WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.640 --> 00:00:02.960 This is Gary and Shannon and you're listening to KFI 2 00:00:03.080 --> 00:00:05.879 AM six forty The Gary and Shannon Show on demand 3 00:00:05.960 --> 00:00:07.320 on the iHeartRadio app. 4 00:00:09.800 --> 00:00:10.919 What Else is going on? 5 00:00:12.800 --> 00:00:14.640 Time for What's Happening? 6 00:00:14.800 --> 00:00:16.559 Wow? 7 00:00:15.560 --> 00:00:20.320 Stories we are following that seemed to be making the 8 00:00:20.399 --> 00:00:25.000 rounds today. Unfortunately, a tragedy out of Oxnard by way 9 00:00:25.039 --> 00:00:28.440 of the Valley. A teenager reported missing thirteen year old 10 00:00:28.519 --> 00:00:32.520 boy under the San Fernando Vality over the weekend. His 11 00:00:32.679 --> 00:00:36.000 body has been discovered. The FBI has been called in. 12 00:00:36.640 --> 00:00:41.920 La Police Roberty Homicide led the investigation. They received information 13 00:00:42.079 --> 00:00:44.280 that his body may have been in a wooded area 14 00:00:44.359 --> 00:00:46.840 in Oxnard, and that is in fact where they found 15 00:00:46.960 --> 00:00:50.439 the body. You've got to believe they have an idea 16 00:00:51.000 --> 00:00:55.479 of who is responsible for this. Otherwise we would know 17 00:00:55.640 --> 00:00:58.280 that they were searching for someone who stole a thirteen 18 00:00:58.359 --> 00:01:00.799 year old boy and killed him if they didn't have 19 00:01:00.840 --> 00:01:06.640 anybody in mind. This boy, Oscar Hernandez, a student at 20 00:01:06.680 --> 00:01:10.120 Sun Valley Magnet School. Family says Oscar took a train 21 00:01:10.159 --> 00:01:12.799 to Lancaster over the weekend to visit a friend, but 22 00:01:12.920 --> 00:01:17.280 never came home. Reported missing on Sunday. Family said they 23 00:01:17.359 --> 00:01:19.599 knew there was something wrong when they tried to call 24 00:01:19.640 --> 00:01:24.599 Oscar and the acquaintance would answer, saying that the teenager 25 00:01:24.599 --> 00:01:27.879 could not come to the phone, then couldn't remember when 26 00:01:27.879 --> 00:01:31.000 he dropped Oscar back off at the train station to 27 00:01:31.079 --> 00:01:36.920 go home. So apparently we're talking about an acquaintance now, 28 00:01:37.040 --> 00:01:40.560 see I readily or friend. But now acquaintance sounds like 29 00:01:40.680 --> 00:01:45.719 an adult person, doesn't it. And maybe that this acquaintance 30 00:01:45.760 --> 00:01:49.120 slash adult person maybe the person that they are looking 31 00:01:49.159 --> 00:01:54.879 at for the murder. The family has been talking to NBC. 32 00:01:56.760 --> 00:02:00.840 Obviously no words, really not really talking. This is a 33 00:02:00.879 --> 00:02:06.040 little boy thirteen years old, love soccer and with nice 34 00:02:06.159 --> 00:02:11.639 kid talk to anybody, his sister says Alexandra. But wow, unfortunate, 35 00:02:11.960 --> 00:02:14.800 awful story, awful ending to that story of the missing 36 00:02:14.840 --> 00:02:17.759 boy out of the valley. Storms have killed six people 37 00:02:17.759 --> 00:02:22.240 in the South and Midwest. Forecasters say catastrophic rains floods 38 00:02:22.280 --> 00:02:26.280 is what we're looking at. Tornadoes, violent winds, flattening homes, 39 00:02:26.960 --> 00:02:30.479 ripping apart buildings from Oklahoma to Indiana. And this is 40 00:02:30.560 --> 00:02:34.000 just the first round of storms that are are going 41 00:02:34.039 --> 00:02:38.560 to be setting record setting rains and life threatening flash 42 00:02:38.680 --> 00:02:42.360 for floods across the Middle in the coming days. They 43 00:02:42.360 --> 00:02:45.159 say the six people killed were in western Tennessee, Missouri, 44 00:02:45.199 --> 00:02:49.879 and Indiana. But I mean at least one of these 45 00:02:49.919 --> 00:02:55.840 tornadoes launched debris five miles above the ground in Arkansas 46 00:02:55.840 --> 00:02:59.199 closer to home. Will you could have some thunderstorms today? 