WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.520 --> 00:00:04.360 Can I ask you a question? Why you don't ever 2 00:00:04.360 --> 00:00:07.240 play with my nipples? I got nipples too. It's my 3 00:00:07.280 --> 00:00:10.519 turn to get tied up knocking headcuts though I got PTSD. 4 00:00:11.560 --> 00:00:16.239 Welcome the hardest soft where men speak. So hopefully somebody 5 00:00:16.239 --> 00:00:19.679 will understand when you say freaky? What's what's freaky? 6 00:00:19.719 --> 00:00:19.760 What? 7 00:00:20.039 --> 00:00:22.280 What do you mean by freaky? If I do this, 8 00:00:22.519 --> 00:00:52.359 you're not gonna tell your friends? Right? Or for women? 9 00:00:53.399 --> 00:00:55.439 Vibrator was it was like or something. 10 00:00:56.799 --> 00:00:57.920 It was just like a fruit or. 11 00:00:57.840 --> 00:01:00.200 A vegetable, and is it dries it out. 12 00:01:00.240 --> 00:01:03.159 And put angry bees in there? I mean they are mad. 13 00:01:03.280 --> 00:01:04.239 These bees is hungry. 14 00:01:04.319 --> 00:01:05.439 They want to get out this thing. 15 00:01:05.760 --> 00:01:07.519 And then she just puts this big old thing there. 16 00:01:07.439 --> 00:01:10.359 And they're just going crazy. 17 00:01:10.439 --> 00:01:11.640 And I was like, if you are a. 18 00:01:11.640 --> 00:01:14.040 Woman who creates the first vibrator out of and you're 19 00:01:14.040 --> 00:01:14.640 not scared. 20 00:01:14.439 --> 00:01:15.319 One one, it's gonna come out. 21 00:01:15.359 --> 00:01:17.480 And that tells me though, that men didn't know what 22 00:01:17.480 --> 00:01:18.719 they was doing, bad Danny, that. 23 00:01:18.680 --> 00:01:21.040 She had to figure out how to please, She had. 24 00:01:20.959 --> 00:01:26.599 To figure all this power listen hold on first. 25 00:01:26.719 --> 00:01:29.680 I wanted to know that, huh, I said, And we're. 26 00:01:29.599 --> 00:01:34.000 Here, yeah, but how horny do y'all be. I know 27 00:01:34.079 --> 00:01:35.000 y'all talked about us. 28 00:01:35.040 --> 00:01:35.840 This is ancient. 29 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:38.799 Don't put me your dad. Yeah, nothing to do with 30 00:01:38.840 --> 00:01:41.840 no bees. I'm allergic blow up and die if. 31 00:01:41.760 --> 00:01:45.840 You put a bee. You don't want to think anybody 32 00:01:46.239 --> 00:01:48.280 it's stung by being in the vagina. 33 00:01:48.719 --> 00:01:50.120 Well, yeah, it's gonna blow up. 34 00:01:51.120 --> 00:01:51.799 Going out this show. 35 00:01:51.879 --> 00:01:54.799 But who's like, who does that? How horney y'all got 36 00:01:54.879 --> 00:01:56.000 to be to put a bunch of bees. 37 00:01:56.079 --> 00:01:58.120 It's like the hot dogs and the ones when they 38 00:01:58.200 --> 00:01:59.879 when they freeze the hot dogs and put the hot 39 00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:02.200 was in the Huh, you ain't never. 40 00:02:02.040 --> 00:02:02.480 Heard that word? 41 00:02:02.519 --> 00:02:03.040 You did what? 42 00:02:03.319 --> 00:02:05.959 I didn't do that did what? That's what they have done. 43 00:02:06.239 --> 00:02:11.120 They put hot dogs or sausages and freezer freezer and no, 44 00:02:11.360 --> 00:02:12.800 you know what, No, you ain't never heard that. 45 00:02:13.000 --> 00:02:15.960 Just what is it? Why did it need to be cold? 46 00:02:16.120 --> 00:02:19.439 But that's that's a that's a thing, right, the temperature. 47 00:02:19.879 --> 00:02:23.199 See you said I could see that. That means you 48 00:02:23.199 --> 00:02:25.120 put your glass do door in the freezer, don't you? 49 00:02:25.120 --> 00:02:25.240 No? 50 00:02:25.319 --> 00:02:27.919 I don't. Why not? I don't have a glass deal dough, 51 00:02:27.960 --> 00:02:29.319 I have a plastic one. 52 00:02:29.319 --> 00:02:30.400 You gotta get a glass one. 53 00:02:30.639 --> 00:02:35.400 No, No, we were talking in the discord. M and 54 00:02:35.439 --> 00:02:41.240 the ladies were saying, the difference between the strap and 55 00:02:41.280 --> 00:02:45.159 the man is the warmth. Yes, that you can feel 56 00:02:45.199 --> 00:02:47.319 the warmth of the man through his penis. 57 00:02:47.400 --> 00:02:47.719 Yes. 58 00:02:48.199 --> 00:02:50.560 So why would you need a cold one? Why would 59 00:02:50.560 --> 00:02:52.159 you specifically? Why am I put it in the microwave? 60 00:02:52.280 --> 00:02:54.879 Because that's the temperature. Some people like temperature play where 61 00:02:54.919 --> 00:02:55.599 they don't want it? 62 00:02:55.719 --> 00:02:57.680 Who wants cold, Dick? I don't want no cold? 63 00:02:58.240 --> 00:03:01.680 I mean if they if they, you know, people are 64 00:03:01.680 --> 00:03:05.520 we like you know what's that? I can't remember? But 65 00:03:05.759 --> 00:03:07.000 they like the body. 66 00:03:08.360 --> 00:03:08.719 Bodies. 67 00:03:11.240 --> 00:03:13.280 I want to say it wrong, I don't say. 68 00:03:13.879 --> 00:03:16.479 I don't really think that's about it being cold. I 69 00:03:16.479 --> 00:03:17.879 think that's just about you being But. 70 00:03:17.840 --> 00:03:22.039 There is that's a temperature. One is one too God? 71 00:03:22.400 --> 00:03:25.879 Can we can we admit that some kings you should shame? 72 00:03:26.319 --> 00:03:28.159 No, for sure that that's what you said. 73 00:03:28.199 --> 00:03:30.120 We shamed something on Temple of be for you, it's 74 00:03:30.159 --> 00:03:31.879 called is this like us like we have a whole 75 00:03:31.879 --> 00:03:33.360 segment with some of. 76 00:03:33.360 --> 00:03:35.039 The kinks that deserve to be shamed. 77 00:03:37.719 --> 00:03:41.879 Well, you just named one. 78 00:03:42.520 --> 00:03:46.360 That's that's not that's not it's not. I'm not giving 79 00:03:46.360 --> 00:03:48.039 space for that. Because where do you even find a 80 00:03:48.080 --> 00:03:51.639 dead body? How did you figure that out? 81 00:03:51.159 --> 00:03:52.960 You know what? 82 00:03:53.159 --> 00:03:55.479 So there's a plaque, don't know where it's at, but 83 00:03:55.560 --> 00:03:59.159 there is this plaque of this Amazonian woman who under 84 00:03:59.199 --> 00:04:02.159 her plaque her under the plank. It talks about how 85 00:04:02.240 --> 00:04:06.680 Achilles he killed her, but he found her body so irresistible. 86 00:04:06.800 --> 00:04:11.039 He seduced her dead body. So like, yes, they do that. 87 00:04:11.599 --> 00:04:14.960 You got words mean things. 88 00:04:13.800 --> 00:04:15.280 Exactly, That's what I said. I was like, what do 89 00:04:15.360 --> 00:04:16.920 you mean she he seduced her. 90 00:04:18.519 --> 00:04:27.639 Body? Like what did he do? Like did he like 91 00:04:27.800 --> 00:04:31.199 put baby, what did you do. 92 00:04:33.040 --> 00:04:37.600 On a decomposing body? That off? Like what are we 93 00:04:37.680 --> 00:04:38.240 talking about? 94 00:04:39.879 --> 00:04:40.120 Yeah? 95 00:04:40.120 --> 00:04:42.600 He might he probably took his sword to her skin 96 00:04:42.680 --> 00:04:45.199 and grace episode. 97 00:04:48.120 --> 00:04:52.800 The one that feels is yes, absolutely yes, absolutely not. 98 00:04:53.560 --> 00:04:57.600 We're talking about Troy. I don't want exactly. 99 00:04:57.639 --> 00:04:59.079 I don't want cold titties like. 100 00:04:59.079 --> 00:05:01.439 One cold everything to be alive. 101 00:05:01.680 --> 00:05:05.079 I think. I like, I'm not a huge fan of 102 00:05:05.680 --> 00:05:09.480 temperature play unless we're putting the temperature up. You don't 103 00:05:09.519 --> 00:05:11.079 like to be gold. I don't like to be cold. 104 00:05:11.079 --> 00:05:13.560 So I don't know if a glass dil dough would 105 00:05:14.279 --> 00:05:15.160 so ice. 106 00:05:14.959 --> 00:05:17.439 Cubes on it? Like you know, what was it? A 107 00:05:17.439 --> 00:05:20.839 white white man can't jump? Oh, yeah, put the ice 108 00:05:20.879 --> 00:05:22.319 cubes on rosie titties. 109 00:05:22.519 --> 00:05:25.399 Yeah, I remember was that white man can drop or 110 00:05:25.439 --> 00:05:27.720 jungle fever might have been jungle fever. 111 00:05:28.560 --> 00:05:30.639 Yeah, I'd rather wax same. 112 00:05:30.800 --> 00:05:33.240 I rather nice flu coming off. 113 00:05:33.720 --> 00:05:34.519 Shout out to heat. 114 00:05:35.879 --> 00:05:39.720 Hm, who the fuck man? Yo? Shirt? How do you 115 00:05:39.759 --> 00:05:40.160 deal with this? 116 00:05:41.839 --> 00:05:41.920 So? 117 00:05:42.279 --> 00:05:45.079 Okay, we got angry bees in a bag, you got 118 00:05:45.160 --> 00:05:46.399 cold hot dogs. 119 00:05:47.480 --> 00:05:53.160 But we were talking about kings that should be shamed, shamed, 120 00:05:53.560 --> 00:05:56.439 and so what give me some more? Yeah, give us 121 00:05:56.439 --> 00:05:56.879 some more. 122 00:05:57.480 --> 00:06:01.720 I think anything where I think the one that should 123 00:06:01.759 --> 00:06:04.000 be always shame. It's like if people who try to 124 00:06:04.000 --> 00:06:06.560 bring in the kink of really age play where it's 125 00:06:06.639 --> 00:06:10.360 real extreme different in age of who you're attracted to 126 00:06:10.399 --> 00:06:11.399 and all that kind of stuff, I. 127 00:06:11.360 --> 00:06:12.639 Think they pedophilia. 128 00:06:12.759 --> 00:06:14.120 Yeah that should not. 129 00:06:14.240 --> 00:06:16.199 So it's not when you're old and you're acting like 130 00:06:16.199 --> 00:06:16.680 a baby. 131 00:06:16.839 --> 00:06:19.199 No, I mean that's to each its own. If you 132 00:06:19.199 --> 00:06:20.920 you know you want your butt, change your stuff. I 133 00:06:20.959 --> 00:06:22.199 personally have limits. 134 00:06:21.879 --> 00:06:22.399 As not mine. 135 00:06:22.920 --> 00:06:25.319 But if they try to make it, I feel like 136 00:06:25.399 --> 00:06:27.199 they've they've been trying, they've been trying to get into 137 00:06:27.199 --> 00:06:29.879 the LGBTQ. They've been trying to make it a thing 138 00:06:30.240 --> 00:06:33.720 like right now, they're trying to do a thing where they're. 139 00:06:35.120 --> 00:06:37.360 The whole thing of what is it? 140 00:06:37.439 --> 00:06:40.519 The legislation are trying to pass it to where it's 141 00:06:40.839 --> 00:06:41.560 looked at as. 142 00:06:41.480 --> 00:06:44.920 Like a mental illness. I see that, Yeah, I definitely 143 00:06:44.920 --> 00:06:46.959 see that. That's got it's got to be a mental illness. 144 00:06:47.439 --> 00:06:50.480 I think it's a mental choice and a lot of 145 00:06:50.519 --> 00:06:55.639 times people lack if if you feel celebrated or feel 146 00:06:55.639 --> 00:06:58.319 secure in order to do certain things and no one 147 00:06:58.360 --> 00:07:01.360 calls you out, you're gonna keep doing it right like so, 148 00:07:01.399 --> 00:07:03.279 I think it's more of that than a mental illness. 149 00:07:03.279 --> 00:07:05.639 It's easy to hide it behind to a mental illness 150 00:07:05.920 --> 00:07:08.639 because there's choice in their in their actions. For sure, 151 00:07:09.519 --> 00:07:10.720 I'm choosing. 152 00:07:10.639 --> 00:07:13.959 Let's can we get a time stamp on this? Uh taho? 153 00:07:14.079 --> 00:07:17.160 We need to fix your camera because you have no headroom. 154 00:07:17.399 --> 00:07:19.800 I don't know. It's the way that you're sitting. I 155 00:07:19.839 --> 00:07:20.839 don't know where if it's. 156 00:07:22.360 --> 00:07:26.759 Yeah, yeah, because you're getting a little bit more room 157 00:07:26.839 --> 00:07:27.519 so I can do this. 158 00:07:28.279 --> 00:07:30.160 Yeah, let's give him a little bit more to. 159 00:07:30.399 --> 00:07:33.439 Go over there there. You're the person she's talking to. 160 00:07:35.079 --> 00:07:37.800 I don't know how, I don't know how. 161 00:07:37.800 --> 00:07:39.560 To work a little bit more. 162 00:07:40.879 --> 00:07:43.680 Hi, guys, I don't know where the camera is for. 163 00:07:43.680 --> 00:07:45.439 Y'all can see. 164 00:07:46.720 --> 00:07:48.720 We about to say right now it was Doe the 165 00:07:48.800 --> 00:07:53.160 right thing with Rosie provedsed. Okay, thank you you were 166 00:07:53.160 --> 00:07:55.040 in here in hey, Christine, I hang on. 167 00:07:55.319 --> 00:07:59.120 Yeah, okay, perfect, here we go. Period, you did the 168 00:07:59.199 --> 00:07:59.600 right thing. 169 00:08:00.439 --> 00:08:14.839 Hi, you see, Okay. Necophilia, let's say pedophilia is a king. 170 00:08:15.000 --> 00:08:16.560 Let's just say, even though I don't think that's a kink, 171 00:08:16.560 --> 00:08:17.600 I think it's a crime. 172 00:08:18.160 --> 00:08:20.160 A crime. 173 00:08:20.319 --> 00:08:24.360 There's no. 174 00:08:24.360 --> 00:08:29.600 I would challenge you on the illness versus choice because 175 00:08:29.639 --> 00:08:32.200 it seems that the people who do that have to 176 00:08:32.240 --> 00:08:35.200 continue doing it. It's like something in them that is 177 00:08:35.240 --> 00:08:37.519 like they can't avoid. They just keep doing. That's why 178 00:08:37.519 --> 00:08:39.200 I say, then people got to be like I. 179 00:08:39.200 --> 00:08:42.600 Think it's the addiction. They can be addicted to the 180 00:08:42.759 --> 00:08:46.440 adrenaline rush. But to call the choice to deal with 181 00:08:46.440 --> 00:08:48.679 a child a mental illness, I don't want to do 182 00:08:48.759 --> 00:08:51.759 that because that's mucky waters. And then what happens is 183 00:08:52.240 --> 00:08:55.279 then it becomes an excused thing. Yeah, and we continue 184 00:08:55.279 --> 00:08:56.960 to excuse it when it shouldn't be anything. 185 00:08:56.960 --> 00:08:58.360 We excuse it all exactly. 186 00:08:58.639 --> 00:09:01.240 Okay. I respect that it should be looked at as 187 00:09:01.240 --> 00:09:01.559 a crime. 188 00:09:02.120 --> 00:09:02.519 That's it. 189 00:09:02.639 --> 00:09:03.440 So I guess that's. 190 00:09:03.320 --> 00:09:05.320 What I'm trying to think of some more though that 191 00:09:05.399 --> 00:09:09.960 will be like maybe there shouldn't be for us. I 192 00:09:09.960 --> 00:09:11.759 don't shame, shame. 193 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:19.440 It's not pet play. It's having sex with animals. 194 00:09:19.840 --> 00:09:20.840 Dog like, I don't want to. 195 00:09:21.000 --> 00:09:23.039 Well, the reason why I think it's shameful is because 196 00:09:23.759 --> 00:09:27.120 they can't give consent. Yeah, they can't give consent, and 197 00:09:27.159 --> 00:09:31.799 this is just like that's it's not the human experience. 198 00:09:31.840 --> 00:09:34.879 You can just be having sex with chickens and goats. 199 00:09:35.559 --> 00:09:40.480 I don't want to joke on it because I could, 200 00:09:40.919 --> 00:09:42.960 but I'm yes, I'm leaving it alone. 201 00:09:43.919 --> 00:09:47.240 Cock and the cock, she literally said the cock. 202 00:09:47.879 --> 00:09:48.639 That might be a title. 203 00:09:51.360 --> 00:09:53.679 Olanda used to do that cock and the cock. 204 00:09:54.000 --> 00:09:55.679 Well he had another cop. 205 00:09:57.200 --> 00:09:59.759 Because you said the chicken and the dial though. 206 00:09:59.600 --> 00:10:01.600 You know that he would put his dick in. 207 00:10:01.960 --> 00:10:05.720 Oh and then and then yeah, it was like shame. 208 00:10:06.039 --> 00:10:09.240 Diesel makes a deal though, where you can put your 209 00:10:09.240 --> 00:10:12.039 ship in it. Oh and then he would with the 210 00:10:12.080 --> 00:10:13.279 person with his dick. 211 00:10:14.039 --> 00:10:22.320 Double COCKU double double costing. Yeah, it's like a go 212 00:10:22.320 --> 00:10:25.080 go gadget dick, not go go gadget dick. 213 00:10:25.240 --> 00:10:28.120 I don't know, but I don't want to do no 214 00:10:28.200 --> 00:10:30.960 ship like what she enjoys it more. Now you got 215 00:10:30.960 --> 00:10:32.519 now you're in your head. What if she's really like 216 00:10:32.519 --> 00:10:33.200 going and now. 217 00:10:33.080 --> 00:10:34.879 She wants the go go dick every single time. 218 00:10:34.960 --> 00:10:37.000 Yeah, you pull, you pull your real ship out. 219 00:10:37.039 --> 00:10:39.200 She's like, nah, get go dick. 220 00:10:40.559 --> 00:10:44.480 I mean, i'm you. Would that be the same if you, 221 00:10:44.600 --> 00:10:46.320 like if she pulled like your pocket pussy and you 222 00:10:46.679 --> 00:10:48.679 you smashed it and you really enjoyed it more than 223 00:10:48.720 --> 00:10:51.440 you enjoy her head? Is that not the same? 224 00:10:54.039 --> 00:10:56.919 It's it's that's a slippery slope. 225 00:10:56.960 --> 00:10:58.960 Okay, that's it's almost like. 226 00:10:59.360 --> 00:11:02.120 With the vibrant. Okay, A lot of women get off 227 00:11:02.120 --> 00:11:05.120 with the vibrator versus the penetration. So does that mean 228 00:11:05.120 --> 00:11:07.000 that she enjoys the vibrat or more. 229 00:11:07.240 --> 00:11:08.879 Now she just wants her pleasure. I think that it's 230 00:11:08.919 --> 00:11:11.879 about pleasure. Let the pleasure happen whatever however we get off, 231 00:11:11.879 --> 00:11:12.320 we get off. 232 00:11:12.399 --> 00:11:14.440 Well, then I take that back to what you said 233 00:11:14.440 --> 00:11:17.480 about the stroker. Yeah, I like the stroker. That doesn't 234 00:11:17.639 --> 00:11:19.360 I don't want to compare it to your head or 235 00:11:19.360 --> 00:11:20.240 compare it to your. 236 00:11:20.600 --> 00:11:22.759 Don't compare the double cock to. 237 00:11:22.679 --> 00:11:26.320 Your It's the same thing though, Yeah, see that's the thing. Yeah, 238 00:11:26.440 --> 00:11:30.320 Like it's the same, right, it's not a different thing. 239 00:11:30.840 --> 00:11:33.360 You feel, So that would be lube then maybe if 240 00:11:33.720 --> 00:11:36.919 using versus not using loop. I'm just sure, but. 241 00:11:37.480 --> 00:11:40.279 I was using We use gets the butters today, right, 242 00:11:41.120 --> 00:11:45.159 And it's what I will say, ladies. Can y'all stop 243 00:11:45.279 --> 00:11:49.840 dry jerking. Don't dry jerk, well for me, don't. 244 00:11:49.639 --> 00:11:52.960 Dry jerk, y'all. Yes, I like to see it. 245 00:11:53.919 --> 00:11:57.399 Yeah, you gotta see it well, like I like love oiling. 246 00:11:57.519 --> 00:11:59.799 Oh my god, I get it, like I have messed 247 00:11:59.879 --> 00:12:02.320 up one of those swash blankets because I use so 248 00:12:02.440 --> 00:12:04.200 much oil. I just like the oil. 249 00:12:04.919 --> 00:12:07.399 And right, but there be times where the oil is 250 00:12:07.440 --> 00:12:10.720 just not right there. Right, So you're getting toy, you're 251 00:12:10.759 --> 00:12:16.360 watching a movie or something, and y'all just start touching. What, No, 252 00:12:16.399 --> 00:12:17.840 don't spin on my ship no more I do. 253 00:12:18.360 --> 00:12:20.360 Put on my mouth, put it in my mouth real quick? 254 00:12:21.200 --> 00:12:22.279 What okay? 255 00:12:22.519 --> 00:12:29.679 Yeah, give some hand, have it in your mouth. Get 256 00:12:29.720 --> 00:12:33.000 that going. And then when you get that good, you 257 00:12:33.039 --> 00:12:36.360 go real good. And then that's slava guns cooking and 258 00:12:36.480 --> 00:12:39.600 you get real slick. That's when you can go and yeah, exactly, 259 00:12:39.840 --> 00:12:40.639 I already. 260 00:12:40.320 --> 00:12:50.120 Know what this one. So I used to be our 261 00:12:50.279 --> 00:12:54.440 tour manager. She will help us. But she also is 262 00:12:54.519 --> 00:12:57.000 a member of our discord right, this is Madam said. 263 00:12:57.039 --> 00:13:00.720 She started coming to our play parties with her husband, Yes, right, 264 00:13:04.440 --> 00:13:07.080 and then started working with me behind the scenes. She's 265 00:13:07.120 --> 00:13:08.879 an active member of our discord community. 266 00:13:08.919 --> 00:13:27.639 The Navy Navy, I get that. 267 00:13:21.120 --> 00:13:24.919 She said, I don't even know we had gang son. 268 00:13:25.039 --> 00:13:27.440 Yeah, sure, I'm gonna do that. That's when I'm like 269 00:13:27.519 --> 00:13:31.080 that though. If I get involved in something real community, No, 270 00:13:31.200 --> 00:13:33.679 it's just like it's not a sign for y'all's just like, yeah, 271 00:13:33.799 --> 00:13:37.200 shut up, like gang gang energy, like gang gang. 272 00:13:37.519 --> 00:13:39.519 You have to I want to go back. So we 273 00:13:39.519 --> 00:13:42.200 were talking, so I used to hear Madam say, is 274 00:13:42.240 --> 00:13:45.720 some of that some of y'all know her shout out 275 00:13:45.759 --> 00:13:49.279 to my new chair. Look at this snuff snuffle up 276 00:13:49.279 --> 00:13:49.799 a dick. 277 00:13:50.240 --> 00:13:53.879 Snuffle up a dick. Okay, I want to write that 278 00:13:53.919 --> 00:13:54.240 on the bank. 279 00:13:54.279 --> 00:13:59.799 I want to know historically who's more horny men and women? 280 00:14:00.799 --> 00:14:03.320 I think women are, and we just don't share it. 281 00:14:03.519 --> 00:14:04.879 How can we say, how can we prove that? How 282 00:14:04.879 --> 00:14:07.000 can you give me some facts too? 283 00:14:08.720 --> 00:14:08.919 Well? 284 00:14:08.919 --> 00:14:12.480 All I know is that once I hit thirty. After 285 00:14:12.519 --> 00:14:14.080 I hit thirty, things just when. 286 00:14:14.919 --> 00:14:18.000 It's like it's a hormonal it's really we be trying 287 00:14:18.039 --> 00:14:20.320 to hump, like if you think about it, Like I know, 288 00:14:20.759 --> 00:14:23.840 I'm honest with myself. I was the girlfriend who would 289 00:14:23.840 --> 00:14:26.399 sneak you in the back, like, come on, let's touch 290 00:14:26.440 --> 00:14:26.960 it real quick. 291 00:14:27.000 --> 00:14:27.480 You know what I mean. 292 00:14:27.600 --> 00:14:29.759 I'm trying to do a little something real quick, just 293 00:14:29.759 --> 00:14:31.360 because I gotta. I want to feel it. I want 294 00:14:31.399 --> 00:14:34.159 to feel my bean jump. What my bean jump? 295 00:14:35.519 --> 00:14:38.120 No, I want to feel your being jump. 296 00:14:38.399 --> 00:14:41.840 Yeah, that's a really good feeling. It's like a thump 297 00:14:41.960 --> 00:14:45.840 and it's like, oh, especially when you know you're about 298 00:14:45.879 --> 00:14:48.240 to get it, or it's like a it's building up, 299 00:14:48.279 --> 00:14:50.440 and it's like it's. 300 00:14:50.360 --> 00:14:52.759 Basically the equivalent of when y'all did get real hard. 301 00:14:52.799 --> 00:14:55.399 Because I watched my bean get hurt, and I've also 302 00:14:55.480 --> 00:14:57.759 watched stick get hard, and I'm like, look, I got 303 00:14:57.759 --> 00:14:58.399 like a little dick. 304 00:15:01.039 --> 00:15:04.399 You just said that. Look I got a little thing. 305 00:15:05.000 --> 00:15:06.320 That's not something I want. I don't want to I 306 00:15:06.320 --> 00:15:08.639 don't want my girls saying that I'm good. It would 307 00:15:08.679 --> 00:15:10.320 be you can keep to yourself. 308 00:15:10.360 --> 00:15:11.639 I promise you would laughing. 309 00:15:12.000 --> 00:15:13.960 I would laugh, But I want my I want some bussy, right, 310 00:15:14.000 --> 00:15:15.320 I don't want to be thinking about you having a 311 00:15:15.320 --> 00:15:25.639 little disk. Sure you good. So I was saying earlier 312 00:15:25.759 --> 00:15:28.480 that get the Butter's thing is amazing. Shout out to 313 00:15:28.480 --> 00:15:31.480 get the butters. Go into our description. If you have 314 00:15:31.600 --> 00:15:33.960 not tried it. If you have, you ain't feel it. Whatever, fine, 315 00:15:34.080 --> 00:15:35.240 I personally love it. 316 00:15:35.399 --> 00:15:35.919 I love it too. 317 00:15:36.919 --> 00:15:41.960 We use it today. There's something about slippery box. When 318 00:15:41.960 --> 00:15:45.240 you could you start like, for one, dry box ain't 319 00:15:45.440 --> 00:15:49.039 no more than dry dick. Like, yo, don't dry jerker either. 320 00:15:49.279 --> 00:15:51.799 You know what I'm saying. Once that ship yo, once, 321 00:15:51.919 --> 00:15:54.200 like you said, that ship moved up and she got 322 00:15:54.240 --> 00:15:56.759 me and that she goes but you and her ship 323 00:15:56.919 --> 00:16:04.240 going crazy with the Oh oh my god, Jesus Christ. 324 00:16:04.279 --> 00:16:07.840 I love it. I love it well. 325 00:16:09.519 --> 00:16:12.679 I did use get the butters recently. I've started. I 326 00:16:12.919 --> 00:16:18.519 masturbated for the first time in a couple back, and 327 00:16:18.840 --> 00:16:21.759 I've masturbated this past couple of days, and I used 328 00:16:21.759 --> 00:16:25.240 to get the butters. When I tell you that orgasm 329 00:16:25.360 --> 00:16:28.480 was so intense because I haven't done it in so long. 330 00:16:28.960 --> 00:16:30.320 I had to sit there and I was like this, 331 00:16:31.720 --> 00:16:35.039 like like rocking because it was so intense. I was like, oh, 332 00:16:35.080 --> 00:16:38.759 we gotta do this. Again, that's what it is. 333 00:16:38.799 --> 00:16:40.200 It's like start kick starting an engine. 