WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.439 --> 00:00:06.040 All right, the Menendez brothers are topping the pop culture charts? 2 00:00:06.360 --> 00:00:08.679 Are they sociopath victims? 3 00:00:08.679 --> 00:00:10.480 Are both? And doesn't really matter. 4 00:00:11.080 --> 00:00:15.320 Also, the reaction to my medical anxiety segment yesterday proves 5 00:00:15.720 --> 00:00:17.559 why as a country we have a lot of way 6 00:00:17.600 --> 00:00:24.359 to go uncensored, unfiltered, un hinged. It's the Cuell Cast. 7 00:00:24.719 --> 00:00:26.960 Listen daily on your favorite streaming service. 8 00:00:32.799 --> 00:00:35.240 It is the cREL Cast. Excuse me, this curl Cast. 9 00:00:35.240 --> 00:00:39.679 I am Correl Happy Wednesday, September twenty fifth. So sorry 10 00:00:39.679 --> 00:00:42.320 I got the burpies, but so glad you are joining me. 11 00:00:43.000 --> 00:00:44.439 We've got a lot to talk about today in this 12 00:00:44.719 --> 00:00:47.439 whirlwind half hour of a show. I'd like to thank 13 00:00:47.479 --> 00:00:51.039 all the patrons at Patreon, Patreon dot com, forward slash 14 00:00:51.079 --> 00:00:52.399 really Carrel, you know who you are. 15 00:00:52.479 --> 00:00:54.000 Without you, the show would not exist. 16 00:00:54.520 --> 00:00:57.840 And if you're watching on YouTube, at YouTube dot com, 17 00:00:57.840 --> 00:01:00.840 forward slash really Carrell, there isn't fact to chat room 18 00:01:00.880 --> 00:01:05.319 there where you can chat. We've got a lot to 19 00:01:05.319 --> 00:01:07.079 talk about, but I just saw this weird story out 20 00:01:07.079 --> 00:01:11.319 of San Francisco Chronicle. This kid was taken seventy years 21 00:01:11.319 --> 00:01:14.120 ago when he was like four or five years old, 22 00:01:14.439 --> 00:01:20.319 from San Francisco, and because of Ancestry DNA. They just 23 00:01:20.439 --> 00:01:25.079 found him on the East coast, alive, and they brought 24 00:01:25.159 --> 00:01:29.760 him back to meet with his living family members, and 25 00:01:30.040 --> 00:01:32.640 oh my god, I mean, what a story, what a 26 00:01:33.879 --> 00:01:36.879 just what a story. He found out about a whole 27 00:01:36.920 --> 00:01:39.439 family that he had never known about. And you know, 28 00:01:39.480 --> 00:01:41.480 he said he remembered a little bit of the abduction, 29 00:01:41.599 --> 00:01:43.879 but anytime he brought it up, the family just glossed 30 00:01:43.959 --> 00:01:47.239 over it and said he was misremembering or you know whatever. 31 00:01:47.319 --> 00:01:49.799 This story right out of one of the cop shows 32 00:01:49.840 --> 00:01:53.959 on TV Law and Order or something. But seventy years later, 33 00:01:54.560 --> 00:01:58.120 reunited with his family, which never give up Hope, I 34 00:01:58.120 --> 00:02:01.359 guess is the motto there. It's a shame the parents. 35 00:02:01.400 --> 00:02:03.359 I don't think the parents were alive to see it, 36 00:02:04.040 --> 00:02:07.280 but his siblings are. And wow, I mean, that's just 37 00:02:07.400 --> 00:02:10.360 that's one of those stories we just go what seventy 38 00:02:10.479 --> 00:02:12.960 years after he was taken, they found him thanks to 39 00:02:13.039 --> 00:02:16.479 Ancestry DNA, which, by the way, Ancestry is being bought 40 00:02:16.479 --> 00:02:18.919 by a big mega corporation for like four point two 41 00:02:18.960 --> 00:02:22.400 billion dollars, So this big mega corporation will have all 42 00:02:22.439 --> 00:02:23.319 of our information. 43 00:02:23.520 --> 00:02:24.560 Now I'm not. 44 00:02:24.680 --> 00:02:29.039 Overly worried about that because you know our DNA is 45 00:02:29.080 --> 00:02:30.840 out there. You know, you throw something, you take a 46 00:02:30.919 --> 00:02:32.479 drink at something and throw it in the trash can, 47 00:02:32.599 --> 00:02:33.199 someone could. 