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Speaker 2: Throwing some ice mix in some vodka colored a podcast
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Bill Moran Podcast.
Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. Thank you for getting your pot on.
Thanks so much for telling a friend. That's how we
spread the word about the pirate ship. So today I
am very honored that it's just me and Laura today.
I'm very sad there you did, I know, you said
the thing and I said, yeah, absolutely, you're on the
other let's go. And then I wasn't sure. I never
I'm never sure who's actually coming in. It's poorly run.
I don't know how we've survived two years. It's just them,
absolute mess, but we got we got through it. But
I have many, many questions, many things that we can
discuss today. I, as you pointed out, i'm dressed. I
did substitute teach again today. And I don't say where
I'm subming. I just leave it. Yeah, only because I
have to tell some of these stories.
Speaker 3: Yes.
Speaker 1: So I was summing in an art class today and
the kids were they were great, uh freshmen. Yeah, And
then I guess maybe sophomores in this other later class
and it was a group of four girls and they're
making sculptures and they're all chatting. They're making wire sculptures.
I don't think they got anything done, all right, but
they're chatting away, and I happen to do. I just
will walk around. I'll talk to the kids because I
figure I'm in there and if I can help, if
I can make a suggestion, I don't know. So they're
talking and I I can't believe I'm gonna tell you this,
but it's a weird thing for me because guys don't
and I don't think could ever do this. So this
one girl says somebody grabbed her phone and they're flipping
through her pictures and she's like, oh, my stepbrother took that.
And they said, oh, that's right. Your dad got remarried,
right yeah, and your mom is not. No, let me
see a picture of your step mom. Okay, okay, So
they show she's The girls are looking at the picture
of step mom and I can't tell you how. I
had to walk to the other side of the room
because I'm going I want to see it, steps like,
but I can't. I can't say anything. So all of
a sudden, I hear, oh my god, she is fire,
she is, she is lit. And then I hear I
would turn gay for your mother, for your step mom
that's not here, and I go, this is insane. So
now they want.
Speaker 4: You have to go look at the picture.
Speaker 1: I can't go look at the picture. I cannot. Do
you know what a creepy thing that would be? Do
you understand me?
Speaker 4: How have you just walk by? I couldn't here.
Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't have to be. I couldn't. I
had to stand way back. But I think there are
times I like hear the kids and I start laughing
and they'll go like they'll tell me other subs like
yell at them and take their phones away, and I
I figure, let's just get along here. You do your work.
I'm you know, I'll help you if I can. There's
no reason to make a shit show for anybody. So
then let me see your mom, this girl, your actual mom.
And she's like okay, and I hear, yeah, she's cute,
and I go what and uh, I got like she's cute,
and I go, what do you what do you mean?
She's so I now I again, but I'm standing on
the other side and they're kind of judging this girl's
mom and she goes, yeah, well, my mom is single,
she's thirty four, and I'm like thirty four. I know
this girl's like fourtychol Oh my god. Yeah right, So
this is the conversation and I'm going never, never in
the history of the male species have they ever said,
let me see a picture of your dad and ooh,
your dad's hot. Ooh, your dad's so good looking. I
would turn gay for your dad. That would never happen.
Speaker 4: Well, I think women have always been complimentary of other
women with looks, and like we all joke about how
I'm so open about like yes, well, yes there is.
I can think of one girl that I know and
other people have said this that are like, if I
were to ever have a lesbian experience, I would want
it to be with this girl because she's so fucking hot. Like,
and I can acknowledge that. You don't hear men.
Speaker 1: Ever say like oh no, no, no, no.
Speaker 4: You know, if I compare, I could ring my dad's
wife's you know, hottest to leave and your dad's what
my dad's wife's like, my mom is definitely the best book.
And then my dad just went down he I mean,
did you tell him oh, he knows.
Speaker 1: He knows.
Speaker 4: Literally, at my wedding day, he was like, my parents
divorced when I was one, and I feel like I
very much raise myself. I was very independent child. Yeah,
by like fourteen. So my parents walked me together up
to the aisle and then I walk myself down. I
was like, no, I'm doing this my own way. And
my dad was like, I should never left your mom.
I'm like, well, he cheated on her a dozen times before.
Speaker 1: I should have never left your mom. And he's got
a new wife.
Speaker 4: There, but that's he's on wife number three.
Speaker 1: At that point.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Is he still with wife number three?
Speaker 4: Yeah, but he's not really happily with wife number three.
She has cancers, so he feels bad leaving her. Like,
my dad is literally the worst role model for relationships.
Speaker 1: Phenomenal time. This is the most phenomenal story ever. So,
but you could rank his wive's best looking to your mom,
I have seen your attractive woman. Yeah, yeah, uh, that's
that's strange. But how about your dad's friends or anybody.
Have you ever commented on a friend's father.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I have, Yeah, I definitely have.
Speaker 5: OK.
Speaker 4: I have like a friend named Jay, and I always
thought his dad was so hot, and I would tell
them all the time.
Speaker 1: Okay, and what about like any girlfriends, like girlfriends my
girlfriend's dads, Yes, not or or any any girlfriends like
even when you were in high school, parents divorce, new
dad comes on the scene.
Speaker 4: I don't think any of their dads were hot. Yeah, exactly,
they're like all with their mustachees and they're John Deere hats.
But I mean, I definitely like have found older men attractive.
I mean, it's just nothing I about a number, but yeah,
I would like I would even say if I saw
like an attractive sixty year old, now, I'd be like,
you're really good looking for your age.
Speaker 1: But see, it's when you have to put that caveat
in there for your age, it kind of like, no,
it's it hurts a little bit because there's a guy
who's approaching that number. Ah.
Speaker 4: If I were to if I were to tell an
older man, an older gentleman, a generation older than me, hey,
you're really good looking, I don't want them to think that.
Speaker 1: I'm ah, I see, but you are no them.
Speaker 4: I'd be like, look at I hope that whoever I
am hooking up with that.
Speaker 1: Age looks like there's a way around it. I hope
whoever I'm hanging out with. Yeah, are we allowed to
say somebody walked in the studio or no? All right,
foodie came in. I haven't seen. I've been thinking about
you a lot lately. Can you sit down, Foody, just
sit down for a second. Know he probably came to
get Chinese food or something. Yeah, I figured that, and
he came in, and I didn't want you to. You're
all quiet over it. You don't need no, we'll leave,
We'll just leave it. Yes, it is on, You're on,
and so the cans are there. How have you been good?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 1: I'm great. It's been a very very long time. I
think of you often because every day I dropped Jamison off,
and then lately because he's living with me now. So
I've been telling Laura, and this is the whole conversation
started with, I'm subbing substitute teaching you are, Yes, I'm like, So,
I've been in the same school for a couple weeks
and they asked me, they go, will you just be
our floater? The kids to love you, the teachers think
you're great. I go, okay, so I just up, No, no,
I'm not. I'm not saying where, but it's so, but
it is not at Fairbo. So probably a good idea.
But what's new Man?
Speaker 3: Nothing?
Speaker 1: Nothing? College playoff time?
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, right now, a little heater right now?
Speaker 1: But all right, tell me here. Here's the one that
I think maybe has a lot of interests locally, the
Big Ten and for the first time in the Big
Ten Oregon. Right, yeah, it's it's gone beyond. It's it's
kind of weird that they're a West Coast team but
they're in the Big Ten championship game against Penn State.
Who do you like? And I think it's.
Speaker 3: There is a lot of Penn State local. Yes, there
is state. Yes, I just left my buddy Bobby. His
daughters go to Penn State. It's a tough one. I
haven't really you haven't really looked at the all right,
you know, put me on this. I don't know the spread.
Speaker 1: And okay, but what does your gut say Oregon? Yeah?
Mine too? And I feel a little bad saying that.
Speaker 3: It's just because you know, James Franklin. I don't think
he can win a big game. He's never really showed them.
Speaker 1: Well, hopefully maybe he can turn around. I think some
of the Penn State fans would tell you he's a
great recruiter, but in those crucial moments, and again, you know,
you're putting it all on the shoulders of a nineteen
year old guy, you know what I mean, It's like,
come on, but.
Speaker 3: Uh, golask Ohio State. How that went?
Speaker 1: Not well?
Speaker 3: Lighting up Miami? I sorry? Sorry? Thank you?
Speaker 1: So in Syracuse? Yeah, serus, yeah, yeah doing Uh, I
mean that that transfer portal. Everybody is going for the
transfer portal now, I think that. Uh, Like I'm watching
the Florida State game and they were just yeah, but
they have a true freshman right as a quarterback. I
thought he looked poised and good. Their offensive line is terrible,
and the announcers are saying, now they'll just go through
the transfer portal and beef up that line, and I go,
holy cow, Because if you're sitting and they keep recruiting
and you're not going to start, now you sort of
get to put yourself in play.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just look at Ohio State. Well, look at Syracuse.
