WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.280 --> 00:00:03.240 People who walked in on their significant other cheating, How 2 00:00:03.240 --> 00:00:06.559 did you whip their sorry? A story one. I went 3 00:00:06.639 --> 00:00:09.080 to see my girlfriend one day and her roommate let 4 00:00:09.119 --> 00:00:12.320 me in. Looking confused, She said, I thought you were 5 00:00:12.359 --> 00:00:16.239 here already. Then I heard noises coming from my girlfriend's room. 6 00:00:16.800 --> 00:00:19.879 I got really pissed off and stormed in, ready to 7 00:00:19.960 --> 00:00:22.199 beat the crap out of him. But when I kicked 8 00:00:22.239 --> 00:00:24.640 the door in, the guy jumped off of her, and 9 00:00:24.719 --> 00:00:27.679 I swear his fully up and strong dong couldn't have 10 00:00:27.719 --> 00:00:30.399 been bigger than a sharpie. It stopped me dead in 11 00:00:30.519 --> 00:00:35.079 my tracks. So I started laughing, softly at first, then 12 00:00:35.159 --> 00:00:38.560 harder until I was cackling like a damn hyena. I 13 00:00:38.719 --> 00:00:41.880 was doubled over, pointing at this guy's dong and laughing 14 00:00:42.200 --> 00:00:46.320 and yelling at her through hysterics. Seriously, I grabbed my 15 00:00:46.399 --> 00:00:49.560 phone charger I had come back for, took one last 16 00:00:49.560 --> 00:00:52.560 look at them, then started laughing again. As I left. 17 00:00:53.200 --> 00:00:56.240 My now ex girlfriend runs out in a towel, saying, 18 00:00:56.439 --> 00:00:59.079 let me explain and all that crap. I have no 19 00:00:59.200 --> 00:01:02.039 idea how my brain connected this, but I look at 20 00:01:02.039 --> 00:01:05.840 her continue laughing and yell, I've smoked cigarettes bigger than 21 00:01:05.920 --> 00:01:08.760 that and open the door and walk out. Of course, 22 00:01:08.959 --> 00:01:11.159 as soon as I got back to my car, my 23 00:01:11.280 --> 00:01:15.359 reaction went from uncontrollable laughter to sobbing and screaming. But 24 00:01:15.439 --> 00:01:18.079 I got the satisfaction of not letting her see it. 25 00:01:18.599 --> 00:01:21.760 There are two great ps to the story, though. First, 26 00:01:22.000 --> 00:01:24.719 her roommate called me a few days later saying she 27 00:01:24.760 --> 00:01:27.239 had fought with my ex for cheating on me. Two 28 00:01:27.359 --> 00:01:30.280 days later, while the X was at work, I banged 29 00:01:30.280 --> 00:01:34.040 her roommate on her bed. Second, many years later, the 30 00:01:34.079 --> 00:01:36.840 word reached me that my ex was marrying this guy 31 00:01:37.040 --> 00:01:39.959 and their wedding was forthcoming. I ordered to grow your 32 00:01:40.000 --> 00:01:43.400 own Dong bachelorette novelty toy on Amazon and had it 33 00:01:43.519 --> 00:01:45.640 sent as a wedding gift from a made up name 34 00:01:45.719 --> 00:01:48.680 to her mother's house. No word on if they got it. 35 00:01:49.319 --> 00:01:52.400 Before we continue, do us a quick favor. Smash that 36 00:01:52.640 --> 00:01:56.519 like button and subscribe to support our channel. Story two. 37 00:01:57.120 --> 00:01:59.719 I had my suspicions that my boyfriend was cheating on 38 00:01:59.760 --> 00:02:02.120 me for a while, but I never had any proof. 39 00:02:02.599 --> 00:02:05.239 I had access to his phone and laptop, and I 40 00:02:05.319 --> 00:02:08.360 never saw anything out of the ordinary. But my boyfriend 41 00:02:08.400 --> 00:02:11.000 suddenly was going out all the time, saying it was 42 00:02:11.199 --> 00:02:13.360 just him and the boys, so I couldn't come, and 43 00:02:13.400 --> 00:02:16.039 if I really trusted him, it shouldn't be an issue. 