Speaker 1: Wake wake yo, Hi everybody, good morning, good morning, good morning,
Speaker 1: good morning.
Speaker 2: What's going on?
Speaker 3: I almost called the police on the way.
Speaker 4: In my god, this one was like I almost had
Speaker 4: Like there was a car that was ahead of me
Speaker 4: that's driving like like erradically, So I was flashing him
Speaker 4: and trying to get up.
Speaker 2: No, why are you and why do you insert yourself?
Speaker 2: Because I just lined your own business? Get to work.
Speaker 3: What if they were drunk and like really drunk.
Speaker 2: Maybe they were, what do you look?
Speaker 3: I don't know, should be on the road driving around away?
Speaker 2: They shouldn't. But what are you gonna do.
Speaker 3: About the police in an emergency?
Speaker 2: Imagine he's like cruel deville, like flashing his lights behind
Speaker 2: this guy. I care about you.
Speaker 3: I've never understood people like that.
Speaker 4: Let us drive, bro, it was I don't think it
Speaker 4: was an emergency because they're driving all over the road
Speaker 4: like it was bad.
Speaker 2: Confirmed it was important like it was because the way
Speaker 2: you describe him driving in sounds a.
Speaker 4: Lot drives fast but like precision right, Like this person
Speaker 4: was erratic, like they were like on something like you know,
Speaker 4: h or something bad.
Speaker 2: You know, wow, you have them on heroin? You went
Speaker 2: right to that.
Speaker 3: I was like, do I need to call the polices?
Speaker 3: Getting crazy?
Speaker 4: But then they like like went far away and I
Speaker 4: couldn't find them. But then I had this thing in
Speaker 4: my soul where I need to see their face. I
Speaker 4: need to That's.
Speaker 3: What it was. That's what it was.
Speaker 5: You know, he got mad, he got caught off and
Speaker 5: beat and he's like, why are you open me?
Speaker 2: I have to see them right, No.
Speaker 3: We've all experienced that somebody cut us off.
Speaker 2: Don't know what I've experienced, the person driving erratically, maybe
Speaker 2: they're speeding or something, and joy when I see them
Speaker 2: pulled over a few miles down the road, like that's.
Speaker 6: Cool for me.
Speaker 2: But I'm never gonna flash my lights at somebody. I'm
Speaker 2: not going to follow them. No, I'm going somewhere.
Speaker 5: Imagine that an erratic driver getting chased by head.
Speaker 3: To the breakdown. I'm coming to. I need to get you.
Speaker 2: It's just you're so nosy, like.
Speaker 4: No, but I really thought, like today was a dangerous
Speaker 4: issue where I thought the person was going to hurt
Speaker 4: somebody else.
Speaker 3: So I was going to call, but I didn't.
Speaker 2: Though I know you just hadn't called in a while,
Speaker 2: and you get anxious about it.
Speaker 4: I didn't because I knew this conversation would be had
Speaker 4: and then you guys would get get on my case.
Speaker 6: But I would you literally call nine one yes, because.
Speaker 4: That's the only way, And what would you say that
Speaker 4: there's a car on Ruth three south on driving erratically
Speaker 4: and I would tell him like the the like the exit.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've done it before. I've done it before.
Speaker 6: Yeah, why do you like?
Speaker 3: Feels good? It really does.
Speaker 2: It wouldn't feel good to me. My hands would be
Speaker 2: shaking calling like yeah, even if it was for something
Speaker 2: like that, which I would never do.
Speaker 4: That happens like the first two times. But then after that,
Speaker 4: like we just settle in.
Speaker 2: And you're like, what does it matter anymore? It's coming
Speaker 2: from the guy who called nine one one and his
Speaker 2: ex girlfriend's.
Speaker 3: Party that one.
Speaker 4: Looking back, I know it was very embarrassing and and
Speaker 4: that that one was shameful because I'm like sad she
Speaker 4: was making out with another guy at a party right
Speaker 4: to my house.
Speaker 3: The police that's the only option I had to do
Speaker 3: to break up the party. Party got broken up, you know,
Speaker 3: and I feel like I won in the end. Success. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I want oh.
Speaker 5: One last night, I don't call police, just out here
Speaker 5: packing early. For the first time in my life ever
Speaker 5: have we.
Speaker 2: Said this on area where you're headed. This is so exciting.
Speaker 2: I don't think we have.
Speaker 5: The dominic Republic. I'm going to get my Spanish on
Speaker 5: out there. That may be my teeth white and oh
Speaker 5: yeah I might.
Speaker 6: I might do it, like your teeth are really white.
Speaker 5: They are, but I want them white though, and they
Speaker 5: have the cheap out. I want my sons to get
Speaker 5: it too. My youngest was like, why, why do I
Speaker 5: want to die in DR?
Speaker 2: I was like, what, They're not putting you under for that?
Speaker 3: No, No, And this is just bleaching of the teeth.
Speaker 3: You know, they put the little thing.
Speaker 5: I don't know if you've ever seen them, like they
Speaker 5: open up your gums and they put this bleach on
Speaker 5: your gums and then I mean, that's stuff on your
Speaker 5: gums and then they bleach your teeth out. But I
Speaker 5: got to drive like three hours away from when I'm Matt,
Speaker 5: so I'm kind of debating if I want to make
Speaker 5: a whole day out of it. Other than that, No,
Speaker 5: I'm just going with the DR.
Speaker 2: We all know I have the I have the tooth incident.
