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This podcast 10 00:00:34.600 --> 00:00:37.000 is not meant to be taken as professional advice. 11 00:00:45.359 --> 00:00:45.799 Kicks and. 12 00:00:47.960 --> 00:00:58.240 Turn it up Hot Wife Talk never shut Up. 13 00:00:57.119 --> 00:01:05.480 Yes, hello everybody, This is Donald Linn and welcome to 14 00:01:05.519 --> 00:01:08.840 my Hot White podcast. And of course I'm here with 15 00:01:08.920 --> 00:01:13.120 my ever wonderful husband, Vince. Yeah, I know. I was like, 16 00:01:13.359 --> 00:01:15.359 you look so wonderful when you're yawning. I was like, 17 00:01:15.480 --> 00:01:17.359 he must be excited to be here. 18 00:01:17.480 --> 00:01:23.680 That's so I can take oh god, one of those 19 00:01:23.760 --> 00:01:27.040 days at work, you know, we all have them, that 20 00:01:27.200 --> 00:01:32.200 is true, minor one day after another step anyway, Yeah, anyway, 21 00:01:32.959 --> 00:01:33.480 study news. 22 00:01:33.560 --> 00:01:36.599 Pools open. Not ready to swim yet, but it's open. 23 00:01:37.120 --> 00:01:37.359 Yeah. 24 00:01:37.400 --> 00:01:44.120 Well, little chili, little little nippoy. I always get. 25 00:01:43.359 --> 00:01:45.319 I guess a little bit. It's always kind of like 26 00:01:45.439 --> 00:01:47.719 depressing when they take we take the cover off and 27 00:01:47.760 --> 00:01:49.519 you see how murky the water. 28 00:01:49.439 --> 00:01:52.200 Is, and you're like, oh, but in a couple of days, 29 00:01:52.200 --> 00:01:54.480 it's fine. In a couple of days, you run the 30 00:01:54.519 --> 00:01:56.159 thing like sixty eight. 31 00:01:56.760 --> 00:01:59.799 I haven't even put this. Yeah, I want to put 32 00:01:59.799 --> 00:02:03.519 back reason and I will get to that. But I 33 00:02:03.599 --> 00:02:09.319 know that in another month it'll be swimmable, hopefully sooner, 34 00:02:10.080 --> 00:02:10.840 hopefully sooner. 35 00:02:10.879 --> 00:02:13.080 But this month is Memorial Day. 36 00:02:13.120 --> 00:02:15.159 Yeah, we always try to get into the water on 37 00:02:15.280 --> 00:02:18.120 Memorial Day or that weekend or right around and there. 38 00:02:18.560 --> 00:02:19.879 I don't think we did last year. 39 00:02:19.879 --> 00:02:22.960 It was just too darn breakdown. Get myself one of those. 40 00:02:22.800 --> 00:02:28.039 Like wet suits suits I was even looking for. I'm 41 00:02:28.080 --> 00:02:32.639 just looking online, just browsing for pool heaters, gas ones, 42 00:02:32.680 --> 00:02:33.280 not electric. 43 00:02:33.360 --> 00:02:36.599 If we did that, both they're expensive. 44 00:02:37.319 --> 00:02:41.400 They're probably very similar price wise to put them in. 45 00:02:42.000 --> 00:02:45.680 Yeah, I'm expensive to run gas isn't that much cheaper 46 00:02:45.759 --> 00:02:52.199 than electric? Still not that much cheaper. But anyway, this 47 00:02:52.319 --> 00:02:53.000 is not that show. 48 00:02:53.199 --> 00:02:55.039 No, it's not that show. But you know you have 49 00:02:55.080 --> 00:03:01.520 the water that's warm, you know, I could so I 50 00:03:01.520 --> 00:03:03.680 could get in it sooner, that's for sure. 51 00:03:04.159 --> 00:03:06.520 But when you get out in the air temperature. 52 00:03:07.280 --> 00:03:09.879 Well yeah, but then you have the fire pit going. 53 00:03:10.080 --> 00:03:12.240 This is called a hot tub. That's what you're thinking of, 54 00:03:14.840 --> 00:03:16.919 you and your shoulders. We probably better off just get in. 55 00:03:16.919 --> 00:03:19.680 A fucking hot No, I don't want a hot tub. 56 00:03:19.879 --> 00:03:21.560 They're very there. 57 00:03:21.680 --> 00:03:23.639 I can sit in that and have a cigar and 58 00:03:23.719 --> 00:03:25.840 drink bourbon too, it doesn't matter. 