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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Buns and Banter, a podcast by work Busties

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<v Speaker 1>for work Busties. Hey, I'm Lauren and I'm Ali. We're

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<v Speaker 1>both morning show hosts for iHeartMedia. We're both millennials, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're both trying to figure out how to build the

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<v Speaker 1>lives we dream about, dating, marriage, career, career, and being

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<v Speaker 1>a mom.

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<v Speaker 2>How to get through a week without crying. Welcome to

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<v Speaker 2>Buns and Banter. We're glad you're here. There it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we start our podcast the same way every week,

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<v Speaker 1>and it delights me.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh the collective sigh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and waiting all week for this. Oh that's the carry.

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<v Speaker 2>Under would start to the NFL theme, right, Ben, We're

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<v Speaker 2>no week Sunday night, not good light, not good Hey.

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<v Speaker 3>If this doesn't work out, if we're not rolling in bookoo,

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<v Speaker 3>but pardon me and radio in the next couple of years.

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<v Speaker 1>I will wear diamond dfringe watch out carry if it

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<v Speaker 1>gets us that kind of dope.

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<v Speaker 2>Woman show coming at you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh all right, speaking of speaking of ladies, let's let's

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<v Speaker 3>talk about this.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I know I didn't really even give you any context

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<v Speaker 1>to what I wanted to ask, but I mean this

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<v Speaker 1>is bunsan banter. We are a two women show, and

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<v Speaker 1>we've never.

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<v Speaker 2>Really talked about periods. Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>And I learned something I found fascinating and very affirmational.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh great on TikTok. Wonderful. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm interested to know if you are familiar with the

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<v Speaker 1>louteal phase and the follicular phase, the luteal phase.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, the luteal luteal. I think it's luteal. You know this,

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<v Speaker 2>I have.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like such a bad woman never having learned

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<v Speaker 1>about this.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that like one of them is shortly before, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and one of them the luteal is before, and then

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<v Speaker 3>their one is like kind of and after.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, or is it between? It's like, so, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>this is per TikTok. I didn't even like web mday this.

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<v Speaker 2>The luteal is like the.

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<v Speaker 1>Four to five days ahead, like kind of that week

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<v Speaker 1>before you start your cycle, and then the follicular times

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<v Speaker 1>so right, and then the follicular is like right after

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<v Speaker 1>you're done, okay, And I'm so I saw this one

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<v Speaker 1>girl I got served her TikTok and she did this

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<v Speaker 1>facial transformation and she's like, I'm not using any filters

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not using any TikTok ai changes none of that.

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<v Speaker 1>This is literally my face in the luteal phase and

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<v Speaker 1>then gave like a time lapse all the way to

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<v Speaker 1>follicular and literally you can see like the bloating and

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<v Speaker 1>shininess and tiredness disappear over the course of a week,

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<v Speaker 1>like you physically change before your period. And the reason

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<v Speaker 1>I got served this is because there's there's a dude

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<v Speaker 1>on TikTok that was asking out of curiosity. He goes,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel really dumb that maybe I should know this,

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<v Speaker 1>He goes, but I just asked a girl out and

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<v Speaker 1>she said I can't I'm in my luteal phase. And

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<v Speaker 1>he thought it meant like mercury's and retrograde. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>looking through the comments, I'm like, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>this is. And it made me feel so much better,

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<v Speaker 1>because can I tell you how I feel and how

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<v Speaker 1>I think I physically look A week before Mother Nature

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<v Speaker 1>pops into.

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<v Speaker 2>Life is horrible. Yeah, I had myself talked into a

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<v Speaker 2>what's this one? Thyroid?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, a thyroid condition my face. I was like, what

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<v Speaker 3>is going on with my face? Now? I might not

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<v Speaker 3>I might actually have a thyroid condition, because I don't

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<v Speaker 3>really if we're getting where are we going there? We're

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<v Speaker 3>getting close, we go everywhere here, close and personal. I

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<v Speaker 3>have an IUD, so I never like get a period.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's interesting. I wonder if you still get some

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<v Speaker 2>of the like effects. Couldn't tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>I just was like, put it in, set it, forget it.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good for seven years. I'll see you in seven years.

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<v Speaker 2>Amazing. I don't want to have to deal with any

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<v Speaker 2>of this because they're so lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just I thought, you know what, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a Bunsen banter?

