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<v Speaker 1>This is the TJ Show.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very excited to introduce you to a new friend

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<v Speaker 2>of mine, a ninety seven year old man named mister Don.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm looking forward to meeting mister Don.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been hearing about mister Don for a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>years now. My kids started going to this camp during

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<v Speaker 2>one week at the summer, and they always talk about

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<v Speaker 2>this guy. Oh, mister Don's so nice. Oh, we got

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<v Speaker 2>to see mister Don again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. I love mister Don.

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<v Speaker 2>My kids don't have like, really passionate feelings about a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people in their lives, but they tell me

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<v Speaker 2>about mister Don. And so fast forward. I just meet

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<v Speaker 2>mister Don for the first time. There's this older gentleman

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<v Speaker 2>sitting down. He just had a heart surgery and he's

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<v Speaker 2>doing great, and he's one of the most energetic people

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<v Speaker 2>I've ever met.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, I'm like, you're mister Don. Oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>And I started talking to him and within a minute

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my goodness, I got to interview

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<v Speaker 2>this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, would you mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Doing an interview with me for the show, And he said, sure,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll do it. So I went home, I got my

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<v Speaker 2>mic and I sat down with mister Don. He's ninety

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<v Speaker 2>seven years old. Mister Don, it's very nice to meet you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very nice to meet you, so, sir, you're ninety

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<v Speaker 2>seven years old. Yeah, mister Don. You know, we drop

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<v Speaker 2>our kids off at this camp, and that's how I

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<v Speaker 2>met you.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I dropped the kids off to get away from screaming kids,

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<v Speaker 2>and you seem to go towards the screaming kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, well, how do you do it?

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<v Speaker 5>Several ways, but the main way is that I have

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<v Speaker 5>those kids maybe for what an hour, a couple hours,

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<v Speaker 5>three hours, but I send them back to their parents.

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<v Speaker 5>I just love these kids, and I just I'm trying

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<v Speaker 5>to understand why, what their reason is, what they're thinking.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why I'm here. That's one of the reasons I'm here.

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<v Speaker 5>And I love them. I love these kids.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, well, my kids, you know, they talk about

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<v Speaker 2>you all the time. They think you're the nicest guy

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<v Speaker 2>on the planet. They always talk about mister Don.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about that, but you tell those kids

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<v Speaker 1>thank you very much. You still babysitting chops. I don't know, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just asking.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'll pick them up if you won't have

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<v Speaker 2>to watch the kids, drop them right off at the house,

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<v Speaker 2>hang out with they somehow all behave around, mister dunt.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right, they know they need to.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ninety seven. Do I look like a kid to you? Sure?

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<v Speaker 5>You do.

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<v Speaker 2>When you see somebody in their eighties, do they look

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<v Speaker 2>like a kid to you, it's a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>a harder one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, that's a hard question. Or do they look

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<v Speaker 1>like an old guy? No, they don't look like an

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<v Speaker 1>old guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Then, interesting, somebody in their eighties doesn't look like an

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<v Speaker 2>old guy to him?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean he's ninety seven.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it makes sense if you see.

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<v Speaker 2>An eighty five year old lady, does she look like

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<v Speaker 2>a young spring chicken?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 5>And no? Maybe looks yes, But in actions and in

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<v Speaker 5>methods that she does, in what she does with her life, then.

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<v Speaker 1>She can be like a little young person. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you're in your eighties, I mean you're looking fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder if you would be able to accurately guess

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<v Speaker 3>your age, Like if you asked him, like, would he

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<v Speaker 3>think you're in your twenties?

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think he wouldn't know? Well, just because

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<v Speaker 1>of the gap.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, you know, he said, an eighty five year

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<v Speaker 3>old man doesn't look old to him, So what does

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<v Speaker 3>a thirty forty year old man look to him?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a great question. I had a really nice

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<v Speaker 2>time hanging out with him. I talked to him for

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<v Speaker 2>a while. Man, he sounds great. Do you ever notice

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<v Speaker 2>that sometimes people talk to older people almost like their babies,

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<v Speaker 2>Like they go over the top, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes I do, Yes, I do, and it's wrong. Isn't annoying?

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<v Speaker 1>It's annoying.

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<v Speaker 5>It's annoying, But I understand, Well, why are they doing that?

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<v Speaker 4>He's very forgiving, he is, because that would be annoyed

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<v Speaker 4>by that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, why are they doing that? I don't know?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, can you do an impression of how they talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you and how you hear it?

