Speaker 1: Girls, we're bad. Did you miss us because we missed you?
Speaker 1: I'm I'm Bailey, I'm Casey, and I'm brand and this
Speaker 1: is between us girls season three? Baby? What he season three?
Speaker 1: Or is it like kind of season four? Hoind of
Speaker 1: season four? Let me stop.
Speaker 2: I don't know why I'm a part of this, like
Speaker 2: seventy five episodes.
Speaker 1: That's the corner. Okay, Wow, So we're in our junior year.
Speaker 1: Junior year was a really great year, y'all are doing
Speaker 1: all this bath Senior year, babes. Oh, you're right, you're right,
Speaker 1: you're right. We're gonna ride. So we didn't get smarter.
Speaker 1: I did get bigger, but prettier. I got bigger for sure.
Speaker 1: Takes one.
Speaker 3: Okay, let's heart Welcome teens, girlies. I'm Bailey and Lindsay
Speaker 3: Brandon Casey. Let's get into it. Hi, we haven't seen
Speaker 3: Randy Fooon in a while. I actually feel like I
Speaker 3: haven't seen.
Speaker 1: You guys in a while. But I quite literally just
Speaker 1: saw you all. Yeah, it was my birthday. Woo twenty nine?
Speaker 1: How do you feel passage? We get your little lost
Speaker 1: when it turned twenty nine. I'm just ready for like
Speaker 1: my Saturn return or whatever. The fuck that is that happens?
Speaker 1: Did y'all go through that? Apparently happens when you turn
Speaker 1: twenty nine? What is that again? Apparently like your whole
Speaker 1: life just changes in what sense? I don't know. Apparently
Speaker 1: you just like go through something that's called your Saturn
Speaker 1: return when you have ever heard of that? So a
Speaker 1: few months waiting for that, speed it up, I noticed
Speaker 1: any huge shifts in you guys, No kidding, what about
Speaker 1: me anything? It's like a month for you. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm twenty five. Like I don't know what you guys
Speaker 1: are talking about. Y'all are the grandparents? I don't know.
Speaker 4: I want to like look this up because I want
Speaker 4: to understand this, because I do feel like my life feels.
Speaker 1: I was like thinking of how I wanted to update.
Speaker 4: The podcast, and I was like, I feel like, are
Speaker 4: finally for the first time, like really calm for me?
Speaker 1: Maybe that's what satur In returning? Rub it in?
Speaker 3: Everything's gone for Casey, we'll say, and everyone might be
Speaker 3: disappointed to hear this will the audience.
Speaker 1: You guys already know this. I did pick up vaping again.
Speaker 1: Oh oh I didn't know this actually? Oh really now okay, good?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I don't do it as much
Speaker 3: the way it's charging at home because I ran out
Speaker 3: of juice. I don't do it as much that much anymore.
Speaker 3: And I still, I mean, I still have that damn
Speaker 3: oral fixation, but I kinda I've been trying to like
Speaker 3: just do like trying to keep it simple.
Speaker 1: Did I have it? We were in Hampton's. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be real honest with you, and this is gonna
Speaker 1: sound like a drag. I don't think I have ever
Speaker 1: noticed that you quit. How long are we sober? Okay?
Speaker 3: So I relapsed from me and you went out the
Speaker 3: one time I don't know who it was, me, you,
Speaker 3: Tara and Peyton and we went to the.
Speaker 1: Lawyer or what.
Speaker 3: We stopped in that store and you bought you like
Speaker 3: you picked the flavor out Bailey, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I have was I did not have Babe on me
Speaker 3: at the time. Brandon got me this big fucking tank
Speaker 3: that now I have to use. I buy that same
Speaker 3: one every time I've had a touch screen on it.
Speaker 3: He's like, here, I just wanted one puff. I said,
Speaker 3: you're fucking kidding me.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be nice to you because it's our first
Speaker 4: podcast back. But having a touchscreen on your vape is
Speaker 4: a level of like, I don't know what we can
Speaker 4: do about this in society.
Speaker 3: I've gotten dragged by all the friends in our friend
Speaker 3: group for it, Liz Casey. They're like, oh, it has
Speaker 3: a touch screen. I didn't you bought it first? Like
Speaker 3: now I just unfortunately have to have a touch screen.
Speaker 3: I had a Rick and Morty vape at one point,
Speaker 3: which I think was worse.
Speaker 1: But anyway, I'm very disappointed in you. Yeah, so that's
Speaker 1: my savage return. You know what I'm always gonna I
Speaker 1: want my friends to it makes them happy. Thank you, Randon.
Speaker 1: So I bought it for you. No, that was really nice.
Speaker 1: Gifted as gifted you had a good birthday, Leo. Uh yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't really give a fuck this year about my birthday.
Speaker 1: I was just, I'm honestly just all set. I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, this is becoming more of a headache
Speaker 1: than anything. I have to decide what I want to
Speaker 1: do for my birthday sounds like a headache to me.
Speaker 1: So I decided what I wanted to do, which is
Speaker 1: get dinner, then go to bed, and that's exactly what
Speaker 1: I damned it.
Speaker 4: I feel like it's like every five years your birthday
Speaker 4: should be massively important and then everything in between that
Speaker 4: is kind of like, eh, whatever you want to do,
Speaker 4: but like thirty is a big year. If you want
Speaker 4: to do something big, do it, But like what's twenty nine,
Speaker 4: It's just another twenty eight, Like it's not even.
Speaker 1: Just about me. I'm honestly sick of celebrating everyone's birthdays.
Speaker 1: Like I've been all set on birthdays for a little bit,
Speaker 1: Like I used to go hard for people's birthdays, like
Speaker 1: couse to the point where like I'm over it, Like
Speaker 1: I don't need to give you an Instagram story. I
Speaker 1: used to edit videos for you guys, how would you
Speaker 1: like montages? Like I'm exhausted, babe. Resources are tapped, funding
Speaker 1: is limited, Like I just just like it's another day,
Speaker 1: babe indicator yeap.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like people are now doing like if
Speaker 2: you go out that day, like let's say it's your
Speaker 2: birthday dinner, like I'll post a picture and be like
Speaker 2: happy birthday, brand, But I'm yeah, I'm not doing all that.
Speaker 1: I never get a preposted story. I knew I was
Speaker 1: like years ago, would walking up to a million tags.
Speaker 3: That honestly or with the time, and like Facebook, like
Speaker 3: going on to my Facebook and seeing just like the
Speaker 3: list or like no one, but like I feel like
Speaker 3: it's crazy like over time. Like also social media like
Speaker 3: where we put our energery into like our birthdays too.
Speaker 3: Like I feel like I sometimes will go back and see,
Speaker 3: like four years ago on my birthday, it's like fourteen
Speaker 3: million stories from like ten people I don't even fucking know,
Speaker 3: and you're just like trying to find a picture.
Speaker 4: But now I'm just like see, I don't really care
Speaker 4: for like random people posting it, but I do.
Speaker 1: I do like posting for birthdays.
Speaker 4: I feel like we need a sense of community, and
Speaker 4: there is something about like going through your like photos
Speaker 4: and finding a cute picture of your friend and being
Speaker 4: like love you. I love celebrating, Like that's nice. It's
Speaker 4: like a community thing to do.
Speaker 1: So I think we should bring you that part pictures
Speaker 1: me and Casey's birthday. I like that.
Speaker 4: But yeah, posting it for like a girl you like
Speaker 4: sometimes occasionally get dinner with every six months, Yeah, let's
Speaker 4: cancel it. But like I do think there is like
Speaker 4: I like seeing it.
Speaker 1: It's cute. Just a lot to manage, like I had
Speaker 1: a lot of text to answer, a lot of DMS
Speaker 1: to answer, and then you know, like when someone who
Speaker 1: really doesn't text you that often, so like they send
Speaker 1: you a happy birthday text, then you like get triggered
Speaker 1: from the conversation before you were like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: that was that era the last time I talked to you.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I was kind of like over it.
Speaker 1: I couldn't wait for it to be the seventeenth. I
Speaker 1: was like, this is dreadful.
Speaker 4: You know what's bad too when somebody texts you happy
Speaker 4: birthday and then you look up and the last text
Speaker 4: was happy birthday.
Speaker 1: Ye, it's like talking At that point, I just stop.
Speaker 1: Just no need this year.
Speaker 3: Someone I remember we were in Miami when we were
Speaker 3: in the barracks the one time we were on Live
Speaker 3: together and this girl Andrew, we're friends with her friend Andrea.
Speaker 3: She was like, hey, can you text me back? I
Speaker 3: text you happy birthday? I said, oh shit, I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 3: like call me out say thank you. That's exactly what
Speaker 3: you need to do.
