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<v Speaker 1>Okay, do you want the dirty, dirty saucy spicy in

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<v Speaker 1>SFW email first or you want to save it till

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<v Speaker 1>later later, Okay, let's save it for later. I can

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<v Speaker 1>respect that, so let's get started. This is a really

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<v Speaker 1>interesting story and it gets a little bit long, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna probably read the whole thing because it's really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to share my iHeart experience with listeners of

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<v Speaker 1>the Minnesota Goodbye, and it might be a good but

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<v Speaker 1>serious topic for the morning show too. During the Friday

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<v Speaker 1>night show in Vegas at T Mobile, my husband and

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<v Speaker 1>I were in our seats and the performers just kicked off.

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<v Speaker 1>The stands weren't full yet. A couple of gals in

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<v Speaker 1>the row in front of us were Thursday for attention,

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<v Speaker 1>dancing the night away, dressed in skimpy clothing, not a

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<v Speaker 1>typical for Vegas or iHeart, but trying to paint the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>A man and a woman soon came and sat in

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<v Speaker 1>our road, just a couple of seats away from me.

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<v Speaker 1>As they passed us got into their seats, the guy said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to hang with them. He was probably ten

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<v Speaker 1>or twenty years older than them. Lots of plastics surgery

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<v Speaker 1>and duck lips so hard to tell. So this is

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<v Speaker 1>a guy with plastic surgery and ducklips. He immediately whips

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<v Speaker 1>out his phone and starts videoing the young girls in

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<v Speaker 1>front of us over a period of several songs. I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking, what the f and the women who was

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<v Speaker 1>with him just let him. He leans over and says

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<v Speaker 1>to me, I'm gonna make so much money off of this,

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<v Speaker 1>and the videos are going to go viral. RoHS, not

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<v Speaker 1>entertaining his comment. I told him that I was actually

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<v Speaker 1>disgusted by what he was doing. He looked at me

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<v Speaker 1>upset and said I'm rich. I'm rich, and you are

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<v Speaker 1>ugly and says why are you here? He said I

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<v Speaker 1>had a black soul or spirit. He was absolutely livid

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<v Speaker 1>that I called him out, as his lady just danced

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<v Speaker 1>next to him, acting like everything was okay. I asked

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<v Speaker 1>one of the girls in front of me if she

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<v Speaker 1>could come with me, and she met me up by

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<v Speaker 1>the beverages. She was a mess. I think that means

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<v Speaker 1>she was drunk, so it was hard to get a

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<v Speaker 1>word in, but she was very impressed by how good

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<v Speaker 1>she looked at forty. Now that's interesting. I was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty year old twenty two year old girls, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to read it again. She was a mess,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was hard to get a word in, but

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<v Speaker 1>she was very impressed by how good she looked at forty.

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<v Speaker 1>She did look good, but not the point. So if

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<v Speaker 1>this guy was fifty or sixty, okay, so you got

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<v Speaker 1>the sixty year old recording a forty year old. I

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<v Speaker 1>finally managed to let her know I was concerned because

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<v Speaker 1>she was being recorded along with her friend, and told

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<v Speaker 1>her that he said he's going to make money from

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<v Speaker 1>the viral video. She said she thought I was just jealous,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was just disgusted and wanted her to know

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<v Speaker 1>that they should be careful. He had told me he

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<v Speaker 1>was also wealthy. Who says that? Who cares? Well, that's right,

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<v Speaker 1>who says I'm rich. We go back to our seats.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband and I decided to leave the girl state

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<v Speaker 1>and the women. The woman with the guy mouthed sorry

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<v Speaker 1>to my husband. I was shaking and so angry. They

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<v Speaker 1>were both creeps and predators in my mind. Because of

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<v Speaker 1>the commotion, security came up and I told him what

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<v Speaker 1>was going on and showed him a snippet of the

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<v Speaker 1>video I took of him recording the girls. I was

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<v Speaker 1>thankful security heard me out satus elsewhere and confronted him

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<v Speaker 1>and said stop taping the girls put a damper on

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<v Speaker 1>our ing. I thought, if I had a daughter i

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<v Speaker 1>was with them, I would want someone to be an advocate.