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<v Speaker 2>Do do do?

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<v Speaker 1>The more you know, the more you know, because I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea. And then you're like, so the follicular

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<v Speaker 1>phase is when this girl on TikTok's like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>ask me.

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<v Speaker 2>Out all you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I am glowing, I am energized, I am skinny like after,

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<v Speaker 1>but right after you have to be fully done. And

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<v Speaker 1>then she's like, I feel like I've shut a skin

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<v Speaker 1>and my like personal best is shining at least for

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<v Speaker 1>the next two and a half weeks. And then you

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<v Speaker 1>launch back in you know why you put more on

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<v Speaker 1>your period? No, because everything's like swollen and sloughing. And

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<v Speaker 1>coming off in there and it pushes on your intestines.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, rooting and tooting and pooping during your periods.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so fast.

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<v Speaker 1>All O male listeners, gentlemen, come back, come back.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna talk too.

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<v Speaker 1>We got to talk about me pooping in a tackle box.

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<v Speaker 1>You can handle us talking about berriads. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>and I had very different health classes.

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<v Speaker 2>Public school versus Coutholic school. Oh yeah, I didn't know

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<v Speaker 2>any of this, and I think it's really interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, the last time I felt really terrible about

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<v Speaker 1>myself when we shot our most recent pictures at Zigler. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>remember I told you, I was like, I mean, right,

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<v Speaker 1>the dealership's gorgeous, everyone around me. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like shit, luteal face.

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<v Speaker 2>That's because I was in the luteal phase. You can

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<v Speaker 2>see it, Okay, yeah, the lute face.

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<v Speaker 3>And have you ever been in a do you take

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<v Speaker 3>pictures of the sunset or like the sky or anything,

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<v Speaker 3>and like then you look back at them and it's

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<v Speaker 3>never as good as it is in person, right, And

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<v Speaker 3>that's us. We take pictures of ourselves and we look

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<v Speaker 3>at them and they're just not as good as we

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<v Speaker 3>are because we are sunsets and moons and stars, and

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<v Speaker 3>our beauty and our essence cannot be captured with a

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<v Speaker 3>freaking iPhone. Oh my god, So well remember that because

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<v Speaker 3>it just doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Do us justice.

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<v Speaker 1>That would have really helped me because I cried in

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<v Speaker 1>a Target changing room earlier this week.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I did.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just after I learned about this ludial follicular phase,

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<v Speaker 1>I went fucking Jean's shop. Oh Annie, are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>The amount of failure I set myself up for? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't It was not good, And honestly, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to call out anyone specific but universal threads.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that you have proper lady sizing, because

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<v Speaker 1>there is no way I was the size that you

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<v Speaker 1>were telling Oh it was terrible, But I picked out

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<v Speaker 1>my typical size, the next size up, and I literally

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<v Speaker 1>like wouldn't even reach to my belly button. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like sobbing in this Target dressing.

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<v Speaker 2>Room, don't. I don't know if this is an actual thing.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't researched this, but it seems to me that

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<v Speaker 3>in times when like, because you know, everything that we

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<v Speaker 3>keep hearing is like the economy and like we might

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<v Speaker 3>be in a recession and like everything's kind of pointing

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<v Speaker 3>to that. And I think that the textile industry, in

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<v Speaker 3>the clothing industry, is the first thing that like the

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<v Speaker 3>first thing that gets messed up with that like cuts

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<v Speaker 3>corners and likes to sizing gets all weird and there's

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<v Speaker 3>no U continuity not continuity.

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<v Speaker 2>What am I?

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<v Speaker 3>What am I thinking of? Like no consistency? Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 3>there's no consistency over that. I think that they just it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it hurts my well being, Yeah, it really does.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what, I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 1>more of an adult this fall and winter. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna wear jeans absolutely not Yeah, get ready for schmidty

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<v Speaker 1>and leggings round billion because I felt so terrible about myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it sucks, you guys, it's so hard to be

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<v Speaker 1>a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Sucks walking into a store and not knowing what size

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna be in, and like trying clothes on in

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<v Speaker 3>the store is such a triggering, over stimulating experience. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and having to like grab the size that you think

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<v Speaker 3>you are and like maybe you grab the one higher

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<v Speaker 3>and then trying those on in like the internal battle

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<v Speaker 3>that we fight with that and then having to go

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<v Speaker 3>back because those two sizes still aren't the same. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>so now, okay, this is the one that fits. Gotta

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<v Speaker 3>buy this because we got to have clothes to go

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<v Speaker 3>on our bodies. And then you want to and then

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<v Speaker 3>you go to another store to buy a different pair

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<v Speaker 3>of pants and you grab the size that you are,

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<v Speaker 3>and that one's wrong, and it's like, is this something

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<v Speaker 3>that guys struggle with too? Like you are a different

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<v Speaker 3>or are you like I'm a thirty four wherever I am?