Speaker 2: So my two of my front teeth peg. Yeah, the peg,
Speaker 2: all right, so before you get the peg tooth, you know,
Speaker 2: you got to make sure everything's the same color. So
Speaker 2: they they did that. They and I'm kind of like you,
Speaker 2: like I already have fairly white teeth, no fuens on respectfully,
Speaker 2: no funds. So anyways, the next day I called my dentist.
Speaker 2: I was in so much pain, like I wanted to
Speaker 2: literally rip my gums out. I don't know if anybody,
Speaker 2: I guess the sensation would be if anybody's ever done
Speaker 2: cress white strips and it accidentally gets on your gum,
Speaker 2: because the some of the bleach got onto my gums,
Speaker 2: and my gums are sensitive, like just in general, I
Speaker 2: have sensitive gums.
Speaker 6: Like I actually almost wanted to go to the hospital.
Speaker 2: I called them, and I'm like, I want to take
Speaker 2: my hands and rip my gums out. That is how
Speaker 2: painful it was. And mouth pain sucks. Anyway, it was
Speaker 2: so bad, so bad, Like I'm fearful now to do
Speaker 2: cress white strips because that's how bad it was. I
Speaker 2: mean most like, again, they do such an amazing job
Speaker 2: of keeping it on the tooth, but you know, sometimes
Speaker 2: they get to bro wanted to rip out my whole mouth.
Speaker 5: That was I did see somebody say that that some
Speaker 5: people like you know, sometimes they might get the bleach
Speaker 5: and that's what they said.
Speaker 3: They said it burns.
Speaker 6: It feel like I just wanted to cut my gums
Speaker 6: out with a butcher knife.
Speaker 2: See you later.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's anyways, That's what teeth talks on.
Speaker 4: If anybody needs that this talk, it's probably me right,
Speaker 4: because I shouldn't get my teeth.
Speaker 3: Do it for like they do.
Speaker 4: But I don't medicine there as much.
Speaker 2: Is because it's but like, what if you come back
Speaker 2: and your teeth fall out? You don't want to That's
Speaker 2: a roll of the dice. If you ask my mom,
Speaker 2: you're like, the doctors are very good. They want to Harvard.
Speaker 3: I'm like, eye, if they did, why they down there.
Speaker 2: You also have to keep in mind if you can
Speaker 2: just roll to a dentist and get something like this
Speaker 2: done without insurance and all that, Like that's a little sauce.
Speaker 3: I don't mind it, no.
Speaker 2: But you I'm just saying here you have to go
Speaker 2: through like hoops to get anything done. You could be
Speaker 2: dead dying and they'll say we'll see you in December
Speaker 2: for an appointment. But my point is if you could
Speaker 2: just roll somewhere and get a procedure like that.
Speaker 5: With bleaching bleaching bleaching you could do out of pocket too,
Speaker 5: but it's gonna be.
Speaker 2: It's not going to be to that level. Like no
Speaker 2: cress white tup is going to do.
Speaker 5: What the procedure is gonna cost you, like a couple
Speaker 5: of thousand dollars if I go to the Yeah, I'm
Speaker 5: putting you know, if I mean I mean Someta Domingo,
Speaker 5: I'm paying three hundred. If I'm anywhere else that's motial risky,
Speaker 5: maybe five hundred.
Speaker 4: But I'm like, yeah, but at the end of the day,
Speaker 4: it's the third world and I'm from there, like, and
Speaker 4: I got a test.
Speaker 3: To it, like'a gotta stop believing it.
Speaker 4: He's a different thing. I'm telling you.
Speaker 2: You can just roll into a doctor's office and get
Speaker 2: your teeth pare. You could do any different.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you could do anything out there, but he won't.
Speaker 2: Have to show his iHeart insurance. He just has to
Speaker 2: show credit card.
Speaker 3: They do cleanings out there for like thirty dollars they do.
Speaker 5: Like it's cheap out there, But I hear the concern,
Speaker 5: but I might just do it myself.
Speaker 3: But to do on vacation though, that's tough.
Speaker 5: But if it's another thing, you see, I'm trying to
Speaker 5: figure out because some people say you could go in
Speaker 5: there for a quick session. Others are saying you got
Speaker 5: to do three day sessions, and I'm like, no, I
Speaker 5: don't got three days to waste doing my teeth three
Speaker 5: hours away. If I could get somebody who could do
Speaker 5: it for me real quick. And it's even if I
Speaker 5: take a three hour session and they clean it and
Speaker 5: then they shafted out. You got to use a special toothpaste.
Speaker 5: You can't really eat like everything you want to eat.
Speaker 5: So that's another thing that's weighing on me because like,
Speaker 5: am I really enjoying my vacation or did that come
Speaker 5: here to get my teaching?
Speaker 2: Even hearing, even hearing, wasting time on a consultation on
Speaker 2: vacation is crazy. When do you get to go to
Speaker 2: the d R with your two sons?
Speaker 5: Like off the right, I can't take one day out
Speaker 5: of the sixth oh in the third world?
Speaker 6: Rent a car probably that's crazy.
Speaker 3: We'll get a driver. Yeah, that's pretty cheap out there,
Speaker 3: to twenty dollars. You'll drive me anyway.
Speaker 4: I want to do anything you want Anything, drive Bys
Speaker 4: and Everything twenty come up with.
Speaker 2: A good name when he comes back Toothless Toothless Foreigns
Speaker 2: the Ones and we'll.
