1 00:00:04,719 --> 00:00:07,719 Speaker 1: Hi, my babes, Welcome back to Vanity. Farah. My name 2 00:00:07,799 --> 00:00:13,880 is Chris Farah, and I am overjoyed, I mean, on 3 00:00:14,119 --> 00:00:17,480 bated breath to talk to you today about this episode 4 00:00:17,519 --> 00:00:21,800 of ninety Day Fiance season twelve. It's episode six, when 5 00:00:21,879 --> 00:00:27,079 two worlds collide, which reminds me of Adele's hometown Glory. 6 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:34,560 I like it in the city where two collide, you 7 00:00:34,679 --> 00:00:39,479 get the people in the government, everybody taking different sides. 8 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:44,000 I sound just like her, I know that, minus the accent. 9 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:46,119 And I mean, let's be honest, I can't sing like her, 10 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,159 but I do love that song. Oh God bless Okay, 11 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:53,880 So let's start my babes with Katie and josh Honey. 12 00:00:53,960 --> 00:01:01,799 Katie and Joshua, we know them now. They have moved 13 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:06,040 into their new place and they've slept on her disgusting 14 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,640 twin size mattress. And in the morning, you know they 15 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:13,280 barely slept. She's already gone from the apartment. Josh is 16 00:01:13,359 --> 00:01:17,879 making breakfast for himself and he's like, yeah, Katie got up, honey, 17 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,840 and she ordered a pizza for breakfast. That's why I 18 00:01:21,879 --> 00:01:24,879 think it's interesting. So she orders a pizza for breakfast 19 00:01:24,879 --> 00:01:27,120 for her and He's like, I can't do that, honey. 20 00:01:27,159 --> 00:01:32,120 I'm a proper British gentleman. We have a proper breakfast 21 00:01:32,159 --> 00:01:35,760 of eggs and beans on toes whatever they make. So 22 00:01:35,799 --> 00:01:38,640 he does make eggs, and he considers eggs breakfast food, 23 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:42,959 which is true and a high protein. He's like, yeah, 24 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,000 I mean, I couldn't sleep on that disgusting twin mattress. 25 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,079 He's just is complaining about the size. I'm like, did 26 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,239 you see it? Does it smell? He's also like, and 27 00:01:51,319 --> 00:01:53,680 the garage beeps. I don't know what I would do 28 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:57,280 if I had to, if I moved into a place 29 00:01:57,359 --> 00:02:02,200 and realized that there's a loud noise every time the 30 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:07,920 garage opens. Also, can you just like tell management. I 31 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,560 don't understand why there has to be a garage noise? 32 00:02:11,479 --> 00:02:15,400 What's the thinking that, Like, there's so much many pedestrians 33 00:02:15,439 --> 00:02:17,680 walking back and forth in front of the garage. They 34 00:02:17,719 --> 00:02:20,199 want that beep to happen so people know cars are 35 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,599 coming out. Because for me, you can take out the 36 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,120 beep and just put two of those big ass mirrors 37 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,360 on each side so the person coming out won't hit 38 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:30,560 a person. I mean, they have to know that that 39 00:02:30,759 --> 00:02:34,360 sound is like annoying as hell. I had to complain 40 00:02:34,599 --> 00:02:39,319 I wouldn't pay rent. So anyways, he's like, Americans love cars, 41 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,199 which I know is true because America is huge, and 42 00:02:44,199 --> 00:02:48,520 we don't have a lot of like proper public transportation 43 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:55,520 systems unless you're in like San Francisco, New York. Chicago 44 00:02:55,599 --> 00:02:58,479 is so spread out, you know. La is like, you know, 45 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:03,680 we have a metro now called the D, So everyone's 46 00:03:03,719 --> 00:03:10,319 like riding the D and it's hilarious. But you know, truly, 47 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,479 La is so spread out that it's not I mean, 48 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,120 if you can afford a car, it's it definitely makes 49 00:03:17,159 --> 00:03:19,520 more sense in how much you have to drive. Okay, 50 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:24,639 So he makes his eggs honey, and he says that 51 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:30,120 she told him that she doesn't care how chickens are 52 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:34,080 raised because she doesn't believe like words like organic or 53 00:03:34,159 --> 00:03:37,719 cage free. She thinks they're scams. And she told him 54 00:03:37,759 --> 00:03:41,159 he better buy some cheap ass eggs, hopefully they're old. 55 00:03:41,199 --> 00:03:45,319 Buy old cheap eggs, bargain basement eggs, because that's what 56 00:03:45,639 --> 00:03:47,280 I would do, and that's what you have to do. 57 00:03:48,759 --> 00:03:53,680 And I am bougie. Oops, I'm bougie as fuck when 58 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:55,840 it comes to food, like I just am. I wish 59 00:03:55,919 --> 00:03:57,800 I wasn't because it'd be cheaper, for sure, But I 60 00:03:57,879 --> 00:04:02,280 just am like I of an heirloom egg, Like I 61 00:04:02,319 --> 00:04:05,039 love an egg that's like blue, you know, on the outside, 62 00:04:05,039 --> 00:04:06,639 and then you you know, when you crack it, it's 63 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:11,159 like the most gold in his golden yolks. I was 64 00:04:11,159 --> 00:04:13,639 like a vegetarian f for so long, and I, you know, 65 00:04:13,759 --> 00:04:18,879 God Bless work today vegan restaurant. And there's like a 66 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,439 compassionate part of me that like understands that I'm sad 67 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:27,360 that I'm eating like, you know, lives. I still eat 68 00:04:27,399 --> 00:04:29,079 all the lives, you know what I'm saying. Like my 69 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,600 own trajectory of this was, you know, I had weight 70 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,519 loss surgery in twenty seventeen, and when that happened, my doctor, 71 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,959 I was a vegetarian before the weight loss surgery. My 72 00:04:40,079 --> 00:04:44,480 doctor pretty much was like, yeah, you know, you have 73 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:49,120 to eat meat because you will have a very small stomach. 74 00:04:49,199 --> 00:04:50,879 I mean, who knows, I think it's a normal size now, 75 00:04:50,959 --> 00:04:53,879 God Bless, but like you have, you can't eat too 76 00:04:53,959 --> 00:04:56,519 much at one time, and so you have to make 77 00:04:56,560 --> 00:05:00,600 sure that whatever you're eating has like enough protein nutrients. 78 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,079 This is what my doctor told me, so don't come 79 00:05:02,079 --> 00:05:04,439 from me. Okay. So I was like, well, okay, I 80 00:05:04,439 --> 00:05:07,519 guess no more, you know, vegan mac and cheese, you 81 00:05:07,519 --> 00:05:12,720 know whatever. It was. So having said that, I try 82 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,560 my best to eat like mindfully and thoughtfully when it 83 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:20,079 comes to meats and things, especially when I bring into 84 00:05:20,079 --> 00:05:22,839 my house. So I try and have like grass fed beef. 85 00:05:23,759 --> 00:05:27,279 I mean, you know, they're still slaughtering them, and I'm 86 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,160 still eating eggs that were like taken away from its 87 00:05:29,199 --> 00:05:32,079 mother's So I mean, you know, I'm not doing you know, 88 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:34,800 I quote unquote Lord's work. I'm just I guess making 89 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:37,639 myself feel better. But I will say that a fresh 90 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:42,160 heirloom egg definitely tastes yummy. I've already talked about how 91 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,680 I can't do like hard boiled eggs and plastic packaging, 92 00:05:44,759 --> 00:05:47,079 like I just I get the ick real easily. So 93 00:05:47,439 --> 00:05:51,519 especially eggs can give you the eckugh. Okay. So anyway, 94 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:55,120 so she comes home and she's like, yeah, you know, 95 00:05:55,639 --> 00:05:58,079 don't spend more than one cent on an egg. And 96 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,480 their goal is to get some furniture in this place. 97 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,319 And she is like, well, just do a list of 98 00:06:04,319 --> 00:06:06,439 the essentials. What if you have and He's like, I did. 99 00:06:06,439 --> 00:06:08,360 She's like, what's in the list. He's like, well, an iron, 100 00:06:08,519 --> 00:06:12,720 ironing board and iron She's like why, He's like, because 101 00:06:12,759 --> 00:06:15,879 I like to make sure I don't have wrinkles in 102 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:18,600 my clothes. She's like, and then he's like a dining 103 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,240 room table and dining room set. She's like, we don't 104 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:24,000 even need that, and I'm like, who are you Thomas Jesus, 105 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,439 I miss Thomas Lee's has a table and then he 106 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,279 has to yoga blocks. I mean, Katie, want't you like 107 00:06:28,319 --> 00:06:33,040 be with Thomas? Then you know Paula. So basically she 108 00:06:33,639 --> 00:06:37,199 seems real weird. But we're going to go furniture shopping. 