we're going to know things. We don't have to
let go what we learned in this lifetime. So a
lot of the things that we have gained knowledge over,
you know, a lot of it is that we lose
our memories. We don't understand it, like like we were,
you know, a high priestess or whatever in another lifetime,
and we did all these things in this lifetime. You know,
we're a bum on the street type thing. How come
a contra different type of lifestyles. The thing is that
you learned experience from those lifestyles. But now, because this
energy has all changed, when you pass over or transcend
into another form, into a higher frequency soul, no more
meat suit, all right, you gain all that wisdom that
you always had, right, and when we are going to
evolve again in the new soul, the new young children,
those are the ones that have the power because they
are living in the frequency of knowing right all right.
And just like animals, you know, animals know how to
when they're worked to get up slowly and get down
and walk children are starting to show that.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I uh, it's like I think the kids have
for a while, right, right to a certain degree. I
wanted to just go back here, give me one second.
So many things happening people, Oh you can do it live. Yeah,
for example, when the gummy's kick in, Yes, gummy love
that means more than one. Well, yeah, I mean anything
that's going to prevent you. Let's go to let's talk
about fear for a second, but fear around specific things,
right what, I don't know what people I don't think
they think globally are fear. I think your biggest fear
is abundance money, right, and and how do you remove
that fear or that blockage or that thinking. And I
had an interesting conversation today because with my father and
I mentioned something to him about relatives. He had a
cousin that passed and her children don't talk to her,
and I was close with her children. They would be
my second cousin. Wants to remove but we were of
a like mind. We love to have fun. And I said,
my father can't get over the fact that she passed
and none of her kids may know or not know.
And I said, I don't feel like it's my place
to really tell I don't want to stick my nose
in there. It's none of my business. And I do
talk to her oldest son, and she used to always
say to me a lot of times, you know, how
is he? Where is he? What's going on? If you
talk to him, please tell him?
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: It was sad, but their dad was a neurosurgeon and
they had a beautiful home on a golf course in Augusta,
and they were putting a twenty thousand dollars addition onto
the home in nineteen eighty five. So just to give
you the dollar stuff, that guy was loaded. And this
kid was a cut up, and he was kind of like,
you know, that's why my father was a little more
heavy hand on me.
Speaker 4: Otherwise I would have been right there.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think we got caught racing golf carts
across and we were brought in by security to our
parents at the country club having dinner.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the kind of so he said.
Speaker 1: I said to him, you know, because he said there
were three kids, and I said, I think the youngest
one still talks to the father.
Speaker 4: And my dad said, oh, yeah, well you know, and.
Speaker 1: I said the oldest one will say, because he still
needs Dad's money. The other two are independently wealthy. My
father goes, how did that happen? Hey, what do you mean?
Because this one guy owns a bunch of restaurants in
the South and then also owns a resort and Belize
and then once in a while we'll just go as
a private chef on scuba expeditions for people and cook
while they're on the boat and do all these things.
And his sister runs it's like a four hundred million
dollar real estate portfolio. And I said, I think that
there's so much in our mind. There's a book and
I haven't read it, but I'm familiar a little bit
with it called Rich Dad, Poor Dad.
Speaker 4: And are you familiar with that?
Speaker 5: I read a long time ago.
Speaker 1: Oh you did read it? Okay, tell me if if
I got the theory right. Basically, it's almost like the
expectation you could be as dumb as a box of lips,
and yet you came from a wealthy family, and not
that they're gonna support you, but you found ways you
just it was just the expectation. It was the energy
right in my mind that it just flowed. And so
you were gonna have it, and then the others where
we're programmed of gotta save for the rainy day. You
never know what you're gonna run out of money, better
be busting your ass. You better put it in this,
you better do that, and we stay there. And what
is the difference? And I don't, I don't.
Speaker 5: It's freedom of choice. It's choice. Yeah, it's it's uh
your choice to do whatever you want. It's people. There's
so many ways of looking at that. Yeah, put it
into different siblings looking different, they got the same gene pool,
the hell's going on here? Or different personalities when they
grew up in the same home. It's about their own choices,
what they choose to actually put in their life or
not put in their life. And a lot of times
people didn't feel comfortable being wealthy and they felt more
comfortable going to the homeless shelters. I hope up Peo
people like that. But that wasn't you know, that wasn't
acceptable or whatever. We don't do that stuff. Well, that
feeds that person's soul and they're happy, right, and just
like you can be happy forever with nothing, Yes, you know,
that's the difference. And you can have everything and be
so miserable.