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<v Speaker 1>With so much in the news about trafficking and grooming

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<v Speaker 1>and all the stickers in public breastrooms calling for help,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't wonder if this is how it starts. The

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<v Speaker 1>experiences rattled me. Rattled how the girls didn't seem to care,

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<v Speaker 1>they just wanted a night out. Rattled it. How the

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<v Speaker 1>other lady allowed it, rattled it. How angry he was

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<v Speaker 1>when I didn't comply with his behavior. Rattled how nobody

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<v Speaker 1>else called him out. I understand he might just be

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<v Speaker 1>a creep, but I'd love to hear from somebody knowledgeable

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<v Speaker 1>on trafficking and grooming and if this is what I

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<v Speaker 1>potentially witnessed. It seems like more and more missing persons

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<v Speaker 1>on social media, and I wonder if it's because they

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<v Speaker 1>finally got attention from someone. Thanks for letting me share,

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<v Speaker 1>and I hope this empowers us all to be more

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<v Speaker 1>vigilant and speak up. Lots of thoughts on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>But Jenny, what do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>First, Well, I mean, I don't have any knowledge on trafficking,

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<v Speaker 2>how it works or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all everything about it's strange. I would have probably

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<v Speaker 2>felt the same way that this it's a woman emailing

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<v Speaker 2>right right, I probably would have felt the same way

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<v Speaker 2>as her, as like, I'm concerned, I'm going to look

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<v Speaker 2>out for these women. And then the women like or

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<v Speaker 2>I guess she only said like the one was like

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<v Speaker 2>you're just jealous. I'd be like, no, I'm like trying

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<v Speaker 2>to have your back right now. And at that point,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how much more I would become engaged

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<v Speaker 2>with it, because clearly that woman doesn't she's not concerned.

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<v Speaker 2>But she also was intoxicated right so out like so

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<v Speaker 2>then I guess maybe I would be looking out for

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<v Speaker 2>her a little bit more. The whole thing is fucking weird.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's also like Vegas is very different. It is

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<v Speaker 2>not like living in Minneapolis.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so yeah, I don't think it necessarily is like

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<v Speaker 4>an indicator of trafficking.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think that guy is what is it called

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<v Speaker 3>the boyer?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like, oh, I'm going to record this and then

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<v Speaker 4>sell it and haha, this is a good bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody would buy that shit. Right here, you can get

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<v Speaker 1>free porn online. I mean, you don't need to.

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<v Speaker 4>That's dumb, But that's like the same kind of thing

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<v Speaker 4>where like guys like you know, dance up on a

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<v Speaker 4>girl at a club and then are like secretly recording

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<v Speaker 4>under her skirt. I feel like it's similar to that,

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<v Speaker 4>where I don't think he's like nefariously planning on trafficking

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<v Speaker 4>these women. He's just like, oh, look at these hot girls.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to record this and sell it because I can,

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<v Speaker 4>and because I somehow feel like I'm allowed to, even

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<v Speaker 4>though that's trash. So I think the emailer did the

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<v Speaker 4>right thing and told by telling security, and I'm glad

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<v Speaker 4>they listened to you, because sometimes that's not the case.

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<v Speaker 1>I was at that concert and I saw a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of women who were I was shocked, but not appalled,

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<v Speaker 1>if you know what I mean. I wasn't like I

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<v Speaker 1>was more like, WHOA, look at what she's wearing, not like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I can't believe she's wearing that. But

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<v Speaker 1>there was one woman that I saw. She was at

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<v Speaker 1>the beer stand and she was wearing a red thong

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<v Speaker 1>and I know it was on the top, but as

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<v Speaker 1>a red thong with a red sheer lace dress. So

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, wow, I was shocked that somebody

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<v Speaker 1>would dress like that, but then again, it's Vegas. But

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't appalled, but there were definitely women who Why

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<v Speaker 1>does a woman dress like that?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, the emailer thinks for attention. I think it's like

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<v Speaker 4>if you if you have a hot bod, like show

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<v Speaker 4>it off, if you got it flaunted.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's the boat. I'm in sure.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think it's I wouldn't if I was that hot, though, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you might want some attention, but I'm not dressing up

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<v Speaker 4>like that to get attention. I might just be like,

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<v Speaker 4>I feel great and I want to look great in public.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think, and I think that's part of it.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that you when you dress like that,

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<v Speaker 1>let's be real and honest, you know you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>get lots of attention. And I don't think there's anything

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with that. I think that one of the most

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<v Speaker 1>fashionable things that we can have is a wonderful physique.