Speaker 6: Have a connection.
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Speaker 2: August sixth, And this one feels good to say. Daddy
Speaker 2: Al is back our guy, Daddy Al Alan Jackson announcing
Speaker 2: that he has agreed to join Karen and her very
Speaker 2: capable defense team in the civil action.
Speaker 6: Now, remember.
Speaker 2: There's this civil case that is still going on. It
Speaker 2: is a wrongful death suit filed by the o'keefes. The
Speaker 2: suit obviously names Karen Reid because they still one hundred
Speaker 2: percent fully believed that she killed John O'Keeffe with her vehicle,
Speaker 2: as well as the two bars that they believe overserved
Speaker 2: her before she got behind the wheel. She was acquitted
Speaker 2: of murder and manslaughter on the charges of his death,
Speaker 2: but the O'Keefe family maintains that she is the one
Speaker 2: to blame here, and Alan Jackson said, quote, the band
Speaker 2: is not just staying together getting back together, but we
Speaker 2: are intending on writing a few new chumps.
Speaker 3: Wow, sounds like they're gonna counter suit there, right.
Speaker 2: Something seems like it's gonna pop off. What's up with
Speaker 2: KR though? And she's kind of been in hiding since
Speaker 2: she was out and about more during her trial. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we saw her in the seaport, having stake more during
Speaker 2: trial time than we have. Now.
Speaker 6: I know something. I know one little to admit.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm allowed. I didn't really get
Speaker 2: the vibe that I could say it, but I'll say this,
Speaker 2: A very very wealthy man in Massachusetts offered up his
Speaker 2: home to her so she could go on vacation.
Speaker 6: I'll just say somewhere down the cage.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she went, and she went.
Speaker 2: But that's really all I know about what she's been
Speaker 2: up to.
Speaker 5: So I listened to his interview and he said that
Speaker 5: she don't even got a car. Obviously they got the Lexus,
Speaker 5: but she's so like he's basically saying, like she's so broke,
Speaker 5: she don't got money because they depleted her bank account
Speaker 5: trying to you know, kind of go for this trial
Speaker 5: that she has nothing. Obviously she sold the home. She
Speaker 5: kind of staying like she not staying. I think she's
Speaker 5: staying with her mom. Yeah, and then he was like,
Speaker 5: she doesn't even have a call to drive, Like this
Speaker 5: lady hasn't know much.
Speaker 8: I mean, I think that's for the best. Yeou be driving, Yeah,
Speaker 8: I mean, we don't have no issues, not guilty. Yeah,
Speaker 8: come on.
Speaker 2: If there's a We're like me, Karen Santi and you
Speaker 2: are all sitting here and we're like, let's go grab
Speaker 2: a bite. If she grabs the keys, I'm like, honey, I.
Speaker 6: Got it all right.
Speaker 2: Offset is about to drop a brand new album. Are
Speaker 2: we excited for this?
Speaker 4: Foreign?
Speaker 2: I will listen.
Speaker 5: I will listen to it because you know, part of
Speaker 5: it is also the tea. You want to hear what
Speaker 5: he's gonna say. Yeah, but he doesn't make horrible he
Speaker 5: doesn't make horrible movies.
Speaker 2: But he's he's just he's still obsessed with Cardi. I
Speaker 2: don't care what anybody says. He's out here with like
Speaker 2: multiple females walking around, like get over yourself, he teased Kiori.
Speaker 2: The project is supposed to be releasing on August twenty second.
Speaker 2: This thing is gonna be released a month before Cardi
Speaker 2: drops If you care about that tea hers is called
Speaker 2: am I the Drama. His album will have features from NBA,
Speaker 2: Young Boy Wife, and Luci Gunna Ti Dala Sign just
Speaker 2: to name a few. Form would you grab me here?
Speaker 5: This is him in Times Square taking over and doing
Speaker 5: his announcement where he pretty much took over Times Square.
Speaker 5: He was on top of cars. He was in the
Speaker 5: middle of the road with people. He has a song
Speaker 5: called Bodies on the Floor.
Speaker 6: And they were all laying literally on the phone the floor.
Speaker 5: Like his promo game was on point. But this is
Speaker 5: him just kind of going crazy with fans in Times Square.
Speaker 2: It seems like the people in Times Square were excited
Speaker 2: about There is something about his voice that I do like.
Speaker 2: Even during the Migos days, I was always excited for
Speaker 2: his verse.
Speaker 3: And he has swag.
Speaker 5: You know, he's into fashion like he's not he's got
Speaker 5: a bad artist.
Speaker 3: I mean, yes, we know about him on the other.
Speaker 5: Side of Thy Boyfriend. Yes, mad husband actually, but asaw
Speaker 5: it from that, I think he makes dope music. So
Speaker 5: we'll see and of course everybody's going to listen because
Speaker 5: they want to hear what he's going to say about her.
Speaker 2: Soldier Boy officially released from jail after being arrested on
Speaker 2: that weapons charge during a traffic stop on Sunday. He's out.
Speaker 2: The LA County District's office and Soldier Boy's case said, quote,
Speaker 2: we decline due to insufficient evidence. He was really originally
Speaker 2: pulled over for a traffic violation related to his window
Speaker 2: being too dark. Because remember we were like what once
Speaker 2: he got the gun hanging out in the car for
Speaker 2: the and then they noticed the gun, but it was
Speaker 2: the tinted windows. And I feel like we hear this often,
Speaker 2: the tinted windows get get people caught up.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I had to take my tints down because depending on
Speaker 4: what state you're in, the laws are different.
