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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Afterlife Cafe TV. Connecting hearts, healing souls and

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<v Speaker 1>bridging worlds. I'm your host, Helen Peacock, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>your sacred grounds, a warm, welcoming space where you're invited

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<v Speaker 1>to take a seat, exhale, and just be. Each week

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<v Speaker 1>we will gather cafe style for heart built conversations, some mediumship,

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<v Speaker 1>a man maybe, some intuitive insights, and soulful storytelling that

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<v Speaker 1>explore the afterlife, some healing breathing, and the unbreakable bond

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<v Speaker 1>between us and those in spirit. Here. Laughter and tears

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<v Speaker 1>are both welcome. Love transcends time, and spirit meets us

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<v Speaker 1>in the most human of ways. So if you're seeking comfort, connection,

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<v Speaker 1>or deeper, try your own inner knowing you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>right place. So bore yourself something warm and let's begin. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful souls, and welcome. And if you're returning, welcome back.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're new here, welcome. And I'm very excited

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<v Speaker 1>about my guests today. I actually found out she's on

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<v Speaker 1>the same same platform as me, so I'm excited. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>excited excited to have you here. Brenda, Brenda, Brenda Brenda.

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<v Speaker 1>And before we get started, I just want to mention that.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things that I liked about when I

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<v Speaker 1>read Brenda's bio is I love how she mentions that

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<v Speaker 1>she's the wisdom Keeper. I just love the sound of

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<v Speaker 1>that wisdom keeper mindset coach and a founder of a

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<v Speaker 1>tuned a Guide guidance. And the one thing that I

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<v Speaker 1>always ask my guests right out of the gate is

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<v Speaker 1>how did you get to where you are now? And

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. Please do tell I.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much. I really appreciate the invitation. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just so nice to meet another soul sister, right, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>happy to be here. So how did I get started?

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<v Speaker 2>While I was born into this incredible thing we called life,

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<v Speaker 2>and probably around the age of four years old, I

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<v Speaker 2>had an awareness that I knew I was different and

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<v Speaker 2>I could read a room. And I was thrown into

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<v Speaker 2>some pretty awkward situations at that age that most kids

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't be and something happened where I heightened everything. And

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<v Speaker 2>this was I now know, a protective mechanism to keep

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<v Speaker 2>myself safe at such a young little age. But it

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<v Speaker 2>also helped me understand emotions and feelings, and it activated

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<v Speaker 2>this compassion in me that I felt like I had

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<v Speaker 2>to save every single person in my life because I

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<v Speaker 2>could feel everything that they were feeling and even the

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<v Speaker 2>things they weren't telling me, And so my heart was

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<v Speaker 2>always just open to help and fix because I of

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<v Speaker 2>course pulled my attention away from myself and my life

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<v Speaker 2>because I didn't understand, you know, what I was going through,

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<v Speaker 2>nor did I have any adults that were interested in

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<v Speaker 2>trying to understand it either. So yeah, that's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>how it started, very very young.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, and I didn't even know. That's the first time

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hearing this. Yeah, and I can. I can sort

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<v Speaker 1>of relate to that. I was always like always, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>looking out for the underdog and really feeling for others.

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<v Speaker 1>So I can totally totally relate. So what led up?

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<v Speaker 1>So's that was your younger, younger years, So moving into

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<v Speaker 1>like your teens and your twenties, what led up to

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<v Speaker 1>where you are now?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, So my teens was very interesting because I just

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<v Speaker 2>didn't follow anybody, and I didn't have any clicks or groups,

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<v Speaker 2>and I had a few little friends over here, but

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<v Speaker 2>I felt completely misunderstood most of my life until about

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<v Speaker 2>forty nine years old.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I'm sixty one now, Okay, And.

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<v Speaker 2>So it just was the lone wolf, just out going

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<v Speaker 2>out on my own and figuring everything out on my

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<v Speaker 2>own and absolutely trusting and knowing that I'll figure it out,

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<v Speaker 2>not even knowing what step to take, right. And so

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<v Speaker 2>I was really tapped in. I didn't know the term

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<v Speaker 2>tapped into my inner wisdom or my guidance. Yeah, of course,

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<v Speaker 2>now we can look back and see the gifts. We

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<v Speaker 2>can see that the struggles brought the strength right, that

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<v Speaker 2>they made me be able to hold space for others.