48 00:02:33.080 --> 00:02:33.759 Get your DNA. 49 00:02:34.400 --> 00:02:38.439 So I'm not overly worried, but you know, big corporations 50 00:02:38.479 --> 00:02:40.599 having your DNA, God knows what they're going to do 51 00:02:40.639 --> 00:02:44.039 with it, all right, speaking of DNA, DNA can be 52 00:02:44.120 --> 00:02:47.199 used as evidence. Evidence can be used at trial. And 53 00:02:47.439 --> 00:02:51.560 the trial that happened during the early nineties, the first 54 00:02:51.599 --> 00:02:55.800 trial that was covered Gavel to Gavel by Court TV 55 00:02:56.360 --> 00:03:00.719 and really put court TV on the map. The Men Brothers, 56 00:03:01.879 --> 00:03:07.439 their fictionalized story by Ryan Murphy, is number one on 57 00:03:07.520 --> 00:03:12.919 Netflix all over the world, not just Netflix United States, Netflix. 58 00:03:12.439 --> 00:03:13.479 All over the world. 59 00:03:13.680 --> 00:03:15.639 And we talked a little bit about this at the 60 00:03:15.680 --> 00:03:17.879 end of the show yesterday, but I want to talk 61 00:03:17.919 --> 00:03:22.520 a little more because you know, there comes a question 62 00:03:22.800 --> 00:03:25.439 in every trial and you one day might be forced 63 00:03:25.479 --> 00:03:29.879 to forced lucky enough to be on a jury where 64 00:03:29.919 --> 00:03:36.159 you're forced to consider this very notion. If someone is abused, 65 00:03:37.159 --> 00:03:40.879 and if they are abused badly sexually or beaten, or 66 00:03:41.120 --> 00:03:44.520 you know, just terrible abuse and they strike back at 67 00:03:44.520 --> 00:03:48.520 their abuser, is that self defense? 68 00:03:49.919 --> 00:03:50.319 Now? 69 00:03:50.560 --> 00:03:54.479 The Menendez brothers claim, and it is now backed up. 70 00:03:54.560 --> 00:03:57.680 They did tell other family members at the time that 71 00:03:57.759 --> 00:04:03.520 their father was molesting them, and you know, they've claimed 72 00:04:03.560 --> 00:04:07.000 it all along Minudo. Now a couple members of Minudo 73 00:04:07.120 --> 00:04:10.080 have come forward and said that Jose Menendez was inappropriate 74 00:04:10.120 --> 00:04:13.840 with them. We know for a fact everyone knew that 75 00:04:13.919 --> 00:04:18.759 he showered with his boys after the tennis tournaments, so 76 00:04:19.000 --> 00:04:23.720 certainly questionable be questionable public behavior on the part of 77 00:04:23.720 --> 00:04:25.680 the father. My father never showered with me. 78 00:04:27.319 --> 00:04:28.759 So the question. 79 00:04:28.639 --> 00:04:34.000 Becomes, if you are being abused, does this lashing out, 80 00:04:34.160 --> 00:04:36.879 this snapping. 81 00:04:37.519 --> 00:04:40.240 You know, warrant what you've done. 82 00:04:41.160 --> 00:04:44.639 Should you get a lighter sentence because you are in 83 00:04:44.680 --> 00:04:48.680 fact a victim. Now we know many killers that have 84 00:04:48.759 --> 00:04:53.800 been painted victims and gotten lighter sentences for doing horrible crimes, 85 00:04:54.480 --> 00:04:57.040 and it doesn't make the family happy when that happens. 86 00:04:57.920 --> 00:04:59.680 Is that justice? 87 00:05:00.160 --> 00:05:03.920 I don't know, because if it were my family member, 88 00:05:04.600 --> 00:05:07.399 I certainly would want the book thrown at whomever it 89 00:05:07.480 --> 00:05:13.759 might be. So with the Menendez brothers, the allegations are 90 00:05:13.879 --> 00:05:16.319 that the father had been molesting them since they were 91 00:05:16.360 --> 00:05:20.240 each five or six years old, and when the older 92 00:05:20.279 --> 00:05:23.720 one said enough, he started doing it. To the younger one, 93 00:05:24.160 --> 00:05:26.279 and he kept doing it to the younger one until 94 00:05:26.279 --> 00:05:30.160 the younger one was seventeen years old. You may wonder 95 00:05:30.199 --> 00:05:33.959 why the younger one didn't escape, why he didn't run away. 96 00:05:34.199 --> 00:05:36.800 He says he did try to run away, and that 97 00:05:36.879 --> 00:05:40.439 the parents or family always came and got him. You 98 00:05:40.519 --> 00:05:44.000 may wonder why they didn't report it to authorities. And 99 00:05:44.040 --> 00:05:47.120 this is where I think it goes into what I 100 00:05:47.160 --> 00:05:52.160 was talking about yesterday about mental illness. I think a 101 00:05:52.199 --> 00:05:58.319 lot of us have been in abusive situations sexually, verbally, physically. 