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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Wine and Wine Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Kelsey and I'm Ellie.

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<v Speaker 3>This is your dose of friendship, fun and figuring life

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<v Speaker 3>out together.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's be e besties because life is messy, wine helps.

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<v Speaker 3>And whiny is optional. Hi, E Besties, Welcome back. Hey guys,

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<v Speaker 3>We're back with a new segment.

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<v Speaker 2>Bear's with Bros. Bears with Bross. Jada's just across there, just.

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<v Speaker 3>Like yeah, He's like, I have no idea, what's happening?

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>Today we have our first male guest. So excited yay

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<v Speaker 1>for the Is.

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<v Speaker 2>It the X or the Y chromosome? You know? I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait, what's the one that guys have that girls and

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<v Speaker 3>then the one that girls have.

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<v Speaker 5>That guys girls are double? Why?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>What are guys at X? Y? Okay, that's a stupid question.

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<v Speaker 2>You ask a questions. You don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>We're up to a hot start guy.

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<v Speaker 3>But yes, we have Jade in here, and we're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>talk all about d dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Before we do that, though, we usually have wine.

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<v Speaker 3>But since this is the Beers with Bros segment, beer,

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<v Speaker 3>So do you want to talk about the beer?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure? I can talk about it.

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<v Speaker 4>So we have a you win to brewing Hazy nach

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<v Speaker 4>I p a. This is a local Utah beer brood

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<v Speaker 4>and salt Lake and fun fact, it's one of the

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<v Speaker 4>ones my dad sells. Yeah yeah, he's a beer salesman.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, this one's a solid beer. So we're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>crack it open. Oh that's a good sound eft since

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<v Speaker 4>we can't clink clink, we.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheers some beers. Mm hmm. Yeah, that's solid, very good.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like a big, big fan of i Pas, but

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<v Speaker 3>I'll give them a pass if they kind of have

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<v Speaker 3>like a more of like a fruity ish vibe to them.

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<v Speaker 1>I like hazy and juicies like juicy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, wait what's a juicy and what's a hazy?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know the science fine, Like I think.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys are right though, Like juicy for me is

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<v Speaker 3>like fruity right where you say juicy?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that? And like I just don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Like the hoppypier Yeah okay, see, Like because I know

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<v Speaker 3>I pas are known for their hop.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't get down with the hop too much. Hop

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<v Speaker 2>is too much hop. I gotta go really, I gotta

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<v Speaker 2>go low hop, high fruite. But this is a good

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<v Speaker 2>I PA.

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<v Speaker 5>This is good if it's solid.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, if it's too hoppy, no fruity out. But I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like this is a good blend of hop and fruit.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, are we going to start raiding beers now or

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<v Speaker 4>do you want to?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I do the same rating system, like, especially since

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<v Speaker 2>this is an I P A and I'm not a

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<v Speaker 2>big fan of I pas And this one's good. Four

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<v Speaker 2>point five whoa, and it's out of five Jayden.

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<v Speaker 5>Out of five, I'll give it a three nine. It's

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<v Speaker 5>a local beer, damn you, it's delicious.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll say we're going to give it a solid four.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, solid for Okay, let's all meet in the middle.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess with the four. I say that partly because

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a sour girly. Those are my favorite beers. So

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<v Speaker 4>if we ever get a sour, those are delicious.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Is cider a beer?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, I like I like Laggers, anybody, huh huh?

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<v Speaker 2>Laggers? Right now?

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<v Speaker 5>My favorite Adam's just just like a good old.

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<v Speaker 2>Mexican logger.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, yeah, okay, no, I got scha.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 3>Literally, when I go to like a brewery or like

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<v Speaker 3>just like a I don't know, just like a bar,

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<v Speaker 3>like restaurant bar, I'll just swoop over to loggers. So

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like hang out at the IPAs. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>hang out at the stouts. I do love me a

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<v Speaker 3>good stout, but I go to.

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<v Speaker 1>A skinness solid.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm always my usual go to question.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, this is a fucking tangent already, but it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>can I get your local logger?

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<v Speaker 1>Fun? That's a good one.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, wow, whole conversation starter with the with the bartender.

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<v Speaker 2>Only he's cute and single.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what I mean? Do you check like for

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<v Speaker 5>the ring?

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<v Speaker 2>I do. That's usually my go to is a ring thing.

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<v Speaker 2>But then you have to But then I've noticed.

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<v Speaker 3>Some guys don't fucking wear rings and it's annoying. Please

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<v Speaker 3>tell me about that Jayden actually.

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<v Speaker 5>Wearing the wedding ring.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they don't wear them, some of them.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh that's because they're trying to get someone on the side.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, because I've seen people at church. I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's also.

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<v Speaker 4>I've heard it's also like if it's a blue collar

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<v Speaker 4>guy too, just because of the dick love things, safety concerns,

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<v Speaker 4>you gotta get like the silicon cone.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so maybe guys haven't yet bought the silicone ring,

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<v Speaker 3>and they're just so used to not wearing it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like, there's like a lot of guys at my

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<v Speaker 4>work that don't wear their rings, but it's because they

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<v Speaker 4>work in a place that that could for sure actually happen.

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<v Speaker 2>And they don't wear silicone rings either.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they care to, like spend the

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<v Speaker 1>money on.

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<v Speaker 5>It all twelve dollars, I know that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like girls would be more willing to wear

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<v Speaker 3>a silicon ring than guys, if that makes any sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys are like, well, if I'm not gonna wear my

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<v Speaker 3>wedding ring, I'm just not gonna wear it, versus like

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<v Speaker 3>girls are like, because my friend Mike, and she wears

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<v Speaker 3>a silicone wedding ring all the time just because whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, if most of my friends wear silicon rings too,

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<v Speaker 4>but they're also very active people, so it's just kind.

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<v Speaker 2>Of your girlfriends.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, okay, yeah, guys don't freaking wear one at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean that's annoying. Jayden talk talk on behalf of

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<v Speaker 2>the men out there.

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<v Speaker 5>You just got to ask him, don't. I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>what to tell you tell you go get a tattoo.

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<v Speaker 5>Get a tattoo of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Or be a creeper. And I like, I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll low ked be like, I'll ask the people we

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<v Speaker 3>know and I'll be like, hey, is that guy single?

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<v Speaker 3>And he's like no, he's taking And I'm like, why

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<v Speaker 3>the heck is he not wearing a freaking ring?

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<v Speaker 2>Then?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you gotta ask, you gotta ask around. See, girls

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<v Speaker 5>are a bit easier, They're gonna wear the ring.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you do you? Are you? Now?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you see a glimpse of the struggle? I go

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<v Speaker 3>through just a little baby glimpse.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been seeing it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, I just want It's been like, girl, you

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<v Speaker 3>bitched me all the time.

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<v Speaker 5>It's been a long fifteen years.

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<v Speaker 3>We were literally just talking about this right before we

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<v Speaker 3>started recording. I'll like go up to Jayden and tell

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<v Speaker 3>him all about my dating woes and I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So then back in nineteen fifty nine, right when this

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<v Speaker 3>all started, and.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like how old are you.

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<v Speaker 3>And he's like, yeah, no, I don't need any of

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<v Speaker 3>that information. Just literally give me the cliff note version

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<v Speaker 3>of it. And I'm like, wait, yeah, yeah, I though

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<v Speaker 3>it like makes the whole story. Yeah, AnyWho, guys are different.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, whereas like with kelso like I'll just tell her

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<v Speaker 2>like everything.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I walked in and then this is what

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<v Speaker 3>I was wearing. And then there was a random couple

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<v Speaker 3>on the left that have nothing to do with the story,

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<v Speaker 3>but they were sitting there and they ordered to stay.

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<v Speaker 1>They're important to the story.

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<v Speaker 2>For some odd reason, but they're never going to be

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<v Speaker 2>mentioned again. She's got me hook line and yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been told I'm a good storyteller when.

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<v Speaker 5>It are no great storyteller, but like the kind of

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<v Speaker 5>storyteller that you're trying to like fill a word count

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<v Speaker 5>on an English essay.

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<v Speaker 2>She's trying to.

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<v Speaker 4>Do a three pages, single spaced essay.

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<v Speaker 2>Shot.

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<v Speaker 3>You say all these like filler words just to put

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<v Speaker 3>like one point to it.

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<v Speaker 4>We did actually go on to tangent about filler words

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<v Speaker 4>not that long ago because of this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well I can't change my ways, do you?

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<v Speaker 2>Just but noted noted this is forever.

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<v Speaker 3>All the girlies out there, if you have a guy friend,

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<v Speaker 3>just spark note that ship because they don't care about

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<v Speaker 3>all the filler words.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Jayden?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, when did you meet? Okay, and when did you

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<v Speaker 5>go out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all. That's all you want.

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<v Speaker 5>You can you can like go into detail on the date.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't need the I don't need the banter back

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<v Speaker 5>and forth from your texts. You don't need no, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>like where did you go? What did you do? How

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<v Speaker 5>did it go?

