Speaker 1: It's the Friday version of the Minnesota Goodbye, and y'all
Speaker 1: came through. You came through. We got emails today. We're
Speaker 1: going to try to bang through a bunch of these
Speaker 1: real quick. But thank you so much for your email.
Speaker 1: So let's dive in, shall we. Shalle Good morning, guys.
Speaker 1: I heard you talking this morning about what kind of
Speaker 1: person did you leave behind? And then I heard Bailey
Speaker 1: talking about not wanting to be seen struggling to swim.
Speaker 1: The person I left behind was worried about being seen trying.
Speaker 1: I'm thirty eight now, and growing up I was paralyzed
Speaker 1: by the idea of looking like a fool when I
Speaker 1: tried something new, or even just trying to find my
Speaker 1: friends in the cafeteria. Now that I've read parenting books,
Speaker 1: I can probably link that to be in an anxious
Speaker 1: high achiever. Struggling feels like failing, but I am trying
Speaker 1: to fully embrace being somewhat ridiculous. When I show up
Speaker 1: to tennis lessons, I want to make mistakes so the
Speaker 1: coach will walk over and teach me how to do
Speaker 1: it better or do it right. I have the mantra
Speaker 1: that if I already knew how to do it. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't need lessons. I know that showing up and trying
Speaker 1: means next time I can do it better. And if
Speaker 1: I show up, I can get good at it. I'm
Speaker 1: trying to teach my kids that too. Growth comes from
Speaker 1: struggle and it all it's all about progress not perfection.
Speaker 1: Mark your own milestones. Okay, I might have absorbed too
Speaker 1: much Peloton instructor vibesl Get out there, Bailey. Nobody is
Speaker 1: born knowing it. Enjoy the sunshine and try something new
Speaker 1: that comes from rischet.
Speaker 2: Thanks for what did you say? Growth comes from what?
Speaker 1: Growth comes from struggle, and it's all about progress not perfection.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I totally I feel that, and I like I
Speaker 3: love learning new things and doing new things.
Speaker 2: And it's just like swimming is.
Speaker 3: One thing that it's like it's such like a giant
Speaker 3: combination of all the things that I'm insecure about. Is
Speaker 3: like one people judging me to the way my body
Speaker 3: looks in a swimsuit, and three dying and drowning.
Speaker 2: So you know that's three exactly three things.
Speaker 3: Dying is yeah, drowning, dying by drowning, and I would
Speaker 3: love to I feel like now I have to kind
Speaker 3: of wait until winter to take swimming lessons. I don't
Speaker 3: know whatever. I always just thought if I got dropped
Speaker 3: in the middle of the ocean, I would say I
Speaker 3: lived a good life and I would drown.
Speaker 1: I'm wondering you wouldn't want me to help you, but
Speaker 1: I'm like, I probably honestly could teach you to swim
Speaker 1: in like a lake this summer if you wanted.
Speaker 3: But too hot, Jenny, I can't do it. What you're
Speaker 3: too pretty?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. No, I also am self conscious about things.
Speaker 1: You have to understand that every single person is self
Speaker 1: conscious about things. You barely have made me feel better
Speaker 1: about cellulite, because I've literally always had cellulate on my
Speaker 1: legs my entire life, Like it doesn't matter what size
Speaker 1: I am. I've been like one hundred and twenty five pounds,
Speaker 1: I've been one hundred and sixty pounds, Like I always
Speaker 1: have cellulite. But so I have my insecurities too. You
Speaker 1: you just remember everyone's insecure in their own way, but
Speaker 1: you don't look at other people the way you criticize yourself,
Speaker 1: like vantas.
Speaker 2: Damn, damn, damn.
Speaker 4: I will say, and we say this all the time,
Speaker 4: and it sounds cliche when you go to the gym,
Speaker 4: when you go swimming or.
Speaker 5: Whatever, the hell, people really are not looking at you.
Speaker 4: People don't give a damn because I know I don't
Speaker 4: give a damn when I when I go to the gym,
Speaker 4: or maybe because I'm the person in that that doesn't
Speaker 4: know how to do anything but even swimming. I know
Speaker 4: how to swim, and I'm watching people who don't know
Speaker 4: how to swim, and I'm really like, I don't care.
Speaker 1: So I think that genuinely say, I don't think I've
Speaker 1: ever paid attention to someone if they don't know how
Speaker 1: to swim, Like, I really don't know that I've ever
Speaker 1: Like that's how little of attention I paid, is that
Speaker 1: I probably never noticed them because it's just not something
Speaker 1: I was like looking for, you know, And I would
Speaker 1: never think anything negatively about it, because like I had
Speaker 1: to learn how to swim because we got a pool,
Speaker 1: Like it was just part of my youth growing up.