47 00:02:59.599 --> 00:03:03.120 Mentioned Mark Chrisky is back over there at KTLA. Looks amazing. 48 00:03:03.719 --> 00:03:08.800 My goodness, whoever does his freshening up should get an award. 49 00:03:09.039 --> 00:03:11.719 Mark Krisky looks incredible. He looks the same way he 50 00:03:11.759 --> 00:03:13.520 looked twenty years ago when I first moved to La. 51 00:03:13.599 --> 00:03:17.039 Watching the KTLA morning news anyway, he said that by 52 00:03:17.319 --> 00:03:20.879 noon today, So by now we could get some thunderstorms, 53 00:03:20.919 --> 00:03:27.280 probably between noon and nine pm. That's the timetable twenty 54 00:03:27.280 --> 00:03:29.719 five percent chance that thunderstorms are going to move into 55 00:03:29.719 --> 00:03:33.599 the valleys or even downtown Los Angeles, so it could 56 00:03:33.599 --> 00:03:37.080 get some rain today. Got some animal news for you, 57 00:03:37.159 --> 00:03:40.759 Why not? Have you heard about the majestic whale made 58 00:03:40.800 --> 00:03:44.039 its way into the waters of Long Beach's Rainbow Harbor 59 00:03:44.240 --> 00:03:47.479 this morning. So a lot of people near Catalina Express 60 00:03:47.560 --> 00:03:51.400 the dock there saw the massive whale loitering about ten 61 00:03:51.479 --> 00:03:55.680 am near Golden Shore Drive and Shoreline village right across 62 00:03:55.719 --> 00:03:59.199 from the Queen Mary still there. About an hour later, 63 00:04:00.520 --> 00:04:02.759 they say it was a minky whale. Is that how 64 00:04:02.759 --> 00:04:06.400 I say it? Or is it mink whale? But just gorgeous? 65 00:04:06.680 --> 00:04:06.879 You know. 66 00:04:06.879 --> 00:04:09.360 It's funny how when you see a whale like that 67 00:04:09.360 --> 00:04:12.319 when you're not supposed to, it's always so great because 68 00:04:12.360 --> 00:04:14.000 of all the money people spend to go on whale 69 00:04:14.039 --> 00:04:16.519 watching trips, and they you don't always see the whales, 70 00:04:16.560 --> 00:04:17.839 so when you do, just wow. 71 00:04:17.839 --> 00:04:18.360 How lucky? 72 00:04:19.680 --> 00:04:23.399 Have you heard about the tortoise and the Galapagos. This 73 00:04:23.519 --> 00:04:27.680 tortoise has become the oldest known first time mother of 74 00:04:27.720 --> 00:04:35.120 her species. She is ninety seven years old, ninety seven, 75 00:04:37.439 --> 00:04:40.319 and she's having her first baby. One of my best 76 00:04:40.319 --> 00:04:43.040 friends had her first son at forty two, and I 77 00:04:43.040 --> 00:04:44.680 thought that sounds exhausting. 78 00:04:45.560 --> 00:04:46.319 Ninety six. 79 00:04:46.399 --> 00:04:50.519 How long do these things live, these tortoises. 80 00:04:49.879 --> 00:04:52.000 They must live forever. I don't know. 81 00:04:52.040 --> 00:04:54.360 I'm not doing the deep dive on that. Gary's not here, 82 00:04:54.480 --> 00:04:59.839 but let me know. And then the latest shopping experience 83 00:04:59.920 --> 00:05:03.839 is getting some attention today. It's in Lower Manhattan, fifty 84 00:05:03.879 --> 00:05:08.439 four thousand square foot temple. Really is this department store? 85 00:05:09.040 --> 00:05:12.720 It is a famed French department store. It's called print 86 00:05:12.720 --> 00:05:15.040 Teps and its print Teps in New York could be 87 00:05:15.040 --> 00:05:18.600 saying that wrong, and they say that this is different 88 00:05:18.720 --> 00:05:23.040 and of note because it has turned its back on technology. 89 00:05:23.839 --> 00:05:28.800 Minimal screens inside, no shopping app, no e commerce website. 90 00:05:29.399 --> 00:05:33.079 They're trying, They're betting on the success of an old 91 00:05:33.079 --> 00:05:38.879 fashioned face to face shopping experience to draw business. They said, 92 00:05:38.920 --> 00:05:42.240 when they were conceptualizing the whole thing, screens were everywhere 93 00:05:42.240 --> 00:05:43.600 and it didn't feel right. 94 00:05:44.040 --> 00:05:44.399 They said. 95 00:05:44.399 --> 00:05:47.639 The vibe we want here is people interacting with people. 