1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:02,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask my friend Wade Lightheart a question 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,160 as I'm headed into my seal fit journey, which just 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:09,919 became real. I just got invited into the zoom session 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:13,199 to meet the other men who are going to be 5 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,960 burdened with me in their group. Ah, these poor guys, 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,399 and I wanted to ask him about the hardest thing 7 00:00:22,679 --> 00:00:26,600 about doing hard things, because Wade's a guy who's done 8 00:00:26,679 --> 00:00:29,199 a lot of hard things, and we are all going 9 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:30,920 to have to do hard things. You probably saw the 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,759 video of the guy who was offered one misdemeanor charge, 11 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:39,200 that's it, no jail time, no prison time because of 12 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:43,920 January sixth. He refused it because he says the government 13 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,280 was going to make him lie about other people, so 14 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,799 instead he did two years in prison. I wonder what 15 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,520 the hardest thing about doing hard things was for him. 16 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:56,840 We'll talk about this with Wade, with the help of 17 00:00:57,039 --> 00:00:57,799 God Almighty. 18 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,679 Speaker 2: The cod Herman Show is one hundred percent disapproved by 19 00:01:03,759 --> 00:01:10,719 big pharma, technocorrats and tyrants everywhere. No from the high 20 00:01:10,799 --> 00:01:17,760 mountains of Free America. Here's the Emerald City Exile cod Herman. 21 00:01:26,159 --> 00:01:28,519 Speaker 1: Today is a day the Lord has made, and these 22 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:30,840 are the times to which God has decided we shall live. 23 00:01:32,599 --> 00:01:35,719 When you build up to do a hard thing, sometimes 24 00:01:35,879 --> 00:01:38,040 I think, and we'll get weighed on and talk about this. 25 00:01:38,239 --> 00:01:41,400 I think the hardest thing about doing hard things is 26 00:01:41,519 --> 00:01:45,359 the part I'm in now that for me, this journey 27 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:48,640 seal fit is well, it's something that most people aren't 28 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,680 going to do, but it can really compare to things 29 00:01:51,799 --> 00:01:55,519 you are going to have to do, particularly if you're young. Right, 30 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,560 those of us that are old, we sort of invent 31 00:01:57,719 --> 00:02:00,000 our hard things. I mean, there are hard things in life. 32 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,480 There's the death of a loved one, there's moving, there's 33 00:02:02,599 --> 00:02:06,319 changing jobs. Increasingly, there's staying wedded to the word of 34 00:02:06,319 --> 00:02:08,919 God in a society that hates the word of God. 35 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,680 It can be hard to do that because sometimes it 36 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,000 leads to losing jobs, and that's. 37 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:14,599 Speaker 3: A real challenge. 38 00:02:14,599 --> 00:02:19,439 Speaker 1: It's horrible. God promises us, he promises us that He 39 00:02:19,479 --> 00:02:23,759 will return sevenfold what we lose if we do it 40 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,120 serving him. I've certainly found that to be true. With 41 00:02:27,199 --> 00:02:29,879 this podcast and the multiple radio shows we have now 42 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:34,360 national radio shows, I've certainly can witness to that. The 43 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,240 hard thing I think about doing a hard thing is 44 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:42,120 getting past the thinking point the planning point. And there's 45 00:02:42,159 --> 00:02:45,120 something that I've learned about my mind, and that is 46 00:02:45,159 --> 00:02:48,919 that my mind will confuse talking about doing a thing 47 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:54,360 with doing the thing. Consequently, there are goals I have 48 00:02:54,479 --> 00:02:57,000 in my mind I never share with anybody. I don't 49 00:02:57,000 --> 00:02:59,520 even write them down. Trust me, they're not going away. 50 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:00,319 Speaker 3: They're up here. 51 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:05,879 Speaker 1: The hard thing as well is sometimes recognizing that you 52 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:09,039 are not going to shine all the time. It goes 53 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,000 right back to your the turtle, or no, not you 54 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,000 to the turtle. It goes back to all the places 55 00:03:13,039 --> 00:03:16,360 will go. This is doctor Seuss right, You're not always 56 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:19,599 going to be on top. My coach did something to 57 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:23,960 me about four weeks ago. She's never done and what 58 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,280 was going on. I didn't even understand what she was doing. 59 00:03:27,159 --> 00:03:30,439 She presented to me a workout challenge and showed me 60 00:03:30,479 --> 00:03:32,280 the movements. This is going to be these movements. It's 61 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,000 what we'd call it shipper. So it has a whole 62 00:03:34,039 --> 00:03:37,479 bunch of movements in it, and five movements. And it 63 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:42,520 was burpie box jumps, it was skier, it was wallballs, 64 00:03:42,599 --> 00:03:45,919 dead lifts, it all in this one workout. And then 65 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,879 coach said to me, my. 66 00:03:47,919 --> 00:03:50,639 Speaker 3: Expectation is that you will get easily. 67 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: Through eight rounds of this. Oh okay, well that seems 68 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:54,080 an aggressive. 69 00:03:53,639 --> 00:03:54,879 Speaker 3: Goal, but sweet, let's do it. 70 00:03:55,879 --> 00:03:59,159 Speaker 1: So I began doing the workout, and in the middle 71 00:03:59,159 --> 00:04:01,039 of the workout, it's about halfway through it, and I'm 72 00:04:01,039 --> 00:04:03,719 pretty good at pacing myself and CrossFit. I looked up 73 00:04:03,719 --> 00:04:07,400 at the clock and I realized, oh my gosh, if 74 00:04:07,439 --> 00:04:10,319 I do not murder this thing, I won't even get 75 00:04:10,439 --> 00:04:14,199 six rounds. So I had to turn everything up in 76 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,720 an effort to get six rounds, and Coach had expected. 77 00:04:17,319 --> 00:04:17,959 Speaker 4: Me to get eight. 78 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: Now, when the workout ended, I rarely ever flop after 79 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,560 a workout that is laid down. 80 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 3: I rarely do that. 81 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: I didn't this time, but I sat down, which is 82 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,000 also rare for me. I never want someone to see 83 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,600 me tired in a competition sense. I never want them 84 00:04:33,639 --> 00:04:37,040 to perceive that that bothered me. So I had to 85 00:04:37,079 --> 00:04:39,959 sit down and I finally stood up and I said 86 00:04:39,959 --> 00:04:42,759 to coach, let me ask a question. Was there even 87 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:47,199 a chance that I could do eight rounds? And she said, well, 88 00:04:48,199 --> 00:04:51,759 it's in the realm of possibility. One day I said, okay, 89 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,920 she goes Todd, You're going to go into an environment 90 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:59,279 and seal fit where you're going to fail. You are 91 00:04:59,319 --> 00:05:02,519 not going to do on some of the evolutions. You're 92 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:06,079 gonna flop. That's going to happen. They're going to make 93 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:09,240 sure it happens. What I liked about what you just 94 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,160 did is I know you figured that out, she said. 95 00:05:12,199 --> 00:05:14,319 I saw you look at the clock. I know you 96 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:19,639 did the math, but you sped up. You didn't slow down, 97 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,279 even knowing there was not a chance you were going 98 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:24,360 to get to eight rounds. 99 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:26,399 Speaker 3: That will serve you well. 100 00:05:27,399 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes I think the hardest thing about doing hard things 101 00:05:31,399 --> 00:05:35,240 is recognizing that you are not always going to succeed. 102 00:05:36,319 --> 00:05:38,560 There are going to be pieces of something at which 103 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:42,680 you'll fail, and being okay with that goes back to resilience. 104 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,199 Speaker 3: We'll ask Wade about this in just a second. 