334 00:16:40.279 --> 00:16:42.120 Yeah, still not having sex. 335 00:16:42.159 --> 00:16:46.879 But I told you she's talking. Man, She's like, no, 336 00:16:46.919 --> 00:16:48.440 I'm not doing it. 337 00:16:48.559 --> 00:16:50.440 I'm telling y'all it's really that being. 338 00:16:51.679 --> 00:16:53.360 Let that be the right nigga. 339 00:16:53.919 --> 00:16:56.200 Let the bean jump to myself. 340 00:16:56.480 --> 00:16:58.919 Oh no, I mad. I love making my bean jump 341 00:16:58.960 --> 00:16:59.919 for me. It's my fai. 342 00:17:01.120 --> 00:17:02.840 What's your favorite what's your favorite way to make the 343 00:17:02.879 --> 00:17:06.119 bean jump? It's your favorite form of self pleasure? 344 00:17:10.119 --> 00:17:15.480 Hmmm, Yeah, because it's when I'm in a shower. When 345 00:17:15.519 --> 00:17:18.000 I'm in a shower, I really get in a zone 346 00:17:18.119 --> 00:17:20.599 in there and I'll start washing my body like I go. 347 00:17:20.839 --> 00:17:23.599 I have hand gloves, so it's like a lot of 348 00:17:23.680 --> 00:17:27.319 me touching on me and then I'll do that wash first, 349 00:17:27.359 --> 00:17:29.039 and then I have a wash that I do with 350 00:17:29.119 --> 00:17:32.640 a scented soap that's just my hands, and I always 351 00:17:32.720 --> 00:17:34.680 end up choking myself. And if I choke me, I'm 352 00:17:34.720 --> 00:17:35.160 fucking me. 353 00:17:35.519 --> 00:17:37.319 M Yeah, I love that. 354 00:17:38.359 --> 00:17:39.440 Nah yo, she's the monic. 355 00:17:39.680 --> 00:17:40.440 Yeah, a little bit. 356 00:17:40.519 --> 00:17:42.079 I got a couple. I got quite a few of them. 357 00:17:42.519 --> 00:17:45.599 Thinking of some other ship because you mentioned rubbing yourself 358 00:17:45.640 --> 00:17:48.400 down with the gloves and I just realized, oh shit, 359 00:17:48.640 --> 00:17:49.319 you already know. 360 00:17:49.480 --> 00:17:51.440 Oh damn te doing that on here. 361 00:17:52.000 --> 00:17:56.839 At my birthday party, they had all of these women 362 00:17:57.279 --> 00:18:00.799 jump on me. Right, I'm suspended in the air, and 363 00:18:00.839 --> 00:18:05.079 all of a sudden, as I'm getting head as these 364 00:18:05.119 --> 00:18:08.200 women are touching all on me, kissing me, I feel 365 00:18:08.279 --> 00:18:20.000 this all right, fucking breaking of my skin, and I'm like, yeah. 366 00:18:20.119 --> 00:18:22.880 Somebody was like, hey, I'm look over and these these 367 00:18:22.920 --> 00:18:26.759 fucking gloves with these points on them, and somebody is 368 00:18:26.880 --> 00:18:31.799 just like scratching this ship out, and I think it 369 00:18:31.880 --> 00:18:32.319 was you. 370 00:18:32.519 --> 00:18:34.480 I was on your back. I was on your back 371 00:18:35.000 --> 00:18:37.480 with the vampire. I had the vampire gloves on your back, 372 00:18:38.119 --> 00:18:40.279 and you turned and you looked at me and you said, 373 00:18:40.480 --> 00:18:41.119 who is that? 374 00:18:44.480 --> 00:18:46.640 Why the fuck are you doing that? The people? 375 00:18:46.920 --> 00:18:48.680 And first of all, I tried it on me first 376 00:18:49.319 --> 00:18:49.920 and it was good. 377 00:18:50.039 --> 00:18:53.720 You choke yourself though, I know titties, and it was fine. 378 00:18:54.279 --> 00:18:55.319 I like vampire gloves. 379 00:18:55.319 --> 00:18:56.440 I like them. 380 00:18:56.599 --> 00:18:57.839 I think I want to get myself in here. 381 00:18:57.960 --> 00:18:59.319 Do you know which one I'm talking about? 382 00:18:59.359 --> 00:19:01.319 Yes? Because I have them. Because when you when y'all 383 00:19:01.359 --> 00:19:04.799 had your kings and kicks and kings and links. 384 00:19:06.319 --> 00:19:10.319 Jesus whatever, kings and drinks. 385 00:19:10.640 --> 00:19:13.319 The person one of the rooms. This person was working 386 00:19:13.319 --> 00:19:15.759 with vampire gloves, and I remember feeling it and I 387 00:19:15.839 --> 00:19:17.359 was like, I want those. 388 00:19:19.799 --> 00:19:24.640 It is amazing. It's pins, its pens. 389 00:19:24.759 --> 00:19:26.880 Yes, why would you? 390 00:19:26.960 --> 00:19:27.200 Yes? 391 00:19:27.839 --> 00:19:30.200 Who just uses No? 392 00:19:30.079 --> 00:19:34.039 No, no, no, I've been waiting to defend this right 393 00:19:34.119 --> 00:19:36.440 because it is the thing. This is when you bite 394 00:19:36.440 --> 00:19:38.400 off more than you could chew. So the shame on 395 00:19:38.480 --> 00:19:41.440 you for saying. He said, what we were instructed was 396 00:19:41.799 --> 00:19:44.400 all the toys in here an if you have something, 397 00:19:44.400 --> 00:19:48.039 if you were given something, you can use it on Tahoe. 398 00:19:48.640 --> 00:19:52.079 Every all the ladies come up. Okay, I had the gloves. 399 00:19:52.920 --> 00:19:54.920 They told me I could use it on you. I 400 00:19:54.960 --> 00:19:58.160 thought you were aware that this was happening and that 401 00:19:58.240 --> 00:20:00.799 you had consented to all that would go Do you 402 00:20:00.799 --> 00:20:02.720 know what? Let me go ahead and Amazon right now 403 00:20:02.759 --> 00:20:05.599 and get me if anybody want to give me some 404 00:20:05.680 --> 00:20:07.079 vampire When I was go ahead and do that, you 405 00:20:07.079 --> 00:20:10.440 didn't have it. Yeah, those was somebody. 406 00:20:10.119 --> 00:20:11.000 Else, somebody else's. 407 00:20:11.039 --> 00:20:12.079 Now I wish they were mine. 408 00:20:12.119 --> 00:20:13.640 Oh my gosh, no, that's mine. 409 00:20:13.720 --> 00:20:16.200 What is the sensation that comes with vampire gloves? What? 410 00:20:16.200 --> 00:20:18.720 What are you supposed to be feeling? So? What what 411 00:20:19.000 --> 00:20:23.160 if a person wants that, right, vampire gloves scratching it? 412 00:20:23.200 --> 00:20:23.720 What is that? 413 00:20:24.440 --> 00:20:26.640 I didn't you don't don't go so deep on me. 414 00:20:27.160 --> 00:20:28.000 Don't go deep on me. 415 00:20:28.079 --> 00:20:29.240 But if you if you're. 416 00:20:29.079 --> 00:20:33.640 Hovering over my skin, I like that feeling of just 417 00:20:33.759 --> 00:20:37.880 like the bear touch of something sharp going across me. 418 00:20:38.440 --> 00:20:41.319 But you don't have to like And that's what that's 419 00:20:41.319 --> 00:20:42.119 where I will say. 420 00:20:42.559 --> 00:20:45.240 I have already apologized, and I'll do it again right here. 421 00:20:45.359 --> 00:20:48.599 You know, I'm sorry because I like a little squeeze. 422 00:20:49.359 --> 00:20:51.119 Let me feel it, let me know you there, you 423 00:20:51.160 --> 00:20:52.960 know what I mean. And so I thought he was 424 00:20:52.960 --> 00:20:54.680 like in the squeeze, and what was happening was I 425 00:20:54.720 --> 00:20:57.799 was excited. Everybody was doing stuff to him and he 426 00:20:57.920 --> 00:21:04.920 was moving and I'm like, yeah, I didn't know my 427 00:21:04.920 --> 00:21:08.279 own strength. So my baby, my babe, I said, my bad. 428 00:21:08.680 --> 00:21:11.200 I said my bad, Like two years ago, you did, 429 00:21:11.480 --> 00:21:11.839 I did. 430 00:21:12.880 --> 00:21:14.799 But I just remembered, if you, if you're the one 431 00:21:14.839 --> 00:21:17.519 choking yourself in the goddamn shower, you're also the one 432 00:21:17.559 --> 00:21:18.799 that's raking somebody with something. 433 00:21:18.880 --> 00:21:21.240 I didn't raak you though I didn't do the raking. 434 00:21:21.359 --> 00:21:25.240 That wasn't me, because no, I put I just touched 435 00:21:25.240 --> 00:21:28.720 your back like this and touched a little bit and 436 00:21:28.759 --> 00:21:31.559 then I moved because you said, who is that? And 437 00:21:31.599 --> 00:21:37.519 I said that sounds about Somebody said, Courtney, what's your 438 00:21:37.519 --> 00:21:39.160 favorite form of self pleasure? 439 00:21:42.119 --> 00:21:47.240 I would have to say if we go in, like, 440 00:21:48.279 --> 00:21:49.559 what's always going to get me there? 441 00:21:50.519 --> 00:21:53.240 My hand always, always, my hand is always going to 442 00:21:53.279 --> 00:21:55.480 get me really yes, Oh my gosh. 443 00:21:55.279 --> 00:21:56.480 I know for sure that my hand is going to 444 00:21:56.519 --> 00:21:58.240 get there. Vibrad is gonna take a little bit longer 445 00:21:58.240 --> 00:22:01.680 for me, but my hands. Oh yeah, what's the movement? 446 00:22:01.759 --> 00:22:03.640 What's the hand movement for me? 447 00:22:03.759 --> 00:22:04.359 It's this. 448 00:22:06.359 --> 00:22:08.720 Wait so down and up so it's like pushing it in, 449 00:22:08.839 --> 00:22:11.200 pushing the head in, pushing like that. 450 00:22:11.319 --> 00:22:15.160 Yeah, mineus. I get in between the clip and massage 451 00:22:15.200 --> 00:22:19.119 here first like that, and then my little button is 452 00:22:19.200 --> 00:22:22.240 right underneath yourself. I want to make my I go right, 453 00:22:22.519 --> 00:22:25.200 it's not even right inside, it's like right outside and 454 00:22:25.200 --> 00:22:26.960 it's like this, I do that. 455 00:22:27.680 --> 00:22:29.839 See I don't even penetrate myself when I do know, 456 00:22:30.680 --> 00:22:33.839 I just is this not a. 457 00:22:33.799 --> 00:22:35.519 Thing, because this is what you see in where you 458 00:22:35.599 --> 00:22:36.759 like flap it side. 459 00:22:36.960 --> 00:22:39.000 I mean for me to eat just own not me 460 00:22:39.400 --> 00:22:41.480 fricker friget no, we don't need to scratch the record. 461 00:22:42.039 --> 00:22:46.480 I don't need the record. Literally and literally you'll feel 462 00:22:46.640 --> 00:22:50.119 the like the waters will flow as you move. You 463 00:22:50.279 --> 00:22:52.960 get wet and it's like a little button and you 464 00:22:53.039 --> 00:22:55.119 hear it and you feel it and you just keep 465 00:22:55.200 --> 00:22:57.880 rolling and then you come. Because I don't like women 466 00:22:57.880 --> 00:23:02.759 go oh, like, first of all, I'm getting dry, you 467 00:23:02.759 --> 00:23:06.319 know for me, I know the woman, yes, but for 468 00:23:06.359 --> 00:23:13.000 me if I'm squirting and you that's like, oh, that 469 00:23:13.200 --> 00:23:15.599 adds like a like a sensations. 470 00:23:16.880 --> 00:23:19.119 So how would you if I'm in the moment right 471 00:23:19.400 --> 00:23:22.240 say you was playing with somebody and they're doing it wrong. 472 00:23:22.720 --> 00:23:24.400 How do you tell them what they're doing is not 473 00:23:24.480 --> 00:23:26.720 working without ruining the moon? 474 00:23:27.799 --> 00:23:29.480 How did I know this was going to be a conversation? 475 00:23:29.599 --> 00:23:30.200 I just want to go. 476 00:23:34.400 --> 00:23:38.000 I wouldn't say anything per se to them. I would 477 00:23:38.119 --> 00:23:42.039 kind of like guide myself. I do that, like I'll 478 00:23:42.079 --> 00:23:48.079 guide myself to you and then hold head nicely right. 479 00:23:47.799 --> 00:23:49.519 There like that. 480 00:23:49.920 --> 00:23:50.960 But what if I'm flapping? 481 00:23:51.079 --> 00:23:55.400 Oh, if you flapping, then I hold your hand and 482 00:23:55.440 --> 00:23:59.119 then I'll guide it like I would nicely guide you 483 00:23:59.200 --> 00:24:01.599 to please me. But then we have a conversation, Yes 484 00:24:01.680 --> 00:24:06.200 we did, and I said, then it after that happened, 485 00:24:06.240 --> 00:24:10.440 after multiple times of attempting, you took it far. And 486 00:24:10.519 --> 00:24:12.359 I said, at some point you have to sit down 487 00:24:12.359 --> 00:24:15.599 and have a conversation. Let's talk, okay, because if I've 488 00:24:15.599 --> 00:24:17.799 done all of that and you still don't get it, bro, 489 00:24:18.200 --> 00:24:20.400 we don't need to do anything right And I stared 490 00:24:20.440 --> 00:24:22.200 doing that at some point we will have to have 491 00:24:22.240 --> 00:24:23.240 a conversation if you can. 492 00:24:23.240 --> 00:24:27.880 And I said, let's talk. Is that that's hard, that's harsh. 493 00:24:29.519 --> 00:24:31.160 We need to have she did. She didn't say let's talk. 494 00:24:31.160 --> 00:24:32.559 She said we need to have a conversation. 495 00:24:33.359 --> 00:24:41.400 That right there, scar Let me this after if I've 496 00:24:41.480 --> 00:24:44.920 already tried to like quote you, we've already talked, We've 497 00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:48.160 already like, we have to have a serious conversation at 498 00:24:48.200 --> 00:24:51.319 this point because now you aren't considering my pleasure. 499 00:24:51.359 --> 00:24:52.000 That's okay. 500 00:24:52.079 --> 00:24:56.000 Yeah, Right, So a woman comes up to you and 501 00:24:56.079 --> 00:24:59.119 tells you we need to have a conversation. 502 00:25:00.279 --> 00:25:01.079 I'm sitting bricks. 503 00:25:01.119 --> 00:25:05.400 Immediately, you're Aquarius, you want to ship breaks regardless. 504 00:25:05.519 --> 00:25:08.960 That's hate. But as a man, I'm sitting bricks. I 505 00:25:09.000 --> 00:25:12.279 think any man anytime we need to talk, have a conversation, 506 00:25:12.480 --> 00:25:15.240 or or hit me when you get any version of 507 00:25:15.279 --> 00:25:16.839 that anxiety. 508 00:25:16.920 --> 00:25:19.039 Well, let's talk about your trauma then, because I don't 509 00:25:19.039 --> 00:25:21.240 have time, right, because what else am I supposed to say? 510 00:25:21.279 --> 00:25:23.359 That's what I was gonna ask, like, what you how 511 00:25:23.400 --> 00:25:24.079 do you guys want. 512 00:25:23.920 --> 00:25:26.200 To hear that, especially if we're talking about if we 513 00:25:26.279 --> 00:25:28.920 if you want your partner to be direct with you. 514 00:25:29.160 --> 00:25:31.319 What else am I supposed to say outside of we 515 00:25:31.359 --> 00:25:34.799 need to have a conversation, because yes, it's that serious. 516 00:25:36.079 --> 00:25:39.039 I personally, and I think I said this in the chat. 517 00:25:39.119 --> 00:25:41.279 That's why I'm bringing the firm first. 518 00:25:42.200 --> 00:25:43.240 Hey, when you do. 519 00:25:43.519 --> 00:25:45.640 Know I've done that, we're saying, let. 520 00:25:45.519 --> 00:25:48.319 Me get off, y'all been sitting here, women in the. 521 00:25:50.039 --> 00:25:52.000 Women in there, going. 522 00:25:51.839 --> 00:25:52.240 Through there. 523 00:25:53.640 --> 00:25:57.279 A firm first, yo, I ain't gonna lie when you 524 00:25:57.359 --> 00:26:00.799 do this. That ship made me feel so good. I 525 00:26:00.839 --> 00:26:03.920 thought I was gonna bus I thought I was gonna bust, 526 00:26:04.039 --> 00:26:06.640 But when you started going fast, I lost it. If 527 00:26:06.680 --> 00:26:09.160 you would have just kept it right there, I would 528 00:26:09.160 --> 00:26:13.720 have fucking lost it. Now I know without you making 529 00:26:13.759 --> 00:26:16.519 me feel like I did something wrong, You're giving me 530 00:26:16.559 --> 00:26:19.359 something to chase. Now you're saying I was almost there. 531 00:26:20.400 --> 00:26:22.759 Oh shit, let's do it again. I'm gonna do it 532 00:26:22.839 --> 00:26:25.039 just how you just said it, because you're giving. Now 533 00:26:25.319 --> 00:26:27.519 I'm gonna what I need from it, and you're gonna 534 00:26:27.519 --> 00:26:31.799 get what you need from it. It's less condescending. But 535 00:26:32.200 --> 00:26:35.400 need to have a talk. We need to have a conversation, 536 00:26:35.759 --> 00:26:36.519 we need to sit down. 537 00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:40.720 But see, that's the thing. Remember because in that conversation 538 00:26:40.839 --> 00:26:44.519 I said to you, then all of those things already happened. 539 00:26:45.079 --> 00:26:48.599 So if all of that happened, I've affirmed you. I 540 00:26:48.839 --> 00:26:53.359 have tried to show you. I've even I had one nigga. 541 00:26:53.440 --> 00:26:54.799 I ate a pussy for them. 542 00:26:55.799 --> 00:26:56.720 This is how you ate it. 543 00:26:58.440 --> 00:27:01.440 What I had. 544 00:27:06.119 --> 00:27:07.559 He was like a friend of mine. We were kind 545 00:27:07.559 --> 00:27:09.759 of smash chicks, but he didn't really he was you know, 546 00:27:09.920 --> 00:27:11.759 and I had to eat eat you know what I mean. 547 00:27:11.839 --> 00:27:13.000 I didn't have to, but she was. 548 00:27:14.119 --> 00:27:14.720 You wanted to. 549 00:27:14.839 --> 00:27:17.039 That's what I happened, like to show him, like you know, 550 00:27:17.720 --> 00:27:20.599 this is this is I said, this is how I 551 00:27:20.759 --> 00:27:23.039 like it. He hit that one, caught the drift. He 552 00:27:23.119 --> 00:27:25.920 did that one caught the drift. He did it right 553 00:27:25.960 --> 00:27:26.480 the next day. 554 00:27:26.680 --> 00:27:27.480 Yo, I'm weak. 555 00:27:27.680 --> 00:27:30.599 I'm not gonna lie. Learning how to eat pussy is 556 00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:33.519 difficult because you're in there I can't see the movement 557 00:27:33.559 --> 00:27:35.799 of your mouth when you're in there. Somebody actually has 558 00:27:35.839 --> 00:27:37.759 to be like, peel it back, you see I'm pouring that. 559 00:27:37.799 --> 00:27:40.200 Like they kind of opened the ass so that you 560 00:27:40.240 --> 00:27:42.720 can see what's going on. I kind of need to 561 00:27:42.839 --> 00:27:44.920 know what's going on in the box because a lot 562 00:27:44.920 --> 00:27:52.920 of times people get the pussy and they be like. 563 00:27:50.839 --> 00:27:54.200 I can't see what you're doing. Yeah, but that's not 564 00:27:54.240 --> 00:27:57.119 what that that's that's been doing it. 565 00:27:57.000 --> 00:28:00.559 Though a little it was not in the there's no 566 00:28:00.680 --> 00:28:03.079 dust in the case. It's in the case, So that's true. 567 00:28:04.079 --> 00:28:07.759 You're gonna eat, He's gonna eat. He said, I hate it. 568 00:28:08.480 --> 00:28:10.839 Yeah, but you can't really what was going on. 569 00:28:12.119 --> 00:28:14.960 The part that you're doing right that you can't there's 570 00:28:15.000 --> 00:28:17.000 so much to eat and eating it. 571 00:28:17.160 --> 00:28:27.960 So don't really like anyway, I don't I don't eat. No, 572 00:28:28.000 --> 00:28:30.920 it's not it's not the act of him eating. 573 00:28:30.960 --> 00:28:33.680 The fact you don't know what nobody's pussy has been. 574 00:28:33.759 --> 00:28:35.079 To be honest, when you put it on there, he 575 00:28:35.160 --> 00:28:36.119 could be dust on that too. 576 00:28:37.000 --> 00:28:42.400 You're talking about what you're talking about you before you 577 00:28:42.400 --> 00:28:42.720 eat it? 578 00:28:42.759 --> 00:28:43.160 Go ahead? 579 00:28:44.640 --> 00:28:48.880 Sexuality wise, do you what did you label it yourself. 580 00:28:48.480 --> 00:28:51.440 As I used to say I was just each and 581 00:28:51.559 --> 00:28:54.599 I'm not anything. Then I started to like, you know, 582 00:28:54.680 --> 00:28:57.279 we're older, so our generation, it wasn't really any terms. 583 00:28:57.279 --> 00:28:58.559 You was either gay or you were straight, you know 584 00:28:58.640 --> 00:29:03.039 what I'm saying. So once bisexual bisexual came I was like, Okay, 585 00:29:03.079 --> 00:29:06.319 I think I'm bisexual. I feel that, and then the 586 00:29:06.359 --> 00:29:08.759 expression of pain came out and I'm like, that's what 587 00:29:08.799 --> 00:29:11.759 I am. I'm more paying sexual. I'm more so attracted 588 00:29:11.799 --> 00:29:15.680 to energy and humans that have an energy that I'm like, okay, 589 00:29:15.680 --> 00:29:18.400 I good vibe with you more than their sex or 590 00:29:18.400 --> 00:29:19.920 their sexuality or how they present. 591 00:29:22.359 --> 00:29:28.759 I think I'm heterosexual. I'm pretty sure, but I'm not 592 00:29:28.880 --> 00:29:36.240 sure about the monogamous versus. I'm not sure on the line. 593 00:29:36.359 --> 00:29:41.039 I ran into this lady that said this, let me see. 594 00:29:41.200 --> 00:29:44.720 Relationship for fifteen years and we still regularly have to 595 00:29:44.799 --> 00:29:48.799 check in regarding transparency. And when I say transparency, I 596 00:29:48.839 --> 00:29:50.960 mean how much do I tell my husband about what 597 00:29:51.000 --> 00:29:52.119 I've done with other people? 598 00:29:52.240 --> 00:29:53.319 And how much does he tell me. 599 00:29:53.559 --> 00:29:55.359 We have specific rules that we follow, we have a 600 00:29:55.359 --> 00:29:57.440 saying called privacy but no secrets, but it's still not 601 00:29:57.480 --> 00:29:59.880 the same as how much do I tell you based 602 00:29:59.880 --> 00:30:01.920 on on what I've experienced and how you are feeling. 603 00:30:02.279 --> 00:30:03.960 I recently went on a date with someone. My husband 604 00:30:04.039 --> 00:30:07.039 knew about that date before it happened, and afterwards I. 605 00:30:06.960 --> 00:30:09.039 Was like, Oh my gosh, I want to tell you everything. 606 00:30:09.279 --> 00:30:10.960 This is what I ate and this is what happened. 607 00:30:11.000 --> 00:30:13.799 It is all I felt, and oh my god. He said, 608 00:30:14.000 --> 00:30:17.160 I don't want to know the details, he said, Danielle, 609 00:30:17.200 --> 00:30:19.680 I'm really happy that you had a good time. I 610 00:30:19.759 --> 00:30:21.960 love that we give each other this freedom and this 611 00:30:22.000 --> 00:30:24.720 permission in our marriage, but right now, for the place 612 00:30:24.720 --> 00:30:26.319 that I'm in, I don't. 613 00:30:26.160 --> 00:30:27.119 Want to know the details. 614 00:30:27.640 --> 00:30:29.839 And that can be hard for me because I often 615 00:30:29.880 --> 00:30:32.680 feel that if I'm not providing all of the information, 616 00:30:32.759 --> 00:30:36.039 then I'm hiding something from my husband. Right now, he 617 00:30:36.160 --> 00:30:38.000 wants to know that I'm safe and happy, but he 618 00:30:38.000 --> 00:30:40.400 doesn't want to know much more than that. Our levels 619 00:30:40.400 --> 00:30:43.440 of transparency what we are and are not communicating is 620 00:30:43.519 --> 00:30:46.319 constantly changing based on what our wants and needs are 621 00:30:46.400 --> 00:30:48.680 and what we're both going through, and it's something we 622 00:30:48.759 --> 00:30:51.079 have to consistently check in on, and it's something I 623 00:30:51.079 --> 00:30:54.200 recommend to any couple, regardless of their relationship style. 624 00:30:56.000 --> 00:30:58.079 That was good, That's a great point. 625 00:30:59.160 --> 00:31:01.359 You have to content check them, and that's. 626 00:31:01.160 --> 00:31:01.640 The real thing. 627 00:31:01.720 --> 00:31:06.400 You're in a relationship. You're in a relationship. You are I'm. 628 00:31:06.240 --> 00:31:08.680 Probably, but Sherman is monogamous. 629 00:31:08.799 --> 00:31:09.839 Sherman is monogamous. 630 00:31:10.119 --> 00:31:11.079 Why did I know that? 631 00:31:11.279 --> 00:31:12.160 How did I find? I? 632 00:31:13.440 --> 00:31:13.680 Only? 633 00:31:15.519 --> 00:31:15.680 You know? 634 00:31:15.759 --> 00:31:16.400 He really is? 635 00:31:17.039 --> 00:31:18.839 I only do a relationships. 636 00:31:18.240 --> 00:31:27.759 With Why are you sure? Why? I just want to know? 637 00:31:27.880 --> 00:31:29.119 No, no, and I don't. 638 00:31:29.200 --> 00:31:29.480 I'm not. 639 00:31:29.640 --> 00:31:30.920 I don't do relationships with men. 640 00:31:31.359 --> 00:31:34.799 One want to. 641 00:31:35.079 --> 00:31:36.960 I just have to respect that one of your boundaries. 642 00:31:37.559 --> 00:31:40.240 No, even if it wasn't a boundary, like if we 643 00:31:40.279 --> 00:31:42.440 because we talk about swinging all the time and like 644 00:31:42.599 --> 00:31:45.359 those exploring those things. I don't want to have to 645 00:31:45.799 --> 00:31:49.000 work on and mitigate a relationship with another relationship with 646 00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:52.240 a man. I am okay with the one relationship with 647 00:31:52.279 --> 00:31:54.759 the man that I have And I only really I 648 00:31:54.799 --> 00:31:57.400 don't desire to have must a whole bunch of different 649 00:31:57.440 --> 00:32:01.400 partners in those ways. But my relationships with women and 650 00:32:01.480 --> 00:32:03.480 I like, I'm like, I feel like it's one in 651 00:32:03.519 --> 00:32:06.079 one cause that's the parts of me, right, Like there's 652 00:32:06.160 --> 00:32:07.519 that's that's always how. 653 00:32:07.440 --> 00:32:09.759 I felt, you mean one and one with me like. 654 00:32:09.680 --> 00:32:13.039 My my my husband and hopefully one day I'll have 655 00:32:13.039 --> 00:32:13.400 a wife. 656 00:32:13.599 --> 00:32:19.000 M that sounds right. Now, How would he? Is he 657 00:32:19.279 --> 00:32:21.880 just with you and you're just with your wife? Isn't 658 00:32:21.920 --> 00:32:26.160 a three way things? Have you at women to? So 659 00:32:26.240 --> 00:32:26.960 are you monogo? 