Speaker 1: Lorraine my guest for the evening. You know exactly where
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Speaker 1: it's a pleasure to have you on tonight.
Speaker 2: Well, thank you for helping me.
Speaker 1: So let me start with the boring question, the one
Speaker 1: we always start with and begin with, and it just
Speaker 1: you know, sets the stage for where we go from there.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you how you decide it to get
Speaker 1: into the adult entertainment industry in whatever form it was,
Speaker 1: whether it was of first, whether it was camming, whether
Speaker 1: you went right into shooting scenes, whether it was stripping.
Speaker 1: I have no idea anything where you go. This is
Speaker 1: a normal job, and I don't want to do this anymore.
Speaker 1: Let's try this now.
Speaker 2: It's kind of interesting because I did have a very wonderful,
Speaker 2: solid job for a very long time, twenty one year career,
Speaker 2: and we met some financial hardships. I mean, the economy
Speaker 2: really impacted my family, my husband, and I don't mind
Speaker 2: talking about my husband at all, but it was a
Speaker 2: huge impact on us. Our home sustained a huge sustained
Speaker 2: a lot of damage in a huge storm, and overall
Speaker 2: it was the decision to enter the adult industry really
Speaker 2: was financially motivated for us. I say us because it
Speaker 2: was a decision between the two of us. I knew
Speaker 2: I was taking a chance. I never had any socials,
Speaker 2: I didn't have any paid media, I didn't have anything
Speaker 2: like that. So I decided to start in mainstream and
Speaker 2: it was awesome. I did a couple of videos and
Speaker 2: it was pretty interesting. That was in September of twenty
Speaker 2: twenty four, and then by November of twenty twenty four,
Speaker 2: I ended up in one of the top trending positions
Speaker 2: and I was shot. So at that time I realized
Speaker 2: that I should probably separate from my regular nine to five,
Speaker 2: and I didn't do it in quite enough time before
Speaker 2: I was discovered. But it all works out, and I
Speaker 2: think for me, I really started backwards. I really did
Speaker 2: start in mainstream, and the majority of all of my
Speaker 2: work in the adult industry has been mainstream shoots. So
Speaker 2: I started a you know, an only fan site at
Speaker 2: the end of December, I think, but I didn't really
Speaker 2: hit it hard until this year because this whole content crea.
Speaker 2: Even now it's it's look at the date, I'm still juggling.
Speaker 2: I'm still trying to learn this whole thing. So I
Speaker 2: look for any assistance that I can get.
Speaker 1: But I always I always ask when women come into
Speaker 1: this industry, I want to know what percentage of it
Speaker 1: you thought you thought coming into the industry, no expectator,
Speaker 1: You're like, I'm going to go shoot mainstream porn. Now
Speaker 1: what percentage did you think was having sex with people
Speaker 1: on camera? And what percentage did you think was social media?
Speaker 1: And then did that just completely flip on its fucking
Speaker 1: head once you once you really got into.
Speaker 2: It, I was like, really good, it's pretty interesting. I
Speaker 2: think that it really is up to the creator and
Speaker 2: how much focus they want to put it on that
Speaker 2: content creation. I think if you're rolling and your your
Speaker 2: full steam ahead in the mainstream aspect of it, you
Speaker 2: couldn't absolutely continuous that. But it's a page for and
Speaker 2: then it's finished. There isn't any type of rezation. For me,
Speaker 2: was in order to maintain just getting caught up on
Speaker 2: the bills, but then maintaining the bills. I needed some
Speaker 2: sort of residual So that's when I reached out to
Speaker 2: other creators. I reached out to friends that I had
Speaker 2: that I knew who were creators, and I got a
Speaker 2: lot of guidance and assistants from them. They've done a
Speaker 2: huge support I do.
Speaker 1: Oh, you go ahead, I apologize, I'm sorry. I do
Speaker 1: a secondary show where I interview new people coming into
Speaker 1: the industry, and I've been I've hit a string of
Speaker 1: people recently of girls getting in who are kind of like,
Speaker 1: not interested in only fans. They're like, I don't want
Speaker 1: to do only fans. I know, I don't care about that.
Speaker 1: I just want to shoot mainstream stuff. And I'm trying
Speaker 1: to explain to them. I get it, I totally do,
Speaker 1: but I try and explain to them too. What they
Speaker 1: don't realize is the mainstream stuff is a great advertisement
Speaker 1: for eurorof right.
Speaker 2: Huge promotional opportunities right there. Sure, so absolutely go ahead. Sorry, yeah,
Speaker 2: and no, you're good, But you're exactly right, and that
Speaker 2: that would be one thing that I would want to
Speaker 2: share with everyone that it has been a learning process
Speaker 2: for me, for sure. It's hard for me to say
Speaker 2: I'm a content creator because I do not measure up
Speaker 2: to the effort that all of those talents put into
Speaker 2: being successful in that content creation. Not yet. I hope
Speaker 2: to get there. I'm learning. I'll keep working hard for it.
Speaker 2: But if they can understand that there is that residual
Speaker 2: income and there is that that support, I think would
Speaker 2: be a good way to say from those, you know,
Speaker 2: the only fans that paid site that kind of thing,
Speaker 2: it certainly is beneficial. I think, going back to your question,
Speaker 2: I think for me, realizing how much time and effort
Speaker 2: it takes to put in into these paid sites is
Speaker 2: pretty It was pretty monumental for me. It was eye opening.
Speaker 2: It has been.
Speaker 1: Sure from the ignorant outside perspective. By the way, I
Speaker 1: talk with my hands a lot, and I'm not attending either.
