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<v Speaker 4>here with a well deserved encore of an episode that

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<v Speaker 4>in the show notes. But onto this chat that I love. Okay, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>it's your fourth cousin twice removed. Ali Ward back with

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<v Speaker 4>a familial historical episode of Ologies. So you were here

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<v Speaker 4>because people made babies with each other, and out of

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<v Speaker 4>all of the game eats, in all of the conats,

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<v Speaker 4>you became a collection of molecules, and you're suspended in

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<v Speaker 4>a web of family. Even a cockroach technically has grandparents

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<v Speaker 4>and cousin. Is that weird? Your cat might have an uncle,

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<v Speaker 4>And if you have children, gaze at them. They may

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<v Speaker 4>have children who have children, And then those children's might

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<v Speaker 4>not even know your damn name. They'll just know you're dead.

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<v Speaker 4>But before we get into it, first, a quick thank

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<v Speaker 4>as this Fresh twenty twenty six to one from Birds

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<v Speaker 4>for Brains, who wrote not a single uninteresting episode in

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<v Speaker 4>thank you for letting us change your life. Okay, genealogy

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<v Speaker 4>the first topic ever to not be an ology. Look

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<v Speaker 4>at it, genealogy? What is this? The Berenstain bears, it's

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<v Speaker 4>an allergy? What the heck man? So genealogy comes from

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<v Speaker 4>the root world gena meaning to give birth to you,

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<v Speaker 4>like genesis, and genealogy is not the study of genetics

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<v Speaker 4>and how DNA works. That's just called genetics. So this

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<v Speaker 4>was news to me. Now, genealogy is the tracing of

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<v Speaker 4>family origins, and in Old English it was called folk talou,

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<v Speaker 4>meaning folk tales, but the allergy and not ology is

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<v Speaker 4>because the O analogies is borrowed from the first word anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>So this week's alogist, I suppose, has been in this

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<v Speaker 4>field for three decades, starting as a personal passion that

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<v Speaker 4>just consumed him into making it a job. And I

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<v Speaker 4>was introduced to him by someone who worked to publish

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<v Speaker 4>his latest book, which is called sixteen nineteen twenty Africans,

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<v Speaker 4>and I immediately ordered the book. I was so happy

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<v Speaker 4>he was down to pop into a sound booth in

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<v Speaker 4>Portland to chat with me about his passion tracing family

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<v Speaker 4>histories and chasing down records, and also about mystery novels

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<v Speaker 4>and capes. Questions you should ask your relatives us history

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<v Speaker 4>and how we treat the past, how to heal from

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<v Speaker 4>our individual legacies, the joy of cracking a case, DNA tests, technology,

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<v Speaker 4>brunch revelations, and how everywhere you look there's family. So

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<v Speaker 4>pull up a chair and absorb the stories of two

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<v Speaker 4>time author Total Peach, distant relative to Tom Hanks and

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<v Speaker 4>perhaps your relative as well, genealogist Stephen Hanks. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 4>you get that with a lot of Steven's.

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<v Speaker 5>I do I do. My name is show with a

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<v Speaker 5>pH as you probably noticed them. But when it was

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<v Speaker 5>funny when I introduced myself, they say, Steve. Okay, Steve,

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<v Speaker 5>nice to reach you. Yeah, Steve, Steven.

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<v Speaker 4>And now you are a genealogist. Yes, and you've been

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<v Speaker 4>a genealogist for quite a while.

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<v Speaker 5>Now, yeah. I started like in eighty nine. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, God, how old was I? I was, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>about thirty years old. And that's I got the bug.

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<v Speaker 5>I was over at my dad's house that day and

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<v Speaker 5>summer July, and he was watching the baseball game and

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<v Speaker 5>he handed me this letter that he got from a

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<v Speaker 5>cousin in Kansas, and he says, read this. And of

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<v Speaker 5>course I didn't know anything about my family's history, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just a kid growing up for then, and so

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<v Speaker 5>he shows me this letter. I started reading. It's an

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<v Speaker 5>obituary of a newspaper, and all these relatives and names

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<v Speaker 5>are listed in this obituary. And saw my dad's side

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<v Speaker 5>of the family, and I just said, wow, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know who these people are. And that's what that's what

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<v Speaker 5>got HA started. Right there. I said, I got to

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<v Speaker 5>find out who these people are. I got to find

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<v Speaker 5>out about the history of my family. And so that's

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<v Speaker 5>how it got started eighty nine.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and what was the first thing you did? Back

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<v Speaker 4>in eighty nine, we had libraries and microfiche and the

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<v Speaker 4>Dewey dustmal system microfilm readers.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, the microfish totally totally, no Internet, no clicking of

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<v Speaker 5>the mouse. You know. It was old school all the way.

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<v Speaker 4>And old school ways involved making the two to three

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<v Speaker 4>hour drive from Portland to Seattle's National Archives and that

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<v Speaker 4>houses fifty eight thousand cubic feet of records. That's a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of records all about the Pacific Northwest for Oregon, Idaho,

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<v Speaker 4>Washington and now Alaska. But just in the past few weeks,

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<v Speaker 4>this is breaking news. Historians are rightly poed that the

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<v Speaker 4>mean moving all of those records of the Pacific Northwest

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<v Speaker 4>to Missouri or California, making the journey for people much longer.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's face it, mostly impossible, and no, you can't just

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<v Speaker 4>jump on the information super Highway. A lot of those

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<v Speaker 4>ledgers and records haven't even been digitized. So genealogy research

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<v Speaker 4>like family trees, still has its roots in the past.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, when I started getting interested in this field and

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<v Speaker 5>wanting to learn more, I had to learn the rules

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<v Speaker 5>of the game and how the professional genealogists did it.

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<v Speaker 5>And so I learned about census records, tax records, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>land deeds and all that sort of thing, courthouse records,

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<v Speaker 5>and just on and on and on museums. So I said, well,

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<v Speaker 5>let me start with the census records. That sounds pretty

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<v Speaker 5>easy enough. You know, every ten years they have a census,

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<v Speaker 5>and of course they put a privacy restriction on the

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<v Speaker 5>first seventy years they release it to the public. So

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<v Speaker 5>the most recent census that was available to me at

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<v Speaker 5>that time was, I believe the nineteen twenty census. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>nineteen twenty. But they had no National Archives branch in Portland.

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<v Speaker 5>I could either fly to Washington, d c. While that

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<v Speaker 5>probably wasn't gonna work, or they said you could go

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<v Speaker 5>to Seattle, Washington. They have a branch there. So I

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<v Speaker 5>would just take off whenever I could and just drive

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<v Speaker 5>up three hours up to Seattle and just spend time

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<v Speaker 5>looking at the old microfilm reels and putting the old

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<v Speaker 5>microfilm on, cranking the machine, and boom, there they were

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<v Speaker 5>I found my grandparents in Manhattan, Kansas. I started getting

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<v Speaker 5>excited in nineteen twenty. And the genealogists rule, this is

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<v Speaker 5>the genealogist rural alley, is work your way back from

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<v Speaker 5>what you know to what you don't know. That's the rule.

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<v Speaker 5>Never do it the other way around. Never go to

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<v Speaker 5>what you don't know and try to work your way

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<v Speaker 5>up to the present because you don't know who those

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<v Speaker 5>people are in the past, right, so you don't know

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<v Speaker 5>what journey, what paths you're going to be on. So

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<v Speaker 5>start with what you know and work your way back.

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<v Speaker 5>So I found my grandparents' names. I said, okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>on the right track, and just started working my way back.

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<v Speaker 5>But it started getting tricky as you get, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>further back in time. And that's what even got me

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<v Speaker 5>more excited, because you know, I'm like a detective, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>like the Perry mat said, you know, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>just start looking under the rocks. And so went to

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<v Speaker 5>nineteen ten, a nineteen hundred census, and this was really

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<v Speaker 5>getting exciting. I finally was able to locate my great grandparents,

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<v Speaker 5>knew their names, and it just blew me away, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>found him in Kansas, and found out that they had

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<v Speaker 5>moved to Kansas from Mississippi. And the thing about that

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<v Speaker 5>experience was they came from Mississippi under a different set

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<v Speaker 5>of living as you as you know where I'm coming from,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, slavery, you know, kind of the slavery thing.

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<v Speaker 5>So that was a big chakaru.

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<v Speaker 4>But Stevens first book was twenty thirteen's A Key Tree,

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<v Speaker 4>A Descendants Quest for his slave ancestors on the Eskridge Plantations,

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<v Speaker 4>and he has such an amazing way of writing about

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<v Speaker 4>the process of genealogy through his own narrative and how

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<v Speaker 4>one discovery can kind of ignite another the.

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<v Speaker 5>Further you go back in time. I was able to

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<v Speaker 5>find them on the eighteen eighty census and the eighteen

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<v Speaker 5>ninety census, I guess was burned in a fire in

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<v Speaker 5>nineteen twenty one. So that's yeah, that's something that all genealogists,

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<v Speaker 5>if you're studying Greek, Italian, whatever you're you know, ancestry

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<v Speaker 5>is that's something that you have to live with. The

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<v Speaker 5>eighteen ninety census, it's gone forever. Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, Stephen told me that through the eighteen seventy

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<v Speaker 4>census he discovered that his grandparents lived in a little

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<v Speaker 4>town called Duckhill, Mississippi, hailing from what is now Montgomery County,

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<v Speaker 4>the same place that Oprah Winfrey's family is from. Small world,

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<v Speaker 4>but big deal, given that Oprah Winfrey is like the

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<v Speaker 4>closest thing this country has had to a queen.

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<v Speaker 5>There they were eighteen seventy June. Something. I couldn't believe it.

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<v Speaker 5>I couldn't believe it. There they were never met, these

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<v Speaker 5>family members, but these were my ancestors. And so when

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<v Speaker 5>I got to that point, I was just in hebit,

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<v Speaker 5>you know. But the problem is, you know, you going

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<v Speaker 5>beyond eighteen seventy is the trick for you know, as

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<v Speaker 5>far as African American genealogy. But I enjoyed, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>doing it for I've had many different clients and many

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<v Speaker 5>different people just even friends that I've done it for,

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<v Speaker 5>all types of different Italian, Greece, so forth. So it's exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>And you've established yourself as a genealogist. You've written multiple books,

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<v Speaker 4>you've consulted on multiple documentaries, and you know, going back

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit to your own history, were you always

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<v Speaker 4>someone who liked mystery novels, like detective novels? What did yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>was that going to be in your genes?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, Sherlock Holmes. I can remember as a

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<v Speaker 5>kid just staying up late at night and just watching

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<v Speaker 5>the Sherlock Holmes with who who was the guy that

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<v Speaker 5>to this day, and they were all over the country,

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<v Speaker 5>people asking me to do this, that, can you look

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<v Speaker 5>I finally got a really nice job that goes right

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<v Speaker 5>along with my genealogy. I'm working for the school district

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<v Speaker 5>here and yeah, I'm a record's clerk and it's amazing

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<v Speaker 5>how many people come in walk in or email or

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<v Speaker 5>phone they want to do research about this, that and

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<v Speaker 5>the other. And that's just right up my alley doing

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<v Speaker 5>they both together, genealogy and just doing historical research, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that's amazing, and you know. I know that you

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<v Speaker 4>chronicled these discoveries that you made with your family in

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<v Speaker 4>your first book, A key tree, and yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>tree or a key tree. You pronounced it either way.

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<v Speaker 5>tree that I've heard people say no Aki.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I know I wasn't good sure, so I

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<v Speaker 5>But I guess it's my auntie who she just reacally

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<v Speaker 5>passed away in Saint Louis, Missouri. But she is my own,

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<v Speaker 5>my mother's sister, and she would take trips to Jamaica,

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<v Speaker 5>of it, and I put it in the book.

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<v Speaker 4>So the Aki tree or a key tree, depending on

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<v Speaker 4>it bears this red fruit that in due time yawns

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<v Speaker 4>open to reveal dark black, glossy seeds and this yellow,

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<v Speaker 4>spongy flesh. And it's popular in Caribbean dishes. But if

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<v Speaker 4>you try to eat that sucker before it's ripe, your

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<v Speaker 4>impatience might get rewarded with the very self explanatory Jamaican

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<v Speaker 4>vomiting sickness. Anyways, let it ripen and then cook it

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<v Speaker 4>with cod and it's just supposed to be heaven on earth. Now.

