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Speaker 1: Well, hello and thanks for getting your pot on with

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Bill a Fied. Coming up in this episode, our good friend, bartender,

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uber driver and comedian Doug Phelps joins me in the

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studio and I.

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Speaker 2: Ask him if he ever worries about life?

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Speaker 1: Do you worry about like if let's say.

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Speaker 2: What, it doesn't look like I worry about anything? No,

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it actually doesn't. Thirty pounds over weight, I got doubled

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eggs in my fridge. Yeah, but go ahead, Maybe maybe

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you found something I worry about.

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Speaker 1: We all know bartenders are basically amateur psychologists with a

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liquor license. But Doug offers up a tip in case

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you ever find yourself in that role.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes what you got to do just listen. Yeah right,

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You don't need to give advice. Just people just want

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to get this weight off my chest, you know, I

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just need to I can't talk to my wife, I

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can't talk to the just man, Doug. Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Could Doug be crossing the line.

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Speaker 2: Here's a question I want to give you. All right,

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ready for this one? I can't wait. Long time friend

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of mine. It's a woman, Yeah, turning forty tomorrow's your birthday? Okay, okay, yeah,

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her husband is doing nothing? How do you know?

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Speaker 1: Because all that more coming up. But first, don't forget

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to check out Bill Moran Productions dot com.

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supporter of the Pirate Ship, just click the link in

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Speaker 3: Now, let's get bilified when your old career gives you

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lemons throwing some ice mix in some vodka. Call it

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a podcast from the Mac of All Trade Studio in

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Fairport and driven by Victor Chrysler Dots Jeep Ram. It's Bilified,

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the Bill Moran Podcast, Where hell hello and welcome.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for getting your pot on, Thanks for telling a friend.

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That's how we spread the word about the pirate Chip looks.

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Speaker 2: In the house. Oh my godness, I'm back baby, beautiful day.

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Happy Mother's day everybody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're taping on a on a mama's day.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, the U.

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Speaker 1: But Doug came in here and he was like a

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kind of like a video to an old song, video

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doing old You were a video to an old song.

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Speaker 2: My friend?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I hope you're definitely the video

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to an old song. Nope, let's see.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, did you get sleep last night?

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Speaker 1: I don't know how this started.

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Speaker 2: How do you not know? Star?

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Speaker 1: What's the song from the Breakfast Club?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Oh, this is I didn't realize the video was.

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I wasn't a baseball player.

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Speaker 1: I know Glory Ry Days, Glory Days. Doug came in

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here talking about finding an old wrestling match from nineteen

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eighty eight against Fairport.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, when Doug walked out and pinned a guy. Yeah,

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my high school wrestling coach.

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Speaker 1: What fun is that to see?

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Speaker 2: It's like a it is.

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Speaker 1: It's one hundred pounds ago.

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Speaker 2: First of all, one hundred pounds. Yeah, he was wrestling

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one thirty eight and now I'm two thirty eight. Okay,

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sad to say if I start crying on the airplane,

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to hold it against me. But I still keep in

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touch with my high school wrestling coach. She gets a

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Christmas card every year, and yeah every year or so

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wait she he oh I thought you did.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he called me up and he said, hey,

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I found VHS tapes.

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Speaker 2: I think you're on here, and you wought him. I'm

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like absolutely So the guy that was a junior, his

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father had a video camera, which back then was a

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big deal. A big deal. Oh yeah, you're rich. So

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it started in eighty seven, going in eighty eight, which

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we graduated, and then he had eighty eight to eighty nine,

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which we weren't on. So okay, I'm going through all

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these tapes fast forwarding because obviously I just want to

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see myself.

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Speaker 1: Can you get them digitized? I think you can, and

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then put them up on YouTube.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's all said.

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Speaker 1: Oh, this is amazing. This is amazing because you're now

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at the age where you get mad when the grocery

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store rearranges the aisles and you can't find anything, and

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you're pill mad.

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Speaker 2: At Mount Reed Wagman, they changed around. In fact, last

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night I stopped for some flowers and I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Why I couldn't find them?

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Speaker 2: No, they're right as you walk in. I didn't like

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any of the arrangements, but I did get ice cream

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and Spanish peanuts and chocolate syrup.

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Speaker 1: For Oh, so you made yourself Mexican Sunday.

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Speaker 2: Yes. So they had two lines and everybody else had

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the same idea. They're shopping, They're seven deep, like fucking

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ice creams. Get them mile and go. No, get this.

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give me a minute.

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Speaker 1: Wait, self checkout wasn't open.

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Speaker 2: What night is this?

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Speaker 1: It was ten thirty, ten thirty at night? Yeah, Ubert,

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some friends Okay, yeah.

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Speaker 2: They hired me outside.

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Speaker 1: No, but I mean, well, whether or not you go

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at ten thirty is kind of your choice. But the

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fact that other people, oh, that's an odd thing. Some

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people shop at night. There's no lines, sure you don't have,

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but they don't have the self checkout. Do they have

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a problem with theft? All of them do because I

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never to see the checkout. This self checkout closed at

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my weagments.

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Speaker 2: Ever, Well, you probably don't go late at night. The

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customer service is open till nine o'clock, so you can

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run your lotto cards or Mega millions or whatever. Close sometime. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Your Well, they close at midnight. I've been in there

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at ten eleven and I've done self checkout.

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Speaker 2: Really yeah, well it's fair poor you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's nobody because it's a weird thing, like there

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are weird This sounds shitty and snobby, but you can

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sort of tell that you're in a nice section of

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town versus a bad section by the Walmart.

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Speaker 1: Like no, no, no, listen.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm with you this way.

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Speaker 1: Right, there's a certain Walmart that they don't have self

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check out anymore at.

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Speaker 2: All, and there's Walmart to have a police officer outside

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twenty four seven. Yeah, but if you go to Canadagua,

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you can eat off those like florests.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh yeah, we're out there. The victim is nice.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I mean we're out there. I'm making a

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stop even if I don't need anything walk.

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Speaker 1: I mean Walmart's Walmart, right, you get the things you need.

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I call it like disposable clothing. If you're gonna pick

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it up there, it's not something. It is not a

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piece that you're gonna hang on to or.

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Speaker 2: I don't know about that.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean Walmart? Yeah, you mean you get

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a nice piece of clothing that you're gonna wear to

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pull over for the winter. You'll wear it a couple

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of years. Well that's what I mean. But I'm saying

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when I Okay, when I say disposable, I mean like

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if you got it stained up, the fucking you know

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what I mean. But if you spent, you're not spending

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one hundred dollars on a shirt. No, no, but I I, uh, yeah,

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it is weird, right. I didn't know they closed the

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self checkout even at Wegmans, because I go. I feel

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like it's impossible to steal from Wegmans.

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Speaker 2: I think I've snuck a cannatuna fish. Every now and

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then it's like, beep in the bag, next one beep,

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Oh that one worked, Fuck it? Oh I'll find no

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no right, Or you grab two things and then they're

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all beeping around you and then you're like, do this

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beep you? And you're like, why am I checking myself?

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self The prices haven't changed and I'm working for them.

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Speaker 1: Do you we have like I would love to see

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you have a fucking meltdown, not a meltdown. I don't

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want to see you have a meltdown, but I think

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it would be like it would be a really funny

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scene in a fucking movie if you oh.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I have had a meltdown, not a meltdown. Yeah.

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So when my mother was alive, she passed away. This October.

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She would get coupons or as most people do, sue

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the coupons for Tops. And she wasn't a coffee drinker, Tika,

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but she liked coca cola. She drank coke, I remember.

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or what. Yeah, so let's load up. Okay, mom, picking

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Speaker 1: So five, ten, now fifteen, hold on, hold on, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm in the car. Coke up to here hard the

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expression alkaple scarface. So you're trying to each one beep

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and put it on there, scan it, get the code.

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Now you're up to fifteen. Now it's not working. Now

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her card isn't working the coop when I was working.

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So and this is all itself checkout. Yes, this is

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solid tops. So you know the eighteen year old assistant manager.

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They just got their jobt rind of high school. Well,

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you gotta scan them all again. I go, they're all

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in there. Why am I you can fix this. I

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gotta skin them all. I gotta take them on the

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you gotta put them back over here, take the money

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car again for fifteen. I'm like, really, this is great? Okay,

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just stand here, Just stand here and make sure I'm

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doing it right. So yeah, I'm not doing this the

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third time, right. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Now I have another observation, Okay, I have because Tops

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runs decent deals, it seems like, but I'm never sure

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if they're really good deals or not. You know what

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I'm saying, Like, you can buy one, get one free,

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or buy one, but then you're you're like, oh, you know,

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or spend twenty five dollars and get all this other

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stuff with.

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Speaker 2: Ten for ten.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever see those when you walk in ten

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for ten. So I haven't been in Tops in a

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couple of months now because I was buying a bunch

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of stuff and then I'm like, I'm not sure if

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it's worth it. And I'm also a member at one

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of those you know warehouses that you can go and

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buy a bunch of shit and beaches. Yeah, and I go,

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I said, I don't even know if that's better or

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not in my situation.

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Speaker 2: And then all these.

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Speaker 1: Is right there and Wegmans, and Wegmans is probably a

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little more expensive, and you know, so you can get

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all this shit. But I remember being in Tops their

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ow self checkouts never fucking work. I've never had a

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problem at a Wegman's one. I've I've never had a

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problem at on all these one. I've seen people have

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problems at the all these one, but I blame the

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people because I've never had a problem.

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Speaker 2: I go, that's your problem.

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Speaker 1: If you're if you're what tops all the fucking time

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they go down, if you were shopping for five people,

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you have to figure out where you're saving money, because yeah,

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twenty five thirty five dollars a week, heads up, no shit, But.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm figuring we're probably somewhere in that.

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Speaker 1: You know, you're probably at like one fifty a week,

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maybe two hundred right a week, And that starts.

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Speaker 2: To I'll tell you what starts to right now, my frigerator.

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I get doubled eggs. Yeah, that's what I'm taking a Okay,

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very nice eggs, sausage and Jenny late I have.

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Speaker 1: I want to picture eggs, sausage and Jenny like, this

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is fucking great, that's so funny. I don't I just

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cook for myself.

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Speaker 2: So it's got to be something like if I make

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a big bowl of ghoulage, I'm having Google life for

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like four days. Always mind that a met low for.

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Speaker 1: Egg roast, eggs, sausage and Jenny, Oh my god, that

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because it's not a good you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, look at the steak.

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Speaker 1: Meal prep or anything. No, what about your friends are

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like divorced, they go through these mid life changes. I

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think they have theirfrigerators full. Yeah, because that's how they're

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used to. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the kids are bouncing over back and forth.

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Speaker 1: But right, what not, Dougie me? I eat as they go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you worry about like if let's say what

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it does look like, worry about anything? No, it actually doesn't.

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but go ahead. Maybe maybe you found something I worry

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about dying alone. Yeah that's it. No. I do worry

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about dying a lot.

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Speaker 1: If you died and no one found it for like

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three or four days, people would wonder where I was.

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Who you You'd be calling if it was you know

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podcast right, yeah.

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Speaker 2: That would be it. You know, podcasts are working at

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forest Hill, so what days? So if you died on

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the Tuesday. Yeah, it might be.

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Speaker 1: It might be Friday.

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Speaker 2: It might be Friday. Yeah, I wouldn't be looking too

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good because people they call and I don't answer, they

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just figure out out uber.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'll get it back to Yeah, I understand, dude.

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Is that really a fear of yours?

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what A few months ago I had

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I don't know what I ate, but I'm walking through

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the house and all of a sudden, my esophagus closed

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up and it was I was it was almost like

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a I could only get air through a straw hole.

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So I'm like, don't panic, right, just try to get air. Yeah,

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don't call nine one one yet, but you know you

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don't want to. You don't want to panic in anymore.

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So I don't know if it was a peanut or what,

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but I do hit. I ete peanuts a lot. I

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don't think I have a peanut analogy. It was just

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really you really weird. It's strange that and I do

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think about that something. Sure, buddy, Yes, and you gotta

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have your cell phone and you get.

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Speaker 1: Your on my phone and I can't get out. Yes,

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well no, but my mother didn't want that, like she

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didn't want the I phone on I can't get up.

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Speaker 2: So she got the smart.

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one one, and it does all that shit. And I

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swear to God for your fucking birthday, I may have

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to start a gofund me. We might raise four dollars

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to it. It will be from bots, but we'll get

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some fucking money. And we gotta get to that because

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you can't. That is a serious thing.

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Speaker 2: It is.

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Speaker 1: And not to say that you're old. I don't care.

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This could happen at thirty five. You fall, you trip,

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you get you come home drunk, trip over one of

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the dogs you're sitting and hit your head on the

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counter and go down. You're done it, Well, you could

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be done. There's a chance, there's a chance.

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Speaker 2: Well, I had the I think I told you I

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had the gout last summer, right, and I could not

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barely get out of bed. I mean, it hurts so bad.

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You've never had the gout, right, I told you about that.

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If you put a bed sheet on your foot in

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the his gout, it is incredibly painful. Yeah, So I

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had to scooch my ass to the living room, barely

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making the bandsom pissing in the tub because you can't

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put any pressure on, so you're lifting yourself up on

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the sink and then calling friends and I called my

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landlord downstairs and like, you have to open downstairs. I

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don't know if you opened my door. And I called

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my buddy for ib your profile. And then another friend

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came over with actual gout medicine because he had the

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same thing. And you're just sitting there and I kept

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getting myself in the bath tub and just running cold

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water over it.

