Speaker 1: This is Gary and Shannon, and you're listening to kf
Speaker 1: I AM six forty the Gary and Shannon Show on
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Speaker 2: Nineteen seventy six is our Flashback Friday year for no
Speaker 2: great reason other than there's good music.
Speaker 3: I've got a.
Speaker 1: Neighbor who calls his wife, who's also my neighbor, the
Speaker 1: little muffin, and he.
Speaker 4: Says it a lot. You go, oh, the little muffin.
Speaker 2: What does he call her like when he's beckoning her
Speaker 2: or commanding her color muffin?
Speaker 3: I think, really, yeah.
Speaker 1: I just I feel like that's and I think it's adorable.
Speaker 1: It's very cute for them, But I think it should
Speaker 1: be a then thing, you know, like inside the house
Speaker 1: thing shmoopy. Yeah, the little muffin? How cute is that?
Speaker 1: What do you call your wife? Here's the thing I
Speaker 1: don't often use. I don't have to get her attention.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't go hey or snap my fingers, which is awful. Yeah,
Speaker 2: don't do that. I found that out the hard way.
Speaker 2: I call her Shannon, but she says, I don't say
Speaker 2: it very often.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's jarring. It is jarring.
Speaker 3: I don't know why.
Speaker 2: Well, I say it four hours a day, and she said, yeah,
Speaker 2: but you don't say it to me. It's different.
Speaker 4: She prefers you to use her name.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Interesting.
Speaker 1: I don't like it when I when I hear somebody
Speaker 1: use my name, I feel like I'm in trouble. Aside
Speaker 1: from the show, I feel like it's a trouble situation.
Speaker 2: Well, let's jump right into a swamp watch. We got
Speaker 2: some developing news out of the Middle East.
Speaker 3: I'm a politician, which means I'm a cheat and a liar.
Speaker 3: And when I'm not kissing babies, I'm stealing that lollipops.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we got the real problem is that our leaders
Speaker 5: are dumb.
Speaker 1: The other side never quit, so what what.
Speaker 3: I'm not going anywhere so that the squat I can
Speaker 3: imagine what can be and be unburdened by what has been.
Speaker 5: You know, Americans have always been gone all.
Speaker 3: They're not stupid.
Speaker 2: A political plunder is when a politician actually tells the truth.
Speaker 3: Whether people voted for you were not swamp launch, They're
Speaker 3: all counted on.
Speaker 2: According to ABC News and some other outlets in the
Speaker 2: Middle East, Israel launched the dozens of strikes against Iran
Speaker 2: early and now Iran has responded with some amount of
Speaker 2: missiles that have been detected launched towards Israel. The saving grace,
Speaker 2: I suppose, is that they are far enough apart. It
Speaker 2: takes a long time for those missiles to get to
Speaker 2: to Israel from Iran. A couple of live shots that
Speaker 2: exist now in Tel Aviv, and you can see what
Speaker 2: appeared to be either aircraft or missiles moving through the
Speaker 2: sky there. But again, this is this just came in
Speaker 2: a few minutes ago, that Israel has detected that Iran
Speaker 2: has launched missiles towards Israel in what was anticipated as
Speaker 2: a reaction to the massive attack that Israel foisted upon Iran.
Speaker 1: Just overnight, Trump is meeting with the National Security Council.
Speaker 1: Several high ranking Iranian military leaders obviously killed in those attacks.
Speaker 1: We named at least three of them. The President knew
Speaker 1: about Israel's plans to strike, obviously, so Iron no longer
Speaker 1: planning to engage in any sort of nuclear talks with us.
Speaker 1: They were set to happen, by the way, this weekend
Speaker 1: Sunday in Oman.
Speaker 4: Talk suspended indefinitely.
Speaker 1: No one's coming to the table because, as you could imagine,
Speaker 1: it seems like this is all done with the blessing
Speaker 1: of the United States.
Speaker 2: The specifics of the attack, Israel's attack on Iran are
Speaker 2: pretty amazing in terms of how widespread the attacks were
Speaker 2: throughout the country, who they targeted, and what they targeted.
Speaker 2: They were basically in dozens, dozens of different places that
Speaker 2: Israel was able to attack, several leaders, like you said,
Speaker 2: military leaders, but also leaders of the nuclear program there
Speaker 2: in Iran that have now been killed. And then the
Speaker 2: locations several nuclear facilities, some that were relatively easy to
Speaker 2: get to and others that may have been a couple
Speaker 2: hundred feet underground. We know that Massad was able to
Speaker 2: bring missiles into Iran undercover and use those missiles from
Speaker 2: within the country as part of that attack last night.