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<v Speaker 4>Stephen's book The Aqi Tree has cipia toned photographs of

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<v Speaker 4>his ancestors and the silhouette of this tree behind them.

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<v Speaker 4>And he told me that his first book was narrative

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<v Speaker 4>like Alex Haley's Roots, but later he revised it to

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<v Speaker 5>It took about ten years to do the research on that.

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<v Speaker 5>And my whole goal when I first started out was

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<v Speaker 5>just to learn about my family on both my sides,

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<v Speaker 5>my father and mother's side, trying to like go all

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<v Speaker 5>the way to to Africa or anything like that, just

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<v Speaker 5>just learning about the family. But every time I would

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<v Speaker 5>go further back in history, I kept getting excited. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 5>This is getting to be interesting now. I mean because

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<v Speaker 5>as we all know, you know, Abraham Lincoln he ended slavery.

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<v Speaker 5>We know that in eighteen sixty five or eighteen sixty three,

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<v Speaker 5>some say, because the Emtancipation Proclamation, And like I had

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<v Speaker 5>mentioned here earlier. I found my parents or my great

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<v Speaker 5>grandparents on the eighteen seventy census. That was the first

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<v Speaker 5>time ali that African Americans were listed on a federal

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<v Speaker 5>census for the first time as far as everyone, because

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<v Speaker 5>and so now everyone was just you know, a regular citizen,

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<v Speaker 5>but if you want to go further back eighteen sixty,

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<v Speaker 5>well then you're going back into the old system of things.

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<v Speaker 5>to identify who your parents are and your ancestors. I

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<v Speaker 5>should say. Now, for some people, they have what they

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<v Speaker 5>call free people of color. I learned about that as

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<v Speaker 5>I became a genealogist. There were some people who had

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<v Speaker 5>the designation of they were a free person of color,

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<v Speaker 5>meaning they were emancipated or they were set free a

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<v Speaker 5>long time ago, maybe eighteen hundreds, and their family just

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<v Speaker 5>were free all the way up and right through the

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<v Speaker 5>Civil War. Everything. They were just cruising. They were free,

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<v Speaker 5>and so they never had that problem of being found

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<v Speaker 5>on the census record because their family had always been free.

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<v Speaker 4>Free people of color by the bye or herd to

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<v Speaker 4>a very painful reminder that they were the exception, not

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<v Speaker 4>the rule. Stephen explored the beginnings of the laws that

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<v Speaker 4>hundred years in his book sixteen nineteen twenty Africans their

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<v Speaker 4>story and discovery of their black, red and white descendants.

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<v Speaker 5>But in Hampton, Virginia, there was a little ship that

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<v Speaker 5>and some pirates attacked the ship and took about fifty

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<v Speaker 5>Africans off of the slave ship. And this true story,

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<v Speaker 5>and twenty of them came to the coast Virginia, Hampton, Virginia,

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<v Speaker 5>and they let them go. They traded them for food

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<v Speaker 5>and long story short, I did this book based on this,

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<v Speaker 5>and DNA is so interesting now too. Everyone has taken

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<v Speaker 4>Please see Finding Your Roots, Genealogy, road show, Faces of

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<v Speaker 1>See and she was hoping that, you know, her family

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<v Speaker 1>were good people and knowing like murdered anyone, And it

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<v Speaker 4>I looked into this further and a red hot poker

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<v Speaker 4>may have been involved, but we don't need to go

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<v Speaker 4>into it anyway. Part of discovering one's genealogy is facing that,

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<v Speaker 4>guess what, just because they're your ancestors doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 4>they're the protagonist of the story. So it's easy as

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<v Speaker 4>a white person to think that, say, Black History Month

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't involve you, But if you live in America, it does.

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<v Speaker 4>It involves all of us. And with knowledge comes context,

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<v Speaker 4>and with context comes understanding, and DNA tests are expanding

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<v Speaker 4>that knowledge more and more.

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<v Speaker 5>It is just phenomenal. And so I took my DNA

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<v Speaker 5>test and come to find out that I have some

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<v Speaker 5>connections to these first Africans. So that's what this latest

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<v Speaker 5>in time, it just gets harder and harder to locate

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<v Speaker 5>your family. If you were, if you're you know, if

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<v Speaker 5>your ancestry or your inheritance was slavery. But it can

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<v Speaker 4>And I'd love to hear more about your your personal

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<v Speaker 4>family discovery and what that was like for you when

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<v Speaker 4>you were tracing your genealogy, trasing your family history and

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<v Speaker 4>you made that discovery that you had obviously relatives who

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<v Speaker 4>were slaves in the South, What was that like for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow? Yeah, to connect it was amazing. I interviewed so

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<v Speaker 5>many different relatives, so many different cousins. Most of my

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<v Speaker 5>father's side had passed away, but my mom's was still around.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was just amazing just interviewing people. But then,

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<v Speaker 5>as we mentioned earlier, we didn't have the internet back

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<v Speaker 5>in those days, so you can't just get on Google

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<v Speaker 5>and you know, type in a web search and click

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<v Speaker 5>on a document and you know, print out your family tree.

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<v Speaker 5>It doesn't work that way. So I had to travel around.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't go fly, but I would get on the

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<v Speaker 5>ground bus and I would just travel to Mississippi to Kansas.

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<v Speaker 5>I went to Virginia, South Carolina, just interviewing people, going

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<v Speaker 5>to courthouses. And I'll never forget this day Ali September

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<v Speaker 5>twenty second, nineteen ninety four. I'll never forget that day.

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<v Speaker 5>That was the day that I took a trip down

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<v Speaker 5>to Duck Hill, Mississippi, to meet the great granddaughter of

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<v Speaker 5>the man who my ancestors worked for. It was deep. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>We corresponded over the phone and she said she'd be

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<v Speaker 5>told her about my book and that I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 5>write this information. I'm trying to research my family and

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<v Speaker 5>I just would like to know where my ancestors lived

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<v Speaker 5>and where they worked at the land and just everything

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<v Speaker 5>about it. I just wanted to breathe it, touch it,

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<v Speaker 5>smell it whatever. I wanted to get down there and

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<v Speaker 5>see that. She says, come on down. You just let

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<v Speaker 5>So I planned my trip went down there in September

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<v Speaker 5>nineteen ninety four and we met at the local bank there.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a little small town and we just embraced and

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<v Speaker 5>We're still friends to this day. Well actually her son

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<v Speaker 5>nineteen ninety four. But she just opened her arms and

418
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<v Speaker 5>we just I had to rent a car and I

419
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<v Speaker 5>drove up from Jackson, Mississippi, rented a car, drove up

420
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<v Speaker 5>the Interstate fifty five and got into town there and

421
00:24:13.759 --> 00:24:17.920
<v Speaker 5>she hopped into my car. She didn't know me from

422
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<v Speaker 5>Adam the first time we met, you know. She hopped

423
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<v Speaker 5>into the passenger side and she her daughter drove her

424
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<v Speaker 5>up there, and she tells her daughter, Okay, i'll see

425
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<v Speaker 5>you later on today, goodbye bye. She just she's that

426
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<v Speaker 5>confident to get into the car with me. A total

427
00:24:32.920 --> 00:24:35.720
<v Speaker 5>strange but that's the connection we had that day. It

428
00:24:35.759 --> 00:24:38.400
<v Speaker 5>was amazing. It's amazing. I'll never forget it. And she

429
00:24:38.559 --> 00:24:41.359
<v Speaker 5>took me to the old family site, the old plantation

430
00:24:41.480 --> 00:24:45.799
<v Speaker 5>home that her great grandfather lived in, and she took

431
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<v Speaker 5>me to the family cemetery and some of my ancestors

432
00:24:49.200 --> 00:24:51.920
<v Speaker 5>were buried in her family cemetery. It was it was

433
00:24:51.960 --> 00:24:55.240
<v Speaker 5>just amazing, and yeah, just sided out.

434
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<v Speaker 4>I was casually fully crying in my recording closet.

435
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<v Speaker 5>At this point, I just wasgan notes the whole time,

436
00:25:01.039 --> 00:25:03.519
<v Speaker 5>and that was the turning point, and that just broke

437
00:25:03.559 --> 00:25:07.319
<v Speaker 5>through to finding another generation of my family. And long

438
00:25:07.359 --> 00:25:10.319
<v Speaker 5>story short, ALLI went by the time it was said,

439
00:25:10.319 --> 00:25:12.440
<v Speaker 5>and then I was able to work my way all

440
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<v Speaker 5>the way from starting in nineteen twenty and went all

441
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<v Speaker 5>the way back to like the seventeen hundreds, oh, myneen thirties. Yeah,

442
00:25:19.880 --> 00:25:22.319
<v Speaker 5>I couldn't believe. I had no idea that I could

443
00:25:22.319 --> 00:25:25.799
<v Speaker 5>go that far back. But I had paper documents from

444
00:25:25.839 --> 00:25:31.079
<v Speaker 5>the courthouses and estate records that I just followed the

445
00:25:31.079 --> 00:25:33.480
<v Speaker 5>paper trail, you know, just like you know Perry Mason

446
00:25:33.480 --> 00:25:36.240
<v Speaker 5>and Charlotte Hols to follow the paper trail.

447
00:25:36.480 --> 00:25:40.079
<v Speaker 2>I heard you had a reputation for resourcefulness.

448
00:25:40.359 --> 00:25:42.960
<v Speaker 4>So Stephen followed those clues and it led him to

449
00:25:43.119 --> 00:25:48.720
<v Speaker 4>Virginia in the seventeen thirties and an archived estate inventory.

450
00:25:48.960 --> 00:25:51.480
<v Speaker 5>You know, when somebody dies, they have to do an

451
00:25:51.599 --> 00:25:56.519
<v Speaker 5>estate inventory of all your property, and they did that

452
00:25:56.599 --> 00:25:59.359
<v Speaker 5>back then too, nothing, you know, pretty much the same.

453
00:25:59.440 --> 00:26:05.000
<v Speaker 5>And so this person's plantation home that these this paper

454
00:26:05.039 --> 00:26:09.400
<v Speaker 5>trail pointing me to his name was Colonel George Eskridge,

455
00:26:10.519 --> 00:26:17.000
<v Speaker 5>and he had Africans that were working on his He

456
00:26:17.039 --> 00:26:20.440
<v Speaker 5>had a tobacco plantation. Tobacco was the main crop, I

457
00:26:20.480 --> 00:26:23.200
<v Speaker 5>guess at that time. And he had on his estate

458
00:26:23.240 --> 00:26:26.480
<v Speaker 5>inventory when he died, he died in seventeen thirty five,

459
00:26:27.279 --> 00:26:30.039
<v Speaker 5>they had to do a state inventory of all his belongings,

460
00:26:30.200 --> 00:26:33.559
<v Speaker 5>and of course, unfortunately that they listed you know, you know,

461
00:26:33.720 --> 00:26:36.880
<v Speaker 5>human beings, this property of we get that, you know,

462
00:26:36.960 --> 00:26:39.799
<v Speaker 5>that's how they did. But they were African names. When

463
00:26:39.799 --> 00:26:43.079
<v Speaker 5>I looked on the on the inventory, they were African names,

464
00:26:43.079 --> 00:26:45.920
<v Speaker 5>I couldn't believe it. And so through a little bit

465
00:26:45.920 --> 00:26:48.400
<v Speaker 5>of more research I was able to identify one of them,

466
00:26:49.279 --> 00:26:53.279
<v Speaker 5>and it was just it was just amazing, just amazing.