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Speaker 1: Shit, I really whatever, you feel like you're on fire

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or something.

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Speaker 2: It's just it's just incredibly painful. It's like remember when

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you're a kid, you let your foot fall, leg fall asleep,

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and yeah, you have little pins and needles.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I multiply that times a thousand. I get that

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a lot pins and needles like in my hands. Yeah,

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and then yeah, because if my arms are bent sort

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of like this, if I'm reading or something, I always

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have to they'll go numb. And the reason that is

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is from I think from holding mits for so many

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years where people are just pounding your hands and you

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always get those clowns in a boxing class that I

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want to show off and really, fucking well, you well

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your way and you're just airing going, pop up, papa up.

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Well you're impacting all that is being absorbed, right, And

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I think I have some like nerve damage pince nerves

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somewhere in my elbow.

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Speaker 2: So I both hands elbow.

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Speaker 1: Is that what it is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, but the nerve will roll over and then

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tries to stretch. You can't stretch enough, and that's where

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you get that pain.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't have I don't have the pain here.

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It makes my hands numb, like my hands are cutting

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off blood vessels too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Probably. So I gotta get going and you gotta stretch,

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stretch it out.

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Speaker 1: That's it. This is the age.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's right.

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Speaker 1: You care more about fiber. You're jealous of people get colonoscopies.

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Speaker 2: That's douggie fun dad.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you got your weird sexuality and you don't give

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a shit man.

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Speaker 2: Oh right, yeah, yes, a little more.

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Speaker 1: Self confidence on the dating apps.

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Speaker 2: Now you're like, hey, this is me, this is me here,

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I am here, I am taking Yes, I like that.

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Of course. The girls I'm seeing the dating apps are

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the same girls I saw twenty years ago when they

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first came out, So they're not having the same lucky either. Wait,

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you see the same women on the dating apps, you

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see them on multiple dating games.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you'll go on at least for a couple

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of months.

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Speaker 2: And then I wonder if some women just like to date.

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Oh yeah, who doesn't like a free meal?

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Speaker 1: No, but I mean, like, just you know, I'll be

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with this guy and he treats me well and it's

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all right, and I don't have to really commit, and

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then I go on another date and it could be fun.

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But are do you think most people on dating apps

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and I don't know, I've never been on one, are

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looking for a committed relationship or I've heard people certainly

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people have. Yeah, yes, they've got the good stories out there. Yes,

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I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think people are just you're single, you're lonely. You

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just yeah, you're looking for you know what's out there?

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Speaker 1: You're looking for some companionship, do you Here's the thing

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that I often think, because I uh, I have come

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to the conclusion and think about your own friends who

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have gotten divorced. I think most of the time, more

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often than not, men get into a relationship a new

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relationship faster than women.

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Speaker 2: We joked with a buddy of mine those getting divorced.

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You're gonna have a girlfriend before I get my first marriage, Yeah,

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sure enough.

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Speaker 1: He did. Yeah, so but they're both right. So there,

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I'm not saying that that it's it's bad, right or wrong.

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Speaker 2: I thought I would get more hits if I said

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I was already divorced. Sometimes people think, well, you've never

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been married, what's.

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Speaker 1: Wrong with you?

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Speaker 2: Right, what's wrong with you? That's a good point, But

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I'm but I think the.

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Speaker 1: Guys who are divorced also there's an I hate to

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say that it was sort of an emotional dependency on

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another person. You like a woman's perspective, you know, I.

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Speaker 2: Don't think I do.

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Speaker 1: I think like Derek Carr retired and from from the NFL,

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and it said that he sat down with his wife,

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and I'm like, yeah, when you have those big emotional

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intimate things, I don't guys don't usually talk to guys

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as much. I think even you would probably go to

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one of your female friends to talk about certain things.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because women are just better emotionally than guys are.

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And I think that that that's a big thing, and

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that's why I often see guys get into a relationship

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faster than women. But then because I think of myself

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and I'll go, you know, before and have somebody go

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out on a Friday night Saturday. But then I go, yeah, but.

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Speaker 2: What happens on surday morning?

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Speaker 1: Wow? What happens when I gotta do shit?

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Speaker 2: And I got this?

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Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, you're.

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Speaker 2: Just gotta understand.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wife, I know, but a lot of times there

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is so you're.

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Speaker 2: Worried about all the little things during the week, but

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when you have this big, mountainous, uh decision make, then

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it's good.

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Speaker 1: To have a woman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So you don't have enough

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of those big decisions or not anymore.

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Speaker 1: Or I've decided I want to hear the best decision

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is my decision. I've been there, believe.

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Speaker 2: On a three hundred and sixty five days you need

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it for like, yeah, two days for a big decision. Well,

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I'm just what color card are you like? I don't know, honey,

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what are you like? All right, we'll go with the red. Right.

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Other than that, you're like, yeah, yeah, you know, after wegmans,

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I don't need it for that. I'm just saying, dog,

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I'm just saying I have a girlfriend. Uh, oh, girl,

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it's a friend. I you can Her girlfriend was in

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from out of town and she asked me. She texted

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me last night, where's a waterfront bar? Yeah? I want

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to take Sam there? Okay, So I said, well, Lachlan

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Schooner doesn't Schooners doesn't open n till next week, said

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Marges Marges Ironquay. So I don't know where they went.

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But she didn't need me for a big, huge decision.

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But that little thing, she she asked, that's that's all

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all right?

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Speaker 1: Well, uh, we'll take it. Will take a moment. Uh,

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there's something happened in Florida. But I don't know if

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you've ever seen anything like this happen.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what something happened in my Wait what

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uber ride the other day? Oh this is great. Probably

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might reflect that, it might it might.

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Speaker 1: Why don't we do that. I'll hold onto the Florida

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story because I wanted to know, Uh, why do people

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sometimes treat uber drivers bartenders and the and the other

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like a therapist? I mean you have had to hear

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some stories, yes that in your rides? Yeah, some good

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and some that's a good h I'm sure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, we'll get to all that right after this,

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Ready to ride.

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Speaker 1: It right Yeah, port Brandy. I know she's got all

494
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the goods, but hey, baby, I love to see more

495
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than I love.

496
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Speaker 2: Yeah, well say that because I just I had a

497
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date last week with a retired Navy Navy woman.

498
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Speaker 1: Seventy yeah's she was a major in the Navy.

499
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Speaker 2: Really yeah, she was wild. She's on a bail ship.

500
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She had unde pins for nipple ricks fucking while yeah,

501
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pull yes, throw anything in coming.

502
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Speaker 1: Working on that new bit.

503
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Speaker 2: From the sea. They had the walk yesterday the Preast

504
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Cancer Coalition w Yeah, mcc I don't know how many people,

505
00:24:19,279 --> 00:24:21,880
but you were saying about being a therapist to people.

506
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,480
There's people that you you bartend for over a couple

507
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,400
of years and then yeah, you don't see him in

508
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,559
a while, then you might find out they have cancer. Yeah,

509
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,400
you know where you know we're standing out. Sandy found out.

510
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,759
She's kind of laying low. She's you know, she'll be

511
00:24:36,839 --> 00:24:39,759
in here next week she's had the chemo and you know,

512
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:40,960
people's lives.

513
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 1: But do you ever get like the overshare from even strangers.

514
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes they're just talking way too much, like I

515
00:24:47,079 --> 00:24:48,000
don't want to talk to this guy.

516
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, like the overshare.

517
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:56,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yes, they just keep rambling talking about everything.

518
00:24:56,839 --> 00:24:59,799
You know, like, let's you know some people in this

519
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,839
happened recently a friend that become friends with her and

520
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:07,279
her husband the past uh a few years. At another place,

521
00:25:09,559 --> 00:25:14,160
you know, she said, we're getting a divorce. So because

522
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:19,599
you asked where, you know, where's Bob? Yeah, where's Bob?

523
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,680
You're like, okay, what's the matter. You know, Bob's leaving me.

524
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: Are most people living two versions of themselves? Well from

525
00:25:27,519 --> 00:25:30,799
that from those stories that you hear, like they're presenting

526
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,000
one thing out there, but you find out these.

527
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 2: You mean putting a good face, Well, they don't want

528
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,559
to share with everybody. I think that would be I

529
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:40,880
think that would be everybody in the world, you know.

530
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,119
I mean, it's not like you're a spy. You know,

531
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,079
you're doing a podcast and you're off to rushing to

532
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:50,599
get some secret documents. That's that's you have no idea

533
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:55,160
what I do conries and get loaded.

534
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:56,960
Speaker 1: I turned into an irishman, right?

535
00:25:58,720 --> 00:25:59,279
Speaker 2: What was so?

536
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: What happened in near Uber this week?

537
00:26:01,839 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 2: So how do I explain this? Anyways? In bringing a

538
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,160
person home and they're on the phone with somebody saying

539
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,759
how they want to fight this other girl. So this

540
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,640
is a woman, This is a woman. I don't want

541
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,279
to say where it was or it was or whatever.

542
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,319
And she's just going off how they're I'm going to

543
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,519
come to your place, You're gonna come to mine. You know,

544
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:24,480
her mother's getting involved, both of their mothers getting involved.

545
00:26:24,519 --> 00:26:26,440
Speaker 1: How old of a person, I.

546
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,799
Speaker 2: Would say, eighteen eighteen twenty.

547
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,440
Speaker 1: Early, yeah, late teens, early twenties, out of high school. Yeah,

548
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,839
And I'll get this person.

549
00:26:35,839 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 2: I'll get this person. I know how she fights and

550
00:26:37,519 --> 00:26:41,759
bob By, this was a twelve minute car ride. So

551
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,359
from the time I picked her up to time I

552
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,400
dropped her off, it was all about the fight. And well,

553
00:26:46,519 --> 00:26:48,480
she just wants to fight me, fine, or we can

554
00:26:48,519 --> 00:26:50,720
go to Lilac. She go, she wants to go to

555
00:26:50,759 --> 00:26:55,039
the Lilac Festival and have an audience. And I'm like,

556
00:26:57,599 --> 00:27:00,519
this is terrible, it is terrible, and I'm.

557
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:01,079
Speaker 1: Just listening to this.

558
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,519
Speaker 2: I you know, I'll turn the radio down just to

559
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:07,920
you know, going on turns my thumb, will just turn

560
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,680
the radio down a little bit. And she kept just

561
00:27:11,799 --> 00:27:13,480
kept saying the same thing. We can fight, I can

562
00:27:13,519 --> 00:27:14,400
go here, we can meet here.

563
00:27:14,519 --> 00:27:17,319
Speaker 1: So she's talking to the person she wants to fight. No,

564
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:21,000
she talked to her friend. Okay, her friend saying wolf, yeah,

565
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,240
and what's the fight over?

566
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 2: You know what? I don't even remember. Okay, I don't

567
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:26,920
I don't even remember. I think it was just they

568
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:33,039
wanted to fight. They didn't like each other, and that's yeah, yeah,

569
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,480
reason enough. You're actually right, I don't like her, If

570
00:27:35,519 --> 00:27:37,759
she doesn't like me, we're gonna fight. But to say,

571
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,880
we need an audience, we can do it at a

572
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,559
Lilac festival. That's what you want. And I'm like, I'm

573
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,480
just sitting there driving, like, really, gonna go to the

574
00:27:45,559 --> 00:27:48,480
Lilac festival, meet to this place and just start fighting

575
00:27:48,519 --> 00:27:51,920
in front of everybody. You don't know, grandparents' kids, doesn't

576
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,279
matter who's around. I'm like, where's And in the end,

577
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,440
she got out of the car and said, uh, sorry

578
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,720
about the ghetto talks her. I'm like, that's what she

579
00:28:00,799 --> 00:28:04,079
said to you, Yeah, it's just it's life.

580
00:28:04,599 --> 00:28:09,079
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't want to say so. Maybe maybe it's

581
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,440
her just blown off steam to a friend. No, no,

582
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:15,759
this is going to happen, you think so? Damn So

583
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:17,200
if we hear something, oh.

584
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I look at the news to see if anything

585
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:20,519
happens at Lilac Fest.

586
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:21,519
Speaker 1: This is crazy.

587
00:28:22,759 --> 00:28:23,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really sad.

588
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: What do you do with information like that? Can you?

589
00:28:27,599 --> 00:28:29,519
I mean, you know what, I kept it honestly to

590
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,839
like tell the police. Hey man, I just had an

591
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,640
number rider. I dropped them off here they're talking about fighting,

592
00:28:34,839 --> 00:28:38,240
just to tip you off. I was thinking that because

593
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,880
they're already prepared for that. I mean they put police office.

594
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:47,720
Yeah they are. But it's still shitty because it's one person, right,

595
00:28:48,039 --> 00:28:53,039
two people, all right, but two people that can paint

596
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,240
something that has been has historic roots in this town

597
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:00,200
with a broad brush to go. I'm not going right

598
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,519
one one thing and it could just be a fistfight

599
00:29:03,759 --> 00:29:06,960
or crowds running and people get startled and scared and

600
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:08,440
they don't want to be around. Then they don't want

601
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,079
to go to Lilac Fast. That's what I'm saying. Something

602
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,119
you die and you start to there's a big stadium

603
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,240
on Broad Street. Yeah, and nothing's going on there.