44 00:02:16.120 --> 00:02:19.039 He also stopped being intimate with me, claiming he was 45 00:02:19.039 --> 00:02:22.000 too tired or not in the mood. I tried confiding 46 00:02:22.039 --> 00:02:25.000 in my best friend about this, asking for her advice 47 00:02:25.039 --> 00:02:27.360 on what to do. She said that he would never 48 00:02:27.400 --> 00:02:30.000 do that to me because he loves me too much, 49 00:02:30.199 --> 00:02:32.800 and that I'm being paranoid. I should be thankful that 50 00:02:32.879 --> 00:02:35.319 I have him in my life. I tried to listen 51 00:02:35.360 --> 00:02:37.800 to her advice, but it was just too much. He 52 00:02:37.919 --> 00:02:41.159 was always going out, coming home late, and never answered 53 00:02:41.159 --> 00:02:44.039 my texts or calls. So we had a huge fight 54 00:02:44.120 --> 00:02:46.960 where I basically begged him to just ease my anxiety 55 00:02:46.960 --> 00:02:49.360 and tell me where he goes, or at least answer 56 00:02:49.400 --> 00:02:51.919 my texts so I don't have to worry. But he 57 00:02:51.960 --> 00:02:54.879 said that I was being jealous and controlling. So I 58 00:02:54.960 --> 00:02:57.960 left our apartment. I didn't grab anything, I just ran 59 00:02:58.039 --> 00:03:00.639 out because I couldn't stand it anymore. I don't know 60 00:03:00.680 --> 00:03:03.599 how much time passed, maybe two hours, as I was 61 00:03:03.680 --> 00:03:06.240 just walking around the city trying to cool down before 62 00:03:06.240 --> 00:03:08.199 I got home. That's when I walked in on my 63 00:03:08.280 --> 00:03:11.599 boyfriend vigorously testing the mattress with my best friend right 64 00:03:11.599 --> 00:03:13.479 in the middle of my living room on a couch 65 00:03:13.520 --> 00:03:16.159 that I bought. They didn't notice me right away, but 66 00:03:16.199 --> 00:03:19.479 when they did, the shit show ensued. I started screaming 67 00:03:19.479 --> 00:03:21.479 at both of them as I cried my eyes out. 68 00:03:21.879 --> 00:03:24.439 My best friends said nothing as they both quickly put 69 00:03:24.479 --> 00:03:27.759 on clothes, but my boyfriends started defending them. He said 70 00:03:27.759 --> 00:03:29.240 that they were in love and had been for the 71 00:03:29.319 --> 00:03:31.199 last year, but they didn't want to hurt me, so 72 00:03:31.280 --> 00:03:33.360 they tried to hide it. That it's my fault for 73 00:03:33.400 --> 00:03:36.159 being so sad and depressed, so it's natural that my 74 00:03:36.199 --> 00:03:39.599 boyfriend went to seek solace somewhere else. My best friend 75 00:03:39.680 --> 00:03:42.560 was also sick of me always being sad, apparently my 76 00:03:42.639 --> 00:03:45.759 boyfriend's words. She said nothing the entire time, and they 77 00:03:45.800 --> 00:03:48.199 bonded over that and realized they could give each other 78 00:03:48.280 --> 00:03:50.960 whatever I wasn't providing them. They wanted to tell me, 79 00:03:51.120 --> 00:03:54.439 but didn't want my depression to get worse. I just left. 80 00:03:54.919 --> 00:03:57.479 I spent the night at coffee shop until they closed, 81 00:03:57.520 --> 00:04:01.280 and then all night just wandering outside, feeling I didn't 82 00:04:01.280 --> 00:04:03.159 have anywhere to go, as I normally go to my 83 00:04:03.199 --> 00:04:06.240 best friends, but that wasn't an option. Now. My best 84 00:04:06.319 --> 00:04:09.080 friend texted me and called me a bunch of times 85 00:04:09.240 --> 00:04:12.000 trying to say sorry. I guess I just wanted to 86 00:04:12.039 --> 00:04:14.879 know when and how, because I texted her back asking 87 00:04:14.919 --> 00:04:18.879 for the full story. She that my boyfriend over exaggerated. 88 00:04:19.279 --> 00:04:21.600 They were not in love. They were just banging, as 89 00:04:21.600 --> 00:04:24.800 if that makes it so much better. She explained everything. 90 00:04:25.240 --> 00:04:28.600 They slept together after getting wasted. I asked her when, 91 00:04:28.680 --> 00:04:31.040 and it was during my birthday after I had gone 92 00:04:31.040 --> 00:04:33.920 to sleep. They promised never to tell me and never 93 00:04:34.000 --> 00:04:36.519 do it again, but the tension between them was just 94 00:04:36.560 --> 00:04:39.279 too much to ignore, so they would hook up at 95 00:04:39.279 --> 00:04:42.079 her place every Tuesday and Friday when he claimed he 96 00:04:42.160 --> 00:04:44.519 was with the boys. I asked if they ever did 97 00:04:44.519 --> 00:04:47.279 it in my own home and she said yes, any 98 00:04:47.360 --> 00:04:49.639 time I had to pull over time at my job, 99 00:04:49.800 --> 00:04:52.279 she would go to my house and bang my boyfriend. 