Speaker 1: You know, other people, if you weren't going to pools
Speaker 1: or lakes, why would you have to learn how to swim.
Speaker 1: That's like just not a skill that your parents necessarily
Speaker 1: are like, we should get you in swim lessons you know,
Speaker 1: it's not like, go ahead.
Speaker 4: It's not like you're walking around you don't know how
Speaker 4: to tie your shoe. Then I would laugh, but like
Speaker 4: that's something you're supposed to learn young. But like swimming,
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna look at you be like, oh, she
Speaker 4: does know how to doggy paddle, or if you're at
Speaker 4: the gym, like she doesn't know how to use the stairstepper.
Speaker 5: If you never have the stairstepper, you are an idiot.
Speaker 2: I've never gone upstairs.
Speaker 1: All right, we have so many emails, so we'll keep
Speaker 1: moving on here. But this one says Hi Dave Jenny
Speaker 1: Bailey in FOT I hope this email gets read on Friday,
Speaker 1: because that's more fun than a Monday womp womp. Okay,
Speaker 1: continuing on, So, I'm about to fly back home for
Speaker 1: the summer, getting out of the crazy Arizona heat this year.
Speaker 1: I want you, guys, your guys is help creating a
Speaker 1: Minnesota summer bucket list. What are some things you would
Speaker 1: have to do if you were only here for the summer.
Speaker 1: She's going to be here May thirty first to September seventh.
Speaker 1: I know I'll be going to the fair and hopefully
Speaker 1: seeing you all this year. But what are some good restaurants, bars, breweries,
Speaker 1: sight seeing, natury spots, coffee shops, cute twin cities or
Speaker 1: day trip away places to see help me? Thank you
Speaker 1: in advance for your suggestions. And that comes from Andrea.
Speaker 1: Andrea's come in to you. Guys would remember Andrea as
Speaker 1: she came in for her birthday. She's from Arizona. She
Speaker 1: came in for her birthday and I think it was
Speaker 1: her friend like surprised her coming in. I can't remember,
Speaker 1: but we definitely know who Andrea is. So she's coming
Speaker 1: back for the summer, getting out of Arizona. Bailey, I
Speaker 1: feel like you're probably the one who knows of like
Speaker 1: the most random things, so random stuff. What this summer
Speaker 1: would you suggest for her?
Speaker 3: Okay, I would go to the pride pride parade, like
Speaker 3: the big Minnesota or Minneapolis one, but there's a lot
Speaker 3: of different prides and those are always really fun. Let's see, Oh,
Speaker 3: the pencil sharpening around the Lake of the Isles. That's
Speaker 3: like a really stupid, stupid event, but it's really fun
Speaker 3: and community and it's Lake of the Isles and there's
Speaker 3: a giant like wooden pencil that they pretend to sharpen
Speaker 3: and then there's like live music there that would be
Speaker 3: really fun. Let's see, Oh, the Yacht Club Festival. I
Speaker 3: wonder if there's still like tickets to that because that.
Speaker 1: Would be Yeah, that's like a newer festival that just
Speaker 1: started last year. That's in Saint Paul on Harriet. Is
Speaker 1: it Harriet Island?
Speaker 2: Is that what it's called.
Speaker 1: It's not an island Harriet.
Speaker 2: No, isn't it Boom?
Speaker 1: No, it's not Boom. It's in St Paul for sure,
Speaker 1: Harriet Island Regional Park.
Speaker 2: Yes, so that would be fun.
Speaker 3: The Uptown Porch Fest is in August, and that's like
Speaker 3: a bunch of different houses that have giant porches and
Speaker 3: Uptown have like bands that play on them and you
Speaker 3: just kind of walk around and watch them.
Speaker 2: That's fun.
Speaker 3: And then the Fringe Festival is this like giant theater
Speaker 3: festival and that's in August and that's really fun. And yeah,
Speaker 3: there's a lot of like obviously there's a million billion
Speaker 3: breweries and I go to a million billion breweries all
Speaker 3: the time.