109 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,839 While there, She's like, yeah, I also just have some 110 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:41,920 a friend of mine that said she would just give 111 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,360 us a bunch of like free shit, So I don't 112 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,560 even want to buy anything until we see what she 113 00:06:45,639 --> 00:06:48,399 gives us for free. And I'm like, well then this 114 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:54,199 first of all, this is like, then don't take him today, 115 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,000 Like you should have told the producers you'll do something 116 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:59,959 else today, or you should call your friend right now 117 00:07:00,879 --> 00:07:03,560 and have her text you pictures of the furniture that 118 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,959 that person says she's going to give to you so 119 00:07:05,959 --> 00:07:08,480 that you know what's coming your way. That's what a 120 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,839 normal person would do. She's not normal. But this is 121 00:07:11,839 --> 00:07:15,839 a tale is old as time because ninety A fiance 122 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:21,240 loves to bring couples furniture shopping where one person is 123 00:07:21,399 --> 00:07:24,519 cheap af and doesn't want to buy furniture, and the 124 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,519 other person's like, why am I here then, and yes, 125 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,199 we need furniture. We need furniture, so we can't, you know, 126 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:35,040 we need to outfit this apartment. Josh. This annoys me 127 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,319 a little bit because now, Josh, I feel like it's like, well, 128 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:41,240 British people are civilized, and you know Katie is like feral, 129 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:45,680 and she is, but Katie isn't. All of us. All 130 00:07:45,759 --> 00:07:48,759 of us are like, what is your money situation? And 131 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,800 so he says it. He says that she has pretty 132 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:56,360 substantial savings, but that he made money, you know, for 133 00:07:56,439 --> 00:08:00,079 this rich family doing financial stuff, so he has money 134 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,519 or whatever. And he's like, yeah, I put a budget 135 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:09,480 together and I put aside three thousand English pounds just 136 00:08:09,519 --> 00:08:13,720 for moving expenses. And I'm assuming that he's not given 137 00:08:13,759 --> 00:08:16,800 any of that. But I also wondered, like, you can't 138 00:08:16,839 --> 00:08:19,279 tell me what eggs to buy? If I have money, 139 00:08:19,279 --> 00:08:21,839 I'm buying whatever the fuck eggs I want. Like, you 140 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:23,959 can't be like, buy cheap eggs, and I'd be like, 141 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:28,680 you can eat cheap eggs. Don't touch my carton of 142 00:08:28,759 --> 00:08:33,039 fucking heirloom organic eggs. Then like that these are my eggs. 143 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:37,200 Then fucking go to Trader Joe's and get some eggs. Okay. 144 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,039 So at this point, I'm also like if he wants 145 00:08:40,039 --> 00:08:44,000 an ironing board and an iron, first of all, just 146 00:08:44,039 --> 00:08:47,120 so everyone knows, like I've given up ironing, and I 147 00:08:47,159 --> 00:08:50,000 think steaming is the way. Maybe I don't have to 148 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:55,080 like starch any white button down shirts in my life, 149 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:58,879 and maybe he does, But every time I've ever had 150 00:08:58,919 --> 00:09:03,840 to iron, it's more hassle than it's anything. Like inevitably 151 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:08,440 trying to place a garment on that weird shaped ironing 152 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:12,279 board and then not just press more wrinkles into it 153 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:18,399 is impulsive, blas. But steaming is, I mean, steaming is everything. 154 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:22,879 I love steaming. So I almost wish she was like, 155 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,320 we can get a steamer, but she didn't say that. Also, 156 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:31,840 she is giving Marissa and how like deeply controlling she is, 157 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,720 and I want him to be like, hey, Katie, I'm 158 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,200 going to spend my money the way I want to 159 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,360 spend my money. Then, because if she's like she's not 160 00:09:42,399 --> 00:09:44,679 counting his money, she seems to be counting her money, 161 00:09:45,159 --> 00:09:47,399 and she is like really rude about it. She's like, 162 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,440 I don't trust you in your financial decisions. He's like, 163 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:53,000 what are you talking about. I don't want to have 164 00:09:53,039 --> 00:09:55,039 to sit on a yoga mat and eat. I mean, 165 00:09:55,039 --> 00:09:57,200 I don't know what Thomas and Katie have in common 166 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,960 that they're like, we don't need to eat on furniture. 167 00:10:01,279 --> 00:10:08,120 We have yoga supplies. That's enough. And also I feel like, Katie, 168 00:10:08,159 --> 00:10:11,919 do do you do yoga? Because it feels like you 169 00:10:12,519 --> 00:10:15,279 don't in the sense of like there is no peace 170 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:17,720 to be had in your mind. You know, like I 171 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,200 don't know how like much you connect movement to breath, 172 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:25,960 but it seems like some more practice could be done. So, uh. 173 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,480 They get to this furniture shop which looks cute, and 174 00:10:28,519 --> 00:10:31,120 then she's like, oh, this is cute. We can buy 175 00:10:31,639 --> 00:10:34,720 a British mug. That's good enough, and that's like not 176 00:10:34,759 --> 00:10:38,000 an essential, so like you are contradicting yourself. And then 177 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,879 he's like, well, how about this dining room set? It's 178 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:45,679 three hundred dollars, which I found to be a pretty 179 00:10:45,759 --> 00:10:49,960 chill price. Pretty chill fucking price. You're gonna get two 180 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:53,960 chairs and a tables three hundred dollars And she's like, no, 181 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,759 he doesn't make poor decisions with money unless you can 182 00:11:01,799 --> 00:11:05,600 back that up. Like from what we see, he makes 183 00:11:05,639 --> 00:11:10,320 poor decisions on people to go home with at a 184 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:14,840 bar and also think is marriage material? Surely that. But 185 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:19,240 he starts to drop things like he paid for the 186 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:22,120 whole visa process and everything. He seems to have more 187 00:11:22,159 --> 00:11:25,600 money than her, and he's finally standing up for himself. 188 00:11:25,639 --> 00:11:29,360 He's like, I won't be shamed by you, not you 189 00:11:29,519 --> 00:11:35,279 who's making out with every other Tom, Dick and Harry. 190 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,320 And I'm not, like, how can you say that? Like 191 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:42,759 you don't trust me, bitch? What what the fuck are 192 00:11:42,799 --> 00:11:45,480 you talking about? Now? I'll tell you. Katie's wearing a 193 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:49,480 cute dress. It's like a red flower dress. She looks cute. 194 00:11:50,759 --> 00:11:53,679 But yeah, Like she's like, I just think you're being demanding. 195 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,200 You know, you demand things to happen right away, and 196 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:05,080 I've been driving you this whole time. He's like, no, 197 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:09,480 I pay for things like the visa process and you 198 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,519 drag your feet, like to make you do anything is 199 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:16,360 really goddamn hard. And I think that, like the therein 200 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,559 lies a huge problem in their relationship, which is that 201 00:12:21,879 --> 00:12:28,279 she doesn't have good executive functioning. And I say that 202 00:12:28,399 --> 00:12:30,919 as someone who struggled with that, so I know it 203 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,720 when I see it. She has a hard time with 204 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:37,600 executive function which means the ability to follow through and 205 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:40,879 do things like on a timely basis. Things you have 206 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,279 to do, things that like you're not looking forward to, 207 00:12:44,639 --> 00:12:48,159 things that give you anxiety. There are people like me, 208 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:52,720 like her that run from it, and believe me, I 209 00:12:52,879 --> 00:12:54,679 had to do a lot and I still, you know, 210 00:12:54,759 --> 00:12:56,720 don't always do the greatest job of it, but I've 211 00:12:56,799 --> 00:12:59,679 like really had to sit with and knowing how to 212 00:12:59,679 --> 00:13:04,919 be better at this. So that's when he's like, you know, 213 00:13:06,919 --> 00:13:09,639 I have enough money. I'm the one that paid for 214 00:13:09,799 --> 00:13:12,200 me to come here. And she's like, well, it's also 215 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:16,720 because I told you I wasn't ready, and he was like, well, 216 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:20,759 you actually did say you were ready and that's why 217 00:13:20,759 --> 00:13:25,080 I came, which I mean is the hugest red flag. 218 00:13:25,279 --> 00:13:27,559 This is like, this is a shock. I mean, this 219 00:13:27,639 --> 00:13:30,639 is like why do we talk so much? About her 220 00:13:30,639 --> 00:13:32,720 making out with people. That's like a symptom to a 221 00:13:32,759 --> 00:13:37,679 greater consequence. I feel like another version of this is 222 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:41,320 that she has anxiety about being with Josh and having 223 00:13:41,399 --> 00:13:46,639 to like push through and do the right thing in 224 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,360 her mind, which is like treat him well and be 225 00:13:49,519 --> 00:13:54,159 in a functional relationship and you know, day by day 226 00:13:54,759 --> 00:13:57,879 live up to the promises she's