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Speaker 1: I made a decision pace sunny sound on. I had

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a vision. It's nice. Hey all you uh talksuckers out there,

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what's up? That's nice? I'm sorry, well, ricol, we'll clean

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it up in post, right, Okay, yeah, I'll let it is.

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Hyeh you lovely people out there. We love you so much,

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we really do.

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Speaker 2: And shout out. We were discussing this, uh before we

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started recording. But shout out to our friends in Minnesota.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, I was just telling Stephanie I over

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the weekend, I just missed. I saw the headline and

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I was like, oh, got another one, and then I

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forgot about it, and then I and then this morning

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I saw Yeah, it's yeah, shout out to all Minnesotans.

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Speaker 2: I feel like the tides is starting to turn, though,

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I mean, I hope so yeah. I mean, obviously this

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isn't a political podcast, but of course, you know, I

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take in a lot of ways, and I read a

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lot and I listened to a lot, and I don't know.

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It's I think it's hit a breaking point and I

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think even the right is realizing like this is fucked up,

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like my question is. And then no more politics, but

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my question is for all the gun nuts out there,

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are all the big you know, yeah, to a people,

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Why was it okay for Kyle Rittenhouse to come walking

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up to a protest with a cute, giant gun, but

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it wasn't okay for Alex to be carrying a gun

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that he never reached for. The king he had in

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his hand was a phone. Why is it justified to

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kill him because he was armed when all of you

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people on the right are all about citizens model armselves.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the things that I don't understand. Good question, Yeah, yeah, conundrum.

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It's a conundrum. I wish I had the answer.

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Speaker 2: A lot of We have listeners who are from Minneapolis itself.

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I'm from Minnesota, and I love you guys. We're not

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okay with this, Yeah, our hearts go out to you

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if we were.

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Speaker 1: If some things have changed walk it in my worldview. Ye,

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Stephanie comes in.

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Speaker 2: I mean, listen, you guys are all way too woke

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out there. I'm sorry. Yeah, all right on to later. Yeah,

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we were just talking. There's so much going on. We

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got stories. It's in life and so many stories for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, first of all, right off the top, I do

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not have a new dog, but I have had some

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adventures in eating some dogs.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I can't wait to hear it. Okay, So I

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got a story for you, Okay, and I need like

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I need to, I need some advice from people. I

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think a lot of people might be able to relate anyway.

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So and I got permission from my one of my

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best friends, Glenn. Shout out to Glenn. Hi Glenn, Hi Glenn,

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we love you. Hey Phil, the guy works with Glenn

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that listens. Glenn listens to our show every week. Anyway,

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meet Glenn. You should meet Glenn. He's wonderful. He's having

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a super Bowl party. Okay, wait before I get to

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my story, Stephanie, who are we? We are?

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Speaker 2: Stephanie and I were texting each other last night.

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Speaker 1: Who what did we become? Fucking football fans? Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Well it's the Rams.

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Speaker 1: It's the Rams. They played last night, Adam or Rams.

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My heart broke. You know, I grew up here loving

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the Rams. And all my old school friends are going

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to Glenn's house for Super Bowl party. Mike girseenes flying

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in like Don Suzanne. He's flying in Don Suzanne, Mike,

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I mean all of them, and we really were all

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wanting the Rams also for Sonny. God bless my little Sonny.

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Bunny was sad you posted a video of Sunny crying.

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I did boast it in our finger Yeah, and our

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Rams lost. Yes, so he was okay. He was like

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it was a good game anyway. But Stephanie and I

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are like texting each other back and forth like holy shit,

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oh my god, I'm on the edge of my seat,

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blah blah blah blah blah, like what did we become such?

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Speaker 2: That was funny because you said something and then you

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were like, go Rams, and I was like, oh my god,

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because yeah, I watched that game from the beginning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: In fact, John and I were supposed to watch it together.

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John was like, you want to watch the game and

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listening to it and doing yard work right, and I

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was watching. I watched it from like kickoff.

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Speaker 2: He's like, no, I've been listening to it, but like

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some football fans.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And then I was texting Sonny with like crickets

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because he's just he doesn't text me back until after

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the game because you know, he's you know, watching it,

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which I get. And then I was on the phone

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with Wendy for a long time and she could care

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less about it, so I was like, you know, I was.

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don't understand a lot of stuff, like when the flag

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goes like when I'm watching it with Sonny. He explains

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that to me, right, but I'm like, why, what's the flat?

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that was pass interference and John's like, no, it wasn't.

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like you can't. That's not see.

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to John. I don't. Yeah, I'm you know, I'm a

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little lost. I'm yelling side out. Well.

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Speaker 2: John played football in high school and then I believe

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tried to be like a walk on in college briefly

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and it didn't really work out. But John talking about

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football is all like it should be an SNL sketch.

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acts like he still currently plays football. Yeah, so many

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little he's not a huge He went through years where

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he didn't watch football because of the concussions.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah CP, yes, yeah crp C yeah. God,

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people are yelling at me and I'm thinking, I'm thinking

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about what's his face that we watched the documentary Aaron Hernandez, Yes,

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is yeah, cpe cte cte very is that there's a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's traumatic. And anyway, you guys know what I'm

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talking about. We went John went through a long period

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where he wouldn't But now that at least players are

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alerted that that's right, John feels a little bit like, well,

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they know the risk they're taking, so right, fuck up,

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my guest, I don't know.

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to watch the super Bowl.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but do you think really quick that it's a

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good sign that Sonny doesn't text you as much anymore,

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because that makes me think that he's happy and like

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has a lot of friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's he's definitely. It was so funny. I was, okay,

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so on Saturday night, and I'll talk more about this

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like a nosy mom, but I see him at his

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friend's house or whatever. Then he leaves and he goes

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to another location and then he's there for a long

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in the morning, and so I just I just had

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to like in Oregon. Yeah, so I'm watch Yeah, I

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get it. Okay. So I had to send him a

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text and I was like, hey, you know, how's it.

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just checking in. And he doesn't respond until like two

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he okay, he has a friend name four in the morning.

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know and now a good hour. I was up late

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because I'll tell you why I'm Patreon. But anyway, he

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calls back he has a friend named Cam and I'm mom,

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and I'm guessing he accidentally hit mom. So he calls

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me and he goes up. He goes, fucking Cam, you

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can't believe what I And then I didn't understand what

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what's going on? He goes mom, and I go yeah,

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and he goes, I thought I was talking to Cam.

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he goes, yeah, I was going to text you back

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on my walk home. And then he goes, did you

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hear what I said? And I go, I heard you say, Cam,

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but that was about it. And he goes, oh, thank god,

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and I was like, all right, I don't know something

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still give him a fake name. I'll call him. I'll

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call him Greg. Okay, Okay, So our friend Greg, who's

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hands are waving all They have a son. He's nineteen.

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dig a nineteen year old. Well, she could be a

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little cougar. Yeah that's true. Yeah, and he's really cute. Anyway,

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a monster. And this is going to make Greg sound

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we always went to watch him play. He was great,

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so you know, he wasn't he's dyslexic. He wasn't great

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but failed, so she became stay home mom and he

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he's miserable. She Okay, this is gonna sound crazy. She

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he does not have control of his money. She has

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the control of the bank account. He doesn't have a

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bank account. This man is almost sixty. He doesn't have

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a bank account. And she bosses him around. And the

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way like Glenn was telling me, and he's heard it,

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the way she talks. She screams like my mom would

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yell like, I mean really like yeah, and you get

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to the fucking get to work. Start cleaning the toilet.

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little bit of Stockholm syndrome, and she's very controlling and

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he wants out, but he doesn't. He thinks that she's

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going to have the upper hand. She's got a mom

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with a lot of money. But he's like, I can't

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afford a lawyer. I don't know what to do. On

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right, right now? Like what yeah? And he's

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I mean, I made notes. There's just so many things

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that she does to him. The biggest thing is that

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he has no control. So when he's not working in production,

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he would go Glenn would say, come work for me.