660 00:32:27.119 --> 00:32:27.160 So? 661 00:32:27.240 --> 00:32:29.240 How are you? How is he monogamous? If y'all still playing? 662 00:32:29.279 --> 00:32:31.880 He's not in a relationship with them, right, because that 663 00:32:31.880 --> 00:32:34.599 that part is different. Having sex with somebody doesn't mean 664 00:32:34.640 --> 00:32:36.319 you're in a relationship with them. He may have had 665 00:32:36.640 --> 00:32:40.119 experiences with a partner of mine or someone like that 666 00:32:40.279 --> 00:32:42.000 or whatever have you, But that doesn't mean that there 667 00:32:42.039 --> 00:32:44.160 is a connection between them the way that there's a 668 00:32:44.160 --> 00:32:46.119 connection between me and them. 669 00:32:45.680 --> 00:32:50.319 M Okay, somebody said that that's like monogamoush that's fine. 670 00:32:50.839 --> 00:32:52.039 I mean, it's like, what is that? 671 00:32:52.240 --> 00:32:52.599 Uh? 672 00:32:52.720 --> 00:32:54.480 Cause I thought it was solo poly but I recently 673 00:32:54.480 --> 00:32:56.799 found out solo poly is when it's a person who 674 00:32:57.359 --> 00:33:00.799 is not in any kind of relationship and they are 675 00:33:00.920 --> 00:33:06.880 just polly. So I can't remember the term, but yeah. 676 00:33:05.599 --> 00:33:07.960 If he were to come with you, come to you now, 677 00:33:08.680 --> 00:33:11.359 because I remember this conversation we had, remember the point 678 00:33:11.400 --> 00:33:16.759 star who was saying she does six scenes a week 679 00:33:17.200 --> 00:33:20.039 or six scenes a year or something like that. And 680 00:33:20.119 --> 00:33:22.160 she went it was in a relationship, and the guy 681 00:33:22.319 --> 00:33:26.119 was like, well, I should be allowed to have six 682 00:33:26.680 --> 00:33:29.839 hall passes a year since you're doing your thing. And 683 00:33:29.880 --> 00:33:38.519 she's like, well, no, it's work, and he's like frozen 684 00:33:38.960 --> 00:33:44.000 going up and out of that. My question is if 685 00:33:44.000 --> 00:33:47.480 he were to say, like, yo, you play, I'm open 686 00:33:47.519 --> 00:33:50.759 to you playing. Would you be open to me having 687 00:33:50.759 --> 00:33:54.519 a partner as well away from you? Would you be 688 00:33:54.559 --> 00:33:55.039 open to that? 689 00:33:55.440 --> 00:33:59.920 I actually bring those conversations down. What I inderstiate those conversations. 690 00:34:00.079 --> 00:34:00.559 I'm the heart. 691 00:34:00.680 --> 00:34:03.640 I'm the hard conversation person for sure. 692 00:34:04.200 --> 00:34:09.920 And he says no, you say no but twice, Bro, 693 00:34:10.800 --> 00:34:12.800 How does that go? Why do you want that? Why 694 00:34:12.800 --> 00:34:13.960 do you bring those conversations in? 695 00:34:14.199 --> 00:34:16.760 It's not that I want that. What I'm doing is 696 00:34:16.760 --> 00:34:19.719 being transparent. I'm always because I know that this is 697 00:34:19.760 --> 00:34:23.760 something that I didn't always practice, right, I didn't always 698 00:34:23.800 --> 00:34:26.400 have the safety to practice. It depends on who you're 699 00:34:26.440 --> 00:34:28.599 with the connection with that person. So being in a 700 00:34:28.639 --> 00:34:31.719 relationship and being in my second marriage where I can 701 00:34:31.760 --> 00:34:35.920 be all of who I am unapologetically right. So it's 702 00:34:35.960 --> 00:34:38.320 a lot of checking in of Hey, I'm discovering this 703 00:34:38.400 --> 00:34:40.559 about myself. Where are you at Are you still in 704 00:34:40.599 --> 00:34:42.199 the same place. I want to check in. I want 705 00:34:42.199 --> 00:34:43.639 to make sure you're good, you know what I mean. 706 00:34:43.920 --> 00:34:46.400 It's this thing where you never want to grow away 707 00:34:46.400 --> 00:34:48.519 from your partner and doing the work to always make 708 00:34:48.519 --> 00:34:49.480 sure you grow with your partner. 709 00:34:49.519 --> 00:34:51.719 I think that is so important, even if you're not 710 00:34:51.960 --> 00:34:56.760 in nothing, just checking in in general with your partner 711 00:34:56.800 --> 00:34:59.559 and making sure there's a level of transparency there or 712 00:34:59.559 --> 00:35:02.079 that you guys, it's still in the same like orbit 713 00:35:02.679 --> 00:35:03.280 we do. 714 00:35:03.159 --> 00:35:05.239 That, Like I have a check in called we do 715 00:35:05.280 --> 00:35:08.360 how's your triple h? How's your head? Heart? Hormones? When 716 00:35:08.400 --> 00:35:10.480 I was in a nonprofit organization, we would do a 717 00:35:10.559 --> 00:35:13.119 check in at the top of every meeting where we 718 00:35:13.159 --> 00:35:15.960 would do how's your head and heart? So in my relationship, 719 00:35:16.000 --> 00:35:17.480 I really loved it. So I was like, I want 720 00:35:17.519 --> 00:35:19.320 to add that to my relationship. But I want to 721 00:35:19.320 --> 00:35:22.559 add hormones in there, because sometimes we can lose each 722 00:35:22.599 --> 00:35:25.039 other in that marriage and in that long term when 723 00:35:25.039 --> 00:35:27.639 you've been together, Like how's your head, how's your heart? 724 00:35:27.639 --> 00:35:28.800 But how's your hormones? 725 00:35:28.800 --> 00:35:29.599 Are you fucking at night? 726 00:35:29.880 --> 00:35:30.039 No? 727 00:35:30.360 --> 00:35:33.519 Like, like are you not feeling it? 728 00:35:33.559 --> 00:35:36.880 And it creates it creates conversations to the point where 729 00:35:36.880 --> 00:35:39.119 you no longer asks how's triple h? You just find 730 00:35:39.119 --> 00:35:42.119 yourself checking in and it's throughout the day. Like I 731 00:35:42.159 --> 00:35:44.000 started with doing it once a day and then it 732 00:35:44.119 --> 00:35:46.840 just landed with open conversation throughout the day. 733 00:35:47.000 --> 00:35:49.920 If I say, my hormones at really hormoning right now, 734 00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:52.079 like what is what does that? What does that say 735 00:35:52.119 --> 00:35:55.400 to you that she's horny? And she's like, helly, how 736 00:35:55.440 --> 00:35:56.000 are your homos? 737 00:35:56.039 --> 00:35:59.400 I'm like, eh, now, lets me know how to support you, right, 738 00:35:59.440 --> 00:36:01.639 because I may be horny, but it's just like on 739 00:36:01.639 --> 00:36:03.400 the day where you may be horny and I'm not, 740 00:36:03.559 --> 00:36:05.920 and I want support from you that lets me know, like, 741 00:36:06.079 --> 00:36:09.280 oh man, all right, let me maybe instead of trying 742 00:36:09.280 --> 00:36:11.239 to be all super sexy or anything like that, I 743 00:36:11.239 --> 00:36:13.280 may be horning. We could take care of me later, 744 00:36:13.639 --> 00:36:15.599 but maybe this is a moment where we can be 745 00:36:15.719 --> 00:36:17.719 intimate in a different way. We can cuddle up, we 746 00:36:17.800 --> 00:36:21.440 can have intimate conversation, or maybe we can talk about 747 00:36:21.480 --> 00:36:23.480 why your hormones are here, and then that could lead 748 00:36:23.519 --> 00:36:23.880 to sex. 749 00:36:24.079 --> 00:36:24.159 Right. 750 00:36:25.360 --> 00:36:30.480 I always find that like having a transparent conversation always 751 00:36:30.559 --> 00:36:32.480 leads a bomb set. 752 00:36:32.599 --> 00:36:36.079 When I say always, always, I'm a liberation coach for 753 00:36:36.079 --> 00:36:39.920 a fucking reason, because that that healing part, baby, that 754 00:36:40.000 --> 00:36:43.360 lead to the best orgasms in your life. Those transparent 755 00:36:43.440 --> 00:36:45.360 healing heart not heart toxic. 756 00:36:45.599 --> 00:36:46.960 Because there's a difference. There's a difference. 757 00:36:47.159 --> 00:36:51.360 I'm talking. We're talking about conversations, hard conversations, not arguments. Yes, 758 00:36:51.480 --> 00:36:55.880 not that, Yes, with hard conversations, with clarity and understanding 759 00:36:55.960 --> 00:37:03.280 on the back. Oh my gosh, it's the hardest good conversation. 760 00:37:03.480 --> 00:37:08.719 Clar it's only good when the person hears you. That's 761 00:37:08.760 --> 00:37:13.760 why you don't feel heard in a conversation. Yeah, yeah, 762 00:37:13.840 --> 00:37:16.639 those are the ones where you go to bed you 763 00:37:16.679 --> 00:37:19.239 don't feel good about. There's no ending to it. 764 00:37:19.320 --> 00:37:22.119 But that's not a conversation. That's an argument. That's an argument. 765 00:37:22.639 --> 00:37:24.760 Or when somebody is deflecting, like say in a. 766 00:37:24.760 --> 00:37:30.480 Querious argument, that's argument, you know, just. 767 00:37:32.320 --> 00:37:39.840 An I hate being in a relationship with somebody that 768 00:37:40.000 --> 00:37:43.920 is always on the defense, that is always deflecting, and 769 00:37:44.679 --> 00:37:47.079 or if I bring something up, but when you did this, 770 00:37:47.480 --> 00:37:47.920 it's like. 771 00:37:48.320 --> 00:37:52.039 Again, it's not a conversation, that's a that's an argument. 772 00:37:52.199 --> 00:37:56.119 Am I allowed to have feelings? Are you here to 773 00:37:56.239 --> 00:37:59.880 help me protect them? Safeguard? Listen or or is this 774 00:38:00.159 --> 00:38:02.159 all about you? And that's how you wind up to 775 00:38:02.159 --> 00:38:04.079 start feeling And I don't think men really realize when 776 00:38:04.119 --> 00:38:06.719 they're being gas lit, you know what I'm saying, because 777 00:38:06.760 --> 00:38:08.199 a lot of times women what do they call it, 778 00:38:08.239 --> 00:38:11.519 they just kind of they take over the conversation with 779 00:38:11.599 --> 00:38:14.519 their ship. I can't I put it in my thing today. 780 00:38:14.559 --> 00:38:15.239 Hold on, let me see. 781 00:38:15.440 --> 00:38:17.360 I think you I think you reposted that. I think 782 00:38:17.360 --> 00:38:19.039 it was something about hijacking the conversation. 783 00:38:19.480 --> 00:38:21.760 Yeah, I get ready to say it's a simple word too. 784 00:38:22.000 --> 00:38:25.760 Chicago the Let me see if I can define hijackson 785 00:38:25.840 --> 00:38:28.000 true for sure, it's your favorite. 786 00:38:27.719 --> 00:38:29.559 Chicago Therapist and learn is. 787 00:38:29.599 --> 00:38:30.840 I have a message for. 788 00:38:30.840 --> 00:38:31.639 You guys today. 789 00:38:32.920 --> 00:38:35.880 I'm going to need for you all to stop hijacking conversation. 790 00:38:36.159 --> 00:38:37.960 What is hijacking a conversation look like? 791 00:38:38.199 --> 00:38:41.519 If I could get to it your favorite Chicago and 792 00:38:41.800 --> 00:38:42.199 learn is. 793 00:38:42.280 --> 00:38:45.840 I have a message for you guys today. I'm going 794 00:38:45.920 --> 00:38:48.880 to need for you all to stop hijacking conversations. What 795 00:38:48.920 --> 00:38:50.719 does hijacking a conversation look like? 796 00:38:50.800 --> 00:38:53.599 It means when your a man is telling you he. 797 00:38:53.639 --> 00:38:57.280 Has a problem with something, he's trying to express his feelings. 798 00:38:57.280 --> 00:39:02.159 He's expressing his discomfort and you decide to make it 799 00:39:02.199 --> 00:39:02.800 about you. 800 00:39:02.800 --> 00:39:05.119 You get upset the fact. 801 00:39:04.840 --> 00:39:08.519 At the fact that he's upset, You get your feeling. 802 00:39:08.719 --> 00:39:11.000 It's about the fact that he's expressing his feelings. 803 00:39:11.000 --> 00:39:12.760 That's not okay. 804 00:39:12.840 --> 00:39:14.519 Oh I want to be a safe space. I want 805 00:39:14.559 --> 00:39:17.760 to be a soft place, man, Tolen, How is he 806 00:39:17.840 --> 00:39:20.679 going to How you gonna be that? How you gonna 807 00:39:20.679 --> 00:39:21.000 be that? 808 00:39:21.119 --> 00:39:24.360 And you don't know how to sit with your feelings 809 00:39:24.440 --> 00:39:26.159 when you're hearing something you don't like. 810 00:39:26.920 --> 00:39:29.679 In case you didn't know being a safe place. One 811 00:39:29.719 --> 00:39:31.960 of the big key points. 812 00:39:31.760 --> 00:39:33.760 To doing that is knowing how to listen. Yep. 813 00:39:34.119 --> 00:39:36.800 It's knowing how to sit on your feelings and allow 814 00:39:36.920 --> 00:39:40.679 him to express himself without you making it about you. 815 00:39:41.239 --> 00:39:44.800 It's like everybody understands the concept of intent versus impact 816 00:39:44.880 --> 00:39:46.960 until it's time for them to be the one to apologize. 817 00:39:47.199 --> 00:39:49.679 It doesn't matter whether or not you agree with how 818 00:39:49.679 --> 00:39:51.880 he arrived at his feelings. It's the fact that his 819 00:39:51.960 --> 00:39:55.320 feelings exist, and so therefore you need to listen and 820 00:39:55.360 --> 00:39:57.400 take that in just the same way you would want 821 00:39:57.480 --> 00:39:58.360 him to do for you. 822 00:39:58.400 --> 00:40:00.280 So class, what are we gonna do the next time 823 00:40:00.280 --> 00:40:00.960 of our man's. 824 00:40:00.719 --> 00:40:03.000 Trying to tell us that he didn't like something that 825 00:40:03.039 --> 00:40:05.079 we did, or that he would like. 826 00:40:05.119 --> 00:40:06.320 Us to change a certain behavior. 827 00:40:06.360 --> 00:40:06.960 We're gonna fit. 828 00:40:07.599 --> 00:40:10.880 We're gonna time listening ears on and we're gonna take it, 829 00:40:11.679 --> 00:40:14.440 and we're gonna pick another time to bring up a 830 00:40:14.440 --> 00:40:15.679 discretion that we have with him. 831 00:40:15.679 --> 00:40:16.760 We're not gonna pick this time. 832 00:40:16.800 --> 00:40:18.119 We're gonna pick on another time. 833 00:40:18.320 --> 00:40:22.400 Okay, Okay, that part I disagreet. 834 00:40:23.000 --> 00:40:26.760 That's bring it, Bratt Undisco therapist out in Chicago. 835 00:40:26.840 --> 00:40:29.880 So why didn't you Someone dropped the link in the 836 00:40:29.920 --> 00:40:32.559 discord for that. They want to see what you're talking about, Tahoe, 837 00:40:32.599 --> 00:40:34.480 But why you didn't? Why do you disagree at the 838 00:40:34.559 --> 00:40:35.000 end of it. 839 00:40:35.039 --> 00:40:37.760 On the very end, because that what I want to 840 00:40:37.800 --> 00:40:40.440 say is some all right now, if if if your 841 00:40:40.480 --> 00:40:43.639 man comes to you with the conversation, know what she's 842 00:40:43.639 --> 00:40:46.039 saying is absolutely right. This is not an opportunity and 843 00:40:46.119 --> 00:40:49.119 a time for you to take the ball and go haha, 844 00:40:49.199 --> 00:40:53.199 that were dribbling like what's happening here. However, if that 845 00:40:53.360 --> 00:40:56.719 wasn't the case, and the conversation was happening, and it's 846 00:40:56.760 --> 00:41:00.000 a moment where your man needs to express something, you 847 00:41:00.119 --> 00:41:04.920 listen listen, hear his intent, hear his heart. Do those things. 848 00:41:05.480 --> 00:41:07.800 If there's things you need to express, this is now 849 00:41:07.880 --> 00:41:12.400 an opportunity to have an honest conversation, those hard conversations, 850 00:41:12.639 --> 00:41:15.079 and learn to lean in so that you can find 851 00:41:15.119 --> 00:41:17.719 where's the not even a neutral space, but where is 852 00:41:17.719 --> 00:41:19.639 the safe space for both of you to be able 853 00:41:19.679 --> 00:41:22.840 to be heard. Because one party not feeling hurt means 854 00:41:22.840 --> 00:41:25.280 both parties don't feel hurt even when we think that 855 00:41:25.360 --> 00:41:28.239 we are. I like that. 856 00:41:29.679 --> 00:41:33.119 I came to wifey with a conversation, and I think 857 00:41:33.159 --> 00:41:36.599 the conversation itself was triggering in itself, and I just 858 00:41:36.679 --> 00:41:40.599 had to keep or I didn't have to keep doing it. 859 00:41:40.800 --> 00:41:43.280 But I was like, yo, I understand how you feel. 860 00:41:44.599 --> 00:41:48.000 I'm not arguing, I'm expressing right, and I'm trying to 861 00:41:48.039 --> 00:41:51.000 tell you how it makes me feel. So just please 862 00:41:51.159 --> 00:41:54.000 hear me on that without thinking that you did something wrong. 863 00:41:54.800 --> 00:41:56.320 I don't want you feel like you did something wrong. 864 00:41:56.440 --> 00:41:58.920 I'm just telling you how I feel so that we 865 00:41:58.960 --> 00:42:02.880 can work on that. And I think over the course 866 00:42:02.920 --> 00:42:07.840 of six years, she can be defensive and argumentative. I 867 00:42:07.880 --> 00:42:10.440 can be defensive and argumentative. So a lot of times 868 00:42:10.599 --> 00:42:13.800 we have those moments where emotions are high are spiked, 869 00:42:14.239 --> 00:42:17.599 we're just clashing, ping ping ping, right, But I think 870 00:42:17.679 --> 00:42:21.280 in the way that we handle this conversation, bro, she 871 00:42:21.360 --> 00:42:23.719 even says something that she's never said before. And that 872 00:42:23.960 --> 00:42:26.920 is not to say that she hasn't heard me before, 873 00:42:26.960 --> 00:42:29.480 but she was like, well, how can we get past that? 874 00:42:31.159 --> 00:42:34.159 How can we do things differently so that that doesn't happen. 875 00:42:34.519 --> 00:42:35.760 I was in the car, right, So I was sitting 876 00:42:35.760 --> 00:42:37.400 in the car for like an hour having this conversation. 877 00:42:37.639 --> 00:42:39.639 I was like this, I just melted in the car. 878 00:42:40.480 --> 00:42:43.440 I cannot believe she just said that. That means she 879 00:42:43.519 --> 00:42:45.880 hurt me and she's willing to work on it with me. 880 00:42:46.559 --> 00:42:50.119 And I'm not used to a woman, no direspect to 881 00:42:50.159 --> 00:42:52.159 any other women. Police. This is not men versus women. 882 00:42:52.800 --> 00:42:54.960 I'm not used to hearing that. 883 00:42:56.239 --> 00:42:58.679 Can I We didn't talk about this, so I'm just 884 00:42:58.719 --> 00:43:00.639 saying this for the first time. But as a man 885 00:43:00.679 --> 00:43:03.320 that's going through this, I can tell you that her 886 00:43:03.400 --> 00:43:05.880 doing that made you more inclined to want to work 887 00:43:05.920 --> 00:43:10.400 on it. You felt so much better to say, yo, 888 00:43:10.559 --> 00:43:12.639 you know what, Yo, let's let's do it whatever, Like 889 00:43:12.679 --> 00:43:15.559 whatever it is, I'm willing to do a little bit 890 00:43:15.559 --> 00:43:20.800 more because you feel here, yes, yeah. 891 00:43:19.800 --> 00:43:24.800 And that is it can revitalize a relationship. A lot 892 00:43:24.840 --> 00:43:27.400 of times when you keep hitting those blocks, you start 893 00:43:27.440 --> 00:43:29.559 looking elsewhere. You might go to the gym more. It 894 00:43:29.599 --> 00:43:31.440 doesn't even have to be pussy. You might go to 895 00:43:31.480 --> 00:43:33.119 the gym more. You might be in your game more. 896 00:43:33.559 --> 00:43:35.360 You just kind of block it out because you know 897 00:43:35.440 --> 00:43:38.119 you're not being heard and the conversation is just falling 898 00:43:38.159 --> 00:43:42.159 on Youte ears death Ears. When she said that, I 899 00:43:42.159 --> 00:43:45.599 felt like we can handle anything. You know what I'm saying. 900 00:43:45.719 --> 00:43:48.000 I just I just, you. 901 00:43:47.960 --> 00:43:51.039 Know, like it kind of reminds me of when I 902 00:43:51.119 --> 00:43:55.480 was dealing with someone and they came out and said 903 00:43:55.519 --> 00:43:58.719 to me that I was a safe space because I 904 00:43:59.639 --> 00:44:03.599 heard them, and I heard them without interrupting and then 905 00:44:03.719 --> 00:44:07.920 saying okay, and then I started asking my questions because 906 00:44:07.920 --> 00:44:10.719 I think sometimes that people just want to be heard. 907 00:44:10.760 --> 00:44:12.280 They don't want to be interrupted, They just want to 908 00:44:12.320 --> 00:44:15.280 like vented out and then you can ask the questions later. 909 00:44:15.280 --> 00:44:17.719 I think that's also like a good way to really 910 00:44:17.719 --> 00:44:20.960 feel like you know, someone's been heard, and asking right 911 00:44:21.039 --> 00:44:23.480 questions right, not like trying to flip in and say 912 00:44:23.559 --> 00:44:27.280 so what I heard was, but really just digging in 913 00:44:27.599 --> 00:44:30.920 and really pulling out what they're saying. 914 00:44:30.719 --> 00:44:33.199 And not just the triggering words. But you can get 915 00:44:33.199 --> 00:44:35.519 stuck on just this one term that the person used 916 00:44:35.599 --> 00:44:37.960 right right. You're repeating it, repeating or repeating it right, 917 00:44:38.039 --> 00:44:40.320 but you're not getting to a place where y'all can create. 918 00:44:40.079 --> 00:44:41.880 The result exactly. 919 00:44:42.400 --> 00:44:47.079 It was a conversation in the discord about what's the 920 00:44:47.199 --> 00:44:53.880 difference between a great life partner and a great sexual partner. 921 00:44:54.920 --> 00:44:58.519 What do y'all think that is that I have somebody 922 00:44:58.519 --> 00:45:01.719 broke it down with I want to hear with y'all. 923 00:45:01.480 --> 00:45:04.119 Think, Well, when I think of life partner, I think 924 00:45:04.159 --> 00:45:07.320 of my best friend. I think of my ride or 925 00:45:07.360 --> 00:45:10.239 die best friend. I can literally talk to you about things. 926 00:45:10.239 --> 00:45:13.400 I could be transparent with you. I could like I 927 00:45:13.440 --> 00:45:18.199 can learn from you. We're growing something together with a 928 00:45:18.239 --> 00:45:21.719 great sexual partner. I mean, I don't think I have 929 00:45:21.760 --> 00:45:23.679 that vulnerable like I have. I could be vulnerable with 930 00:45:23.719 --> 00:45:25.440 you because we're having sex, But I don't think I 931 00:45:25.480 --> 00:45:28.440 can get past a level of vulnerability to a point 932 00:45:28.480 --> 00:45:30.280 where I feel like, oh, you're my best friend, Like 933 00:45:30.320 --> 00:45:33.280 I don't. I don't think that that distinction connects with me. 934 00:45:33.920 --> 00:45:38.280 For me, the sex partner. Part I think is just passion, 935 00:45:38.639 --> 00:45:42.920 pure passion. When I think of somebody that and this 936 00:45:42.960 --> 00:45:47.239 person made this point. Somebody were like, you're just compatible 937 00:45:47.239 --> 00:45:50.400 with them when y'all do the thing, it just works. 938 00:45:50.840 --> 00:45:54.320 Outside of that, it is what it is life partner. 939 00:45:55.079 --> 00:45:57.960 It all works, like we figured it out. Even when 940 00:45:58.000 --> 00:46:01.559 it doesn't work, it works. And like that person said, 941 00:46:01.599 --> 00:46:04.719 when you find that and that both of those things 942 00:46:04.760 --> 00:46:07.599 are the same person, that's when you know you got money. 943 00:46:07.639 --> 00:46:08.360 You struggled with you. 944 00:46:09.079 --> 00:46:14.559 Yesterday, we did our first pilot episode, for the Love 945 00:46:14.679 --> 00:46:19.159 of Yesterday that will be premiered on a Patreon that 946 00:46:19.320 --> 00:46:23.280 is going on Patreon yesterday. What do you think about 947 00:46:23.280 --> 00:46:26.199 that episode? I felt really good. It was really really good. 948 00:46:26.280 --> 00:46:28.199 I had a really good time doing that. 949 00:46:28.440 --> 00:46:30.719 Like, yeah, felt good. Yeah, we asked you a bunch 950 00:46:30.719 --> 00:46:33.880 of questions. We asked the person here. Her name is Shana, 951 00:46:34.840 --> 00:46:35.719 you know, remember her name. 952 00:46:35.760 --> 00:46:39.679 The name of her pod, Safe and Secure. 953 00:46:39.800 --> 00:46:45.440 Safe and Secure is what it's called. Beautiful, bigger woman, sexy, 954 00:46:45.599 --> 00:46:48.960 very confident, very warm. She wants to take care of 955 00:46:48.960 --> 00:46:52.000 her man and all that. Hopefully we will get a 956 00:46:52.039 --> 00:46:53.840 camera on them when they go out on their date 957 00:46:54.360 --> 00:46:56.239 and you know, do that and then we will have 958 00:46:56.320 --> 00:46:59.960 another person to do the for the love of yes 959 00:47:00.039 --> 00:47:05.400 to They serious now towards the end, At the very end, 960 00:47:05.639 --> 00:47:08.280 I asked the question, so I hosted this. I asked 961 00:47:08.360 --> 00:47:11.360 them both questions. Whatever, I said, what do y'all think 962 00:47:11.400 --> 00:47:16.920 about this connection? Is it love or lust? Which one? Right? 963 00:47:21.559 --> 00:47:22.760 Some bullshit about to happen. 