made or the goals 227 00:13:57,919 --> 00:14:02,039 they both have, and like do actions that like align 228 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:04,200 with that. And I think there's a part of her 229 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:07,720 brain that knows she's not up for the task. So 230 00:14:08,039 --> 00:14:11,440 the like constant drinking and making out with people, I 231 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:16,759 think is a way for her to escape the responsibilities 232 00:14:16,799 --> 00:14:21,600 that lie before her. He hears that, and he's like, well, 233 00:14:21,639 --> 00:14:23,200 you know what, I think you have to have a 234 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:28,759 good long think if you want to be married, because 235 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:33,879 you aren't reliable and I want to be like true, 236 00:14:33,919 --> 00:14:39,720 she does also, Josh. This is who she is. This 237 00:14:39,759 --> 00:14:42,399 is who she is, for better or for worse. This 238 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:44,320 is the word. This is it. It's not even like 239 00:14:44,399 --> 00:14:50,799 what you're seeing right now isn't going to change. I 240 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:54,559 think that she has, you know, some issues or whatever, 241 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:58,559 and she doesn't seem to want to get better at it. 242 00:14:59,159 --> 00:15:03,320 Like he doesn't take accountability for the ways at which 243 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:07,600 she fails in executive functioning. She becomes very defensive about it, 244 00:15:08,039 --> 00:15:11,399 and even hearing her say, well, I've been driving you 245 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:14,600 around this whole time, I don't understand why you would 246 00:15:14,639 --> 00:15:17,000 even say that. Is that your way of being, Like 247 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:20,000 you have been doing things? And what have you been 248 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,480 doing driving both of you guys around and like to 249 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:27,480 what the weird welcome party you made for him? Where 250 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:32,480 he had to meet all the guys you like fucked 251 00:15:33,159 --> 00:15:39,120 into this furniture shop like I want to be, you know, 252 00:15:39,639 --> 00:15:43,440 looking back, she obviously had issues with having to find 253 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:46,159 this apartment, and I feel like there's another part of 254 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,440 her that sort of resented that all of this responsibility 255 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,360 was on her, because her previous choices in life were 256 00:15:53,399 --> 00:15:56,039 to ascue any responsibilities and just become like a pet. 257 00:15:56,039 --> 00:15:59,679 Set are in different places, So having to put down 258 00:15:59,759 --> 00:16:03,720 room and pick up place. I think Josh Josh thought 259 00:16:03,759 --> 00:16:06,000 that she would be doing that anyway, but she wouldn't, like, 260 00:16:06,039 --> 00:16:08,120 she wouldn't want to be doing this. It's why she's 261 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:10,960 her stuff was in storage, and so she resents that 262 00:16:11,039 --> 00:16:14,919 all of this fell on her. It also makes me 263 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:20,080 feel like Josh does not know who Katie is. Like 264 00:16:20,159 --> 00:16:23,840 Katie has shown Josh who she is in multiple ways, 265 00:16:24,159 --> 00:16:27,360 and Josh, I feel like, refuses to believe it because 266 00:16:28,039 --> 00:16:31,320 at some point you might realize that this person flies 267 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,360 by the seat of her parts. Is sort of you know, 268 00:16:35,799 --> 00:16:40,519 just what's the word impulsive? It's hard to make plans 269 00:16:40,559 --> 00:16:42,159 for is and that kind of like, you know, isn't 270 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,559 a type a person that like does a bunch of 271 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:47,519 research and has a schedule and has an itinerary and 272 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:49,440 goes by things, has like a to do list where 273 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:51,240 she like checks them off every day. It's just not 274 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:55,799 her personality. I also wonder, like, and maybe he's like, well, 275 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:59,720 I was paying for everything, why Josh didn't open up 276 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:03,919 REGs list and send her some apartments that he also found. 277 00:17:05,319 --> 00:17:08,400 She feels like she's already doing enough for that relationship 278 00:17:08,599 --> 00:17:11,400 by like not making out what someone new every day 279 00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:18,720 and being the driver. And I think that he also 280 00:17:18,799 --> 00:17:22,440 has to have a good long think, you know, like 281 00:17:24,799 --> 00:17:28,400 you are marrying someone who has been open and honest 282 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:32,480 about some of their you know, like OCD tendencies, and 283 00:17:32,519 --> 00:17:35,359 I feel like there's other things, you know. I definitely 284 00:17:35,400 --> 00:17:39,440 feel like she has ADHD, But all those things are 285 00:17:39,759 --> 00:17:43,640 there's comorbides to those kinds of things. I think, you know, 286 00:17:43,799 --> 00:17:47,839 so I don't know what her meant. I keep asking, 287 00:17:48,279 --> 00:17:52,160 like what medication is she on? Is she on medication 288 00:17:52,519 --> 00:17:55,160 those do those dosages need to be like adjusted? Is 289 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:59,000 she in cahoots with a therapist team of a psychiatrist 290 00:17:59,079 --> 00:18:03,839 and psychologist? Does she do like cognitive behavioral therapy? Does 291 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:08,680 she realize like she's old enough that there are certain 292 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,839 things she has to do, Like does this person pay 293 00:18:10,839 --> 00:18:16,759 her taxes? Does this person pay util it? I mean, 294 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,480 we know she doesn't pay utility bills. She hasn't had 295 00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:21,480 a place in a long time, but you had to 296 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:27,920 pay taxes, right, I'm assuming let the answers know. I 297 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:31,160 also wondered, and you know, the streets of redded have 298 00:18:31,279 --> 00:18:33,240 had different theories of how she makes her money. Like 299 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:37,359 to me, I could see her having like some income 300 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:43,519 from like a parental figure, because I think that someone's 301 00:18:43,559 --> 00:18:47,599 probably like bailed her out, not of jail, but maybe 302 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:51,519 but like of other things, Like I assume that she 303 00:18:51,559 --> 00:18:56,599 pays a lot of late fees, Like does she have 304 00:18:56,640 --> 00:19:04,240 a credit card? Does she pay her credit card every month? Yeah, 305 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:09,559 she she's also you know, she is rude to him. 306 00:19:11,079 --> 00:19:14,960 She's like she's micromanaging him, kind of like Marissa and Edward, 307 00:19:15,039 --> 00:19:18,920 where someone is just being like a hard ass about 308 00:19:19,079 --> 00:19:23,799 everything the other one does or says, and isn't like 309 00:19:23,839 --> 00:19:26,640 allowing space and room for the other person to like 310 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:31,240 do them or exist, especially when they themselves have been 311 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:38,359 given a lot of fucking leeway. Oh okay, let's move on, 312 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:44,720 shall we too? Malory and Rashid. So Rashid is, you know, 313 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:50,400 on the truck bed of Brandy. Yeah, Malory's like rash 314 00:19:50,519 --> 00:19:52,680 And then that's all I can say. I don't know 315 00:19:52,720 --> 00:19:54,640 how to say his real name. And you know, rash 316 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,640 is like Brandy, I don't know how to say Brandon 317 00:19:58,319 --> 00:20:04,480 Brandi in that fucking trucker hat with you know, the 318 00:20:04,519 --> 00:20:09,519 horrible hair coming out, and he says that Brandy looks 319 00:20:09,599 --> 00:20:13,240 like a caveman. And then Brandy just drinks whatever brown 320 00:20:13,319 --> 00:20:15,160 drink out of a Mason jar. I'm like, I don't 321 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:19,400 think the caveman had Mason jars, but maybe, and then 322 00:20:19,599 --> 00:20:22,880 Rashiet like lays it out. He's like, I don't want 323 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:27,559 you to call or text Mallory delete her number, and 324 00:20:27,599 --> 00:20:29,440 I like it that you call in text and then 325 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:33,799 you're suddenly at the house and Brandy hears all this 326 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:37,039 and he's swallowing the hatred that like, Rashida is sitting 327 00:20:37,079 --> 00:20:39,839 on his truck bed and he's like, let me get 328 00:20:39,839 --> 00:20:46,839 this straight. Rashid, you are mad because Malory and I 329 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,440 have a past and a life together where we've known 330 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,920 each other for a long time and be friends. He's like, 331 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:56,160 I don't care about this. He's like, okay, okay, but 332 00:20:56,279 --> 00:20:58,920 what you're saying now is that you don't want me 333 00:20:59,039 --> 00:21:08,559 to call or text Mallory ever again. No, And then 334 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:11,640 Rashid's like, well, no, can you listen to me? And 335 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:15,000 I want to be like Rashid, he did, buddy, he did. 336 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:19,759 He actually listened to exactly what you said and then 337 00:21:19,839 --> 00:21:22,640 repeated it back to you. And then you were like 338 00:21:22,759 --> 00:21:28,039 mm hmm, that's it, And then he answered no, it 339 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:33,720 was no, I won't And Rashid then goes, you know, 340 00:21:33,839 --> 00:21:36,960 I am boss in my house and she will listen. 