Speaker 1: And I felt bitchy for like double tapping some messages
Speaker 1: instead of like actually typing out thank you. I was like,
Speaker 1: this is too much on my little like drained brain.
Speaker 1: So yeah, over the birthdays, done with them. You know
Speaker 1: what else, I'm over summer. I had this conversation with
Speaker 1: Lindsay yesterday and I guess this is my immuni necklace.
Speaker 1: I think summer is overcompensating with the amount of daylight
Speaker 1: that we have. And I know this is going to
Speaker 1: sound like a hot take, and I'm not talking and
Speaker 1: saying that I want the sun to set at five PM.
Speaker 1: I don't. I actually really like that the sun doesn't
Speaker 1: go down until like eight thirty. It's the fact that
Speaker 1: it comes up at five in the morning. That's what
Speaker 1: I don't need. Today it was a cloudy day and
Speaker 1: I felt so excited when I woke up and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, amazing, I'm not getting assaulted by the
Speaker 1: sun with my eyes and I don't feel behind. It's
Speaker 1: nice and gloomy. After a week full of heat, I
Speaker 1: was just like, this is just what I needed. I
Speaker 1: feel so excited. But yeah, there's just too much daylight.
Speaker 1: There's too many hours of the day, too many people
Speaker 1: are doing activities.
Speaker 3: Yes, I always agree with that, until when it starts
Speaker 3: getting dark at four o'clock. Yeah, that's I don't like that. No,
Speaker 3: but I think the sun's like we have like the
Speaker 3: longest day light. This isn't end to like November. I
Speaker 3: hope you don't have, yeah, like.
Speaker 1: October twenty seven.
Speaker 2: I like when the sun is out for a long time,
Speaker 2: like like you said, brand sets at eight pm.
Speaker 1: Cool on that.
Speaker 2: It's when it is light outside that I do hate it.
Speaker 2: But I also love when it's dark out in the morning.
Speaker 2: Like I love when it's like when I wake up
Speaker 2: at like seven and it's dark out, I feel like
Speaker 2: I can get done so much work, like when it
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like.
Speaker 1: When you you don't like that, I you know it'd be.
Speaker 4: Sunny in the morning because like maybe it's different because
Speaker 4: I work out in the morning, but like when I
Speaker 4: work out and it's like first off, when I walk
Speaker 4: to a class and it's bright out, I feel like
Speaker 4: I'm like not scared to walk there or like drive
Speaker 4: and it just makes me feel like the day is started.
Speaker 1: When I wake up and it's dark out, I just
Speaker 1: want to go back to bed.
Speaker 2: But I feel like when they Okay, maybe it's also
Speaker 2: because every place I've lived in I've had a ton
Speaker 2: of windows. Imagine you're getting rest and somebody you open
Speaker 2: your eyes and someone turns on the lights right away,
Speaker 2: and you're like, gosh, turn that off, Like it is
Speaker 2: so aggressive. I feel assaulted by the sun in the morning,
Speaker 2: Like I literally opened my eyes. Sometimes my I don't
Speaker 2: even open at the same time, Like I'll literally on
Speaker 2: my phone like this scrolling.
Speaker 1: Because I can't see, Like I literally can't see.
Speaker 3: I kind of like both things, like I like, well,
Speaker 3: even sounds up, but then the I like when I'm
Speaker 3: working out and when I go to the gym at
Speaker 3: like five am, I like coming out of the gym,
Speaker 3: it's still dark only because and I like like me mentally,
Speaker 3: I'm like this to sound really vain, but I don't
Speaker 3: go fuck like h like I'm up before.
Speaker 1: The sun is up. For everyone, sun is not even up.
Speaker 3: That's why I kind of like I pushed in an
Speaker 3: overlook over overload overtime, like during like during daylight saings
Speaker 3: just because I'm like, oh, yes, like it's finally dark.
Speaker 3: And like when I come out of the gym, I'm like, gotcha, bitches.
Speaker 1: Like I'm done, yeah, but I feel like you got
Speaker 1: a head yeah.
Speaker 3: But then then I feel like every season changes because
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I hate Like once I get into
Speaker 3: the dark, I'm like, I hate this, but like the light,
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh.
Speaker 1: I hate this too, because the grass is always greener.
Speaker 4: I feel like it's so much easier to want the
Speaker 4: other thing and then you have it.
Speaker 1: I feel like like I did not realize.
Speaker 4: I mean, I've always known I like the sun, but
Speaker 4: like this summer particularly, I feel like I've always on
Speaker 4: my roof and earlier in the summer, Jake was like,
Speaker 4: I have never met someone who can sit in the
Speaker 4: sun as long as you can, And I like, I've
Speaker 4: always joked about that. I me and my sister my
Speaker 4: mom used to sit in the sun a lot. But
Speaker 4: like It'll be like six thirty on the weekend and
Speaker 4: he's like been inside for four hours and I'm just
Speaker 4: on my roof alone, and he's like, are you gonna
Speaker 4: come in at any point? And I'm like, well, the
Speaker 4: sun's still out, like I can't go inside, and He's
Speaker 4: like like that feeling when it's on your skin is
Speaker 4: like genuine therapy, which I've always known I like the sun,
Speaker 4: but something about this summer, I'm like, I feel like
Speaker 4: I could be out there till the last drop of sunlight.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll sit in front of a window and I'll
Speaker 2: tell Brandon. I'll be like, I feel like a cat,
Speaker 2: Like you know a cat's will go sit in front
Speaker 2: of the sun.
Speaker 3: What's crazy though, Like Sundays, Like I know this past Sunday,
Speaker 3: I laid on my couch with the windows open. I'm like,
Speaker 3: I don't know what fuck if it's sunny and nice outside,
Speaker 3: I will lay here till it's dark outside, like I need.
Speaker 3: I paid right here, like I am staying in this home.
Speaker 1: Like.
Speaker 3: Also the thing about summer, I realize sugar melts in
Speaker 3: the heat. I can't be outside with the sun up
Speaker 3: because the sun is up for like eight hours of
Speaker 3: the day.
Speaker 1: It's too much.
Speaker 3: But it's so walking hot, Like I can't do this summer.
Speaker 3: Like I love how you can sit outside like you
Speaker 3: havey little pool. That's why I have to be inside.
Speaker 3: It's too hot to walk.
Speaker 1: I'm sweating, it's to my hair. I every morning I
Speaker 1: ask my Alexa what the weather is outside, and that's
Speaker 1: too hot for me to take my walk. I'm like
Speaker 1: absolutely not walking, and I know it's gonna freaking stink,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, I'm so awesome can I just sweet?
Speaker 1: Can we talk about that? Real quock?
Speaker 2: Why does Philly smell like ass? Like?
Speaker 1: What is that? What is that? I know it is?
Speaker 2: It is And I think that Philly has become a
Speaker 2: human toilet.
Speaker 1: I think it's just come.
Speaker 2: I think that Philly is okay, okay, okay, So father Flakes,
Speaker 2: I moved into Brandon's apartment over it for the for
Speaker 2: the summer. He's like, you can live in my apartment.
Speaker 2: I love that. It is the greatest gift that anyone
Speaker 2: has ever given to me. I'm internally grapel for life
Speaker 2: from your parents, Jesus.
Speaker 1: Thanks Mom and Dad.
Speaker 2: I love living at Brand's and I love living with Brand.
Speaker 2: But the one con of his beautiful building is when
Speaker 2: I step outside and coming from fish Town, you know Fishtown,
Speaker 2: the things you smell are like dog piss and like
Speaker 2: you see the green poop bags everywhere where.
Speaker 1: People don't discard them, and that is filthy.
Speaker 2: But nothing in this world could have prepared me for
Speaker 2: the sites that I've seen in Center City, Philadelphia.
Speaker 1: It is repulsive.
Speaker 2: It is the sickest, sickest place I've seen in so long.
Speaker 2: And I've partied in Center City, I've grown I grew
Speaker 2: up outside the city, so it's like I was taken
Speaker 2: there as a child.
Speaker 1: Center city is.
Speaker 2: Not new to me, but over the years, I think
Speaker 2: it has just gotten so abundantly repulsive. Like I saw
Speaker 2: a woman take a crap in the middle of Broad Street.
Speaker 2: I watched her do it, not by choice. I have
Speaker 2: seen puddles of piss at my feet. I have smelled
Speaker 2: smells that I can't even describe to you all because
Speaker 2: words can't even express how repulsive it is.
Speaker 1: What happened, Well, how did we get here? So while
Speaker 1: we did not film for a few months, there was
Speaker 1: a big trash problem and that is well, don't get
Speaker 1: me started on politics. You didn't have.
