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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, I'm back with something for you.

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<v Speaker 2>To think about. I've talked about.

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<v Speaker 1>This, I believe, once before, but today I'm gonna talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it again because obviously people need to hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>So today I'm gonna talk about being catfished and scammed.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's start off with being scammed. People will try

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<v Speaker 1>to scam you no matter what age you are, and

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<v Speaker 1>the same for catfishing. They will scam you no matter

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<v Speaker 1>what age you are. It all depends on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Mindset you have and who you are as.

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<v Speaker 1>A person if you'll fall for it. See, let me

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<v Speaker 1>just make it clear. There are some people you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have to do some extra to fool them because they

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<v Speaker 1>are locked in and you don't want to put in

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<v Speaker 1>that work to try fooling them. It's too hard. It's

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<v Speaker 1>too hard, too much work and effort that you will

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<v Speaker 1>have to put in.

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<v Speaker 2>So a lot of times people don't even bother.

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<v Speaker 1>After a few seconds, they already know whether they can

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<v Speaker 1>scam you or not, or you're easily targeted to be catfish.

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<v Speaker 2>They already know it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just after a few interactions or a few minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Communicating with you, they'll know. And it's so sad it's

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<v Speaker 2>so unfortunate that people are vulnerable and fall forward.

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<v Speaker 3>People have lost thousands, millions, hundreds of dollars because there

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<v Speaker 3>are always the praise and the predators always.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's talk about scammers. Scammers.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, scammers are oftentimes the people who are cat fishing

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<v Speaker 1>because their goal is to get something from you that

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<v Speaker 1>they want.

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<v Speaker 2>They tried to scale me back.

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<v Speaker 1>In twenty twenty three. But all baby, you know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in acting, I've been counseling, facilitations, mediations.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to bring it, and I got on them.

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<v Speaker 2>People's nerves. They hung up on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I got on their nerves. Actually it was so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't laugh at the time, but I got on

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<v Speaker 1>them people's nerves.

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<v Speaker 2>They hung upon me. Nobody got tired for that. I

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<v Speaker 2>work hard for my money.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyways, people will come to you in a million

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<v Speaker 1>different ways to scam you.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll say that.

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<v Speaker 1>From your bank, your business, about your children being kidnapped

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<v Speaker 1>or a family member being kidnapped.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, they come with all kinds of stories. Make

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<v Speaker 2>them prove it to you. Don't give them anything, make

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<v Speaker 2>them prove.

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<v Speaker 1>It to you. You become the person who's in charge.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how you get rid of them. Tell them, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, my husband, whomever is a police officer, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>let me see what they have to say. They'll hang

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<v Speaker 1>up on you so fast, and some of them are

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<v Speaker 1>so so you know, they're so narcissistic that they think, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>police officer, I'll sham him or hurt too.

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<v Speaker 2>But most times they'll back down.

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<v Speaker 1>Or if you say you're on speak a phone and

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<v Speaker 1>this being recorded for the police. So when people say, well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is being recorded, okay, great, because I'm recording too.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how you fight back.

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<v Speaker 1>So when people come to you and try to sham you,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what they're doing, scamming and shamming, you make

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<v Speaker 1>them prove whatever they're saying. If it's your bank, say no,

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<v Speaker 1>I will not give you any information because if you

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<v Speaker 1>the bank, you should have the information, and therefore I

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<v Speaker 1>won't talk with you about this over the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>I will call my bank personally, or I will go.

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<v Speaker 1>Into my bank personally. Never discuss anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Over the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You go to your bank or you call your bank,

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<v Speaker 1>and you let your bank know what has taken place.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't give your information over the phone. Never give your

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<v Speaker 1>information over the phone. If you're not sure who you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking to.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, these are a.

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<v Speaker 1>Lot of professional people. All are not professional, but some

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<v Speaker 1>of them. This is what they do for a living,

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<v Speaker 1>scamming people. So you make them prove whatever they're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>If someone tells you that I have your daughter or

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<v Speaker 1>your son or whomever, make improve it.

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<v Speaker 2>Make them prove it.

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<v Speaker 1>Soon as they say that said, well did you know

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<v Speaker 1>that their father or their mother was a police officer?