964 00:47:23.239 --> 00:47:27.480 Let's just say that the answer the answers from both. 965 00:47:27.559 --> 00:47:33.360 I can say she said love, he said lust. Two 966 00:47:33.480 --> 00:47:37.280 different ways of looking at what this connection can could 967 00:47:37.440 --> 00:47:40.000 possibly be or where it is right now, because that's 968 00:47:40.119 --> 00:47:44.960 changed changed, you know, going forward. I really thought that 969 00:47:45.039 --> 00:47:46.880 was a great episode. I want you guys to listen 970 00:47:46.960 --> 00:47:49.960 to it going over the Patreon dot com Backslash the 971 00:47:50.000 --> 00:47:52.239 Heart or Soft Show if you're interested, and come on 972 00:47:52.320 --> 00:47:54.599 and join the Nut Navy. Come on into the voice channel. 973 00:47:54.599 --> 00:47:57.599 We and they're talking every morning. She's in there every morning. 974 00:47:58.079 --> 00:48:00.639 I'm in there, but basically every morning. I wasn't this morning, 975 00:48:00.760 --> 00:48:02.920 but they were talking about for the love yesterday, so 976 00:48:02.960 --> 00:48:04.639 I want to I can't wait till tomorrow because we're 977 00:48:04.639 --> 00:48:09.039 gonna have that convo. The reason I brought that up 978 00:48:09.440 --> 00:48:14.760 is because I think those are the basis between great 979 00:48:14.800 --> 00:48:19.280 life partner and great sexual partner. But one of the 980 00:48:19.320 --> 00:48:25.719 guys Bo from the discord actually pandit in a better way, Yes, 981 00:48:26.079 --> 00:48:35.159 he said. A great life partner possesses qualities like emotional intelligence, reliability, trustworthiness, 982 00:48:35.480 --> 00:48:41.000 and strong communication skills. They provide emotional support, share similar values, 983 00:48:41.039 --> 00:48:44.239 and are committed to building a future together through mutual 984 00:48:44.280 --> 00:48:50.440 respect and teamwork. Patience, empathy, and the ability to navigate 985 00:48:50.519 --> 00:48:55.000 challenges together are key. On the other hand, a great 986 00:48:55.079 --> 00:49:00.920 sexual partner is defined by chemistry, passion, confidence, and a 987 00:49:00.960 --> 00:49:06.960 willingness to communicate openly about desires and boundaries. They are attentive, responsive, 988 00:49:07.199 --> 00:49:13.239 and prioritize mutual satisfaction forstering both excitement and emotional connection 989 00:49:13.639 --> 00:49:18.960 and intimacy. While some qualities overlap, a strong life partner 990 00:49:19.440 --> 00:49:25.920 requires deeper emotional and practical compatibility, whereas a great sexual 991 00:49:25.960 --> 00:49:30.679 partner focuses on physical and emotional intimacy in the moment. 992 00:49:31.079 --> 00:49:35.199 The ideal situation is when both aspects align in one person, 993 00:49:35.559 --> 00:49:38.559 creating a fulfilling and well rounded relationships. 994 00:49:38.639 --> 00:49:43.119 Got that from chat, you would think, so, right, No, 995 00:49:43.280 --> 00:49:44.199 that's really good. 996 00:49:44.559 --> 00:49:45.360 He does work. 997 00:49:45.800 --> 00:49:49.840 I know that that he did. You got that from. 998 00:49:52.280 --> 00:49:54.400 Listen? He might have Chatt GIBTV. 999 00:49:54.000 --> 00:49:58.400 Know brain he if you say po, you would want 1000 00:49:58.400 --> 00:49:59.519 to lick his brain so. 1001 00:49:59.800 --> 00:50:04.880 Well, So that brings me to a combo that I 1002 00:50:04.920 --> 00:50:09.760 saw on Instagram, right, And I just want to know 1003 00:50:09.800 --> 00:50:12.679 what y'all think about this. This isn't really that impactful, 1004 00:50:12.719 --> 00:50:13.840 but I do want to know what y'all think. 1005 00:50:14.440 --> 00:50:16.960 Let's see, So it's been a couple of years, and 1006 00:50:17.159 --> 00:50:19.039 you promised that you were going to try to get 1007 00:50:19.039 --> 00:50:23.920 into church and become a believer and church serve God. 1008 00:50:24.960 --> 00:50:27.639 And I haven't seen even doing any of that, YB. 1009 00:50:28.280 --> 00:50:30.119 I long when I said before we got married, like 1010 00:50:30.280 --> 00:50:32.760 I would give this faith walk up try. 1011 00:50:34.199 --> 00:50:36.000 I just can't do it. Honestly, I want a point 1012 00:50:36.000 --> 00:50:37.840 where I don't even know what I believe in. All 1013 00:50:37.880 --> 00:50:39.920 I know is that I'm committed to you. I've committed 1014 00:50:39.960 --> 00:50:40.559 to our marriage. 1015 00:50:40.599 --> 00:50:43.280 But when I went to your church, everybody's like wearing 1016 00:50:43.840 --> 00:50:45.920 white dresses, crazy, big. 1017 00:50:45.760 --> 00:50:47.840 Ass, thrown up and down't speaking a language I never 1018 00:50:47.880 --> 00:50:50.159 heard before. I don't know if I did. 1019 00:50:50.199 --> 00:50:53.559 You realize that puts me at inconvenience and in a 1020 00:50:53.599 --> 00:50:56.360 hard place because I need you, as the head of 1021 00:50:56.400 --> 00:50:58.119 this house, as the man of this house, to be 1022 00:50:58.119 --> 00:50:59.239 a covering in this house. 1023 00:51:01.039 --> 00:51:03.199 Financially, I need more than that. 1024 00:51:03.239 --> 00:51:05.280 Protect You promised that you were going to try to 1025 00:51:05.320 --> 00:51:07.880 give God a try, you were going to You didn't 1026 00:51:07.920 --> 00:51:08.599 try hard enough. 1027 00:51:08.679 --> 00:51:09.840 You tried for two months. 1028 00:51:09.880 --> 00:51:11.639 You didn't the last time you tried. 1029 00:51:14.239 --> 00:51:15.679 I don't know how, and I don't. 1030 00:51:15.800 --> 00:51:19.559 Pray to who, for what in the universe, to what thought? 1031 00:51:20.679 --> 00:51:22.960 If you don't think this is something you can do, 1032 00:51:23.000 --> 00:51:24.079 I don't know if we're going to work. 1033 00:51:24.119 --> 00:51:25.000 I don't know if we can. 1034 00:51:24.920 --> 00:51:26.440 Pull past You're trying to say it to me our 1035 00:51:26.440 --> 00:51:27.639 marriages like what in jeopardy? 1036 00:51:27.639 --> 00:51:30.199 Because I don't want to go to church. That's crazy 1037 00:51:30.239 --> 00:51:31.719 talk like do you know how I feel about you? 1038 00:51:31.760 --> 00:51:32.840 I know how you feel about me? 1039 00:51:32.840 --> 00:51:35.320 Why are you doing this? It's not going to work? 1040 00:51:36.400 --> 00:51:38.280 Okay, Well, I hope that's a skit. 1041 00:51:38.440 --> 00:51:39.679 First of all, I believe. 1042 00:51:41.360 --> 00:51:42.159 That's extra. 1043 00:51:43.599 --> 00:51:45.000 Courtney goes to church every Sunday. 1044 00:51:45.000 --> 00:51:48.079 No, I don't know to church. Yes, I watch, I 1045 00:51:48.119 --> 00:51:50.880 watched sermons. I don't actually go into the physical church. 1046 00:51:50.960 --> 00:51:55.719 But as someone who's recently have been finding their relationship 1047 00:51:55.760 --> 00:52:01.079 with God, I don't know if they need to be 1048 00:52:01.119 --> 00:52:03.440 in the same level that I am doing it Because 1049 00:52:03.480 --> 00:52:06.400 I talk to God every morning, and I try to 1050 00:52:06.440 --> 00:52:09.639 catch a sermon every Sunday. But I don't expect my 1051 00:52:09.800 --> 00:52:12.480 husband to do the exact same things that I do. 1052 00:52:12.800 --> 00:52:14.679 If he wants to worship God in his own way, 1053 00:52:14.719 --> 00:52:16.760 I think that's perfectly fine as long as we're not 1054 00:52:16.800 --> 00:52:18.440 two different religions, because I think that could be a 1055 00:52:18.480 --> 00:52:22.360 class when you're trying to raise children. But as long 1056 00:52:22.400 --> 00:52:24.760 as it's not that, I think it's pretty much okay. 1057 00:52:24.920 --> 00:52:26.679 If you feel like you believe in a universe, that's 1058 00:52:26.679 --> 00:52:31.719 totally fine. But when it comes to like, you know, 1059 00:52:31.760 --> 00:52:33.159 I think a conversation needs to be had of like 1060 00:52:33.159 --> 00:52:35.360 how we're going to raise our kids, what they're going 1061 00:52:35.440 --> 00:52:38.440 to believe, and you know we of course I want 1062 00:52:38.480 --> 00:52:40.480 to let my children have their own decisions. 1063 00:52:41.159 --> 00:52:43.159 You say two different religions, you mean like Christianity and. 1064 00:52:43.400 --> 00:52:48.760 Muslim or Judaism like stuff like that. Yeah, but I 1065 00:52:48.760 --> 00:52:50.360 don't think he needs to worship the same way that 1066 00:52:50.400 --> 00:52:50.639 I do. 1067 00:52:52.039 --> 00:52:52.559 What do you think? 1068 00:52:54.920 --> 00:52:58.840 I think that people forget that your relationship of God 1069 00:52:58.920 --> 00:53:02.519 is a personal relationship and that should be something that 1070 00:53:02.559 --> 00:53:05.599 you have a conversation before you get married, so that 1071 00:53:05.679 --> 00:53:08.760 you know, like I know, pilenty of people who husband, 1072 00:53:08.920 --> 00:53:11.960 you know, the white somebody want parts Muslim one parts 1073 00:53:12.039 --> 00:53:15.440 Christian and it works. I feel like whatever works for you. 1074 00:53:15.719 --> 00:53:18.360 The things that I heard that stood out was he said, 1075 00:53:18.880 --> 00:53:26.280 I'm dedicated and devoted to you in our home about 1076 00:53:26.360 --> 00:53:28.280 like we're talking about like all right, cool, cool, cool, 1077 00:53:28.679 --> 00:53:31.280 Like that's what I want, right, I want someone who 1078 00:53:31.679 --> 00:53:33.519 who at the end of the day, you're not going 1079 00:53:33.599 --> 00:53:35.239 to bring hurt and harm to us. You're going to 1080 00:53:35.280 --> 00:53:36.920 make sure that we're protected. You're going to make sure 1081 00:53:36.960 --> 00:53:38.559 that we're good when we talk about covering. What does 1082 00:53:38.599 --> 00:53:39.199 that look like? 1083 00:53:40.239 --> 00:53:44.280 I heard that, But I also heard that he not 1084 00:53:44.360 --> 00:53:48.320 only made assurances to her that he would try he 1085 00:53:48.360 --> 00:53:53.880 said try, but that he said to who, to the 1086 00:53:54.159 --> 00:53:55.559 like does he even believe it? 1087 00:53:55.599 --> 00:53:57.800 But that's the thing, right, So that to me is 1088 00:53:57.840 --> 00:54:00.280 more of a conversation that we should have had before 1089 00:54:00.280 --> 00:54:03.239 we got married. If we're talking about now we're married, 1090 00:54:03.920 --> 00:54:06.719 right and now okay, so now I'm the god fearing woman. 1091 00:54:07.079 --> 00:54:09.519 We've married. Now, what what am I going to do? 1092 00:54:09.559 --> 00:54:11.639 God fearing woman? I'm supposed to stay in this marriage 1093 00:54:11.639 --> 00:54:15.239 regardless of what correct? Right, So, again, those are conversations 1094 00:54:15.239 --> 00:54:17.360 you should have pre marriage, not in the marriage. 1095 00:54:17.679 --> 00:54:20.599 If a person that believes in Christ and God can 1096 00:54:20.679 --> 00:54:22.239 be married to somebody that does not. 1097 00:54:23.000 --> 00:54:27.440 I've had to the military, I've been exposed to so much. Yeah, 1098 00:54:27.960 --> 00:54:31.320 there's people who are married to atheists. Yes, for sure. 1099 00:54:31.840 --> 00:54:33.559 I don't for sure how that's I don't see how 1100 00:54:33.559 --> 00:54:34.039 that works. 1101 00:54:35.280 --> 00:54:38.000 That's what it's just like some people with different households 1102 00:54:38.000 --> 00:54:41.800 where they have different political views. That's different to some, 1103 00:54:41.920 --> 00:54:44.639 but not to everybody. To some people, it's not different 1104 00:54:44.920 --> 00:54:47.719 because that's your view, and a part of it is 1105 00:54:48.039 --> 00:54:50.760 that's like some people, that's a part of maybe why 1106 00:54:50.800 --> 00:54:52.719 they fell in love with you. You are dedicated to 1107 00:54:52.800 --> 00:54:55.280 your God the same way I'm dedicated to my God. 1108 00:54:55.599 --> 00:54:57.639 How come I can't love you if I love the 1109 00:54:57.639 --> 00:55:00.000 dedication you show to your God, even if I don't 1110 00:55:00.039 --> 00:55:03.320 believe in your God. As long as you don't make 1111 00:55:03.440 --> 00:55:05.960 me feel a way about serving my God and I'm 1112 00:55:06.000 --> 00:55:08.199 able to serve my God, then yes, we can have 1113 00:55:08.239 --> 00:55:09.199 a beautiful union. 1114 00:55:09.440 --> 00:55:09.840 Why not. 1115 00:55:11.480 --> 00:55:11.880 Yesterday? 1116 00:55:11.960 --> 00:55:12.119 No? 1117 00:55:11.960 --> 00:55:13.920 No, No, I think that's the only problem that comes 1118 00:55:13.920 --> 00:55:16.559 with I feel like it becomes like one has to 1119 00:55:16.599 --> 00:55:18.800 be more than the other are more important. Where it's 1120 00:55:18.840 --> 00:55:20.719 just like, yo, we can just respect both of them. 1121 00:55:20.760 --> 00:55:22.960 Like you said, Like yo, you can worship how you 1122 00:55:23.000 --> 00:55:25.320 worship our worship powership, and we can just love each 1123 00:55:25.360 --> 00:55:27.920 other in the worship. It doesn't have to be my 1124 00:55:28.119 --> 00:55:29.880 version or it doesn't have to be your version. 1125 00:55:30.199 --> 00:55:33.480 We can, but you believe in a higher power. You 1126 00:55:33.599 --> 00:55:36.920 believe it's something that's greater than us. There's a covenant here, 1127 00:55:37.360 --> 00:55:39.800 is what I'm saying. I don't have a problem with 1128 00:55:39.840 --> 00:55:43.800 people that don't, but find somebody else said, don't figure 1129 00:55:43.840 --> 00:55:46.760 out y'all don't. But if I do and you don't 1130 00:55:46.920 --> 00:55:49.280 like it stops with you being at to have a household. 1131 00:55:49.559 --> 00:55:52.199 To me, that creates a bigger problem over time for 1132 00:55:52.239 --> 00:55:52.760 me personally. 1133 00:55:52.840 --> 00:55:55.960 I don't think I could date anythist for me right 1134 00:55:56.400 --> 00:55:56.639 for me. 1135 00:55:57.800 --> 00:55:58.760 Have I seen it work? 1136 00:55:59.440 --> 00:56:02.039 Yeah, But I don't know if that's for me because 1137 00:56:02.480 --> 00:56:05.239 like I said, you don't have to worship God the 1138 00:56:05.239 --> 00:56:08.519 same way that I do, but you have. We have 1139 00:56:08.559 --> 00:56:11.119 to have some type of overlapping beliefs in something. 1140 00:56:11.079 --> 00:56:14.400 Exactly, and I mean most religions do that in some way. 1141 00:56:14.519 --> 00:56:20.639 They all there's something else. And I think that the 1142 00:56:20.639 --> 00:56:24.639 best communities are formed with their relationship through the higher 1143 00:56:24.719 --> 00:56:28.559 power or through something else that bonds everybody together. It's 1144 00:56:28.599 --> 00:56:30.880 like a code of living, code of ethics. It's a 1145 00:56:30.920 --> 00:56:33.920 moral code. That's what those relationships. You know. 1146 00:56:34.199 --> 00:56:36.280 No, I agree with that, But the thing is you're saying, 1147 00:56:36.320 --> 00:56:38.239 does it work? Can it happen? I think that it 1148 00:56:38.320 --> 00:56:42.880 still can happen. Prayer still can happen, though it just 1149 00:56:43.000 --> 00:56:44.719 may not be everybody's cup of tea. 1150 00:56:44.920 --> 00:56:46.639 You know, you're. 1151 00:56:46.079 --> 00:56:48.320 Christian and day and a Buddhists. I've seen it. 1152 00:56:48.880 --> 00:56:52.239 But that's you still worship how you worship. And I 1153 00:56:52.719 --> 00:56:54.840 might like that you worship the way you worship, even 1154 00:56:54.880 --> 00:56:57.280 if it's not for me, but you do worship. It's 1155 00:56:57.280 --> 00:57:00.559 actually that's an admirable thing that you worship the way 1156 00:57:00.559 --> 00:57:02.800 you worship. That's not something for me to say, hey, 1157 00:57:03.880 --> 00:57:04.519 come over here. 1158 00:57:04.679 --> 00:57:07.079 I just think that even in that scenario, right, I 1159 00:57:07.119 --> 00:57:09.280 think that this was a moment where, especially we talk 1160 00:57:09.280 --> 00:57:12.000 about husband and wife, he said, I don't eat. What 1161 00:57:12.039 --> 00:57:13.840 he said was I don't know where I'm at right now. 1162 00:57:13.880 --> 00:57:15.800 And I think again it goes back to the conversation 1163 00:57:15.840 --> 00:57:18.639 we were just having. We're here, your partner, He said, 1164 00:57:18.679 --> 00:57:20.239 I don't know where I'm at right now. He didn't 1165 00:57:20.239 --> 00:57:21.119 say this is where I'm going. 1166 00:57:21.039 --> 00:57:23.079 To be at forever. Where is grace? 1167 00:57:23.199 --> 00:57:23.360 Right? 1168 00:57:23.480 --> 00:57:26.119 Like, even if the two months wasn't enough for her 1169 00:57:26.360 --> 00:57:29.000 in trying, maybe that was the two months he needed 1170 00:57:29.039 --> 00:57:32.320 for him in trying so he can create a relationship 1171 00:57:32.360 --> 00:57:35.320 with God. Don't interfere with it. I think that's the 1172 00:57:35.360 --> 00:57:36.519 part where I'm coming from. 1173 00:57:36.519 --> 00:57:38.639 I think, and I'm going to agree with you with that, 1174 00:57:38.679 --> 00:57:41.000 because people have to have their own they have to 1175 00:57:41.039 --> 00:57:42.639 come to their own terms when it comes to God. 1176 00:57:43.039 --> 00:57:43.480 It took me. 1177 00:57:43.599 --> 00:57:45.000 I didn't go to I didn't grow up in the church. 1178 00:57:45.400 --> 00:57:47.320 I didn't know any group, I didn't know any church songs, 1179 00:57:47.320 --> 00:57:51.280 no nothing. I got into this on my own, and 1180 00:57:51.360 --> 00:57:53.719 I would want my partner to respect that I'm getting 1181 00:57:53.920 --> 00:57:56.679 into it on my own and give me that grace. 1182 00:57:56.719 --> 00:57:59.000 So I definitely agree with you on that. 1183 00:58:00.360 --> 00:58:03.599 You mentioned that you were in the military. Yes, I've 1184 00:58:03.639 --> 00:58:05.400 never spoken to a woman that's been in the military 1185 00:58:05.440 --> 00:58:07.519 on the show on. 1186 00:58:07.480 --> 00:58:11.360 The show, on the show, only they out there. 1187 00:58:11.760 --> 00:58:13.039 How long were you in the military. 1188 00:58:13.519 --> 00:58:16.719 I only served for almost three four years. 1189 00:58:16.800 --> 00:58:20.639 It was about three years literally like eleven months. 1190 00:58:21.239 --> 00:58:23.760 And what was your experience did you date while in 1191 00:58:23.760 --> 00:58:24.360 the military. 1192 00:58:24.440 --> 00:58:25.880 I was single when I was in the military. 1193 00:58:26.760 --> 00:58:28.440 And is this something that we could talk about. 1194 00:58:28.440 --> 00:58:31.360 Oh, for sure, he knows all the things. Okay, he 1195 00:58:31.440 --> 00:58:34.039 really knows everything. Seriously, I don't know why. 1196 00:58:36.119 --> 00:58:36.280 Why. 1197 00:58:38.599 --> 00:58:40.960 I know that's why we're telling him, please talk. I'm 1198 00:58:40.960 --> 00:58:42.360 trying to make him have a show with me because 1199 00:58:42.360 --> 00:58:45.400 I need people to know he's real. 1200 00:58:45.519 --> 00:58:47.760 He's a person, a real person. 1201 00:58:50.320 --> 00:58:55.280 Did you face sexual harass that you have? Like, what 1202 00:58:55.360 --> 00:58:58.480 was your experience when it came to did you have 1203 00:58:58.559 --> 00:58:59.559 kink in the military? 1204 00:58:59.679 --> 00:59:05.159 Like, So I went to my first I guess it 1205 00:59:05.199 --> 00:59:08.320 would be like a swing club when I was in 1206 00:59:08.360 --> 00:59:10.800 the military. I went with a couple with one of 1207 00:59:10.840 --> 00:59:13.039 my sergeants. She took me with some friends of hers. 1208 00:59:13.079 --> 00:59:15.519 We used to hang out prior. That was literally my 1209 00:59:15.599 --> 00:59:16.679 last weekend hanging. 1210 00:59:16.480 --> 00:59:17.800 Out with her out. 1211 00:59:18.079 --> 00:59:19.800 Yeah, we just would hang out, like literally go to 1212 00:59:19.840 --> 00:59:24.559 the club. First of all, version of hang out, regular 1213 00:59:24.679 --> 00:59:30.360 hangout like no, no regular hangout Like we would go 1214 00:59:30.360 --> 00:59:32.000 to the club busted up, you know what I mean? 1215 00:59:32.440 --> 00:59:34.199 She go hell where y'all go? Mind type thing? 1216 00:59:34.239 --> 00:59:36.199 And I was invited out one night with her into 1217 00:59:36.280 --> 00:59:38.679 her homies and we went to the sex club and 1218 00:59:38.800 --> 00:59:42.079 it was fire. I didn't do anything because it wasn't 1219 00:59:42.599 --> 00:59:45.320 I don't I'm not a stranger person. I like, I'm 1220 00:59:45.320 --> 00:59:47.239 demmy a little bit with that, Like I like to 1221 00:59:47.440 --> 00:59:50.400 get to know you and have conversation and get catch 1222 00:59:50.440 --> 00:59:54.440 the vibe. But I was able to like do things 1223 00:59:54.480 --> 00:59:57.400 with like that exhibitionists where just kind of being in 1224 00:59:57.440 --> 00:59:59.559 the environment and it was this was the spot in 1225 00:59:59.599 --> 01:00:02.079 the nash Field. It was in Nashville. 1226 01:00:02.119 --> 01:00:04.599 Oh, it was so fucked I just came from Nashville. 1227 01:00:04.760 --> 01:00:06.639 They were just saying, there's a lot of secret. 1228 01:00:06.960 --> 01:00:07.280 It was. 1229 01:00:07.559 --> 01:00:09.679 It was super secret because like when you when you 1230 01:00:09.719 --> 01:00:11.840 look at the place, what happens is when you go 1231 01:00:11.960 --> 01:00:13.519 into it, you have to It was like this big 1232 01:00:13.519 --> 01:00:16.960 warehouse on the outside and you have to go down 1233 01:00:17.079 --> 01:00:19.400 these steps when you go in. As you go down 1234 01:00:19.440 --> 01:00:21.599 the steps, you check in, pay your money and everything. 1235 01:00:21.599 --> 01:00:24.119 You keep going down like you're going into this heavy basement. 1236 01:00:24.519 --> 01:00:27.360 Get down there and it's like a little seeny siney bar, 1237 01:00:27.440 --> 01:00:30.800 a little things floor. Okay, like, well, where is everything 1238 01:00:30.840 --> 01:00:33.920 happening at there? Like go up there, you go pass 1239 01:00:34.000 --> 01:00:35.960 this door, and now we're going back up steps. So 1240 01:00:36.000 --> 01:00:38.000 I'm like, why am I going back up steps the 1241 01:00:38.039 --> 01:00:41.800 whole fucking warehouse? Yeah, single rooms in there. They had 1242 01:00:41.840 --> 01:00:45.960 this one room that just had beds, like King Queen 1243 01:00:46.079 --> 01:00:48.719 size beds with these drapery and it was like eight 1244 01:00:48.760 --> 01:00:51.119 of them in there. It was just so sexy. And 1245 01:00:51.320 --> 01:00:54.679 we ended up in the pool. We had pulled back 1246 01:00:54.719 --> 01:00:58.039 there billards. You just a little game room and I'm 1247 01:00:58.039 --> 01:01:01.159 playing strip poker strip and I lost. 1248 01:01:01.199 --> 01:01:03.119 It was fun. 1249 01:01:03.400 --> 01:01:05.880 I just ran around a poll table, nagger and a streak. 1250 01:01:06.159 --> 01:01:06.920 I'm big with it. 1251 01:01:06.960 --> 01:01:09.119 I'll like, I'm a streaker, new this kind of thing. 1252 01:01:09.239 --> 01:01:10.239 I'll do that type of stuff. 1253 01:01:10.360 --> 01:01:12.920 Yeah, he said, They said Nashville because I was down there, 1254 01:01:13.320 --> 01:01:16.320 uh two weeks ago, and I was talking to my 1255 01:01:16.320 --> 01:01:19.199 friend's mom and she's like, yeah, there's a lot of 1256 01:01:19.280 --> 01:01:21.280 the there's a lot of secret society that she was 1257 01:01:21.320 --> 01:01:24.280 telling me about pineapple and there was like if you 1258 01:01:24.280 --> 01:01:27.000 put your pineapple in the shopping cart a certain way, 1259 01:01:27.039 --> 01:01:28.760 that tells other people that you're down. 1260 01:01:28.679 --> 01:01:32.840 For swing swinging. And I was like, wow, pineapple swing life. 1261 01:01:36.199 --> 01:01:38.760 Person on that cruise had on pineapple something. 1262 01:01:40.079 --> 01:01:41.519 Upside down, pineapple. 1263 01:01:42.960 --> 01:01:45.000 Shirt, swim trunks. Everybody. 1264 01:01:45.199 --> 01:01:47.599 She says, someone who works I think in the Senator 1265 01:01:47.599 --> 01:01:51.639 office was the one that told her was like oky pineapple. 1266 01:01:51.679 --> 01:01:54.159 Another way somebody told me I needed to go into politics. 1267 01:01:54.199 --> 01:01:55.840 And I was like, well they shunned me and I 1268 01:01:55.920 --> 01:01:56.840 was like, no, they like it. 1269 01:01:58.159 --> 01:02:01.480 Yeah. So you did say that you were in Germany. 1270 01:02:01.639 --> 01:02:04.159 Yes, three and a half years, and this was before 1271 01:02:04.199 --> 01:02:06.239 I was in though I was a military spouse before 1272 01:02:06.239 --> 01:02:09.440 I was ever in. So this is my second marriage. 1273 01:02:09.440 --> 01:02:12.719 I got twenty five plus twenty almost twenty five years 1274 01:02:12.719 --> 01:02:13.519 of being a wife. 1275 01:02:13.679 --> 01:02:18.800 Oh wow, so you was in Germany. How was sex 1276 01:02:18.920 --> 01:02:20.079 different in Germany? 