96 00:05:47.680 --> 00:05:51.360 We didn't want people looking at their screens. So it's 97 00:05:51.439 --> 00:05:55.360 running counter to what you're seeing really everywhere else. You know, 98 00:05:55.399 --> 00:05:59.000 you've seen retailers invest in apps, sending alerts when shoppers enter. 99 00:05:58.920 --> 00:06:03.000 The score store, QR codes. We've all seen all of this. 100 00:06:03.839 --> 00:06:06.959 There are connected fitting rooms now with features like buttons 101 00:06:06.959 --> 00:06:09.399 where you can press to request a different size. 102 00:06:09.800 --> 00:06:10.360 I'd love that. 103 00:06:10.480 --> 00:06:12.480 By the way, if you ever noticed this, it's like 104 00:06:12.519 --> 00:06:15.040 a weird goldilocks thing in a fitting room. Deb Broah, 105 00:06:15.160 --> 00:06:19.160 enough you've noticed this that like the attendant is either 106 00:06:19.279 --> 00:06:24.000 overly attendant or under attendant, Like it's either. How's it going, 107 00:06:24.079 --> 00:06:25.800 do you need more sizes? And you're like, I just 108 00:06:25.839 --> 00:06:28.519 got in here, it's all good. Or you're in there 109 00:06:28.519 --> 00:06:31.519 for like twenty minutes and you need a different size 110 00:06:31.560 --> 00:06:34.040 and you're just standing there naked, going should I put 111 00:06:34.040 --> 00:06:35.319 my clothes on and go and get it? 112 00:06:35.439 --> 00:06:35.800 You know that? 113 00:06:35.920 --> 00:06:39.680 I think that makes me so it really pisses me off, 114 00:06:39.680 --> 00:06:42.399 and I want to say to those people, you know, 115 00:06:42.720 --> 00:06:44.800 I'm going to talk to your manager because I. 116 00:06:44.839 --> 00:06:46.839 Just feel like, what are you doing? 117 00:06:46.839 --> 00:06:48.959 And then I see that they're on their phones or 118 00:06:49.000 --> 00:06:50.720 they're chatting with each other, and. 119 00:06:50.639 --> 00:06:53.639 That drives me crazy. I don't want to be bothered, 120 00:06:53.959 --> 00:06:54.360 right right. 121 00:06:54.399 --> 00:06:56.959 I don't want to be annoyed, right But I don't 122 00:06:57.000 --> 00:06:58.240 want to be ignored. 123 00:06:58.079 --> 00:06:58.399 I know. 124 00:06:58.639 --> 00:07:01.160 And it's gotten more so like that where they just 125 00:07:01.240 --> 00:07:02.839 ignore you once you get in there and you get 126 00:07:02.839 --> 00:07:05.360 out and they're all just standing there, you know, and 127 00:07:06.120 --> 00:07:06.839 we're old. 128 00:07:07.120 --> 00:07:08.000 I think that's what well. 129 00:07:08.040 --> 00:07:10.519 I also want to say, you're obviously not on commission, right. 130 00:07:10.720 --> 00:07:13.319 Oh my god, I don't imagine you doing either one 131 00:07:13.319 --> 00:07:13.920 of those things? 132 00:07:14.879 --> 00:07:15.399 Would are you? 133 00:07:15.480 --> 00:07:15.560 That? 134 00:07:15.879 --> 00:07:17.839 I would never have profiled you to say I want 135 00:07:17.839 --> 00:07:19.040 to talk to your manager or. 136 00:07:19.160 --> 00:07:21.079 No, I haven't. I haven't but I think about it 137 00:07:21.199 --> 00:07:22.000 all the time. 138 00:07:22.120 --> 00:07:24.759 That's like pretty woman stuff. I bet you're not commission. 139 00:07:24.920 --> 00:07:27.079 I hope you're not operate on commission. 140 00:07:27.160 --> 00:07:29.600 Do you know how many times I run through that 141 00:07:30.079 --> 00:07:33.360 pretty woman yeah line in my head? I know, my god, 142 00:07:33.360 --> 00:07:36.279 that's the best line ever I know. But but yeah, 143 00:07:36.399 --> 00:07:38.240 I mean, I do get annoyed. I don't want to 144 00:07:38.279 --> 00:07:42.000 be bothered where they're overly aggressive. But I really hate 145 00:07:42.000 --> 00:07:44.319 when I'm ignored. If I need some help, don't I 146 00:07:44.319 --> 00:07:45.879 don't really need a lot of help. 147 00:07:46.160 --> 00:07:48.199 But come on, Deborah is the one that goes back 148 00:07:48.199 --> 00:07:49.920 to the store with all the bags in her hand, 149 00:07:49.959 --> 00:07:51.519 and she goes, I was in here earlier. 