604
00:29:16,279 --> 00:29:18,319
Speaker 2: Yeah. Open that up to people that want to fight.

605
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:22,359
You want to fight, go in there, tickets. I love it.

606
00:29:22,559 --> 00:29:25,240
People keep the innocent people out of it. I love it.

607
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:31,480
Have a doctor on hand, empt have at it. Yeah, yes,

608
00:29:32,039 --> 00:29:34,400
I mean, stand people. You could do a whole show.

609
00:29:35,039 --> 00:29:37,599
Speaker 1: You could have like, oh, I'm sure it'll become parents

610
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,000
and a girl and all this. You get in there

611
00:29:40,039 --> 00:29:42,000
and you and man, you rumble.

612
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 2: You've got the m m A, the octagon, all that.

613
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,319
Why not in the stadium. Just have at it. Yeah,

614
00:29:46,519 --> 00:29:48,559
I mean, check everybody for guns and knives and everything

615
00:29:48,599 --> 00:29:50,920
before walking in, because if there's one fight out there,

616
00:29:51,039 --> 00:29:53,279
there's gonna be another fight in the stands.

617
00:29:53,839 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 1: Or you line up. You know you're talking.

618
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,519
Speaker 2: Okay, let's take it out there, but at least you're

619
00:29:57,519 --> 00:29:59,200
away from everybody. I love this.

620
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,119
Speaker 1: It's a great way to solve it.

621
00:30:02,359 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 2: You know, you get your fight on, nobody's dying, and

622
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,880
you're not bothering anybody.

623
00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: Other than that ride. That's a rarity.

624
00:30:10,599 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, once a year, twice a year, okay, you know,

625
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,440
but most of the people I've seen girls this was

626
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,400
a few years ago on their phone. They had video

627
00:30:19,599 --> 00:30:22,200
that had videos of the girl They're gonna fight, yeah,

628
00:30:22,359 --> 00:30:24,799
saying see she pulls her hair and when she does that,

629
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,000
I'm gonna upper cover. I'm gonna come right up under

630
00:30:27,039 --> 00:30:27,799
her chin. Yeah.

631
00:30:27,839 --> 00:30:32,039
Speaker 1: I mean they're already planning it. They're breaking down film. Yes,

632
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:35,839
and these girls were in high school fourteen thirteen, fourteen fifteen,

633
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,920
somewhere in the little circle, and they're ready to kick it.

634
00:30:40,279 --> 00:30:42,599
Speaker 2: I took some people, a couple of girls. This was

635
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:48,279
last let's see September. Yeah, anyways, for rent. They were

636
00:30:48,319 --> 00:30:51,839
so pissed the money got taken out of their account.

637
00:30:52,519 --> 00:30:57,640
They wanted them Wait, it was done electronically, something they

638
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,799
weren't happy. And the whole way there. If she says

639
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,079
one word, I'm climbing over that desk and I'm gonna

640
00:31:03,119 --> 00:31:06,160
kick your ass and bha, shit, they were all set

641
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,599
for whatever happens. Even if the person is said good morning,

642
00:31:09,039 --> 00:31:09,920
ready to swing.

643
00:31:09,799 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 1: Man, it's a very different mentality. I always think that

644
00:31:12,759 --> 00:31:16,279
if your first instinct is to put your hands on somebody,

645
00:31:16,599 --> 00:31:19,240
there's something wrong with you if that's your first instinct.

646
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:24,400
And I think that we haven't done a great job

647
00:31:25,519 --> 00:31:34,279
in uh teaching people like problem, solving some kind of

648
00:31:34,519 --> 00:31:38,200
dynamics to diffuse things, to try to find I mean,

649
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:40,279
and you see it, and I think a lot of

650
00:31:40,319 --> 00:31:43,000
it stems from I'm just fucking angry.

651
00:31:43,279 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 2: I'm angry. I'm angry at the.

652
00:31:45,279 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: Way I was raised or the lack of or not

653
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:53,240
raised or not raised or no direction right, and and uh,

654
00:31:53,599 --> 00:31:56,440
it's sad. It is, it's sad. I mean, there's you know,

655
00:31:56,599 --> 00:31:59,279
and I do. I really think that there's a lot

656
00:31:59,359 --> 00:32:02,079
of anger that people have, and this is this is

657
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:02,880
how it comes out.

658
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 2: It comes out. I'm getting angry at the having sometimes

659
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,559
just I mean, I went to pick up my friends

660
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,480
last night. There's a guy in a bike, all black,

661
00:32:09,599 --> 00:32:13,079
no reflectors, going across the way. I could easily hit him.

662
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,000
Thank god I saw something sparkle on his shirt or whatever.

663
00:32:17,279 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's a problem.

664
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 2: It is a problem. It's a huge problem. And if

665
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,559
I hit you, yes, I'm gonna feel terrible. Yes, I'm

666
00:32:25,599 --> 00:32:27,880
the one in trouble. What or if I hit you

667
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,319
into somebody else's car and then I affect their lives?

668
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: What about.

669
00:32:34,359 --> 00:32:35,319
Speaker 2: You? Tell us the bad?

670
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: Have there been any unexpectedly almost beautiful moments that you've

671
00:32:40,279 --> 00:32:41,480
witnessed in some way.

672
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 2: Well, the girl that blew me to take her to Canadega.

673
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,440
But I don't know if it was blue, it was sloppy.

674
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,799
I don't know if you call it beautiful. But she's

675
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:51,480
run out of money and her boyfriend cut up her

676
00:32:51,519 --> 00:32:54,680
credit cards. I gotta go to Canadaga to my grandparents' house.

677
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,680
Can I blow you instead? I'm like, all right, jump up,

678
00:32:58,599 --> 00:33:03,440
this is this is bullshit. Yeah it sounds good, right, No,

679
00:33:03,559 --> 00:33:05,960
but I'm just saying, like something vulnerable. I did have

680
00:33:06,079 --> 00:33:08,920
an uber ride from the Gates Motel the Hotel hotel. Oh,

681
00:33:09,079 --> 00:33:10,759
She's like, if you wait for me, you can, I'll

682
00:33:10,799 --> 00:33:13,799
let you nut in me. She said that, Yeah, she

683
00:33:14,039 --> 00:33:16,119
was from She said she was hitting the Gates Motel.

684
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,160
I didn't know how old she was. She looked like

685
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,480
she was six seventeen years old. I'm living with my grandmother.

686
00:33:21,519 --> 00:33:22,960
I'm just up here for a little while. I got

687
00:33:23,039 --> 00:33:24,839
this a little trick. You wait for me and drive

688
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,720
me back, I'll let you nut. I'm like, I'll let

689
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,079
you nut twice. I'm like, as nice as that sounds,

690
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,119
I'm out here just just making money. So yeah, good

691
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:33,519
luck to you.

692
00:33:33,799 --> 00:33:36,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, no Wow, it happened, Barter.

693
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like this cow used to be little Housin

694
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,119
and prairie. Hey, I'll make you a dusk if you

695
00:33:43,279 --> 00:33:43,880
give me the cow.

696
00:33:45,039 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: But I mean, is there anything that reminds you that

697
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:51,440
most people are basically good? Because I or are you

698
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:54,319
just oh yeah? I mean do you see because you

699
00:33:54,799 --> 00:33:57,200
I here's the thing, like I go, Doug's got a

700
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,720
crusty exterior, like your heart's got a little crust on it.

701
00:34:01,079 --> 00:34:03,720
You know, you get a little you've seen there's some things.

702
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,839
You have certain opinions about that. But when you get

703
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:10,239
sort of you just poked through that, it's a big

704
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:14,119
Nugati center. You're a big softie. Yeah, you're a big softy, happy,

705
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,840
caring giving the whole roller coaster. I know, but I

706
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,360
mean that that's what you are. But this stuff kind

707
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,880
of hardens you a little bit, it does it bothers you?

708
00:34:23,199 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 2: Yes?

709
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 1: But is there anything that There's got to be something good?

710
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,039
There had to be I know, like you drove those

711
00:34:28,039 --> 00:34:29,880
people to the pet cemetery and to meet some stupid

712
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,880
remark about Hey, what's in the buck? That's our dead cat?

713
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,039
I mean I felt people with their wheelchairs with Walkers.

714
00:34:38,199 --> 00:34:39,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not always heartwarming.

715
00:34:39,639 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 1: What about at the bar? Any good stories? At the bar,

716
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,440
you see somebody like, you know, they announced that they're

717
00:34:44,679 --> 00:34:45,840
getting married, or.

718
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,039
Speaker 2: Well, I've done three weddings for Forest. Yeah, there you go,

719
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,679
and I'm doing two this year from there. All right,

720
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:53,840
you know, I think they just had a couple of

721
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,679
the other day come over and went through all the

722
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:57,679
music and everything, and it's just a small little wedding

723
00:34:57,719 --> 00:34:59,880
and like she's like, it's just you know, it's only

724
00:35:00,039 --> 00:35:02,639
well fifty people. I'm like that, don't worry about it.

725
00:35:03,039 --> 00:35:07,280
I'm like, fifty to two fifty, there's no difference. Play

726
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:08,760
all the same music. We're gonna play what you want

727
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:13,480
your day. And then she was talking about I don't

728
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:14,880
know if I'm gonna dance with my dad. I'm like,

729
00:35:15,159 --> 00:35:17,199
and then you have to ask are you in good

730
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,239
terms with your dad? Oh? Yeah, he just doesn't dance.

731
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,199
I'm like, look, we don't have to play it four

732
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:25,000
minute song. We can say, okay, here comes so and

733
00:35:25,119 --> 00:35:26,719
so and so and so with the father, and I'll

734
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,280
cut it forty five seconds at least, have that moment,

735
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,599
one moment you know he's good, he's.

736
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: Gonna want to go, so I go.

737
00:35:35,079 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 2: That's what I'm here for. I'm here to enlighten you

738
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,760
in some things that you might not have thought of.

739
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,800
They had never heard of the anniversary dance. Have you

740
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,400
seen this? Yes? Okay?

741
00:35:43,639 --> 00:35:44,199
Speaker 1: And that's more.

742
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,599
Speaker 2: And there people are getting away from the garter and

743
00:35:47,679 --> 00:35:52,920
the bouquet. I don't want him going up, and I said, yeah,

744
00:35:53,159 --> 00:35:54,679
I said, look, don't get the guarter, but I go

745
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:58,360
on the bouquet. There's gonna be single women there that

746
00:35:58,559 --> 00:36:00,800
everybody likes that because then next girl that gets it,

747
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,880
I've got three guarters. I don't get nothing.

748
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: So doesn't always work. But it doesn't work. That's funny.

749
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,480
I got to think too, like the bar when people

750
00:36:09,519 --> 00:36:12,639
are drunk, are they more like more honest in those

751
00:36:12,679 --> 00:36:13,920
conversations than they are?

752
00:36:14,079 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 2: Oh? I've had people tell me stuff that they you know,

753
00:36:16,559 --> 00:36:19,440
I told you that. I'm like, hey, you did, I

754
00:36:19,639 --> 00:36:22,199
just it's what did they tell you a few weeks ago?

755
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:23,360
Speaker 1: You're the keeper of secrets.

756
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 2: Sometimes all you gotta do just listen, right. You don't

757
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:31,039
need to give advice. Just people just want to get

758
00:36:31,079 --> 00:36:34,079
this weight off my chest, you know, I just need

759
00:36:34,159 --> 00:36:35,719
to I can't talk to my wife I can't talk

760
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:39,719
to it. Just man, Doug, thanks for listening. Yeah have

761
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:40,320
you gotten that?

762
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,079
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, thanks? Yeah yeah.

763
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:49,280
Speaker 2: Friends going through divorce, just spewing everything. This is happening

764
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,639
my family, this I my mother's everybody's telling me to

765
00:36:52,679 --> 00:36:54,920
get a divorce, a divorce lawyer. I don't, I don't

766
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:56,039
want to, I don't want to give up, and blah

767
00:36:56,039 --> 00:36:58,719
blah blah. I'm just like, you know, you gotta do it.

768
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:01,840
It's your life's life, it's your life. What do you feel.

769
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:08,199
Speaker 1: It's very hard because we become somewhat dependent on other

770
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:12,639
people's opinions of things, but the only one that matters.

771
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,679
Speaker 2: Is yours, yes and ultimately right, And you've.

772
00:37:15,599 --> 00:37:19,199
Speaker 1: Got to find like right now, I'm I'm my big

773
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:24,239
thing and I'm more looking for I'll call it next year,

774
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,360
but the next academic year, right for my son. My

775
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,239
big thing is you know, here comes a fifteen year

776
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:35,880
old kid who lived in the South, was in a school.

777
00:37:36,159 --> 00:37:38,599
He'll tell you about fights that were going on and

778
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:41,559
held up at nine point all this stuff, and then

779
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,920
wound up in what's called Renaissance school, where you went

780
00:37:45,119 --> 00:37:47,880
two days a week and you did the rest online

781
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:49,360
so you could sleep to noon. But as long as

782
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:53,239
your work was done, it didn't matter. And he was

783
00:37:53,320 --> 00:37:55,239
coming here. And my big thing was, I.

784
00:37:55,519 --> 00:37:57,119
Speaker 2: Just believe there's breeding laziness.