Speaker 1: But there could be Okay, that's true, but I'm sure
there's somebody going this is all great, but how do
I get more? And how do I stop stressing about it?
And if my negative thinking is, oh my gosh, where
is it?
Speaker 4: I'm stressing it? Then I'm pushing again.
Speaker 1: It's all like me, yeah exactly. I'm saying this because
I think like we can go, well, that's great, but
my bank account.
Speaker 4: Well I've heard people say you already have it.
Speaker 1: It's already there, but it's not in your bank account
yet because you haven't allowed it to. And then you go, Okay,
this is where I think people start to resist.
Speaker 4: They go, that's woo woo, it's bullshit. It's not this.
Speaker 1: I've got to grind it out and do the thing.
And the reason you got to grind is because you believe.
Speaker 4: You have to.
Speaker 5: That's the program.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you believe you have to exactly the program. But
I would always say that, Okay, well, let's look at
it a different way. If you grind it out and
you feel like you accomplished something. Let's say you're trying
to lose weight and you go to the gym and
you get really pushed through, and you start to feel better,
and you start to feel accomplished. And that's why I
always think that, you know, maybe it's important to do
hard things just because it makes you feel better. Right,
and you're in a better I swear to God. It
changes your frequency. It changes your frequency. I think it
changes your frequency your mindset because now you think I
can instead of you're right.
Speaker 5: That is energy psychology.
Speaker 1: Okay, I didn't know that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that is about thinking differently, all right, and have
an evidence proof yourself because you see your change. Okay,
well something happened. What did I change? Oh? I faced
my fears. Yes, I stopped hanging with those people that
told me that I couldn't do it. Oh, I just
listened to my heart's desire. I went inside and listened
for help. Or somebody just showed up in my life serendipitally,
you know, and it's like, that's what happens. Somebody shows
up that you said, hmm, I got to listen to
that person. I got to listen to that. And then
you listen to that person, your life started changing. And
they say, why didn't I do it before? Because you
weren't ready. So it wasn't the time.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about like some people say, everybody wants something, right,
we all we all want Yeah, but what do you want?
Speaker 4: Well, you can.
Speaker 1: Want a partner, you can want money, you can want
right all yeah, So.
Speaker 5: But how important is it?
Speaker 1: I mean you have to well, you want to be
able to.
Speaker 5: Oh sure, you want to support yourself absolutely.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So if you're on the as a friend of
mine would say, the balls are your ass?
Speaker 4: Balls?
Speaker 1: Uh, that you would, you would be looking for something.
But I'm starting to wonder if this is true. You
fall in love, right, and you feel this great thing
and when the person's around you are just in love.
Is that the other person or is that you allowing
yourself to to be free like that in the presence
of the other person. Is it the other person who
has the ability to love? They are the object of
my attention, So therefore that's where my focus is. And
I feel great, and then when they leave, I don't
feel so great. But is there a way to always
feel great if I just open it up and it.
Speaker 5: Almost Remember, it's about living in reality, because life isn't
always about being great.
Speaker 4: No, no, it's not.
Speaker 5: It's about about how you deal with it and how
you respond to it. Yeah, right, Just like if a
person is being mean to you and you respond full
and meanly back, you're not changing.
Speaker 1: The situation, no, make it worse.
Speaker 5: Right, And in a relationship too, is sometimes that relationship
has to fail so that you can change, Yes, and
then you find somebody that you're more compatible with. Yes,
you know there's many many factors to.
Speaker 1: That, right, But I mean the idea that you are
that love, that energy always, it's always there, whether that's
that person or not. They're just highlighting that inside of
you and you have that ability to always feel that
way exactly, and you really can't hang it on somebody
else to go, well, you know, you make me feel great,
but when you leave, you make me feel like shit.
And you see what I'm saying. And that's why I'm saying,
it's all in here, It's all in you. I'm asking telling,
I'm asking, I'm wondering, is it all in you? And
that that person is just highlighting the love that is
in you and the ease and flow when that person's around.