102 00:05:59.360 --> 00:06:03.399 Most of us got out of those situations without killing 103 00:06:03.680 --> 00:06:07.839 our abuser. Now, if your abuser is attacking you, like 104 00:06:07.959 --> 00:06:11.720 at that moment, and it is true self defense because 105 00:06:11.759 --> 00:06:14.639 they're beating you or they're trying to rape you and 106 00:06:14.759 --> 00:06:19.439 you harm them, that's one thing. But just walking in 107 00:06:19.439 --> 00:06:22.600 a room where the abuser is sitting, or many times 108 00:06:22.639 --> 00:06:25.959 with some women, they've killed their husbands while their husbands 109 00:06:25.959 --> 00:06:31.120 were asleep because their husbands were these horrible abusers, and 110 00:06:31.319 --> 00:06:33.839 the view has been, well, they got what they deserved. 111 00:06:35.040 --> 00:06:38.879 But is there ever really a reason to kill someone 112 00:06:39.040 --> 00:06:43.959 that is not actively posing a threat to you? For instance, 113 00:06:44.079 --> 00:06:46.600 if they're sleeping but you know when they wake up, 114 00:06:46.639 --> 00:06:49.439 they're going to pose a threat to you. Is it 115 00:06:49.480 --> 00:06:53.959 then okay to kill them in their sleep? And I've 116 00:06:54.000 --> 00:06:57.360 been torn about this my whole life because I've seen 117 00:06:57.399 --> 00:06:59.480 these shows where these women get abused, and I think 118 00:06:59.519 --> 00:07:02.600 to myself, Yeah, you'd do that once and then the 119 00:07:02.639 --> 00:07:05.279 minute you went to sleep, you would not wake up. 120 00:07:06.079 --> 00:07:10.240 But would I really do that or would I just leave? 121 00:07:11.279 --> 00:07:14.360 And I know that psychologically again, these people feel like 122 00:07:14.399 --> 00:07:17.959 they cannot leave, like they're trapped. But that becomes a 123 00:07:18.120 --> 00:07:25.360 mental illness. So are the Menendez brothers mentally ill? I mean, 124 00:07:25.439 --> 00:07:29.040 you don't pick up two shotguns, go unload them into 125 00:07:29.079 --> 00:07:33.199 your parents in the most beute, brutal of ways, reload, 126 00:07:33.360 --> 00:07:36.600 walk back in and make sure the mothers did Sane 127 00:07:36.680 --> 00:07:41.920 people don't do that, no matter how far they're pushed. 128 00:07:42.800 --> 00:07:47.360 Sane people don't do that. Those boys were old enough 129 00:07:47.399 --> 00:07:52.079 to get in their cars and just keep driving to 130 00:07:52.199 --> 00:07:55.560 never come back. They were eighteen and twenty three when 131 00:07:55.560 --> 00:07:58.519 the murders happened. Are eighteen and twenty one, so they 132 00:07:58.519 --> 00:08:00.319 were old enough to go out on their own. They 133 00:08:00.319 --> 00:08:02.959 should have been out on their own. They shouldn't have 134 00:08:03.199 --> 00:08:08.920 been living at home. So where does mental illness come 135 00:08:08.959 --> 00:08:11.839 in to the Menendez brothers, And no one's really brought 136 00:08:11.879 --> 00:08:15.839 that up. That did the abuse damage them mentally? Well, 137 00:08:15.839 --> 00:08:19.720 of course it damaged them mentally, of course it did. 138 00:08:21.079 --> 00:08:23.680 And this is what I was talking about yesterday, how 139 00:08:23.720 --> 00:08:27.240 we don't deal with mental illness in real ways. After 140 00:08:27.279 --> 00:08:30.079 I did my show yesterday about medical anxiety and how 141 00:08:30.079 --> 00:08:34.720 I have it, there are several commenters at YouTube dot 142 00:08:34.720 --> 00:08:37.799 com forward slash Ley Carrell that said, Oh, just go 143 00:08:37.879 --> 00:08:40.799 take a walk or or go see a chiropractor and 144 00:08:41.120 --> 00:08:43.399 have you know, have your aches and pains you know, 145 00:08:43.480 --> 00:08:46.679 worked out, or you know, basically, just get over it, 146 00:08:48.200 --> 00:08:50.320 just like Trump said about school shootings. 