Speaker 3: Trash up in our city. And it's so funnycause I
Speaker 3: asked casey uh. And if you're not familiar to those
Speaker 3: who don't live in Philadelphia, if you're not on any
Speaker 3: type of social media or the world news, we had
Speaker 3: a trash strike or the people that do the santation
Speaker 3: in Philadelphia, they were on strikes, so they were not
Speaker 3: collecting trash, and our mayor decided to put different trash
Speaker 3: pickups in parts of the city, which has caused a
Speaker 3: lot of chaos or massive fins fast Howard, I asked, Casey,
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, because like she lives in Fishtown, like
Speaker 3: she has a home, and like day have to take
Speaker 3: the trash out, like she stop up an apartment building.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, like where you guys going to
Speaker 3: take your trash? Like I don't know Jake's going to
Speaker 3: figure that out.
Speaker 4: I was like barely, I have no idea what we're
Speaker 4: doing with our trashed Is it not my job?
Speaker 1: I was so concerned. I was like, my friend and
Speaker 1: her trash, like I don't get her, Like, not my problem.
Speaker 4: I always say this when I first moved in with Jake.
Speaker 4: The literally like the day that Jake's mom found out
Speaker 4: I was moving in with him, she said, I am
Speaker 4: telling you, never touched the trash.
Speaker 1: That's the only thing that's a man's job.
Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, and I I have taken that,
Speaker 4: and I have never touched the trash can. Since I
Speaker 4: don't take the trash out, I don't replace the trash nothing.
Speaker 4: I have watched my hands clean up the trash. I
Speaker 4: just said that to Brandon. I just think a blue job. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I just think, wait, what a blue job?
Speaker 1: Oh Okay. I was like what are you saying? Run
Speaker 1: over my head?
Speaker 2: I just said to Brandon the other day, I was like, sorry,
Speaker 2: never take out the trash. Like I grew up in
Speaker 2: a household of men. I mean to my mom, I
Speaker 2: was told not to do that. I don't do yard
Speaker 2: work and I don't do trash. I actually quite enjoy
Speaker 2: yard work, so that's a treat for me.
Speaker 3: It's crazy coming from a single family household with like
Speaker 3: my mother and grandmother. I took out the trash a lot,
Speaker 3: so I was like, I was a fucking sanitation worker
Speaker 3: growing up like maggots in the fucking trash can, hauling
Speaker 3: that shit every Wednesday night.
Speaker 1: Now we know you didn't have maggots in your trash,
Speaker 1: like if it rained, and like I took the trash house,
Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't covering the.
Speaker 3: Shit like I was gonna deal with this and I
Speaker 3: random as fucked. But I've told you guys, I hate
Speaker 3: looking up at the sky at night and seeing the
Speaker 3: clouds move. You know how I say that, like it's
Speaker 3: such a that's always because when I was younger, little
Speaker 3: like I mean younger, I was fucking eighteen, Like when
Speaker 3: I was taking the trash out at night, and I
Speaker 3: look up at the sky something was I was smoking
Speaker 3: or anything like. It's so eerie, just like looking at
Speaker 3: clouds moves so like white. It gets a dark contrast.
Speaker 3: I don't know, y'all something going on, speaking of eerie.
Speaker 4: I don't think Brandon lindsay I've ever told you guys
Speaker 4: about the like creepiest thing that happened while I was
Speaker 4: tanning on my roof, like a few months ago. I
Speaker 4: told Bailey this, but I don't think I told you
Speaker 4: guys this shit. I I was tanning on my roof
Speaker 4: because that is like my like I said earlier, it's
Speaker 4: my favorite thing to do. And all of a sudden,
Speaker 4: I hear and I always hear like planes flying over,
Speaker 4: and sometimes you hear like the helicopters, like the news ones.
Speaker 1: Flying over whatever.
Speaker 4: But I hear like what sounds to be like a drone,
Speaker 4: and I realize that it's like flying across all the
Speaker 4: like town homes like next to me, and it keeps
Speaker 4: flying over and then it stops directly above my house
Speaker 4: and it's just floating above me as I'm laying in
Speaker 4: my little bikini tanning on my roof where no one
Speaker 4: can see me. So I like get creeped out at first,
Speaker 4: and the drone like stays there and then it goes away,
Speaker 4: and then like I'm like, Okay, that was really weird.
Speaker 4: Then a few minutes later it comes back. It goes
Speaker 4: up and down my shoe street and then stops in
Speaker 4: front of me. It did this like three or four times,
Speaker 4: to the point where I had enough time to take
Speaker 4: out my phone and record this drone literally floating above
Speaker 4: my house while I was like in my bathing suit.
Speaker 1: So I'm texting Jake and I'm scared.
Speaker 4: To go into the house because I'm like, I don't
Speaker 4: know if they're like figuring out, Like I didn't know
Speaker 4: somebody was trying to kill me, and they were like
Speaker 4: figuring out where I lived, and they were kind of
Speaker 4: like bombarred my house.
Speaker 1: I was so fucking scared.
Speaker 4: So in Philadelphia, whoever has the drone footage of me
Speaker 4: tanning just half naked on my roof, please delete that
Speaker 4: because it was the scariest thing that ever happened. And
Speaker 4: now every time I got on my roof, it's all
Speaker 4: I can think about, is that, like someone's watching me
Speaker 4: from a drone.
Speaker 1: It's probably some yeah, but like it was so scary.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I bet yeah, And I'm like, ros, whoever has that, please,
Speaker 4: I'll pay you to delete it or just let me
Speaker 4: see it if I look good.
Speaker 1: But then like, let me delete it. Oh I don't
Speaker 1: like that at all.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was really scary. So maybe I shouldn't be
Speaker 4: out in the sun all day.
Speaker 1: Maybe you guys are right as long as you have
Speaker 1: stay on the sun. Yeah, what else is going on?
Speaker 1: Do you guys? What do you guys think of summer
Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. I'm having honestly a smashing good time.
Speaker 1: Why so well, I just hit my one year mark
Speaker 1: at my job. That's such a good feeling. Yes it is.
Speaker 1: But that's congratulations, Thank.
Speaker 3: You everyone, audience too. I started dating again, so that's fun.
Speaker 1: When did you stop? Get you out here? Just like
Speaker 1: she came in on all these like accomplishments, zero day sober?
Speaker 1: Fuck the hell? Just lying on season four? Okay, I
Speaker 1: was coming. I had like the notes, I broke down
Speaker 1: faith like new man like yep, I don't okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I guess that's it. No, tell us, tell us more.
Speaker 3: No, I guess it's a quick bailies, boys. I won't
Speaker 3: go into too much detail.
Speaker 1: Why I go into all the details.
Speaker 3: It's fresh and new, not really all giddy and shit,
Speaker 3: but it's good. I am dating fresh and new again,
Speaker 3: which is great. However, Mercury and Retrograde kicked my ass
Speaker 3: like viciously this time, and I don't know what happened,
Speaker 3: what I did.
Speaker 1: I know what I did.
Speaker 3: And once I started talking to someone new, all of
Speaker 3: these people from my past just showed out of nowhere,
Speaker 3: and it was like horrible not horrible timing, but just
Speaker 3: like Casey says, like the Universes throws things at you,
Speaker 3: and just like I got another one today, Casey, and
Speaker 3: I can't wait to tell you. Oh, like just why,
Speaker 3: Like I look up and it's crazy because I did
Speaker 3: a TikTok about this, like I'm big on manifestation, meet
Speaker 3: my witchy girls. And it's funny because I found my
Speaker 3: journal entry from three years ago when like you know,
Speaker 3: like manifesting your like dream guy.
Speaker 4: And.
Speaker 3: It's so crazy. I looked at it and I was
Speaker 3: like looking and comparing. There's like one or two things
Speaker 3: off about this guy that I'm talking to you now
Speaker 3: with like that manifestation book, and I'm like, I don't
Speaker 3: want to jinx anything, but it's all going pretty well.
Speaker 3: But I feel like once you start just letting go
Speaker 3: of it, like letting go of these dead leaves and
Speaker 3: making yourself a brand new plant again and just like
Speaker 3: becoming someone whole new and like accepting what's coming and
Speaker 3: not just like I feel like I used to be like,
Speaker 3: oh well, I wrote.
Speaker 1: About this three years ago, why is this not happenings?
Speaker 3: Also because like I wasn't letting other stuff go, Like
Speaker 3: I wasn't like putting myself in a position to let
Speaker 3: new things come in and now and I finally just
Speaker 3: like took a moment to think about myself and like
Speaker 3: do good. I don't know, I feel like blessings are
Speaker 3: coming in something a good place.
Speaker 1: No, that was so beautiful. I feel like you're in
Speaker 1: such a good place. And you know I agree.