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<v Speaker 1>If I looked great in a thong, I would wear

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<v Speaker 1>a thong every chance I got, because I would love

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<v Speaker 1>the attention.

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, I think and I agree that, like, yeah, they're

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<v Speaker 4>they're probably they're looking for some attention, but that attention

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't necessarily mean that they're okay with being recorded and

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<v Speaker 4>having the recording of them sold online.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Okay, I don't think that there's any market for

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<v Speaker 1>a video shot in a dark concert venue of a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of girls dancing, right, I don't think that anybody's

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<v Speaker 1>going to sell that. There's part of me, And tell

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<v Speaker 1>me if I'm wrong, send me an email and let

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<v Speaker 1>me know that in a way, she kind of it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't any of her business, and tell me if I'm wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't directly hurting her. I don't know where the

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<v Speaker 1>harm comes in.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I feel like it's not her business necessarily, But

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<v Speaker 4>I think I commend her for looking out for those girls,

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<v Speaker 4>Like how Jenny said, like it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Happening to me forty, they were forty, they weren't twenty.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, forty and drunk. Yeah, And I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think women always look out for other women, especially

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<v Speaker 2>if they see some man like recording them and it's

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<v Speaker 2>not like someone that they are associated with. I would

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely be like in their business if it me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I would not advocate for the guy to record anybody.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would never record anybody because then it becomes creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't again, tell me if I'm wrong. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think there's a law against being creepy. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>You women have to deal with that, right, we can

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<v Speaker 2>help each other out, right, somebody is being creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, see, I get really annoyed when I hear about

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<v Speaker 1>guys cat calling women, you know, and and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that it happens a lot. I think you said you

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<v Speaker 1>got cat called last week?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what, I was wearing a dress and I was

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<v Speaker 4>walking with my former coworker in Saint Paul and this

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<v Speaker 4>guy said, oh, I hope there's a wind so that

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<v Speaker 4>dress can get blown up, And then he started following

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<v Speaker 4>us for about a block and we started like speed

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<v Speaker 4>walking away, and my friend was freaking out because they're

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<v Speaker 4>like twenty three threatening. Yeah, and sometimes and a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of times cat calling is threatening.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh absolutely, yeah, so's it's it's threatening, but it's also

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<v Speaker 1>demeaning because it's putting me in a position of over you.

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<v Speaker 1>I've now made you aware of me when you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be aware of me. Sure, I've also made

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<v Speaker 1>you a victim in a way because I have given

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<v Speaker 1>you unwanted sexual attention where I didn't say, hey, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? That's not the you know, if I said hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you, there's nothing threatening there. But if I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh damn, I hope that skirt blows up so I

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<v Speaker 1>get a look.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's gross.

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<v Speaker 1>That is putting something over you that you don't want.

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<v Speaker 4>Right. Well, that's how I'm feeling about this guy who's

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<v Speaker 4>recording these women, like, yeah, they want to look hot

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<v Speaker 4>at this concert, but they're not.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I didn't walk.

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<v Speaker 4>Out thinking, oh, I'm gonna get kat called today, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure they didn't walk out thinking, oh, some got

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<v Speaker 4>some creep dude is going to record me at this

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<v Speaker 3>That's creepy. That's gross.

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<v Speaker 1>Let us know what you think, because i'd be curious

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe I'm totally wrong, and I often am, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So we're in the same boat.

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<v Speaker 1>Next one, good morning, beautiful people, Dave. I was wondering

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<v Speaker 1>if you spoke to your friend since going out to

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<v Speaker 1>and then it got awkward and you just kind of left,

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<v Speaker 1>have a great day. Been listening to you guys for

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<v Speaker 1>thirty years, all right, from Christy. So the story was

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<v Speaker 1>and they are chatty, chatty, chatty, and they're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a new ish kind of a friend. But they're a lovely, lovely,

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<v Speaker 1>warm hearted, good hearted person. They just can't stop talking.