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I'll give you know, a couple hundred bucks a day

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or whatever, two hundred dollars you know, to sit at

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the job site or whatever, and he gets paid in cash.

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all over to her. When he goes to the store,

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anything he buys, he has a credit card, puts it

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on his credit card, brings the receipt to her like

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you would if that's your boss.

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Speaker 2: I mean, does he have a gambling problem?

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Speaker 1: No, he has no problem. Oh, so why is she

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acting like this? She is super controlling and she's getting

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I just want somebody to be nice to me. When

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he's I've talked to him about his situation, and he's like,

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you know, how'd you get your divorce? Like what what happened?

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I could do that. I wish I could just tell

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her I want a divorce, you know. And she'll kick

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she'll say, get the fuck out. She's thrown his clothes

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out on the yard if she's mad at him. He

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she'll say, you can't you can't leave because where you're

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gonna go you don't have any money, you know, or whatever.

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know how to get out of it. Glenn. Glenn was

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saying there was one time where Glenn paid him in

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cash two hundred bucks, and he's like, I'm gonna tell

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Blair that, you know, you shorten me twenty bucks, so

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I can just keep twenty bucks. And you know, so

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he has cash in his pocket.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure then she would have called him and yelled

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at him.

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Speaker 1: How dare you hold twenty dollars? Well, yeah, oh she's

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She's written a text to Glenn asking as him as Greg,

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asking to get paid more money. And he told he

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told Glenn that that that wasn't me, that was my wife. Yeah,

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I mean that's insane. It is it is insane. It

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what the fuck? I mean, that's abusive. She's definitely verbally abusive. Also,

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she made him go to AA and I asked, I

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mean I don't see him that. I mean like I

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saw him at the you know, at the river and

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he would just have beers. I never saw him like

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drunk or whatever. And Gunn's like, no, he doesn't have

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a drinking problem, you know, but he goes to AA

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and he's like, you know, I kind of like it

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because it gets me out of the house. I'm gonna

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be home with her, I mean fun, and.

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Speaker 2: I'm like the only thing he probably has friends and

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like women who treat him nicely.

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Speaker 1: There exactly exactly get himself a nice little sponsor. And

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he's cute and he's sweet. He's like all I want.

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When I was talking to about He's like, all I

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want is just to come home and have somebody like

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appreciate me and like ask me how my day would

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be nice to me. He's like, but when I come home,

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I get right to work. And I've seen it. He's

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he's a hard worker, you know. When we're at the

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like when Glenn needs him to help with the boat

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and stuff, he's like up in the morning and at

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it he's cleaning. It's just is like personality's always picking

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up and stuff. And he's just a total sweetheart and

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so cute, and I just's I think the only thing

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that's going to get a out as if he meets

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somebody and he gets motivated because he's just not he

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feels stuck. He feels like, where am I gonna go?

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She's got money, I don't. I don't even have a

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bank accout. I don't have a checking account.

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Speaker 2: Well, he needs to get on the checking account. He

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can't just have her be the only one on the

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checking account exactly.

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Speaker 1: But she's she won't let him, and he follows her rules,

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which is even the Sun. Even the Sun's like, Dad,

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why you got Why do you put up with it?

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You know? Like Andnn told me his little side Storre

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when the when the Sun got his driver's license. This

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is how controlling she is. She would follow him around

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every time he left the house. She'd get in the

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car and she would follow him to make sure he

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was driving safely. Oh my for ans. Yes, yeah, she

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is extremely controlling. She's out of control.

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Speaker 2: I mean, listen, we've all wanted to do that.

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Speaker 1: But I knew you were gonna say that. I knew it,

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I knew what.

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Speaker 2: We fantasize about it.

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Speaker 1: But you don't do it.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: We followed them on the app, yes, yeah, like normal people,

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like normal moms. Yeah. Yeah, so I don't know if

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anybody has.

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Speaker 2: You literally watched them drive on the freeway and watch

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their speed. Yeah, like regular people exactly carrying in the

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right rules.

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Speaker 1: And then we see when their battery is low.

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Speaker 2: Yes, hate you might get plug plug it in, plug

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it in, plug it in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really crazy. Have you tried talking to him?

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I mean, when I talked to him about it, I said, yeah,

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you just if you're you can't live like this. You're unhappy.

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You have a lot of years ahead of you. You're

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a good looking guy, you're sweet as fuck, You're you

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just you're funny. You have a lot to offer, and

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you should not be living like this. And it's really

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going to be up to you to like rip that

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bandage off. You just have to do it, you know.

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And I don't know, I think Len is going to

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talk to him. Son did have a heart to heart

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with him, and he was just like.

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Speaker 2: You know what, he said, you need to have another intervention.

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Speaker 1: I know, another intervention. He said, Oh, I love for

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Can my wife come to the super Bowl party? And

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her and Glenn do not like each other, they do

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not get along, but he was like, yeah, I mean

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it's okay, Yeah she can come. And he's like, I

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really think that, you know, people will love her because

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she doesn't know my friends, because she's so smart. She's

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so smart and organized, like what I know. That's the

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that's so, he says.

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Speaker 2: It does not sound like somebody who's about to leave,

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if you think you'd want to get away, right, He

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does go spend time with his friend.

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Speaker 1: He does, he does, but I think at a courtesy.

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He wants to tell her she's invited because it's Super Bowl,

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you know, and he's.

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Speaker 2: Bringing calm so she can keep an eye on him.

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Speaker 1: She probably will. I said to Glenn, I go, I

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really hope she comes. I really do. I to check

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this bitch out because I've never met her. I don't know. No,

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I never met her. They've been married for so long,

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and I don't really see him that often. But I

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love him. He's part of our group, you know, old school,

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and he's just the greatest. He's really Vegas. Uh No,

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he wasn't allowed to go. That's how bad it is. Yeah. Wow,

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she wouldn't allow him to go. She barely let him

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go to the river on Mother's Day. She demanded he'd

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be back by one pm and no later. And he

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was up and let's go. We gotta go, you know,

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I drove. I drove with him, Glenn in the same car,

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and he was just like, you gotta go. You know,

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it's really sad he's got I feel like he's got stockholm.

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I really do.

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the other day, I guess was it the weekend? Maybe

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it was Saturday. No, I think it was just a

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week It was just a weekday. Yes, you know what

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it was. It was Wednesday, Okay, lot, it's important that

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I say it's Wednesday. I wasn't just trying to yeah

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time because it was a week day, middle of the week.

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Speaker 1: Low key.

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Speaker 2: So my friend Cecily says, hey, do you want to go?

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I have I'm throwing a baby shower, not a baby shower,

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bridal shower for my cousin. And she wants to do

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it at like a tea place. So I want to

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go check out this place in I mean, I feel

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I'm going to be bad mouthing a place, but well deserved,

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so I don't really care. Okay, So I'm going to

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tell you exactly what it was, and if they want

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to sue me for.

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Speaker 1: I guess.

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Speaker 2: This is I'm just telling you the truth of what happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So we went to this place called the Tea House.

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Have you ever heard of this place? We like the

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letter T and it's it's in Montrose, which is glit.

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Oh that's by me, Yeah, exactly. Okay, So anyway, she says,

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the prices is pretty decent.

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Speaker 1: It's going to be, but I want to check out.

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Speaker 2: They have this patio area that they do functions that

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you can rent out. So I'm like, yeah, sure, let's go,

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and she's like and then we can have lunch. And then,

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by the way, part of this story is that there

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was a dog that I listed that listed that I

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put on for crying out loud. It was the not Clyde,

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but the other dog that was named Bunny, that was

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like a week ago.