785
00:37:57,159 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: To be honest, it could, I mean it could. It

786
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,199
takes So I've seen other kids who've gone to rent

787
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,400
us On schools and they have parents that are just

788
00:38:04,519 --> 00:38:06,440
on top of them, right, and they're in all kinds

789
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:10,079
of activities, and they may be working and have an apprenticeship.

790
00:38:10,159 --> 00:38:13,239
I've seen these things, and so there's a purpose, right,

791
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,079
there's a good thing. Not school is not I think

792
00:38:16,159 --> 00:38:19,039
we have school designed incorrectly. We've been doing the same

793
00:38:19,119 --> 00:38:21,400
thing for over two hundred years, and I don't know

794
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,039
that we need to do it that way. I think

795
00:38:23,079 --> 00:38:26,280
there could be some changes to things, but whatever, that's not.

796
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,199
Speaker 2: Here nor there. Well, we have been changing, we've been

797
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,119
dropping our standards. Now in New York State, you don't fail,

798
00:38:32,199 --> 00:38:35,039
you don't get left behind. They get all f's and

799
00:38:35,039 --> 00:38:36,000
you're going to the next grade.

800
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:40,679
Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah, I don't know if that's true.

801
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 2: I have teacher friends, yeah yeah, yeah, I mean suspension, expulsion, No,

802
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:49,559
he's misunderstood. We'll just give them in school, detention in

803
00:38:49,679 --> 00:38:50,519
school suspension.

804
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 1: Yeah iss, yeah, yeah, Well one of the reasons the

805
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,519
school wants to do that is because they need the

806
00:38:55,599 --> 00:38:57,239
bodies there to get the state.

807
00:38:57,119 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 2: Aid, right, so it comes down to money. Don't worry

808
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:03,039
that we're we're not teaching these We got the Japanese man.

809
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:07,320
Let's see three, you draw lines and you count the dots,

810
00:39:07,599 --> 00:39:09,679
because that's what you do. Wegman's when you're going, Okay,

811
00:39:09,679 --> 00:39:12,039
I got a I got bread, I got milk, I

812
00:39:12,159 --> 00:39:16,079
got eggs. I guess sausage. I guess so I guess one, two, three, four.

813
00:39:16,119 --> 00:39:19,079
Speaker 1: I got six things. I'm sorry, I'm holding lineback.

814
00:39:19,119 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. No, I understand what you're saying, and you

815
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,559
know what. I'm sorry to say this, but in any

816
00:39:25,039 --> 00:39:29,639
any sport, when you're having a slump, get back to basics. Yeah,

817
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:32,199
we don't. We don't need IPI pads in school. Get

818
00:39:32,199 --> 00:39:34,920
a piece of paper, so do your work.

819
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,679
Speaker 1: Not so sure about that, only because I will say

820
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,639
that the world is going in that direction and.

821
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,119
Speaker 2: You're gonna have enough time on their phones outside.

822
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,159
Speaker 1: No, but if you can teach how to use these

823
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:48,639
things other than an entertainment hub, I think that's important.

824
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,400
I do, because they're not going away. You're not putting

825
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:51,440
this genie back. How do you spell?

826
00:39:51,559 --> 00:39:54,760
Speaker 2: Psychiatrists? You're not learning how to you're copying from this

827
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,119
to that, So you're not teaching your brain anything A

828
00:39:57,159 --> 00:39:59,920
little bit, a lot of it. I think anything you need,

829
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:01,400
you're just gonna find that here.

830
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 1: You can. I mean, you can improve your writing and

831
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,400
your communication and all that sort of stuff, but you're

832
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,159
not putting that genie back in the body.

833
00:40:10,119 --> 00:40:10,559
Speaker 2: That you can.

834
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:12,639
Speaker 1: You can kind of wingle the cork in a little bit.

835
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,239
But my point with my son was it was gonna

836
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,880
be a big stretch for him. So he's got a

837
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,920
lot of awards this year, academically done all these things.

838
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,679
Now my big thing is how do I find the

839
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:27,840
way that your self worth comes from within you, not

840
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:31,119
without you, not outside of you, not dependent on friends,

841
00:40:31,199 --> 00:40:34,559
not dependent on someone feeling like I got the right X,

842
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,000
Y or Z, and you're not really gonna ever, I guess,

843
00:40:37,079 --> 00:40:37,760
get away from that.

844
00:40:38,159 --> 00:40:40,519
Speaker 2: But now that's my big goal for next year. How

845
00:40:40,559 --> 00:40:43,559
do I build you so your.

846
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,679
Speaker 1: Your happiness comes from within you and not outside of

847
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:48,440
right and that you feel good.

848
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 2: That's a tough one of that is because you want friends,

849
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:52,320
you got to be accepted.

850
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 1: Yes, you know you're doing it all.

851
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:54,519
Speaker 2: Great, you're doing it.

852
00:40:54,599 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 1: Oh this sucks right exactly. So that's my big thing.

853
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,119
And so the only thing I can think is you've

854
00:41:00,119 --> 00:41:01,960
got to be consistent and then you've got to do

855
00:41:02,039 --> 00:41:03,280
things like we've got to get to the gym.

856
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,119
Speaker 2: We've got to do So that's where you know, debating

857
00:41:06,159 --> 00:41:07,800
and standing up for yourself is a big one too.

858
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,239
So if your friends say, oh, you're going to the gym,

859
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:12,440
that's wasted time, say, oh, it's not. No, And if

860
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:14,239
you don't, if you don't like it, then we don't

861
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,320
have to hang out they you want that friend is

862
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,760
so bad And that's really tough. It is tough.

863
00:41:20,119 --> 00:41:22,760
Speaker 1: Like I've been wanting to go. Like the other day,

864
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:24,400
I take them over to the y and he's got

865
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:26,039
to He goes, hey, can so and so come with us?

866
00:41:26,039 --> 00:41:28,920
I go, yeah, I had a phone call. So I

867
00:41:29,039 --> 00:41:30,480
go to sit at one of the tables and it's

868
00:41:30,599 --> 00:41:33,480
upstairs and it's overlooking the pool. These guys it's like

869
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,000
they're in club med there. Lean back. I gets the pool,

870
00:41:37,199 --> 00:41:38,920
just talking and all of a sudden I get a

871
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,599
text because I said we're going to be leaving it

872
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,039
X you know this time? And I get a text

873
00:41:44,079 --> 00:41:45,880
five minutes before, Hey, we're in the game room.

874
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 2: What what was? Oh? We played basketball?

875
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: We lifted weights. I go for what three minutes? Look

876
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:54,519
at them? You lift it with your eyes.

877
00:41:54,559 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 2: I'll want to be there an hour, two hours, an

878
00:41:56,039 --> 00:41:59,599
hour and a half, ninety minutes, ninety minutes, ninety minutes.

879
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: Now could have been. I wasn't with them the whole time.

880
00:42:02,119 --> 00:42:03,960
I aren't gonna, you know, let you do your thing.

881
00:42:04,079 --> 00:42:08,440
But so that's why I'm slowly right. You gotta slowly

882
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:12,159
You tell anybody anything that they need to be doing,

883
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:13,920
and how they're living wrong.

884
00:42:14,079 --> 00:42:16,039
Speaker 2: And what is the first thing they're gonna do? Shut

885
00:42:16,119 --> 00:42:17,840
you up, shut you out. They don't want to hear it.

886
00:42:18,119 --> 00:42:19,880
In my shoes. You know, I'm going exactly.

887
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,519
Speaker 1: You know, someone makes funny you're making deviled eggs and

888
00:42:22,559 --> 00:42:24,159
all kinds, and you're trying to sell them. What a

889
00:42:24,199 --> 00:42:25,400
piece of shit that person is?

890
00:42:25,599 --> 00:42:25,639
Speaker 2: You?

891
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,079
Speaker 1: Do you, buddy? Absolutely?

892
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 2: Do you? What's the under and over from memorial lyg

893
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,400
because I'm selling them again now I'm gonna do twelve

894
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,119
for twenty twenty for thirty.

895
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: Devil ed eggs.

896
00:42:35,079 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 2: I was saying four people.

897
00:42:36,119 --> 00:42:38,800
Speaker 1: Well, why don't you, why don't you do well? You

898
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:44,079
should start hitting it now, put in the like daily things.

899
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,199
You should get on canva and make different things canva.

900
00:42:47,639 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

901
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:49,920
Speaker 1: See, this is what they would teach you in school

902
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:50,360
on the computer.

903
00:42:50,559 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm telling you right now.

904
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:57,039
Speaker 1: You go in there and you design like a flyer, and.

905
00:42:57,119 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 5: You call it like dugs eggs or you know you

906
00:43:00,039 --> 00:43:03,960
fresh doubled eggs, douggies take fresh eggs, dress deviled eggs, whatever,

907
00:43:04,519 --> 00:43:07,039
and you make all these different things and then you

908
00:43:07,159 --> 00:43:09,000
put it out there and all the different social media

909
00:43:09,079 --> 00:43:12,559
platforms call now great, you know, blah blah blah.

910
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,639
Speaker 1: You do it up with a red, white and blue

911
00:43:15,519 --> 00:43:16,159
little tray.

912
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 2: That's fourth of July Memorial Day.

913
00:43:18,599 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 1: Memorial flags, right. I mean I always worry about Memorial Day,

914
00:43:24,119 --> 00:43:26,519
like you know, four year picnic is one thing, but

915
00:43:26,559 --> 00:43:28,679
I always worry about like Memorial Day sales and things

916
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:32,639
only because it's yes for people service, yes yeah, And

917
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,039
I always say, and let's remember those still serving, not

918
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,079
just about the ones who have served. It may not

919
00:43:38,199 --> 00:43:40,400
be here, but the ones still serving.

920
00:43:40,639 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 2: Oil Day is just for people that passed away.

921
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: What about family?

922
00:43:44,519 --> 00:43:47,679
Speaker 2: You have veterans Day, but we don't do much for

923
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:51,320
Veterans Day, and the weather's not as nice. Now this

924
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,440
is a big thing. Yeah, one day for Veterans Day,

925
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,960
one day for Memorial Day. But June thirty days is

926
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:01,519
gay pride. Well that's good for thirty days. One day

927
00:44:01,559 --> 00:44:05,320
from veterans, one day for those who followed them. But June,

928
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:07,280
I told you there was a crusty outside. I'm just

929
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:08,039
bringing it up.

930
00:44:08,119 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: I know it's fine.

931
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:12,199
Speaker 2: I have one day for Martin Luther King. I got

932
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:13,519
one day for Abraham Lincoln.

933
00:44:13,559 --> 00:44:15,119
Speaker 1: I have to tell you that I wouldn't even know

934
00:44:15,519 --> 00:44:18,719
that there was thirty days in June. Yeah, I didn't

935
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even know if gay.

936
00:44:20,639 --> 00:44:25,639
Speaker 2: Probably I I just what I'm watching the the comic Rells.

937
00:44:26,079 --> 00:44:29,480
That seems to be one coming around. It seems to

938
00:44:29,559 --> 00:44:32,639
be a universal joke all of a sudden that people

939
00:44:32,679 --> 00:44:37,039
are jumping on It's thirty days for that. Probably Abraham Lincoln,

940
00:44:37,119 --> 00:44:40,280
he freed the slaves. He gets one day. But if

941
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:44,719
you do this, you got the whole month. I mean

942
00:44:45,079 --> 00:44:48,079
you probably a day at Red Wing Stadium and that

943
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,519
is always packed. Yeah, yes, I got nothing against that.

944
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,119
You don't get friends that are gay, lesbian. I don't

945
00:44:54,119 --> 00:44:56,760
give a shit. I get to a certain certain age.

946
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:58,679
I mean back when we were young, that was a

947
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,000
big thing. Sure, I mean even to admit that it

948
00:45:01,119 --> 00:45:03,719
was huge. Yeah, yeah, no, I understand.

949
00:45:04,079 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 1: I just think that if you're gonna do the deviled eggs,

950
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,599
go find a kid that got to education and put

951
00:45:10,679 --> 00:45:12,880
something together and do that and get.

952
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:14,519
Speaker 2: Them out there and get out. And now I've got

953
00:45:14,639 --> 00:45:18,480
to get five steps ahead. Take five steps yes, food

954
00:45:18,519 --> 00:45:20,599
coloring and make him into a rainbow for the LGBQ,

955
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:23,480
sell them all of June. There you go. Then I'll

956
00:45:23,519 --> 00:45:25,639
be in for the thirty days. That's right, So why

957
00:45:25,679 --> 00:45:27,159
don't you take advantage of it?

958
00:45:27,679 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 1: We just thought about it.

959
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Speaker 2: There, Rainbow eggs, rainbow eggs, rainbow dies will blow your mind.

960
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,320
Speaker 1: Ah, I can lick the competition.

961
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987
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Oh my goodness, gracious Billy, what's going on?

988
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Speaker 1: You got the one, the only, the hemp shaking money

989
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making tower power Man with the Hour twenty four seven,

990
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Doug e Fresh Megan a.

991
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Speaker 2: Happy Baby with blified Bill Moran. It's what you're all

992
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:40,400
wound up today. I'm not a little bit. You got

993
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:43,440
yourself all you read something that you got yourself all twisted.