467
00:26:53.319 --> 00:26:56.519
<v Speaker 4>You've had a long history of going into you know,

468
00:26:56.720 --> 00:27:02.200
<v Speaker 4>musty bookshelves and microfision all the way up to internet

469
00:27:02.480 --> 00:27:09.240
<v Speaker 4>into DNA tests and you know, genealogy. The field expands,

470
00:27:09.480 --> 00:27:12.920
<v Speaker 4>it seems like, you know, every year with technology. And yes,

471
00:27:13.240 --> 00:27:15.720
<v Speaker 4>on one hand, you know, we learn that we're literally

472
00:27:15.759 --> 00:27:19.160
<v Speaker 4>like all related, but on the other it uncovers some

473
00:27:19.200 --> 00:27:23.400
<v Speaker 4>really painful truths about our histories and about slavery and

474
00:27:23.400 --> 00:27:29.720
<v Speaker 4>about colonialism. How do you feel as a genealogist that

475
00:27:30.039 --> 00:27:34.160
<v Speaker 4>can affect us emotionally. Do you think that can bring

476
00:27:34.240 --> 00:27:36.960
<v Speaker 4>up pain or do you think it can help heal something?

477
00:27:37.039 --> 00:27:38.079
<v Speaker 4>Or is it empowering?

478
00:27:38.960 --> 00:27:44.039
<v Speaker 5>I think that I think that initially it does cause

479
00:27:44.079 --> 00:27:48.599
<v Speaker 5>a little bit of pain and uncomfortableness because for some reason,

480
00:27:48.759 --> 00:27:53.559
<v Speaker 5>in our country of you know, America, the United States

481
00:27:53.559 --> 00:27:57.559
<v Speaker 5>of America, I don't think we've fully ever grappled with

482
00:27:57.920 --> 00:28:03.400
<v Speaker 5>what happened after eighteen sixty five. I don't think we

483
00:28:03.480 --> 00:28:09.039
<v Speaker 5>ever really had any discussions about race and you know

484
00:28:09.759 --> 00:28:12.799
<v Speaker 5>that topic. I just don't think we ever really dealt

485
00:28:12.839 --> 00:28:15.000
<v Speaker 5>with it. And because there were so many things that

486
00:28:15.119 --> 00:28:18.160
<v Speaker 5>came on right after, you know, okay, slave re entered,

487
00:28:18.200 --> 00:28:22.240
<v Speaker 5>everybody's celebrating Da Da Da, and then boom, we had

488
00:28:22.279 --> 00:28:24.240
<v Speaker 5>a whole set of other problems that came right after that,

489
00:28:24.440 --> 00:28:27.759
<v Speaker 5>you know, with Jim Crow and segregation and you know,

490
00:28:27.839 --> 00:28:30.119
<v Speaker 5>the KKK and on and on and on and on,

491
00:28:30.680 --> 00:28:32.720
<v Speaker 5>and so we never really dealt with it. And so

492
00:28:33.839 --> 00:28:35.640
<v Speaker 5>I kind of look at it like this here, It's

493
00:28:35.799 --> 00:28:40.279
<v Speaker 5>just like a person that's maybe has an addiction, you know,

494
00:28:40.400 --> 00:28:44.839
<v Speaker 5>maybe have an addiction with alcohol or drug addiction or

495
00:28:44.839 --> 00:28:50.359
<v Speaker 5>whatever it is. The first step is acknowledging that you

496
00:28:50.480 --> 00:28:53.920
<v Speaker 5>have a problem, and then you discuss it with someone

497
00:28:54.640 --> 00:28:56.839
<v Speaker 5>and you try to get help. And the more you

498
00:28:57.000 --> 00:28:59.720
<v Speaker 5>discuss it and you acknowledge it, it starts to heal you.

499
00:29:00.119 --> 00:29:01.000
<v Speaker 5>You start to feel better.

500
00:29:01.240 --> 00:29:05.599
<v Speaker 4>Stephen notes that South Africa's post apartheid public hearings held

501
00:29:05.599 --> 00:29:08.599
<v Speaker 4>by the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, which it was then called,

502
00:29:09.039 --> 00:29:12.839
<v Speaker 4>allowed victims of abuses and violence to speak out and

503
00:29:13.079 --> 00:29:17.119
<v Speaker 4>explain the physical and emotional impacts of apartheid, and it

504
00:29:17.200 --> 00:29:20.640
<v Speaker 4>also gave those who perpetrated violence a chance to ask

505
00:29:20.720 --> 00:29:23.559
<v Speaker 4>for amnesty and forgiveness. Stephen thinks that having a similar

506
00:29:23.640 --> 00:29:27.720
<v Speaker 4>healing process in America could lead to better understanding, compassion,

507
00:29:28.000 --> 00:29:28.480
<v Speaker 4>and healing.

508
00:29:29.119 --> 00:29:33.200
<v Speaker 5>If you study your roots and you find that you

509
00:29:33.359 --> 00:29:36.240
<v Speaker 5>have people that are in your family that are of

510
00:29:36.279 --> 00:29:39.480
<v Speaker 5>a different ethnicity or a different culture, embrace it and

511
00:29:39.640 --> 00:29:41.599
<v Speaker 5>get to know who they are, reach out to them

512
00:29:42.160 --> 00:29:46.000
<v Speaker 5>and introduce yourself, and you know because they're your family.

513
00:29:46.119 --> 00:29:49.119
<v Speaker 5>You know they're your family. And the DNA test that's

514
00:29:49.319 --> 00:29:51.640
<v Speaker 5>so popular now that people are finding that out more

515
00:29:51.680 --> 00:29:55.200
<v Speaker 5>and more, that we're all so more closely connected than

516
00:29:55.279 --> 00:29:58.640
<v Speaker 5>we ever have been because we're all related really when

517
00:29:58.680 --> 00:30:01.359
<v Speaker 5>you look at it, you know, and so it is

518
00:30:01.519 --> 00:30:05.400
<v Speaker 5>painful at first, but just acknowledging that we had a problem,

519
00:30:05.519 --> 00:30:08.559
<v Speaker 5>but that we want to move forward and just be

520
00:30:08.839 --> 00:30:13.160
<v Speaker 5>and be in peace. And that's one thing about doing

521
00:30:13.240 --> 00:30:17.000
<v Speaker 5>genealogy for me is that I have to look at it.

522
00:30:17.319 --> 00:30:19.880
<v Speaker 5>It is a little emotional sometimes, but I have to

523
00:30:20.039 --> 00:30:23.680
<v Speaker 5>put that aside and put that on one little compartment

524
00:30:24.440 --> 00:30:27.279
<v Speaker 5>and look at it from the perspective of this is history,

525
00:30:27.839 --> 00:30:29.559
<v Speaker 5>and I want to learn about history. I want to

526
00:30:29.599 --> 00:30:32.920
<v Speaker 5>learn about people. And because we're all the same, and

527
00:30:33.039 --> 00:30:35.759
<v Speaker 5>so if we do that, you know we're going to

528
00:30:35.799 --> 00:30:37.359
<v Speaker 5>We're going to be fine. We're going to be fine

529
00:30:37.519 --> 00:30:37.960
<v Speaker 5>the time.

530
00:30:40.920 --> 00:30:44.440
<v Speaker 4>How has the advent of you know, consumer DNA tests

531
00:30:44.599 --> 00:30:46.799
<v Speaker 4>changed what you do and how you research.

532
00:30:46.960 --> 00:30:49.359
<v Speaker 5>It's very interesting. It's a very interesting question. When I

533
00:30:49.400 --> 00:30:51.400
<v Speaker 5>first took the test and got the results back and

534
00:30:52.680 --> 00:30:54.559
<v Speaker 5>all these I had, like about I think it was

535
00:30:54.680 --> 00:30:59.680
<v Speaker 5>like two thousand, at least about two thousand connections of

536
00:30:59.759 --> 00:31:01.920
<v Speaker 5>people that were related to me. And they did it

537
00:31:02.200 --> 00:31:06.880
<v Speaker 5>from obviously from the highest ratio down to the lowest ratio,

538
00:31:07.279 --> 00:31:09.480
<v Speaker 5>and so I could look at my top twenty, you know,

539
00:31:09.960 --> 00:31:11.960
<v Speaker 5>and I said, wow, these are really close to me.

540
00:31:12.359 --> 00:31:15.400
<v Speaker 4>So Stephen has taken two DNA tests, and his father,

541
00:31:15.640 --> 00:31:18.279
<v Speaker 4>before he passed away, also took one, and their raw

542
00:31:18.480 --> 00:31:21.519
<v Speaker 4>data led them to the s Gridge family name he

543
00:31:21.680 --> 00:31:25.000
<v Speaker 4>was already familiar with, which validated the technology for him.

544
00:31:25.119 --> 00:31:28.359
<v Speaker 4>He was like, huh, this works, but sometimes results might

545
00:31:28.680 --> 00:31:32.920
<v Speaker 4>surprise you. Turns out that iconic Lizzo's iconic truth hurts

546
00:31:33.279 --> 00:31:36.720
<v Speaker 4>genealogical ripper, I just took a DNA test.

547
00:31:36.920 --> 00:31:38.880
<v Speaker 5>Turns out I'm one hundred percent.

548
00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:43.920
<v Speaker 4>That's one hundred percent her brainchild. So a London musician

549
00:31:44.000 --> 00:31:47.920
<v Speaker 4>with the handle Minalinas tweeted that exact line in February

550
00:31:47.960 --> 00:31:50.559
<v Speaker 4>twenty seventeen, and then it became a meme and Lizzo

551
00:31:50.720 --> 00:31:52.880
<v Speaker 4>liked the meme. She tossed it in a song, and

552
00:31:53.000 --> 00:31:55.599
<v Speaker 4>the original tweeter was like, uh, hello, excuse me, Lizzo,

553
00:31:55.759 --> 00:31:59.400
<v Speaker 4>that is my DNA joke. And some legal things ensued,

554
00:31:59.720 --> 00:32:03.000
<v Speaker 4>but fences have been mended. And fast forward to October

555
00:32:03.119 --> 00:32:06.279
<v Speaker 4>when Mina tweeted out quote, I just took a DNA test.

556
00:32:06.559 --> 00:32:09.000
<v Speaker 4>Turns out I'm a credited writer for the number one

557
00:32:09.079 --> 00:32:11.279
<v Speaker 4>song on Billboard. Oh it's well then as.

558
00:32:11.119 --> 00:32:13.359
<v Speaker 5>Well, and I'm getting ready to take another DNA test

559
00:32:13.799 --> 00:32:18.319
<v Speaker 5>here shortly because there are so many companies out there

560
00:32:18.880 --> 00:32:22.720
<v Speaker 5>and people are choosing which companies they want to do

561
00:32:22.799 --> 00:32:25.880
<v Speaker 5>it with. So either my cousins haven't taken the test

562
00:32:26.279 --> 00:32:30.240
<v Speaker 5>on the companies that I took it with, or they

563
00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:33.599
<v Speaker 5>haven't taken one at all. Or it could mean that

564
00:32:34.359 --> 00:32:37.920
<v Speaker 5>my family that I thought was my family, maybe they

565
00:32:38.000 --> 00:32:40.720
<v Speaker 5>weren't my family, you know. Yeah, never know.

566
00:32:40.920 --> 00:32:42.759
<v Speaker 4>If you take a DNA test through twenty three and

567
00:32:42.799 --> 00:32:45.160
<v Speaker 4>me say, but then you have relatives who have taken

568
00:32:45.200 --> 00:32:47.799
<v Speaker 4>it through like Ancestry, does that mean that you just

569
00:32:47.920 --> 00:32:52.079
<v Speaker 4>might be like not connecting because you're using different companies.

570
00:32:51.839 --> 00:32:54.640
<v Speaker 5>Exactly exactly, And that's that's the point, is that I

571
00:32:54.720 --> 00:32:58.480
<v Speaker 5>want to take another test through another company. Actually, I

572
00:32:58.559 --> 00:33:01.519
<v Speaker 5>do want to take it through Ancestry because I think

573
00:33:01.559 --> 00:33:03.559
<v Speaker 5>that a lot of more of my family. In fact,

574
00:33:03.599 --> 00:33:06.440
<v Speaker 5>I know I've heard that more of my cousins are

575
00:33:06.559 --> 00:33:10.440
<v Speaker 5>taking on the Ancestry one. So I want to get

576
00:33:10.480 --> 00:33:12.839
<v Speaker 5>on board and just see how I line up with that.