It's really the ease and flow you could have when
that person's not around if you allowed it. But for
whatever reason, in your head. You've associated this person with.
Speaker 5: That because we always feel that something outside has to
fill us off. Yeah, it's like we can fit, we
have to fill ourselves up frost. Yes, that's where going.
You got to be selfish, being spiritually selfishness.
Speaker 4: Okay, there's a phrase I teach you.
Speaker 5: One of my classes, but spiritual selfish?
Speaker 1: How do you get to your classes? We've never talked
about how to get to your classes.
Speaker 5: They're right on my website. I just had an intensive
workshop last weekend days. It was amazing. I'm sure one
of them was some person that heard me on here.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, I love that.
Speaker 5: And it's about hearing and no and you got to
do it all right. So my website has another class
coming up in March. It's a three day workshop, and
a lot of people say why I can't spend the time.
It's like, okay, you just said that you're not worth
it and you don't want to do it. Okay, it's fine, exactly,
you know next type.
Speaker 4: Thing, But but you would go where for three days? Right?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 5: You go to my I have it at my home,
all right. And more people I have no, no, no.
Speaker 4: What I'm saying is they would spend the money to
do something.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, just like you know, it's not it's too expensive.
But they'll, you know, spend eight to ten dollars now
for a latte compared to when it used to be
one or two dollars and then three four now.
Speaker 1: So hi. So it's like where I have a nine
dollars coffee pot.
Speaker 4: I know, I'm not kidding. I have.
Speaker 1: I have, like what the one that I bought at Walmart,
and I think the switch doesn't work. I taped it.
And it has nothing to do with money. I just
wanted to see how far I could get this to go.
And the coffee is good, it's fine with me. I
like it.
Speaker 4: I'll either drink it black or I'll put creamy oat.
Speaker 1: Milk in it, and that's it. I don't know why
it's sick. I don't even care. And I've had the
fancy shit though, you know.
Speaker 5: So what I say, what I was about spiritual selfishness,
it's about you understanding that you have to do the work.
It's you understanding that you make yourself a priority. And
it's not selfish as we associate it with in our
modern language. All right, you're being selfish and that's why
you're doing that, you know, and that's part of manipulation
and all this other stuff. But you're being selfish with
your time so that you know it's for you. You purposely
take that time to go within and to work on yourself.
And that's where the SIP comes in, which we talked
about three minutes, just you know, what do I need
to do? Not to day, it's just by doing different,
not hard or different. And so a lot of times
when people counsel, when I counsel with people, or I
do a session and it includes counseling in other words,
what do we need to heal? Why are you here?
What are you stuck with? And so we talk about
that stuff and then realizing, okay, we're going to put
it back in your power if you choose, we're going
to get in there and help release a lot of
the stuff that's stuck. And also it's going to because
this energy is different, it is going to start your
own divine ess opening up your ability to tap into
the energy that's here now. But it's still your choice, right,
and that is being spiritually selfish about your own time,
about what you need to do to take care of yourself.
Because you have to put that oxygen mask on first.
You can't take care of anybody else until you take.
Speaker 1: Care of you first. I think what you're saying is
so important, and I think a lot of times, if
we were to be honest with ourselves, we would say
I would feel so much better if that person acted differently.
Speaker 4: Oh sure, don't we I mean exact.
Speaker 1: That's why I think it's important, and I feel like
that needs to be screamed from the mountaintops because all
of us will say I would feel better if they
just did this or work great, if.
Speaker 5: I made a million dollars, I'd be great, you know,
if I could drink all night and not stuffer any
consequences and just go on my day and just have fun.
Speaker 1: All the time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, right, where is that going to get you?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Uh, I think of a few places.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: Yes, I know exactly what you're saying, but but that's
where I'm going. But if they acted differently, I wouldn't
have this stress. Or if they were just nicer than me,
or that was ever you.
Speaker 5: Know, or you're expecting somebody else to fill that empty
hole insite?
Speaker 1: Right, So how do you then, would you say? Because
I always think we're in a very different.
Speaker 5: Reality, oh now with what's going on.