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<v Speaker 1>Because like my husband will send me out, like he'll

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm going to a.

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<v Speaker 2>Store or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>He will literally be able to look at me and go, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I do have a hole in my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite pair of jeans? Can you grab me another like

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<v Speaker 1>medium one? And then just gives me his measurements like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how men are, like thirty two, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a thirty two, twenty eight or whatever. Yeah, never a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>He literally doesn't even have to try them on. They

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<v Speaker 1>fit him across the board every time. Does not matter

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<v Speaker 1>the brand, does not matter what kind of pant it is.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know if it's if it's an issue

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<v Speaker 2>for dudes.

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<v Speaker 1>But let me tell you, I will never be changing

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<v Speaker 1>in a public changing room outside of my follicular phase.

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<v Speaker 2>Again, it was terrible. Did you go to the Target?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh in Rockford?

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<v Speaker 3>Now?

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<v Speaker 1>So?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there one in Rockford?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>So I went to the twenty eighth Street. One twenty

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<v Speaker 2>eighth Street, okay, which has like very skinny fit women.

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<v Speaker 2>They readed the changing rooms? Oh did they? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know, because it wasn't great. No, half of

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<v Speaker 1>them weren't operational. Yes, and that doesn't make me feel

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<v Speaker 1>good either.

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<v Speaker 3>In the lighting, I'm sorry if you want us to

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<v Speaker 3>buy clothes and you just put good lights in there,

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<v Speaker 3>and like skinny mirrors, like yeah, to do is like

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<v Speaker 3>tip the mirrors down a little bit because I don't

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<v Speaker 3>care what size I'm buying. If I feel like I

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<v Speaker 3>look good in the mirror, I'm buying that shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm talking like.

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<v Speaker 1>A three degree tilt is really all you need, so minuscule,

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<v Speaker 1>but it will, in a soft light.

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<v Speaker 3>Make all the difference. I will buy all the things

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<v Speaker 3>if I feel like I look good in them.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we were just talking about like the economic downturn.

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<v Speaker 1>Here is your here's your chance. You would turn this

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<v Speaker 3>Like she can't hold the carry the economy past this tour.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad that I could impart some of that knowledge.

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<v Speaker 2>I was blown away.

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<v Speaker 1>I went down a weird Benstrel cycle TikTok black hole yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>So there you go. Always learning, We're always learning. I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 3>The female body never ceases to have something to share in,

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<v Speaker 1>Like now we need to like snap and be like

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome back to our gentleman audience, thank you for joining.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we should say that in the beginning, we should

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<v Speaker 3>tell him like you can fast forward to this part.

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<v Speaker 2>So I got to recap the weekend, the wag weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Pardon you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so committed to hear. I was like stalking

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<v Speaker 1>your social It was.

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<v Speaker 3>So much fun. Oh good, it was so much fun.

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<v Speaker 3>They did so well, they played so well. I was

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<v Speaker 3>again very new to like watching a significant other play

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<v Speaker 3>by the end of the weekend I had one of

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<v Speaker 3>the wives put her arm around me and say, you

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<v Speaker 3>really came out of your shell this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god by the end of it.

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<v Speaker 3>It didn't start this way, but by the end of it,

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<v Speaker 3>I was yelling at referees. I was yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 3>yelling at other players, and I was yelling at their fans.

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<v Speaker 2>We found a new Oh I am proud. What what

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe sort of misdirected anger and rage. Yes, it's been

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<v Speaker 3>a really, really shitty past couple of months, and I

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I was feeling bad because I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe I shouldn't stand with the other family members, wives

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<v Speaker 3>and girlfriends because maybe this is embarrassing for them to

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<v Speaker 3>it too, so I was like, oh, no, I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>Can I can we get an example of like what

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<v Speaker 1>an Ali Mackie yell sounds like, did you like hurl

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<v Speaker 1>some insults?

