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Speaker 1: When your old career gives you lemons.

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Speaker 2: Throwing some ice, mix in some.

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Speaker 1: Vodka in color.

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Speaker 3: A podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in

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Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dods. Gee Ram, It's Billified,

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the Bill Moran Podcast.

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Speaker 1: Well, hello and welcome. Thanks for getting your pot on.

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Thank you for telling a friend. That's how we spread

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the word about the favorite ship. Oh, we got a

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full one today. Laura's here, and I'm excited because there's

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something I want to bring up that I want Laura's help.

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And then dissecting just a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 1: Kevin is here, of course, and he brought a man

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who went to see this guy just the other day,

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the Bigfoot, the room, sasquatch sex, the squat sacks squatch.

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Excuse me, that is right, sax squatch.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: The thing that I find interesting, Keith, is I'm wondering,

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why does a guy in a bigfoot costume playing saxophone

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work like it works? Right? People want to see it.

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Where did you go see this?

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Speaker 2: The time I just saw him was a town ballroom

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in Buffalo.

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Speaker 1: So is that the first time you saw them? The third?

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Speaker 2: Third time?

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Speaker 1: So is it sold out?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? That was almost sold out on a Saturday night

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or Friday night, played two almost a thousand people and

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the town ballrooms.

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Speaker 1: One thousand people come to see this.

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Speaker 5: Can we wait backtrack?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Sure, go ahead? Okay, what's.

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Speaker 5: Sasquatch?

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Speaker 1: Sas Squatch?

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Speaker 6: But it's somebody who dresses up like their bigfoot?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's it's Sasquatch playing a saxophone.

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Speaker 1: What's the guy's name, Dave Mitchell?

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Speaker 2: It's Sasquatch.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'll send you a squatch.

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Speaker 6: I was gonna say, Sasquatch has a name, sax sex squad.

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Speaker 1: I think the guy's name is Dave Mitchell. And that's

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the thing is, like, what did it feel like in

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that room? You got a thousand people there to see

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a dude in a fucking it's a It's a puppet.

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It's a puppet. Do you see it?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I have to pass around the videos from live seeing it.

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It's it's a great mix of you know.

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Speaker 1: Parents, that's like a different but he does he sings,

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but I think he uh auto tunes his voice or something.

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Speaker 2: He sings over the top of a lot of popular songs,

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you know, from party rock, animal to some Kansas to

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can what was the song I did September winded fire

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throws in a little rack asslet you're never going to

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give up?

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Speaker 1: Come on, this is like.

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Speaker 6: A mix of live music plus the kink of furries.

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Speaker 1: She had to take it there?

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Speaker 2: Ye take it there?

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Speaker 5: Can you deny that?

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Speaker 1: Well? I never thought that. I was looking at it

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and I'm going, we're people vibing in the room, Like,

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what was it like in there? What was the energy?

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Speaker 2: None?

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Speaker 1: Are people taking it seriously?

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Speaker 2: Oh? It's I mean, it's just fun. It's he's serious.

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Where people the.

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Speaker 1: Guy was a touring sex well he was. His name

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is Dean Mitchell, that's his name.

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Speaker 4: It was a different bands and stuff. And you told

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me it was COVID.

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Speaker 2: That hit and he was bored just he put on

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a putting videos out that hit viral, put on a costume.

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in Rochester. Oh yeah, and there was probably one hundred

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and fifty people there, Okay, And at some point in

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the show, you know, part of his old act, he

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on stage, you know, just plays the samples, plays the

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saxophone over the top of it, and then at some

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point he always comes down onto the floor and the

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la round and dance with everybody playing the saxophone.

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Speaker 1: I'm dull and are you really Yes?

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Speaker 2: So he goes And that's why I've seen him three

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times because the first time was like, all right, why.

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Speaker 1: What do you do the first time?

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Speaker 4: You were on drugs?

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Speaker 2: Probably no, wasn't it.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, around the country, a lot of the shows

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are sold out. Yeah, he's played at Electric Forest, which

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is a pretty popular music festival. And if you were

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to look up videos of him playing Electric Forests, it's

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thousands of people in the daylight in.

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Speaker 1: The forest of just where's the Electric Forest.

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Speaker 2: It's in Michigan. Oh, it's a festival that probably has like.

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Speaker 1: A Saat festival. I know they do. They do do

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a Sasquatch festival somewhere, and I thought it was in Michigan.

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Speaker 2: No, this is just more of an m festival.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's big into he goes to like he's been

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to the EEDC in Vegas.

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Speaker 1: Are you an muys going to?

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Speaker 4: All right, he's going to England or Europe next year

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for festivals.

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Speaker 1: Are you going to what's the big one? It's the

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world something. It's going to be in Thailand. I just

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learned about this last night. That one is somebody told

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me that they're going to Thailand to see some EDM.

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Electric Daisy Carnival, Yeah, something like that. I've gone to

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the ones in Vegas. Yeah, the big ones in Vegas.

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Speaker 4: Do you do you.

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Speaker 1: Get saw a lot of EDM. Was always things like uh,

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molly and different drugs like that. I think today people

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are a little cautious to take those things because of

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the fentanyl right possibility. But did you do all that

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stuff right? And I'm not but believe me, there's no

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no judgment here. I'm just asking, like, what is that like?