Speaker 1: I mean, they they benefited, they's so much.
Speaker 3: But yeah, Ohio State rosters were twenty million dollars this
year and they couldn't be the JVH.
Speaker 1: It's worth twenty million in an IL deal.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they paid twenty million dollars.
Speaker 1: What's your gut feeling on the NIL deals?
Speaker 3: You know, I think if the players can get it,
get good for them. Yeah, it's been so long where
you know they were exploited. Yeah, you know, I mean, yeah,
you're getting an education. Quote I did always.
Speaker 1: I did always think, you know, you're getting an education
and world class facilities and world class trainers. But these
guys are I don't think they're ever really in the classroom.
Speaker 3: What is the percentage they're there to play ball college
football players that go on to the next level, it's very.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I wish I did. I thought it
was like two or three.
Speaker 3: And I have one hundred and thirty three teams. They
have one hundred kids on the team, and there's seven
rounds in the NFL draft and half of those probably
don't make it on the NFL team. So you know,
they're putting their blood, sweat tears into something that they're
not they're getting. Yeah, there are there's the exceptions where
they're getting the education, they're going to grad school. But
good for them, I say, good for them.
Speaker 4: I guess you did avoid staying off.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're just talking, talking, and so I had to.
I had to throw you up there. And then then
it was I had the light all wrong.
Speaker 3: And nobody cares.
Speaker 1: Well, no, it's fine. I thought it would be nice.
People like to, you know, see who's in there talking
and that sort of thing. And then Foody's been have
you made a lot of money in this NFL? S No,
all right? And he picks for the super Bowl a
little early.
Speaker 3: I like the lines in the bill. Yeah, I do too,
you know, but Philly, I mean, look at their schedule.
They're probably not going to lose another game. Could they
get home field? So Buffalo plays Detroit in two weeks?
Speaker 1: Yeah? The fifteen, Yes, I mean, look at Laura. Look
at Laura. Look at Laura out of it on the fifteenth.
Speaker 4: I'm wondering if it's going to be flexed.
Speaker 1: Look at this. Well, I want I want to go
on the street and ask a bunch of ladies whose
husbands are really into or boyfriends or more fathers or
whomever are really into the NFL, and ask them if
they know what flex is. And I know I'm gonna
be called a misogynists for you bringing that up.
Speaker 4: But I just think most people.
Speaker 1: I don't think they do. I don't know that. Maybe
some guys don't even know.
Speaker 4: Really, Yes, I don't know, but it's gonna be it's
they're gonna flex that. I just don't want them to.
Like I go to bed, I'm hosting a brunch that
day and like Lucas's friends, like for my nine year
old who's obsessed, where like moms are all gonna well,
like some of them are coming over, the kids are
all going to play, We're gonna have mimosas, and then
we're gonna like sit down and actually watch the game
at four. So if it gets flexed till eight o'clock,
that's not gonna happen. Yeah, it's four thirty.
Speaker 1: And you know the teams they won't fly. Why Why
because the four o'clock game is like, well, this week,
the bills are four o'clock and they're like the America's
Game of the Week, americ the Rams of the week.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Fox calls it the America's Game of the Week.
I don't know what CBS.
Speaker 1: Does, Yeah, but that's uh so they get Tom Brady
on there, so you know.
Speaker 3: There's only three games from four games at four o'clock.
It's very rare that they get flex. Okay, sometimes they
get flex from four to one, but.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's usually earlier. Okay, so very rarely to the
night game.
Speaker 3: I would say they have because just a network can
refuse the flex.
Speaker 1: Look, these are two oh they can yeah, okay, because
these are two teams that are kind of the hard
luck of the NFL, right of you know, the one's
never gone to Super Bowl, Buffalo is going to four
number one. So that's a that's a little crazy. You
want to take a guess on what food ordered at
the at the Chinese restaurant. Oh well, it's not for me,
oh for your so for your son. Yeah, well, that's
very kind of you to come all the way out
here and pick it up. For chicken with cashews, I'm
gonna say orange chicken negative all fried rice?
Speaker 3: No fried rice?
Speaker 1: No? Did he go like chicken and broccoli with white rice?
Speaker 3: Close?
Speaker 1: Okay? Close?
Speaker 3: Close? Wow, you have to sesame with white rice. Okay,
it's the staple, alright, egg rolls no one time one song.
This is thirteen nine.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 3: I think a boring kid is.
Speaker 4: As Oh my god, I have my son. I have
craving for Chinese a couple of weeks ago. I haven't
ordered it in years, and I just got sesame chicken
with it. Came with fride rice. It last said like
three meals.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's a ton of food. It is sermon. Yeah,
but you're not you don't eat a lot, you know, probably.
Speaker 4: Like I was still like three full dinners.
Speaker 3: So wow, Yeah, it was a lot of food. He
looks a lot like Bill's son. Yeah, okay, it's one
meal it is.
Speaker 4: I mean yeah.
Speaker 1: I picked Jamison up trying out for modified basketball team.
I had two pork chops like breaded waiting for him
and Rice. And he said, on the way home, Dad,
can we stop and get something? I said, I got
snacks here. He goes, yeah, point tortilla chips and plain
potato chips. That thanks a lot, Dad, And I go, okay, great,
So I stopped. We get takis sprite. I know the
takis I don't get at all. I'm not a fan, no,
not a fan, but loves him. So we get those.
Get that and I and I got mac and cheese bites,
and I said, listen, I want you to eat the
pork chops and the rice, and I said, and I
love you to have salad. It's in there in the
fridge there. Oh, I was home for ten minutes. Both
pork chops gone to the bone and big pile of
rice and onto the mac and cheese bites. And I went,
that was I mean.
Speaker 4: He's fourteen, he's huge though for age.
Speaker 1: He's big. He's big for his age. But there's bigger
I mean there's bigger kids.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: No, man, I mean like even here, like even basketball,
he's going to be. It was this guy who's like
seven feet tall and they got me in the middle
posting up. I'm just like, what am I going to
do with this guy? He should be playing wide receiver
for Alabama. I'm like, okay, so foody any other exciting things.
Thanksgiving was good?
Speaker 3: Thanksgiving was great. Yeah, yeah, I said my family and
so I tried dispatch cock a turkey this year.
Speaker 1: You tried to No, I don't even know.
Speaker 4: What It's a fun word though.
Speaker 3: Yeah, batsh cock cock it's got cocker's.
Speaker 1: It's a great uh.
Speaker 3: Sounds like when you cut the backbone out and then
you like press it down so it's flat. Supposed to
cook me even.
Speaker 1: Okay, going faster. And by the way, food are a
bit of a chef.
Speaker 3: This is my first time doing this thing. And I'm
like pomping on it like it's got uh cpr. I'm
like trying to pop it because you got a flatten it.
And I heard the crack and I'm like, oh, I'm
going dry brind it through and the uh fridge and man,
it didn't cook even it took way longer than it
should And then I was thinking about the next day
and we're like, man, you know, it really wasn't flat.
It was kind of like curved a little bit, so
it was half spatch cocked it half cocked.
Speaker 1: I think I've been there. That's it's been my excuse.
I'm half spatch cock. Just let me, uh give you
a few minutes here. I'll try to get to full
spatch cocked and just wow, that's funny. What did it
taste good? Yeah?
Speaker 3: All right, Well everybody said it.
Speaker 1: Like do you think they lied to you or you know, family? Yeah,
well that's what family does.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm rating it down there. I'm like six
and a half out of ten, Like, no, Dad, it's great.
Speaker 1: Do any of those guys cook your kids.
Speaker 3: No, that's why I gotta get Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, sometimes sometimes I come home to all kinds of
gourmet things all over the counter and pile up in
the sink. That happened. Ramen is done, uh steak once
in a while, really, you know, well done and done
in the cast iron paint.
Speaker 3: It actually does that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he'll I'll let me do it to go.
Speaker 3: You don't know what you're.
Speaker 1: Yes, you don't get you think salts of seasoning, Okay,
I can give them up. I don't know any other
fun stuff foody has been. I thought of you a
few times, and I was gonna pop into places I
know that you usually uh frequent. Oh well, I didn't
say where. Could have been a bookstore for a line,
you know not you know, yeah, normal, Yeah, I got you.
All right, Well we're about to take just a little break.
Speaker 3: I got you.
Speaker 1: Gotta go, all right, you bounce and get to the Chinese.
I'm so glad to.
Speaker 3: Keep all the other crew tonight well away.
Speaker 1: We scared them away tonight. Yeah, there's just other things
going on. Hockey's picked up with some people, and you know,
and we're thinking of doing something on a Friday this
week and I know. Oh yeah, it's crazy. Yeah, so
it's all the solid stuff. But I'm so glad you can. No,
I'm gonna leave it all in there. I'm leaving the
entire thing. I'm leaving me turning on the cameras and everything.
We'll take them moment and when we come back. I
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Speaker 6: Lawd's got a little secrets up the way.
