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<v Speaker 1>Ninety Bible. Good morning, good morning, good morning, and welcome, welcome, welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>He is eight thirty six. We're running a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>behind today, but I think you know why the ice

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<v Speaker 1>in the snow and getting all the brittany and information

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<v Speaker 1>out to you. It is time now for our community

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<v Speaker 1>connection and from Oklahoma Wesleyan University, we have professor Sandy Lynn. Sandy,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you today?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing well. Thank you so much for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy, I tell you what, We've got quite a panel

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<v Speaker 1>coming up here. We have a free community event. It's

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about it. This is something

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of new to some people.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure. We have this event next Tuesday night on the

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<v Speaker 2>campus of Oklahoma Westlands and we've called it Unlocking the

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<v Speaker 2>Power of Emotional Intelligence. The Yeah, some people may or

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<v Speaker 2>may not know what emotional intelligence is, and we are

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<v Speaker 2>here to help people understand and it and why it's

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<v Speaker 2>so important.

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<v Speaker 1>Now with emotional intelligence, I think everyone knows what emotions

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<v Speaker 1>are and they know what intelligence is, but putting them together, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got a little bit of something going on here. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I pretty much understand this because this kind of brings

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<v Speaker 1>you into a new level and if you're able to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of marry your smarts with your emotions and work

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<v Speaker 1>in a positive direction. You're going to be doing some

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good things.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely. Yes. Kind of a general working definition for emotional intelligence,

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<v Speaker 2>it's the ability to recognize, understand, and manage your own

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<v Speaker 2>emotions while also recognizing and responding appropriately to the emotions

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<v Speaker 2>of other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I think I'm a father of seven. That was

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<v Speaker 1>one of those things I had to develop because, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's one of those things where you're around a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot of different people, a whole lot of different

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<v Speaker 1>things in the mix, and you've got to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to recognize a lot of things, and especially about oneself.

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<v Speaker 1>And when we unlock this power here, it becomes something

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<v Speaker 1>very very important. And I think that it's more than

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<v Speaker 1>just something for parents, it's for everyone. People you work with,

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<v Speaker 1>anyone can really use some information on this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I would agree with that. I work primarily my

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<v Speaker 2>students are in the school of business, but I tell them,

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<v Speaker 2>and I tell everyone I meet, this isn't a just

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<v Speaker 2>a business issue or a business concept. This is just

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<v Speaker 2>everyday life, you know, getting along with people, being able

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<v Speaker 2>to kind of read the room. Yeah, that's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>the external part, but also really recognizing what's going on

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<v Speaker 2>with them.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you bring this up in business. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>on this earth maybe a little too long if you

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<v Speaker 1>ask some people. But it used to be the boss

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<v Speaker 1>was the loudest person in the room. That's not the

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<v Speaker 1>case anymore. It's usually the one who's most in control

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<v Speaker 1>of his or her emotions and the one who listens

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<v Speaker 1>probably a little bit better than the rest, right.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's so important in any realm. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>come from before I started working in higher ed, I

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<v Speaker 2>was from the nonprofit world with experience and in churches

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<v Speaker 2>in ministry. So that's my background. Thankfully. For our event,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to pull in other professors from the School

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<v Speaker 2>of Business who have varied in assort of backgrounds that

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<v Speaker 2>they're going to share their experiences about why emotional intelligence

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<v Speaker 2>is so important in all of the realms. You know

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<v Speaker 2>that we'll discuss.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, I see the lineup. We have doctor Stacy Duke.

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<v Speaker 1>We also have a Professor Jason You see, we have yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>Professor Sandy Lynn mc, doctor Wendell Weaver, also Professor Jana Russell.

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<v Speaker 1>And these people come from all different walks, all different

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<v Speaker 1>professional realms.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes we have, and I work with amazing people at

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<v Speaker 2>Oklahoma Wesleyan. I'm so thrilled that will be up there

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<v Speaker 2>together because we have so much to contribute, we have

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<v Speaker 2>so much to share with all the different walks of life.