150 00:07:51.639 --> 00:07:56.199 You refuse to help me. Big a mistake, big mistake. Huge. 151 00:07:58.120 --> 00:08:00.480 I mean, that's the best part of the movie. Is Yeah, 152 00:08:00.560 --> 00:08:03.759 do you love Robert so good? All right? 153 00:08:03.800 --> 00:08:06.720 Coming up next? Oh my goodness, are we really doing this? 154 00:08:06.800 --> 00:08:11.639 We're doing this. I tackled this story earlier about a 155 00:08:11.680 --> 00:08:15.199 new course at you see Santa Barbara. It's about straight 156 00:08:15.319 --> 00:08:18.680 relationships and oh the horror of being a straight person. 157 00:08:19.120 --> 00:08:21.439 And I was making fun of it, and then I 158 00:08:21.480 --> 00:08:24.720 got crap for being a straight person talking about the 159 00:08:24.720 --> 00:08:27.120 fact that there's no horror in being a straight person 160 00:08:27.319 --> 00:08:30.120 by my gay friends, and so they're coming in to 161 00:08:30.240 --> 00:08:33.720 help me tackle the topic of the first of its 162 00:08:33.799 --> 00:08:39.320 kind seminar you see, Santa Barbara about critical heterosexuality studies, 163 00:08:39.480 --> 00:08:42.240 so we can have some counter arguments to this when 164 00:08:42.279 --> 00:08:43.840 we return. 165 00:08:44.200 --> 00:08:47.639 You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from KFI 166 00:08:47.879 --> 00:08:49.879 AM six forty. 167 00:08:51.039 --> 00:08:53.799 I forgot to get to this double booked LA marathon 168 00:08:53.879 --> 00:08:56.080 and the Oscars will be held on the same day 169 00:08:56.159 --> 00:08:56.679 next year. 170 00:08:59.480 --> 00:09:00.799 I'm a little bit worried. 171 00:09:01.039 --> 00:09:03.519 Not that I'm running a marathon, but I signed up 172 00:09:03.559 --> 00:09:06.360 for a ten k on Saturday. 173 00:09:06.720 --> 00:09:08.639 I did this like a month and a half ago. 174 00:09:10.480 --> 00:09:12.720 Because I did dry January and I was like, I 175 00:09:12.759 --> 00:09:16.679 can run now, and so I signed up thinking I 176 00:09:16.720 --> 00:09:20.639 could run and I still can't. And so now I'm 177 00:09:20.679 --> 00:09:23.440 probably going to be rolled in here on Monday if 178 00:09:23.480 --> 00:09:26.360 I make it. But anyway, the Oscars and the marathon 179 00:09:26.519 --> 00:09:29.639 are going to be on March fifteenth next year. What 180 00:09:29.720 --> 00:09:32.080 could go wrong? I mean, the marathon's got to go 181 00:09:32.120 --> 00:09:33.840 through Hollywood, right, what a mess? 182 00:09:34.080 --> 00:09:35.600 Anyway? Who cares? 183 00:09:36.600 --> 00:09:39.480 We were talking earlier an article I told Keana this 184 00:09:39.600 --> 00:09:42.960 morning when I came in, I said, I started reading 185 00:09:42.960 --> 00:09:47.039 this article about this new course at UCSB, and it's 186 00:09:47.080 --> 00:09:52.399 about straight people. It's called Critical Heterosexuality Studies, and it 187 00:09:52.480 --> 00:09:57.480 is taught by female USB's chair of Feminist Studies, who 188 00:09:57.559 --> 00:10:01.879 is also a lesbian. And I said to Keana, like, 189 00:10:01.919 --> 00:10:04.480 I started reading this article and then I was like, eh, no, 190 00:10:04.600 --> 00:10:06.960 this is not interesting. But then I found myself reading 191 00:10:07.000 --> 00:10:09.000 it for ten minutes and thought, well, if I have 192 00:10:09.320 --> 00:10:11.559 enough interest in it to read it for ten minutes, 193 00:10:11.759 --> 00:10:12.960 maybe other people do too. 194 00:10:13.519 --> 00:10:14.240 And I thought it was. 195 00:10:14.200 --> 00:10:20.879 Fascinating because this woman, sociologist Jane Ward, is a lesbian, 196 00:10:21.000 --> 00:10:25.600 and she's talking about or two kids who not kids, 197 00:10:25.679 --> 00:10:29.360 college students who have questions. Sarah is one of them. 198 00:10:29.399 --> 00:10:32.240 She's a comparative literature major from Long Beach. She says, 199 00:10:32.240 --> 00:10:35.159 I feel bad for some of my straight friends. They're like, 200 00:10:35.240 --> 00:10:37.200 oh my god, my boyfriend got me flowers for the 201 00:10:37.200 --> 00:10:41.240 first time in two years. Anthony says, I feel like 202 00:10:41.279 --> 00:10:42.720 this class will answer. 