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<v Speaker 1>And they're sitting right here, so what do you have

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<v Speaker 1>to say? Make them prove it? And I know sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>things happen and they are real. Make them prove it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because in this world people are so terrible.

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<v Speaker 2>You have children scamming their own parents, pretending they're kidnapped. It.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we're in darkness. I'm telling you, we are

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<v Speaker 1>in darkness. Bottom line is you have to know who

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<v Speaker 1>you are as a person. You have to be strong

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<v Speaker 1>and know that you're not a person who's easily intimidated,

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<v Speaker 1>who's easily manipulated, none of that.

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<v Speaker 2>No matter what people say, you can't let them shake you.

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<v Speaker 1>Because there are people on every corner trying to scam

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<v Speaker 1>you out of what you worked hard for. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>a fact. So You have to be on alert every call.

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<v Speaker 1>If someone's calling you and you don't recognize that number,

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<v Speaker 1>don't answer it. If it's important, they will leave a message.

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<v Speaker 1>If they don't.

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<v Speaker 2>There you go people calling me all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you have some days left on your your vacation.

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<v Speaker 1>About what those things are called. I can't think of

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<v Speaker 1>them right now. Your time share because you know at

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<v Speaker 1>one time time shares were big, but not so much anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>You still have time on your time sharing vacation? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't because I didn't never have one. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking to myself. Click up, that's what you do.

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<v Speaker 1>Click right in their face, right in their face, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know you didn't have a time share or you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have one. You have to be on your p's

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<v Speaker 1>and q's. People get emails telling you, Oh, your bank

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<v Speaker 1>is fraud click this link. Don't click a link. Contact

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<v Speaker 1>your bank personally. If you get an email and you

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<v Speaker 1>see and say something like your accountants being here, hosh okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't give people money, Go to the police, do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do, but don't give people money.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't click on them links. Never do that. Never click

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<v Speaker 2>on links. Never click on links.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever, unless you know one hundred percent where they come from.

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<v Speaker 2>Otherwise I don't care what they say in the email,

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<v Speaker 2>don't click it.

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<v Speaker 1>I get them all of the time, people saying they

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<v Speaker 1>want to come on my podcast and all that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know you. I don't know you have all

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<v Speaker 2>of these links, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, I don't recognize any these links, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotta find me some other way.

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<v Speaker 1>In my email every single day, people trying to scam you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your package is about to be delivered, or your package

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<v Speaker 1>is being delivered and the number is delete, so you

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<v Speaker 1>just have to know. All right, that's enough on that,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's talk about this catfish and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>You have heard me.

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<v Speaker 1>Say before that people do to you what you allow

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<v Speaker 1>them to do to you. There are many people who

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<v Speaker 1>are so vulnerable, gulliball, and they're still suffering from losses

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<v Speaker 1>of loved ones, divorces, breakups or whatever, and they're longing,

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<v Speaker 1>yearning for love. I've always told you love starts by

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<v Speaker 1>you loving your self. You must love yourself in order

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<v Speaker 1>to understand love. You must know yourself in order to

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<v Speaker 1>know other people.

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<v Speaker 2>It's the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>Many people are being catfished because the people who are catfishing.

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<v Speaker 1>They know you're vulnerable. They know instantly when they reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to you. They know you're vulnerable because of what

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<v Speaker 1>you say back to them, how you respond to them,

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<v Speaker 1>how quickly you respond to them, or just how you respond.

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<v Speaker 2>They know when they got you caught in the next.

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<v Speaker 1>Because how quickly you warm up to them. Catfishing is

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<v Speaker 1>something that's been going on forever for people just don't learn.

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<v Speaker 1>People are gonna swindle out of millions of dollars, and

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<v Speaker 1>they still don't want.

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<v Speaker 2>To believe that they've been catfish. But I just I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so hurt. Why are you hurt? How could you not know? Listen,

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<v Speaker 2>when you meet.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone in almost instantly they say I love you, red flag,

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<v Speaker 1>red flag, that's a sign back away, back away. They

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<v Speaker 1>will tell you they love you quickly, or they care

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<v Speaker 1>so much about you quickly.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't even know you.