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Speaker 1: It was like, yeah, like okay ago maybe it was.

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Speaker 2: Like a German, short haired pointer looking dog, right, okay, cute, cute,

467
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:35,039
cute dog. So I'm like, oh, and while we're out there,

468
00:25:36,039 --> 00:25:38,480
I thought these places were close. I knew that dog

469
00:25:38,599 --> 00:25:41,400
was being fostered in Pasadena, so I was like, hey,

470
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,519
maybe we can also go see this dog. So we

471
00:25:43,559 --> 00:25:45,279
had a full agenda for our day.

472
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:45,759
Speaker 1: Okay.

473
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 2: So we get to this place and we walk in

474
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,359
and right away the vibes are off. Like the woman

475
00:25:55,559 --> 00:25:58,960
it turns out she's the owner. She's like basically can

476
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,279
I help you? Like do you have a and Cecily goes,

477
00:26:02,319 --> 00:26:06,079
oh no, but oh so Cecily had called that morning

478
00:26:06,599 --> 00:26:10,400
and the woman apparently was like very short with her

479
00:26:10,519 --> 00:26:12,920
and was like I can't really talk to you about this,

480
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:17,000
like this is like during it's it's our rush. But

481
00:26:17,039 --> 00:26:20,519
Cecily goes, it really couldn't have been, because I called

482
00:26:20,519 --> 00:26:22,519
in the morning. It was like ten am. Yeah, it

483
00:26:22,559 --> 00:26:24,640
goes Yeah, you're gonna have to come by and I

484
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,279
can talk to you about it then. But she did

485
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,319
answer a few questions which Cecily wanted to know, like, hey,

486
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,160
you is the place, is there availability on this date?

487
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,319
And what's the like timeframes?

488
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:35,559
Speaker 1: Right?

489
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,799
Speaker 2: So she was told three hours they could do. They'd

490
00:26:37,799 --> 00:26:40,839
book it for three hours, and yes, they had availability

491
00:26:40,839 --> 00:26:43,519
on the date in question, but come by. So we

492
00:26:43,559 --> 00:26:44,920
were going to come by and like check it out,

493
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,519
take some pictures. Yeah, because she's throwing this with like

494
00:26:47,559 --> 00:26:52,920
some other people. Okay, okay, so you know whatever. She's like,

495
00:26:53,039 --> 00:26:56,240
oh no, no, no, I called. I'm Cecily. I called about

496
00:26:56,279 --> 00:26:58,960
like renting the place, and and she was like, okay,

497
00:26:59,039 --> 00:27:02,480
well meet us, Like I'll go out back to see

498
00:27:02,519 --> 00:27:04,759
the space and I'll meet you out there. So the

499
00:27:04,839 --> 00:27:07,039
woman we go back out there and we're like, oh,

500
00:27:07,079 --> 00:27:11,599
it's kind of cute. I mean, if I'm being totally honest.

501
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 1: It was kind of outdated. It was.

502
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it was cute, but it felt like

503
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:21,079
you're backed up into an alley, which even though they weren't,

504
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,960
it had they were like buildings kind of I can't

505
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:24,559
explain it.

506
00:27:24,559 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: It was I know that area pretty well. Yeah.

507
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,279
Speaker 2: So it was like okay, but you know, I'm trying

508
00:27:30,319 --> 00:27:33,160
to keep a positive outlook for her, like yeah, it's.

509
00:27:33,079 --> 00:27:33,759
Speaker 1: Cute, you know.

510
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 2: And all the furniture was covered because apparently their awning

511
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,759
was like broken, but they're getting another one. They said, Okay,

512
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,559
so it's hard to tell how cute it is because

513
00:27:46,599 --> 00:27:52,480
everything was covered like tarp, right, Okay, not really the

514
00:27:52,519 --> 00:27:55,000
most interesting part of the story. So the woman comes

515
00:27:55,039 --> 00:27:58,920
back and then Cecily goes okay, So we're looking at

516
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,119
such and such a date and the woman goes, oh,

517
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:06,079
not available, and Cecily goes, well, wait what I literally

518
00:28:06,279 --> 00:28:10,960
gave you that date this morning. And she's like, no,

519
00:28:11,039 --> 00:28:14,400
not that not the time you want. And Cecily says, well,

520
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:16,920
I don't know if we discussed the time we want.

521
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:22,240
She was well, we have another party earlier inside, so fun.

522
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:26,759
So then Cecily goes, okay, but we're looking to do outside,

523
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,119
like hence why we're standing out in the podium. So

524
00:28:30,599 --> 00:28:34,279
at this point she's just going like, oh okay, but

525
00:28:34,839 --> 00:28:38,880
we does that affect the outside And she goes, well,

526
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,440
we can't do a party at the same time, and

527
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:45,480
Cecily goes, okay, not a problem, Like my I have friends,

528
00:28:45,519 --> 00:28:47,839
some of my friends. Some of these people are driving

529
00:28:47,839 --> 00:28:51,079
from San Diego, so happy to do it more in

530
00:28:51,079 --> 00:28:54,079
the afternoon, right, so if your other parties at like noon,

531
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,519
like we could start ours at like two, you know.

532
00:28:56,799 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she.

533
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 2: Goes, uh, okay, we.

534
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: Could do two, so two to four.

535
00:29:03,039 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 2: So then Cecily says, well, I know we wanted three

536
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:10,480
hours because it's a party whatever, and she goes, uh, no.

537
00:29:10,599 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: Two hours.

538
00:29:11,759 --> 00:29:15,839
Speaker 2: And Cecily says, okay, but earlier on the phone, you

539
00:29:16,039 --> 00:29:21,519
said it's for three hours. And then she says, well,

540
00:29:21,839 --> 00:29:26,599
we're gonna be tired. What I am not None of

541
00:29:26,599 --> 00:29:29,599
this is hyperbole. This all happened. I almost wanted to

542
00:29:29,599 --> 00:29:31,720
bring Cecily in to do the podcast.

543
00:29:31,799 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: So that right.

544
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 2: So, so now Sally is so, she's really cool and

545
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,079
really funny and stuff, but she's not like the person

546
00:29:43,119 --> 00:29:44,519
that's outspoken, like.

547
00:29:44,559 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 1: She's no me.

548
00:29:45,519 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not gonna be But Cecily goes, but this

549
00:29:51,079 --> 00:29:53,680
is craziness at this point, how rude this woman's being.

550
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,200
So Cely goes, okay, but how is that my problem?

551
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,880
And she's like, I don't. I'm not saying it's your problem.

552
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,359
I'm just saying we're gonna be tired. And then and

553
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:09,119
then so now Cecily's just trying to like so then

554
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:14,200
that another woman who also works there comes by and

555
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,400
she's being like good cop. So she goes, oh, okay,

556
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,039
we could we could do we could make it we

557
00:30:20,079 --> 00:30:25,400
could do three hours, and Cecily goes, okay, but like

558
00:30:25,519 --> 00:30:27,960
you said originally that you could do three hours, Like

559
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:32,200
I'm confused. Cecily's being very like maybe just like explain

560
00:30:32,279 --> 00:30:35,119
it to me, like you do you normally do three hours.

561
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,039
And then the other woman's like, I told you we

562
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:42,000
have a party before you, and Cecily goes, I know,

563
00:30:42,119 --> 00:30:44,240
but you can have two going on at the same time.

564
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,599
We can't serve at the same time. And Cecily's like, no,

565
00:30:47,799 --> 00:30:51,440
I know that, but like we but we've already established

566
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:52,319
that we would be coming.

567
00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: I like waste my time coming out and looking at

568
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:57,319
the place I called this morning, right, yeah, right.

569
00:30:57,559 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 2: So then Cecily goes, okay, well, okay, well, so tell

570
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,799
me about the food or whatever. And the woman says, well,

571
00:31:05,839 --> 00:31:10,440
we have cucumber sandwiches, eggs salad, and a chicken chicken sandwich.

