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Speaker 1: Will they go on a second date or well, let's

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be the last time they ever talked morning kiss in

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the morning, second date update, I'm kiss ninety five seven.

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Speaker 2: All right, you guys, we are going to merit in

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this morning a second date update, Like heading into the holidays,

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wouldn't it be nice to make a love connection.

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Speaker 3: He's so cute? Oh yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 2: Well, listen, Sarah's on the line. Sarah had a great

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first date. She's getting ghosted. She wants answers. Good morning, Sarah,

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morning a Welcome to the show. Sarah, tell us all

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about this fantastic first date you had.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so we were on a first date to this

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ax throwing place where you rain to throw axes. I

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thought we were having a great time. I thought the connection,

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it was flirty, it was fun. And now I'm not

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getting any text back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you go on this date, you go ax throwing,

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you're flirting, you're attracted to him. You send him a message,

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like a text message, and he doesn't respond.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like we have like an exchange back and forth

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after the date, and now it's nothing. It's radio silence.

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Speaker 3: Did you dress like a lumber lady? By the way,

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that would be called.

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Speaker 4: Off.

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Speaker 3: Well, no, no, no, no, actually that's a turn on for me. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, I didn't dress like like a lumber lady.

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Speaker 2: Listen, Walmart's dressed like a dressed like a lumberjack right now,

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and he doesn't chop wood.

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Speaker 3: Yeah no, you didn't bring your own acts to the

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axe throwing precision, because that might be turned off this stuff.

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I don't know bowlers do they bring their own balls?

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Speaker 4: I didn't. I don't have my own axe on hand unfortunately.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so this is it just sounds like

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a like a straightforward axe throwing date. Good time, and

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you're getting ghosted. I'm gonna call Austin up and I'm

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gonna ask him to be honest. You're gonna be listening

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in at any point. If you want to talk to

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Austin or confront him, you can, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, make the call. Jeff is responsible for

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dialing the numbers. I'm surprised you actually get it right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm actually shocked that we haven't accidentally like called

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the wrong person.

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Speaker 3: Me too, surprised. Hello, Hi is Austin there?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is Austin.

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Speaker 3: Hey, Austin, it's Courtney Austin, it's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Austin, it's Savannah and we're calling from Kids ninety

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five to seven.

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Speaker 3: You're on the radio this morning, Austin.

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Speaker 5: I'm on the radio.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, Well.

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Speaker 2: Here's the deal, Austin. We have a future called second

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date updates. Somebody goes on a first date. It's fabulous,

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but they get ghosted after the first date and they

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want answers.

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Speaker 3: They call us, and that's why you're on the radio

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this morning.

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Speaker 5: Okay, sure, okay.

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Speaker 3: Well listen. I guess I should fill you in.

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Speaker 2: Sarah called us, said, you guys went on a great

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first date and she's getting ghosted. You guys want ax throwing.

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It was fun, great conversation. She felt a connection and

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she's reached out to you, but you have not responded yet.

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Speaker 3: Is there a reason? What's going on?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there is definitely a reason. So Sarah's like, she's great.

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Right at the start of the day, we're having a

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good time. We go acts throwing and she was she

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was gratedt ax throwing, definitely graded X throwing.

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Speaker 1: But okay, every time it was her turn, she would

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yell out a name like not my name, not any

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name I recognize.

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Speaker 5: And then throw the act and she would like scream it. Okay,

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the anger you know you could muster in person, So

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she was doing that.

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Speaker 3: Can you give us an can you give us an

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example of the screaming.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like an ex boyfriend's name, or like what was

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she doing saying?

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Speaker 3: Was it her boss?

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Speaker 4: Like Kerry?

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Speaker 5: I didn't throw it, that's.

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Speaker 3: Not that bad.

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Speaker 2: I don't like I would yell a name if you

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if you really wanted to hit the bull's eye and

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something like your boss's name, yell it, toss that act.

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Speaker 5: You could like see the life leaving her eyes, like

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she was just full of psycho mode, like it wasn't

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it wasn't funny when it wasn't like a joke.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's outscare you call me a psycho.

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Speaker 3: Sarah's on the line, Austin, I should have let you know.

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Speaker 4: That, but I okay, great, how dare you call me

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a psycho? This is something that my therapist told me

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to do. It's it's how you get your anger out.

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That's how you get your rage out. And that you

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don't even know what I've been through. You don't know

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what I've been through. You don't and if you wanted

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to get to know me, you would ask me questions.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is.

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Speaker 5: Kind of psycho right now, so you're not helping yourself.

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, Savannah, Okay, wait, so tell me more about

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this therapy, Like what what exactly have you.

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Speaker 3: Been through that brings you like rage therapy? Yeah, to

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like throw axes and screen people.

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Speaker 4: You you missed a reps of the anger, so it's

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not going towards the person that you're with, it's going

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towards And why do you honestly think that I would

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take an ax out on you? Is that your fear?

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Do you think that I'm that kind of psycho?

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Speaker 5: I wasn't saying that. I'm just saying that you were

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screaming out people's names, and it wasn't It was like

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what you we're having in the bar was very off

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putting to say.

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Speaker 3: Who are the names of people you're throwing out? Were

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they like exes?

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Speaker 4: No, they're not all exes. There are people that have

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I felt wronged by.

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Speaker 5: Ok they're not all exes. Okay, that's like, so I'm

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we buy them one X someday I'm gonna be the

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name on the axe.

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Speaker 4: That depends on if you won't would have wronged me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I see, I see what I see how this

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could get misconstrued. She's directing her anger somewhere else. But

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maybe we should try a healing bowl instead of like

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ax throwing in rage rooms.

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Speaker 3: That might help you a little more.

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Speaker 4: I don't know my anger was directed towards.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, Well, usually I offer to pay

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for a second date, but I feel like it's probably

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there's some sort of misconnection here where Austin, you can't

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get past the fact that Eric Sarah was like screaming

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names and throwing axes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, And Sarah, would you not? I mean,

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I don't think you'd want to go on a second day, right.

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Speaker 4: Not after learning what I've learned today.

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Speaker 2: Now, okay, all right, well listen, and then I just

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I appreciate both of you being honest and open. And

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I'm glad you're taking care of your rage and anger,

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Sarah by going to therapy.

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Speaker 3: I think that's awesome. And Austin, we wish you well. Yeah,

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be safe out there, my friend. The dating world is

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a circus from what it sounds like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, oh wow, that's a.

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Speaker 3: Good ending right there.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, you guys, thanks for being on second date.

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