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Speaker 1: Lorraine my guest for the evening. You know exactly where

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you can find her at Lady Lorraine l A D

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Y L O R R E I g N. Links

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to all of our social media in the episode description below.

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Please make sure you support content creators that come on

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this show, otherwise they don't come on the show anymore. Lorraine,

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it's a pleasure to have you on tonight.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for helping me.

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Speaker 1: So let me start with the boring question, the one

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we always start with and begin with, and it just

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you know, sets the stage for where we go from there.

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Can I ask you how you decide it to get

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into the adult entertainment industry in whatever form it was,

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whether it was of first, whether it was camming, whether

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you went right into shooting scenes, whether it was stripping.

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I have no idea anything where you go. This is

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a normal job, and I don't want to do this anymore.

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Let's try this now.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of interesting because I did have a very wonderful,

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solid job for a very long time, twenty one year career,

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and we met some financial hardships. I mean, the economy

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really impacted my family, my husband, and I don't mind

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talking about my husband at all, but it was a

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huge impact on us. Our home sustained a huge sustained

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a lot of damage in a huge storm, and overall

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it was the decision to enter the adult industry really

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was financially motivated for us. I say us because it

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was a decision between the two of us. I knew

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I was taking a chance. I never had any socials,

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I didn't have any paid media, I didn't have anything

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like that. So I decided to start in mainstream and

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it was awesome. I did a couple of videos and

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it was pretty interesting. That was in September of twenty

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twenty four, and then by November of twenty twenty four,

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I ended up in one of the top trending positions

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and I was shot. So at that time I realized

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that I should probably separate from my regular nine to five,

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and I didn't do it in quite enough time before

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I was discovered. But it all works out, and I

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think for me, I really started backwards. I really did

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start in mainstream, and the majority of all of my

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work in the adult industry has been mainstream shoots. So

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I started a you know, an only fan site at

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the end of December, I think, but I didn't really

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hit it hard until this year because this whole content crea.

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Even now it's it's look at the date, I'm still juggling.

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I'm still trying to learn this whole thing. So I

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look for any assistance that I can get.

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Speaker 1: But I always I always ask when women come into

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this industry, I want to know what percentage of it

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you thought you thought coming into the industry, no expectator,

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You're like, I'm going to go shoot mainstream porn. Now

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what percentage did you think was having sex with people

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on camera? And what percentage did you think was social media?

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And then did that just completely flip on its fucking

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head once you once you really got into.

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Speaker 2: It, I was like, really good, it's pretty interesting. I

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think that it really is up to the creator and

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how much focus they want to put it on that

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content creation. I think if you're rolling and your your

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full steam ahead in the mainstream aspect of it, you

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couldn't absolutely continuous that. But it's a page for and

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then it's finished. There isn't any type of rezation. For me,

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was in order to maintain just getting caught up on

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the bills, but then maintaining the bills. I needed some

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sort of residual So that's when I reached out to

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other creators. I reached out to friends that I had

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that I knew who were creators, and I got a

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lot of guidance and assistants from them. They've done a

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huge support I do.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you go ahead, I apologize, I'm sorry. I do

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a secondary show where I interview new people coming into

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the industry, and I've been I've hit a string of

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people recently of girls getting in who are kind of like,

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not interested in only fans. They're like, I don't want

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to do only fans. I know, I don't care about that.

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I just want to shoot mainstream stuff. And I'm trying

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to explain to them. I get it, I totally do,

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but I try and explain to them too. What they

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don't realize is the mainstream stuff is a great advertisement

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for eurorof right.

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Speaker 2: Huge promotional opportunities right there. Sure, so absolutely go ahead. Sorry, yeah,

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and no, you're good, But you're exactly right, and that

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that would be one thing that I would want to

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share with everyone that it has been a learning process

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for me, for sure. It's hard for me to say

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I'm a content creator because I do not measure up

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to the effort that all of those talents put into

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being successful in that content creation. Not yet. I hope

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to get there. I'm learning. I'll keep working hard for it.

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But if they can understand that there is that residual

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income and there is that that support, I think would

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be a good way to say from those, you know,

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the only fans that paid site that kind of thing,

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it certainly is beneficial. I think, going back to your question,

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I think for me, realizing how much time and effort

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it takes to put in into these paid sites is

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pretty It was pretty monumental for me. It was eye opening.

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Speaker 1: Sure from the ignorant outside perspective. By the way, I

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talk with my hands a lot, and I'm not attending either.

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So from the outside perspective, you know, the ignorant public,

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and that's not these listeners. Obviously they're really smart. The

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outside public would be like, oh, Lorraine just you know,

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shows up on set, has sex with some guys, goes

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home and her job's done. Blah blah blah. It's like

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you're a model, you're an actress, you're a social media manager.

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You're doing back office work to figure out all the

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admin paperwork, blah blah blah blah blah. I would I

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almost would rather just go to a nine to five.

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I don't know, but you know, so, yeah, let me

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dive into something real quick there. You mentioned your husband

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early on, and you know I've also hit a string

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of interviews recently of people into the lifestyle. Would you

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be comfortable me asking a couple questions about that? And

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if anything delves too far, tell me you know we're

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not going.

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Speaker 2: To talk about it, absolutely sure.

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Speaker 1: What are the dynamics of your relationship? Lifestyle?

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 1: You can have as much as you want, He can

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have as much as he want. Does he prefer to watch?

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Does he like the humiliation? I'll run through all of it,

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But you tell me, what do you think your dynamics

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are in your relationship?