1277 01:02:21.599 --> 01:02:25.880 First off, everything is different, Like when I first got there. 1278 01:02:25.960 --> 01:02:28.880 You remember the got milk campaign? Yeah, and it was 1279 01:02:28.920 --> 01:02:31.159 like just milk over top of your lip and everything. 1280 01:02:31.199 --> 01:02:33.400 They had a got milk campaign, but it was like 1281 01:02:33.440 --> 01:02:35.480 breastfeeding and the chicken titty was out like it was 1282 01:02:35.519 --> 01:02:38.280 like wait, what's happening? And it was like, oh wow, 1283 01:02:38.840 --> 01:02:40.079 I just got here. 1284 01:02:41.599 --> 01:02:44.760 She was like it was She's just like it's titty milk. 1285 01:02:44.880 --> 01:02:50.280 But this was on like where you wait for the bus, so. 1286 01:02:50.239 --> 01:02:52.639 You gotta wait. There was a line of people waiting 1287 01:02:52.639 --> 01:02:53.360 to get titties and. 1288 01:02:53.360 --> 01:03:00.800 No, no, no, no, no, And the titty was out out first 1289 01:03:00.840 --> 01:03:02.960 of all, up to get like. 1290 01:03:04.000 --> 01:03:07.119 Distract that would be red like distract that that's where 1291 01:03:07.159 --> 01:03:08.519 like and they are in the window. 1292 01:03:08.599 --> 01:03:10.199 I'm not going to hold you. It was like, I've 1293 01:03:10.199 --> 01:03:13.519 been to the district. Yeah, it's just different, it's different. 1294 01:03:14.119 --> 01:03:17.360 I told wife this after our conversation. I was like, 1295 01:03:18.519 --> 01:03:22.280 I want to go to Columbia and uh have sex 1296 01:03:22.320 --> 01:03:27.119 with the Columbian prostitutes. And she was like I can't 1297 01:03:27.159 --> 01:03:28.280 remember what she said, but I was like, and I 1298 01:03:28.320 --> 01:03:30.880 want to go to Brazil and I want to go 1299 01:03:30.920 --> 01:03:31.400 to Japan. 1300 01:03:32.880 --> 01:03:36.840 Want to She's like, oh, yeah, I want to go 1301 01:03:36.840 --> 01:03:37.360 to Japan too. 1302 01:03:37.400 --> 01:03:40.079 I'm like, no, I want to go. 1303 01:03:40.440 --> 01:03:42.119 What are you gonna do if you want to go 1304 01:03:42.159 --> 01:03:44.039 on a smut he want to go on a smut tour, 1305 01:03:44.119 --> 01:03:45.519 He's not a hord tour. You will be on a 1306 01:03:45.559 --> 01:03:49.239 smut tour. No, I don't think it would be anything 1307 01:03:49.320 --> 01:03:51.559 going going wrong with a smut tour, like a paid 1308 01:03:52.079 --> 01:03:52.519 paid tour. 1309 01:03:52.639 --> 01:03:54.760 Pussy paid for the pussy tour. 1310 01:03:55.039 --> 01:03:57.760 Yeah, pay for the pussy tour would be high. That's 1311 01:03:57.760 --> 01:04:00.440 to horrors, I don't think so. I think that is 1312 01:04:00.519 --> 01:04:01.760 perfectly horrish. 1313 01:04:01.400 --> 01:04:05.239 For you for me, right, But what what she's gonna 1314 01:04:05.280 --> 01:04:08.599 need to be there with you because you literally, you 1315 01:04:08.719 --> 01:04:11.119 literally said that you cannot get it up unless she's 1316 01:04:11.159 --> 01:04:11.800 right next to you. 1317 01:04:12.639 --> 01:04:14.920 I mean, I mean, that's if she's there. He already 1318 01:04:15.079 --> 01:04:17.119 made that clear if she's in the building. If not, 1319 01:04:17.239 --> 01:04:21.400 then he's an I know what I'm saying that you. 1320 01:04:21.280 --> 01:04:26.119 Know if she's there, So that's the difference. If she's there, 1321 01:04:26.480 --> 01:04:28.320 it's weird if we're not. 1322 01:04:29.239 --> 01:04:31.599 But if she's not, like nowhere near you, then you're like, 1323 01:04:33.599 --> 01:04:34.119 get harder. 1324 01:04:34.199 --> 01:04:36.679 One she came, you did, get harder. 1325 01:04:36.719 --> 01:04:39.440 One sounds like she had it on locking the way you. 1326 01:04:40.400 --> 01:04:45.079 In the box. That's right, what she supposed to do 1327 01:04:45.079 --> 01:04:47.280 if I know you're going. I know. But what if 1328 01:04:47.280 --> 01:04:50.360 she's supposed to do. If I'm in the brothel, what 1329 01:04:50.440 --> 01:04:51.159 is she supposed to do? 1330 01:04:51.920 --> 01:04:56.280 She can she's walking around or have some fun on 1331 01:04:56.320 --> 01:04:59.400 her own. She likes women. Yeah, and then there's men 1332 01:04:59.480 --> 01:04:59.840 there too. 1333 01:05:01.039 --> 01:05:01.840 Or the room service. 1334 01:05:02.800 --> 01:05:05.199 No, there would be no room service in the brothel 1335 01:05:05.400 --> 01:05:09.440 or at the Yeah, no, there's been there as well. 1336 01:05:09.800 --> 01:05:12.519 No, you walk in and the madam comes up, Yes, 1337 01:05:12.800 --> 01:05:16.400 and she lines up all of the women and which women. 1338 01:05:16.480 --> 01:05:18.760 That sounds like I'll be staying in the hotel. 1339 01:05:19.079 --> 01:05:20.679 Yeah, yeah, I guess, or yeah something. 1340 01:05:20.920 --> 01:05:30.920 It would be walking around and I'm not doing the sas. 1341 01:05:30.639 --> 01:05:33.119 There's men options as well. You have options there. 1342 01:05:33.119 --> 01:05:35.880 It's not like basically like this, if this space was 1343 01:05:35.880 --> 01:05:37.519 a brothel, you would just come in and you're in 1344 01:05:37.599 --> 01:05:40.519 the room. You're not getting room services yesterday, get you something. 1345 01:05:40.599 --> 01:05:43.159 I'm just letting you know right now, if I go 1346 01:05:43.280 --> 01:05:46.360 to the brothel in Japan. 1347 01:05:46.320 --> 01:05:47.679 In Japan, I don't know. 1348 01:05:47.480 --> 01:05:49.079 You could go to the mill and I don't care. 1349 01:05:49.119 --> 01:05:57.000 It's not as much fun as you want. 1350 01:05:58.880 --> 01:06:03.440 That's I'm not going to stereotype. I don't see some 1351 01:06:03.480 --> 01:06:06.239 of them. No, I don't sing something. 1352 01:06:10.239 --> 01:06:10.760 Dragons. 1353 01:06:10.880 --> 01:06:14.519 I'm just saying, you never know they exist out here. 1354 01:06:14.519 --> 01:06:17.239 You've seen some of them Asia, man, listen if you 1355 01:06:17.360 --> 01:06:25.199 want to. I don't know, doesn't So that's me either. 1356 01:06:25.239 --> 01:06:27.719 It doesn't bother me because it's still my person, like 1357 01:06:27.840 --> 01:06:31.480 we're still it's not taking away from us, right, No, 1358 01:06:31.599 --> 01:06:32.079 I'm weak. 1359 01:06:32.360 --> 01:06:36.199 So going back to Germany, how else was it different 1360 01:06:36.239 --> 01:06:40.440 between besides titty ads in the out in the open, 1361 01:06:40.960 --> 01:06:42.639 I feel like, are they more sexually? 1362 01:06:43.800 --> 01:06:46.800 It was? It was than we are way more and 1363 01:06:46.800 --> 01:06:51.440 and and everything wasn't like there's a students on the table. 1364 01:06:52.079 --> 01:06:55.079 Oh my god, clinch your pirls like they're one eight hundreds, 1365 01:06:55.920 --> 01:07:02.440 y'all it was like, run, we're to go into the 1366 01:07:02.519 --> 01:07:07.360 voices now, like like yes is fonted, God, it's y'all, 1367 01:07:07.719 --> 01:07:09.719 and it's like, you know they talking, No, for sure, 1368 01:07:09.800 --> 01:07:12.440 I look up one of those numbers, like they're talking 1369 01:07:12.920 --> 01:07:17.039 in German and they're trying to be subductive. But they're naked. 1370 01:07:17.559 --> 01:07:21.559 They're not in sexy clothes. They're naked. Sometimes it all 1371 01:07:21.559 --> 01:07:23.679 clipped to a shot of some of the porn or whatever, 1372 01:07:23.760 --> 01:07:25.639 and you'll see the people in the middle of it, 1373 01:07:25.840 --> 01:07:28.199 and it may be older people and maybe younger people, 1374 01:07:28.239 --> 01:07:31.000 and maybe people physically fit. It may not be you 1375 01:07:31.079 --> 01:07:32.760 don't know, it's Germany. What's up? 1376 01:07:33.400 --> 01:07:33.880 I don't know. 1377 01:07:35.000 --> 01:07:39.000 And that was on the late night Germans. Oh yeah, 1378 01:07:39.159 --> 01:07:39.800 there's a lot of black. 1379 01:07:41.320 --> 01:07:43.320 No, I'm I'm I'm an asshole. I don't know how 1380 01:07:43.320 --> 01:07:50.400 to speak German, all right, trying to pack out. 1381 01:07:52.239 --> 01:07:52.599 German. 1382 01:07:52.760 --> 01:07:54.679 No, it wasn't. But I can say Dutch is the 1383 01:07:54.679 --> 01:07:56.559 most I can say. That's what I can say. Na, 1384 01:07:57.599 --> 01:07:59.920 Now that was German. Okay, do you speak Judge? 1385 01:08:00.599 --> 01:08:02.599 No, you never make a talk Judge to you while 1386 01:08:02.599 --> 01:08:03.480 you come on, bro. 1387 01:08:03.599 --> 01:08:06.320 You get to Russian lady, you got come on? 1388 01:08:07.039 --> 01:08:10.960 You said Dutch ship Well, I'm I'm how does it 1389 01:08:11.000 --> 01:08:13.079 feel in Dutch? Say some sexy shit in Dutch? 1390 01:08:13.119 --> 01:08:22.279 You can't say sexy should impossible, impossible, but yeah, no, no, no German. 1391 01:08:22.720 --> 01:08:25.319 German is not a sexy language. But it's a harder 1392 01:08:25.720 --> 01:08:28.279 tongue language. I don't get it twisted. I had friends 1393 01:08:28.239 --> 01:08:29.960 when they speak, I'll be like, what you say, you. 1394 01:08:29.880 --> 01:08:31.640 Ain't say like the rest of them, that was going 1395 01:08:31.680 --> 01:08:33.399 to sexy you guys, you know what I'm saying, a 1396 01:08:33.399 --> 01:08:35.680 little hard, but sexy heart I like that. 1397 01:08:36.039 --> 01:08:39.399 Yeah, it's not one of the love languages, you know, 1398 01:08:39.439 --> 01:08:43.840 like French, Spanish. It's not one of those love languages. 1399 01:08:44.039 --> 01:08:45.079 It's like Portuguese. 1400 01:08:46.000 --> 01:08:52.680 Yeah, it's not that because Germans like Russian. Yeah, if 1401 01:08:52.720 --> 01:08:55.159 I can ever find like a like a Russian accent 1402 01:08:55.239 --> 01:08:57.039 to be like, you don't find it. 1403 01:08:57.680 --> 01:08:58.319 No, it's not. 1404 01:09:02.479 --> 01:09:04.960 Imagining the Russian porn before imagine that. 1405 01:09:11.840 --> 01:09:18.479 You don't want to understand you. I don't like I have. 1406 01:09:19.800 --> 01:09:21.560 I don't like it. But there was this one time 1407 01:09:21.600 --> 01:09:23.239 where I was like, I think I want to hit 1408 01:09:23.319 --> 01:09:25.720 people because it didn't get me kind of there. They 1409 01:09:25.800 --> 01:09:27.680 was kind of rough, and I love. 1410 01:09:27.920 --> 01:09:29.720 I love everything. I ain't gonna lie. 1411 01:09:30.159 --> 01:09:34.960 I like rough sex, but German porn just takes it 1412 01:09:35.359 --> 01:09:38.079 to a level where I'm just like, are you okay? 1413 01:09:38.199 --> 01:09:42.199 Like blink twice if you're okay. It's a little so 1414 01:09:42.319 --> 01:09:44.399 too rough for me and I don't mind it. 1415 01:09:44.560 --> 01:09:48.399 So you asked, what's the difference between Eastern and. 1416 01:09:48.520 --> 01:09:50.720 Well, I was I was going to get there and 1417 01:09:50.920 --> 01:09:52.880 I was going to say, is there a difference between 1418 01:09:53.479 --> 01:09:57.039 how we view sex and how I don't know if 1419 01:09:57.079 --> 01:09:58.039 you've been further. 1420 01:09:58.079 --> 01:10:00.319 I have been further East. I feel like were in 1421 01:10:00.399 --> 01:10:03.199 the East, they're more open depending on where you're at 1422 01:10:03.199 --> 01:10:05.359 for sure, right, because I have been in Middle East. 1423 01:10:05.680 --> 01:10:09.720 That's not open, that's not livingroom talking about Littleton. Listen, 1424 01:10:10.000 --> 01:10:12.479 what was when I was there? Now? That was interesting. 1425 01:10:12.600 --> 01:10:16.640 When I was in Afghanistan, I didn't know what was happening. 1426 01:10:16.760 --> 01:10:19.680 I was working what they call ECP entry control point, 1427 01:10:20.039 --> 01:10:22.119 and so I'm all, I'm at the guard. You know, 1428 01:10:22.640 --> 01:10:24.279 a bunch of men are coming in. They would have 1429 01:10:24.279 --> 01:10:26.079 to do this thing where they kind of sit, call 1430 01:10:26.119 --> 01:10:28.560 them soaking, and every time they walk past me, they 1431 01:10:28.600 --> 01:10:31.039 put their heads down. And but they would talk to 1432 01:10:31.119 --> 01:10:33.600 my battle buddy, who was a white woman, and I'm like, 1433 01:10:33.680 --> 01:10:35.600 why I felt I thought it was rude. I'm like, 1434 01:10:35.600 --> 01:10:37.560 why didn't I They won't even look at me, won't 1435 01:10:37.560 --> 01:10:39.319 say nothing to me, but they'll talk to her to 1436 01:10:39.439 --> 01:10:42.000 ask her a question. What's going on? I'm thinking racism 1437 01:10:42.079 --> 01:10:45.159 right because I'm American fuck out here, and they were like, no, 1438 01:10:45.199 --> 01:10:47.520 you're beautiful. They're not allowed to look at you. I 1439 01:10:47.560 --> 01:10:49.880 was like oh, And then I felt fucked up because 1440 01:10:49.880 --> 01:11:00.600 I was like, damn they talking to her. Oh they did, 1441 01:11:01.039 --> 01:11:03.760 they did, And it was like oh wow, Like because 1442 01:11:03.760 --> 01:11:06.800 I had, like my interpreter that would be at I 1443 01:11:06.880 --> 01:11:08.960 used to be with us. I asked him. I'm like 1444 01:11:08.960 --> 01:11:12.359 what he said, No, no, no, he said you're you're beautiful woman. 1445 01:11:12.439 --> 01:11:13.079 You're beautiful. 1446 01:11:13.199 --> 01:11:15.359 So they can't look at if they are married, they're 1447 01:11:15.359 --> 01:11:19.119 not allowed to look at me. So it's it's cultural, right. 1448 01:11:19.279 --> 01:11:21.399 So when we say is it different here or there? 1449 01:11:21.439 --> 01:11:24.000 I believe it's just the culture and in some cultures 1450 01:11:24.000 --> 01:11:27.239 in German culture, in German society in Europe, it's not 1451 01:11:27.399 --> 01:11:30.680 a German it's not as shun like you coron sixteen. 1452 01:11:30.720 --> 01:11:34.039 I believe it's the legal drinking age. So in cigarettes, 1453 01:11:34.079 --> 01:11:36.239 they used to have cigarette machines on the corner like the. 1454 01:11:36.319 --> 01:11:39.039 Old just imagine with the not know looking like imagine 1455 01:11:39.079 --> 01:11:42.640 somebody just looking at you like, I mean, like this 1456 01:11:42.840 --> 01:11:48.359 nobody looking like. 1457 01:11:47.760 --> 01:11:51.560 Damn a man. And they were not. 1458 01:11:51.640 --> 01:11:54.319 Really I really thought something was up because they were 1459 01:11:55.199 --> 01:11:59.520 because I asked a question. Right, there was this There 1460 01:11:59.640 --> 01:12:03.199 was this one guy. He was like a beautiful Jesus 1461 01:12:03.720 --> 01:12:06.640 in the ways in which they described Jesus the copper skin. 1462 01:12:06.760 --> 01:12:10.520 But he had these pretty hazel blue eyes and he. 1463 01:12:10.479 --> 01:12:11.640 Kept staring at me. 1464 01:12:11.960 --> 01:12:14.079 And that's what made me ask, because I'm like, none 1465 01:12:14.119 --> 01:12:15.199 of the rest of them look at me. 1466 01:12:15.279 --> 01:12:16.319 Why is he was single? 1467 01:12:17.159 --> 01:12:23.600 So he was like, yeah, no, he was making it 1468 01:12:23.640 --> 01:12:25.920 clear that he he was here for it. What's up? 1469 01:12:25.920 --> 01:12:28.279 I'm giving you all the eye contacts. What's going to 1470 01:12:28.319 --> 01:12:30.600 be my wife? I'm like, what's happening here? 1471 01:12:31.159 --> 01:12:32.560 Did you wind up taking them down? 1472 01:12:32.640 --> 01:12:33.039 No? 1473 01:12:33.039 --> 01:12:37.039 No, he was in a soap bad I'm not so well. 1474 01:12:37.399 --> 01:12:39.920 He was a local national like so he was Afghani 1475 01:12:40.399 --> 01:12:42.600 and where they have to sit in it's like this, 1476 01:12:43.199 --> 01:12:45.600 it's like real war like like bob Wires and all 1477 01:12:45.600 --> 01:12:50.439 that kind of stuff is real, real Milicent. So yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 1478 01:12:50.479 --> 01:12:52.399 think of like war movies, and that's what the ECP 1479 01:12:52.680 --> 01:12:53.920 was yeah. 1480 01:12:54.319 --> 01:12:58.800 Okay, Well I do have some other questions for you, 1481 01:12:59.039 --> 01:13:01.680 but I think we should asked him after we start 1482 01:13:01.760 --> 01:13:02.159 the show. 1483 01:13:03.000 --> 01:13:04.520 Yes, let's start the show. 1484 01:13:04.840 --> 01:13:06.239 You already. 1485 01:13:07.159 --> 01:13:07.359 Yep? 1486 01:13:08.279 --> 01:13:11.439 Yeah, it's like an hour and something minutes and we're 1487 01:13:11.479 --> 01:13:13.720 starting the show. I love this part though, because I 1488 01:13:13.720 --> 01:13:15.399 imagine if you could do four play for this long? 1489 01:13:16.279 --> 01:13:19.159 Wait for an hour? You do you do four play 1490 01:13:19.199 --> 01:13:21.680 for an hour? Oh? 1491 01:13:22.560 --> 01:13:24.520 What the fun is an hour? What are you doing 1492 01:13:24.520 --> 01:13:25.720 with it? Look at you look tired? 1493 01:13:25.840 --> 01:13:30.159 Just him? 1494 01:13:30.560 --> 01:13:31.960 What you so? What do you do for hours? 1495 01:13:32.199 --> 01:13:32.600 Whatever? 1496 01:13:33.079 --> 01:13:36.239 Close? What do you do for hour? What do we. 1497 01:13:38.399 --> 01:13:43.640 What do you do for hours? 1498 01:13:44.359 --> 01:13:44.720 Eating? 1499 01:13:45.600 --> 01:13:45.840 Hmm? 1500 01:13:46.119 --> 01:13:46.479 All of it? 1501 01:13:47.000 --> 01:13:49.239 You just sucking sixty. 1502 01:13:50.119 --> 01:13:52.720 I'm learning that I do like smelling her. That's that's 1503 01:13:52.800 --> 01:13:55.760 kind of a newer thing for me. You just sniffing her? Yeah, 1504 01:13:56.399 --> 01:13:58.399 like what sniff and watch? She smells good. 1505 01:14:00.119 --> 01:14:02.680 But I think it ties into like primal ship too. 1506 01:14:03.399 --> 01:14:10.239 Yeah, you never just smelled the crevice of your partner, 1507 01:14:10.399 --> 01:14:11.840 like just smelling all parts. 1508 01:14:11.600 --> 01:14:16.920 Of them smell I like, yeah, getting the crevices. 1509 01:14:16.520 --> 01:14:18.680 Up there, everything everything. 1510 01:14:19.039 --> 01:14:20.279 I want to bite him though. 1511 01:14:20.279 --> 01:14:22.119 I'm a bier, I'm a vampire. I like biting. 1512 01:14:23.119 --> 01:14:28.159 I like randomly biting like wasting watching TV and being bitten, 1513 01:14:28.319 --> 01:14:29.800 like he's been biting me. 1514 01:14:30.199 --> 01:14:33.840 I'm not really big on being bitten. But the other 1515 01:14:33.960 --> 01:14:36.880 day we was going super crazy and I'm like, yo, 1516 01:14:37.000 --> 01:14:41.520 bite me, bite me. I'm like harder. She's like trying 1517 01:14:41.520 --> 01:14:53.319 to find trying to find somewhere. But it was the 1518 01:14:53.359 --> 01:14:58.359 first time where I incorporated pain for me into it 1519 01:14:58.520 --> 01:15:02.319 and it actually felt good. But there's a level where 1520 01:15:02.359 --> 01:15:06.600 it can go too far. Wow, I'm going to talk 1521 01:15:06.600 --> 01:15:10.039 about that. Also, after we started show Welcome to the Heart, 1522 01:15:10.119 --> 01:15:12.920 a soft show, the show where we talk about things 1523 01:15:13.159 --> 01:15:16.560 that make us hard and things that make us soft, 1524 01:15:16.760 --> 01:15:18.479 the things we like in the bedroom, things we don't 1525 01:15:18.520 --> 01:15:20.000 like the bedroom. I did that backwards. But if you've 1526 01:15:20.039 --> 01:15:24.199 been here long enough, you already know I'm sitting here 1527 01:15:24.439 --> 01:15:41.199 with bub Delicious, so don't start shipping. Courtney shav what's up, mama. 1528 01:15:41.199 --> 01:15:42.000 How you feeling today? 1529 01:15:42.039 --> 01:15:47.359 We're good today. It's beautiful weather, Yes, summer is soon come. Yeah, 1530 01:15:47.520 --> 01:15:48.520 I'm yes. 1531 01:15:49.319 --> 01:15:52.760 And A one of the founding members. She's been here 1532 01:15:52.800 --> 01:15:54.840 with us for years. What's been two? Three years? How 1533 01:15:54.840 --> 01:15:55.479 long you been in here? 1534 01:15:56.119 --> 01:15:57.720 It's at least two for sure. 1535 01:15:58.720 --> 01:16:04.840 Of the nut Navy, Madam say is what I like 1536 01:16:04.880 --> 01:16:07.159 to I know her as i Ushould, but her tag 1537 01:16:07.359 --> 01:16:11.520 is Madam Say and she also has a podcast called 1538 01:16:11.800 --> 01:16:15.399 Temple of Euphoria. Now tell us about the Temple. 1539 01:16:15.359 --> 01:16:17.960 Yes, Yes, Temple of befo you okay? So it started 1540 01:16:17.960 --> 01:16:20.159 off as a retreat. We wanted to do this thing 1541 01:16:20.239 --> 01:16:23.720 where people like yourself in the community y'all are always 1542 01:16:23.720 --> 01:16:26.000 putting together events and things like that. We wanted to 1543 01:16:26.000 --> 01:16:29.439 put something together for them, but that means that needs 1544 01:16:29.479 --> 01:16:32.039 capital and it was a during that time frame, it 1545 01:16:32.079 --> 01:16:34.520 was like, Okay, we have to We love this brand, 1546 01:16:34.600 --> 01:16:36.479 we built something here, but what else can we do 1547 01:16:36.560 --> 01:16:38.880 with it? And in the midst of it, it was 1548 01:16:38.920 --> 01:16:41.199 just a lot of conversations around black people that I 1549 01:16:41.279 --> 01:16:44.119 knew people were coming to me who aren't exposed to 1550 01:16:44.199 --> 01:16:47.279 kink and they had kink questions because they had seen 1551 01:16:47.279 --> 01:16:49.399 me on Easter Your Heart Out podcasts or other shows 1552 01:16:49.439 --> 01:16:51.640 and stuff like that. We're just kind of been watched 1553 01:16:51.640 --> 01:16:53.439 me on the Live Show to tour stuff like that. 1554 01:16:53.520 --> 01:16:55.479 So I was like, okay, answering the questions and it 1555 01:16:55.560 --> 01:16:58.000 was like, well, let's turn that into a show. How 1556 01:16:58.039 --> 01:17:01.680 can we answer these questions for black and brown people 1557 01:17:01.720 --> 01:17:04.680 who have no idea about kink and allow them to 1558 01:17:04.720 --> 01:17:08.199 be introduced to kink from a space of education, so 1559 01:17:08.239 --> 01:17:10.560 that way when they go into it, they're going into 1560 01:17:10.600 --> 01:17:13.199 it safe because there have been a lot of conversations 1561 01:17:13.239 --> 01:17:15.159 about people who aren't so safe and some of the 1562 01:17:15.199 --> 01:17:19.159 things that's happening. So that's how we birth there and 1563 01:17:19.359 --> 01:17:20.399 it has been dope. 1564 01:17:21.399 --> 01:17:24.159 Yeah, give me a topic that you've spoken. 1565 01:17:24.640 --> 01:17:30.239 We just had Zori Baby on from Noughty Knights n Y. 1566 01:17:30.239 --> 01:17:32.760 I say we had her on and the conversation we 1567 01:17:32.840 --> 01:17:34.960 had with her was swing versus kink. A lot of 1568 01:17:35.000 --> 01:17:37.359 people think it's the same, and having that conversation of 1569 01:17:37.760 --> 01:17:41.520 where is different, why it's different, what the two spaces 1570 01:17:41.600 --> 01:17:44.079 look like, and how to conduct yourself when you're in 1571 01:17:44.119 --> 01:17:46.319 that space very different. 1572 01:17:46.359 --> 01:17:47.760 I think those are one of the differences that we 1573 01:17:47.840 --> 01:17:50.439 had when we had we did the party with Classic. 1574 01:17:50.720 --> 01:17:51.319 Yeah. 1575 01:17:51.720 --> 01:17:54.079 Yes, there's like a free full type of vibe and 1576 01:17:54.119 --> 01:17:56.640 it's certain certain communities and it's nothing wrong with that, 1577 01:17:56.680 --> 01:17:58.800 But when you combine that with say the kink play, 1578 01:17:58.960 --> 01:18:02.159 yes it can, they're looking for the kink people to 1579 01:18:02.199 --> 01:18:04.239 be swinging people and we're like, yo, that's not and 1580 01:18:04.279 --> 01:18:08.119 it's not saying right it's completely different. So that I 1581 01:18:08.159 --> 01:18:12.039 believe that's the different disconnected communications sometimes that can happen, 1582 01:18:12.560 --> 01:18:14.680 and play parties you can do. This could be a 1583 01:18:14.720 --> 01:18:17.800 million different ways to do, you know what I'm saying, 1584 01:18:17.800 --> 01:18:21.399 But when you combine them both, it can be interesting. 1585 01:18:21.960 --> 01:18:22.680 It can be interesting. 1586 01:18:22.680 --> 01:18:24.840 I think there's something beautiful when you niche it down 1587 01:18:24.880 --> 01:18:26.640 a little bit, like one of those things I want 1588 01:18:26.680 --> 01:18:30.640 to do. I'm really interested in curating a pan sexual 1589 01:18:30.720 --> 01:18:34.119 and fluid play party where you need to be pan 1590 01:18:34.399 --> 01:18:36.199 or fluid in order to be in this space. 1591 01:18:36.279 --> 01:18:40.439 We spoke about this in the discord, and I want 1592 01:18:40.479 --> 01:18:43.840 to do it. They was talking about a dark room, 1593 01:18:44.520 --> 01:18:47.199 remember when we spoke about it room before. Yes, apparently 1594 01:18:47.199 --> 01:18:48.079 it's not just a gay thing. 