Speaker 1: Welcome back everyone to this week's episode of your Manifesting
Bestie Podcast, Season four. I'm your host, Flora, and we
are diving into all things mindset and manifestation like we
always do, guys. This is our last episode of season four.
I know, I know, I know. I always get beat
up online for this when I end the season, But
it's okay. We're gonna be back after the holidays with
a new information, new juicy topics. I always need a
little bit of time to kind of reset and brainstorm
and take all the feedback you guys sent in on
what to create more content for more episodes four, So
we are going to take a little bit of a break.
I'm gonna miss you, guys. But besides that, there is
something I want to go over today, something I want
to discuss that has been kind of like on my mind.
I saw this quote and it really stuck with me
in something that I was recently reading, and it was
saying that our entire life is nothing more than the
stories that we tell ourselves, right, Like, we are just
storytellers and we're creating all these different stories and scenarios
all day long, whether we're thinking them in our mind
or we're playing them out in pictures when we close
our eyes, or we're speaking them out loud. But we
are all these incredible authors. We're all just kind of
existing in this quantum reality telling stories, and those stories
lead our life and they create our life. And I
was thinking, I'm like, wow, it's so true because everything
we see, everywhere we look, everything is telling us a story.
Whether we're watching a movie, it's telling us a story.
Whether we're watching the news, the news is telling us
a scripted story that they want us to believe. Whether
we're listening to a song, that song is telling us
a story. Whether we're looking at an advertisement on TV,
that advertisement is selling us a story. So everything is
in this art of storytelling. When you look at a painting,
it's also telling you a story. So as I'm thinking
about that quote, it really resonated with me because I
was like, we are all authors, and we are all
just writing out stories of our life and talking about
the stories. And these stories that we keep telling ourselves
are the same things we are constantly experiencing, right because
we're manifesting through a speech our thoughts and our emotional patterns,
and we are so gifted. We are these gifted authors.
We are telling creative stories all the time. I think
where we get a hiccup and where we feel we
are stuck in life is when we think that we
cannot pick up a new book and tell a new story.
We think we have to keep telling the same story
over and over. And that story might be the story
of like heartbreak or abandonment, and that story might be
the story of struggle and the story of poverty and
the story of never having enough and always running out,
and the story might just be being left and feeling
alone in this world, or feeling like I'm the world's
punching bag and everyone takes advantage of me. And if
I look back at all the stories I've told myself
from age five to age ten, to twenty to twenty
five to thirty, and I realized that some people they
never create, They never write a new book. They're never
going to create a new book, They're never going to
tell a new story because they're still stuck on the
same story from decades ago or from a couple of
years ago. They're just constantly telling the same story, and
they're clutching their hands onto that book and they refuse
to put it down. They refuse to be like, huh,
I can just place this right here. All the burdens
in this book that I've written, all the burdens and
sadness and struggles and heartbreak that I have in this story.
It's just a book that I keep holding onto. And
it feels like this book is getting bigger and heavier.
Think of like those giant textbooks we were forced to
carry in high school and college and our backpacks and
it would strain our necks, was so heavy. Why the
fuck did they make us carry that? Why didn't they
just keep it in the freaking classroom. So we're carrying
all these heavy books of all these stories that weigh
us down, and we're not letting them go. We can
literally place that book on the floor. We could burn it,
we can throw it into the water, we can we
can really just let go and release it and throw
it back into the wild and say, well, that story
doesn't resonate with me anymore. I don't want to carry
around that book. It's too heavy, it has so many problems.
I don't identify with it anymore. It doesn't serve me anymore.
And I'm ready to write a new book. I'm ready
to pick up a blank book and start fresh, to
start a brand new chapter, a brand new page. And
if my entire reality is just a bunch of freaking stories,
I tell myself, why don't I tell myself something really
out there, something really wild, something really big and beautiful,
something really outrageous and outlandish and delusional. Why don't I
start telling myself more creative stories about more amazing things
that could happen. Okay, think about the stories we're attracted to.