203 00:10:42.399 --> 00:10:44.279 A lot of like why are they like that. 204 00:10:44.559 --> 00:10:47.960 He's a Global studies major and identifies as gay. 205 00:10:49.039 --> 00:10:52.360 There is Cimron. She's a psychology major. 206 00:10:52.480 --> 00:10:55.960 She describes herself as constantly confused about her sexuality, but 207 00:10:56.039 --> 00:10:59.720 definitely not straight. She says, she has trouble imagining being 208 00:10:59.720 --> 00:11:02.480 a pan without a man in the picture. What's that 209 00:11:02.559 --> 00:11:06.639 all about, she wonders, And the sociologist who runs the course, 210 00:11:07.279 --> 00:11:10.519 Jane Ward, says, let's try to answer all these questions 211 00:11:10.600 --> 00:11:13.440 in the next few weeks. So I set out to 212 00:11:13.519 --> 00:11:18.279 tackle this this morning because they make it sound like 213 00:11:18.320 --> 00:11:21.720 it's so hard to be a straight woman. Here's the 214 00:11:21.799 --> 00:11:24.399 quote from the woman who runs the course. She says, 215 00:11:24.559 --> 00:11:27.440 there was a hope that men were getting better with 216 00:11:27.519 --> 00:11:30.960 each generation, that as time went on they'd be more 217 00:11:31.000 --> 00:11:34.120 committed to gender justice or equity, and that did not 218 00:11:34.240 --> 00:11:38.440 come true. That it's really hard to be a straight woman. 219 00:11:39.000 --> 00:11:42.159 Straight women's lives here's the quote, are very very hard. 220 00:11:44.679 --> 00:11:47.879 And then Michael Munks came down the hall and made. 221 00:11:47.639 --> 00:11:48.120 Fun of me. 222 00:11:48.840 --> 00:11:51.360 That's not true. Oh okay, I wasn't making fun of 223 00:11:51.360 --> 00:11:52.919 you about this article. It was just in general. 224 00:11:54.039 --> 00:11:57.799 Well, I didn't have a a perspective from somebody who's 225 00:11:57.879 --> 00:11:58.440 not straight. 226 00:11:58.559 --> 00:12:01.559 Yeah, I mean neither, right. Yeah, my mom's listening. 227 00:12:01.799 --> 00:12:03.320 Your mom. What's her name? 228 00:12:05.080 --> 00:12:05.399 Pam? 229 00:12:05.639 --> 00:12:05.960 Pam? 230 00:12:06.519 --> 00:12:11.559 Hi, Pam, love your son. I really do. You are 231 00:12:11.600 --> 00:12:15.759 a bright, bright sunshine spot in this building. And you 232 00:12:15.879 --> 00:12:18.639 have been from go I'm Ritchie is here as well, 233 00:12:18.720 --> 00:12:19.440 producer Richie. 234 00:12:19.519 --> 00:12:21.559 Hey, what's up, guy? Why did you drag us both 235 00:12:21.559 --> 00:12:23.080 in and just get it out in the open? I mean, 236 00:12:23.080 --> 00:12:24.000 I want to be clear here. 237 00:12:24.440 --> 00:12:28.039 I thought like I was perplexed that there was a 238 00:12:28.120 --> 00:12:32.440 lesbian teaching a seminar on straight studies. I thought that 239 00:12:32.639 --> 00:12:34.720 I should have different perspectives as well. 240 00:12:34.840 --> 00:12:36.200 What kind of different perspectives? 241 00:12:36.360 --> 00:12:40.120 Well, I am a straight person and you are not. Yeah, right, 242 00:12:40.279 --> 00:12:42.559 different perspective. So you just haul in a couple of 243 00:12:42.600 --> 00:12:45.840 gays and let's get from this is called I have 244 00:12:45.960 --> 00:12:46.720 gay friends. 245 00:12:48.720 --> 00:12:49.399 This is what you know. 246 00:12:49.440 --> 00:12:52.200 What happens is like a straight woman, yeah, who knows 247 00:12:52.240 --> 00:12:55.080 a gay guy and then happens to have interacted with 248 00:12:55.120 --> 00:12:57.679 some other gay guy out in the wilderness and thinks 249 00:12:57.720 --> 00:12:59.960 those two gay guys should meet because they would be perfect. 