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<v Speaker 1>H hey, hey, hey, I'm bad. Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how you're gonna take it, but I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have no control on how you're gonna take it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just gonna give it to you.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't have the mind and the heart of readiness,

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<v Speaker 2>so much is going to affect you. So much is

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<v Speaker 2>going to affect you because in life, there is so

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<v Speaker 2>much that goes on, There is so much that happens,

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<v Speaker 2>there is so much unexpected. If you are not a

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<v Speaker 2>person with the mind in the heart of readiness, you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have.

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<v Speaker 1>A hard struggle through your storms.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, I want to tell you something, and I've said

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<v Speaker 2>that many times, many many.

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<v Speaker 1>People, millions up on millions, up on millions of.

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<v Speaker 2>People profess Christ, they profess God.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's a lie.

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<v Speaker 2>And all you have to do is look at how

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<v Speaker 2>they dress, Listen to how they talk, look at what

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<v Speaker 2>they do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to tell you the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>But see, you don't understand that when you're blind, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't see reality. When you're blind. Most times people don't

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<v Speaker 2>realize that they're blind, and that's why so many are

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<v Speaker 2>led right into the ditch, right into the ditch. When

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<v Speaker 2>you don't understand that things are.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean things that crush you to the core. They're

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<v Speaker 2>going to happen. Unexpected things are going to happen. Expected

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<v Speaker 2>things are going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just fact. It's fact.

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<v Speaker 2>Most people profess Christ, but they're so weak. They're filled

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<v Speaker 2>with violeness, They're filled with hatred and anger and bitterness

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<v Speaker 2>when things happen unexpected or even expected.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me give you an example. When my mom had

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<v Speaker 1>a stroke.

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<v Speaker 2>No one expected that my sister went over to her

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<v Speaker 2>house like normal, and my mom barely could open the door,

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<v Speaker 2>and it progressed from there. No one expected that I

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<v Speaker 2>had just moved closer to my mom and this happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Never had the opportunity to be close to her, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>and proximity distance wise, And that happened unexpectedly, and it

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<v Speaker 2>was like jarring to see your mom in that way.

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<v Speaker 2>And when she passed away four months later, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought my world was gonna end. And I've talked

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<v Speaker 2>about this before on an episode. But because of my faith,

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<v Speaker 2>God reminded me of who and whose I am? Who

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<v Speaker 2>I am and whose I am? He reminded me. He

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<v Speaker 2>reminded me of my own words, and it woke me up.

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<v Speaker 1>It woke me up. You know better than anyone else.

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<v Speaker 1>It's what the Holy Spirit said to me.

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<v Speaker 2>You know better than anyone else that unexpected things happen.

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<v Speaker 1>But you also know.

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<v Speaker 2>That you you have to keep your focus. You can't

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<v Speaker 2>be distracted. And losing my mom was bad because it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you function in the world without your mom?

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<v Speaker 2>But then I thought about some people never had a mom.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, many things went through my head that pulled

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<v Speaker 2>me back into reality.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's been going on four years now and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Still miss my mom every day. I'm just not crying

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<v Speaker 2>like I was. Sometimes I go crying now, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>not like it was. But it just really strengthened me

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<v Speaker 2>even more because I've always been a person to say,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, anything could happen. We just have to stay

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<v Speaker 2>in prayer and ask God, no matter what happened, keep

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<v Speaker 2>me strong, keep me standing, let me be able to endure.

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<v Speaker 1>And you must mean those words.

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<v Speaker 2>If you mean those words, he will give you peace

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<v Speaker 2>that surpass us all understanding people will look at you

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<v Speaker 2>like you're crazy. Why in the world is she not

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<v Speaker 2>falling apart? Why is he able to withstand this? How

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<v Speaker 2>can he do you know, function like He's functioning because

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<v Speaker 2>of the peace that God gives.

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<v Speaker 1>Every day of my life. That is one of my prayers.

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<v Speaker 2>Lord, no matter what it is, keep me standing, let

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<v Speaker 2>me be able to endure.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've told you many times.

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<v Speaker 2>Of a situation that I'm going through and I'll go

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<v Speaker 2>through it to death until my dying breath.

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<v Speaker 1>I will go through this situation. But God has kept me.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes me emotional when I think about it, but

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<v Speaker 2>God has kept me through it all. And it is traumatic,

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<v Speaker 2>it's very traumatic, but God has kept me through it all.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not special. I've told you I'm not special.

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<v Speaker 2>But I have the love for Jesus. I have a

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<v Speaker 2>love for God. I'm not faking it. I live it.