59 00:03:25.879 --> 00:03:30.000 I don't know have a very I know they have 60 00:03:30.039 --> 00:03:34.599 a certain sexual allure, a romantic allure to them, and 61 00:03:34.639 --> 00:03:38.000 there is something very cool sitting in the hot tub 62 00:03:38.719 --> 00:03:42.000 in the wintertime. The snow is falling down. You have 63 00:03:42.039 --> 00:03:44.680 to wear a you know, a cap of something sort, 64 00:03:44.840 --> 00:03:47.520 have to but I wore like a little knit cap 65 00:03:47.759 --> 00:03:50.759 because my ears would get cold. And the snow is 66 00:03:50.840 --> 00:03:55.599 falling but there's no but but the steam is coming rising. 67 00:03:55.280 --> 00:03:56.800 Off the hot tub. 68 00:03:57.120 --> 00:03:58.759 I know it's not but shut up. 69 00:03:59.080 --> 00:04:01.560 Paint a picture sucking an elf and a hot tub. 70 00:04:02.080 --> 00:04:05.240 I'm sorry, go ahead, never mind now, No, it's fine, 71 00:04:06.639 --> 00:04:09.120 But it was very It is very cool. It is 72 00:04:09.280 --> 00:04:11.280 very cool if you ever get a chance to get into. 73 00:04:11.080 --> 00:04:13.840 A hot tub in the body and my body aches 74 00:04:13.879 --> 00:04:17.160 actually scream more for hot tub than it does fucking pool. 75 00:04:18.000 --> 00:04:18.480 But we have. 76 00:04:20.920 --> 00:04:25.079 And we have the veranda down there. 77 00:04:25.720 --> 00:04:27.199 That you know, we could be. 78 00:04:27.240 --> 00:04:30.279 Our electric bill with skyrocket, you know that. 79 00:04:30.639 --> 00:04:34.639 So you're not going down anyway. But anyway, what's tonight's topic? 80 00:04:34.720 --> 00:04:35.839 This is not sexy. 81 00:04:36.439 --> 00:04:37.720 This is not sexy. 82 00:04:38.639 --> 00:04:41.720 I'm tired to begin with that. Really fall asleep. 83 00:04:42.240 --> 00:04:47.240 Admiration versus possessions. Oh, I know. It's the difference between 84 00:04:47.279 --> 00:04:51.759 appreciating your partner or and trying to own them. And 85 00:04:51.800 --> 00:04:54.120 we do know a lot of people that go there, 86 00:04:55.519 --> 00:05:02.360 you know, letting go of the outdated relationships thinking okay, 87 00:05:02.800 --> 00:05:07.399 I do remember I always I have dated some very 88 00:05:07.439 --> 00:05:14.639 possessive people in my past. AND's of you jealous? Yeah, yeah, absolutely, 89 00:05:15.120 --> 00:05:18.680 And it seems like the people in the lifestyle, for 90 00:05:18.720 --> 00:05:21.639 the most part, it seems to be more liberated. 91 00:05:22.040 --> 00:05:26.160 And you're still think there's some level of control you 92 00:05:26.199 --> 00:05:27.160 see in some people. 93 00:05:27.319 --> 00:05:30.720 Oh, and that's true. It still exists. It does still exist. 94 00:05:31.360 --> 00:05:36.319 But well, you can appreciate and admire your mate as 95 00:05:36.360 --> 00:05:42.279 opposed to possessing and owning them. I don't possess or 96 00:05:42.360 --> 00:05:46.439 own you. I do admire you. I get a kick 97 00:05:46.480 --> 00:05:51.839 guy when I see, you know, a woman that's whether 98 00:05:51.959 --> 00:05:54.759 you're done with her, and she's just a quivering lump 99 00:05:54.800 --> 00:05:57.959 of flesh and she comes over and thanks me and 100 00:05:58.000 --> 00:06:01.959 actually like almost worships me. It's it's it's it's. 101 00:06:01.959 --> 00:06:04.279 Very it's been over a year since that. 102 00:06:04.639 --> 00:06:06.759 It's been a while, but we haven't gone too many 103 00:06:06.759 --> 00:06:09.199 parties because of our work schedule. But it has happened. 