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<v Speaker 2>But first it was always about me coming home to me,

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<v Speaker 2>coming home to my own wisdom. And when you said

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<v Speaker 2>wisdom keeper, everybody is a wisdom keeper. I just claim

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<v Speaker 2>it now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll steal it here and there. Yes, no, I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all the same, We're all one, We're all connected.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't own anything, right, And so when we claim

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<v Speaker 2>our sovereignty, when we claim who we are and we

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<v Speaker 2>know who we are, it's it goes from believing to

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<v Speaker 2>knowing I just am holding codes for myself and for

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<v Speaker 2>humanity and whoever we come in contact with. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>to activate each other and to help level each other

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<v Speaker 2>up to knowing who I am, each person, right, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I say wisdom keeper because I'm nobody's guru. You're

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<v Speaker 2>your own guru.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I find your own wisdom with it and I help

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<v Speaker 2>you attune to listen to it. That's why my company

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<v Speaker 2>is called a Tuned Guidance.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you also own You also have in on

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<v Speaker 1>your website. I read it rewriting our Story and absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>love that title as well. And so what do you

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<v Speaker 1>mean when you say that we can rewrite our story

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<v Speaker 1>tapping into the conscious? Can someone really change their codes

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<v Speaker 1>of their own beliefs?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, one hundred percent. Anybody can do it. But it

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<v Speaker 2>takes work, and it takes conscious awareness. And so the

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<v Speaker 2>first thing you have to do is you have to

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<v Speaker 2>want it. Yes, you're going to receive something that's pulling

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<v Speaker 2>you forward into a new path, and you have to

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<v Speaker 2>want that unknown new path more than you want what

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<v Speaker 2>you're experiencing of everything that you don't like. And once

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<v Speaker 2>you make that decision, everything inside kind of opens up

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<v Speaker 2>and shows you what you need to release to bring

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<v Speaker 2>your awareness to it. But most people are on autopilot,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's not a bad thing. There's no good or

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<v Speaker 2>bad or right or wrong. It's when everybody's ready to

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<v Speaker 2>transform themselves on their own divine timing, because the universe

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<v Speaker 2>loves you and it will wait as long as you

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<v Speaker 2>want to suffer and struggle, and it's like, I love you,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to let you do that. And so changing

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<v Speaker 2>the narrative is first listening to what am I saying

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<v Speaker 2>to myself all day? What am I thinking when I'm

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<v Speaker 2>in the presence of other people? Am I sitting in

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<v Speaker 2>judgment of them? And if I'm sitting in judgment of them,

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<v Speaker 2>it's always self judgment. Can I reflect back to myself

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm judging in another Those are just the beginning steps, right.

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<v Speaker 2>There's so much to do to change your script, but

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<v Speaker 2>those are kind of the things that will kind of

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<v Speaker 2>get you in a position where you choose something differently.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you choose yeah, and I'm the same. What you

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<v Speaker 1>just said earlier is they have to want it. The

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<v Speaker 1>person has to really want that to create that change,

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<v Speaker 1>to want that change. But I also find that when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to a lot of people where they get

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<v Speaker 1>to that point where Okay, something's got to give here,

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<v Speaker 1>But I've also sense that they I have a feeling

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<v Speaker 1>you'll agree with me. Is the first up as getting

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<v Speaker 1>over the fear or the fear of change. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>agree with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Change is the only way to the other side

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<v Speaker 2>of what you desire, and so you have to get

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<v Speaker 2>really uncomfortable and you have to be okay with it.

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<v Speaker 2>If you fear being uncomfortable, it's going to be a

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<v Speaker 2>rocky ride.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>If you remove fear and say, I don't know that

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<v Speaker 2>it's going to be anything other than what it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be because I haven't been there. Don't let the

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<v Speaker 2>mind take you ahead and predict what your day today,

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<v Speaker 2>tomorrow and tomorrow's in the next day is going to

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<v Speaker 2>look like. Just shut the mind down and say you

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<v Speaker 2>have no idea what's on the other side of tomorrow

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<v Speaker 2>because we haven't been there yet, and I'm not going

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<v Speaker 2>to let you take me there. And you drop into

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<v Speaker 2>your heart and you have some action plans and you

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<v Speaker 2>choose yourself. Your higher self is going to work with you,

