Speaker 1: Okay, do you want the dirty, dirty saucy spicy in
Speaker 1: SFW email first or you want to save it till
Speaker 1: later later, Okay, let's save it for later. I can
Speaker 1: respect that, so let's get started. This is a really
Speaker 1: interesting story and it gets a little bit long, but
Speaker 1: I'm gonna probably read the whole thing because it's really interesting.
Speaker 1: I want to share my iHeart experience with listeners of
Speaker 1: the Minnesota Goodbye, and it might be a good but
Speaker 1: serious topic for the morning show too. During the Friday
Speaker 1: night show in Vegas at T Mobile, my husband and
Speaker 1: I were in our seats and the performers just kicked off.
Speaker 1: The stands weren't full yet. A couple of gals in
Speaker 1: the row in front of us were Thursday for attention,
Speaker 1: dancing the night away, dressed in skimpy clothing, not a
Speaker 1: typical for Vegas or iHeart, but trying to paint the picture.
Speaker 1: A man and a woman soon came and sat in
Speaker 1: our road, just a couple of seats away from me.
Speaker 1: As they passed us got into their seats, the guy said, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to hang with them. He was probably ten
Speaker 1: or twenty years older than them. Lots of plastics surgery
Speaker 1: and duck lips so hard to tell. So this is
Speaker 1: a guy with plastic surgery and ducklips. He immediately whips
Speaker 1: out his phone and starts videoing the young girls in
Speaker 1: front of us over a period of several songs. I
Speaker 1: was thinking, what the f and the women who was
Speaker 1: with him just let him. He leans over and says
Speaker 1: to me, I'm gonna make so much money off of this,
Speaker 1: and the videos are going to go viral. RoHS, not
Speaker 1: entertaining his comment. I told him that I was actually
Speaker 1: disgusted by what he was doing. He looked at me
Speaker 1: upset and said I'm rich. I'm rich, and you are
Speaker 1: ugly and says why are you here? He said I
Speaker 1: had a black soul or spirit. He was absolutely livid
Speaker 1: that I called him out, as his lady just danced
Speaker 1: next to him, acting like everything was okay. I asked
Speaker 1: one of the girls in front of me if she
Speaker 1: could come with me, and she met me up by
Speaker 1: the beverages. She was a mess. I think that means
Speaker 1: she was drunk, so it was hard to get a
Speaker 1: word in, but she was very impressed by how good
Speaker 1: she looked at forty. Now that's interesting. I was thinking
Speaker 1: like twenty year old twenty two year old girls, but
Speaker 1: I'm going to read it again. She was a mess,
Speaker 1: so it was hard to get a word in, but
Speaker 1: she was very impressed by how good she looked at forty.
Speaker 1: She did look good, but not the point. So if
Speaker 1: this guy was fifty or sixty, okay, so you got
Speaker 1: the sixty year old recording a forty year old. I
Speaker 1: finally managed to let her know I was concerned because
Speaker 1: she was being recorded along with her friend, and told
Speaker 1: her that he said he's going to make money from
Speaker 1: the viral video. She said she thought I was just jealous,
Speaker 1: but I was just disgusted and wanted her to know
Speaker 1: that they should be careful. He had told me he
Speaker 1: was also wealthy. Who says that? Who cares? Well, that's right,
Speaker 1: who says I'm rich. We go back to our seats.
Speaker 1: My husband and I decided to leave the girl state
Speaker 1: and the women. The woman with the guy mouthed sorry
Speaker 1: to my husband. I was shaking and so angry. They
Speaker 1: were both creeps and predators in my mind. Because of
Speaker 1: the commotion, security came up and I told him what
Speaker 1: was going on and showed him a snippet of the
Speaker 1: video I took of him recording the girls. I was
Speaker 1: thankful security heard me out satus elsewhere and confronted him
Speaker 1: and said stop taping the girls put a damper on
Speaker 1: our ing. I thought, if I had a daughter i
Speaker 1: was with them, I would want someone to be an advocate.
Speaker 1: With so much in the news about trafficking and grooming
Speaker 1: and all the stickers in public breastrooms calling for help,
Speaker 1: I couldn't wonder if this is how it starts. The
Speaker 1: experiences rattled me. Rattled how the girls didn't seem to care,
Speaker 1: they just wanted a night out. Rattled it. How the
Speaker 1: other lady allowed it, rattled it. How angry he was
Speaker 1: when I didn't comply with his behavior. Rattled how nobody
Speaker 1: else called him out. I understand he might just be
Speaker 1: a creep, but I'd love to hear from somebody knowledgeable
Speaker 1: on trafficking and grooming and if this is what I
Speaker 1: potentially witnessed. It seems like more and more missing persons
Speaker 1: on social media, and I wonder if it's because they
Speaker 1: finally got attention from someone. Thanks for letting me share,
Speaker 1: and I hope this empowers us all to be more
Speaker 1: vigilant and speak up. Lots of thoughts on this one.
