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<v Speaker 1>So I promised you I would do a follow up

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<v Speaker 1>from last week's show if I heard anything different. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. I am, I'm James I Juniors the Shifty

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<v Speaker 1>Plus I did a video episode last week. I'm being

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<v Speaker 1>another one. Normally this is an audio only podcast, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do videos sometimes. And I remember last week, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you my father's Day. So I said, let me

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<v Speaker 1>there's an amendment, so I said, I said, if there's

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<v Speaker 1>amendment to it, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Will come back.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always arms with you, guys, I said, I come

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<v Speaker 1>back on here and tell you about it.

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<v Speaker 2>So last week, I'll tell you how this still stands.

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<v Speaker 2>On fouse.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not hear from any of my I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear from my one daughter, but she had a caveat.

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<v Speaker 1>She said I might not hear from her, but I

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<v Speaker 1>still was like, and my three old to grandkids not

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<v Speaker 1>hear from them. I heard from my set of laws

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<v Speaker 1>and they were very sweet. Actually, I my son again

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<v Speaker 1>the next day. He actually went to the mailbox and

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<v Speaker 1>got his card, and he's like, oh I didn't I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go. I find it to the mailbox and he

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<v Speaker 1>got his car. And so you think me exire her

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<v Speaker 1>for the set of law twice the day before and after.

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<v Speaker 1>When I recorded this was on Father's Day at night,

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<v Speaker 1>aftering off the phone, I posted this. My other daughter

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<v Speaker 1>called so and I told you guy, thinking that one

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<v Speaker 1>she's going through some family stuff. So now, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, I s I said she might be

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<v Speaker 1>the one who was Usually she does call her text,

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<v Speaker 1>so she did, so I got to stigned up talking

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<v Speaker 1>to her at the that sheed. We closed out Father's

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<v Speaker 1>Day talk about some stuff. Well sad news report. The

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<v Speaker 1>next day her mother died. So she had been sick

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<v Speaker 1>for the past couple of weeks and she used to

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<v Speaker 1>comb to it. So and I'm able to say this

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<v Speaker 1>out loud now because the family does know.

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<v Speaker 2>So they do. Nobody knows me to know.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't watch my shows, but just in case anybody

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<v Speaker 1>just happens to, they do know. Everybody's in pain, the

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<v Speaker 1>whole usual stuff about that. But that's all Wholestommer show.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just want to tell you that, yes, she

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<v Speaker 1>did call. We talked on the phone and it was

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<v Speaker 1>a good conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, I want to thank some people who actually validated my.

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<v Speaker 1>Feelings, saying that I should feel something, I should get

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<v Speaker 1>a five second text or something at least. And I know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I know, and I think part of it is

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<v Speaker 1>if you if you have to set the precedent, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to you have to start the tradition. I think.

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<v Speaker 1>And right now I'm not going to say anything because

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<v Speaker 1>now they've lost their grandmothers. They're both they're doing grandis

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<v Speaker 1>are dealing with their loss of that. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's this is not even important to me at this point.

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<v Speaker 1>But one day I might bring it up and just say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's Father's Day. I love a text or

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<v Speaker 1>some of you guys and see what happens they do it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have enough capassion, like this is a time

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<v Speaker 1>and place for everything there is. And I think, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think also when I was watching my own video

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<v Speaker 1>last week, I think, I think, I'm I'm afraid to

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<v Speaker 1>allow myself to feel. There are many times when I

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<v Speaker 1>will make excuses for other people sometimes and justify something,

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<v Speaker 1>and there is truth in it, There's total there is

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<v Speaker 1>total truth in it. However, I have feelings to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't allow myself to feel as feelings. It's

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<v Speaker 1>fastle will feel all their feelings, don't. We wors too much, right,

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<v Speaker 1>are those of us who suppress our feelings because we're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be smart, and there's no there's no smart feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's a feelings, a feeling, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>deal with it. However, I think I just like to

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm evolved on some level that I know psychologically

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<v Speaker 1>and emotionally and intellectually certain things. But I still to

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<v Speaker 1>remind myself I am human, I'm not a robot, and

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<v Speaker 1>there are feelings, they're out there. That's a lesson for

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<v Speaker 1>all of us, right, I don't know. So that's so

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<v Speaker 1>it's just this episode would be something totally different. We're

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<v Speaker 1>talking to you that next week for next week, but

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<v Speaker 1>this is more of a follow up, just like this

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<v Speaker 1>is what happened. I did it from one person least,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we had some tragedy happen the next day.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's fifty plus for you. That's what that's what

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<v Speaker 1>happened to get older, That's exactly what happens. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm James Dott Jr. And Dy Plus every Tuesday we

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<v Speaker 1>have regular regular episode, like it is like a mini episode,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're back either audio and audio video. I'm decided

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