105 00:05:47,600 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 1: I just got a note from my friend Steve Anderson, 106 00:05:49,759 --> 00:05:54,279 who's the managing director managing partner of renew Healthcare. Three 107 00:05:54,319 --> 00:05:59,199 couples went there in November, three fantastic outcomes, and I'm 108 00:05:59,199 --> 00:06:01,199 cooking up a trip back down there this time. If 109 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,040 we go do a wellcation, we're going to give a 110 00:06:04,079 --> 00:06:05,519 lot more time in planning so we get a lot 111 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,519 more people down. We didn't give much time in planning 112 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,600 us having a great time, got to make great viewers 113 00:06:09,639 --> 00:06:12,439 and listeners. But there are three friends of mine who 114 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,600 are thinking going on. One of them is Zach Abraham, 115 00:06:14,639 --> 00:06:16,240 who you know comes on our show once a week. 116 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,040 He wants to get the infusion of stem cells. The 117 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:23,199 infusion is probably the most expensive process and it attacks 118 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,639 inflammation throughout your bodies. These stem cells that are ethically 119 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,800 gathered from umbilical cords and placentas. 120 00:06:29,199 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 3: They search your body for any hotspots. 121 00:06:31,759 --> 00:06:34,079 Speaker 1: If there's cartilage that needs to be rebuilt, it can 122 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:36,600 do that, tend then muscle. It does that, but it 123 00:06:36,639 --> 00:06:39,560 destroys inflammation across the body. That's what Zach is looking at. 124 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:41,720 Another friend of mine blew up his knee. I've been 125 00:06:41,759 --> 00:06:43,399 asking you to pray for him. He's called the wrestler. 126 00:06:43,519 --> 00:06:45,800 That's not completely blown up, but looks like the beginning 127 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:48,240 of a cartilage terear at our age. And he's my 128 00:06:48,319 --> 00:06:51,160 age in our mid fifties. Cartilage isn't likely to grow back. 129 00:06:51,759 --> 00:06:54,920 These stem cells can grow it back. So he's looking 130 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,279 at having that done. And then a friend of mine 131 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:01,600 a call Andy, and he's a with jumper's knee forever 132 00:07:01,959 --> 00:07:04,959 now it's just me. So we're all looking at going 133 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,360 down my thing lower back. I made the mistake of 134 00:07:07,399 --> 00:07:11,639 wrestling my much younger, much stronger, much more athletic, better looking, smarter, 135 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,480 and more godly friend Ben. I got the first three 136 00:07:14,519 --> 00:07:17,560 takedowns and he figured me out and crushed me, hurt me. 137 00:07:18,199 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he's my sports med doc. So there's that. 138 00:07:20,279 --> 00:07:22,199 Speaker 1: So maybe he should fix me. Hey Ben, maybe I 139 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,839 should get a you hurt me discount. So we're all 140 00:07:24,839 --> 00:07:27,480 thinking about going down for these very different reasons. Why 141 00:07:27,519 --> 00:07:29,920 would I suggest this to my friends if I didn't 142 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,680 know it worked. Go to renew dot Healthcare and ask 143 00:07:33,759 --> 00:07:35,920 them if they can replace your cardage so you don't 144 00:07:35,959 --> 00:07:38,839 need to have surgery. Go down and see if they 145 00:07:38,879 --> 00:07:40,519 can fix your lower backs. You don't need to be 146 00:07:40,519 --> 00:07:42,920 in pain and on meds. It's simple. Good to renew 147 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,000 r E n u E dot Healthcare. That's r E 148 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,560 n ue dot Healthcare. 149 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 3: Wade Lightheart, Welcome back to the Todd Hermann Show. Good 150 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,040 to see you, my friend, Todd. 151 00:07:56,439 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 5: I'm so excited to be here. We had so much 152 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:01,160 fun last time. To be back again. I really appreciate you. 153 00:08:01,199 --> 00:08:01,519 Speaker 4: Having me on. 154 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 3: I couldn't agree more man. 155 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,519 Speaker 1: Thank you before we get to the hard things, and 156 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,759 I want to ask you the question, what's the hardest 157 00:08:07,759 --> 00:08:12,680 thing about doing hard things? I would be like negligent 158 00:08:12,759 --> 00:08:15,399 if I didn't ask you. There's a lot going on 159 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,600 in this news. You're a very smart man. I've never 160 00:08:18,759 --> 00:08:21,360 talked current events with you, Like what do you seeing? 161 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:26,319 Speaker 5: Well, we're seeing the culmination of I believe, what was 162 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,319 illustrated by the guys that wrote The Fourth Turning and 163 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,919 if you've read that book, We're in a phase of chaos, 164 00:08:32,919 --> 00:08:37,360 which is usually represented by either civil war or external 165 00:08:37,399 --> 00:08:42,679 war or potentially even both. And there's economic cycles, there's 166 00:08:42,799 --> 00:08:45,240 you know, civilization cycles, and it seems that we're flat 167 00:08:45,279 --> 00:08:46,759 and that's probably going to be in this for another 168 00:08:46,799 --> 00:08:55,080 ten years as the technological in the technological advancement has 169 00:08:55,159 --> 00:09:00,639 really outstripped our biological capacity to handle it. So, for example, 170 00:09:01,519 --> 00:09:08,679 we just witnessed the most public event in world history 171 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:12,919 with the attempted assassination of the former president Donald Trump, 172 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,120 and in the current candidate. Now, I'm a Canadian, I 173 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:19,360 don't get to vote either way, okay, So I want 174 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,600 to be clear about that, and it's not a political statement, 175 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,200 but the moment can't be lost in the fact that 176 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:30,639 once again the authorities that we are entrusting to give 177 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:35,399 us accurate information are stonewalling us. And we saw this 178 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:36,240 in the pandemic. 179 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 4: We saw this. 180 00:09:37,039 --> 00:09:38,919 Speaker 5: I think we also saw this with the hearings in 181 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:42,720 the university stuff. We saw it in the Capital six. 182 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:47,799 And what's happened is we have a fractionation of opinions 183 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:53,200 distributed through these little things that gain traction, that reaffirm 184 00:09:53,320 --> 00:09:55,960 whatever biases. I don't know what happened. I don't know 185 00:09:56,000 --> 00:10:00,879 what's behind all this. And people are grabbing for certainty 186 00:10:00,919 --> 00:10:04,600 because you need a certain amount of certainty in direction. 187 00:10:05,159 --> 00:10:06,919 You know, It's why people get a coach when they're 188 00:10:06,919 --> 00:10:09,159 trying to figure out their fitness. There's a lot of 189 00:10:09,159 --> 00:10:11,360 ways to get fit, but you need some sort of direction. 190 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:13,840 While you have a professor at a university that you learn, 191 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:18,840 or a teacher of profession, or a spiritual teaching or 192 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,600 a leader or a functional religion, these structures. Well, now 193 00:10:22,639 --> 00:10:27,879 there's so much confusion around this that people are spinning 194 00:10:27,919 --> 00:10:30,200 around in these cycles. 195 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,960 Speaker 4: Of what do I do? What about this? You know, 196 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:35,519 is it a conspiracy? Is this the rise of Hitler? 197 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,159 Is you know, like Is it the end of the world? 198 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:41,679 Is it World War three like? And what happens two things. 199 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:46,919 Speaker 5: Either you get really hyper motivated and indoctrinated with some 200 00:10:47,039 --> 00:10:49,080 kind of defenses, like we've got to save the nation 201 00:10:49,159 --> 00:10:51,480 and we've got to get kill everybody or fight everybody, 202 00:10:52,159 --> 00:10:55,919 or you go into a defense mode where it's like, 203 00:10:56,159 --> 00:10:58,440 I'm not listening to it, I'm checked out, don't I 204 00:10:58,480 --> 00:10:59,799 want to play the safe game. 205 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 4: I don't want to deal with this. 206 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:02,639 Speaker 5: I want to just hunker down in my room and 207 00:11:02,639 --> 00:11:05,759 play some video games or something and take some substances 208 00:11:05,799 --> 00:11:08,000 that just detach me from society. 