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<v Speaker 2>and the outer field is going to show up and

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<v Speaker 2>show you how to rewrite your script. It's going to

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<v Speaker 2>appear like magic.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as you're open to it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you have to. That's choosing yourself, right. If you

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<v Speaker 2>don't choose yourself and you say okay, universe show me

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<v Speaker 2>and you're not willing to receive it, then the universe

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<v Speaker 2>is going to go, honey, you're not ready, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>going to hold this gift for you till you are.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's whenever you're ready. There's no I have to

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<v Speaker 2>do it by this age. I grew up thinking I

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<v Speaker 2>had to do this by this agent, this by this agent. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I've dropped all that narrative. That doesn't concern me at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no idea what I'm doing past today, and

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<v Speaker 2>the only wisdom that I have is in this moment

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm sharing with you that's flowing out of me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't try to predict anything past that. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't get in the way.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good. That's good to know because some people that

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<v Speaker 1>they if they come to you, do you feel that

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<v Speaker 1>they're looking to you to give them answers right away?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? And you know the key is to teach them

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<v Speaker 2>how to answer those questions themselves. That's that's where the

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<v Speaker 2>me lies right now, walking side by side with them

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<v Speaker 2>the entire way and not leaving them out in the

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<v Speaker 2>cold either. Right. But there's a balance in coaching somebody

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<v Speaker 2>to get out of the mind and drop into the heart,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's always bringing them back to what are you thinking?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you saying? What? What was that feeling that

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<v Speaker 2>just came up? Did you hear what you just said?

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<v Speaker 2>And they'll say no, And I'm like that what you

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<v Speaker 2>just said is creating tomorrow because you know your word

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<v Speaker 2>is your wand.

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<v Speaker 1>Well you're so speaking of the saying language. If you

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<v Speaker 1>were to have any conversations with my clients, they would

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<v Speaker 1>think that you and I read from the same script

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Well we are.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we're just a reflection of your.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>The universe matches you with the most divide so that

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<v Speaker 2>you can see yourself. Yeah, so all we're ever doing

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<v Speaker 2>is looking at ourselves, and we're choosing do I want

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<v Speaker 2>to continue without judgment? Do I want to continue to

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<v Speaker 2>be like this person in front of me, to speak

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<v Speaker 2>the way they speak to dishonor or do I want

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<v Speaker 2>to let them lie to me? Well, somebody's lying to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Where am I lying to myself? Yeah, don't mind them,

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<v Speaker 2>they're the messenger. Don't shoot the messenger. Be grateful that

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<v Speaker 2>they lied to you, so that you can see that

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<v Speaker 2>you do that too. Otherwise you wouldn't even be able

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<v Speaker 2>to see them. Lying. Yeah, it's taking one hundred percent

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<v Speaker 2>responsibility for your life, one step at a time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree. And you often talk about one conscious

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<v Speaker 1>choice changes everything. Can you share a personal example of

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<v Speaker 1>a small decision that completely, perhaps shifted your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, I won't get into all the details because

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<v Speaker 2>we don't have time. But when I was forty nine,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I had everything. I had accomplished everything. I

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<v Speaker 2>owned a company, a very successful company, and I had

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<v Speaker 2>been in a career for thirty years and in the

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<v Speaker 2>grind of achieving, and I just felt like my head

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<v Speaker 2>was going to pop off my head and I started

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<v Speaker 2>And I moved there five weeks later, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's courage. That's brave to do that. That's a

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<v Speaker 2>that was by far the most unknown one. Like why

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<v Speaker 2>which is it was good. It was good because they

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<v Speaker 2>would have been in it, it would have changed my transformation.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in a transfer. It was metamorphosinge Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you sound like one of my other guests who

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<v Speaker 1>to learn in those moments. Yes, and so how about

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<v Speaker 1>how does when you say around thirty people, where are

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<v Speaker 1>They're not, Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Because they had to fall away. See, people must see

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<v Speaker 2>when we have an attachment to people, places, and things,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you're just confirming something I read this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're so in the moment. It's really difficult when

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<v Speaker 2>then I'm really not missing out anything. And if they

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<v Speaker 2>then they're no longer aligned with me because I get

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<v Speaker 2>to align with my choices and I need that support

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<v Speaker 2>and I support myself. So if the outer doesn't support me,

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<v Speaker 2>they need to go. And it's not personal, it's not personal.