1595 01:18:48.359 --> 01:18:49.199 Okay, it's not. 1596 01:18:49.720 --> 01:18:53.800 Apparently a dark room means you go in there you're 1597 01:18:53.800 --> 01:18:54.600 open to anything. 1598 01:18:54.840 --> 01:18:57.359 Ah okay, especially if it was a. 1599 01:18:57.319 --> 01:19:00.800 Pan sexual or fluid one. Right, what do you say 1600 01:19:01.279 --> 01:19:02.359 happening in the dark room? 1601 01:19:02.680 --> 01:19:04.800 If so one, I wouldn't go in the dark room. 1602 01:19:04.880 --> 01:19:07.640 Just be clear, okay, because I'm afraid of dark. 1603 01:19:10.159 --> 01:19:11.319 I like to see what's happening. 1604 01:19:11.880 --> 01:19:13.760 Thank you, turn like so let me see you get 1605 01:19:13.800 --> 01:19:17.439 gig you know, I like it I like watching, But 1606 01:19:17.560 --> 01:19:21.239 what I would imagine happening is and when there's everyone's 1607 01:19:21.239 --> 01:19:24.800 either fluid or pan it's more so people who want 1608 01:19:24.840 --> 01:19:28.720 to express they get to expressed with whomever, versus, Ah, 1609 01:19:28.960 --> 01:19:31.159 your balls kind of touch me, or you know, if 1610 01:19:31.199 --> 01:19:34.920 you're heterosexual you're uncomfortable, or if you're hetero flexible and 1611 01:19:35.039 --> 01:19:37.079 you want to come and explore, you would be able 1612 01:19:37.079 --> 01:19:39.000 to come and explore a little bit, and something like that. 1613 01:19:39.039 --> 01:19:41.000 If you're by and you want to come have a 1614 01:19:41.000 --> 01:19:42.640 good time, I think you can have a good time. 1615 01:19:42.840 --> 01:19:45.600 It would be more of all the bodies intertwining and 1616 01:19:45.720 --> 01:19:51.079 my vision of it right, versus sometimes what can happen 1617 01:19:51.199 --> 01:19:53.760 when like, for example, we frequent. 1618 01:19:53.439 --> 01:19:54.960 A lot of clubs. 1619 01:19:55.319 --> 01:19:58.680 The clubs is more swing mentality, but they're also very hetero. 1620 01:19:59.279 --> 01:20:02.560 It's very high eral community, right, So there's this weird 1621 01:20:02.640 --> 01:20:06.359 awkwardness that happens sometimes where the men don't know how 1622 01:20:06.399 --> 01:20:08.520 to approach, the women don't know how to get approached 1623 01:20:08.680 --> 01:20:11.560 or even to approach, so nothing happens. You end up 1624 01:20:11.560 --> 01:20:14.079 with a lot of people kind of standing around. Whereas 1625 01:20:14.119 --> 01:20:17.439 when I've been to events where it is more. 1626 01:20:17.800 --> 01:20:22.000 Oh, we were at a skating party, we like grow. 1627 01:20:22.880 --> 01:20:26.079 You can't do that here, you know, It's just it's 1628 01:20:26.199 --> 01:20:28.880 just there's energy that flows. So I'm curious what that 1629 01:20:28.920 --> 01:20:29.479 would look like. 1630 01:20:29.680 --> 01:20:32.119 So I'm going to go into a heterosexual dark room. 1631 01:20:32.279 --> 01:20:35.279 Okay, okay, oh that would be nice for you, but 1632 01:20:35.960 --> 01:20:36.279 I don't know. 1633 01:20:36.600 --> 01:20:38.239 Can have a little light so I can see where 1634 01:20:38.239 --> 01:20:41.520 the balls is at. Like you said, I don't want 1635 01:20:41.560 --> 01:20:41.920 to just. 1636 01:20:41.880 --> 01:20:46.960 You know what I'm saying, because. 1637 01:20:49.479 --> 01:20:51.399 Freaking to go in there. 1638 01:20:51.520 --> 01:20:52.399 None, that's okay. 1639 01:20:53.119 --> 01:20:55.319 We noticed pussy's in here, the pussies in here. Everybody 1640 01:20:55.399 --> 01:20:57.279 wants to have sex. Everybody wants to have sex. 1641 01:20:57.359 --> 01:20:57.720 Everybody. 1642 01:20:57.760 --> 01:21:00.199 They don't care who's fucking them. They don't care. Dick 1643 01:21:00.239 --> 01:21:01.560 in their mouth, they got to diconate, but they got 1644 01:21:01.640 --> 01:21:03.399 to dick in their hand, they gotta diconate foot. I 1645 01:21:03.600 --> 01:21:04.159 want that. 1646 01:21:04.079 --> 01:21:07.119 Type of in your mouth, your foot or whatever. 1647 01:21:07.600 --> 01:21:10.199 But then somebody over there can just come and start 1648 01:21:10.239 --> 01:21:12.720 eating my ass as long as they have a vagina. 1649 01:21:15.319 --> 01:21:19.720 What's that? That's all I do. But it's like, yall, yo, 1650 01:21:20.039 --> 01:21:23.720 it's fine that depending sexuals and the bisexuals and the 1651 01:21:23.720 --> 01:21:26.479 hetero flexibles want to do, but we. 1652 01:21:26.359 --> 01:21:26.920 Can have no. 1653 01:21:27.119 --> 01:21:29.359 I don't think that you couldn't I think that it 1654 01:21:29.439 --> 01:21:30.960 still would need to have a little bit of light 1655 01:21:31.039 --> 01:21:35.199 so that it can be exactly so that you can 1656 01:21:35.319 --> 01:21:37.439 all the balls, because you got to remember you're representing 1657 01:21:37.439 --> 01:21:40.720 the heterosexual males. They are also heterosexual females, right, you 1658 01:21:40.760 --> 01:21:43.680 don't want another coochie accidentally, or you know, do you 1659 01:21:43.680 --> 01:21:44.640 want a woman eating. 1660 01:21:44.439 --> 01:21:46.479 Your coochie if she's in the dark room, she don't care. 1661 01:21:46.840 --> 01:21:49.319 But see, that's that's where you are little. You see 1662 01:21:49.359 --> 01:21:50.159 you ain't really. 1663 01:21:50.039 --> 01:21:50.479 Hurt about it. 1664 01:21:50.479 --> 01:21:51.319 I just don't want to eat. 1665 01:21:51.520 --> 01:21:55.520 I don't want you know that, you ask any person 1666 01:21:55.560 --> 01:21:57.720 that's gay, you're fake gay. 1667 01:21:57.800 --> 01:22:00.239 If all I gotta, if I'm just eating, you are fake. Yeah. 1668 01:22:00.319 --> 01:22:03.520 Yeah, that's that's why I don't say that, like you 1669 01:22:03.560 --> 01:22:05.600 can eat. I don't need an example like I have 1670 01:22:05.680 --> 01:22:08.680 some heterosexual female friends where it's like, no, I'm not 1671 01:22:08.720 --> 01:22:10.479 trying to touch on the coaching. I don't even want 1672 01:22:10.479 --> 01:22:12.039 to smell it, like I don't even want to be 1673 01:22:12.079 --> 01:22:14.199 near it like that. So because I'm not like that, 1674 01:22:14.319 --> 01:22:15.560 I just I don't. 1675 01:22:15.399 --> 01:22:19.560 Want to eat it. You don't want you like a sushi. 1676 01:22:21.319 --> 01:22:23.600 It doesn't do anything for me. If I kiss a woman, 1677 01:22:24.000 --> 01:22:27.479 oh it doesn't do any It doesn't like isn't Yeah, 1678 01:22:27.840 --> 01:22:28.880 it doesn't do anything to me. 1679 01:22:30.279 --> 01:22:35.119 I think a whole different level of sexuality that's acceptable, yes, 1680 01:22:36.159 --> 01:22:39.439 versus because he kissing a man is just trying. It 1681 01:22:39.479 --> 01:22:44.119 makes I can't see it like sum you attractive, good 1682 01:22:44.119 --> 01:22:55.600 looking because he's a man. That's not right. 1683 01:22:55.720 --> 01:22:57.600 You know what I'm saying, mean while me thinking about 1684 01:22:57.640 --> 01:22:58.920 kissing night, Oh my. 1685 01:22:58.720 --> 01:23:03.800 God, exactly. But you are paying sexual first of all, 1686 01:23:04.079 --> 01:23:07.359 respectfully like. 1687 01:23:07.279 --> 01:23:08.000 A house, like. 1688 01:23:10.359 --> 01:23:11.439 She has boundaries. 1689 01:23:13.039 --> 01:23:15.920 She will kiss trans woman. 1690 01:23:16.159 --> 01:23:19.640 Man his name and whatever. 1691 01:23:19.479 --> 01:23:24.079 It is that person. Yes, she'll do it. That's what 1692 01:23:24.119 --> 01:23:25.840 I meant by that. I was trying to be shaky. 1693 01:23:27.000 --> 01:23:29.439 But yeah, so men we kind of And I don't 1694 01:23:29.439 --> 01:23:32.199 know if that's societal. I don't know if it's just 1695 01:23:32.439 --> 01:23:36.920 scared to be labeled gay. But I literally, in my 1696 01:23:36.920 --> 01:23:38.640 body have never looked at a man and be like 1697 01:23:40.239 --> 01:23:43.520 I kissed the ship out that nigga, Like it's never 1698 01:23:44.000 --> 01:23:53.880 it's not, it's not it's not a thing that ever happens. 1699 01:23:53.920 --> 01:23:56.159 Never get pound. 1700 01:23:55.880 --> 01:24:01.279 Though, isn't that going? 1701 01:24:02.880 --> 01:24:03.560 No? I get it. 1702 01:24:03.640 --> 01:24:05.039 Yeah, that's because you're hetero. 1703 01:24:05.279 --> 01:24:07.840 Yeah, that proves that you're heterosexual. There are some men 1704 01:24:07.880 --> 01:24:09.880 that may be thought about kissing a guy, but they 1705 01:24:09.880 --> 01:24:12.439 won't say it because oh, no, no, you're gay. 1706 01:24:12.880 --> 01:24:14.880 Yeah well, well, yeah, that's true. 1707 01:24:15.000 --> 01:24:16.760 Wanting to just explore because you. 1708 01:24:16.680 --> 01:24:19.079 Know, men are not only demonized by other men for that, 1709 01:24:19.159 --> 01:24:20.119 but also women too. 1710 01:24:20.199 --> 01:24:20.920 Yes, very much. 1711 01:24:21.039 --> 01:24:25.079 I think sometimes men who may want to, who may 1712 01:24:25.079 --> 01:24:28.399 be hetero flexible, can be demonized more by women sometimes 1713 01:24:28.439 --> 01:24:31.520 than men. Yeah no, no, I've seen it. I've seen that. 1714 01:24:31.640 --> 01:24:34.399 I was speaking about that too on my gram when 1715 01:24:34.399 --> 01:24:37.439 I was talking about the docy thing that women are 1716 01:24:37.520 --> 01:24:41.800 often so cool with gay men until it's a dude 1717 01:24:41.800 --> 01:24:46.119 the're dating, or when when the dude that they're dating 1718 01:24:46.159 --> 01:24:49.720 has had a gay experience of any sort, any male 1719 01:24:50.239 --> 01:24:54.239 to male experience of any sort, if he likes butt play, 1720 01:24:54.560 --> 01:24:59.079 antal play of any sort where it's him receiving, they 1721 01:24:59.119 --> 01:25:03.119 get where the homophobic about the way they view him. 1722 01:25:03.159 --> 01:25:06.199 Oh he's not masculine enough, or you know, he might 1723 01:25:06.319 --> 01:25:08.520 like dick, or if he hangs out with his friends 1724 01:25:08.520 --> 01:25:15.600 too much. Oh remember that, so shameless. Somebody was like, oh, 1725 01:25:15.640 --> 01:25:18.560 you hanged, he must got better play than me. You 1726 01:25:18.600 --> 01:25:21.560 always with but you and dudes. 1727 01:25:22.439 --> 01:25:25.279 But I've seen this happen a lot. This is not 1728 01:25:26.119 --> 01:25:28.800 I'm not I'm the exception, not the rule. I know that, 1729 01:25:29.000 --> 01:25:30.840 I know where I'm the exception, not the rule, because 1730 01:25:30.840 --> 01:25:33.000 none of that. You're What you did in your past 1731 01:25:33.079 --> 01:25:35.520 is your past right, and experiences that you have is 1732 01:25:35.560 --> 01:25:37.840 what you had exactly if you share them with me? 1733 01:25:37.920 --> 01:25:40.079 To me again, that safe space? Am I your safe 1734 01:25:40.079 --> 01:25:42.279 space to share that with? What if your experience what 1735 01:25:42.399 --> 01:25:44.640 a man wasn't a good one? What if you shared 1736 01:25:44.640 --> 01:25:46.199 that with me because you were traumatized. 1737 01:25:46.239 --> 01:25:49.520 No, you're not, you're by curious or something. No, if 1738 01:25:49.520 --> 01:25:51.199 you're if you wanted to kiss the dude. 1739 01:25:51.640 --> 01:25:53.319 No, no, no, that's what I know. That's what I'm saying. 1740 01:25:53.319 --> 01:25:56.079 What if your experience wasn't Again, you got to remember 1741 01:25:56.119 --> 01:25:56.439 I was in the. 1742 01:25:56.399 --> 01:25:57.560 Middle, started in the ball. 1743 01:25:58.000 --> 01:25:59.479 Stay with me with this. 1744 01:26:00.039 --> 01:26:04.399 He was like, no, I try it. No, c that's curious. 1745 01:26:04.439 --> 01:26:08.119 So look and when we were in afghanistand on the 1746 01:26:08.119 --> 01:26:11.600 male side of the barracks, there was a no rape, 1747 01:26:11.720 --> 01:26:15.119 no sign. Again, even as grown men, there is just 1748 01:26:15.159 --> 01:26:17.239 like present like you, you don't know. A guy may 1749 01:26:17.279 --> 01:26:19.039 have had an experience with a man, but he didn't 1750 01:26:19.119 --> 01:26:22.720 necessarily want it. So what if that's the case, I'm 1751 01:26:22.720 --> 01:26:23.399 not going to call you. 1752 01:26:24.439 --> 01:26:27.760 Yeah, well, grape is not. Yeah, that's a desery I'm saying. 1753 01:26:27.760 --> 01:26:29.760 But if a man shared, like you were saying, if 1754 01:26:29.800 --> 01:26:32.560 a man shares any of those things you're saying, like, 1755 01:26:32.680 --> 01:26:34.399 if he wants it, if he's. 1756 01:26:34.359 --> 01:26:37.000 I think if you have the desire, that makes you 1757 01:26:37.079 --> 01:26:41.119 curious and and that's fine for me, and I think 1758 01:26:41.520 --> 01:26:44.680 more people should be open to saying, yes, I'm curious 1759 01:26:44.720 --> 01:26:47.279 about that. It doesn't make you gay. It means that 1760 01:26:47.399 --> 01:26:50.000 I would wouldn't mind an experience to see if I 1761 01:26:50.119 --> 01:26:53.520 like it or not. That definitely to me, because I'm 1762 01:26:53.560 --> 01:26:56.039 not you know, I think we all people don't like 1763 01:26:56.079 --> 01:26:57.560 labels a lot. I remember I was talking to a 1764 01:26:57.600 --> 01:27:02.880 woman that was like, I, I like, I had sexual 1765 01:27:02.840 --> 01:27:05.279 with a woman. I had a relationship with a woman. 1766 01:27:05.720 --> 01:27:08.159 I don't like being called bisexual. 1767 01:27:08.399 --> 01:27:09.039 I understand it. 1768 01:27:09.359 --> 01:27:14.039 And I was like, you like women and you like men, 1769 01:27:15.000 --> 01:27:17.720 you're bisexual. Well, what's the problem with it. She's like, 1770 01:27:17.760 --> 01:27:20.159 I don't like the labels. I don't like the labels, 1771 01:27:20.640 --> 01:27:25.960 and okay, fine, but you are bisexual. Literally, you like 1772 01:27:26.000 --> 01:27:28.479 women and you're like men. You're by I don't have 1773 01:27:28.479 --> 01:27:31.000 to call you it ever again. But I understand that 1774 01:27:31.039 --> 01:27:33.840 you like women and you like men as a man, 1775 01:27:33.960 --> 01:27:36.359 I do not like men or women. I am not 1776 01:27:36.399 --> 01:27:40.319 curious about men nothing. When you are, you are open 1777 01:27:40.319 --> 01:27:42.439 to an experience with men and you're open to an 1778 01:27:42.479 --> 01:27:45.199 experience with women, what's wrong with saying that. 1779 01:27:46.439 --> 01:27:48.640 I don't think it's anything wrong with saying It's just 1780 01:27:48.680 --> 01:27:51.479 how society will treat you unfortunately. 1781 01:27:51.560 --> 01:27:53.680 Yeah, and I'm cool with that part. I'm cool with that. 1782 01:27:53.720 --> 01:27:57.680 But if it's in the safe space, then yeah, you 1783 01:27:57.880 --> 01:28:00.680 like women and you like men. Hey, I won't say 1784 01:28:00.720 --> 01:28:02.840 nothing else. It is. 1785 01:28:06.039 --> 01:28:08.159 To use it. 1786 01:28:08.159 --> 01:28:09.399 It is what it is. 1787 01:28:10.000 --> 01:28:13.640 So okay, I guess my question is why do people 1788 01:28:13.760 --> 01:28:14.800 Why do some people don't. 1789 01:28:14.680 --> 01:28:18.039 Like the label? So the label for me was because 1790 01:28:18.079 --> 01:28:21.800 when I got the label, people then did this thing 1791 01:28:21.840 --> 01:28:26.399 where they kind of acknowledged me as the label in 1792 01:28:26.439 --> 01:28:28.399 a way or treated me like the label was sitting 1793 01:28:28.439 --> 01:28:31.439 on my forehead, especially in relationships with men. Oh you 1794 01:28:31.600 --> 01:28:36.520 by Yeah, First of all, stop it. Okay, this means nothing. 1795 01:28:36.479 --> 01:28:38.720 Right because who like? What does it mean? Like if 1796 01:28:38.720 --> 01:28:39.880 I want to have that experience with you? 1797 01:28:39.920 --> 01:28:41.800 I mean I want that experience, I mean, but I 1798 01:28:41.800 --> 01:28:44.039 also I mean if I'm trying to get to know you, 1799 01:28:44.119 --> 01:28:45.800 who says just because I'm getting to know you. I 1800 01:28:45.840 --> 01:28:47.840 want to sleep with you, and someone else I'm trying 1801 01:28:47.840 --> 01:28:49.239 to still get to know you. I don't even know 1802 01:28:49.279 --> 01:28:52.039 if I like you. You gotta make it right, you 1803 01:28:52.079 --> 01:28:54.119 know what I mean? And it was always that and 1804 01:28:54.199 --> 01:28:57.439 also this whole thing there was there's this narrative when 1805 01:28:57.479 --> 01:29:00.359 people can label you like, oh, you're one of them, 1806 01:29:00.479 --> 01:29:03.119 your mom, you know what I mean? 1807 01:29:03.319 --> 01:29:05.680 Like that was always my response. That was my response. 1808 01:29:05.720 --> 01:29:08.000 And I know that's not a good response, right, you know, 1809 01:29:08.119 --> 01:29:09.720 but that's how it made me feel. It was like, 1810 01:29:09.800 --> 01:29:10.680 what is one of them? 1811 01:29:10.840 --> 01:29:11.000 You know? 1812 01:29:11.239 --> 01:29:11.279 What? 1813 01:29:11.279 --> 01:29:14.359 Does that even means? That energy, even when they didn't 1814 01:29:14.399 --> 01:29:17.319 say it, it was the energy of you belong to 1815 01:29:17.479 --> 01:29:20.640 this group and you're not like us, and it's just 1816 01:29:20.640 --> 01:29:22.039 a weird energy, wasn't my friend? 1817 01:29:22.239 --> 01:29:24.760 Do you think that the I'm about to hit it, 1818 01:29:25.039 --> 01:29:27.199 about to come on, let's go there. Do you think 1819 01:29:27.279 --> 01:29:30.680 that the LGBTQ community plus community. Do you think that 1820 01:29:30.800 --> 01:29:32.880 sometimes it happens within for sure? 1821 01:29:33.000 --> 01:29:36.800 Within the community, for sure? Like for example, I experienced 1822 01:29:36.840 --> 01:29:40.720 it like there are a lot of women who identify 1823 01:29:40.720 --> 01:29:43.119 as lesbians and they will not date me. I am 1824 01:29:43.119 --> 01:29:45.960 not on their criteria to be dated because I still have. 1825 01:29:46.079 --> 01:29:46.560 I liked it. 1826 01:29:47.159 --> 01:29:49.359 I had, and I have a permanent dick, so it's like, 1827 01:29:49.840 --> 01:29:55.279 you know, not permanent, you know, but you know, but 1828 01:29:55.319 --> 01:29:58.600 like they don't like that, so they I mean, it's 1829 01:29:58.640 --> 01:30:00.600 a little one though, it's my clip. I mean, you 1830 01:30:00.640 --> 01:30:01.600 have an extended clit. 1831 01:30:01.680 --> 01:30:02.640 I thought you was going to say you got a 1832 01:30:02.680 --> 01:30:03.199 little dick too. 1833 01:30:12.920 --> 01:30:16.960 I'm saying you got an extended clit. So that's cool, Yeah, 1834 01:30:17.239 --> 01:30:18.439 cool extended. 1835 01:30:18.720 --> 01:30:22.880 So it's like it's not only everybody does it. Once 1836 01:30:22.880 --> 01:30:24.600 he slapped the label on. It's like kind of like, oh, 1837 01:30:24.640 --> 01:30:25.880 I'm treating you like the lady. 1838 01:30:25.880 --> 01:30:29.760 I've done that before. And I don't want to share 1839 01:30:29.800 --> 01:30:33.319 too much. And I'm not sure how comfortable she wants 1840 01:30:33.399 --> 01:30:35.479 me with this conversation with this, but I will say 1841 01:30:35.479 --> 01:30:37.399 from my experience, when she told me that she did 1842 01:30:37.479 --> 01:30:41.399 like interactions with women, it became something she had to 1843 01:30:41.439 --> 01:30:45.680 suffer through when I was trying to have certain interactions 1844 01:30:46.479 --> 01:30:49.600 because I kept saying, well, you like women, you like women, 1845 01:30:50.319 --> 01:30:53.520 you know what I'm saying, So, like, you know, it 1846 01:30:53.600 --> 01:30:55.600 became something she was like, I never I wish I 1847 01:30:55.640 --> 01:30:58.640 never told you that because now you're always stolen it 1848 01:30:58.640 --> 01:31:02.520 in my face as type of door opener for you 1849 01:31:02.680 --> 01:31:04.760 or for what I told you before. 1850 01:31:04.880 --> 01:31:07.880 And it was like, yo, I'm just always walk. 1851 01:31:07.720 --> 01:31:10.560 Around with I like women like and that's something that 1852 01:31:10.600 --> 01:31:12.520 you get to use. That was something I told you about. 1853 01:31:13.039 --> 01:31:15.399 Leave it there, yeah, and let me open it when 1854 01:31:15.439 --> 01:31:16.239 I'm ready to open it. 1855 01:31:16.199 --> 01:31:18.279 And you'll see when when when the ones that's my 1856 01:31:18.359 --> 01:31:19.039 type come around. 1857 01:31:19.119 --> 01:31:19.520 But I don't. 1858 01:31:19.600 --> 01:31:21.239 Yeah, I don't need you to. 1859 01:31:22.920 --> 01:31:25.199 That's bullshit, because I want to see you eat pussy too. 1860 01:31:25.560 --> 01:31:27.039 But see that's the thing. Tell me you want to 1861 01:31:27.039 --> 01:31:29.159 see me eat pussy instead of trying to show me 1862 01:31:29.279 --> 01:31:31.720 every woman that who pussy you want me to eat? Right, 1863 01:31:32.039 --> 01:31:33.880 Come talk to me and tell me like, oh I 1864 01:31:33.960 --> 01:31:36.199 want I really I'm. 1865 01:31:36.039 --> 01:31:38.680 Excited to see you eat a pussy and just leave 1866 01:31:38.720 --> 01:31:39.039 it at that. 1867 01:31:41.239 --> 01:31:43.560 Oh instead of him, instead of him like, oh, you 1868 01:31:43.600 --> 01:31:47.239 want to eat her pussy? You like her, you think 1869 01:31:48.479 --> 01:31:48.840 about her. 1870 01:31:50.000 --> 01:31:52.880 That's the way he staided, like, let's eat her pussy. 1871 01:31:52.960 --> 01:31:56.279 She's like, no, I don't, that's not That's what I'm saying, 1872 01:31:56.359 --> 01:31:59.239 instead of going, let's eat her pussy, just the conversation 1873 01:31:59.399 --> 01:32:03.119 of on some four place ship, I'm excited to like 1874 01:32:03.359 --> 01:32:05.319 I've said this the term I'm so excited to eat 1875 01:32:05.319 --> 01:32:05.960 a pussy with you? 1876 01:32:07.359 --> 01:32:12.199 Why you said it like that? That was that was 1877 01:32:12.239 --> 01:32:16.399 a bad I love the way you can turn that. 1878 01:32:16.479 --> 01:32:19.359 Life is good. I've seen you Courtney. 1879 01:32:19.079 --> 01:32:23.199 Before I did. I mean, it wasn't technical. It was 1880 01:32:23.239 --> 01:32:24.359 just a little bit of a stroke. 1881 01:32:25.399 --> 01:32:27.239 What is up with you? In the down and upstroke? 1882 01:32:27.680 --> 01:32:32.359 That's how you stroke, That's how you hit that know 1883 01:32:32.640 --> 01:32:36.239 because my my skirt short, I don't got that's got 1884 01:32:36.239 --> 01:32:40.039 a strip a court you oh no closet. 1885 01:32:40.640 --> 01:32:44.720 You can hold your st So what is the what 1886 01:32:44.840 --> 01:32:48.000 is the thing? What is the motion? What is the yea? 1887 01:32:48.319 --> 01:32:48.960 Even? Okay? 1888 01:32:49.000 --> 01:32:51.079 So even if I'm if I'm sitting, because I would, 1889 01:32:51.079 --> 01:32:54.920 I would hamp here, right you you still coming up? 1890 01:32:56.439 --> 01:32:57.439 You would come up? 1891 01:32:58.000 --> 01:33:05.359 Look at that, Look at that body, look at it. Listen. 1892 01:33:05.760 --> 01:33:09.239 If you're looking for the visual going over the patreon, 1893 01:33:09.439 --> 01:33:12.680 we are not posting on YouTube anymore. The visuals go 1894 01:33:12.760 --> 01:33:16.319 on our patreon all right again, patreon dot com, backslash 1895 01:33:16.399 --> 01:33:21.319 the heart orsoft show dot com to watch. Madam says stroke, 1896 01:33:21.760 --> 01:33:24.640 Now what does that do? That down and up things? 1897 01:33:24.880 --> 01:33:29.039 Oh yeah inside as a woman who receives it, it's 1898 01:33:29.079 --> 01:33:32.560 like it hit that all and that spot that make 1899 01:33:32.640 --> 01:33:33.560 your eye kind of. 1900 01:33:33.479 --> 01:33:37.239 Twitch Yep, it's the crazy spot the crazy. 1901 01:33:38.560 --> 01:33:45.239 Crazy, like the baby, like the doll, you know what 1902 01:33:45.760 --> 01:33:49.560 with the broken eyes. Yes, you hit that that doll. 1903 01:33:51.199 --> 01:33:53.520 What is something that you don't like about a stroke? 1904 01:33:53.720 --> 01:33:55.319 What's a stroke that you don't like? 1905 01:33:55.680 --> 01:33:56.039 Oh? 1906 01:33:56.159 --> 01:34:00.319 Man, the rabbit was gonna say the rabbit, the little 1907 01:34:00.399 --> 01:34:01.760 humpers with the rabbit. 