209 00:11:08,919 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 4: And we're seeing that. 210 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 5: We've got to find a better resolution to the new 211 00:11:18,919 --> 00:11:23,399 challenges of society. So there is a call to action 212 00:11:24,279 --> 00:11:27,440 for a lot of people. But that action can't. 213 00:11:27,159 --> 00:11:30,039 Speaker 4: Be based in fear, and it can't be. 214 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:37,759 Speaker 5: Entrenched in violence, because if it is, the cost of 215 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:41,240 the solution is much higher than we need to pay. 216 00:11:41,799 --> 00:11:45,080 But it doesn't look like anybody's learning the lessons. So 217 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,159 it's likely the worst case scenario. And we have as 218 00:11:48,279 --> 00:11:53,200 men who are in charge of our families, and that's 219 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,720 our immediate community, and then the community. 220 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 4: That we're in. 221 00:11:56,159 --> 00:11:58,519 Speaker 5: We have to start gathering ourselves with other men to 222 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:03,840 find aally new you know, independent communities that are able 223 00:12:03,879 --> 00:12:09,519 to provide support and safety for each other in a 224 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:14,519 non combative way, hopefully agreed and and and that's our 225 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:15,919 that's our task, that's our calling. 226 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 4: We can't solve. 227 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:18,919 Speaker 5: These national things, but we can solve the local We 228 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,960 solve the local problems. I think we have an opportunity 229 00:12:22,039 --> 00:12:23,360 to solve the bigger problems. 230 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 3: I couldn't agree more. 231 00:12:24,399 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 1: And like so many people will complain about and I look, 232 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,759 I complain sometimes living and not take care of home base. 233 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,399 One thing I would ask you as an executive and 234 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:36,559 then we'll get into the hard things discussion. Like you 235 00:12:37,159 --> 00:12:39,759 and Matt have built a very very successful company, and 236 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:43,879 you have you know, scientists and medical people who work 237 00:12:43,879 --> 00:12:46,480 with you and for you in a formulation lab. So 238 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:48,200 I just want to run through this scenario. And I'm 239 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:51,279 taking the assassination attempt to President Trump. So here's some 240 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:56,159 things we've discovered. They chose not to record the radio traffic, okay. 241 00:12:56,679 --> 00:13:00,720 They chose not to secure the rooftop, all right. They 242 00:13:00,799 --> 00:13:05,399 chose to use untrained agents, okay. They chose not to 243 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,159 take the highest viewpoint, which would be the water tower. 244 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:11,360 They chose, they chose to surrender that they chose to 245 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,440 let this guy walk around for an hour. They chose 246 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:15,039 to let him be in the rooftop for half an hour. 247 00:13:15,279 --> 00:13:17,840 He was there twenty minutes, a known danger with a gun. 248 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:19,799 They chose that President Trump come out. So all these 249 00:13:19,879 --> 00:13:22,000 choices they made. And I want to put you in 250 00:13:22,039 --> 00:13:24,200 an executive sense. So let's say that you come to 251 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:25,720 work one day and you sit down with your team. 252 00:13:25,879 --> 00:13:29,159 All right, we're doing the free Magnese and Breakthrough thing. 253 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,879 It's Meg Breakthrough dot com slash Todd Free. We're doing 254 00:13:31,879 --> 00:13:34,799 this with Todd Herman on the show. Do we have 255 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:36,720 enough coranny because we're going to get a lot of 256 00:13:36,799 --> 00:13:39,240 orders for this? And your team says, yeah, we didn't check. 257 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,879 Wait so wait, no one checked. Yeah we didn't. 258 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 3: Can we look into the warehouse? You know what? 259 00:13:46,759 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: We didn't swing by the warehouse? Okay, did we tell 260 00:13:50,759 --> 00:13:51,960 Todd this is a possibility? 261 00:13:52,879 --> 00:13:53,159 Speaker 3: Yeah? 262 00:13:53,279 --> 00:13:56,799 Speaker 1: No, And you are getting these series of excuses. Wait, 263 00:13:56,799 --> 00:13:58,320 who'd you put on this? Who's running this? 264 00:13:58,399 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 4: Oh? 265 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,519 Speaker 1: The new guy, Doug? Wait, Doug's a great kid, but 266 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:05,039 he's from the shipping department. You put Doug departs of this. Yeah, 267 00:14:05,039 --> 00:14:08,320 we tried about as a project managemer and you're sitting there. 268 00:14:09,519 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 3: How quickly do. 269 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: People find themselves with that employment or something? In Wade 270 00:14:16,279 --> 00:14:18,519 Whiteheart's World of Bioptimizers. 271 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:22,399 Speaker 5: Well, first off, the first step is that the buck 272 00:14:22,519 --> 00:14:26,799 stops with me because it's our company, Matt and I's company. Yeah, 273 00:14:26,799 --> 00:14:29,000 and I wouldn't even speak for Matt. I would say 274 00:14:29,039 --> 00:14:33,320 this is my fault number one. I am responsible for 275 00:14:33,399 --> 00:14:36,440 the delivery of our mission statement, and Matt would do 276 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:41,879 the exact same thing. Nice, Okay, it's our fault. So 277 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,639 I come out and I make a public statement I 278 00:14:44,759 --> 00:14:49,080 have failed in the execution of what I've promised to do. 279 00:14:49,759 --> 00:14:54,159 Speaker 4: Therefore, I obviously need to be replaced. 280 00:14:54,919 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 5: And during that replacement process, because I'm taking responsibility, I 281 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:04,879 am going to find out all of the executional components. 282 00:15:04,639 --> 00:15:08,679 Speaker 4: That I thought were in place or omitted or was 283 00:15:08,759 --> 00:15:10,960 ignorant or whatever the issue was. And I'm going to 284 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:16,000 work through this to hand off the new opportunity to 285 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,919 whoever's going to take my role in the future to 286 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,639 say this is what we did wrong, these are the oversights, 287 00:15:21,919 --> 00:15:23,919 these are the elements, and we need to make this 288 00:15:24,039 --> 00:15:25,320 so it doesn't happen again. 289 00:15:25,399 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 5: If I don't do that, then I'm not a leader. 290 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:34,200 I'm a I'm. 291 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:35,919 Speaker 4: A false representation. 292 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,919 Speaker 5: And there's a lot of people in business today who 293 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,960 take over big companies with the big paycheck and all 294 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:46,480 this sort of stuff, and they're catering to the donor class. 295 00:15:46,879 --> 00:15:51,639 They're catering to the biggest investors. They're involved in some 296 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:59,919 politically maneuvering. They're pandering to you know, silly government regulation 297 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:03,039 and stuff like this. Yeah, because they're playing this political game. 298 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:07,440 And what happens is a lose track of in all 299 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:11,399 of the numbers, like in all of the numbers in 300 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:15,279 the company, what is what does each number essentially represent? 301 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:20,240 It represents a relationship with the customer, and the customer 302 00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:25,159 is buying a promise. You're promising number one that they 303 00:16:25,159 --> 00:16:27,320 have a problem, a thing they want to solve, whatever 304 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,799 that challenge is. And you're saying, hey, look, i'm going 305 00:16:29,879 --> 00:16:32,159 to communicate to you. First, there's a communication I'm going 306 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,039 to I'm in charge of this. We're going to help 307 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,159 you with your problem too. We're going to explain, we're 308 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:39,480 going to provide the solution to that problem. Number two, 309 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:41,159 we're going to show you how to use or take 310 00:16:41,759 --> 00:16:45,399 or take advantage of that solution. Number three, we're going 311 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:47,840 to make sure that that solution happens in a timely 312 00:16:48,039 --> 00:16:51,559 fashion so that your expectations are met within a reasonable 313 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:54,159 time frame. So if I'm a personal trainer, I'm going 314 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:55,799 to say, hey, yeah, we can get your You want 315 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:57,799 to lose forty pounds, Well, we can lose that in 316 00:16:57,879 --> 00:17:02,159 a year safely. We're gonna make some and here's the benchmarks. 