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Speaker 1: If you love listening to podcasts, you've got to have

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a choice, right Aro dot net, r r oe dot net.

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It's not just about talking to the rockstars and the

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chefs and the movie stars. This is about your walk

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of life. Arro dot net a r r oe dot net.

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Missed Opportunity. I love sharing conversations, but hosting those conversations

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requires a lot of show prep. My podcasting platform features

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thousands of guests, and once you don't have access to

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are my missed opportunities, the show prep was completed, the

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conversation didn't happen. I keep all of my notes because

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I believe the paths will cross again. Let me explain

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missed opportunity. It's my questions and statements without their answers.

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I'm leaving open enough space at the end of every question,

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hoping they'll download the talk and insert their answers. And

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it has happened four times. Missed opportunity is a lost

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piece of history, like a message in a bottle. It's

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been tossed out to see I hope to locate that destination.

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This week, we're putting focus on my missed Opportunity with

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author Gary John Bishop, who in twenty twenty released the

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book Why's as asterisk asterik asterisk I'll let you fill

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in the blanks. Author Gary John Bishop known for straight

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shooting wisdom and advice for facing every one of our obstacles.

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His biggest selling book has been On Yourself and Ask

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Gary whether it's losing a job, suffering with a broken heart,

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or you lack purpose. His books are meant exactly for you.

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It's learning how to be wise while taking on other problems.

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The new book provides a fresh perspective to helping ourselves

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transform now. According to Gary John Bishop, the work doesn't

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end there. The invitation to share a conversation with Gary

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John Bishop arrived on September twentieth, twenty twenty. How do

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you like that? Nine twenty ooh. The conversation was approved

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and set for October fourteenth, twenty twenty at ten ten am.

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My reply was perfect. Well. On the morning of October fourteenth,

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a reminder for the event was sent. They asked me

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are you ready? And I said yes. Guess what. The

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conversation didn't happen. Gary John Bishop became my missed opportunity.

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Coming up next the questions the statements for Gary John Bishop,

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Hey Welcome back to Missed Opportunity. This week, our focus

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is on my Missed Opportunity with Gary John Bishop. Do

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you create a negative sense of behavior before you break

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out into your stories because we go through a method

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of numbness, and what you're doing is you're bringing out

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that authentic little flavor to it. How do we begin

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to recognize patterns that have taken over our mind, body,

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and souls. Let's talk about triggers. What triggers a destructive cycle?

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The role of the subconscious mind? Is it hard to

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deal with and is it a deal breaker? I'm guilty

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of it acting the way I do, knowing I'm going

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to feel like crap later on. You speak the street,

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you know the language of the common person. How do

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we get beyond that and get to know who that

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common person is? We are so guilty of this self sabotage,

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the majority of every one of us. We face it

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every single day. What can we do to get around

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it or beneath it? The truth and my truth they're

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not the same. And you go into that. How addicted

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to the familiar are we and how can we get

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by it so we can trash it? Do we tend

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to mess our lives up just so we can be

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a hero when it's time to cleaning things up. Waking

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up to want to screw things up? Is that a curse?

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And is it a career suicide moment? Living life as

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our truer self that calls for confidence and less greed here, dude.

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So when it really comes down to it, are we

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in search of someone to blame? What if it ends

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up on us and not them? And there you have it,

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my missed opportunity, a lost piece of history. You now

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know the questions, so let's locate the reactions. The door

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is always going to be open. If you are or no,

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Gary John Bishop, please reach out to me at errowc

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at gmail dot com. That's a R R o E

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C at gmail dot com and as always, be brilliant