We grew up watching like Disney movies and all these
incredible things and magic and princesses and superheroes who come
and save the day. We're so attracted to these wild, outlandish,
crazy stories. Think of the Bible. Think of the wild
ass stories told in the Bible and other religious scriptures.
These are some wild stories that make your mind go
whoa Like. It's different. It's not what we see in
our day to day lives. Right. So what if I
start to tell myself wild stories about who I am,
how incredible I am, how powerful I am, how I'm
the superhero and the savior of my life, all the
incredible things I'm capable of, and all the incredible skill
sets that I have. What if I just start to
tell a new story and write a new book. What's
the worst that can really happen? Maybe I become better,
Maybe my whole world changes. Maybe I love myself more.
Maybe I'm more excited to wake up in the mornings. Right.
Maybe I develop better relationships. Maybe I start receiving more
miracles and more blessings because I finally put down those
heavy ass textbooks of my past and I stopped telling
the same story over and over and over and experiencing
the same outcome on repeat, Like I'm a fucking hamster
stuck in a wheel? Right, So what if I pay?
Let's let's really close their minds. Picture yourself picking up
this beautiful book with a hardcover on it. Right, it
has your name written on I think of your name
written across the front of the cover. And you open
it up and the book is totally blank. There's nothing
in there but empty lines. Right and on the very
bottom it says page one, that is your opportunity right
there to write a new story about your life, to
start fresh, to create a brand new character inside of
this incredible fairy tale or superhero movie or whatever it
is that really gets your imagination going. Okay, imagine you're
writing into this brand new book. It's blank, you're starting
a clean slate, you're starting fresh. Nothing from the past
is relevant. So think of it like that. You get
a new start today, you get a fresh start. Everything
is new. Everything there's like a reset button because you
threw away the old books. You're done with them. You
don't want to read them anymore, you don't want to
tell them no more because you're sick of it. You're
kind of fucking bored of those right, I'm bored of
my life. Everything is boring, Everything feels the same, everything
is dignant. People are the same, people annoying me. I
don't feel like i'm growing. I have no lust for life.
No miracles happened to me. So I'm done with those stories.
I'm done telling them, I'm done writing them. I'm done
carrying them around and like lugging these heavy textbooks in
my backpack, like, oh my god, Like, for fuck's sake,
let me put them down. They're so annoying. Let me
write this new story. So if I'm the new character,
I'm and the main character that this beautiful fairy tale
is about, who am I? How would I write this story.
How would I revamp my entire life? This is a
practice you can do today. So take out an empty
journal or an empty book or whatever, print out some paper,
and I want you to start writing. Okay, who is
your new character? What type of skill sets does he
or she have? What do you love about this character?
How do they treat other people? How do they take
care of themselves? How do they show up in the world.
What type of energy do they bring when they show
up and they step into a room. What kind of
characteristics do they have? They are embodying main character energy
everywhere they go. They love themselves everywhere they go. They
pour into themselves everywhere they go. They see the best
in others. Everywhere they go. They bring light into the room.
They have positive reactions. They're like that princess and the
fairytale stories. They're just like Prance is around and it's
so full of life and so bright and so airy
and so light and so happy. They're just so happy
because their life is going amazing. Oh how is their
life going amazing? Let me write that down. So if
I'm that character, what is going on in my life
that's so amazing? My career is flourishing. My income is
X Y and Z and it's flourishing. The home that
I live in stunning, beautiful. It's a sight you have
to see. Oh my god, it's a fucking spectacle. Okay,
it's stunning. It feels warm and inviting to live in
this home. What kind of car do they drive? They
drive X Y and Z and they love it. And
it has turbo speed and it's X Y and Z color.
It's the dream car everyone wants. And they feel good
driving it. They feel the wind blowing in their hair.
It's a daily experience. They just have a lust for life. Okay.
What about their relationships? Oh my god, they are in
the perfect committed, healthy, loving, kind, gentle, consistent, communicative, expanding,
heartfelt romantic relationship, passion, sexual desires, everything, full fulfillment. Okay,
write out about write it down. Write down your dream
relationship that this brand new character, this new version of
yourself has because you are now telling a new story
of who you are in your life and your life experiences.