Speaker 1: We have been working to reach a deal with Iran
Speaker 1: for weeks on a nuclear agreement. Israel's ambition, in the
Speaker 1: New York Times, is to destroy the heart of Iran's
Speaker 1: nuclear program.
Speaker 4: Iran fell a foul of the.
Speaker 1: UN's rules when it comes to nuclear programs just one
Speaker 1: day before the attack began. Then the question is, does
Speaker 1: Iran ever listen to anyone or back down from developing
Speaker 1: or maintaining its nuclear program.
Speaker 3: They've broken promises for every turn. Again.
Speaker 2: The update just a few minutes ago is that the
Speaker 2: Israeli Defense forces have sent an initial warning to all
Speaker 2: civilians in the country to take shelter. Iranian missiles are
Speaker 2: apparently making their way to Israeli territory.
Speaker 1: Is it just a case of suffering setbacks of delivering
Speaker 1: them setbacks to their nuclear program? Is that the endgame
Speaker 1: here is there's no way they're going to just stop
Speaker 1: developing nuclear weapons. But if we attack them, or Israel
Speaker 1: attacks them, at least they'll be set back years.
Speaker 2: Well, the way Israel has done this, look at their
Speaker 2: attitude towards Hamas. They have not stopped the devastation in Gaza.
Speaker 2: They say they won't stop until Amas is completely eradicated.
Speaker 3: That's what they've said.
Speaker 2: The Israeli's all also said just last week that they
Speaker 2: will not accept a nuclear armed Iran. And with the
Speaker 2: fact that they were days or maybe a couple of
Speaker 2: weeks away from enriching to the point that they could
Speaker 2: have nuclear weapons that double middle finger that I told
Speaker 2: you about when the IAEA came out and said Iran
Speaker 2: continues to break promises, and then Iran said yeah, and
Speaker 2: we're also going to open a new enrichment facility.
Speaker 3: Iran finally had to pull the trigger on it.
Speaker 2: And if it's true that they're talking about they have
Speaker 2: a war plan for fourteen days, there's going to be
Speaker 2: nothing left. So I think it goes beyond what they
Speaker 2: believe would be just a setback or a pause and
Speaker 2: saying we're going to destroy all of the infrastructure that
Speaker 2: exists around the nuclear program.
Speaker 1: Of course, oil price has become a part of the
Speaker 1: conversation when we've got this going on in that area
Speaker 1: of the world. Where oil prices go from here depends
Speaker 1: on how Iran responds to these attacks. According to analysts,
Speaker 1: that prices could climb further if Iran attacks energy infrastructure
Speaker 1: or US bases in the area. It looks like our
Speaker 1: oil companies and big producers in the Middle East, Saudi Arabia,
Speaker 1: things like that not looking to ramp up production quickly.
Speaker 4: So oil prices could be a real.
Speaker 1: Issue, especially when the Trump administration has a goal of
Speaker 1: lowering energy costs to keep that inflation in check, which
Speaker 1: it has.
Speaker 2: With all of this going on, The United States is
Speaker 2: moving a couple of destroyers towards the Eastern Mediterranean. The
Speaker 2: Pentagon says they are capable of defending against ballistic and
Speaker 2: cruise missile attacks. They were already in that area, but
Speaker 2: have rerouted to be available if necessary. So something that
Speaker 2: we will keep an eye on throughout the weekend.
Speaker 1: All right, coming up next, a thirty two hour flight.
Speaker 1: Could you imagine this? Your you bord a flight a
Speaker 1: three hour flight, by the way, a little more than
Speaker 1: three hours, three hours and some change, and you end
Speaker 1: up on a thirty two hour flight.
Speaker 4: What does that sound like to you?
Speaker 3: H double hockey sticks?
Speaker 4: I was going to say tear in the skies.
Speaker 1: Also, so we're not using the word hell on the
Speaker 1: program anymore.
Speaker 3: Well, we need to.
Speaker 2: There was also a story that suggests that Americans curse
Speaker 2: more than any other country.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've really got to start working on that. Okay,
Speaker 1: I actually have been doing pretty good lately. Okay, do
Speaker 1: you think outside of these four hours? I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I've heard a lot of words you have. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what are you so innocent?
Speaker 4: I don't think I've been swearing a lot lately.