104 00:06:09.199 --> 00:06:11.600 It's not like it never happened. And it was very 105 00:06:11.680 --> 00:06:15.279 cool and it was very I felt very proud. I 106 00:06:15.279 --> 00:06:16.720 did admire you. I did it. 107 00:06:17.319 --> 00:06:20.560 You know, well, I think the topic goes beyond just 108 00:06:20.720 --> 00:06:24.480 like in those situations. Oh, I think we came up 109 00:06:24.519 --> 00:06:28.240 with the topic due to the point like I had 110 00:06:28.240 --> 00:06:31.160 seen a video on Instagram or something where some guy 111 00:06:31.279 --> 00:06:33.639 came up and said something to a pretty woman and 112 00:06:33.680 --> 00:06:36.079 then the husband walks up and like Cole Cox, the 113 00:06:36.079 --> 00:06:39.240 guy knocks him out. Oh really, Yeah, he was just 114 00:06:39.319 --> 00:06:41.480 that jealous, like, yo, you don't talk about well, you know, 115 00:06:41.560 --> 00:06:44.040 there was nothing on her that said that she was 116 00:06:44.160 --> 00:06:49.319 taken or you know, oh, I can understand if if 117 00:06:49.319 --> 00:06:51.879 that happened, you sit there and go, hey, man, yeah, 118 00:06:51.920 --> 00:06:54.480 thanks for admiring her, but she's married to me. Okay, 119 00:06:54.560 --> 00:06:57.160 that's true. Most guys would be okay, oh man, I'm sorry. 120 00:06:57.199 --> 00:06:58.279 It's like no, no, you. 121 00:06:58.240 --> 00:07:01.759 Know, so the admiration you're case comes from the outside source, 122 00:07:01.800 --> 00:07:02.639 not from the other part. 123 00:07:02.959 --> 00:07:05.199 Like you know we've talked about before. We're guys who 124 00:07:05.319 --> 00:07:06.040 made comments too. 125 00:07:06.240 --> 00:07:06.439 You know. 126 00:07:06.560 --> 00:07:08.759 We were at at one restaurant. People guys came over 127 00:07:08.800 --> 00:07:10.519 and asked me, can I compliment your wife? 128 00:07:10.639 --> 00:07:14.519 I suggest that you've got such a fat. 129 00:07:14.959 --> 00:07:18.040 Ugly wife. He's god, he's sloving outing. 130 00:07:18.720 --> 00:07:20.519 Had that guy in the short shorts up the road 131 00:07:20.560 --> 00:07:28.879 there that you're you know that? Yeah, I don't about 132 00:07:28.879 --> 00:07:30.079 it unless they're being rude. 133 00:07:30.480 --> 00:07:32.199 No, they were very complimentary. 134 00:07:32.759 --> 00:07:37.040 They were all respectful, and that's fine. I I sit 135 00:07:37.120 --> 00:07:40.199 there and actually I'd like when that happens for the 136 00:07:40.240 --> 00:07:43.040 fact that it drives from the point that when I 137 00:07:43.079 --> 00:07:47.959 tell you I find you sexy and attractive, that you 138 00:07:48.000 --> 00:07:50.439 know that other people are telling you. I've always said 139 00:07:50.800 --> 00:07:54.680 that you know your significant other can tell you you're attractive 140 00:07:54.839 --> 00:07:56.199 or whatever bullshit they want. 141 00:07:56.040 --> 00:07:56.600 To feed you. 142 00:07:57.759 --> 00:08:01.839 Mine does I do constantly you hear it from somebody else, 143 00:08:02.040 --> 00:08:05.800 it tends to mean more because you feel your significant other. 144 00:08:05.959 --> 00:08:07.800 Should be telling you that or I hope they. 145 00:08:07.680 --> 00:08:10.600 Tell you that, right, And also they're willing to overlook 146 00:08:10.639 --> 00:08:11.720 your many flaws. 147 00:08:12.480 --> 00:08:13.399 No, you point them out. 148 00:08:14.279 --> 00:08:18.560 But see that's what a good wife does. Two points 149 00:08:18.639 --> 00:08:21.319 out your flaws so you can correct them. 150 00:08:21.600 --> 00:08:24.240 But according to you, I'll never have anything, I'll never 151 00:08:24.240 --> 00:08:30.079 do anything right, so it wouldn't matter. But but no, 152 00:08:30.480 --> 00:08:34.879 if somebody compliments you, I'm I'm happy for that. 153 00:08:33.960 --> 00:08:39.200 Yea, well, thank you? Yeah, I agree. 154 00:08:39.639 --> 00:08:41.759 I mean, but you know people that get been out 155 00:08:41.759 --> 00:08:43.840 of shape. Oh you don't talk to her or him 156 00:08:43.960 --> 00:08:44.440 or whatever. 157 00:08:46.039 --> 00:08:47.720 It's like, get over yourself. 