Speaker 1: I was going to say, that's like the number one
Speaker 1: thing I would recommend is just kind of looking up
Speaker 1: breweries that are having block parties, but also just plugging
Speaker 1: Stephanie who comes on our show. Yes, she always is
Speaker 1: in the know of what's happening every single week, like
Speaker 1: throughout the week, but usually weekend stuff. So if you
Speaker 1: follow her on Instagram, we have her on on Fridays
Speaker 1: now to kind of tell us what's happening this weekend
Speaker 1: in the Twin Cities. Her instagram Miss Stephanie dot Rosner.
Speaker 1: It's spelled r O s e n E r so
Speaker 1: Rosner Sephanie dot Rosner. She's always got everything listed there,
Speaker 1: and honestly, like that's how I usually figure out what
Speaker 1: I'm doing for the weekend now, is finding people like
Speaker 1: Stephanie or other people in Twin Cities that just are
Speaker 1: in the know if I have an open weekend, because
Speaker 1: this weekend's decently open right now, and I need it
Speaker 1: to be open because I have a lot of shit
Speaker 1: I gotta get done at my house, but I know
Speaker 1: I'll probably get bored and want to figure something out,
Speaker 1: so then I'll go to those people's instagrams and figure
Speaker 1: it out.
Speaker 3: Stephanie's is good, and then there's also Axios Twin Cities.
Speaker 3: Axios Twin Cities, Sorry, I talked over you say it
Speaker 3: again a x iOS Twin Cities Axios Twin Cities.
Speaker 2: And they also have like a list of things to do. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's summer is.
Speaker 3: The best, so serious a good time to come back.
Speaker 3: And yeah, breweries always have something going on pretty much
Speaker 3: all the time, like libraries have free events to go to.
Speaker 2: Just fill it up, bra, fill it up.
Speaker 1: The only thing I'm gonna add on real quick is
Speaker 1: she did say any quick day trips. I I think
Speaker 1: you're from here, Andrea, so maybe you've been, but just
Speaker 1: going up to like Duluth in that north shore area,
Speaker 1: not all the way up because Duluth's only a two
Speaker 1: hour drive, so that's like not too bad. But there's
Speaker 1: so much going on around Duluth even and just fun
Speaker 1: things if you want to get out of the cities.
Speaker 1: I would recommend that if you want to go on
Speaker 1: a little longer of a trip and go up to Bayfield.
Speaker 1: I was just up there this past weekend, and that's
Speaker 1: more of like three and a half hour drive, so
Speaker 1: that's not really a day trip, but so many fun
Speaker 1: things to experience up there. And I will say if
Speaker 1: you need help planning any trip like that, you can
Speaker 1: go to my travel blog which is meet me off
Speaker 1: grid dot com and just hit the Minnesota section and
Speaker 1: I have different things on there for like still Water,
Speaker 1: the north Shore, Duluth, whatever, How.
Speaker 5: Long is a drive? How far of a drive is
Speaker 5: the north Shore?
Speaker 1: So it depends. So you basically the north Shore in
Speaker 1: my opinion, starts once you get past Duluth, So you've
Speaker 1: got Duluth and that's about two hours. And then once
Speaker 1: you get past there, all the way up to like
Speaker 1: the Canadian border, it can be anywhere from like you know,
Speaker 1: two and a half hours to like five hours. It's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's well sorry, Like from the city is if
Speaker 1: you're going up to like two Harbors, that's three hours.
Speaker 1: If you're going up to louts In that's like three
Speaker 1: and a half four hours. If you're going all the
Speaker 1: way to the Canadian border, that's pushing five hours from
Speaker 1: the Twin Cities. So anyways, I always suggest if you're
Speaker 1: going to the north Shore to stay kind of in
Speaker 1: like the louts In area. In my opinion, there's not
Speaker 1: as many places to stay. They're probably a little bit
Speaker 1: more expensive, but that's where I always used to stay
Speaker 1: because we would stay at you know Andrew's grandpa's cabin,
Speaker 1: so it was a good like in between of everything.
Speaker 1: So okay, moving on here, let's see it, says hey, bitches, whoa,
Speaker 1: it's Peyton. Uh huh, acting like you know me, Bailey,
Speaker 1: you know my old classmate Leah?
Speaker 2: Hi, Leah.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you are listening, Bailey, I don't know. They're
Speaker 1: not given last names. Well, anyways, I'm emailing to tell
Speaker 1: a story about getting to check out your old house.