Speaker 4: Every time you text me, I'm like, Baily, I could
Speaker 4: send you seven hour voice notes on how like letting
Speaker 4: things go let new things come in. And I heard
Speaker 4: this quote recently that I told you. I can't stop
Speaker 4: saying it's what you're not changing, you're choosing.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and like what you.
Speaker 4: Are complaining about and you're not changing, you are choosing
Speaker 4: to keep that whether that be your job or your relationship,
Speaker 4: or your health or your x y Z.
Speaker 1: Whatever You're not changing, you're choosing.
Speaker 4: And I feel like when you decide to change things
Speaker 4: in your life, you welcome new things in.
Speaker 1: So you sound like our therapist. I was gonna say
Speaker 1: that was crazy. I was like, oh shit, that was
Speaker 1: a tough left approach. I got one today. She told
Speaker 1: me that instead of saying sorry so much, I should
Speaker 1: start saying thank you. So instead of being like, sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm late, I should start saying thank you for waiting.
Speaker 1: And when we got into this whole trauma about how
Speaker 1: I say sorry so much because deep down I feel
Speaker 1: like I'm not worthy, I was like, shit, don't you
Speaker 1: hate that? Wow? She made a connection. I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: this one's rough.
Speaker 4: Little bit is like so horrible, not horrible, but like
Speaker 4: trippy slash horrible. When you realize that everyone is just
Speaker 4: like a combination of their inner traumas and fears and
Speaker 4: insecurities and like certain things you can't stand about friends,
Speaker 4: you're like, damn, it's because you're dealing with x y
Speaker 4: Z or like even yourself. You're like, oh I can't
Speaker 4: why can't I stop doing this? And then you have
Speaker 4: a moment like that where you're like, fuck, that happened
Speaker 4: to me ten years ago, and I've never let it go.
Speaker 1: Like we are really just a combination of everything we've
Speaker 1: been through.
Speaker 4: And while that's beautiful, I guess it's also like traumatic
Speaker 4: to think about.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's so crazy.
Speaker 2: I was talking to my dad about this, and like
Speaker 2: we were talking about aging, like my grandparents are starting
Speaker 2: to get like they're literally eighty, but in my brain,
Speaker 2: they're starting to get old even though they're already old.
Speaker 2: And I was talking about like certain things that you
Speaker 2: see your grandparents or like parents do that just seems
Speaker 2: so old. And I was telling my dad like I
Speaker 2: always try to give those people grace because everyone's doing
Speaker 2: life for the first time at the same time. And
Speaker 2: it's like when you're young, you can rely on others
Speaker 2: to like help you with that trauma, like our therapists
Speaker 2: saying like well, why do you feel Let's dive into
Speaker 2: your self worth, or like asking your mom a simple
Speaker 2: question like how long do I cook my sweet potato for?
Speaker 2: It's like she's been there, she's done that. But it's
Speaker 2: like when you're old and everybody who you would go
Speaker 2: to for help is gone, Like my.
Speaker 1: Grandma doesn't have her mom to call and ask that
Speaker 1: stuff too.
Speaker 2: So it's like when things happen to you when you're older,
Speaker 2: it's so weird to not have anybody to like help
Speaker 2: you go through those moments. And then you like literally
Speaker 2: think of life as a concept and you're like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, like we're all doing this at the same
Speaker 2: time and for the first time, Like it is so weird.
Speaker 1: I know, I aways about them.
Speaker 3: It's mcdaily, calm down, like you're it's like my mom's
Speaker 3: the first time going to your life too.
Speaker 1: I can't get upset about like like.
Speaker 3: You justn't know how to work an iPhone, Like I mean,
Speaker 3: I don't know how to work on but it's like
Speaker 3: little stuff like that.
Speaker 1: I also speak of therapy.
Speaker 3: I feel like I've been more in tune with my
Speaker 3: anxious attachment style recently. Let me get those tips because
Speaker 3: I just I haven't everything, like if it's so like
Speaker 3: I've done a good job recently, just like realizing like hey,
Speaker 3: it's okay if that didn't happen, because I'm like tying
Speaker 3: it back to this, like I mean, if you guys
Speaker 3: don't answer me to a group chat. It's okay cause
Speaker 3: I know I don't text back in a group chat,
Speaker 3: so like I can't get upset for stuff like shit
Speaker 3: like that. But recently I'm like I need to take
Speaker 3: a step back and like just think. Like I feel
Speaker 3: like I'm like, oh, well, that person's like because they're
Speaker 3: not texting me back right away. I'm like they're busy,
Speaker 3: Like people are doing shit. I don't text by a
Speaker 3: week because I have a fucking job too, Like I
Speaker 3: just lately I've been like it just like sucks.
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, like I really have a problem. I would. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was just saying this web Brain's birthday dinner.
Speaker 4: I said, Maturing and growing and changing sucks sometimes because
Speaker 4: you realize like you are changing for the better. But
Speaker 4: sometimes you're like, damn, this shit is uncomfortable as fuck,
Speaker 4: Like this is weird to realize all these things I'm
Speaker 4: doing wrong or like whatever it is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like the other day I was on
Speaker 2: TikTok and I saw Sam Kelly do like a TikTok
Speaker 2: about how she has an avoidant personality, and I said
Speaker 2: to Brandon, I was literally like I want to be
Speaker 2: Like she was talking about how it's a negative, which
Speaker 2: like any attachment style that's like super heavy is a negative.
Speaker 2: But I was saying to Brandon as a joke, but
Speaker 2: I like genuinely mean a dead ass.
Speaker 1: I wish I was avoidant, Like I.
Speaker 2: Would genuinely give anything to not care about emotions feelings,
Speaker 2: like just be like, oh, I'm just gonna like avoid
Speaker 2: that until I have to deal with it, and like
Speaker 2: maybe I won't ever have to deal with it. I
Speaker 2: feel like I am so anxious and so emotional and
Speaker 2: so sensitive. My therapist literally said she's like it's a
Speaker 2: blessing and occurs.
Speaker 1: I hate it.
Speaker 2: I hate it so bad, and like this summer has
Speaker 2: helped me. This summer is forcing me to try to
Speaker 2: like get out of my little anxious attachment hole. And
Speaker 2: like it is not a fun time. I'm not having
Speaker 2: a good time. I wish I could sit there and
Speaker 2: like literally be like, Oh, this isn't that big of
Speaker 2: a deal. To me, everything's a big deal, and like
Speaker 2: how do I recover from this?
Speaker 3: I have to like walk talk myself off the ledge,
Speaker 3: like like it's the biggest deal in the world to
Speaker 3: like girl, like the world's on fire, those other fists,
Speaker 3: the world.
Speaker 1: Is on fire for sure, So burning? What have you
Speaker 1: all been watching recently?
Speaker 3: I feel like there's been a lot of good films
Speaker 3: and shows out.
Speaker 1: I know I've been watching. Yeah, we've been going to
Speaker 1: the movies again. I don't know why I go to
Speaker 1: the movies so much in the summer. I guess because
Speaker 1: I just complained that I don't want to go outside,
Speaker 1: so I do indoor activities. But I saw weapons. I
Speaker 1: liked that one. I need to see it. Freak Friday
Speaker 1: was cute. She was a little cheesy, but she was cute.
Speaker 4: Do we feel like there's any sequels or like remakes
Speaker 4: that happen years later that have been like worth it?
Speaker 1: Like sometimes I just feel like we need to keep
Speaker 1: the pure things pure.
Speaker 4: And it's like you said, for you Friday was cute,
Speaker 4: but it was a little cheesy, And I'm like, why
Speaker 4: can't we just like.
Speaker 2: Leave a sequel or a remake because Shrek two is
Speaker 2: that girl, But that's.
Speaker 3: Not a rebusiness, that's just a remake or like they're
Speaker 3: kind of like continuing on.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm asking.
Speaker 4: It's a sequel, Okay, So yeah, like seql, like I
Speaker 4: just watched Happy Gilmore too. Mainly just because I felt
Speaker 4: like everyone was talking about it and I just kind
Speaker 4: of wanted to like be in the know. I mean,
Speaker 4: it's an Adam Sandler movie, so like, I can't say
Speaker 4: my expectations were high, but again it was kind of
Speaker 4: just like I know, I love Adam Sandlor, but like,
Speaker 4: but his movies have not been good, and I was
Speaker 4: just kind of like, damn, don't can we just leave
Speaker 4: Happy gil More alone? Like that was a good movie,
Speaker 4: and now it's a good movie with a sequel.
Speaker 3: I see you're say when it's like such a large gap
Speaker 3: in between times, what was the what did you scream?