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<v Speaker 2>And so they were just no longer on my radio station.

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<v Speaker 2>They couldn't hear my frequency right. And then new people

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<v Speaker 2>in the old narrative. Okay, keep you stuck and comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really comfortable, even when it's uncomfortable and you don't

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<v Speaker 2>like the friendships, it's comfortable. It's known. And when you

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<v Speaker 2>break free from that fear that I didn't lose anything,

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<v Speaker 2>new people come in and then you get to work

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<v Speaker 2>and the transformation happens because you just know there are

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<v Speaker 2>mirrors of you. They could be here for five minutes

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<v Speaker 2>or five years. You're not attached. I want to know

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<v Speaker 2>who I am, not who they are. Not please them,

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<v Speaker 2>not do make decisions of my life that make them happy.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't make anybody happy. It's impossible to make people

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I usually say too for those that, whether you

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<v Speaker 1>call it healthy boundaries or just letting them go, releasing them,

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<v Speaker 1>not having attached and attachments, do them. This is where

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<v Speaker 1>I say to just drop into your heart and just

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<v Speaker 1>release them with love and wish them well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just letting that go from a place of love. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like you're not doing anything wrong. Just release

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<v Speaker 1>them with love and wishing them well. That way again,

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<v Speaker 1>that you're creating that space for the new to come in.

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<v Speaker 1>It's releasing the old and making that room for the

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<v Speaker 1>new to come in. You know, it's just energy, the attachments. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just.

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<v Speaker 2>Energy and human form, right, exactly, if you don't take

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<v Speaker 2>it personal, then now when somebody falls away, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>there's no fighting, no argument, no I'm mad at you,

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<v Speaker 2>there's just silence when you go, oh my goodness, they're

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<v Speaker 2>actually supporting the new boundary that I set for myself

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<v Speaker 2>to transform. The silence is golden in that situation. So

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<v Speaker 2>if they following naturally, you know you've made a big

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<v Speaker 2>leap forward. When people following naturally, when there's no friction,

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<v Speaker 2>no fighting, no argument, no explaining, no trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>them to understand why, there's magic in your knowing that

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<v Speaker 2>I just quantum leaped into a higher timeline where I'm

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<v Speaker 2>honoring myself and they can't meet me there. So they're

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<v Speaker 2>falling away in honor of my new wish for myself.

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<v Speaker 1>And you feel much lighter too when that takes place.

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<v Speaker 1>I sense anyway, like you know you've made the right

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<v Speaker 1>decision when the next time if you ever hear their

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<v Speaker 1>name or see their picture or whatever. So I always say,

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<v Speaker 1>this is how you know that you've done the right thing.

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<v Speaker 1>This how you feel, and again you just feel so

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<v Speaker 1>much lighter. It's just yeah, peace, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And it has nothing to do with them. I'm not anybody, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just once you start transforming and you tap into

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<v Speaker 2>who you are, you want to know more about that

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<v Speaker 2>and less about what's going on out here.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, for some of your clients, I'm going to come

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<v Speaker 1>around to limiting beliefs. What are some of the most

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<v Speaker 1>common beliefs that you see a lot of people caring?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, limited beliefs are tough, right, we all we're all programmed,

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<v Speaker 2>every one of us. Right. I've had to work through

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<v Speaker 2>quite a few. Yeah, you know, years and there's wisdom

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<v Speaker 2>that comes with on the other side of that limiting

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<v Speaker 2>belief But yeah, people, you know, this is just the

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have an education. I didn't I didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>an easy upbringing. My parents were X y Z. I've

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<v Speaker 2>never had a chance on my life. I don't win

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<v Speaker 2>at anything. I can't do that. How can I do that? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>These things are coming up in people's narrative in the

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<v Speaker 2>subconscious program all day. They don't even they're not even

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<v Speaker 2>aware of it. And I know this because when I'm

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<v Speaker 2>in session, they'll say things and I'll repeat it back

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<v Speaker 2>to them and it's like they heard it for the

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<v Speaker 2>first time and I said, no, you just said that,

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<v Speaker 2>and they say, no, I didn't. I go, well, watch

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<v Speaker 2>the playback after our session, and then they'll email me

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<v Speaker 2>and let's say, oh my god, I said it three times.

