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<v Speaker 1>Katie is my favorite person in the whole world. Got

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<v Speaker 1>a doubt. I spent all the time with her, and

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<v Speaker 1>even if like she was at work, that's normal.

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<v Speaker 2>And if I was at home not without her, I

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<v Speaker 2>want I I missed her even in those times.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I always wanted her to be around. She

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<v Speaker 1>was funny, She's smart.

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<v Speaker 2>She always I always tell people. I'm like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I have random facts I like tell people, but I

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<v Speaker 2>always learned them from her. She has something new to

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<v Speaker 2>teach me every day.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was one of my favorite things about her.

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<v Speaker 2>She's so smart, like and I always told her she

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<v Speaker 2>could have done anything in the whole world that she

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to do. She could have been anything, but she

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<v Speaker 2>hated at school, so she didn't take that path.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, she was charismatic.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if she didn't like to be around everybody all

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<v Speaker 2>the time. She was mary to herself by the time.

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<v Speaker 2>She liked alone time. So's she was a really good person.

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<v Speaker 2>She never did anything bad to anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she.

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<v Speaker 2>Was really sarcastic, maybe had a little bit of dark humor,

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<v Speaker 2>but I like that about her.

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<v Speaker 3>That was Emma Clark, the partner wife of Katie, Janie

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<v Speaker 3>and she was sharing some of her favorite things about Katie.

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<v Speaker 3>That interview was done Atlanta News First a few years ago,

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<v Speaker 3>the CBS affiliate here in Atlanta. Emma sat down and

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<v Speaker 3>did a whole long interview with them the next day

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<v Speaker 3>the next day to talk about who Katie was as

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<v Speaker 3>a person and also just I mean, gosh, I can't

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<v Speaker 3>even imagine the shock that she was experiencing in that moment.

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<v Speaker 4>She made Katie so relatable, like she sounds like a

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<v Speaker 4>really cool woman who would have been such a I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know one of us. Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Love the whole like that she loved to share random

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<v Speaker 3>facts like that's something that I too. Yeah, totally. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>which you know, yeah, but yeah, I think you know,

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<v Speaker 3>part of the bigger picture here is that Katie was

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<v Speaker 3>a human being with a lot of people in her

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<v Speaker 3>life that really loved her. And we also understand that

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<v Speaker 3>her family and friends are very private, and that's absolutely understandable.

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<v Speaker 3>Not everybody wants to get on and talk with the media,

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<v Speaker 3>and I know it's also it can be a little

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<v Speaker 3>scary sometimes to talk to the media because you don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Know how they're going to twist it, right, you know, all.

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<v Speaker 3>Those things, and or you might say something with a

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<v Speaker 3>certain inflection that you you intended to be you know, lighthearted,

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<v Speaker 3>and then it's viewed as something that seems kind of sinister.

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<v Speaker 4>So no, I do notice that so many times and

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<v Speaker 4>crimes where they'll analyze how somebody's grieving or how somebody's

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<v Speaker 4>like standing after a crime, and it's like, oh, they

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<v Speaker 4>must be guilty or I can see where that would

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<v Speaker 4>be so intimidating. Yeah, and you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't know how you're going to react in these situations, right,

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<v Speaker 3>And I think so often after some anytime you lose someone,

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<v Speaker 3>you're just kind of going through the motions. After all,

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<v Speaker 3>you're not really thinking clearly, and maybe it's something in

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<v Speaker 3>hindsight where you know, months down the road, Emmon was like, God,

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<v Speaker 3>how did I do that interview?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but you don't.

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<v Speaker 3>She's not thinking, no, it's doing what's being asked. And

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<v Speaker 3>on top of that, I mean, the media is an

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<v Speaker 3>excellent source for being able to share your story.