317 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,079 We're going to take a benchmark at twelve weeks. We're 318 00:17:04,079 --> 00:17:05,680 going to take a Bell's market twenty four and we're 319 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,680 going to see based on your compliance, and we're going 320 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:09,160 to work those compliance things out. 321 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 4: If it's a product, it's like, Hey. 322 00:17:12,559 --> 00:17:14,240 Speaker 5: You wanted the best magnesium in the market, You're gonna 323 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:16,680 take magnesium Breakthrough. Why is it the best? Here's the 324 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:19,359 reasons why. Here's our promise. We're gonna ship it to 325 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,240 you with this medium. Do you like Amazon? Do you 326 00:17:21,319 --> 00:17:23,000 like online? Do you like Facebook? Do you like with 327 00:17:23,039 --> 00:17:25,279 an affiliate such as yourself? Great, we're gonna get that. 328 00:17:25,319 --> 00:17:27,640 We're gonna give you a discount represent for that person 329 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:30,000 because that person is out there promoting and putting their 330 00:17:30,079 --> 00:17:31,599 name on the line and their stuff, because I have 331 00:17:31,599 --> 00:17:34,519 a responsibility to my partner and then when that product 332 00:17:34,559 --> 00:17:35,839 gets to them, do they know how to take it 333 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:38,599 and it gets in a time and fashion and number 334 00:17:38,839 --> 00:17:44,359 four of that, if any part of that goes wrong, 335 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:47,920 I'm responsible to that, and so therefore I give my 336 00:17:48,039 --> 00:17:51,319 customer their money back. And in this case they have 337 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:55,680 to say, I have to give the title back that 338 00:17:55,759 --> 00:17:59,640 I was entrusted with because I've failed to deliver and 339 00:17:59,799 --> 00:18:02,079 I owe it to this. I owe it to the 340 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:06,079 position that I'm in and the position of service that 341 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:10,039 I have been given and entrusted and have the opportunity for. 342 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:12,599 I've failed in it, and so therefore I need to 343 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:14,480 give that back to you because I failed in it. 344 00:18:14,519 --> 00:18:16,680 And that's why we have a one hundred percent money 345 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:21,039 back guarantee. So my business is no different than that institution. 346 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,079 It's just a way bigger institution. 347 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:25,759 Speaker 4: When you're talking about the United States of America and 348 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:29,759 hundreds of years and presidency and that the protection this 349 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:31,920 is monumentally bigger. 350 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 6: But I think it's that size in that volume and 351 00:18:35,759 --> 00:18:38,799 that distortion that's made them lose track of the one 352 00:18:38,839 --> 00:18:43,279 person that matters, which is the American citizen, and the 353 00:18:43,319 --> 00:18:46,799 American citizen has entrusted these. 354 00:18:46,559 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 7: People and these institutions to operate in an integris format 355 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:57,359 to deliver the services, the guidance, and to properly spend 356 00:18:57,799 --> 00:19:01,359 the money that they execate from them. And there's all indications, 357 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,559 independent of which political side that you have, that we 358 00:19:04,599 --> 00:19:10,720 have a tyrannical, bureaucratic state that has impaired the delivery 359 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:16,000 of value to the American citizen, the American taxpayer, plain 360 00:19:16,039 --> 00:19:16,720 and simple. 361 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: And wait light heart for president dude, I wish you 362 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,759 were a Canadian. Well, nothing wrong with being Canadian. I 363 00:19:21,799 --> 00:19:22,440 love Canada. 364 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:26,839 Speaker 3: But that's so so well said. And see that would 365 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:27,839 be a very hard thing to do. 366 00:19:28,079 --> 00:19:31,599 Speaker 1: To resign your position as the boss be a very 367 00:19:31,599 --> 00:19:33,640 hard thing to do. So I want to transfer in 368 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:35,440 to the discussion about what is the hard thing about 369 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:39,960 doing hard things. In a second, corruption follows money. The 370 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:41,839 love of money is the root of all evil. The 371 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,920 love of money. Now, my friend Zach Abraham, the chief 372 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:48,799 investments are capital management. He doesn't love money, He stewards it. 373 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:51,599 What he loves is managing risk for people. What he 374 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:56,599 loves is seeing people enter into retirement with a successful plan. 375 00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:00,599 And Zach has a unique way of the describing what 376 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:04,119 a successful retirement means. It's not what some other people 377 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,960 would do. Other people will show you pictures of beach 378 00:20:07,079 --> 00:20:10,480 vacations and two million dollar RVs and multiple homes, and 379 00:20:10,839 --> 00:20:13,400 maybe that's what you want. What is it what you 380 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:18,720 could afford? Zach engages in risk management by actively managing 381 00:20:18,799 --> 00:20:22,559 every single portfolio, which can reduce risk and volatility. And 382 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,279 he will look at your accounts. They'll look at your 383 00:20:25,319 --> 00:20:27,920 equity and your home, your investment accounts, any sort of 384 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:31,039 outstanding debts you have, and he will tell you how 385 00:20:31,079 --> 00:20:33,160 exposed you are to risk and how near you are 386 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:38,119 to successful retirement. And here's how Zach defines success in retirement, 387 00:20:38,599 --> 00:20:42,839 knowing exactly how much money you will have every month 388 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,359 for the rest of your life. And he'll look at 389 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:49,319 these portfolios for free, no obligation. Just call him at 390 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,519 eight sixty six seven to seven nine Risk. That's eight 391 00:20:52,599 --> 00:20:55,200 sixty six seven seven nine Risk, or go to Know 392 00:20:55,319 --> 00:20:58,480 your Risk radio dot com and he'll make that happen 393 00:20:58,519 --> 00:20:58,799 for you. 394 00:20:59,359 --> 00:20:59,519 Speaker 4: Well. 395 00:20:59,519 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: We Managements and Investment Advisor representative of Truck Financial LLC 396 00:21:03,039 --> 00:21:07,119 and SEC registered investment advisor Investments involve risk and are 397 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:10,079 not guaranteed past performance doesn't care intery future results. 398 00:21:10,319 --> 00:21:17,359 Speaker 3: Truk twenty four Dash three seven eight Wade. You heard me. 399 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:19,839 Speaker 1: Talk about this thing that my coach did to me. 400 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:22,359 And she's not a sy op person, she's not a 401 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,480 head gamer. But she did this on purpose to give 402 00:21:25,519 --> 00:21:28,440 me a task that mathematically and we've worked together for 403 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,400 four years. She knows my capability, she knows my work capacity. 404 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,279 She knew there's no chance you're getting to eight rounds 405 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:37,400 when she did that to me. She was looking for something. 406 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,079 Is Todd gonna crack? Is You're going to realize, my gosh, 407 00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,720 I'm going to fail? So why even put in the effort? 408 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,680 And what she said she was pleased by was no, 409 00:21:44,799 --> 00:21:47,920 you sped up, you poured more into it knowing you 410 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,720 weren't going to get eight rounds. That's what I was 411 00:21:49,759 --> 00:21:52,519 looking for because in seal fit, you're going to fail. Todd, 412 00:21:52,559 --> 00:21:54,920 you are going to fail. So I think one of 413 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,799 the things that hard things are doing, hard things weighed 414 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,880 is to recognize that you're going to fail. You've done 415 00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:02,359 a ton of hard things, being a world champ, bodybuilder, 416 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:04,640 building this company, being willing to step down. 417 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:06,799 Speaker 3: As the boss. What do you think is the real 418 00:22:06,839 --> 00:22:08,640 hard thing about doing hard things? 