577
00:33:13.119 --> 00:33:15.759
<v Speaker 5>So at twenty three and meters, I've gotten a lot

578
00:33:15.799 --> 00:33:19.559
<v Speaker 5>of good hits and connections with that that did validate

579
00:33:19.680 --> 00:33:23.359
<v Speaker 5>that that this DNA stuff is for real, Because I

580
00:33:23.480 --> 00:33:26.279
<v Speaker 5>did know their names, and they did show up, and

581
00:33:26.640 --> 00:33:28.920
<v Speaker 5>they're on my mother's side, but not on my father's

582
00:33:28.960 --> 00:33:29.559
<v Speaker 5>side showed up.

583
00:33:29.640 --> 00:33:33.000
<v Speaker 4>How does that work? And I might have to look

584
00:33:33.039 --> 00:33:34.440
<v Speaker 4>this up, But how does that work with like the

585
00:33:34.559 --> 00:33:39.039
<v Speaker 4>mitochondrial eve and things coming down from the X chromosomes?

586
00:33:39.079 --> 00:33:41.559
<v Speaker 4>Like do we tend to find out more about our

587
00:33:41.680 --> 00:33:44.119
<v Speaker 4>maternal sides when we take DNA tests than we do

588
00:33:44.319 --> 00:33:49.039
<v Speaker 4>Paternal mitochondrial eve side note has become the pop cultural

589
00:33:49.200 --> 00:33:52.839
<v Speaker 4>name of the most recent known maternal ancestor that we

590
00:33:52.960 --> 00:33:56.279
<v Speaker 4>all share because mitochondrial DNA is only passed on through

591
00:33:56.519 --> 00:34:00.759
<v Speaker 4>maternal lineage. Scientists do not love this biblical name, as

592
00:34:00.839 --> 00:34:04.440
<v Speaker 4>it's misleading. From a narrative standpoint, Let's say, but this

593
00:34:04.839 --> 00:34:10.079
<v Speaker 4>mitochondrial eve is what's called an mrca most recent common ancestor,

594
00:34:10.519 --> 00:34:14.039
<v Speaker 4>and she can vary depending on genetic discoveries. So if

595
00:34:14.039 --> 00:34:16.800
<v Speaker 4>a more recent common ancestor lineage is discovered, for example,

596
00:34:17.239 --> 00:34:20.559
<v Speaker 4>it's a different mitochondrial leaf, but yes, all related, all

597
00:34:20.599 --> 00:34:21.320
<v Speaker 4>of us WO.

598
00:34:21.920 --> 00:34:25.280
<v Speaker 5>For a female that wants to do genealogy and using

599
00:34:26.079 --> 00:34:30.960
<v Speaker 5>the DNA tool in order for them to learn more

600
00:34:31.000 --> 00:34:36.119
<v Speaker 5>about their father's side, they need to try to see

601
00:34:36.159 --> 00:34:38.679
<v Speaker 5>if they have a brother they can take the test,

602
00:34:39.039 --> 00:34:43.320
<v Speaker 5>or their father or an uncle, you know, anyone on

603
00:34:43.440 --> 00:34:44.360
<v Speaker 5>the paternal side.

604
00:34:44.920 --> 00:34:47.400
<v Speaker 4>This side note is called a Y chromosome test, and

605
00:34:47.480 --> 00:34:50.760
<v Speaker 4>it's helpful to figure out, say, if two families with

606
00:34:50.840 --> 00:34:56.480
<v Speaker 4>the same surname are indeed genetic relatives. So ladies, surprise

607
00:34:56.519 --> 00:34:58.519
<v Speaker 4>your dad or brother with a DNA test. It's a

608
00:34:58.760 --> 00:35:02.039
<v Speaker 4>gift that just keeps get you information. And then of

609
00:35:02.159 --> 00:35:05.880
<v Speaker 4>course there's the mitochondrial DNA test you can do. Everyone

610
00:35:06.000 --> 00:35:09.480
<v Speaker 4>has their mom's mitochondrial DNA and this is helpful because

611
00:35:09.760 --> 00:35:13.960
<v Speaker 4>historically women's history can be erased or at least very

612
00:35:14.239 --> 00:35:18.559
<v Speaker 4>illegibly smudged by the taking of surnames. More on that later. Oh,

613
00:35:18.679 --> 00:35:23.519
<v Speaker 4>and you can get single nucleotide polymorphism testing, which scans

614
00:35:23.599 --> 00:35:27.360
<v Speaker 4>your DNA for variations in the CG and AT pairings,

615
00:35:27.679 --> 00:35:30.920
<v Speaker 4>and they'll tell you what traits or diseases or in

616
00:35:31.039 --> 00:35:35.159
<v Speaker 4>some cases parents you might share with folks in their database.

617
00:35:35.559 --> 00:35:39.079
<v Speaker 5>And that's another thing too about these genealogy the DNA

618
00:35:39.199 --> 00:35:44.960
<v Speaker 5>companies is they're always updating their results. The results get

619
00:35:45.079 --> 00:35:48.840
<v Speaker 5>updated because more and more people are joining them and

620
00:35:48.960 --> 00:35:51.960
<v Speaker 5>so they're getting more hits. The DNA results keep updating

621
00:35:52.199 --> 00:35:54.440
<v Speaker 5>and you get more and more people that join, and

622
00:35:54.559 --> 00:35:56.719
<v Speaker 5>you get new names that just keep popping up, and

623
00:35:56.880 --> 00:35:57.800
<v Speaker 5>so hey.

624
00:35:57.840 --> 00:35:59.519
<v Speaker 4>That's got to be the best email to get because

625
00:35:59.519 --> 00:36:01.320
<v Speaker 4>I get those from twenty three and me that'll be like,

626
00:36:01.559 --> 00:36:04.599
<v Speaker 4>you have new relatives because my family's Catholic on both sides,

627
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<v Speaker 4>which means there's a million of us.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh and you took your task through twenty three?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah I did, And yeah, I have so many relatives

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<v Speaker 4>and my dad's one of eleven, my mom's one of six,

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<v Speaker 4>so we got a lot of us out there. But

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<v Speaker 4>that's got to be the most exciting email to pop

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<v Speaker 4>up in your inboxes that you have new relatives.

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<v Speaker 5>Totally.

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<v Speaker 4>You've got to be like Jackpot totally.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>And I actually I told our listeners that I was

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<v Speaker 4>going to be talking to you today and they sent

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<v Speaker 4>in questions Can I ask you some questions for that?

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<v Speaker 5>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, great, like literally hundreds of questions, right, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>know everyone's so excited. Okay, but before we dive into

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, let's hop into your questions and so let's see

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<v Speaker 4>first patroon question. This was asked by Rachel Kasha, Jennifer

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<v Speaker 4>Tran and first time question asker Danielle Levoy. I asked

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<v Speaker 4>what's the deal with second cousins versus first cousins once removed?

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<v Speaker 4>Rachel Kasha says, the whole once removed hurts my brain

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<v Speaker 4>and I don't understand what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, wow, that's a good question. Well, I'll take the

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<v Speaker 5>first part because that's easier. Okay, the second cousins would

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<v Speaker 5>be like your you have your first cousin, Like say

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<v Speaker 5>you have your mother has a sister, which would be

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<v Speaker 5>your aunt, and your aunt has children and those children

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<v Speaker 5>would be your first cousins, cousins, cousins twice removed and

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<v Speaker 5>all that. I'm still trying to wrap my head around there.

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<v Speaker 4>If a genealogist who's like published several books and just

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<v Speaker 4>like a consultant for PBS shows, does it quite get it?

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<v Speaker 4>That makes me feel so much better. Yeah, okay, side note,

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<v Speaker 4>I looked up a float chart for this, and my

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<v Speaker 4>soul hurt, but I think I got it. So your

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<v Speaker 4>first cousin's child is your first cousin once removed, So

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<v Speaker 4>your first cousin's kids kids are first cousins twice removed.

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<v Speaker 4>So removed is in regard to generations. So same grandparents,

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<v Speaker 4>different generation. Now your second cousin, according to genealogy dot Com,

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<v Speaker 4>is someone who has the same great grandparents as you,

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<v Speaker 4>but not the same grandparents. So third cousins have the

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<v Speaker 4>same great great grandparents, fourth cousins have the same great

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<v Speaker 4>great great grandparents and so on, so that cousin removed

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<v Speaker 4>business is about generations. Unlike on my Italian side, feuds

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<v Speaker 4>blistering family shattering feuds. In my family, my dad's you know,

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<v Speaker 4>one of eleven, and then each of those siblings have

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of kids, and we just resort to levels,

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<v Speaker 4>Like my grandparents are level one, my dad's a level two.

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<v Speaker 4>That makes me a level three if I have kids.

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<v Speaker 4>And so when our family reunions, which are like ginormous

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<v Speaker 4>literally different colored t shirts, so you know who's a

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<v Speaker 4>level two and you're like, whose kid is that? And

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<v Speaker 4>you're like, I don't know, they're an yellow shirt. They're

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<v Speaker 4>a level four. So it helps us a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>people wanted to know about the reliability of sites like Ancestry.

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<v Speaker 4>Maggie Fraser, who's the first time question asker wants to

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<v Speaker 4>know about reliability. Michelle Minor, Lisa.

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<v Speaker 5>M.

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<v Speaker 4>Kendall, Burnell, Jesse Cole, Bennett Garber who's also a first

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<v Speaker 4>time question asker, Deanna one and Hannah h They all

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<v Speaker 4>kind of want to know can we rely on these?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, cool, good question.

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<v Speaker 5>Very good question. Yeah. I have heard of different comments

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<v Speaker 5>about different companies, and you definitely want to do your

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<v Speaker 5>research and you know, know which company, whatever company you

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<v Speaker 5>choose to go with, know a little bit about and

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<v Speaker 5>their ratings and how they're doing, how the people feel

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<v Speaker 5>about them. And I've heard some things about Ancestry pros

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<v Speaker 5>and cons, So.

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<v Speaker 4>I have heard that.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if it's true or not, but I'm

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<v Speaker 5>going to find out because I'm getting ready to take

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<v Speaker 5>my tests with Ancestry, so I will know. But I

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<v Speaker 5>have heard that they ask you different questions about, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>putting in a profile, and so you start putting in

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<v Speaker 5>names like well, this is my grandfather, this is my grandmother,

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<v Speaker 5>my great grandfather, and boom boo boom, he was born

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<v Speaker 5>in Maryland or you know, Jacksonsissippi, whatever. And if someone

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<v Speaker 5>else on the other another part of the country, they

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<v Speaker 5>go in there and they if one of their names

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<v Speaker 5>matches with yours just on the family tree, not not

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<v Speaker 5>the DNA part, but just just the profiles they seem

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<v Speaker 5>to they'll send a message back and forth to each

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<v Speaker 5>other that you might want to look at this person.

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<v Speaker 5>This person might be interested or might be related to

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<v Speaker 5>you just by the names that you put on your profile.

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<v Speaker 5>And so that's kind of something that makes you wonder.

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<v Speaker 5>Be careful because you may not have been able to

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<v Speaker 5>fully established those names that you're putting on your profile

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<v Speaker 5>if they really are truly related to you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>unless you have concrete proof, no problem. But if you're

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<v Speaker 5>a genealogist and you you know, you're doing the family

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<v Speaker 5>tree and you've been following the paper trail, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>the old school methodology. That's just what it says on

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<v Speaker 5>paper that these are your family But how do you

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<v Speaker 5>really know, you know, how what if somebody was had

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<v Speaker 5>a child out of wedlock, you know, so you know,

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<v Speaker 5>be aware because that could throw you into the wrong direction.

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<v Speaker 5>If just because you match another person's profile just based

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<v Speaker 5>on the names, that may not it may or may not,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, hold water. But but if you take the

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<v Speaker 5>DNA test and your connected with then you have something

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<v Speaker 5>to work with. But so I kind of was like, well,

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<v Speaker 5>if I take this ancestry test, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 5>put any names right yet on high profile. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>just wait and see who pops up first, and then

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<v Speaker 5>I'll go from there because I don't want too many people.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it might give me the wrong leads, you

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<v Speaker 5>know what I'm saying. So yeah, so yeah, do your

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<v Speaker 5>research and just kind of know what company that you

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<v Speaker 5>choose to go with.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, along that line. A lot of listeners like

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<v Speaker 4>Aaron jess Lynn, Maria Kumro, and Conchetta Gibson. Jesslyn is

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<v Speaker 4>the first time question ask her All asked about surnames.