Speaker 1: With what's going on, but also the communication, the amount
of people that will be able to you can communicate
and see things, and the phone is always there and
all that stuff. And people will say, well, you know,
how do I get my kid to not be so
influenced by social media? And the only thing I can
think is you've got to get them to believe on
the inside of themselves and build that self esteem in
some way. And all too often I don't. It just
must be conditioning by I don't osmosis almost to a degree,
because I don't know that you worry about how you look,
how you perceived, what people think, what they say when
something happens, and it can destroy that belief and bring
you down and depression and you know, sadness, and how
I think the way to to beat all that is
to go inside and try to really do the work.
And that's that, to me, is the real work.
Speaker 5: In life exactly. With anything, Yeah, with anything, people want
to put it to the side though because it's not
important enough.
Speaker 1: Well, I think because it's not understood.
Speaker 5: Yes, but they don't feel they're important enough. It's about worthiness.
Speaker 1: Well, because we've also been told that you've got to
you know, hey, you've got to you know this is you're.
Speaker 5: Shitting on yourself. And it's like, you know, stop shitting
on yourself because you're you're it's what you think when
you think that you should want to do this, and
that's what's going to happen because you just put it
out there in the energy field. So it talk about
the thinking, the consciousness. What you think is what you
project out. What we were talking about the energy on
electrical devices and stuff like that, and that is very
very true. That is the energy field is consciousness. And
if you hire, if you raise your consciousness to be
able to receive this stuff, you start to feel empowered.
Right And just like with yourself when you start to
change and something good comes from and say, yeah, you're empowered.
That's about your ability as a human to be empowered
by your own power. But you have to do something
you can't you know, do it through issmosis. Well you
can as far as if you're around the right people
and you and they see something in you and they
will kind of give you a little bit of hint
on what to do. All right, Yeah, and then you say, well,
how did you know that? How did you know that?
That's what I wanted to do? What was in your field?
But it's not presently known to you yet because you
haven't activated those abilities to know that. That's why energy healing.
And I'm a teacher. I teach you how to do
that yourself. All right, First, you I know what it is.
A lot of people don't understand what it is. It's
about your thinking and how you respond right and why
you're in the situation you're in right now. I'm not
putting any blame or anything like that, but I have
a lot of people to come to me as I've
been manifesting for years and nothing's happening. Why they just
said nothing's happening? Why?
Speaker 1: Right? Well, you put that block there right there, exactly,
And it sounds so simple. It is to the point
that it's ridiculous. But you really have to change the thinking.
How many times have somebody I always think of this,
I want a new job. I hate the job I have.
I've applied everywhere and I can't do this. I want
in an interview and this isn't working, and that isn't working.
I'm just gonna give up and stay where I'm at,
and then you get a call about a week later
because you put it down and he's changed your focus.
Speaker 5: It's the same with you people trying to have children too, Yeah, yes, yes, yes,
and then put all this money out and then he's
all they hewveled it off, and then all of a
sudden they get pregnant, yes, or they get pregnant. They
adopted a child and all of a sudden they get pregnant.
It's the same.
Speaker 4: Yes, I had neighbors that did that.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they had adopted a young girl from China and
they were Finnish and Swedish, and they had a daughter
about the same time, of the same age with the blonde.
Speaker 4: Hair bluoides and then their sisters and it's wonderful exactly.
Speaker 1: But yeah, uh that it's so true because I would
say that you have to put your focus on something else.
Is there's something that's really bothering you and you can't
like to what she is even saying it's you know,
try to raise it. You just can on this subject.
Focus on something else. Yeah, focus on something else, And
that's hard to gratitude Yeah, Okay.
Speaker 5: Gratitude is a great thankfulness where you're blessed and turn
it around.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think gratitude can be really simple things.
Speaker 4: Sometimes.
Speaker 1: What a great exercise to do is, I think, is
to get up and write maybe three things, simple things
that you're you're grateful for. Right I I'll write weird
things like I appreciate ease and flow. It's one of
my favorite things. I appreciate ease and flow. I appreciate
the universe revealing funny things to me.
Speaker 4: I appreciate being.
Speaker 1: Able to surprise people with the unexpected in a funny way,
you know, those sorts of things. That's my favorite stuff. However,
you could go, I appreciate the fact that I have
a warm cup of coffee this morning, because yesterday I
dropped it all over the floor and or I left
it in my car and it was freezing cold by
the time I got back. It can be that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm appreciated that I'd come and sit in the seat.