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<v Speaker 2>I did?

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA, I'm like pretty much turned on right now by you.

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<v Speaker 3>I did well, Like at one point, Yimmy, he didn't

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<v Speaker 3>start this fight, but like he's very much like he

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<v Speaker 3>won't start it, but he will end it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh hell hell yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And the other the other teams were just like there

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<v Speaker 3>were a couple of them, two teams specifically, they were

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<v Speaker 3>really chippy and they were getting some calls from the

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<v Speaker 3>refs that like we weren't getting. So I was, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a libra, I'm the scales, I'm balance and I'm fairness,

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<v Speaker 3>and when every day I get a whiff of injustice,

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<v Speaker 3>I am on high alert. So like and then like

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<v Speaker 3>you start watching closely and you can sort of tell

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<v Speaker 3>which of the players are.

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<v Speaker 2>Like talking shit.

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<v Speaker 3>And I could tell that this one guy had just

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<v Speaker 3>been in his year year and in his ear and

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<v Speaker 3>I and I'm like, I hope he's not holding back

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<v Speaker 3>for my sake. So finally, like this guy just he

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<v Speaker 2>Oh here we here, we fucking go.

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<v Speaker 3>Like the gloves come off, the sticksdrops, like they get

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<v Speaker 3>all like locked up, and the helmet comes off, and

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<v Speaker 3>like I couldn't it just it came out and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, end it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's so good.

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<v Speaker 3>And they were all like, oh no, he's like gonna

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<v Speaker 3>get a penalty, and I was like kick his ass,

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<v Speaker 3>like I wanted it.

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<v Speaker 1>So bad and it felt Did it feel so good

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<v Speaker 1>like a full release?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it felt really good. It felt really good. And

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<v Speaker 3>he did get a penalty, and at one point he did.

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<v Speaker 3>This wasn't the same game, but in one of the

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<v Speaker 3>games he did get invited to leave the game.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean invited is not forced out.

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<v Speaker 3>And that one wasn't his fault, that one wasn't his fault,

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<v Speaker 3>that one was unfair, and those refs were bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Those refs were so bad.

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<v Speaker 3>And they ended up they ended up losing to the

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<v Speaker 3>team that won it all oh only by two. So

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, you know, if you're gonna lose to a team,

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<v Speaker 3>you want to lose to the team that like wins

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<v Speaker 3>the whole thing. That's hard, though, But I just like

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<v Speaker 3>did not like the team that won it. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>like them, and I didn't like their fans, and I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't think that they deserved it, and I thought that

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<v Speaker 3>they were getting a lot of help from the refs

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<v Speaker 3>that number one they shouldn't have got and number one

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<v Speaker 3>and number two they didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Need certified wags. And I love listening to you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just.

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<v Speaker 3>I had this moment at the games where I turned

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<v Speaker 3>to one of the wives who's also a mom, who's like,

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<v Speaker 3>kids like play lacrosse and okay, yeah, you know, and

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I I don't understand how you guys

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<v Speaker 3>do this and watch your kids and you don't completely

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<v Speaker 3>lose your shit because this is my partner. But if

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<v Speaker 3>this was something that came out of me, like this

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<v Speaker 3>is my flesh and blood, I would kill someone. Not

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<v Speaker 3>act that doesn't hold up in a court of whys.

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<v Speaker 3>That's hyperbole, I promise, But like, I don't know how

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<v Speaker 3>you watch will at football get I just get infuriated.

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<v Speaker 3>I was telling my mom this and she was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>that's why we always had special drinks, and I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh, yeah, yeah right.

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<v Speaker 1>Our coworker had a water polo daughter and he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got to tell you there is no other sport,

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<v Speaker 1>especially with women, that will piss you off more than

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<v Speaker 1>watching what other girls will do.