What do you do in your day to day life
that's so amazing? Write it down. Maybe you travel, Maybe
you get to go up and take a run on
the beach, and there's a beautiful sunrise coming up right.
Maybe you get to travel the world. Maybe you get
to live in your favorite city and you're surrounded by
incredible restaurants and the busy night life. Whatever you want.
I don't know. Maybe you have your kids and you
live in the suburbs and you're just living out your
fantasy life life and it's so incredible, it's so uplifting.
You get to do all the things that you want.
You have a healthy, active lifestyle. You feel good every day.
Your body feels good, your body is sexy, your body
is thriving. Okay, your health is in tip top condition.
Write down this new story in this new book. And
why am I going into this freakin thing of storytelling?
Because every single moment that we are awake, we're actually
just experiencing the quantum field and its response to who
we identify ourselves as. And we have this self identity
crisis pretty much because we think we have to be
stuck on the old story. We think that there's a
gun held to our head. We think that we have
to keep showing up the way we used to. We
think that the past defines who we are. We think
that we are our mistakes and that we think we
are our past. We are not those things brought us here.
But that's not who we are. Are. We choose to
identify ourselves in any which way we want, a moment
by moment, So think of every moment. Think of today
or tomorrow when you wake up as a clean slate,
as a fresh start, because that's how the quantum field works.
So we're operating out of the quantum, not out of
the physical. We're stuck in the material, physical world, and
that's all we see. So we're like, oh, nothing's changing,
But you have to change energetically. First, you have to
tell a new story. Because telling new stories will change
your energetic frequency. It will change your emotions, because what
are emotions? Energy and motion. If I can start telling
a new La La Land fairytale freaking story, even if
I'm living in what I feel like is the dumps, Okay,
even if I hate my neighbors, even if I hate
my job, even if I hate my fucking husband, I
just hate all of them. Okay, I can start telling
a new story about my life. I don't have to
stick to that one. Because God gifted us with the imagination,
and the imagination is known as the dream faculty. The
dream faculty was only gifted to human beings. There's no creature.
Your dogs don't have the dream faculty. Lions and the
wild fish in the sea, they don't have the dream faculty.
Maybe dolphins, shit, I know they're smart as hell. Maybe
I don't know. But humans were gifted with the dream
faculty because we are made in the image of God. Like,
do you get that right? We're made in the image
of God. We were made in the image of the Creator.
So we were gifted with the dream faculty so we
can create new things. Not so we keep carrying the
same old story and punishing ourselves and handcuffing ourselves to
our past and tying ourselves up and saying, no, this
is as good as it gets. It doesn't get any better.
This is all I've known. This is how my mom was,
This is how my dad was. This is what my
ex told me I am. This is just all I know.
This is what the city that I was born and
tells me that I am, in the country that I'm
from tells me that I am. That's just how I
choose to identify myself. No, it's just a story. It's
a story, like as if you turn on a movie,
it's a story. Is if you're reading a book, it's
just a story. And you can read a new book,
and you can watch a new movie. You can do
all these new things because you're not shackled to your past.
As much as you'd like to fight for that to
be the truth, it's not. We use it as an excuse. Well,
you don't know what I've been through. You don't know
how hard it was for me. You don't know my
sob story doesn't matter. I don't care. The truth is,
you have all the power, and if you have access
to this information, you have the ability to change it.
You have the ability to pick up a new book
and tell a new story. And I want your story
to be so extravagant, so luxurious, so fucking out there. Okay,
if it sounds way too realistic, think bigger, go harder
with your imagination. Expand it more. Okay, make it more color,
more beautiful, more vibrant, more exciting, more luxurious, more expansive,
more gifted, more skillful, bigger, bigger, go bigger. You're you're
not stretching your mind enough. You're too realistic. Okay. Manifestation
isn't a realistic thing. It's not a topic about what
reality shows us to be true. It's a topic about
how we can create bigger things, better things, achieve salvation
from our own problems while we're still alive in this
physical realm because we can. So when I wake up
in the morning, what story am I going to tell myself?