Speaker 1: So from the outside perspective, you know, the ignorant public,
Speaker 1: and that's not these listeners. Obviously they're really smart. The
Speaker 1: outside public would be like, oh, Lorraine just you know,
Speaker 1: shows up on set, has sex with some guys, goes
Speaker 1: home and her job's done. Blah blah blah. It's like
Speaker 1: you're a model, you're an actress, you're a social media manager.
Speaker 1: You're doing back office work to figure out all the
Speaker 1: admin paperwork, blah blah blah blah blah. I would I
Speaker 1: almost would rather just go to a nine to five.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but you know, so, yeah, let me
Speaker 1: dive into something real quick there. You mentioned your husband
Speaker 1: early on, and you know I've also hit a string
Speaker 1: of interviews recently of people into the lifestyle. Would you
Speaker 1: be comfortable me asking a couple questions about that? And
Speaker 1: if anything delves too far, tell me you know we're
Speaker 1: not going.
Speaker 2: To talk about it, absolutely sure.
Speaker 1: What are the dynamics of your relationship? Lifestyle?
Speaker 2: Is it?
Speaker 1: You can have as much as you want, He can
Speaker 1: have as much as he want. Does he prefer to watch?
Speaker 1: Does he like the humiliation? I'll run through all of it,
Speaker 1: But you tell me, what do you think your dynamics
Speaker 1: are in your relationship?
Speaker 2: No, it's quite interesting. I think that we tend to
Speaker 2: be a little different than others. We were actually best
Speaker 2: friends prior to getting together, so you know, the things
Speaker 2: that you may discuss with a potential partner or someone
Speaker 2: you're dating. We, I mean, we far surpassed that long
Speaker 2: before because we were friends. I mean I told them
Speaker 2: things you would never tell a prospective part and vice versa.
Speaker 2: You know, if he was seeing a girl, he's like,
Speaker 2: you'll never guess what we did last night. You know,
Speaker 2: I'm like, god, dang, that's hot. I love that shit.
Speaker 2: I think it's awesome, right, And I'm like, good for you, Bud.
Speaker 2: So then when it finally evolved and we decided to
Speaker 2: take that step to get together, we had already passed
Speaker 2: that whole unknown of each other and trying to get
Speaker 2: to know each other. We already knew. So we hit
Speaker 2: our thirties and neither one of us had ever partied,
Speaker 2: never been to the bar its, never been to the clubs,
Speaker 2: nothing like that. But in our thirties we're like, you
Speaker 2: know what, let's do this together. And we started to
Speaker 2: have a lot of fun. We would go to the clubs,
Speaker 2: we would do and I'm just talking about vanilla clubs.
Speaker 2: And it was fun for him when I would have
Speaker 2: gentlemen come up to me and say, hey, you know,
Speaker 2: I'll buy you a drink, and I'm like, yeah, you know,
Speaker 2: it was fun for him to watch flirting and that
Speaker 2: kind of thing. And from there, I mean, we are
Speaker 2: totally one hundred percent honest and transparent with each other.
Speaker 2: There's no secrets. There's no anything with he and I,
Speaker 2: and you know, we both expressed to one another that, hey,
Speaker 2: it'd be fun if we go just meet others just
Speaker 2: kind of experience things, because neither one of us had
Speaker 2: a great deal of experience as our prior partners before
Speaker 2: each other. So and that's kind of how that started
Speaker 2: with us. So our dynamic, I think, is a little
Speaker 2: different than a lot of couples to live in that lifestyle.
Speaker 2: We started first watch swingers couples and we were like, oh,
Speaker 2: it's fucking amazing, right, And then I just took the
Speaker 2: leaf one day and I said, let's do it. I
Speaker 2: want to play, and it turned out to be such
Speaker 2: a fucking turn on for both of us.
Speaker 1: So let me ask this then, kind of piggybacking off
Speaker 1: of that, you guys decided to jump in and you
Speaker 1: were friends and this and that. Did you have rules
Speaker 1: set up? And then I have a follow up to that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that question because he and I were
Speaker 2: the ones who probably had the least rules ever for
Speaker 2: do you know, I can't think of any rules that
Speaker 2: we had. So if he wanted to play, he played,
Speaker 2: I played. We played together. He played with me when
Speaker 2: I was playing you know, we didn't have a lot
Speaker 2: of rules, but we always respected others rules and boundary
Speaker 2: you know. But and then what your follow up that.
Speaker 1: My follow up, well, your relationship is too healthy and
Speaker 1: clean and everything for me to make this follow up
Speaker 1: makes sense. But I was going to ask, do you
Speaker 1: have any rules that eventually got brushed aside where it's
Speaker 1: maybe your inaction and there's a rule, oh, don't lick
Speaker 1: her there and everyone's charged up, and you look at
Speaker 1: your husband and he just goes, yep, go ahead, and
Speaker 1: then boom, and then everyone loves it and enjoys it.
Speaker 1: Were there any things that were kind of let's push
Speaker 1: that line and then I, fuck it, let's just cross it.
Speaker 2: For us? In my going back, there really wasn't. We
Speaker 2: have not experienced that. We've witnessed that repeatedly. We've witnessed it,
Speaker 2: and then that's when we made the decision to back
Speaker 2: away from that whole situation or whatever was going on.
Speaker 2: But for he and I, there really are nold boundaries
Speaker 2: or rules between the two of us. You know, we
Speaker 2: have met up with couples who are like, you know,
Speaker 2: you can't hold her hand, you can't you can't do
Speaker 2: this don't kiss her on the mouth. You can't do
Speaker 2: this with him, and we again respect that, but we
Speaker 2: just don't have that with us. I mean, if it's
Speaker 2: going with the flow and he's enjoying himself, that's what
Speaker 2: turns me on, that's what I love, and I think
Speaker 2: it's the same for him.