250 00:13:00.000 --> 00:13:01.559 It's not true. That is not true. 251 00:13:01.840 --> 00:13:04.600 That is the limited understanding of that straight women have, 252 00:13:05.360 --> 00:13:06.279 that is of gay men. 253 00:13:07.480 --> 00:13:10.080 Untrue. That is so untrue. But I was just having 254 00:13:10.080 --> 00:13:12.000 this conversation with one of my girlfriends. So I went 255 00:13:12.039 --> 00:13:14.600 to grammar school with We both went to sant Isabella's 256 00:13:14.679 --> 00:13:18.559 obviously Catholic school, and there was a single Jewish girl 257 00:13:18.600 --> 00:13:20.600 in our class, and we were just texting about this 258 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:23.440 the other day. I said, remember when we had that 259 00:13:23.559 --> 00:13:26.919 nice Jewish girl join the class of in small, small school. 260 00:13:26.960 --> 00:13:29.799 Our class was maybe twenty five people. Nice Jewish girl 261 00:13:29.879 --> 00:13:32.000 joins the class in sixth grade and the teacher had 262 00:13:32.039 --> 00:13:34.480 her get up and basically do like a presentation about 263 00:13:34.559 --> 00:13:38.039 Jewish people, And like, how unfair is that she's she 264 00:13:38.080 --> 00:13:40.679 shouldn't have to speak for all Jewish people just in 265 00:13:40.720 --> 00:13:43.320 front of a bunch of Catholic kids. Like what makes 266 00:13:43.320 --> 00:13:47.879 her suddenly the Jewish spokesperson. That's not what I'm doing here, Michael. 267 00:13:47.639 --> 00:13:50.159 I don't know. Did you wear a jumper to Catholic school? 268 00:13:50.480 --> 00:13:50.720 Yes? 269 00:13:50.840 --> 00:13:53.200 Yeah, I'm just picturing you now and the jumper listening 270 00:13:53.240 --> 00:13:54.840 to the Jewish girl talk about Judaeus. 271 00:13:54.919 --> 00:13:57.639 Yes, yes, we had jumpers, and then towards the end 272 00:13:57.759 --> 00:14:01.360 we could wear skirts or kaki shorts. 273 00:14:01.720 --> 00:14:01.879 Yeah. 274 00:14:01.960 --> 00:14:04.120 Same here. Yeah, we were in that transition era too. 275 00:14:04.120 --> 00:14:06.879 We're the same age, so yeah, it changed. Luckily, we 276 00:14:07.000 --> 00:14:07.480 were lucky. 277 00:14:07.519 --> 00:14:09.559 Thank god. If I had to wear the jumper through 278 00:14:09.600 --> 00:14:10.480 eighth grade, well. 279 00:14:10.360 --> 00:14:11.840 I tried to wear a jumper and then I was 280 00:14:11.879 --> 00:14:12.440 asked to leave. 281 00:14:12.679 --> 00:14:16.080 Yeah, I think you would have killed it anyway. 282 00:14:16.200 --> 00:14:19.559 So my takeaway from this, guys and your case in 283 00:14:19.639 --> 00:14:24.240 point is I don't rely on my heterosexual husband to 284 00:14:24.519 --> 00:14:27.080 be all the things for me. And that's kind of 285 00:14:27.120 --> 00:14:31.960 her whole point is that she's expecting a straight relationship 286 00:14:32.440 --> 00:14:37.240 to enrich these women completely. And the point was like, 287 00:14:37.399 --> 00:14:41.799 no relationship gay or straight or whatever fills all of 288 00:14:41.840 --> 00:14:42.720 those boxes. 289 00:14:43.480 --> 00:14:44.759 Well, I've been seeing it for a while, so I 290 00:14:44.799 --> 00:14:48.480 have zero idea. But honestly though, like I think it's right, 291 00:14:48.559 --> 00:14:51.240 Like you shouldn't be expecting you for every second or 292 00:14:51.240 --> 00:14:53.639 for every little thing, you know, just have fun with it, 293 00:14:53.720 --> 00:14:53.919 you know. 294 00:14:54.480 --> 00:14:58.360 I guess I don't understand the thesis of this class. 295 00:14:57.720 --> 00:15:01.360 It's a class taught by a lesbian about straight people. 296 00:15:01.600 --> 00:15:03.840 Yes, she looks like Rosi o' donald. 