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<v Speaker 2>Noted? Noted?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, okay, Well on that note, let's know that

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<v Speaker 3>that was a ten minute tangent.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no idea how we got here.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, Jayden, how do we know each other? Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Man, Ellie, you were my youth leader.

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<v Speaker 2>I was, and you were that young awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>No, No, I was, No, I was not. I just

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<v Speaker 5>season he never was, not at all awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, Jayden has always been the sweetest ever. And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>only going to compliment you on the mic one time

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<v Speaker 3>and one time only. Okay, Yes, Jayden was like the coolest,

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<v Speaker 3>sweetest and has always been the coolest sweetest guy. I

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<v Speaker 3>like know, like easy easy, top five guys, like coolest

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<v Speaker 3>ever I've ever met.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I've met some people.

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<v Speaker 1>She's met some people.

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<v Speaker 5>You've met some people.

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<v Speaker 2>I've met some people.

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<v Speaker 3>It's what I'm saying, just kidding, But anywhoy, Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 3>I've known Jayden for.

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<v Speaker 2>Like ten years.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know any but yeah, but yeah, and now

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<v Speaker 3>he's all grown up before my And wait, tell us

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<v Speaker 3>about yourself because I'm not gonna Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>You're here, what do you want to know?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, just like a.

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<v Speaker 3>Brief synopsis, spark notes, like where you're at and live?

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<v Speaker 2>Like what have you been doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, school work.

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<v Speaker 5>First?

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<v Speaker 2>That kills someone.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, Okay, I'm ready, Ellie.

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<v Speaker 2>Whenever you're start talking, I'm ready.

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<v Speaker 5>I got it at the spark notes. Okay, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, So let's see. Uh, just graduated college. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Five upset that you didn't invite me to your graduation.

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<v Speaker 5>You could have come.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you invite me?

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, hey, I'm graduating on this day.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you didn't. It's fine. That's another issue for another day.

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<v Speaker 5>It's fine. We'll get we'll get through it. You were

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<v Speaker 5>at the high school one I was?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's where Ellie broke her knee playing basketball in

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<v Speaker 5>the back of my parents yard. Yeah, that'll get you.

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<v Speaker 5>That is a fun one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, your accident, aren't you Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, all right, just graduated, got a job working at

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<v Speaker 5>a high school. I'm also a youth pastor, so that's

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<v Speaker 5>so much fun. What else let's see for the kids? Man,

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<v Speaker 5>for the kids. I hate the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Describe the job though, because it's really cool.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, which which job?

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<v Speaker 2>The high school?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? The high school? Okay, So I took a job

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<v Speaker 5>working as an ag teacher, which is agricultural science, and

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<v Speaker 5>I am teaching a greenhouse management class and a floor

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<v Speaker 5>culture class. So we'll put together arrangements, do things like

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<v Speaker 5>bud vases, funerals, weddings, things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so cool. I didn't even know that was

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's technically it's an art credit, so.

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<v Speaker 1>That would make sense.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we like slide on through and like get some lessons?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, come on, if you ever need an assistant

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<v Speaker 5>on okay, perfect.

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<v Speaker 3>If you ever need to get rid of flowers, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>take them for just money.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I'll sell them to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, i'll just well you could just be a friend.

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<v Speaker 5>I am a teacher, so I'm poor.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, that's how that's how like the the system

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<v Speaker 3>works here, right yeah in America?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Yeah, it's unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 2>That's such a noble job though. It's fun.

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<v Speaker 5>It's fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I'm excited for you.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's gonna be blast.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited because didn't you do student teaching before this?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Yeah, just did. It was five months of unpaid

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<v Speaker 5>student teaching labor at a high school. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Or was that cool?

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's so much fun except for the not getting paid.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that makes sense. How many hours did you have

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<v Speaker 2>to put in.

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<v Speaker 5>The day every day? Every day? So?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, like a full school day?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, full school. So the teacher's hours are seven am,

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<v Speaker 5>so forty five minutes before the kids show up, and

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<v Speaker 5>then you're there till three thirty, about an hour after

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<v Speaker 5>they leave.

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<v Speaker 2>Monday through Friday, Monday Friday.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, plus anything after school, so sports games, things like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you do the same subject?

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<v Speaker 5>I taught six different subjects. Oh dang, yeah, well versed,

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<v Speaker 5>well well versed. Yeah, I touched. I taught some weird

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<v Speaker 5>I taught some weird stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I did not mean to make that like that

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<v Speaker 2>was really weird.

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<v Speaker 4>Face too, He's like, I'm well versed with the eyebrows.

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<v Speaker 2>Did not mean any type of way at all.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, anyway, anyway, coming back to Jaden.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you're a teacher.

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<v Speaker 5>Now I'm a teacher.

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<v Speaker 3>Hell yeah, that's amazing. Tell us a bit about your

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<v Speaker 3>dating life. Wow, we're just gonna going there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so we were talking before. I've got the dating apps, Hinge, Tender,

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<v Speaker 5>nothing else, the rest of them.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's let's.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk about this, because we were talking about this before

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<v Speaker 3>we recorded, and I was so interested because you have Tinder,

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<v Speaker 3>but you don't have bumble and I have bumble. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't have Tender, no, right, And I think we were

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<v Speaker 3>talking about maybe it's the age.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's the age. There's not a whole You

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<v Speaker 5>gotta bump the age up if you're on the bumble.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, can we can we tell everybody how old

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<v Speaker 2>you are?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I don't know how old you are.

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<v Speaker 5>Twenty four.

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<v Speaker 2>He's just a baby, isn't he Just I'm just the baby.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, you're Yeah, you are like really young, dude, but

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<v Speaker 3>it's because we're like.

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<v Speaker 2>We're older than yeah, getting there.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it makes you young, but like you would be

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<v Speaker 3>considered old to like a twenty two year old.

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<v Speaker 5>No, right, you know what I mean? No, I remember

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<v Speaker 5>being twenty one, twenty two and just being like it's

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<v Speaker 5>the end. Yeah, yeah, mid twenties.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah wow, wow, that's true. He's considered it's like we're

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<v Speaker 2>mid thirties.

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<v Speaker 5>He's twenty. I think it's like twenty twenty four to

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<v Speaker 5>like twenty six.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my math too. Yeah, she doesn't agree.

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<v Speaker 4>She thinks it's the five, but only because she doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>want to be considered mid thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>Considered mid thirties this year.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm literally gonna be mid thirties this November. Disgusting, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's already in Oh, you're just talking abot a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of thirty year old hags out here. Yeah, what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>what do you do? What do you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you're twenty four, twenty four, but you said

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<v Speaker 3>that if you get on Bumble you have to like.

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<v Speaker 5>You got to bump the age range up. Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Not a whole lot of eligible women on Bumble.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's because you're thinking they don't use it as

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<v Speaker 3>much as the other apps.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah no, I I don't think so. I'm jen Z.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess what are you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we're millennials?

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<v Speaker 5>But what is that?

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<v Speaker 2>What is that is that gen? No, you're a Gen X,

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<v Speaker 2>we're Gen Z no.

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<v Speaker 5>YZ works forwards.

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<v Speaker 2>Backwards, there's gonna be a lot of things I have

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<v Speaker 2>to edit out. I feel like just kidding, I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, gen Z. Women do not do like the

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<v Speaker 5>whole first approach thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh so like even if you were to be on Bumble,

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<v Speaker 3>you feel like girls wouldn't really reach out.

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<v Speaker 5>No, yeah, yeah, no they don't. They don't like to

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<v Speaker 5>do the the initial piece.

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<v Speaker 4>But again, like he was saying, I think that's an

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<v Speaker 4>age maturity thing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why there is probably better.

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<v Speaker 3>For Yeah, that makes sense because Okay, I'm sure maybe

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<v Speaker 3>you do or don't know people out there. But with Bumble,

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<v Speaker 3>the girl has to message to mesa. The guy can't

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<v Speaker 3>do it, and if the girl doesn't do it, then

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<v Speaker 3>then it goes away. You're never to be seen again.

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<v Speaker 3>So it really has a woman initiated thing, and that's

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<v Speaker 3>the way. That's the interesting thing too, is I enjoy

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<v Speaker 3>Bumble because of that. I like like knowing I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna have some weirdo random guy reaching out to me,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm reaching out to the guys that I want

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<v Speaker 3>to reach out to.

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<v Speaker 5>You have to match with them first. Well yeah, but wait,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, on them, But.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the example I'm giving Hinge.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, you can just send to anybody.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, And that's why sometimes I'm like a little off

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<v Speaker 3>put by Hinge. No diss though, because I'm still on

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<v Speaker 3>hit Hinge. There's pros and cons to both. So with Hinge, y'all,

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<v Speaker 3>anybody can message, but then you can choose to like

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<v Speaker 3>match with them or not, whereas with Bumble you have

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<v Speaker 3>to match first and then message the girl. The girl

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<v Speaker 3>has message first, and that's what I like. Like, I

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<v Speaker 3>know that sounds weird, but I like the control.