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<v Speaker 2>And therefore He has given me what he promised, that

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<v Speaker 2>peace that surpasses all understanding. And no matter what I

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<v Speaker 2>go through, no matter what, I'm gonna keep standing because

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<v Speaker 2>I love my family, my friends, other people, but my

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<v Speaker 2>focus is God. That's where my strength comes from. That's

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<v Speaker 2>where my help comes from. That's who calms me, that's

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<v Speaker 2>who comforts me when the devil want to try to

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<v Speaker 2>take your mind. That's who keep me when the devil

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<v Speaker 2>want to attack your body. That's who keep me. When

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<v Speaker 2>people talk about you, that's who keep me. So I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know about you, but I know you have to

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<v Speaker 2>be sold out for real, for real, talking it and

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<v Speaker 2>not walking it.

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<v Speaker 1>It won't do. Saying it out, you know, from your mouth,

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<v Speaker 1>with your heart far from him, it won't do.

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<v Speaker 2>You will not be able to sustain, You will not

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<v Speaker 2>be able to handle it. You will not be able

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<v Speaker 2>to stand. I'm telling you, when that dark I will come,

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<v Speaker 2>you will break. You'll break. And that's not who God

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<v Speaker 2>want us to be.

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<v Speaker 1>It is not who you want us to be.

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<v Speaker 2>He wants you to understand You're gonna have dark days,

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<v Speaker 2>but you can make it through it because those dark

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<v Speaker 2>days can make you strong if you allow it, if

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<v Speaker 2>you not just look at the harshness, the negativity, but

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<v Speaker 2>look at the big picture.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at the big picture.

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<v Speaker 2>Like with my mom, I could have I could have broke,

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<v Speaker 2>but I thank God for allowing me four months being

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<v Speaker 2>two hours away, four months. I thank God forgiving me

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<v Speaker 2>all the years that he gave me with her as

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<v Speaker 2>my mother, the good and the bad, because she was

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<v Speaker 2>something else. She was the best mom ever. But old

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<v Speaker 2>babies she did not play. Nobody messed with my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not even just saying that I can I

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<v Speaker 2>can name hundreds of people who would tell you she

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<v Speaker 2>was just that type of forrce loving us ever. But

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<v Speaker 2>she just wasn't the person to play with. But God

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<v Speaker 2>got me through it, still carrying me through it because

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<v Speaker 2>I lean and depending on Him, No one nothing. See,

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<v Speaker 2>God is gonna take a lot of our loved ones

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<v Speaker 2>away unexpectedly. She's my mom wasn't the first, but that

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<v Speaker 2>she was the closest. I mean, something really ripped from me.

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<v Speaker 2>He's gonna take our loved ones away unexpectedly, swiftly. But

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you, if you're sould out, if you wrap up,

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<v Speaker 2>wrapped up and tied up in God.

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<v Speaker 1>You can endure. You will make it through. You will

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<v Speaker 1>be stronger than before.

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<v Speaker 2>But see, people get lost in the emotions and their

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<v Speaker 2>feelings and their thoughts. They get lost in those things

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<v Speaker 2>and it causes chaos in their lives. They become depressed,

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<v Speaker 2>full of anxiety, hateful, mean, mad, angry because they have

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<v Speaker 2>lost focus.

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<v Speaker 1>Or they never had it. That's why I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>you must have those roots. You must us have those roots.

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<v Speaker 2>That way when the storm comes and the wind blows,

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<v Speaker 2>it could blow hard as if won. You may sway

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<v Speaker 2>to the left and right, but you.

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<v Speaker 1>Will not fall. You will not be uprooted.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm telling you I've been through the fire many times,

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<v Speaker 2>many times. And the more you believe in the mindset

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<v Speaker 2>of love and being sold out, the stronger you become.

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<v Speaker 1>People look at you. I'm seriously, seriously, people look at

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<v Speaker 1>you like, what is wrong with her? How is she

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<v Speaker 1>enduring this?

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<v Speaker 2>Because my eyes is on God, because my focus is Jesus,

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<v Speaker 2>because he is a mediator between us in God.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how.

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<v Speaker 2>When you focus on your family and your friends and

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<v Speaker 2>other people and the tragedies that happened to them, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have your.

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<v Speaker 1>Eyes on God. And when you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't have your eyes on God, then you pick up

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<v Speaker 2>all the residuals of the world. The negativity, the w's mean,

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<v Speaker 2>the hurt, the pain, the sorrow. You pick up all

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<v Speaker 2>of that and you it's like you ingested inside of

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<v Speaker 2>you and now you got these twirling thoughts, You have

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<v Speaker 2>these negative feelings, you have all of these out of

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<v Speaker 2>control emotions because you don't have focus. I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 2>what I know now, what I heard I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 2>what I know. If you say you love Jesus, if

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<v Speaker 2>you say you love God, you will live for Jesus.

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<v Speaker 2>You will live for God. God has to be first

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<v Speaker 2>in your life.