Speaker 1: While in college, a group of about fifteen of us
Speaker 1: went to New York. Our professor used to live there,
Speaker 1: so she was showing us around and we came up
Speaker 1: to her old apartment without even thinking, she rang the
Speaker 1: buzzer and said, I used to live in this apartment
Speaker 1: and have a few friends with me in town that
Speaker 1: want to see my old New York apartment. Can we
Speaker 1: come up? They let us in, So there goes all
Speaker 1: fifteen of us into this tiny apartment. They were shocked
Speaker 1: to see it was more than a few friends that
Speaker 1: kept coming in the door. Great times. Anyways, thank you
Speaker 1: for your everyday sacrifice and kidding up early for us
Speaker 1: non mourning people. We love you for that. And that's
Speaker 1: from Peyton. What a funny story. Can I come up?
Speaker 1: I just got a few friends, fifteen people pile in, like.
Speaker 2: What hold on, let me in, let me in.
Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, I could go visit like my child.
Speaker 4: Well, I grew up moving around a lot, so like
Speaker 4: I would maybe have like one or two of the
Speaker 4: many homes, but just like, yeah, the one that you
Speaker 4: lived in the longest, or if you grew up in
Speaker 4: the same house but don't live there anymore, just the
Speaker 4: memories and you just I don't know, maybe you had
Speaker 4: like your first I'm doing it in this house like
Speaker 4: when your brother sister was born, Like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 4: that's crazy.
Speaker 5: I wish that could happen.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that if my mom ever sold her house,
Speaker 1: she won't. She'll live in it till she like can't anymore.
Speaker 1: But like, it definitely will be one of those things
Speaker 1: that I would love to go back and look at
Speaker 1: someday if she's not.
Speaker 3: Right and my mom is still in her the house
Speaker 3: that she was in my entire life, so I'm like, well,
Speaker 3: I can just go whenever I want.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Or you both have sisters, did you guys grow
Speaker 4: up doing the thing where like your mom's or your
Speaker 4: parents would put tick marks on the.
Speaker 5: Water to see how tall you guys were.
Speaker 1: Did you know? Yeah?
Speaker 5: I moved around a lot, so yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, next one, Hay morning, Pham. I know from listening
Speaker 1: daily that Dave has a new RV and has gone
Speaker 1: for the holiday week traveling in it, and Jenny has
Speaker 1: her camper van. Can you share a bit about how
Speaker 1: traveling works with RV's. I have this idea in my
Speaker 1: head that all campgrounds are smelly and dirty and full
Speaker 1: of meth heads. If you have a shower in toilet
Speaker 1: inside your IV, how does the running water and steward work.
Speaker 1: Does someone hook it up for you or are you
Speaker 1: on your own? And if you don't have those features
Speaker 1: on your vehicle, Jenny, are the bathrooms at pretty much
Speaker 1: all campgrounds while semi outdoors smelly and gross? Do people
Speaker 1: generally leave you alone at campgrounds or is it usually
Speaker 1: a big party atmosphere? Thanks for sharing, Always looking to
Speaker 1: learn and try something new. This comes from Natalie in Rochester.
Speaker 1: All right, I'll buying through these really quickly. Campgrounds are
Speaker 1: not smelling and dirty and full of meth heads? You Actually,
Speaker 1: I would be shocked to see anything like that at
Speaker 1: any campground. Because you do have to pay to camp
Speaker 1: in campgrounds, so like they do have regulations there, they
Speaker 1: keep up the ones that I've been to. I'm sure
Speaker 1: there's ones that aren't as well kept up, but the
Speaker 1: ones I've been to, I do not find them smelling
Speaker 1: and dirty. I was just with some friends and Ju
Speaker 1: Lutha's past weekend and the clubhouse bathroom was very well
Speaker 1: kept up. It seemed like they cleaned it multiple times
Speaker 1: a day, so it was great. And also you kind
Speaker 1: of learn when you go to a lot of campgrounds
Speaker 1: now that are more like your RV campgrounds because there's
Speaker 1: tent campgrounds and that's where I think you'll get a
Speaker 1: little bit more of like a wild, younger scene. The
Speaker 1: RV only campgrounds is like very chill people who keep
Speaker 1: to themselves and are quiet. They're not up partying until midnight,
Speaker 1: you know. So I know that there's definitely gonna be
Speaker 1: campgrounds that are younger and have a little bit more
Speaker 1: of that party atmosphere. As far as a shower and
Speaker 1: toilet hook up in your RV, yes, I do not
Speaker 1: have one. However, if you do have one, basically you
Speaker 1: attach like a big hose into this is gonna sound
Speaker 1: so idiot like, but you attach this big hose from
Speaker 1: your camp or RV pull behind whatever to something in
Speaker 1: the campground and then it sends like sewage in I
Speaker 1: had to watch my friends do it this weekend. But
Speaker 1: then with Dave and Susan, they have to go and
Speaker 1: empty that. Because they're traveling a bunch, they'll empty that
Speaker 1: like maybe at campgrounds, but they after they're done camping,
Speaker 1: there's like dump stations. And I'm probably saying this wrong
Speaker 1: because I'm not as well versed in that, but no,
Speaker 1: someone does not hook it up for you. You have
Speaker 1: to hook it up yourself. You have to take care of.