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<v Speaker 1>Many of you get on these websites and you communicate

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<v Speaker 1>with people and they tell you all the good things

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<v Speaker 1>through words. Some of you never even heard their voices.

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<v Speaker 1>You never heard their voices, but you fall in love

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<v Speaker 1>with the words. People can write anything they think you

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<v Speaker 1>want to hear or read.

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<v Speaker 2>Some of you never heard their voices.

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<v Speaker 1>You just communicate through emails, texts, and you're soul in love,

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<v Speaker 1>so you think, but these people always asking you for something.

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<v Speaker 1>They're asking you for money, they're asking you for things.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a red flag. Someone you don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>asking you for something. Someone you don't even know asking

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<v Speaker 2>you for money. Red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, if you meet someone and they're asking

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<v Speaker 1>you for money, they.

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<v Speaker 2>Are not enhancing your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Booboo. They're not enhancing your life when they're asking you

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<v Speaker 1>for money or things.

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<v Speaker 2>That tells you a lot about who they are. They

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<v Speaker 2>mean you no good.

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<v Speaker 1>So think about that the next time you want to

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<v Speaker 1>send someone on something because they ask you.

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<v Speaker 4>If they are asking you, they are not there to

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<v Speaker 4>enhance your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't fall for that craft they telling you.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, well, I have this business and I'm a

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<v Speaker 5>little short on money, and you know, uh no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 5>and no, don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Fall for it. Don't fall for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Always remember, if they don't enhance your life, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>need them. They're gonna tell you that they've been detained.

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<v Speaker 1>They're waiting on money, you know, I mean, they're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give you all kind of sob stories. I need this

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<v Speaker 1>amount of money and it's normally thousands.

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<v Speaker 2>I need this amount of money before they let me go.

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<v Speaker 2>It's lies. It is lies, lies, lies.

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<v Speaker 1>Lies, and guess what if they don't have the money themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>A red flag, red flag, red flag if they're telling

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<v Speaker 1>you they're businessmen and business women, but they're asking you

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<v Speaker 1>for money, Wake up, wake up. That's a red flag.

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<v Speaker 2>If they say I was in.

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<v Speaker 1>A wreck, or my daughter or my son were in

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<v Speaker 1>a wreck, or anybody were in a wreck.

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<v Speaker 2>Red flag.

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<v Speaker 6>That's their biggest, biggest, biggest lie.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a wreck. They're taking care of the person.

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<v Speaker 1>They can't make it to you because they're taking care

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<v Speaker 1>of the person because there's a wreck and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just draining them financially. See, people love love, love

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<v Speaker 2>pulling on your emotional streams. They work on.

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<v Speaker 1>Your emotions and your feelings because they know that's what

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<v Speaker 1>gets to people. They know how to dangle carrots in

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<v Speaker 1>front of you because they know that people fall due

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<v Speaker 1>They know just by talking to you a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>when people tell you sweet sweet nothings and.

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<v Speaker 1>You're creating that monster. When they ask you for money

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<v Speaker 1>and don't even know you and you give it. You

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<v Speaker 1>and you believe it. That follows on you because you

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<v Speaker 1>You must think clearly when people are asking you for

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<v Speaker 1>all of these things and they don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>You, they never met you, red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if they had met you, or you know, you communicated, they.

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<v Speaker 2>Saw your faith. Except it don't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>If they're asking you for stop, that's a red flag

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<v Speaker 1>because never ever ever forget what I've said.

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<v Speaker 2>People should enhance your life.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're the one who have to give, give,

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<v Speaker 1>givet that is a red flag. People can say the

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<v Speaker 1>most beautiful things and mean none of it, none of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of you been talking to people literally for years,

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<v Speaker 1>you've never seen their face, never seen their face. If

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<v Speaker 1>someone send you a picture, take that picture and make

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of that picture, meaning take a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>the picture that they sent you, or download that picture

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<v Speaker 1>and do a Google search. Do a Google image search

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<v Speaker 1>of that picture. If they're on social media, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>find that picture, probably more than likely because they just

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<v Speaker 1>stole it from somebody else. I'm talking about people who

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<v Speaker 1>don't want you to see their face. If they send

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<v Speaker 1>you a picture, do a Google image search. It's easy

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna hit the share, but you're gonna hit Google.