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<v Speaker 4>Jesslin asked that there's mentions that there's a lot in Quebec,

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<v Speaker 4>Canada that forbids a woman from taking her husband's surname

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<v Speaker 4>after marriage, and ask are there any cultures or countries

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<v Speaker 4>in which women traditionally don't take their husband's name and

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<v Speaker 4>does that ever cause issues when tracing back families?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, yeah, totally. I have heard that too, that there

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<v Speaker 5>are some cultures where they is some maternal line and

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<v Speaker 5>the female just goes by her maiden name is the surname. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I would say too that that happens. That happens to

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<v Speaker 5>be a problem a lot in genealogy, not a problem

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<v Speaker 5>that cannot be overcome. And I have come across that

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<v Speaker 5>even myself in my own research. Say, I find a

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<v Speaker 5>person on the sensus and say her name is Mary Johnson,

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<v Speaker 5>just for example. But then if you go and you

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<v Speaker 5>read further in the other columns of Mary Johnson's family line,

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<v Speaker 5>it says that she's single, but then she has two

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<v Speaker 5>or three children in her household enlisted as son, daughter, whatever,

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<v Speaker 5>but they are her children. So then you have to

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<v Speaker 5>ask yourself the question she's single, but she has children, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>and then the children have different names. And so sometimes

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<v Speaker 5>I've had that problem where I'm trying to figure out, well,

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<v Speaker 5>Mary Johnson, if I can't find her marriage certificate to

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<v Speaker 5>show that these are her children from her ho, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know if she's going if Mary Johnson is her

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<v Speaker 5>married name, or if that's her maiden name. And so

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<v Speaker 5>that happens sometimes where you have it's a question mark

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<v Speaker 5>that is a really big challenge with genealogy trying to

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<v Speaker 5>locate the maiden names. And the best thing that most

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<v Speaker 5>genealogists are able to do is try to find a

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<v Speaker 5>marriage certificate, and if that doesn't work, then a death

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<v Speaker 5>certificate sometimes will show the maiden name. And if you

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<v Speaker 5>can't find the marriage or the death certificate, it's going

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<v Speaker 5>to be a tough one.

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<v Speaker 4>Quick aside. One study showed that in nineteen eighty, ninety

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<v Speaker 4>eight point six percent of American women almost ninety nine

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<v Speaker 4>percent took their husband's name after marriage, but that's declined

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<v Speaker 4>in recent years to about eighty percent. Now, what percent

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<v Speaker 4>of men adopt a new name after marriage these days?

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<v Speaker 4>Three percent? So this next tip is a revelation.

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<v Speaker 5>The other genealogists rule is look at who's living next store. Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>look who's living next door or even a few houses down,

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<v Speaker 5>because families tended to stay together. Families tend to stay together,

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<v Speaker 5>and so your family that you found on the census

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<v Speaker 5>might be living right next door to another family member.

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<v Speaker 5>And so it's just amazing when you find that connection

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<v Speaker 5>like that. And yeah, I've found that many times. I've

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<v Speaker 5>had that discovery and I was like, wow, I've been

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<v Speaker 5>I've spent two years trying to locate and here they

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<v Speaker 5>were right living right next door.

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<v Speaker 4>What were you there the whole time? And that kind

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<v Speaker 4>of brings me to a question a lot of people asked,

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<v Speaker 4>Anna Thompson, Conchetti, Gibson, Jesse, Dragon, Margaret and Baker, Rinny,

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<v Speaker 4>Chelsea A. Leary, Sarahjeane Horowitz and Larissa Lewis and Chelsea

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<v Speaker 4>are both first time question askers, and Laris asked, what's

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<v Speaker 4>the best place to start to actually look into family history?

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<v Speaker 4>What are some questions that we should be asking ourselves

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<v Speaker 4>and our family and professionals like librarians in order to

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<v Speaker 4>look into our history.

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<v Speaker 5>Great question, great question. They're all great questions. And the

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<v Speaker 5>first yeah, obviously you're you're, you're listeners, they're they're they're

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<v Speaker 5>the best. So yeah, first, yeah, So the first thing

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<v Speaker 5>to do when you want to get started on your

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<v Speaker 5>genealogy is, uh, you know, ask start assembling your family

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<v Speaker 5>tree and ask questions from your family if they're still living,

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<v Speaker 5>if your father is still living, or your mother's still living,

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<v Speaker 5>or grandparents, whoever's whoever is the most closest to you

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<v Speaker 5>that's still alive, even your siblings. Sometimes your siblings have

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<v Speaker 5>more of a recollection than you do. I know, sometimes

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<v Speaker 5>my brother be coming up with stuff I don't even remember,

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<v Speaker 5>and you'd be telling me yeah, and I said, wow,

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know that. So just sit down with a

835
00:47:41.559 --> 00:47:44.840
<v Speaker 5>pen and paper and just start, uh making a list

836
00:47:45.039 --> 00:47:47.719
<v Speaker 5>on the paternal side, your father's side, and the maternal

837
00:47:47.800 --> 00:47:51.400
<v Speaker 5>site your mother's side, and and then just start going

838
00:47:51.440 --> 00:47:54.880
<v Speaker 5>from there. List your parents first, and then list their parents.

839
00:47:55.440 --> 00:47:57.599
<v Speaker 5>Put down where they were born obviously if you have

840
00:47:57.679 --> 00:48:00.559
<v Speaker 5>that information where they died, if you can find the

841
00:48:00.639 --> 00:48:02.960
<v Speaker 5>county name of where they were born or died, that

842
00:48:03.119 --> 00:48:05.679
<v Speaker 5>even helps to find out what year they were married.

843
00:48:06.320 --> 00:48:09.320
<v Speaker 5>Like your grandparents, find out how did they meet each other.

844
00:48:09.480 --> 00:48:12.000
<v Speaker 5>That's always been such a fascinating question to me is

845
00:48:12.320 --> 00:48:15.599
<v Speaker 5>how did the grandparents meet each other or the great grandparents,

846
00:48:15.679 --> 00:48:18.280
<v Speaker 5>how did they meet each other? Because just because you

847
00:48:18.400 --> 00:48:23.760
<v Speaker 5>were born in Chicago, Illinois and you died in Northern Louisiana,

848
00:48:23.920 --> 00:48:29.280
<v Speaker 5>for example, how did great grandpa meet great grandma or

849
00:48:29.360 --> 00:48:32.559
<v Speaker 5>how did grandma meet grandpa? You know, and then you

850
00:48:32.639 --> 00:48:34.960
<v Speaker 5>find out, oh, they got married in you know, Atlanta, Georgia,

851
00:48:35.480 --> 00:48:39.719
<v Speaker 5>you know, and then that right exactly, that's the point

852
00:48:39.960 --> 00:48:42.639
<v Speaker 5>is what were they doing, there was their family there

853
00:48:42.760 --> 00:48:46.480
<v Speaker 5>in Atlanta, So write all that down where they got married,

854
00:48:46.840 --> 00:48:49.400
<v Speaker 5>because those could be clues later on down the road.

855
00:48:49.440 --> 00:48:51.960
<v Speaker 5>They may not mean anything now, but they might later.

856
00:48:52.360 --> 00:48:55.480
<v Speaker 5>And so just start putting a chart down, father's sign

857
00:48:55.599 --> 00:48:57.320
<v Speaker 5>on one side of the paper, mother's side on the

858
00:48:57.400 --> 00:48:59.599
<v Speaker 5>other side, and just work your way back on who

859
00:48:59.639 --> 00:49:04.320
<v Speaker 5>they're grandparents and great grandparents were, and just list as

860
00:49:04.400 --> 00:49:07.320
<v Speaker 5>much as you can, and then whatever blanks you have,

861
00:49:07.840 --> 00:49:11.639
<v Speaker 5>fill in the blanks by interviewing your relatives and you know,

862
00:49:11.760 --> 00:49:15.760
<v Speaker 5>the aunt and the uncles and the grandmothers and the grandfathers,

863
00:49:15.800 --> 00:49:17.519
<v Speaker 5>and try to fill those blanks in as much as

864
00:49:17.559 --> 00:49:20.880
<v Speaker 5>you can, and go to the family closet, you know,

865
00:49:21.280 --> 00:49:24.960
<v Speaker 5>or wherever, whoever's the one that's holding the records in

866
00:49:25.039 --> 00:49:27.960
<v Speaker 5>the family, you know, consult them. You know, there's always

867
00:49:28.039 --> 00:49:31.440
<v Speaker 5>somebody in the family that's got all the marriage records.

868
00:49:31.480 --> 00:49:35.800
<v Speaker 5>They've got all the pictures, the photographs, the obituaries and

869
00:49:35.880 --> 00:49:38.320
<v Speaker 5>the death notices and all that sort of thing, and

870
00:49:38.559 --> 00:49:41.880
<v Speaker 5>the birth certificates. So go to that person and just

871
00:49:42.400 --> 00:49:44.960
<v Speaker 5>plow through all that and write all that down, maybe

872
00:49:45.079 --> 00:49:47.559
<v Speaker 5>make photocopies if they'll allow you to. When you interview

873
00:49:47.599 --> 00:49:50.960
<v Speaker 5>you know someone that's really old old? What does that mean?

874
00:49:51.039 --> 00:49:54.159
<v Speaker 5>Really old? Sometimes I feel like I'm really old. But

875
00:49:54.559 --> 00:49:58.840
<v Speaker 5>when you interview a parent or a grandparent, I even

876
00:49:58.880 --> 00:50:00.639
<v Speaker 5>ask him. I said, okay, if I if I can

877
00:50:00.760 --> 00:50:04.159
<v Speaker 5>record it, Yeah, and I'll recorded, and that way you're

878
00:50:04.199 --> 00:50:05.000
<v Speaker 5>not missing anything.

879
00:50:05.159 --> 00:50:09.360
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, that's great's and you'll also like learn so

880
00:50:09.559 --> 00:50:13.599
<v Speaker 4>much about your family. Who doesn't want to learn more

881
00:50:13.639 --> 00:50:16.679
<v Speaker 4>about you know, people's histories that are right around them.

882
00:50:16.719 --> 00:50:20.119
<v Speaker 4>I think that's such a good bonding project too, you know. Yeah,

883
00:50:20.559 --> 00:50:23.199
<v Speaker 4>So treat yourself to a nice new notebook, threw a

884
00:50:23.280 --> 00:50:26.440
<v Speaker 4>pot of tea, and then sit down and interrogate a

885
00:50:26.519 --> 00:50:31.519
<v Speaker 4>loved one gently. A few people, including Beatrice Bella, Clava, B. Wilson,

886
00:50:31.639 --> 00:50:35.079
<v Speaker 4>and first time question asker Lizzie, for example, all wanted

887
00:50:35.119 --> 00:50:37.239
<v Speaker 4>to know about adoption, and Lizzy asks, my dad has

888
00:50:37.239 --> 00:50:40.039
<v Speaker 4>adopted and knows some of his biological family's background, But

889
00:50:40.159 --> 00:50:42.679
<v Speaker 4>what does that mean for our genealogy? Do we trace

890
00:50:42.760 --> 00:50:46.039
<v Speaker 4>the adopted family's history do we trace the bio family's history?

891
00:50:46.199 --> 00:50:50.960
<v Speaker 5>Both? Excellent question. I would say do both if you

892
00:50:51.000 --> 00:50:53.239
<v Speaker 5>feel like it, If you have a yearning for wanting

893
00:50:53.280 --> 00:50:55.559
<v Speaker 5>to know both, go for it. I know that in

894
00:50:55.719 --> 00:50:59.280
<v Speaker 5>my family my grandfather who I met. I never did

895
00:50:59.360 --> 00:51:02.639
<v Speaker 5>meet my father's parents, so I never did know my

896
00:51:02.800 --> 00:51:07.000
<v Speaker 5>paternal grandfather or grandmother. They both passed before I was born.