Speaker 1: A shot, so she imagining.
Speaker 5: I was standing in the healthy facts of dancing wild free.
Speaker 6: There's a fear she can't set free by metal under
sky so clear. She watches others laugh and show no fear.
Speaker 1: Let's find out version of the same song. Just got
a little singret.
Speaker 6: Adam, She imagines days, Oh my god, names of dancing.
Wow agree, but there's she can't sit by the minute
the under sky is so clear.
Speaker 1: She watches mothers laugh and showed the fear from.
Speaker 7: Pard.
Speaker 1: He's a swing, but won'ting to join that way swing.
She's too shy.
Speaker 8: Because you mentioned before like I'm curious, I'd be curious,
so I thought that would be a funny little song,
and we had it for so long now, Yeah, and
I think I forgot the last time you ran to play.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. It's a nice song by Danny
in The Healthy Facts, The Healthy Fast Taking care of That.
Here's the question I wanted to ask you, because when
this girl was saying like her mom is single and
but her dad is now remarried, I go, that's got
to be sort of hard on the ex wife, maybe
a little bit. And then especially if these kids are
looking at the new step mom and saying how attractive
the new step mom is. Don't think mom doesn't know it. Yeah,
Like I think I overheard one girl going, uh, you know,
I always look at all the other girls that are
prettier than me, and I get all uncomfortable, and I
was like, it's got to be horrible. I don't guys
aren't looking to go. You might look at somebody who's
bigger than you or more muscular than you and go,
I wish I was doing that, or that's what I
hope to be when I'm that age, but I don't.
I don't know. It wasn't a you know, just overbearing.
Speaker 4: Feeling at that at like the teenage age.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I'm saying, Like there's such a difference, right, Well, I.
Speaker 4: Think that there's a difference between when we grew up
first nowadays because you can escape it nowadays. Like, I mean,
I'm thirty nine, so what what I know?
Speaker 1: People make that number up, Like don't they lie about
their birthday? Held your mom thirty nine? Again?
Speaker 4: No, I although my client yesterday asked if I was
twenty eight. I was like, oh my god, I love you.
You get a discount.
Speaker 1: What was his name now?
Speaker 4: It was a woman really yeah, she was older too,
but no, but I think when I was fourteen, yeah,
maybe you know what I will say, This is gonna
sound funny. I was very self conscious about my boobs
because I like had big boobs by fourteen, okay, but
like I didn't compare the rest of myself to other people.
But we didn't have social media. We didn't have like
you went home.
Speaker 1: And snap bras back then.
Speaker 4: Yeah I think that. Yeah, I'm like they did. They
definitely did.
Speaker 9: Like yeah, So my question was, though, this, what is
something that nobody knows about being a single mom, you
know what I mean, or like a divorced mom, like.
Speaker 1: Because that's a it's a lot. I don't think it's
I don't I was like, man, I don't think I've
ever heard anybody talk about what that is like beyond
the you know, you'll hear judgment else she's really getting
around now or whatever. Well, I don't know, Like, you know,
you got your kids and you're trying to do to
do the right thing and and when to introduce someone
to them, and you know what do you try to
keep under wraps and quiet and still be an adult, right,
a full adult.
Speaker 4: I think one thing that was like very eye opening
to me was how much work it takes to run
the house, run my business, take care of the kids.
Like and that's why I felt, like I said, for
the longest time and actually have time to put into
a relationship. Yeah, because I hadn't.
Speaker 1: How long were you divorced?
Speaker 4: I've been divorced for three years now, okay, and you
know for two years I did it all on my own.
Speaker 1: Like where so you had full custody of your kids?
Speaker 4: No, we have, we have fifty to fifty. But still
it was just like if I again, you know, I
work sometimes at night, so like and when I have
my kids I don't want to be doing the dishes
as much. So it's a large house to maintain solo.
Like I was exhausted just running that house, like you know,
doing everything on my own. That there were times that
I was like, Okay, you know what, I don't care
if the backyard looks like shit, like nobody else is
seeing it about me, or if my floors aren't mops
like because I stopped paying.
Speaker 1: For it, they're also yeah sure, and do you start
to feel almost self conscious about that? Let's say somebody
stops by, drops one of your kids off, wants to
come in the house. Do you feel uncomfortable if the
floors aren't mopped?
Speaker 4: Like my house obviously is never really a mess because
of what I do. But just like the deep cleaning
that you know that didn't happen as much, it's just
it wears a lot on you. Even like just I
said those simple things like if you had a husband
at home and you were like, hey, can you switch
the laundry, can you unload the dishes for me? Like
I didn't have any help for a long time, but
it was like it was sort of cool to prove
to myself that I could do it. Yeah, and that
I didn't need anyone right, So.
Speaker 1: Was there legitimately, like real satisfaction in that.
Speaker 4: Absolutely, Like I'm not not being able to make my bills.
I'm not you know, running behind on anything. Like I'm
still keeping up with my life and my home and
still doing you know, my fun vacations that I like
to do, Like I just really wanted to prove that
I could do it.
Speaker 1: You guys been out tearing up to town. I saw
some pictures on social media. You and your girlfriend's going wild.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I had a busy weekend. But I don't know,
I think it's hard, like as a single mom or
going through a divorce, just like having everything be on
your shoulders like I could.
Speaker 1: Have and trying to not make it shill, yeah, because
it's almost like you kind of do you feel that way?
Do you feel like you can't? I don't know, I'm asking.
I really don't mean.
Speaker 4: I think I'm very open with people about how exhausting
it is and you know, getting caught up and uh,
you know, we have a mutual friend who's going through
something right now, and she is sort of caught up
in this dull feeling of somebody just broke my heart,
like I can't do anything in life, and I'm like,
you need to learn how to just be independent.
Speaker 3: And.
Speaker 1: Like, all right, okay, okay. This brings me to a
thing that I always thought was more of a of
a male thing with divorce, that a lot of times
you would see a guy and I, I guess there's
what Stephanie Eye has referred to on the podcast as
the whore face. But you would see some guy who like,
he just got divorced and within a year is in
a like they're locked down.
Speaker 4: It took my ex five months.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I go, why what is that? Is it
the male pattern that it just feels easier all the
things you just said. I you're saying things, and I
feel it now I've been alone for the four years.
But then Jamison is back with me, and you know,
trying to just keep the house at a reasonable level, right,
so the kitchen especially, let's have that and when there's
less when it's a little cleaner, there's less chaos, it's
less disorganization. You do all that that takes a while.
And I'm not in the house, you know what I'm saying.
I'm not in the house, and so you're doing that
the laundry, the dishes, the food, shopping and running him
making meals to make sure that he's actually eating something
other than talkies, you know what I mean. But like
all that stuff, and it is a lot. I had
to call you tonight and go, I need to delay
it till like six fifteen only because kids. Yeah, and
this is the stuff that's going on. But I don't know,
and I think too like you, there's a little bit
of satisfaction and the shit I can do this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And it was like it was a lot. A
lot of my friends, whether they are single moms or not,
they work from home, and being able to work from home,
you can go and clean something for ten minutes as
a break or like all.
Speaker 1: Set time the last fifteen minutes just show you just
I'm sorry to interrupted to go ten minutes, how much
you can actually get done in that amount of time.
Speaker 4: And you're right, And I'm gone all day, like I'm
gone a lot at night. But I really and this
is why, like I said, when I, you know, went
through my single phase, I was very open that I
didn't have the time to date. Like I would go
and I lightly date, but I did not want to
get secious with that. Lightly dating is hanging out with
someone for a couple of weeks and get yeah, and
then when they want something a little more serious, I
say no, thank you. If you've I ran into one
of the guys this week, Oh.
Speaker 1: How did that go?
Speaker 4: It was okay, yes, cordial after two years?
Speaker 1: But what about like a guy who maybe you started
a fall for, there wasn't one. You're a cold hearted
woman over there.
Speaker 4: It didn't happen until the one.
Speaker 1: Now, all right, yeah, I got no.
Speaker 4: But like I did get messed up, like with you know,
everyone knows, like I had sort of not the most
or a little bit of illicit relationship like at the
beginning of my divorce, and that guy fucked me up
for a while, and so like it did. It was
like learning to love myself again and being like I
can do all the things.
Speaker 1: That like every guy rolls his eyes out here we go,
fucking love myself again. But I'm just saying that I
really do. And as a guy, I think that the
rules are not the rules because there aren't any rules,
societal standards, and what we've come to say is maybe
more traditional, maybe some people say a misogynistic society. I
don't know. I just feel like there's a lot of
pressure that no women really talk about, you know what
I mean, they don't talk about and how tough it
is when they're home alone. The kids are over with
the X and the ex'es got his new girlfriend or whatever,
and you're just there and there's not a lot of
money to go out and do anything, and you don't
feel like cleaning anything, and you just kind of melt
into your couch and maybe you cry. I don't know,
but I'm like that stuff is usually just never.