419 00:22:10,279 --> 00:22:14,319 Speaker 4: I think it's to be honest with yourself. 420 00:22:17,039 --> 00:22:19,839 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're scaring me because I'm getting afraid and 421 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,119 seal fit and I'm starting to be honest with myself. 422 00:22:22,519 --> 00:22:27,279 Speaker 5: Yeah, I think you know the first I think if 423 00:22:27,279 --> 00:22:30,559 there is another Commandmtage thou shalt not kid thyself? 424 00:22:34,559 --> 00:22:38,400 Speaker 3: I love that, right? 425 00:22:39,559 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 4: And what does that mean? 426 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:49,039 Speaker 5: You See, everybody has a voice in their head, and 427 00:22:49,079 --> 00:22:53,200 that voice maybe over calibrating to the negative or over 428 00:22:53,319 --> 00:22:57,839 calibrating to the positive, and in different areas, and very 429 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:03,400 seldom is it direct leap an accurate representation of reality. 430 00:23:04,319 --> 00:23:07,839 And only when you get outside of your comfort zone, 431 00:23:08,319 --> 00:23:12,680 which is a requirement of excellence, because an excellence, you 432 00:23:12,799 --> 00:23:15,720 are letting go of what your past self is or 433 00:23:15,759 --> 00:23:18,920 what's comfortable for you now to embrace what could could 434 00:23:19,079 --> 00:23:21,680 you be your potential. But you don't know what your 435 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,400 potential is. You don't know what your top end is, 436 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,960 you don't know what your super self could possibly be. 437 00:23:28,599 --> 00:23:32,240 So in pursuit of that, whether you're driven by a 438 00:23:32,319 --> 00:23:36,160 negative voice or a positive voice, the accuracy isn't there. 439 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:41,680 So you need some sort of external benchmark to determine 440 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,559 where you really are at. So, whether that is delivering 441 00:23:44,559 --> 00:23:48,119 a product on time to a customer or a client, 442 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:52,359 whether that is achieving a new level of fitness, going 443 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,799 in a fitness contest or running a marathon or doing 444 00:23:54,839 --> 00:23:58,079 seal Fit or any of the difficult things, or having 445 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,440 and maintaining a good relationship with your wife. Think that 446 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,799 everything's okay and I'm doing a great job, and then 447 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,680 you know, you go to a therapist and she starts 448 00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,279 bringing up a bunch of things that you had no 449 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,200 idea about and you you thought you. 450 00:24:08,079 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 4: Were nailing it. 451 00:24:09,079 --> 00:24:11,839 Speaker 5: Yeah, and and and and so the distortion between your 452 00:24:11,839 --> 00:24:14,440 perception of what you're doing and her experience is different. 453 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:23,559 So this confrontation with external reality versus your internal representation 454 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,400 of it is the process of excellence. And the first 455 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:29,440 time or two that you hit this, or even the 456 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:35,599 first multiple times, it's it's impactful in the fact that 457 00:24:37,039 --> 00:24:39,720 it can be you. 458 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 4: Can kind of take away from your confidence a little bit. 459 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 5: It's like, well, wait a minute, the world isn't exactly 460 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,880 the way that I'm representing it in my self talk 461 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,039 or my representation. I'm not as good as I think 462 00:24:50,079 --> 00:24:52,519 I am. I'm not as cool as I think I am. 463 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,359 I'm not as fit as I think I am. I'm 464 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:59,519 not as successful or wealthy, or confident or well like? 465 00:24:59,599 --> 00:25:02,559 Are all all of those stories that we're trying to 466 00:25:02,599 --> 00:25:06,799 bolster or hide from in dealing with it. And it's 467 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,759 very you know what is the biggest fear in public 468 00:25:11,519 --> 00:25:12,440 in people's lives? 469 00:25:13,079 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 4: Speaking in public? Now? 470 00:25:15,519 --> 00:25:18,559 Speaker 5: We all have a voice in our head that's ourselves talking, 471 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,079 but in public, if speaking in a public room with 472 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,200 a bunch of people where they could actually not be 473 00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,279 concordant with what you're saying in your head, why are 474 00:25:29,279 --> 00:25:31,599 people scared of that? Because people don't want to expose 475 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:35,079 themselves to that situation because they might feel that it's 476 00:25:35,079 --> 00:25:39,640 too crushing. It's too crushing. And some people will go 477 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,400 into a situation like that. They'll do their first competition, 478 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,720 they'll they'll get in their first marriage and go through 479 00:25:44,759 --> 00:25:48,400 a divorce, or they'll they'll fail at a competition, or 480 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,680 they'll start a business and fail, or they're go into 481 00:25:50,759 --> 00:25:53,559 a university and get ripped up in their first thing. 482 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:59,039 They go into that aspirational aspect and at some point 483 00:25:59,319 --> 00:26:03,400 they they get a conflict with that self representation now. 484 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:10,599 Opportunity and danger are written in the kaishu script in 485 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,000 Chinese and Japanese. 486 00:26:14,079 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 4: Writing. 487 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 5: So the dangerous aspect is to face oneself and your 488 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:27,720 less than representation of what you could be is dangerous 489 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,000 for the psyche and the stamp. Why okay, life is 490 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:34,359 not what I think it is? The opportunity is is okay, Well, 491 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:40,240 here's where I'm at. Maybe if I continue further, I 492 00:26:40,279 --> 00:26:43,119 can be a better version of myself because the only 493 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:47,759 person you're really competing against yourself is the person you 494 00:26:47,799 --> 00:26:52,599 were yesterday, and if you continually confined little tiny games 495 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,519 within that, you'll be successful. The other thing is is 496 00:26:57,599 --> 00:27:02,400 most people never go all into anything right because they're 497 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:06,640 scared that if they go all in and it's not enough, 498 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,039 that somehow they're not good enough, they're not successful enough, 499 00:27:10,039 --> 00:27:13,519 they're not cool enough, they're not attractive enough, they're not 500 00:27:13,599 --> 00:27:18,599 rich enough, whatever. So therefore they rationalize out why they 501 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:22,640 shouldn't do it, or why they that's dumb or that's stupid, 502 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,880 or why would I do that or anyone else that 503 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:29,480 does that. They'll direct a condemnitive narrative around that, or 504 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,000 they're selfish, or they're not. 505 00:27:31,039 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 4: Cool or they think they're all that, or they. 506 00:27:33,039 --> 00:27:36,599 Speaker 5: Generate this whole projection around that, but really it's a 507 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:41,039 self protection mechanism because guess what, it's better to stay 508 00:27:41,079 --> 00:27:45,960 safe and secure in delusion than to be out there 509 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,039 and exposed in reality. 510 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 3: That's beautiful. That is just beautiful. 511 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,559 Speaker 1: I want to make sure that we grab that and 512 00:27:54,839 --> 00:27:59,079 push that through all the socials. That's a beautiful, beautiful statement. 513 00:27:59,319 --> 00:28:02,400 And this, like this measuring stick, Mike, my current thing 514 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,359 will be seal fit and my expectation of myself is 515 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:09,000 to thrive, right, because if I go down there and 516 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:12,519 say I'm going to survive, well, that's like aiming for okay, 517 00:28:13,559 --> 00:28:16,200 and I want to thrive. My measuring stick for this 518 00:28:16,279 --> 00:28:18,160 are these series of things I've been doing. A twelve 519 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,039 hour workout, a sixteen hour workout, a twenty four hour workout. 