Speaker 2: So are the mass tint laws different than the Yeah,
Speaker 2: you ham.
Speaker 5: Ship you have, you can't hint your front windows, you
Speaker 5: can't tint. You can't tint anything.
Speaker 2: Honestly, do we want to t it's tinting? Cool?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wanted mind come off.
Speaker 5: Good news though, you should have just waited because come
Speaker 5: next year, New Hampshire is done with state inspections. Really, yeah,
Speaker 5: January of we're done with state inspections. No more than
Speaker 5: I thee reach the record for listened wow wow.
Speaker 6: Because he was good, because he could have one one earlier.
Speaker 3: Because that was not me called the police. That was
Speaker 3: not on the police. I did not count.
Speaker 5: I was adding a fact of the story.
Speaker 3: And then you go back immediately.
Speaker 2: Windows.
Speaker 3: So he's fine.
Speaker 2: You know you should do time. Go call that on
Speaker 2: one next to his car in the garage. You can
Speaker 2: give him his license license. But hey, god, that is
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Speaker 6: Hi, everybody, I.
Speaker 2: I have like a little bit of a weird time
Speaker 2: figuring out how I want to say this, because I
Speaker 2: don't I know. I know there are people that are
Speaker 2: going through this at the same time and doing this
Speaker 2: and might get different results. So if you're someone like that,
Speaker 2: then please don't at all think I'm telling this to
Speaker 2: like I'm happy with what my results are, but I
Speaker 2: know there are people that don't get the same results,
Speaker 2: and I don't want anybody to think I'm like rubbing
Speaker 2: this in their face by any means. But over the
Speaker 2: last month I've been going through this, I haven't talked
Speaker 2: about it because I didn't know what my results were
Speaker 2: going to be. But about a month ago, I got
Speaker 2: a call from one of my uncles and he kind
Speaker 2: of he works in the medical field, and he wanted
Speaker 2: to explain to me what's going on in my family
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 3: Now.
Speaker 2: This turned into a bigger issue because he had spoken
Speaker 2: to my dad, and he gave my dad a few
Speaker 2: weeks to reach out to me and talk to me
Speaker 2: about it. And I just don't think my dad understood
Speaker 2: like the severity of the situation. I think and even
Speaker 2: when I explain it like I'm explaining it to the
Speaker 2: best of my capabilities, and it's kind of out of
Speaker 2: my realm as well. But essentially, my cousin, my first cousin,
Speaker 2: my dad's brother's daughter, was diagnosed with breast cancer. And
Speaker 2: to fast you forward, she's doing she's doing really well.
Speaker 2: She's in a remission, but she did have to have
Speaker 2: a double misseectomy, and she also had to have you know,
Speaker 2: all of her female like her. Everything was taking me
Speaker 2: a historic everything was taken out. She's doing okay, she's
Speaker 2: doing great. But with that comes you know, a lot
Speaker 2: of genetic testing. And she tested positive for the brack
Speaker 2: A one gene. I pulled it up so I can
Speaker 2: do a better job. But it's the gene that provides
Speaker 2: instructions to make a protein that helps repair damage DNA
Speaker 2: and it plays a crucial, crucial role in preventing cancer.
Speaker 2: So with her testing positive for it, she then needed
Speaker 2: my aunt and uncle to be tested as well. So
Speaker 2: turns out my uncle was positive for the gene. If
Speaker 2: you have a family member that's positive for the gene,
Speaker 2: that then means you have a fifty percent Now your
Speaker 2: chances go higher. It's a flip of a coin. You
Speaker 2: then have a fifty percent chance of having this gene
Speaker 2: as a female. If if you test positive for this,
Speaker 2: your chance or your risk of getting breast cancer down
Speaker 2: the line or ovarian cancer significantly increases. Because again, this gene,
Speaker 2: if you have a mutation in it, it's the gene's
Speaker 2: supposed to help prevent cancer. And if there's a mutation,
Speaker 2: it won't and it will increase your chances of getting it.
Speaker 2: So once we've found out that not only did my
Speaker 2: cousin test positive, but that her dad, which is my
Speaker 2: dad's brother, tested positive and her mother tested negative, meaning
Speaker 2: it comes from the familiar, like my father's side of
Speaker 2: the family. So my uncle then calls my dad and
Speaker 2: he explains everything to my dad and says, you know,
Speaker 2: you have to get tested for this, and there let's
Speaker 2: not scare Ashley because if she doesn't know and you
Speaker 2: get test negative, there's no reason to scare her because
Speaker 2: if she does, in fact test positive for this, then
Speaker 2: her girls could have it, you know, and we'd have
Speaker 2: to get the girls tested. It's serious. So my dad
Speaker 2: gets a month time to do this. He does nothing.
Speaker 2: He doesn't understand. Don't even get me. I could do
Speaker 2: a whole nother break about that. When I found out
Speaker 2: his brother there's three brothers. I'm sorry, there's four brothers.
Speaker 2: But when the one, the one calls me my uncle, Pip,
Speaker 2: you know, he said, I really did give your dad
Speaker 2: a month's time. I hate doing this to you because
Speaker 2: I know where your brain is going to go, and
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, but you have to get tested for this,
Speaker 2: and you have to get tested now because it's that important.