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<v Speaker 4>Especially she was doing a kindness, which is to this

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<v Speaker 4>is the name flashes all over the TV and it's

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<v Speaker 4>the spectacular murder that everybody's glued to the TV of,

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<v Speaker 4>Like whoa you forget about the human life that's behind it.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that's what she was very eloquent at showing,

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<v Speaker 4>is the human life that was behind this sensational news story.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, and that's just it. Like you know, sometimes well

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<v Speaker 3>you'll get like the longer form of the story on

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<v Speaker 3>dateline or twenty twenty, and it's like so often it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>they just lit up the room. Yeah you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's like, okay, but who were they?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, Katie was a bartender. She's a musician,

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<v Speaker 3>wrote poetry, wrote poetry like a very it sounds like

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<v Speaker 3>an introspective person. Yeah, private, you know, a little quiet,

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<v Speaker 3>but you know it. It also tells me that she

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<v Speaker 3>liked people to be a bartender.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you have to. You have to write like it's one.

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<v Speaker 3>Of the you know, I've only really bartended once, but

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<v Speaker 3>it was so much fun to like you've just got

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<v Speaker 3>all these different people coming up that you would never

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<v Speaker 3>interact with, right, and they're all excited and happy, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's like, you know, contagious.

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<v Speaker 4>I agree. I also think like I have a dog.

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<v Speaker 4>I walk my dog a lot, I have neighbors that

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<v Speaker 4>walk the dog. But like when I think about like

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<v Speaker 4>people who even take the time to get home and

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<v Speaker 4>go walk their dog that late at night, and or

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<v Speaker 4>making sure the dog gets a walk, Like there's already

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<v Speaker 4>a kindness to you that's solid, absolutely, like you're not

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<v Speaker 4>so lazy that you're just skipping the dog walk. I

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<v Speaker 4>mean to me, that's I don't know. I love someone

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<v Speaker 4>who loves their animals. I think that says a shit

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<v Speaker 4>ton about people.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely. Yeah, if you're compassionate for animals, like you're a

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<v Speaker 3>good human, right. And that's one thing that we've also

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<v Speaker 3>heard a lot from people with this story, is just

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<v Speaker 3>the sadness for Bowie. Yeah, you know, like that's a

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<v Speaker 3>that's such a loss and something happened not only to

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<v Speaker 3>my partner but also to my dog, my comfort.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, it's true.

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<v Speaker 3>Gosh, Like I can't imagine the longing that Emma had

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<v Speaker 3>of like the.

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<v Speaker 4>Loss of the quiet and of the dog.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, to be coming home without your partner and

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<v Speaker 3>also without your dog, it's so true.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think as we play more clips of the interview,

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<v Speaker 4>I also got a sense that they were deeply in

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<v Speaker 4>love and committed. Of course, when someone dies you don't

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<v Speaker 4>see that, you know, everybody's glorifying everything. But my sense

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<v Speaker 4>is they had a very solid, quiet, happy relationship that

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<v Speaker 4>felt true. You never heard after this murder where we

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<v Speaker 4>knew people in those circles at that time. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>out in Midtown all the time, but I was some

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<v Speaker 4>I never heard. You know how there's some relationships that

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<v Speaker 4>are just especially lesbians, that are just loaded with drama. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I never heard that one.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there never was nothing like well they were back

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<v Speaker 3>and forth.

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<v Speaker 4>There was none of that. It was like they met,

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<v Speaker 4>fell in love and built a life together. Yeah, which

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<v Speaker 4>that is our community at its finest, working in Midtown,

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<v Speaker 4>building a life together.

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<v Speaker 3>I just it's tragic and really, I mean, like living

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<v Speaker 3>the dream, you know, it's it's one of those things too,

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<v Speaker 3>where like Emma said, you know, Katie's a brilliant person,

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<v Speaker 3>she's so smart, but she hated school.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so relatable because I'm like, you know, there's so

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<v Speaker 3>many things I want to do, but yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to go back to school, you know. But in

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<v Speaker 3>the meantime, you know, she's living this life that's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of simple but also happy and easy. I would think,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, when you don't have all those stresses of

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<v Speaker 3>like some big corporate job or something like that. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>Like there's kind of like a relaxing feeling to that

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<v Speaker 3>kind of life.

