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Speaker 1: It could be cringe worthy for a love story. Good

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morning and kiss in the morning's second date update.

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Speaker 2: I'm kiss ninety five seven?

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Speaker 3: Are you guys? It is time to go to New

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Britain This morning second date update. Go on a first

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date and you love it, but you get ghosted for

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a second date. Call us. Tyler's on the line to

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tell us about a great first date he went on.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Tyler, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I hope we can help you out.

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You're getting ghosted after a first date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so it kind of It was a good date.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: I took this girl out. She was super hot. We

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had a great conversation and I really thought we just

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had a connection, like I felt it, you know. And Okay,

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now for some reason, I'm texting her and texting her

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and texting her and I'm just getting ghosted. Can't figure

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out why I thought it went great And I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm wondering Tyler. When you say I texted her and

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texted her and texted her, women get you know, it's

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a little suffocating. That sounds.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Was it like stocker you talk seeing where you're blowing

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her up like every five minutes.

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Speaker 4: No, it was like, you know, one day I'm texting her, Hey,

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how are you? I want to go on a second date?

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I really liked our first one. Or the second time,

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it's just like, hey, how are you? Nothing crazy or cringey?

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You know. I mean, I've done this dating thing many

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times before.

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Speaker 2: So okay, okay, hey you know what this is what

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I call the deep freeze, the date deep freeze. It's

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so cold outside, it's like frozen tundra. Women don't want

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to get all dressed up and go out. I'm sure

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that's probably why you haven't heard back from her.

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Speaker 3: He makes he makes a point, doesn't he to be?

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Speaker 1: This is the first time in my life that I've

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actually related to something that much.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, he's right.

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Speaker 3: But Tyler, you felt a connection and you thought the

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date went great, and she's not. I mean, even if

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she doesn't want to go out because it's like, you know,

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the frozen tundra out there, she would at least respond.

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I would think.

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Speaker 4: That's that's what I'm thinking. I just want to at

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least a response. You know. I felt we, like I said,

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we just had a great conversation. She seemed like she

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liked me. I liked her, and I'm just confused. I

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just don't know why I'm at this point of not

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getting response.

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Speaker 3: All Right, I like your confidence. This is what we're

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gonna do. We're gonna call her up and ask her

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to be honest. You're gonna be listening in, so hold on. Okay,

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m hm, okay, let's call her. He's very confident.

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Speaker 1: I think he overtexted and she got freaked out.

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Speaker 2: I do too.

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Speaker 3: I texted her, then I texted her, and then I

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texted her. Yeah, it's like, oh, soccer too much?

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Hi, is alexis there speaking? Hi Alexis, It's Courtney.

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Speaker 2: It's Walmart Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Alexis, it's Savannah. You're on Kiss ninety five seven.

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Speaker 3: I gotta just let you know. Yeah, you're on. You're

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on the radio this morning.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I love this show.

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Speaker 5: Wait, this is so fun.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Hey, Well then I'm glad you're familiar with the

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show because you might also be familiar with Second Date Update.

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When somebody goes on a first date and they get ghosted,

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they call us You're on Second Date Update.

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Speaker 5: Oh boy, okay, Oh, I.

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Speaker 3: Will refresh your memory if just in case, Tyler. Tyler says,

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you and he went on a great first date. He

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said that he felt a connection. He did say there

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was a lot of flirting back and forth, didn't you guys?

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He said there was a lot of flirting. He was

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attracted to you, he said, he reached out to you.

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I'm guessing it was three or four times. And you're

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ghosting him, and we're wondering why he's getting ghosted. Is

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it too many text messages?

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Speaker 5: No, so it's it's actually not the text messages, okay,

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And Tyler's Tyler's a great guy, and like, yeah, it

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was a fine date. I have to be honest. He

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actually told me pretty upfront that he has an STD

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and he was like, but by date three, we should

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be good, Like I'll be in the clear by date three.

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Speaker 3: No wait, no, was he joking? Was it like a

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joke and he like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 5: No, Like I'm I took him to be like pretty

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serious about it, and like that's it's great, like get tested,

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like that's all important. But like I wasn't even thinking

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about that. That was like so far from my first thought,

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Like it was a first date like that doing all

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that was not on the table for me. So I

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was just so shocked that he was so forward.

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Speaker 1: Wait forget ghosting him. How did you not run out

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of the restaurant at that moment. I would have liked

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been like, excuse Manny to use the bathmo and like

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slipped out the window.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. No, it wasn't one of those moments. Like I

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stayed for the rest of the day. But I just

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thought that was so so forward and so weird of

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him to Okay.

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Speaker 3: All right, can I just I got to bring him

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on the line. He's listening in Tyler. Was it a

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joke or were you being serious about your STD Yeah?

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Speaker 4: No, I mean, you know, it's embarrassing to say on

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the radio, but it was. It was not a joke.

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It was something. I'm a very honest person, and I

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wanted to just let her know I liked her. I

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thought maybe she would just be like, oh okay, like

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after a couple dates will be good. I just wanted

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to make sure I told her everything. I thought that

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was important.

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Speaker 3: What So you were assuming that at some point in

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the near future you guys were going to be intimate.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, it was we were flirting, you know,

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Like I said, there was hand touching. We were locking eyes,

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like you know, every guy kind of knows those are

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the signals I wanted to be up.

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Speaker 5: Front Tyler Tyler Tyler Tyler.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's the girls that I hang out with, but

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I don't think that I know a girl that would

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be like, hey, babe, just let you know I have

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an STD And she'd be like, okay, no big But.

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Speaker 4: You know what would what would she do if I

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didn't tell her then she got the SDD.

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Speaker 2: That's right, I mean, stand up guy right here? My friend.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Cuda waited for the second, third, or fourth. I

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just not even the second date. I mean we that's

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something you can I just Alexis, are you hearing what

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he's saying?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: And you know, I appreciate that, like I it's good

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to be honest and all that. I just think maybe

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it was a little too honest for me. So I

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love that for you, but I don't know that that's

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for me.

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Speaker 3: So even if I offered to pay for another date,

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like we'd pick up the tab, would the answer be

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no or yes?

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Speaker 5: Alexis, I think no would be my final answer.

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Speaker 2: What if we threw in like a prescription of vow tracks.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's not make fun of it. Let's not

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make fun of it. Tyler, you got your answer. This

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is why there's This is where you're getting ghosted. However,

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I think it's been about three days now or more so.

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Your next date that you go on with somebody, you

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don't have to say anything if you're in the clear.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, yeah, you're right.

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Speaker 3: I don't interesting. Well, you guys, thank you listen. I

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appreciate your honesty, both of you. We wish you all

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the luck and keep us posted.

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Speaker 4: All right, you got it,