147 00:08:50.759 --> 00:08:53.639 Just get over it. And that is the. 148 00:08:53.559 --> 00:08:57.279 Attitude a lot of people have about mental illness. For instance, 149 00:08:57.320 --> 00:09:00.639 with the Menendez brothers, Why couldn't they just get over 150 00:09:00.679 --> 00:09:04.639 the abuse and leave, you know, why couldn't they put 151 00:09:04.679 --> 00:09:08.480 all of their fear and anxiety hatred? Why couldn't they 152 00:09:08.480 --> 00:09:13.519 put that all aside and just go? For me, that's 153 00:09:13.559 --> 00:09:17.720 where mental illness steps in for me, that's where the 154 00:09:17.799 --> 00:09:23.440 brain isn't processing everything it should be properly. I know 155 00:09:23.720 --> 00:09:27.320 for me that my brain learned at an early age 156 00:09:27.360 --> 00:09:30.919 with two handicapped parents that were always going to the doctors, 157 00:09:31.639 --> 00:09:36.240 that health is fragile. Then once I turned eighteen, aids 158 00:09:36.519 --> 00:09:40.200 was everywhere. And you know, is that a cough or 159 00:09:40.240 --> 00:09:43.279 is it pneumosisitus pneumonia? Is it a spot or is 160 00:09:43.320 --> 00:09:47.759 it kapasi sarcoma? Is it normal vision changes or is 161 00:09:47.799 --> 00:09:52.200 it psychomegalavirus CMV. I could go down the list of 162 00:09:52.240 --> 00:09:58.639 every opportunistic confection. Anytime Andrew got bronchitis, was it bronchitis 163 00:09:58.799 --> 00:10:03.759 or was it you know, pneumo sistus, pneumonia. And so 164 00:10:04.279 --> 00:10:08.000 with my parents and my husband and a majority of 165 00:10:08.039 --> 00:10:12.759 my friends, we were always on medical alert because it 166 00:10:12.879 --> 00:10:16.000 never was anything that was just that was gonna go away, 167 00:10:17.519 --> 00:10:19.919 you know. This morning, so I went to the neurologist 168 00:10:20.000 --> 00:10:22.000 for the follow up, but I also went because I 169 00:10:22.039 --> 00:10:23.600 was having this pain right here that I told you 170 00:10:23.639 --> 00:10:24.080 all about. 171 00:10:24.279 --> 00:10:25.320 This morning. I woke up. 172 00:10:25.360 --> 00:10:28.879 It's completely gone. It was there last night, It's been 173 00:10:28.919 --> 00:10:32.360 there for three weeks. If I press, it's completely gone. 174 00:10:32.639 --> 00:10:35.720 If I raise my eyebrows, it's completely gone. Now may 175 00:10:35.759 --> 00:10:37.600 come back. I don't know. We still don't know what 176 00:10:37.720 --> 00:10:41.200 caused it. They think post herpadic neurologia from the shingles. 177 00:10:41.519 --> 00:10:45.440 But it's gone, so I wouldn't have even gone to 178 00:10:45.480 --> 00:10:50.559 the neurologists for that. Uh. But where does your mind 179 00:10:51.360 --> 00:10:56.120 draw its lines? And that's different for everybody. You know 180 00:10:56.279 --> 00:10:59.159 my brain because it's been trained since I was a 181 00:10:59.200 --> 00:11:01.559 little kid. I've I grew up in emergency rooms. I 182 00:11:01.639 --> 00:11:04.919 literally did I ate more hospital food than I did 183 00:11:04.960 --> 00:11:08.759 cooking at home. Both my parents were handicapped. Both my 184 00:11:08.840 --> 00:11:12.600 parents were disabled. Both my parents had a myriad My 185 00:11:12.720 --> 00:11:16.120 mother had fifty eight operations in her lifetime. She was 186 00:11:16.200 --> 00:11:18.799 medically blind for a while with cataracts until they did 187 00:11:18.799 --> 00:11:22.840 that surgery. She had both knees replaced. My dad had 188 00:11:22.840 --> 00:11:26.120 electrolyte and balances in the hospital every three or four months. 189 00:11:26.279 --> 00:11:30.039 He had angina, he had alternative colitis, he had Crohn's disease. 190 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:36.679 So I was no stranger to doctors. And then at eighteen, 191 00:11:37.159 --> 00:11:40.679 all of you know my community, right as I'm coming 192 00:11:40.679 --> 00:11:44.559 out eighteen nineteen twenty twenty one, suddenly AIDS is everywhere. 