Speaker 1: So okay, all right. Did you ever you or your
Speaker 1: husband accidentally break a rule someone else's rule and you
Speaker 1: had to apologize, Oh, sorry, I didn't mean to kiss
Speaker 1: you on the mouth or I don't mean to. No,
Speaker 1: you've never been like chastised and ay thing, Okay, No,
Speaker 1: we've been very fortunate. I think we're both very conscient
Speaker 1: just about others. And you know, I think for it
Speaker 1: to be healthy and to be happy and to remain fun,
Speaker 1: you really have to be conscientious of others boundaries. And
Speaker 1: you know, how how are you going to proceed with that?
Speaker 1: So sure, okay makes sense. Last question about lifestyle stuff,
Speaker 1: and this one is just purely born from my ind
Speaker 1: security in my own self as you have either one
Speaker 1: of you ever had to quote unquote take one for
Speaker 1: the team, meaning maybe there's a couple they're interested in you.
Speaker 1: He's very interested in the girl you not necessarily into
Speaker 1: the guy or vice versa. Has anyone ever had to
Speaker 1: take me?
Speaker 2: So okay, now that you're saying that, it's not a
Speaker 2: rule for us, but it's a recognition for us. So
Speaker 2: in the event that we are in a situation, say,
Speaker 2: you know, the male partner is into me, and I'm
Speaker 2: into everything everyone, So the male partner is into me,
Speaker 2: but she may not be into my husband, and that
Speaker 2: was for me a deal breaker, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: I want I want him to enjoy as well. I
Speaker 2: want them to enjoy. There should never be anybody taking
Speaker 2: one for the team, in my opinion, in both of
Speaker 2: our opinion. That's kind of how we've progressed through.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, See I always think I would be
Speaker 1: the one who would be taken for the team, So
Speaker 1: I just go, well, I don't want to be too
Speaker 1: offended by that. Like I can imagine my wife and
Speaker 1: I going to something and a woman looking at me
Speaker 1: and going never mind, oh here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, then I don't want anyone to feel that way.
Speaker 2: I mean, I have seen it, obviously, we have experience
Speaker 2: that where and it's most generally she's like, I don't know,
Speaker 2: you know, you can if you want to my husband
Speaker 2: and to me, that isn't no, you know, that's not
Speaker 2: fun for her. It certainly isn't fun for him. And
Speaker 2: then I lose all all fun at that point.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see myself getting turned off. If some
Speaker 1: guy kind of like looked up my wife and was like,
Speaker 1: h you can just fuck my wife, I'd be like, now,
Speaker 1: how about you eat shit, buddy, get out of here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go, and you guys go on, y'all
Speaker 2: have fun and then find somebody that you really like. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and that is the most wonderful thing about the lifestyle
Speaker 2: that I have that we I'll see I because he's
Speaker 2: in here. But that I have experienced is you know,
Speaker 2: we have very few poor experiences. And maybe it is
Speaker 2: because of the recognition of boundaries or you know, we're
Speaker 2: not willing to take one for the team. You know.
Speaker 2: It should be a good, awsome, fun time for everybody.
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I think that. I mean that it's it's sex.
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be like one of the best things
Speaker 1: in the world. If someone's bummed out in the middle of.
Speaker 2: It, absolutely, you know it. Yeah, there's no way to
Speaker 2: make you can't recover from that.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, so let me go ahead. I apologize.
Speaker 1: What was it?
Speaker 2: Oh, you're okay. I was going to say that is
Speaker 2: one thing about the lifestyle is it is all physical pleasure.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm talking from my perspective, but for me,
Speaker 2: there's not a huge emotional tie. I don't need the
Speaker 2: emotions involved. And I know people are like, well, I
Speaker 2: have to have an emotional connection to have a sexual experience,
Speaker 2: but for me, the physical aspect and if there's chemistry
Speaker 2: at ten times better. But honestly, it's just fun. It's
Speaker 2: physically fun.
Speaker 1: Oh, physically fun, physically fund mentally stimulating. I assume where
Speaker 1: it's very eternal to watch this stuff even if you're
Speaker 1: not involved. But you said emotionally you don't have to
Speaker 1: be involved. Is that you're not emotionally involved or is
Speaker 1: it that you're able to compartmentalize your emotion where just
Speaker 1: in this moment, I'm having a good time. This guy's great, big,
Speaker 1: dig nice guy, good looking, Da da da da da.
Speaker 1: And then afterwards, almost like actors and actresses who kind
Speaker 1: of I'm not saying you have a crush on any
Speaker 1: of these guys, but in the moment, A lot of
Speaker 1: times when actors and actresses on Hollywood movies, are you know,
Speaker 1: playing a couple, They'll start to develop a little bit
Speaker 1: of a flirt, a little bit of a you know,
Speaker 1: I could see myself with this person and then it's
Speaker 1: over at the end of it. Is there any of
Speaker 1: that in there? Not?
Speaker 2: For me personally. I think maybe there's a couple of
Speaker 2: times when there was really good chemistry with a meal
Speaker 2: talent or a partner that I had, and then we'll
Speaker 2: just meet up again, you know, and then meet up
Speaker 2: again or whatever we choose to do. But for me,
Speaker 2: I would never want to change anything about my life
Speaker 2: to go be with that person.
Speaker 1: Gotcha.
Speaker 2: And I think that's the difference.
Speaker 1: Gotcha. Gotcha? Okay, let me dive into the content a
Speaker 1: little bit. Can I guess who was your first shoot with?
Speaker 1: Do you remember who? It was?
Speaker 2: Absolutely so my first shoot ever mainstream? You mean? Yes,
Speaker 2: it was Thailand Nixon. I was working with hot Meils
Speaker 2: fucked And I'm telling you, they have it to a
Speaker 2: tea to make you feel comfortable and absolutely introduce you
Speaker 2: to this industry, if you ask me, that's my opinion.