Speaker 2: And if he's not going to do it for you,
Speaker 2: then you need to do it for yourself. Speaking of
Speaker 2: having to jump through hoops to get anything done in
Speaker 2: the medical field, you know, my primary care doctor wouldn't
Speaker 2: write me a script for it.
Speaker 3: It was, which is crazy, so.
Speaker 2: Hard for me to get this test. I cannot even
Speaker 2: tell you. You can do it one of two ways.
Speaker 2: You can do a blood draw or you can do saliva.
Speaker 2: So I ended up doing saliva test and it does
Speaker 2: take almost a month's time to get it back. They
Speaker 2: mail you the kit, You do what you have to do,
Speaker 2: spit into like a test tube, it goes back to
Speaker 2: a lab they do the testing. Again. I hadn't talked
Speaker 2: about it on the show because I didn't know what
Speaker 2: my results were gonna be. And when I tell you
Speaker 2: guys that I had gone to like the craziest of places,
Speaker 2: I mean, if in fact I had tested positive for
Speaker 2: the mutation and the gene, there's some doctors that would
Speaker 2: preemptively be like, you should get the messsect to me now,
Speaker 2: like that's how serious this is. And I had this
Speaker 2: really strange feeling. Yesterday, I was checking my email, like
Speaker 2: during this show one hundred times a day.
Speaker 4: I think anybody would. Yeah, I mean the past month. Yeah,
Speaker 4: that's a natural thing. It's crazy that it takes a month.
Speaker 4: So for a month long, you're probably you were probably spiraling,
Speaker 4: and like all.
Speaker 2: Of this could have been avoided had my dad taken
Speaker 2: the test, but he didn't. And so here we are,
Speaker 2: and yesterday, I'm nursing Daisy. I'm getting ready to put
Speaker 2: her down, and I'm looking at her, and obviously I'm nursing,
Speaker 2: so I'm thinking about this and I open up my
Speaker 2: email and there it is, says, you know, myriad, your
Speaker 2: genetic testing results are in I click the link, and
Speaker 2: that circle is just going, going, going, going, my I mean,
Speaker 2: when I tell you, guys, my hands were shaking so bad.
Speaker 2: I am fact tested negative for the for the mutation
Speaker 2: and the gene. Immediate tears and not even like just
Speaker 2: like a relief because I had been waiting literally over
Speaker 2: a month for this and trying to figure this whole
Speaker 2: thing out. And again, if you're somebody who does test
Speaker 2: positive for this gene mutation, it's not an automatic. Here's cancer, Like,
Speaker 2: that's not the way it works, but it significantly increases
Speaker 2: your chances of getting it, like significantly to the point
Speaker 2: where my aunt on my mom's side, she she had it.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, well she's married in but and she preemptively
Speaker 2: got a missact to me, like her doctor suggests that
Speaker 2: Angelina Jolie, another one has this gene mutation, she also
Speaker 2: preemptively had a MISSCT to me.
Speaker 4: I know two people in my circle who have it,
Speaker 4: and they did the same exact thing. But this is
Speaker 4: the thing where cancer touches everybody. You fortunately didn't have
Speaker 4: like the whole thing, but it's still like it affects everybody.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's kind of crazy to think about it, Like, yes,
Speaker 2: I tested negative for it, but that certainly doesn't mean
Speaker 2: that my dad doesn't have it. He could and I
Speaker 2: just got the good side of the coin, you know.
Speaker 2: And it does affect men as well. It's not as
Speaker 2: your chances aren't as high as unless you know, as
Speaker 2: you're a female, but it can affect the men within
Speaker 2: the prostate and stuff like that. But it's just one
Speaker 2: of those things where like I had it on my
Speaker 2: mind to talk to you guys about it, but then
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, let me just wait till I get
Speaker 2: the results.
Speaker 6: In the back and forth, but it's consumed.
Speaker 2: It has consumed my life for the past month, and
Speaker 2: every day I would say to the fireman like, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna have it. I I just know I'm gonna have it.
Speaker 2: And he's like, you're not gonna have it, but if
Speaker 2: you do, like it's okay, we're gonna figure it out,
Speaker 2: like just being a really good voice of reasons. So
Speaker 2: then of course I FaceTime him. I'm crying, I'm holding
Speaker 2: the baby's like what what like to help?
Speaker 1: It was just so.
Speaker 4: And this is for something that's very serious, like yeah,
Speaker 4: I mean I played the waiting game on an STD
Speaker 4: test way back in the day.
Speaker 3: That was bad. I can't even imagine what this was.
Speaker 8: At any test, like even though it's minute, but.
Speaker 2: Even if it's a test about like something that's not
Speaker 2: that serious, you are anxiously waiting the results. And a
Speaker 2: lot of time when you do blood work, it comes
Speaker 2: back fairly quickly, like within a week or something. And
Speaker 2: you know, my cousin when he got his test, he's like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I did blood work. I probably got it back within
Speaker 2: a week. I'm like, damn, like I'm gonna have to
Speaker 2: wait a.
Speaker 4: Month for this, you know, and your mind always goes
Speaker 4: to the worst place and you start hitting like the
Speaker 4: Google and you know what I mean, It's just a
Speaker 4: bad thing.