572
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,160
So I said, oh, is it like chicken salad? And

573
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,119
I don't know why I gave a fuck at all.

574
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,279
I'm not I'm not invited. It's not anybody in my family.

575
00:31:19,359 --> 00:31:21,279
But I was like, I don't know why. I was

576
00:31:21,279 --> 00:31:23,880
trying to like ease the like give me something positive

577
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,039
to talk about I.

578
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:25,519
Speaker 1: Swear to god.

579
00:31:25,559 --> 00:31:32,279
Speaker 2: She goes, it's a chicken breast sandwich, my god, and

580
00:31:32,319 --> 00:31:32,920
I went.

581
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:35,279
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, cool.

582
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:40,519
Speaker 2: So then Cecily says, well, what, so what are the teas? Like,

583
00:31:40,599 --> 00:31:42,480
what's the deal with the tea? Is it like a

584
00:31:42,559 --> 00:31:45,680
tasting or whatever? And She's like, one, one flavor of tea.

585
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: It's a tea tea. It's a fucking tea house. So

586
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,920
this is insane. It was so insane.

587
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:56,799
Speaker 2: So Cecily goes, well, wait, but it's a we can't

588
00:31:56,799 --> 00:31:59,519
have more than one flavor of tea. And she goes,

589
00:32:00,079 --> 00:32:03,000
I am already giving you an hour for free?

590
00:32:03,599 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: What for? What the wow? And I gotta go check

591
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:08,599
this place out.

592
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:15,079
Speaker 2: How Cecily is just like, well, you originally told me

593
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,559
three hours. Like I'm not trying to argue with you,

594
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:21,119
but you did say we could have it for three hours,

595
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:24,759
and we were just going in circles. So then I mean,

596
00:32:24,759 --> 00:32:26,480
and Cecily and I are looking at each other, but

597
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,839
we can't believe this is really happening. And I think

598
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:31,960
Cecily kept like trying to check with her check in

599
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:35,000
with herself a little bit like am I being difficult?

600
00:32:35,599 --> 00:32:38,960
Or is this insane, So we kind of keep exchanging looks.

601
00:32:39,799 --> 00:32:42,160
See oh no, We're totally looking at each other like

602
00:32:42,519 --> 00:32:47,160
this is crazy. So then Cecily's like, can I order?

603
00:32:47,319 --> 00:32:50,599
I'd love to order like a sandwich or something. First

604
00:32:50,599 --> 00:32:53,200
of all, we were super hungry, so Cecily goes, can

605
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,279
I just order, like a try a couple of your

606
00:32:55,279 --> 00:33:00,920
different sandwiches? And the woman goes, okay, what and she's.

607
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: Like, where's the nice cop? Where'd she go? She was gone?

608
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,799
Speaker 2: So then sheley said okay, well, so the sandwiches come,

609
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,200
Can I just try one of each? She goes, well,

610
00:33:10,279 --> 00:33:12,960
there's three pieces of each sandwich.

611
00:33:13,799 --> 00:33:14,799
Speaker 1: Do you want all three?

612
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:21,519
Speaker 2: So Cecily goes, okay, well, how about i'd have, you know, whatever,

613
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:26,079
just a corner of each of them, so literally a

614
00:33:26,119 --> 00:33:30,039
triangle of each of the sandwiches and a scone. Let

615
00:33:30,079 --> 00:33:32,440
me try one of your scones. She goes, okay, it's

616
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,880
going to be twenty dollars, like literally making up the

617
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:36,519
price off.

618
00:33:36,359 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 1: The top of her head. Craze, And then.

619
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,039
Speaker 2: So Cecily's like okay, so she goes to pull out

620
00:33:41,079 --> 00:33:41,680
a credit card.

621
00:33:42,319 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: A lot of patience, I would be patient. Fuck off, bitch,

622
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,480
I'm out. Oh.

623
00:33:48,039 --> 00:33:51,799
Speaker 2: But at the time that this was happening, we see

624
00:33:51,839 --> 00:33:54,359
she had one other option that was in West La

625
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:58,480
where we ended up going called Buena Vida Tea House,

626
00:33:58,519 --> 00:34:01,079
which shout out to Buenavida Tea House. I think that's

627
00:34:01,079 --> 00:34:04,400
where they're going to go. It was beautiful and but

628
00:34:04,839 --> 00:34:06,799
that place was going to be a little more expensive,

629
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,559
so of course she was checking out the more reasonable option.

630
00:34:10,079 --> 00:34:12,519
At this point, we were not going to be She

631
00:34:12,639 --> 00:34:15,320
was not going to be booking there, like it was crazy,

632
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,199
but also she was just we were hungry. She was like,

633
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,119
let me just do So the woman goes okay, So

634
00:34:21,159 --> 00:34:24,599
it's going to be twenty dollars. So Cecily goes okay,

635
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,599
and like gets out of credit card and she goes

636
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,679
if a credit card, it's one hundred and fifty dollars

637
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:35,960
charge oh, and Cecily goes, wait what and she's like, well,

638
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,960
we don't take credit cards. We only do cash.

639
00:34:39,119 --> 00:34:40,079
Speaker 1: Wait wait what.

640
00:34:41,559 --> 00:34:44,199
Speaker 2: So now we're just looking at each other and she's

641
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,360
brought out the food. At this point, never said anything

642
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,599
about how they don't accept credit cards. You have to

643
00:34:48,599 --> 00:34:51,079
pay one hundred and fifty dollars to use a credit card,

644
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:55,440
so then Cecily's like, okay, so you're saying, if we

645
00:34:55,599 --> 00:34:59,039
do book the party here, you we couldn't put it

646
00:34:59,039 --> 00:35:00,800
on a credit I mean, it's gonna be a lot

647
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:07,519
of money. No, well yeah, we we can't take a

648
00:35:07,559 --> 00:35:09,440
credit card, but it will cost you one hundred and

649
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:10,119
fifty dollars.

650
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,320
Speaker 1: And then she's like, it's because of COVID.

651
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 2: No it's not, No, it's not. Credit cards have always

652
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:20,440
had a percentage that they charge, and most people change

653
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,920
their prices to reflect, like, yeah, they're paying in credit

654
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:29,800
card fees. So Cecily's like, okay, looks at me, do

655
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,519
you have any cash? I have like thirteen dollars cash,

656
00:35:32,639 --> 00:35:35,480
and I've got a few dollars And the woman goes, well,

657
00:35:35,519 --> 00:35:36,039
just what you have?

658
00:35:36,119 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 1: What do you got? Oh my, now she's shaking you down.

659
00:35:39,039 --> 00:35:43,119
Speaker 2: Yes, we came up with eighteen dollars and she was like,

660
00:35:43,159 --> 00:35:44,519
that's fine, I'll take it.

661
00:35:44,639 --> 00:35:47,119
Speaker 1: This is I gotta go check this fucking place. You

662
00:35:47,199 --> 00:35:48,000
gotta check it out.

663
00:35:48,079 --> 00:35:52,519
Speaker 2: So we were laughing so hard we leave. But before

664
00:35:53,039 --> 00:35:55,960
but so later that night, I go home and I

665
00:35:56,079 --> 00:36:00,599
checked the Yelp reviews for this place, and I mean

666
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,920
we were cry laughing on the phone reading it. I

667
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,599
was reading her reviews. Yeah, which is like my favorite thing.