297 00:15:04.039 --> 00:15:06.399 You know, I thought i'd take it a step further 298 00:15:07.039 --> 00:15:08.759 because she's talking about you. 299 00:15:09.200 --> 00:15:12.120 That was not nice, because you can't enroll in the 300 00:15:12.120 --> 00:15:16.000 class you're taking, Like the adjunct faculty here at KFI, 301 00:15:16.120 --> 00:15:16.919 who are going to get you? 302 00:15:17.120 --> 00:15:19.559 If they're going to have a lesbian teach about straits 303 00:15:19.559 --> 00:15:22.879 at Santa Barbara, I'm gonna get gay men to talk 304 00:15:22.879 --> 00:15:25.039 about straight men and take it a step further. 305 00:15:25.559 --> 00:15:27.679 I can say, Look, I was I was in a 306 00:15:27.679 --> 00:15:31.039 traditional social fraternity in college, so I was surrounded by 307 00:15:31.200 --> 00:15:34.720 a lot of straight guys. And I think that what 308 00:15:34.759 --> 00:15:36.879 you would be surprised to find, perhaps if you talk 309 00:15:36.960 --> 00:15:39.519 to faculty members at UCSP, is that there are a 310 00:15:39.559 --> 00:15:40.879 lot of different kinds straight guys. 311 00:15:41.159 --> 00:15:41.559 There are. 312 00:15:41.679 --> 00:15:42.879 There are a lot of different straight guys. 313 00:15:42.919 --> 00:15:45.759 That's the other problem. They're putting them all in one box. 314 00:15:45.799 --> 00:15:49.600 This sounds like a class that would have me within 315 00:15:49.679 --> 00:15:51.320 fifteen minutes jumping out the window. 316 00:15:51.639 --> 00:15:57.480 Agree, we'll get into your suicide when we come back. No, 317 00:15:57.559 --> 00:16:00.559 but I also I just wanted to to talk about 318 00:16:00.879 --> 00:16:04.120 the science. She did for this too is she went 319 00:16:04.159 --> 00:16:07.399 to a new mom's group and then she also part 320 00:16:07.399 --> 00:16:10.960 of the curriculum is a book that women wrote during 321 00:16:11.039 --> 00:16:14.399 COVID when they were trapped with their straight husbands in 322 00:16:14.480 --> 00:16:16.799 the home for a year. Like this, these are not 323 00:16:16.919 --> 00:16:20.360 the pools that we that we speak of, or that 324 00:16:20.399 --> 00:16:22.600 we should speak to to find the merits. 325 00:16:22.200 --> 00:16:24.159 Of straight I'm so glad to be so far from 326 00:16:24.200 --> 00:16:27.000 a college campus these days. I know, Oh my gosh, 327 00:16:27.120 --> 00:16:31.080 nothing makes me more crotchety than walking across a college campus. 328 00:16:31.120 --> 00:16:32.559 I wish I had a cane. I don't walk with 329 00:16:32.559 --> 00:16:34.559 the cane yet, but I can't wait to walk with 330 00:16:34.559 --> 00:16:35.919 the cane because I'm gonna shake it. 331 00:16:36.240 --> 00:16:38.240 Well, you're an old and that's why we have Ritchie 332 00:16:38.279 --> 00:16:39.879 here for the conversation as well. 333 00:16:41.720 --> 00:16:45.200 You're listening to Gary and Shannon on demand from kfi 334 00:16:45.440 --> 00:16:50.600 AM six forty. 335 00:16:50.039 --> 00:16:53.320 Gary and Shannon kfi AM six forty live everywhere on 336 00:16:53.360 --> 00:16:57.519 the iHeartRadio app. We do have you covered with everything 337 00:16:57.519 --> 00:17:00.320 going on. Deadly storm that we talked about moving through 338 00:17:00.440 --> 00:17:03.320 the middle of the country, threatening more than fifty five 339 00:17:03.360 --> 00:17:06.759 million people, severe weather, parts of taxes all the way 340 00:17:06.839 --> 00:17:09.920 up to the northeast. Six people killed after storms. They 341 00:17:09.960 --> 00:17:15.880 said that tornado debris was swept five miles in parts 342 00:17:15.920 --> 00:17:18.160 of Indiana there. I don't even know what that's like. 343 00:17:18.279 --> 00:17:23.160 That's like anti m stuff. It's conceptual for me. Vice 344 00:17:23.200 --> 00:17:25.720 President vance As a TikTok deal is in the works. 