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Speaker 2: No, it's quite interesting. I think that we tend to

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be a little different than others. We were actually best

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friends prior to getting together, so you know, the things

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that you may discuss with a potential partner or someone

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you're dating. We, I mean, we far surpassed that long

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before because we were friends. I mean I told them

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things you would never tell a prospective part and vice versa.

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You know, if he was seeing a girl, he's like,

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you'll never guess what we did last night. You know,

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I'm like, god, dang, that's hot. I love that shit.

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I think it's awesome, right, And I'm like, good for you, Bud.

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So then when it finally evolved and we decided to

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take that step to get together, we had already passed

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that whole unknown of each other and trying to get

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to know each other. We already knew. So we hit

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our thirties and neither one of us had ever partied,

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never been to the bar its, never been to the clubs,

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nothing like that. But in our thirties we're like, you

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know what, let's do this together. And we started to

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have a lot of fun. We would go to the clubs,

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we would do and I'm just talking about vanilla clubs.

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And it was fun for him when I would have

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gentlemen come up to me and say, hey, you know,

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I'll buy you a drink, and I'm like, yeah, you know,

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it was fun for him to watch flirting and that

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kind of thing. And from there, I mean, we are

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totally one hundred percent honest and transparent with each other.

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There's no secrets. There's no anything with he and I,

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and you know, we both expressed to one another that, hey,

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it'd be fun if we go just meet others just

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kind of experience things, because neither one of us had

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a great deal of experience as our prior partners before

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each other. So and that's kind of how that started

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with us. So our dynamic, I think, is a little

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different than a lot of couples to live in that lifestyle.

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We started first watch swingers couples and we were like, oh,

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it's fucking amazing, right, And then I just took the

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leaf one day and I said, let's do it. I

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want to play, and it turned out to be such

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a fucking turn on for both of us.

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Speaker 1: So let me ask this then, kind of piggybacking off

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of that, you guys decided to jump in and you

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were friends and this and that. Did you have rules

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set up? And then I have a follow up to that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that question because he and I were

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the ones who probably had the least rules ever for

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do you know, I can't think of any rules that

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we had. So if he wanted to play, he played,

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I played. We played together. He played with me when

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I was playing you know, we didn't have a lot

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of rules, but we always respected others rules and boundary

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you know. But and then what your follow up that.

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Speaker 1: My follow up, well, your relationship is too healthy and

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clean and everything for me to make this follow up

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makes sense. But I was going to ask, do you

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have any rules that eventually got brushed aside where it's

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maybe your inaction and there's a rule, oh, don't lick

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her there and everyone's charged up, and you look at

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your husband and he just goes, yep, go ahead, and

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then boom, and then everyone loves it and enjoys it.

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Were there any things that were kind of let's push

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that line and then I, fuck it, let's just cross it.

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Speaker 2: For us? In my going back, there really wasn't. We

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have not experienced that. We've witnessed that repeatedly. We've witnessed it,

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and then that's when we made the decision to back

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away from that whole situation or whatever was going on.

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But for he and I, there really are nold boundaries

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or rules between the two of us. You know, we

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have met up with couples who are like, you know,

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you can't hold her hand, you can't you can't do

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this don't kiss her on the mouth. You can't do

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this with him, and we again respect that, but we

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just don't have that with us. I mean, if it's

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going with the flow and he's enjoying himself, that's what

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turns me on, that's what I love, and I think

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it's the same for him.

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Speaker 1: So okay, all right. Did you ever you or your

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husband accidentally break a rule someone else's rule and you

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had to apologize, Oh, sorry, I didn't mean to kiss

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you on the mouth or I don't mean to. No,

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you've never been like chastised and ay thing, Okay, No,

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we've been very fortunate. I think we're both very conscient

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just about others. And you know, I think for it

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to be healthy and to be happy and to remain fun,

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you really have to be conscientious of others boundaries. And

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you know, how how are you going to proceed with that?

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So sure, okay makes sense. Last question about lifestyle stuff,

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and this one is just purely born from my ind

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security in my own self as you have either one

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of you ever had to quote unquote take one for

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the team, meaning maybe there's a couple they're interested in you.

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He's very interested in the girl you not necessarily into

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the guy or vice versa. Has anyone ever had to

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take me?

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Speaker 2: So okay, now that you're saying that, it's not a

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rule for us, but it's a recognition for us. So

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in the event that we are in a situation, say,

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you know, the male partner is into me, and I'm

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into everything everyone, So the male partner is into me,

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but she may not be into my husband, and that

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was for me a deal breaker, you know what I mean.

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I want I want him to enjoy as well. I

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want them to enjoy. There should never be anybody taking

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one for the team, in my opinion, in both of

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our opinion. That's kind of how we've progressed through.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, See I always think I would be

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the one who would be taken for the team, So

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I just go, well, I don't want to be too

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offended by that. Like I can imagine my wife and

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I going to something and a woman looking at me

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and going never mind, oh here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, then I don't want anyone to feel that way.

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I mean, I have seen it, obviously, we have experience

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that where and it's most generally she's like, I don't know,

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you know, you can if you want to my husband

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and to me, that isn't no, you know, that's not

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fun for her. It certainly isn't fun for him. And

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then I lose all all fun at that point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see myself getting turned off. If some

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guy kind of like looked up my wife and was like,

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h you can just fuck my wife, I'd be like, now,

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how about you eat shit, buddy, get out of here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go, and you guys go on, y'all

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have fun and then find somebody that you really like. Yeah,

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and that is the most wonderful thing about the lifestyle

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that I have that we I'll see I because he's

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in here. But that I have experienced is you know,

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we have very few poor experiences. And maybe it is

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because of the recognition of boundaries or you know, we're

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not willing to take one for the team. You know.