Speaker 4: Talked about, No, And I mean there were I said.
I never really missed Ethan as a person. I missed
the help around the house. I miss the co parenting,
Like you know, if I have the kids at night,
they're both on me if I have to run Lucas
to basketball and Cam to baseball, like I got to
figure out how the hell I'm going to do it
all myself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but with him living close, couldn't you call up
and go, hey, man, can you grab this one on
Thursday night? Yeah?
Speaker 4: But I don't want him to do that to me
a lot because I'm working, Like you know, again, on
the two nights. Last night, I was at a meeting
until eight o'clock at night tonight, I'm here, like, of
course I will help if I can help. But and
a lot of other parents are really willing to help.
So like one of the parents on Lucas's baseball team
right now, his practices going until nine o'clock at night.
Camden is dead a slate before that. So he's offered
to drive Lucas back to my house.
Speaker 1: But what gas grass or ass? No kid rites for free, just.
Speaker 4: Saying I've never heard of that, what gas grass or ass?
Speaker 1: No one rides for free? Yeah you never did hear that? No,
I've never heard of that old old saying.
Speaker 4: But like the guys jumping into the relationships right away, Like.
Speaker 1: I think that that happened more more than women, Yeah
I do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, men, no offense. Men can't be alone. As we
talked about my dad before he had the next wife
lined up, Y'll like it, before he left the current one.
Speaker 1: So your dad was what you would have the.
Speaker 4: Next one lined up before he would leave? Who is
current partner would be?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 4: Even when Ethan settled down after like five months, I
was like, why don't you just give yourself time? Data round?
Speaker 1: You haven't even got me out of your system. Yet, man,
I mean, my DNA is still on those sheets you
bring up your your job. And I heard a podcast
and I wanted to ask you if you agree with this.
I normally don't listen to other podcasts, and I did
listen to and I talked about Mel Robbins, Mel Robbins.
I listened to two of them. One was just about
getting control of your brain and had a neuroscientist son
and all that. It was interesting. And then the other
one was about decluttering versus organization, which I go to me,
this lady's like the Oprah podcasting. I guess she used
to have a TV show. I know nothing about her, Yeah,
I guess. And then somebody wrote me saying after they
heard me talk about her, say, she had a TV
show based in Boston. She ran into it went sideways.
She was three hundred thousand dollars in debt and her
husband wanted to run a rest you know, bought a
restaurant in Vermont, so they moved to Vermont. And the
rest is what she's you know, she's been doing. She's
very intelligent and then comes across and she does a
great job, but it's very aimed at. I would say
women twenty five fifty four would be my guess or people,
because I found the declutter organization interesting. But they were saying,
there's a difference between organizing and decluttering. What would you
say the differences?
Speaker 4: There's such a difference. Hoarders a lot of times they
can't get organized because they have so many things, but
they can declutter. Yes, more people who want to live
the minimalistically is who you want to have the organizing
systems with. Then I take it a step further. I
say that there's like four categories. If you're hiring me,
you're either hiring me for decluttering, organizing, hoarding, situation or
moving is sort of the four things that I work with. Okay,
so if you want to declutter, you can definitely get
organized while doing it. Yes, but it is sort of
a two step process.
Speaker 1: That is sort of what they were saying too. And
she said, this one lady and I remember her name
because it's Dana White, and I think UFC. This person's
name is Dana Ka White and she's written a book
on declad. Yeah, but the thing was, she said, when
you organize, you're buying more things to organize and to declutter.
You're just getting rid of stuff. And she gave an
example about and so here's why I sort of came
up on the podcast because when I'm listening to the
second one on the ride back for my mom's, Jamison's
earbuds needed to be recharged. So now he's listening to
the podcast and they say something like contained. The word
contained is in container and you have to think of contained,
and he goes, He looks at me and goes, is
this for real? In the car? So then then they
do this thing about the woman says, I went over
to a friend's house and she had I kept thinking
I need a bigger house, but when I thought about it,
for all the stuff, she had a smaller house and
it was better organized. Yeah, and she said, so I look,
and she's got two red buckets. She goes for the
kids crowns. She said, well, we had like seven hundred
crowns and broken crans still, right, So I got three buckets.
But the three buckets wouldn't fit on the shelf. And
so that becomes your problem with you know, instead of
just getting we're in it for the broken crowns. So
then Jamison wants to stop at target on our way home.
So we stop and he's walking in and he goes,
you know, we could get crayons, but broken crans still right,
And then he looks at me and he goes, it's
I found this so funny and it's so bad and
I shouldn't laugh at it, and I'm sure people will
get annoyed with me. But he goes, is this what
happens when you give middle aged women recording equipment? And
I was like, it made me laugh, but I go,
let me tell you something, mo fo. I got value
out of that podcast. Yeah, I got value out of
listening to that. I did.
Speaker 4: God. My chiropractor the other day was like, I remember
the first time that I met you, you told me
to create drop zones around my house. And he's like,
that really changed my wife's like.
Speaker 1: Drop zones, drop zones? What are these drop zones? Like
when I was married and she would leave shit on
the stairs and we would all just step over the
step over it and ignore it. But this has been
on the stairs for three days. Do you have your
bi blind? Do they not work?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I tell people to get like you can get
staircases now, like or you know, there's different things for that.
But instead of leaving stuff all over the house, designate
like just a few specific areas. So if you're looking
for something, you're not looking in ten different zones of
your house. Sort of categorize or house and have like
one drop zone B right next to the kitchen, and
that could be like where you're unloading your stuff for
the day. That's where the purse goes, the keys and
the essentials. Like the kids need to get involved in
it too, like if they're, you know, unloading their school backpacks,
like is that where that stuff goes?
Speaker 1: And yeah, what do you say to the kids? Do
you do this with your kids? Oh?
Speaker 4: My kids are completely they are so organized, it's amazing.
Speaker 1: Okay, so they're able. I know because I hang up
my keys. And I think I've said this before. I
used to walking around saying I only have so much
time on the planet, I don't want to spend in
looking for my keys, so I hang them up. But
I don't do that with everything. Like every once in
a while on my wallet just seems to disappear. And
that's all. I'm well, that's something that I need to do.
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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, And I'm like, honey.
Speaker 1: And I'm going, what, hang on a second, you pushed
an eight year old girl? I don't care. You may
not know she had can't who would know? Right? But
who's doing that? Like, I can't imagine any grown adult
who's you're not getting you can get a good buzz
going and being probably drunk. I would say buzz, but
I'm irish, and I I just thought there's no way
that this because then I thought, if they if it's
like they pushed her over seats and she fell down,
is what I'm getting from the thing, and I go,
if you had a daughter that beat cancer, you take
her to her first NFL game. She's a forty nine
Ers fan pick because she and her dad watched the
games together. I go, My fist would be in that
guy's face. I would not be able to help it.
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play some messages when we come back. When I want
to get to this story about the girl at the
Bills game, because for whatever reason, and this is I
don't know if this is a cynical or a mean
way to be, but there was a piece of me
that when I feel like there's more to this story,
I can't imagine anybody pushing it exactly, not purposefully. Yeah,
like maybe you're jumping up and down in the stands
and you're a little inebriated and this you know, the
seats are close together, and you put into her okay,
different story, and I think even then the parents would
be I got it. I don't know. This story has
taken on a life of his own, to the point
where Antonio Brown, the former wide receiver, is saying to people,
here's her GoFundMe. I think they raised ten thousand dollars
in a very short period of time.
Speaker 4: Well that's good.
Speaker 1: See there is some good that comes doun. Here's the
story from Channel four in Buffalo, New York.
Speaker 5: The Western New York community is turning an upsetting moment
in the Bills forty nine Ers game into something good.
Speaker 10: Last night, eight year old forty nine Ers fan Mia Dicamilla,
who is a cancer survivor, was shoved by a member
of the mafia, falling from her seat.
Speaker 1: Now I hear that, and I'm going, why wasn't there
a brawl?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Do you understand what I'm saying? Because look, you have
traveled to other stadiums. You went out to Seattle, where
you treated well sometimes.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there were more bills fans.
Speaker 1: Okay, some people say, like, if you go to Philadelphia,
they're not going to be friendly, They're not going to
be this we've heard. We've heard the horror stories. We
have seen the horror stories. People have died in fights
after games. I've seen brutal fights even I think there
was a Chargers Rams game and there was a fight
out in LA. But this, I go a kid, what
something's not adding up for?
Speaker 10: Dylla Morello spoke with me and her family about what
they want fans to learn from that experience.
Speaker 5: Still in David Kelsey, the family tells us that luckily
Mia was not physically hurt.
Speaker 1: Or ah okay.
Speaker 5: During altercation, but was emotionally shaking that caused them to
leave her first ever NFL game early.