345 00:17:25.759 --> 00:17:29.880 Saturday deadline is approaching, said in an interview with Fox 346 00:17:30.000 --> 00:17:33.599 News Today. President Trump had a closed door meeting with 347 00:17:33.640 --> 00:17:37.279 his top aids to talk about potential investors. Bite Diet 348 00:17:37.480 --> 00:17:40.480 Dance was granted a seventy five day extension from the 349 00:17:40.519 --> 00:17:44.680 original January nineteenth deadline to divest or face a permanent 350 00:17:44.759 --> 00:17:46.799 US ban. I think Amazon through their hat in the 351 00:17:46.880 --> 00:17:49.480 ring this week as well, so we'll see what goes 352 00:17:49.480 --> 00:17:53.680 on for the beloved TikTok. Here's the headline in the 353 00:17:53.720 --> 00:17:56.920 cut dot com. If hetero relationships are so bad, why 354 00:17:56.920 --> 00:17:59.680 do women go back for more? That is the headline, 355 00:18:00.519 --> 00:18:03.039 like it's a choice. I guess it's the takeaway of 356 00:18:03.160 --> 00:18:05.720 the article. And it's based off this course that you 357 00:18:05.799 --> 00:18:10.160 see Santa Barbara. It's called Critical Heterosexuality Studies, and it 358 00:18:10.200 --> 00:18:13.599 wonders why people are straight, and it brings up the 359 00:18:13.680 --> 00:18:16.519 question that women or the idea that women could choose 360 00:18:16.680 --> 00:18:19.640 one way or the other, and that things are really 361 00:18:19.720 --> 00:18:23.799 hard for straight women because men, because men have not, 362 00:18:23.960 --> 00:18:25.960 as she writes, gotten better. 363 00:18:32.160 --> 00:18:33.640 I've brought in two gay men. 364 00:18:36.440 --> 00:18:36.759 With me. 365 00:18:37.359 --> 00:18:40.799 A couple straight men have wandered in and said, we 366 00:18:40.839 --> 00:18:44.680 are what we are, which is my takeaway. You know 367 00:18:45.279 --> 00:18:47.359 it is what it is. What are you looking for 368 00:18:47.440 --> 00:18:50.359 in a straight man? Straight women? Are you expecting some 369 00:18:50.359 --> 00:18:54.559 sort of unicorn? Are you expecting them to be everything 370 00:18:54.680 --> 00:18:55.839 to you all at once? 371 00:18:56.160 --> 00:18:56.759 Like the movie? 372 00:18:57.000 --> 00:18:59.400 I see a lot of happy straight women out there I. 373 00:18:59.440 --> 00:19:02.799 Do too, Like I didn't know I was living such. 374 00:19:02.640 --> 00:19:05.279 That's what I mean. Everybody's expectations are a little different. 375 00:19:05.640 --> 00:19:05.799 You know. 376 00:19:05.880 --> 00:19:08.160 Does he take care of the family, Is he a 377 00:19:08.200 --> 00:19:09.119 loving spouse? 378 00:19:09.319 --> 00:19:09.519 You know? 379 00:19:10.640 --> 00:19:14.079 Is he tough or is he loving and soft? 380 00:19:14.240 --> 00:19:14.400 You know? 381 00:19:14.480 --> 00:19:17.319 I mean women want different things, right, This is very generalizes. 382 00:19:17.480 --> 00:19:19.759 What do you guys think is the best thing about 383 00:19:19.839 --> 00:19:21.119 straight men? 384 00:19:21.359 --> 00:19:22.640 Hmm? Go ahead, Richie. 385 00:19:22.720 --> 00:19:23.359 I mean I don't know. 386 00:19:24.799 --> 00:19:25.759 Exactly. That's where I was. 387 00:19:25.799 --> 00:19:29.759 Kinda say whatever you want. Gary's not here, okay, cool. 388 00:19:31.440 --> 00:19:35.680 I feel like, you know, you know, Okay, I don't. 389 00:19:35.799 --> 00:19:38.319 Why don't I answer as someone who's been you know, 390 00:19:38.359 --> 00:19:43.279 has always had close friendships with straight guys. I like 391 00:19:43.599 --> 00:19:48.200 the way that they treat me. I think in the 392 00:19:48.319 --> 00:19:52.680 late nineties early two thousands, the acceptance of just gay 393 00:19:52.720 --> 00:19:55.599 people in general was kind of skyrocketing because of media 394 00:19:55.720 --> 00:19:57.400 influences and that sort of thing, and it was kind 395 00:19:57.400 --> 00:19:59.400 of a good time to come of age, and it 396 00:19:59.480 --> 00:20:03.759 started with straight girls who were everything, you know, to 397 00:20:03.799 --> 00:20:07.000 help gay guys kind of navigate life. So straight girls 398 00:20:07.000 --> 00:20:09.200 have always been really important, and I think after a 399 00:20:09.240 --> 00:20:11.599 few years of that, straight guys wanted in on the action, 400 00:20:11.720 --> 00:20:14.240 like what is the allure of these gay friends? And 401 00:20:14.279 --> 00:20:17.240