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It should be a good, awsome, fun time for everybody.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I think that. I mean that it's it's sex.

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It's supposed to be like one of the best things

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in the world. If someone's bummed out in the middle of.

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Speaker 2: It, absolutely, you know it. Yeah, there's no way to

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make you can't recover from that.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, so let me go ahead. I apologize.

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What was it?

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Speaker 2: Oh, you're okay. I was going to say that is

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one thing about the lifestyle is it is all physical pleasure.

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I mean, I'm talking from my perspective, but for me,

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there's not a huge emotional tie. I don't need the

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emotions involved. And I know people are like, well, I

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have to have an emotional connection to have a sexual experience,

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but for me, the physical aspect and if there's chemistry

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at ten times better. But honestly, it's just fun. It's

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physically fun.

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Speaker 1: Oh, physically fun, physically fund mentally stimulating. I assume where

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it's very eternal to watch this stuff even if you're

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not involved. But you said emotionally you don't have to

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be involved. Is that you're not emotionally involved or is

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it that you're able to compartmentalize your emotion where just

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in this moment, I'm having a good time. This guy's great, big,

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dig nice guy, good looking, Da da da da da.

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And then afterwards, almost like actors and actresses who kind

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of I'm not saying you have a crush on any

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of these guys, but in the moment, A lot of

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times when actors and actresses on Hollywood movies, are you know,

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playing a couple, They'll start to develop a little bit

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of a flirt, a little bit of a you know,

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I could see myself with this person and then it's

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over at the end of it. Is there any of

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that in there? Not?

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Speaker 2: For me personally. I think maybe there's a couple of

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times when there was really good chemistry with a meal

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talent or a partner that I had, and then we'll

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just meet up again, you know, and then meet up

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again or whatever we choose to do. But for me,

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I would never want to change anything about my life

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to go be with that person.

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Speaker 1: Gotcha.

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Speaker 2: And I think that's the difference.

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Speaker 1: Gotcha. Gotcha? Okay, let me dive into the content a

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little bit. Can I guess who was your first shoot with?

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Do you remember who? It was?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely so my first shoot ever mainstream? You mean? Yes,

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it was Thailand Nixon. I was working with hot Meils

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fucked And I'm telling you, they have it to a

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tea to make you feel comfortable and absolutely introduce you

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to this industry, if you ask me, that's my opinion.

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What they did for me. They put me at ease,

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They had gosh, they go through the process because I

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was really shocked. I don't know what my preconceived notions

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were about the adult industry at the time, but I

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get phone to this location and then I show up

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and they take your bag in and they're like, hey,

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you got hair and makeup waiting, and I'm like, oh,

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really that was cool. So then they bring you in, well,

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now we need paperwork, we do this, we do this.

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We I ensured that you're safe, and I mean it

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was just incredible to me. I was like, this is

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a business, this is professional, and it truly wasn't their

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best interest to ensure that I was well informed. I

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was one hundred percent consensual everything, which is huge, right,

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and they just did an incredible job. So it was

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my first partner with Tyler Nixon, who was very well,

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you know, he's very well versed and he works a

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lot with new people, and I think it was just

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a really good matchup.

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Speaker 1: I've never met Tyler, but I have heard that same

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thing from a lot of women that he just kind

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of makes things comfortable and easy, and especially if you're

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just getting into it for the first time, has there

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been anything that you didn't know you were into until

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you got into porn. I mean, it's tough because because

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I assume you in the swinger lifestyle, you had tried

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and experienced a whole lot of new things. But is

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there anything that maybe you were a little skittish on

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or unsure of that when you finally got on set

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and then happened, you were like, oh, yeah, that's cool.

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Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, and that's true. So anal, that

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whole taboo anal thing, holy shit, and that's the only

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thing that everybody wants. I mean, even to this day,

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my fans are like, why don't you have more anal?

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I'm like, when was the last time you took it?

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But I don't say that, but I think for me

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the whole I had a fear of it because I

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had only had good experiences with my husband. But we

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worked through it. It took us time, we understood what

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needed to be done for he and I for it

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to be comfortable and happy. So it was actually on

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two three. It was very early on. I was approached

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by another mainstream company. I worked with the score group.

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I did four scenes with the score group and they

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said we would like to do a boy girl anal

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and I was like, oh god, you know, I was

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so worried about it. I'm like, holy shit, I don't

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know what to do. I don't know how to prep

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for it. All they sting. So again I reached out

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to resources. They were amazing. Everybody that I have had

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contact with in the industry is more than willing to

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help you. So they said, well, to prep for something

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like this, this is what you do. So I did it,

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and I went and I shot the scene. And this

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was with Barry mccuchnor. So that would have been my

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very first on screen aail scene. And I'm telling you

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everybody there our director, and I can tell you everybody's names.

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But as I remember, they made such an impression on me.

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But it was wonderful. It worked out perfect. I had

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no uh oh, and it didn't hurt. It was great.

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I was like, holy shit, this might be something new

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for me. And from there I have had the ability

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to progress all the way up to DP. So but

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I can't Yeah, that one's coming. It's my scream.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, we won't talk about where it is

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because it's coming, but maybe a question or two about that. First.