668
00:36:06,679 --> 00:36:12,760
So read you a couple of the ms. They are crazy. Okay,

669
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:17,840
so this person, I'll start. I'll start like gently. If

670
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,519
I could give zero stars, I would. I just called

671
00:36:20,559 --> 00:36:23,840
to get information to book for the tea experience. The

672
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,559
lady on the phone was not very nice. How the

673
00:36:26,559 --> 00:36:28,400
hell am I supposed to know? You've been open for

674
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:32,239
twenty years and never book on weekends. That's not information

675
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,719
I would I would have known the person on the

676
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:37,559
phone could have been a lot nicer in answering questions

677
00:36:37,559 --> 00:36:39,840
for a place I know nothing about. Because of that

678
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,440
phone call, forget ever stepping.

679
00:36:42,039 --> 00:36:42,599
Speaker 1: Foot in there.

680
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: Okay, this one says, Okay, it's literally impossible to go

681
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,280
to this place on a weekend if you're a party

682
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,679
of two. They only care about big parties. The lady

683
00:36:53,679 --> 00:36:56,639
who picks up the phone is extremely rude. I called

684
00:36:56,679 --> 00:36:59,480
it eleven four on a Thursday morning, and she said,

685
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,159
why are you calling us at this time? Don't you

686
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:06,639
understand it's lunchtime and I'm busy. Okay, excuse me. You

687
00:37:06,679 --> 00:37:09,000
open at ten and I'm not allowed to call it eleven.

688
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,599
When I asked, can I come in on Sunday with

689
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,599
my friend. She immediately said, no, you can't. Did not

690
00:37:14,679 --> 00:37:17,480
even offer me another day or time. Love this woman now,

691
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,559
So if you're a full time Monday to Friday employee,

692
00:37:20,559 --> 00:37:22,480
there's no way to get in there. And apparently they

693
00:37:22,559 --> 00:37:25,840
get offended for answering the phone. Well, excuse me, lady,

694
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,039
I did not ask you to work there. I always

695
00:37:29,079 --> 00:37:31,400
want to support small businesses, but when they treat you

696
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,079
like this, you know it's better to spend your money in.

697
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,559
Speaker 1: Okay, blah blah blah, No you can't. Okay, they come

698
00:37:37,599 --> 00:37:39,280
on Sunday, No you can't.

699
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,599
Speaker 2: Okay, I've got two more and they get progressively funnier.

700
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 1: Okay, this is great.

701
00:37:44,039 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 2: We saw the place and decided to walk in to

702
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,760
check the place out, maybe get some food. The owner,

703
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:54,039
I think, was very rude and unprofessional. She got extremely

704
00:37:54,199 --> 00:37:56,639
mad with us because we did not book a reservation.

705
00:37:57,159 --> 00:37:59,719
To be fair, we did not know. Also, it was

706
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,719
a whoseday. I did not even think it would be busy.

707
00:38:03,159 --> 00:38:05,360
We asked if we could still try the place out

708
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,440
since it was empty and no one was there, and

709
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:10,199
she got mad again. She said, I don't have food

710
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:14,119
for you guys and quote the place closes at three pm.

711
00:38:14,199 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 1: Why would you even come? Oh? It was literally twelve thirty.

712
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 2: By the way, I don't know why she was yelling

713
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,079
and getting frustrated at our simple question. Towards the end

714
00:38:24,119 --> 00:38:27,880
she got a little racist. Unfortunately, what we calmly wanted

715
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,400
to let her know that we weren't demanding to be seated.

716
00:38:30,519 --> 00:38:34,159
We simply said, do you have any reservations today? And

717
00:38:34,199 --> 00:38:37,039
if not, could we just try some tea. By the way,

718
00:38:37,119 --> 00:38:39,320
she never said she had people coming in. She just

719
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,639
yelled and then she responded, your type of people don't

720
00:38:42,639 --> 00:38:44,639
have the ability to comprehend anything.

721
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:49,760
Speaker 1: Holy fuck? What? Yeah? Okay? Then old, this one's the

722
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,440
best I say is wild?

723
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:56,559
Speaker 2: Yeah okay, so this one says, dear yelpers, fellow tea lovers.

724
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,599
Speaker 1: I would have absolutely loved to have mentioned.

725
00:38:59,199 --> 00:39:01,280
Speaker 2: What a great and one or full experience I've had

726
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,639
during one of my favorite pastimes, which is afternoon tea,

727
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,880
but unfortunately I'm not able to do that. Here for

728
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,760
the tea room, I'm going to spare everyone the details

729
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:12,800
of how my two girlfriends and I were treated with

730
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:17,199
absolute vile, disrespect and prejudice. How we were ignored the

731
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:21,039
entire time three hours when simply asking for just the

732
00:39:21,079 --> 00:39:24,920
basics like more hot water and cream countless times, only

733
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,079
to have to get up from the table and find

734
00:39:27,199 --> 00:39:29,280
one out of the two people working there that day

735
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:33,400
to remind them again. My friends and I are women

736
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:37,119
who have class and appreciate a quiet I think she

737
00:39:37,159 --> 00:39:39,920
means elegant place to go and enjoy fun conversation and

738
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,960
amazing tea. We're polite, easy going, and don't ever put

739
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:47,440
high expectations on weight, staff or service. We've all been

740
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,760
to establishment where service was just okay, and yet I

741
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,360
still felt I wanted to come back if the food

742
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,559
tea experienced her passed the bad service. And I'm not

743
00:39:56,679 --> 00:39:59,760
one to usually write any type of review, good or bad. However,

744
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,599
because I've had the absolute worst possible treatment yesterday here,

745
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:06,039
I was compelled to write this so others can have

746
00:40:06,039 --> 00:40:09,320
a sense of what exactly type of business this is.

747
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:11,079
Speaker 1: I was talked down.

748
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:14,599
Speaker 2: To, made fun of, and criticized by all caps the

749
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:19,400
owner who served us comments such as quote because this

750
00:40:19,559 --> 00:40:23,360
is La, you need patience and listen, sweetheart, you don't

751
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,880
know how things work around here, and we're closed now,

752
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,159
and then quote we have cameras to show you how

753
00:40:29,199 --> 00:40:33,440
you were behaving. End quote. I'm not a slave. We're

754
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,039
just a very small fraction of what was said to us.

755
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,639
I'm honestly appalled and heartbroken from such a nasty person

756
00:40:39,679 --> 00:40:42,840
taking her life's issues out on my friends. I am,

757
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:46,800
to let you know, a blonde, Eastern European thirty somethingter female.

758
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:50,199
I had to physically remove myself from this place from

759
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,360
fear this might have escalated to an incredibly violent scene

760
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,679
because I've never in my life been treated this way.

761
00:40:56,519 --> 00:40:59,159
And then she says, I'm still shaking from the entire thing.

762
00:40:59,519 --> 00:41:02,119
I just hope she either either finds a good therapist

763
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,519
or God.

764
00:41:03,599 --> 00:41:09,599
Speaker 1: Like, oh my god, I have got to go check

765
00:41:09,639 --> 00:41:10,320
this place out.

766
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 2: We I mean, I was laughing so hard reading this.

767
00:41:15,159 --> 00:41:16,599
I was like, I got to print out some of

768
00:41:16,639 --> 00:41:17,920
these reviews and bring them.

769
00:41:18,159 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: Did you I love it? You guys should write a review.

770
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:22,639
Oh my god.

771
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,280
Speaker 2: Cecily was like, I'm writing a review of our experience.

772
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was just so, what's wrong with this woman?

773
00:41:29,559 --> 00:41:31,039
I don't she's the owner.

774
00:41:31,519 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, she's the owner, and she and she made

775
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,639
sure to tell us like that they've been in business

776
00:41:36,639 --> 00:41:40,079
twenty one years, which but by the way, we went

777
00:41:40,159 --> 00:41:43,280
back this these reviews I just read you were more recent,

778
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,360
but there's horrible one star reviews going back to like

779
00:41:47,079 --> 00:41:51,920
teen Yeah, so it's like, was there any positive years ago,

780
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,239
like they'd only been open for like five years, when

781
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,679
they're already being so mean to people. Yes, there's lots

782
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:01,599
of positive reviews, but the negative of your reviews are crazy,

783
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:03,920
Like there was more than one that said that she

784
00:42:04,159 --> 00:42:06,079
wohen asked for more hot water.