Speaker 2: I just hate it so much because it so could
Speaker 2: have it so could have been avoided had my dad
Speaker 2: got the news and been like, I'll go. But I
Speaker 2: just don't think my dad could comprehend or understand because
Speaker 2: when I spoke to him about it, he's like, well,
Speaker 2: you're not sick. Why would I get this test? Like,
Speaker 2: you're not sick? And I just as hard as I
Speaker 2: tried to explain it to him, it got to the
Speaker 2: point where I was like, after two days, I'm like,
Speaker 2: why am I doing this? I just need to get
Speaker 2: the test myself, because he's never going to understand. He
Speaker 2: like the like the words gene mutation, and well, just
Speaker 2: because my brother had it, like I feel fine, and
Speaker 2: it's I'm trying to explain he feels fine. It's just
Speaker 2: it was hard.
Speaker 5: Sometimes it's scary for men though a lot of men
Speaker 5: don't like going to the doctors because he doesn't. It's
Speaker 5: a scary thing for us, you know what I mean,
Speaker 5: Because it's again, it's it's the anxiety. It's the possibility
Speaker 5: that I might have I might have something damage within me,
Speaker 5: and I don't really want to know that story.
Speaker 3: And I don't feel like I need to go because
Speaker 3: I feel okay, So let's just avoid it. I don't
Speaker 3: need to go, you know what I mean? Yeah, men
Speaker 3: need to go to the doctor's mom.
Speaker 2: And he's like, he's very much so like that because
Speaker 2: I've sat in on a few of his appointments as
Speaker 2: of late, like on FaceTime or on the phone, and
Speaker 2: they'll say, you're you know, you're your heart's beating a
Speaker 2: little bit fast there, and he'll say, I'm just nervous
Speaker 2: being exactly.
Speaker 6: I don't like being here exactly.
Speaker 3: So I'll go to the doctor every single day in
Speaker 3: my life. Are fine.
Speaker 2: I absolutely despise it. I hate going in the hospital.
Speaker 3: I hate all that. I like the that's all he likes.
Speaker 3: I love it a game. Well, you're not going for
Speaker 3: another four years. I want it tomorrow. Dam In ninety
Speaker 3: four to five traffic.
Speaker 4: We have an accident block in the left lane on
Speaker 4: route to eastbound at the Sudbury Road exit, causing a
Speaker 4: forty minute delay, and four ninety five north found there
Speaker 4: is an absolute parking lot from Lowell all the way
Speaker 4: up to that overturned track to trailer at the ninety
Speaker 4: three ex of trash is still all over four lions
Speaker 4: of highway.
Speaker 3: Everywhere, diapers, toilet paper, use needles.
Speaker 2: When I tell you, when we take out the diaper pail,
Speaker 2: it has to be like a full on warning for
Speaker 2: the whole house. It's crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Now imagine that in the andover air.
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Speaker 6: August sixth.
Speaker 2: I'll start out with this. I'm gonna just go ahead
Speaker 2: and say I thought I would get more of a
Speaker 2: reaction from the two of you that Alan Jackson is back,
Speaker 2: But I think this proves like we live and we
Speaker 2: move on, Like has the Karen Reid lost it sparkle
Speaker 2: for you guys, well.
Speaker 5: But I think it had well, okay, God to me,
Speaker 5: not really. I'm just mad that we can't get Bro
Speaker 5: on the show, like all this talk that we had
Speaker 5: in the city, and I see them running around doing
Speaker 5: interviews and other shows.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I gotta get off there.
Speaker 2: It does not shock me that he was on the
Speaker 2: Greg Hill Show because Greg was kicking it with Karen.
Speaker 6: Like they were.
Speaker 5: I feel you, But we was doing our thing over
Speaker 5: we were we absolutely won. Shout out to Nick and
Speaker 5: all of that. But somebody, can we get one of
Speaker 5: the three? Can we get can we get the one
Speaker 5: of the assistants that was back there typing on the computer.
Speaker 3: Can we get.
Speaker 5: Somebody to come on the show and just talk to
Speaker 5: us like we was doing God's work over here.
Speaker 2: That's putting in efforts.
Speaker 3: He was, you know what I mean.
Speaker 5: But yeah, Jackson, I mean for me, Jackson, can I
Speaker 5: be honest. It's starting to come off like he's he's
Speaker 5: going to be getting a bag real soon, like he's
Speaker 5: chasing the bag because he didn't get paid. He said
Speaker 5: he didn't he didn't take a penny. And this second trial,
Speaker 5: which I was like, celeby. Now, yeah, and your high end,
Speaker 5: your high end, your high demand, high end lawyer. If
Speaker 5: you're not getting your money there, you're getting your money
Speaker 5: somewhere else.
Speaker 2: I don't know, right, But I also feel like Kevin'spacey paid,
Speaker 2: so you know, I just don't think Karen had.
Speaker 3: But that didn't get national news. Oh yeah he was
Speaker 3: on the interview who.
Speaker 2: Was like Kevin Spacey, Oh, the Kevin Spacey guy.
Speaker 3: But not like this, not for us. I didn't feel
Speaker 3: like it was that for us.
Speaker 4: Well, this one was more selation than the SENTI was
Speaker 4: an average person. The Kevin Spacey was that.
Speaker 6: It was a celebrity that was so it just was
Speaker 6: different in a sense.
Speaker 2: But that was huge him. But I'm just saying Kevin
Speaker 2: Spacey paid that man, and he because he had the
Speaker 2: money to do.