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Let me do a thing I like to do called

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stat check. So let me start with this and tell

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you that these numbers are completely and entirely wrong. They

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are from the Internet Adult Film Database, and basically what

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it does is it tracks mainstream scenes, It tracks certain

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many VID scenes. It does this. I don't know. It's

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not great, but it's the best resource we have. So

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I'm going to give you your stats where you are now,

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and then a year from now when you come back

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on the show, you'll be covered in av and awards,

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and you know these numbers will seem childish for the

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number of scenes I have for you. Know these are

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all wrong, because every girl I've ever told this too,

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these are all going to be wrong at the end,

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they always go those aren't right? I go, no, no, no,

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I know, I know. Number of scenes I have for

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you is eight. Number of guys you've worked with is six.

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Number of girls you've worked with is one. Zero noms

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for the AVN Awards and zero wins so far. Is

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that accurate? Six guys? You seem like you can still

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get into heaven with that?

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Speaker 2: So oh dear, I have so much to tell you. No, yeah,

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the numbers are not quite right there, Sure, I am

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almost at the twenty pro scenes. Okay, Yeah, and quite honestly,

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I have not tried to count the number of partners

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that I've had on the pro scenes. They are correct.

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In the pro shoots, I do only have one female partner,

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and that was the Hot Mills. Fuck, it was the

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second scene that I did with them. Yeah, second scene

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I did with them, and then I did a third

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with them, which was anal But I have certainly had

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many more than six male partners.

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Speaker 1: Well, the Pope's very disappointed by that, but that's okay.

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Speaker 2: They forget, they forget.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, exactly, yes, So let me ask as you

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ramp this stuff up, do you have desires to do

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you shoot any of.

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Speaker 1: Your own content currently for like your only fans? And

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what kind of style is it?

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Lorraine at home, This is me just chilling,

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this is a good time. Look at me, I'm naked,

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I'm this is it like a monthly big production? Where

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are we at and where do we plan to go?

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Speaker 2: So it's pretty interesting. I've learned a great deal and again,

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reading out and meeting the other talent in the industry

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has really really helped me understand where to go from there.

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So initially I started with a traveling Hot Life series

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because it's super easy for me. It's real. Everything that

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I have done in the adult industry, I've already experienced

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in my personal life, so it's easy. It was an

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easy transition. So as far as my content goes, that

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is probably my biggest go to is the Traveling Hot

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Life It was fun because years ago I would travel

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for work and I'm away from my husband. Now I

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would meet a fellow or a lady who was interested

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in them and I call them and say, hey, I

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found that dud. I mean, that's it's real. I mean,

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that's really what happened. I'd bring them back and it

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depended upon their comfort level. But he would either listen

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on the phone or we would video or whatever. And

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so I have brought that into my content creation because

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it's so natural, it's so easy, and my male talent

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has been amazing, like they love the idea. So there

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is there is the Traveling Hot Wife series. There are

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some that it is just so on. We get there

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and we're like boom, it's time to work, and we do.

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But it's a good work, right, we all have fun.

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I think overall, I'm not very good with solos. I

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need to do more solos, but I'm learning that again,

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it's all new. I think that's the thing that I'm

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most shy about is masturbation. I see, I laugh like

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a child when I say it, for God's sake, deep

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my ass tonight. But asturbate, I can't say it.

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Speaker 1: That's so fun. I was just going to say that.

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I was going to say, doing research for this up

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some of the most graphic pictures I've ever seen. Beautiful,

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by the way, And now she won't she No, Lorene's

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on here going I don't like necessarily talking about diddling myself.

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I go, oh, well, she's nicely. Uh what is it

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about that that's tough for you, because I here's here's

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my thing. When I see like JOI videos or whatever,

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all the other ones, the talkie ones are I look

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at it and I go, if I were in that

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girl's shoes or that part whatever shoes, I would I

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would have about sixty seconds of dirty talk, and then

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I'd be like, I hope you didn't pay for five minutes.

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This is all I got. Take a look at the tits.

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You know what part of like the solo stuff is

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hard for you. Okay, So between you and I and

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everyone out there. I did not masturbate until I was God,

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I was probably thirty three or thirty four years old,

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and it was it was through the encouragement of just

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being the comfortable with my husband. Honestly, he's like, you

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can do this, just try. I'm like no, And first all,

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I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It's like a ingrain thing or whatever.

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But I never did. I never tried it, and so

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I think for me that that process is still new.

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You know, it's not been very long, and it wasn't it.

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It was not anything that I did frequently because I

473
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mean I have partners to satisfy me or whatever, you know. So, yes,

474
00:25:24,079 --> 00:25:25,279
that's kind of where it got with that.

475
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,880
Speaker 1: Can I why why did it take so long for

476
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,640
you to get into it? I mean I was. I

477
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:34,640
was in like fourth grade.

478
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,880
Speaker 2: Exactly, and I think most people are and they're like, wait,

479
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,759
what you know? I haven't expressed that a great deal.

480
00:25:40,559 --> 00:25:43,640
My first solo scene on a pro shoot, I was like,

481
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,880
I swear to you, I was so I don't even

482
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,359
know what to call it. I had to have been

483
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:51,559
so awkward. I'm sure people have seen it. Hopefully it

484
00:25:51,559 --> 00:25:53,880
doesn't look awkward, but to me, I'm like, I don't

485
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:57,079
even know what to do right now. I'm im wan

486
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,400
to go with this, but yeah, I think it was

487
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,559
just a I never had a level of comfort with

488
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:07,440
myself to do that. And I know a time, yeah,

489
00:26:07,519 --> 00:26:10,720
you feel horney, but like, okay, either it passes or

490
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:13,720
you find somebody. Right, that's kind of where I was.