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Because that's a drug I've never done.

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Speaker 2: I was always a free to enjoy the music as

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part of it. Yeah, the whole getting enjoying the music

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is the biggest deal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Ecstasy too was one like and I always thought

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ecstasy was like made you amorous and all that, and

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I think it it.

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Speaker 4: Was always the sex drug.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they x right. But I've heard people who

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took it, Laura, and they said that wasn't it. It

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just made them feel more and maybe you were touching

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people but they didn't have any.

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Speaker 4: Sex and the matrix over that. I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. But have you done ecstasy?

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Speaker 2: Of course? Okay and not of course but.

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Speaker 1: In the past, in the past. But I mean, what

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is that experience? Like when you're at like an EDM festival.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's just you know, when the EDC Vegas,

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for example, there's one hundred sixty thousand people there that

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that the Vegas Speedway where they do the NASCAR races. Yeah,

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so it's just a giant carnival in the middle of

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the speedway with you know, tons of stages and music

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and crazy. It goes all night.

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Speaker 1: How much is it to get into something like that?

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Speaker 2: I mean you're spending for the tickets for for example

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that it's probably for the ticket I think they're like

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six seven hundred dollars a whole weekend, but.

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Speaker 4: Then go from like it goes twenty four hours.

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Speaker 2: It goes from Thursday night until Monday morning, so you're

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getting a full sunrise sunrise.

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Speaker 5: Then yeah, it's like a music festival. How much it

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costs to go to one?

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Speaker 2: I mean you think about what you're spending for a concert,

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go to a concert at say your pays three you know,

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you go to a concert at the arena wherever. You're

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spending three four hundred dollars for four nights or four

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hours of music. So winnu factor in many days and

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then just all that has led to all of a sudden, Hey,

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here's a guy playing the saxophone. Well, all right, sasquatch he's.

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Speaker 4: Going he's going to Amsterdam in the spring for a festival.

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Speaker 2: And festival yeah awakenings.

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Speaker 1: Are you married? No? Okay, lucky dastard. Do you have

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a girlfriend? You don't have anybody? You would you take

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somebody with you?

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Speaker 2: I'm going to a couple of friends that are married. Yeah,

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notice Soulo traveling.

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Speaker 4: He's the pivot man.

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering, but, uh, if this guy walked out as

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Dean Mitchell in gene same exact skills, right, he plays great?

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Does that? Is it as cool? I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: No, definitely not. I mean there are other artists that

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play you know, instruments or whatever, and but they just

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don't have that of like when you're going to see

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when the guy sold a thousand tickets or you know,

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playing in buffalo. He told someone else.

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Speaker 4: That has like him the yetti like admitted doing a

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Leprechaun all the bithical creatures in a band and.

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Speaker 2: It's a cover band. He's really just a cover band, sure,

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with a costume on, and you just go and it's fun.

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And every time he's come on tour. The first time

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I went, you know, he laughed at me. He's like,

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you're going to see what.

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: And the second time I said, going to.

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Speaker 1: See elf, you know what I mean? And it's like

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it's like watching a grown.

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Speaker 4: Alf had I had, you know, purs Pitt is big

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in the live music, and he he was like, I

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think I might try it if if i'd go so

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im next time he comes around, I'm gonna go, Laura,

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I would totally go and see him.

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Speaker 5: I just pull up a picture of him. Though he's

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not good looking.

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Speaker 1: Out Dean Mitchell is not a good looking He is

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not a good looks a sasquatch or a man.

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Speaker 5: Way better looking as a sasquatch.

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Speaker 1: Really, I was wondering that because I go, the costume

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gives you permission, right permission to come out there and

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almost in a way have people act. Because I love

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what he plays. I'd love to know how much ass

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he gets.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if I don't know if he kills that,

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like he's.

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Speaker 6: Not a good looking man, but like, yeah, I get it.

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I actually went to an EDM concert out in Red

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Rocks one year and it was such a vibe. It

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was so much fun and I love when you dress

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up for it, and you know, dress up.

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Speaker 1: How like costume with wings.

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Speaker 6: I didn't do like that, but I had like pigtails,

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neon body suit.

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Speaker 1: Like stop what you want me to be hateful because

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you don't want to be Okay, I was gonna say,

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was there it was a crotchless.

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Speaker 6: No, no, I had short time, but like you know,

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he knows.

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Speaker 5: It's like when you go to a different genre.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 6: I love to go to live music, It's my favorite thing.

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I'm super passionate about it. But when I go to

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a country concert, I'm going to wear something different than

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going to ed M versus going to I don't know,

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Celine diond Like.

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Speaker 1: You know, we wear a fucking cant soup.

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Speaker 5: I sure know.

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Speaker 6: I would definitely wear trousers like that would be amazing.