Speaker 2: What they did for me. They put me at ease,
Speaker 2: They had gosh, they go through the process because I
Speaker 2: was really shocked. I don't know what my preconceived notions
Speaker 2: were about the adult industry at the time, but I
Speaker 2: get phone to this location and then I show up
Speaker 2: and they take your bag in and they're like, hey,
Speaker 2: you got hair and makeup waiting, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: really that was cool. So then they bring you in, well,
Speaker 2: now we need paperwork, we do this, we do this.
Speaker 2: We I ensured that you're safe, and I mean it
Speaker 2: was just incredible to me. I was like, this is
Speaker 2: a business, this is professional, and it truly wasn't their
Speaker 2: best interest to ensure that I was well informed. I
Speaker 2: was one hundred percent consensual everything, which is huge, right,
Speaker 2: and they just did an incredible job. So it was
Speaker 2: my first partner with Tyler Nixon, who was very well,
Speaker 2: you know, he's very well versed and he works a
Speaker 2: lot with new people, and I think it was just
Speaker 2: a really good matchup.
Speaker 1: I've never met Tyler, but I have heard that same
Speaker 1: thing from a lot of women that he just kind
Speaker 1: of makes things comfortable and easy, and especially if you're
Speaker 1: just getting into it for the first time, has there
Speaker 1: been anything that you didn't know you were into until
Speaker 1: you got into porn. I mean, it's tough because because
Speaker 1: I assume you in the swinger lifestyle, you had tried
Speaker 1: and experienced a whole lot of new things. But is
Speaker 1: there anything that maybe you were a little skittish on
Speaker 1: or unsure of that when you finally got on set
Speaker 1: and then happened, you were like, oh, yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, and that's true. So anal, that
Speaker 2: whole taboo anal thing, holy shit, and that's the only
Speaker 2: thing that everybody wants. I mean, even to this day,
Speaker 2: my fans are like, why don't you have more anal?
Speaker 2: I'm like, when was the last time you took it?
Speaker 2: But I don't say that, but I think for me
Speaker 2: the whole I had a fear of it because I
Speaker 2: had only had good experiences with my husband. But we
Speaker 2: worked through it. It took us time, we understood what
Speaker 2: needed to be done for he and I for it
Speaker 2: to be comfortable and happy. So it was actually on
Speaker 2: two three. It was very early on. I was approached
Speaker 2: by another mainstream company. I worked with the score group.
Speaker 2: I did four scenes with the score group and they
Speaker 2: said we would like to do a boy girl anal
Speaker 2: and I was like, oh god, you know, I was
Speaker 2: so worried about it. I'm like, holy shit, I don't
Speaker 2: know what to do. I don't know how to prep
Speaker 2: for it. All they sting. So again I reached out
Speaker 2: to resources. They were amazing. Everybody that I have had
Speaker 2: contact with in the industry is more than willing to
Speaker 2: help you. So they said, well, to prep for something
Speaker 2: like this, this is what you do. So I did it,
Speaker 2: and I went and I shot the scene. And this
Speaker 2: was with Barry mccuchnor. So that would have been my
Speaker 2: very first on screen aail scene. And I'm telling you
Speaker 2: everybody there our director, and I can tell you everybody's names.
Speaker 2: But as I remember, they made such an impression on me.
Speaker 2: But it was wonderful. It worked out perfect. I had
Speaker 2: no uh oh, and it didn't hurt. It was great.
Speaker 2: I was like, holy shit, this might be something new
Speaker 2: for me. And from there I have had the ability
Speaker 2: to progress all the way up to DP. So but
Speaker 2: I can't Yeah, that one's coming. It's my scream.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we won't talk about where it is
Speaker 1: because it's coming, but maybe a question or two about that. First.
Speaker 1: Let me do a thing I like to do called
Speaker 1: stat check. So let me start with this and tell
Speaker 1: you that these numbers are completely and entirely wrong. They
Speaker 1: are from the Internet Adult Film Database, and basically what
Speaker 1: it does is it tracks mainstream scenes, It tracks certain
Speaker 1: many VID scenes. It does this. I don't know. It's
Speaker 1: not great, but it's the best resource we have. So
Speaker 1: I'm going to give you your stats where you are now,
Speaker 1: and then a year from now when you come back
Speaker 1: on the show, you'll be covered in av and awards,
Speaker 1: and you know these numbers will seem childish for the
Speaker 1: number of scenes I have for you. Know these are
Speaker 1: all wrong, because every girl I've ever told this too,
Speaker 1: these are all going to be wrong at the end,
Speaker 1: they always go those aren't right? I go, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I know, I know. Number of scenes I have for
Speaker 1: you is eight. Number of guys you've worked with is six.
Speaker 1: Number of girls you've worked with is one. Zero noms
Speaker 1: for the AVN Awards and zero wins so far. Is
Speaker 1: that accurate? Six guys? You seem like you can still
Speaker 1: get into heaven with that?
Speaker 2: So oh dear, I have so much to tell you. No, yeah,
Speaker 2: the numbers are not quite right there, Sure, I am
Speaker 2: almost at the twenty pro scenes. Okay, Yeah, and quite honestly,
Speaker 2: I have not tried to count the number of partners
Speaker 2: that I've had on the pro scenes. They are correct.
Speaker 2: In the pro shoots, I do only have one female partner,
Speaker 2: and that was the Hot Mills. Fuck, it was the
Speaker 2: second scene that I did with them. Yeah, second scene
Speaker 2: I did with them, and then I did a third
Speaker 2: with them, which was anal But I have certainly had
Speaker 2: many more than six male partners.
Speaker 1: Well, the Pope's very disappointed by that, but that's okay.
