Speaker 1: All right. Yeah, I find some stuff like this sometimes
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's not good, but sometimes it is. Because
Speaker 1: I was reading to this and I was triggered by
Speaker 1: a few of these things. Top ten things that stress
Speaker 1: people out the most, hold on everybody.
Speaker 2: Think what your number one thing is, because these are
Speaker 2: common things, right, because it's get your heart racing a
Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah, write down what you think, just for you,
Speaker 2: what is the most common thing that happens that stresses
Speaker 2: you out, and we'll see if it's on the list.
Speaker 2: Maybe we have the same thing, right, that's part of
Speaker 2: the fun.
Speaker 3: Okay, thanks for narrating all that. Okay, good, it's a
Speaker 3: good drop filling the silence.
Speaker 1: Number part of the complete number ten when they see
Speaker 1: someone that they don't want to talk to.
Speaker 2: Oh god, yeah, sorry, hurts kicked in.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't know that that stresses me out, but maybe
Speaker 2: it is stress. It certainly can cause anxiety, right, and
Speaker 2: that's all part of that emotion.
Speaker 5: It is more anxiety. I just don't like going out.
Speaker 3: I don't like talking to people in general, you know,
Speaker 3: And so when I go out and I see people,
Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't really want to I want to
Speaker 3: have a conversation.
Speaker 2: My wife is screwed because my wife is so introverted.
Speaker 2: Now Ben knows this, like and y'all know this. Y'all
Speaker 2: know my wife. If she knows you, she enjoys hanging out,
Speaker 2: but like she does not want to be anywhere. And
Speaker 2: I'm I have no inhibitions on that sort of thing
Speaker 2: at all. I'll go talk to just about anybody. It's fine,
Speaker 2: we'll figure it out. And she is stuck with me,
Speaker 2: and and it's just such it's so bad for her.
Speaker 2: It's so bad for her because she she has to
Speaker 2: interact with people all the time just because she's with me.
Speaker 3: It's like draining, Like people drain your energy and your
Speaker 3: emotions and everything.
Speaker 5: So I totally understand her.
Speaker 2: So good. I feel like I got lucky and that
Speaker 2: being a part of my personality that I don't have
Speaker 2: to deal with that because I know so many people.
Speaker 1: That do Number nine, A knock on the front door
Speaker 1: when you're not prepared for guests.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so good. Excuse me. Yeah, I'm the same way.
Speaker 4: And I immediately think of the Wolf of Wall Street,
Speaker 4: where you know, his dad is mad that someone's calling,
Speaker 4: And it's the same principle Yeah, my dad used to
Speaker 4: be the same way. Someone knocks the door and my wife,
Speaker 4: my mom's name was Anne, and my dad go and are.
Speaker 2: You expecting somebody? Is somebody expecting somebody? Who is this
Speaker 2: knocking on the door?
Speaker 1: Who is this?
Speaker 2: And by the time he gets the door, he's like, hello,
Speaker 2: how are you?
Speaker 3: Who?
Speaker 2: You know? It acts so nice, it's it's amazing. I
Speaker 2: thought about this the other day. My dad was telling
Speaker 2: me a story of a guy that he knew, Buddy
Speaker 2: has that made a ton of money, like a ton
Speaker 2: of money selling cancer insurance policies door to door. That's
Speaker 2: a different era. There used to be a whole industry
Speaker 2: of people that would go door to door and sell
Speaker 2: things and it worked Encyclopedia's vacuum cleaners, insurer, tupperware.
Speaker 4: Yes, people would just answer the door and let a
Speaker 4: stranger come in their house and give a sales pitch.
Speaker 2: I mean that still happens to me. I feel like
Speaker 2: once a week.
Speaker 5: People knock on your door. Once a week.
Speaker 2: Yeah, roof roofers do that. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Now I've gotten to where if so, if I'm already outside,
Speaker 1: I will just kind of handle it like I'll see
Speaker 1: it and I'll just give them the thing, you know,
Speaker 1: get out of here.
Speaker 2: Usually.
Speaker 1: You know what really works is now I'm already partnered
Speaker 1: with a great roofing company like Pier like that. You know,
Speaker 1: it's that's been to go too lately. But man, that
Speaker 1: this does stress me out. And I'm like, Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: not getting that. I'm not answering the door. Okay, they
Speaker 1: don't get them looking so my house. Also, what I'll
Speaker 1: do is then I'll be up by the window looking
Speaker 1: out at them because they well she's got the ring
Speaker 1: camera thing on her phone, but I'm watching them just
Speaker 1: to see have they gone away yet?