Speaker 2: But let me also point out there are things that
Speaker 2: you say that you don't even know you say until
Speaker 2: after you've said.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then sometimes not even then.
Speaker 5: You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI
Speaker 5: AM six forty.
Speaker 1: Well, we've got air raid sirens sounding in Jerusalem, Israel
Speaker 1: saying Aron has fired missiles. At least one explosion heard
Speaker 1: in the distance. As the skies are lighting up there
Speaker 1: in Tel.
Speaker 2: Aviv, you can see not only there's at least one
Speaker 2: missile strike appears in central Tel Aviv. There were defense
Speaker 2: missiles going the other way from the ground to the
Speaker 2: air as well. But there is smoke rising up from
Speaker 2: the central area around Tel Aviv, reports of impacts somewhere.
Speaker 2: They don't know exactly what was targeted or if it
Speaker 2: was just kind of a random thing and just headed
Speaker 2: towards the center of Tel Aviv.
Speaker 1: They say dozens of incoming missiles have been detected there,
Speaker 1: according to the Israeli military officials.
Speaker 2: This, of course, in response to Israel's attack on Iran
Speaker 2: overnight that hit hundreds of sites, two hundred different targets,
Speaker 2: including several of the nuclear facilities that Ron has been
Speaker 2: working on, and military leaders and leaders of the nuclear program.
Speaker 1: Well, we've got a thirty two hour flight, which lends
Speaker 1: itself to terror in this guy, fight is.
Speaker 4: Zero Nior, You're a clay every day.
Speaker 3: Off Roger, get off my plane, Roderick Rodgers, what's our vector, Victor?
Speaker 3: I have handed with these multi pint and snakes on
Speaker 3: this money.
Speaker 5: It's Gary and Shannon's Terror in the skies on KFI.
Speaker 2: All right.
Speaker 4: I said this was a three hour and change flight.
Speaker 1: It's actually a two hour and change flight from Zurich
Speaker 1: to Crete, Zurk, Switzerland, Crete, Greece. This was a plane
Speaker 1: carrying one hundred and thirty seven passengers, six crew members
Speaker 1: and again the flight was supposed to take just under
Speaker 1: three hours, but then came the extreme weather conditions, so.
Speaker 3: They had strong winds.
Speaker 2: Takeoffs and landings at the Harraclayon Airport on Crete only
Speaker 2: possible to a limited extent, so to several attempts to land,
Speaker 2: the flight was unable to operate as plan. They had
Speaker 2: to be diverted several times, including a night stop in
Speaker 2: Thessalona say it again, Thessalonic Higher Saloni.
Speaker 3: Key, before finally returning to Zurich. I have no idea.
Speaker 2: Refreshments and drinks were served for all guests by the
Speaker 2: crew in the galley. Some passengers complained that they weren't
Speaker 2: given many refreshments. Some reportedly vomited during one of the
Speaker 2: attempt at approach.
Speaker 1: Do you imagine five times you try to stop that
Speaker 1: you even stopped for overnight. I mean, I had one
Speaker 1: flight that I've talked about before. It was from Sacramento
Speaker 1: to Burbank and it was in the winter. It was January,
Speaker 1: February or something went up for my nephew's rugby game,
Speaker 1: and it totally crazy winds at Burbank, it's raining. Tried
Speaker 1: to land, winds were too strong, don't even touch the runway,
Speaker 1: but got close and then took right back off, made
Speaker 1: another pass, tried to land again, and that was it.
Speaker 1: It took right back off again, made another circle, landed
Speaker 1: back at Sacramento International all the way to Burbank.
Speaker 4: Couldn't land twice. It went back to Sacramento.
Speaker 3: You could even probably see your car from.
Speaker 1: Exactly and that was a little frustrating, but I'm glad
Speaker 1: that they acted out of an abundance of caution. It's
Speaker 1: a short runway there, the whole bit. But thirty two hours,
Speaker 1: my god, Well, who doesn't I mean, is anybody up
Speaker 1: in arms? I'm surprised we haven't heard reports from people
Speaker 1: freaking out like, what the hell are you doing?
Speaker 4: What are we doing here? Land anywhere? Land anywhere?
Speaker 2: According to Business Insider, the flight circled off the coast
Speaker 2: of Crete six times before a U turn and then
Speaker 2: turn around to land in Athens. They made four stops,
Speaker 2: endured an overnight's day in Thessalon Kai during a thirty
Speaker 2: two hour travel time, stopped in Athens a second time,
Speaker 2: and in coasts before going You know what they just said.