193 00:11:46.039 --> 00:11:50.080 So my brain there's no middle ground for medical problems. 194 00:11:50.679 --> 00:11:54.039 There's no oh, just let it go, it'll get better, 195 00:11:54.320 --> 00:11:57.840 or just wait and see. Because with my parents, or 196 00:11:57.840 --> 00:12:00.639 with all of my friends or my late husband, if 197 00:12:00.679 --> 00:12:04.519 you waited and saw that could spell the difference between 198 00:12:04.600 --> 00:12:10.120 life and death. And literally with my friends and my husband, 199 00:12:10.519 --> 00:12:12.720 it was always down to life or death. It was 200 00:12:12.799 --> 00:12:15.919 never just some casual trip to the doctor. We didn't 201 00:12:15.960 --> 00:12:18.320 know if they'd be coming back. My parents or Andrew, 202 00:12:18.519 --> 00:12:20.799 I never knew every time they went in the hospital, 203 00:12:20.840 --> 00:12:24.759 never knew if they were coming back. So my brain 204 00:12:25.720 --> 00:12:29.559 has stayed on that high alert and just focused on 205 00:12:29.679 --> 00:12:34.759 me and Ember and getting over it. Come on, fifty 206 00:12:34.919 --> 00:12:38.679 years of that kind of training, my brain's never gonna 207 00:12:38.679 --> 00:12:42.080 get right. With the Menendez brothers, they were being molested 208 00:12:42.159 --> 00:12:46.480 since six years old, so for the youngest, he was 209 00:12:46.519 --> 00:12:49.799 being molested for twelve years. As they said in the 210 00:12:49.879 --> 00:12:53.639 series on Netflix, it's not normal to not remember how 211 00:12:53.720 --> 00:12:56.840 soon your father started having sex with you and never 212 00:12:56.919 --> 00:13:00.840 remembering a time where your father wasn't having sex with you. 213 00:13:01.240 --> 00:13:07.919 That's just not normal. So are they mentally ill? 214 00:13:08.000 --> 00:13:12.559 Should the courts have treated them differently because of all 215 00:13:12.639 --> 00:13:17.360 the abuse. The second trial, which was not hung jury 216 00:13:17.399 --> 00:13:20.600 the first one was the second trial. The judge did 217 00:13:20.600 --> 00:13:23.559 not allow all that evidence in and the jury couldn't 218 00:13:23.559 --> 00:13:28.519 be swayed by it. But America and the world is 219 00:13:28.679 --> 00:13:32.759 enraptured with their story, and it's still split down the middle. 220 00:13:33.240 --> 00:13:35.960 Half the people think their parents got what they deserved, 221 00:13:36.759 --> 00:13:40.879 the mother for ignoring it. There's been some allegations against 222 00:13:40.919 --> 00:13:45.440 the mother and the father because he beat them, was 223 00:13:45.519 --> 00:13:50.480 mean to them, and because he sexually molested them. Where 224 00:13:50.519 --> 00:13:54.279 do you stand on this? In your mind's eye? Does 225 00:13:54.360 --> 00:14:00.879 their abuse justify murder? Because in my mind, you have 226 00:14:00.960 --> 00:14:04.399 to be mentally ill, and what I say by mentally ill, 227 00:14:04.759 --> 00:14:06.919 it might be a temporary thing. You might just be 228 00:14:07.000 --> 00:14:12.360 crazy for that moment, But sane people do not murder 229 00:14:12.440 --> 00:14:17.720 people unless those people are directly attacking them at that moment. 230 00:14:18.879 --> 00:14:20.919 Like this morning, I was crossing the street. A guy 231 00:14:21.000 --> 00:14:23.360 nearly ran me over, so yeah, I flipped him off. 232 00:14:23.600 --> 00:14:27.320 He literally nearly hit me, and I was legally crossing 233 00:14:27.360 --> 00:14:31.000 on a crosswalk. He was way far back. He sped 234 00:14:31.080 --> 00:14:34.440 his sports car up and nearly hit me. I flipped 235 00:14:34.480 --> 00:14:38.200 him off. He turned around, rolled down his window, came 236 00:14:38.279 --> 00:14:40.039 screaming at me and Emberg telling us he was going 237 00:14:40.120 --> 00:14:42.679 to smack the shit out of us and everything. Should 238 00:14:42.679 --> 00:14:44.759 I have taken out my tempers? Sprangers braided him in 239 00:14:44.759 --> 00:14:47.919 the Satan, I. 240 00:14:47.919 --> 00:14:49.120 Mean, you know, provoked. 