491
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:22,039
Speaker 1: Hot, Okay, interesting. Interesting. As your career progresses and you

492
00:26:22,079 --> 00:26:27,000
get invited or you know, hired for more shoots, eventually

493
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,119
offers will come that you don't like. So I used

494
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,599
to call this show not show. I used to call

495
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,799
this little thing I'm doing here sack, and what that

496
00:26:35,839 --> 00:26:40,200
stands for is shit, animals and kids. I called it

497
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,640
that because I would ask women this question and the

498
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,000
answer I would inevitably get back would be something like,

499
00:26:45,039 --> 00:26:47,440
well I wouldn't do that, like something horrible, and I

500
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,720
would go, no, no, no, I know, I know there's

501
00:26:49,759 --> 00:26:53,000
no dogs involved that, No, we don't want that. What

502
00:26:53,079 --> 00:26:55,920
I'm asking is something that is within the realm of

503
00:26:56,559 --> 00:26:59,599
normal in the adult entertainment industry. What is something you

504
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,160
just have no interest in pursuing. They come to you

505
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,279
and say, here's the offer, Lorraine. It's a big site,

506
00:27:04,279 --> 00:27:06,319
big name, you'll be working with great people, and you're

507
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,480
still just like, ugh, not my thing.

508
00:27:09,039 --> 00:27:15,559
Speaker 2: No, yes, So anything related to degradation and this has happened.

509
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,079
And I think that's one thing they put out there

510
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,680
and let everyone know is if you are not comfortable

511
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,440
with it, you can absolutely say no. And I have

512
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:27,880
and it was shocking to some of the producers. But

513
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:32,359
there was a site that contacted me and he said, okay,

514
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,680
so I have six different brands, you know, and I

515
00:27:34,799 --> 00:27:37,519
was intending on working for the one brand and he said,

516
00:27:37,519 --> 00:27:39,319
oh no, you're brand new, so you're going to start

517
00:27:39,319 --> 00:27:42,720
with this brand. And I said, well, I'll look into it,

518
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:46,200
you know. And so I reviewed the website and it

519
00:27:46,279 --> 00:27:48,880
was absolutely so degrading. And I know this is some

520
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,799
people's thing and that's okay, but it's not for me.

521
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,720
I mean, it got to the point where these girls

522
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,720
were being forced to vomit because of the actions that

523
00:27:57,759 --> 00:28:01,599
were taken and I am not subjecting myself to that,

524
00:28:01,759 --> 00:28:04,799
and I won't, you know. And I told him no,

525
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,640
and he said, well, you can't tell me no, you're

526
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:10,559
just starting and I said I absolutely can, and he goes, well,

527
00:28:10,599 --> 00:28:12,799
I will blacklist you, and I said, I highly doubt

528
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,359
you have the cloud in this entire industry to blacklist me.

529
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:20,119
And if you do, then good for you. But I

530
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,839
want people to know that you can say no.

531
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:26,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will, I will. I will ask you when

532
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,000
we're done recording. But is this person non person necessarily?

533
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,720
But is this group of sites kind of known as

534
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,359
a problem now that you've been in it a little

535
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:35,880
bit longer.

536
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 2: Yes, And I have found that unfortunately, a lot of

537
00:28:39,039 --> 00:28:42,119
ladies did not feel that they had the opportunity to

538
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,720
say no to this site, and they sucked it up

539
00:28:45,759 --> 00:28:48,880
and they're like, yeah, I got through it and I

540
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,200
got past it. I'm like, well, it's unfortunately you had

541
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:51,640
to deal with that.

542
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of one or two. Well we'll talk. I

543
00:28:55,559 --> 00:28:58,720
understand you don't have to, but yeah, So that is

544
00:28:58,799 --> 00:29:01,000
that is a great point, and that I try and

545
00:29:01,039 --> 00:29:03,359
relay that to a lot of the newer girls I interview,

546
00:29:03,359 --> 00:29:05,559
where it's like, hey, you know, this is a job.

547
00:29:05,599 --> 00:29:07,720
At the end of the day, it's fun. It should

548
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:10,039
be so fun. You show up, you sign paper, like

549
00:29:10,079 --> 00:29:12,640
you just said about your Tyler Nixon. You you show up,

550
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:14,519
you sign your papers, you get your makeup done, you

551
00:29:14,519 --> 00:29:15,640
have sex, you go home.

552
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,559
Speaker 2: It's great, right, it's wonderful. I've not had one bad

553
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,079
day at work. No, it's not one.

554
00:29:22,799 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: Oh, I have nothing but bad days at work. It's strange.

555
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,319
But this is fun. This isn't work. This is fun.

556
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,079
I like this. This is good. This is good, don't

557
00:29:30,119 --> 00:29:33,839
get me wrong. So all right, so no degradation. Let

558
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,839
me ask you, how about degradation going the other way?

559
00:29:36,119 --> 00:29:38,200
Have you ever felt yourself as kind of a domb?

560
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,240
You seem too sweet? But maybe I'm wrong.

561
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 2: Well you so you're probably going to be shocked. But

562
00:29:44,279 --> 00:29:48,319
I have been doing dumb work for the last three years. Wow,

563
00:29:48,519 --> 00:29:52,440
just totally under the radar. Yes, And I think I'm

564
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,039
kind of more of a maybe a soft dom is

565
00:29:56,079 --> 00:29:58,720
what they call it. I really want to get in

566
00:29:58,759 --> 00:30:02,359
tune with what my submissive once because I think that

567
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,119
makes the experience better for both of us. There's a

568
00:30:05,119 --> 00:30:08,720
lot of communication, and I know a lot a lot

569
00:30:08,799 --> 00:30:12,680
of folks in that position. They like the they like

570
00:30:12,759 --> 00:30:16,759
to be submissive, obviously, and the humiliation and degradation. Degradation

571
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,599
is hard for me to even give out. So I work.