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<v Speaker 4>P Yeah, they were fulfilled enough with each other and yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I think that's true. Let's play another club.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we actually met a g in Midtown. She was

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<v Speaker 2>a barchingder there and I used to go there all

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<v Speaker 2>the time when I first moved to Atlanta because I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have any friends, and my brother worked there, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's how we met.

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<v Speaker 2>And she always worked the day that I would go

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<v Speaker 2>up there most of the time. And one day we

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<v Speaker 2>were both just having drinks together and she said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>she knew how to get me. She was like, you

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<v Speaker 2>want to come meet my dog? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I do, want to come meet your dog. So we

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<v Speaker 2>went to our house and like hung out with her

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<v Speaker 2>and her dog. That was pretty much the beginning of everything. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that was a long time ago, probably eight years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>almost seven. Officially, we celebrated our six year last month.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, they were together for six years. And as

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<v Speaker 3>Emma said, they met at a bar that's now since

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<v Speaker 3>closed called Gee's Midtown and it's right there at that

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<v Speaker 3>tenth in Piedmont area. Okay, And it sounds like they

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<v Speaker 3>could and I got to know each other a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit over over some time with Katie was working at

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<v Speaker 3>that particular bar and the old cruise by and eventually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Katie cast of the line there, so I get Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's I like that too, of like, you know, it

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't like a dating app situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's back when we met in the WHI.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like they they and we're getting to know each

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<v Speaker 3>other on like a friend level first.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I love that too, And that they met in

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<v Speaker 4>the community where they eventually got a place together and

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<v Speaker 4>lived with their two dogs.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And that was actually how Emma kind of our

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<v Speaker 3>Katie realed Emma in was to say, do you want

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<v Speaker 3>to come meet my dog?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know if someone did that to me once?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Really?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Well, once I got there, I was like, oh god,

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<v Speaker 4>what am I doing?

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<v Speaker 3>What happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that out of here?

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<v Speaker 3>The whole like, do you want to come inside for

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<v Speaker 3>a drink?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's what you do with lesbians, You say, do

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<v Speaker 4>you want to meet my dog?

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<v Speaker 1>My dog?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? And I probably do Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Emma's dad, Joe Clark, also sat down with Atlanta News

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<v Speaker 3>First to talk about Katie, Well.

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<v Speaker 5>The one thing that stands out so much for me

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<v Speaker 5>and the relationship, and we're extremely close, and Katie made

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<v Speaker 5>Emma happy. They had a good life together. They've they've

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<v Speaker 5>they've started with nothing, they built on that. They lost

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<v Speaker 5>their first home in a house fower and they had

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<v Speaker 5>to move to where they live now. But they were

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<v Speaker 5>so resilient through that process. And Katie, like she said,

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<v Speaker 5>was she was so intelligent. I loved conversation with her

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<v Speaker 5>because there's several subjects that her and I could talk

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<v Speaker 5>about and she always knew the answer, which was awesome.

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<v Speaker 5>But the way it is affecting Emma through this, I

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<v Speaker 5>always knew that Emma was safe with Katie and she

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<v Speaker 5>protected her. She was They had such a great relationship

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<v Speaker 5>that when for a parent, if you don't have to

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<v Speaker 5>worry about your children all the time, which most do,

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<v Speaker 5>but I knew as long as they were together, I

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<v Speaker 5>didn't have to worry about Emma. And Katie feeled that part,

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<v Speaker 5>just as any life partner does. Is someone who she

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<v Speaker 5>cared so much about Emma. She made sure that Emma

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<v Speaker 5>was okay, and Emma did the same thing for her.

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<v Speaker 3>What he says there about just feeling like his daughter

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like that with adult kids now. I know

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<v Speaker 4>that exact feeling. When your child has somebody that there,

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<v Speaker 4>my kids, it's more friendships at this age, but even so,

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<v Speaker 4>I know that or somebody that you know they can

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<v Speaker 4>I relate to that so hard. Yeah, want that so

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<v Speaker 4>deeply for your kids.

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<v Speaker 3>And like, that's something my parents have expressed to me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>they feel better when they know that I'm like with someone.