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<v Speaker 5>She likes to me in charge.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I like to be in charge, Like, hey, don't

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<v Speaker 3>freaking message me unless I say so, unless I say

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<v Speaker 3>sothing it. You know, is that horrible? I'm so old

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<v Speaker 3>and sucking my way. That's too masculine. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>ross No, But okay, whoa going back to this? Yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>so you're not on Bumble, you're on Tinder and you're

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<v Speaker 3>on Hinge.

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<v Speaker 2>On the both of them, Okay, pros and cons of both.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Hinge, you're getting more of a it's a more

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<v Speaker 5>complete person. Okay, get a little snapshot into their life,

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<v Speaker 5>what they do. Those prompts, right, those prompts. Yeah, yeah, tender.

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<v Speaker 5>It's great, very attractive people on Tinder, big hookup culture. Onder,

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<v Speaker 5>that's all it is. That's all it is, so so hinges,

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<v Speaker 5>hinges of the go to.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I will give you a bright light though.

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<v Speaker 3>My one of my friends and I won't name names

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<v Speaker 3>just because I feel like I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 3>would want to be named. But she actually met her

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<v Speaker 3>now husband and they have some kiddos and married and

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<v Speaker 3>all the things on Tinder.

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<v Speaker 1>I have two friends that are the same thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're married and have kids.

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<v Speaker 3>So don't completely knock it out love story yeah yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>don't completely because it does have that like what's the

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<v Speaker 3>word reputation behind it? Yeah, is like very hooky.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but we know people but sometimes but sometimes and

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<v Speaker 5>that's why I still have it, Okay, just the sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, So how do you ever get exhausted by them? Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, they'll be I'll delete them off my phone all

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<v Speaker 5>the time. Yeah you can't. You got to keep it fresh.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot of effort, it is.

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<v Speaker 5>It's too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Now, I have a legit question. Do you snooze

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<v Speaker 2>or do you delete?

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<v Speaker 5>The apps? Awful on delete.

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<v Speaker 2>Like don't full on delete your profile.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, no way, Yeah, you just need a fresh start. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I do is I snooze, y'all? Do

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<v Speaker 2>you know what snoozing is? I feel like you don't

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<v Speaker 2>you let it?

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<v Speaker 5>You let it stay, you let it brew, right, no

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<v Speaker 5>one can see you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no one can see me, but I still have

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<v Speaker 3>my whole profile ready to go once I unsnooze. So

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<v Speaker 3>I snooze for bumble and then I don't know what

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<v Speaker 3>the word is for hinge.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's just.

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<v Speaker 5>Like break, take a break?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to take a break? Are you sure?

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<v Speaker 2>You just don't want to do it for three days

434
00:20:27.640 --> 00:20:30.079
<v Speaker 2>and you're like no, and definitely you know, and then

435
00:20:30.119 --> 00:20:34.559
<v Speaker 2>I'm back literally three days later. But no, that's that's

436
00:20:34.559 --> 00:20:34.920
<v Speaker 2>what I do.

437
00:20:35.000 --> 00:20:36.480
<v Speaker 3>And I know this sounds weird because I feel like,

438
00:20:36.519 --> 00:20:39.480
<v Speaker 3>you delete, therefore you don't see any of your matches

439
00:20:39.480 --> 00:20:40.519
<v Speaker 3>from like two years ago.

440
00:20:40.799 --> 00:20:42.279
<v Speaker 5>No, yeah, you get rid of the matches.

441
00:20:42.359 --> 00:20:42.680
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

442
00:20:43.279 --> 00:20:49.200
<v Speaker 3>I literally have matches on my bumble from like twenty seventeen.

443
00:20:53.599 --> 00:20:55.480
<v Speaker 2>WHOA is that horrible?

444
00:20:55.839 --> 00:20:58.720
<v Speaker 5>I wasn't even legally allowed to be on dating apps

445
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<v Speaker 5>in twenty seven.

446
00:20:59.440 --> 00:20:59.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

447
00:21:00.039 --> 00:21:01.799
<v Speaker 3>Well, first of all, that age the shit out of

448
00:21:01.799 --> 00:21:05.960
<v Speaker 3>me first of all. But second off, yeah, because I

449
00:21:06.039 --> 00:21:08.720
<v Speaker 3>just snooze, I don't delete, so I need to know.

450
00:21:09.279 --> 00:21:12.839
<v Speaker 2>Sorry, I'm getting to all of this for the backstory. Yeah,

451
00:21:12.880 --> 00:21:17.400
<v Speaker 2>and like the thought process of why guys delete versus

452
00:21:17.599 --> 00:21:22.240
<v Speaker 2>snooze or like just whatever the other.

453
00:21:22.599 --> 00:21:26.000
<v Speaker 5>No, you sometimes you need them to come back around,

454
00:21:26.559 --> 00:21:30.599
<v Speaker 5>so they need to rematch with you so they see

455
00:21:30.599 --> 00:21:34.920
<v Speaker 5>you again. They go, that was a misconnection. They're they're familiar.

456
00:21:35.559 --> 00:21:37.720
<v Speaker 2>How do I and so you guys do it for

457
00:21:37.759 --> 00:21:38.640
<v Speaker 2>the algorithm?

458
00:21:38.680 --> 00:21:42.599
<v Speaker 5>Then well, yeah, it's definitely a piece of the algorithm

459
00:21:42.920 --> 00:21:43.400
<v Speaker 5>for sure.

460
00:21:43.839 --> 00:21:47.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, do you think do you think I've

461
00:21:47.519 --> 00:21:49.920
<v Speaker 3>been doing it wrong this whole time? Because like, if

462
00:21:49.960 --> 00:21:52.680
<v Speaker 3>you think about it, my profile is what X years

463
00:21:52.799 --> 00:21:55.640
<v Speaker 3>old now at this point, like oh my gosh, like

464
00:21:55.720 --> 00:21:56.720
<v Speaker 3>nine years old.

465
00:21:57.400 --> 00:21:58.839
<v Speaker 5>What if I just deleted.

466
00:21:58.519 --> 00:22:01.039
<v Speaker 2>And got back on and it was like a whole.

467
00:22:00.839 --> 00:22:05.519
<v Speaker 5>New world, it might be it would be Yeah, wait.

468
00:22:05.359 --> 00:22:06.839
<v Speaker 2>Am I doing this right now?

469
00:22:07.039 --> 00:22:07.279
<v Speaker 5>No?

470
00:22:07.400 --> 00:22:11.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be the plot the plot. No,

471
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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to hear We'll see, we'll see.

472
00:22:13.200 --> 00:22:15.920
<v Speaker 3>You just made me think of something though, because so

473
00:22:16.759 --> 00:22:18.720
<v Speaker 3>it sounds like you just do that like either for

474
00:22:18.839 --> 00:22:21.400
<v Speaker 3>the algorithm or also just like you're just done, so.

475
00:22:21.440 --> 00:22:23.400
<v Speaker 5>You just want to call you break every once in

476
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<v Speaker 5>a while. Yeah.

477
00:22:24.279 --> 00:22:28.079
<v Speaker 3>Whereas me, I'm lazy, Like, let's be real, like I

478
00:22:28.119 --> 00:22:31.839
<v Speaker 3>don't want to like because I put a lot of time.

479
00:22:31.920 --> 00:22:34.240
<v Speaker 3>I feel like an effort into my profile, Like I

480
00:22:34.279 --> 00:22:38.160
<v Speaker 3>get my cutest pics, I do a really good like bio,

481
00:22:38.640 --> 00:22:40.960
<v Speaker 3>get some prompts in there. It would be so much

482
00:22:41.039 --> 00:22:45.200
<v Speaker 3>work to like redo that and like find those pictures again.

483
00:22:45.279 --> 00:22:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but are we honest? Are the guys reading these profiles?

484
00:22:48.759 --> 00:22:50.279
<v Speaker 2>Do you guys read the profiles? Damn you?

485
00:22:50.960 --> 00:22:56.279
<v Speaker 5>Okay, Like I don't know, no, no, no, no. So here's

486
00:22:56.319 --> 00:23:01.039
<v Speaker 5>the thing, Yes, I read that, okay.

487
00:23:01.200 --> 00:23:03.519
<v Speaker 2>Do you feel like most guys read them?

488
00:23:04.119 --> 00:23:09.160
<v Speaker 5>Probably not? Well, I don't know how Like when I

489
00:23:09.200 --> 00:23:14.640
<v Speaker 5>get together with my guys pastime is we screencast.

490
00:23:15.640 --> 00:23:18.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that's fun. I've done that before.

491
00:23:19.000 --> 00:23:21.640
<v Speaker 5>And you see we read the prompts then were really

492
00:23:21.640 --> 00:23:23.119
<v Speaker 5>get like deep into.