Speaker 1: But Jenny, what do you think?
Speaker 2: First, Well, I mean, I don't have any knowledge on trafficking,
Speaker 2: how it works or anything like that.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's all everything about it's strange. I would have probably
Speaker 2: felt the same way that this it's a woman emailing
Speaker 2: right right, I probably would have felt the same way
Speaker 2: as her, as like, I'm concerned, I'm going to look
Speaker 2: out for these women. And then the women like or
Speaker 2: I guess she only said like the one was like
Speaker 2: you're just jealous. I'd be like, no, I'm like trying
Speaker 2: to have your back right now. And at that point,
Speaker 2: I don't know how much more I would become engaged
Speaker 2: with it, because clearly that woman doesn't she's not concerned.
Speaker 2: But she also was intoxicated right so out like so
Speaker 2: then I guess maybe I would be looking out for
Speaker 2: her a little bit more. The whole thing is fucking weird.
Speaker 2: But it's also like Vegas is very different. It is
Speaker 2: not like living in Minneapolis.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so yeah, I don't think it necessarily is like
Speaker 4: an indicator of trafficking.
Speaker 3: I just think that guy is what is it called
Speaker 3: the boyer?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, oh, I'm going to record this and then
Speaker 4: sell it and haha, this is a good bit.
Speaker 1: Nobody would buy that shit. Right here, you can get
Speaker 1: free porn online. I mean, you don't need to.
Speaker 4: That's dumb, But that's like the same kind of thing
Speaker 4: where like guys like you know, dance up on a
Speaker 4: girl at a club and then are like secretly recording
Speaker 4: under her skirt. I feel like it's similar to that,
Speaker 4: where I don't think he's like nefariously planning on trafficking
Speaker 4: these women. He's just like, oh, look at these hot girls.
Speaker 4: I'm going to record this and sell it because I can,
Speaker 4: and because I somehow feel like I'm allowed to, even
Speaker 4: though that's trash. So I think the emailer did the
Speaker 4: right thing and told by telling security, and I'm glad
Speaker 4: they listened to you, because sometimes that's not the case.
Speaker 1: I was at that concert and I saw a lot
Speaker 1: of women who were I was shocked, but not appalled,
Speaker 1: if you know what I mean. I wasn't like I
Speaker 1: was more like, WHOA, look at what she's wearing, not like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't believe she's wearing that. But
Speaker 1: there was one woman that I saw. She was at
Speaker 1: the beer stand and she was wearing a red thong
Speaker 1: and I know it was on the top, but as
Speaker 1: a red thong with a red sheer lace dress. So
Speaker 1: and I was like, wow, I was shocked that somebody
Speaker 1: would dress like that, but then again, it's Vegas. But
Speaker 1: I wasn't appalled, but there were definitely women who Why
Speaker 1: does a woman dress like that?
Speaker 4: Well, the emailer thinks for attention. I think it's like
Speaker 4: if you if you have a hot bod, like show
Speaker 4: it off, if you got it flaunted.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's the boat. I'm in sure.
Speaker 4: I don't think it's I wouldn't if I was that hot, though, Like, yeah,
Speaker 4: you might want some attention, but I'm not dressing up
Speaker 4: like that to get attention. I might just be like,
Speaker 4: I feel great and I want to look great in public.
Speaker 1: Well, I think, and I think that's part of it.
Speaker 1: But I think that you when you dress like that,
Speaker 1: let's be real and honest, you know you're going to
Speaker 1: get lots of attention. And I don't think there's anything
Speaker 1: wrong with that. I think that one of the most
Speaker 1: fashionable things that we can have is a wonderful physique.
Speaker 1: If I looked great in a thong, I would wear
Speaker 1: a thong every chance I got, because I would love
Speaker 1: the attention.
Speaker 4: Sure, I think and I agree that, like, yeah, they're
Speaker 4: they're probably they're looking for some attention, but that attention
Speaker 4: doesn't necessarily mean that they're okay with being recorded and
Speaker 4: having the recording of them sold online.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, I don't think that there's any market for
Speaker 1: a video shot in a dark concert venue of a
Speaker 1: couple of girls dancing, right, I don't think that anybody's
Speaker 1: going to sell that. There's part of me, And tell
Speaker 1: me if I'm wrong, send me an email and let
Speaker 1: me know that in a way, she kind of it
Speaker 1: wasn't any of her business, and tell me if I'm wrong,
Speaker 1: he wasn't directly hurting her. I don't know where the
Speaker 1: harm comes in.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like it's not her business necessarily, But
Speaker 4: I think I commend her for looking out for those girls,
Speaker 4: Like how Jenny said, like it was.