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<v Speaker 5>No, they almost talking. I can maybe talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't understand what they're saying because you're X number

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<v Speaker 5>of years older than they are, so you don't know

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<v Speaker 5>what's going on, or you don't And there's the old

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<v Speaker 5>fas saying goes you don't think what they're saying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like he couldn't possibly understand what is the latest

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<v Speaker 2>thing that's irritating you?

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<v Speaker 5>People's reaction to each other in a hateful way, a

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<v Speaker 5>way that is not not loving. It's something that you

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<v Speaker 5>can get out of. You can change your life around

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<v Speaker 5>and say what you want to say and not what

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<v Speaker 5>somebody else might want you to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how many people are hateful because someone else before

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<v Speaker 2>them or currently in their circle. They are that way, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And I love what mister don saying. You can break

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<v Speaker 2>out of that anytime.

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<v Speaker 4>He made me tear up the heart behind it. That's

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<v Speaker 4>very genuine.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what Jesus taught us. We love one another. And

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<v Speaker 5>if we love one another, how can we be made

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<v Speaker 5>or upset with others?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? That's powerful. Are pets worth having? Cat? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought i'd ask this while I was there with

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<v Speaker 2>them worth having? Because yeah, our dogs are a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of work, just pets in general. Yes, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>What animal is better a cat or a dog? Fifty fifty?

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<v Speaker 1>I've had both, love them both, sort of an unofficial

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<v Speaker 1>they're both great.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's got to feel one way or the

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<v Speaker 2>other about which one's better dog or cat?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh man, it really is fifty fifty really because they

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<v Speaker 4>both require a lot of work, okay, and they both

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<v Speaker 4>give a lot of love.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you still talk about your wife Oh, sure, how

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<v Speaker 2>long were you married?

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<v Speaker 1>You're not going to have the thick at that sixty

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<v Speaker 1>five years? You were married for sixty five years. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to love each other.

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<v Speaker 5>You have to respect each other, be aware of each

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<v Speaker 5>other's once and needs, meet them if you can, and

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<v Speaker 5>if not, figure you ow way out so that you're

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<v Speaker 5>not fighting each other or you're not arguing with each other,

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<v Speaker 5>because that's no good.

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<v Speaker 1>That's no good.

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<v Speaker 2>We very much believe in that, and I do think

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<v Speaker 2>that's part of the reason why I'm so happy in

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<v Speaker 2>the marriage that I'm in, and I'm so grateful. But

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<v Speaker 2>I think my wife knew a lot more about that

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<v Speaker 2>before me. It's pretty selfish.

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<v Speaker 1>When I married.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, slowly but truly, you hang around people,

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<v Speaker 2>they have an influence on you. But it aligns with

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<v Speaker 2>mister Donn, it's right, sixty five years. What is the

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<v Speaker 2>nicest thing that people do for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Love me, pay attention to me, will listen to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Not that I'm right, but at least they will listen.

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<v Speaker 5>And I as a person who appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>Mister Donn, I really appreciate you taking the time to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I really appreciate you Andrews showing me. I hope

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<v Speaker 5>you got what you want, and I hope that I

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<v Speaker 5>have answered to the best of my ability. I hope

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<v Speaker 5>that I said something that's of value to you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Did he Oh he did, he definitely did.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for being so kind to my girls.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, Oh yes, I will be kind to every

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<v Speaker 5>one of them, and the wife too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's such a sweet man. I'm so happy I

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<v Speaker 2>got to meet him. There was a moment where we

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<v Speaker 2>were talking about something and then his phone, which I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know he had a phone in his pocket, went

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<v Speaker 2>off and made a ding sound.

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<v Speaker 5>We moved down here because of my wife's job and

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<v Speaker 5>she was working in aviation Atlantic and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Heard a little ding in your pocket. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>a cell phone? Potrich?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's a phone that I don't know what it's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>He's getting it out of his pocket.

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<v Speaker 5>Look at that. Oh cool, But my only problem. The

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<v Speaker 5>only problem is that does things like that and I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know what it's doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Watch that his phone's attacking him. Okay, leave the man alone. Phone,

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<v Speaker 2>You me to look at it. Yeah, it looks like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you have a Facebook message? You're on Facebook? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I know. I do was on Facebook? You like Mark Zuckerberg?

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<v Speaker 2>Who Mark Zuckerberg? Huh do you know who that is? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Mark invented facebok book. Oh you invented it? Yeah? Oh okay, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. I'm not familiar at all with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Somewhat comforting to me, by the way, you got Google

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<v Speaker 1>on there and everything, right, here's Google. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we hear it from mister don so grateful for

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<v Speaker 2>his time