Speaker 1: Was that good? I can't remember those Okay, they're not
Speaker 1: like the worst, but I know what you did last
Speaker 1: Summer remake was terrible and I was looking forward to
Speaker 1: that all year. I don't know if I saw the
Speaker 1: first one. Oh, that's one of my favorites. That's one
Speaker 1: of my favorite movies of all time, and it was
Speaker 1: just a really horrible, horrible.
Speaker 4: I know you want to get in, Like, I know
Speaker 4: you would be such a great reality TV show producer,
Speaker 4: but I think you would be a fantastic like slasher
Speaker 4: film like you would make the movie films.
Speaker 1: It would be, so I love them. I think my
Speaker 1: problem with TV is recently and this was especially prevalent.
Speaker 1: And I know what you did last summer, keep TikTok
Speaker 1: on TikTok, And I think modern TV is trying so
Speaker 1: hard to be like so gen Z forward and in
Speaker 1: on the note of all of it, and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I don't need this type of dialogue that I want
Speaker 1: to see on my phone on my TV too, Like
Speaker 1: it just like gets like cringe fest to me. I'm
Speaker 1: just like, ah, like, let movies be movies.
Speaker 3: You or was I watching a podcast and they said
Speaker 3: that I don't know that the film was like all
Speaker 3: like TikTok language.
Speaker 1: It was me the whole movie was TikTok language, like
Speaker 1: to the point where I was just like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: this isn't like freaking funny what you did, Like they'll
Speaker 1: be like Diva love you. Like it was just so
Speaker 1: much like it was like so corny, like honestly like
Speaker 1: not really spoiler, but like at one point, like the
Speaker 1: one of the characters like like mox Nicole Kidman's amc
Speaker 1: Ad And I was just like, this isn't like the
Speaker 1: flex that like you guys think it is like it's
Speaker 1: just like no, like let us laugh about that and
Speaker 1: like cherish how iconic that commercial is on TikTok, Like
Speaker 1: I don't need you to reference it now in a
Speaker 1: film like it like pissed me off, like the whole thing,
Speaker 1: like you have to see it. But it was like
Speaker 1: so corny and it could have been so good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah they're saying I hate I do notice
Speaker 3: they do that or like you know, like some Netflix
Speaker 3: shows that are like you could just tell that's.
Speaker 1: Like one star or something like just do too much.
Speaker 1: M hmm.
Speaker 4: It's like they put into chath Ebt and said make
Speaker 4: this for a younger generation and then they just like
Speaker 4: didn't edit it after that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I speak of Netflix.
Speaker 3: I've watched some good they've been putting out their documentaries, though.
Speaker 3: I'll start with the one I watched last night and
Speaker 3: I finished this morning. It's the Biggest Loser one.
Speaker 1: I watched that last night. I almost turn that on
Speaker 1: because of it. I know you did. There's a documentary
Speaker 1: on the show.
Speaker 3: Yes, you guys should watch it. It's it's incredible. It's
Speaker 3: incredible because I mean it was filmed in like what
Speaker 3: two thousand and three and it's funny because the end
Speaker 3: of it, I'm not giving anything way, it's just statistics
Speaker 3: two thousand and three when it airs. When the show aired,
Speaker 3: thirty five percent of Americans adult Americans were obese. Twenty
Speaker 3: twenty five, it's forty five percent. So like, I mean,
Speaker 3: that's not that I'm in that forty percent. It's not
Speaker 3: that crazy of a jump. But like when you think
Speaker 3: about that.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, but it's just insane.
Speaker 3: Like I didn't realize, like, first off, it was very
Speaker 3: unhealthy for those people.
Speaker 1: Like that's not of grace me saying those people.
Speaker 3: But I just didn't realize that, Like a they have
Speaker 3: them eating eight hundred calories a day while working out
Speaker 3: for eight hours. It's so unhealthy. And like what looking back,
Speaker 3: like was it Why do we need that show?
Speaker 1: Because it was and I say this not in a
Speaker 1: positive way, but that was just peak reality TV.
Speaker 4: Think about peak American Idol, peak survivor peak like all
Speaker 4: of man these shows. Yeah, Like when reality TV first
Speaker 4: became a thing, I feel like it was just like,
Speaker 4: we don't know the effects of what's gonna happen, so
Speaker 4: let's just do whatever we want and deal with the
Speaker 4: consequences later. Aka what everyone's doing with social media right now,
Speaker 4: and you just look back and you're like, how the
Speaker 4: fuck did this get approved?
Speaker 1: How did they allow them to do that? And then
Speaker 1: you're like, we ate that shit up. When we were
Speaker 1: younger in eighteen seasons, I used.
Speaker 4: To watch Biggest Loser all the time and like that
Speaker 4: was like a show in my family. And then watching
Speaker 4: it back now with a fully frontal like lobe developed,
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, that was kind of mean. The way
Speaker 4: they scream at that person, or like the way they
Speaker 4: make them do like the one again not giving anything
Speaker 4: away one of the challenges they had in the show
Speaker 4: where they had they had to like build a puzzle
Speaker 4: or build a castle a food, but they could only
Speaker 4: use their teeth.
Speaker 1: So it's just a bunch of people like picking up
Speaker 1: like doughnuts and breads and pizza, like just making a mockery.
Speaker 4: And it's like this show's supposed to be about them
Speaker 4: losing weight and being healthy, Like what is this doing?
Speaker 3: Crazy the way ds and like also for me they
Speaker 3: were better than me, and like I get it's crazy,
Speaker 3: Like the better mean if Jillian Michael to screaming in
Speaker 3: my fucking face, hands in her and flocked, No, because
Speaker 3: I get and Grass pisses me no because the way
Speaker 3: she's screaming at those people, and Bob Harper with the
Speaker 3: way he screamed at Joyce. Yes, I know it's crazy
Speaker 3: because they can scream at them because they want to
Speaker 3: be there so bad to lose weight, like you're gonna
Speaker 3: get shit on, like you're gonna be berated.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, fuck that. It's so funny you say that, Lindsay.
Speaker 4: I was telling Jake last night because we watched it,
Speaker 4: and I was like, you do not realize that. I
Speaker 4: would say every girl between thirty and fifty has had
Speaker 4: their life affected by Jillian Michaels because when we were
Speaker 4: younger and all of our mothers, like she was like
Speaker 4: the mean one who said crazy shit that we make
Speaker 4: fun of, like it's what you eat in private shows
Speaker 4: in public like Jillian Michael's Like literally is in every
Speaker 4: woman's brain somewhere deep down something she said and stuff.
Speaker 1: With you so closing my eyes.
Speaker 3: The low rise like she always had those low rise
Speaker 3: fucking capri pants on like washboards apps. Also that would
Speaker 3: piss me off if I was on that show. Four
Speaker 3: hundred pounds she walks in skinny as fuck.
Speaker 1: Get me off here.
Speaker 2: I need an immunity necklace because what I'm about to
Speaker 2: say is problematic, and I'd like to apologize.
Speaker 1: If this doesn't if this isn't received the right way.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't agree.
Speaker 2: I want to just preface this by saying I don't
Speaker 2: agree with any of that crap.
Speaker 1: I think that it is a horrible concept for a show.
Speaker 2: I think it's awful, along with America's Next Top Model
Speaker 2: and how they did the girls on that, along with
Speaker 2: multiple other shows them in the real world. You could
Speaker 2: name it, and I'll tell you that I'm not for it.
Speaker 2: But those producers eight they devoured it was Thanksgiving and
Speaker 2: they cooked every single dish. The reason why reality TV
Speaker 2: is not the way it is it was is because
Speaker 2: now we do have semi standards.
Speaker 1: We have those producers and loss. We have those producers
Speaker 1: in your ears being like.
Speaker 2: Hey, Casey, go tell Brandon that Lindsay said something, and
Speaker 2: then it will turn into something. But Paris and or yeah,
Speaker 2: Paris and Nicole, Like, I'm sure the producers were in
Speaker 2: their ears, but they were also so authentically them and
Speaker 2: that none of that stuff was getting cut like it
Speaker 2: was entertaining.
Speaker 1: It's like, I really do a little two thousands. Part
Speaker 1: of me does miss that and I know that's bad,
Speaker 1: but like it was peak reality TV like it would it.
Speaker 4: Wasn't again watching it back, it's not great. But like
Speaker 4: even some of the Survivor themes that we talked about
Speaker 4: with Harvey, like to imagine a world where America was
Speaker 4: like this is what I want to watch on my television.
Speaker 1: It is just crazy. Well didn't they separate Survivor on
Speaker 1: one of them by like right, racey, that's.
Speaker 2: Crazy, that's crazy and different it was. It wasn't really
Speaker 2: quick diving into that speaking of race. Was it like
Speaker 2: people who are black, like they're the brown flags like people?