241 00:14:50.720 --> 00:14:53.120 We'll talk more about this and Jack Sacksan and so 242 00:14:53.200 --> 00:14:54.480 much more when we come back. 243 00:14:54.759 --> 00:14:56.600 Don't go anywhere on this humph day. 244 00:14:56.879 --> 00:14:58.720 Krell here, and I'd like to take a moment to 245 00:14:58.720 --> 00:15:01.840 thank all the patrons had Patreon. Your support means the 246 00:15:01.879 --> 00:15:04.679 absolute world to me and the show. If you'd like 247 00:15:04.720 --> 00:15:06.879 to show your support for the crazy endeavors of the 248 00:15:06.960 --> 00:15:10.200 Corell Cast, then please go to Patreon dot com forward 249 00:15:10.279 --> 00:15:14.639 slash Really Corel. 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The Theories could have been a 270 00:16:21.000 --> 00:16:23.799 ninety minute movie if they'd taken out all the lurid details. 271 00:16:23.799 --> 00:16:28.799 They spend hours of the show detailing every object that 272 00:16:29.000 --> 00:16:32.440 was ever stuck in these two and even I got 273 00:16:32.440 --> 00:16:34.799 tired of it. I'm like Ryan Murphy, come on, you know, 274 00:16:34.879 --> 00:16:37.159 it's like I don't need to hear this fifty times. 275 00:16:37.200 --> 00:16:39.639 We get it. They were abused sexually. We understand what 276 00:16:39.639 --> 00:16:40.200 that means. 277 00:16:40.600 --> 00:16:43.200 We don't need to hear about you know, the toothbrush 278 00:16:43.200 --> 00:16:46.120 that went up there, and the keys, and there's Jimmy Hoffa. 279 00:16:46.440 --> 00:16:48.480 I mean, you know, it was just it was quite 280 00:16:48.519 --> 00:16:48.799 a bit. 281 00:16:49.279 --> 00:16:51.799 And do I think they were sleeping together the brothers, No, 282 00:16:51.960 --> 00:16:55.799 that's I think completely fictional. When they were adults, I 283 00:16:55.840 --> 00:16:58.799 think that's completely fictional. And the brothers have said that's 284 00:16:58.879 --> 00:17:03.600 completely fictional. But again, it goes back to were they 285 00:17:03.639 --> 00:17:09.519 mentally ill? And does it excuse what they did to me? 286 00:17:10.640 --> 00:17:16.000 And I just am gonna say this out loud. No, No, 287 00:17:17.240 --> 00:17:18.640 they should have gone to jail. 288 00:17:19.559 --> 00:17:19.920 Now. 289 00:17:20.359 --> 00:17:23.240 Would I have put them in jail for life without 290 00:17:23.279 --> 00:17:28.640 the possibility of parole, No, I wouldn't have anything over 291 00:17:28.880 --> 00:17:31.799 twenty thirty years would have been fine because they were 292 00:17:32.119 --> 00:17:36.880 abused and they were in a terrible situation. That didn't 293 00:17:36.880 --> 00:17:38.559 give them the right to go in there with a 294 00:17:38.559 --> 00:17:44.039 shotgun and blow these people away. But once that happened, 295 00:17:44.559 --> 00:17:48.559 they should have gotten some leniency, not a lot, but 296 00:17:48.880 --> 00:17:54.839 some leniency, you know, thirty years, you know something, but 297 00:17:55.079 --> 00:18:01.960 just not life without parole. That that seems extreme for them. Again, 298 00:18:02.200 --> 00:18:06.160 there are people who commit horrific crimes. I watch all 299 00:18:06.200 --> 00:18:10.440 these murder shows, I mean real life murder shows, and 300 00:18:10.599 --> 00:18:12.559 some of these people they go to jail for seven 301 00:18:12.599 --> 00:18:15.920 to twelve years, and then they're out and they viciously 302 00:18:16.000 --> 00:18:19.759 murdered someone that was not abusing them, raped and murdered 303 00:18:20.599 --> 00:18:23.799 twenty years. They get sentenced to like a twenty year 304 00:18:23.839 --> 00:18:27.559 sentence and they're out in twelve. And so it is 305 00:18:27.640 --> 00:18:31.839 not unheard of for murderers to get out of jail, 306 00:18:32.079 --> 