994
00:47:43,679 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: Not twisted, but I understand. Let me get you onto

995
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,840
something here. Here's something that's gonna bother you.

996
00:47:49,119 --> 00:47:51,599
Speaker 2: I know this. You know what bother people that try

997
00:47:51,679 --> 00:47:53,519
to talk about shit they don't understand. I'm gonna give

998
00:47:53,519 --> 00:47:55,559
you a perfect example, and this is this is gonna

999
00:47:55,559 --> 00:47:59,519
make you laugh. Do you remember the the the cartoon

1000
00:47:59,519 --> 00:48:06,000
why Ricky Ticky Tavvy? Sort of kind of? It was

1001
00:48:06,039 --> 00:48:07,159
one of my mother's favorites.

1002
00:48:07,199 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's it's older like you're my Yeah, so

1003
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:14,400
wasn't it an Asian?

1004
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:18,119
Speaker 2: It was Australian Australia Australian. And this girl at the

1005
00:48:18,159 --> 00:48:21,320
bar the other night was talking about Ricky Ticky Tavvy

1006
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:24,079
and how it teaches you this and how you can't

1007
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,760
turn on yourself and to be a better person. People

1008
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:32,679
of Bary just that has absolutely nothing to do with

1009
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:38,400
Ricky Ticky Tavvy because this girl thinks she knows fucking everything.

1010
00:48:39,079 --> 00:48:41,800
It was a cartoon about a mongoose in Australia that

1011
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:45,039
befended a family and there was cobra's on the on

1012
00:48:45,199 --> 00:48:48,559
the lot and Ricky Ticky Tavvy ends up killing one

1013
00:48:48,599 --> 00:48:52,000
of the cobras. The cobra was going after the family,

1014
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:56,239
Ricky Ticky grab one of the eggs, kind of trade off,

1015
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,760
and then the cobra takes the the egg and goes

1016
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:03,760
in in the hole and Ricky ticket goes after it.

1017
00:49:04,519 --> 00:49:08,880
And you gotta be careful of snake because the snake

1018
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:13,800
knows when it can turn and so but Ricky, uh,

1019
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,199
Ricky makes it out. Have you ever seen Ricky Ticky Dabby.

1020
00:49:18,639 --> 00:49:20,360
It was one of my mother's favorites. That's probably I

1021
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:21,880
didn't get lippy with her. But I'm like, that has

1022
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,639
nothing to do with it. So he's bouncing around with

1023
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:28,239
his tail behind him, and I'm like, she's just like, yeah,

1024
00:49:28,559 --> 00:49:29,199
it does this and.

1025
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,639
Speaker 1: This is what it's about. I'm just like, no, it doesn't.

1026
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 2: That's nothing, that has nothing. You could have been more wrong.

1027
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:40,079
I'm like, no, Ricky Ticky Dabby and that's all I said.

1028
00:49:40,159 --> 00:49:42,079
Do you need a hug today? I got a hug

1029
00:49:42,119 --> 00:49:45,719
from you earlier. I'm fine on no, sure if I don't.

1030
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:49,079
If I do, gonna write it down. You know, it's

1031
00:49:49,119 --> 00:49:54,800
funny because people, uh we did you ever make coupons

1032
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:59,320
for your parents when you're younger? Yes, and you keep it,

1033
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,719
you know, one one day free of noise, or my

1034
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:04,840
coupon when you tell me to calm down if you

1035
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:06,840
give me this. So somebody I was talking to you

1036
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,639
the other day. They were going through boxes and they

1037
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:12,519
found a couple. Yeah, I should hand this in and

1038
00:50:12,639 --> 00:50:13,000
I should.

1039
00:50:13,119 --> 00:50:13,679
Speaker 1: I should. Uh.

1040
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:19,119
Speaker 2: They don't have expiration dates at them. No, those are

1041
00:50:19,199 --> 00:50:24,000
coupons that last forever. Yeah, lifetime, lifetime. Uh I'm seeing now.

1042
00:50:24,159 --> 00:50:25,760
With warm weather, I think it.

1043
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,280
Speaker 1: Puts us at a uh.

1044
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 2: With sunshine, yes, it definitely brightens your day and makes

1045
00:50:30,519 --> 00:50:31,280
you more energetic.

1046
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 1: We're more active or more in a social mindset.

1047
00:50:36,039 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 2: But I think that.

1048
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 1: People say, sometimes it's a beautiful day, why is there

1049
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:42,400
an accident?

1050
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:44,159
Speaker 2: Why is there an accent?

1051
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, why is there an accident on the road? Why

1052
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,440
why all of a sudden, it's this road close and

1053
00:50:48,559 --> 00:50:52,400
I go because you got last minute social plans and

1054
00:50:52,519 --> 00:50:55,920
you're looking at your goddamn phone or that big screen

1055
00:50:56,039 --> 00:50:56,800
and they're a distraction.

1056
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:58,800
Speaker 2: And I was thinking, I go, Doug has got to

1057
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:03,159
see the home. I was going fifty five, got passed

1058
00:51:03,199 --> 00:51:05,920
by two cars fucking around. They were going eighty. Yeah,

1059
00:51:06,079 --> 00:51:07,800
and I can see them in my reary mirror. I'm like,

1060
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:10,719
watch out, you know, because look at the you know,

1061
00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:12,880
look at these ansles. And I say that a few

1062
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:17,840
times a week. That's also saying how people are uncourteous driving.

1063
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,320
Speaker 1: Right, But I mean, do you see a lot of

1064
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,960
usage of the phone, like people sneaking a peak even

1065
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:26,000
at a traffic light, I'm honking the.

1066
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:28,760
Speaker 2: Like turns green and they're not moving. I'm I'm laying

1067
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:30,280
on the fucking horn because.

1068
00:51:32,159 --> 00:51:35,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, shit, ju Joe, what about Uh do you ever

1069
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,079
roll down the window and go put the phone down?

1070
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:38,360
Speaker 3: No?

1071
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I don't say that.

1072
00:51:40,639 --> 00:51:44,880
Speaker 1: No, there's a limit to your frustration, because they say,

1073
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,360
like five seconds of looking at your phone is the

1074
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:49,760
equivalent of driving a football field blindfolded.

1075
00:51:50,119 --> 00:51:52,159
Speaker 2: The length of a football. Yeah, I've heard things like

1076
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,800
fifty if you sneeze, you go one hundred yards. I

1077
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:59,639
don't know those are really true, But yeah, it's it's

1078
00:52:00,079 --> 00:52:05,079
because now uber is you know, if I'm driving you

1079
00:52:05,559 --> 00:52:08,000
and a new ride comes up, it dings and it

1080
00:52:08,039 --> 00:52:09,679
shows where it is, so you have to take your

1081
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,360
as much as they want safety. And then they even

1082
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:17,440
ask is construction still there? Yes or no? So they

1083
00:52:17,519 --> 00:52:21,719
can rerout other drivers. Is there a speed trap there? Yes? Uh?

1084
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 1: So all these things are happening.

1085
00:52:25,519 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 2: Why all these things? I mean every three rides, I

1086
00:52:29,039 --> 00:52:32,079
would say, yeah, maybe depending on where you are. Some

1087
00:52:32,199 --> 00:52:33,280
days you're off the highway.

1088
00:52:33,360 --> 00:52:34,920
Speaker 1: You know, you're just taking kids.

1089
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:35,840
Speaker 2: Back and forth from the school.

1090
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:39,559
Speaker 1: But that is like you're that's sort of almost business like,

1091
00:52:39,639 --> 00:52:42,760
and I guess we can navigate that and cars are

1092
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:44,119
built better and you stay on the road.

1093
00:52:44,519 --> 00:52:46,280
Speaker 2: But some of it is like I had an uber

1094
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:49,960
driver watching a movie or I'm just like, what is that?

1095
00:52:50,519 --> 00:52:54,440
I'm like, should I really write this woman up? A changer?

1096
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:56,400
I mean, you have to be pretty bad to get

1097
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:57,599
up fired as an uber driver?

1098
00:52:58,760 --> 00:52:59,039
Speaker 1: Really?

1099
00:52:59,199 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean I knew one guy. I ran into

1100
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,360
this person that used to I was ubering him and

1101
00:53:05,039 --> 00:53:07,280
he had so many people in his car the smell

1102
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:10,840
like weed that he would smell like weed. The secondary

1103
00:53:11,039 --> 00:53:13,440
or contact. Yeah. Yeah, So we get somebody in smell

1104
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,159
like weed, they leave, we'ed still in the car, You

1105
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,519
get two, three people, they think of that you're smoking weed,

1106
00:53:19,599 --> 00:53:22,000
which you're not, all right, and then your fifth ride

1107
00:53:22,199 --> 00:53:24,880
smells like weed. Now this happened when I first started.

1108
00:53:25,199 --> 00:53:27,480
It seemed like every other person was smoking weed, and

1109
00:53:27,599 --> 00:53:29,599
now not so much. Maybe they're doing it home since

1110
00:53:29,599 --> 00:53:32,679
it's been legalized, legalized, well, they would have been doing it.

1111
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:34,760
Speaker 1: Well, I think you're gonna I wonder if it'll start

1112
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:36,920
as the warm weather comes out and you're allowed to

1113
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,880
be outside smoking and it's not illegal, and people light

1114
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,199
up a joint and then they call for the uber

1115
00:53:43,639 --> 00:53:45,880
and they get in. I wonder if there'll be an

1116
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:48,960
increase in people smelling like weed now that the warm

1117
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:49,480
weather's here.

1118
00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:54,119
Speaker 2: Interesting depending on where you go, maybe, yeah, where's.

1119
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,039
Speaker 1: The most prevalent? Do you ever?

1120
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,320
Speaker 2: Not fair part? I'm wondering, like, honestly, you ever pick

1121
00:53:58,360 --> 00:53:59,320
somebody up from Pittsford and.

1122
00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: Be like God, And I think it can happen. I know,

1123
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:06,360
but I mean it could happen. It could No, I don't, Yeah,

1124
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,679
I don't remember the last person I really smelled like weed.

1125
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:10,039
Speaker 2: Weed.

1126
00:54:10,119 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, weed's gotta man it. It hangs, it hangs.

1127
00:54:15,559 --> 00:54:18,440
You go into a freaking certain Walmart parking lots. It's

1128
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,239
like a grateful dead show. Yeah, it's like, God damn man,

1129
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:26,840
Willie Nelson, where are you at? I should say this? Oh, yes,

1130
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:27,400
you should.

1131
00:54:27,519 --> 00:54:31,159
Speaker 2: But you know the difference between oh jeez, maybe you

1132
00:54:31,159 --> 00:54:35,519
shouldn't say it. Go ahead, difference between marijuana and pussy.

1133
00:54:36,519 --> 00:54:38,400
If you can smell the marijuana from across the room,

1134
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:45,119
it's really good. Get into that mic and laught dog,

1135
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:46,400
What Doug?

1136
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: How dared you?

1137
00:54:48,119 --> 00:54:49,079
Speaker 2: I heard that the other day?

1138
00:54:49,119 --> 00:54:50,039
Speaker 1: How dare you?

1139
00:54:51,079 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 2: Certain jokes just pop into my head that I haven't.

1140
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:56,239
I haven't told her a while.

1141
00:54:57,079 --> 00:55:00,320
Speaker 1: It's rare and risky to scold somebody for being on

1142
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,000
the phone, like if they're on the phone driving. I've

1143
00:55:04,039 --> 00:55:06,559
seen people scream put down the phone other people.

1144
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:10,159
Speaker 2: Somebody screamed to me years ago, some kids. Yet, well,

1145
00:55:10,159 --> 00:55:13,239
there used to be a bigger push like to the

1146
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,679
phone down. Yeah, there used to be a bigger push

1147
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:19,199
for that. And and and you have the hands free device.

1148
00:55:19,360 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 1: I mean you, well, it's hands free, just a sneakier

1149
00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:25,599
way of doing the same thing. I will say it

1150
00:55:26,119 --> 00:55:28,039
does make things easier.

1151
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:31,079
Speaker 2: With the more the newer cars. Call Bill Moran, Yes,

1152
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:35,960
I do. You're gonna be on your phone a little bit,

1153
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,280
but I have a actually have a new one. It's free.

1154
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,679
I always do punch up or if I just text you,

1155
00:55:43,199 --> 00:55:47,079
punch on your your name and it'll come up to call, right,

1156
00:55:47,559 --> 00:55:51,360
it's it's uh, it's all. Well that does, but I

1157
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:51,639
just go.

1158
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 1: Is it a little sneakier?

1159
00:55:53,039 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 2: We all the sort of at risk I'm just saying

1160
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:56,280
it is the weather gets more and.

1161
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 1: More people are out.

1162
00:55:57,039 --> 00:55:58,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you're all at risk.

1163
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: Look out you know, if you're at it, Yes, and

1164
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:06,000
you almost can't not be on it in certain aspects

1165
00:56:06,079 --> 00:56:09,760
like you know, uber driving or looking getting directions even

1166
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:13,119
for your GPS. Yeah, getting directions you that's kind.

1167
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 2: Of a cap out. But I mean you're talking to

1168
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:20,360
somebody and there's well they have the if I text

1169
00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:23,559
you or call you, the automatic reply i'm driving, I'll

1170
00:56:23,599 --> 00:56:24,760
call I'll call you. Yes.