Speaker 1: All right, now, this makes a little more sense to me,
because if your kid's upset and feel and had a
traumatic experience, and that's what trauma is, you've got to
be the right of the parent, the right parent. Just
go okay, well, yeh right.
Speaker 5: Eight year old Mia Dicamilla currently lives in Rochester, New York.
She however, became a big forty nine Ers fan because
of her father.
Speaker 11: Me and my dad in the hospital will watch fitball
together and then when I come home sometimes for right,
it's like in the hospital when I had cancer, I
will sit down and you know, just relax. Too much
football I like, And that's how I made my team.
Speaker 5: Mia has battled and beaten liver cancer twice after relapsing
in May of last year. She's been featured on Buffalo's
Hope Rises and News for his Shine Gold event, helping
raise money for other young cancer warriors. On Sunday, she
went to her first NFL game at high Mark Stadium,
braving the cold with a smile, holding proudly an I
beat cancer sign.
Speaker 1: Okay, all the markings of like one of these feel
good stories. Are you not root for this kid? How
do you not root for this kid? This poised, right,
just well spoken eight year old kid, Like you can't
not cheerful the car.
Speaker 11: When we were driving there, listen, I was saying, like,
oh I was there, Yeah, I was truly excited, Like
I was full with enrichie.
Speaker 1: What eight year old says? I was really excited and
not like yeah I'm going to crash out right, I'll
crash out. I'm so excited.
Speaker 5: Fun night was cut short after the family tells us
a drunk Bills fan pushed me a down the stairs
in unshoveled section three.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you see what I'm saying? Shoved me down
the stairs? And I'm not saying that this young lady
shouldn't get attention and there isn't good to come of it.
Don't hate me for this, but that is overblown. That
is yeah, because and it's grabbing national attention. Must be
a slower news day, but you know what I mean.
It's the cover of the website at least at one
portion of the day for the New York Post. You
saw it. I saw it three twelve.
Speaker 12: He said, I'm going to push through all these Niner fans.
So he actually bumped me about my son and me
a little bit bumped.
Speaker 1: So the guy's pushing through. He's a dick. I get it,
but you're not anything more. Thrown hands over.
Speaker 12: And then got past me and pushed her. Will slid
off the stairs and hit her like side on the chairs.
Speaker 5: The family was so uncomfortable they had to leave the
game early.
Speaker 12: The guy purposely walked through and was pushing through people.
I mean, I get it, you know now.
Speaker 1: The father says, I get it.
Speaker 4: It was ad shoving his way. Because if he's saying
he hit the father first, so on the stairs, on
the incline and.
Speaker 1: Not shovel section.
Speaker 4: By the way, yes he probably didn't see the little
girl one of him, So yes, he's being a drunk asshole.
Speaker 1: But like I think it's just painted with a broad brush.
Speaker 12: I was busy and hectic, but he's He's had to
be six foot and she's less than one hundred pounds.
Speaker 5: The story caught the attention of former NFL player Antonio Brown,
who is planning to FaceTime mea tomorrow and raise awareness
of her battle many on social media.
Speaker 1: Do you want to he's using you to get back
in the good graces? I really think so.
Speaker 5: I think that a Bill's mafia still. Mia says she
won't be back at high Mark anytime soon.
Speaker 1: Because she's a forty nine ers fan. I have hang
on a second, she's a forty when they come back,
That's what I'm saying. She's a forty nine ers fan.
Let's be honest about this.
Speaker 11: Comfortable. I just don't see everybody to cover anymore.
Speaker 5: Mia and her father ad they hope this incident raises
awareness to what some kids are going through. Even though
they are battling for their life, they're still out there
trying to enjoy it.
Speaker 12: I know that there's competitiveness and whatnot, but there's a
point to where it's a family event.
Speaker 11: I just want to help and not be rude, and
I'm despared to be a nice grown just have fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there is a go fund me helping support me
if you can find it on the Channel four website
and and all that, and I think that stuff.
Speaker 4: Is really good. I'm not beat up es.
Speaker 1: I'm not cold hearted. I get it. The kid's uncomfortable.
I bet in that moment, maybe the dad especially, you're like, god,
I just want to see I don't ever get to
see the forty nine ers. Yeah, and that you're a
little emotional and hot, and maybe you take the social
media and go, oh, we had to leave because of
a drunk Bills fan. Not a lie. But I don't
know that she was like the way they made it
sound like she was pumped from the three hundred section,
going like I don't, I don't, I don't know. I
I feel like it's overblown money for the family.
Speaker 4: That's great, Yeah, that's great. It is Antonio Brown is
not who I want to I.
Speaker 1: Think he's using you a little bit. That would be
my advice. And I know that I'm a cynical, cold
hearted asshole with no nerve endings, as I've been told
at certain points in my life by people that I
have been told that. But I'm just looking at this logically,
I go, Okay, great, But I'm like, she wasn't We
made this sound like she was punting onto the field
from the three hundred section, and I go, that's not.
Speaker 4: What happens everything.
Speaker 1: I guess, okay, and I'm I didn't see it anywhere
but there. And then I did grab the piece from
Channel four in Buffalo just to see she's from Rochester.
I don't want to hear what Rochester's saying because they're
gonna really go deep. Well, let's hear what Buffalo is saying,
so you get the gist of the story. And what
I'm trying to say is this got a little overblown.
I really think it did.
Speaker 4: But that's media in any way.
Speaker 1: Boy, I you know, I always thought that that wasn't
the case. And even.
Speaker 4: I did you and I talk about how you always
have to go beyond the headline.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, especially now it's what
I'm saying, Yeah, you do. And that's why I wanted
to go hear what this story was to go. Boy,
they're making it sound like this young lady was like,
you got cancer. Fuck you and your cancer, And that's
not what happened. And I bet you if the inebriated
person who I'm hoping was a young person, just to
give them a little bit of an excuse, not even
that's passable, but that would be like, oh my god,
I am so sorry. It could be like do you
know what I'm saying. Yeah, I mean maybe they saw it,
and maybe they'll reach out to the family. Like if
that were me and I was drunk and I didn't
notice that I had done this to a kid, and
then I see it all over the news, I'm probably
gonna try to find a way to make it up. Yeah,
I'm not going to call attention to myself. I'm gonna
ask that nobody, nobody. I don't want to go with
a camera crew or I am a good citizen. I
would be mortified that I did that.
Speaker 4: I mean, Bill's games are known in Yes, my traveling
for other football games and everything, Bill's Mafia tailgates harder
than any other team. Half of them are wasted in
the stadium. I'm not gonna lie. There have been games
that I've gone to that I'm like, I don't even
remember the fucking game I tailgates.
Speaker 1: Yeah wow, I thought that was just because you're blonde.
Speaker 4: But yeah, Like, I've definitely made a fool of myself
and the stands. I think a lot of people have. Again,
you're saying it was unshoveled, like how he was walking.
It was probably a drunk asshole he probably if if
it hadn't been an eight year old cancer survivor had
it been my ten year old son who got knocked
over that No, no.
Speaker 1: I agree, Like, but I think that, And I'm assuming
this story was somebody tweeted out. I'm sure the parents
did frustrated that. Who knows if they bought the tickets
or whatever.
Speaker 4: Well, they said that there was a son too. I'm
wondering if there was like a teenage son. You know
that teenage son has it on like TikTok and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, yeah, and I get it even if
the mom or dad did it. I get it in
the moment, I'm just saying, like, boy, they made it
sound so much worse than they think it really was.
Was the girl traumatized probably in the moment scared?
Speaker 4: Sure, Yeah you feel bad for her.
Speaker 1: Yeah you do. I do. But she wasn't punting onto
the field Buffalo. I'm like, come on, come on, you
never had any problems when you traveled? No, not some bloke. No.
Speaker 4: In the the London game was just it was a mix.
Speaker 1: Of blonde chicks that probably come and hit on you and.
Speaker 4: NFL New Era over in London. What I got on
the New Era like TV?
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't even Okay, I don't know. Wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Renee had a hard time last year when she
went to the Philly game. I didn't go to it,
but she.
Speaker 1: She did go to the Philly game. Yeah, she was
hard time.
Speaker 4: How like being a bells Man girl. She went with
our friend Kelly, who had gone with us to the
London game, and she was like called a whore, called everything,
like get the funk out of oh my god, like
people like.
Speaker 1: Screw okay that that see Now that to me, there's
a story. Yeah that shouldn't that be like, hey, man NFL.
You know why not.
Speaker 4: I have no desire to ever go to It starts.
Speaker 1: We've heard of people thrown out of games and this,
what about like finding somebody go hey, that's not the
you know, we want everybody welcome here.
Speaker 4: And she was like tailgating with our friend who's a
Philly fan.
Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, yeah, Ray looks so prim and proper.
She like, I know, she looks like be uptight like football.
Wouldn't you even have polo? Okay, Oh, she's a polo fan.
I got it. She's got her polo trading cards. You
know what I mean, Like, I've seen your friend. That's
what I thought. Okay, I got it. But football loves it. Yeah,
and went to Philly.