520 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:21,839 Speaker 3: But here's the deal. 521 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,759 Speaker 1: Wait, is that when I do this, I program it 522 00:28:23,799 --> 00:28:25,680 on my own. Well, those are things I'm innately going 523 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,119 to put limits of myself. When I invite my friends 524 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,279 in and have them kindly show up at three o'clock 525 00:28:31,279 --> 00:28:34,960 in the morning and I am toast and they're brand new, 526 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,960 fresh out of bed, with coffee and pancakes and they 527 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:39,640 show up and say, here's what we're going to do. 528 00:28:40,359 --> 00:28:42,039 Speaker 3: This is the next hour and a half of your life. 529 00:28:42,759 --> 00:28:45,559 Speaker 1: All of a sudden, that dynamic changes, and I'm confronted 530 00:28:45,599 --> 00:28:48,200 now with having to pace with another person. We're going 531 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:49,839 to run a five k, You're going to pace me, 532 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,680 You're going to stick with me, You're going to wear 533 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,039 a kit. I'm not going to wear a kit. My 534 00:28:55,119 --> 00:28:57,039 run is going to be easier, you's going to be harder. 535 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,160 And that sort of mind game you could call it, 536 00:29:00,799 --> 00:29:02,559 is very very functional because they know what's being done 537 00:29:02,559 --> 00:29:06,000 out of love and very helpful. But that measuring stick 538 00:29:06,079 --> 00:29:09,079 I don't think happens consistently enough in people's lives. Like 539 00:29:09,079 --> 00:29:11,400 you talked about a husband and wife. I did a 540 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:16,119 show once on marriage. KPIs key performance indicators. The fruit 541 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:19,160 of the spirit on one access the biblical definition of love. 542 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:22,119 On the other, access do I feel around people the 543 00:29:22,119 --> 00:29:28,960 fruit of the spirit patients, kindness, joy, temperance, self control, kindness, charity. 544 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:32,039 And then on the bottom, do I have then the 545 00:29:32,119 --> 00:29:35,880 characteristics of biblical love? Am I seeking to serve not 546 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,759 be served? Am I not boastful, proud or angry? And 547 00:29:40,799 --> 00:29:43,000 if you take a confluence of those things and map 548 00:29:43,039 --> 00:29:45,920 that on a chart and talk with one another, how 549 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,160 are we on these KPIs. Now you're getting some sort 550 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,079 of measure between one another. You add a third party 551 00:29:51,119 --> 00:29:54,039 to that, like a therapist. Then you have someone else 552 00:29:54,039 --> 00:29:58,359 saying I don't know that you're exactly rated that way. 553 00:29:59,079 --> 00:30:01,799 There are people who have special needs kids and this 554 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:05,799 happens that they have to adjust their expectation for their kids, 555 00:30:05,839 --> 00:30:08,759 and this is really hard for parents. Parents say, well, 556 00:30:08,759 --> 00:30:10,519 my kid's going to be he's going to go to 557 00:30:10,519 --> 00:30:12,680 my college and he's going to pursue my profession. And 558 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,599 when they find out the kids have are non neurotypical, 559 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:17,119 a lot of times for parents it can be oh 560 00:30:17,119 --> 00:30:19,759 my gosh, and it's a difficult thing. 561 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,079 Speaker 3: To adjust expectations. 562 00:30:21,519 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 1: Doesn't mean that you stop loving, you stop pushing, stop believing, 563 00:30:25,079 --> 00:30:27,480 or parents of kids have special needs for them to 564 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:32,799 understand that Alan has it really tough. He's effectively nonverbal, 565 00:30:33,079 --> 00:30:36,839 he has at eighteen operations. He's only fourteen years old. 566 00:30:37,119 --> 00:30:38,119 Speaker 4: But he works. 567 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,799 Speaker 1: He invents soap. He works at the company in quality control. 568 00:30:42,119 --> 00:30:45,640 His brother Ian is impacted by autism. He works, He 569 00:30:45,799 --> 00:30:51,079 contributes Amy who got late on set autism. She's thriving, 570 00:30:51,319 --> 00:30:53,559 helping with social media, et cetera. She was told she's 571 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:58,039 hirable and the soap is of pristine quality. There's no 572 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:01,680 way John would put his name on a soap that sucked. 573 00:31:02,119 --> 00:31:04,839 So they researched a family. They found them in the Midwest. 574 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:09,759 They are three generations into the soap crafting world. That's 575 00:31:09,799 --> 00:31:12,880 what that's all they do. They took on the fragrances 576 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,559 that Alan thought of, that came from special memories for him. 577 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,079 Speaker 3: They create those soaps. They're all natural, they're made in. 578 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,799 Speaker 1: America to give this to families with kids with special needs. 579 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,599 Partake of the younger kids. It's a side of hope, 580 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,480 and every time they wash their bodies they can remember that. Yep, 581 00:31:27,599 --> 00:31:30,319 our kids too can work. Our kids can contribute. What 582 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,599 the word saying is not true. So go to alansaps 583 00:31:32,599 --> 00:31:36,440 dot com slash todd. That's alansaps dot com slash todd. 584 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,960 From a Christian perspective, we need to understand something the Bible, 585 00:31:43,039 --> 00:31:45,839 the Holy Bible told us, and this is paraphrasing, things 586 00:31:45,839 --> 00:31:48,279 are gonna get whack. That's not exactly how the Lord 587 00:31:48,319 --> 00:31:50,359 Jesus said it. But look we can read good's going 588 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,039 to be called evil. Evil's going to be good. Men 589 00:31:52,039 --> 00:31:55,079 are gonna, you know, depart solid teachings and go after 590 00:31:55,119 --> 00:31:57,759 the false teachers who give them what their itching ears 591 00:31:57,799 --> 00:32:00,359 want to know. That goes back to that self awaren thing. 592 00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:02,640 And also having this measure for me going back to 593 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,200 the Bible. Is this biblical? Are these good things or not? 594 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,839 Speaker 3: And I agree with you on these protocols. 595 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,079 Speaker 1: In what I have done the like twenty four hours, 596 00:32:11,079 --> 00:32:12,680 sixteen ho or twelve hour work is you know what's 597 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:13,400 the first to give up? 598 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 3: It's not my body, it's my mind. 599 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,079 Speaker 1: Correct And I found myself from the first twelve hour 600 00:32:18,119 --> 00:32:22,960 workout at about hour nine, I realized my neurological system is. 601 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:24,839 Speaker 4: Wigged. 602 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,519 Speaker 1: I fell asleep swimming and I thank god I was 603 00:32:28,559 --> 00:32:30,599 at a four foot deep pool so I didn't drowned. 604 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:33,599 So what I want to close off with on this 605 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,599 with you've been so kind with your time. I want you, 606 00:32:37,359 --> 00:32:39,359 if you would be so kind, is to help me 607 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,400 visualize a moment that's coming for me and help me. 608 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,200 Given the success you've had as a competitive athlete, I 609 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:48,920 want you to help me visualize something in just a 610 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,680 second and we'll close off with you because I want 611 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,839 everybody to hear you prep us for the moment. The 612 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,000 moment could be asking this person to marry you. The 613 00:32:58,039 --> 00:33:01,000 moment could be quitting a job. The moment could be 614 00:33:01,039 --> 00:33:03,799 asking for a job. The moment could be having a 615 00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:07,400 very tough conversation with your kid. There are going to 616 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:08,079 be these moments. 617 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,000 Speaker 3: So this as a preface, I want to ask you to. 618 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:11,279 Speaker 1: Do that. 619 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 3: I'm having this morning. This would be. 620 00:33:16,359 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, let's see twelfth twenty four. This is my 621 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:25,079 Alex is laughing by producer Alex. This is my thirtieth ounce, 622 00:33:25,119 --> 00:33:28,319 now thirty second ounce of bone Frog coffee this morning. 