Am I choosing the old one? Am I going to
pick up the old book in my hand and literally
put it on my hip and carry it with me
all day long? What a fucking burden? That is? Such
a burden, that's so heavy, that's so bulky, that's so annoying.
Get that book off of me. I don't want I
don't want to rate it anymore. I don't want to
tell any about that lay Mass story anymore. That story stucks,
That story hurt me. That story doesn't help me grow.
I've been stuck to that since day one. I'm over it, Okay,
So I'm every day I'm going to choose to tell
a new story about myself until I feel like it's true,
until I feel like that's really who I am, because
that's who I want to become. Okay, And if you're like, well,
I don't know how to exercise my imagination in that way.
I know I'm too realistic. People always tell me, Flora,
I'm too logical for this. That's not my problem. I
don't care. Go against your logic. Stop identifying with being
too logical. Why are you shooting yourself in the foot
like that? Be illogical? Please please expand your mind, be
more creative, be more expansive with the story that you're
telling yourself. So if you were to open up that
blank book that has your name on it, and it
says page one at the bottom, and you have that beautiful,
juicy pen that just flows so nice on the paper,
what are you going to write? What story are you
going to start telling? Because your whole life is just
the story you keep telling yourself. That's all that you
keep experiencing. So think of like the molecules on the planet,
Like everything is made up of these little atoms and
molecules and stuff. Right, matter, material is all made up
of the same thing. It's all vibrating at the same
exact frequency as you. So it's like the entire molecular
structure of the planet is just responding to you. It's
just vibrating out whatever frequency. You're choosing through your emotions,
and it's responding to you. It's showing you images and
experiences of who you are. That's all that it can do.
That's how the universe is set up. That's how we
were gifted with creation. Right. So, if I can change
how I energetically show up and how I respond to
things and who I identify myself as, everything has to change.
The whole structure of my life down to a molecular
level must shift. That's the law of resonance. Okay, So
if I don't know how to exercise my imagination, I
don't know how to think outside of the box. I'm
too logical, I'm too green. What can I do? We
can play the wood if game? Okay, and I love
playing the wood if game? What if everything goes right?
What if I do get that job promotion? How will
my life look then? How much can I start getting paid? Ooh?
What can I do with all that new money that
I'm gonna get paid? Oh? My god? What am I
gonna tell my family? They're going to be so excited?
How are we going to celebrate? Okay, start expanding your mind.
What if my business does blow up? What if I
do make six figures a month? What am I going
to do that? What if? What if I entertain that
side of What if? What if it all goes as planned? Actually?
What if it goes better? What if I make way
more than I thought I would make? What if my
business blows up to something so much larger than I
could have ever imagined? What if I'm blessed ten times
more than I've been asking for? Okay, what if everything
falls into alignment? What if I meet all the right
people along the way. What if my social media blows up,
but I meet all the right people, the right opportunities
start flowing in, and all the success story start flowing in.
What if my life just expands? What if I land
my dream house and I can afford it? What if
I move in there? What if I bring my whole family?
What are they gonna say? How are we going to
celebrate this new house? Where am I gonna live? What's
the location? What does it look like? How big is
the pool? How big are the bedrooms? How big is
the kitchen? What color is it? What if? What if
I do get it? What if I do land it?
Oh my god, this is so exciting? What if what
if I do get that new car, how is it
going to feel to drive it? Oh my god, I'm
so excited? How am I going to take care of
that beautiful car? This is so exciting? What if I
do land that beautiful marriage and I find my dream
partner and they're a high value individual that takes care
of me. What if they take me on luxury trips?
What if they give me my dream ring for our wedding.
What if we have a stunning, beautiful wedding and all
of our family shows up. What if we have a
beautiful baby. What if we raise a beautiful family? What
if it all goes as planned? What if it's even
better than I could imagine? What? But? What if I
get in shape? What if I reach that optimal level
of health I've always wanted? What if I do start
moving my body more? How would I feel? How would
I look? How amazing would the world respond to me
as I start to look and feel better in my
own skin? Oh my god? What outfits can I pick out?