Speaker 2: They threw it in there, threw up their hands, forget it,
Speaker 2: We're just going back to Zurich. Never mind, good lord,
Speaker 2: you geta ridden a bike there quicker?
Speaker 1: Where would you go if if you had to endure
Speaker 1: a thirty two hour flight? What would you endure a
Speaker 1: thirty two hour flight for? Where do you love so
Speaker 1: much much that you would spend thirty two hours on
Speaker 1: a flight to get to?
Speaker 3: I don't know if there is such a place.
Speaker 1: Maybe if you were somewhere and you just said, bet,
Speaker 1: you haven't been home for a long time and you
Speaker 1: just wanted to go home, probably that would probably be it.
Speaker 1: We lasted thirty two hours in an airport one time.
Speaker 1: It wasn't thirty eight felt like it.
Speaker 2: We got to the airport at eleven or twelve, but
Speaker 2: didn't take off until about twelve.
Speaker 3: Oh, thegether in noon.
Speaker 2: I don't think we took off until midnight. Gary and
Speaker 2: Shannon will continue the forgotten history of Father.
Speaker 1: Oh this is great Father's Day. Who knew it came
Speaker 1: with such controversy? It started with a mine explosion?
Speaker 3: Who knew? Gary and Shannon will continue.
Speaker 5: You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI
Speaker 5: AM six forty.
Speaker 1: We are staying on top of all of the action
Speaker 1: as Run launches retaliatory missiles tour to Israel. Several missiles
Speaker 1: have been detected, according to Israeli military officials.
Speaker 3: And we knew this was coming.
Speaker 1: We knew there was going to be some type of
Speaker 1: retaliation for what we saw happen yesterday afternoon.
Speaker 2: Iran itself says that hundreds of missiles have been launched
Speaker 2: towards Israel. We don't know exactly if there's a specific
Speaker 2: target that they have in mind or targets. Some of
Speaker 2: the live cameras that exist in and around Tel Aviv,
Speaker 2: you can see at least three impacts of missiles in
Speaker 2: what appears to be sort of the downtown Tel Aviv
Speaker 2: area and originally some of the reports on Fox and
Speaker 2: CNN had suggested that there were no known injuries at
Speaker 2: this point. But again, it's about nine thirty at night
Speaker 2: Israel time, and this is going to be a long
Speaker 2: night for them as they deal with again Iran saying
Speaker 2: hundreds of missiles that have been launched towards Israel.
Speaker 1: The Ayatola has vowed revel and a recorded message to
Speaker 1: the nation this hour as well the State News Agency
Speaker 1: saying that this is all part of their response to
Speaker 1: the attack on Iranian nuclear and military sites, all trying
Speaker 1: to get a Ran to abandon its nuclear program or
Speaker 1: at least play by the rules.
Speaker 4: And it has not wanted to do so.
Speaker 3: Well, it's gonna be a long weekend. I know you
Speaker 3: have things going on.
Speaker 2: Well, I just I mean, all of this stuff that's
Speaker 2: happening is on top of other normal life stuff, and
Speaker 2: I guess this is normal life.
Speaker 1: Father's Day wasn't always a thing Mother's Day started at all,
Speaker 1: but the first Father's Day was actually.
Speaker 2: Nineteen oh eight, if I remember correctly, fourteen for Mother's
Speaker 2: Day nineteen fourteen, Okay. Men in the early nineteen hundreds
Speaker 2: associated a tribute with women and found the idea of
Speaker 2: a day for men too effeminate for their liking.
Speaker 1: Yeah, insinuating that men had anything to do with parenting,
Speaker 1: with rearing the children was considered a taboo situation that
Speaker 1: that's not manly enough for them to rear children.
Speaker 4: That's what mothers do. And so that was kind of
Speaker 4: the feeling amongst men.
Speaker 1: The idea that there would be flowers or brunches or
Speaker 1: anything of that nature was just ridiculous to men at
Speaker 1: the time.
Speaker 4: So it was largely just ignored or even poop pooed.
Speaker 3: Funny because I don't know a lot of to that end.
Speaker 2: I don't know a lot of dudes who are like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I can't wait to celebrate Father's Day where I have
Speaker 2: to cook. Oh, because you're grilling. I was talking to
Speaker 2: a guy last night. He was like, yeah, I get,
Speaker 2: but his caveat is he'll cook. He just gets to
Speaker 2: choose what and how. So he has a smoker and
Speaker 2: he's talking about, you know, the different cuts of meat,
Speaker 2: which ones he's going to smoke for twelve hours.