Speaker 2: They forget, they forget.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, exactly, yes, So let me ask as you
Speaker 3: ramp this stuff up, do you have desires to do
Speaker 3: you shoot any of.
Speaker 1: Your own content currently for like your only fans? And
Speaker 1: what kind of style is it?
Speaker 2: Is it?
Speaker 1: Hey, this is Lorraine at home, This is me just chilling,
Speaker 1: this is a good time. Look at me, I'm naked,
Speaker 1: I'm this is it like a monthly big production? Where
Speaker 1: are we at and where do we plan to go?
Speaker 2: So it's pretty interesting. I've learned a great deal and again,
Speaker 2: reading out and meeting the other talent in the industry
Speaker 2: has really really helped me understand where to go from there.
Speaker 2: So initially I started with a traveling Hot Life series
Speaker 2: because it's super easy for me. It's real. Everything that
Speaker 2: I have done in the adult industry, I've already experienced
Speaker 2: in my personal life, so it's easy. It was an
Speaker 2: easy transition. So as far as my content goes, that
Speaker 2: is probably my biggest go to is the Traveling Hot
Speaker 2: Life It was fun because years ago I would travel
Speaker 2: for work and I'm away from my husband. Now I
Speaker 2: would meet a fellow or a lady who was interested
Speaker 2: in them and I call them and say, hey, I
Speaker 2: found that dud. I mean, that's it's real. I mean,
Speaker 2: that's really what happened. I'd bring them back and it
Speaker 2: depended upon their comfort level. But he would either listen
Speaker 2: on the phone or we would video or whatever. And
Speaker 2: so I have brought that into my content creation because
Speaker 2: it's so natural, it's so easy, and my male talent
Speaker 2: has been amazing, like they love the idea. So there
Speaker 2: is there is the Traveling Hot Wife series. There are
Speaker 2: some that it is just so on. We get there
Speaker 2: and we're like boom, it's time to work, and we do.
Speaker 2: But it's a good work, right, we all have fun.
Speaker 2: I think overall, I'm not very good with solos. I
Speaker 2: need to do more solos, but I'm learning that again,
Speaker 2: it's all new. I think that's the thing that I'm
Speaker 2: most shy about is masturbation. I see, I laugh like
Speaker 2: a child when I say it, for God's sake, deep
Speaker 2: my ass tonight. But asturbate, I can't say it.
Speaker 1: That's so fun. I was just going to say that.
Speaker 1: I was going to say, doing research for this up
Speaker 1: some of the most graphic pictures I've ever seen. Beautiful,
Speaker 1: by the way, And now she won't she No, Lorene's
Speaker 1: on here going I don't like necessarily talking about diddling myself.
Speaker 1: I go, oh, well, she's nicely. Uh what is it
Speaker 1: about that that's tough for you, because I here's here's
Speaker 1: my thing. When I see like JOI videos or whatever,
Speaker 1: all the other ones, the talkie ones are I look
Speaker 1: at it and I go, if I were in that
Speaker 1: girl's shoes or that part whatever shoes, I would I
Speaker 1: would have about sixty seconds of dirty talk, and then
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I hope you didn't pay for five minutes.
Speaker 1: This is all I got. Take a look at the tits.
Speaker 1: You know what part of like the solo stuff is
Speaker 1: hard for you. Okay, So between you and I and
Speaker 1: everyone out there. I did not masturbate until I was God,
Speaker 1: I was probably thirty three or thirty four years old,
Speaker 1: and it was it was through the encouragement of just
Speaker 1: being the comfortable with my husband. Honestly, he's like, you
Speaker 1: can do this, just try. I'm like no, And first all,
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's like a ingrain thing or whatever.
Speaker 2: But I never did. I never tried it, and so
Speaker 2: I think for me that that process is still new.
Speaker 2: You know, it's not been very long, and it wasn't it.
Speaker 2: It was not anything that I did frequently because I
Speaker 2: mean I have partners to satisfy me or whatever, you know. So, yes,
Speaker 2: that's kind of where it got with that.
Speaker 1: Can I why why did it take so long for
Speaker 1: you to get into it? I mean I was. I
Speaker 1: was in like fourth grade.
Speaker 2: Exactly, and I think most people are and they're like, wait,
Speaker 2: what you know? I haven't expressed that a great deal.
Speaker 2: My first solo scene on a pro shoot, I was like,
Speaker 2: I swear to you, I was so I don't even
Speaker 2: know what to call it. I had to have been
Speaker 2: so awkward. I'm sure people have seen it. Hopefully it
Speaker 2: doesn't look awkward, but to me, I'm like, I don't
Speaker 2: even know what to do right now. I'm im wan
Speaker 2: to go with this, but yeah, I think it was
Speaker 2: just a I never had a level of comfort with
Speaker 2: myself to do that. And I know a time, yeah,
Speaker 2: you feel horney, but like, okay, either it passes or
Speaker 2: you find somebody. Right, that's kind of where I was.
Speaker 1: Hot, Okay, interesting. Interesting. As your career progresses and you
Speaker 1: get invited or you know, hired for more shoots, eventually
Speaker 1: offers will come that you don't like. So I used
Speaker 1: to call this show not show. I used to call
Speaker 1: this little thing I'm doing here sack, and what that
Speaker 1: stands for is shit, animals and kids. I called it
Speaker 1: that because I would ask women this question and the
Speaker 1: answer I would inevitably get back would be something like,
Speaker 1: well I wouldn't do that, like something horrible, and I
Speaker 1: would go, no, no, no, I know, I know there's
Speaker 1: no dogs involved that, No, we don't want that. What
Speaker 1: I'm asking is something that is within the realm of
Speaker 1: normal in the adult entertainment industry. What is something you
Speaker 1: just have no interest in pursuing. They come to you
Speaker 1: and say, here's the offer, Lorraine. It's a big site,
Speaker 1: big name, you'll be working with great people, and you're
Speaker 1: still just like, ugh, not my thing.