Speaker 1: Happening to me forty, they were forty, they weren't twenty.
Speaker 3: Yeah, forty and drunk. Yeah, And I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think women always look out for other women, especially
Speaker 2: if they see some man like recording them and it's
Speaker 2: not like someone that they are associated with. I would
Speaker 2: absolutely be like in their business if it me.
Speaker 1: Yes, I would not advocate for the guy to record anybody.
Speaker 1: And I would never record anybody because then it becomes creepy.
Speaker 1: But I don't again, tell me if I'm wrong. I
Speaker 1: don't think there's a law against being creepy. You know.
Speaker 2: You women have to deal with that, right, we can
Speaker 2: help each other out, right, somebody is being creepy.
Speaker 1: Well, see, I get really annoyed when I hear about
Speaker 1: guys cat calling women, you know, and and I think
Speaker 1: that it happens a lot. I think you said you
Speaker 1: got cat called last week?
Speaker 4: Yeah, what, I was wearing a dress and I was
Speaker 4: walking with my former coworker in Saint Paul and this
Speaker 4: guy said, oh, I hope there's a wind so that
Speaker 4: dress can get blown up, And then he started following
Speaker 4: us for about a block and we started like speed
Speaker 4: walking away, and my friend was freaking out because they're
Speaker 4: like twenty three threatening. Yeah, and sometimes and a lot
Speaker 4: of times cat calling is threatening.
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, yeah, so's it's it's threatening, but it's also
Speaker 1: demeaning because it's putting me in a position of over you.
Speaker 1: I've now made you aware of me when you shouldn't
Speaker 1: have to be aware of me. Sure, I've also made
Speaker 1: you a victim in a way because I have given
Speaker 1: you unwanted sexual attention where I didn't say, hey, how
Speaker 1: are you? That's not the you know, if I said hey,
Speaker 1: how are you, there's nothing threatening there. But if I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh damn, I hope that skirt blows up so I
Speaker 1: get a look.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's gross.
Speaker 1: That is putting something over you that you don't want.
Speaker 4: Right. Well, that's how I'm feeling about this guy who's
Speaker 4: recording these women, like, yeah, they want to look hot
Speaker 4: at this concert, but they're not.
Speaker 3: I mean, I didn't walk.
Speaker 4: Out thinking, oh, I'm gonna get kat called today, and
Speaker 4: I'm sure they didn't walk out thinking, oh, some got
Speaker 4: some creep dude is going to record me at this
Speaker 4: concert because he thinks I'm hot.
Speaker 3: That's creepy. That's gross.
Speaker 1: Let us know what you think, because i'd be curious
Speaker 1: and maybe I'm totally wrong, and I often am, so
Speaker 1: let me know. I mean, I've got two daughters, so
Speaker 1: I am actually and a wife, so I'm actually instinctively
Speaker 1: protective of anybody that I feel like I should be
Speaker 1: protective of, whether it's a dog or whether it's a daughter,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So we're in the same boat.
Speaker 1: Next one, good morning, beautiful people, Dave. I was wondering
Speaker 1: if you spoke to your friend since going out to
Speaker 1: lunch with him when you said, they talked too much
Speaker 1: and then it got awkward and you just kind of left,
Speaker 1: have a great day. Been listening to you guys for
Speaker 1: thirty years, all right, from Christy. So the story was
Speaker 1: a week or so ago, is out with a friend
Speaker 1: and they are chatty, chatty, chatty, and they're kind of
Speaker 1: a new ish kind of a friend. But they're a lovely, lovely,
Speaker 1: warm hearted, good hearted person. They just can't stop talking.
Speaker 1: They just cannot stop talking. And this has been going
Speaker 1: on for every time we'd get together. They talk so
Speaker 1: much and constantly interrupt and it gets frustrating. And so
Speaker 1: finally I said, I want to talk now. I want
Speaker 1: to get a chance to talk. And they kind of
Speaker 1: like looked a little shocked, and I said, you really,
Speaker 1: you are very chatty. I mean, you know you're chatty. Haha.