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<v Speaker 2>And I said, now you have an awareness what you're

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<v Speaker 2>saying on your limits narrative is that's the magic. When

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<v Speaker 2>you have an awareness, you now can change it. But

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<v Speaker 2>they don't know they're doing it. And people can't change

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<v Speaker 2>what they don't know they're doing exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I find that a lot of the beliefs

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<v Speaker 1>like usually stem from childhood, from family, society, past relationships.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. That's it's all day every day. It's on the TV,

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<v Speaker 2>it's on the news, it's in the movies, yeah, commercials,

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<v Speaker 2>it's in music, it's in conversations that surrounded sund surrounded

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<v Speaker 2>by it. So if you want to tap into that,

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<v Speaker 2>that's fine, that's okay, that's a choice, right. But if

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<v Speaker 2>you want to tap into your inner knowing, your inner wisdom,

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<v Speaker 2>then you've got to get silent, and you've got to

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<v Speaker 2>start listening to your thoughts and listening to what's coming

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<v Speaker 2>out of your mouth. Right, that's where the magic is.

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<v Speaker 2>And once you do it, you kind of look back

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<v Speaker 2>on your whole childhood and you go, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>I am resilient, I am strong. I actually became this

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<v Speaker 2>There's no longer an emotional attachment to they did this

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<v Speaker 2>or they did that. I'm here now because of her

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<v Speaker 2>and everything I've went through, and so my strength comes

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<v Speaker 2>from my knowing that I could do anything. And when

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<v Speaker 2>you have that, tomorrow doesn't scare you, next year doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>scare you, because I will listen and the path will

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<v Speaker 2>light up because I'm tapped into it now. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>won't let anybody out there take me out of it.

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<v Speaker 2>I just observe the world now differently. Everybody's okay to

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<v Speaker 2>stay stuck if they want to stay stuck. But if

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<v Speaker 2>they don't want to, there's a few tools out there

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<v Speaker 2>from all of us, all our platforms. Do you know,

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<v Speaker 2>help you get started? You just got to start.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what do you think is most What would you

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<v Speaker 1>say is probably I don't want to use the word trigger,

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<v Speaker 1>But what would you say would be an example where

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<v Speaker 1>people all of a sudden have their own home moments

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<v Speaker 1>just like that's it as of today, I'm creating change.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to take charge. What would say those experiences would.

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<v Speaker 2>Be when they hear how they're talking to themselves and

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<v Speaker 2>to others, when they listen to the thoughts they're having,

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<v Speaker 2>and they want to question where they're coming from, and

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<v Speaker 2>they admit that they're the one creating their entire reality

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<v Speaker 2>themselves and there's no outside blame on anybody. That's when

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<v Speaker 2>you get that mointment So good too, because you can't

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<v Speaker 2>deny that you now know I do this. I can't

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<v Speaker 2>deny it. And it's magic if you can sit in

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<v Speaker 2>that uncomfortable that I did this without guilt, without shame,

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<v Speaker 2>and without thinking that you can go back and change.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't change it, but you definitely can consciously make

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<v Speaker 2>a decision to change today and practice sit every day

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<v Speaker 2>until you get there, just a little bit every day, right,

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<v Speaker 2>it's repetitive, has to be.

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<v Speaker 1>wherever they may be right now, there's a term that's

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<v Speaker 1>being I hear it. Yeah, Ah, that can be difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>It can be very challenging for a few, not for

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff, and it's just like just try to

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just working your way up to that and

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<v Speaker 2>Right. So yeah, I mean a lot of people don't

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<v Speaker 2>like to meditate, then I just tell them walk around

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<v Speaker 2>when you're home or in your car and talk out

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<v Speaker 2>You'll hear everything and you'll be like just talk out

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<v Speaker 2>you're saying, and you'll catch your thoughts. So if you

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to be in meditation courd, yourself needs to

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<v Speaker 2>do it. Record you can record yourself and play it back,

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<v Speaker 2>because then you can't really can't deny it, right yep,

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<v Speaker 2>Because you're trying to teach the mind that that old

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<v Speaker 2>narrative isn't working for me. But if you don't correct

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<v Speaker 2>the mind and feed at something new, the mind is

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<v Speaker 2>just helping you stay on autopilot. It thinks it's doing

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<v Speaker 2>you a good job.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, yeah, yeah, But.