341 00:21:37,519 --> 00:21:43,480 Now that part, I'm happy, Like Brandy looks like someone 342 00:21:43,559 --> 00:21:46,240 who would think that he's also the boss of his home, Like, 343 00:21:46,279 --> 00:21:48,759 if you know there was a lady around in his life, 344 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:51,400 I would love to know if there's a lady in 345 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:55,759 Brandy's life. Is he single? I'm asking for myself. No, 346 00:21:55,799 --> 00:21:58,839 I'm just kidding, ha ha, But like, does he is 347 00:21:58,839 --> 00:22:00,960 he really? Yeah? Is he really saying there's no ladies 348 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:03,759 for him? Because maybe Rashi would be happy if he's like, bitch, 349 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,759 I have a lady and she's the boss. You know, 350 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:14,480 she's the boss like that television show. Brandy's like, you 351 00:22:14,519 --> 00:22:16,920 know what, let me tell you this. I'm like the government, 352 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:21,720 me and taxes will always be around, will be here forever. 353 00:22:24,319 --> 00:22:27,599 You can't escape us unless you're Katie and you haven't 354 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:29,799 filed the tax return in a long time because of 355 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,240 your executive functioning. You know what I'm saying. But that 356 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:37,000 also comes back to bite you in the butt. Brandy's like, 357 00:22:37,839 --> 00:22:41,640 that's you asked me a question. I say, no, I 358 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,559 am going to continue to text or call her. And 359 00:22:45,799 --> 00:22:48,519 Rashid's like that's not respectful, and He's like, oh, I 360 00:22:48,519 --> 00:22:51,720 don't have to respect you because you came and sat 361 00:22:51,839 --> 00:22:57,559 on my truck bed. You sat your ass on my 362 00:22:57,759 --> 00:23:01,480 fucking truck so that you could to try and be 363 00:23:01,599 --> 00:23:06,039 more eye level with me. And I clocked it, and 364 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:09,440 I hate it. Get your ass off my truck bed 365 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:15,839 and Rashid has to. Yeah, Rashid didn't come correct. It 366 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,160 was weird because Rashid came with a lot of like 367 00:23:18,319 --> 00:23:21,559 machisimo energy to like, you know, tell this guy off. 368 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,720 But yeah, like his body language was like very like 369 00:23:24,839 --> 00:23:29,359 two bros sharing a beer watching the stars together. You know, 370 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,759 it seems a little what's the word fake? It seems 371 00:23:34,799 --> 00:23:37,440 a little fake, right, This fake is like that weird 372 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,240 hair coming out of his hat. You know, it just 373 00:23:39,599 --> 00:23:43,279 doesn't because it also feels like if this conversation were real, 374 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:49,720 like there would have been fisticuffs or louder voices or 375 00:23:49,759 --> 00:23:52,079 the propensity for both, and at least like an acknowledgment 376 00:23:52,079 --> 00:23:55,240 that it's not happening because of cameras. Sorry, I'm just 377 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,680 gonna keep moving my feet back and forth because I 378 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,799 don't have like a I thought of like a what 379 00:24:00,039 --> 00:24:01,759 ever set up I'm using to record this? And I 380 00:24:01,799 --> 00:24:07,319 realize I have no leg room? Okay, So I would 381 00:24:07,519 --> 00:24:10,599 love to know, like what Brandy's all right, what Malorie's 382 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:13,319 doing right now? Like I'm assuming that Mallory is like 383 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,559 low key watching and overhearing this, you know, like or 384 00:24:16,599 --> 00:24:19,359 maybe she's like taking that beer can out of her 385 00:24:19,559 --> 00:24:23,000 bangs and is like trying to listen, you know, without looking, 386 00:24:23,839 --> 00:24:26,240 because she would see that this conversation is happening and 387 00:24:26,279 --> 00:24:33,079 it's not going well. Also, doesn't like a cold drink 388 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,920 out of a mason jar kind of sound good, like 389 00:24:37,839 --> 00:24:40,240 sometimes I crave and I hardly ever have it, but 390 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:46,799 like pepsi on ice. Can you imagine having pepsi on 391 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,279 ice and a mason jar like super cold? Right now? Oh, 392 00:24:49,319 --> 00:24:53,519 it does not sound so good. I find pepsi better 393 00:24:53,519 --> 00:24:59,480 tasting than coke. Anyway, I'm gonna say the best for last, 394 00:24:59,519 --> 00:25:01,920 which is be a Medo, And I can't even say 395 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,400 I like need to work up to being able to 396 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:08,279 talk about it because it's like so intense for me, 397 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,240 like and so just know that that's going to be happening. 398 00:25:12,279 --> 00:25:14,680 And truly, there might be a part two of this episode. 399 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,880 We'll get there. I'm already twenty five minutes in, so 400 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,480 if that happens, we'll be in part two. But you 401 00:25:19,599 --> 00:25:22,839 understand I can't just like, you know, have you know, 402 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:27,400 two hour episodes. Let's move on to shan Annabel. Now, 403 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:31,519 shan Annabel weren't on the last episode, but we pick 404 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,920 up where he told her in his or his friend's bar. 405 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,559 It was a little confusing that he doesn't think that 406 00:25:37,599 --> 00:25:40,720 he cheated on Annabel, but he kissed in another woman 407 00:25:41,759 --> 00:25:44,240 and kissed his in quotation marks because everyone here knows 408 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:48,160 that he did more. And Annabel realized that he's a liar. 409 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,000 And also he even set the precedent for lying by 410 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,960 being like, yeah, because when I drink, I don't remember, 411 00:25:55,240 --> 00:26:03,599 just like Katie, so many similar people like Katie is Shay, 412 00:26:03,839 --> 00:26:08,519 and Katie's also Thomas, someone who hates furniture, loves drinking, 413 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,720 and we'll cheat on you in front of your face. Okay, 414 00:26:13,279 --> 00:26:17,200 so shy you know, made his dry toast in the 415 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,000 morning for himself. There was no breakfast in bed, and 416 00:26:20,079 --> 00:26:22,119 he's like talking to the dogs giving him treats, and 417 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:27,279 he's like, mommy Bell's still mad at me. How do 418 00:26:27,279 --> 00:26:28,960 you feel about that? Like, how do you feel about 419 00:26:29,039 --> 00:26:34,279 Mommy Bell? I want to say I hate it, but 420 00:26:34,319 --> 00:26:36,400 I kind of like am I kind of like hate 421 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,359 it and like it at the same time, and then 422 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,240 therefore it sort of makes it like meh for me. Okay. 423 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,799 He's like trying to be cute by talking about her 424 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,559 to the dogs, but he realizes she's like not paying 425 00:26:49,559 --> 00:26:53,759 attention to him. He's like, babe, an Anna Bell Bell, 426 00:26:54,039 --> 00:26:58,119 Billy Billy Bell Bel And she's angrily making the bed, 427 00:26:58,319 --> 00:27:00,440 you know where. She's like taking the sh sheets and 428 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,559 like wrapping it around the pillows and giving the pillow 429 00:27:02,559 --> 00:27:05,799 a punch. You're like, God, bless do that to one 430 00:27:05,799 --> 00:27:09,039 of the deerheads. Honey. She's giving him the hardcore silent treem. 431 00:27:09,039 --> 00:27:10,480 And so he comes into the bed and he's like 432 00:27:10,519 --> 00:27:14,960 Annabelle and she's like walks right past him. Honey. She's 433 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:18,039 wearing an outfit that is very much an Alison outfit. 434 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:25,480 She's wearing like a brown cheetah sweatshirt and like wide 435 00:27:25,559 --> 00:27:30,359 leg ripped jeans. You can it like it is one 436 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,759 of the things that he bought for her. And she's 437 00:27:33,839 --> 00:27:38,920 upset because she fully believes that he had sex with 438 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,160 someone else and he's just not telling her the truth, 439 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:46,319 which is what happened. Because literally she's on the porch 440 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,559 and she asks him, is at it did you have 441 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,680 sex with me? And the way he answers is like 442 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,880 looking up, not making eye contact and being like, yeah, no, 443 00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,839 that's that's what happened. I just well there was this 444 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,279 other thing. And she's like, what other fucking thing? And 445 00:28:01,279 --> 00:28:04,799 he's like, well there was this woman who got breast 446 00:28:04,799 --> 00:28:08,039 in plants. And I was just being you know, like 447 00:28:08,279 --> 00:28:10,920 sarcastic drunk, just super drunk, so I don't really remember 448 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,480 anything and you can't really hold me anything. But I 449 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,440 was like, oh, new titties. Huh, let me see them tits, 450 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,480 you know. And then so what she did was she 451 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:24,759 took me behind the boat or whatever the fuck it is. 452 00:28:25,839 --> 00:28:28,400 I need the lake, I'm not quite sure, and you know, 453 00:28:28,799 --> 00:28:34,079 flashed me. And then she's like, so you felt her titties. 