Speaker 4: We've already talked about going to Houston next year for
a game. I think that's where our eyes are sat.
Speaker 1: Really, you do this once a year, Okay, So it's
pretty ballsy.
Speaker 4: It's so much fun. It's so much fun to travel
for a game.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess it would be, but seems like a
pain of the ass to me. I know, I just
does like I'd rather go away. I have gone to
Miami when we were in when we when I was
on the radio and I was producing a morning show.
We would all go to Miami and broadcast back to
Rochester for the Bills Miami game. Back in the Jim
Kelly days, the radio station used to buy a billboard
down in Miami that said squish the fish.
Speaker 4: Oh I love that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so there was a whole big thing. So then
we would go down and broadcast and none of us,
we are I think we had tickets to the game,
we wouldn't go. We at to full drinking watching the game.
Speaker 4: I actually have not gone to a Miami game, but
I mean in Miami.
Speaker 1: In Miami, no, we were there, and the whole purpose
of the trip. People like listeners would buy packages right hotel, airfare,
tickets to the game, some kind of night out, barbecue, whatever,
and then the rest of us would all just you know,
get drunk, do the broadcast, have a great time, and
then fly back Sunday night after the game. But none
of us went to the game, laying out doing whatever
he wanted to do. And that's why I go. I
don't know if I went to Houston, but.
Speaker 4: Like it's so I don't know, Well, it's just so
much fun going on. All the activities and all the
like Bill's backers, bars everywhere, and you just, I.
Speaker 1: Don't know, have you met people that you've become friendly
with from these trips that are maybe living Buffalo, maybe
live in Chili, I don't know.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and Seattle went this one night at like one
of the events, we hung out with Pinto Run the
whole time.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and like him, and he's finally getting some
like national attention. You see him in tide ads?
Speaker 4: Really yeah, I didn't see.
Speaker 1: Well, is it Pinto Ron? Is he the guy that
gets covered with ketchup? They there's a tide ad I
believe it's a national ad that about football fans and tailgating,
and they'd show him getting squirt with and then the
guy goes my Bill's jerseys as good as new, and
it's not it's not him, but yeah, he's in that
ad briefly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, like him and his son, I don't know,
hung out with them. I mean at the one tailgate
party that we were at, Josh Allen's parents were there.
Like I didn't. I didn't care to go. I'm not
gonna like be like.
Speaker 1: Woh oh really that could be starstruck look at you?
Speaker 4: Okay, like I thought it was a cooler, even meat
pinto ron yea it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that some Indian that allows himself to
be covered with condiments. Yeah, as a grown old man. Yes,
he was the one who used to cook on the manifold.
Speaker 4: I think of the Yeah, yep, because he was like,
you gotta come to one of our tailgates.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I just haven't been to a home game since.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, that's interesting. What about What what if Harley
Steinfeld was with the the newly engaged Harley Steinfeld and
you heard about Josh Allen's girl friend saying her account
was hacked bullet she's now with an owner and not
a future CT patient something. Wow, look at that throwing shade.
Speaker 4: Of course you're gonna throw shade. But like then, don't
be oh my gosh, you got hacked. No, but she's
jealous as fuck.
Speaker 1: Probably, yeah, I'm sure. I mean look that I saw
her when Josh first showed up in town and he
I think they grew up together. Yeah, and she looked
pretty and I was like, oh, it's like the girls today.
Oh your mom, your mom's pretty, but your step mom's
on fire. You're really upgraded. That was like crazy right,
but it was sort of like I remember looking at
her going, oh, well, i'll tell you what, money got
soaked into her pores because she looked the part like
she went yeah. I mean she went full on and
like almost too much. Like I was like, oh, I
kind of liked you better before. And uh, not that
it's any of my business, but now the Harley Steinfeld.
But I think at some point, aren't you conscientious of
where you are on the playing field of life? Okay,
I dated Josh Allen. People know me from that, and
it puts you into a believe me, she's probably on
the arm of some millionaire. Yeah's act you know girl,
and and probably you know lovely. But that kind of
ship to me is very talent. It's trash in my mind.
Speaker 4: Well, and like you trash again, you always just I
think you want to anyone who dates your ex after
you you still want to be like the better looking
or the you know, better person in general, and so
it's just conscious.
Speaker 1: Lay all right, well, we'll take them moment. There was
something else I wanted to do since you were here
and I and.
Speaker 4: Read emails talk about.
Speaker 1: Well, I read some of the comic Oh that's it. Yes,
the pod drama the pod drama. Should I spill it off?
You should because because at the risk of hurting someone's feelings,
I don't want to do that. Well, yes, and the
person is genuinely liked. I guess I can just say
it right, it's it'll be my interpretation of it.
Speaker 4: I'll see how it happened that when I walked in tonight. Yes,
I said, how's the soldier? Because the last time.
Speaker 1: We should brainstorm more often. Yes, I'm so glad. I
literally I had a problem today and I'm getting worried
about myself. I'll just say this. I was going through
and I'm like, let me knock some of these bills out,
like pay pay some bills, and I couldn't remember the
water and sew it's company name. I could not do it.
And it's a weird name, right, And I'm like, God,
I know I had it, and I used to have
it saved, but I guess I had it saved in
another computer and this is a new computer and I
can't find it. So I wind up calling my uh
where I live, the main office there, and I go
and they're like garbage. Will that No, that's part of it.
I go Oh, you mean water and Sewage. I said, yeah,
I would have never come up with the name. Like,
it's freaking me out.
Speaker 4: Not like Monroe County, Ah.
Speaker 1: This is a company out of Utah, I know, but
either way, I just I couldn't come up with that,
and it was freaking me out. And just now I'm like,
I know there's something else I wanted to.
Speaker 4: I think it happens to everyone though, like when you
walk in a room and you're like, what the hell
did I just walk in?
Speaker 1: Well, I'm realizing how adhd I am, and I'm trying
to battle that. But I may try to do it
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don't tell your supern's keep you don't be whims. You
don't pull a mask on a hold on range around.
You don't mess around with him. But don't do that.
Don't mess around with Jim. Now this is what happens to.
It's a great story.
Speaker 4: What out of sound down the pam my car.
Speaker 3: Ma calls your boy.
Speaker 1: He said, if you can put a man named Jim,
I am a bull shooting board.
Speaker 3: My name is Will in my car, but down home
and camm and slim, damn looking pull the king.
Speaker 1: I bought a second speed, he drove on drop five,
got back. I mean just a picture. It's just like
I love the lyrics. And if I said, don't.
Speaker 7: Jim bring you don't a man's game.
Speaker 1: You know, you know the mask off that hold on
range or in your dom mans around with jam but
that out. I don't guess what happens? What all the
fool root? And then they come by my in no
board streams. It comes Jimmy and wearing a cuntain wood doom.
They don't the bar that wasn't wood.
Speaker 4: It won the souls, all the big man's beats.
Speaker 1: Right, and you were talking about a hundred faces, and
he jotted a couple of them all and.
Speaker 4: You knew better believe it's on a Domna.
Speaker 1: Story wearing a big game hit the floor.
Speaker 5: Every saying you don't talk an.
Speaker 1: Listen to the mask, red frown he slipped. I slim
came in and cleaned up. Jimmy got his. That's it.
I don't know where that's not hustling. People's strange to you.
Even if you do got it to the beast custom
they've got you, you don't. I always just I just
I don't know why I fell in love with these
this guy, I.
Speaker 4: Totally see, like the taking an edible and listening to
that music at Lincoln Hills Farms.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah.
Speaker 1: I have never been to Lincoln Hills Farms. I drive
by it a lot, but I've heard I know people
who've been there. I know weddings that have happened there.
Speaker 4: And different great like jam music a lot there.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I'm sure. Yeah, take an edible and go Yeah,
look at that. That sounds pretty good. I yeah, I
was waiting. A kid said something to me today like
I don't want to wrap myself out. They were trying
to leave to go get a coffee that they had
allegedly dropped off for a teacher, and then they think
the teacher wasn't there, and and then I want to say, well,
I had some coffee this morning. I just told him myself,
I don't want to say what I had this morning.
It's what they said. So I'm thinking to my they
had an edible. I don't say anything, and they go,
I already had some coffee, So I guess you're not
gonna let me go see if that coffee is still there, Like, no,
I can't lets you leave the room.
Speaker 4: But it's one of my friends. I just found out.
I knew she was sober, and the other day she goes, oh,
I take a ed, well every single day.
Speaker 1: California Sober.
Speaker 4: Yes, the California Sober.
Speaker 1: California Sober. You can call five eight five two six
eighty eight sixty six and you can leave messages like this.
I have not listened to these. We will try to
just see what these are.
Speaker 7: And any point, Hey, man, I have Thanksgiving to you
and yours Sope you have the good weekend.
