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Speaker 1: This is j Amanda and j Ron's second date update

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on kJ one O three. Hey Jason, welcome second date update.

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, how you doing?

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Speaker 1: I get you another date with Brianna?

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Speaker 2: So yeah, so uh, basically, we met through.

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Speaker 3: A friend of a friend and then I messaged her

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like on Instagram and I asked her if she'd want

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to grab a burger and a beer, and she actually

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told me on the date that she had wanted to

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ask me.

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Speaker 2: Out but didn't have the guns.

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Speaker 3: So she was glad I met the first move okay,

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and and the date was awesome. I mean we kissed

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at the end, and you know, a couple of days

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later she actually texted me to go out again, and

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I thought, okay, you know this is easy.

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Speaker 2: She likes me, and uh.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jason, how did you screw this up? Figure out?

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Speaker 3: Yes, like the day of our second date, she canceled

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the something came up, and since then I've barely heard

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from her and I have no idea what happened. But

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this just feels like a second date.

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Speaker 2: Update ish thing that are share.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, she did something or or she just kind

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of fly. She might have just flaked out. Where's that?

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Speaker 4: But we will find out. Yeah, maybe there's an explanation.

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We'll get you another date here, or at least find

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out what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I'm hoping.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: The Second Date Update with TJ, Amanda.

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Speaker 5: And j rod On kJ one O three Rihanna, Welcome

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to the second date Update. Arianna by Jason said, you

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guys had this amazing date. Yeah, you were ready for

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a second date and then nothing the day of the

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second date.

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Speaker 1: You just kind of flaked out on him. What happened?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Well, I honestly really liked Jason, and that's probably

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the most frustrating part.

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Speaker 7: I thought the.

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Speaker 6: First date was really really great. But we have mutual friends,

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which is like how we got together. And after the

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date I was talking with one of my girlfriends and

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they told me that when he was in pay school,

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he dumbed his girlfriend at prom, not before prom, not

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after prom, like during prom itself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this it just it was.

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Speaker 6: It was so rude, and I think it just tells

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you so much about the kind of person he is

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at his core.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Okay, Jason, come on in here. Is first of all,

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is that a real story?

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Speaker 2: Yet it happened, but it was like ten years ago,

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because of what kind of person or boyfriend you would

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be when things aren't going well.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, that's one story with zero context.

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Speaker 2: You don't even know what happened, okay, what.

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Speaker 3: We were both leaving for college, and like three months

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we'd already talked about not doing long distance, and that

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night she was like miserable and she didn't want to dance,

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she didn't.

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Speaker 2: Want to talk. She kept snapping at me, and it

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was just.

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Speaker 3: So youd her.

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Speaker 2: I told her, I thought we should break up.

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Speaker 7: But you did it at prom and then you left.

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Speaker 6: I went to go party.

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Speaker 2: She had all of her friends there. I went with

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my friends, she went with hers.

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Speaker 1: You left her.

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Speaker 6: You left her crying at her high school prom.

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Speaker 1: She's going to remember that forever.

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Speaker 6: I mean, it's just something that you don't do.

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Speaker 7: You don't break up.

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Speaker 6: With someone at prom.

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Speaker 7: You get through the night and you have a conversation

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the next day, or you do it before problems, so

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she could have plenty of time to go find another date.

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Speaker 5: I think we can't be held accountable for things we

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did in high school.

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Speaker 1: Like I I mean, I'm sorry, I just can't. I

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don't really care.

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Speaker 4: But it's pretty sound to dump someone at their senior prom.

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Speaker 1: Right, it sounds.

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Speaker 3: Worse than what it was.

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Speaker 2: It was just like, hey, this isn't working out like

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I think we should end.

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Speaker 3: It was kind of mutual, and it was like I

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left her.

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Speaker 8: In the middle of the stage crying in front of everyone.

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Speaker 3: Y diress like it covered in tears.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like that.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, Brianna, what I mean, any chance you

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want to go out with Jason again?

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Speaker 7: No, it just gave me such an X, like I'd

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be wondering how you'd be breaking up with me the

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whole time.

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Speaker 1: I guess all.

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Speaker 8: Right, I guess I'm undateable because ten years ago I

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dumped my high school girlfriend at prom.

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm forever.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks for coming on the second date update, We're

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gonna let you go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think Jason was there a better time. Here's

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your chance to try to redeem yourself here.

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Speaker 2: First of all, whichever one of my friends decided my

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most bear seeing high school story needed to become public records.

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Speaker 8: I mean, if we're all being judged by the dumbest

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thing we did in high school, I don't think none

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of us should be dating.

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Speaker 1: Anybody probably Okay.

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Speaker 2: For the record, my prime date is married now with

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three kids.

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Speaker 5: There we go.

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Speaker 3: I think I think she recovers and.

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Speaker 4: Spared her And not to rub it in, but scoreboard,

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you're on the second date update.

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Speaker 8: So I think somebody else, Yeah, exactly, I.

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Speaker 1: Think we can forgive you.

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Speaker 4: You've been through enough, Jason, thanks for coming on the

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second date up date.

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Speaker 2: Man, Well, I just think it's kind of ridiculous to,

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you know, listen to something that happened ten years ago.

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Speaker 9: I mean, when you're in high school, your brain is

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even fully developed yet, and so to go off of

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something that a child did in their last year of

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high school is kind of ridiculous.

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Speaker 4: Yes, now, now, Tabor, let me say and I agree

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one hundred percent with this, Like I wish I could

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go back and change some of the things in some

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of the ways I treated people in high school. However,

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when she called him out on it, this would have

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been his chance to say, yeah, you know that sounds

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now the way you say that, that does sound pretty bad.

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Speaker 1: I probably could have done things different, But he said

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he was just like, sorry, yeah, I'm sorry. We were

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having a bad night, you know. So it's not like

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in his his values have changed, you know what I'm saying. Right,

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maybe he wouldn't dump someone the.

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Speaker 4: Same way today, but he does not seem remorseful at

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all for dumping his girlfriend at senior prom.

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Speaker 1: That must have been a really bad time.

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Speaker 10: I mean, if I was getting pushed around at prom

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and not even getting a dance in because my date

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isn't wanting to do anything because she's bummed out, I

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feel like I would say something too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and one hundred percent honesty, I'd do it too.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not. You're not ruining my night. That's it.

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We're done. It was a mutual decision that just culminated

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on what happened to be a big night. That sounded

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like it.

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Speaker 4: Was not an mutual decision to get left at prom alone.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that was mutual. Well, maybe coloring it

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differently for us. But okay, hey, Tabor, thanks are calling man.

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We appreciate it. Thanks buddy, Thank you all right bye,