158 00:08:47.759 --> 00:08:50.080 If you're that insecure, you shouldn't be in a relationship, 159 00:08:50.879 --> 00:08:51.080 you know. 160 00:08:51.679 --> 00:08:52.600 And we see it. 161 00:08:52.639 --> 00:08:56.080 I mean, I understand that in the lifestyle, couples have rules. 162 00:08:56.120 --> 00:08:59.600 We've talked about that before numerous times. I get that 163 00:08:59.679 --> 00:09:02.840 respect and everything else, But there are still people I 164 00:09:02.919 --> 00:09:04.039 just got to mess with that. 165 00:09:04.279 --> 00:09:05.840 There are still people that. 166 00:09:07.279 --> 00:09:14.519 We know that we've played with plenty of times. And 167 00:09:14.799 --> 00:09:17.559 like as an example of a situation that we just 168 00:09:17.679 --> 00:09:20.080 kind of thought everything was you know, green light go 169 00:09:20.639 --> 00:09:23.039 oh coptic, Yeah yeah, you know, like okay, we're ever 170 00:09:23.039 --> 00:09:26.120 to jump zone, go go go, and then all of 171 00:09:26.159 --> 00:09:29.759 a sudden, someone got all asked hurt. You didn't get 172 00:09:29.799 --> 00:09:32.000 my permission. Fuck you, I've never gotten your permission. 173 00:09:32.200 --> 00:09:34.639 No, this is the first. 174 00:09:33.799 --> 00:09:35.480 Generally rapes me. Motherfucker. 175 00:09:37.559 --> 00:09:40.440 That's true. I know exactly the situation. You know what 176 00:09:40.440 --> 00:09:43.440 it might be too, because his ask. 177 00:09:43.240 --> 00:09:45.120 Got hurt because no one paid attention to him. 178 00:09:45.519 --> 00:09:46.279 That's number one. 179 00:09:46.360 --> 00:09:47.200 That was that situation. 180 00:09:47.399 --> 00:09:53.200 Number two, in that this particular situation, he was he 181 00:09:53.360 --> 00:09:55.519 was not in control, but he was out of his element. 182 00:09:55.639 --> 00:09:58.720 Usually he's the host, so he's in control, and he 183 00:09:58.919 --> 00:09:59.879 likes to be in control. 184 00:10:00.360 --> 00:10:02.720 Now he's not in this situation. Again we're talking in 185 00:10:02.799 --> 00:10:05.519 general topic, but situation, he's the one. He wants to 186 00:10:05.519 --> 00:10:08.600 be a center of attention and he wants to be Yes, 187 00:10:08.679 --> 00:10:10.480 he's very dominant. 188 00:10:11.159 --> 00:10:13.559 Wants to be dominant anyway, and you. 189 00:10:13.519 --> 00:10:17.360 Know, his dominance gets to be disrespectful. He doesn't. He 190 00:10:17.399 --> 00:10:18.080 is aware of that. 191 00:10:18.440 --> 00:10:21.600 Yeah, it does, it really does. So within within a 192 00:10:21.639 --> 00:10:23.919 certain measure, I'm fine with it. But then when he 193 00:10:23.960 --> 00:10:26.559 gets to be when it gets to be disrespectful, I 194 00:10:26.559 --> 00:10:29.919 get like, okay, now enough is enough. That's that's it. 195 00:10:30.679 --> 00:10:31.080 That's it. 196 00:10:31.639 --> 00:10:35.360 He's not good in a neutral situation. He has to 197 00:10:35.360 --> 00:10:40.519 be dominant, and that's the Yeah, the one that's between them, 198 00:10:40.519 --> 00:10:44.159 and that's fine. I respect the rules, but you know, 199 00:10:44.360 --> 00:10:48.000 he doesn't understand, don't come give me ship when you 200 00:10:48.159 --> 00:10:48.919 change the rules. 201 00:10:48.919 --> 00:10:52.279 And exactly if you're going to have rules in a situation, 202 00:10:52.360 --> 00:10:56.480 they have to be consistent. But yeah, across all different 203 00:10:56.919 --> 00:11:00.320 kinds of scenarios and there they were fine as long 204 00:11:00.360 --> 00:11:03.200 as we were in his house. And I mean that 205 00:11:03.320 --> 00:11:05.600 generally air quotes like in. 206 00:11:05.440 --> 00:11:07.879 His environment, in his comfort zone. 207 00:11:07.679 --> 00:11:09.360 In his comfort zone. You take him out of his 208 00:11:09.440 --> 00:11:11.480 comfort zone all of a sudden, it's like, oh, our God, 209 00:11:11.519 --> 00:11:14.399 to have control, you got to ask me permission. It's like, well, 210 00:11:14.639 --> 00:11:18.159 we never did that before, so why is that happening now, 211 00:11:19.200 --> 00:11:19.440 you know? 212 00:11:19.600 --> 00:11:22.039 Or the one that you go around and he, you know, 213 00:11:22.120 --> 00:11:24.320 starts palling at you. He didn't ask my permission. 