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<v Speaker 1>You can do a Google image search. Start doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>If they tell you that, oh, my camera broke or

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<v Speaker 1>something that's going on where they can't see you, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>A red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't keep handling them, well, I wanna see your fast

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<v Speaker 1>stop it, because they showing you who they are. They're

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<v Speaker 1>showing you when they make all of these excuses there's

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<v Speaker 1>been a wreck, I'm in detention, you know, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Just running long cash.

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 2>Red flag, red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>You must get out of your feelings and your emotions

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<v Speaker 1>so you can see clearly. And if you never think

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<v Speaker 1>of anything that I've said, think of one thing. If

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<v Speaker 1>they are not enhancing your life, they're taken from you.

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<v Speaker 1>No one needs that, No one needs that type of partner.

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<v Speaker 1>You need somebody who enhances your life, just as you

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<v Speaker 1>enhance theirs. But if someone is asking you for money

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<v Speaker 1>and for things that's not enhancing your life, they are

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<v Speaker 1>suckering you. They are swindling you. They are scamming you

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<v Speaker 1>because they want something that you have. Stop being just

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<v Speaker 1>gullible when you know you have the signs writing in

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<v Speaker 4>Some of you run to people and you want them

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<v Speaker 1>A person is is catfish and you are swindling you,

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<v Speaker 1>you already know they are.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why you run into somebody you already know.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to pay your money to go to

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<v Speaker 1>someone else when you already know the truth. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to look at yourself and figure out why you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Falling for those type of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you falling for people who you know mean

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<v Speaker 1>you no good?

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you.

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<v Speaker 1>Falling for people who are trying to take and take

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<v Speaker 1>and take from you because they will take everything you

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<v Speaker 1>have if you give it.

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<v Speaker 2>Everything. I really want you to think about it.

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<v Speaker 7>Too many people are losing money, too many people, hundreds thousands,

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<v Speaker 7>millions of dollars because they can't see past their hearts.

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<v Speaker 2>And their fun healed minds. When the signs are right

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<v Speaker 2>there in your face, right in your face.

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<v Speaker 1>You refuse to believe or accept what you see any time,

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<v Speaker 1>any time a person is just asking, asking, asking, making

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<v Speaker 1>excuse after excuse after excuse, red flag, you don't have

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<v Speaker 2>It's the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>A person who love you, they're gonna give to you

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<v Speaker 1>just like you give to them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not gonna be take, take, take.

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<v Speaker 1>Many people are in one side of relationships right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Who give all of their heart, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Of everything, get nothing in return but headache, heartache, and pain.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you sign up for is what you're gonna get.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever you allow is what you're gonna get. Whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>accept is what you're going to get, and oftentimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Much much more.

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<v Speaker 1>People always want to say I didn't sign up for it,

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<v Speaker 1>but you did, You really did, because when you signed

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<v Speaker 1>up for that little mess, you just didn't realize what.

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<v Speaker 2>Else was coming along with it. You teach people how

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<v Speaker 2>they can treat you. When you keep giving.

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<v Speaker 1>Money from people who's asking over and over and over,

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<v Speaker 1>and you keep doing it, you have taught them how

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<v Speaker 1>to treat you. You live how you want to live,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't blame no one but yourself when you

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<v Speaker 1>allow people.

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<v Speaker 6>To swindle you. You have to love yourself enough to

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<v Speaker 6>know love, to know what it is and what it isn't,

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<v Speaker 6>and that's definitely not love. If they're not there to

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<v Speaker 6>enhance your life, that's the wrong person.

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<v Speaker 1>And as I said earlier, you do what you wanna do,

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<v Speaker 1>You live how you want to live. But I promise

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<v Speaker 1>you will never find happiness. And no one who means

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<v Speaker 1>you no good. That's all I'm saying. I'm leaving it

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<v Speaker 1>right there. Thank you for listening. If it's your first time,

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<v Speaker 1>please come back. Check out all of my episodes. Please

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<v Speaker 1>Please share this, Please share my other podcasts and listen

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<v Speaker 1>to my other episodes. Thank you so much much love

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<v Speaker 1>to you. You and you I in every episode the

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<v Speaker 1>same and I hope you do it

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<v Speaker 2>Think on it.