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<v Speaker 2>The heart leads the way. The heart. The answers are

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<v Speaker 2>here in the heart mind.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the perfect segue. I was just gonna ask you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a phrase that I'm hearing more and more

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<v Speaker 1>and more and more, and I believe more and more

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<v Speaker 1>people are hearing it too. Is heart coherence? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>That's a phrase that's being that I'm hearing more often now,

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<v Speaker 1>but many aren't sure what it actually means. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>explain it in everyday language?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Look, people are busy, they're working there in traffic,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know they've got a long list of to

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<v Speaker 2>do things all week, and so that those noises from

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<v Speaker 2>the mind are very very noisy, and it's so noisy

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<v Speaker 2>that they actually get used to that frequency of noise

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<v Speaker 2>and list and to do so. The heart is we

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<v Speaker 2>only have a couple of minutes here, but the heart

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<v Speaker 2>is a whisper, it's silent, it's a nun that nobody

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<v Speaker 2>can validate. I feel that I should be doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>The minute you go to somebody else and ask their opinion,

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<v Speaker 2>they can only advise you from their own perspective of

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<v Speaker 2>how they're in their own reality. So the best way

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<v Speaker 2>is to start practicing. Don't listen to the noise. You

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<v Speaker 2>know that's your mind. When there's a whisper and a

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<v Speaker 2>hey what if you try this? Tap into that and

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<v Speaker 2>just try it. Take a step. That's how you can

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<v Speaker 2>practice to know when I'm in my mind and when

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in my heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you don't know what changes, yep, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, Yeah, if you don't know the difference between outer

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<v Speaker 2>and inner, then you can't get there. So you're just practicing,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh why what is where'd that come from? And then

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<v Speaker 2>you can ask some mind where'd that come from? The

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<v Speaker 2>mind can't answer, It'll go I have no idea. I

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<v Speaker 2>go silent because it's not in the record. It's something new,

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<v Speaker 2>it hasn't happened yet that you're being We're here being

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<v Speaker 2>led to the unknown of things that haven't happened yet.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my saying. I always say, be excited for the unknown. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to know what that is, just be

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<v Speaker 1>excited for it. Right. It's the same thing I always

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<v Speaker 1>say about.

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<v Speaker 2>Relationship my life.

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<v Speaker 1>Be excited for the next person that's going to come

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<v Speaker 1>into your life. You don't have to know everything about them,

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<v Speaker 1>but when you kind of trust and just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>throw it at there, it's like, just be excited, right. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I would ask your listeners to say to themselves, have

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<v Speaker 2>I had enough of this experience? Have I had enough?

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<v Speaker 2>And then if the answer is yes, the unknown, don't

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<v Speaker 2>think it's scary because how did you get there where

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<v Speaker 2>you're leaving behind? You'll get there, you'll be fine, right,

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<v Speaker 2>But you have to make a choice for yourself without

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<v Speaker 2>listening to any outer noise.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then that's where you become your own guru.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's your own sovereignty. It's your in your own power,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you don't seek outside much, right, you much

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<v Speaker 2>on the outside. You need a little bit here and there.

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<v Speaker 2>And of course you have your tribe and your friends

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<v Speaker 2>that you can you know, collaborate with. But you really,

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<v Speaker 2>you really pretty fill up your cup pretty easily, and

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<v Speaker 2>you just watch the outer world and on all the

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<v Speaker 2>chaos and you go, Okay, that's your choice. I allow

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<v Speaker 2>them to choose, just like I get to choose. You

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<v Speaker 2>come back to more wholeness and oneness with all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And one thing to keep in mind for the

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<v Speaker 1>listeners too, it doesn't matter how old you are, where

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<v Speaker 1>you are in life. You can start today, you can

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<v Speaker 1>start tomorrow, You can start right now, right never too

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<v Speaker 1>late to change.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. The key is in the present moment. When you

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<v Speaker 2>catch yourself doing something you don't like, start right then

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<v Speaker 2>by making a decision to choose differently.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, by noticing how you feel and allowing yourself to feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, feeling it and letting it go. Because feelings are

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<v Speaker 2>not facts.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, please you tell more about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. The feelings that you have are coming from all