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<v Speaker 3>I think they even feel better when they know that

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<v Speaker 3>And you can just tell the sincerity there that Joe

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<v Speaker 4>Brooding for them. That Katie's family was still in Michigan.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that correct? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I believe Katie's mom and sister still live in Michigan.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that they. You know, they're very private, quiet.

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<v Speaker 3>People believe they sent a letter just expressing how terrible

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<v Speaker 3>the loss was yeah, so that you know, again, I

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<v Speaker 3>totally understand that some people just don't feel comfortable getting

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, gosh, I can't even imagine if I if

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<v Speaker 3>I lost my child to get on TV and talk.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even think I could.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think I could. But I do think I

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's where I would.

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<v Speaker 4>Be so angry that it would have to go somewhere.

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<v Speaker 4>I admire people that can don't have that. Like I

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<v Speaker 4>think my anger would would have me out in front

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<v Speaker 4>of that police department screaming yeah, like a like a

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<v Speaker 4>crazy person, especially if I sensed you know, like even

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<v Speaker 4>when we heard that police officer talking to the news say,

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<v Speaker 4>I know it's frustrating for you that we haven't found

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<v Speaker 4>anyone or told you anything. And then there were rumors

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<v Speaker 4>that we don't know if it's true, but that there

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<v Speaker 4>was male DNA found that the scene. That's not confirmed.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe we can look into that and see if that

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<v Speaker 4>actually did get confirmed. But to me, that again would

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<v Speaker 4>have been public good public information, because then it could

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<v Speaker 4>have people thinking about a man, not thinking about a woman. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>when they're thinking about who saw at the park, which

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<v Speaker 4>this is something you and I have talked about, which

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<v Speaker 4>is that somebody saw something like it doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 4>you thought they were bad. I saw somebody yet people

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<v Speaker 4>yesterday all day. I'm sure if there was a crime

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<v Speaker 4>at the festival, I would start going through my mind

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<v Speaker 4>of weird things I saw, and then there's you know,

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<v Speaker 4>your brain starts to kind of remember things. Probably nothing,

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<v Speaker 4>but it could be something. So I think that it

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, or even just like you know the fact of

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<v Speaker 3>we were taking videos yesterday, I went into the gas

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<v Speaker 3>station and there was these two guys. They were shooting

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<v Speaker 3>something like I think TikTok or something. I talked to

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<v Speaker 3>them real briefly, and you know, they could have caught

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<v Speaker 3>something on cameras. So it goes like, you know, people

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<v Speaker 3>have You're always taking pictures and videos and stuff, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's like, were you in the park on that night,

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<v Speaker 3>that day the next day, did you take some pictures?

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<v Speaker 3>Like look closer at it.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel fairly confident at any given time, and this

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<v Speaker 4>is something that we should look into. But that park

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<v Speaker 4>being where it is, being a cut through, it's one

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<v Speaker 4>hundred and eighty nine acres. I bet at any given

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<v Speaker 4>time in that park there are more than one hundred people.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, it's like, I don't You're right, like out

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<v Speaker 4>of all those people, did they look and truly unhoused

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<v Speaker 4>people have cell phones?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's very true.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's not like that, you know, it's like you're

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<v Speaker 4>not going to get any information. There's plenty of information,

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<v Speaker 4>probably a wealth of information because they know that park

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<v Speaker 4>backwards and forwards. They know who belongs there who doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>And in twenty twenty one, we were still kind of

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<v Speaker 3>in the COVID era. A lot of people were still

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<v Speaker 3>hanging out in the park as their activity today, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a socild thing. Yeah, because it was outside, it

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<v Speaker 3>felt a little safer, you know, not being an enclosed space.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's like, I feel like the park was very

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<v Speaker 3>very active. Yeah, you know, I would agree, even though

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<v Speaker 3>it was hot in July or whatever. But that also

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<v Speaker 3>says too, like with the heat of you know, a

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<v Speaker 3>lot more people are probably out later at night for

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<v Speaker 3>sure during that time, or early in the morning when

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<v Speaker 3>it's cooler.