214 00:11:24.559 --> 00:11:26.080 No, he never did, you know. 215 00:11:26.279 --> 00:11:27.919 But anyway, that's another story. 216 00:11:27.919 --> 00:11:32.320 But no, I think, I mean, especially if you're the lifestyle, 217 00:11:32.320 --> 00:11:34.559 I think you should have some I think most do. 218 00:11:34.759 --> 00:11:38.840 I can't say at all some level that if your. 219 00:11:38.679 --> 00:11:42.919 Wife is getting attention from other people, men, women, both whatever, 220 00:11:42.919 --> 00:11:47.279 they might recognize themselves as I don't know, you have 221 00:11:47.360 --> 00:11:51.559 to you should sit there and admire that like, you know, 222 00:11:51.600 --> 00:11:53.639 it's a reflection on you. It's like, yeah, I have 223 00:11:53.759 --> 00:11:57.240 this special person in my life, you know what, and 224 00:11:58.480 --> 00:12:01.960 he or she they to recognize that other people find 225 00:12:01.960 --> 00:12:04.159 them attractive to that that's really important. 226 00:12:04.279 --> 00:12:07.480 That is kind of complimentary. Really feed your ego, it 227 00:12:07.519 --> 00:12:08.480 doesn't look Yeah. 228 00:12:08.480 --> 00:12:10.159 It should feed both people's ego. 229 00:12:10.360 --> 00:12:13.960 I agree. I agree, because it should feed the whoever 230 00:12:14.120 --> 00:12:17.840 is the attention is targeting. It's going to feed their ego. 231 00:12:17.960 --> 00:12:21.039 But if you're the significant other, well you're the one 232 00:12:21.080 --> 00:12:23.720 who is in that relationship, so you must have good 233 00:12:23.759 --> 00:12:28.320 taste too, where you pick a very you know, quality person, 234 00:12:28.879 --> 00:12:31.159 and so it's a compliment on you as well. 235 00:12:31.279 --> 00:12:34.639 And again, you know, let's pretend it's going to move 236 00:12:34.679 --> 00:12:38.360 past the compliment. Stag's pretends that a swinger party or whatever, 237 00:12:38.480 --> 00:12:42.320 sure that one of them should potentially go back to 238 00:12:42.639 --> 00:12:45.679 the other person and go, honey, would you mind if 239 00:12:45.679 --> 00:12:49.039 I go entertain these This football. 240 00:12:48.639 --> 00:12:51.200 Team only happened once. 241 00:12:52.000 --> 00:12:53.440 Yeah, but that was like six days. 242 00:12:53.679 --> 00:12:54.519 Well that's true. 243 00:12:56.440 --> 00:13:02.240 Yeah, I had to do the second string too. Coaches, 244 00:13:03.440 --> 00:13:12.120 we did wait team and so and then the farm team. 245 00:13:12.519 --> 00:13:14.440 I'm a team player, let's put it that way. 246 00:13:14.600 --> 00:13:16.879 I am a college prospects. 247 00:13:18.000 --> 00:13:18.480 Whatever. 248 00:13:19.919 --> 00:13:23.799 No, I think it's something that it's a valuable thing, 249 00:13:24.000 --> 00:13:28.039 and I think the possession thing, in my opinion, that's all. 250 00:13:28.320 --> 00:13:30.080 That's all. I think. 251 00:13:30.120 --> 00:13:36.440 The possessive bullshit is just that I think you're you're. 252 00:13:37.480 --> 00:13:40.600 I don't know. I wouldn't want to feel owned. No, 253 00:13:42.360 --> 00:13:44.399 my ex wife didn't feel make me feel owned. She 254 00:13:44.519 --> 00:13:47.960 made me feel feel like ship, but that was a 255 00:13:47.960 --> 00:13:48.840 different story. 