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<v Speaker 2>To try to drown your kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, he said it was terrible, Like there were times

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<v Speaker 1>where like girls will file their toenails to a point

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<v Speaker 1>so that they can like scratch you and stuffew. He

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<v Speaker 1>said it was unreal and he would be in the

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<v Speaker 1>stands like watching these water polo matches. He's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>was a complete monster, like the human in me was gone,

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<v Speaker 1>and the things I would yell, we they don't want

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<v Speaker 1>like water shoes in there.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think so ooh, that's it's insane.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like, man, when it's your kid, like, ooh boy,

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<v Speaker 1>it is just a different monster. Yeah, but you're getting

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<v Speaker 1>good practice in because it ends.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I Or that's a really good one.

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<v Speaker 3>Am I Just getting more comfortable so that I, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I say, more off the wall things.

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<v Speaker 1>Either or I'm gonna sit next to you and absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>hg you on.

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<v Speaker 2>So I started I started.

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<v Speaker 3>The weekend like kind of off by myself, like sitting

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<v Speaker 3>by myself, being very quiet, and like I ended the

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<v Speaker 3>weekend with these ladies being like.

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<v Speaker 2>Who is this chick? So, and they like love you. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I felt kind of bad about it.

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<v Speaker 3>And I still I'm not like anxiety, but I have

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<v Speaker 3>like game anxiety where I'm like I don't know if

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<v Speaker 3>they're gonna invite me to sit with them anymore, and

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<v Speaker 3>like they're super cool, I'm sure they will, but also

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<v Speaker 3>it would be in bounds for them to tell me

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<v Speaker 3>to just shut up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd make T shirts that had like the arrow that

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<v Speaker 1>was like I'm with her, book them up, Like that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I would do. I'd be super stoked if you were,

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<v Speaker 1>because lacrosse is is a crazy intense sport.

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<v Speaker 3>It is it is, and you know it just it

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<v Speaker 3>was a great, great, great weekend. Can't say as much

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<v Speaker 3>about Utica New York though. Oh yeah, it's just like

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<v Speaker 3>a very uh does the rust belt mean anything to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of sort of like it just like there.

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<v Speaker 3>Wasn't a lot going on, yeah, Utica, okay, and the

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<v Speaker 3>things that were going on in Utica made you kind

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<v Speaker 3>of look twice and walk a little bit faster.

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<v Speaker 2>Not too.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, depress any of our Utica listeners. But really,

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<v Speaker 1>the only thing I know about Utica New York is

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<v Speaker 1>things I've learned from the office.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's what we were kind of thinking too.

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<v Speaker 3>And don't get like there were some cool spots in Utica, sure,

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<v Speaker 3>but then there were also some m Every town.

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<v Speaker 2>Has has got them walk a little faster. Yeah at

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<v Speaker 2>certain point, don't wait for the whole red light. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>what a weekend. Yeah, what a weekend. What a weekend

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<v Speaker 2>it was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was so much fun, and I I can see

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<v Speaker 3>I want to like, I want to do it again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I want to see an intense championship lax game

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<v Speaker 1>with Yimmy, you and the stands in the luteal phase.

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<v Speaker 2>And I want to film. No one wants to see it.

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<v Speaker 2>No one wants to see it. I do.

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<v Speaker 3>And his best friend also met us there because his

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<v Speaker 3>best friend lives in that's right in Brooklyn, and he

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<v Speaker 3>did end up getting his own room, so he did

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<v Speaker 3>not stay with it, okay, which I was like kind

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<v Speaker 3>of taking that a little bit personally because I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>he doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to have sleepomers what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>But then I realized, like, oh no, the only rooms

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<v Speaker 3>that this hotel has left are uh like queen singles,

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<v Speaker 3>So there would not have.

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<v Speaker 2>Been Yeah, there would not It wouldn't have worked.

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<v Speaker 1>But even we're not in anymore, yeah, trying to save money,

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<v Speaker 1>like we kind of made it work.

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<v Speaker 2>But even his best friend was like, she is very

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<v Speaker 2>invested in in this game, and like very invested in

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<v Speaker 2>like watching you, and she got a little intense total compliment.