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<v Speaker 1>First, and you have to know.

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<v Speaker 2>Trouble's gonna come, they're gonna go more, trouble's gonna come,

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<v Speaker 2>They're gonna go.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just life until we are dead and gone.

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<v Speaker 2>The Bible tells us the race is not given to

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<v Speaker 2>the swift nor the strong.

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<v Speaker 1>But to the one who endures to the end.

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<v Speaker 2>So that means you gotta hold on, hold out, never

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<v Speaker 2>let go, never give up. And you have to get

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<v Speaker 2>in your head. Bad things are gonna happen. Bad things

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<v Speaker 2>happen to good people. Bad things happen to bad people.

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<v Speaker 2>Unexpected happen to good people, unexpected happen to bad people.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all going to have to bear crosses, not just

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<v Speaker 2>one one after the other. Want you out of one,

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<v Speaker 2>here comes another, out of one, here comes That's just.

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<v Speaker 1>The way it is. But don't let it break you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let it make you a stronger person.

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<v Speaker 2>You could become so much stronger if you stay focused.

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<v Speaker 2>When people are lost in their emotions and their feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>And their thoughts. It leads to.

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<v Speaker 2>Negativity, devastation, destruction, dysfunction because some people just can't get

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<v Speaker 2>over things that happen to them.

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<v Speaker 1>They cannot get over it.

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<v Speaker 2>They succumb to anger, they succumb to fear, They succumb

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<v Speaker 2>to a phobius, they succumb to to hate, They succumb

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<v Speaker 2>to demons, they succumb to insecurities, they succumb to all

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<v Speaker 2>negative darkness, depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Kinds of things.

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<v Speaker 2>Because people lose focus or they never had focus in

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<v Speaker 2>the first place. It's easy for a broken person who's

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<v Speaker 2>going through something to become even more broken. I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 2>if you want to be a strong person in Christ,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to learn from your experiences.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to grow from your experiences.

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<v Speaker 2>You cannot remain the same, keep breaking down, fallowing apart,

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<v Speaker 2>and all.

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<v Speaker 1>Of those negative things. If you think you're gonna become stronger.

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<v Speaker 2>You gotta stop falling and fainting and start to stand.

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's who God is. He's our strength, he's our

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<v Speaker 2>strong power. We as human beings, must know, without a

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<v Speaker 2>shadow of a doubt, unexpected things are gonna happen because

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<v Speaker 2>they are they are They're gonna happen, devaststating unexpected things.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not saying people don't feel it. You're going

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<v Speaker 2>to feel it your flesh and blood. But it should

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<v Speaker 2>not dictate the rest of your life. It should not

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<v Speaker 2>ruin you. It should not break you so bad that

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<v Speaker 2>you can't function. That's all I'm saying. Because no one

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<v Speaker 2>is exempt, No one is exempt, no one. We are

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<v Speaker 2>gonna go through something so traumatic.

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<v Speaker 1>More than once.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna go through, and you just gotta know it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna happen. You don't know what's gonna happen, when

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna happen, how it's gonna happen, but you know

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<v Speaker 2>it's gonna happen. That's the mindset you have. You have

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<v Speaker 2>to have to make it through these things. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>feel it, but you're gonna also keep it moving. You

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<v Speaker 2>don't get lost in the feelings and emotions and thoughts.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why so many people have done such devastating things,

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<v Speaker 2>because when you give power to your thoughts, here comes

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<v Speaker 2>the feelings behind those thoughts, here comes the emotions behind

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<v Speaker 2>those thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>Until you act out.

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<v Speaker 2>You act out because you've given so much power to

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<v Speaker 2>that negativity.

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<v Speaker 1>You succumb to it, and this is what happened a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Of times when people go through traumatic situations. But if

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<v Speaker 2>you love God, you got to keep your eyes on

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<v Speaker 2>him period.

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<v Speaker 1>Period.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying how a person should grieve, none of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Because that's not my place.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm saying any person who allow what they've gone

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<v Speaker 2>through to dictate the rest of their life.

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<v Speaker 1>To ruin them, to break.

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<v Speaker 2>Them, your eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Was on the wrong thing.

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<v Speaker 2>You allowed your feelings, emotion and thoughts to control you.

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<v Speaker 2>And when you are controlled by those things, it leads

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<v Speaker 2>you down a rabbit hole, it leads.

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<v Speaker 1>You into darkness. That's all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>If anyone listening to me you're going through and you

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<v Speaker 2>need someone to talk to, please reach out to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't hesitate. I will respond much love to each and

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<v Speaker 2>every one of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Please share this. Thank you for listening.

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<v Speaker 2>I end every episode the same, and I pray

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<v Speaker 1>To God in Jesus' name that you do it, think

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<v Speaker 1>on it.