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Speaker 1: If the New Year has you saying I did not

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to you. You'll talk to real lawyers who will explain

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things in plain English, not legal mumbo jumbo. Workers comp,

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social security disability, personal injury complicated. Absolutely something you should

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handle alone. Nope, Connors and Ferris, experienced, responsive and committed

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to serving you better called two six' TWO comp helps

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available right. Now kevin texted me yesterday and he, said

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how about this for the. Podcast i'm just gonna ad the. Text,

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oh what is something so subtle or simple that you

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can do that will annoy the shit out of? People

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and he continued for, ME i like going To wegmans

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on a Busy saturday and go the wrong way against

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the flow of traffic just to annoy, people and all

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they get to do is your how old are? You forty?

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Speaker 4: Five i'm older than.

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Speaker 1: That, okay you're over forty. FIVE i, go this isn't.

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Recess what are we doing?

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Speaker 4: Here because the normal fall you go into wag when

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you go through the, produce, right you go to the,

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fishing to, meat and then you go past all the

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meat and you go to the. DAIRY i don't you

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go the other, WAY i don't start to beer and work.

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Speaker 1: Back, okay but you only do that just to annoy

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people a lot of, Times, Yes, LAURA i.

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Speaker 5: MEAN i hate going to the grocery store, period.

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Speaker 1: Right because of people like.

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Speaker 5: That he calls me boozy for My.

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Speaker 4: Instagram i'm on the west. SIDE i can't afford the.

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Speaker 1: Instacart, well you can't afford the, instagcart but LIKE i get,

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YOU i do a mix of, both depending on WHAT

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i have going. On but this is like a micro

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rebellion or. Something it's fun being cholesterol in the.

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Speaker 5: Store it's fun being. Cholesterol, yeah, yes, yes, yes.

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Speaker 1: WHAT i mean it's like power and tiny spaces AND i, go,

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well there's something here that over under how many how

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many Looks i'm going to.

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Speaker 5: GET i sort of wish that car was here right.

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Now so.

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Speaker 4: It's the same THING i do On, Christmas Like Christmas.

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EVE i love going to the mall At Christmas, eve

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getting a little couple of them pretzels with the, cheese

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just sitting there watching the.

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Speaker 1: Misery, Okay Danny kiss.

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Speaker 5: Said he likes to do that, too and beflick to do.

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Speaker 1: That i've been doing it, People.

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Speaker 5: But why Hate LIKE i.

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Speaker 6: Avoid stores when they're, BUSY i hate going to DO

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i just like.

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Speaker 4: WEEKEND i just love all the people's. Misery it makes

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me feel better about.

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Speaker 1: Myself, yeah because you're. Misering there we. Go, okay because

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here's the thing THAT i think it's a cry for

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help in some. WAY i don't. Know you're a mom of, boys,

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right isn't. It it feels like it's like some kind

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of cry for. Help but then at the same TIME

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i start going and hang on a. Second life gets

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very structured as you get. Older, Right you've got more,

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payments you got a job that maybe you, like maybe

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you don't. Like some days you, do some days you.

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Don't you got to be, There you got to be

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there at a certain time your life is run on a.

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Schedule how do you? Rebel because there is something like

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you want to push back against, life AND i will tell,

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you like.

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Speaker 4: It's, drinking, well drinking and go to the supermarket for.

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Speaker 6: Me but like you're inconveniencing yourself while you're doing.

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Speaker 4: That i'm really, not Because i'm just doing WHAT i

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have to.

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Speaker 6: Do.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, yeah but WELL i, know but, yeah, yeah but

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where where do you put your rebellion as an? Adult

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where does it? Fit where does it fit in your?

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Life because you're, right drinking too much is definitely. Rebellion

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some people do. That, no, never, no not even last

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night when you called, ME i could. GO i go right,

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away right, AWAY i, go, oh you're. DRUNK i didn't

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call you last, Night, yes the fuck you. DIDN'T i. Did,

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yeah you called me at like nine, O'clock, yes around

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eight eight forty sometime between eight forty five and. Nine

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uh you called, me AND i believe you were With.

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Keith and then you sent me a picture of like

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a mini catch a mini keg of fireball going by this. Tomorrow, yeah,

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yeah BUT i don't want. TO i might have been

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trying to Call. Bob, No, no you called. Me you

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knew you were calling.

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Speaker 4: Me what DID i? SAY i don't even remember WHAT i.

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Speaker 1: Said you said that BECAUSE i, STARTED i can tell your.

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Drink oh, man here put the shooting out of The christmas.

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Gift we're doing all The christmas. Gifts And i'm like

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What and, yeah so we got a lot.

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Speaker 4: Done we.

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Speaker 1: Did i'm bringing him. Tomorrow, Okay so you knew you that's.

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Speaker 4: Why, Okay BUT i was, canned no ship and that

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was and that was. Before that was before we really started.

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Speaker 6: Drinking that's like the night That bill called his hair

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dresser night right, right that was.

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Speaker 1: Not that was your. FAULT i blame, you AND i

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do blame you a little. Bit there's a little bit

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of eencourishment And i'm, like what AM i? DOING i

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don't even know you.

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Speaker 4: Guys got to take my shit away from When i'm.

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Speaker 1: Drinking, well, see this is the, thing is LIKE i

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swear to got like, okay so, OKAY i think most

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adults rebel in different. Ways we just. DO i drink too.

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MUCH i do it to avoid all the SHIT i

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have to. DO i realize that. Plainly last week like,

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it AND i GO i. DIDN'T i haven't gone out this.