1171
00:56:25,679 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: Well, so it used to I felt like there used

1172
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:29,880
to be this big thing. I think like Oprah had

1173
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,519
a pledge that people were signing put and people were

1174
00:56:32,559 --> 00:56:35,119
putting their phones in the trunk of their car so

1175
00:56:35,159 --> 00:56:37,599
they wouldn't be distracted by it. And I think that

1176
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:41,000
all lasted for like a day, you know, forty eight

1177
00:56:41,079 --> 00:56:44,519
hours fast, you know, and so right because she's probably

1178
00:56:44,519 --> 00:56:46,280
not driving herself, you know what I mean. And so

1179
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,960
I'm like, all this stuff it was had good intentions.

1180
00:56:50,119 --> 00:56:52,679
Look right here in Fairport there was a great tragedy

1181
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:56,159
involving in texting and five girls from the high school.

1182
00:56:57,119 --> 00:57:01,039
Oh yeah, no, this was probably gosh now, I don't know,

1183
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,519
maybe fifteen twenty years ago, Ok, yeah, but they were

1184
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,480
all had just graduated, going down to the lake to celebrate,

1185
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:09,840
texting friends as to hey, when do you get in here?

1186
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,639
Blah bah blah, went out, I think to pass somebody

1187
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:13,639
and boom.

1188
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,639
Speaker 2: Right now, I think I remember that. Yeah, it was.

1189
00:57:16,719 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: It was terrible, just awful. And you go, man, and

1190
00:57:21,119 --> 00:57:23,559
these things that are while rare and risky, it's uh.

1191
00:57:24,679 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 2: It does happen. But with the summer, you're gonna want

1192
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:30,760
to go out. I want to golf, drinking outside, yeah,

1193
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:35,039
working on your yard. What else do you do outside?

1194
00:57:35,159 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 1: What do you do outside?

1195
00:57:36,079 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 2: Everything? Everything? Swimming, barb barbecuing. Yeah, what do you do

1196
00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:41,519
when you barbecue? Make double legs?

1197
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:44,239
Speaker 1: What makes barbecue?

1198
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,599
Speaker 2: Well? For the steak that I'm looking Okay, that's great.

1199
00:57:46,679 --> 00:57:48,880
You can't just have steak, you know, tuna, make sailed

1200
00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:50,599
or potatoes sale and of course double.

1201
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:52,559
Speaker 1: Leggs and beer while you're What I'm saying is beer.

1202
00:57:53,039 --> 00:57:53,599
Oh got it.

1203
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:55,599
Speaker 2: We gotta get we gotta get wasted. One of these days,

1204
00:57:55,639 --> 00:57:58,079
we gotta we need. I can't do it anymore, you can't.

1205
00:57:58,599 --> 00:57:59,119
Speaker 1: It's gotta be.

1206
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:03,320
Speaker 2: I don't when your son the hangovers like no hangovers?

1207
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,519
Speaker 1: What do you mean? No hangover was dirty martinis?

1208
00:58:05,599 --> 00:58:11,400
Speaker 2: Yes, Jesus Christ, intake take care of your head and medically.

1209
00:58:11,159 --> 00:58:12,719
Speaker 1: Sound, medically sound.

1210
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:17,719
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm gonna take that from a guy on the podcast.

1211
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,920
Speaker 1: Do I look like I look like?

1212
00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:22,440
Speaker 2: What? Well? Look at me?

1213
00:58:25,079 --> 00:58:26,239
Speaker 1: Hey, the salt didn't take?

1214
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 2: Your son's going to visit the mother sooner or later. Yes,

1215
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:31,000
And when that happens, yeah, we'll plan it. We won't

1216
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:33,400
tell anybody. I won't put pictures on you like Kevin does.

1217
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: Kevin always any time I fall asleep at his house,

1218
00:58:36,039 --> 00:58:37,159
I know that's funny.

1219
00:58:37,239 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 2: It is funny.

1220
00:58:38,119 --> 00:58:42,199
Speaker 1: It's sort of funny. I've been so stressed and yes,

1221
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:46,519
I just uh that I've been I fell asleep.

1222
00:58:46,679 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 2: I just it's like, I don't know, nothing better than

1223
00:58:49,000 --> 00:58:52,519
a nap. Sometimes right, Sometimes it's share that massaged you.

1224
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:55,679
Speaker 1: What am I gonna do? Massage? Yeah, I was rolling,

1225
00:59:01,079 --> 00:59:01,920
I got your billy.

1226
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 2: Yeah I.

1227
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:07,159
Speaker 1: Don't know, Yes, yeah I would.

1228
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:07,639
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1229
00:59:08,519 --> 00:59:12,440
Speaker 1: There's something about now, like right now I was telling

1230
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:16,400
you that I've got things I need to do that

1231
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,239
I'm starting to realize that you'll run out of time.

1232
00:59:20,280 --> 00:59:22,519
If you don't take action on the ideas you have,

1233
00:59:23,039 --> 00:59:25,239
you'll run out of time. And by that I mean

1234
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,840
you will die, and not today tomorrow, but at some

1235
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,960
point and and what do you want to remember by

1236
00:59:32,119 --> 00:59:34,000
And you think of like all the people that have

1237
00:59:34,159 --> 00:59:37,639
done something, And I go, I got to get my

1238
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:41,320
motor tuned up. Because I have not had my motor

1239
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:44,320
tuned up. I've been letting things bother me, overwhelm me

1240
00:59:44,679 --> 00:59:49,199
feel like this and instead of well, switch if it happens,

1241
00:59:49,239 --> 00:59:53,880
you get a fight through that. Yes, I just meant,

1242
00:59:54,239 --> 00:59:56,159
but I don't. There are times I don't.

1243
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 2: And that I made a list for this week.

1244
01:00:00,159 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 1: Was on near to list. Uh, why is this so funny?

1245
01:00:05,079 --> 01:00:11,239
Buy your deviled egg ingredients, put your little canva posted together.

1246
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 2: You should do this By the way, I have a

1247
01:00:13,559 --> 01:00:17,880
whole month printed out each day. What I'm doing Tuesday

1248
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,840
and meeting somebody for a sponsorship right after, I'm going

1249
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:24,280
to lunch with my printers. Thank you.

1250
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 1: I was wondering what was going on with you?

1251
01:00:27,079 --> 01:00:29,039
Speaker 2: Uber? Wednesday night AMers game?

1252
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:29,760
Speaker 1: Remember that?

1253
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:30,119
Speaker 2: All right?

1254
01:00:30,639 --> 01:00:32,360
Speaker 1: A big big deal. That's a big deal.

1255
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:33,599
Speaker 2: It's a big deal. That is a big deal.

1256
01:00:33,639 --> 01:00:35,159
Speaker 1: They're in the playoffs Monday tomorrow.

1257
01:00:35,519 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 2: Here's okay, yeah, here's a question. I can give you.

1258
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:41,719
Ready for this one? I can't wait. A longtime friend

1259
01:00:41,719 --> 01:00:47,840
of mine. It's a woman, Yeah, turning forty Tomorrow's a birthday. Okay, okay, Yeah,

1260
01:00:48,119 --> 01:00:52,239
her husband is dying doing nothing. How do you know?

1261
01:00:53,159 --> 01:00:55,920
Because I know? Did he tell you? She told me?

1262
01:00:56,039 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, but she doesn't know. He may be surprising her.

1263
01:00:59,679 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 2: What is she want? Well, you know, what do you

1264
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:04,960
want for your birthday? Just you know what? Just just

1265
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:07,599
come see me at work. She works in the hospitality.

1266
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:09,519
I don't want to say where. Give you away? Yeah?

1267
01:01:09,679 --> 01:01:14,039
But uh so I went on Facebook and went to

1268
01:01:14,159 --> 01:01:17,360
her photos and downloaded twenty five twenty six of them.

1269
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:22,000
I've known this girl for thirty eight years. Went to

1270
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:24,840
dollar store put him on just a poster board of

1271
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,159
the pictures and bought two balloons and I'll take him

1272
01:01:27,159 --> 01:01:29,360
in there tomorrow and saying happy birthday. That'll be that.

1273
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:32,559
Speaker 1: Now is they crossing the line? I don't know what

1274
01:01:33,039 --> 01:01:34,159
I've been friends with it. I don't know.

1275
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 2: This guy isn't doing dick.

1276
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:35,719
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1277
01:01:35,840 --> 01:01:38,039
Speaker 2: And you know what if it wasn't. I know her

1278
01:01:38,039 --> 01:01:41,800
whole family and whenever somebody turns a certain number, they're

1279
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:44,559
having a party. So it's not if he was going

1280
01:01:44,599 --> 01:01:46,280
to do something, it would have been last night, or

1281
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:47,880
he would have reached that if what if.

1282
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:51,800
Speaker 1: He was being a little more intelligent and goes, she's

1283
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:53,960
expecting it last night, We're doing it next week.

1284
01:01:54,039 --> 01:01:57,519
Speaker 2: Okay, well next time I will let me know if.

1285
01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:00,519
Speaker 1: He does, because I'm curious. Is that crossing the line.

1286
01:02:01,039 --> 01:02:03,199
It's a it's I don't know, it's.

1287
01:02:03,119 --> 01:02:05,599
Speaker 2: A gray area for maybe all it says this happy birthday,

1288
01:02:05,639 --> 01:02:06,880
bubba bout what? Yeah?

1289
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:13,719
Speaker 1: You know, but you've known her since she was two? Yeah, okay, three, no, no, whatever,

1290
01:02:14,119 --> 01:02:15,760
I'm just fine, but.

1291
01:02:16,719 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 2: Come in and see me. I'm like, you know what,

1292
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:20,320
I'm just gonna do this little special thing. Sure, but

1293
01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:23,679
the weird part is like, because you're there's a weird

1294
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:26,559
Doug's like a brother. But if Doug is like you know,

1295
01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:27,599
I think there's.

1296
01:02:27,599 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: Room to move in.

1297
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:35,199
Speaker 2: Look at I've known you? Why always?

1298
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:38,199
Speaker 1: Because it does with everybody.

1299
01:02:38,519 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 2: It's not everybody, it's just you.

1300
01:02:40,239 --> 01:02:44,360
Speaker 1: No, I'm saying with everybody thinks that way, wouldn't he?

1301
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:46,440
I mean, why would a guy get upset if somebody

1302
01:02:46,599 --> 01:02:49,840
gave his wife a birthday gift like that because he

1303
01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:51,159
thinks there's more going on?

1304
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,039
Speaker 2: Some people might. I was just asking your opinion, That's

1305
01:02:54,039 --> 01:02:54,559
what I'm saying.

1306
01:02:54,639 --> 01:03:00,599
Speaker 1: I I don't know. I would probably have to. I

1307
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:06,119
would never want to interfere with uh, long term relationships, yeah,

1308
01:03:06,239 --> 01:03:08,639
long long standing friendships like that.

1309
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:10,639
Speaker 2: And he's in one of the pictures. I didn't just

1310
01:03:11,119 --> 01:03:13,320
put her. Yeah he's in one.

1311
01:03:13,519 --> 01:03:14,039
Speaker 1: He's in one.

1312
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:17,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, mainly her and her kids. It's her life of

1313
01:03:17,199 --> 01:03:20,599
forty years, all right, her parents. I'm in one down

1314
01:03:20,679 --> 01:03:21,480
in the corner. Yeah.

1315
01:03:22,960 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 1: So it is weird, right because when you hear that

1316
01:03:27,519 --> 01:03:31,239
somebody's not doing something for somebody's birthday, oh yeah, and

1317
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:34,119
you start to go, man, what if that was my

1318
01:03:35,320 --> 01:03:36,079
significant other?

1319
01:03:36,239 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 2: Right?

1320
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:39,320
Speaker 1: Don't tell me you haven't thought that if that were No, no, no,

1321
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:40,119
but what would you do.

1322
01:03:40,199 --> 01:03:42,039
Speaker 2: I've got all these great ideas saved up for when

1323
01:03:42,039 --> 01:03:43,119
I do have a significant other.

1324
01:03:43,239 --> 01:03:44,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's never gonna happen.

1325
01:03:44,239 --> 01:03:45,159
Speaker 2: So I go to waste.

1326
01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:47,559
Speaker 1: And that's just what I'm saying. You don't die with

1327
01:03:47,639 --> 01:03:51,840
those ideas. Get fined somebody. You're not actively looking, because.

1328
01:03:51,719 --> 01:03:54,119
Speaker 2: I am actively looking. You fucking don't look.

1329
01:03:54,199 --> 01:03:56,559
Speaker 1: You don't care. You are so set in your old

1330
01:03:56,639 --> 01:03:59,840
man ways. Now you are locked in, you're ready to go.

1331
01:04:00,119 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 2: This is it. You're worried, so you just send me

1332
01:04:02,119 --> 01:04:04,119
doomed from now till the day I die. I'm not

1333
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:08,280
because this is what you like, and it's what you know. Well,

1334
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:11,199
you found a seventy eight year old man on his

1335
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:17,559
kitchen floor. Let's be honest. There's a broke, broken Jenny

1336
01:04:17,639 --> 01:04:20,880
Lay bottle and apparently he was going for the deviled

1337
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:27,440
eggs and free place. No, I'm not saying you're doomed.

1338
01:04:27,519 --> 01:04:28,719
I'm just saying like you are.

1339
01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think you really look I do.