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<v Speaker 2>the experiences that you've had, and they're not bad, and

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<v Speaker 2>they're not good, They just are just when you're holding

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<v Speaker 2>on to the older feelings and the story and the

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<v Speaker 2>narrative and the people, you're robbing yourself from new stories,

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<v Speaker 2>new narratives, new people. And so if you have an

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<v Speaker 2>emotion in your body, feel it, but just don't cling

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<v Speaker 2>onto it as your truth forever, right, allow it to

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<v Speaker 2>pass through. It's energy and motion. We're all energy and motion,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're trying to move into a more sovereign collective humanity,

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<v Speaker 2>and each one of us have to do our own

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<v Speaker 2>part internally, and then we just kind of light each

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<v Speaker 2>other up and light each other's paths up. When we're

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<v Speaker 2>connected to the people that are doing the work and

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<v Speaker 2>the people that want to do the work, they're connected

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<v Speaker 2>to the outer noise and chaos, and that's fine, there's

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<v Speaker 2>nothing wrong with that. It's their choice too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally agree. Yeah, So for my viewers, my listeners,

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<v Speaker 1>if there's one thing for them to remember from today's conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>what what would you hope it would be for them?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you're so perfect, whole and complete. You always have been.

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<v Speaker 2>There's never been anything wrong with you. And you've just

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<v Speaker 2>grabbed some words and thoughts and feelings from your experiences

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<v Speaker 2>in the past, and you've catapulted them in and created today,

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<v Speaker 2>this present moment. And in this present moment, if you

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<v Speaker 2>choose yourself, your higher self will step in and show

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<v Speaker 2>you how to con you to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful. I love that, absolutely love that. Now you also,

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<v Speaker 1>I mentioned when I was on your website there's a

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<v Speaker 1>book that you participated in. And I'm looking at the

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<v Speaker 1>cover of this book. I'm like, I've seen this book before?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she? And Mike? Why am I aware of this book?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's actually one of my other guests. Her name

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<v Speaker 1>is Pamela. Name is Pamela. She's a channeler. I just

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<v Speaker 1>went blanket last night. Oh, but she participated in that book.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you want to did you want to mention anything

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<v Speaker 1>about that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? It's Awakened Hearts and Awakened magazine and David Trotter

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<v Speaker 2>has a great platform and he just brought I think

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<v Speaker 2>there's thirty of us or thirty four of us in

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<v Speaker 2>that book that really told our awakening stories. And so

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<v Speaker 2>he has three books out. That's a volume two that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm in. Okay, we y'all just came together and we

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<v Speaker 2>each shared that particular book. Volume two is about awakening

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<v Speaker 2>and it talks about my awakening on Maui and how

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<v Speaker 2>I found who who I really was without the chatter

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<v Speaker 2>and how I started stepping into that power and that

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<v Speaker 2>was that was nine years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, well, thank you for sharing that. That's volume two.

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<v Speaker 1>How many did you say? Three?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? He has three and there you can get all

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<v Speaker 2>of his books on Amazon. Okay, just called a Week

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<v Speaker 2>of Guards.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah okay, So, and how do my listeners and because

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<v Speaker 1>you do all your sessions via zoom yes, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>did you want to share was the best way that

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<v Speaker 1>my viewers listeners can get in touch with you if

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<v Speaker 1>they're interested in receiving some of your magic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I mean everything that I do is on a

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<v Speaker 2>tuned to guidance dot com and I tuned okay, a

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<v Speaker 2>tuned guidance dot com. Yeah, and I have you know,

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<v Speaker 2>one on one sessions, I have group sessions, and I

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<v Speaker 2>also have beautiful online courses that are lifetime access that

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<v Speaker 2>you can take at your own okay, and and grade yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody's going to grade you. You're your own guru. And

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<v Speaker 2>so yeah, everything's they and all the links to all

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<v Speaker 2>my other platforms are on that website.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, thank you for sharing. That So just a fun, fun,

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<v Speaker 1>just fun couple of questions. I just want to ask

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<v Speaker 1>just so of my my listeners can get a better

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<v Speaker 1>feel for who you are as a human. Coffee or tea?

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<v Speaker 2>Coffee and tea?

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<v Speaker 1>Coffee or tea or do you like both?