Speaker 6: You mute the TV and you pretend no one's home
Speaker 6: acting that's terrible way to out. I like to be
Speaker 6: terrible too, But uh, I do want to say. I
Speaker 6: don't want to just not get the door, because I
Speaker 6: think a lot of people before they rob a house
Speaker 6: will sending someone to the door to knock to see
Speaker 6: if someone's home.
Speaker 4: So I do want to let them know someone's home.
Speaker 4: But I'll just from you know, yelling distance, you know,
Speaker 4: near the door. Sorry, don't open the door for strangers.
Speaker 2: Have a great day. That's me. You know what you
Speaker 2: can do too, just to make it weird, answered the
Speaker 2: door with a gun, not pointed at them. Just hold
Speaker 2: the gun. Hey, what's going on with the rat it?
Speaker 1: I'm right, people talking to them when they want silence.
Speaker 1: Uber's done a good job recently. A ride sharing companies
Speaker 1: have done a good job giving you that option now
Speaker 1: where you can just click, oh yeah, I want it
Speaker 1: quiet here. I don't want I don't want to talk now.
Speaker 1: Usually I don't mind whatever. But if you are in that, like, hey,
Speaker 1: I kind of just want to, like lay my head
Speaker 1: back for a second. You don't want to talk to them,
Speaker 1: you can like hit that option.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: It's an option if people are talking and you just
Speaker 1: don't want people.
Speaker 2: Talking to you. It's annoying.
Speaker 1: Number seven, when your old WiFi cuts out, we can't
Speaker 1: handle it.
Speaker 2: By we can't handle it. I can't even handle a
Speaker 2: thing downloading anymore.
Speaker 1: Number One thing I think that'll make me lose my
Speaker 1: craft that I didn't write it down.
Speaker 2: It is that if we.
Speaker 1: Don't have fast internet going, what what are we even
Speaker 1: doing on this planet anymore?
Speaker 2: Agreed? Why isn't everything instant?
Speaker 1: Gosh, we're such jerks, Yeah, spoiled a holes man, all
Speaker 1: of us. But if it's like, uh, the circle spinning?
Speaker 1: What I gotta do an update on my TV?
Speaker 2: Could you just change the channel? Every time I have
Speaker 2: thirty seconds before I join a zoom, a Google meet
Speaker 2: or a Microsoft meeting, I have to update the app.
Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh my.
Speaker 5: God, what's really bad?
Speaker 3: My Hulu and Netflix have done this within the past
Speaker 3: month at least twice. Or it signs you out and
Speaker 3: you have to sign back in and type in your
Speaker 3: password and everything beating.
Speaker 2: I hate that so.
Speaker 5: Much, almost want to watch TV.
Speaker 1: I don't want to be around I know. Number six
Speaker 1: listening to someone cho loudly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not a fan of that, but yet you
Speaker 2: like that? Was it called ms R? I don't really
Speaker 2: like that. What is that thing called? That's where they
Speaker 2: get the sound of everything? Amr? Yeah, sound of someone salivating? Yeah, star,
Speaker 2: gotta turn me on. Phone calls when you're not expecting
Speaker 2: one earlier?
Speaker 5: The door, Yeah, never answered.
Speaker 2: I'm a bit of a cold caller. I'll cold call people.
Speaker 2: I will only answer it if it says spam risk
Speaker 2: uh someone near them heavy breathing. Number four. I just
Speaker 2: I don't know that it stresses me out, but it
Speaker 2: maybe I guess, so I don't know that I've been
Speaker 2: around it in a long time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would talk about riding the train to work,
Speaker 1: you know, or something you might have to deal with
Speaker 1: that you're.
Speaker 2: Kind of leaking over going. Hey man, there's everything okay there,
Speaker 2: And then he says, hey man, I get stressed out
Speaker 2: when people talk to me, and I don't want it.
Speaker 2: That's why I'm breathing heavy.
Speaker 5: Gotcha?
Speaker 2: Number three year alarm clock? Does that stress you out?