454 00:28:34,759 --> 00:28:37,440 She touched your penis And he's like, no, no, no, 455 00:28:37,519 --> 00:28:41,759 I just looked used my eyeballs to fondle her, just 456 00:28:41,839 --> 00:28:45,319 with my eyes. Just looked good, them fresh, big gass tits, 457 00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,920 you know. And I was just like, I can't wait 458 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,799 for Annabel to be here so I can be with 459 00:28:50,880 --> 00:28:53,559 those titties instead, you know, like he just is lying 460 00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,759 these are a bunch of different things. A because I 461 00:28:57,799 --> 00:29:00,960 fully believe that if he was just at a party 462 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,599 and some girl was like I just got my tits done, 463 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,640 new boobies or me, like a billion people be like 464 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,400 show us those tits, show us those tits, and she 465 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,519 would just flash them at the party and they'd be 466 00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:15,119 like boo. You know, she would just show them and 467 00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:19,160 people be like bah. But the fact they left the party, 468 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:25,559 just them two and he said this, they walked away 469 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:28,839 and were like in a special safe area. Then he 470 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:33,160 did more than just look at them because there make 471 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,000 no sense, Like he she would flash and be like geese, 472 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,160 and then he'd be like and then she'd be like, 473 00:29:39,759 --> 00:29:41,680 I want to feel them, and then he'd be like 474 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,240 and then he would like feel you know, rock hard 475 00:29:44,359 --> 00:29:48,640 basketball tits, and like you know, he like there's no 476 00:29:48,759 --> 00:29:54,640 way that he didn't feel them tits. I get it. 477 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,319 You know. Here's the thing, like we I feel like 478 00:29:56,359 --> 00:29:58,240 we see this a lot like women do it to women, 479 00:29:59,519 --> 00:30:02,119 not me, but like there's a lot of like I 480 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,400 got new boobies. Let me see them boobies. Can I 481 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,960 feel them boobies? You know, Like remember how that happened 482 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,880 like on nine of The Fiance when like Emma was 483 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,880 feeling Chicago or something like that. More of tho, like 484 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:14,000 all those boobies were being felt maybe because I don't 485 00:30:14,039 --> 00:30:17,000 have implants and I have like you know, so those 486 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,200 are my boobs and they're like sense sensitive, like I 487 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,559 don't want people to touch them unless I want them 488 00:30:22,559 --> 00:30:26,880 to touch them. I can't imagine it's being like feel them, 489 00:30:27,319 --> 00:30:30,920 you know, because yeah I can, I can feel them 490 00:30:31,319 --> 00:30:34,279 maybe when you're you know, they're stretched real high and 491 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,039 hard against like implants like you know, like you can't. 492 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,720 I don't know. I don't know my loves. But like 493 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:46,240 he put them them titties in his mouth, and that 494 00:30:46,279 --> 00:30:49,000 girl gets free drinks for life every time she sees him. 495 00:30:49,039 --> 00:30:50,960 Now she's like put it on his tab. He owes me, 496 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:55,240 and that's like most of the town. And it was 497 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,440 a little confusing whether when he brought Annibell to that bar, 498 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:02,559 it felt like he said that he and friends opened it, 499 00:31:03,039 --> 00:31:07,440 which then makes me feel like a lot of girls 500 00:31:07,519 --> 00:31:10,119 get free drinks at that bar, whether they showed him 501 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,559 her tits or not. So anyway, Annabelle knows this. She's 502 00:31:13,599 --> 00:31:15,759 been around men, honey, she's the same age, God bless, 503 00:31:15,839 --> 00:31:17,720 she knows when a man's lying. And I know when 504 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,880 a man's lying, especially Shay who literally looks up and 505 00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,920 can't make eye contact. I mean, you can't teach that 506 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:32,720 how to lie that awkwardly and obviously to someone. Oh 507 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:38,880 my god. So he then tries to turn it around 508 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,519 on her and it's like, yeah, I just think that 509 00:31:40,559 --> 00:31:46,480 you're overreacting, and she's like, I'm sorry, what what the 510 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,160 fuck are you talking about? You told me that you 511 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,400 don't think it's cheating for you to get drunk and 512 00:31:52,519 --> 00:31:58,839 make out with someone, and you think I'm overreacting, And 513 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,240 now you told me that you got flash some titties. 514 00:32:01,799 --> 00:32:08,039 Are you insane? That's crazy? And I hate that. I 515 00:32:08,079 --> 00:32:13,119 hate that For her, I'd be like, I think you 516 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,880 can't keep your dick in your pants. That's what I think. Anyway. 517 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,799 Like for him to say that she's overreacting and try 518 00:32:18,839 --> 00:32:21,160 to make her feel bad for like being upset at 519 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,799 him when he knows he did wrong, is like real 520 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:31,400 shitty behavior, real real shitty behavior. Someone who has like 521 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,799 dodged a billion bullets, you know, of like what they 522 00:32:34,839 --> 00:32:38,200 think of, like their lives should be of like taking 523 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,799 accountability and responsibility and doesn't want it and wants to 524 00:32:41,839 --> 00:32:48,839 throw things back on people. Shy's gross. Gross, And for 525 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:52,160 some reason he has enough money in Paducah, Kentucky to 526 00:32:52,279 --> 00:32:59,119 get like be treated like a king around there. Would 527 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,079 I can't. I'm just it makes me really upset. So 528 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,279 he's like, well, you know, I think you're overreacting, but 529 00:33:06,319 --> 00:33:09,160 I apologize, and also I apologize when I told you 530 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:13,519 don't think it's cheating, all right, Well, then Anna Belle's 531 00:33:13,519 --> 00:33:16,680 gonna get drunk as fuck all the time on your 532 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:20,039 dime and show her titties and kiss a billion people 533 00:33:20,079 --> 00:33:23,599 because you don't think it's cheating. So what happened. She's 534 00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:28,720 gonna start first with Angie's dad. I would love it. 535 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,799 I would love it. That should be a storyline. She 536 00:33:33,839 --> 00:33:35,839 should go down to the lake and fuck everyone at 537 00:33:35,839 --> 00:33:40,640 the lake in front of him, make him watch and 538 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:47,400 be like, I'm sorry, I'm drunk, I don't remember. This 539 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,039 is the kind of thing that, like, you know, it 540 00:33:50,079 --> 00:33:52,720 makes me sound like a man hater, but like that's disgusting, 541 00:33:53,319 --> 00:33:55,960 and yeah, like he just thinks it's so cute. He 542 00:33:56,039 --> 00:33:57,880 just thinks it's like, well, I'll make up for it. 543 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,759 I'll set him allel the spa. But this we'll find 544 00:34:00,799 --> 00:34:04,480 out is just getting her nails done. Okay, So that's 545 00:34:04,519 --> 00:34:07,079 what happens. He's like, hey, babe, I don't want to 546 00:34:07,079 --> 00:34:08,760 be mad at me, and I don't want you to 547 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,719 not marry me because I thought of a great thing 548 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,960 to do, which is send send you to the spot 549 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:18,000 with Alison and Angie, which this also happened. Mean, obviously 550 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:21,400 this is producer led because there's not a chance in 551 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,320 hell that if someone thinks that you cheated with someone 552 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,239 that you'd be like, no, I didn't, but I am 553 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:30,039 going to pay for her and you and my dumb 554 00:34:30,079 --> 00:34:32,519 ass daughter to all go to the spa right now 555 00:34:32,519 --> 00:34:36,199 and spend time together. Like there's just not a like 556 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:38,800 it would make more sense if the producers had just 557 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:42,920 been like, okay, you send Annabelle and Alice in to 558 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,719 the spa, and just so happens because it's a small 559 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,119 ass town that Angie will be there, you know, and 560 00:34:48,199 --> 00:34:49,599 like cause then it's like, well they might as well 561 00:34:49,639 --> 00:34:52,039 have to call there, might as well have to call 562 00:34:52,079 --> 00:34:55,199 come in and get her, you know, square block French 563 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,920 is done there, you know, like make me this this 564 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:02,119 is bad storytelling. So anyway, God Bush, she is upset. 