Speaker 2: No, yes, So anything related to degradation and this has happened.
Speaker 2: And I think that's one thing they put out there
Speaker 2: and let everyone know is if you are not comfortable
Speaker 2: with it, you can absolutely say no. And I have
Speaker 2: and it was shocking to some of the producers. But
Speaker 2: there was a site that contacted me and he said, okay,
Speaker 2: so I have six different brands, you know, and I
Speaker 2: was intending on working for the one brand and he said,
Speaker 2: oh no, you're brand new, so you're going to start
Speaker 2: with this brand. And I said, well, I'll look into it,
Speaker 2: you know. And so I reviewed the website and it
Speaker 2: was absolutely so degrading. And I know this is some
Speaker 2: people's thing and that's okay, but it's not for me.
Speaker 2: I mean, it got to the point where these girls
Speaker 2: were being forced to vomit because of the actions that
Speaker 2: were taken and I am not subjecting myself to that,
Speaker 2: and I won't, you know. And I told him no,
Speaker 2: and he said, well, you can't tell me no, you're
Speaker 2: just starting and I said I absolutely can, and he goes, well,
Speaker 2: I will blacklist you, and I said, I highly doubt
Speaker 2: you have the cloud in this entire industry to blacklist me.
Speaker 2: And if you do, then good for you. But I
Speaker 2: want people to know that you can say no.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will, I will. I will ask you when
Speaker 1: we're done recording. But is this person non person necessarily?
Speaker 1: But is this group of sites kind of known as
Speaker 1: a problem now that you've been in it a little
Speaker 1: bit longer.
Speaker 2: Yes, And I have found that unfortunately, a lot of
Speaker 2: ladies did not feel that they had the opportunity to
Speaker 2: say no to this site, and they sucked it up
Speaker 2: and they're like, yeah, I got through it and I
Speaker 2: got past it. I'm like, well, it's unfortunately you had
Speaker 2: to deal with that.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of one or two. Well we'll talk. I
Speaker 1: understand you don't have to, but yeah, So that is
Speaker 1: that is a great point, and that I try and
Speaker 1: relay that to a lot of the newer girls I interview,
Speaker 1: where it's like, hey, you know, this is a job.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, it's fun. It should
Speaker 1: be so fun. You show up, you sign paper, like
Speaker 1: you just said about your Tyler Nixon. You you show up,
Speaker 1: you sign your papers, you get your makeup done, you
Speaker 1: have sex, you go home.
Speaker 2: It's great, right, it's wonderful. I've not had one bad
Speaker 2: day at work. No, it's not one.
Speaker 1: Oh, I have nothing but bad days at work. It's strange.
Speaker 1: But this is fun. This isn't work. This is fun.
Speaker 1: I like this. This is good. This is good, don't
Speaker 1: get me wrong. So all right, so no degradation. Let
Speaker 1: me ask you, how about degradation going the other way?
Speaker 1: Have you ever felt yourself as kind of a domb?
Speaker 1: You seem too sweet? But maybe I'm wrong.
Speaker 2: Well you so you're probably going to be shocked. But
Speaker 2: I have been doing dumb work for the last three years. Wow,
Speaker 2: just totally under the radar. Yes, And I think I'm
Speaker 2: kind of more of a maybe a soft dom is
Speaker 2: what they call it. I really want to get in
Speaker 2: tune with what my submissive once because I think that
Speaker 2: makes the experience better for both of us. There's a
Speaker 2: lot of communication, and I know a lot a lot
Speaker 2: of folks in that position. They like the they like
Speaker 2: to be submissive, obviously, and the humiliation and degradation. Degradation
Speaker 2: is hard for me to even give out. So I work.
Speaker 2: I focus more with them on what what would get
Speaker 2: them other than you know, I never tell them that's wrong,
Speaker 2: because it certainly isn't it is for it is something
Speaker 2: that really turns on a lot of people, and that's awesome,
Speaker 2: but for me, it's hard to deliver it. So no,
Speaker 2: I just I, you know, we'll find a different focus
Speaker 2: when it comes to that, okay. And that is another
Speaker 2: thing that I've learned in the adult industry is there
Speaker 2: there are two separate entities. You have your fetish world,
Speaker 2: you have your cakes, and then you have your adult world.
Speaker 2: And I mean they are quite different.
Speaker 1: You know, there's a there's a third layer that is
Speaker 1: still legal, but not as good. I'm realizing because I
Speaker 1: recently clicked on someone's link tree for whatever I had
Speaker 1: interviewed them as a newer model, and I looked and
Speaker 1: they had this whole thing that was like only fans,
Speaker 1: but it was like shit that only fans won't let
Speaker 1: you post, and nothing illegal, but as disgusting as you
Speaker 1: can get. And I look at it initially and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm not into that at all. I think it's terrible,
Speaker 1: not terrible that they're doing it, just like I don't
Speaker 1: want to see that. I'm not interested. And then it
Speaker 1: sits on you and you go, someone does this girl
Speaker 1: did want to do this thing? Right, Because like you
Speaker 1: said about this, I also can't get into the puking
Speaker 1: and the you know, you're a dumb whar blah blah
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I'm just not into that stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but the girls are into it if they were positive
Speaker 1: and not one of the ones like you said, where
Speaker 1: they couldn't say no unfortunately, and people do want to
Speaker 1: watch that. So who is it on me to say,
Speaker 1: you know, it's not good or it's not what ever?
Speaker 1: I don't know. There was no point in that question.