Speaker 1: How sweet? Was that? Very nice? Here's another one. See
what this one's going to be. I don't want to
call the person.
Speaker 13: Hey, I don't know if I'm speaking to Bill Moran
of the absolutely named Bill Moran podcast. So this is
going to be a bit of an odd situation. But
I was just stumbling around on YouTube after work.
Speaker 1: I have not listened to these, and.
Speaker 13: I found your videos to be really insightful and entertaining. Uh,
I'll just cut to the chase. I work for a
podcast producing group we sponsor.
Speaker 1: I would, I swear to God, Laura, I would have
never please.
Speaker 13: So if you, I don't know if his number is
still active, found it from the YouTube videos, but if
you'd like to uh call me back soon. I'd love
to tell you a bit more about myself and what
we do. Maybe I can hear the same from you.
Speaker 1: But I would have never I would, I swear to you, Laura,
because that's such a self serving, beast bag thing. And
I like to think I like to think I have
enough in the emotional bank with people to know that
I would never like What the fucker? Yeah, that's exactly
what I'm waiting for. Wait, wait, here comes the here
comes their white waits. What's up, fuckers? Here comes Let's
see a little sucking.
Speaker 7: Unread text messages are probably from me, But did you
just see where the Supreme Court was involved? Where now
California fifteen percent of all pork produced or fifteen percent.
California consumes fifteen percent of all pork produced in the
United States, And now they're going to make it a
law that prick in the pigs that are raised have
to have a few more square feet because it's in humane.
You know, pigs get fed, hogs go to slaughter now
that they need a little bit more room in their
stalls else but California is not going to buy your
fucking pigs.
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, okay of this. So this is pressure
on the Midwest farmers from California, and I get it.
And if you were to ask me, and if you
were to ask most people, I don't think they know
anything about this and nor do they care. No, like
in the big picture things. But when you tell me
something like that, I think most people go, oh, that
sounds shitty. You know, the pigs genetically were close enough
to pigs that I believe the pig valves. Somebody still
alive because they got a pig valve in their heart,
you know what I'm saying. So I don't know that
this stuff goes on. If SOE came to me with
a petition, I probably would be persuaded to sign it.
But it's not something I think about, And nor do
I really give a shit. You know, I'm going to
eat the pork either way. I made pork. Yeah, I mean,
which is bad. I guess I don't know what that
says about me. I think it says to most people
that we get caught up in an emotional moment and
we're not really thinking about it, because what are the
bigger ramifications of this? How much harder is it for
the farmer, how much? How what a pain in the
ass is this for the farmer? And I just say that,
look at the other side. They're the one that are
trying to sustain and maintain a life, and they're working
their asses off right set up to sundown. There are
farms that do extremely well. I happen to have one
in my family that was the Munson's, my dad's brother,
my uncle Joe, married a woman whose parents were from
Sweden and they were farmers in the Midwest. They had
ready for this title contract with McDonald's and a peak
contract with DELMANI and her brother. In nineteen eighty five
had taken over the farm and was named Farmer of
the Year in the USA. They're like a huge corporation.
That's a huge corporation. But if I'm just a guy
who's living off my pigs, and now you're telling me
I got to get I got to find another six
square yards for this to happen, that can make it tough.
They could almost put somebody out of business to think
about these things sometimes when you do it, because do
you really care about the pig? Your fucking liars? Do
you know what I'm saying? I just want bacon with
my mimosa at brunch. That's it. That's all I want.
If I'm being honest. Okay, let's get to the tea. Well,
I'm just I sometimes I believe that's really the truth
with people, and I think that sometimes it's hard to run.
You know, it's hard to run a business, right, I mean,
you've done a hell of a job. You should be
so fucking proud of yourself, seriously that you while making
like organizing and be like if my sister came to
me and goes, I'm gonna be a professional organizer, Like, hey,
how's that gonna work? You've done it. You're you're called in.
You've got other people calling and go, hey, we got
a hoarder. You got to come in here and you know,
get their dirty diapers out from under the couch. But whatever,
good for you. But how hard that is. Now take
somebody who maybe generationally the farmer the business. We know
how hard it's been the you know, the economy goes
down and now I got to find six more fuck
in the yards. I gotta I gotta do this, and
I got some bureaucrack coming out to measure. Fuck off
would be you can understand why people get pissed, and
at the same time I might go on a poor
little pig. Yeah it makes sense. You give them a
little more room, but I'm not thinking about the next step.
How much harder that could be for the farmer. All right,
I've made my point, uh tea. Laura came in here
today and you said what I said.
Speaker 4: Hey, have you heard from the soldier? How was he doing?
Speaker 1: And the reason because you were here on the Monday night?
Were you here Monday?
Speaker 3: No messages?
Speaker 4: The messages going on last Monday?
Speaker 1: That's right, that's right, the text message we have a
group touch change. I forgot Monday. You're not always in Okay,
so you the thing goes off? Can I can I
just bitch for just a moment for it? It's fucking
ding ding gan ging gingking ging. Everybody's got to be
a fucking comedian. And that thing I notice. Do you
realize Do you realize how infrequently though I comment on thing?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I just can't get sucked into it, you know.
And I see there's one person in particular who answers
all the time, NonStop, non soup and has very funny responses.
I will not deny that. I know they're very funny,
but that was it. So, Yes, he had a fisher.
That is what it's called. And I don't know if
that's like a hammerhon or, a tear in the aighties,
or a pro lapse datus. I'm not sure.
Speaker 4: He literally said that his butt was bleeding. Yes, and
you and I came back with seconds apart with the
exact same joke.
Speaker 1: Yes, that is true, that's unfortunate, and that is called hack. Yeah,
it's that easy. That's when when people say hack, comic,
hack writer, it just means the lowest common denominator.
Speaker 4: Well, I went a little more to the extra.
Speaker 1: Yes, what did I say? You said, like, oh, I
didn't know you were I thought, I said no, I said,
I didn't think you were into pegging. Pegging, Yeah, that's
where a woman puts a strap on on and takes
the man to town.
Speaker 4: And I said, I knew Marianne wore the pants and
the relationship. I didn't realize she also wore the strap on.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, I just want you to know it. Thanksgiving,
my father said to me, you could raise your humor
up a little bit of once in a while from
the bathroom all the time, and then said then says
at another point, he says to me, eh, you and
my father, if there wasn't a bathroom, you'd have nothing
to talk about. I'm like, I don't, I don't fucking know.
You got on me about the podcast. I talked about
Thanksgiving dinner and goes were we at the same restaurant?
Speaker 4: Oh, when your dad got mad about the wine?
Speaker 1: Well that was last year. This year not. We went
to a different restaurant and we somebody secretly started a
liquor tab so he wasn't gonna it doesn't matter anyway,
It all worked out wonderfully, fine, no problem. But I
was talking about this woman who I think it was.
There was a lady who kept smoking inside the restaurant
and they were trying to shoe her outside, and I
think she was from Russia. And uh, my father must
have missed that completely because it was what were we
even at the same restaurant. I listened to your podcast.
I thought you didn't listen, but Mark. So Mark was
not here that Monday night because of the problem. And
we did talk about this on the podcast that night,
and we also talked about the night before I had
gotten a text from Matt saying that we need to
bring this up. Mark, I don't know agreed to talk
about it that but I don't think you this was
part of the group text, but yes he said, okay.
So Mark showed up at bTB where Matt Reese is
the manager and does a phenomenal job. Their winter specials
are out. You can see that and at the on
their Facebook page. It's facebook dot com BETB Wood Fired
Pizza and Girl, just in case you're looking. So Mark
goes there, he gets drunk. He's supposed to have done
something with Maryann, his girlfriend that day, and then something somehow.
I think maybe Matt said I thought you were doing
X y Z and he goes, oh should I forgot?
I totally forgot. So the joke was she wanted to
go to Fairport Music Fest earlier this year and remember,
and he said, I don't want to do that. But
she's taking him to Vegas. She took him to see
Sammy Hagar. She was taking him to Vegas to see Blake. No, no, no,
the who's the the I think it was Blake Shelon. Yeah, yeah,
I thought it was the Ausy.
Speaker 4: But then it's like two Blake Shelton, and then they're
going back for someone else.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they were going back for somebody else. Might may
have been another Sammy or another show or Barry Manila,
I have no idea. So we were busting his balls
on that well, uh, things were being said, and then
I were I thought the jokes were more in my memory.
I didn't go back and re listen, but in my
memory it was more, uh saying kind of poking fun
at him being a shitty boyfriend, right or or or whatever.
And whether or not that's true or not, we don't know.
She's kind of like give it's like a shitty, stupid
sitcom that made every father look like the dopey dope
couldn't figure anything out right, And we were just poking
fun in Mark like that. And I don't know that
he's really liked that with her because she you know,
they do things together and they'll tell me all the time. Yeah,
Marian and I went here and we went there.
Speaker 4: So he does stuff like the casinos a lot, don't they.