493
00:23:22.880 --> 00:23:24.839
<v Speaker 2>The Oh you guys do the whole shebang.

494
00:23:24.920 --> 00:23:27.720
<v Speaker 3>Whereas if you weren't screencasting and you were just by yourself,

495
00:23:27.759 --> 00:23:30.559
<v Speaker 3>you feel like more guys would just go based off picture.

496
00:23:30.519 --> 00:23:33.319
<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah quick, and the first picture has got to

497
00:23:33.359 --> 00:23:37.400
<v Speaker 5>be fire the best one. Yeah, and then you want

498
00:23:37.440 --> 00:23:40.839
<v Speaker 5>a second look, and then you'll read the prompts.

499
00:23:42.000 --> 00:23:44.039
<v Speaker 3>You know how to build your profile now though, Yeah,

500
00:23:44.079 --> 00:23:46.640
<v Speaker 3>but here's the thing, Okay, I'm gonna roll off what

501
00:23:46.720 --> 00:23:50.400
<v Speaker 3>you just said, because and I mean, at this point,

502
00:23:50.480 --> 00:23:52.880
<v Speaker 3>I almost wonder if I should just like scream, like

503
00:23:53.240 --> 00:23:55.480
<v Speaker 3>you know how you can screen record your phone. I'm

504
00:23:55.519 --> 00:23:58.039
<v Speaker 3>gonna screen record my phone, y'all, and I will post

505
00:23:58.359 --> 00:24:01.720
<v Speaker 3>my profile on our podcast into story do it?

506
00:24:01.720 --> 00:24:03.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay? But AnyWho all that to say.

507
00:24:04.839 --> 00:24:07.000
<v Speaker 3>Because there's this picture that's like, I'm not gonna lie.

508
00:24:07.640 --> 00:24:09.279
<v Speaker 3>Your girl's a little sexy, you know what I mean,

509
00:24:09.319 --> 00:24:11.359
<v Speaker 3>Like she has like a little sultry face to her,

510
00:24:11.599 --> 00:24:16.160
<v Speaker 3>you know. And I had that as like my first picture,

511
00:24:16.799 --> 00:24:19.000
<v Speaker 3>and I feel like I got a lot of traction

512
00:24:19.160 --> 00:24:22.400
<v Speaker 3>with that one, right, But then I feel like it

513
00:24:22.559 --> 00:24:25.920
<v Speaker 3>painted a different story, and I didn't want that story

514
00:24:25.960 --> 00:24:27.880
<v Speaker 3>to be told about me, like I didn't like. I

515
00:24:27.960 --> 00:24:30.559
<v Speaker 3>still liked that picture, but I didn't want that to

516
00:24:30.640 --> 00:24:33.519
<v Speaker 3>be like the first impression I so I moved it

517
00:24:33.599 --> 00:24:36.079
<v Speaker 3>down a bit more and then I put more of

518
00:24:36.119 --> 00:24:39.279
<v Speaker 3>like a cool, cute, casual one as my first one,

519
00:24:39.319 --> 00:24:42.559
<v Speaker 3>because I just yeah, right, just like smashing it on

520
00:24:42.599 --> 00:24:46.200
<v Speaker 3>people's heads, you know. But uh yeah, So anyway, do

521
00:24:46.279 --> 00:24:49.720
<v Speaker 3>you think guys like literally look at just like the

522
00:24:49.759 --> 00:24:51.240
<v Speaker 3>one picture and so I yes or.

523
00:24:51.160 --> 00:24:54.640
<v Speaker 5>No, oh no, no, we look through the pictures then

524
00:24:54.759 --> 00:24:56.440
<v Speaker 5>read the prompts.

525
00:24:58.160 --> 00:24:58.799
<v Speaker 2>Are you sure?

526
00:24:59.759 --> 00:25:01.400
<v Speaker 5>I you do?

527
00:25:01.440 --> 00:25:02.799
<v Speaker 2>You feel like just men do that?

528
00:25:02.960 --> 00:25:05.319
<v Speaker 5>Well? Because here's the thing. I can take a really

529
00:25:05.359 --> 00:25:08.839
<v Speaker 5>great picture of myself or like, have one that's just

530
00:25:09.200 --> 00:25:14.400
<v Speaker 5>I think I look fantastic. That's probably the best picture

531
00:25:14.440 --> 00:25:17.559
<v Speaker 5>I've ever taken. You gotta you gotta look because the

532
00:25:17.559 --> 00:25:20.519
<v Speaker 5>girls are doing the same thing. So that's like the

533
00:25:20.559 --> 00:25:22.880
<v Speaker 5>best picture of themselves. And then like you got to

534
00:25:22.920 --> 00:25:23.920
<v Speaker 5>look through the rest.

535
00:25:24.720 --> 00:25:27.200
<v Speaker 2>Do they actually look like this?

536
00:25:27.359 --> 00:25:28.640
<v Speaker 5>Or is this from.

537
00:25:30.079 --> 00:25:32.200
<v Speaker 3>Because I've seen guys on there where I'm like, whoa,

538
00:25:32.200 --> 00:25:34.359
<v Speaker 3>he's really good looking. And then I'll keep going I'm like.

539
00:25:34.319 --> 00:25:35.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, that was just me.

540
00:25:36.920 --> 00:25:40.079
<v Speaker 3>It's just a really good picture. Speaking of though, I

541
00:25:40.119 --> 00:25:42.519
<v Speaker 3>do want to talk about this is so random. I

542
00:25:42.559 --> 00:25:44.240
<v Speaker 3>want to talk about filters. Do you see that a

543
00:25:44.279 --> 00:25:45.519
<v Speaker 3>lot filters?

544
00:25:45.799 --> 00:25:55.400
<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Like girls not in ye, So if you bump

545
00:25:55.480 --> 00:25:58.039
<v Speaker 5>up your age range, you're gonna start to see a

546
00:25:58.039 --> 00:25:58.880
<v Speaker 5>lot more filters.

547
00:26:01.200 --> 00:26:04.160
<v Speaker 4>You're probably still seeing filters they're just not those, they're

548
00:26:04.160 --> 00:26:05.839
<v Speaker 4>ones way more natural.

549
00:26:05.920 --> 00:26:07.160
<v Speaker 1>So you just don't notice.

550
00:26:07.640 --> 00:26:10.400
<v Speaker 5>Do you think that's like like face tuning? Yes, yeah,

551
00:26:10.559 --> 00:26:15.440
<v Speaker 5>could be okay, but not like outwardly apparent right No? No,

552
00:26:15.839 --> 00:26:19.559
<v Speaker 5>not like do not the dog ears flower crowns?

553
00:26:20.240 --> 00:26:23.799
<v Speaker 2>Do you remember that? You were probably like five?

554
00:26:24.079 --> 00:26:30.640
<v Speaker 3>But anyway, Jesus, but no, you know this is horrible

555
00:26:30.680 --> 00:26:32.720
<v Speaker 3>and maybe like you've done this before, but I'm going

556
00:26:32.759 --> 00:26:35.039
<v Speaker 3>to totally call myself out on this. So I have

557
00:26:35.079 --> 00:26:38.079
<v Speaker 3>a guy friend who's like dating too, and I'm like,

558
00:26:38.119 --> 00:26:41.440
<v Speaker 3>can I see your profile? And I'll swipe for him?

559
00:26:41.799 --> 00:26:44.440
<v Speaker 3>But really I want to just I know this sounds horrible.

560
00:26:44.880 --> 00:26:46.240
<v Speaker 3>I want to see what's out there, Like I want

561
00:26:46.240 --> 00:26:49.279
<v Speaker 3>to see how I, yes, how I rank, you know,

562
00:26:50.039 --> 00:26:50.880
<v Speaker 3>And I'm not gonna lie.

563
00:26:50.920 --> 00:26:53.920
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I'm like, damn, I think I do pretty well

564
00:26:53.960 --> 00:26:56.880
<v Speaker 2>from but then also, but then also there's some really

565
00:26:56.920 --> 00:26:59.039
<v Speaker 2>cute girls out there. But then also I see a

566
00:26:59.079 --> 00:27:02.039
<v Speaker 2>lot of overly filtered pictures and I'm like, honeybee, this

567
00:27:02.079 --> 00:27:03.039
<v Speaker 2>is getting you nowhere.

568
00:27:03.519 --> 00:27:05.240
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you gotta get rid of the filters.

569
00:27:06.519 --> 00:27:09.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay, but then back at you, are you a fish?

570
00:27:09.039 --> 00:27:09.240
<v Speaker 2>Guy?

571
00:27:10.079 --> 00:27:12.880
<v Speaker 5>I do not have a fish in my profile.

572
00:27:12.960 --> 00:27:16.440
<v Speaker 4>I was like, that's like the girl the swap girls,

573
00:27:16.440 --> 00:27:17.640
<v Speaker 4>these filters, guys.

574
00:27:17.400 --> 00:27:20.720
<v Speaker 2>It's yeah, you know what, you know what's funny. This

575
00:27:20.839 --> 00:27:24.000
<v Speaker 2>is like an unpopular opinion on the girl side of thing.