Speaker 1: So in the article I was looking at yesterday, they
Speaker 1: say Mother's Day has roots dating back actually to the
Speaker 1: eighteen sixties, that Father's Day took a few more decades
Speaker 1: to catch on history dot com sites a florist who
Speaker 1: suggested that fathers haven't had the same sentimental appeal that
Speaker 1: mothers had. The first documented event to explicitly honor fathers
Speaker 1: was held at a West Virginia church July fifth, nineteen
Speaker 1: oh eight. Now, this initial Father's Day celebration in nineteen
Speaker 1: oh eight was dedicated to the memory of three hundred
Speaker 1: and sixty two men who had died six months before
Speaker 1: and explosions at a coal company, but that did not
Speaker 1: become an annual event just that The following year, a
Speaker 1: woman by the name of Sonora Smart Dodd attempted to
Speaker 1: create the equivalent of a Mother's Day for male parents
Speaker 1: in Spokane, Washington.
Speaker 4: She was one of six children raised.
Speaker 1: By a widower, and this first statewide Father's Day was
Speaker 1: celebrated there in Washington June nineteenth, nineteen ten, two years
Speaker 1: after President Woodrow Wilson issued a proclamation for the first
Speaker 1: Mother's Day, he honored the day by using telegraph signals
Speaker 1: to inferl a flag in Spokane, and then in nineteen
Speaker 1: twenty four, President Calvin Coolidge encouraged state governments to observe
Speaker 1: Father's Day. But one historian cited in history dot Com
Speaker 1: wrote that many men scoffed at this. The holiday's sentimental
Speaker 1: attempts to domesticate manliness was how it was described, with
Speaker 1: the flowers and the gift giving and all of that.
Speaker 1: To Kate Manling, that they saw these holidays as a
Speaker 1: commercial gimmick to sell more products.
Speaker 4: And how wise they were.
Speaker 1: That's what all of this crap is all about, they said,
Speaker 1: often paid for, to your point, by the father himself.
Speaker 1: The father is the head of the household back then,
Speaker 1: and for a very long time, He's the one buying
Speaker 1: the things for Mother's Day. He's the one buying things.
Speaker 4: For all the.
Speaker 1: Holidays that are there just for you to buy things, right,
Speaker 1: Why add another one to his bank roll or what
Speaker 1: have you. In the nineteen twenties and nineteen thirties, there
Speaker 1: was a movement to do away with Mother's Day and
Speaker 1: Father's Day and instead celebrate a single holiday, which was
Speaker 1: called to be called Parents' Day. There were demonstrations in
Speaker 1: Central Park at the time, a reminder that both parents
Speaker 1: should be loved and respected together.
Speaker 2: There were demonstrations about this. But then the great, the
Speaker 2: good old days, when demonstrations were about him combining mothers
Speaker 2: and Father's days.
Speaker 1: The Great Depression, they say, proved to be a major
Speaker 1: obstacle struggling businesses framed Father's Day as a second Christmas
Speaker 1: for men, and then when World War II began, the
Speaker 1: holiday was promoted to support the war effort and honor
Speaker 1: American troops. Now that strategy gained widespread support by the
Speaker 1: war's end, I mean what didn't gain support? And World
Speaker 1: War two times to honor the people that fought. But
Speaker 1: it wasn't until nineteen seventy two that President Nixon signed
Speaker 1: a proclamation to make Father's Day a federal holiday.
Speaker 3: Why does the government have to be involved with it? Anyway?
Speaker 1: Father's Day earned this level of recognition fifty eight years
Speaker 1: after Mother's Day. Fifty eight years after the government recognized
Speaker 1: Mother's Day, they recognized Father's Day.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 2: I know that Major League Baseball does a big deal
Speaker 2: about Mother's Day and Father's Day. Obviously that falls those
Speaker 2: fall within the season, so on Mother's Day we can end.
Speaker 2: They do a big deal about breast cancer awareness and
Speaker 2: breast cancer research funding, where a lot of the players
Speaker 2: wear pink cleats or they use pink bats. Or and
Speaker 2: in fact they I don't remember if they did it
Speaker 2: this year, but they'll wear pink logos, not the entire uniform,
Speaker 2: but just the lettering sometimes on their jerseys would be pink.
Speaker 2: And then for Father's Day they do a light blue
Speaker 2: for prostate cancer awareness, some more common cancer among men diseases.