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<v Speaker 4>Melissa and I have a friend who is a was

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<v Speaker 4>an Atlanta police officer who's now retired, who we consulted

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<v Speaker 4>with just some general questions, and one thing that she

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<v Speaker 4>did say very clearly is she's like, they are there's

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<v Speaker 4>a cold case department that continues to work these cases

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<v Speaker 4>until they're solved. She said. But she said, if people

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<v Speaker 4>aren't screaming and putting pressure after a certain point, less

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<v Speaker 4>happens on that case, Like the squeaky wheel gets the oil,

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<v Speaker 4>is basically what she said. Yeah, So, like she talked

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<v Speaker 4>about a case where there was nine rapes that happened

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<v Speaker 4>by the same person. They could tell it was the

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<v Speaker 4>same person in and around Atlanta, and that nobody was

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<v Speaker 4>really doing anything. She ended up getting the case and

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<v Speaker 4>basically it got solved very quickly. She's like, because the

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<v Speaker 4>department got pressured, they brought more people in to look

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<v Speaker 4>into it, and it was solved in thirty six hours. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's just like these cases need effort, they need people,

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<v Speaker 4>they need attention, they need That is the difference between

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<v Speaker 4>a solved crime and an unsolved crime. And so when

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<v Speaker 4>a case is cold or going cold, or they run

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<v Speaker 4>out of leads, if you don't have somebody screaming to

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<v Speaker 4>get this done, it's less likely to get done because

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<v Speaker 4>there's fifty of them waiting, and.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't know what could be happening behind the scenes.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>For all we know, Katie's mom calls the police department

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<v Speaker 3>every day.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, twice a day.

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<v Speaker 3>Who knows. Another good point to drive home is that

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes they are they're like Vince said, you know, they

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<v Speaker 3>are working on it. Yeah, it's just a they're working

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<v Speaker 3>on it in a quiet way, and they're working on

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<v Speaker 3>holding some of those that information, you know, close to

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<v Speaker 3>the vest.

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<v Speaker 4>True and maybe truly it's like it doesn't it shouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>fall on Katie's.

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<v Speaker 3>Mom or they need to be agreed effer.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like who I feel like truly it should fall

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<v Speaker 4>on is the gay can be unity? Yeah? The public?

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<v Speaker 4>The public? This is our park. Yeah, Like where are

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<v Speaker 4>we should be screaming? We should be saying what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>And yes, there are lots of murders that happen all

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<v Speaker 4>the time, You're right, But there's not murders like that,

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<v Speaker 4>like that happened all the time at Peopon Park.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so much different.

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<v Speaker 4>It's totally different. This isn't a shooting at the gas

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<v Speaker 4>station exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not something where someone got in a fight and

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<v Speaker 3>suddenly pulled a gun and you know, heat of the

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<v Speaker 3>moment kind of thing lost the cool right this, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, it's it sounds planned, it sounds calculated, it

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<v Speaker 3>sounds psychotic.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, and it's at our community park in a gruesome

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<v Speaker 4>way to the gay community. So to me, it's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even fault her family. I'm saying, where is

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<v Speaker 4>the public where?

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<v Speaker 3>But also it's like, we don't know if it was

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<v Speaker 3>a hate crime. Yeah, but it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter,

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<v Speaker 3>it doesn't matter. That's one of our people.

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<v Speaker 4>It's one of our people.

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<v Speaker 3>And like I don't I don't care what the reason was.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care if it was because.

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<v Speaker 2>Of a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>She was a woman. I don't care if the skits

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<v Speaker 3>she's gay. She's one of us.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I just want to reiterate to Atlanta Crime

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<v Speaker 3>Stoppers you can report anonymous, anonymously, any tips anything, like

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<v Speaker 3>we said, just if you were anywhere around that park,

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<v Speaker 3>even like two three days before or after, and you

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<v Speaker 3>saw something weird.