Speaker 1: No, No, it was no. So it was like racist,
Speaker 1: but not like yeah outwardly. The crazy thing about that though,
Speaker 1: is it honestly back in the day for a show
Speaker 1: that if there was twenty people, they would usually cast
Speaker 1: like sixteen white people. It was kind of like amazing
Speaker 1: that because of that theme there was only five white
Speaker 1: people on a cast of twenty people and the white
Speaker 1: people went out first. So in some reguard, in some reguard,
Speaker 1: good things happened out of a very tone death idea.
Speaker 1: That's and that's a great word death. It was very
Speaker 1: tone death.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: I don't know how transition to this.
Speaker 3: But another Netflix documentary, I have never really gotten sick
Speaker 3: to my stomach, will willst watching something, but I feel
Speaker 3: like you guys are like it case you might get
Speaker 3: really sick. It's called poop Cruise.
Speaker 1: Oh we were gonna watch that. Oh god, it's one
Speaker 1: of the most I will never step foot on it.
Speaker 3: They also put another documentary about fort name but to
Speaker 3: Woman's on a cruise and Witnessing. I watched both of those.
Speaker 3: You'll never see me over open bodies water again. So sorry,
Speaker 3: voyage cruises. I can't come on the brand trip like
Speaker 3: it was Carnival cruise, I believe. And they're out to
Speaker 3: see they're on their way back. They lose electricity on
Speaker 3: a fucking cruise ship. And then I guess, like toilets
Speaker 3: are powered by electricity, so the plumbing also gets backed
Speaker 3: up at one point, and so they're making these people,
Speaker 3: oh oh, because it lost electricity, you can't steer a
Speaker 3: boat like. So the ship is just in the middle
Speaker 3: of the ocean, like just stranded there bad. And I
Speaker 3: forgot how many days they're out there. They had the
Speaker 3: people in the ship were giving out the workers red
Speaker 3: bags to every room and you had to poop in
Speaker 3: the bag, but you were allowed to pee in the
Speaker 3: shower because like the drain went down.
Speaker 1: But.
Speaker 3: Everything started backing up, so those showers started filling up.
Speaker 3: People were pooping in there, all the bags, everything burst
Speaker 3: and there's.
Speaker 1: Just shit and water in the cruise.
Speaker 3: I it is so foul, you guys, But the it's
Speaker 3: so I was like, oh my god, like I never
Speaker 3: get sick, but like, no, never a cruise again.
Speaker 1: But I highly recommend that documentary.
Speaker 3: It's a one watch, It's not a three episode thing
Speaker 3: like Biggest Loser. But speaking of watching things, onto a
Speaker 3: better thing, let me sit up for this one. Our girl,
Speaker 3: Taylor Allison Swift is coming out with an alum October
Speaker 3: thirty guys.
Speaker 4: I was literally like, I would love to dedicate a
Speaker 4: four hour podcast to talking about her and her recent
Speaker 4: just exposure. I feel like she's never been exposed this
Speaker 4: much to the public eye.
Speaker 1: What's this smile for?
Speaker 2: I'm just so negative these days, Like that's such a
Speaker 2: positive thing. And like today Brandon comes in the living
Speaker 2: room and he like throws up his hands and he's like,
Speaker 2: TikTok's so negative these days.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what side of TikToker?
Speaker 2: You want?
Speaker 1: Baby? Educate me.
Speaker 2: He's like everyone's coming at Taylor Swift because she this
Speaker 2: and she that, And I was like, I didn't hear
Speaker 2: about any of this.
Speaker 1: Like all I thought. I thought we were just still
Speaker 1: dare she in this political climate saying that? Yeah, you
Speaker 1: see that ship. It's like, why is she releasing an
Speaker 1: album right now with everything going on? Oh A, I
Speaker 1: thought I saw people hating on her today.
Speaker 4: We recorded this podcast on Monday today because she released
Speaker 4: the second.
Speaker 1: Cover of her album.
Speaker 4: I saw people cover yeah, like it's an addition. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 4: another vinyl cover. And I saw people being like, oh,
Speaker 4: Taylor loves her consumers, I mean fans, like I saw
Speaker 4: that going around, but I didn't see the full album.
Speaker 1: Just be happy. I got on such a side where
Speaker 1: it was like, she needs to be speaking out more.
Speaker 1: And the fact that like thirteen million people are watching
Speaker 1: this podcast when there's thirteen million people starving in said country.
Speaker 1: It was a lot, well, it's a lot.
Speaker 4: It's I would like to talk about the Tailor Swift thing,
Speaker 4: but really quickly and I was high on my roof yesterday,
Speaker 4: talk in Jake's ear off.
Speaker 1: So at one point he was like, I think you
Speaker 1: need to go make a.
Speaker 4: TikTok about this because I can't talk to you about
Speaker 4: it anymore. But I was watching it. I used to
Speaker 4: watch this old influencer, Nicole Gerrero. She was a very
Speaker 4: big YouTuber. She was one of my favorite YouTubers. Whatever
Speaker 4: she fell off, she came back. She came out with
Speaker 4: a candle line and she's selling these candles. She's always
Speaker 4: been into home to course, so she came out with
Speaker 4: a candle bran and the candles.
Speaker 1: Are sixty dollars.
Speaker 4: Of course, TikTok does what it does, and they start
Speaker 4: canceling her because how dare she release candles for sixty dollars?
Speaker 4: And here's the take that I had. Two things can
Speaker 4: be true at the same time. We can talk about
Speaker 4: the fact that a lot of our country is experiencing
Speaker 4: poverty and a lot of our country does not make
Speaker 4: enough money to live the life that they need to live,
Speaker 4: while also understanding that some things can be a luxury
Speaker 4: that you can't afford. I look at Louis vatan purses
Speaker 4: all the time, and I'm like, oh my god, I
Speaker 4: want that purse with the cherries on it so fucking bad, really, but.
Speaker 1: I can't afford it.
Speaker 4: And instead of canceling Louis Vaittan and being like, how
Speaker 4: dare you make purses that I can't afford, I just
Speaker 4: accept the fact that that's not in my tax bracket
Speaker 4: right now.
Speaker 1: So, like two things can be true.
Speaker 4: We can be talking about how people need to make
Speaker 4: more money and we need to have all of that,
Speaker 4: while also understanding that a sixty dollar candle does not
Speaker 4: mean you have to cancel the creator because you wanted
Speaker 4: to make a luxury candle.
Speaker 2: Wait, I have a pushpin about this. This is a
Speaker 2: really quick story. It's so bizarre that you said this.
Speaker 2: My aunt met this guy and she was like, they
Speaker 2: like kik it or whatever, and she found out that
Speaker 2: he is a candle company.
Speaker 1: And my aunt was like, he's.
Speaker 2: Going through a really like stressful time with his life,
Speaker 2: like his wife got sick, blah blah blah blah blah
Speaker 2: blah blah.
Speaker 1: She's telling me all about this. I love candles.
Speaker 2: Although a sixty dollars candle is a luxury, that's a
Speaker 2: luxury that I would treat myself with I'm the perfect
Speaker 2: person to be like I want the candle. This guy
Speaker 2: reaches out to me and he sends both me and
Speaker 2: Brandon a candle, and I thought that that was so sweet.
Speaker 1: He was like, I really want my business to take off.
Speaker 2: And the candles are like I'm gonna make a TikTok
Speaker 2: about it because they're so beautiful, like they deserve to
Speaker 2: be shown, like they're gorgeous candles. And I'm thinking about
Speaker 2: what you're saying, and it's like, yes, this girl is
Speaker 2: like a famous influencer, and like sure, I'm sure she's
Speaker 2: in a tax bracket that I'm not. But it's like,
Speaker 2: do people ever think about the people behind small businesses
Speaker 2: and the fact that sometimes to grow a business you
Speaker 2: have to make the product a little bit more expensive
Speaker 2: so that you can live. Not everybody's just saying like
Speaker 2: I want to take people's money and like abuse a system.
Speaker 2: It's like some people really create quality products and they're
Speaker 2: like I deserve to be paid X amount dollars for this,
Speaker 2: Like that is the weird I agree with you, Like
Speaker 2: that is the weirdest thing ever.
Speaker 4: I like, without getting like too like a meta about it,
Speaker 4: I feel like it's partly because like dupes and things
Speaker 4: like Amazon exists, So it's like in someone's head, they're like, well,
Speaker 4: why would I pay sixty dollars for a candle when
Speaker 4: I can go buy cheaper one on Amazon.
Speaker 1: It's like, then go buy the cheaper one. You can
Speaker 1: do that, you don't have to buy the sixty dollars one.