00:18:35.640 you know at some point. Now, whether you agree with 307 00:18:35.680 --> 00:18:37.799 that or not, you know, it's up to you. But 308 00:18:38.000 --> 00:18:41.039 it is not unheard of for murderers to get out 309 00:18:41.039 --> 00:18:43.599 of jail in ten years, twenty years, thirty years. They've 310 00:18:43.599 --> 00:18:49.920 been in jail basically twenty four thirty years. I think 311 00:18:49.960 --> 00:18:53.640 they've served their time. I do, but that's just me. 312 00:18:54.039 --> 00:18:56.359 I'd love to hear your comments down below, because I 313 00:18:56.400 --> 00:19:01.839 do think abuse buys you a little leniency, little not 314 00:19:01.920 --> 00:19:04.920 an acquittal, not a oh, they should just be able 315 00:19:04.960 --> 00:19:07.960 to walk free. No, you committed murder, and you you're 316 00:19:08.000 --> 00:19:11.240 a saying if you're adjudicated as sane, a sane person 317 00:19:11.240 --> 00:19:15.480 should know that murder is not the answer. But if 318 00:19:15.519 --> 00:19:18.119 you murdered a person because they were beating you daily, 319 00:19:18.839 --> 00:19:21.519 because you felt you were trapped and could never escape them, 320 00:19:21.920 --> 00:19:24.400 because you've tried to escape them and they found you, 321 00:19:25.079 --> 00:19:27.400 and you finally just do them in because you know 322 00:19:27.440 --> 00:19:30.039 they've tracked you everywhere. And you know these women who 323 00:19:30.480 --> 00:19:32.920 escape the abuse of husbands and then they're found again, 324 00:19:33.279 --> 00:19:35.440 and then the abuse starts again, and then they move 325 00:19:35.480 --> 00:19:41.599 again and then they're found again. Okay, leniency there, Yeah, 326 00:19:41.799 --> 00:19:46.839 So I do believe that abuse should grant some leniency, 327 00:19:46.880 --> 00:19:50.640 but it should not exonerate you from the crime. And 328 00:19:50.680 --> 00:19:53.920 the same with mental illness. Now, if you're just totally backcraped, 329 00:19:53.920 --> 00:19:57.039 crazy that you go to an institution, if you're just 330 00:19:57.119 --> 00:20:00.880 mentally ill at that moment, again, that should cut you 331 00:20:01.000 --> 00:20:05.519 some slack, but not exonerate you. And about my segment 332 00:20:05.599 --> 00:20:11.759 yesterday about mental illness, and I have one. I think 333 00:20:11.799 --> 00:20:15.720 it's terrible that in this nation we will look at 334 00:20:15.720 --> 00:20:19.160 someone that's depressed and say, well, just get better, just 335 00:20:19.200 --> 00:20:23.920 get happier, go for a walk, change your diet. Depression 336 00:20:24.440 --> 00:20:29.599 is real, it's a real illness, just like COVID. Anxiety 337 00:20:29.960 --> 00:20:35.119 is real. It is a real debilitating illness, just like cancer. 338 00:20:35.880 --> 00:20:38.039 And you wouldn't look at a cancer patient and say, well, 339 00:20:38.079 --> 00:20:41.960 just get rid of the cancer, you know. So telling 340 00:20:42.079 --> 00:20:47.720 someone that has medical anxiety or depression or anxiety over 341 00:20:47.799 --> 00:20:50.960 other things and it's real, and it's affecting their life 342 00:20:51.279 --> 00:20:54.200 and it's affecting them, telling them to just get over 343 00:20:54.279 --> 00:20:56.920 it or to get happy, or that they have no 344 00:20:57.039 --> 00:21:00.559 reason to feel that way, that is not the tact 345 00:21:00.599 --> 00:21:05.039 that you should take. Not only does it show zero empathy, 346 00:21:05.759 --> 00:21:09.759 but it doesn't work. Fat person, wants to be better. 347 00:21:09.799 --> 00:21:12.359 A depressed person doesn't want to be depressed. 348 00:21:13.519 --> 00:21:13.720 You know. 349 00:21:13.759 --> 00:21:17.039 It's like I say about fat people because they're all 350 00:21:17.039 --> 00:21:17.960 this body exceptance. 351 00:21:18.039 --> 00:21:18.440 Bullshit. 