572
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:24,480
I focus more with them on what what would get

573
00:30:24,519 --> 00:30:27,240
them other than you know, I never tell them that's wrong,

574
00:30:27,279 --> 00:30:30,480
because it certainly isn't it is for it is something

575
00:30:30,519 --> 00:30:32,920
that really turns on a lot of people, and that's awesome,

576
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:38,599
but for me, it's hard to deliver it. So no,

577
00:30:38,759 --> 00:30:42,680
I just I, you know, we'll find a different focus

578
00:30:42,759 --> 00:30:45,480
when it comes to that, okay. And that is another

579
00:30:45,519 --> 00:30:47,519
thing that I've learned in the adult industry is there

580
00:30:47,599 --> 00:30:50,640
there are two separate entities. You have your fetish world,

581
00:30:51,079 --> 00:30:54,799
you have your cakes, and then you have your adult world.

582
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,440
And I mean they are quite different.

583
00:30:58,839 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 1: You know, there's a there's a third layer that is

584
00:31:01,759 --> 00:31:05,519
still legal, but not as good. I'm realizing because I

585
00:31:05,839 --> 00:31:09,440
recently clicked on someone's link tree for whatever I had

586
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,680
interviewed them as a newer model, and I looked and

587
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:14,880
they had this whole thing that was like only fans,

588
00:31:15,279 --> 00:31:17,799
but it was like shit that only fans won't let

589
00:31:17,799 --> 00:31:21,200
you post, and nothing illegal, but as disgusting as you

590
00:31:21,279 --> 00:31:24,799
can get. And I look at it initially and I'm like,

591
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,119
I'm not into that at all. I think it's terrible,

592
00:31:27,599 --> 00:31:29,559
not terrible that they're doing it, just like I don't

593
00:31:29,559 --> 00:31:31,880
want to see that. I'm not interested. And then it

594
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,960
sits on you and you go, someone does this girl

595
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,119
did want to do this thing? Right, Because like you

596
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,880
said about this, I also can't get into the puking

597
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,000
and the you know, you're a dumb whar blah blah

598
00:31:43,039 --> 00:31:45,799
blah blah blah. I'm just not into that stuff. Yeah,

599
00:31:45,839 --> 00:31:49,960
but the girls are into it if they were positive

600
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,480
and not one of the ones like you said, where

601
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,839
they couldn't say no unfortunately, and people do want to

602
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,640
watch that. So who is it on me to say,

603
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,279
you know, it's not good or it's not what ever?

604
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,200
I don't know. There was no point in that question.

605
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,880
I was just ranting because I clicked on something the

606
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:05,359
other day.

607
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, it did to get out there though, because I

608
00:32:08,519 --> 00:32:11,480
think you're exactly right. I certainly am very open minded

609
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,880
for all kinks fetishes anything for anybody out there. Again,

610
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,839
like you said, I have certain boundaries and I think

611
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,599
that we all do so as long as others can

612
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:23,000
have the ability to respect that, then I think that's

613
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:24,400
where we're all successful.

614
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,279
Speaker 1: You know, totally makes sense. So your only things do

615
00:32:27,319 --> 00:32:30,799
you do? Okay, because we're not necessarily great at solos?

616
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,960
Do you do custom videos yet? Is that something you're

617
00:32:34,119 --> 00:32:34,960
working up to?

618
00:32:36,079 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 2: I do custom videos. I actually do quite quite a

619
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,559
few custom videos. It's died off the last month or so,

620
00:32:44,559 --> 00:32:47,240
but I'll do customs then. At this point, for me,

621
00:32:47,359 --> 00:32:51,279
the the solo stuff is not as uncomfortable as it was.

622
00:32:51,359 --> 00:32:54,160
And with the solo obviously they kind of guide you.

623
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,440
You know, they'll give you the content that they want,

624
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,000
they'll give you the baseline of what they're looking for.

625
00:32:59,759 --> 00:33:02,200
And I also do live video chats, which is one

626
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,200
of the things that I love the most because I

627
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,960
have that interaction with that individual and I can see

628
00:33:07,039 --> 00:33:10,480
that they're being pleased or you know, it's I am

629
00:33:10,599 --> 00:33:12,599
catering to what they want and I am a pleaser.

630
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:13,319
I enjoyed that.

631
00:33:13,799 --> 00:33:17,279
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let me ask, has anyone been like

632
00:33:17,599 --> 00:33:20,880
a mentor to you or are guiding like any of

633
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,240
the other girls in the industry or guys you said

634
00:33:23,279 --> 00:33:26,079
you knew some content creators when you first started getting

635
00:33:26,119 --> 00:33:28,880
into it or ramping up or making it full time,

636
00:33:29,039 --> 00:33:32,160
who's been like this person's been really great for me.

637
00:33:33,279 --> 00:33:35,519
Speaker 2: I don't know if I should say their names. I

638
00:33:35,559 --> 00:33:39,440
don't know, well will I mean, we're incredible people, for.

639
00:33:39,319 --> 00:33:42,359
Speaker 1: Sure, totally totally, but but why wouldn't we want to

640
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,640
not like they're legal names, right, You're not giving me

641
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:45,759
social Security.