I don't tell my stomach bag that I had a.
Speaker 1: Few days there. You go that seats appreciative too, That's awful.
But right so, I do think all these things are attitude. Yeah,
and we've heard for years attitude is everything. Attitude is everything,
but it was so hard and I feel like there
was never the well how do I change the attitude?
And that's why I've come And I don't know if
it's right. It feels right to me. I'll say that exactly.
I'll go with my intuition and that when I say
things like go for the better feeling thought, sometimes the
better feeling thought is just revenge, which is better than despair.
I'm not saying that you're gonna should go do revenge,
That's not what I'm saying. But it's a little bit better, right,
and then can we get a little bit better from there? Now?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 4: Maybe I I you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I think it's true though, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you
think it's true that that's not a good idea. No,
but you can think it and then you're gon say, well,
what's going to happen for that if I do that?
And then it's it's about growing, it's about knowing you
can't do that. It's like they ain't gonna.
Speaker 1: Work, no problems, and the knee jerk reaction stuff is
oh absolutely yeah.
Speaker 4: I know that. We talked about fear, which I always.
Speaker 1: Think is just one that just hangs on so many.
Speaker 5: People, so well, it is it is about fear so
many things. It is fear what's going on today, and
fear brings out the worst in people is because they
don't know how to do different. That's the whole key.
They don't and everything is getting bombarded.
Speaker 1: It is.
Speaker 5: Crazy. And I will say the word crazy of what's
going out there, But what I will put out there
is that this is a time of change, this is
a time of great hope, and this is what we
need to do to survive. A lot of people say,
you know, this is gonna whatever. It's like we've been
doing the same stuff for many, many many years, just
like with us the way we think, and it's time
to say, Okay, it's time to do different and and
you know, give it a chance different, you know, but
take the challenge to do different.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And I also think if you can't in those with
that thinking, try to focus on something else. Because I
always believe if you've got three things going great and
one going bad, focus on the bad and the lago bad.
If you got one going good and three going bad,
focus on the good and us the others rise up.
They just do it just is right. Isn't it. And
I know you go, well that sounds really easy now,
but focus on what's going well, something's got to be
going well. You're still here, you're still breathing. Yeah, right, okay,
what's going well?
Speaker 4: You know?
Speaker 1: Or even if it's something with the kid, Hey, I
had a great conversation with You'll see that. You'll get
more and more and more of that and less and
less of the ship. And that's what we don't want.
We want less of the ship exactly. And then I
will say, life, it never gonna stop coming at you, right,
But again, there's no meaning to it other than the media.
You can ride the way exactly, or you could just
as I like to say, play above the noise slightly.
Try to stay up here. It's gonna keep coming at you,
but you can stay up here.
Speaker 5: Well, that's exactly what I do with my hair in ads,
you know. And before you even had hero and aids,
i'd have to go above the noise. The noises. Yeah,
it's like a visual I have to. I take it
all in, you know, And it's like, you know, use
what you can with what you got. If you don't
have it, you know, you can't use it. But there's
other things that you do have that you can use.
It's like gratitude. You know, well, I'm not I don't
have a good job, so I'm not grateful to look
at that guy over there. Okay, what do you have
food on the table right now? Are you eating right now?
If you're not, if you have friends that you could call,
and a lot of people, I don't have many friends. Okay,
all right, people will notice. People will notice, and they
will probably reach out if you put that out there,
if you're open to it. A lot of people like,
why would you want to help me, I'm just a
piece of show. A lot of them feel that way.
Speaker 4: I agree.
Speaker 5: A lot of them feel that way. And it's like
because they you know, it's like the world is falling apart.
It is, it's falling apart. It's like, yeah, take a
few problems, then you're okay.
Speaker 1: You're okay, Yeah, you're okay.
Speaker 4: Everything's going to be okay.
Speaker 5: It's it is, and it's it's slowly changing. I think
it will be okay.
Speaker 1: I think a good thing to always say too and
really believe is everything's always working out for me. Yeah, right,
everything's always working out for me. But you got to
really believe that. And I think when you start to
see evidence of it, and if that means that you've
got to grind or you want to push yourself through
something to accomplish something, the achievement, the self esteem, all.