100 00:04:52.439 --> 00:04:54.199 But she said they would never do it in my 101 00:04:54.319 --> 00:04:57.120 bed because she couldn't do that to me. Like what 102 00:04:57.720 --> 00:05:00.319 she said. She was really sorry, but thought I should 103 00:05:00.319 --> 00:05:02.759 know that she wasn't the only girl he was banging with. 104 00:05:03.240 --> 00:05:05.439 She said he has a second phone to set up 105 00:05:05.439 --> 00:05:07.720 all the hookups, which is why he didn't care if 106 00:05:07.759 --> 00:05:10.720 I was on his phone or laptop. So yeah, I 107 00:05:10.759 --> 00:05:13.000 don't know what to do. It's been about a week 108 00:05:13.040 --> 00:05:15.279 since that happened, and I've only been home once to 109 00:05:15.319 --> 00:05:17.600 grab my essentials, and I've been staying in a hotel. 110 00:05:18.000 --> 00:05:21.000 My boyfriend has not contacted me once, which shouldn't matter, 111 00:05:21.040 --> 00:05:23.759 but it still hurts like hell. It's been so hard 112 00:05:23.759 --> 00:05:25.759 to drag myself out of bed to go to work. 113 00:05:26.160 --> 00:05:28.399 I don't want to leave this hotel room. I just 114 00:05:28.439 --> 00:05:30.680 want to curl up on the bed and never move again. 115 00:05:31.199 --> 00:05:34.759 Story three. I was married for about five years. I 116 00:05:34.800 --> 00:05:36.800 walked in on my wife and a coworker on the 117 00:05:36.879 --> 00:05:39.720 kitchen floor. All three of us worked together, just to 118 00:05:39.720 --> 00:05:42.920 be clear. She worked graves and I worked days at 119 00:05:42.920 --> 00:05:45.680 the time, and Saturday morning was a time when many 120 00:05:45.720 --> 00:05:48.240 of our coworkers would hit the bar that happened to 121 00:05:48.240 --> 00:05:51.839 be behind our house. I remember seeing someone else's car 122 00:05:51.920 --> 00:05:55.519 in the driveway and assume someone likely a female, had 123 00:05:55.600 --> 00:05:58.839 crashed to avoid drunk driving. I remember opening the door 124 00:05:58.959 --> 00:06:02.879 super quietly not to wake anyone, and experiencing something I 125 00:06:03.000 --> 00:06:05.800 was not prepared for. The First thing I heard was 126 00:06:05.839 --> 00:06:09.439 a rapid squishing sound accompanied by the moaning of my wife. 127 00:06:09.839 --> 00:06:13.120 This was quickly followed by a strong smell. I see 128 00:06:13.160 --> 00:06:16.000 them clear as day on the kitchen floor. I am 129 00:06:16.040 --> 00:06:18.720 not noticed until I closed the door and greet them 130 00:06:18.720 --> 00:06:22.240 with a friendly what the actual heck? It's difficult to 131 00:06:22.279 --> 00:06:25.079 even begin to explain what that does to you. I 132 00:06:25.199 --> 00:06:29.600 realize it's unfortunately not all that uncommon to experience cheating, 133 00:06:29.839 --> 00:06:32.680 but to walk in on it, especially when you are married, 134 00:06:33.000 --> 00:06:36.160 is a life changing experience. I did not react the 135 00:06:36.160 --> 00:06:39.240 way I would have imagined I would. I simply felt nothing. 136 00:06:39.879 --> 00:06:44.279 My actions became autonomous. Told the fellow to get out now, repeatedly, 137 00:06:44.360 --> 00:06:47.600 as he insisted on apologizing and asked me to hit him. 138 00:06:48.000 --> 00:06:50.839 After several warnings, I threatened to get my gun, as 139 00:06:50.839 --> 00:06:53.040 I felt as if that was what you were expected 140 00:06:53.079 --> 00:06:56.439 to do. Eventually, he left only after my wife told 141 00:06:56.519 --> 00:06:59.120 him to leave. I calmly went to the bedroom to 142 00:06:59.160 --> 00:07:02.120 remove my suit and get into something more comfortable, as 143 00:07:02.240 --> 00:07:05.079 my wife remained in the kitchen, still lying on her 144 00:07:05.120 --> 00:07:09.040 back covering her face. I left and immediately drove to 145 00:07:09.079 --> 00:07:12.439 a nearby apartment complex and called my boss, who is 146 00:07:12.480 --> 00:07:15.160 a good friend. As I was leaving, I saw the 147 00:07:15.199 --> 00:07:17.879 other guy in my driveway, but I didn't give a crap. 148 00:07:18.000 --> 00:07:21.000 I just wanted to get away. After telling my boss 149 00:07:21.040 --> 00:07:24.560 slash friend everything, I began the application process for an 150 00:07:24.600 --> 00:07:28.680 apartment not even two hours after discovering the two Because 