565 00:35:02,519 --> 00:35:05,119 She's like, what the fuck did you did you invite 566 00:35:05,119 --> 00:35:07,920 Angie or like you know, the producers did so then 567 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:12,760 she gets to the spa and Angie's like, Annabell, hi, 568 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,239 hi girl, can I give you a hug? And Anna 569 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:21,840 Bell's like no, but she does. She comes up and 570 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,239 she rolls her eyes so hard at camera when Angie 571 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,159 gives a hug that like you think they're gonna come 572 00:35:27,199 --> 00:35:34,280 out of her skull and Angie is just like waiting 573 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:38,079 to be slaughtered. Annabelle is in a bad mood and 574 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,480 Alison's like what's up and she's like, well, you know, 575 00:35:40,559 --> 00:35:43,920 your dumbass dad told me that he gets drunk and 576 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:47,039 makes up with women like Angie. So Angie, I have 577 00:35:47,039 --> 00:35:51,159 a question for you. Did you having affair with my 578 00:35:51,199 --> 00:35:59,239 future husband? And Angie's face is equal parts shock, horror, 579 00:35:59,519 --> 00:36:06,000 discuss a little over the top no, almost like a 580 00:36:06,039 --> 00:36:09,840 little too much where you're like did you because it 581 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:14,000 almost feels like she was like, Angie, did you you know? 582 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:18,320 Did you fuck my husband? And she's like what, No, 583 00:36:22,159 --> 00:36:28,679 why would you even think that that's gross and crazy? No? 584 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:32,840 I wouldn't. No, I didn't just get drunk and I 585 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,880 was bored one night or a couple of nights and 586 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,920 he pays for things, and like I want to get 587 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:38,880 back at my dad for like being a No, I 588 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,400 wouldn't know, that's weird, Like I don't have daddy issues 589 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:46,320 or like no, you know, like it's a little much. 590 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,159 So Allison is like eating this up because she's like, oh, 591 00:36:50,199 --> 00:36:54,159 my dad came one fourth clean with the things, but 592 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,719 like I know so much more because I've literally been 593 00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,840 there as he's like lied to her and was like 594 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:04,880 putting her one about it, and Alison like has been 595 00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,239 like a little minnie Nicole being like I can't wait 596 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,119 to tell on him, but she's also like I didn't 597 00:37:10,159 --> 00:37:12,079 have to tell on him. I guess he did it himself, 598 00:37:12,159 --> 00:37:14,639 you know, I don't. I mean, does Alison and Nicole 599 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,760 like have cahoot parties being like we're gonna fucking fuck 600 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,559 up his life the cole because she's like I hate 601 00:37:20,559 --> 00:37:22,679 your dad, and Alison's like, I want them all to 602 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:29,599 myself and his money. If annabel was smart, Annabelle wouldn't 603 00:37:29,599 --> 00:37:31,599 have come in so hot with like a don't you 604 00:37:31,679 --> 00:37:36,079 dare give her ten dollars? See, Like, the thing about 605 00:37:36,119 --> 00:37:41,519 Shay is that he's used to buying people's affection, or 606 00:37:41,559 --> 00:37:43,920 maybe in his mind it's how he shows love. Money 607 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,679 is his love language, but he also is used to 608 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:54,280 using money to buy female affection his daughters women. It 609 00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:59,559 works for him, you know, unlike a good looking physique 610 00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:04,960 or humorous kind soul. Like his way of you know, 611 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,599 creating that closeness and getting people on his side is 612 00:38:08,639 --> 00:38:13,960 to like butter them up with some Benjamins. Yeah, I 613 00:38:14,039 --> 00:38:18,320 wonder why Annabel did come in so hot, because I 614 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,400 would assume that if she wanted Allison like on her side, 615 00:38:21,559 --> 00:38:24,639 she'd be a little like, oh how nice. But Annabel 616 00:38:24,679 --> 00:38:27,239 really did. Annabel is counting his money and both of 617 00:38:27,239 --> 00:38:30,599 them are. Alison's counting Shay's money, and Shay is like 618 00:38:30,679 --> 00:38:33,360 counting his money to use on whatever woman he wants 619 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:37,719 to in that moment. Yeah, Annabel, Annabel shouldn't be worried 620 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,920 about the money he's giving Alison. She should be worried 621 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,280 about the money he's giving Angie. He's giving all the 622 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:48,440 other like Floozies and Paduca. So as Annabel is getting 623 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,119 her nails done, and you really realize that the spa 624 00:38:51,679 --> 00:38:53,920 again that Shaye brought them to was a one lady 625 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:57,199 nail shop where the other two lady just have ladies 626 00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,719 have to watch Annabel while she gets her fresh set. 627 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,239 He's like, well, I just got my nails done a 628 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,400 week ago. Because Alie's like do you even have nail 629 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:17,840 salons in the Philippines? And fucking Annabel's like bitch, yes, ah. 630 00:39:18,119 --> 00:39:20,840 They're like, well, Annabelle, how are you going to move forward? 631 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:24,639 Are you going to forgive? You know? Uh? And Annabel's 632 00:39:24,639 --> 00:39:29,800 like I don't know, which is like, you know, it 633 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:33,119 was real early in her being in America. So and 634 00:39:33,199 --> 00:39:35,559 she asked to sleep with him. That's what's awkward about 635 00:39:35,559 --> 00:39:38,119 this whole situation and also makes a little bit fake 636 00:39:38,199 --> 00:39:41,679 because you're sleeping in his bed with all those deer 637 00:39:41,679 --> 00:39:44,119 heads looking down on you. So if you were really 638 00:39:44,199 --> 00:39:45,960 that pissed and you didn't know whether this was going 639 00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:49,920 to like work out, how would you continue to sleep 640 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,519 in bed with him? Also? Are you still showering him? 641 00:39:54,679 --> 00:39:58,599 Like when you guys came back from the bar, did 642 00:39:58,599 --> 00:40:03,360 Annabelle like angrily scrub his naked body before she got 643 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:10,360 in bed with him? So many questions. Here's another question Alison, 644 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:13,440 who's been watching this and has been drinking from some 645 00:40:13,639 --> 00:40:19,159 weird glass with like different bobbles on it. It's like, 646 00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:22,360 I'm gonna need another drink. I can't deal with this. 647 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:28,159 Like Alison loves to throw it back, she loves drinking 648 00:40:28,159 --> 00:40:31,079 with her dad, and her dad makes it real easy 649 00:40:31,079 --> 00:40:33,000 by buying her drinks and also being like somewhat of 650 00:40:33,039 --> 00:40:36,679 an alcoholic, so it's just two alcoholics together, and like, 651 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,199 if it's not bad for him to do it's not 652 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,039 bad for her to do it, and they get to 653 00:40:41,079 --> 00:40:46,760 like be drinking buddies together. Misery loves company. So that's 654 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,199 another reason why I think why Alison doesn't want Annabelle around, 655 00:40:49,199 --> 00:40:52,400 because Annabel's like, stop drinking, stop cheating on me, and 656 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,000 Alan's like, fuck you let him drink so I can drink. 657 00:40:57,039 --> 00:40:59,159 If you think drinking is bad, then how am I 658 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:05,719 going to live with my kids? Also, like what nails? Like, 659 00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,760 what are they drinking at this nail salon? Yeah? I like, 660 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,840 I just I'm so whatever. I just can't believe there's 661 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,000 not like a massage involved. When you tell me spa, 662 00:41:14,199 --> 00:41:20,119 I'm assuming there's massages and facials. I'm assuming there's like 663 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:25,079 maybe a steam room, not like one lady who you 664 00:41:25,119 --> 00:41:26,599 have to wait for that one lady to be done 665 00:41:26,639 --> 00:41:29,039 with this set before you get your set, so there's 666 00:41:29,039 --> 00:41:31,719 no pedicures to be had. There's only one lady there. 667 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,480 You have to wait three rounds of a manicure and 668 00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:39,719 pedicure gonna be there for all day. My god, honey, 669 00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:48,199 help help. Okay, let's talk Paula and Thomas. So you know, 670 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:52,280 they fucked and it's the morning after, and so she's 671 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,599 happy about it because they played Spider but then Spider 672 00:41:54,639 --> 00:41:57,719 and it being like, you know, penetration, and she's like, 673 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,920 I just love your body shape. I love your big chest. 