576
00:27:24.440 --> 00:27:26.039
<v Speaker 2>I actually don't mind a fish pick.

577
00:27:26.200 --> 00:27:27.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't mind like one.

578
00:27:27.440 --> 00:27:30.599
<v Speaker 4>But if it's your whole profile and that's your whole personality,

579
00:27:30.839 --> 00:27:31.839
<v Speaker 4>I agree with Kelsey.

580
00:27:32.359 --> 00:27:33.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't mind one.

581
00:27:34.000 --> 00:27:35.640
<v Speaker 4>But if it's like what you like to do, then

582
00:27:35.680 --> 00:27:39.279
<v Speaker 4>short show that doesn't have to be every single that's true.

583
00:27:40.200 --> 00:27:42.720
<v Speaker 2>Watch us look through Jayden's profile right now. He's just like.

584
00:27:46.000 --> 00:27:47.119
<v Speaker 5>Get rid of the fish pictures.

585
00:27:47.160 --> 00:27:50.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like everything is just like fish pick anyway.

586
00:27:51.759 --> 00:27:53.920
<v Speaker 3>Wait, we want to know so much about the guy's perspective.

587
00:27:54.079 --> 00:27:57.559
<v Speaker 3>So like besides the picture, like a girl's got to

588
00:27:57.599 --> 00:28:01.519
<v Speaker 3>look good, right, Yeah, Like what else do you guys

589
00:28:01.559 --> 00:28:05.000
<v Speaker 3>kind of like look for and like a profile.

590
00:28:05.839 --> 00:28:10.880
<v Speaker 5>Big red flag on the dating profiles if you have

591
00:28:10.960 --> 00:28:14.799
<v Speaker 5>an Instagram bio in there, Oh really not that I do.

592
00:28:14.720 --> 00:28:16.559
<v Speaker 1>But you're probably just trying to get more followers.

593
00:28:16.559 --> 00:28:20.200
<v Speaker 5>You want followers, Yeah, you're probably gotten only fans too.

594
00:28:21.279 --> 00:28:22.240
<v Speaker 2>No, shut up.

595
00:28:24.359 --> 00:28:28.440
<v Speaker 3>I remember first hot like second there, like like a

596
00:28:28.519 --> 00:28:32.759
<v Speaker 3>month I put my Instagram No yet, but then I

597
00:28:32.799 --> 00:28:36.640
<v Speaker 3>got weird like messages on Instagram from people I didn't

598
00:28:36.680 --> 00:28:37.400
<v Speaker 3>even match with, and I.

599
00:28:37.359 --> 00:28:39.240
<v Speaker 1>Was like, people are going to go and actually do that?

600
00:28:39.319 --> 00:28:39.960
<v Speaker 1>Are creepers?

601
00:28:40.079 --> 00:28:40.599
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

602
00:28:40.640 --> 00:28:43.680
<v Speaker 2>Exactly, So then I decided that was a bad call.

603
00:28:44.279 --> 00:28:46.000
<v Speaker 2>But so that's a red flag, then.

604
00:28:45.880 --> 00:28:46.640
<v Speaker 5>Big red flag.

605
00:28:46.720 --> 00:28:49.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what do you think the like, do you think

606
00:28:49.359 --> 00:28:51.960
<v Speaker 2>it's because they want followers? I don't know the mindset.

607
00:28:52.200 --> 00:28:53.599
<v Speaker 1>They for sure want the attention.

608
00:28:54.160 --> 00:28:56.440
<v Speaker 5>It's the attention. Yeah, it's a little ego boost to

609
00:28:56.480 --> 00:28:59.960
<v Speaker 5>get that, to get that Instagram notification from just like a.

610
00:29:00.720 --> 00:29:03.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh interesting, So you say no to them?

611
00:29:03.599 --> 00:29:05.000
<v Speaker 5>No? Yeah, absolutely?

612
00:29:05.480 --> 00:29:09.359
<v Speaker 2>What if what if like Elie's like, I have it

613
00:29:09.440 --> 00:29:11.279
<v Speaker 2>in my profile so you have to justify it.

614
00:29:11.799 --> 00:29:16.720
<v Speaker 3>As he's talking, I'm like grabbing my phone like okay,

615
00:29:14.279 --> 00:29:19.480
<v Speaker 3>so that but wait, what if she was like super

616
00:29:19.519 --> 00:29:22.200
<v Speaker 3>cute everything you wanted and she had an Instagram app.

617
00:29:22.359 --> 00:29:23.079
<v Speaker 5>For the streets?

618
00:29:23.519 --> 00:29:27.960
<v Speaker 2>Really? Okay? OK? Good to know, noted noted.

619
00:29:28.920 --> 00:29:31.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to think of what else, Like, I want

620
00:29:31.359 --> 00:29:34.000
<v Speaker 3>a guy's perspective on when it comes to dating. I

621
00:29:34.000 --> 00:29:35.640
<v Speaker 3>know we're talking a lot about dating apps, so we

622
00:29:35.640 --> 00:29:36.480
<v Speaker 3>can do dates too.

623
00:29:36.720 --> 00:29:39.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah wait, I have one?

624
00:29:40.200 --> 00:29:42.599
<v Speaker 3>Are you guys big on like first impressions, like meeting

625
00:29:42.599 --> 00:29:45.680
<v Speaker 3>in person. Yeah yeah, okay, tell me about that, Tell

626
00:29:45.720 --> 00:29:47.039
<v Speaker 3>me about that, get into.

627
00:29:46.799 --> 00:29:50.079
<v Speaker 5>That all right. So we're talking like first dates.

628
00:29:50.119 --> 00:29:52.480
<v Speaker 3>Yes, Like what happens when you first see her? Like

629
00:29:52.480 --> 00:29:54.599
<v Speaker 3>what are you thinking? What are you looking like?

630
00:29:55.200 --> 00:29:56.240
<v Speaker 2>What's the vibe there?

631
00:29:57.440 --> 00:30:01.200
<v Speaker 5>Okay, Well they've got to be put to other. It's

632
00:30:01.240 --> 00:30:04.799
<v Speaker 5>a two way street. Okay, I know that's what girls want.

633
00:30:05.319 --> 00:30:08.759
<v Speaker 5>We like the girl who can dress nice. Okay, So

634
00:30:08.839 --> 00:30:14.440
<v Speaker 5>actually tried a little bit. And then you're you're looking

635
00:30:14.480 --> 00:30:20.640
<v Speaker 5>for just minimal like awkwardness, overly awkward, because you're gonna

636
00:30:20.640 --> 00:30:23.079
<v Speaker 5>have that awkward first state moment. You're gonna have some

637
00:30:23.119 --> 00:30:27.799
<v Speaker 5>awkward silences one hundred percent, just if you get into

638
00:30:27.880 --> 00:30:30.240
<v Speaker 5>like the the three four range.

639
00:30:30.799 --> 00:30:33.200
<v Speaker 2>You're like like three four range of moments of.

640
00:30:33.359 --> 00:30:39.720
<v Speaker 5>Moments of awkwardness. Yeah yeah, yeah, I've had those. Yeah,

641
00:30:39.759 --> 00:30:42.920
<v Speaker 5>who hasn't? Yeah? Can they stay off their phone? Too?

642
00:30:43.680 --> 00:30:44.799
<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah? Yeah?

643
00:30:44.960 --> 00:30:46.599
<v Speaker 2>Wait have you been on a date with a girl

644
00:30:46.599 --> 00:30:47.920
<v Speaker 2>who's actively on her phone?

645
00:30:48.319 --> 00:30:48.759
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

646
00:30:49.160 --> 00:30:51.240
<v Speaker 2>Wait, even when you're talking to her, he's.

647
00:30:51.119 --> 00:30:53.400
<v Speaker 5>Gen z Oh we're addicted?

648
00:30:53.720 --> 00:30:55.839
<v Speaker 2>Yeah no way, Yeah.

649
00:30:55.799 --> 00:31:02.559
<v Speaker 5>Like I was gonna say something that's me responding to

650
00:31:02.559 --> 00:31:05.960
<v Speaker 5>to these women being on the phone. Yeah, you kind

651
00:31:05.960 --> 00:31:07.720
<v Speaker 5>of gotta like fight for their attention a little bit.

652
00:31:08.240 --> 00:31:11.119
<v Speaker 2>No on a date some of them.

653
00:31:11.240 --> 00:31:15.039
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's like the worst of the worst, okay.

654
00:31:14.799 --> 00:31:17.000
<v Speaker 3>Because I I'll even like put my phone away like

655
00:31:17.000 --> 00:31:18.799
<v Speaker 3>in my purse, so it's not even like up, Like

656
00:31:18.880 --> 00:31:20.759
<v Speaker 3>it's not even like face down on the table.

657
00:31:21.039 --> 00:31:22.359
<v Speaker 2>It's like completely away.