897
00:51:07.719 --> 00:51:12.719
<v Speaker 5>But on my mom's side, my mother remarried and so

898
00:51:13.679 --> 00:51:16.840
<v Speaker 5>her husband was always He was the one I always

899
00:51:16.840 --> 00:51:20.039
<v Speaker 5>called grandpa, but he was not my biological grandpa. But

900
00:51:20.159 --> 00:51:23.719
<v Speaker 5>to this day, he will always be my grandfather. And

901
00:51:23.880 --> 00:51:27.480
<v Speaker 5>so I did a genealogy search on his family. I

902
00:51:27.559 --> 00:51:29.960
<v Speaker 5>wanted to know about him and found out about that

903
00:51:30.079 --> 00:51:34.800
<v Speaker 5>he had Native American heritage from Tennessee. And you know,

904
00:51:34.880 --> 00:51:37.320
<v Speaker 5>I found out that he had a aunt, Minerva, and

905
00:51:37.719 --> 00:51:39.760
<v Speaker 5>she lived to be one hundred years old, and I

906
00:51:40.199 --> 00:51:42.599
<v Speaker 5>recorded that. I still have that on tape cassette tape.

907
00:51:42.599 --> 00:51:45.199
<v Speaker 5>By the way, I need to update that. So I

908
00:51:45.239 --> 00:51:48.639
<v Speaker 5>would say that for adoptions, why not look at both sides,

909
00:51:48.760 --> 00:51:53.119
<v Speaker 5>the biological and the adopted side. Absolutely, And for adoptions,

910
00:51:53.320 --> 00:51:55.800
<v Speaker 5>I've had people that have contacted me over the years

911
00:51:55.840 --> 00:51:58.079
<v Speaker 5>that have wanted to get help and try to locate

912
00:51:58.119 --> 00:52:00.440
<v Speaker 5>through biological parents out.

913
00:52:00.320 --> 00:52:04.599
<v Speaker 4>Turning over some hefty forensic boulders. I had a few people,

914
00:52:04.760 --> 00:52:08.440
<v Speaker 4>Julie bar Laura Merryman, Stephanie berherties and first time question

915
00:52:08.480 --> 00:52:11.039
<v Speaker 4>asker April Parry. April Pary written and said, I'm a

916
00:52:11.159 --> 00:52:14.840
<v Speaker 4>forensic scientist and DNA analyst more specifically, and our field

917
00:52:14.920 --> 00:52:17.519
<v Speaker 4>has been all abuzz with genealogy in the past few

918
00:52:17.559 --> 00:52:22.039
<v Speaker 4>years as cold cases are being solved using public database searches,

919
00:52:22.199 --> 00:52:25.440
<v Speaker 4>and April is curious what your take is, including some

920
00:52:25.519 --> 00:52:27.760
<v Speaker 4>possible ethical dilemmas. How do you feel about it?

921
00:52:28.159 --> 00:52:31.039
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's been on the news recently here. Some people

922
00:52:31.119 --> 00:52:34.480
<v Speaker 5>are kind of leary about putting their DNA information on

923
00:52:34.599 --> 00:52:39.400
<v Speaker 5>a website where law enforcement agencies can come in and

924
00:52:39.639 --> 00:52:42.639
<v Speaker 5>check into that. And they have cold cases where they're

925
00:52:42.679 --> 00:52:45.360
<v Speaker 5>trying to solve and you might know some information about it.

926
00:52:45.480 --> 00:52:46.760
<v Speaker 5>It's kind of scary, you know.

927
00:52:47.039 --> 00:52:47.559
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

928
00:52:47.719 --> 00:52:52.280
<v Speaker 5>That's a good question. If it can create closure to someone,

929
00:52:52.519 --> 00:52:57.880
<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't mind participating in in solving something, But of

930
00:52:57.960 --> 00:53:02.039
<v Speaker 5>course I wouldn't want anything to to turn back on METE,

931
00:53:02.079 --> 00:53:04.719
<v Speaker 5>you know. But I'm clean. I haven't done anything, so

932
00:53:04.800 --> 00:53:07.480
<v Speaker 5>I'm good. I have a clean conscience. But I guess,

933
00:53:07.880 --> 00:53:09.599
<v Speaker 5>you know, you have to think about that if you

934
00:53:10.320 --> 00:53:13.599
<v Speaker 5>you know, if you when you take a DNA TOS,

935
00:53:13.840 --> 00:53:16.920
<v Speaker 5>you're susceptible to whatever is out there, so you know,

936
00:53:17.199 --> 00:53:19.039
<v Speaker 5>just be careful. I know there's a lot of pros

937
00:53:19.079 --> 00:53:23.000
<v Speaker 5>and cons on that. That's that's a very very big

938
00:53:23.119 --> 00:53:23.800
<v Speaker 5>question right now.

939
00:53:24.039 --> 00:53:26.440
<v Speaker 4>It's such a new quandary, it's such a new ethical

940
00:53:26.519 --> 00:53:29.400
<v Speaker 4>dilemma that we've just never encountered before. So I think

941
00:53:29.719 --> 00:53:32.000
<v Speaker 4>a lot of people are still wrapping their brains around

942
00:53:32.239 --> 00:53:35.719
<v Speaker 4>the benefits of getting closure or apprehending someone versus the

943
00:53:36.280 --> 00:53:41.639
<v Speaker 4>how from a molecular level, invasive that is on you know,

944
00:53:41.880 --> 00:53:44.760
<v Speaker 4>some of your actual genes. So yeah, it's really interesting.

945
00:53:44.920 --> 00:53:47.400
<v Speaker 4>I think a lot of people are probably super ambivalent,

946
00:53:47.519 --> 00:53:49.880
<v Speaker 4>meaning you know, they just seeing the good and the bad.

947
00:53:51.000 --> 00:53:53.119
<v Speaker 4>And Rachel C wrote and she had a great question

948
00:53:53.320 --> 00:53:54.880
<v Speaker 4>and said, I've heard that out of a group of

949
00:53:54.920 --> 00:53:57.280
<v Speaker 4>three people, two black and one white, it is just

950
00:53:57.360 --> 00:53:59.239
<v Speaker 4>as likely for a black and white person to be

951
00:53:59.400 --> 00:54:01.519
<v Speaker 4>more related as it is for the two black individuals

952
00:54:01.599 --> 00:54:03.719
<v Speaker 4>to be more closely related. If that is really the case,

953
00:54:03.760 --> 00:54:06.079
<v Speaker 4>then what the heck is race anyway? And why does

954
00:54:06.159 --> 00:54:08.199
<v Speaker 4>it persist in modern times?

955
00:54:08.400 --> 00:54:11.199
<v Speaker 5>It is so true, that is so true. I mean,

956
00:54:11.599 --> 00:54:16.840
<v Speaker 5>race is just it's just a classification. I mean, even

957
00:54:16.920 --> 00:54:19.159
<v Speaker 5>now we have when we fill out forms. They have

958
00:54:19.320 --> 00:54:23.320
<v Speaker 5>checkboxes where you can mark whatever ethnicity you wish, but

959
00:54:23.440 --> 00:54:26.880
<v Speaker 5>there now they're becoming more where you can mark that

960
00:54:27.000 --> 00:54:30.840
<v Speaker 5>you're a Bible racial and even try racial. And so

961
00:54:31.280 --> 00:54:33.840
<v Speaker 5>that's a problem for the government. They want they want

962
00:54:33.840 --> 00:54:36.239
<v Speaker 5>to have solid data so that they know who are

963
00:54:36.719 --> 00:54:40.280
<v Speaker 5>who's in our country and da da da. But I say, hey,

964
00:54:40.400 --> 00:54:42.719
<v Speaker 5>why not just embrace all? Why pick? Why do you

965
00:54:42.800 --> 00:54:44.639
<v Speaker 5>have to pick one or the other? And you have

966
00:54:44.800 --> 00:54:47.920
<v Speaker 5>so many that are part of your DNA, so you know,

967
00:54:48.079 --> 00:54:50.960
<v Speaker 5>I haven't. I have to admit I've been just picking

968
00:54:51.039 --> 00:54:54.519
<v Speaker 5>the one African American. But there was a few times

969
00:54:54.519 --> 00:54:59.440
<v Speaker 5>where I did pick biracial because I am. If I

970
00:54:59.519 --> 00:55:04.880
<v Speaker 5>can remember the ratio, I am. Oh, I'll just round

971
00:55:04.880 --> 00:55:10.280
<v Speaker 5>it off. I'm about eighty percent African and about eighteen

972
00:55:10.320 --> 00:55:15.400
<v Speaker 5>percent European, which includes Scandinavian British, and then two percent

973
00:55:15.760 --> 00:55:19.039
<v Speaker 5>Native American and Southeast Asian, which blew me away. So

974
00:55:19.639 --> 00:55:21.239
<v Speaker 5>I'd like to learn a little bit more about the

975
00:55:21.280 --> 00:55:24.840
<v Speaker 5>Southeast Asian part, you know, the Philippines, Vietnam, top like that,

976
00:55:25.280 --> 00:55:27.880
<v Speaker 5>and the Native American part. Loved to learn more about

977
00:55:27.920 --> 00:55:31.480
<v Speaker 5>my Native American ancestry in regards to that race is

978
00:55:31.639 --> 00:55:36.760
<v Speaker 5>just a classification. Were all related. And it's interesting the

979
00:55:36.800 --> 00:55:39.920
<v Speaker 5>book that I just recently came out with sixteen nineteen

980
00:55:40.199 --> 00:55:42.440
<v Speaker 5>twenty Africans. One of the points I mentioned in the

981
00:55:42.480 --> 00:55:45.679
<v Speaker 5>book is that when those Africans came to Virginia in

982
00:55:45.719 --> 00:55:49.599
<v Speaker 5>the year sixteen nineteen, they didn't come as slaves as

983
00:55:49.719 --> 00:55:54.159
<v Speaker 5>we know it as slaves that come to our minds.

984
00:55:54.199 --> 00:55:57.400
<v Speaker 5>They were indentured servants and so they didn't have the

985
00:55:57.519 --> 00:56:03.519
<v Speaker 5>disigation of being slaves. What that meant was indentured servants,

986
00:56:04.280 --> 00:56:07.400
<v Speaker 5>just like those that were coming from England. They worked

987
00:56:07.400 --> 00:56:09.719
<v Speaker 5>for a certain period of time, they were indentured to

988
00:56:11.960 --> 00:56:16.119
<v Speaker 5>their employer, and so those Africans were indentured. Once they

989
00:56:16.199 --> 00:56:19.119
<v Speaker 5>served their time, they were given their freedom, just like

990
00:56:19.880 --> 00:56:24.239
<v Speaker 5>just like all the other indentured servants. Virginia wasn't until

991
00:56:24.440 --> 00:56:29.920
<v Speaker 5>seventeen five is when the slavery laws, you know, the

992
00:56:30.079 --> 00:56:34.039
<v Speaker 5>really hardened slavery laws came into being, was in the

993
00:56:34.119 --> 00:56:38.760
<v Speaker 5>year seventeen oh five. So prior to that, there were

994
00:56:38.800 --> 00:56:44.960
<v Speaker 5>a lot of African American families in colonial America, colonial

995
00:56:45.039 --> 00:56:48.679
<v Speaker 5>Virginia who were not slaves, They were not under slavery.

996
00:56:48.719 --> 00:56:50.880
<v Speaker 5>They had a hard life, yes, they had a very

997
00:56:51.000 --> 00:56:55.199
<v Speaker 5>hard life. Many of them were taking advantage of no

998
00:56:55.320 --> 00:56:59.079
<v Speaker 5>doubt about it, but they were not classified as slaves.