Speaker 1: Aside, it's obvious what moms do, right, I mean, usually
Speaker 1: fathers are seen as you know, the head of the
Speaker 1: household when it comes to financial things, or at least
Speaker 1: historically that has been the case.
Speaker 3: That has changed dramatically.
Speaker 1: But you know, for all the stories we do about
Speaker 1: serial killers and the like, with no fathers here.
Speaker 2: It comes oh, okay, they're gonna say, because they're all men. No, okay,
Speaker 2: why would I do?
Speaker 4: I seem like that kind of person.
Speaker 3: Jesus.
Speaker 1: You know, the importance of having a father and being
Speaker 1: a father is also asked and answered, right it should.
Speaker 1: Mother's Day seems like there's so much seriousness around it,
Speaker 1: where Father's Day is kind of like, eh, you girls,
Speaker 1: some hot dogs whatever, watch the baseball game. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's very important to be a father. It's like be
Speaker 1: a father, not just you know, dedicate your sperm to a.
Speaker 3: Woman, not just donate not just donate it.
Speaker 1: You know, But like all the problem, all the societal
Speaker 1: problems that happened with lack of dad's being dads or
Speaker 1: just you know.
Speaker 2: There's also something I enjoy about and Father's Day kind
Speaker 2: of points it out to me. The naivete that we
Speaker 2: grow up with. We assume everybody in the world does
Speaker 2: the same things we do. So if your family celebrates
Speaker 2: Christmas for the first few years of your life, you
Speaker 2: assume everybody celebrates Christmas. How could you not get presents
Speaker 2: on December twenty fifth or have Santa Claus or something
Speaker 2: like that. And there are places in the in the
Speaker 2: world that do not celebrate Father's Day, which I remember
Speaker 2: being flabber gas did at that. Well, how do the
Speaker 2: dads in other parts of the world, How do they
Speaker 2: know that they are loved? Where do they get their
Speaker 2: stupid little you know, cardboard tie from or the little
Speaker 2: crafts that your kids make at the last day of school?
Speaker 1: Do your kids still now that they're grown? Do they
Speaker 1: you'll get like a text or something, or do they
Speaker 1: are their cards?
Speaker 4: Involved? Are their gifts?
Speaker 3: We'll see?
Speaker 4: Oh okay, well what happened last year?
Speaker 3: Do you even remember.
Speaker 2: No, yeah, no, I think what happened last year. We
Speaker 2: usually have friends over that that have kids in the
Speaker 2: same age range, so those kids don't their kids don't
Speaker 2: care either. So we'll come over and we'll, you know,
Speaker 2: have dinner together and commiserate. But I don't know, we'll see.
Speaker 2: I'll be on the road on Sunday, so I don't know.
Speaker 1: There was an article in Vox that I stumbled across
Speaker 1: this morning. It is the Silent Seething Relationship Killer. Oh,
Speaker 1: we've made jokes about this. Everyone's made a joke about this.
Speaker 1: But is it to be joked about something about your
Speaker 1: spouse that may bother you, may be indicative of something
Speaker 1: much bigger. Something that seems to be innocuous may be
Speaker 1: a sign of a much bigger problem. Is it that
Speaker 1: constant breathing that they always do. It's close, damn close.
Speaker 1: Gary and Shannon will continue.
Speaker 5: You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI
Speaker 5: AM six forty man.
Speaker 1: The details from this sole survivor of the plane crash yesterday.
Speaker 1: I can't get enough of what he's saying because it's
Speaker 1: just mind blowing that he was able to survive this crash.
Speaker 1: He says, I saw people dying in front of my eyes,
Speaker 1: the air hostesses. I saw two people near me. I
Speaker 1: walked out of the rubble. I don't know how I survived.
Speaker 1: I managed to unbuckle myself. Emergency exit door next to
Speaker 1: him was not there any longer. He said, he didn't
Speaker 1: have to jump out. He just kind of walked through.
Speaker 1: I used my leg to push through the opening, crawled out,
Speaker 1: walked away.
Speaker 3: And walked away. That's just the amazing part. Yeah, walked away,
Speaker 3: not even significantly.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 2: We are following the stories out of the Middle East.
Speaker 2: More air raid sirens have soundered across now northern Israel.
Speaker 2: Iran has apparently fired a second barrage of missiles towards Israel.
Speaker 2: There have been several explosions heard near Tel Aviv. Israeli
Speaker 2: military and media are reporting nine impacts in or around
Speaker 2: Tel Aviv from the Iranian missiles that were that were fired.