Where would I go shopping with my new fine ass body?
How tight is my waist? How slim are my arms?
How toned are my ass cheeks? How fucking good? Do
I look when I look in the mirror? Oh my god?
What if I do get that? What if I achieve it?
What if it comes quicker than I could imagine? What
if working out wasn't even hard. What if I could
find a great nutrition plan that I really enjoy it
and my body responds well to it. What if what
if it all feels really good? What if it turns
out so much better than I imagined. What if the world
treats me better tomorrow? Okay? What if everything goes well tomorrow?
What if life is so much better than this. What
if I can get everything that I want? What would
I do with it? What type of a person would
I become? What if? What if it all plays out properly?
What if I get even better than I expected? What
if Start expanding your mind? Because all we ever do
is think about what if I fail? What if I lose?
What if they reject me, What if they don't pick me?
What if the job never calls me back and they
pick someone else? So we always entertain the wrong side
of what if. So we shrink our imagination, We shrink
our ability to create something new, because we're always like,
what if I fucking suck. What if I don't win?
What if they hate me? What if they're gonna judge me?
What if they what if they wouldn't What are they
gonna say about me if I show up on social media?
Oh my god? What am I? What are the people
back home gonna think about me? It's so embarrassing. Why
do we only entertain that side of what if? And
we tell stories to ourselves? Okay, so what if you
told a new story? Think of how good it can
actually go for you if you let go of the
old book, if you burn it to the fucking ground,
and you stop asking yourself what if I fail? And
you start telling yourself what if I win? And then
playing out those scenarios and writing them down and speaking
them out loud and feeling them and visualizing them. What
if you start to do that? Guess what? I already
know the answer. There is no what if? It's that
That's exactly what will happen to you. I already know
the answer because I've been playing it out every day,
and I see my clients doing it all the time.
They choose the right side of what if They tell
a new story, They release the past, They say fuck
the old me. I don't care. I refuse to show
up that way anymore. I don't even like that version
of me. So I'm gonna play on the right side
of what if. I'm gonna be so delusional. I'm gonna
throw logic out the window. I'm gonna get better at
telling new stories. I'm gonna choose new emotions and choose
to respond to my reality in a new way through
a new story, a new identity. I choose to elevate
myself every day. It's a conscious effort, and I see
them playing out new realities. New business is blowing up,
people making six to seven figures. I'm watching my clients
turn into nearly millionaires. I'm like, oh my god, you
guys are getting a hang of this so quickly. I'm
watching people getting married, getting proposed to Okay, losing a
fuck ton of weight. We just had someone tell us
in the academy she lost twenty pounds in just two
months of regulating her nervous system the right way and
telling herself new stories in the academy, twenty pounds in
just two months. She just changed her story. She's like,
I don't want to be the old man anymore. I
don't like that story. I don't like holding that heavy
book over my head. Why do I need to keep
doing that? You don't. You're so free. You're actually so
free that you choose your own bondage. You're so free
that you choose your own problems. That's how free you are.
You have the ability to pick. You have the freedom
of choice. Okay, you have free will. We're all grown
ups here, we're all adults. We can choose new things.
We're not tied to the past. And it like breaks
my heart because I see so many people with so
much potential and they squander it because they're like, well,
I know my familiar story, and I'm gonna cling to it,
and I'm gonna make excuses as to why I cling
to it because it's all I know. It's the familiar.
But there's the beautiful unknown right out there. It's right
in front of you. The unknown is where magic happens.
The unknown is where you tell a new story. The
unknown is where you can act in a new way.