151 00:07:28.680 --> 00:07:31.279 of the nature of the incident, since my wife was 152 00:07:31.319 --> 00:07:33.600 the boss of the guy she was sleeping with, there 153 00:07:33.600 --> 00:07:36.920 had to be an investigation. I didn't intend for there 154 00:07:36.959 --> 00:07:39.759 to be an investigation. I just wanted someone to talk 155 00:07:39.800 --> 00:07:43.199 to less than twenty four hours later. Because some people 156 00:07:43.240 --> 00:07:46.000 on the committee can keep their mouths shut. Every single 157 00:07:46.040 --> 00:07:49.240 person I knew found out. It was a horrific experience 158 00:07:49.360 --> 00:07:52.399 that I am fairly certain has scarred me yet strengthened 159 00:07:52.399 --> 00:07:55.279 me for life. But I made the mistake of giving 160 00:07:55.319 --> 00:07:58.839 her a second chance about two months later. It lasted 161 00:07:58.879 --> 00:08:01.639 about a month before we set separated and I filed 162 00:08:01.639 --> 00:08:05.079 for divorce. Don't ever give someone who cheated a second 163 00:08:05.160 --> 00:08:09.839 chance in a monogamous relationship. Ever. Cheating occurs when one 164 00:08:10.000 --> 00:08:14.439 selfish desires exceed their compassion and respect for their partner. Period. 165 00:08:14.800 --> 00:08:16.720 You owe it to yourself to cut them out of 166 00:08:16.720 --> 00:08:19.279 your life like a cancer, even if they become a 167 00:08:19.319 --> 00:08:22.279 better person. Afterwards, it's simply not worth it for you. 168 00:08:22.600 --> 00:08:25.959 The emotional turmoil is surreal. For a while, I would 169 00:08:25.959 --> 00:08:28.879 break down crying any time I saw the color orange. 170 00:08:28.920 --> 00:08:31.639 She was wearing orange when I caught her. I chose 171 00:08:31.680 --> 00:08:34.240 to welcome the single life and to numb the pain 172 00:08:34.360 --> 00:08:37.559 with a large amount of booze. Time is a beautiful thing. 173 00:08:37.799 --> 00:08:41.200 Eventually I came to my senses and stopped drinking and 174 00:08:41.279 --> 00:08:44.279 started to progress to a constructive life. I did the 175 00:08:44.279 --> 00:08:48.080 classic stuff. I hit the gym, became the strongest I 176 00:08:48.120 --> 00:08:50.639 have ever been in my life. To coincide with the 177 00:08:50.720 --> 00:08:55.080 strength I wanted to develop mentally and emotionally, resumed college 178 00:08:55.240 --> 00:08:57.679 and got a new job. It's been a few years, 179 00:08:57.960 --> 00:09:00.399 but I like the direction I am going. I have 180 00:09:00.480 --> 00:09:03.159 more self respect than I have ever had in my life. 181 00:09:03.559 --> 00:09:06.039 I have a wonderful woman in my life who is 182 00:09:06.080 --> 00:09:09.679 a great support and compliments my personality. I lost a 183 00:09:09.720 --> 00:09:12.799 lot of friends for various reasons, but I am building 184 00:09:12.840 --> 00:09:16.879 new relationships. I occasionally struggle with trust issues as well 185 00:09:16.919 --> 00:09:19.879 as anxiety, but it's getting better. Trust me on this 186 00:09:19.960 --> 00:09:22.919 though it was hard and it still is on occasion, 187 00:09:23.159 --> 00:09:26.159 but you will learn a lot about yourself. Story four. 188 00:09:26.799 --> 00:09:29.240 I first met my wife when I was studying abroad 189 00:09:29.279 --> 00:09:32.240 in China. We dated briefly over there and kept in 190 00:09:32.320 --> 00:09:35.480 touch online when I returned home. Eventually, the two of 191 00:09:35.559 --> 00:09:37.879 us got married and she moved out here to the 192 00:09:37.879 --> 00:09:42.080 States with me. Occasionally her family came to visit. Four 193 00:09:42.159 --> 00:09:44.919 years into the relationship, I catch her with her brother 194 00:09:45.080 --> 00:09:47.519 in bed. I didn't know what the heck to think. 