Speaker 2: All of that.
Speaker 1: And in camper vans there's different water tanks and different
Speaker 1: like sewage tanks that you deal with. If you have
Speaker 1: a toilet in there and you you have to empty
Speaker 1: it yourself. I do not have a bathroom in my
Speaker 1: camper van. I literally pee in a cool up container
Speaker 1: and I throw it out the door if that. If
Speaker 1: I need to go to the bathroom in the camper van,
Speaker 1: I usually go to a gas station and make sure.
Speaker 1: But usually you know at night, you're like, I gotta pee.
Speaker 1: Where you're gonna go?
Speaker 4: Can I ask such an off base question. That's about
Speaker 4: something you said. Is it harder for guys and girls
Speaker 4: to pee in a can?
Speaker 3: Or like harder I'd say for women because you can't
Speaker 3: direct in any way.
Speaker 5: That's what I thought, but I wasn't sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's definitely gonna be harder for women. We
Speaker 1: had our streams are not quite as straight and narrow.
Speaker 4: Streams are also not straight and narrow, especially after like
Speaker 4: tm I but this is the podcast, will fuck it?
Speaker 5: After doing it, after doing the loving it, it gets weird.
Speaker 5: It's not direct.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I get what you're saying. I
Speaker 1: get what you're saying.
Speaker 4: It's like when you put your finger over the hose
Speaker 4: and it starts going a bunch of different directions.
Speaker 1: It's pretty much how women pee all the time. Maybe
Speaker 1: not all the time. I mean, it's not like it's
Speaker 1: going in every direction that we're peeing on ourselves. But like, yes,
Speaker 1: it's definitely much harder. We can't control any kind of flow,
Speaker 1: not at all. Last question real quick for Natalie is
Speaker 1: do people leave you alone at campgrounds or is it
Speaker 1: a big party atmosphere? Like I said, I think the
Speaker 1: more mature slash r V campgrounds, Yes, everyone leaves each
Speaker 1: other alone. However, I think campgrounds that are more like
Speaker 1: tent campgrounds that might be a bit of a more
Speaker 1: party atmosphere. But for the most part, I'm gonna say
Speaker 1: campgrounds are like family friendly chill. I really think that
Speaker 1: the party campgrounds have been part of our music festivals
Speaker 1: so Country USA. Yeah, and that's not what you're asking about.
Speaker 1: So outside of that, there we go. Hopefully that helps
Speaker 1: you learn something new today. Natalie, Hi, Jenny Bailey, and
Speaker 1: maybe von Fonce here. Hello. I have a dilemma. This
Speaker 1: will definitely pull on Bailey's heart strings and this is
Speaker 1: difficult for me to even write. We adopted a five
Speaker 1: year old male cat from my husband's childhood friend a
Speaker 1: year ago. He is so sweet, affectionate, and doglike in
Speaker 1: many ways. He will run up to strangers that come
Speaker 1: to our door. However, I believe he has some past
Speaker 1: trauma that has led to some undesirable behaviors. His first owner,
Speaker 1: before my husband's friend, died unexpectedly in a car accident
Speaker 1: and the cat was left alone at home for several days.
Speaker 1: There's two main issues. First, he is extremely vocal. He
Speaker 1: will frequently go off on his own to the basement
Speaker 1: and sit at the base at the bottom of the
Speaker 1: stairs and loud lely me out. It's a long, drawn
Speaker 1: out sound over sound, sound, over and over. He does
Speaker 1: this all the time, middle of the night. He doesn't care.