999
00:56:59.119 --> 00:57:01.960
<v Speaker 5>So what I'm going with this is that many of

1000
00:57:02.039 --> 00:57:04.840
<v Speaker 5>these Africans, as they had children and their children had children,

1001
00:57:04.880 --> 00:57:07.960
<v Speaker 5>there was probably about two or three generations of African

1002
00:57:08.000 --> 00:57:13.039
<v Speaker 5>Americans who were free in this country before and I

1003
00:57:13.239 --> 00:57:17.199
<v Speaker 5>got before in big, large letters, before the slavery laws

1004
00:57:17.440 --> 00:57:20.679
<v Speaker 5>were even enacted. And that's huge, and a lot of

1005
00:57:20.719 --> 00:57:23.079
<v Speaker 5>people don't know about that. And I didn't know about

1006
00:57:23.119 --> 00:57:26.079
<v Speaker 5>it until I took my DNA test and found out

1007
00:57:26.119 --> 00:57:29.599
<v Speaker 5>that I was related to some of these early African

1008
00:57:29.639 --> 00:57:33.320
<v Speaker 5>American families. And so what I also found out was

1009
00:57:33.360 --> 00:57:38.039
<v Speaker 5>that a lot of the African families that were free

1010
00:57:38.239 --> 00:57:41.519
<v Speaker 5>in the early part of our colonial history, they were

1011
00:57:41.599 --> 00:57:46.360
<v Speaker 5>intermarrying with the Irish, with the Native Americans, with the Germans.

1012
00:57:46.440 --> 00:57:49.480
<v Speaker 5>They were intermarrying, they were becoming a family. And so

1013
00:57:50.000 --> 00:57:54.440
<v Speaker 5>but many of the American families that are in this

1014
00:57:54.559 --> 00:57:58.960
<v Speaker 5>country today, whatever surname you want to use, Johnson, Smith, whatever,

1015
00:57:59.159 --> 00:58:01.480
<v Speaker 5>If your family's been in this country for you know,

1016
00:58:01.559 --> 00:58:04.519
<v Speaker 5>going back to colonial times or even the American Revolution times,

1017
00:58:05.079 --> 00:58:08.960
<v Speaker 5>chances are you are a mixed family chances are you're

1018
00:58:08.960 --> 00:58:11.639
<v Speaker 5>a mixed family. You know, in some way, shape or form,

1019
00:58:11.719 --> 00:58:14.719
<v Speaker 5>in one way or another in Native America or you know,

1020
00:58:15.440 --> 00:58:18.440
<v Speaker 5>it's because it's just a fact. And but that is

1021
00:58:18.519 --> 00:58:20.559
<v Speaker 5>not taught in our schools. It's not taught in our

1022
00:58:20.639 --> 00:58:23.599
<v Speaker 5>history books. That there were at least two or three

1023
00:58:23.679 --> 00:58:27.880
<v Speaker 5>generations of free people before slavery laws even were passed.

1024
00:58:28.119 --> 00:58:31.320
<v Speaker 5>Virginia as kind of what everybody looks to as the

1025
00:58:32.239 --> 00:58:34.760
<v Speaker 5>the the mother of the of the slavery laws. But

1026
00:58:35.400 --> 00:58:37.960
<v Speaker 5>and everyone other other states looked at Virginia, you know,

1027
00:58:38.199 --> 00:58:40.760
<v Speaker 5>whatever they passed, they'll pass. But yeah, there was quite

1028
00:58:40.800 --> 00:58:43.519
<v Speaker 5>a few years, quite a few decades before slavery even

1029
00:58:43.760 --> 00:58:46.679
<v Speaker 5>got entrenched, and so that that allowed a lot of

1030
00:58:46.719 --> 00:58:49.039
<v Speaker 5>families to have freedom. There was a lot of African

1031
00:58:49.119 --> 00:58:51.880
<v Speaker 5>families that were able to buy land. You can do

1032
00:58:51.960 --> 00:58:54.360
<v Speaker 5>that as a slave. You can buy land, you could,

1033
00:58:54.400 --> 00:58:58.679
<v Speaker 5>they could, they could sit on juries, they could barter

1034
00:58:58.840 --> 00:59:02.079
<v Speaker 5>in trade. It's just a lot of people just don't

1035
00:59:02.079 --> 00:59:04.559
<v Speaker 5>know the history of that. And so again there was

1036
00:59:04.599 --> 00:59:07.440
<v Speaker 5>a lot of inner marriage. A lot of the Africans

1037
00:59:07.800 --> 00:59:12.000
<v Speaker 5>were marrying Irish women and Scottish women because there was

1038
00:59:12.079 --> 00:59:15.039
<v Speaker 5>a shortage of African women and so there's a lot

1039
00:59:15.159 --> 00:59:19.719
<v Speaker 5>of intermixture in our society today. And so your listener

1040
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<v Speaker 5>brings up a very good question there that you know,

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<v Speaker 5>chances are if you have three people and if you're

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<v Speaker 5>white and the other one's black, you're probably more related,

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00:59:30.400 --> 00:59:32.320
<v Speaker 5>just as much related as the two persons that are

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00:59:32.320 --> 00:59:33.800
<v Speaker 5>of the same race. Definitely.

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<v Speaker 4>And was that a discovery also that you made in

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<v Speaker 4>your own family with your sister in law.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, my sister in law, Yes, absolutely, yes, yeah, my

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00:59:42.239 --> 00:59:45.679
<v Speaker 5>sister in law. This this blew me away. Is yeah,

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00:59:45.760 --> 00:59:51.840
<v Speaker 5>this is a perfect example. Is my wife's sister, which

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00:59:52.239 --> 00:59:55.880
<v Speaker 5>would be my sister in law, she has children, and

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00:59:56.960 --> 01:00:01.400
<v Speaker 5>we went to go visit one time and we're sitting

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01:00:01.400 --> 01:00:06.000
<v Speaker 5>around the breakfast table there in the restaurant, chit chatting,

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01:00:06.480 --> 01:00:09.039
<v Speaker 5>and my sister in law's daughter says, well, yeah, I

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01:00:09.119 --> 01:00:13.320
<v Speaker 5>can remember old grandma. You know. She was from Mississippi

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<v Speaker 5>and she used to cook so well, and I remember

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01:00:15.800 --> 01:00:17.679
<v Speaker 5>all these different dishes she would make. She said she

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01:00:17.840 --> 01:00:21.440
<v Speaker 5>was from Jackson, Mississippi, and her and I said, oh, really,

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01:00:21.800 --> 01:00:24.639
<v Speaker 5>well what was he What was her name? And she said, well,

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01:00:25.119 --> 01:00:28.800
<v Speaker 5>she was Grandma Grantham. Her maiden name was Grantham. I

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01:00:28.880 --> 01:00:31.840
<v Speaker 5>almost fell off my chair. I said, Grantham. That's that's

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01:00:31.880 --> 01:00:34.639
<v Speaker 5>a name that has come up in my family researched. Well,

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01:00:34.760 --> 01:00:36.480
<v Speaker 5>when I get back home, I'm going to look that

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<v Speaker 5>up because that's very interesting. I said, So maybe some

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01:00:39.840 --> 01:00:43.719
<v Speaker 5>of my family members maybe new you know, your grandmother's family.

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<v Speaker 5>So when I got back home that night and I

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01:00:46.480 --> 01:00:50.239
<v Speaker 5>went through the records, and I said, I'll be dog gone,

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01:00:50.280 --> 01:00:55.119
<v Speaker 5>but these my sister in law's children are related to

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01:00:55.360 --> 01:00:59.239
<v Speaker 5>me because because when I took my twenty three and

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01:00:59.360 --> 01:01:04.719
<v Speaker 5>meter tests, there was one genetty cousin that we had

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<v Speaker 5>a connection with. This was like twenty eleven, and me

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01:01:09.079 --> 01:01:12.920
<v Speaker 5>and her we had communication back for trying to figure

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01:01:12.960 --> 01:01:15.239
<v Speaker 5>out how we were connected. We couldn't figure it out

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01:01:15.280 --> 01:01:17.599
<v Speaker 5>a thing. But she sent me her family tree and

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<v Speaker 5>her family name was Grantham, her ancestor Gratham. It was

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<v Speaker 5>just amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>In his book sixteen nineteen, Stephen writes of the encounter

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<v Speaker 4>quote we might be related. We joked I was black

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01:01:28.920 --> 01:01:31.199
<v Speaker 4>and they were white. When I later got home, I

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01:01:31.239 --> 01:01:33.639
<v Speaker 4>looked up the information my sister in law's daughter gave

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01:01:33.760 --> 01:01:36.920
<v Speaker 4>me about her paternal grandmother. Turns out it wasn't a

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01:01:37.039 --> 01:01:39.559
<v Speaker 4>joke after all that my sister in law's children and

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01:01:39.679 --> 01:01:43.480
<v Speaker 4>I were related. So if everyone learns a little about

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01:01:43.519 --> 01:01:46.960
<v Speaker 4>their genealogy, chatter over waffles is about to get way

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01:01:47.000 --> 01:01:51.320
<v Speaker 4>more interesting. If you hadn't asked over breakfast, what was

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01:01:51.400 --> 01:01:53.039
<v Speaker 4>her name, you'd never would.

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<v Speaker 6>Have known that.

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01:01:53.239 --> 01:01:54.920
<v Speaker 5>You never would have known that, never wouldn't know that.

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01:01:55.280 --> 01:01:59.519
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if you weren't Sherlock Holmes, They're like, ooh, does

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01:01:59.599 --> 01:02:01.119
<v Speaker 4>that get your noteod up?

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01:02:01.760 --> 01:02:04.639
<v Speaker 5>And we embraced it. We just love that little facet.

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01:02:04.719 --> 01:02:06.559
<v Speaker 5>I mean, we loved each other even before we knew that,

1092
01:02:06.679 --> 01:02:08.800
<v Speaker 5>but that just kind of, you know, put a little

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01:02:08.800 --> 01:02:11.960
<v Speaker 5>spice into our conversations every time what you meet, and

1094
01:02:12.079 --> 01:02:13.960
<v Speaker 5>we can bring that up. And so it's just a

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01:02:14.039 --> 01:02:19.280
<v Speaker 5>wonderful thing. And you know, racist color is, it's just nothing,

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01:02:19.320 --> 01:02:21.960
<v Speaker 5>that's just a classification. We are all related.

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01:02:22.199 --> 01:02:24.360
<v Speaker 4>Steven says that the next book he's working on, which

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01:02:24.360 --> 01:02:27.039
<v Speaker 4>will be his third, will get deeper into how we're

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01:02:27.119 --> 01:02:29.840
<v Speaker 4>all related. And I realized just then that this episode

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<v Speaker 4>would come out near the start of Black History Month,

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01:02:32.119 --> 01:02:34.679
<v Speaker 4>which is in part a celebration of the birthdays of

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01:02:34.840 --> 01:02:39.159
<v Speaker 4>Abraham Lincoln and abolitionist Frederick Douglass. I told Stephen that

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01:02:39.280 --> 01:02:41.840
<v Speaker 4>International Women's Day kind of pizzes me off because it's like, Hi,

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01:02:42.199 --> 01:02:44.719
<v Speaker 4>here's your three hundred and sixty fifth share of the

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01:02:44.840 --> 01:02:47.639
<v Speaker 4>year pie. And I asked him if he feels that

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01:02:47.800 --> 01:02:52.199
<v Speaker 4>way about February, Like, this country was literally built by

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01:02:52.360 --> 01:02:55.159
<v Speaker 4>people of color, but it was conceived first by history

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01:02:55.199 --> 01:02:58.920
<v Speaker 4>professor Carter Woodson in the nineteen twenties and finally recognized

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01:02:58.920 --> 01:03:01.480
<v Speaker 4>by Gerald Ford in ninety in the seventies. Stephen says

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01:03:01.519 --> 01:03:03.400
<v Speaker 4>that he too feels it should be more than a month.

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<v Speaker 5>But I think it's just a good opportunity to educate people,

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01:03:07.599 --> 01:03:13.679
<v Speaker 5>all of us, even even for everyone. Everyone. When I

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01:03:13.760 --> 01:03:17.559
<v Speaker 5>say everyone, I mean including African American. Everyone to be educated,

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01:03:18.199 --> 01:03:23.360
<v Speaker 5>re educated about just getting along with one another. Martin

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01:03:23.400 --> 01:03:25.760
<v Speaker 5>Luther King Junior said that the.

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01:03:30.280 --> 01:03:32.320
<v Speaker 4>Sons of former slaves.

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01:03:31.920 --> 01:03:37.320
<v Speaker 2>And slave owner, we'll be being able to sit down

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<v Speaker 2>together at the table of brotherhood.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, we don't judge one another based on the

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01:03:43.039 --> 01:03:45.360
<v Speaker 5>color of our skin, but on the basis of our character.