195 00:09:48.360 --> 00:09:51.480 Is this a weird cultural thing? Is this guy even 196 00:09:51.519 --> 00:09:55.279 her brother? I got angry, yelled at her, stormed out 197 00:09:55.320 --> 00:09:58.279 for the night, and crashed at my friend's apartment. I 198 00:09:58.320 --> 00:10:00.720 went to work the next day and came back home 199 00:10:00.759 --> 00:10:03.720 while she was still at school. The guy was already gone. 200 00:10:03.879 --> 00:10:06.919 I checked her MacBook, where her Skype and email accounts 201 00:10:06.960 --> 00:10:09.679 were still logged in. That's when I discovered the man 202 00:10:09.759 --> 00:10:12.519 was actually her husband. The money we thought we were 203 00:10:12.559 --> 00:10:15.440 sending to help her parents was actually going to him 204 00:10:15.480 --> 00:10:19.320 and her kids. Story five. This girl was staying at 205 00:10:19.320 --> 00:10:22.000 my house for a bit. She had family issues and 206 00:10:22.159 --> 00:10:26.639 never wanted to go home. We'll call her Erica. Every night, 207 00:10:27.240 --> 00:10:29.720 Erica would start crying when we were heading to bed, 208 00:10:30.120 --> 00:10:32.600 and my boyfriend and I would stay up for hours 209 00:10:32.679 --> 00:10:35.480 trying to calm her down. After a couple of weeks, 210 00:10:35.639 --> 00:10:38.799 I kicked her out. My boyfriend really didn't like it, 211 00:10:39.000 --> 00:10:42.000 but I was firm. We needed sleep and this girl 212 00:10:42.039 --> 00:10:45.360 needed to deal with her family issues. Two days later, 213 00:10:45.440 --> 00:10:47.960 I was at work and my boyfriend called to say 214 00:10:48.000 --> 00:10:50.840 he was staying home sick and wouldn't need a ride later. 215 00:10:51.360 --> 00:10:54.120 I felt bad for him, so on my hour lunch break, 216 00:10:54.399 --> 00:10:56.240 I went to the soup shop to grab him some 217 00:10:56.399 --> 00:10:59.120 tasty soup. It took a while, and I was going 218 00:10:59.200 --> 00:11:01.679 to use my whole lunch break to bring him soup. 219 00:11:02.240 --> 00:11:05.480 I got home and he wasn't on his computer, very unusual, 220 00:11:05.840 --> 00:11:08.639 and the bedroom door was closed. I opened the bedroom 221 00:11:08.720 --> 00:11:12.360 door and he and the girl were unclothed in bed together, 222 00:11:12.759 --> 00:11:17.000 not actively doing anything, just unclothed. I poured the soup 223 00:11:17.039 --> 00:11:19.399 on them and left. He called me and said it 224 00:11:19.480 --> 00:11:22.080 wasn't what it looked like. She was keeping him warm 225 00:11:22.159 --> 00:11:25.639 since he had a fever. What an amazing excuse. She 226 00:11:25.799 --> 00:11:29.080 totally had to be unclothed to keep him warm. I'm sure. 227 00:11:29.519 --> 00:11:31.480 I told him he'd better have his stuff out by 228 00:11:31.519 --> 00:11:34.039 the time I got home, or I was calling the cops. 229 00:11:34.639 --> 00:11:38.080 He broke into my apartment three days later to leave 230 00:11:38.120 --> 00:11:41.440 flowers and a note. I was twenty years old and dumb, 231 00:11:41.639 --> 00:11:44.200 so I took him back. We stayed together for two 232 00:11:44.240 --> 00:11:47.519 more years. He was from Oregon, and my work wanted 233 00:11:47.519 --> 00:11:50.080 me to move to Colorado. Since he didn't have a 234 00:11:50.159 --> 00:11:53.600 job and I hated living in Oregon, we took the offer. 235 00:11:53.720 --> 00:11:56.519 The whole time we were there, he was unhappy and 236 00:11:56.639 --> 00:11:59.279 wanted to move home, but we couldn't because of my work. 237 00:12:00.000 --> 00:12:02.279 Eventually he came to me and told me his mom 238 00:12:02.399 --> 00:12:04.840 had a heart attack and he had to go care 239 00:12:04.879 --> 00:12:07.440 for her. I had to pay to ship him and 240 00:12:07.559 --> 00:12:10.799 all our stuff, including our cat, back to Oregon. It 241 00:12:10.879 --> 00:12:13.639 was almost thousand dollars when all was said and done. 242 00:12:14.000 --> 00:12:16.480 He got home and never called to say he landed, 243 00:12:16.840 --> 00:12:19.879 or was safe or anything. After a couple of weeks, 244 00:12:19.960 --> 00:12:22.159 I got hold of one of his friends who said 245 00:12:22.159 --> 00:12:25.240 his mom never had a heart attack. A few days later, 246 00:12:25.360 --> 00:12:28.399 female friends from Oregon started calling asking me to get 247 00:12:28.440 --> 00:12:30.960 him to leave them alone. He was trying to hit 248 00:12:31.000 --> 00:12:33.879 on my friends. I told them that jerk wasn't my 249 00:12:33.960 --> 00:12:37.039 problem any more. A week later I texted him to 250 00:12:37.039 --> 00:12:39.080 tell him I was going to take the two hundred 251 00:12:39.120 --> 00:12:42.679 dollars hit and shut off his cell phone line. Suddenly, 252 00:12:42.840 --> 00:12:45.679 he calls back says he gave that number for job 253 00:12:45.720 --> 00:12:48.879 applications and I can shut it off. I did anyway. 