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WEEK i shut it.

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Speaker 2: DOWN i.

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Speaker 1: GO i have. TO i have. TO i have. To

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but like adults by, motorcycles we drink too. Much kevin

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walks the wrong way in a grocery.

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Speaker 4: Store but AM i the only one that'll settlely? Rebellion?

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Speaker 1: SHIT i, mean there's there's got to be something you.

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Speaker 5: ALL i do it.

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Speaker 6: SUBTLY i do it by being. AUTHENTIC i don't conform

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to the societal norms that they THINK i should be

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as a divorce mom business what is what are those?

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Speaker 1: Society, OKAY i don't even know if that would.

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Speaker 5: Be, well just like How i'm open about, NO.

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Speaker 1: I just don't know.

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Speaker 6: What LIKE i remember WHEN i started my, business my

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mom was, like you need to keep quiet on some

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things because you don't want it influencing like those that

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would hire. You And i'm, like, well but that's not.

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Me like political, views HOW i just feel, yes.

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Speaker 5: My dating, past LIKE i Think.

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Speaker 1: Braveyard.

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Speaker 5: Yeah but you, Know i've JUST i have always been.

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Speaker 6: OUTSPOKEN i haven't like been that quiet woman that you

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know you're supposed to.

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Speaker 4: Be you're like a regular rosa.

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Speaker 1: BARK i don't my white privileged. ASK i DON'T i

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sit in the back of that. TRACK i. Don't, yeah

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white privilege is an interesting thing to always discussed BECAUSE

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i think that it's SO i, really do you want

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the white privilege? Contest like two weeks, AGO i. DID i.

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Did it wasn't white, privilege it was just a it

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was in one of my. Classes DID i talk to

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you about? This? No? Okay so in one of my,

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classes the diversity, class they did what's called a privilege,

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walk and they asked questions and depending on your, response

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you either move, forward state, stationary or took a step. Back,

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Okay so if you grew up in a household with

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at least one parent who graduated, college step. Forward if

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you if you lived in a household with at least

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one parent who had an advanced, degree because that's the,

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job that's what the job, required take a step. Forward so,

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Right so both my parent and it was things like.

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That it was things like if you ever went to

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summer camp or private, school take a step? Forward those. Types,

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Yes AND i knew when this, began AND i think

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most people in the class. Knew the first one to

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the candy ball was probably most likely going to the

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fact was, going there's twigs in. There AND i didn't

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take any of the. CANDY i felt too. Privileged, no

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he just turned.

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Speaker 4: Around and made it rain on all the other people

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that weren't that weren't getting.

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Speaker 5: Candy he, said this candy isn't good enough for.

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Speaker 1: Me, yeah but this is not ALL i say is like,

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everybody people get VERY i don't even know how to

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say to get hot over this. Issue the people do

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not like this because what they'll. Say many people will

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SAY i worked my ass off to get WHERE i,

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am AND i will, say, Yeah i'm sure you, did

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but the road to get where you were had less

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potholes than it did for other. People whatever that. Is

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AND i think sometimes to just understand. That one of

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the THINGS i didn't really like about this was somebody

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did say and they NAMED i don't even know If

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i'm allowed to talk about, it but they just kind of, Said,

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HEY i was thinking about somebody WHO i knew was

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in the, back AND i was wondering how they. Felt

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and SO i, said because it's, ME i. GO i

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didn't even know you were back. THERE i was all

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the way up in the.

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Speaker 4: FRONT i mean you you literally are the definition of

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the privilege in that whole.

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Speaker 1: Program, well, sure, absolutely AND i know, that what go.

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Speaker 6: AHEAD i actually have a client who's a PSYCH np

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professor At, fisher AND i asked her if she knew

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you the other. Day she does not, know she, said

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you may know. HER i.

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Speaker 1: Don't want to say, yeah, YEAH i got. It, yeah,

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NO i well there's like Four Because i'm in the.

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Graduate she may do more undergraduate. Stuff she's not. Good, no.

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Speaker 5: She does more than medical.

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Speaker 1: Teacher.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah but she gave me something to give to,

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you AND i forgot to bring.

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Speaker 1: It all, Right, well next time it'll be. Fun it's a.

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Speaker 4: Handjibber.

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Speaker 1: Yeah but the THING i didn't, like AND i tried

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to say after my little, joke was but we're all, Here,

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yeah we're all. Here we're all on the same, program,

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right how you got? Here? Whatever you. Know the thing

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that worries me with some of this stuff a little

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bit on a different, side Is i'm not saying that

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and they're talking about. Things have you ever felt like

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you were being watched while walking through a? Store will

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you ever kind of questioned why you? Were you, know

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somebody questioned you a lot of microaggression, Shit, NO i,

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said And i've said in this, class And i've said

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it AND i watched people's. FACES i. GO i have

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never felt like in my life THAT i didn't fit in,

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anywhere whether it was a country club or talking race

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cars with guys who work on race, cars you know

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WHAT i. MEAN I i just never felt LIKE i

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didn't AND i never felt LIKE i couldn't talk to

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almost anybody about. Anything and a lot of that is

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AND i was also brought up to believe. This this

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is the the total idea of. PRIVILEGE i was AND

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i still believe, this just having knowledge for the sake of.