256 00:13:49.039 --> 00:13:52.080 I mean feeling owned my play its part in a 257 00:13:52.120 --> 00:13:57.000 BDSM realm of some sort. But I don't particularly want 258 00:13:57.039 --> 00:13:59.360 to feel owned. I mean, I don't mind it for 259 00:13:59.559 --> 00:14:03.120 like short bits, but if it's I couldn't live there. 260 00:14:03.279 --> 00:14:06.519 I can't. I could not ever live there, you know, 261 00:14:06.519 --> 00:14:08.399 because I know for me, it's just a little role 262 00:14:08.440 --> 00:14:11.519 play that I'm doing for fifteen minutes or a half 263 00:14:11.639 --> 00:14:15.399 hour or something like that, or an evening or something 264 00:14:15.480 --> 00:14:19.279 like that. It comes yeah, until yeah, and then I'm not. 265 00:14:19.279 --> 00:14:22.960 Owned anymore him. 266 00:14:22.200 --> 00:14:24.639 Now I own him. Yeah, that's true. A good point, 267 00:14:24.720 --> 00:14:28.320 good point, but uh, yeah, I don't. I wouldn't like that. 268 00:14:28.440 --> 00:14:31.639 I would I would feel very oppressed. I wouldn't. I 269 00:14:31.639 --> 00:14:34.120 wouldn't like that, And I was been, I have been 270 00:14:34.200 --> 00:14:38.879 in kind of oppressive relationships where they were very needy 271 00:14:39.039 --> 00:14:42.639 and had to know where I was and were very 272 00:14:42.879 --> 00:14:45.200 you know, insecure. If that's what it comes down to, 273 00:14:45.320 --> 00:14:47.120 if you if you don't trust your mate, that. 274 00:14:47.159 --> 00:14:48.759 Means you're in togutre you'd done. 275 00:14:49.440 --> 00:14:51.360 Oh, they would have been all been out of shape 276 00:14:51.360 --> 00:14:52.519 about it. I'm quite sure. 277 00:14:52.679 --> 00:14:53.120 Where are you? 278 00:14:53.159 --> 00:14:55.279 Where have you been? You can't do that, you can't 279 00:14:55.320 --> 00:15:01.919 talk to her? Yeah, exactly exactly. What's good for the 280 00:15:01.960 --> 00:15:03.879 goose is good for the ganders, they say. And if 281 00:15:03.879 --> 00:15:08.360 you don't, if it's not equal, you know that, you 282 00:15:08.399 --> 00:15:11.279 know it's there's something missing there. So I'm sure these 283 00:15:11.320 --> 00:15:15.919 people can't see that they're being oppressive, that they're being possessive. 284 00:15:16.600 --> 00:15:18.799 Do you think it's based in insecurity? 285 00:15:19.360 --> 00:15:22.360 I think a lot of it is. Yes, Absolutely, you. 286 00:15:22.360 --> 00:15:23.960 Feel you have to possess someone. 287 00:15:24.120 --> 00:15:25.799 Because you're afraid of losing them. They're worries. 288 00:15:26.759 --> 00:15:28.840 Well, you know, and I get it. You might be 289 00:15:28.879 --> 00:15:31.080 with someone really special. I hope to be one day. 290 00:15:31.440 --> 00:15:34.519 I'm sure you will someday. You're a great guy. You'll 291 00:15:34.559 --> 00:15:39.039 be you. I do lie a lot. 292 00:15:39.720 --> 00:15:41.600 On your back on my. 293 00:15:41.679 --> 00:15:49.720 Size with the whole team, but yeah, I mean that insecurity, 294 00:15:49.960 --> 00:15:52.159 that like, oh, I'll never find anyone else. 295 00:15:52.320 --> 00:15:54.679 It's like Jesus Christ, get out there. 296 00:15:55.919 --> 00:15:56.159 You know. 297 00:15:57.519 --> 00:16:00.200 I thought that when I was like twelve, when I like, 298 00:16:00.399 --> 00:16:03.399 I had a boyfriend who broke up with me or 299 00:16:03.440 --> 00:16:04.720 I broke up with him or whatever. 