658
00:31:22.519 --> 00:31:24.440
<v Speaker 5>Mmm. Is that smart?

659
00:31:24.480 --> 00:31:24.559
<v Speaker 2>No?

660
00:31:24.599 --> 00:31:25.119
<v Speaker 5>I like that?

661
00:31:26.240 --> 00:31:29.160
<v Speaker 2>But do most girls then just do the upside it's like.

662
00:31:29.119 --> 00:31:31.960
<v Speaker 5>On the table, Yeah, face.

663
00:31:31.799 --> 00:31:32.559
<v Speaker 2>Up or face down?

664
00:31:32.799 --> 00:31:34.200
<v Speaker 5>Face down? Face down?

665
00:31:34.440 --> 00:31:34.519
<v Speaker 2>Ye?

666
00:31:34.640 --> 00:31:37.599
<v Speaker 1>First, keep it gone.

667
00:31:38.400 --> 00:31:39.960
<v Speaker 2>Do you have yours on the table?

668
00:31:40.240 --> 00:31:41.319
<v Speaker 5>No, that stays in my pocket.

669
00:31:41.599 --> 00:31:43.079
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, that's good.

670
00:31:43.720 --> 00:31:45.039
<v Speaker 1>Respectful gentleman.

671
00:31:45.240 --> 00:31:48.200
<v Speaker 3>Yes, we have a respectful gentleman here. But no, yeah,

672
00:31:48.200 --> 00:31:51.079
<v Speaker 3>because I feel like that would give me like very

673
00:31:51.119 --> 00:31:53.400
<v Speaker 3>off putty vibes. Like I've been on dates with guys

674
00:31:53.400 --> 00:31:55.880
<v Speaker 3>who like have their phone on the table and then

675
00:31:55.920 --> 00:31:57.559
<v Speaker 3>sometimes they'll like check a notification.

676
00:31:57.640 --> 00:31:59.480
<v Speaker 2>It's like I get it if you have a kid.

677
00:31:59.319 --> 00:32:01.079
<v Speaker 3>And maybe you have like emergency because I'm at that

678
00:32:01.119 --> 00:32:04.960
<v Speaker 3>age right, like people have kids whatever, But like, no, no,

679
00:32:05.119 --> 00:32:07.799
<v Speaker 3>put it away, put it away, use a watch.

680
00:32:07.880 --> 00:32:09.519
<v Speaker 2>I like to like wear a watch, so I know

681
00:32:09.599 --> 00:32:10.759
<v Speaker 2>kind of where my time is.

682
00:32:10.799 --> 00:32:12.440
<v Speaker 3>I would have to like check my phone just for

683
00:32:12.480 --> 00:32:14.640
<v Speaker 3>the time, especially in front of the guy, because then

684
00:32:14.680 --> 00:32:17.079
<v Speaker 3>I feel like they think he thinks you want to go.

685
00:32:17.279 --> 00:32:20.000
<v Speaker 5>No, yeah, one d percent that's what we're thinking.

686
00:32:20.200 --> 00:32:23.640
<v Speaker 3>Okay, wait, tell me more about like the first initialness

687
00:32:23.680 --> 00:32:24.039
<v Speaker 3>of it all.

688
00:32:24.079 --> 00:32:26.640
<v Speaker 2>So like the looks put together together?

689
00:32:26.960 --> 00:32:32.000
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, just a nice, nice greeting. You can have a

690
00:32:32.039 --> 00:32:35.920
<v Speaker 5>non awkward greeting when you're first meeting someone, like even

691
00:32:35.960 --> 00:32:38.079
<v Speaker 5>if you're feeling it, pull yourself together.

692
00:32:38.319 --> 00:32:42.000
<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, all right, you gotta do you feel like

693
00:32:42.319 --> 00:32:45.079
<v Speaker 3>can you feel like people's like awkwardness?

694
00:32:45.079 --> 00:32:47.839
<v Speaker 5>Do you feel like oh yeah, yeah, I mean can

695
00:32:47.880 --> 00:32:48.079
<v Speaker 5>you not?

696
00:32:49.119 --> 00:32:50.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess I can.

697
00:32:50.440 --> 00:32:52.160
<v Speaker 3>But then I sometimes get in my head and I'm like,

698
00:32:52.160 --> 00:32:56.000
<v Speaker 3>I don't know if that's just me or no.

699
00:32:56.000 --> 00:32:58.960
<v Speaker 5>No, no, you just got to walk in just ready to

700
00:32:59.039 --> 00:32:59.559
<v Speaker 5>rock and roll.

701
00:33:00.200 --> 00:33:03.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, okay, here's another one. I could literally go

702
00:33:03.680 --> 00:33:07.039
<v Speaker 3>on forever, sorry, Kelsey, literally jump in, literally jump in.

703
00:33:07.119 --> 00:33:09.720
<v Speaker 3>But like my other thing too, And I don't know

704
00:33:09.720 --> 00:33:12.039
<v Speaker 3>if you're like with it or not, but like I

705
00:33:12.200 --> 00:33:13.920
<v Speaker 3>want to go on a d Like if I match

706
00:33:13.960 --> 00:33:16.079
<v Speaker 3>with somebody, I want to go on a date within

707
00:33:16.160 --> 00:33:18.559
<v Speaker 3>like the week I'm not gonna lie because I hate like,

708
00:33:18.680 --> 00:33:23.160
<v Speaker 3>oh yeah, having these conversations via like the app or text, then.

709
00:33:23.079 --> 00:33:25.160
<v Speaker 1>You have nothing to talk about when you finally meet.

710
00:33:25.359 --> 00:33:29.119
<v Speaker 5>No, exactly exactly, feel the same way. No, you have

711
00:33:29.160 --> 00:33:31.519
<v Speaker 5>to set the data up within the first day or two.

712
00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:35.279
<v Speaker 2>Are girls like down for that? Like, tell me about that?

713
00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:38.880
<v Speaker 5>No, they're down? Yeah, okay, typically like I mean, it's

714
00:33:38.880 --> 00:33:39.599
<v Speaker 5>a free meal.

715
00:33:42.599 --> 00:33:46.359
<v Speaker 3>Heck yeah, getting leftovers too, blast it up.

716
00:33:46.519 --> 00:33:48.519
<v Speaker 5>No, yeah, no, you have to. You have to set

717
00:33:48.559 --> 00:33:52.640
<v Speaker 5>the data up pretty fast, right, Yeah, thank you.

718
00:33:52.640 --> 00:33:55.400
<v Speaker 2>We've got a solid guy here, I feel like, because

719
00:33:55.440 --> 00:33:57.119
<v Speaker 2>like there's some guys out there that don't.

720
00:33:57.559 --> 00:33:59.400
<v Speaker 5>And if you want the second one, you've got to

721
00:33:59.440 --> 00:34:00.559
<v Speaker 5>set that up night of.

722
00:34:02.039 --> 00:34:05.160
<v Speaker 2>Really before tell me more about that?

723
00:34:06.200 --> 00:34:08.639
<v Speaker 5>Nope, yeah, say I'm free this day, this day.

724
00:34:10.280 --> 00:34:12.000
<v Speaker 3>I feel like every guy needs to listen to this

725
00:34:12.079 --> 00:34:15.199
<v Speaker 3>because I feel like my second dates have always been

726
00:34:15.880 --> 00:34:18.920
<v Speaker 3>not actually planned that first date night.

727
00:34:18.960 --> 00:34:20.960
<v Speaker 2>It's been always just spoken of, like, yeah, we should

728
00:34:21.000 --> 00:34:21.559
<v Speaker 2>do this again.

729
00:34:22.159 --> 00:34:25.880
<v Speaker 5>No, yeah, you've gotta If you actually see when you

730
00:34:25.920 --> 00:34:29.559
<v Speaker 5>say we gotta do it again, you're not gonna do

731
00:34:29.559 --> 00:34:32.000
<v Speaker 5>it again. You got to set a date.

732
00:34:33.559 --> 00:34:35.280
<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's good man.

733
00:34:35.400 --> 00:34:36.440
<v Speaker 5>Maybe hard date and time.

734
00:34:37.039 --> 00:34:38.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay.

735
00:34:38.320 --> 00:34:41.199
<v Speaker 3>Fun fact, I've never been on like a like a

736
00:34:41.280 --> 00:34:42.039
<v Speaker 3>fourth date.

737
00:34:42.559 --> 00:34:48.039
<v Speaker 2>It's always ended like on a third at least cry

738
00:34:48.159 --> 00:34:56.280
<v Speaker 2>in the corner over here, look at But like, yeah,

739
00:34:56.360 --> 00:34:58.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what to say. I don't know

740
00:34:58.800 --> 00:34:59.880
<v Speaker 2>what to say about.

741
00:35:00.800 --> 00:35:05.239
<v Speaker 5>That's okay, you're just really nice.