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<v Speaker 2>I like both? Yeah? Like I do dec have coffee

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<v Speaker 2>and I love all kinds of tea.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm the same.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't spill the tea. I drink the tea.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I got you anymore? Gotcha? Sunrise or sunset?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, sunset? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And the book that you feel that changed your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, the four agreements okay, okay. And there's many but

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<v Speaker 2>that one ye I practiced every day, every day, every day, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And one word that you're trying to live by in

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<v Speaker 1>this year.

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<v Speaker 2>Truth Truth.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that one. I like that one. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you can finish this sentence for me. The life that

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<v Speaker 1>you've been waiting for begins when.

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<v Speaker 2>It begins when you start seeing yourself in everyone and

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<v Speaker 2>that that reflection. There's a double mirror and they need

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<v Speaker 2>to see their side, and you're only responsible for yours.

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<v Speaker 2>And when you see the reflection that's coming back to

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<v Speaker 2>you to see yourself and where you're stuck. You'll realize

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<v Speaker 2>that every single person you've ever come in contact with,

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<v Speaker 2>even if they're not helping themselves, they're helping you. They're

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<v Speaker 2>surrounding you because you've chosen to transform yourself, even if

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<v Speaker 2>they look like they haven't, there's always help and guidance

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<v Speaker 2>around you.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, Okay, And one more thing for my audience.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe that we are the author of our

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<v Speaker 1>story or the editor of our story?

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<v Speaker 2>You know? I find that I'm both. Okay, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>find that I am both.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like when you're Sometimes I'm a teacher

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<v Speaker 2>and sometimes I'm a student, and it happens in a

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<v Speaker 2>blink of an eye. Yeah, one minute, I think, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I know this, and the next minute, I don't know anything,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm learning and my higher self is showing me something.

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<v Speaker 2>So when I'm authoring and I'm editing, it's it's still

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<v Speaker 2>me doing that through conscious choices that I make for myself,

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<v Speaker 2>and making choices for myself will never take away from

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<v Speaker 2>another ever if they're feeling lack or scarcity, that they

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<v Speaker 2>can lose something, and they'll think that my choices that

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<v Speaker 2>I make for myself is against them and that belongs

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<v Speaker 2>to them. Yes, so they see that they won't change that.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for sharing that. So for my viewers, my audience,

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<v Speaker 1>if today's conversation spoke to your heart, I encourage you

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<v Speaker 1>not to let it end there or here and take

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<v Speaker 1>a few quiet moments today to reflect on one belief

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<v Speaker 1>or perhaps one habit, one story that you've been carrying

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<v Speaker 1>that no longer serves the person that you're becoming. And

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes transformation doesn't begin with, as we mentioned, with a

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<v Speaker 1>giant leap. Sometimes it begins with just a single brave choice.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want to thank you Brenda for joining us,

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<v Speaker 1>and thank you to each of you for allowing us

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<v Speaker 1>to be part of your journey. And so until next time,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you again Brenda and doing me again. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>continue to connect with your heart and trust your inner

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<v Speaker 1>wisdom and I'll res remember that love never ends, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just different.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Brenda, thank you, thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to thank you for tuning in to Afterlife

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<v Speaker 1>Cafe TV. Connecting hearts, healing souls and bridging worlds. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Helen Peacock and I am so grateful. Yes, it makes

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<v Speaker 1>my heart saying that you chose to spend this time

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<v Speaker 1>here with me. So to continue the connection, I do

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<v Speaker 1>invite you to tune into the Transformation Talk Radio every

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday at eleven am for new episodes. And you can

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<v Speaker 1>also visit my website at Helen Peacock dot ca to

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<v Speaker 1>find out more about my sessions, group readings, yes even

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<v Speaker 1>zoom group readings and perhaps some events I may be holding.

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<v Speaker 1>And also there will be a course on your such

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<v Speaker 1>development mediumship development if you're interested in that, and just

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<v Speaker 1>know that there are more ways to gather in our

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<v Speaker 1>Sacred Grounds community where you can also again find me

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<v Speaker 1>at Helthpeacock dot ca. So if this episode touched your heart,

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<v Speaker 1>please like, share and subscribe. It does help the space

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<v Speaker 1>reach others who may need it to. So until next time,

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<v Speaker 1>trust the signs, stay curious, and remember love never ends,

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<v Speaker 1>It's just different