Speaker 4: And it was just like the whole thing about Taylor Swift,
Speaker 4: like I get it, we can two things can be true.
Speaker 4: People can talk about all the things going wrong in
Speaker 4: the world and also still come out with new things
Speaker 4: and buy luxury items if they can afford it, and
Speaker 4: if they can't afford it, set a goal and work
Speaker 4: towards it, or don't or never think about that product
Speaker 4: again and buy a cheap dupe that smells just as good.
Speaker 3: Like and also like, doesn't music bring everybody together? Yeah,
Speaker 3: anything's doing hard to live if it's a hard and
Speaker 3: trying time, like we need music, like music.
Speaker 1: Gonna be what people are dropping music every day of day. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I also just do think that the one negative of
Speaker 1: the Eras tours that I brought too many people that
Speaker 1: aren't really Taylor Swift fans to this like fandom now
Speaker 1: and like people were throwing a fit day about like
Speaker 1: the vinyls of it all, and I'm just like, this
Speaker 1: bitch has been doing a lover Taylor show. Has been
Speaker 1: doing this shit since the beginning of time. Like I
Speaker 1: remember I got the Red pizza box. Papa John's did
Speaker 1: like a special for the Red album, and I went
Speaker 1: to Papa John's and just got it so that the
Speaker 1: pizza box had the Red album. Like she's been doing
Speaker 1: quirky shit like this all the time. It's just like, now, y'all,
Speaker 1: you never really were fans of her, and now you
Speaker 1: you thought you were because she put on a fucking
Speaker 1: amazing performance. I don't know, it's just like whatever. Like
Speaker 1: her Midnight's album.
Speaker 3: I love that one, Like I don't have I don't
Speaker 3: have a vinyl player, but all when you have four
Speaker 3: of those vinyls, they make a clock and I think
Speaker 3: that's so cool. But I'm like, that's the example. She's
Speaker 3: gonna do stuff like that. It's also an artist, like
Speaker 3: has a lot of swift.
Speaker 1: That's that's it. She's an artist.
Speaker 2: She is a talented musician slash like business woman, slash
Speaker 2: role model, slash like she's.
Speaker 1: A nick girl. Let's just let her make other girls happy.
Speaker 3: But I will say, can you just give us a
Speaker 3: documentary like that? Just give me the documentary, speak to
Speaker 3: her please.
Speaker 1: It's it's so funny.
Speaker 4: Brandan, you said the thing about new Taylor Swift fans
Speaker 4: because I saw this one TikTok that I was cracking
Speaker 4: up at and this guy was like, some people I
Speaker 4: guess were saying that she seemed awkward on the podcast
Speaker 4: and she seemed cringey with tit Travis and this guy
Speaker 4: I made a TikTok and he was like, New Taylor
Speaker 4: Swift fans are the worst because you guys don't realize
Speaker 4: Taylor's always been cringey.
Speaker 1: She's the queen of millennials.
Speaker 2: She is.
Speaker 4: He was like, I know that before every aerostour she
Speaker 4: stood in the back with a mustache on her finger
Speaker 4: and played jokes on all of her dancers, like pretending
Speaker 4: to have a mustache.
Speaker 1: And he was like, she's cringe. She's a millennial. She is.
Speaker 4: That is who Taylor is, and we love her because
Speaker 4: of that. Like, ye, she's not the like cool, she
Speaker 4: is a cool girl. And real Taylor Swift fans will
Speaker 4: know what I mean. Like I'm not saying anything negative.
Speaker 1: Like she's a little she's older, she's cringey. That's what
Speaker 1: she loves it like that. She's yeah too.
Speaker 4: And he was like, she is a little cringey on
Speaker 4: this podcast, and so is Travis and they're cringey together
Speaker 4: and like that's a good thing. Like that's and he
Speaker 4: was just like new Taylor Swift fans don't know her
Speaker 4: lore like that, so they like don't like get that
Speaker 4: she's kind of like this, And I was like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true. I mean some of her outfits on
Speaker 1: the Aras tour could have been better.
Speaker 3: Like listen, I thought that Dressa's free people turned out
Speaker 3: to be like Mason Marzella.
Speaker 1: Like I was like, oh, I call girl, but we're
Speaker 1: really excited Taylor. Thank you so life of a show
Speaker 1: Girl sober third giving her a.
Speaker 3: Press but I will say she heard those damn easter eggs.
Speaker 3: She I've been seeing one about because she's mentioned Bad
Speaker 3: Bunny like in the podcast because she was talking about
Speaker 3: Happy gilmore Like I think she was just giving a
Speaker 3: press too so people can watch it, and she kept
Speaker 3: mentioning bad Bunny and I'm like everyone's like, oh, Like
Speaker 3: I wonder if they're gonna have an album out, like
Speaker 3: a song on there together.
Speaker 1: Like she wouldn't have, like she would have. Sorry, I'm
Speaker 1: a kid. Do you don't know the Easter Egg one?
Speaker 4: I was just watching when I was walking into film
Speaker 4: this podcast. First off, I need to understand what swifties
Speaker 4: do for work. How do you have the time. How
Speaker 4: do you have the time to pull up all of
Speaker 4: these references within like twenty minutes notice of something releasing? Anyway,
Speaker 4: the video I watched because everyone thinks she's gonna do
Speaker 4: the halftime super Bowl show and they're coming out with
Speaker 4: all these theories about why they think that and this
Speaker 4: girl and I'm gonna summarize it, but she was like,
Speaker 4: Taylor Swift talked way too much about her sourdough bread.
Speaker 4: And when she talked about her sourdough bread, she mentioned
Speaker 4: four specific flavors of sourdough that she enjoys making. And
Speaker 4: this is why that I think I know who her
Speaker 4: special guests are at the half time Super Bowl show.
Speaker 4: She says that in the podcast, Jason was like, oh,
Speaker 4: you should make an orange sourdough, and Taylor said, I
Speaker 4: should make an orange tower dough bread and I could
Speaker 4: put an orange marmalade in the middle and she goes
Speaker 4: four flavors marmalade.
Speaker 1: Next year will be the.
Speaker 4: Twenty five years of Lady Marvel, and she's like Christina
Speaker 4: aguilera little and she names all the people little whoever
Speaker 4: else was in I can't remember now, and she literally
Speaker 4: saying that that's who's going to be the special guest
Speaker 4: of the super Bowl halftime show because Taylor said she
Speaker 4: would put an orange marmalade in herself.
Speaker 1: Okay, but you know what, I actually really appreciate those.
Speaker 2: Those are my favorite kinds of tiktoks to be out
Speaker 2: of every TikTok like like a category there is I love,
Speaker 2: like a weirdo who has like a weird.
Speaker 1: That's fun and you buy and doing that. Yeah, some
Speaker 1: of these are convincing me. I'm like, damn, is she
Speaker 1: gonna do this? You can convince me? That would be nuts?
Speaker 4: What else has been on your as fip? Mine is
Speaker 4: literally just Taylor Swift. Mine's been so negative. I I
Speaker 4: just got rage baited too much, and now I think
Speaker 4: every video that comes on my for you pages tailor
Speaker 4: made to piss me off.
Speaker 1: And I really need to get back on the fun side.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say what you honestly like probably should
Speaker 1: get back on like the water popping videos we be
Speaker 1: on Live. Oh my wait, I have a new AI favorite.
Speaker 1: You're gonna love this bills. It'll be like.
Speaker 2: Pick a meal to eat on those yeah, oh my god,
Speaker 2: Okay yeah no.
Speaker 1: So it'll be like a guy.
Speaker 2: Bringing out and it'll be like seafood boil and it'll
Speaker 2: be a prison guard bringing out a full thing of
Speaker 2: seafood boil, like a crazy amount of food, like you're
Speaker 2: not finishing this and if you finish it, get off
Speaker 2: death row and it'll be.
Speaker 1: Like American super food tray.
Speaker 2: And it'll be like seven hamburgers, five hot dogs, racco ribs. Oh.
Speaker 2: I love watching them. I it wow once. Like there's
Speaker 2: another one that's like choose a toilet to set on
Speaker 2: and it'll be like thorn toilet.
Speaker 1: Or it's like choose like they'll like cut something.
Speaker 4: They're like choose a ball to cut, but it's like
Speaker 4: a glass ball, a slimeball.
Speaker 1: I always like, like the squish your sand one. I love.
Speaker 4: I get so scared to watch them, so I've honestly
Speaker 4: never watched one all the way through because I don't
Speaker 4: want my fip to start showing me them more. I
Speaker 4: just want them to show me them a little bit.
Speaker 4: So I'll watch like the first couple of seconds and
Speaker 4: then I swipe and I'm like.