742
00:35:05.760 --> 00:35:07.920
<v Speaker 2>But no, that's true. I guess you just kind of

743
00:35:07.960 --> 00:35:12.800
<v Speaker 2>have to. I don't know I do text. Okay, let's

744
00:35:12.840 --> 00:35:14.039
<v Speaker 2>talk about like post.

745
00:35:13.840 --> 00:35:17.320
<v Speaker 5>Date post date. Yeah, yes, the text when you get

746
00:35:17.320 --> 00:35:20.679
<v Speaker 5>home classic and you need to say it like the

747
00:35:20.719 --> 00:35:23.199
<v Speaker 5>guy says it right, Yeah, absolutely.

748
00:35:22.679 --> 00:35:24.440
<v Speaker 2>Like text me when you get home safely.

749
00:35:24.280 --> 00:35:28.320
<v Speaker 5>And I will say when she reciprocates that makes you

750
00:35:28.360 --> 00:35:30.320
<v Speaker 5>feel taken care of? Oh my gosh.

751
00:35:30.440 --> 00:35:32.280
<v Speaker 3>Wait wait wait when you say that, do you mean

752
00:35:32.320 --> 00:35:33.920
<v Speaker 3>like when the girl says, like, text me when you

753
00:35:33.960 --> 00:35:34.280
<v Speaker 3>get home?

754
00:35:35.039 --> 00:35:36.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like after you say.

755
00:35:36.239 --> 00:35:39.800
<v Speaker 5>It first, or she can say it first if she

756
00:35:39.840 --> 00:35:40.800
<v Speaker 5>beats me to the punch.

757
00:35:41.599 --> 00:35:43.000
<v Speaker 2>Is that like like gold star?

758
00:35:43.239 --> 00:35:46.280
<v Speaker 5>Yeah? No, that's a good that's a good mark. Yeah,

759
00:35:47.639 --> 00:35:48.679
<v Speaker 5>that is cute.

760
00:35:48.719 --> 00:35:50.079
<v Speaker 2>That is cute. I don't think we ever.

761
00:35:51.480 --> 00:35:53.559
<v Speaker 3>Okay, yes, I've talked about like text me when you

762
00:35:53.559 --> 00:35:55.480
<v Speaker 3>get home. I forget who says I think the guy

763
00:35:55.559 --> 00:35:58.519
<v Speaker 3>mostly says it first, So then I do. I said,

764
00:35:58.559 --> 00:36:01.159
<v Speaker 3>I made it home safe, I had such a fun

765
00:36:01.239 --> 00:36:05.119
<v Speaker 3>time tonight. Yeah, thanks so much for dinner. I look

766
00:36:05.159 --> 00:36:07.280
<v Speaker 3>forward to doing this again with you or whatever. And

767
00:36:07.320 --> 00:36:08.960
<v Speaker 3>then I kind of like leave the ball in their

768
00:36:09.000 --> 00:36:13.840
<v Speaker 3>court for that, because again, most of mine don't get

769
00:36:13.880 --> 00:36:15.880
<v Speaker 3>planned on a second date. It's kind of just like

770
00:36:15.920 --> 00:36:18.800
<v Speaker 3>a we should do this a good some time.

771
00:36:20.400 --> 00:36:23.599
<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Well, when you set it up day of, it

772
00:36:23.639 --> 00:36:27.480
<v Speaker 5>makes that into the night text a little easier. You

773
00:36:27.519 --> 00:36:29.440
<v Speaker 5>can leave it on a high like can't wait to

774
00:36:29.440 --> 00:36:32.599
<v Speaker 5>see you on Saturday. Saturday.

775
00:36:33.079 --> 00:36:34.599
<v Speaker 2>Okay, And you know what, I.

776
00:36:34.559 --> 00:36:36.800
<v Speaker 3>Love this so much because it gives such a like

777
00:36:36.920 --> 00:36:40.039
<v Speaker 3>sense of security too, don't you think, yes.

778
00:36:40.119 --> 00:36:42.159
<v Speaker 1>Then you're not just like stewing the next couple of days.

779
00:36:44.320 --> 00:36:52.079
<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, Well, and here's the deal. People got jobs, Okay,

780
00:36:52.320 --> 00:36:54.719
<v Speaker 5>they got work, they got lives. And you go on

781
00:36:54.760 --> 00:36:57.920
<v Speaker 5>a first date and you don't set a second date,

782
00:36:58.599 --> 00:37:01.519
<v Speaker 5>then really those like hours they're at work. You're like,

783
00:37:01.559 --> 00:37:07.800
<v Speaker 5>oh my gosh. Yeah, I'm like, oh oh, but if

784
00:37:07.800 --> 00:37:10.960
<v Speaker 5>you set it, you can go. She's at work, she's

785
00:37:11.000 --> 00:37:12.159
<v Speaker 5>off with something doing something.

786
00:37:12.519 --> 00:37:16.920
<v Speaker 3>Okay, follow up question, Now, what do you like after

787
00:37:17.000 --> 00:37:20.960
<v Speaker 3>the first date for you and then say you Okay,

788
00:37:20.960 --> 00:37:22.800
<v Speaker 3>it sounds like you set a second date.

789
00:37:23.079 --> 00:37:25.679
<v Speaker 2>Great. Are you texting every day?

790
00:37:26.480 --> 00:37:28.079
<v Speaker 5>Yoh?

791
00:37:28.239 --> 00:37:29.440
<v Speaker 2>Or does it depend on your girl?

792
00:37:29.679 --> 00:37:33.480
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you don't. You don't force it. Yeah, yeah, you

793
00:37:33.519 --> 00:37:35.960
<v Speaker 5>gotta you gotta feel it out, but you can let

794
00:37:36.039 --> 00:37:38.400
<v Speaker 5>you can lay off a little bit after that first date,

795
00:37:38.760 --> 00:37:42.559
<v Speaker 5>like it's less pressury, right yeah, no, Yeah, you've met

796
00:37:42.599 --> 00:37:43.480
<v Speaker 5>each other, you've talked.

797
00:37:44.639 --> 00:37:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, no, I hear you. It's it's definitely one

798
00:37:47.519 --> 00:37:47.960
<v Speaker 2>of those.

799
00:37:47.880 --> 00:37:52.400
<v Speaker 5>If you vibe yeah, then you've you've already set that

800
00:37:52.440 --> 00:37:54.079
<v Speaker 5>second date. You're good to go. You can just lay

801
00:37:54.079 --> 00:37:54.760
<v Speaker 5>off a little.

802
00:37:54.519 --> 00:37:58.920
<v Speaker 3>Bit, Okay, okay, nice, These are good things to know.

803
00:37:59.360 --> 00:38:01.639
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Also, do you have any other questions?

804
00:38:02.039 --> 00:38:03.920
<v Speaker 1>Not in the way of that, because I'm not on

805
00:38:03.960 --> 00:38:04.840
<v Speaker 1>any dating apps.

806
00:38:05.039 --> 00:38:07.159
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I know. This was a lot about like,

807
00:38:08.599 --> 00:38:10.480
<v Speaker 2>is it horrible that I've learned so much?

808
00:38:10.599 --> 00:38:12.920
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm well, our best he's probably learned a lot too.

809
00:38:13.000 --> 00:38:14.559
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I feel like it's probably I feel like we

810
00:38:14.639 --> 00:38:17.679
<v Speaker 3>have more girl listeners than we do guys. But I'm

811
00:38:17.719 --> 00:38:19.639
<v Speaker 3>hopeful for all the freaking guys out there that are

812
00:38:19.639 --> 00:38:22.840
<v Speaker 3>listening and are single do what Jayden does.

813
00:38:24.800 --> 00:38:25.880
<v Speaker 2>Second day after the.

814
00:38:25.840 --> 00:38:29.159
<v Speaker 5>First set it up well, And here's the thing I

815
00:38:29.440 --> 00:38:32.519
<v Speaker 5>forgot to mention this. This is this is during the

816
00:38:32.559 --> 00:38:36.320
<v Speaker 5>first date, do you guys do like a check dance? Oh,

817
00:38:37.440 --> 00:38:41.440
<v Speaker 5>like a like a reach for the No.

818
00:38:41.440 --> 00:38:42.480
<v Speaker 2>No, the guy should pay.

819
00:38:42.559 --> 00:38:47.679
<v Speaker 5>No he should. But I pretend no, absolutely, and thank

820
00:38:47.719 --> 00:38:50.159
<v Speaker 5>you for your service, because that's what you're supposed to do.

821
00:38:50.920 --> 00:38:53.920
<v Speaker 3>Wait, girls are supposed to pretend like I'm pulling.

822
00:38:53.519 --> 00:38:57.239
<v Speaker 5>To like I let me be a hero and say put.

823
00:38:57.039 --> 00:38:59.079
<v Speaker 1>That I still want to pay, Put that away?

824
00:39:00.519 --> 00:39:02.400
<v Speaker 5>Put that away, let me say that.

825
00:39:04.039 --> 00:39:04.519
<v Speaker 2>Shut up.