The unknown is where you can respond emotionally in a
new way. Okay, when you step into the unknown, you
become a new you, a better you. But you're like, no,
it's too hard, it's the unfamiliar. I know my story
and I'm gonna just keep telling it because that's who
I am. And you don't know how hard it's been
for me, and you don't know my struggles. I can't
just change. And then you fight to stay the same,
You make arguments to stay the same. You want to
carry around the struggle, and I want you to let
it go. I'm asking you to release it from your
clutches and just free yourself from it. And if people
are like, damn, you changed, and they want you to
say the same, they want you struggling with them, It's okay.
It's okay. You're gonna become the example they follow later on.
So don't worry about all those people. They are like, Damn,
they changed. Who do they think they are? They're just
gonna act like a different person. They're gonna just try
new things. They're gonna start a new adventure. They're gonna
move out of this state. How could they? Who do
they think they are? Let them? Let them. They're gonna
follow later on. Trust me, they're gonna be so inspired
by your changes that they're gonna ask you, how the
fuck did you do it? How did you do it? Okay,
so first they make fun of you, then they ask
you how you did it? And I keep experiencing that too,
So don't worry. But you got to be the change
that you wish to experience. You've got to show up
and tell a new story. So when you wake up
in the mornings and you grab that book, you grab
that journal with the blank page page one, what are
you choosing to tell? What is the story? What is
the character? How are you developing yourself? What are you
using your imagination for? Are you playing the what if
game in the right way? Or are you going to
cling to your failure? Are you going to cling to
your mistakes? Are you going to cling to your fear?
Because you really don't have to, you don't like you
can throw that version away now. So if you normally
have like a hysterical response to something, you can tell
yourself today, I'm not going to respond that way anymore.
And if someone says something to you that you don't like,
you're going to choose a new reaction. You're not gonna
lash out on them. You're not going to internalize the
pain of why would they think something bad about you?
You're going to just smile at them and walk away.
Just choose new reactions in your life. Choose a new character. Okay,
who do you want to embody? No one is holding
you back from embodying them and from telling that new
character story, that new fairy tale. You just got to
be a little bit more self aware of all the
stories going on in your brain twenty four seventy. Because
your brain doesn't shut up, your brain can bully you.
So you have to be the person that says no, no, no,
hold on. I'm more self aware now. I'm not going
mindless to my thoughts anymore. I'm going to rewire them.
I'm going to see this event in a new perspective.
I'm going to see this person in a different light.
I'm going to look at the circumstance and flip it
so that it's in my favor. I'm going to start
reacting different. Okay. Our nervous system, obviously, is what is
in control of our emotion. So if you're not using
nervous system regulations to start telling yourself these new stories,
you're really missing out. That's like the secret sauce right there,
is regulating the nervous system when the old pattern shows up.
So it's like sticking a fork into the hamster wheel,
and the hamster wheel must stop so the hamster can
jump off. So when the pattern is like it's the
racing thoughts in your mind, of failure, of rejection. You
have to regulate the nervous system, and then you can
tell the new story, the new story of your new
fairy tale life, the new character development that you're creating
for yourself, the wild imagination. Okay, all the beautiful things
you're accomplishing and receiving. That is how you're going to
start training your body into a brand new emotional response
and changing who you are down on a quantum level.
Because remember, we're not operating out of a three D world,
out of a physical world. We're operating from a quantum level.
So everything is just a response to who we are
choosing to be. So don't forget that. Okay, don't go
mindless to your thoughts. Be so self aware of these stories.
Every day is just a new story. You're just telling
yourself stories. That that's what our whole life is. It's
a compilation of stories. And then the stories can't change
because then it's a compilation of memories. And then we
just hold on to that instead of just making new ones. Right,
So that's we use manifestation protocols to create memories of
the future, so we can actually change the future, change
what we are creating for ourselves because we are mating
the image of God. We are conscious creators. It's not
an accident, it's not a mistake. It's not like, oh,
it's only for certain type of people. No, no, no,
it's all of humanity that can do this. You have
all the power. You are the operant power. Don't forget that.
Don't go mindless to your ability to create heaven on
earth for yourself. Ever. Again, thank you guys so much
for tuning in to this last episode of season four.
We will be back again next year with season five
of your Manifesting Bestie podcast