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<v Speaker 1>They just cannot stop talking. And this has been going

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<v Speaker 1>finally I said, I want to talk now. I want

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<v Speaker 1>like looked a little shocked, and I said, you really,

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<v Speaker 1>you are very chatty. I mean, you know you're chatty. Haha.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to get a chance to talk. And

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<v Speaker 1>their face fell. They're just their whole spirit. I sucked

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<v Speaker 1>their spirit right out of their body and they just

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<v Speaker 1>they were crushed and I felt terrible. And after that,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, well you know what, you please talk,

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<v Speaker 1>don't leave me hanging. They're like, no, I don't. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't want me to talk, so I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, can I talk now? Because I never get

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to talk and every time I would start

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<v Speaker 1>a sentence, I would get one sentence out and they

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<v Speaker 1>would hijack the conversation again. And that's just who they are.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not a mean person, they're not a narcissistic person,

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<v Speaker 1>just very chatty. And so we have not spoken since.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh sad, and I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>We ever will again, because I think that I just

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<v Speaker 1>hurt them so deeply and I took what was probably

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<v Speaker 1>a core trait of their personality being super super chatty,

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<v Speaker 1>and diminished that aspect of their person I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I really do, and if I could do it over again,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't have said it. I may have just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of backed off the friendship a little bit because it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard to be friends with somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you reached out to this person?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Because sad, So maybe just text them and be like, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, and I mean I don't know. Friendships fade

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<v Speaker 2>naturally anyways, So if that's what happens, that's what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you want to still like some would be closed.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think a sorry about what I said at

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<v Speaker 2>dinner or wherever you are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know. I mean, you're right, I don't know. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know whether I will. Next email starts off

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<v Speaker 1>with don't say my name. I want to share a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of photos from KATIEWB event back in two thousand

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<v Speaker 1>and seven. I have my photos labeled as offensive T

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<v Speaker 1>shirt party. We did a party. We said wear an

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<v Speaker 1>offensive shirt and whoever has the most offensive shirt wins.

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<v Speaker 1>My friend and I didn't win, but it was still

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<v Speaker 1>a fun time. I'm guessing at an event like this

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<v Speaker 1>could never happen again. So my question is are there

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<v Speaker 1>any other k WB events that no longer exist due

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<v Speaker 1>to changes in political correctness, budgets, lack of attendance. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to the offensive T shirts. Here's a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of Steve. Steve is wearing a shirt that says I

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<v Speaker 1>give free facials. That was his offensive shirt. There's one

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<v Speaker 1>with me that says I got busted on Dateline, which

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<v Speaker 1>was the Dateline show where to Catch a Predator. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and so you know, guys would come in the house

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<v Speaker 1>to meet like an underage girl or boor boy, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they would bust them. So my shirt says I

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<v Speaker 1>got busted on Dateline. Her shirt says, I've never seen

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<v Speaker 1>so many fat and ugly people in one place.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. And seven that's what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, never see so many fat and ugly people in

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<v Speaker 1>one place. And then her friend's shirt says there is

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<v Speaker 1>a oh it's awful. Oh you want to hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awful. It is awful. It is a twisted coat

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<v Speaker 1>hanger with blood dripping from it, and it says your

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<v Speaker 1>mom tried but you survived.

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<v Speaker 3>Dang.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And they're just normal looking young women. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>they they scratched out their faces so in case we

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<v Speaker 1>accidentally published them, but we won't. I'm not gonna put

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<v Speaker 1>that anywhere. But wow. Yeah, we did the offensive T

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<v Speaker 1>shirt contest, and even at that time, we thought, huh,

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<v Speaker 1>because there was some really offensive ones and I can't

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<v Speaker 1>remember what they did. Yeah, but we said, ah, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>never do this one again. I think another one. She says,

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<v Speaker 1>are there any other events that no longer exist? Booty

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<v Speaker 1>Cruise is probably the biggest one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it just got I don't know, listen, I know

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<v Speaker 2>people love the strippers. I thought the strippers were just gross.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a I'm all for a good time, but

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<v Speaker 2>people would get so so dry on Booty Cruise. And

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<v Speaker 2>also we would have people sign waivers that said you're

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<v Speaker 2>we're allowed to post whatever we want on the website.

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<v Speaker 2>So people would get drunk and body parts would be

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<v Speaker 2>falling out, and we'd censor home to an extent, and

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<v Speaker 2>we'd posting on the website and all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>A teacher, can you like please take that down?