Speaker 4: That feels so good.
Speaker 1: You're on a higher frequency, my friends. When you get there,
stay there.
Speaker 4: And keep going and keep going, and you can you know.
Speaker 5: You can move mountains, absolutely.
Speaker 1: You know. And that that that's the stuff that I
think is uh important and yet lost as we blame
somebody else, it's somebody else's fault that just stuck.
Speaker 4: I'm here.
Speaker 1: But the universe loves you so unconditionally that whatever you
believe you shall have.
Speaker 5: That's absolutely right.
Speaker 4: And I think that's a good one to end on.
Speaker 1: But before we end, I want to ask you about
the is it the angel classes you're doing over at
the parent Tell me about this because you sent me
the flyer I mentioned it in. I tried to put
it in the ad a little bit, but I don't
know that I fully understood the dates and things.
Speaker 5: Okay, So the energy healing class that I'm going to
energy healing learning about angels, okay, next to angels is
called Healing Angels of the Energy Field.
Speaker 4: Okay, right, and.
Speaker 5: It's about it's a four week class that starts the
last Wednesday of March. I think it's March twenty sixth.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 5: It is a Wednesday afternoon. It's two hour class and
it runs for four weeks. It's it ends the week
before Easter, just in time to you know, during Lent
and everybody is getting that connected. But it's about you
connecting with the helpers that are with you. And a
lot of people love angels and it's individual angels where
you actually invite them in and just feel their presence
and listen to the angels talking to you, and that
get a one to one relationship with an angel. Right.
Speaker 4: How many people cry when they're.
Speaker 5: In a lot of them, a lot of them. But
it's like we always know that there's somebody's there for us.
Speaker 1: Well just almost I'm saying of relief. Oh the relief.
I don't mean cry, scared, sad, No, I mean relief.
Oh yeah, very much.
Speaker 5: So. That that is the Healing Angels of the Energy Field,
and that is at Parenting Community Center. If you're interested
in that. It is a paid class and you have
to go through the Parenting Community Center to register and
it's four weeks from one to three in the afternoon. Okay, right,
and it can be I might be offering that class
on the outside to people. It's a full day class
where you learn to connect and that's really fun too,
So that might be in the spring sometime. I also
have next Wednesday is the Energy Medicine presentation at Parenting
Community ste That's.
Speaker 4: The one I'm talking about.
Speaker 5: That's the one. That's the one that is the one
next Tuesday, and it's a one hour free presentation. You
do have to register at the fifty five plus office
Parenting Community Center.
Speaker 4: But this is about healing energy.
Speaker 5: It's about healing. What does it mean? What's healing energy?
Speaker 4: Sure?
Speaker 5: The class is the Healing Angel Class.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 5: This is so you can have a connect with your
own angels. Now, my own personal classes that I do
is my next series is Intensive Workshop, which is three
levels of integrated energy therapy. Integrated energy therapy is done
with angels, but it's also it's about your higher consciousness.
If you don't like angels, just change the words your
higher consciousness. All right, it's about you healing, get unstuck. Right,
what's stuck, learning what is stuck? How did it get there?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 5: And then you go from there. It's all about your intention.
It's about wanting to change or knowing you need to change,
you know, and that little you know thing saying you know,
you better listen to this, listen to it, all right.
And also if you can't join those classes, I also
do individual classes. A lot of people want individual classes,
so I do that too.
Speaker 4: And so all this is on your website.
Speaker 5: All of it's on my website. I also do the
energy sessions. I do mentoring energy sessions. Once a month,
you have your own private healing sessions, whether in person
or online. And that is more that is it's a
wonderful way of learning stuff about yourself where it's more
of a mentoring So it's a little bit longer than
a regular short you know, a one hour session. It's
usually an hour and a half all right, where I
spent with you, I educate you. But it also entitles
all my other communities that I have and all the
other archive of my own podcast. I have all that
stuff and learning modalities to learn about this stuff. It's
all part of that. Or you can just have a
regular session for one two, you know, And a lot
of people do that, you know, like they have their
own massage therapy once a month, you know, and so
some people do it like two to three months at
a time or one month at a time, and some
people do a full year. So I'm going to take
care of myself and I'm gonna do an energy session
once a month. Yeah, and then with that you get
the ability to start understanding how this energy affects you
and how you can change your life.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I feel like I always try to sim
I don't know.