785
00:42:06,199 --> 00:42:07,280
Speaker 1: She said, I'm not your slave.

786
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,159
Speaker 2: I mean, god, psychotic.

787
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 1: That is psychotic? And they only have one teeth flavor?

788
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:15,760
Did that?

789
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 2: Is that really true? Toads of tea flavors only we're

790
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,199
going to serve one flavor of tea. Oh, because we're

791
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:25,079
already giving you a free hour. No, we're not giving

792
00:42:25,159 --> 00:42:27,519
us a free hour. Right, you're just decided that you're

793
00:42:27,559 --> 00:42:29,559
going to work even though you're going to be tired

794
00:42:29,679 --> 00:42:32,079
from How about this hire some more employees then.

795
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 1: Exactly, Yeah, I'm sure nobody wants to work for her.

796
00:42:35,519 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 2: I mean it seems like everybody who's dealt with these

797
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:40,760
people she waited on them and then was rude, right,

798
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:44,559
like maybe being a waitress is not your best maybe

799
00:42:44,599 --> 00:42:45,960
not option even.

800
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,599
Speaker 1: Being in the establishment. How about you just hire people

801
00:42:48,599 --> 00:42:52,079
to handle all that shit Like that's crazy, so funny,

802
00:42:52,159 --> 00:42:54,719
that's insane. It is pretty funny.

803
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:59,400
Speaker 2: So then wow, okay, so I'll also just leave you

804
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,559
with this. Okay, So then we go to we drive

805
00:43:02,559 --> 00:43:05,079
out to Pasadena to go meet this dog.

806
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that the Pasadena Humane Society.

807
00:43:08,519 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 2: No, it was being fostered at a guy's house. He

808
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,079
lives by the Pasadena Humane Society. Okay, So we go

809
00:43:14,159 --> 00:43:17,039
to this house and I meet this dog, and this

810
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:21,960
is like a positive thing. But this guy, he's a

811
00:43:22,159 --> 00:43:25,000
he's a dog trainer. He clearly knows his shit.

812
00:43:25,159 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 1: He has a ton.

813
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,039
Speaker 2: He had a ton of dogs being fostered at his house.

814
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:32,800
And this dog came out and she was definitely she

815
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:36,239
seems super sweet. She came right over. She was like,

816
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,000
not we didn't get the Clyde treatment. We didn't get

817
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,360
her all that, you know. She was like happy to

818
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:45,920
see us and gave her some treats. And but then

819
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:50,719
I remembered that he had written that this dog can

820
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:54,440
be really codependent, which to me, I was like, well

821
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:55,440
that sounds good to me.

822
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,039
Speaker 1: I like a velcrow. I like a dog who's filled

823
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:00,119
is that way.

824
00:44:00,559 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 2: But apparently what he meant, and I'm kind of learning

825
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:08,800
a little bit of foster speak, I think I'm really

826
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,719
I've decided to take my time and really make sure

827
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,760
we get the right dog for our family. And what

828
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:21,920
codependent means from him is like starting to take ownership over,

829
00:44:22,079 --> 00:44:25,599
like starting to really have a dependent relationship and then

830
00:44:26,519 --> 00:44:34,239
getting territorial over your person, your people. So that means

831
00:44:34,679 --> 00:44:37,320
that this dog was with a different foster apparently and

832
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,320
had to be taken out of that foster and fostered

833
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:43,440
with this guy who really knows dogs, because that dog

834
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:48,079
went after the other people's dog, okay, Which it's like

835
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:51,320
I'm not saying like that makes this dog a bad dog,

836
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:55,119
but that means that he's like, well, you have to

837
00:44:56,159 --> 00:44:58,679
there's a lot of things people don't understand about like

838
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:00,880
when that happens, like that's absolutely not okay.

839
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 1: And that's because the dog.

840
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:08,199
Speaker 2: Is being allowed to consider the owners as like his property,

841
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:11,599
his responsibility, like and now he's going to feel that

842
00:45:11,679 --> 00:45:15,239
he has to be the protector or whatever. But also

843
00:45:15,599 --> 00:45:17,239
and he's like, so I have to just make sure

844
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:20,000
I don't give treats around you know, I'm very careful

845
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:21,920
with how I treat each dog and we're trying to

846
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:25,519
train that and I was like, I just got tired hearing.

847
00:45:27,039 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: It's like, I just.

848
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,679
Speaker 2: Don't think you understand that I'm going to be kind

849
00:45:30,679 --> 00:45:31,760
of a lazy dog owner.

850
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:32,760
Speaker 1: Not right.

851
00:45:33,199 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 2: That is not to say that I wouldn't get a

852
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:41,320
dog and then take him to obedience classes or work

853
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,159
with a trainer, which I did with Penelope. I'm not

854
00:45:44,199 --> 00:45:48,599
saying that, but I'm saying like, yeah, I don't know

855
00:45:48,639 --> 00:45:51,000
that I want to take a dog that's already couldn't

856
00:45:51,159 --> 00:45:54,679
function in another home. Right, of course, what kinds are

857
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:56,400
I'm not My home's not going to be better than

858
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:58,760
the other four, right, right? Even though so the dog

859
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:00,679
was cute, but I was like, I'm not feeling what

860
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:03,719
kind of dog was it? It was a like a pointer.

861
00:46:05,639 --> 00:46:06,039
Speaker 1: Kind of.

862
00:46:06,679 --> 00:46:09,639
Speaker 2: I posted a picture of this dog is so so

863
00:46:09,639 --> 00:46:13,480
so cute, kind of like the right size and really cute.

864
00:46:13,559 --> 00:46:16,880
But I'm like, I don't know. It's this dog needs

865
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:21,000
training and you got to stay on it. The habits

866
00:46:21,039 --> 00:46:25,039
are not good and I don't know. And he's like,

867
00:46:25,079 --> 00:46:27,320
you're not going to want to let the dog sleep

868
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:29,480
in your bed because it's going to meet like, this

869
00:46:29,519 --> 00:46:32,039
is things you're not gonna want to do with this dog,

870
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:36,440
because at least for a while, this trainer was really great.

871
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:40,719
I'm gonna listen, super smart, Yeah, to different kinds of dogs.

872
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,440
Speaker 1: Did he have any other dogs there that you liked?

873
00:46:45,079 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 2: No? I didn't really meet any of the other dogs.

874
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,760
It was kind of like, here's the dog you wanted

875
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:55,400
to meet, and that's it. Then, I mean, we're here,

876
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,800
so I'll just tell you this last dog story. The

877
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:03,360
next day, I went with Robin to the place the

878
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,559
rescue where she got her dog lescom hmm called and

879
00:47:07,599 --> 00:47:09,519
that I was doing shout outs for for a while,

880
00:47:09,559 --> 00:47:10,880
pop Culture Rescue.

881
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.

882
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 2: Turns out that the woman who founded this rescue is

883
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:17,599
Paul Schaeffer's daughter.

884
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: Oh really that is cool. Yeah, I didn't know.

885
00:47:21,159 --> 00:47:25,679
Speaker 2: That she's the rescue itself is great. So they were

886
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:30,079
having an open house on Saturday, so Robin and I

887
00:47:30,159 --> 00:47:32,760
drove out there to have lunch and meet some dogs.

888
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 1: And again I was open minded.

889
00:47:35,079 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't I hadn't seen any on

890
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,880
the website that I was particularly like, Oh, I want

891
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:44,280
to meet this dog. But we got there and she

892
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:47,239
the person that we spoke to was really nice and

893
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:49,760
she was just like, so, what's so are you looking

894
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:51,280
for a dog? And I was like, I don't know,

895
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:55,079
Like I'm open kind of like a bigger dog. I

896
00:47:55,079 --> 00:47:57,360
don't really want a little dog. And then so she

897
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,880
brought me out and I said, I I definitely think

898
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:04,360
I want a younger dog, only because I feel like

899
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:05,519
a seven.