Speaker 1: I just want to get a chance to talk. And
Speaker 1: their face fell. They're just their whole spirit. I sucked
Speaker 1: their spirit right out of their body and they just
Speaker 1: they were crushed and I felt terrible. And after that,
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, well you know what, you please talk,
Speaker 1: don't leave me hanging. They're like, no, I don't. You
Speaker 1: don't want me to talk, so I'm not going to
Speaker 1: talk and I was like, no, that's not what I
Speaker 1: wanted to say. I just wanted I was frustrated, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, can I talk now? Because I never get
Speaker 1: a chance to talk and every time I would start
Speaker 1: a sentence, I would get one sentence out and they
Speaker 1: would hijack the conversation again. And that's just who they are.
Speaker 1: They're not a mean person, they're not a narcissistic person,
Speaker 1: just very chatty. And so we have not spoken since.
Speaker 3: Oh sad, and I don't know that.
Speaker 1: We ever will again, because I think that I just
Speaker 1: hurt them so deeply and I took what was probably
Speaker 1: a core trait of their personality being super super chatty,
Speaker 1: and diminished that aspect of their person I feel like
Speaker 1: I really do, and if I could do it over again,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have said it. I may have just kind
Speaker 1: of backed off the friendship a little bit because it's
Speaker 1: hard to be friends with somebody.
Speaker 2: Have you reached out to this person?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: Because sad, So maybe just text them and be like, listen,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, and I mean I don't know. Friendships fade
Speaker 2: naturally anyways, So if that's what happens, that's what happens.
Speaker 2: But if you want to still like some would be closed.
Speaker 2: I don't think a sorry about what I said at
Speaker 2: dinner or wherever you are.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I mean, you're right, I don't know. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't know whether I will. Next email starts off
Speaker 1: with don't say my name. I want to share a
Speaker 1: couple of photos from KATIEWB event back in two thousand
Speaker 1: and seven. I have my photos labeled as offensive T
Speaker 1: shirt party. We did a party. We said wear an
Speaker 1: offensive shirt and whoever has the most offensive shirt wins.
Speaker 1: My friend and I didn't win, but it was still
Speaker 1: a fun time. I'm guessing at an event like this
Speaker 1: could never happen again. So my question is are there
Speaker 1: any other k WB events that no longer exist due
Speaker 1: to changes in political correctness, budgets, lack of attendance. Well,
Speaker 1: let's go to the offensive T shirts. Here's a picture
Speaker 1: of Steve. Steve is wearing a shirt that says I
Speaker 1: give free facials. That was his offensive shirt. There's one
Speaker 1: with me that says I got busted on Dateline, which
Speaker 1: was the Dateline show where to Catch a Predator. Yes,
Speaker 1: and so you know, guys would come in the house
Speaker 1: to meet like an underage girl or boor boy, and
Speaker 1: then they would bust them. So my shirt says I
Speaker 1: got busted on Dateline. Her shirt says, I've never seen
Speaker 1: so many fat and ugly people in one place.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. And seven that's what it was.
Speaker 1: Yep, never see so many fat and ugly people in
Speaker 1: one place. And then her friend's shirt says there is
Speaker 1: a oh it's awful. Oh you want to hear it.
Speaker 1: It's awful. It is awful. It is a twisted coat
Speaker 1: hanger with blood dripping from it, and it says your
Speaker 1: mom tried but you survived.
Speaker 3: Dang.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And they're just normal looking young women. I mean
Speaker 1: they they scratched out their faces so in case we
Speaker 1: accidentally published them, but we won't. I'm not gonna put
Speaker 1: that anywhere. But wow. Yeah, we did the offensive T
Speaker 1: shirt contest, and even at that time, we thought, huh,
Speaker 1: because there was some really offensive ones and I can't
Speaker 1: remember what they did. Yeah, but we said, ah, we'll
Speaker 1: never do this one again. I think another one. She says,
Speaker 1: are there any other events that no longer exist? Booty
Speaker 1: Cruise is probably the biggest one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just got I don't know, listen, I know
Speaker 2: people love the strippers. I thought the strippers were just gross.
Speaker 2: It was a I'm all for a good time, but
Speaker 2: people would get so so dry on Booty Cruise. And
Speaker 2: also we would have people sign waivers that said you're
Speaker 2: we're allowed to post whatever we want on the website.
Speaker 2: So people would get drunk and body parts would be
Speaker 2: falling out, and we'd censor home to an extent, and
Speaker 2: we'd posting on the website and all of a sudden
Speaker 2: it's like, I'm.
Speaker 3: A teacher, can you like please take that down?
Speaker 2: And it's like, well, you signed the waiver going on
Speaker 2: and everybody, I mean, we always did take did take
Speaker 2: them down.