Speaker 5: And then I also have the heart math, the heart
math learning about what does that mean? How to build
resilience I guess stress and trauma, anxiety, And it's about
out learning how to be coherent techniques of slowing down
your breathing and going within and from your emotions, from
your heart and your heart thinking the things that make
you happy. And as you do that, you train your
body to go into relaxation mode and at the same
time it is opening up your consciousness.
Speaker 1: So what I was gonna say, I always think this, right, yeah,
and I don't mean I mean the iPhone intuitive right,
it's very easy to use.
Speaker 4: So how do you take all these things where.
Speaker 1: Some people go energy. You've all been in a room
where someone has walked in and they've become the dominant
energy in the room, whether they're super funny and charismatic
or they're in a pissed off mood. In the air
turns purple. Right, we can say that, right, we've all
been there. What is that? What is that? That's energy?
And that's what Sheila is talking about. And I'm just saying, like,
for those that go, oh, this energy bullshit, No, it's there.
Speaker 4: You've experienced it, you know it. You probably have.
Speaker 1: There's people you avoid because the energy is different, right,
whatever that is. And sometimes I would say that you
can even control that to a certain degree. There's no assertion.
But if you have, let's say it's a boss and
you go, Jesus Christ, I love when the guy's gone,
but he's up in my hand. Well, I always say,
try to find positive attributes of the person. Think of those,
write them down, focus on that. Guarantee you get more
of that and less of the bullshit exactly.
Speaker 4: Don't you think? I mean?
Speaker 1: But it's nutty and as weird as people go, that
we make life harder than it needs to be.
Speaker 4: It's a gift. It truly is.
Speaker 1: It's a journey, right, and you're supposed to learn from
this stuff. You know what you don't want, know what
you do want, and just keep going right and you.
Speaker 4: Never get it wrong.
Speaker 1: Just get in a different car once in a while,
you know what I'm saying, Like an auto, you know
what I mean. Today, I'll take a cheap whatever. But
I'm just saying, like, we change things. And that's why
I want to speak it that way, because I feel
like some people hear energy and they're gone, woa, right, woa,
and it isn't. No, it's not.
Speaker 5: You walk in a room and you know somebody that
you want to talk to and somebody you don't want
to talk to, and you can feel the energy oozing from.
Speaker 1: It, right, or or even somebody who you're normally happy
to see.
Speaker 4: And you go over you're like, oh my god, what
did I do?
Speaker 1: You automatically we say what did I do? You did nothing?
Speaker 5: With them?
Speaker 1: Yes, it's always them, And when you're feeling shitty, it's you.
Speaker 5: And if you're feeling shitty, maybe it was guilt, maybe
something you did.
Speaker 1: It's like you need to change it, right exactly.
Speaker 5: That's all about you. It's about you have to go
within and you have to do the work, and a
lot of people don't want.
Speaker 2: To do that.
Speaker 1: I think that's I think it's a great note to
end on and go to Shila Tillik dot com please.
Speaker 5: And they also can actually go to email Sheila at
Shila Tillik dot com and just send me an email.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, okay, all right, that's a great way to
do it. Yeah, Sheila tillic t I L L I
c H.
Speaker 5: And also there's the thirty minute discovery call for free
on my website. Just do that and then you can
zoom with me. We can talk look at thish thirty
minutes free.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's great. I think that's actually really good. This
is all for your better health, right, I mean really.
Speaker 1: When we think about it, it is for your health.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Right, And again moving forward, you know, I don't want
anybody well it's all gonna be. It's not. Life's gonna
keep coming at you.
Speaker 1: But this gives you a way to handle everything, sort
of see it for what it really is. And remember
the meaning is whatever you give it.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: That person's a piece that you're applying that meaning, and
you can change it, you can change it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So always a pleasure, SHIELDA love seeing you.
Speaker 5: I love it too. Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: Bill.
Speaker 4: You are welcome.
Speaker 1: And this has been another bilified And we will eventually
get this on its own and be its own podcast.
And I will see you tomorrow.
Speaker 2: Listen to me.
Speaker 3: All indeed you're already on. Lew was giving to you
on the day that you were born.