1908 01:34:03.279 --> 01:34:07.039 I was actually watching a Mexican porn and the women 1909 01:34:07.079 --> 01:34:11.199 were gorgeous and this man was just I was like, 1910 01:34:11.279 --> 01:34:12.319 you are ruining this. 1911 01:34:15.800 --> 01:34:17.600 And you can always tell because the pussy never went 1912 01:34:18.239 --> 01:34:20.399 even important, It's always dry. It looked like it hurt. 1913 01:34:20.960 --> 01:34:23.520 I'd be like, oh she hurting, Like there's a genuine 1914 01:34:23.960 --> 01:34:25.720 he was his dick wasn't. 1915 01:34:26.079 --> 01:34:26.479 Wasn't. 1916 01:34:26.279 --> 01:34:33.600 What I do realize that there's different strokes for different moments. Yes, insects, yes, 1917 01:34:33.840 --> 01:34:36.359 And so there's a stroke that you might start off with. 1918 01:34:37.000 --> 01:34:40.560 There's one that gets the ship like super up, and 1919 01:34:40.600 --> 01:34:43.600 then you got a killer a finisher. What I'm saying, 1920 01:34:45.439 --> 01:34:48.760 so knowing the body, paying attention to the women's body, 1921 01:34:49.039 --> 01:34:51.159 to know which one is working and which one you 1922 01:34:51.199 --> 01:34:53.760 need to get to right now is important. Where do 1923 01:34:53.800 --> 01:34:55.600 you put when do you use the down and up. 1924 01:34:56.680 --> 01:34:59.199 When I'm down and up, that's when you first and 1925 01:34:59.319 --> 01:35:02.479 when I'm first entering from the back. You know what 1926 01:35:02.520 --> 01:35:04.279 I'm saying, because then once you. 1927 01:35:04.319 --> 01:35:10.520 Get it, you sure you got me talking? 1928 01:35:10.760 --> 01:35:13.239 Listen, because then once you get it, you find you 1929 01:35:13.399 --> 01:35:17.279 find your rhythm from there, and then from there she'll 1930 01:35:17.319 --> 01:35:23.760 give you a rhythm and you can reminiscence. Side on 1931 01:35:23.800 --> 01:35:28.399 the bed, legs up. That's a good one every time. 1932 01:35:28.439 --> 01:35:31.119 That was my first strap experience was side on the 1933 01:35:31.119 --> 01:35:31.760 bed legs up. 1934 01:35:31.920 --> 01:35:34.000 I think I think for me, a good finisher for 1935 01:35:34.079 --> 01:35:37.279 me is missionary legs pinned back. 1936 01:35:37.800 --> 01:35:39.880 Oh okay, that's a kind of the same. 1937 01:35:42.279 --> 01:35:43.199 Do you really want to know? 1938 01:35:43.399 --> 01:35:46.880 Now? Behind here? 1939 01:35:47.439 --> 01:35:48.279 No, not that far. 1940 01:35:48.399 --> 01:35:50.640 I'm almost I was at one point, and then i 1941 01:35:50.720 --> 01:35:52.880 lost my flexibility on it. So I'm working on getting 1942 01:35:52.880 --> 01:35:58.479 back there. Yeah, stretch, I do smart ass. They can 1943 01:35:58.600 --> 01:36:00.520 they can get pretty far back, but they can't go 1944 01:36:00.520 --> 01:36:04.039 behind my head. I could touch my ears exactly. Yeah, 1945 01:36:04.239 --> 01:36:05.319 I could touch my ears. 1946 01:36:05.520 --> 01:36:08.760 But because you know the old ship we used to say. 1947 01:36:10.239 --> 01:36:15.840 Yeah, one of my favorite. 1948 01:36:16.560 --> 01:36:19.319 All right, one thing that I wanted to bring up 1949 01:36:19.319 --> 01:36:21.840 there was a post that I saw. Remember I was saying, 1950 01:36:21.840 --> 01:36:26.079 something hurt. There's a post that I saw on the 1951 01:36:26.239 --> 01:36:28.479 Condoms page. Shout out to be Condoms for doing so 1952 01:36:28.600 --> 01:36:32.960 much good work talking about different sectional things. You can 1953 01:36:33.000 --> 01:36:38.079 follow them on Condoms on Instagram. The post is how 1954 01:36:38.119 --> 01:36:43.079 to play with his balls to drive him crazy. Baby 1955 01:36:43.079 --> 01:36:46.920 girl knows that I'm starting to enjoy ballplayer, But she 1956 01:36:47.000 --> 01:36:51.720 has a big butt, right stay with me. I'm behind her, 1957 01:36:52.880 --> 01:36:55.119 but the butt is between me and she got your 1958 01:36:55.279 --> 01:36:56.239 arms and a big butt. 1959 01:37:02.600 --> 01:37:04.199 Why are you looking yesterday like that? 1960 01:37:04.640 --> 01:37:07.359 Because you can see what he's doing. I can't now 1961 01:37:07.680 --> 01:37:11.640 I'm behind her, and remember I'm stroking. She's trying to 1962 01:37:11.680 --> 01:37:16.720 grab them all, but she's holding on for their life. 1963 01:37:21.680 --> 01:37:23.560 The slapper all the way, bro. 1964 01:37:27.760 --> 01:37:28.600 The way. 1965 01:37:29.199 --> 01:37:31.840 I need a rub. I need a rub, and I 1966 01:37:31.880 --> 01:37:34.800 need you to get up under them, but you can't 1967 01:37:34.960 --> 01:37:39.560 grab them like this is not how we're doing it right. 1968 01:37:39.920 --> 01:37:44.039 I had to get off. You know what I'm saying. 1969 01:37:44.279 --> 01:37:50.239 Your balls are very sensitive, so you can't just doing 1970 01:37:50.840 --> 01:37:54.640 I got your ball, you got my balls. I can't move. 1971 01:37:56.159 --> 01:37:59.000 I be so gentle with the balls like I'm I'm 1972 01:37:59.079 --> 01:38:00.960 I'm leaning in because I'd be like, oh, I want 1973 01:38:00.960 --> 01:38:02.840 to hurt them if you ain't hurting me. So now 1974 01:38:02.840 --> 01:38:04.520 like I put them all in my mouth and everything 1975 01:38:04.560 --> 01:38:08.279 like that. That's I like to give the ball space. 1976 01:38:08.359 --> 01:38:11.159 During head that's when they get space. 1977 01:38:11.319 --> 01:38:11.600 Yeah. 1978 01:38:11.800 --> 01:38:13.560 Yeah, But there's a talent to ball player. 1979 01:38:14.039 --> 01:38:16.720 There is because some men. I find that some men 1980 01:38:16.800 --> 01:38:17.920 don't like ball play. 1981 01:38:18.079 --> 01:38:21.239 No, yes, they don't want their balls touched. They're too afraid, 1982 01:38:21.239 --> 01:38:22.479 like it's too sensitive. Yeah. 1983 01:38:22.600 --> 01:38:26.119 Some women is mad rough too true, like yeah, the 1984 01:38:26.279 --> 01:38:27.119 handy ship like. 1985 01:38:27.960 --> 01:38:33.000 Crazy and they don't understand if there's an equivalent feeling 1986 01:38:33.119 --> 01:38:38.399 for women. I'm not sure that can make y'all understand 1987 01:38:38.479 --> 01:38:43.720 what ball the wrong ball play feels like. It's the 1988 01:38:43.720 --> 01:38:50.039 balls have a it's like an energy around it around 1989 01:38:50.079 --> 01:38:56.199 them all doing you could literally brush against a ball 1990 01:38:56.560 --> 01:39:01.319 the it's like like it's so I don't think that 1991 01:39:01.399 --> 01:39:04.600 y'all understand. This is a whole thing around those nuts. 1992 01:39:04.880 --> 01:39:06.399 So you trying to go. 1993 01:39:07.279 --> 01:39:11.520 Like we do understand now I'm going to speak for myself, 1994 01:39:11.720 --> 01:39:16.279 but it's it's the equivalent I would say is when 1995 01:39:16.720 --> 01:39:20.000 men are hitting what they think is the wall, and 1996 01:39:20.039 --> 01:39:22.880 it's not necessarily the wall is the servant when they 1997 01:39:22.960 --> 01:39:27.800 hit the Yes no no, no, no, that's not how 1998 01:39:27.840 --> 01:39:30.880 to wait, hold on, that's not fair No, it is fear. 1999 01:39:31.239 --> 01:39:32.720 How are you going to say that it's notice you 2000 01:39:32.760 --> 01:39:33.520 don't have a service. 2001 01:39:33.720 --> 01:39:38.039 You can't. So I understand that that's painful. I totally 2002 01:39:38.079 --> 01:39:42.279 get that. Hear me out though you can't do anything 2003 01:39:42.359 --> 01:39:45.359 to a ball like I can understand yo a nigga 2004 01:39:45.359 --> 01:39:47.359 crashing the chip, and it's like Yo, that hurts. That hurts. 2005 01:39:47.520 --> 01:39:49.760 I can't even tell you it hurts when you hit 2006 01:39:49.800 --> 01:39:53.600 my ball. And that's where I think my eyes crossed. 2007 01:39:53.800 --> 01:39:56.960 I cannot even talk to you. It's a different No. 2008 01:39:56.920 --> 01:39:58.960 I get it where I'm speaking, Like I said, I'm 2009 01:39:58.960 --> 01:40:01.800 speaking for myself. For me, I have been with men 2010 01:40:01.920 --> 01:40:05.600 where their technique of how they had sex, especially if 2011 01:40:05.600 --> 01:40:09.680 they're curved. I'm also tilted, they would sit on my 2012 01:40:09.760 --> 01:40:12.760 service and it would put me in heavy pain, make 2013 01:40:12.800 --> 01:40:13.720 me disassociate. 2014 01:40:14.039 --> 01:40:16.079 So to them, they're thinking, I'm there. 2015 01:40:16.199 --> 01:40:20.199 I'm out this right associating because they finished, they think, 2016 01:40:20.319 --> 01:40:23.039 ooh yeah, just do this thing. They have no idea. 2017 01:40:23.439 --> 01:40:27.039 It was so painful. I disassociated. I had no pleasure whatsoever. 2018 01:40:27.159 --> 01:40:29.159 I was ready for you to be done because I 2019 01:40:29.199 --> 01:40:31.239 can't express to you that this hurt. 2020 01:40:31.319 --> 01:40:32.199 Now I go home. 2021 01:40:32.279 --> 01:40:34.920 Now, before I go home, my period's on my periods 2022 01:40:35.000 --> 01:40:37.399 knocked on. Now I'm in cramps and now I'm hurting 2023 01:40:37.439 --> 01:40:40.960 for days after. And while I received that, I understand 2024 01:40:41.000 --> 01:40:42.880 it may be different. I'm just what you asked for 2025 01:40:43.079 --> 01:40:45.920 was is there an equivalent? And to me, that will 2026 01:40:46.000 --> 01:40:48.479 be the most equivalent that I could think of. 2027 01:40:48.720 --> 01:40:51.319 All right, well that's the I'm going to receive that 2028 01:40:51.359 --> 01:40:58.479 and stop it there, fellas, especially, that's another strike against you. Curved. 2029 01:40:58.520 --> 01:41:05.439 Now stop playing. Okay. I can go left, I can 2030 01:41:05.479 --> 01:41:08.279 go right. You curve niggas like this. You can't go left. 2031 01:41:09.239 --> 01:41:11.159 I can't go left. Your ship pointed it right. You 2032 01:41:11.199 --> 01:41:14.640 got to hit it with your elbow, can't. All I 2033 01:41:14.680 --> 01:41:17.720 got to do is shift. Let me play right, play top, 2034 01:41:17.760 --> 01:41:21.399 play bottom player. I can do whatever I want. Okay. 2035 01:41:21.840 --> 01:41:26.520 He actually seeing this, guys, uh penis and it was 2036 01:41:26.600 --> 01:41:28.159 like terribly curved. 2037 01:41:28.199 --> 01:41:30.119 And I was like, who was enjoying? 2038 01:41:30.159 --> 01:41:30.600 What you mean? 2039 01:41:31.039 --> 01:41:34.199 Like like a U turn sort of like it was. 2040 01:41:34.239 --> 01:41:36.079 It was a deep curve. And I was like, oh 2041 01:41:36.199 --> 01:41:37.920 my god, how would anyone having sex with you. 2042 01:41:39.880 --> 01:41:40.119 Around? 2043 01:41:42.079 --> 01:41:43.119 Why would it do with us? 2044 01:41:43.319 --> 01:41:45.199 I seen nigg and he was in the discord. 2045 01:41:45.239 --> 01:41:49.720 I think I'm not going to say she was like see. 2046 01:41:49.680 --> 01:41:51.039 Like going around the Jackie. 2047 01:41:50.880 --> 01:41:58.000 Roback it up, pack it up. Thank you for me. 2048 01:42:00.119 --> 01:42:06.119 Don't you play with his balls to drive him crazy? 2049 01:42:06.640 --> 01:42:11.399 Right all right? Number one, cup and yes. 2050 01:42:11.399 --> 01:42:13.279 I was going say, cup and hold is number one. 2051 01:42:13.760 --> 01:42:18.520 Cradle his testicles in your hand, letting them rest naturally. 2052 01:42:19.319 --> 01:42:23.520 This alone can feel comfortable and pleasurable. Use a gentle 2053 01:42:24.000 --> 01:42:28.359 squeezing motion, almost like a soft massage, to stimulate the area. 2054 01:42:28.680 --> 01:42:32.319 I don't think that y'all understand when I said that 2055 01:42:32.399 --> 01:42:35.840 there's an aura around the balls. The cup and hold 2056 01:42:36.159 --> 01:42:40.439 is like very like, very light, motherly, very like. 2057 01:42:40.640 --> 01:42:44.239 And let the balls be oily or wet, y'all. You 2058 01:42:44.319 --> 01:42:47.720 gotta let it be oily. And so when it's like real, 2059 01:42:47.840 --> 01:42:48.520 when you real. 2060 01:42:48.479 --> 01:42:51.920 Lubricating and stuff and the balls get real wet, the 2061 01:42:51.960 --> 01:42:55.359 balls kind of move in your hand from like the 2062 01:42:55.520 --> 01:42:56.560 spit and everything. 2063 01:42:56.760 --> 01:42:57.319 Don't do that. 2064 01:42:57.439 --> 01:42:59.199 No you don't, no, no, no, no, no, it's not 2065 01:43:00.000 --> 01:43:00.600 it's not stressed. 2066 01:43:00.640 --> 01:43:00.960 It's not. 2067 01:43:03.760 --> 01:43:06.399 You just like you. I'm you see me, I'm like 2068 01:43:06.399 --> 01:43:07.199 like a saucer. 2069 01:43:07.319 --> 01:43:09.479 You just kind of hold like you see. I'm not 2070 01:43:09.520 --> 01:43:12.319 even moving. I'm just moving the hand, not my fingers, 2071 01:43:12.359 --> 01:43:13.119 you know what I'm saying. 2072 01:43:13.640 --> 01:43:18.520 Number two this girl got cherries in her mouth. Put 2073 01:43:18.520 --> 01:43:21.760 them in your mouth. Having his balls in your mouth 2074 01:43:21.960 --> 01:43:26.520 is what would really drive him wild. Lick kiss and. 2075 01:43:28.399 --> 01:43:33.800 What suck on them? I don't suck on them. I 2076 01:43:33.880 --> 01:43:35.039 just sit them. You sit them. 2077 01:43:35.079 --> 01:43:44.319 I don't suck you sit them in your mouth like a. 2078 01:43:42.119 --> 01:43:43.199 I'm giving away the secrets. 2079 01:43:45.159 --> 01:43:49.960 No, no, no, no, what did. 2080 01:43:49.880 --> 01:43:51.439 You want to say? What? 2081 01:43:52.279 --> 01:43:56.399 It was going to sound crazy? I was going to say, 2082 01:43:56.439 --> 01:43:58.840 like not me, but having a woman like what. 2083 01:43:59.000 --> 01:44:01.520 You just said, madam, like. 2084 01:44:00.640 --> 01:44:02.239 Like letting them dissolve. 2085 01:44:01.800 --> 01:44:02.319 In your mouth. 2086 01:44:02.680 --> 01:44:07.760 Yes, yes, no, for sure, I feel sure the first one. 2087 01:44:07.840 --> 01:44:09.800 I haven't done ball playing quite some time because like 2088 01:44:09.840 --> 01:44:11.920 the men I have been dealing with, don't like it. 2089 01:44:12.000 --> 01:44:13.479 So this is very interesting. 2090 01:44:13.680 --> 01:44:16.119 I do believe that it's they don't like it because 2091 01:44:16.159 --> 01:44:19.560 they are. Anytime you feel anxious, you're not gonna like it. 2092 01:44:19.920 --> 01:44:23.000 That's almost like anal play. Once she's anxious, you have 2093 01:44:23.039 --> 01:44:26.439 to release. You have to let go, not release, you 2094 01:44:26.520 --> 01:44:30.119 have to let it go. Anxious, you're tight. You know 2095 01:44:30.159 --> 01:44:32.199 what I'm saying. It's not going to be. But if 2096 01:44:32.239 --> 01:44:35.720 you feel comfortable a person is treating you with you know, care, 2097 01:44:36.560 --> 01:44:41.840 you can enjoy it more. Number three grab his ball. 2098 01:44:41.960 --> 01:44:44.800 See this one is tricky, So that one. 2099 01:44:44.720 --> 01:44:48.159 Is what you grab is okay, you're going like kind 2100 01:44:48.159 --> 01:44:52.000 of it's like a little light snug around the base plant, 2101 01:44:52.359 --> 01:44:54.279 you know what I'm saying. It's like just a very 2102 01:44:54.600 --> 01:44:56.439 light And that's when you're giving them head. 2103 01:44:56.960 --> 01:44:58.399 You hold that You're. 2104 01:44:59.880 --> 01:45:05.359 A coinuch, a little coin you hold and you're not swing, 2105 01:45:05.359 --> 01:45:08.319 you're not tightening it. You just holding it. So he 2106 01:45:08.319 --> 01:45:10.920 could feel the security in that muff and you literally 2107 01:45:10.920 --> 01:45:13.279 you'll feel his dick order. And that's when you really 2108 01:45:13.319 --> 01:45:14.600 go in me. 2109 01:45:14.920 --> 01:45:17.079 Like I said on the show before, I like when 2110 01:45:17.119 --> 01:45:20.199 you gather them ships up and then like almost like 2111 01:45:20.199 --> 01:45:22.439 a coin powder. So the pouch is up here and 2112 01:45:22.479 --> 01:45:24.680 you got down here and them sh is just hanging 2113 01:45:24.720 --> 01:45:28.199 off to the side of a little bit. 2114 01:45:28.479 --> 01:45:30.039 So you want it held a little tighter. 2115 01:45:30.079 --> 01:45:31.199 But you got my underdick. 2116 01:45:31.479 --> 01:45:38.720 Okay, you got the underdick really hanging down. They just like, 2117 01:45:39.239 --> 01:45:46.000 huld do this. It's hilarious. I'm just like like, I'm 2118 01:45:46.039 --> 01:45:51.319 just like. 2119 01:45:50.439 --> 01:45:53.960 Another thing that I enjoy. So this says, when he's 2120 01:45:53.960 --> 01:45:56.439 banging you from behind and when you're riding him, just 2121 01:45:56.479 --> 01:45:59.880 reach back, grab and caress his balls a bit. Yeah, 2122 01:46:00.560 --> 01:46:04.960 the grab nowhere to grab. But the caress this on 2123 01:46:05.119 --> 01:46:09.439 the underdick. Give it a little mushing or what is 2124 01:46:09.479 --> 01:46:13.119 this smushing on the underdick. But it's the underdick. It's 2125 01:46:13.199 --> 01:46:16.319 not the balls himself. It's that bone. 2126 01:46:16.439 --> 01:46:19.760 But like the tank area, I was gonna say, that's 2127 01:46:19.760 --> 01:46:24.000 where you I rubbed the tank like a clip. You 2128 01:46:24.039 --> 01:46:26.600 literally rub it like a clip. Oh man, you could 2129 01:46:26.640 --> 01:46:29.479 feel It's almost like you could feel that prostate nowhere 2130 01:46:29.600 --> 01:46:31.239 or something like that. You could feel the things like 2131 01:46:31.640 --> 01:46:34.720 tapen up and start. Okay, this is what I'm not 2132 01:46:34.760 --> 01:46:35.239 sure about. 2133 01:46:36.640 --> 01:46:40.199 Make some noise. Take his balls in my mouth one 2134 01:46:40.239 --> 01:46:43.720 at a time, and make humming sounds. The vibration, the 2135 01:46:43.840 --> 01:46:46.640 vibrations feel amazing. Were drive him yesterday? You like that? 2136 01:46:46.640 --> 01:46:54.319 That's what's the humming sound. It's a sound. 2137 01:46:55.960 --> 01:46:56.239 Sound. 2138 01:46:58.920 --> 01:46:59.159 M h. 2139 01:47:00.279 --> 01:47:06.520 It's like it's like you can feel it. And then 2140 01:47:08.800 --> 01:47:17.439 it's imagine the ball sounds a little bit like a 2141 01:47:17.479 --> 01:47:18.079 scary movie. 2142 01:47:18.359 --> 01:47:23.399 Yeahs mad scary. All right, I'm right, I'm gonna run through. 2143 01:47:24.960 --> 01:47:25.159 Just go. 2144 01:47:25.720 --> 01:47:27.279 They said, hmm popping. 2145 01:47:29.279 --> 01:47:31.760 Why why look like that? 2146 01:47:33.000 --> 01:47:38.640 He heard me say he broke his never hum on 2147 01:47:38.680 --> 01:47:42.359 my balls. So I'm like, how do you know. 2148 01:47:41.199 --> 01:47:46.399 Those girl, I'm on his balls the night. Now he'll 2149 01:47:46.439 --> 01:47:47.760 be fine popping ice. 2150 01:47:48.159 --> 01:47:50.359 Put ice in your mouth before sucking on his balls. 2151 01:47:50.359 --> 01:47:54.560 He will almost pass out from pleasure. Fingernail scratches on 2152 01:47:54.720 --> 01:47:55.439 your balls. 2153 01:47:56.279 --> 01:47:59.920 Okay, I meanatives, I mean I'm not going. I've never 2154 01:48:00.039 --> 01:48:04.840 scratch nobody's balls. I've never been not the balls. 2155 01:48:05.159 --> 01:48:07.520 Yeah, queen is scratching over here? 2156 01:48:07.840 --> 01:48:08.800 Oh stop it. 2157 01:48:08.920 --> 01:48:12.079 Use your fingernails to lightly scratch his balls and trace 2158 01:48:12.159 --> 01:48:14.640 the skin around them up and down side. 2159 01:48:15.119 --> 01:48:17.359 Keees. This is a light tease. 2160 01:48:17.359 --> 01:48:20.600 Light squeezing or pulling. For some men, a light squeeze 2161 01:48:20.680 --> 01:48:24.319 or tug on the balls can feel incredible, but go slow, 2162 01:48:24.720 --> 01:48:28.159 start with the lightest pressure and only if he's into it. 2163 01:48:28.560 --> 01:48:33.680 And number eight include dirty talk or icon. Make the 2164 01:48:33.800 --> 01:48:37.359 moment even giving dirty talk ortive icon. 2165 01:48:39.319 --> 01:48:40.920 Yes, looking up. 2166 01:48:41.600 --> 01:48:42.479 It's the up. 2167 01:48:42.600 --> 01:48:46.119 It's the yeah, yeah, the up. It's the looking up. 2168 01:48:48.439 --> 01:48:53.079 Every time, every time they do it for me, I'll 2169 01:48:53.119 --> 01:48:54.960 be looking up and I'm like, I noticed, it's good, 2170 01:48:55.000 --> 01:48:56.359 And then the next thing I know, I'm coming. 2171 01:48:56.600 --> 01:49:01.000 Exactly Literally, none. 2172 01:49:00.840 --> 01:49:03.079 Of you get off giving head. It's never happened to me. 2173 01:49:03.359 --> 01:49:04.760 What crazy? 2174 01:49:04.760 --> 01:49:06.159 The only time you. 2175 01:49:06.000 --> 01:49:09.319 Can hear me come when I'm giving herd you cal 2176 01:49:09.399 --> 01:49:10.119 what you can hear? 2177 01:49:10.720 --> 01:49:12.800 You know, you shut up? 2178 01:49:13.479 --> 01:49:13.800 Wait what? 2179 01:49:14.560 --> 01:49:17.199 They starts fucking drawing the discord one day in their 2180 01:49:17.239 --> 01:49:19.640 voice chat, it's about twenty of us in there. She 2181 01:49:19.720 --> 01:49:24.840 must have caught a viot. This girl leaves her audio on. 2182 01:49:25.079 --> 01:49:25.880 No, I didn't. 2183 01:49:26.079 --> 01:49:29.039 I was muted. I was muted and I got a call. 2184 01:49:29.279 --> 01:49:32.439 If you get a phone call and unmute you, that's 2185 01:49:32.439 --> 01:49:32.960 what happened. 2186 01:49:33.000 --> 01:49:35.119 I wasn't even it, and my my camera was on 2187 01:49:35.760 --> 01:49:37.880 and the call came through, and we didn't stop. 2188 01:49:37.920 --> 01:49:39.880 I didn't get up and get this. He was listening. 2189 01:49:40.079 --> 01:49:43.119 He was walking for about twenty five minutes. Easy to 2190 01:49:43.239 --> 01:49:46.479 hear the neck. So are we thinking, hold on, we're 2191 01:49:46.520 --> 01:49:47.399 thinking this is neck. 2192 01:49:47.800 --> 01:49:49.479 It was, but it wasn't mean. 2193 01:49:50.760 --> 01:49:55.199 This girl pussy makes like do you shut up? Gurgling noises, 2194 01:49:55.239 --> 01:49:56.119 gurgling noises. 2195 01:49:56.239 --> 01:49:57.520 Ah my buggy. 2196 01:49:58.840 --> 01:49:59.479 It always was. 2197 01:49:59.520 --> 01:50:03.520 See we're like, yo, oh, she's swallowing this nigga ship. 2198 01:50:04.239 --> 01:50:06.560 She comes back on, she's embarrassed or whatever, and I 2199 01:50:06.560 --> 01:50:08.279 make the noise. She's like, oh no, that's that's the 2200 01:50:08.319 --> 01:50:14.479 noise my pussy makes. I'm like, I'm. 2201 01:50:14.479 --> 01:50:19.359 Weeping, she'sping. I'm super creeping, but my song sounding that 2202 01:50:19.439 --> 01:50:22.479 my smell sounds more like Farting's like it's like like 2203 01:50:22.800 --> 01:50:27.560 but it doesn't make the gar It gurgles and it's 2204 01:50:27.600 --> 01:50:31.319 spits like we Yeah, we had we had a session 2205 01:50:32.000 --> 01:50:36.239 during my cycle the other day and we got clarity 2206 01:50:36.319 --> 01:50:38.840 on how the trajectory because you know, it was. 2207 01:50:38.840 --> 01:50:41.880 Like where did it. 2208 01:50:40.640 --> 01:50:43.520 Oh, she's a straight shooter for. 2209 01:50:43.840 --> 01:50:44.399 A little. 2210 01:50:47.880 --> 01:50:49.279 It was just a little like. 2211 01:50:51.119 --> 01:50:54.479 It's kind of made that noise. Yeah, oh no. 2212 01:50:54.960 --> 01:50:58.199 We got a video of a bubble coming out one time. Yeah, yeah, 2213 01:50:58.199 --> 01:51:01.800 we got a videos my pussy blowing a bubble that. 2214 01:51:03.159 --> 01:51:04.000 Blew up a bubble. 2215 01:51:04.960 --> 01:51:06.319 Tell the people thank you. 2216 01:51:06.439 --> 01:51:08.880 Like like like he ca it on he. 2217 01:51:08.880 --> 01:51:11.760 Caught it on cameras it blew a spit bubble. Yeah 2218 01:51:12.359 --> 01:51:12.720 mm hmm. 2219 01:51:13.319 --> 01:51:20.640 It should be doing magic. Look how do you see? 2220 01:51:20.880 --> 01:51:23.319 What do you mean? Like what was you doing while 2221 01:51:23.319 --> 01:51:25.079 the pussy just blowing a bubble? Was she just playing 2222 01:51:25.079 --> 01:51:28.760 with herself or did it like pop up over your dick? 2223 01:51:28.840 --> 01:51:33.039 Like it was like I was, yeah, and she was 2224 01:51:33.119 --> 01:51:38.319 just kind of like grinding and it started in a bubble. 2225 01:51:39.600 --> 01:51:40.560 That's fire. 2226 01:51:40.880 --> 01:51:47.119 Yeah, that's that magic mount you heard the magic mountain? Magic? Right? Yeah, 2227 01:51:47.520 --> 01:51:52.199 all right, we are here on your hard a soft show. 2228 01:51:54.760 --> 01:51:57.600 I should, madam say, you have listened to the show 2229 01:51:57.920 --> 01:52:01.319 quite some time, for quite some time, so I'm assuming 2230 01:52:01.399 --> 01:52:10.000 you know what segments we're getting into, the hard or the. 2231 01:52:09.520 --> 01:52:10.239 The what for me? 2232 01:52:11.119 --> 01:52:15.399 Since I don't have my click, my little dick, I 2233 01:52:15.399 --> 01:52:18.760 got a little clique like a little click dick. It's 2234 01:52:18.800 --> 01:52:21.359 not big, but it's big to me. That's what matters. 2235 01:52:21.640 --> 01:52:29.199 People like about sex, things that make us wet or hard. 2236 01:52:29.880 --> 01:52:32.520 Mmm, I think. 