254 00:12:49.320 --> 00:12:52.080 Now I'm engaged to a reasonable human being whom I 255 00:12:52.120 --> 00:12:54.919 love and have been with for five years. My ex 256 00:12:55.000 --> 00:12:58.279 is married, lives with his parents, and is still sleeping 257 00:12:58.320 --> 00:13:01.600 with Erica. On the side, Erica married a trans girl 258 00:13:01.639 --> 00:13:06.480 who impregnated Erica almost immediately all those years ago. Story six. 259 00:13:07.240 --> 00:13:09.840 My husband cheated on me with his fit and skinny 260 00:13:09.919 --> 00:13:13.279 Jim friend. I came home from work early. I'm an 261 00:13:13.279 --> 00:13:17.120 ob nurse, so my hours are pretty unpredictable, and found 262 00:13:17.159 --> 00:13:20.639 female sneakers in the garage that weren't mine. At that point, 263 00:13:20.720 --> 00:13:23.080 I sort of already knew what I'd be walking into. 264 00:13:23.519 --> 00:13:26.559 My husband has recently become very fit and has been 265 00:13:26.639 --> 00:13:29.720 consistently going to the gym, during which he made a 266 00:13:29.759 --> 00:13:32.720 female friend who he even brought home for dinner last week. 267 00:13:33.080 --> 00:13:36.559 She's beautiful and thin and everything I am not, which 268 00:13:36.639 --> 00:13:39.840 instantly made me feel horrible, so I talked to him 269 00:13:39.840 --> 00:13:42.919 about it. He encouraged me to build my confidence and 270 00:13:43.000 --> 00:13:45.879 reassured me he loved me and would always be loyal 271 00:13:45.919 --> 00:13:48.440 to me. I walked into the laundry room from the 272 00:13:48.440 --> 00:13:51.919 garage and sort of tiptoed around the house before going upstairs, 273 00:13:52.519 --> 00:13:55.240 and yea, they were shagging in our bed, with a 274 00:13:55.279 --> 00:13:58.200 framed picture from our wedding above the nightstand next to it. 275 00:13:58.559 --> 00:14:00.759 I silently left the room and got back in my 276 00:14:00.879 --> 00:14:04.000 car with tears streaming down my face, and drove to 277 00:14:04.000 --> 00:14:06.840 get food and just sat in my car crying. Since 278 00:14:07.240 --> 00:14:10.399 it's now almost one am. I walked in on them 279 00:14:10.440 --> 00:14:13.519 at seven pm and I've returned to the hospital. He 280 00:14:13.559 --> 00:14:16.240 called me asking why I wasn't home, and I told 281 00:14:16.320 --> 00:14:19.519 him my shift is extended. But in reality, I'm lying 282 00:14:19.559 --> 00:14:22.080 in one of the on call rooms bawling my eyes 283 00:14:22.120 --> 00:14:25.720 out as I type this, I feel so worthless and 284 00:14:25.960 --> 00:14:28.840 ugly and stupid. I don't even know how to proceed. 285 00:14:29.480 --> 00:14:32.080 On one hand, I want to divorce him and never 286 00:14:32.159 --> 00:14:34.919 see him again. But on the other hand, I'm an 287 00:14:35.039 --> 00:14:37.960 ugly woman. It's not like I can do better. I 288 00:14:38.000 --> 00:14:40.679 feel so gross and the self loathing is getting too 289 00:14:40.759 --> 00:14:44.960 much right now. Story seven not exactly what you're expecting, 290 00:14:45.080 --> 00:14:47.960 but I walked in on my fiance being essay. We 291 00:14:47.960 --> 00:14:50.840 were at a Halloween party, and she got a little wasted. 292 00:14:51.519 --> 00:14:54.840 Mind you, everyone there were friends, pretty damn close friends too. 293 00:14:55.279 --> 00:14:58.159 Everyone at this party was actually invited to our wedding. 