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Knowledge it kind of bothers me a little bit that

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we have turned college into it is a, privilege, yeah

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plain and, simple it's a, privilege but we've turned it

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into almost like a job center in a. Sense, right

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you got to go to get this, degree And i'm

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going to be a businessman And i'm going to well

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happened to just knowing? Shit? Well AND i like just knowing.

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Shit and the people that do just go for the

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sake of knowledge usually do really well in. Life that's the.

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Speaker 6: Thing lifelong learning is so. Important and it's you, KNOW

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i talk about HOW i don't really WATCH. TV i

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read a ton of, BOOKS i listened to a ton

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of podcasts LIKE i will try to educate myself throughout and,

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YEAH i went To Sunni. School my degree has nothing

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to do with WHAT i did. Now but there's nothing

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wrong with continuing your.

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Speaker 1: Education if the new year has you SAYING i did

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not sign up for, this like a worker's comp, case

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470
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471
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472
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yeah so even when you're stress scrolling at two, am

473
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you can call two six to TWO, comp tell them

474
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475
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476
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477
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478
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479
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480
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481
00:24:02,039 --> 00:24:06,359
helps available. RIGHT now i have seen like where there

482
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:09,480
are times where it's fun in, the moment but then, it's,

483
00:24:09,519 --> 00:24:13,359
LIKE yeah i wasted, A day i'm hung over the.

484
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:17,319
Speaker 6: NEXT day i remember when when we Were, IN galway

485
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,400
i really wanted to do one of the Hikes and

486
00:24:20,559 --> 00:24:23,200
renee just could not wake up the, next morning. You,

487
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:26,880
know so and it just, sucks because especially when you're,

488
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,559
going OVERSEAS am i gonna get?

489
00:24:29,599 --> 00:24:30,079
Speaker 5: Back here?

490
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 6: You know SO if i Go to boston and get

491
00:24:34,319 --> 00:24:37,200
DRUNK and i don't do something that's, planned whatever that's

492
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,759
a six, hour drive it's not a six hour flight

493
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,799
and a couple thousand, dollars trip.

494
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 1: Right exactly, so yeah so it is like you want

495
00:24:44,279 --> 00:24:46,079
to keep it on the rails a. Little, bit yeah

496
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,400
and you have the discipline to. Do, THAT yeah i.

497
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,279
DON'T always i.

498
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 4: Get to, a, POINT man i can. FEEL it i can.

499
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:54,720
Feel IT if.

500
00:24:54,599 --> 00:24:58,039
Speaker 1: I don't leave, Right now i'll be home.

501
00:24:58,039 --> 00:25:00,240
Speaker 5: At, midnight well and that's LIKE last i.

502
00:25:00,279 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 1: KNOW what i know what my.

503
00:25:01,759 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 4: Kryptonite IS and i still don't give.

504
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: A shit what is?

505
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,839
Speaker 4: Your CRY if i can, DRINK beer i can drink wine.

506
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,519
All night BUT if i start, doing shots that's where

507
00:25:11,519 --> 00:25:11,920
it goes off.

508
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:12,559
Speaker 5: THE road i can't.

509
00:25:12,559 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 4: Do shots and that's what we love, to do is.

510
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,720
WE loved i love doing Shots With bob keith. Chain

511
00:25:18,279 --> 00:25:21,720
as this is a good. ASS time, i mean who

512
00:25:21,759 --> 00:25:23,839
would want to buy a seventy dollars keg of fucking

513
00:25:23,839 --> 00:25:26,599
fireball besides me because it's FUCKING awesome.

514
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 1: A twenty four year old. COLLEGE kid i, don't know

515
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,240
maybe we're. Twenty two.

516
00:25:30,319 --> 00:25:31,319
Speaker 4: That's awesome.

517
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,599
Speaker 1: So and it's so funny that it sounds like you're

518
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:40,839
oldest kid is more mature than. You are jo say

519
00:25:41,519 --> 00:25:44,759
to the opposite TO what, i do to the opposite

520
00:25:44,799 --> 00:25:47,000
OF what. I, do well he's just seen me.

521
00:25:47,039 --> 00:25:49,319
Speaker 4: AROUND somebody i don't want to call them, dirt bags but.

522
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:53,200
Dirt bags but we. Just drink and the, Hockey, parents keith,

523
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:54,920
the neighbors we all just.

524
00:25:55,079 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 1: WE drink i.

525
00:25:56,279 --> 00:25:58,759
Speaker 6: THINK that i have, seen that even as an outsider

526
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,839
for my friends who's kids, do hockey because, you're traveling

527
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,599
you're at hotels all, the time.

528
00:26:05,039 --> 00:26:06,599
Speaker 5: You know, And well.

529
00:26:06,519 --> 00:26:09,079
Speaker 4: Kelsey was saying that Our friend kelsey. Out here she

530
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,240
was saying that they went to a tournament and they

531
00:26:11,279 --> 00:26:14,440
came down with all these different drinks and stuff for

532
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,200
to hang out in, the lobby and all the parents

533
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:20,599
are drinking like non alcoholic michelob ultra light. An alcoholics,

534
00:26:20,599 --> 00:26:25,400
she's like what's wrong with? You people the kids are

535
00:26:25,519 --> 00:26:27,480
not going anywhere but running around.