623 00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:32,559 Speaker 3: This happens to be what do we have downstairs? Goltlocker? 624 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 1: Oh so the goltlocker is a great, great story from 625 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:39,680 bone Frog Coffee. The goltlocker is a place where enlisted 626 00:33:39,759 --> 00:33:42,880 officers in the Navy can go and the big wigs 627 00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,559 they can't even come in without knocking. It's a great, great, 628 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:50,079 great tradition. And this is a light roast, French roast, 629 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:53,640 light but incredibly rich. It took three years to develop this. 630 00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,440 That's at Bonefrog Coffee dot com. Slash tad get tempercent 631 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,680 off all the products there, everything comes labeled God Country Team. 632 00:34:00,039 --> 00:34:03,000 Speaker 3: Now in this hand is a pretend? Is it sniffer? 633 00:34:03,079 --> 00:34:05,319 Speaker 1: What do you all wine people drink? What's the fancy 634 00:34:05,359 --> 00:34:08,280 wine things called like wine glass? 635 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 3: I don't know. 636 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,920 Speaker 1: It's a fancy wine glass in this hand, a fake 637 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:12,199 one because I don't drink wine. 638 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,639 Speaker 3: But if it did drink wine, it would have bone. 639 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,079 Speaker 1: Frog cellars and I would go and I'd swish it around, 640 00:34:17,079 --> 00:34:18,239 and that's called legs. 641 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 3: Does it have legs? 642 00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: I learned this from my friends who are wine snobs, 643 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,159 wine wine experts. It has legs, and then I would 644 00:34:24,159 --> 00:34:27,960 test the bouquete like up my beak. You can do 645 00:34:28,079 --> 00:34:29,960 that with coffee too. You could also do that with 646 00:34:30,039 --> 00:34:32,039 root beer. You can do that with a blowy sandwich. 647 00:34:32,039 --> 00:34:33,360 I don't know why people do it with wine, but 648 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:33,719 they do it. 649 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:34,320 Speaker 3: That's what you do. 650 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:37,199 Speaker 1: Then you take a little bit of it and you 651 00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:38,679 drink it. You put it in your mouth, but then 652 00:34:38,679 --> 00:34:41,119 you open your mouth and your nose and you breathe 653 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:45,800 fuck through as you're testing the wine. I think you 654 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,440 do that a little bit more aerodype form, a little 655 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:49,400 bit more genteel. 656 00:34:50,599 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 4: See. 657 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,559 Speaker 1: I don't drink wine, but I turn to my friends 658 00:34:52,599 --> 00:34:55,559 who are wine experts, and they tried bone Frog cellars 659 00:34:55,599 --> 00:34:59,280 and were deeply impressed. They had the twenty fifteen Mayor 660 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,599 Low and those are the two. I don't know if 661 00:35:01,599 --> 00:35:04,760 to say flavors or blends. I don't know types of wine. 662 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,719 My daughter tried it. She is not yet legally supposed 663 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:11,840 to drink, but hey, it's our house. Assue me, but 664 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,800 I guess you could. She loved it, Suitor her boyfriend, 665 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,880 my wife occasion has wine with dinner. She really enjoyed it. 666 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 3: So try it. 667 00:35:18,639 --> 00:35:21,920 Speaker 1: You go to Bonefrogsellers dot com slash todd. Ten percent 668 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,000 of proceeds go to the Navy Seal Foundation because the founder, 669 00:35:25,199 --> 00:35:29,039 Tim Krukshank, look at that retired Navy sealed Bonefrogsellers dot 670 00:35:29,079 --> 00:35:35,880 com slash todd, so Wade Lightheart by Optimizers and a 671 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,280 friend of the show. Let me set this stage and 672 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,760 this should apply to everybody. It could be you walking 673 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,440 in to talk to the boss about a race. It 674 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,760 could be you sending the family down to say we're moving. 675 00:35:45,159 --> 00:35:47,119 It could be going to a loved one and saying, hey, 676 00:35:47,159 --> 00:35:49,599 I did read the medical reports you are dying. I mean, 677 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:53,079 these things happen it could be a conversation with someone 678 00:35:53,119 --> 00:35:55,159 you've known, and hey, you know what, I've ever thought 679 00:35:55,159 --> 00:35:57,239 about being more than friends, and it could be all 680 00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,880 these things. Here's my situation. I want to have your help. 681 00:36:00,599 --> 00:36:03,239 I will be in I think it's called Tahano, California. 682 00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:05,559 There's no doubt I'm not gonna get to be sleep 683 00:36:05,599 --> 00:36:07,679 before this event. I'm not going to kid myself. You said, 684 00:36:07,679 --> 00:36:10,000 don't live in delusion. I'm going to be nervous the 685 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:10,800 whole stinking night. 686 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 3: I'm gonna get it. 687 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,199 Speaker 1: At four am, I'm gonna take my mushroom breakthrough. I'm 688 00:36:15,199 --> 00:36:17,920 gonna have my caffeine, I'm gonna have my supplements. I'm 689 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,239 going to get onto a campus with most guys twenty 690 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,559 two to twenty four years of age in the Navy 691 00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:25,880 intending to be Navy seals. At six am, they're gonna 692 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,000 put us into a courtyard and this session is going 693 00:36:29,079 --> 00:36:31,719 to begin. You know what freaks me out the most 694 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:36,320 walking into the parking lot, literally parking the rental car 695 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,400 or taking an uber because I'm not allowed to drive 696 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,400 away out to be an uber walking into the parking lot, 697 00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,280 and you know what really freaks him out, Wade is 698 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:45,760 all these young guys looking and going, oh, look at 699 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,320 the old dude, Look at the guy who thinks he's 700 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,320 going to get this done. And then it's that moment 701 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,440 where Mark Divine, the head coach, starts us out and 702 00:36:55,559 --> 00:36:58,039 I know that the first eight hours are about getting. 703 00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,920 Speaker 3: The people who are easy drops to drop. 704 00:37:00,559 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 1: I know it, I get it, and yet still in 705 00:37:03,519 --> 00:37:06,320 my gut and I'm trying to transfer it into excitement. Waight, 706 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,039 I'm trying to do that thing that neural linguistic programming 707 00:37:09,039 --> 00:37:09,920 to make it excitement. 708 00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:11,760 Speaker 3: Help me with this. 709 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,920 Speaker 1: You have had to walk on stages and pose against 710 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:19,719 the world's greatest all natural bodybuilders. Just talk me through 711 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,480 that moment. Prep me for this. 712 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 4: Well. 713 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 5: I think the first step to go into in any 714 00:37:26,679 --> 00:37:31,000 event that you haven't done before is number one to 715 00:37:31,079 --> 00:37:36,480 do the preparation beforehand so you're well prepared. In other words, 716 00:37:36,639 --> 00:37:39,679 you've done the training, you've probably got some sort of 717 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,679 expert to kind of bring you up to speed. So 718 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:44,960 don't think that you should go like I think the 719 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,360 dumbest thing that you could do is to go in 720 00:37:47,519 --> 00:37:50,239 blind and say, yeah, let's just wagness and go for it. 721 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,920 Because what happens is when you get exposed. You can't 722 00:37:55,079 --> 00:37:58,480 lean back on all of those experiential trains, the days, 723 00:37:58,559 --> 00:38:01,559 the hours in the gym, the sessions with your coach, 724 00:38:01,639 --> 00:38:04,360 the preparation that you've done, whether that's training or lifting 725 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,840 or you know, So every time I went into a 726 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,440 competition and you know, you're standing on stage in front 727 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,639 of the most critical of it at all, you know, 728 00:38:12,039 --> 00:38:14,239 crowd you could possibly have with bright lights that are 729 00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,719 designed to show every single flag by your body. It's 730 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:21,159 the sport of bodybuilding. It's the crazy story. And there's 731 00:38:21,199 --> 00:38:24,119 no money in it either. It's not like if I, 732 00:38:24,199 --> 00:38:26,599 you know, you're an okay baseball player, you're a millionaire, 733 00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,440 you're an okay, you're a great bodybuilder, you're still broke. 