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<v Speaker 4>And you have something in your mind. I even think

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<v Speaker 4>like sometimes after a crime like that and I remember this,

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<v Speaker 4>where there was like speculation or people would be like well,

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<v Speaker 4>there was this thing that happened, Like you're you're even

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<v Speaker 4>if you're speculating that you thought you saw something. Again,

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<v Speaker 4>it's like if last night the party, Like I can

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<v Speaker 4>remember two people that I thought were kind of weird

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<v Speaker 4>last night. I watched them. I kept an eye on them,

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<v Speaker 4>and we were in a fully lit, very public place.

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<v Speaker 4>But I'll tell you later who it was. But I remember, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I did, And so if something would have gone down,

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<v Speaker 4>I would have remembered that. I even noted, like in

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<v Speaker 4>my had what he was wearing and what like some details. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>because I just thought it's like noteworthy to me and weird,

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<v Speaker 4>but not a big deal. Nothing happened, there was nothing done.

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<v Speaker 4>But had the next day there been something, I would

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<v Speaker 4>have shown up. I've been like, this guy was there,

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<v Speaker 4>and this is the thing I saw. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess I just feel like somebody saw something, even

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<v Speaker 4>if they don't think it's relevant.

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<v Speaker 3>Every someone saw something.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he didn't come out of thin air and show

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<v Speaker 4>up in the park.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not the Boogeyman.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not the Boogeyman. He walked in and.

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<v Speaker 3>Entry me or she. Someone carried this out exactly. And

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know they're among us. Yeah, and it's terrifying

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<v Speaker 3>really when you sit and think about it. There's also

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<v Speaker 3>the aspect, and we're hoping to have some more people

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<v Speaker 3>on that can kind of speak to what Midtown was

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<v Speaker 3>like at that time. I mean, I know it was

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<v Speaker 3>only five years ago, but there to me, there's I've

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<v Speaker 3>always been cautious about going into the park when it

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<v Speaker 3>was dark after dark, especially alone. Like we've said, it's

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<v Speaker 3>a cut through, but it also did feel safe still,

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<v Speaker 3>But now there's no way I'm walking through that park alone.

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<v Speaker 3>I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I know it changed the fabric of the city.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, for a while, I carried pepper spray with me

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<v Speaker 3>going back and forth between my condo there, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's scary.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it is scary. It's a different animal. Now. I'd

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<v Speaker 4>be curious and I'm going to look this up of

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<v Speaker 4>what the moon was like. There were definitely lights in

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<v Speaker 4>the park, Like when we watched the news people go

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<v Speaker 4>back the next day and film that time, it looked

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<v Speaker 4>pretty well lit in that corner of the park to me, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>but I wonder what the moon was like at that time.

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<v Speaker 4>July Tell with twenty twenty one, because if there's a

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<v Speaker 4>full moon. It's light, it's true, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>So there's also a lot of trees in there, though

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<v Speaker 3>there are a lot of trees, so it could have

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<v Speaker 3>been kind of shaded and hidden. And also there was

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<v Speaker 3>something that Emma had said about you know, she noticed

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<v Speaker 3>Bowie first because it was better lit where Bowie was okay,

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<v Speaker 3>darker where Katie.

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<v Speaker 4>Was okay, which says that what kind of what Vince said,

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<v Speaker 4>which is the dog probably ran, you know, yeah, protected

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<v Speaker 4>and injured and yeah, yeah, so sad it really is.

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<v Speaker 4>And the dog like dogs are my ye witness. It's

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<v Speaker 4>just good the word if you're capable of that. M

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<v Speaker 4>all right, well let's pick up another part.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she wasn't really extroverted, but everybody knew her, like

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<v Speaker 2>she knew a ton of people. But she's worked in

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<v Speaker 2>Midtown and lived here for like, lived there for eleven

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<v Speaker 2>twelve years, I think, so she knew a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>And honestly, Katie probably wouldn't care uh well people said,

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<v Speaker 2>or she probably wouldn't want the attention. She didn't like attention.

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<v Speaker 2>She was from the north, so she always thought Southern

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<v Speaker 2>people were like over extra friendly, and she thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was really weird when she first moved her, she got

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<v Speaker 2>a little more used to it. She still would be like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I HADNDS good enough for her if somebody

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to acknowledge her on the street or something, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>but so honestly, she probably wouldn't care too much. She

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<v Speaker 2>I know that she knew people cared about her, and

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<v Speaker 2>she had a lot of.