536
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,279
Speaker 1: Going down nowadays it is, going down and like not in.

537
00:26:31,279 --> 00:26:35,279
Speaker 6: My house and the amount, of, nas yeah. It's insane, it's,

538
00:26:35,279 --> 00:26:37,599
like oh you can get a BLUE moon na.

539
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,640
Speaker 1: Now and, you, know yeah well they're trying to stay in,

540
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:41,720
business too but what.

541
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 4: The hell is the point of DRINKING? An na?

542
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: Just, drink well that's always, been like That's how. I've

543
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,960
been i've, BEEN saying i think one of the worst

544
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,119
thing used to come out of the pandemic was the work.

545
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:56,799
From home and also like we're losing. That, connection actually

546
00:26:57,519 --> 00:27:00,960
on a, RECENT podcast i accidentally small on through a

547
00:27:01,039 --> 00:27:04,880
link an Article In. Psychology today actually you'll, like this

548
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,480
AND it's i didn't REALIZE The Us surgeon general has

549
00:27:08,519 --> 00:27:12,559
made loneliness a. Chronic Illness now i'm pretty sure it's.

550
00:27:12,599 --> 00:27:16,039
Chronic illness and it just talks about how lonely people

551
00:27:16,079 --> 00:27:18,960
are and how it leads to cardiovascular disease and.

552
00:27:19,279 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 4: All this how many cats do you have to have

553
00:27:21,079 --> 00:27:22,440
to be. Considered lonely.

554
00:27:24,079 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 2: It's a.

555
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 1: Great, question uh maybe we should do a study. OF

556
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:27,279
that i.

557
00:27:30,079 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 6: You.

558
00:27:30,279 --> 00:27:32,759
Speaker 1: By, yourself yeah there you go.

559
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 4: Once.

560
00:27:35,279 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 1: A week but so so in the article that she,

561
00:27:38,599 --> 00:27:45,519
started out you ready doing a study on, BAD s, m, groups, bondage,

562
00:27:48,079 --> 00:27:52,799
Attention right but what she what she found out was

563
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:58,440
the people involved in that had better and healthier connections

564
00:27:58,799 --> 00:28:03,119
than people out side of these kinds of, well maybe

565
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,680
but she was taking it to things like you have

566
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,480
a mechanical issue with, your car someone would come help

567
00:28:10,519 --> 00:28:15,920
give you, a ride you may. Job recommendations they just

568
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,559
had a better connection and not everything. Was kink and

569
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,519
those people who were in the kink thing also had outside.

570
00:28:21,559 --> 00:28:23,680
Hobby groups and the point of the article was like

571
00:28:23,759 --> 00:28:30,039
the third party system where you would go and meet, somebody, bowling, leagues. Churches,

572
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:35,160
Bars right it's like we just don't have as many

573
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,720
anymore of the third party systems unless.

574
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 2: They're.

575
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: Bars right but, over time when you think about like

576
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,440
who you've become, friends with like You and keith became

577
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:47,079
friends through hockey work and, then, hockey right and you

578
00:28:47,119 --> 00:28:50,200
don't make an instant friend, with somebody you just see

579
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,200
them frequently at the. Same place you start to reveal

580
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,720
a little more. About yourself they reveal a little bit more.

581
00:28:55,759 --> 00:28:59,160
About themselves and you got kind of a friendship going

582
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:01,079
to and maybe that goes outside there and.

583
00:29:01,039 --> 00:29:04,359
Speaker 4: We're, not friends we're, just acquaintance SAYS who i don't.

584
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 2: Want to be. Associated with do you Know what?

585
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:09,839
Speaker 6: I'm SAYING where i have met all my, adult friends

586
00:29:10,519 --> 00:29:15,400
well besides, my kids is? My, Gym yeah LIKE if

587
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:18,640
i didn't go to, a, GYM right i want to

588
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:19,559
have such a core greth.

589
00:29:19,599 --> 00:29:21,559
Speaker 1: Right there and there's a. Third thing and what they're

590
00:29:21,559 --> 00:29:24,640
saying is like most people, will, say, uh well join

591
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,279
a gym and. Do more but what this article is

592
00:29:27,319 --> 00:29:30,920
about the architecture of the third party system or the

593
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,200
third thing where you would go to isn't there as?

594
00:29:34,279 --> 00:29:37,160
Much anymore and when you think, about it like most

595
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,319
people find a group online and. That's it and you

596
00:29:40,359 --> 00:29:44,279
also know at a certain point in your life you're

597
00:29:44,319 --> 00:29:47,039
so wrapped up in the kids and things that sometimes

598
00:29:47,079 --> 00:29:49,160
the other parents become your friends and so that becomes

599
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:53,039
sort of. Your circle and then, they, graduate yeah and,

600
00:29:53,079 --> 00:29:55,319
the circle that circle sort of. Goes away and this

601
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,839
isn't addressing. The article i'm just talking from my. Own

602
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,640
experience and but you find, new PEOPLE and i think

603
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:05,400
having a strong network is. Really IMPORTANT and i watched

604
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,640
it with, my DAD and i watched it with. My

605
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:13,160
Mom and i'm not Saying that. Parkinson's wasn't uh would, be,

606
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,119
delayed BABY but i can't say it wouldn't if you

607
00:30:16,279 --> 00:30:19,519
just had a. Healthier thing like, my dad his whole

608
00:30:19,519 --> 00:30:22,319
social circle was. The gym but he didn't do anything

609
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,799
outside the gym with. These people he would just be

610
00:30:24,839 --> 00:30:27,759
the annoying old guy like getting UP, LIKE i i,

611
00:30:28,599 --> 00:30:29,680
there's this this is.