826
00:39:04.639 --> 00:39:10.079
<v Speaker 3>Really no, I literally sit there like I'm oblivious to

827
00:39:10.119 --> 00:39:14.599
<v Speaker 3>it all because it's like it's kind of just I

828
00:39:14.639 --> 00:39:19.239
<v Speaker 3>know this sounds a little prissy, maybe, but it's assumed

829
00:39:19.719 --> 00:39:22.199
<v Speaker 3>that the guy will pay for the first date.

830
00:39:22.400 --> 00:39:26.320
<v Speaker 5>No, he's still assumed he's paying. He's paying. But you

831
00:39:26.480 --> 00:39:30.159
<v Speaker 5>do a little bit of a o O and then

832
00:39:30.159 --> 00:39:33.719
<v Speaker 5>you go, thank you so much and let me yeah,

833
00:39:33.800 --> 00:39:35.079
<v Speaker 5>let me feel like the superhero.

834
00:39:35.639 --> 00:39:40.440
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I know this sounds horrible, but like I almost

835
00:39:40.480 --> 00:39:44.000
<v Speaker 3>wonder if I don't do that, because what if I

836
00:39:44.079 --> 00:39:45.159
<v Speaker 3>get the one percent?

837
00:39:45.599 --> 00:39:48.639
<v Speaker 2>What if I'm stuck with this like crazy guy who's

838
00:39:48.679 --> 00:39:50.280
<v Speaker 2>like okay, yeah.

839
00:39:50.039 --> 00:39:55.480
<v Speaker 5>Cool, sweet thing you're not going on a second no

840
00:39:55.599 --> 00:39:57.000
<v Speaker 5>second date. No second date.

841
00:39:57.239 --> 00:40:00.360
<v Speaker 2>I'd be like, oh, okay, here's my just charge it

842
00:40:00.440 --> 00:40:03.440
<v Speaker 2>to my credit card. I guess like what.

843
00:40:04.199 --> 00:40:05.880
<v Speaker 4>No, if you get a guy that's like that, like

844
00:40:05.920 --> 00:40:07.239
<v Speaker 4>just then that's when you just be like, oh, I

845
00:40:07.320 --> 00:40:08.280
<v Speaker 4>know we're splitting it.

846
00:40:08.679 --> 00:40:10.679
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, then you get at least you're just.

847
00:40:10.639 --> 00:40:11.519
<v Speaker 1>Paying for just yours.

848
00:40:11.599 --> 00:40:11.840
<v Speaker 5>Yep.

849
00:40:12.880 --> 00:40:19.559
<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, interesting, okay, okay, Wow. Why why is it

850
00:40:19.599 --> 00:40:20.920
<v Speaker 3>that I'm thirty three.

851
00:40:21.039 --> 00:40:23.400
<v Speaker 2>At least mind is blown? Why is it that I'm

852
00:40:23.480 --> 00:40:26.360
<v Speaker 2>thirty three and I'm learning from a twenty four year old?

853
00:40:28.280 --> 00:40:32.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh this is not a good sign. Wait, this says

854
00:40:32.519 --> 00:40:33.840
<v Speaker 2>a lot a lot.

855
00:40:33.679 --> 00:40:41.440
<v Speaker 5>Of fourth, fifth, and sixth days. Still rude.

856
00:40:42.800 --> 00:40:45.599
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it just doesn't really get past that. But I'm

857
00:40:45.679 --> 00:40:47.519
<v Speaker 2>quick to cut. And that's a whole nother story for

858
00:40:47.559 --> 00:40:48.320
<v Speaker 2>a whole nother day.

859
00:40:48.440 --> 00:40:49.239
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

860
00:40:49.280 --> 00:40:52.840
<v Speaker 2>Like I'm like, like, just yesterday, that's an issue.

861
00:40:53.239 --> 00:40:55.719
<v Speaker 3>But like this guy texted me like hey, and I'm like, listen,

862
00:40:55.719 --> 00:40:57.639
<v Speaker 3>I cut you off last week, my boy.

863
00:40:58.119 --> 00:40:58.800
<v Speaker 2>You can't just.

864
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<v Speaker 5>We've been done.

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<v Speaker 4>They will cut a guy off for like the smallest

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<v Speaker 4>minuscule thing, and I'll be like that wasn't even a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>But She's like, no, we're done, We're done, We're done.

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<v Speaker 4>But then there's this other guy that she was entertaining

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<v Speaker 4>and he was just red flag, red flat, and.

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<v Speaker 1>She just was like, no, I'm gonna keep and like

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<v Speaker 1>make it make sense to therapy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah and great, yeah, yeah, therapy and Jesus, that's both great.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I know we've been yapping, and do you want

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<v Speaker 2>to close it up.

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<v Speaker 1>With some ques?

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<v Speaker 4>So we have a couple burning questions for you. First

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<v Speaker 4>of all, how comfortable are you with getting spicy or

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<v Speaker 4>do you want to keep a little more tame mmm?

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<v Speaker 5>Somewhere in yeah, yeah, somewhere in the middle.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see. This one's kind of more tame. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever said I love you and didn't mean it?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, said that once and I meant.

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<v Speaker 2>It such I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Do you believe men and women can be just friends?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, unless you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on what?

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<v Speaker 5>No? Yeah? Like if you're no, that's a you gotta

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<v Speaker 5>be you gotta make some cuts when you get in relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>You're saying guys and girls can't be friends even if

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<v Speaker 3>one of them is in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>Like are you hanging out? Are you I guess it's.

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<v Speaker 2>A deeper question than that. There's a lot of new ones.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we had an episode where we dove into it

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<v Speaker 4>because we both have the same thoughts, but it came

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<v Speaker 4>up because we got chewed apart in book club when

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<v Speaker 4>the first topic first came.

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<v Speaker 2>Up because I was curious. We think we can, but

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<v Speaker 2>we have like boundaries.

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<v Speaker 5>No, yeah, you need the boundaries.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, what is your biggest dick.

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<v Speaker 2>Question? After that?

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<v Speaker 5>M talk talking about the talking about the.

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<v Speaker 2>X on a first date or ever, or like when

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<v Speaker 2>h like just repeatedly a lot brings it up a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's like why.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it's in the past. Can you unick an ick.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good one.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I think so if you acknowledge it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, kind of like.

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<v Speaker 3>Your example, right, you're like, hey, like this kind of

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<v Speaker 3>is like a little buggy that you keep bringing up

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<v Speaker 3>your ax and then.

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<v Speaker 5>They like and then they cut it out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's funny, Okay, okay, nice okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And then the last one is what's the most romantic

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<v Speaker 4>thing you've ever done?

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<v Speaker 5>That's that is a good question, like all the things

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<v Speaker 5>like why do you think of just one everything? Let's see,

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<v Speaker 5>I I this so this is for no one in particular.

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<v Speaker 5>This is really exposing. Okay, so this is for no

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<v Speaker 5>one in particular. Okay, this is for my future someone.

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<v Speaker 5>But I have been creating a playlist, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 5>since I was sixteen that I add to pretty frequently.

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<v Speaker 5>It's it's on private.

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<v Speaker 2>It's on private, like cute romantic songs.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it is labeled for future missus.

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<v Speaker 2>Roberts, you're freaking lined.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so no one will see that until the day

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<v Speaker 5>I get married.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all right, ladies. You heard it here. First we

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<v Speaker 2>got Jayden Roberts, twenty four years old, single, single, ready

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<v Speaker 2>to mingle, but also very ridiculously eligible.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, so yeah, I was like, yeah, I graduated college,

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<v Speaker 3>I got some time for some dates.

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<v Speaker 5>Got some time yeah, school teacher, I got the summers off.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, so like maybe we'll yeah, what's your app

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<v Speaker 3>red flag.

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<v Speaker 1>DMUs and then we can do.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah I can, I can, I can say it. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I made it all right. First of all, I made

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<v Speaker 5>it when I was like ten. When did Instagram come out.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like he's like, it's your boy, Jaden.

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<v Speaker 5>Your boy Jayden? No, yeah, J Bear j y b

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<v Speaker 5>e A r oh cute. Zero five, zero.

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<v Speaker 2>Four, that's cute. Is that your birthday?

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<v Speaker 5>That is my birthday?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>May fourth go Star Wars birthday. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this was so fun.

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<v Speaker 1>This was way fun. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Do we have anything else? Are we going to? I

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<v Speaker 2>think we're wrap it up. Good to wrap up, wrap up,

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<v Speaker 2>wrap up with Bros. Beer's with Bross, hanging out with us,

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<v Speaker 2>See you guys. Bye.

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<v Speaker 3>All right e bessies, that's it for this episode of

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<v Speaker 3>the Wine and Wine Podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't leave us, hang in like, subscribe and follow or

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<v Speaker 4>else we'll drink all the wine without you.

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<v Speaker 3>Kidding kind of And hey, tell a friend they need

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<v Speaker 3>be besties too.

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<v Speaker 2>Bye