1340
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:34,840
I don't think people annoy you. I think that you

1341
01:04:35,079 --> 01:04:37,480
like your alone time. You've gotten used to it. I

1342
01:04:37,559 --> 01:04:40,079
think you've got friends with benefits that once in a

1343
01:04:40,119 --> 01:04:42,199
while takes care of an itch, and on you go.

1344
01:04:42,559 --> 01:04:45,000
I think that's your life. I think that's how you live.

1345
01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:47,239
I think every once in a while your itch getting

1346
01:04:47,239 --> 01:04:49,199
scratched and you don't have to put up with the bullshit.

1347
01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:52,280
And I understand, believe me, I get it. You don't

1348
01:04:52,320 --> 01:04:54,719
want the all the bs that goes with it. It

1349
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:57,559
would be nice to have to plan somebody's fortieth, fifty

1350
01:04:57,679 --> 01:05:00,960
sixtieth birthday party, but you know what, fu who cares?

1351
01:05:01,199 --> 01:05:03,639
It's not your problem And that's the greatest thing you

1352
01:05:03,719 --> 01:05:06,039
could think in your mind. Hey, if she were mine,

1353
01:05:06,079 --> 01:05:08,239
it would be awesome what I would do, all the

1354
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:09,199
great things I would do.

1355
01:05:09,519 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 2: But she's not yours, and they can go Dad, that's perfect.

1356
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,599
Save my money, save my money exactly. Well, there's nothing

1357
01:05:15,679 --> 01:05:18,559
wrong with making somebody feel nice. No, And I think

1358
01:05:18,559 --> 01:05:20,480
there's less of that in the world. That's why he

1359
01:05:20,639 --> 01:05:22,480
was doing this. I'm like, you know what, he had

1360
01:05:22,519 --> 01:05:24,079
his chance, he could do it. Maybe he is doing

1361
01:05:24,159 --> 01:05:26,639
something nothing wrong for me. I be a friend and no,

1362
01:05:27,119 --> 01:05:30,280
don't do that too. People like to something special.

1363
01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 1: Well, here's the weird part is I think, like if

1364
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:35,960
a woman did it, We wouldn't think twice right, right?

1365
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 2: Well, girlfriend, guy doesn't it to.

1366
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:39,480
Speaker 1: A married woman?

1367
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:47,320
Speaker 2: Wait till June? There we go, he's celebrating every day. Yeah,

1368
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:47,760
I don't.

1369
01:05:48,159 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. It would be a little It would

1370
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,280
make me. I would notice that if I were married

1371
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:55,519
and be like, but if I knew you and you

1372
01:05:55,639 --> 01:05:57,159
had been around and you're like, hey, this is a

1373
01:05:57,239 --> 01:06:00,400
lifelong friend of the family, you know, I would just

1374
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:02,719
go And then I'd look at you and go, he's

1375
01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:07,800
just sad. I mean, you know, I'm just kidd here. Yes,

1376
01:06:08,960 --> 01:06:11,079
but I do think that I will say on.

1377
01:06:11,079 --> 01:06:13,039
Speaker 2: The data, I got one of those containers, the double edggs.

1378
01:06:13,039 --> 01:06:15,840
I'm gonna put birthday candles in all twelve and then

1379
01:06:18,599 --> 01:06:21,679
I don't do this. No, is that that's crossing the line?

1380
01:06:21,719 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: Wait, because then you're spitting on the eggs. You work

1381
01:06:23,960 --> 01:06:26,559
so hard for those fucking eggs. She blows out the candles,

1382
01:06:26,639 --> 01:06:30,440
big hot to right there on it falling out. Now,

1383
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:33,199
I don't think you really get on the dating apps

1384
01:06:33,199 --> 01:06:33,840
and really work it.

1385
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:37,599
Speaker 2: I keep them for maybe three months and then delete them. No,

1386
01:06:37,719 --> 01:06:39,159
that's kind of get depressed.

1387
01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:41,920
Speaker 1: Because you're not really doing anything. On there though, But

1388
01:06:42,079 --> 01:06:44,440
you're you know what, someone here There's got to be

1389
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to be there, definitely has to be, or a matchmaker

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just strike up a conversation. You got a great personality,

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you know. I mean, that's what we say about fat

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Seer Turnadi the other day, Sunning, you know that was

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waiting for.

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Speaker 1: I'm sad that he retired so many years ago. I

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think I'd love to see.

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Speaker 2: Only years something. Health was it health? Yeah?

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01:10:04,199 --> 01:10:05,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know his health.

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01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:10,199
Speaker 2: Yeah. David Lee Roth is gonna be a turning stone.

1448
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:15,520
Oh my god. When next couple of months, my friend

1449
01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:18,239
told me that he was down to his last six

1450
01:10:18,399 --> 01:10:20,800
gigs ever, and they're all gonna be in Vegas. It

1451
01:10:20,880 --> 01:10:22,319
was just like a couple of years. Yeah, I think

1452
01:10:22,359 --> 01:10:22,880
he did say that.

1453
01:10:23,079 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, and now he's still doing his He's just a

1454
01:10:26,039 --> 01:10:28,840
front man, so what's he gonna do. It was health too,

1455
01:10:29,119 --> 01:10:32,079
they said, his heart. Your heart can only take so much. Man,

1456
01:10:32,239 --> 01:10:34,600
you're jumping around everything. So if he dies at turning Stone,

1457
01:10:35,319 --> 01:10:36,600
might want to get tickets to that show.

1458
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:38,319
Speaker 2: I saw some of his clips. I think he's died

1459
01:10:38,359 --> 01:10:41,680
already to be asked with you. Teeth are all fucked up. Really, yeah,

1460
01:10:42,399 --> 01:10:43,079
doesn't look good.

1461
01:10:43,399 --> 01:10:46,760
Speaker 1: He does artwork too, now, yeah.

1462
01:10:46,840 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 2: I mean I can't say anything art is in the

1463
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:50,319
I had the beholder.

1464
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:54,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, finger painting or sponge painting or whatever you

1465
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:55,600
do SpongeBob painting.

1466
01:10:55,720 --> 01:11:01,119
Speaker 2: I throw double eggs at canvas. You do you do

1467
01:11:01,279 --> 01:11:05,239
the sponge I do do yeah, mm hmm. Once you

1468
01:11:05,319 --> 01:11:06,960
sell those, I've tried.

1469
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:11,880
Speaker 1: They were my earlier works, and somebody broke in and

1470
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:12,560
left two more.

1471
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:18,279
Speaker 2: It was hey, it's got collection, jewelry store store. They

1472
01:11:18,319 --> 01:11:20,119
were gonna buy it. They put them up with a

1473
01:11:20,239 --> 01:11:24,600
jewelry on that Yeah. Oh and then you know, I

1474
01:11:24,680 --> 01:11:26,319
me know if anybody was interested. A couple of people

1475
01:11:26,359 --> 01:11:29,800
were interested. They didn't know what to charge, like take

1476
01:11:29,840 --> 01:11:31,880
whatever you make your offer, and I think they got

1477
01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:34,079
thrown out. But they were earlier works. There was really

1478
01:11:34,119 --> 01:11:35,720
happy with them either. I wanted to get rid of them.

1479
01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:39,760
If anything. Okay, yea, as they did too. This is amazing. Yes,

1480
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:41,920
you know what I love is that you do it.

1481
01:11:43,079 --> 01:11:45,279
Speaker 1: That you do do it, yeah, right, because I can

1482
01:11:45,359 --> 01:11:47,720
make fun of it, but I'm not doing ship. I'm

1483
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:49,880
not doing any of that right, So you know, who

1484
01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:52,760
the fuck am I to say anything? That's right?

1485
01:11:53,039 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 2: That's your show. Yeah, I did do that. I like

1486
01:11:55,800 --> 01:11:57,640
what you've done with this past three years.

1487
01:11:59,319 --> 01:12:04,880
Speaker 1: I'm getting here's a real Florida headlines. Okay. A domestic

1488
01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:07,760
fight in Port Saint Lucy turned extra spicy when a

1489
01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:12,079
woman allegedly shoved cheesy nachos down her wife's pants yes

1490
01:12:12,159 --> 01:12:16,359
they'll be celebrating in June Doug and then physically assaulted

1491
01:12:16,399 --> 01:12:19,960
her so. According to the police, the argument started when

1492
01:12:20,159 --> 01:12:24,920
Alison Swan criticized her wife for a late night snacking

1493
01:12:25,079 --> 01:12:29,920
and weight gain. This escalated, and Swan allegedly pulling her

1494
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:32,399
wife to the ground by the hair, forcing her fingers

1495
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:38,920
into her mouth and slamming sorry, and slamming her head

1496
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:41,000
on the floor. When officers arrive, the victim had not

1497
01:12:41,079 --> 01:12:43,800
Your Cheese on her pants and showed them a hole

1498
01:12:43,840 --> 01:12:46,000
in the wall from the altercation. The other lady denied

1499
01:12:46,039 --> 01:12:47,920
it and says she was just drunk and rolled around

1500
01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:50,560
in the nachos and did all this stuff itself. Have

1501
01:12:50,760 --> 01:12:53,359
you seen heated moments like this that that would have

1502
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:57,640
almost a WWE style in the strip club when you

1503
01:12:57,680 --> 01:13:01,840
were a strip club DJ? No, no what because you

1504
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:03,600
did the movie The Night of the Cat. You did

1505
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:06,720
spend some time in the Cat. I don't know, because

1506
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:09,439
I would think that strip club fights between women would

1507
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:10,920
be more emotional than physical.

1508
01:13:11,119 --> 01:13:13,680
Speaker 2: I mean they're grabbing each other's hair. I mean you

1509
01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:17,319
see videos even in Rochester. Yes, the famous one is

1510
01:13:17,319 --> 01:13:20,720
hold my wig? Have you seen that on lysle Avenue

1511
01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:22,840
by the Dollar General and the girls are gonna go

1512
01:13:22,920 --> 01:13:26,319
at it. She goes hold my wig and she's walking down. Yeah,

1513
01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:31,319
I want that on a T shirt. Okay, yes, Bill

1514
01:13:31,359 --> 01:13:34,760
a fight the Bill Miranchol. Is there something extra insulting

1515
01:13:34,800 --> 01:13:36,760
about being hit with food?

1516
01:13:38,039 --> 01:13:40,960
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like well, the old throwing

1517
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:43,840
a drink and stuffing. Oh god, I have done that

1518
01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:44,920
and I've had that done to me.

1519
01:13:45,119 --> 01:13:48,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, being spit on, I think is Oh I think

1520
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:49,119
that's the worst.

1521
01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:51,520
Speaker 1: That's vile.

1522
01:13:52,000 --> 01:13:54,720
Speaker 2: If somebody did that to me, it'd be on. Yeah,

1523
01:13:55,279 --> 01:13:58,560
slapped in the face. Yeah, that's my top two.

1524
01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, this it sounds like for plate gun. Wrong with

1525
01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:04,840
these ladies shoving the nachos down our pants?

1526
01:14:05,079 --> 01:14:08,439
Speaker 2: Down our pants? Yeah, she knocked out. I mean she

1527
01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:11,880
put her head in the wall and you're putting your

1528
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,960
fingers in her mouth, just slamming her down. So is

1529
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:16,720
she really big and her girlfriends really smile?

1530
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:17,079
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1531
01:14:17,199 --> 01:14:19,760
Speaker 2: They don't show her. They showed Oh actually they did.

1532
01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:21,279
The mug shot.

1533
01:14:21,399 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 1: No, little blonde actually attractive. You know, even considering a

1534
01:14:26,039 --> 01:14:28,680
mug shot a little rough around the edges, I'd say, well,

1535
01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:29,439
a little rough.

1536
01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:31,119
Speaker 2: But you don't know if maybe you should go to

1537
01:14:31,159 --> 01:14:33,680
the other side. Nothing bad back on the home team

1538
01:14:34,359 --> 01:14:38,439
swinging baby. See, women can do that. I don't know

1539
01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:42,079
if guys can come back. No, do you understand what

1540
01:14:42,119 --> 01:14:44,039
I'm saying? Like, yes, I do. That's why I'm laughing.

1541
01:14:44,199 --> 01:14:48,119
We've had we've had straight, straight again they call them bisexual.

1542
01:14:48,279 --> 01:14:51,000
Speaker 1: Okay, but and there's probably people who are attracted to

1543
01:14:51,199 --> 01:14:54,520
just another human being, what what, no matter of the sex.

1544
01:14:55,079 --> 01:14:59,000
But it's weird because I go, you know, you can't

1545
01:14:59,039 --> 01:14:59,920
be a little bit gay.

1546
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:01,119
Speaker 2: You can't be.

1547
01:15:01,359 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think so. I think

1548
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:04,800
you're all in or you're not.

1549
01:15:05,039 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it can't be a little bit pregnant. No, no,

1550
01:15:08,680 --> 01:15:11,239
but I mean, but I don't know if that's true,

1551
01:15:11,239 --> 01:15:14,039
because you you hear stories about people experimenting in cottage.

1552
01:15:14,720 --> 01:15:16,560
You know, they get drunk at a party, they try this,

1553
01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:17,119
they try that.