Speaker 5: So Allen goes on the interview and says, what would
Speaker 5: I look like taking money from this lady if she
Speaker 5: already has broken all of these things? Like lawyers don't
Speaker 5: care about that, Like you know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 5: know you're saying it for pr and all this, but
Speaker 5: at the end of the day, you're trying to get
Speaker 5: your bread. Someone else whether it's gonna be through a
Speaker 5: media deal or a book or a movie or series,
Speaker 5: he's gonna get paid.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: He had the wherewithal to be able to sniff it
Speaker 6: out like this is going this is going places.
Speaker 5: Thank you, Thank you for putting it that way. That's
Speaker 5: exactly what it is to me. It's kind of like
Speaker 5: he's playing this role like he's like, but he knows
Speaker 5: what's going on. He knows in the back end he's
Speaker 5: about to get hit off with.
Speaker 2: The black because everybody's gonna want an Alan Jackson after this.
Speaker 2: There you go, but he's back. We weren't sure, but
Speaker 2: it looks like he's gonna defend her in her civil case.
Speaker 2: Remember the o'keefes file the wrongful death suit, and they
Speaker 2: named Karen as well as the two bars that overserved her,
Speaker 2: so they believe, you know, they've maintained that she is
Speaker 2: to blame for the death of John O'Keefe. We might
Speaker 2: have to have Nick pop on as this kind of
Speaker 2: gets closer, only because correct me if I'm wrong. I
Speaker 2: remember Nick telling us that with these wrongful death and
Speaker 2: like civil suits, that you learn a lot more, like
Speaker 2: different things come to the table than what you like.
Speaker 2: All the things that maybe were withheld inside the courtroom
Speaker 2: for evidence are allowed to be on the table in
Speaker 2: a civil suit.
Speaker 4: That's exactly what they allow, a lot more than the
Speaker 4: other one, which might be good. But at the same time, like,
Speaker 4: I don't know if the public cares as much about
Speaker 4: this one because it's civil and it's not like Karen's
Speaker 4: life is on the line here, right, She's already she
Speaker 4: was acquitted.
Speaker 2: She was acquitted of murder and manslaughter. You know, obviously
Speaker 2: we follow that thing to a t, but it's not over.
Speaker 2: And Alan Jackson said, the band is not just staying
Speaker 2: together getting back together, but we are intending on writing
Speaker 2: a few new chapters. We also know that there's a
Speaker 2: ton of stuff going on in the background with like
Speaker 2: Turtle Boys been meeting up with Ben Affleck.
Speaker 4: Yeah, movies are on the way. Karen's broke. How much
Speaker 4: are they really going to get at the end of
Speaker 4: the day?
Speaker 2: A lot?
Speaker 3: How ms I mean again through through licensing?
Speaker 4: I think that's what No, no, no, no, I'm in
Speaker 4: How much are they gonna get through to like to
Speaker 4: Karen Reid, if it's clue her, they're probably not going
Speaker 4: to get that much, especially if Karen's smart enough to
Speaker 4: now she has an income now create like some sort
Speaker 4: of a cross where it's financially I.
Speaker 6: Think they care about getting a dollar.
Speaker 2: It's just to keep because they believe that this woman, yeah,
Speaker 2: killed their son, So I think that they just want
Speaker 2: to keep continuing to to fight.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, they'll get the money from the bars,
Speaker 3: but I don't know how much she'll get from d Yeah.
Speaker 2: Either way, there's a real reality that when the movie
Speaker 2: comes out, somebody's driving in the car and the radio
Speaker 2: is on and it's awesome. I know we're available, but.
Speaker 3: I'm sure they'll have some actress planning. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Seriously, all right, let's talk about Sexy Red. Sexy Red.
Speaker 2: Were you even able to get this audio without having
Speaker 2: to bleep the whole thing from that?
Speaker 3: I tried my best. It was almost it was almost
Speaker 3: dead air.
Speaker 2: Sexy single. Okay, we'll just say that she revealed it
Speaker 2: on social media earlier in the week. She's now kind
Speaker 2: of dialing back a little bit. But before she did that,
Speaker 2: she had this to say.
Speaker 1: What's heard.
Speaker 2: Come, that's how ready I am?
Speaker 3: Come, Come, come walk with me?
Speaker 2: And oh yeah, she said, I'm big single. I don't
Speaker 2: care what you've heard. Come make love to me. I'm ready.
Speaker 3: I don't like when it's aggressively said like that.
Speaker 2: It's very aggressive aggressive. Is that hot?
Speaker 3: Not from her? That's all I'll say.
Speaker 2: Says that the foreign porn is like, okay, what me?
Speaker 2: Do we do that for? You?
Speaker 5: Remember when when we saw like the video that leaked
Speaker 5: to her. You remember, and then and then soon after
Speaker 5: and now she was pregnant.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like you're doing too much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll never forget. I'll never forget. They've been burned
Speaker 2: into my brain. The photos of her right after giving birth,
Speaker 2: like the photo shoot she did in the hospital. It's
Speaker 2: just her Like, that's not for me.
Speaker 5: It's like, I get you want to be shocking. I
Speaker 5: get you want to be like out there, and I
Speaker 5: get you want to be like you know what I mean,
Speaker 5: you're female. You're like, I don't care what nobody say.
Speaker 5: But sometimes it's like, relax, chill a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 5: if you single, just sound back out in the streets
Speaker 5: and keep it yes, or just.
Speaker 2: Put I'm single.
Speaker 3: That's it.
Speaker 2: Everybody's gonna understand. She did dial it back, though, she said,
Speaker 2: my bad for crashing out.
Speaker 6: Earlier.
Speaker 2: Definitely wasn't me.