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<v Speaker 2>And it's like, well, you signed the waiver going on

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<v Speaker 2>and everybody, I mean, we always did take did take

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<v Speaker 3>I always did.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that the fact that we had a

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<v Speaker 2>waiver that said we get to post pictures, yeah, kind

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<v Speaker 1>We had girls. I mean, it was just it was

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<v Speaker 1>it started out okay, and then it always turned a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit naughty and girls were flashing guys in bass

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<v Speaker 1>boats that would cruise up and down the river, and

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<v Speaker 1>guys would flash the girls from the bass boats, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think there were always girls trying to take out

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<v Speaker 1>the trippers penis. To be honest with you, and the

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<v Speaker 1>strippers they knew that they couldn't break the law because

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<v Speaker 1>then they would get kicked off the tripper team. So

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<v Speaker 1>they'd be like, you know, slapping hands away from the penises,

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<v Speaker 1>and it would just get you know, the drunk and

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<v Speaker 1>fight and vomiting. And it wasn't all over the boat.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just enough where we said we're done. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just done. You went on a booty cruise at.

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<v Speaker 3>Least one been on three booty creuse.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you remember about booty cruise?

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<v Speaker 4>I do remember thinking that the strippers were ugly. I

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<v Speaker 4>remember Steve bought me a drink once, but then didn't

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<v Speaker 4>talk to me after he gave it to me.

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<v Speaker 3>That was weird.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I went on one of them with my

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<v Speaker 4>mom and threw up on the way home, so she

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<v Speaker 4>had to pull over the car so I could throw.

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<v Speaker 3>Up on the side of the road because you were drunk,

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<v Speaker 3>because I was drunk.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, just me and my mom hanging out getting schwasted.

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<v Speaker 1>I think one of the things I remember on Booty

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<v Speaker 1>Cruise is that you know, I was I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>this was I think the last one was five or

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<v Speaker 1>eight years ago, but we did him since about two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand and three or so, So back then when I

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<v Speaker 1>was a whole lot younger women would get you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they were very polite at first, high handshakes and good

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<v Speaker 1>to meet you. But then by the end of the

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<v Speaker 1>night they were grabbing my crotch, grabbing my butt grows

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<v Speaker 1>And that might sound like fun, but when it's from

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<v Speaker 1>a drunken woman that you didn't want to grab your

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<v Speaker 1>butt or your crotch was it was gross. It was annoying.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that sounds like fun period.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it wasn't. Yeah, And I remember one of the

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<v Speaker 1>last ones. There was a very attractive woman, probably about forty,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was sitting somewhere and she decided that she

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<v Speaker 1>was going to sit on my lap and I'm like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>get off. And she had probably never had a guy

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<v Speaker 1>in her life tell her to get off his lap,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, no, get off. Yeah, because one

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<v Speaker 1>thing I didn't want anybody to take a picture. Number one,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't like it. Number two, I didn't need a

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<v Speaker 1>picture out anywhere of Dave Ryan with a strange woman

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<v Speaker 1>on his lap, and it was annoying, and it was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's not what caused us to stop it. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just at a lot of things. Yeah, other things

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't have the budget for anymore. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like jingle Ball. We don't do it anymore. They're still

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<v Speaker 1>jingle Ball, but just not here. So there's like New

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<v Speaker 1>York and DC and Detroit and that type of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>We also used to do Last Chance Summer Dance, which

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<v Speaker 1>was a huge outdoor Star party and that was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun, but it was a money loser, so

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't do that. We don't do that one anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>So Yeah, I guess there are just certain things.

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<v Speaker 4>I went to one Star Party ones. One Star party

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<v Speaker 4>was still a thing. Is that still a thing? Star Party?

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<v Speaker 1>No, but we're trying to bring it back. Sure, okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Star Party happened for like thirty years.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I went to one. I was great. It was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there were a lot of fun. I'm gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of your address so I can send you

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, hold on, this is a different one, but okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here comes the naughty one. You're ready for the naughty one,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready, I'm not sure if we have time. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna save it for tomorrow. Put a red flag

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<v Speaker 1>on that one, and save the naughty one for tomorrow. Minnesota, Goodbye.

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<v Speaker 1>Email Ryan Show at kadiwb dot com