1554
01:15:17,319 --> 01:15:20,239
Speaker 1: That's more for well, I mean women. Yeah, we hear

1555
01:15:20,279 --> 01:15:23,600
that about women. The guys that experiment. They ain't fucking

1556
01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:28,039
telling me no, no, no, hey, you listen once to

1557
01:15:28,479 --> 01:15:31,920
Darren and I got really close you know, right, No, No,

1558
01:15:33,039 --> 01:15:33,720
it would be weird.

1559
01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:35,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never heard anything like that.

1560
01:15:36,159 --> 01:15:38,359
Speaker 1: No, of course you haven't. But you've heard about the women.

1561
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:42,319
And it's a turn on a women's world. It's a

1562
01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:44,800
turn it's a turn on when when you hear that, is.

1563
01:15:44,800 --> 01:15:46,920
Speaker 2: It not for men and women a little bit?

1564
01:15:47,039 --> 01:15:47,239
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1565
01:15:47,399 --> 01:15:52,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, because men sexually Yeah yeah, if you're lesbian, you're like, oh,

1566
01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:55,600
I had another one on our team. Right, it's like

1567
01:15:55,640 --> 01:15:59,840
picking out dodgeball. I'll take Sally and Cindy and and some.

1568
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:02,560
Speaker 1: Some people may just be caught up in the moment.

1569
01:16:03,199 --> 01:16:03,479
Speaker 2: I'm not.

1570
01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:07,800
Speaker 1: Attracted to this person, but they were there and things

1571
01:16:07,880 --> 01:16:11,279
got going, and that would be that, you know. Yeah,

1572
01:16:11,439 --> 01:16:14,199
I mean I heard a story Oh boy, no, I'm

1573
01:16:14,199 --> 01:16:18,119
not are episode no, no, previous episode right here in

1574
01:16:18,119 --> 01:16:21,399
the bill FID studio about if someone saying a friend

1575
01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:26,479
and her boyfriend at the time or a guy at

1576
01:16:26,479 --> 01:16:31,840
the time had made plans to include the friend and

1577
01:16:33,239 --> 01:16:35,479
she found out about it was really turned on but

1578
01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:40,920
not gay. But hey, hey, hey, hey, he I mean,

1579
01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:44,760
it's who cares what people do in the bedroom. I

1580
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:47,159
don't give a shit, right, just be nice to each other.

1581
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:49,319
Everybody's got enough problems.

1582
01:16:49,359 --> 01:16:51,159
Speaker 2: Well, a friend of mine told me last week that

1583
01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:55,680
he's got a co worker sixty seven sixty. Yeah, he

1584
01:16:55,840 --> 01:16:58,640
goes to swinger parties. I'm like, they're out there, he goes.

1585
01:16:58,640 --> 01:17:00,720
You ever heard of them? I'm like, well, I see

1586
01:17:00,800 --> 01:17:03,760
on the net and everything. But yeah, the dark web,

1587
01:17:03,760 --> 01:17:06,640
as you call it, the Rochester kink. Yeah, but that's

1588
01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:09,239
not called dark web, dark dark web, but there are.

1589
01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:12,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, there are swinger yes parties. Yes, I think you

1590
01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:14,720
have to if you go into the swinger party, like,

1591
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:16,960
you have to have good looking people there.

1592
01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:19,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to be I think those people are

1593
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,920
just fine with themselves. They're more comfortable with themselves than

1594
01:17:22,920 --> 01:17:27,399
the average person walking around. They're not all barbies and kens.

1595
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:29,880
They just happened like sex and they're comfortable. They're talking

1596
01:17:29,960 --> 01:17:31,880
good conversation. And I think you have to fill out

1597
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:34,560
on the application. You have to be met first, ye

1598
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:38,279
for your for the Kink Society for swinger parties as well?

1599
01:17:38,399 --> 01:17:41,119
Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, well I didn't know this. Yes, I

1600
01:17:41,239 --> 01:17:43,000
want to get a swinger in here. I want to

1601
01:17:43,119 --> 01:17:45,880
find out like the details of this. There's a swinger

1602
01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:48,520
out there. No, I give us a call at five

1603
01:17:48,600 --> 01:17:50,840
eighty five, six eighty eight sixty six.

1604
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:52,680
Speaker 2: But you say that too fast and they got to

1605
01:17:52,680 --> 01:17:53,079
rewind it.

1606
01:17:53,399 --> 01:17:57,079
Speaker 1: No scrolls on the screen two six eighty eight sixty six.

1607
01:17:57,640 --> 01:18:03,279
Speaker 2: When I'm listening at my package six X, he's having

1608
01:18:03,319 --> 01:18:05,960
a stroke. I think that, Oh that reminds me of

1609
01:18:06,039 --> 01:18:08,680
a joke. Yeah, you know my masturbation and brink damnage

1610
01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:11,520
have a cammon stroke after three or four strokes. There's

1611
01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:17,479
no turning back if you make it that far.

1612
01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:22,640
Speaker 1: The Uh yeah, I don't. I'm trying to think of

1613
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:27,239
swinger stuff. I used to have a swinger who would

1614
01:18:27,319 --> 01:18:30,359
call in when I was on the radio. But she

1615
01:18:31,159 --> 01:18:35,840
was a single woman, a mom, single mom, and she

1616
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:39,760
would go and be the unicorn at these events. And

1617
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:42,520
she was trying to persuade me jokingly.

1618
01:18:42,199 --> 01:18:45,399
Speaker 2: To be the bull. So what's the unicorn, everybody.

1619
01:18:45,760 --> 01:18:48,159
Speaker 1: No, unicorn is a woman.

1620
01:18:50,720 --> 01:18:52,399
Speaker 2: This is fucking fourth grade.

1621
01:18:54,039 --> 01:18:56,720
Speaker 1: No, the unicorn is the woman that comes to the

1622
01:18:56,720 --> 01:19:00,479
swinger party alone. So she doesn't she has and she

1623
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:01,520
doesn't come with a partner.

1624
01:19:01,880 --> 01:19:03,399
Speaker 2: I don't think guys are allowed to come along.

1625
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:06,720
Speaker 1: Well they are. They're called the bull. But you're right,

1626
01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:10,439
it's rare that that's rare because you know.

1627
01:19:10,720 --> 01:19:15,079
Speaker 2: Gets you set of horns, right, all right, ladies. So

1628
01:19:15,239 --> 01:19:17,479
my buddies used to go after that. I was on

1629
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:22,720
the radular, like Billy the Bull. But so this woman

1630
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:26,680
would go, but she had a regular weekly date with

1631
01:19:26,840 --> 01:19:31,239
another couple. And it's like, come to think of it,

1632
01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:36,680
like it's on her San Francis and La Francesca. Yea.

1633
01:19:37,399 --> 01:19:44,159
And she would be paid by couples. Sure, to come in. Yeah,

1634
01:19:44,239 --> 01:19:46,279
and that's where she got her money. And I remember,

1635
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:50,279
now I think about it. She would all she wanted

1636
01:19:50,279 --> 01:19:52,159
to do was drink. She was a big drinker. So

1637
01:19:52,560 --> 01:19:55,319
she would dance on stage and whenever anybody tipped her

1638
01:19:55,359 --> 01:19:56,560
on the stage, she grab it. She come to the

1639
01:19:56,640 --> 01:20:01,520
DJ booth and throw it over for the DJ every set. Yeah,

1640
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:03,640
so you get four or five sets, she's already tipping you,

1641
01:20:04,560 --> 01:20:08,119
you know, forty fifty eight dollars sometimes of night. But

1642
01:20:08,279 --> 01:20:10,560
I I do remember her, remember her.

1643
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:11,439
Speaker 1: She was a swinger.

1644
01:20:12,279 --> 01:20:14,960
Speaker 2: She was paid, oh, paid by other couples. Oh, she

1645
01:20:15,119 --> 01:20:18,239
was wild. She had her own stuff going out. But she's.

1646
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:20,039
Speaker 3: Know.

1647
01:20:20,079 --> 01:20:22,159
Speaker 1: I was going to say an auto poor nore Ah.

1648
01:20:26,239 --> 01:20:29,800
But it's these the swingers. But here's the things like

1649
01:20:31,039 --> 01:20:35,479
you look at your calendar and you go, oh, it's Thursday. God,

1650
01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:37,600
Bob's gonna stick into my ass again? You know what

1651
01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:38,199
need Like?

1652
01:20:38,560 --> 01:20:41,039
Speaker 2: Do you know what I'm saying that aspect?

1653
01:20:41,039 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 1: I'm just not in the mood for that today, right,

1654
01:20:42,800 --> 01:20:45,760
I don't know how Like, don't you have to go

1655
01:20:45,920 --> 01:20:49,800
over if it's a scheduled thing. It's sometimes these things

1656
01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:52,680
are spontaneous, yes, And I get it. You want to

1657
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:55,000
have regular dates and maybe you get together and you

1658
01:20:55,239 --> 01:20:57,119
just that. I don't know how it works. I don't

1659
01:20:57,119 --> 01:20:59,479
think my mind would be good at this. I would

1660
01:20:59,560 --> 01:21:02,520
not be good at this. I would get all freaked out.

1661
01:21:02,640 --> 01:21:05,119
I would fake analergy.

1662
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:10,920
Speaker 2: And wou used to go to a parties Christmas parties, yes,

1663
01:21:11,279 --> 01:21:13,319
and birthday parties and the kids would be in the

1664
01:21:13,359 --> 01:21:15,359
other room, and you might have a couple too much

1665
01:21:15,399 --> 01:21:17,800
to drink, and you know, Linda from down the street.

1666
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:20,159
You know, no, I really like that, shreet. I no,

1667
01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:22,600
nothing like that. You never got hit on at a party,

1668
01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:27,640
not even a little flirted with my neighbors. Appropriate okay,

1669
01:21:28,000 --> 01:21:31,239
appropriate jo. No, I've had you know, I think they

1670
01:21:31,319 --> 01:21:34,119
happen more parties, at least with me that I joke

1671
01:21:34,920 --> 01:21:35,279
that way.

1672
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:39,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had women at parties. When I was married,

1673
01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:42,239
I had a woman put her hand on my chest

1674
01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:45,199
and did it a couple of times until one of

1675
01:21:45,239 --> 01:21:47,399
her friends is like, it doesn't look good.

1676
01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:51,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't look good your chest in your crank.

1677
01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:53,680
Speaker 1: Yes, but I mean you know, it was like it's

1678
01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:58,800
not but no most of the time, no, h but

1679
01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:01,720
I am I always I'm curious myself about just the

1680
01:22:01,880 --> 01:22:05,560
psychological aspect of the swinger lifestyle. I I can't wrap

1681
01:22:05,600 --> 01:22:06,079
my head around.

1682
01:22:06,119 --> 01:22:07,359
Speaker 2: You know, it's like going to a movie. You went in,

1683
01:22:07,439 --> 01:22:08,960
you had a good couple of hours, you come out,

1684
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:12,000
life is back on track. It's like that. It really is.

1685
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:12,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1686
01:22:13,000 --> 01:22:15,479
Speaker 2: But see, I would overthink it, right, I'd be worried.

1687
01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:16,560
Speaker 1: Did I perform right?

1688
01:22:16,800 --> 01:22:16,960
Speaker 2: Hey?

1689
01:22:17,079 --> 01:22:18,359
Speaker 1: That guy was bigger? What's this?

1690
01:22:18,600 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 2: What's going on?

1691
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:21,479
Speaker 1: You can't help it.

1692
01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 2: Dog's right there, you know, it's right there.

1693
01:22:25,079 --> 01:22:25,880
Speaker 1: Oh, it's there.

1694
01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:28,560
Speaker 2: It's like beating in the shower at the fucking gym.

1695
01:22:29,199 --> 01:22:32,760
I can't help it, see it? You shower the gym? Yeah,

1696
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:34,840
I know why. I don't anybody look at my dick.

1697
01:22:36,640 --> 01:22:38,439
I love when my kid goes through and goes ju

1698
01:22:39,199 --> 01:22:42,399
old man bulls, They're all right, it's a gym. It's

1699
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:45,760
what seems to grow up. Yeah, I have a little maturity.

1700
01:22:46,439 --> 01:22:49,399
Speaker 1: But that's no fun either. That's no fun, all right, Douggie,

1701
01:22:49,800 --> 01:22:52,359
Well we'll we'll close it out here. But the fun

1702
01:22:52,439 --> 01:22:55,079
episode exploring the outer crust of Doug to get to

1703
01:22:55,159 --> 01:22:55,920
the new giddy center.

1704
01:22:56,000 --> 01:22:56,720
Speaker 2: That's my favorite.

1705
01:22:57,560 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 1: There is a center like that, a birthday story.

1706
01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:04,239
Speaker 2: There you go, Greese's Cup, the chocolate down the outside,

1707
01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:06,159
peanut butter on the inside. Right.

1708
01:23:06,359 --> 01:23:09,680
Speaker 1: And I hope you have a wonderful day today. And

1709
01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:11,640
I appreciate you coming in.

1710
01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:14,920
Speaker 2: Here, absolutely bringing in having fun.

1711
01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:20,119
Speaker 1: For Dougie. Fresh in the house, baby, Bill Moran, we'll

1712
01:23:20,199 --> 01:23:21,840
see you tomorrow.

1713
01:23:31,600 --> 01:23:34,800
Speaker 2: I hold you. I didn't know what to do. I'm

1714
01:23:34,840 --> 01:23:35,520
turning on TV.