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<v Speaker 1>When did this become a thing? I mean, I know

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<v Speaker 1>it's always been something, but somebody actually put a name

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<v Speaker 1>to it, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Daniel Goleman, he is a psychologist and an author. In

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<v Speaker 2>the late nineties, he wrote this article talking about why

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<v Speaker 2>e Q emotional quotient. Right, that's another name for emotional intelligence,

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<v Speaker 2>but why eq Q is more important than IQ. So

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<v Speaker 2>he got the name the father of emotional intelligence pretty

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<v Speaker 2>much from that article and his numerous books.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really amazing. I remember living in Florida in the

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<v Speaker 1>early two thousands and I was speaking with one of

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<v Speaker 1>the superintendents of school down there in the central part

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<v Speaker 1>of Florida, and they were talking about moving these concepts

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<v Speaker 1>into the teaching realm at the public schools. And they

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<v Speaker 1>figured if they got a handle on this really early

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<v Speaker 1>with the youngsters, they would be more prepared to learn,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, more entirely instead of just you know, being

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<v Speaker 1>taught ABCD and one, two, three, they would be able

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<v Speaker 1>to really put this together and become better people as

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<v Speaker 1>well as better pupils.

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<v Speaker 2>Right right, there is a big push for younger ages

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<v Speaker 2>for it's called social emotional learning. Yeah, that's you know

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<v Speaker 2>some of that in the in the grade school, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>middle school, high school. At Oklahoma Wesleyan, I'm so thankful

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<v Speaker 2>I get to teach two different emotional intelligence classes. We

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<v Speaker 2>have one for freshmen in the School of Business that

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<v Speaker 2>really helps their transition into college. You know, there's all

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<v Speaker 2>the fields, there's all the things when you're leaving home

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<v Speaker 2>and going to college. And then I get to teach

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<v Speaker 2>an upper division like for juniors and seniors about really

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<v Speaker 2>the focuses emotional intelligence in the workplace.

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<v Speaker 1>This is really going to be a dynamic presentation and

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<v Speaker 1>it's free to the community. Once again. It's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be next Tuesday, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct, at six thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're we're on campus. Are we going to bed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's in Lion Hall right as you come into campus.

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<v Speaker 2>It's that first building. Can't miss it. It'll be it right,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't miss it. It'll be at six thirty and

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<v Speaker 2>we would really love to have everyone join us.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when the more folks learn about this and

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<v Speaker 1>they kind of get over the name EQ or EI,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you want to go through it. You're going to

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<v Speaker 1>find that once you really get into this and really

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<v Speaker 1>start learning more about this, frustration levels amongst folks kind

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<v Speaker 1>of go down considerably.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely absolutely. It's it's I call it people skills, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just learning to really get along with people a lot better.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh righty, Well, once again we are speaking with Professor

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<v Speaker 1>Sandy Lynn and coming up on Tuesday night six thirty

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<v Speaker 1>at Lion Hall. This will be the free community event

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<v Speaker 1>on how you can discover how emotional intelligence or EQ

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<v Speaker 1>can transform your personal and professional success. And it's a

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<v Speaker 1>great big panel discussion with doctor Stacey Duke, also Sir

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<v Speaker 1>Jason Busey, Professor Sandy Lane, with whom we're speaking, doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Wendell Weaver, and Professor jan Or Russell. Well, you got

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<v Speaker 1>a big who's who up there? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>We do? Oh, you don't get any better than this crew.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm excited to join with them. I'll open it up

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<v Speaker 2>and give a little teaching about what emotional intelligence is

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<v Speaker 2>and then they'll take it away with all how to

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<v Speaker 2>apply it in different areas.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you get to set the stage for it all.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty dark cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I love it. This is a big passion of mine.

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<v Speaker 2>I just told my class this week. It's something that

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<v Speaker 2>I was very much interested in and never had the

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<v Speaker 2>words to describe what it was in getting along with people.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I actually took a class at at Oklahoma

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<v Speaker 2>wesleyand with one of my master's degrees and learned all

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<v Speaker 2>about emotional intelligence. And that sent me on a path

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<v Speaker 2>to be certified and to learn everything that I could

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<v Speaker 2>possibly learn about it. So I'm thrilled to share what

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well right now, you got me excited to learn a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more about it. Imagine we've got a few

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<v Speaker 1>folks in the audience feeling the same way. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to thank you. I want to thank you very much,

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<v Speaker 1>Professor Sandy Lynn for being with us today. Stay warm

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<v Speaker 1>and then, you know, stay off those roads if you can.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, I will thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>God bless you. Thank you very much. Folks, you've been

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<v Speaker 1>watching and listening to our community connection