612
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 4: A Terrible, strong yes you are.

613
00:30:32,039 --> 00:30:34,359
Speaker 1: So weird but there was a terrible story where he

614
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,359
was trying to get somebody's attention that was on a

615
00:30:36,359 --> 00:30:38,279
treadmill as. He's leaving so he climbs up on the

616
00:30:38,279 --> 00:30:41,160
treadmill next to the guy and it's like, leaning, over

617
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,319
waving and the guy say, oh hey and they started

618
00:30:44,359 --> 00:30:46,680
talking and then he can't get off. The treadmill they

619
00:30:46,759 --> 00:30:49,480
had to piggyback him off because he just didn't. Right

620
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,279
right But what, i'm saying BUT when i went to,

621
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:56,799
visit him, but Really before parkinson's really kind of, took

622
00:30:56,799 --> 00:30:57,960
over he.

623
00:30:58,079 --> 00:31:00,799
Speaker 4: Did nothing it was like literally.

624
00:31:00,799 --> 00:31:03,079
Speaker 1: Watching paytrive he would, read books fall asleep in the

625
00:31:03,079 --> 00:31:04,799
middle of. THE day i think we went to the

626
00:31:04,839 --> 00:31:06,839
diner three days. A WEEK if i have to, COOK

627
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,359
anything i don't. DO it i eat salads because it's,

628
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:13,079
just easy. It's raw and like he would brag because

629
00:31:13,079 --> 00:31:15,319
all his blood work everything was great and so there

630
00:31:15,319 --> 00:31:18,680
were no additional health problems and he died from falling,

631
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:22,960
basically right but. No sucure and Then there's March and

632
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,000
marge is teaching Classes At bard college and goes to a,

633
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:30,960
coffee group a. Meditation group she's got. Other Stuff and i'm,

634
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:34,599
just saying like you can SEE where i just didn't

635
00:31:34,599 --> 00:31:37,359
realize it was such a problem In The united states

636
00:31:37,759 --> 00:31:40,359
THAT and i part, OF it i guess is. SOCIAL

637
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:42,400
media i, DON'T know i don't want this or we just.

638
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,599
Don't talk and THAT'S where i go the work. From home,

639
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:46,640
it's convenient you don't have to deal. WITH traffic i.

640
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:50,079
Get it but on the, other side all, those friendships all,

641
00:31:50,119 --> 00:31:53,000
those mentors all that you're. Missing out you're missing out

642
00:31:53,079 --> 00:31:55,920
and you're young enough that your liver's gonna. Be fine

643
00:31:56,039 --> 00:31:56,960
go have a drink and.

644
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 4: Meet somebody do you feel like you're missing out working?

645
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,079
Speaker 2: At home not, at ALL because i do also Have,

646
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:03,000
other yeah.

647
00:32:02,799 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: But he's got all.

648
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,119
Speaker 5: The outlet he's got the.

649
00:32:05,079 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: Whole, em crew.

650
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,519
Speaker 2: THOSE freaks I mean, friday night, YOU know i went

651
00:32:08,519 --> 00:32:11,079
out to See sax squatch and then yesterday went on

652
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,519
a group hike with a group. Of people love that

653
00:32:13,839 --> 00:32:15,799
with a group. Of people so are you part of

654
00:32:15,839 --> 00:32:17,559
like a hiking group. Or something there's a lot of

655
00:32:17,599 --> 00:32:19,279
different groups that are Part of and then you know

656
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,400
they get together and. Go out so, you know you

657
00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,960
go from a concert one night and next day hang

658
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,759
out with a group of people and spend the day

659
00:32:25,759 --> 00:32:28,920
outside and go for a hike and then end up in,

660
00:32:29,039 --> 00:32:31,640
your name, you know friend's garage. At night so it is,

661
00:32:31,759 --> 00:32:32,079
you know you.

662
00:32:32,119 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 1: Have to i've always been hesitant to, join those like those.

663
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,960
Hiking groups my mom.

664
00:32:36,759 --> 00:32:39,319
Speaker 5: Has been in a Group called dick.

665
00:32:39,279 --> 00:32:41,759
Speaker 4: You'd be freaking out there doing. A, SET no i.

666
00:32:41,799 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 6: WOULD not i want to say it's. Like huggers it's for. Like, actors,

667
00:32:46,039 --> 00:32:50,599
yeah active like. Older generation my mom has probably been

668
00:32:50,599 --> 00:32:52,680
in it for thirty years out and.

669
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 1: She's daughter so.