Speaker 2: So Iran itself says that there were hundreds of missiles
Speaker 2: that were launched towards Israel.
Speaker 1: Tonight, the Dodgers take on the Giants Dodger Stadium, first
Speaker 1: pitch at seven. Listen to all Dodger games on AM
Speaker 1: five seventy LA Sports live from the Gallpin Motors Broadcast
Speaker 1: booth and stream all Dodgers games INHD on the iHeartRadio
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Speaker 1: plus Pride Night.
Speaker 2: By the way, I don't know if the Dodgers do this,
Speaker 2: but the Giants last weekend or whatever, they had a
Speaker 2: the Rainbow logo on the inside of their the Rainbow
Speaker 2: flag on the inside of their logo. I don't know
Speaker 2: if the Dodgers are going to do that, and I
Speaker 2: don't know how many teams actually do that. You've ever
Speaker 2: been Have you ever been envious of someone?
Speaker 3: Sure you want what they have?
Speaker 5: Sure?
Speaker 3: Have you ever been jealous?
Speaker 1: Probably as a youth, as a younger person jealous or
Speaker 1: I realized that and envying somebody and being jealous if
Speaker 1: someone doesn't do any good.
Speaker 2: Jealousy is the fear of losing what you have, maybe
Speaker 2: to someone, to someone else. But those are those are
Speaker 2: very common. Those are not what's going to kill a relationship. No,
Speaker 2: the real cancer for the relationship the R word resentment.
Speaker 4: Resentment and how does it rear its ugly head.
Speaker 1: Well, it's when you start getting annoyed by your partners chewing.
Speaker 1: When you hear them chewing, it's not about the chewing,
Speaker 1: It's about the resentment you feel towards that person. What
Speaker 1: if it is based in something though it's based in
Speaker 1: your resentment, Well, what if there was an action or
Speaker 1: activity that that actually happened that you then can't get over.
Speaker 2: That's a resentment. So but they make it sound as
Speaker 2: if some of it is just based in nothing. Some
Speaker 2: of it is just it's a time. You know, you
Speaker 2: you're worn down after a while, and you resent that
Speaker 2: person for just being there constantly, or getting in your
Speaker 2: way in the kitchen, or not picking up their underwear
Speaker 2: on the side of the day.
Speaker 1: But see, it's all about those nothing things that are
Speaker 1: indicative of something bigger.
Speaker 3: Oh uh oh okay, Like it's not sounds like you
Speaker 3: got something.
Speaker 4: Well when you say you resenting, yeah we do.
Speaker 1: When you say it's about nothing, but you resent that
Speaker 1: person for just being there and getting in the way
Speaker 1: of things, it's about something, you know, and it could
Speaker 1: be something you're not even aware of. Maybe you resent
Speaker 1: something in your relationship that happened twenty five years ago
Speaker 1: and you just it just still lies there, dormant, and
Speaker 1: it comes out in the form of you being annoyed
Speaker 1: about their chewing well.
Speaker 2: Without without doing the work. And I mean that in
Speaker 2: the therapy way to get over something. How could you
Speaker 2: possibly ever really be over something? And I listen, I'm
Speaker 2: thinking of I know people who've remained married after cheating,
Speaker 2: and the resentment that you would have, even if that
Speaker 2: was ten years ago and you dealt with it and
Speaker 2: you talked through it, it's still there.
Speaker 3: How would you ever be able.
Speaker 2: To extract that from without a memory wipe? How do
Speaker 2: you completely get that out of your head?
Speaker 4: And then how do you explain this? I'm at the
Speaker 4: theater last week.
Speaker 3: Was this a real story?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Oh yes, I told you were doing work today.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't know how much work is going to
Speaker 1: be done. I'm at the theater last week and I'm
Speaker 1: sort of laying there over there, and sure, I'll lay
Speaker 1: on the couch and a woman sits next to me.
Speaker 1: I don't know this woman. I have no resentments about
Speaker 1: her until she starts eating and she's shoveling that popcorn
Speaker 1: in her mouth like someone's gonna come take it from her.
Speaker 1: And it was loud and it was gross, and I
Speaker 1: could like hear her her saliva almost like you know
Speaker 1: that it was.
Speaker 4: It was a real problem for me.
Speaker 1: And I've never had a problem with people eating popcorn
Speaker 1: next to me in a theater, but now I do.
Speaker 3: Now there's something there.