Speaker 1: I was just ranting because I clicked on something the
Speaker 1: other day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it did to get out there though, because I
Speaker 2: think you're exactly right. I certainly am very open minded
Speaker 2: for all kinks fetishes anything for anybody out there. Again,
Speaker 2: like you said, I have certain boundaries and I think
Speaker 2: that we all do so as long as others can
Speaker 2: have the ability to respect that, then I think that's
Speaker 2: where we're all successful.
Speaker 1: You know, totally makes sense. So your only things do
Speaker 1: you do? Okay, because we're not necessarily great at solos?
Speaker 1: Do you do custom videos yet? Is that something you're
Speaker 1: working up to?
Speaker 2: I do custom videos. I actually do quite quite a
Speaker 2: few custom videos. It's died off the last month or so,
Speaker 2: but I'll do customs then. At this point, for me,
Speaker 2: the the solo stuff is not as uncomfortable as it was.
Speaker 2: And with the solo obviously they kind of guide you.
Speaker 2: You know, they'll give you the content that they want,
Speaker 2: they'll give you the baseline of what they're looking for.
Speaker 2: And I also do live video chats, which is one
Speaker 2: of the things that I love the most because I
Speaker 2: have that interaction with that individual and I can see
Speaker 2: that they're being pleased or you know, it's I am
Speaker 2: catering to what they want and I am a pleaser.
Speaker 2: I enjoyed that.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let me ask, has anyone been like
Speaker 1: a mentor to you or are guiding like any of
Speaker 1: the other girls in the industry or guys you said
Speaker 1: you knew some content creators when you first started getting
Speaker 1: into it or ramping up or making it full time,
Speaker 1: who's been like this person's been really great for me.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I should say their names. I
Speaker 2: don't know, well will I mean, we're incredible people, for.
Speaker 1: Sure, totally totally, but but why wouldn't we want to
Speaker 1: not like they're legal names, right, You're not giving me
Speaker 1: social Security.
Speaker 2: Numbers, stage names, but they're they're private individuals. Also, well,
Speaker 2: I can tell you one of my greatest guides in
Speaker 2: the beginning, and we're gonna have to ask him before
Speaker 2: we we put it all out there. I'll ask him
Speaker 2: and make sure it's okay. But Shane Diesel has been
Speaker 2: an excellent guide for me, you know, just from the
Speaker 2: beginning at a friend level. He's obviously been in the
Speaker 2: industry for quite a long time and he is the
Speaker 2: one who guided me to understand the importance of that
Speaker 2: residual income from these paid sites and the content creation
Speaker 2: because I'm like, I don't ever want to do that.
Speaker 2: I was that girl. I'm like, I'm just going to
Speaker 2: do shoots all the time. Well they don't always come in.
Speaker 2: So he has been a great guide about the emotional health,
Speaker 2: mental health, everything. I mean, he is just he's been incredible.
Speaker 2: And I would say on I think who has touched
Speaker 2: me the most is probably Miss Sienna Ray. We've had
Speaker 2: an opportunity to talk a great deal. We were actually
Speaker 2: in a content house together. It's how we met and
Speaker 2: then we ended up working together, which has been great,
Speaker 2: and she's just been an ex resource. She's a great support,
Speaker 2: a great guide, and she's my friend as well.
Speaker 1: So that's nice, YEA. From it's crazy because from the outside,
Speaker 1: my ignorant misogynism would be like, oh, poor an industry.
Speaker 1: All the women are at each other's throats and they're
Speaker 1: fighting for this and that. But it doesn't seem like
Speaker 1: that at all at all.
Speaker 2: I haven't experience at at all. I haven't, but I
Speaker 2: was expecting the same thing, the whole competition. And that's
Speaker 2: one thing about me. I had a twenty one year
Speaker 2: career in a male led industry, right, I am not
Speaker 2: that woman who is going to compete with another woman.
Speaker 2: I refuse to. My job is to build them up
Speaker 2: and to empower them. I want to empower everyone. I
Speaker 2: want them to be as much as they can possibly
Speaker 2: everything they want to be, everything they want to do,
Speaker 2: and that with my goal in life, and it has
Speaker 2: bled over into this industry. So I don't have it
Speaker 2: in me to be competitive with other ladies. I don't.
Speaker 2: And if there is competition on their side, I'll see it,
Speaker 2: I recognize it, and I'll allow that for them. That's
Speaker 2: important for them to have that and not feeling in
Speaker 2: that competitive nature because that's how they'll succeed. But for me,
Speaker 2: I just I don't need it.
Speaker 1: I don't want that, gotcha. Yeah, some of the interviews
Speaker 1: I've done have talked to apparently strip clubs are not
Speaker 1: as nice as porn star Twitter. I hear a lot
Speaker 1: of infighting behind the scenes and this and that, and
Speaker 1: I'm wondering if it's just that it's the I was
Speaker 1: gonna say target, but target sounds like the absolute worst word.
Speaker 1: The guy, the person they're trying to extract money from,
Speaker 1: is in there in person. You don't know if another
Speaker 1: guy's going to walk through right, You don't know if
Speaker 1: another guy's gonna walk through the door today. You don't
Speaker 1: know if you're gonna have a chance. So I understand
Speaker 1: the desire to let's capitalize on this. This is still
Speaker 1: a business. But in the adult entertainment film industry, I mean,
Speaker 1: there's a guy who likes every type of body, every
Speaker 1: type of look, every type of fetish. There is a
Speaker 1: market for it. So when people try and figure their
Speaker 1: thing out to I always just say, hey, be yourself
Speaker 1: and like someone will find you and love you and
Speaker 1: touch their dicks to you.
Speaker 2: Absolutely and that's what we love, right and my goal
Speaker 2: to make people happy.