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, you know, it's been literally all over
Speaker 3: on a probably not you because you're on the negative side.
Speaker 3: It's the Barcelo Barcelol Shorehouse. Yes, no, it's it's very entertaining.
Speaker 3: They're having like a full show like the Jersey Shore
Speaker 3: but it's barslol, all the barstool like employees. I guess
Speaker 3: it's like Bree on the chicken fry. That girl Ella,
Speaker 3: she's been on my Fy.
Speaker 4: It's like filmed on TikTok, like it's not on TV
Speaker 4: or not on like it's filmed on your phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so interesting. It's very like they're not censoring chicks.
Speaker 3: It's very I'm like, you guys are just posting ship
Speaker 3: but that's been all of my free page so I'm curious.
Speaker 3: So where are they in Jersey. It seems like they're
Speaker 3: probably like what's Upper Jersey?
Speaker 1: Upper Jersey?
Speaker 3: There.
Speaker 1: I saw one.
Speaker 4: It was just like one clip of them like all
Speaker 4: sitting around and one of the comments was like something
Speaker 4: like this isn't interesting. This is just a bunch of
Speaker 4: co workers on vacation. And then I was really thinking
Speaker 4: about like, damn, these people really are just coworkers. Like
Speaker 4: obviously they work in a specific type of industry and job,
Speaker 4: but like at the end of the day, they really
Speaker 4: are just coworkers.
Speaker 1: It's all podcasts, hosts. It's crazy co workers.
Speaker 4: No, okay, I mean like sure, but like you're business
Speaker 4: partners more official.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I also had somebody come in my DMS and they're like,
Speaker 4: did something happen?
Speaker 1: Why is the podcast gone?
Speaker 4: And the reason I just so quickly answered no to you, you're.
Speaker 1: Completely not helping.
Speaker 4: My point is that, like we are genuinely best friends
Speaker 4: before this podcast.
Speaker 1: They were like, oh, the podcast isn't arounded.
Speaker 4: Something happened, Like no, we just were busy and we
Speaker 4: took a little break and it was summer break, and
Speaker 4: were like, I feel like they like I don't know.
Speaker 4: For a second, it was like we were being perceived
Speaker 4: as just like internet people, and I was like, damn,
Speaker 4: they don't realize, Like these are really my three best
Speaker 4: friends and I'm texting them about family drama and like
Speaker 4: we're all here for each other through everything.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, damn, they perceived us as just internet friends.
Speaker 3: I always kind of like when I meet people on
Speaker 3: the Gasbau the podcast, I always like, honey, I'm like,
Speaker 3: we have known each other, like they have seen me,
Speaker 3: like they can pay my body, bake it from memory,
Speaker 3: like we know, like we know each other. I always
Speaker 3: fet to like put that in people's heads, like we've
Speaker 3: been been friends.
Speaker 1: I think we should stage a dramatic fight. Did we
Speaker 1: talk about it? Didn't we talk about.
Speaker 2: It like a social like I really think like if
Speaker 2: the three of us decided we hated Brandon, and because
Speaker 2: I know, because am I getting so much back with
Speaker 2: because you, Brandon have the biggest following and you have
Speaker 2: a cult following. So I feel like if we stir,
Speaker 2: if we wanted to stir the pop.
Speaker 1: We all that's gonna do is have people comment I
Speaker 1: knew he had bad vibe like that. That is the
Speaker 1: ship that I fucking can't stand right now. Is That's
Speaker 1: That's one of another reasons I fucking hate TikTok right now.
Speaker 1: It's like I could literally say whatever I wanted to
Speaker 1: and people would believe me. I can make up a
Speaker 1: whole story about how I was disrespected by a Dunkin
Speaker 1: Donuts employee today at the Gerard location. I haven't been
Speaker 1: no exactly. You already believe me, which is great hashtag
Speaker 1: believe gay men. But it has been to the point
Speaker 1: where it has gone too far. No discernment is being used.
Speaker 1: We are canceling people left and right over one side
Speaker 1: of one story, and it is just too damn much. No,
Speaker 1: a lot is crazy lack of desernment. Mm hmmm, yep.
Speaker 1: Blood So any media necklaces, I've already said a few.
Speaker 1: I have a quick one again.
Speaker 2: Like I mentioned, I'm very grateful for the things that
Speaker 2: Brandon gives me and I appreciate him a ton. With
Speaker 2: that being said, he makes sposes me to things I've
Speaker 2: never seen before, and that's a good thing. But for
Speaker 2: my birthday, I got to go to Montalk and it
Speaker 2: was a very different short experience for me because it's
Speaker 2: not necessarily like a shore town like the trashy Jersey shore.
Speaker 2: It's like a shore town filled with people who have
Speaker 2: a lot of money. And I will just say that
Speaker 2: the people of mon talk like are, in my opinion,
Speaker 2: some of the rudest, nastiest, meanest people I've ever met.
Speaker 2: I feel like people just look down on you, frown
Speaker 2: upon you, like they don't know you, they don't care
Speaker 2: about you, they don't care about them. I don't know
Speaker 2: how that town even stays afloat like I I it
Speaker 2: just like when I came home, I felt ugly, poor, worthless, weird,
Speaker 2: and then I was like, wait a minute, this isn't
Speaker 2: about you like this, this isn't you, This is them.
Speaker 1: So my Amunity necklace is mon talk end of the world. Truly,
Speaker 1: I felt like it. See the people are gonna come
Speaker 1: for you for that, because they're gonna say this is
Speaker 1: influencer mon talk. Montalk was, but that's the montalk I know.
Speaker 2: So if anybody comes for me, I would love them genuinely.
Speaker 2: If you're coming from me, let me know what it
Speaker 2: was like before. Tell me where to go so I
Speaker 2: can experience those places, and I will let you know
Speaker 2: how my thoughts after.
Speaker 1: But I know influencer mon talk, so yeah, that's my thoughts.
Speaker 1: I think that's just the Hamptons as a whole. The
Speaker 1: people there are very entitled and out of touch with reality.
Speaker 1: I had fun, I prefaced it. I'm grateful.
Speaker 2: It was a great I enjoyed I got high for
Speaker 2: the first time with my friends. It was so long,
Speaker 2: like we were just sitting by the pool smoking and
Speaker 2: it was the funnest thing that I've done in so long.
Speaker 2: I had a great time. Your house was breathtaking. I
Speaker 2: loved it.
Speaker 1: I feel what you said.
Speaker 2: I just boo. You know anyways, anyone else, No, No,
Speaker 2: Britain and I will be positive next week our goal.
Speaker 1: I feel like we weren't at that negative. We were negative,
Speaker 1: but we've been We've been way worse guys. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: we had a little bit of a breather for speaking
Speaker 1: a positive. I do have a yeah, cats out of
Speaker 1: the bag.
Speaker 3: No, I'm not pregnant mom, But speaking of that. My
Speaker 3: unslicitor back is the flow app. So it's really crazy. Wait,
Speaker 3: that's absolutely insane. I love the flow app. I feel
Speaker 3: I don't even need the premium subscription either. But it's
Speaker 3: just a period tracking app. But it just does such
Speaker 3: a good job of tracking and it just knows my
Speaker 3: symptoms well. I feel like once you start training it
Speaker 3: like an AI, it understands your patterns and can like
Speaker 3: recommend something like I did not sleep last night. And
Speaker 3: it's crazy because wait, what's today?
Speaker 1: Monday?
Speaker 3: I got a notification Sunday. I was like, oh, your
Speaker 3: sleep might be disturbed coming up. Yeah, it knew it
Speaker 3: just like it's insane.
Speaker 1: But I love the flow app. I do love it.
Speaker 4: I'm just way too capricorn for it because I hate
Speaker 4: being told what to do and I hate when it
Speaker 4: like sends me a message the first thing in the morning,
Speaker 4: and it's like, comfy clothes would be a great idea
Speaker 4: for today. You might be a little bloated.
Speaker 1: It's a stretching. It's fuck you, bitch. I don't like so.
Speaker 4: I like it because I do like being in tune
Speaker 4: with my hormone and I think it's healthy and it
Speaker 4: is a great app. Bailey put me onto it, but
Speaker 4: I'm like a little too capricorn for it. It tells
Speaker 4: me what to do a little too much, and I can.
Speaker 1: It's really upsetting. But then like the day after when
Speaker 1: like it does happen, I'm like, huh, that's weird. That's
Speaker 1: a little weird. But I love it. I'm not bagging
Speaker 1: it pregnant. You know where home is?
Speaker 4: Boy?
Speaker 1: I'm so over that. You guys, fine, we'll call it
Speaker 1: an episode. On that note, keep between me and Bailey guys,