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<v Speaker 2>Are we bad people? I would take it as a

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<v Speaker 2>total compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'd be like, wait until you can see the

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<v Speaker 1>tapestry of profanity I can weave in an athletic event.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But it was like it was so many things that

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<v Speaker 3>I was taking in and like I am a I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted it all because I you know, it's just like

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<v Speaker 3>to see your person in like different environments. So it

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<v Speaker 3>was fun to see Jimmy in like a competitive sector

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<v Speaker 3>but like so cool. But then like his best friend

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<v Speaker 3>was there and like getting to see them together, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, this is like very cute because they have

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<v Speaker 3>been best friends since they were like very little, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's just a different kind of friendship. And there are

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of things that make sense to meet Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's always great, isn't it to get a glimpse

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<v Speaker 1>through childhood best friend eyes?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he was super cool and I was a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit nervous about meeting him because I like, this person

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<v Speaker 3>is like very important to Jimmy, So I was like

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<v Speaker 3>I want to make a good impression, and like Jimmy's

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<v Speaker 3>worried about performing well in sports. I'm worried about performing

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<v Speaker 3>well socially. But then he was like super chill and

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<v Speaker 3>super cool and we.

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<v Speaker 2>Got along great.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're very much giving me like Tay

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<v Speaker 1>and Travis vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm saying it. I'm saying it, oh man. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so that was a nice shiny bright spot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I married the guy who played football. But we

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<v Speaker 1>go to the high school games early to watch the band.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I love that. That's okay too.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that he's great. Yeah, he was a percussionist.

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<v Speaker 1>I know who I'm married.

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<v Speaker 2>Drummer.

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<v Speaker 1>He's I think he was the symbols symbols.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh does he still have them? No? No, I think

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<v Speaker 2>we're okay with that. Well, he could pass him down.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. He's he's lucky he found me. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>See, this is like, this is very similar to like

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<v Speaker 3>Yimmy and I as well, because when Yimmy thinks about kids,

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<v Speaker 3>he thinks about like taking them to their sports and

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<v Speaker 3>like teaching them how to play lacrosse and like teaching

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<v Speaker 3>them how to play golf. And I'm like, I hope

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<v Speaker 3>we have a drama kid.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm yes, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>And he's like you would and you'd be in the

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<v Speaker 3>front row and you'd be the loudest one.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, yeah, I would.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris is really good, like he still loves football, like

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<v Speaker 1>he's been teaching well all about it. But I'm over here, like,

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<v Speaker 1>have you heard of my fair lady? You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to create beautiful humans that are just gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be weird and wonderful just like us, and to fly

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<v Speaker 1>their freak flag.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's the best kind. There's the mantra.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the best kind. It'll be a little bit of

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<v Speaker 3>you and a little bit of Chris, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>and a lot of freak and a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I love this. I love it so much. But

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<v Speaker 2>how is flag football going? It's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>He I think he likes it. I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>his thing. I don't know if he'll do it. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>we've done three like seasons now, and he's just such

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<v Speaker 1>a kind kid. He just has a hard time taking

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<v Speaker 1>things from people. Yeah, so he still struggles, like to

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<v Speaker 1>pull a flag or you know, he likes dancing with them.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, so I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's fine, It's we didn't he didn't come from

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<v Speaker 1>super overly athletic parents. I mean, like I was actually

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<v Speaker 1>super super freaking good at softball, but like it's a

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<v Speaker 1>it'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want him to meet friends and be good.

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<v Speaker 1>And if I don't have to sit on the sidelines

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<v Speaker 1>and watch my kid not really care about a sport,

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<v Speaker 1>which it turns out I'm not patient enough to do

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<v Speaker 1>very well, that might be best case for everyone. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll start other things, maybe soccer.

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<v Speaker 2>He took the.

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<v Speaker 1>Lax camp, loved that, he really liked his lacrosse camp,

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<v Speaker 1>so we might give that a try in the spring.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm just I'm very competitive, and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>i'm a very very poor parent when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>like just go out there and have fun, right Like,

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<v Speaker 1>but even though they're not keeping score, I am just.

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<v Speaker 3>Just wait because I feel like Sophia will be Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like she'll have that m edge.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been showing her a lot of Ilona mar content lately. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>breaking Sports illustrated swimsuit cover.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's what we want to see.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I think my boy will be so kind

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<v Speaker 1>and wonderful and probably find maybe a little sport he enjoys.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Sophia is going to need to bowl people over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's gonna contact ones she don't want.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, yeah, I had a female linebacker in high school. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we did varsity and she killed people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or so.

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<v Speaker 3>I could also see Sophia like just like being like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what, I'm not gonna play.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just gonna coach. I'm just gonna I'm just gonna coach.

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<v Speaker 2>She does that to my parenting too,