734 00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:33,039 So it's but subjecting that I can go back to 735 00:38:33,079 --> 00:38:36,960 my very first time where I hadn't had that experience, 736 00:38:37,519 --> 00:38:40,960 and I remember that feeling coming up, that anxiety as 737 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,360 you be walking into the parking lot that they'll you know, 738 00:38:43,599 --> 00:38:46,440 it's just like standing backstage and seeing these other bodybuilders 739 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,400 and I'm going out on stage to lights from my 740 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,159 first posing and the crowd and my friends are going 741 00:38:51,199 --> 00:38:53,360 to be there, and I could get and I remember 742 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:59,880 that feeling came up, and the key is don't fight it, huh. 743 00:39:00,119 --> 00:39:01,519 Speaker 4: Allow allow it. 744 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 5: To come up, allow it to rise up within it, 745 00:39:06,079 --> 00:39:11,039 don't suppress it, don't try to fight it, don't say think, 746 00:39:11,159 --> 00:39:16,599 don't even think that it shouldn't be there. This is 747 00:39:16,639 --> 00:39:22,679 a heightened sense of awareness. This is your preparation and 748 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:24,280 the opportunity to step forth. 749 00:39:25,079 --> 00:39:26,320 Speaker 4: And if we go back. 750 00:39:26,079 --> 00:39:31,079 Speaker 5: In time, we have ten thousand generations within our DNA 751 00:39:31,199 --> 00:39:36,480 that had to step into uncertainty, to death, to starvation, 752 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:42,519 to mayhem, to travels to unknown parts of the world 753 00:39:42,559 --> 00:39:46,920 without compasses, GPS's internet, to get on a boat. We're 754 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,679 the product of all it. So you can leverage the 755 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:53,119 thousands of generations before you that is in your DNA. 756 00:39:53,199 --> 00:39:57,679 And said, I honor the ancestors of the past, and 757 00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,239 I honor the ancestors to in the future, and I 758 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:05,199 will step forth to pass this genetic lineage on into 759 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:07,920 the future and to honor that from the past, and 760 00:40:08,079 --> 00:40:13,679 walk into the fear, walk into it and surrender into it, 761 00:40:14,039 --> 00:40:17,000 because that is what the Lord's prayer says. Yay, though 762 00:40:17,039 --> 00:40:18,960 I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, 763 00:40:19,079 --> 00:40:22,239 I fear no evil because thy rod and thy staff 764 00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,840 comfort me. It is the suffering that comforts me, because 765 00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,039 if I'm in pain, if I am suffering, and if 766 00:40:28,079 --> 00:40:32,800 i am nervous, i am I'm still here. I'm still here. 767 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:37,000 Embrace it, walk through it. Don't think that you shouldn't 768 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:41,000 feel that. Everybody feels it. But eventually what separates the 769 00:40:41,119 --> 00:40:48,119 people who thrive in those environments is they recognize that 770 00:40:48,159 --> 00:40:51,920 those feelings in those senses are normal. And I can 771 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,639 recall a particular interview I think where Jocko Willing captured 772 00:40:55,679 --> 00:40:57,840 this and he talked about they'd be going on a 773 00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,480 mission and they have the new guy with them, and 774 00:41:00,679 --> 00:41:03,800 just to give you an explanation on an on a 775 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:08,480 Navy seal mission, there's a voute, a thousand personal checks 776 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,960 that you have to do, everything from tying like taping 777 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:14,719 your boot laces, making sure you're like as a professional, 778 00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,760 that all those guys are counting, because one screw up 779 00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:17,639 and people are dead. 780 00:41:18,119 --> 00:41:19,440 Speaker 4: I thought that this is the. 781 00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:24,639 Speaker 5: Highest level of consequence to a tiny thing being at 782 00:41:24,679 --> 00:41:27,360 a place. Then there's about one thousand things that are 783 00:41:27,599 --> 00:41:30,719 mission specific that they have to check, and they're going 784 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:34,239 into you know, where they could lose their lives in 785 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,719 that moment or the lives of their friends. And what 786 00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,119 he said was, you see the new guy and he's 787 00:41:39,159 --> 00:41:41,079 nervous and everything, and the guys and the guys like 788 00:41:41,119 --> 00:41:43,559 you know, they're trying to suppress the nervousness around the guys. 789 00:41:43,559 --> 00:41:47,719 Speaker 4: And he says to him, he says, like, hey, it's 790 00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:53,119 normal to feel nervous. Eventually, you just get used to 791 00:41:53,159 --> 00:41:56,079 it and know that it's part of the deal. Love it, 792 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:57,400 love it. 793 00:41:59,079 --> 00:42:02,599 Speaker 5: And eventually, what I've come to learn in my own 794 00:42:02,639 --> 00:42:06,079 experience by exposing myself to those situations over and over 795 00:42:06,199 --> 00:42:09,639 and over and over again, I don't even call it fear. 796 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,320 I call it a heightened sense of awareness in that 797 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:17,880 adrenaline in that that anxiety is me, is it? That's 798 00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:21,519 my body preparing to be at its absolute best to rise. 799 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:22,280 Speaker 4: Up to the challenge. 800 00:42:22,519 --> 00:42:27,559 Speaker 5: And I've failed many times, but I never failed in 801 00:42:27,599 --> 00:42:29,880 a way that I cowered out. I did my best 802 00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,280 in that moment, and I gave my best. And sometimes 803 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:36,360 it's not enough. But that's okay because I found my 804 00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,280 limit today, love it, and from that I can build 805 00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:40,679 from it. 806 00:42:41,159 --> 00:42:45,199 Speaker 1: That's beautiful, so beautiful, Thank you for that. I will 807 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,320 contain that I will welcome the fear. I will feel 808 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:49,280 my body being. 809 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:52,039 Speaker 3: Hyper aware, hyper aware. 810 00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,199 Speaker 1: And in the moment, and I love that. I love 811 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,920 that you use the psalms remind us about you know 812 00:42:57,079 --> 00:42:58,760 they do. I walk through the valley of the shadow 813 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:00,719 of death. I'm unlikely to die seal fit and it 814 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,679 might happen, but I'm unlikely. That's bad business, usually to 815 00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:06,639 kill customers something like that. Yea, brother, Thank you so 816 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:11,519 much for sharing your hearts, your view on current events. 817 00:43:11,639 --> 00:43:13,360 Not a lot of bosses will do that. Thank you 818 00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:16,960 for showing accountability and continue to speak into lives, particularly 819 00:43:17,039 --> 00:43:18,840 young men. We are called to do that as men 820 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,239 of a certain age. And once again I extend the 821 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:23,400 imitation for you to get up here. We would love, love, 822 00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,159 love to have you in Idaho. Thank you for the 823 00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,679 meg breakthrough dot com slash toddfree site, for building that 824 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,400 for us and for this podcast family, and just want 825 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:33,719 to wish you to go with God's good grace. 826 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:34,400 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 827 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:35,960 Speaker 4: Wade, thanks so much. 828 00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 3: This is the Todd Herman Show. 829 00:43:38,079 --> 00:43:41,760 Speaker 1: Please go, be well, be strong, be kind, and please 830 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,000 make every effort to walk in the light of Christ.