642
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 2: Numbers, stage names, but they're they're private individuals. Also, well,

643
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,519
I can tell you one of my greatest guides in

644
00:33:55,559 --> 00:33:59,599
the beginning, and we're gonna have to ask him before

645
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,279
we we put it all out there. I'll ask him

646
00:34:02,279 --> 00:34:05,640
and make sure it's okay. But Shane Diesel has been

647
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,840
an excellent guide for me, you know, just from the

648
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:15,000
beginning at a friend level. He's obviously been in the

649
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:17,039
industry for quite a long time and he is the

650
00:34:17,039 --> 00:34:20,199
one who guided me to understand the importance of that

651
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,800
residual income from these paid sites and the content creation

652
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:25,639
because I'm like, I don't ever want to do that.

653
00:34:25,679 --> 00:34:27,239
I was that girl. I'm like, I'm just going to

654
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:30,199
do shoots all the time. Well they don't always come in.

655
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:34,880
So he has been a great guide about the emotional health,

656
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:40,639
mental health, everything. I mean, he is just he's been incredible.

657
00:34:41,199 --> 00:34:45,039
And I would say on I think who has touched

658
00:34:45,079 --> 00:34:49,320
me the most is probably Miss Sienna Ray. We've had

659
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,440
an opportunity to talk a great deal. We were actually

660
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,119
in a content house together. It's how we met and

661
00:34:55,159 --> 00:34:58,000
then we ended up working together, which has been great,

662
00:34:58,159 --> 00:35:01,880
and she's just been an ex resource. She's a great support,

663
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:05,239
a great guide, and she's my friend as well.

664
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 1: So that's nice, YEA. From it's crazy because from the outside,

665
00:35:12,079 --> 00:35:16,840
my ignorant misogynism would be like, oh, poor an industry.

666
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:18,840
All the women are at each other's throats and they're

667
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,000
fighting for this and that. But it doesn't seem like

668
00:35:21,039 --> 00:35:23,679
that at all at all.

669
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 2: I haven't experience at at all. I haven't, but I

670
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,599
was expecting the same thing, the whole competition. And that's

671
00:35:29,599 --> 00:35:32,199
one thing about me. I had a twenty one year

672
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:36,599
career in a male led industry, right, I am not

673
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,239
that woman who is going to compete with another woman.

674
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:42,639
I refuse to. My job is to build them up

675
00:35:42,679 --> 00:35:45,199
and to empower them. I want to empower everyone. I

676
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:48,039
want them to be as much as they can possibly

677
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,440
everything they want to be, everything they want to do,

678
00:35:51,039 --> 00:35:54,559
and that with my goal in life, and it has

679
00:35:54,599 --> 00:35:57,599
bled over into this industry. So I don't have it

680
00:35:57,679 --> 00:36:01,840
in me to be competitive with other ladies. I don't.

681
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:05,000
And if there is competition on their side, I'll see it,

682
00:36:05,079 --> 00:36:08,039
I recognize it, and I'll allow that for them. That's

683
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:10,519
important for them to have that and not feeling in

684
00:36:10,559 --> 00:36:13,840
that competitive nature because that's how they'll succeed. But for me,

685
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:15,280
I just I don't need it.

686
00:36:15,599 --> 00:36:19,079
Speaker 1: I don't want that, gotcha. Yeah, some of the interviews

687
00:36:19,079 --> 00:36:21,559
I've done have talked to apparently strip clubs are not

688
00:36:21,679 --> 00:36:24,119
as nice as porn star Twitter. I hear a lot

689
00:36:24,119 --> 00:36:27,199
of infighting behind the scenes and this and that, and

690
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:32,480
I'm wondering if it's just that it's the I was

691
00:36:32,519 --> 00:36:35,679
gonna say target, but target sounds like the absolute worst word.

692
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,519
The guy, the person they're trying to extract money from,

693
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:42,400
is in there in person. You don't know if another

694
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,119
guy's going to walk through right, You don't know if

695
00:36:45,159 --> 00:36:47,039
another guy's gonna walk through the door today. You don't

696
00:36:47,039 --> 00:36:48,719
know if you're gonna have a chance. So I understand

697
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,920
the desire to let's capitalize on this. This is still

698
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,840
a business. But in the adult entertainment film industry, I mean,

699
00:36:56,519 --> 00:36:59,960
there's a guy who likes every type of body, every

700
00:37:00,119 --> 00:37:03,559
type of look, every type of fetish. There is a

701
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,960
market for it. So when people try and figure their

702
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,599
thing out to I always just say, hey, be yourself

703
00:37:09,639 --> 00:37:12,880
and like someone will find you and love you and

704
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:13,920
touch their dicks to you.

705
00:37:14,639 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 2: Absolutely and that's what we love, right and my goal

706
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,920
to make people happy.

707
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: So let's jump into the future real quick. Where do

708
00:37:28,119 --> 00:37:33,719
we see this going? Is this a career career for

709
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you now? Is this a we'll keep doing this until

710
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,639
it's not fun? Is this we're going to see Lorraine

711
00:37:41,679 --> 00:37:44,960
as an eighty one year old guilfhon of DVD cover?

712
00:37:45,159 --> 00:37:47,320
Probably not a DVD cover, but you know what I mean?

713
00:37:48,599 --> 00:37:50,800
Where are we going with this? And where do you

714
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want to go with this?

715
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Speaker 2: And that's an interesting question that I thought a lot

716
00:37:55,440 --> 00:38:00,800
about lately. Right now, I am having an excellent but

717
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:04,239
I'm also real in my mind. I'm realistic. I understand

718
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,280
that this will fit. I'm not going to be able

719
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:10,920
to continue to maintain what folks enjoy as Lady Lorraine

720
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:15,519
right now. So I'm looking ahead. I want to continue

721
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:19,199
performing and doing everything in content creation until it gets

722
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,320
to a point where I noticed that it's like, maybe

723
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:27,400
this guilt is not the it. But fortunately I have

724
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:31,480
other skills. I would love to move into a mentoring

725
00:38:31,639 --> 00:38:37,239
type of position or you know, guide mentor I wouldn't mind.