Speaker 1: I don't know, your pigeonhole, which is really great because
this is going to only make things better. I think
that's fucking awesome.
Speaker 4: Thank you, birthday, That's what I was thinking.
Speaker 1: They go to the casinos, right, and they sit in
front of the penny slots they all night, they get
free drinks they uh see. So we were just picking
on them about that, and then most of it was
about the anal fisher and what is an anal fisher
and all this stuff, and somebody said, he's not gonna
be happy with this, or I think Kevin said to me,
who's going to get the text first about how man
he was? And I said, if anybody gets it, it
should be me, right, and I did. I got a
text later that night, and I'm gonna paraphrase. I won't
even go back and read it, but it basically said
something like, hey, I don't want to be part of
the podcast anymore. You know, you guys went too far.
Think about how Marianne would feel. And I was thinking, like,
I didn't think we said anything bad, but we also
just heard me say I feel like they took the
little girl cancer story and blew it out of proportion. Okay,
So and there are gonna be people who go, how
the fuck can you say that? Asshole? Right? So, I
don't know how Maryann's feeling. I can't. Honestly. I mean,
I like to think I'm somewhat of a rational human being.
I'm not going to tell you how to feel, so
I don't know. I like to if we were sitting
in a room together, I would go, come on, we
were big defending her, making you look like it, so
he said, and it's probably for the better anyway, blah
blah blah. So I respond with, I'm disappointed, but I understand,
you know, I thank you for all the fun you've
brought to the podcast something like that. And I don't
hear from anybody about anything. So and I said in there,
don't blame anybody else. This is all on me. I
certainly encouraged it and said things and all that. I
don't want anybody else taking bullets for anything, right because
in the end, where's the buck stop? It's my name,
it's my show. I put it all together. I like
these people, but I don't want them getting yelled at
for something they said. And I saw, you know, I
get it, so he so. Then I get a text
over the weekend saying this this part might get me
in trouble. And who knows couples have bumps along the way,
and he said, we broke up, and he goes, certainly
there were things that you know were going on. But
I said, I'm so sorry to hear that. That's what
I said, and he said something to the effect of
he said nothing to THINCTI there's a lot of things
going into this, but you guys certainly didn't help, okay,
So I'm like, okay, So I just said yeah again,
my sincereus apologies. And then there was Monday, and I
wound up. That was yesterday, right, Oh my god, the days.
I feel like I'm doing so much in a day
these days that I honestly teaching well something and stuff.
But anyway, so I have these guys were all set
to go in. I had a bit of a I
had a parent situation, a parenting situation that I felt
like took pressing in. So I called an audible and
I said to Matt and Kevin, don't come in. I
don't think Mark was definitely not coming in. And I
said to Matt, by the way, I don't know if
you know any of this, and he's like, no, I
knew nothing, and I heard nothing, and I go good.
I said good, because I'm glad he didn't text you
guys and say you said shit behind. I'm going to
get in so much trouble for this, but whatever, So
I wrote Mark maybe I wrote a Monday earlier in
the day, and I just said, if you ever have
a change of heart, I said, I know you're done
with the podcast, but if you ever have a change
of heart, please know you're always welcome. Yeah, that's all
I said, because that was it, because I never want
these things. Sometimes we get frustrated and somebody writes a text,
and his text were not nasty, they were not mean.
They were concise and calm, and you know what I mean.
They weren't like all capital letters where you know someone's
yelling atsholes. There was none of that, not even close.
He just And that's when I always figure somebody's really
genuinely hurt, right when they're kind of a little more
like hey man, I just know and they walk away
and you don't hear from him again. And the fact
that he didn't tell anybody else, I was like, oh,
he is really hurt, which and I also don't want
to be I always think that people are like, hey,
come on, they're not sincerely apologizing to you, you know,
as I tell this whole story. I apologize and that
I'm telling you a story, but it's sort of dropping
because he is a beloved this podcast. I hear many
many people say to me, I so like that guy,
Like I didn't know what to think of him, but
I really like him.
Speaker 4: I think the first time I met him, I thought
it was a creep, but then I'm like, oh my god,
I love him.
Speaker 1: See that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So my favorite thing is the magnet up there on
the fridge mark being a peeping top to me being nude.
Speaker 1: So a listener created that I want to know, but
and I hit it so no one could see it.
And I wanted to make sure I will tell you this.
I will admit to something. Something else did show up
in the mail with a mark and you reference to it,
and I threw it out. What I did? I threw
it out. I just didn't want to enter any I
wasn't sure how anybody was going to take it. It
certainly could be funny, but I was like, nah, well,
I didn't know you that well then, and I don't
want to My big thing and I mean this sincerely
with the podcast, and this is why I'm telling the
Mark story is because my whole thing in life, people say, ah,
you're a dick, You're both. No, I don't have busting
balls and playing, but I never wanted anybody, especially in radio.
I would see people in radio where there was a
guy we called dead arm Pat because Pat would just
walk with his arms hanging down and his head slung
them forward. And he was the producer of another morning
show and a building we did a morning show in,
and they would just beat the shit out of him.
And you hated coming to work, and I go in
radio or entertainment, you can't hate going to work. I'm
not gonna say every day is going to be a
bet of roses. I'm not going to say there may
be some stressful moments, but what are you really fucking doing?
You know? And same thing here, this should be just fun.
Can we get a little serious? Absolutely, I like to
be a little more intelligent at times. It's hard, but
I'm just saying like that, So this with him, I
don't want him to walk away going I fucking hate
you guys. You ruin a really important thing in my life.
Speaker 4: It is sort of like going back to that you know,
preschool playground where if you tease someone. It's like a
sign of endurance.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we all tease each other.
Speaker 1: I like, I mean when you do it, I find
it even funnier because here comes, you know, a little
miss Hi. I'm an organizer, and I did fuck you.
It's like woo.
Speaker 4: I love how Dan that hates that I call him Danny,
So I'm like, hi, Danny, you know like I But
I think that all of us we put ourselves out
there too, and we're like used to picking on each other. Like,
I'm surprised you don't get voicemails of people picking on us.
Maybe you do, maybe you scream.
Speaker 1: Those are well. I didn't screen tonight, and I feel
bad because I go, hey, I was just I was like,
it's very entertaining.
Speaker 4: I have no idea signing you up.
Speaker 1: By the way, it could be complete scam.
Speaker 4: Like but like so if going back, I know that
we all pick on Mark, Mark and Kevin go back
and forth like their brothers. But I I love it, Like,
I think it's so funny. Maybe it's because I'm here
and you see it and you see that there is
also like love and friendship and everything. If any of us,
if I had texted you guys saying my ass is bleeding.
You guys would have ripped me apart all the entire pot.
Speaker 1: I don't know I would have I would.
Speaker 4: Have no, come on, you would have There would have
been jokes, not would have been jokes. So like, he
can't be so sensitive, and Mark definitely is sensitive, like
you know, but we love him and that's why it's
like it's sad if he's gonna I feel bad about
the Marianne stuff and maybe all that. Maybe you'll get
back together holidays, come on, get some No, maybe it's
not taken her to Fairport. Help, No, Mark, you gotta
come back. We got to talk about your watching stories.
They're the best.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So, but he didn't make a big deal because
Matt said me he had no idea.
Speaker 4: Now maybe I'm surprised about that.
Speaker 1: Matt was very like shocked. Yeah, just genuinely. So I
have no reason to question that at all. And that
guy's only been upfront with everything.
Speaker 4: So uh, I was like, Matt tells it like it is.
Do I love it?
Speaker 3: All?
Speaker 6: Right?
Speaker 1: Laura, this has been so much fun. You know, I
really appreciate you coming in food, you stopping buy unexpectedly
and all of a sudden getting his Chinese food for
his son. That was great, big plans for the weekend.
Oh yeah, you got a comedy show. You on a
comedy show.
Speaker 4: You're going to comedy shock.
Speaker 1: I think it's great.
Speaker 4: Well I thought it was a group effort.
Speaker 1: Somebody wrote the dope you Oh god, no, but I
think that's great.
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna I'm not meeting this person.
Speaker 1: And no flowers, no flowers. Yeah, not gonne sign up
for the month. No, I'm not going that gout abruptly
changed when And I've never heard from Earl again. See,
I guess there are sometimes the podcast has really done
some bad stuff. I suppose I don't know.
Speaker 4: I've never heard roses when I say no, turn it out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was like, how many months were you
getting those?
Speaker 4: Three months?
Speaker 1: Three months? All right? For Laura Organizer go to what
is it again?
Speaker 4: Hollished Home Organizing dot com?
Speaker 1: Polished Home Organizing dot com. She does a great job.
People rave, they do they rave.
Speaker 7: Uh.
Speaker 1: And we may have a special show even Friday. Yeah,
it'll be two year anniversary. We'll get to We'll tell
you all about that in coming episodes. I'm Bill Moran
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