674 00:42:02,039 --> 00:42:04,559 You're like a little chubby teddy bear. He doesn't know 675 00:42:04,599 --> 00:42:07,280 whether to be offended by this or like turned on 676 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:11,079 by this. Thomas doesn't read to me as being chubby. 677 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,840 I don't understand male bodies because she I wouldn't say that, 678 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:15,559 you know, because it's like is she is? Is he? 679 00:42:16,039 --> 00:42:18,360 They seem like kind of the same size person, I 680 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:22,639 guess or whatever. She's like, aren't you gonna cook me breakfast? 681 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,679 So he gets up and cooks her breakfast? And then 682 00:42:26,679 --> 00:42:28,840 he's like, I'm hungry. Aren't you gonna cook for me? 683 00:42:29,159 --> 00:42:31,599 She's like what. He's like, well, yeah, I cook for you, 684 00:42:31,599 --> 00:42:33,880 you cook for me. And then they kind of like 685 00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:37,800 are a little angry about this situation, but also think 686 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,920 it's like kind of cute. They think it is. I 687 00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:46,039 don't where She's like, uh, huh. I yeah. He cooks 688 00:42:46,079 --> 00:42:50,000 her like tofu on toast, like in vegan butter, and 689 00:42:50,039 --> 00:42:52,719 then she's like, okay, I'm gonna cook for you in 690 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,119 olive oil. He's like, no, fuck that olive oil. You're 691 00:42:55,119 --> 00:42:58,559 gonna use beef tallow, and she's disgusted because they're vegan. 692 00:43:00,039 --> 00:43:02,519 And then he says that he has like ulcers and 693 00:43:02,599 --> 00:43:05,239 so he has to eat paleo because of that, and 694 00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,920 I'm like, I still I get that, but I still 695 00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,159 think you can. I don't. I think that you can 696 00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:13,000 use coconut oil when on the Paleo diale it diet, right, 697 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:19,519 Paleo doesn't mean you can have like certain oils anyway. 698 00:43:19,639 --> 00:43:21,239 Maybe like certain oils you can't, but you can have 699 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:27,159 coconut oil. Okay. So he's like, yeah, I basically can 700 00:43:27,199 --> 00:43:30,840 only eat rice and meat, you know, and beef tallow. 701 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,039 He brings over some mask for her to make the food, 702 00:43:34,079 --> 00:43:36,719 and she is like, yes, I can't smell it. I can't. 703 00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,039 It's too smelly. I can't do it, which will come 704 00:43:39,119 --> 00:43:42,360 back later when she says that he smells too hard 705 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,920 or whatever, I'll tell you so because she's very sensitive 706 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:49,079 about meat smells. Okay. So then afterwards he forces her 707 00:43:49,079 --> 00:43:51,199 to eat on his shitty table. You know, He's like, 708 00:43:51,199 --> 00:43:55,880 it's like we're in Japan this. You know, Japan has 709 00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,320 like reason and rhyme when it comes to in tier design. 710 00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:02,039 It's like mindful thoughtfulness, like balancing one cheek on two 711 00:44:02,159 --> 00:44:06,559 yoga blocks. But she, you know, gets over that, and 712 00:44:06,599 --> 00:44:12,320 she's like, let's say, grace, dear Quantum Physics Universe, thank 713 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:16,440 you for the miniatures and my man, and you know, 714 00:44:17,519 --> 00:44:20,400 I'm just I'm just so happy. She gets really choked 715 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,880 up thinking about how she got there. She can't believe 716 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,320 that she gets to be by the beach with her 717 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,519 green go We're like, okay, well, then lean into that 718 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,079 part of being happy about it, and you're gonna have 719 00:44:30,159 --> 00:44:33,000 to somewhat be okay with everything that comes with it, 720 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:38,679 which is definitely not perfection. So also I noticed, you know, 721 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:43,199 I forget that she's like an expert ear piercer, so 722 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,760 she like fully has a bunch of piercings in her ear, 723 00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,559 like all of the things you can pierce in the ear. 724 00:44:49,639 --> 00:44:51,960 She does, and I'm not saying I don't like it. 725 00:44:52,079 --> 00:44:54,360 Some of it looks painful, but she has one dangly 726 00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:57,400 thing like a piece of what looks like dangly pearls 727 00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:59,639 or something on the outskirts, and I do kind of 728 00:44:59,679 --> 00:45:02,440 like the she has like a different style or whatever. 729 00:45:02,519 --> 00:45:06,119 So then she goes to put her makeup on, and 730 00:45:06,159 --> 00:45:09,280 we see shots of her makeup and we'll get to 731 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:13,800 that part, and her makeup feels like some benefit, maybe 732 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:21,000 some like Lady Gaga makeup. A lot of it looks 733 00:45:21,039 --> 00:45:23,119 a little bit old and little wary. She's not someone 734 00:45:23,119 --> 00:45:26,760 who like cleans her makeup products. I've done that before, 735 00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:31,239 where like I'll take like a little alcohol wipe and 736 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,239 like some other kind of cleaner and then like I 737 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:36,679 will literally go and clean my makeup compacts and things, 738 00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:38,159 and it makes them look like new and it makes 739 00:45:38,159 --> 00:45:39,639 me feel like a goddess when I do it. I'll 740 00:45:39,639 --> 00:45:42,199 do it all the time, but I'm I don't, you know, 741 00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:45,000 I do have to wash my makeup brushes a lot 742 00:45:45,679 --> 00:45:48,000 because they gross me out or whatever. But and then 743 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:51,000 sometimes I'll just bring like some compacts over. But she 744 00:45:51,159 --> 00:45:53,000 likes doing her makeup. It feels like she like you know, 745 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,599 starts the day with a fresh face. And it's so 746 00:45:55,760 --> 00:45:59,880 interesting the days in which you are like I'm a 747 00:46:00,119 --> 00:46:02,199 to be over whatever. From home, I'm just gonna like, 748 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,320 you know, barely change out of my pajamas or not 749 00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,320 take a shower or not put on makeup. It's interesting 750 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:11,280 how the day Like I will personally feel like more 751 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:16,320 tired in the day, but if I get up and 752 00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:19,360 I like after my coffee, take a shower and put 753 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,960 on makeup and like put on clothes, I am up 754 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,440 usually having more energy for the day, which I think 755 00:46:24,519 --> 00:46:26,679 is like fucked up and weird, but it's true you 756 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:29,599 guys do that too, Isn't that weird? Why? Like maybe 757 00:46:29,639 --> 00:46:31,440 like you can say, well, like the shower does its 758 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,199 thing where like wakes up, wakes me up, or like 759 00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,760 gets me going, or you just have more energy because 760 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,119 you feel like you're ready to face the world, or 761 00:46:39,159 --> 00:46:43,159 you feel like get out there, honey, like show the 762 00:46:43,199 --> 00:46:45,159 world this face, you know. And then when you don't 763 00:46:45,199 --> 00:46:47,559 have makeup on, you're like, I'm good, I'll just be 764 00:46:47,639 --> 00:46:53,480 on the couch all day. So interesting. Today was one 765 00:46:53,519 --> 00:46:59,400 of those days where I've just been really tired whatnot, 766 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,599 And so I had the laziest day, like washing TV 767 00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,760 and you know, obviously making notes and as I record 768 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:08,039 this now it's like I didn't put makeup on until 769 00:47:08,119 --> 00:47:11,480 nine thirty pm, And it looks like I've you know, 770 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,039 had a whole day, and it's not true. I did do. 771 00:47:14,199 --> 00:47:17,760 I thankfully left my apartment and like went to the 772 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,519 drug store, went to the grocery market and like bought 773 00:47:21,559 --> 00:47:24,920 you know, expensive eggs and uh not really, but you know, 774 00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,639 I bought some like fruit and vegetables. And I actually 775 00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,559 made myself dinner or I made myself a salad and 776 00:47:30,559 --> 00:47:35,000 the reheated last night's dinner. Sometimes I don't do a 777 00:47:35,039 --> 00:47:37,280 lot in the whole day, and then I like try 778 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:39,039 and make up for it, like between the hours of 779 00:47:39,119 --> 00:47:46,960 like six and midnight. Call me a night person. So anyway, 780 00:47:47,079 --> 00:47:49,199 she's getting ready, like I said, with her like makeup, 781 00:47:49,559 --> 00:47:52,480 and she decides to put on some perfume and she 782 00:47:52,599 --> 00:47:54,079 like says that she just took it out and put 783 00:47:54,119 --> 00:47:59,880 two bloops on each neck and he hates it. He's like, ooh, 784 00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:05,679 I hate the smell of artificial cologne, artificial perfume. I have, 785 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:10,159 you know, allergies. And she knows that, and he's like 786 00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,800 making a big stink literally literally a big stink of 787 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,119 