726
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:41,400
I don't know anything about agencies and I don't have

727
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:45,360
an agent, but if I were to look ahead, I

728
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,400
would probably move into more of an admin talent type

729
00:38:48,679 --> 00:38:54,719
recruiter and help guide the talent males females, it doesn't matter,

730
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,360
on the right path and let them know you do

731
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,519
have the opportunity to say no, because I've heard that

732
00:38:59,599 --> 00:39:02,760
a lot these these ladies and gentlemen as well, they

733
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,480
don't say no no. This is something that you need

734
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:10,079
to understand that it's your choice. But I have been

735
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:14,320
a coordinator for events for the last fifteen years, you know,

736
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so setting up events, holding huge events, and just getting

737
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:23,920
exposure for others. Learning the whole networking aspect of everything.

738
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I think is where I personally would like to lead to.

739
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,639
And will I still perform I mean now and then

740
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:35,119
absolutely if someone wants me, you know. And yeah, I

741
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,880
don't see myself as the eighty year old gift, but

742
00:39:39,159 --> 00:39:42,519
I have met some recently and they fucking kick ass

743
00:39:42,599 --> 00:39:43,360
and I love them.

744
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Speaker 1: I recently interviewed d D. White, who was formerly Sakah Black.

745
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:55,400
Oh yeah, you're yo, yo, she is awesome. I kept

746
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,800
I didn't want to say. I implied it on the show,

747
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,400
but I I'm not gonna I don't think I'm gonna

748
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:03,320
live as long as she is, and she's still out

749
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,679
there throwing it around. Man, She's great.

750
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Speaker 2: Sally D'Angelo. Those ladies, they are so fine. They're just

751
00:40:09,119 --> 00:40:13,920
something sometimes, but they love cock. They love it, and

752
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:16,639
that's what's important, right, I mean, they're they're enjoying it

753
00:40:16,679 --> 00:40:17,639
every second.

754
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Speaker 1: So well mentioning D. D. White. I only asked this

755
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because I saw you say this on a different interview

756
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,639
and I find it interesting, not that you know, all positive,

757
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,400
all positive, I just find it interesting. Do you prefer

758
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,159
working with black men or.

759
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Speaker 2: Has that been Can let you say that. I'm glad

760
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:37,239
that you've brought that up, because it's brought up all

761
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:41,719
the time. So for me, it's not a preference. I

762
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:45,599
love people, men, women, all racist shapes and sizes, you know.

763
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But in a lot of cases, for the pro shoots,

764
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I'm not choosing my male talent. Sometimes I don't meet

765
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them until an hour before we shoot the then so

766
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and even in the personal content creation, it's just something

767
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,519
that I if I click with the individual or they

768
00:41:01,519 --> 00:41:04,159
contact me and we're able to set it up. But

769
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:08,199
quite honestly, it's weird. The whole race BBC thing has

770
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,760
never been crossed my mind, but it's.

771
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Speaker 1: Lot sure, Yeah, I mean, I guess you know. I've

772
00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,719
I've had discussions with other girls where it's almost like

773
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,960
there are some white performers who are very much like,

774
00:41:20,079 --> 00:41:22,280
get the term inter racial ad of porn, we don't

775
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,440
want it, blah blah blah blah. And I've talked to

776
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,119
black performers who are like, I don't care about race.

777
00:41:27,199 --> 00:41:29,280
Play call me whatever you want. We're shooting a scene,

778
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,239
we're doing a movie. So it's it's always strange how

779
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,320
it's dynamic and changing and does this matter? Does this

780
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,760
not matter? I just asked, because we mentioned D D.

781
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,559
White and D D White, let me know specifically, she's

782
00:41:40,639 --> 00:41:46,199
like black guys only is what I'm only. She was

783
00:41:46,519 --> 00:41:51,079
so funny, it was just it was great. It was great,

784
00:41:51,519 --> 00:41:54,280
all right, Lorraine. I don't have much else for you

785
00:41:54,519 --> 00:41:58,159
here other than, uh, just to really thank you for

786
00:41:58,199 --> 00:42:02,400
coming on, and I hope your career progresses because you

787
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,039
have just such a positive spirit to you. And I'm

788
00:42:05,079 --> 00:42:07,719
sorry if that sounds corny and stupid, but it's like

789
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:11,199
I can feel the positivity coming off of you, and

790
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,400
I really hope it translates even more success. You know

791
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:18,840
exactly where you can find Lorraine, at Lady Lorraine l

792
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A D Y L O R R E I g

793
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N links to everything in the episode description and uh yeah, Loraine,

794
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,280
let's check in with you like a year from now,

795
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,039
and you'll still be like, oh, I love this, it's

796
00:42:33,039 --> 00:42:34,920
so great blah blah blah blah blah. But I bet

797
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,119
you'll have like six new things where you're like, I

798
00:42:37,119 --> 00:42:38,960
don't do that shit, I don't like that shit.

799
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,639
Speaker 2: Well, fee, that's so exciting just to get to that point,

800
00:42:42,679 --> 00:42:44,159
to be like, oh, hell no, I'm not doing that.

801
00:42:44,639 --> 00:42:47,039
Speaker 1: Oh sure, Loraine. Thank you so much for coming on

802
00:42:47,119 --> 00:42:47,559
with me tonight.

803
00:42:47,679 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 2: Oh you're amazing, and thank you so much for having

804
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:50,159
me