300 00:16:04.759 --> 00:16:06.440 Where are we going to find another twenty five year 301 00:16:06.480 --> 00:16:08.360 old at twelve years old? 302 00:16:08.360 --> 00:16:10.159 Where am I going to find a twenty five year old? 303 00:16:11.639 --> 00:16:12.799 I'm an old maid now. 304 00:16:12.799 --> 00:16:15.799 Oh, old maid? Now? Yeah. I remember my mother saying 305 00:16:15.840 --> 00:16:18.279 there's plenty more fish in the sea and I but 306 00:16:18.559 --> 00:16:19.279 at that time. 307 00:16:19.120 --> 00:16:21.559 You don't have to do with me getting laid, Mom. 308 00:16:22.240 --> 00:16:23.879 I was not Wait a minute, I was not getting 309 00:16:23.960 --> 00:16:25.200 laid at twelve. Let's get that. 310 00:16:25.480 --> 00:16:29.440 He waited at thirteen fourteen for a fisherman. 311 00:16:29.559 --> 00:16:33.840 Mom, tell me a fisherman. I don't even like fish. 312 00:16:34.039 --> 00:16:37.440 I like shrimp though that's a whole different story. But yeah, 313 00:16:38.039 --> 00:16:41.039 these people that yet controlling and they want you under 314 00:16:41.080 --> 00:16:43.480 their thumb. They need to know every action, everything that 315 00:16:43.519 --> 00:16:46.279 you're doing. It I think is very draining. 316 00:16:46.799 --> 00:16:49.039 Well, I told you my ex wife had a girlfriend 317 00:16:49.080 --> 00:16:53.440 and her husband was super possessive. Oh yes, Actually when 318 00:16:53.480 --> 00:16:56.799 he came home he did some things like he would 319 00:16:56.840 --> 00:16:58.799 actually put his hand down her pants to feel for 320 00:16:58.840 --> 00:17:01.200 pussy was wet, to see if she was excited or 321 00:17:01.200 --> 00:17:03.399 had been with somebody. Then he would go in the 322 00:17:03.399 --> 00:17:06.039 bathroom to see if the towels were right, if she 323 00:17:06.079 --> 00:17:08.880 showered during the day to clean up, or and or 324 00:17:08.920 --> 00:17:11.480 how much toy paper might have been used, to see 325 00:17:11.480 --> 00:17:13.839 if maybe she had to clean up after somebody came 326 00:17:13.880 --> 00:17:14.480 and fucked her. 327 00:17:15.359 --> 00:17:19.599 Oh my, that's that person has a real fucking problem, 328 00:17:19.640 --> 00:17:22.400 a real problem. Oh you use up too much toilet paper. 329 00:17:22.599 --> 00:17:26.400 I had diarrhea. For God's sakes, I took her shower 330 00:17:26.480 --> 00:17:35.079 because I shipped myself to prove it. That's too much energy? 331 00:17:36.279 --> 00:17:39.559 Is that wife? She went bad shit crazy? 332 00:17:39.640 --> 00:17:41.599 Oh yeah, I would imagine. I think that had a 333 00:17:41.640 --> 00:17:42.000 lot to do. 334 00:17:42.119 --> 00:17:45.960 So she actually went and started telling people that wasn't 335 00:17:46.000 --> 00:17:49.480 just me. She said that other people that were friends 336 00:17:49.960 --> 00:17:52.440 with them, that their husbands all were hitting on her 337 00:17:52.480 --> 00:17:54.400 and came over and tried to rape her and all 338 00:17:54.440 --> 00:18:00.279 this stuff. And so my wife at the time, being 339 00:18:00.319 --> 00:18:03.799 the jealous, possessive bitch she was, might so be. 340 00:18:04.000 --> 00:18:07.200 I guess she's like you fucked around with her? By 341 00:18:07.480 --> 00:18:09.599 I said, I what she was? 342 00:18:09.680 --> 00:18:13.160 Yeah? Yeah, she was telling everybody that you, and I said, Okay, 343 00:18:13.359 --> 00:18:14.240 let's back up. 344 00:18:14.519 --> 00:18:19.000 Back up what he said? Well, I said, hang on. 345 00:18:19.519 --> 00:18:24.720 Said, she has this husband who worries about her fucking 346 00:18:24.759 --> 00:18:29.160 around daughter. So if she's telling everybody that that me 347 00:18:29.319 --> 00:18:31.880 and a couple other guys, apparently we found that out 348 00:18:31.960 --> 00:18:36.279 later we're doing this, don't you think her husband would 349 00:18:36.279 --> 00:18:39.039 have come over and got in my face and like 350 00:18:39.079 --> 00:18:41.119 the cops would have showed up because it would have 351 00:18:41.160 --> 00:18:41.720 been a good fight. 