352 00:21:19.319 --> 00:21:22.160 Fat people don't want to be fat, Okay, they don't 353 00:21:22.200 --> 00:21:24.160 want to. You think they want to be because they 354 00:21:24.200 --> 00:21:27.200 sit there and eat all that food and don't exercise, 355 00:21:27.279 --> 00:21:29.440 and you think they must want to be fat. No, 356 00:21:30.720 --> 00:21:35.240 fat people are riddled with anxiety. That's why they're fat. 357 00:21:36.160 --> 00:21:40.480 I don't care if who you know, and if they're obese, 358 00:21:40.559 --> 00:21:45.240 morbidly obese, over fifty two, one hundred pounds overweight, they 359 00:21:45.279 --> 00:21:49.119 have some sort of mental disorder going on. They're either 360 00:21:49.160 --> 00:21:54.880 depressed or they have anxiety or something because they are 361 00:21:54.960 --> 00:21:59.839 punishing themselves with the fat. The fat is comfort for them. 362 00:22:00.160 --> 00:22:04.759 The food is release and comfort for them. I know, 363 00:22:05.240 --> 00:22:08.039 I lost one hundred and ten pounds and I've got 364 00:22:08.079 --> 00:22:10.720 twenty five more to lose, and I will tell you 365 00:22:10.839 --> 00:22:13.079 right now that I don't want to be twenty five 366 00:22:13.079 --> 00:22:13.799 pounds overweight. 367 00:22:13.920 --> 00:22:16.559 I don't. I struggle with it every day. 368 00:22:17.119 --> 00:22:20.119 I follow a vegan diet, I do not splurge on 369 00:22:20.240 --> 00:22:23.440 sweets and cakes and pies anymore, and yet still the 370 00:22:23.480 --> 00:22:26.359 weight is falling off slowly. I've lost six pounds in 371 00:22:26.400 --> 00:22:30.920 three weeks. So I don't want to be this fat. 372 00:22:31.440 --> 00:22:33.039 I want to be thinner. I want to be down 373 00:22:33.079 --> 00:22:35.240 to about one eighty five one ninety That's where I 374 00:22:35.279 --> 00:22:38.480 want to be. And I am not happy at this weight. 375 00:22:39.440 --> 00:22:42.640 But I was really unhappy at three ten. And people 376 00:22:42.720 --> 00:22:47.920 who are morbidly obese are unhappy. They are even either 377 00:22:47.960 --> 00:22:54.000 their suffering depression, some sort of anxiety, body issues, maybe abuse, 378 00:22:54.640 --> 00:22:57.480 maybe this like Justin Bieber, I said this the other day. 379 00:22:57.839 --> 00:23:00.640 Justin Bieber looks like a hobo. He looks like a 380 00:23:00.680 --> 00:23:03.559 homeless person because of the abuse that happened at P. 381 00:23:03.680 --> 00:23:09.359 Ditty's parties. And I'll stand beside this. He was abused 382 00:23:09.400 --> 00:23:13.680 as a teen by Hollywood sexually. I remember MERV Griffin 383 00:23:13.759 --> 00:23:16.160 asking him questions about, oh, well are you dating? He's like, 384 00:23:16.160 --> 00:23:20.240 I'm twelve. They made him a sex symbol very early 385 00:23:20.319 --> 00:23:24.240 before he should have been dealing with sex. And then Diddy, 386 00:23:24.559 --> 00:23:27.920 god knows what he did to him, probably diddled him. 387 00:23:28.200 --> 00:23:33.359 And because of that past abuse, it has manifested. Justin 388 00:23:33.359 --> 00:23:37.079 Bieber is a gorgeous man, just drop dead gorgeous, like 389 00:23:37.119 --> 00:23:38.880 the one named Donnie that I met at the park 390 00:23:38.920 --> 00:23:41.319 this morning. Oh he was heterosexual, but he had cute 391 00:23:41.359 --> 00:23:44.319 dogs and so beautiful former Navy guy. Oh my god, 392 00:23:45.039 --> 00:23:47.039 Oh my heart was just beat and I spent twenty 393 00:23:47.079 --> 00:23:49.079 minutes was talking to him just because he was cute 394 00:23:49.279 --> 00:23:53.319 and interesting. Actually, but Justin Bieber can be gorgeous, but 395 00:23:53.359 --> 00:23:58.119 he's not. He uglies himself up because of feeling ugly 396 00:23:58.319 --> 00:24:02.240 on the inside, and he feels ugly on the inside 397 00:24:02.359 --> 00:24:06.359 because of the abuse. The same thing for fat people. 398 00:24:06.920 --> 00:24:09.079 Fat people don't feel attractive. 399 00:24:09.880 --> 00:24:10.160 Still. 400 00:24:10.240 --> 00:24:13.240 I have never felt attractive in my life, and that's 401 00:24:13.279 --> 00:24:19.880