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<v Speaker 1>Friends, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Those people I know they'll remember her fondly because she

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<v Speaker 2>never gave anybody a reason not to. You know, she

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<v Speaker 2>was never hurtfull or did anything to make anybody think

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<v Speaker 2>less of her.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that's kind of the sense that we

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<v Speaker 3>already heard about Katie just being kind of introverted, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>didn't really like the attention. And I think that is

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<v Speaker 3>one of the hard things with like kind of doing

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<v Speaker 3>this case as being like, well, gosh, this person doesn't

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<v Speaker 3>want attention. But yeah, she didn't choose to lead this

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<v Speaker 3>earth this way.

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<v Speaker 4>No. I noticed that too, where there's not like I

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<v Speaker 4>think about like you and I and we don't you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we're not attention seeking. But it's like you could find

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of pictures of me. I noticed that it's

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<v Speaker 4>always the same two or three pictures of Katie, and

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<v Speaker 4>I wondered if that's because, I mean, some people's private. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>they don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Like to have their picture taken.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, totally.

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<v Speaker 3>I had a relative pass away a few years ago

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<v Speaker 3>didn't want a funeral. She had made that very well known,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was kind of hard. Like on the family,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like what we want to, you know, remember and

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<v Speaker 3>do all the things, but we had to dis respect

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<v Speaker 3>those wishes.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for sure. So I think even if you're introverted,

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<v Speaker 4>like when they were like, oh she was introverted, I

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<v Speaker 4>think I am. I can go out and do last night,

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<v Speaker 4>I can talk to anybody. I'm not shy at all.

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<v Speaker 4>But I think I'm introverted. Like I relate.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel that way too.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I get my energy from my downtime and my

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<v Speaker 4>quiet time. I can have quiet time with somebody, but

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<v Speaker 4>I don't need to be at every social event. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, But I also think there's a difference between between

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<v Speaker 3>being an introverted extrovert. You know, like we we have

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<v Speaker 3>the ability to go out and do the things and

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<v Speaker 3>have the loud conversations and talk to strangers. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>some people it's just like they don't want to yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I read that it is where you derive your energy.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you derive your energy from a dinner out with

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<v Speaker 4>six people or do you derive your energy from reading

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<v Speaker 4>a book at home?

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<v Speaker 3>I would say it's both for me, Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like I need both.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, maybe not opening a book, but you can listen

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<v Speaker 4>to a book.

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<v Speaker 3>Listening to a book, yes, But yeah, I do appreciate

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<v Speaker 3>that Emma did take the time to go and and

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<v Speaker 3>talk with the media. I know that she's, from what

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<v Speaker 3>I've gathered, expressed that she really doesn't want to share

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<v Speaker 3>more about this case.

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<v Speaker 4>It's highly upsetting and reliving this trauma for her. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I said, the interview that we're pulling from is

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<v Speaker 3>you know, a good few years old. But I think

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<v Speaker 3>it does offer a glimpse into who Katie was and.

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<v Speaker 4>A snapshot also of exactly you know, it was right

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<v Speaker 4>after so those feelings were so fresh. But again, like sometimes,

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<v Speaker 4>I do think it doesn't fall in the family to

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<v Speaker 4>scream people please look at this. Yeah, I think it's

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<v Speaker 4>we are gay women living in the city just like

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<v Speaker 4>she was. We use that park just like she did,

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<v Speaker 4>we have dogs, we are her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, in any of it, it could.

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<v Speaker 4>Have been any of us. So I think I would

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<v Speaker 4>love to hear the gay community make some noise on

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<v Speaker 4>solving this crime. Absolutely all right, thanks for listening. I

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<v Speaker 4>guess sources for this episode could be found in our

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<v Speaker 4>show notes and just a reminder, these are opinions and

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<v Speaker 4>speculations surrounding this case and in no way an assumption

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<v Speaker 4>or accusation of guilt towards any specific person.