it and goes on his balcony and he and she 788 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:20,440 like hates it. She's like, what a baby perfume is 789 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,280 part of my culture? And he's like, I hate your 790 00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,639 cheap perfume and she's like, it's not cheap, and once 791 00:48:26,679 --> 00:48:30,039 she shows us it, if I was to be honest, 792 00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,679 there's no way this perfume is real expensive. There's no 793 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,760 way this little like nipple of a perfume is like 794 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:40,079 super pricey. I also like it's so interesting, like what 795 00:48:40,639 --> 00:48:43,559 why is it artificial? What is it smell like? Like 796 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,320 to me, if you say like a perfume is artificial, 797 00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:50,199 I think of it as like weird fake vanilla smells 798 00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,039 like you can think of like you know, a bad 799 00:48:54,079 --> 00:48:57,360 bath and body works spray or something. I truly can't 800 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:01,239 stand that kind of fake vanilla smell. I don't really 801 00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,519 like real vanilla in a smell, but like I can 802 00:49:03,639 --> 00:49:06,039 assume that, Like if you get a candle that smells 803 00:49:06,039 --> 00:49:09,199 like vanilla and there's like you know, varying levels of it, 804 00:49:09,199 --> 00:49:14,519 it's fine. But that was so interesting to me. What 805 00:49:14,559 --> 00:49:18,519 does it smell like? It's so small that I'm like, 806 00:49:20,119 --> 00:49:22,880 and it looks like it has actual perfume and it 807 00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:28,000 as opposed to like something that's a one note He 808 00:49:28,079 --> 00:49:30,679 hates it though, and she's like, He's like, it is 809 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,119 like your smell. It's so funny because they are both 810 00:49:33,159 --> 00:49:39,880 so highly sensitive people in their noses and in a 811 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:44,679 one bedroom apartment. And she's like, you're just so sensitive, 812 00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:48,320 You're so picky, You're so stubborn, you're so spoiled. And 813 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:55,039 I'm like, girl, so are you? Girls? So are you? 814 00:49:55,039 --> 00:49:57,159 You're stubborn? You think that you're gonna like fly with 815 00:49:57,199 --> 00:50:01,559 all those miniatures. He's like, you can say he's cheap 816 00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,559 and weird, you know, like those things are true, you know, 817 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:11,400 but like I think that you're both particular, you know, 818 00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:17,599 rare breeds. If you will, you know, you have particular qualities. 819 00:50:18,079 --> 00:50:21,880 And I'll be honest, I think I'm particular too. I 820 00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:23,440 think that I have I'm like a little bit set 821 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,800 in my ways. I'm like some version of him and 822 00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,920 Marissa together where I've lived alone enough where I'm like, 823 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:30,960 I know the way I think I like things. It's 824 00:50:31,079 --> 00:50:34,400 just that I know that you have to have space 825 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:38,360 for someone else. And I think the reason why I 826 00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,599 care about that because I am like a super sensitive 827 00:50:40,599 --> 00:50:42,840 person and like empathetic, so I like and I'm a 828 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,920 people pleaser, so I care so much about someone's experience 829 00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:49,639 with me that I tend to like just let them 830 00:50:49,679 --> 00:50:52,000 do whatever they want, Like, yeah you can, yeah, just 831 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:55,920 come on, and you don't have to take off your 832 00:50:56,199 --> 00:50:59,559 shoes this time time, even though obviously my heart screaming 833 00:50:59,559 --> 00:51:02,119 ta take off your fucking shoes. Like sometimes I do that, 834 00:51:02,159 --> 00:51:05,000 sometimes I'm not, just because I hate like having confrontation 835 00:51:05,119 --> 00:51:07,199 in those moments. But no, truly, I would rather you 836 00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:10,239 take off your shoes and I have temporary plastic things 837 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:17,000 for you butt over your shoes. Okay. She's just like, yeah, 838 00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:22,280 you're you are really intense and you're being weird about this. 839 00:51:22,559 --> 00:51:27,159 But at the same time, Wow, what amazing sniff sensory 840 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,480 skills you have. You're you could be in fucking Marvel. 841 00:51:30,639 --> 00:51:33,000 And he like picks up that she's being sarcastic, and 842 00:51:33,039 --> 00:51:34,480 he's like, you don't have to be a fucking bitch 843 00:51:34,519 --> 00:51:37,039 about it. You can just apologize or wash your neck, 844 00:51:37,119 --> 00:51:39,679 and she's like, I'm not I'm just telling you how 845 00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:42,559 amazing your sniffing skills are. And he's like, no, I 846 00:51:42,599 --> 00:51:46,440 get what you're fucking saying. Ah, but I have ulcers 847 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:49,159 in my stomach and I'm allergic to fucking perfume, and 848 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,400 that's what it is. If you do this again, I'm 849 00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:54,079 gonna have to leave. She's like, where are you gonna go? 850 00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:57,519 He's like, somewhere else where my nose can be free. 851 00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,000 I want to be. Like you live by the beach 852 00:52:01,039 --> 00:52:03,320 and you have what looks like a balcony with like 853 00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:06,280 two big ass doors, Like, open all your fucking doors 854 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:11,920 and windows right now and just let it air out. Listen, 855 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,360 You're gonna have to find a smell you like to 856 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:17,679 cover this shit up. Like I don't know, get that 857 00:52:17,800 --> 00:52:20,960 like spray. That's the orange oil. You know I'm talking about. 858 00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,159 Stoners know what I'm talking about. But it's just like 859 00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:26,599 you know, in the aisle. It's also good I guess 860 00:52:26,599 --> 00:52:28,400 to like cover other sense. But like they have this 861 00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,760 orange oil spray scent that like truly smells like oranges. 862 00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,760 It doesn't. It doesn't feel artificial. It's like I cut 863 00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,880 up a whole orange tree in front of you. You're 864 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,880 gonna have to get something like that honey into sprayed around. Also, 865 00:52:40,679 --> 00:52:43,559 it's kind of embarrassing if like your loved one doesn't 866 00:52:43,639 --> 00:52:48,880 like your perfume. She's like, what are you putting it 867 00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:51,800 on for who are you putting it on for? She's 868 00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:56,599 like me, me. In my culture, we take pride in 869 00:52:56,599 --> 00:53:01,360 our colognes, our signature sense. You know. He's like, I 870 00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,119 would love to know the notes of this sense. So 871 00:53:03,159 --> 00:53:05,719 of course he's like, give me that small ass, stupid 872 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,519 as cheap ass bottle. And then he gets super glue, 873 00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:10,760 and super glue is at shut and she's like, you're 874 00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:14,079 ruining it. He's like, yeah, that's a fucking point, I don't. 875 00:53:14,119 --> 00:53:16,360 I mean, I would love him to be like, you 876 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,239 know what, babe, if Colonne is so important to you, 877 00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:23,760 I require a different kind of scent, So let's go 878 00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:27,559 shopping and let's both pick a cent that I can tolerate. 879 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,239 I mean, but no, he doesn't say that because he's cheap. Okay, 880 00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:35,199 my loves That is the end of part one of 881 00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:39,199 this episode of ninety eight Fiance. When two worlds collide, 882 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:44,440 I have two couples to talk about still it's Edward 883 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:51,000 and Marissa, and of course Debbie and Meto. So I 884 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,199 can't wait to tell you about my thoughts about that, 885 00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:57,800 so please listen push play on part number two. Also, 886 00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:00,480 did you see that I dropped love after lock Up? 887 00:54:00,639 --> 00:54:04,320 And this is Polly. Did you see the work I've 888 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:08,880 been doing? Do you care? Do you want to see 889 00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,280 my tits? Just kidding, I'm not going to show you 890 00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:15,079 my tits, but please play those other episodes. Tell me 891 00:54:15,119 --> 00:54:19,039 what you think. I really appreciate all the love and 892 00:54:19,559 --> 00:54:21,440 time you spent with me, and I hope that I 893 00:54:21,559 --> 00:54:25,239 give you back some of it if possible, because this 894 00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:28,599 is a symbiotic relationship where we share things. All right, 895 00:54:28,679 --> 00:54:32,480 my babes, enjoy Part two. Bye.