900
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 1: Year old or no, it's going to be like I just.

901
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 2: Still feel traumatized Nowopy, And I don't know, you was

902
00:48:15,079 --> 00:48:17,719
having a senior dog and it would be nice to

903
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:20,239
like have a younger dog have more time.

904
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, not that I'm.

905
00:48:22,039 --> 00:48:24,519
Speaker 2: Opposed to, like we need people out there a dog

906
00:48:24,559 --> 00:48:26,039
getting with your.

907
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 1: Dogs, you know. Oh my god.

908
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:30,039
Speaker 2: And you know I have a soft spot for these

909
00:48:30,039 --> 00:48:32,840
seniors because I had one, and I'm like, do I

910
00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:35,480
want to go into it knowing that the dog's already

911
00:48:35,519 --> 00:48:38,000
like seven or eight years if they say seven, probably

912
00:48:38,079 --> 00:48:42,119
eight maybe yeah. So anyway, but I met this dog.

913
00:48:42,199 --> 00:48:45,119
I met a couple of dogs, and one of the

914
00:48:45,159 --> 00:48:49,960
dogs was so cute. Her name is Cindy, although on

915
00:48:50,039 --> 00:48:53,480
their website, if you look on the pop culture website,

916
00:48:53,559 --> 00:48:56,199
you'll see that the dog is listed as being named

917
00:48:56,239 --> 00:49:01,000
Ariel okay, but they changed the name to and she's

918
00:49:01,119 --> 00:49:06,719
part shar Pei and part either like golden like lab

919
00:49:07,119 --> 00:49:10,760
or maybe some kind of shepherd okay. She looks labby

920
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:14,360
shar Pei okay. And she was so cute and very

921
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,039
sweet and calm. But the problem is she's only four

922
00:49:17,039 --> 00:49:17,599
months old.

923
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,320
Speaker 1: Oh. And I was like, I don't I hate to.

924
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,119
Speaker 2: Be this person that's like, I know there's no perfect dog,

925
00:49:24,199 --> 00:49:27,880
but yeah, four month old dog looks can be deceiving,

926
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,840
Like she can be calm right now, right, but they

927
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,119
go through their phases.

928
00:49:32,199 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 1: That's still a puppy. Yeah.

929
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 2: And I was like, I got my work cut out

930
00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:38,159
for I don't want my full time job to be

931
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:39,679
raising a puppy.

932
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 1: Right. That's how old Phil was when we got him,

933
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,440
Oh four months, he was four months.

934
00:49:44,639 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 2: That was puppy time, and it was puppy time. You

935
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:48,880
had to do a lot of intents. You had to

936
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send him away, yeah, intense.

937
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Speaker 1: We sent him to a training camp because also we

938
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:57,280
were under construction at the house. But they did all

939
00:49:57,280 --> 00:49:59,360
these Yeah, he was there for like two weeks and

940
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:01,159
we went and visit him and they taught us how

941
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to train him. And it was at all great. It was.

942
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It was and I mean the famous, like Quentin Tarantino

943
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:12,039
story when we went and saw The Hateful Eight and

944
00:50:12,119 --> 00:50:14,400
we put Phil in one of the bathroom. We just

945
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,920
got him and we put him in the bathroom with

946
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,360
toilet paper down, and we went and saw the Hateful

947
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,880
Eight and it's gruesome, blood everywhere. And we come home

948
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,800
and Adam opens the bathroom door and he goes, oh God,

949
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:27,920
and he shuts the door and he goes, it's like

950
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:32,719
a Quentin Tarantino movie in there, fucking shit everywhere, all

951
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:37,599
over him, all over the walls, the paper all fucking

952
00:50:37,679 --> 00:50:40,360
torn up. And he's like, yeah, that's your job. It's

953
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:44,320
like twelve thirty at night. Had to take the puppy outside,

954
00:50:44,519 --> 00:50:47,920
you know, and likes them owes him down and it

955
00:50:48,039 --> 00:50:51,079
was a mess. It was traumatizing and that it just

956
00:50:51,199 --> 00:50:54,599
kept going. But Phil never shit in the house, bless you. He.

957
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I don't know how that happened, but he never. He

958
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never had an accident. I mean us, he was sick.

959
00:51:01,039 --> 00:51:03,920
He knew immediately picked up on that. It was the

960
00:51:04,039 --> 00:51:07,400
chewing and the swallowing of shit, you know. Just I mean,

961
00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:09,880
I have shoes that have his teeth marks. In him,

962
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:14,159
and you know, swallowing sunny socks and chewing on remote

963
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:20,159
continues to this day, well in a different in a

964
00:51:20,199 --> 00:51:23,199
different varia. I mean he'll get into trash sometimes if

965
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,960
he's left alone and stuff, or he will jump up.

966
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,760
Other than that, I can't leave, you know, my shoes

967
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,199
and socks around. He doesn't. Okay. Isn't he grew out

968
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,159
of that? Yeah? Okay, but it lasted.

969
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 2: But I just don't even think I want to deal

970
00:51:37,519 --> 00:51:40,440
with the things like that that they have to grow

971
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,320
out of. I don't know, isn't it. Am I just

972
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:43,119
being lazy?

973
00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: Or am I not? I just know myself. I know.

974
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,760
I think you know yourself and you know what your

975
00:51:47,800 --> 00:51:51,920
family wants. I think maybe a year maybe, which is.

976
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 2: What we thought Penelope was. That's the thing. When we

977
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:58,199
got Penelope, she was listed as being one and even

978
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:00,840
at one in my application, And when I talked to her,

979
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:02,920
I was like, I'm a little nervous about one.

980
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,559
Speaker 1: I really want a calm adult dog.

981
00:52:06,199 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 2: And she's like, no, you honestly, like Penelope is so sweet,

982
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:13,360
she's very chill, because I think in my application I

983
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:14,880
was like, I just want a dog I can like

984
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,239
sit on the couch and watch daylight.

985
00:52:16,519 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

986
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I said, I'm being honest, like I'm going to

987
00:52:19,559 --> 00:52:21,480
walk my dog all the time, but I'm not like

988
00:52:21,559 --> 00:52:24,000
we're not going on hikes, we're not going to the

989
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,320
beach every day, Like that's not what this life is.

990
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:31,239
And she was like she thought that was funny, Annie Hart,

991
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,880
and she was like, no, no, no, Penelope's perfect for you,

992
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:34,760
I promise you.

993
00:52:35,159 --> 00:52:37,039
Speaker 1: Well, probably because.

994
00:52:36,679 --> 00:52:42,280
Speaker 2: It turned out Penelope was between three and five, not one,

995
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:45,519
and yet we did still have her for like nine

996
00:52:45,559 --> 00:52:47,400
and a half years, so we had a good run.

997
00:52:49,199 --> 00:52:52,800
But she probably was five she already had arthritis.

998
00:52:53,079 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

999
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 2: So anyway, at this pop culture though, she was like,

1000
00:52:58,039 --> 00:53:01,320
you can foster if you want, and I really considered it.

1001
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,199
I was feeling you know, you see it because I

1002
00:53:04,199 --> 00:53:05,559
was like, oh my god, I want this dog.

1003
00:53:06,079 --> 00:53:07,920
Speaker 1: Cute. Yeah yeah.

1004
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:10,440
Speaker 2: But then I was just like let me, let me

1005
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:13,320
talk to I was texting John and the pictures and

1006
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:14,679
he's like, talk to the kids.