670
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 6: Many, friends guys my mom is probably not just like

671
00:32:58,759 --> 00:32:59,359
swinging or.

672
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:00,279
Speaker 5: Four years i've.

673
00:33:00,279 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 6: NEVER asked, i mean my dad couldn't keep.

674
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,079
Speaker 1: It, up secondly she said what? She said what.

675
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:13,559
Speaker 6: For husbands My, mom, yeah, no no my mom was.

676
00:33:13,599 --> 00:33:18,319
My stepdad my dad Changes every my mom was with

677
00:33:18,359 --> 00:33:21,920
my stepdad for twenty years. He passed but my mom was.

678
00:33:22,039 --> 00:33:24,920
Always active she goes skiing with, this group she, plays

679
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:29,400
youkr she goes, on hikes she goes she is. Always

680
00:33:29,559 --> 00:33:33,000
going and my stepdad was never interested in any. Of

681
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,839
it so it's like she had her friends that kept

682
00:33:35,839 --> 00:33:38,759
her active and healthy and out and, about.

683
00:33:38,599 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: Yeah out and, about yeah let me tell you something just.

684
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:47,000
Around me, My, father uh so he wanted to, travel

685
00:33:47,039 --> 00:33:50,759
more but he had nobody was, going with so he

686
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,119
took a solo Trip. To ireland this might have been

687
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,119
right before nine to eleven because he, came back he

688
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,359
got back in and then. Everything, happened yeah and he

689
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,680
was going to go on a hike and it was

690
00:34:04,039 --> 00:34:06,759
the hike it was either Out and about group Or

691
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,400
outward bound or something. Like that so he's all set

692
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,679
to go AND then i don't know how it tipped,

693
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:18,960
him off but it Was a it sounds terrible because

694
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,039
it's that that, big deal but it was a. Gay,

695
00:34:22,079 --> 00:34:26,360
group yeah and so, he's like, you know, HE'S like i,

696
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:31,360
don't know it. Really, WAS yeah i think my BROTHER

697
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,360
and i or maybe he went on the hike and

698
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,000
didn't realize until all of a sudden he's looking around and,

699
00:34:36,039 --> 00:34:41,679
it's like, you know maybe THAT was. I remember i

700
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:45,159
have To. Ask kevin, but yeah but and SO and

701
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:47,880
i don't know that you're on, a hike, you know

702
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,199
and maybe it was a way to. Meet people, you

703
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:53,280
know you're like minded people who kind. Of aren't i'm

704
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:54,920
not going to. Feel judged i'm not going to feel

705
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,079
whatever because of, my Orientation and i'm more comfortable. THAT

706
00:34:58,119 --> 00:35:01,800
way i have. No idea but he it's so funny talking.

707
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,000
About it it's. Really good, all right we'll close it

708
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,960
out for a beautiful day seventy three degreeson two in, Next, Week,

709
00:35:09,199 --> 00:35:14,159
yeah sunday and the garage is gonna be. Cranking, garagio

710
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,360
yeah the garagio. Very good we'll have to turn the.

711
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,199
Heat down we'll just have to be out having the. Door,

712
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:24,039
open yeah you. Know? This ready? You, Ready oh. I'm

713
00:35:24,079 --> 00:35:25,719
ready she's ready.

714
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 6: To, SKIP no, I said i have a Gallon, next

715
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,559
SATURDAY so i can't have my.

716
00:35:30,639 --> 00:35:31,039
Speaker 5: Chocolate.

717
00:35:31,039 --> 00:35:35,599
Speaker 4: Ball yeah i'll invite her and she. Won't come what's?

718
00:35:35,679 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 5: My call tommy is one of the.

719
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: Best judges This Yere, Tommy burdet. Oh cool oh. THAT'S

720
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:47,119
awesome I love tommy for that the iron smoke and

721
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,280
uh and they've done a hell of. A job they

722
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,280
were the first one in that cannery now, and yeah

723
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,960
they showed it. Could work now you can't, PARK no

724
00:35:55,039 --> 00:35:58,239
I just i'm driving through last Night and I've got

725
00:35:58,559 --> 00:36:02,960
i've dropping One of jamison's BUDY and i think there

726
00:36:03,039 --> 00:36:05,599
was a girl in the. Car too so and we're

727
00:36:05,679 --> 00:36:08,519
Driving through FAIRPORT and i noticed cars on the side

728
00:36:08,519 --> 00:36:10,559
of the ROAD and, i, go oh and they, did

729
00:36:10,639 --> 00:36:13,519
parking and. He goes he just starts laughing because you

730
00:36:13,519 --> 00:36:16,960
say the most, random SHIT and, i go wait. A second, i,

731
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,679
Said yeah. I'm old i'm glad there's parking like people

732
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,760
like to. Go out it was good they built more

733
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,039
parking spaces when they widened. The bridge so there, you

734
00:36:26,079 --> 00:36:31,239
go all Right, for Laura for keith and sacks Squatch

735
00:36:31,679 --> 00:36:34,599
for kevin and loves to. Disrupt, wegmans, Hell Yeah I'm

736
00:36:34,599 --> 00:36:38,280
bill murray and we'll see you. Next time see what

737
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,000
you want To, Knock paula canada with tennessee me