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<v Speaker 5>And so that's what it's all about, is just embracing

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01:03:50.360 --> 01:03:53.199
<v Speaker 5>one another and just getting closer as the human family,

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01:03:53.440 --> 01:03:57.159
<v Speaker 5>because we need each other. This world is as it's

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01:03:57.239 --> 01:04:00.880
<v Speaker 5>ups and downs as we know, and we all need

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01:04:00.960 --> 01:04:03.480
<v Speaker 5>to stick together and just be civil. And I think about,

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01:04:03.639 --> 01:04:07.760
<v Speaker 5>you know, Colonial America and how when the first Africans

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01:04:07.800 --> 01:04:11.280
<v Speaker 5>came here. Well, I shouldn't say the first African America.

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<v Speaker 5>That's gonna be that's that's gonna be something coming out

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01:04:13.760 --> 01:04:17.079
<v Speaker 5>of my next block. Who were the first? But yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>those that came in sixteen nineteen, how they were just

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01:04:20.440 --> 01:04:25.880
<v Speaker 5>treated just like everybody else. And then the slavery laws

1132
01:04:25.960 --> 01:04:27.760
<v Speaker 5>came along and just took away everything they had. But

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<v Speaker 5>think of the Native Americans of what they've gone through.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, good, it's gracious. That's why I'm really interested

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01:04:33.039 --> 01:04:36.800
<v Speaker 5>to want to learn about that. But yeah, Black History

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01:04:36.880 --> 01:04:40.679
<v Speaker 5>Month is I think is still needed to as an

1137
01:04:40.719 --> 01:04:44.719
<v Speaker 5>opportunity to talk about things that we need to talk about,

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01:04:44.800 --> 01:04:46.440
<v Speaker 5>to acknowledge and to heal. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, Now from the biggest issues to perhaps some sillier

1140
01:04:50.519 --> 01:04:54.159
<v Speaker 4>or petty difficulties in the job of genealogy. And the

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01:04:54.280 --> 01:04:56.840
<v Speaker 4>last two questions I always ask every guest is what

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01:04:57.079 --> 01:05:01.639
<v Speaker 4>is the hardest thing about genealogy or the most annoying thing?

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01:05:01.800 --> 01:05:06.840
<v Speaker 4>Is it water logged books, anything that just is really

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01:05:07.000 --> 01:05:10.480
<v Speaker 4>difficult about genealogy or this just maybe hesters you at all,

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01:05:11.360 --> 01:05:12.760
<v Speaker 4>even if it's petty. Yeah.

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01:05:12.960 --> 01:05:17.760
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Well, the one thing that kind of irks me

1147
01:05:18.039 --> 01:05:25.440
<v Speaker 5>is someone will take their DNA test, they will log

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01:05:25.559 --> 01:05:28.199
<v Speaker 5>on to the website, they will download their data, they

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01:05:28.199 --> 01:05:30.719
<v Speaker 5>will click yes, I do want my information to be

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01:05:30.760 --> 01:05:34.679
<v Speaker 5>posted on this website. Here's my email address. And then

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01:05:35.079 --> 01:05:37.840
<v Speaker 5>when you connect and you find out that, oh, I'm

1152
01:05:37.840 --> 01:05:40.199
<v Speaker 5>related to this person. I've liket to know more about

1153
01:05:40.239 --> 01:05:42.239
<v Speaker 5>you because some of the names that you have on

1154
01:05:42.320 --> 01:05:45.280
<v Speaker 5>your profile match my family. And then you reach out

1155
01:05:45.320 --> 01:05:52.199
<v Speaker 5>to that person and they don't even reply back. That's

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01:05:52.440 --> 01:05:53.679
<v Speaker 5>that one just really gets me.

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01:05:55.800 --> 01:05:57.840
<v Speaker 6>I mean, like, why did you want to put your

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01:05:57.920 --> 01:06:00.239
<v Speaker 6>email address on there in the first place, you know,

1159
01:06:00.599 --> 01:06:03.360
<v Speaker 6>if you're not going to correspond, So that one, that

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01:06:03.480 --> 01:06:05.880
<v Speaker 6>one's kind of that one that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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01:06:06.519 --> 01:06:08.480
<v Speaker 4>So if you ever, if anyone ever gets an email

1163
01:06:08.519 --> 01:06:12.639
<v Speaker 4>from a long lost relative, reply to them. It's worth it, replied,

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01:06:12.920 --> 01:06:15.360
<v Speaker 4>do not sit on that email. What is your favorite

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01:06:15.400 --> 01:06:18.559
<v Speaker 4>thing about genealogy? What just like fills you with butterflies

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01:06:18.679 --> 01:06:19.920
<v Speaker 4>or just makes you love it?

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<v Speaker 5>Wow? The thing that makes me always love genealogy is

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01:06:24.760 --> 01:06:26.960
<v Speaker 5>being able to go on the hunt, go on the search,

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01:06:27.039 --> 01:06:31.119
<v Speaker 5>to try to find to find someone's brick wall, someone

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01:06:31.159 --> 01:06:33.480
<v Speaker 5>who you know. And what I mean by brick wall

1171
01:06:33.599 --> 01:06:37.119
<v Speaker 5>for any of your listeners is you just come in

1172
01:06:37.199 --> 01:06:39.480
<v Speaker 5>to a point where you can't go any further in

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01:06:39.559 --> 01:06:40.519
<v Speaker 5>your research.

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01:06:40.440 --> 01:06:41.039
<v Speaker 2>To break through it.

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<v Speaker 5>Somehow, you just you come to a brick wall. You

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01:06:43.760 --> 01:06:46.119
<v Speaker 5>just you've exhausted all your avenues and you just don't

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01:06:46.119 --> 01:06:47.599
<v Speaker 5>know where to go. You just don't know who this

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01:06:48.159 --> 01:06:50.960
<v Speaker 5>person is, where they were, where, who their parents were,

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01:06:51.119 --> 01:06:54.199
<v Speaker 5>or whatever the question is. And I just love to

1180
01:06:54.280 --> 01:06:55.920
<v Speaker 5>take that brick wall and try to see if I

1181
01:06:55.960 --> 01:06:58.639
<v Speaker 5>can go through it. I just love that, and you know,

1182
01:06:58.920 --> 01:07:01.480
<v Speaker 5>just taking on that challenge and then once you're finding

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01:07:01.519 --> 01:07:02.719
<v Speaker 5>you're like, oh yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks.

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01:07:05.840 --> 01:07:06.079
<v Speaker 6>Love it.

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01:07:06.199 --> 01:07:07.960
<v Speaker 4>Do you wear a cape? Do you have a big

1187
01:07:09.400 --> 01:07:14.119
<v Speaker 4>I've got a cape on right now, big mustache.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>So, find the most wonderful, smartest people and ask them

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01:07:23.880 --> 01:07:26.679
<v Speaker 4>about their great work, and before you know it, you

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01:07:26.800 --> 01:07:29.360
<v Speaker 4>might be sitting on a plane and discover the person

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01:07:29.440 --> 01:07:32.440
<v Speaker 4>next to you is your fifth step cousin in law

1193
01:07:32.840 --> 01:07:35.599
<v Speaker 4>four times removed, and you'll kind of know what that

1194
01:07:35.679 --> 01:07:37.400
<v Speaker 4>means and you might know them the rest of your life.

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<v Speaker 4>So to get copies of Stephen Hanks books, you can

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<v Speaker 4>go to the links in the show notes or ink

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<v Speaker 4>water Press. Ology's merch is available at ali war dot com.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you to Shannon Feltis and Bonnie Dutch of the

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<v Speaker 4>podcast You Are that they manage the merch. And thanks

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01:07:52.280 --> 01:07:55.760
<v Speaker 4>to Aaron Talbot for admitting the ologies podcast Facebook group.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you jareded Sleeper of the mental health podcast Make

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<v Speaker 4>Good Bad Brain for the assistant editing, and of course

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01:08:02.000 --> 01:08:04.000
<v Speaker 4>to a guy who's like a bro, Stephen Ray Morris

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01:08:04.039 --> 01:08:06.639
<v Speaker 4>who hosts the per cast and see Jurassic Right, which

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01:08:06.679 --> 01:08:09.639
<v Speaker 4>are about kiddies and dinosaurs. Nick Thorburn of the band

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01:08:09.719 --> 01:08:12.800
<v Speaker 4>Islands wrote and performed the theme music. And you know,

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<v Speaker 4>if you stick around past the credits, you get a secret.

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01:08:16.199 --> 01:08:19.319
<v Speaker 4>And this week I'm gonna tell you I drove to

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01:08:19.439 --> 01:08:21.119
<v Speaker 4>an ex boyfriend's house in the middle of the night.

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01:08:21.840 --> 01:08:25.000
<v Speaker 4>We dated for like four months a decade ago. But

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<v Speaker 4>in the parking lot of the apartment complex, I remember

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01:08:27.600 --> 01:08:31.279
<v Speaker 4>there was a lemon tree that was overloaded with fruit

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01:08:31.439 --> 01:08:34.199
<v Speaker 4>way back then. And this was not just any lemonry.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a Meyer lemon tree, which we all know

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01:08:35.880 --> 01:08:39.399
<v Speaker 4>has like way better lemons. Regular lemons are like a

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01:08:39.439 --> 01:08:42.439
<v Speaker 4>mounts Bar. Meyer lemons They're like an almond Troy, They're

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01:08:42.600 --> 01:08:46.079
<v Speaker 4>just better. I think technically there's some type of orange,

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<v Speaker 4>but the point is from memory. I drove through the

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01:08:49.159 --> 01:08:51.600
<v Speaker 4>Lley Hills alone at ten pm. I felt like such

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01:08:51.600 --> 01:08:53.800
<v Speaker 4>a creep and I found the side street and the

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01:08:53.920 --> 01:08:58.479
<v Speaker 4>lemon tree was still there, with literally hundreds of Meyer lemons.

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01:08:58.800 --> 01:09:01.439
<v Speaker 4>So I took maybe like eight or ten. I put

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01:09:01.520 --> 01:09:04.159
<v Speaker 4>him in a hat and I ran back to my car. Now,

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01:09:04.239 --> 01:09:07.319
<v Speaker 4>granted he hasn't lived there in like ten years, but

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01:09:07.439 --> 01:09:11.119
<v Speaker 4>it still felt dangerous and schevy and very thrilling to

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01:09:11.239 --> 01:09:13.720
<v Speaker 4>have a bowl of the best lemons on my counter.

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty twenty six, Alley here again, I kid you not.

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<v Speaker 4>I happen to go back to that tree this weekend.

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01:09:19.439 --> 01:09:22.359
<v Speaker 4>I hadn't been in like years. I got myself so

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<v Speaker 4>many lemons the tree was stuffed with them. Also, thank

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<v Speaker 4>you to managing director Susan Hale, scheduling producer Noel Dilworth,

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<v Speaker 4>and editors Jake Chafe and Mercedes Maitland for helping the

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<v Speaker 4>show these days. But yes, back to our secret from them. God,

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<v Speaker 4>I love myer lemons. I've been pulverizing them in a

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01:09:39.479 --> 01:09:41.760
<v Speaker 4>pitcher and drinking it as lemonade, and then I eat

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01:09:42.279 --> 01:09:45.680
<v Speaker 4>their ragged flesh and skin like a buzzard. Also, if

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01:09:45.720 --> 01:09:48.600
<v Speaker 4>fruit overhangs a fence, technically it's legal to pick. Also,

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01:09:48.680 --> 01:09:50.680
<v Speaker 4>no one's gonna ever eat all those lemons or so

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<v Speaker 4>many lemons. Okay, so weta all right, provide pacidermist college, Hobbiology,

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<v Speaker 4>cyberdo Zoology, Lithology and Technology, Meteorology and Teratology Technology, Seriology.

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01:10:06.279 --> 01:10:07.159
<v Speaker 4>Selenology is

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<v Speaker 2>Either your third cousin four tangent moved or your fourth

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01:10:14.960 --> 01:10:16.000
<v Speaker 2>cousin three tangent move