2237 01:52:36.960 --> 01:52:39.640 Is it what I like? Boyorism watching people have sex. 2238 01:52:39.680 --> 01:52:41.880 I like to hear people have sex like that's that's 2239 01:52:41.960 --> 01:52:45.439 my jam. I like the realness of it, though not poorn. 2240 01:52:47.600 --> 01:52:51.159 I was watching y'all at I didn't well, I mean, 2241 01:52:51.560 --> 01:52:56.319 tonayy is fine, all right, your partner is fine and ship. 2242 01:52:56.439 --> 01:52:59.359 So to have the opportunity to just you know, be 2243 01:52:59.479 --> 01:53:02.199 near her, of course I'm gonna take it. So yeah, 2244 01:53:02.439 --> 01:53:04.960 I mean that that part was fine. 2245 01:53:05.039 --> 01:53:08.520 We got them, We got them. So what does voyeurism 2246 01:53:08.600 --> 01:53:08.920 do for you? 2247 01:53:11.840 --> 01:53:14.359 It lets me explore who I would lay with, to 2248 01:53:14.439 --> 01:53:16.720 be honest. For me, it lets me see who would 2249 01:53:16.760 --> 01:53:20.199 be ooh that would be fun. It lets me see 2250 01:53:20.920 --> 01:53:28.399 where uh my sex is in common see how people 2251 01:53:28.520 --> 01:53:31.680 please each other. And also sometimes they can teach me, 2252 01:53:31.760 --> 01:53:34.520 like how people may forget about their partner. 2253 01:53:36.680 --> 01:53:37.359 What does that mean? 2254 01:53:38.079 --> 01:53:41.079 You can the moments where you can see the one 2255 01:53:41.119 --> 01:53:44.840 person be so into whatever is happening that they forget 2256 01:53:44.840 --> 01:53:47.359 that the other person exists and it becomes so much 2257 01:53:47.359 --> 01:53:49.359 about them. They get to their pleasure and they forget 2258 01:53:49.359 --> 01:53:52.000 that they have a partner to please. To like watching 2259 01:53:52.000 --> 01:53:53.119 those moments, those. 2260 01:53:54.800 --> 01:53:55.520 It's sickening. 2261 01:53:55.720 --> 01:53:57.840 It is really sickening. And it kind of always looks 2262 01:53:57.840 --> 01:54:00.399 the same, unfortunate, especially at the sex clubs. It looks 2263 01:54:00.439 --> 01:54:02.560 the same. Women go on their knees, they give had, 2264 01:54:02.840 --> 01:54:04.840 they turn over, they get on the thing, they get 2265 01:54:04.880 --> 01:54:06.640 bent over, they get fucked from the back. The man 2266 01:54:06.680 --> 01:54:10.600 comes and it's done normally. He just only ate my pussy. 2267 01:54:10.640 --> 01:54:13.479 By the time we have people around us that then came, came, 2268 01:54:13.600 --> 01:54:15.680 sat down while he was eating my pussy. They started 2269 01:54:15.720 --> 01:54:19.199 getting head started having sex. He sol you pussy and 2270 01:54:19.199 --> 01:54:19.760 they then came. 2271 01:54:21.680 --> 01:54:24.640 That used to be how I had sex almost every time, 2272 01:54:24.680 --> 01:54:30.119 though that's sad get head, bend over rail. 2273 01:54:29.720 --> 01:54:33.359 Not uber, But where's the pleasure in that? Even for you? 2274 01:54:34.159 --> 01:54:36.159 Like, but where was the pleasure? And that even for you, 2275 01:54:36.199 --> 01:54:38.520 where did you explore yourself? Is that why you explore 2276 01:54:38.520 --> 01:54:39.119 yourself so much? 2277 01:54:39.159 --> 01:54:39.439 Now? 2278 01:54:39.720 --> 01:54:43.039 I think I think for a long time, sex for 2279 01:54:43.119 --> 01:54:50.399 me was more about dominance and you doing this, you 2280 01:54:50.479 --> 01:54:53.520 pleasuring me, and the fact that I got you doing that, 2281 01:54:53.600 --> 01:54:55.960 and the fact that you want to do it. So 2282 01:54:56.079 --> 01:54:59.239 that wasn't really about your pleasure at all. It was 2283 01:54:59.279 --> 01:55:01.359 more about the fact that, oh she's not she wants 2284 01:55:01.399 --> 01:55:03.920 to suck my ship, Oh she wants me to fuck her, 2285 01:55:04.600 --> 01:55:08.039 and oh I want her to leave. So that was it, 2286 01:55:08.359 --> 01:55:11.800 and that was a rotating door for very long, very long, 2287 01:55:11.920 --> 01:55:15.560 very long, even into my relationship. Now, well I didn't. 2288 01:55:15.600 --> 01:55:17.640 I think I said this so on last week's episode. 2289 01:55:17.800 --> 01:55:19.680 There's a difference between people who want to give pleasure 2290 01:55:19.680 --> 01:55:23.279 and people who want to fuck. It's just different people, 2291 01:55:23.560 --> 01:55:23.680 you know. 2292 01:55:24.680 --> 01:55:27.399 Ways of the people that and people that fun show 2293 01:55:27.439 --> 01:55:28.159 up the same way. 2294 01:55:28.359 --> 01:55:32.079 Yes, I'm a pleasure person, Me and Sherman both with 2295 01:55:32.199 --> 01:55:36.720 pleasure even with and we know we can't. We're being 2296 01:55:36.760 --> 01:55:39.479 mindful of that, right because we're pleasure people and most 2297 01:55:39.479 --> 01:55:42.119 people are just here to fuck. So if we're pleasure, 2298 01:55:42.159 --> 01:55:44.880 we're here to give to make sure that the person 2299 01:55:44.920 --> 01:55:47.640 we're with receives the most pleasures possible. Most of the 2300 01:55:47.640 --> 01:55:49.399 times they kind of get a little stupid because they're 2301 01:55:49.399 --> 01:55:51.880 not used to that. So we're real mindful with those 2302 01:55:51.880 --> 01:55:53.840 type of things. But I'm here for pleasure. If it's 2303 01:55:53.840 --> 01:55:55.199 not about the pleasure, I don't want to do it. 2304 01:55:55.800 --> 01:55:58.279 Can you teach somebody who just wants to fuck how 2305 01:55:58.319 --> 01:55:58.920 to get pleasure? 2306 01:55:59.560 --> 01:56:04.720 I think you can if because they just want to 2307 01:56:04.760 --> 01:56:06.800 funk simply because that's what they're used to. 2308 01:56:07.119 --> 01:56:08.199 They're used to just sucking. 2309 01:56:08.600 --> 01:56:10.720 The moment someone sucks them back, they will be here 2310 01:56:10.720 --> 01:56:15.920 for the pleasure. Yeah, Yeah, they're like, what happened? I mean, 2311 01:56:15.960 --> 01:56:18.520 what listen? You have believe a nigga in it's bad 2312 01:56:19.560 --> 01:56:25.319 you h And he's like like, where are you going? 2313 01:56:23.880 --> 01:56:28.079 Yes, you came here just. 2314 01:56:28.000 --> 01:56:30.840 To pretty much thank you for your time. 2315 01:56:32.159 --> 01:56:32.479 Isn't it? 2316 01:56:32.720 --> 01:56:34.359 Isn't it? Isn't it? 2317 01:56:34.359 --> 01:56:35.039 It's crazy? 2318 01:56:35.319 --> 01:56:37.199 Exactly exactly. Wow. 2319 01:56:37.640 --> 01:56:38.439 You know what I don't like. 2320 01:56:39.560 --> 01:56:41.319 I don't like waking up in the middle of the 2321 01:56:41.399 --> 01:56:44.920 night and the person's already dressed, tapping me like yo, 2322 01:56:46.199 --> 01:56:47.279 like they woke. 2323 01:56:47.159 --> 01:56:50.279 You up right, I wouldn't like. I don't want to 2324 01:56:50.319 --> 01:56:53.640 cut one. If you don't want to, you don't want 2325 01:56:53.680 --> 01:56:54.039 to do a. 2326 01:56:54.000 --> 01:56:57.600 Little, a little like we wake up and she's going already. 2327 01:56:57.359 --> 01:56:59.800 Yeah, that's that was me. If you're not my man, 2328 01:56:59.840 --> 01:57:02.279 I'm out if you If you want to sleep, you 2329 01:57:02.319 --> 01:57:03.640 want to sleep. There has nothing to do with me. 2330 01:57:03.840 --> 01:57:04.479 I never said. 2331 01:57:04.479 --> 01:57:06.000 I was saying the night, bro, I ain't gonna lie. 2332 01:57:06.359 --> 01:57:09.720 I hate when a pussy wins. Period. Yes, that's not 2333 01:57:09.720 --> 01:57:12.279 not now now, I like, yeah, do me slept me 2334 01:57:12.319 --> 01:57:15.159 the funk out. Yeah. There's been a time when I 2335 01:57:15.159 --> 01:57:18.840 fell asleep and I woke up and she was just 2336 01:57:18.840 --> 01:57:21.880 looking at me sleep and I was like, damn, damn, 2337 01:57:26.039 --> 01:57:28.840 and she had that disappointed look, like look at this nigga. 2338 01:57:30.920 --> 01:57:33.960 One trick pony couldn't take one trick pony. That was 2339 01:57:33.960 --> 01:57:37.079 the last time I hit that. Yeah, all right. The 2340 01:57:37.199 --> 01:57:42.880 soft things people don't like about sex, things that make 2341 01:57:43.000 --> 01:57:44.920 us soft. 2342 01:57:45.640 --> 01:57:47.840 When your partner don't know what they're doing because they 2343 01:57:47.880 --> 01:57:51.760 won't listen to you, that'll make you soft man, when 2344 01:57:51.760 --> 01:57:54.439 you're when you're expressing like, hey, I don't want you 2345 01:57:54.560 --> 01:57:56.840 to eat my pussy. I had a person one time. 2346 01:57:56.960 --> 01:57:59.760 I think he thought eating pussy meant literally eating pussy, 2347 01:57:59.800 --> 01:58:02.560 so he would bite it like and he had big teeth, 2348 01:58:02.920 --> 01:58:05.039 so it was like really hard, like he had big 2349 01:58:05.079 --> 01:58:07.600 mouth be teeth, Yeah, he had those, and he was 2350 01:58:07.600 --> 01:58:10.399 a handsome man. But every time he went to just 2351 01:58:10.479 --> 01:58:12.479 go down there was like hai, and it was like 2352 01:58:13.720 --> 01:58:16.880 uh yo, And I get it because that's the thing 2353 01:58:16.960 --> 01:58:19.600 for some people to bite it not me. You know 2354 01:58:20.000 --> 01:58:24.319 that ouch that hurts, that that get me soft or dry? 2355 01:58:24.920 --> 01:58:27.359 Jesus, Look, so what did he nibble on the lips? 2356 01:58:27.520 --> 01:58:27.720 You know? 2357 01:58:28.279 --> 01:58:29.960 It was like the whole he went up. 2358 01:58:30.319 --> 01:58:36.159 I think he was like yes, yes, like like a 2359 01:58:36.359 --> 01:58:38.079 like a he was trying to put his whole mouth 2360 01:58:38.159 --> 01:58:41.079 over and I guess be sexy. But his teeth would 2361 01:58:41.159 --> 01:58:44.680 always like grays and he had a big mouth, so 2362 01:58:44.760 --> 01:58:47.760 and I was skinnier then, so my gosh, it was 2363 01:58:48.039 --> 01:58:49.720 it was like I would feel his teeth kind of 2364 01:58:49.760 --> 01:58:51.800 near my ass and then his teeth at the top 2365 01:58:52.000 --> 01:58:54.279 of Yeah, it was a lot that sounded. 2366 01:58:55.199 --> 01:58:57.560 And he would keep him there and then move his tongue. 2367 01:58:57.600 --> 01:58:59.600 So to him, he's moving his tongue, so he felt 2368 01:58:59.600 --> 01:59:00.560 like he was on something. 2369 01:59:00.640 --> 01:59:02.680 Yeah, teeth is not a good thing. 2370 01:59:03.000 --> 01:59:10.199 Se nod not during head but by my nipples. But 2371 01:59:11.479 --> 01:59:12.840 did you did you endure it? 2372 01:59:12.920 --> 01:59:15.479 Like did you just then I did because I was young. 2373 01:59:15.560 --> 01:59:18.479 I was yeah, back then, I did endure it and 2374 01:59:18.520 --> 01:59:19.439 I just like, hmmm. 2375 01:59:19.960 --> 01:59:20.399 It was like. 2376 01:59:22.960 --> 01:59:25.279 And that's why I learned how to speak up, because 2377 01:59:25.760 --> 01:59:28.560 that was not comfortable and I never came. But because 2378 01:59:28.560 --> 01:59:31.279 I'm a girly who's always wet, he thought that I 2379 01:59:31.359 --> 01:59:34.640 was like, I was excited and I'm just always what 2380 01:59:34.880 --> 01:59:35.720 that has nothing to. 2381 01:59:35.600 --> 01:59:35.960 Do with it. 2382 01:59:39.560 --> 01:59:41.239 She's always. 2383 01:59:43.000 --> 01:59:47.159 Splash waterfalls. 2384 01:59:47.159 --> 01:59:48.439 My grandma said, to speak truth. 2385 01:59:48.560 --> 01:59:58.560 So, madam, you talking about the Temple of Euphoria, right 2386 01:59:58.920 --> 02:00:01.279 that is your part cast? Where can they find it? 2387 02:00:02.039 --> 02:00:03.560 You can find it right now on YouTube. 2388 02:00:03.600 --> 02:00:05.960 We are airing. The first episode will be coming out 2389 02:00:06.119 --> 02:00:09.159 April fourth. We are excited for the pilot to drop 2390 02:00:09.520 --> 02:00:11.840 where we explain to you what temple is, and then 2391 02:00:11.920 --> 02:00:15.359 the extra episodes that will come. Every Wednesday we will 2392 02:00:15.399 --> 02:00:17.720 be airing at eight pm on YouTube. We'll be dropping 2393 02:00:17.720 --> 02:00:19.399 it and the audio and all that kind of stuff. 2394 02:00:19.680 --> 02:00:23.720 I know, I'm excited. I'm actually excited to have you 2395 02:00:23.760 --> 02:00:27.279 on because what I do is when we have guests on, 2396 02:00:27.399 --> 02:00:29.800 I make sure I cater the topic around the guests 2397 02:00:29.800 --> 02:00:32.680 and what expertise in kink that you bring. So I 2398 02:00:32.680 --> 02:00:35.600 want to talk to you about parties and ship like. 2399 02:00:35.600 --> 02:00:42.079 The parties, bds, getting into all of that. 2400 02:00:42.680 --> 02:00:45.880 I can't wait bringing kink into your relationship. I feel 2401 02:00:45.880 --> 02:00:47.439 like that's what the kind. 2402 02:00:47.279 --> 02:00:50.000 Of start my relationship started with kink. 2403 02:00:50.159 --> 02:00:51.680 That's what I'm saying. I feel like that would be 2404 02:00:51.720 --> 02:00:54.520 a great conversation to have with you, with the people, 2405 02:00:54.880 --> 02:00:58.239 to have that conversation about how do you whether you 2406 02:00:58.319 --> 02:01:01.560 are introducing your partner to king or if you met 2407 02:01:01.600 --> 02:01:04.359 your partner through kink, how do you navigate that right? 2408 02:01:04.399 --> 02:01:08.800 Because it's such a it's such a a tricky space 2409 02:01:09.119 --> 02:01:11.720 if you if you are more advanced than your partner 2410 02:01:11.920 --> 02:01:14.079 is and they're still learning right and you have to 2411 02:01:14.119 --> 02:01:16.199 be the patient one, and those kinds of things. So 2412 02:01:16.199 --> 02:01:17.479 I think that would be a great conversation. 2413 02:01:17.600 --> 02:01:19.720 Yeah, I think I'm not going to say that. We'll 2414 02:01:19.720 --> 02:01:22.119 wait to your show. Okay, we'll wait to your show. 2415 02:01:23.359 --> 02:01:24.680 How are you feeling about today? You're good? 2416 02:01:24.760 --> 02:01:25.439 Yeah, I'm good? 2417 02:01:25.600 --> 02:01:27.800 Yeah, yeah, you go home. It's neat. 2418 02:01:28.680 --> 02:01:32.720 How did you know how did you know she always 2419 02:01:32.720 --> 02:01:34.239 ready to eat always? 2420 02:01:37.159 --> 02:01:38.199 Okay? Yeah, us man? 2421 02:01:41.840 --> 02:01:43.760 Anything else you want to the people to know? 2422 02:01:44.800 --> 02:01:48.039 Making sure I have a pro I do develop programs 2423 02:01:48.199 --> 02:01:52.079 so during at night, you know, Madam says coach at night, 2424 02:01:52.119 --> 02:01:55.199 but during the day, I am coach and coach balo me. 2425 02:01:55.359 --> 02:01:57.520 So what I do is I'm a liberation coach and 2426 02:01:57.520 --> 02:01:59.479 I hope people kind of do this thing where you 2427 02:01:59.479 --> 02:02:01.520 get out of your head so that you can get 2428 02:02:01.520 --> 02:02:03.479 into whatever it is that you get into. And I 2429 02:02:03.520 --> 02:02:06.720 put together a program called Unbound. It's a ninety day program. 2430 02:02:06.880 --> 02:02:08.960 It runs at the end of each year, and it's 2431 02:02:08.960 --> 02:02:12.199 for entrepreneurs. And I'm bringing that up because a lot 2432 02:02:12.199 --> 02:02:15.680 of times people think that, oh, that's just for vanilla 2433 02:02:15.720 --> 02:02:19.199 and it's like, no, sex workers are entrepreneurs. You need 2434 02:02:19.199 --> 02:02:20.920 a space that you can come to that is going 2435 02:02:20.960 --> 02:02:23.399 to be judgment free and do the things where you're 2436 02:02:23.439 --> 02:02:26.039 making sure that you're giving yourself space about what's happening 2437 02:02:26.039 --> 02:02:28.640 in your life so that the business and services that 2438 02:02:28.680 --> 02:02:31.920 you provide to others isn't interfering, right, and you're doing 2439 02:02:31.960 --> 02:02:35.279 it clear mind, clear heart, clear conscious and preparing for 2440 02:02:35.319 --> 02:02:36.640 the next year of your business. 2441 02:02:36.760 --> 02:02:38.760 Do you think that you could do so when you 2442 02:02:38.760 --> 02:02:41.840 say you're a coach, what kind of coach? Like? What 2443 02:02:41.880 --> 02:02:43.800 do you think your strength is away from business? 2444 02:02:43.880 --> 02:02:43.960 Like? 2445 02:02:44.000 --> 02:02:45.199 What do you think your strength. 2446 02:02:45.000 --> 02:02:47.199 Solve when it come aland mindset. I help you get 2447 02:02:47.720 --> 02:02:50.520 mindset and healing. That's my that I only can talk 2448 02:02:50.520 --> 02:02:51.439 about what I've been through. 2449 02:02:51.840 --> 02:02:53.720 And I've heard you speak to so many people in 2450 02:02:53.760 --> 02:02:57.000 the discord about what they're going through, and you express 2451 02:02:57.039 --> 02:03:00.479 yourself so well, and you're able to look look into 2452 02:03:00.520 --> 02:03:03.920 what's affecting them or looking to what you see and 2453 02:03:04.039 --> 02:03:07.800 break it down and give them cues or clues on 2454 02:03:07.880 --> 02:03:10.239 where they need to go. Right, do you think that 2455 02:03:10.279 --> 02:03:12.199 you would be able to help, like, say me right? 2456 02:03:12.239 --> 02:03:15.520 Say if I was having a block and my relationship 2457 02:03:15.720 --> 02:03:23.920 about say lifestyle, say say I'm sure, say I'm my 2458 02:03:24.319 --> 02:03:29.119 I'm monogamous and your Polly, would you maybe to help 2459 02:03:29.159 --> 02:03:33.119 me deal with my issues my feelings or emotions around that. 2460 02:03:33.560 --> 02:03:35.800 Yes, and how you express yourself and where it probably 2461 02:03:35.840 --> 02:03:38.239 ties to your trauma and the parts on you that 2462 02:03:38.319 --> 02:03:40.560 may not be communicating as effective as you would like. 2463 02:03:40.640 --> 02:03:44.680 Yes, I think I'd love to talk to you about 2464 02:03:44.680 --> 02:03:47.720 stuff like that. Okay, I might call you on that 2465 02:03:47.760 --> 02:03:48.079 for real. 2466 02:03:48.399 --> 02:03:49.039 No, for sure? 2467 02:03:49.079 --> 02:03:50.720 Where can people contact you for that? 2468 02:03:51.479 --> 02:03:55.760 My website is Aisha coachbelame dot com, a y s 2469 02:03:55.800 --> 02:03:57.520 Aja coachbella me dot com. 2470 02:03:57.680 --> 02:03:59.439 That's that's where you can find me. 2471 02:03:59.520 --> 02:04:03.279 We will that into the episode descriptions. I think that's really. 2472 02:04:03.159 --> 02:04:06.359 Exciting, tho I would like, No, that's my main thing. 2473 02:04:06.439 --> 02:04:08.439 Like I could talk kink and do the stuff like that, 2474 02:04:08.479 --> 02:04:11.800 but what I really lean in on is the healing part. Right, 2475 02:04:11.840 --> 02:04:14.520 Because we can talk all of these things, but are 2476 02:04:14.600 --> 02:04:16.800 you talking from a place of true pleasure or are 2477 02:04:16.800 --> 02:04:17.880 you talking from your trauma? 2478 02:04:18.560 --> 02:04:18.720 Right? 2479 02:04:18.760 --> 02:04:21.760 And it's important to identify when you're communicating from your trauma, 2480 02:04:21.800 --> 02:04:25.279 because you may be sexually trauma binding with someone and 2481 02:04:25.319 --> 02:04:27.840 you don't know it because you haven't leaned into that 2482 02:04:28.000 --> 02:04:29.760 hard conversation with self. 2483 02:04:31.279 --> 02:04:33.960 So what does that look like if you're doing it 2484 02:04:34.159 --> 02:04:36.560 just because of trauma versus the other way? 2485 02:04:37.279 --> 02:04:38.920 It looks like a lot of disassociation. 2486 02:04:39.079 --> 02:04:41.760 It looks like a lot of multiple partners, or it 2487 02:04:41.760 --> 02:04:43.880 could look like the same partner but you're doing things 2488 02:04:43.880 --> 02:04:46.039 in a sneaky manner. It can look like you're in 2489 02:04:46.119 --> 02:04:48.720 a marriage but your partner has no idea you're in kink. 2490 02:04:49.039 --> 02:04:51.439 It can look like being in a community and your 2491 02:04:51.479 --> 02:04:55.000 partner doesn't actually know you're in this community. It can 2492 02:04:55.039 --> 02:04:58.279 look like not having a partner and saying you're Polly 2493 02:04:58.319 --> 02:05:00.960 when you're not actually Polly. You just want to cheat 2494 02:05:01.000 --> 02:05:04.239 on people because you're not actually communicating any of the things. 2495 02:05:04.640 --> 02:05:06.800 It can also look like you want to have some 2496 02:05:06.880 --> 02:05:10.439 impact play and while you're having that play, you didn't 2497 02:05:10.479 --> 02:05:13.439 realize that you're not actually enjoying it, that there's an 2498 02:05:13.439 --> 02:05:17.560 association with this paying part and you disassociate and you're 2499 02:05:17.600 --> 02:05:20.960 not actually present like you need to be. It can 2500 02:05:21.000 --> 02:05:23.199 look like you're saying yes to a threesome with your 2501 02:05:23.239 --> 02:05:25.720 partner that you never really want it because you want 2502 02:05:25.720 --> 02:05:29.439 to please this person and not lose this relationship versus 2503 02:05:29.439 --> 02:05:31.520 doing what makes you happy. 2504 02:05:31.920 --> 02:05:39.760 I think she was, oh, man, that was good. 2505 02:05:41.000 --> 02:05:43.399 Yeah, it's okay. 2506 02:05:43.399 --> 02:05:44.359 Are have tapped in? 2507 02:05:44.399 --> 02:05:47.600 And that there's so many questions that I have? 2508 02:05:47.760 --> 02:05:50.239 Yeah, and we gotta we can't. 2509 02:05:51.880 --> 02:06:02.880 She's like, you spoke about food where he is? 2510 02:06:04.520 --> 02:06:08.720 I already know what I'm eating when I started dissociated. 2511 02:06:10.399 --> 02:06:13.000 Let's do a Patreon about that. Let's do a Patreon 2512 02:06:13.039 --> 02:06:17.640 episode about that. I'm gonna ask my wife what she's 2513 02:06:17.680 --> 02:06:21.319 comfortable with me asking about our life or whatever. Maybe 2514 02:06:21.319 --> 02:06:23.600 we'll put it on the Patreon. Let's see. But if not, 2515 02:06:23.800 --> 02:06:27.640 I would like to have coaching with you, pressure, pressure, 2516 02:06:27.720 --> 02:06:29.800 and I welcome anybody else to speak to it. When 2517 02:06:29.800 --> 02:06:33.439 I tell you this woman is a gem y yo, 2518 02:06:34.199 --> 02:06:38.039 break this ship the fuck down. Listen to the Temple 2519 02:06:38.239 --> 02:06:42.359 of Euphoria. But also if you are in Kingo, if 2520 02:06:42.359 --> 02:06:45.560 you are in a relationship, if you're in the lifestyle, 2521 02:06:45.800 --> 02:06:51.199 or if you are a sex worker, consider reaching out 2522 02:06:51.239 --> 02:06:54.920 to her on Ayisha Madam, say at g Gmail, doctor, 2523 02:06:56.000 --> 02:06:56.520 that's it wrong. 2524 02:06:57.359 --> 02:07:02.439 He put all the names, say everything, do everything we 2525 02:07:02.520 --> 02:07:08.000 put it and he said and he said that Gmail, yo, Madam. 2526 02:07:08.039 --> 02:07:15.239 I used to say at high Outlook, Microsoft Outlook. 2527 02:07:16.000 --> 02:07:16.800 That's what she said. 2528 02:07:18.520 --> 02:07:20.680 If it is my email, you want to go to, madam, 2529 02:07:20.880 --> 02:07:24.560 say six nine at Gmail. What I said when I 2530 02:07:24.600 --> 02:07:28.520 talked about coaching is asha coach Bellamy dot com. 2531 02:07:28.600 --> 02:07:30.119 Yeah, that's for for the coaching. 2532 02:07:30.159 --> 02:07:30.600 That's all. 2533 02:07:32.039 --> 02:07:35.319 Okay, that's that's. 2534 02:07:36.680 --> 02:07:37.479 New York City. 2535 02:07:37.920 --> 02:07:39.199 We won't put them all in there. 2536 02:07:39.720 --> 02:07:40.000 Black. 2537 02:07:42.560 --> 02:07:45.479 I was trying to say something. I was trying to 2538 02:07:45.520 --> 02:07:46.039 be poignant. 2539 02:07:46.319 --> 02:07:49.319 Yes, that's I'm here for it. I'm here for bless. 2540 02:07:49.119 --> 02:07:51.840 You your coach. 2541 02:07:51.920 --> 02:07:55.600 Be like Bill Bellamy. 2542 02:07:55.960 --> 02:07:57.880 I just shut up. My mom is still trying to 2543 02:07:57.880 --> 02:07:58.359 figure it out. 2544 02:07:58.399 --> 02:07:59.760 That's what she said. 2545 02:08:02.600 --> 02:08:03.239 In this show. 2546 02:08:03.880 --> 02:08:05.079 All right, we're here. 2547 02:08:07.640 --> 02:08:08.479 This is a good one. 2548 02:08:08.640 --> 02:08:10.800 And talk to her. She can help you work through 2549 02:08:10.920 --> 02:08:12.479 a lot of different things. See, y'all stopped me in 2550 02:08:12.479 --> 02:08:15.600 the middle of doing what I was gonna do anyway, sex, love, 2551 02:08:15.840 --> 02:08:19.880 relationships and accountability. It's been a hell of a show. 2552 02:08:20.960 --> 02:08:27.760 The show, this show. I don't know why y'all did that. 2553 02:08:29.600 --> 02:08:33.880 I was like, what the fun I was trying to. 2554 02:08:38.520 --> 02:08:38.600 Do? 2555 02:08:38.640 --> 02:08:39.960 You ever say Gmail