294 00:14:58.480 --> 00:15:01.519 So my fiance disappears upstairs with the woman who owns 295 00:15:01.559 --> 00:15:04.320 the house, and I think, no big deal. My girl 296 00:15:04.360 --> 00:15:07.840 gets tired when she drinks. She's probably going to lie down. 297 00:15:08.159 --> 00:15:10.519 I assumed the woman who owned the house, a very 298 00:15:10.559 --> 00:15:13.200 old friend of my fiance's, was going to lie down 299 00:15:13.240 --> 00:15:15.639 with her, since they both have a history of doing this. 300 00:15:16.399 --> 00:15:19.240 Fast forward forty five minutes and the owner is back 301 00:15:19.279 --> 00:15:21.960 down at the party, but my fiancee was nowhere to 302 00:15:21.960 --> 00:15:24.519 be seen. The owner told me she was asleep in 303 00:15:24.519 --> 00:15:27.159 the spare bedroom and she had closed the door and 304 00:15:27.279 --> 00:15:29.960 left her up there about ten minutes ago. But something 305 00:15:30.039 --> 00:15:32.240 wasn't sitting right with me, so I went up to 306 00:15:32.279 --> 00:15:35.559 find her. The door wasn't closed, in fact, it was 307 00:15:35.639 --> 00:15:38.519 wide open, and one of our friends, the husband of 308 00:15:38.559 --> 00:15:41.399 her best friend to be exact, was in bed with her. 309 00:15:41.759 --> 00:15:43.919 Her dress was on the floor and he had his 310 00:15:44.000 --> 00:15:47.279 hand inside her dress. I hate to admit it, but 311 00:15:47.360 --> 00:15:50.679 I assumed the worst for a split second, just a second. 312 00:15:51.000 --> 00:15:53.759 But I hate myself for it. I assumed she was 313 00:15:53.840 --> 00:15:56.879 encouraging it, but then I realized she was crying and 314 00:15:56.960 --> 00:15:59.440 he had tied one of her arms to the bed frame. 315 00:16:00.000 --> 00:16:02.519 Not only that, but she's a petite girl and he 316 00:16:02.600 --> 00:16:05.039 had most of his bulk on her, holding her down. 317 00:16:05.519 --> 00:16:07.639 I hauled him off of her, broke his nose, and 318 00:16:07.720 --> 00:16:10.799 gave him a concussion before someone else from the party 319 00:16:10.879 --> 00:16:13.080 pulled me off of him. After the three of our 320 00:16:13.120 --> 00:16:16.879 combined screaming brought people running, he attempted to sue me 321 00:16:17.000 --> 00:16:21.080 for assault. She pressed essay charges. It hasn't been easy 322 00:16:21.159 --> 00:16:24.320 for the past couple of months. Her best friend, the 323 00:16:24.399 --> 00:16:28.279 guy's wife, sided with her husband and cut all contact 324 00:16:28.320 --> 00:16:32.240 with my fiance. She was also my fiance's maid of honor, 325 00:16:32.559 --> 00:16:35.240 so she obviously kicked her out of the wedding party. 326 00:16:35.840 --> 00:16:38.360 Story eight. I had a group of friends tell me 327 00:16:38.399 --> 00:16:40.480 that they knew my then girlfriend had cheated on me 328 00:16:40.559 --> 00:16:43.480 with three other guys. I didn't believe it, and they 329 00:16:43.559 --> 00:16:46.679 drove me out to the party where she was. Unbeknownst 330 00:16:46.759 --> 00:16:49.279 to me, all three guys were guys I knew, and 331 00:16:49.320 --> 00:16:52.000 they were all at this party. I stalked through the 332 00:16:52.039 --> 00:16:54.480 party looking for her, but I found two of the 333 00:16:54.480 --> 00:16:58.639 guys hanging out. Confronted them and they admitted it and apologized. 334 00:16:59.120 --> 00:17:02.159 I just walked off. I kept looking around for her 335 00:17:02.240 --> 00:17:05.119 and finally found her in one of the upstairs bedrooms, 336 00:17:05.440 --> 00:17:08.400 just getting dressed after banging the third guy. He was 337 00:17:08.519 --> 00:17:11.559 just standing there, shirtless with all these piercings, with this 338 00:17:11.680 --> 00:17:14.400 smug look on his face, and so I confronted him 339 00:17:14.480 --> 00:17:17.160 and he said, it's just for the pleasure. I don't 340 00:17:17.160 --> 00:17:19.799 even like her. I grabbed a nipple ring in each 341 00:17:19.799 --> 00:17:22.440 hand and ripped them right out walked out of there 342 00:17:22.480 --> 00:17:24.839 with him screaming and bleeding, as a bunch of people 343 00:17:24.920 --> 00:17:27.519 ran in to see what the deal was. I still 344 00:17:27.519 --> 00:17:31.240 have them. Story nine. The first girl I ever fell 345 00:17:31.279 --> 00:17:33.720 in love with, who I lost my V card too, 346 00:17:34.359 --> 00:17:36.799 ended up sleeping with my best friend. A week later, 347 00:17:37.160 --> 00:17:39.359 I walked in on them going at it, and I 348 00:17:39.440 --> 00:17:42.440 literally just walked off in a fit of rage and tears. 349 00:17:42.960 --> 00:17:45.079 A day later, I went to his house and sat 350 00:17:45.119 --> 00:17:47.480 him down like a man and asked him what happened. 