Speaker 1: While this is annoying, I can live it. Second, our
Speaker 1: basement has increasingly become more smelly like cap he over
Speaker 1: the past year. For a while I thought I was
Speaker 1: it was just the litter box. But tonight I moved
Speaker 1: everything out and vacuumed the entire basement, and during this
Speaker 1: time I discover the sources of the smell. I found
Speaker 1: several areas where he has peed on the carpet. We
Speaker 1: are getting our carpets cleaned tomorrow because we are moving
Speaker 1: in a few weeks. So here's my debate. Since a
Speaker 1: move will be stressful for him anyway, would it be
Speaker 1: awful to rehome him where he can hopefully get the
Speaker 1: love and attention he needs. We work full time and
Speaker 1: have two kids and a dog. I worry he isn't
Speaker 1: getting his needs met. I also absolutely do not want
Speaker 1: him peeing all over my new house. I didn't want
Speaker 1: to give him a give up on him, but I
Speaker 1: am so grossed out living in my own home. What
Speaker 1: do I do for anyone wondering he has neutered. I
Speaker 1: clean his box once a day, and he went to
Speaker 1: the vet for his annual checkup a few months ago.
Speaker 1: Thank you this. I'll just refrain from saying this person.
Speaker 2: I don't think it's wrong to rehome your cat.
Speaker 3: If you can't love the cat the way it needs
Speaker 3: to be cared for, then I think it's totally fine
Speaker 3: to rehome the cat. Obviously, don't just like leave the
Speaker 3: cat in the house when you leave. But if I mean,
Speaker 3: if you know somebody who will take the cat, like
Speaker 3: I would just post on social media, be like does
Speaker 3: somebody want a cat? If not, I mean, you should
Speaker 3: be able to bring it to the humane society. I
Speaker 3: feel bad because, like, obviously, like if a cat peas
Speaker 3: on the carpet and then they smell that everywhere, they're
Speaker 3: gonna just like pee wherever because now the whole carpet
Speaker 3: is their litter box. So it's a good thing that
Speaker 3: you're getting your carpets cleaned, so hopefully that will.
Speaker 2: Take out that part out.
Speaker 3: But it's also like, I mean, obviously you're moving, but
Speaker 3: until you move, like get an extra litter box and
Speaker 3: make sure you're cleaning it often. And cat's like positive reinforcement.
Speaker 3: So whenever your cat is doing something that you like
Speaker 3: for them to do, you reward them for doing that thing.
Speaker 3: So if he's quiet, you can give him, you know,
Speaker 3: a treat for being quiet. And don't like give treats
Speaker 3: when they're like meowing and meowing just to make them
Speaker 3: shut up, because then they're gonna they're gonna keep me
Speaker 3: owing because they're going to think, oh, that gets me
Speaker 3: a treat, so I'm gonna keep doing that. So yeah,
Speaker 3: cat's like positive reinforcement, not negative reinforcement. So like yelling
Speaker 3: at your cat's not going to do anything, uh, whacking
Speaker 3: your cat's not going to do anything, but yeah, being
Speaker 3: nice to them. I feel bad for this little kittie.
Speaker 3: But if you have to get you, if you have
Speaker 3: to let it go, you have to let it go.
Speaker 3: But don't I mean let it go as in like yeah,
Speaker 3: rehome it. Don't like let it go, but you know,
Speaker 3: just like rehome it. That's fine, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it looks like you probably were doing a
Speaker 1: favor because you had said that the one owner had
Speaker 1: passed away, and then your husband's friend took it in
Speaker 1: and I'm assuming your husband's friend didn't want the cat,
Speaker 1: which is why you guys took it in. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: it seems like you were already like trying to rehome
Speaker 1: it and help it out. And so, yeah, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: not as I loved cats, don't get me wrong, but
Speaker 1: I am of the sake of the nature of you
Speaker 1: want to be able to live in your home and
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. And I definitely lived with my sister's cat
Speaker 1: for a while who literally me out throughout the entire
Speaker 1: night in our small apartment, and it drove us insane
Speaker 1: to the point that we finally had to be like,
Speaker 1: you need to take that cat to my dad's for
Speaker 1: the duration of living with us for like the next
Speaker 1: because she was only with us for like a month
Speaker 1: after that. Yeah, I don't know what happened and what
Speaker 1: changed with him. He used to be super chill and
Speaker 1: then he would just start me outing throughout the night,
Speaker 1: and then he did that the rest of his life
Speaker 1: until he passed away like a year or two ago, buddy.
Speaker 1: And yeah, so I get it. You want to be
Speaker 1: able to live in your house and not have pee
Speaker 1: everywhere and whatever. So okay, that is it. I think
Speaker 1: that there's some emails we got this week that I
Speaker 1: saved for one Dave's back, so it just adds up.
Speaker 1: I know we have Ajanita Rant, we also have Ranger
Speaker 1: Jessica's did you Know of the Day. I'm just going
Speaker 1: to say those for one days back on Monday. But
Speaker 1: I appreciate everyone who emailed in this week and back
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