352 00:18:41.799 --> 00:18:45.279 I'm not gonna argue you for sure. Yeah, she goes, Oh, 353 00:18:45.319 --> 00:18:46.359 I hadn't thought about that. 354 00:18:46.480 --> 00:18:49.319 Now. In the meantime, she wanted to divorce me at 355 00:18:49.319 --> 00:18:52.160 the time. She wanted to all this stuff, And I'm like, okay, 356 00:18:52.240 --> 00:18:52.880 I'm good with that. 357 00:18:53.720 --> 00:18:55.240 You should take her up. What about it? 358 00:18:55.599 --> 00:18:57.359 Can you send your friend over and let me actually 359 00:18:57.440 --> 00:18:57.839 fuck her? 360 00:18:59.519 --> 00:19:02.559 Yeah? I mean she's a good looking woman. Yeah, there's 361 00:19:02.599 --> 00:19:04.240 no way she wanted anything to do with me. But 362 00:19:05.240 --> 00:19:08.039 she was starved for attention. She wanted good attention from 363 00:19:08.039 --> 00:19:09.319 her husband. She wasn't getting it. 364 00:19:10.119 --> 00:19:11.839 That's not good attention, that's bad attention. 365 00:19:11.799 --> 00:19:14.400 She want attention, put it that way, but it's just 366 00:19:14.400 --> 00:19:16.880 giving her attention to you know, my my wife at 367 00:19:16.880 --> 00:19:21.039 the time who was so possessive also was you know, 368 00:19:21.279 --> 00:19:25.400 now she's already convicted and ready to execute me. And 369 00:19:25.440 --> 00:19:27.880 then when I say, well, if I had done that, 370 00:19:28.839 --> 00:19:31.039 now again, she didn't know that she'd also done this 371 00:19:31.119 --> 00:19:34.440 to numerous other people that she works with because they 372 00:19:34.480 --> 00:19:37.200 all worked together. And she was saying that this girl's 373 00:19:37.240 --> 00:19:39.480 husband did it and this girl's husband did it, and 374 00:19:39.519 --> 00:19:42.759 then afterwards she was like, well, s fuck you. 375 00:19:42.759 --> 00:19:44.759 You know you said not not the girl. 376 00:19:44.559 --> 00:19:46.240 My wife right exactly. 377 00:19:46.519 --> 00:19:48.640 It's like, no, you know, you. 378 00:19:48.960 --> 00:19:53.079 Tried and executed me before finding out, you can go 379 00:19:53.119 --> 00:19:56.640 fuck yourself. That was the real start of the downfall 380 00:19:58.160 --> 00:20:01.680 of that marriage. So, oh yeah, I'm not a fan 381 00:20:01.720 --> 00:20:03.759 of being It's happened more than once in my life. 382 00:20:03.839 --> 00:20:07.319 You know, been convicted of a crime that didn't commit 383 00:20:08.200 --> 00:20:13.119 and you know I've suffered for it. Yeah, and then 384 00:20:13.160 --> 00:20:14.680 when they find out that I didn't do it. 385 00:20:15.319 --> 00:20:18.039 You know, when you're possessed a person, though, I think 386 00:20:18.359 --> 00:20:21.279 even if you were, I think there's there's such that 387 00:20:21.400 --> 00:20:25.720 insecurity that they're going to lose a special person. I 388 00:20:26.039 --> 00:20:28.599 think it just it just messes with everything else. 389 00:20:28.640 --> 00:20:31.279 It really, how do you think these people handle if 390 00:20:31.279 --> 00:20:33.079 and when their mate passes. 391 00:20:34.279 --> 00:20:40.480 I have no idea. I do not know. I don't know. 392 00:20:40.920 --> 00:20:45.720 Do they think that the person he deliberately died he 393 00:20:45.759 --> 00:20:47.000 didn't want to be with me, but. 394 00:20:49.119 --> 00:20:51.920 That bitch it works at the bar down the road. 395 00:20:51.960 --> 00:20:54.039 She's still alive, but he died to be with her. 396 00:20:55.440 --> 00:20:59.680 It would be something that that's definitely some kind of mental. 397 00:21:00.200 --> 00:21:04.759 Hey, can I take a quick diversion from ahead one 398 00:21:04.759 --> 00:21:10.319 of our number one fan, Wayne, His son and family 399 00:21:10.359 --> 00:21:13.839 are going through some stuff, some medical stuff with the son. 400 00:21:14.960 --> 00:21:15.279 Again. 401 00:21:15.599 --> 00:21:19.759