Speaker 3: I always did.
Speaker 2: But I think that the fact that we had a
Speaker 2: waiver that said we get to post pictures, yeah, kind
Speaker 2: of it.
Speaker 1: We had girls. I mean, it was just it was
Speaker 1: it started out okay, and then it always turned a
Speaker 1: little bit naughty and girls were flashing guys in bass
Speaker 1: boats that would cruise up and down the river, and
Speaker 1: guys would flash the girls from the bass boats, and
Speaker 1: I think there were always girls trying to take out
Speaker 1: the trippers penis. To be honest with you, and the
Speaker 1: strippers they knew that they couldn't break the law because
Speaker 1: then they would get kicked off the tripper team. So
Speaker 1: they'd be like, you know, slapping hands away from the penises,
Speaker 1: and it would just get you know, the drunk and
Speaker 1: fight and vomiting. And it wasn't all over the boat.
Speaker 1: It was just enough where we said we're done. We're
Speaker 1: just done. You went on a booty cruise at.
Speaker 3: Least one been on three booty creuse.
Speaker 1: What do you remember about booty cruise?
Speaker 4: I do remember thinking that the strippers were ugly. I
Speaker 4: remember Steve bought me a drink once, but then didn't
Speaker 4: talk to me after he gave it to me.
Speaker 3: That was weird.
Speaker 4: And then I went on one of them with my
Speaker 4: mom and threw up on the way home, so she
Speaker 4: had to pull over the car so I could throw.
Speaker 3: Up on the side of the road because you were drunk,
Speaker 3: because I was drunk.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, just me and my mom hanging out getting schwasted.
Speaker 1: I think one of the things I remember on Booty
Speaker 1: Cruise is that you know, I was I don't know
Speaker 1: this was I think the last one was five or
Speaker 1: eight years ago, but we did him since about two
Speaker 1: thousand and three or so, So back then when I
Speaker 1: was a whole lot younger women would get you know,
Speaker 1: they were very polite at first, high handshakes and good
Speaker 1: to meet you. But then by the end of the
Speaker 1: night they were grabbing my crotch, grabbing my butt grows
Speaker 1: And that might sound like fun, but when it's from
Speaker 1: a drunken woman that you didn't want to grab your
Speaker 1: butt or your crotch was it was gross. It was annoying.
Speaker 3: I don't think that sounds like fun period.
Speaker 1: Oh it wasn't. Yeah, And I remember one of the
Speaker 1: last ones. There was a very attractive woman, probably about forty,
Speaker 1: and I was sitting somewhere and she decided that she
Speaker 1: was going to sit on my lap and I'm like, no, no,
Speaker 1: get off. And she had probably never had a guy
Speaker 1: in her life tell her to get off his lap,
Speaker 1: and I was like, no, get off. Yeah, because one
Speaker 1: thing I didn't want anybody to take a picture. Number one,
Speaker 1: I didn't like it. Number two, I didn't need a
Speaker 1: picture out anywhere of Dave Ryan with a strange woman
Speaker 1: on his lap, and it was annoying, and it was like, okay,
Speaker 1: And that's not what caused us to stop it. It
Speaker 1: was just at a lot of things. Yeah, other things
Speaker 1: that we don't have the budget for anymore. I mean,
Speaker 1: like jingle Ball. We don't do it anymore. They're still
Speaker 1: jingle Ball, but just not here. So there's like New
Speaker 1: York and DC and Detroit and that type of thing.
Speaker 1: We also used to do Last Chance Summer Dance, which
Speaker 1: was a huge outdoor Star party and that was a
Speaker 1: lot of fun, but it was a money loser, so
Speaker 1: we didn't do that. We don't do that one anymore.
Speaker 1: So Yeah, I guess there are just certain things.
Speaker 4: I went to one Star Party ones. One Star party
Speaker 4: was still a thing. Is that still a thing? Star Party?
Speaker 1: No, but we're trying to bring it back. Sure, okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: Star Party happened for like thirty years.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I went to one. I was great. It was fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there were a lot of fun. I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: a picture of your address so I can send you
Speaker 1: Oh wait, hold on, this is a different one, but okay,
Speaker 1: here comes the naughty one. You're ready for the naughty one,
Speaker 1: I'm ready, I'm not sure if we have time. Honestly,
Speaker 1: we're gonna save it for tomorrow. Put a red flag
Speaker 1: on that one, and save the naughty one for tomorrow. Minnesota, Goodbye.
Speaker 1: Email Ryan Show at kadiwb dot com