1007
00:53:15,039 --> 00:53:15,639
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1008
00:53:15,679 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 2: And then I came home and I sent them pictures

1009
00:53:17,519 --> 00:53:19,039
and they were like, yeah, it's really cute.

1010
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 1: And I was like.

1011
00:53:21,679 --> 00:53:25,559
Speaker 2: But like and they said, I said we could foster her,

1012
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:27,760
and they were like no, we don't want to foster

1013
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:29,559
a dog because well.

1014
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. If you say that and you

1015
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:36,000
bring the dog home and the dog everybody loves the dog,

1016
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:38,039
then you get to keep the dog.

1017
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,519
Speaker 2: Yes, but then that dog is going to be a

1018
00:53:41,519 --> 00:53:44,199
lot of work because it's only four months old.

1019
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:44,760
Speaker 1: That's yeah.

1020
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,800
Speaker 2: Then we decide yes, we want her, make the commitment,

1021
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:50,119
and then we're committed to raising a puppy.

1022
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 1: Right, And here's the thing.

1023
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:55,039
Speaker 2: The kids and I'm committed to raising.

1024
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's what I was going to say. You're

1025
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,000
going to do all the work. I'm going to kids

1026
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,559
are going to like the dog, and yeah.

1027
00:54:00,559 --> 00:54:02,079
Speaker 2: They're gonna say, hey, how you doing.

1028
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:04,039
Speaker 1: My name's Paul Bye.

1029
00:54:04,159 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, and am I gonna be like one of you

1030
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,000
guys walk the dog And they're gonna be.

1031
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:11,760
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, I've got some right right, Yeah?

1032
00:54:12,079 --> 00:54:13,599
Speaker 2: Really okay, I'll do it.

1033
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,559
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah. I like the idea of fostering a dog,

1034
00:54:17,639 --> 00:54:19,639
though I know and.

1035
00:54:19,559 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 2: I think it well, I said, is there another dog

1036
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,880
that's not quite a puppy? But also, when you foster

1037
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,519
a dog, here's another thing. All the dog all the

1038
00:54:28,559 --> 00:54:31,719
dog people out there are saying this to me in

1039
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:32,320
their minds.

1040
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:35,079
Speaker 1: The dog is not your dog.

1041
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,199
Speaker 2: So you really have to have good boundaries because you

1042
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,079
don't want to take a dog home and foster it

1043
00:54:40,119 --> 00:54:41,679
and then just let it sleep on your bed and

1044
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,519
let it because the next person who's taking in that

1045
00:54:44,599 --> 00:54:47,679
dog might have different rules, and so you're teaching the

1046
00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:52,039
dog bad habits. You're also really letting the dog like

1047
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:53,599
bond with you know what I mean.

1048
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:55,519
Speaker 1: You're letting the dog, that's true.

1049
00:54:55,559 --> 00:54:57,519
Speaker 2: So you're not supposed to let a dog that you're

1050
00:54:57,559 --> 00:54:58,800
fostering sleep in your bed.

1051
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,639
Speaker 1: They should be in a crate. You're great trained. Yeah,

1052
00:55:01,639 --> 00:55:04,480
and I don't want to do no, I don't blame you. Yeah,

1053
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:05,559
I know, like love on it.

1054
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:08,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I know you can love on the dog.

1055
00:55:08,519 --> 00:55:11,159
Speaker 1: But you know, right, you have to have boundaries to

1056
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:13,360
have boundaries, which we don't don't have good I don't

1057
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:16,760
have boundaries. Look where Phil sleeps? Right? Yeah?

1058
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,440
Speaker 2: Well I want the dog to sleep with us if

1059
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:20,519
they want to, right.

1060
00:55:21,039 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 1: So yeah, I thought you're doing I do, Look, but

1061
00:55:26,159 --> 00:55:28,760
I agree. I think what you're doing is really good,

1062
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:32,320
like checking out all these different places, talking to people,

1063
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,559
getting to know the lingo, and taking your time. You know,

1064
00:55:35,599 --> 00:55:38,679
it's a big commitment, you're doing the right thing, and

1065
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:41,840
it's fun to hear every week. Yeah, dates, there.

1066
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,199
Speaker 2: Was another dog that was like really cute. But you know,

1067
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:48,199
I really liked this rescue a lot because they were

1068
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:49,719
so about the dogs.

1069
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:51,159
Speaker 1: Like for one of the dogs, I was.

1070
00:55:51,159 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 2: Like, well, we could foster that dog, and she goes,

1071
00:55:53,039 --> 00:55:55,519
I mean you could, but this dog is having a

1072
00:55:55,519 --> 00:55:58,079
pretty good life here because this is a place where

1073
00:55:58,079 --> 00:56:01,440
they have dogs on their premises. They're friends with each other,

1074
00:56:01,519 --> 00:56:04,119
and they're like, it's having a pretty good life. Like

1075
00:56:04,159 --> 00:56:06,280
if you're not, if you're just gonna foster, take one

1076
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:10,760
of the ones that needs an actual foster home, right right, Okay,

1077
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:12,320
I didn't.

1078
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 1: I think you're gonna find the perfect dog in the

1079
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:19,920
near future. I can feel it. It's coming. It's coming,

1080
00:56:20,039 --> 00:56:22,400
it's coming. How often are you going out and looking,

1081
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:24,960
by the way, I'm not really And I stopped.

1082
00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 2: I stopped like looking at pet adoption sites because I

1083
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,679
just don't. I just it's too much. But they come

1084
00:56:32,679 --> 00:56:34,400
across my social media feed.

1085
00:56:34,679 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 1: All the time.

1086
00:56:35,639 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 2: Oh and another thing was I kind of fell for

1087
00:56:38,039 --> 00:56:41,440
this the first rescue, the one that had Clyde sent

1088
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,719
me a picture of this really cute dog named Luna

1089
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:50,000
who's pit bull mix. And I love, you know, I love.

1090
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 1: These pitios now obsessed.

1091
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 2: The problem is Penelope didn't really look like a pit bull,

1092
00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:01,760
so we just called her something else, terrier. But but

1093
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,519
John started having second thoughts about a dog that actually

1094
00:57:06,599 --> 00:57:08,679
looks very much like a pit bull. Because of our

1095
00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:13,760
homeowner's insurance, really we don't cover, they do not they

1096
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:16,239
have exceptions for pit bulls. I think I want to

1097
00:57:16,239 --> 00:57:22,159
say Akida's, maybe Doberman's, Like there's certain dogs. And I

1098
00:57:22,239 --> 00:57:24,039
said to John, I was like, who cares. We just

1099
00:57:24,079 --> 00:57:26,920
won't tell them that we have the dog, and he's like, yeah,

1100
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,960
until like we get kicked off our homeowners if something

1101
00:57:30,039 --> 00:57:35,559
happens god forbid, which could happen with any dog, we're fucked.

1102
00:57:35,719 --> 00:57:39,000
Like we get sued, our homeowner's insurance is going to

1103
00:57:39,079 --> 00:57:39,920
say absolutely not.

1104
00:57:40,159 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 1: Because this argue it right.

1105
00:57:43,239 --> 00:57:45,079
Speaker 2: So then I was like, yeah, maybe we need a

1106
00:57:45,119 --> 00:57:47,480
dog that at least we have an argument for, like

1107
00:57:47,559 --> 00:57:48,159
we didn't.

1108
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 1: Know as pitbull, like a mix. Yeah yeah, anyway, Ow

1109
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,039
that's interesting and know that all right?

1110
00:57:54,079 --> 00:57:57,559
Speaker 2: So we got Friday topics too, so much more to

1111
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talk about. Plus we've got a good Hey, Treon.

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Speaker 1: Adam's got a card, My friend too, got me two cars.

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You know what he does. We love him all right.

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Thanks everybody.

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Speaker 2: You're a parent now, don't f it up.

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Speaker 1: It's good that Angel