Speaker 1: And she's done nothing to me. She hasn't cheated on me,
Speaker 1: She's done nothing wrong. I have no resentments against a
Speaker 1: strange woman. But I can't listen to her too. I
Speaker 1: can't listen to her eat. I'm about to lose it.
Speaker 1: It doesn't need to be that loud, or she didn't
Speaker 1: need to eat that fast. Why she have to eat
Speaker 1: so fast?
Speaker 4: No one's taken that popcorn away from you.
Speaker 1: Your husband's not. He's next to you, or whatever gentleman
Speaker 1: you brought with you. He's probably just as annoyed.
Speaker 2: Okay, there's a couple of things. As your therapist, I
Speaker 2: would say that's more annoyance than it is resentment, because resentment,
Speaker 2: I know, I don't resent, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: There's no resentment there. So I'm just annoyed by her chewing.
Speaker 1: How Come I can't just be annoyed with my husband's chewing?
Speaker 1: Why does it have to have a deeper meaning, I
Speaker 1: guess is what my point is like you're trying to
Speaker 1: I know, I'm just saying, listen, it's your wife. When
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of, oh, she's annoyed by your chewing.
Speaker 3: What you don't know this, it's a hard way to
Speaker 3: find out.
Speaker 4: It's just it's funny.
Speaker 1: It's like it's it kind of when I read this,
Speaker 1: it kind of just it's not really about the chewing.
Speaker 1: It kind of goes back to our our tried and
Speaker 1: true trope that it sometimes it's not about the milk.
Speaker 4: You know, it doesn't have to be the chewing. It
Speaker 4: It can be like why why didn't you pick up
Speaker 4: the milk?
Speaker 3: Where?
Speaker 4: Why do we have no milk?
Speaker 1: Which is indicative of not about the milk, it's something
Speaker 1: else going on or whatever.
Speaker 3: But I just thought it was very deep seated, long term, right.
Speaker 1: But I thought this was funny because the chewing, I
Speaker 1: think everybody knows something is knows somebody who's sensitive to chewing,
Speaker 1: to some to other people's eating. And and I didn't
Speaker 1: know why I was that person until I went to
Speaker 1: the theater. But that they that they're saying that that's
Speaker 1: indicative of something much.
Speaker 2: Bigger that well, they talk about where does resentment come from?
Speaker 2: And a lot of times we think of it in
Speaker 2: the romantic sense, like you and and your your boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever, anybody.
Speaker 3: But it could be anybody.
Speaker 4: You could resent the trash driver.
Speaker 3: It could be co workers, Yeah, yes, coworkers.
Speaker 2: I think the most would be co workers, partners, friends, family, colleagues, neighbors,
Speaker 2: even or random strangers next to you eating popcorn in
Speaker 2: the movies.
Speaker 1: Because you've choosen to live with the person that you're
Speaker 1: that you live with, that you're married to, what have you.
Speaker 4: But you work with people for several decades.
Speaker 1: And things like I can build up a little bit
Speaker 1: and you don't necessarily address them because you're not in
Speaker 1: a relationship with those people.
Speaker 2: So the resentment just kind of festers. It is funny
Speaker 2: that they refer to resentment that grows into contempt. You
Speaker 2: ever had that you ever had resentment that you had
Speaker 2: just hold this person in complete contempt?
Speaker 4: Well, it's kind of like you and the Woody Show, right, No, oh.
Speaker 3: No, wait what you try to start a fight now,
Speaker 3: woll I mean.
Speaker 1: There was that whole thing about you being a d
Speaker 1: years ago, ten years ago now, and then.
Speaker 3: Because somebody thought that I was. I know that you
Speaker 3: keep telling me that I'm not. You're not.
Speaker 4: I don't think you are. I just hope that that
Speaker 4: that that narrative doesn't exist anymore.
Speaker 5: They do.
Speaker 3: They resent me because they think I am a thee
Speaker 3: I hope not.
Speaker 1: It's what I'm saying. I think we squashed that though.
Speaker 1: You talked to Woody. We talked to Woody the other day.
Speaker 1: Everything's fine, right, yeah.
Speaker 2: And we both worked with Genet grad and Morgan was
Speaker 2: here for a long time and they're both now on
Speaker 2: the show.
Speaker 4: Right unless they also hate, that.
Speaker 3: Is very possible. Well, I resent the hate.
Speaker 4: I think we're making everything about us again.
Speaker 3: That's why I resent.
Speaker 1: Hey, we've got Disney tickets to give away in the
Speaker 1: next hour, so you're gonna have to keep.
Speaker 4: It right here hating us.
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