Speaker 1: I think the idea of waking up early and being
Speaker 1: late for something, Yeah, making.
Speaker 5: Sure it's actually on and your phone doesn't die.
Speaker 2: It's a little stressful.
Speaker 4: But if you just hear the sound of the alarm,
Speaker 4: like right now, if you're just play your alarm, yeah,
Speaker 4: it's stressful.
Speaker 2: Oh let's see.
Speaker 3: You had someone's phone go off and it's your alarm
Speaker 3: like ring tone, because it is it's weird. I've been
Speaker 3: in the store and I've heard it, and it's like
Speaker 3: your body just free acts so bad to it.
Speaker 5: What is it like?
Speaker 3: So everyone's alarm has this different tone, right, but some
Speaker 3: people have that as their ring tone, like their normal
Speaker 3: ring tone. And I've heard it go off before and
Speaker 3: my body spazzes out.
Speaker 2: You're not. I don't think you're legally allowed to have
Speaker 2: it be the emergency alarm system, right, don't let it
Speaker 2: be that the yeas signal that.
Speaker 1: One does get you, that does stress you out there,
Speaker 1: that will stress you out, which I guess is it's purpose.
Speaker 2: I can't even you just said what my number one
Speaker 2: stress thing is?
Speaker 6: What?
Speaker 2: Being late?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, nothing will will set me on edge. Then
Speaker 2: being late, I can't stand it. It drives me effing nuts.
Speaker 3: And that's when you hit all the red lights and
Speaker 3: all the traffic. You actually need to be somewhere, Yes.
Speaker 1: Especially if you get in some sort of routine. You
Speaker 1: know how far it is from certain places home to work,
Speaker 1: home to wherever you gotta go. You kind of know
Speaker 1: how it's supposed to be. And then oh, okay, we're
Speaker 1: shut the street down today. It's amazing plan for that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's amazing.
Speaker 5: When I was, why would you do that?
Speaker 2: I'm so stressed out now? Man. Then it just the
Speaker 2: coldness of it. It's just like, oh man, this sucks.
Speaker 2: Work calls, work calls. It is amazing that I was
Speaker 2: once a twenty two year old stoner that cared about
Speaker 2: nothing and now I can't be late for anything without
Speaker 2: it driving me crazy. That's good. That's growth. Is it revolving?
Speaker 2: I'll stretch you out to get a growth.
Speaker 1: Number two text message alerts, number one, phone going off
Speaker 1: during a meeting, stuff like that. All right, what are
Speaker 1: we all write down in the back of our paper? Here?
Speaker 2: I wrote being late, being late, and it wasn't on
Speaker 2: the list.
Speaker 5: I wrote forgetting to lock the door when I leave
Speaker 5: the house.
Speaker 6: Oh that's more anxiety, though, I wrote down danger, just danger,
Speaker 6: I voltage driving, driving and thinking about the future.
Speaker 4: No, yeah, like you just spend a few minutes thinking
Speaker 4: about what your kid's lives are going to be like
Speaker 4: in twenty years and you're like, I don't. I'm not
Speaker 4: having fun anymore. We're not going to see twenty years.
Speaker 4: Bro to escalate this.
Speaker 1: War, my little like seven year old niece of the day,
Speaker 1: it just said, when are you going to be a dad?
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, it's irresponsible to bring kids
Speaker 1: into the earth things if you look at the future.
Speaker 1: Uh mine, is anything wrong with the house? Oh God,
Speaker 1: I gotta fix something.
Speaker 2: Dude. I don't even I mean, I know this just
Speaker 2: sounds like dumb bitch. Bougie problem. But I just go
Speaker 2: out and I look at my pool and how much
Speaker 2: money I have to drop on it, and I just
Speaker 2: immediately want to die. I Mean, it's just like, so,
Speaker 2: I'm like, why did we do this? Why did we
Speaker 2: put this thing, this money pit in our backyard? Idiots
Speaker 2: like I can't wait to downsize, right live in a
Speaker 2: house without a pool, live in a house without any
Speaker 2: room for my kids. Okay, but then you think about
Speaker 2: the future and realize your kids will never be able
Speaker 2: to buy a house. So how you get a down
Speaker 2: So that was good, Kevin.
Speaker 4: All right, good stuff, Kevin. Ten little things that stress
Speaker 4: people out the most. Coming up next in the weekly
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