351 00:17:47.640 --> 00:17:51.559 He said nothing. I asked him again, same reply. So 352 00:17:52.000 --> 00:17:55.000 I thought, well screw you then and never spoke to 353 00:17:55.079 --> 00:17:58.559 him again. As for her, I ditched her and never 354 00:17:58.599 --> 00:18:01.759 looked back. I don't recommend that anyone do what I 355 00:18:01.839 --> 00:18:04.839 did next. So I saw my old best friend at 356 00:18:04.880 --> 00:18:07.720 a house party about five years later and basically peer 357 00:18:07.839 --> 00:18:10.240 pressured him into taking some powder with some of the 358 00:18:10.279 --> 00:18:12.920 guys I was with. I took pictures and had them 359 00:18:12.960 --> 00:18:15.759 blown out onto big a four pages and sent them 360 00:18:15.759 --> 00:18:18.160 to his mom and dad at Christmas with the message, 361 00:18:18.200 --> 00:18:21.480 Merry Christmas, here's your son in all his glory. His 362 00:18:21.559 --> 00:18:24.720 mom and dad were Christians. Suffice it to say, I 363 00:18:24.799 --> 00:18:29.599 got my revenge. Story ten. This was my first boyfriend 364 00:18:29.720 --> 00:18:33.400 in college. He was a lot of firsts, actually, including 365 00:18:33.440 --> 00:18:35.680 the first person to cheat on me. It was my 366 00:18:35.799 --> 00:18:39.200 boyfriend's birthday and I was going to surprise him by 367 00:18:39.200 --> 00:18:42.880 decorating his room at midnight. He usually has work until 368 00:18:42.920 --> 00:18:45.839 two am on those days, so I planned to go 369 00:18:45.880 --> 00:18:48.440 to his dorm room and decorate it. I knew his 370 00:18:48.519 --> 00:18:51.880 roommate was going home that weekend, so his roommate was 371 00:18:52.000 --> 00:18:54.559 nice enough to lend me his key. I have all 372 00:18:54.559 --> 00:18:57.000 the supplies with me and go to his room at 373 00:18:57.000 --> 00:19:00.160 one am. I like to vlog things and was going 374 00:19:00.200 --> 00:19:03.319 to record the process, so I had my phone recording 375 00:19:03.319 --> 00:19:06.279 me entering his room. I swung open the door and 376 00:19:06.319 --> 00:19:09.200 I see him and another girl. I guess I have 377 00:19:09.279 --> 00:19:12.559 impeccable timing because he spills all over her back as 378 00:19:12.599 --> 00:19:16.039 I opened the door, and remember my phone was recording 379 00:19:16.079 --> 00:19:18.880 all of this. I just kind of stand there. We 380 00:19:18.960 --> 00:19:21.000 all just look at each other, and he starts to 381 00:19:21.039 --> 00:19:24.960 say babe. Tears start falling down my face and I 382 00:19:25.119 --> 00:19:28.079 just lose it. I fell to the floor and started crying. 383 00:19:28.319 --> 00:19:31.680 He scrambles for his clothes and I just leave. I 384 00:19:31.759 --> 00:19:34.599 leave all the supplies there, grab my bag and phone, 385 00:19:34.640 --> 00:19:37.200 and just walk away. I went back to my room 386 00:19:37.279 --> 00:19:40.359 without saying anything. In fact, I never said anything to 387 00:19:40.440 --> 00:19:43.200 him ever again. He stalked me for a bit after 388 00:19:43.799 --> 00:19:46.359 his roommate didn't know we broke up, and messaged me 389 00:19:46.400 --> 00:19:49.359 a few days after, telling me he thinks my ex 390 00:19:49.440 --> 00:19:51.759 is cheating on me with a girl. He says the 391 00:19:51.839 --> 00:19:54.319 name of the girl, which is not the same girl 392 00:19:54.400 --> 00:19:57.720 I saw him in bed with. Story eleven. I was 393 00:19:57.759 --> 00:20:00.400 twenty one at the time with a five month old baby. 394 00:20:01.039 --> 00:20:03.119 He knew I was going to be there that morning 395 00:20:03.160 --> 00:20:06.240 to move my things out. I got there only to 396 00:20:06.279 --> 00:20:10.000 find a strange car in the driveway. I went into 397 00:20:10.039 --> 00:20:12.640 the house and found them passed out in our bed 398 00:20:12.759 --> 00:20:15.119 after they had been on a two week powder bender. 399 00:20:15.640 --> 00:20:18.400 I went into the kitchen, emptied the ice bucket into 400 00:20:18.400 --> 00:20:21.480 the biggest container I could find, filled the rest of 401 00:20:21.480 --> 00:20:24.480