Speaker 1: So let's jump into the future real quick. Where do
Speaker 1: we see this going? Is this a career career for
Speaker 1: you now? Is this a we'll keep doing this until
Speaker 1: it's not fun? Is this we're going to see Lorraine
Speaker 1: as an eighty one year old guilfhon of DVD cover?
Speaker 1: Probably not a DVD cover, but you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Where are we going with this? And where do you
Speaker 1: want to go with this?
Speaker 2: And that's an interesting question that I thought a lot
Speaker 2: about lately. Right now, I am having an excellent but
Speaker 2: I'm also real in my mind. I'm realistic. I understand
Speaker 2: that this will fit. I'm not going to be able
Speaker 2: to continue to maintain what folks enjoy as Lady Lorraine
Speaker 2: right now. So I'm looking ahead. I want to continue
Speaker 2: performing and doing everything in content creation until it gets
Speaker 2: to a point where I noticed that it's like, maybe
Speaker 2: this guilt is not the it. But fortunately I have
Speaker 2: other skills. I would love to move into a mentoring
Speaker 2: type of position or you know, guide mentor I wouldn't mind.
Speaker 2: I don't know anything about agencies and I don't have
Speaker 2: an agent, but if I were to look ahead, I
Speaker 2: would probably move into more of an admin talent type
Speaker 2: recruiter and help guide the talent males females, it doesn't matter,
Speaker 2: on the right path and let them know you do
Speaker 2: have the opportunity to say no, because I've heard that
Speaker 2: a lot these these ladies and gentlemen as well, they
Speaker 2: don't say no no. This is something that you need
Speaker 2: to understand that it's your choice. But I have been
Speaker 2: a coordinator for events for the last fifteen years, you know,
Speaker 2: so setting up events, holding huge events, and just getting
Speaker 2: exposure for others. Learning the whole networking aspect of everything.
Speaker 2: I think is where I personally would like to lead to.
Speaker 2: And will I still perform I mean now and then
Speaker 2: absolutely if someone wants me, you know. And yeah, I
Speaker 2: don't see myself as the eighty year old gift, but
Speaker 2: I have met some recently and they fucking kick ass
Speaker 2: and I love them.
Speaker 1: I recently interviewed d D. White, who was formerly Sakah Black.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're yo, yo, she is awesome. I kept
Speaker 1: I didn't want to say. I implied it on the show,
Speaker 1: but I I'm not gonna I don't think I'm gonna
Speaker 1: live as long as she is, and she's still out
Speaker 1: there throwing it around. Man, She's great.
Speaker 2: Sally D'Angelo. Those ladies, they are so fine. They're just
Speaker 2: something sometimes, but they love cock. They love it, and
Speaker 2: that's what's important, right, I mean, they're they're enjoying it
Speaker 2: every second.
Speaker 1: So well mentioning D. D. White. I only asked this
Speaker 1: because I saw you say this on a different interview
Speaker 1: and I find it interesting, not that you know, all positive,
Speaker 1: all positive, I just find it interesting. Do you prefer
Speaker 1: working with black men or.
Speaker 2: Has that been Can let you say that. I'm glad
Speaker 2: that you've brought that up, because it's brought up all
Speaker 2: the time. So for me, it's not a preference. I
Speaker 2: love people, men, women, all racist shapes and sizes, you know.
Speaker 2: But in a lot of cases, for the pro shoots,
Speaker 2: I'm not choosing my male talent. Sometimes I don't meet
Speaker 2: them until an hour before we shoot the then so
Speaker 2: and even in the personal content creation, it's just something
Speaker 2: that I if I click with the individual or they
Speaker 2: contact me and we're able to set it up. But
Speaker 2: quite honestly, it's weird. The whole race BBC thing has
Speaker 2: never been crossed my mind, but it's.
Speaker 1: Lot sure, Yeah, I mean, I guess you know. I've
Speaker 1: I've had discussions with other girls where it's almost like
Speaker 1: there are some white performers who are very much like,
Speaker 1: get the term inter racial ad of porn, we don't
Speaker 1: want it, blah blah blah blah. And I've talked to
Speaker 1: black performers who are like, I don't care about race.
Speaker 1: Play call me whatever you want. We're shooting a scene,
Speaker 1: we're doing a movie. So it's it's always strange how
Speaker 1: it's dynamic and changing and does this matter? Does this
Speaker 1: not matter? I just asked, because we mentioned D D.
Speaker 1: White and D D White, let me know specifically, she's
Speaker 1: like black guys only is what I'm only. She was
Speaker 1: so funny, it was just it was great. It was great,
Speaker 1: all right, Lorraine. I don't have much else for you
Speaker 1: here other than, uh, just to really thank you for
Speaker 1: coming on, and I hope your career progresses because you
Speaker 1: have just such a positive spirit to you. And I'm
Speaker 1: sorry if that sounds corny and stupid, but it's like
Speaker 1: I can feel the positivity coming off of you, and
Speaker 1: I really hope it translates even more success. You know
Speaker 1: exactly where you can find Lorraine, at Lady Lorraine l
Speaker 1: A D Y L O R R E I g
Speaker 1: N links to everything in the episode description and uh yeah, Loraine,
Speaker 1: let's check in with you like a year from now,
Speaker 1: and you'll still be like, oh, I love this, it's
Speaker 1: so great blah blah blah blah blah. But I bet
Speaker 1: you'll have like six new things where you're like, I
Speaker 1: don't do that shit, I don't like that shit.
Speaker 2: Well, fee, that's so exciting just to get to that point,
Speaker 2: to be like, oh, hell no, I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1: Oh sure, Loraine. Thank you so much for coming on
Speaker 1: with me tonight.
Speaker 2: Oh you're amazing, and thank you so much for having
Speaker 2: me