Speaker 3: That was my other personalitytown.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's the place you don't want.
Speaker 3: I don't want to go there.
Speaker 6: I know you don't, all right.
Speaker 2: A Russian mother and influencer insanely injuring her spine while
Speaker 2: trying this viral challenge. I am sure you've seen it.
Speaker 6: If you don't know it.
Speaker 2: It is when females are like standing on top of
Speaker 2: an object, whether it's a can, I've seen that. There's like, wait, wait,
Speaker 2: what else have you seen? They're sore, as crazy as
Speaker 2: you can imagine it, but there's legis crossed. They have
Speaker 2: the one leg other leg on top of whatever the
Speaker 2: object is. This woman learned the hard way that not
Speaker 2: all of these viral challenges are for the best. She
Speaker 2: was standing on what looked to be like a can
Speaker 2: of formula because she has just had her baby. She's
Speaker 2: only eight weeks postpartum. She went down bad, you guys,
Speaker 2: fractured her spine. Fractured her spine trying to do a
Speaker 2: viral social media challenge for this song. He was held big,
Speaker 2: like give it a rest.
Speaker 5: Sitting on top of a formula on top of the
Speaker 5: kitchen counter. Yeah, so she busted ass from way up
Speaker 5: there and fell directly.
Speaker 6: They stopped the video, but you can hear her whoever
Speaker 6: told me, we're like.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, oh my god. Fractured her whole ass spine.
Speaker 2: She got an eight week old baby to take care.
Speaker 3: Of fractor of spine. Is there a chance that the
Speaker 3: spine is severed too?
Speaker 2: Doesn't seem so. She's already posted like she doesn't want
Speaker 2: to talk about it, she doesn't want to do interviews,
Speaker 2: but she's laughing at her new found celebrity from it.
Speaker 3: She has like come on, yeah, but then also, these
Speaker 3: sons are stupid.
Speaker 4: It's like when piking was the thing and people were
Speaker 4: falling off, like parking garages and stuff and dying.
Speaker 3: It's just so stupid.
Speaker 2: If you're if it's a viral challenge in which you
Speaker 2: have to risk your life.
Speaker 3: Like yeah, but then there's a part though. If you
Speaker 3: get that shot, you get that shot.
Speaker 5: It's what people have Like I told you I saw
Speaker 5: somebody on top of a street light in New York City.
Speaker 5: How they even got up there, I don't know, but
Speaker 5: he did. They challenge on top of a street light
Speaker 5: in New York City. That dude won. But again it
Speaker 5: was a guy. There was a guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, I've only seen females doing it with the
Speaker 2: heels like they're doing it in heels with their legs crossed.
Speaker 3: He was heels.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, good for him. That is three things you
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Speaker 2: Hi babes, good morning, We're checking in on you. What's up?
Speaker 2: What's going on? Six one seven nine three one one
Speaker 2: nine four five? That is six one seven nine three
Speaker 2: one one nine four five Mary and Taunton is going
Speaker 2: to kick it off for us. Mary, I'm so intrigued
Speaker 2: Forren says that you're super embarrassed because it took you
Speaker 2: two years to do this, Like, maybe did you wait
Speaker 2: two years? I don't know what this is about, but
Speaker 2: what are you so embarrassed about?
Speaker 9: I changed my last name Saturday to my husband's.
Speaker 6: God damn it, God damn it.
Speaker 3: Mary?
Speaker 2: Are you Wow, two Mars is late.
Speaker 10: Wow.
Speaker 2: Are you embarrassed because you ended up changing it? Or
Speaker 2: are you embarrassed that it took so long?
Speaker 9: I'm embarrassed about how easy it was that I procrastinated
Speaker 9: for so long for meet it? Are you something online?
Speaker 9: For like two minutes, you fill it all out, You
Speaker 9: put in your like marriage, life, andse number, and then
Speaker 9: they like make an appointment, and I need the appointment
Speaker 9: for whatever day I wanted. I happened to be out yesterday, so.
Speaker 11: I made it for yesterday.
Speaker 9: My appointment was for nine to twenty and I was
Speaker 9: out by nine point thirty.
Speaker 2: Literally, when what's your problem with me? Why? Like, why
Speaker 2: don't you like me? What's your issue with me? What
Speaker 2: did I say to piss you off?
Speaker 9: I'm trying to let you know how easy it was,
Speaker 9: because I was like, wow, that was embarrassing, Like I
Speaker 9: didn't even have to pay for it. I kept saying like, oh,
Speaker 9: I don't want to pay I don't want to pay
Speaker 9: money for that, Like.
Speaker 2: Where, like where do what webs what are you?
Speaker 1: Are you?
Speaker 2: What website do I have to go to for this?
Speaker 9: Just so Social Security go in? You fill it all out? Now,
Speaker 9: I mean me going, oh.
Speaker 2: She's cutting out. I guess you can't hear the rest
Speaker 2: of the info. Damn, I'll never get it. What I forget?
Speaker 3: What the last thing I said?
Speaker 6: Everyone's bullying me.
Speaker 2: Now.
Speaker 3: The last thing was that you're going to do it
Speaker 3: at some point, right, No, I will be.
Speaker 6: I will have it changed by twenty twenty six.
Speaker 3: You don't want to change, right, I do.
Speaker 6: But it's not as easy as she's saying.
Speaker 2: Like she's making it like there's bank accounts, there's Social Security,
Speaker 2: it's like every it's just not a little.
Speaker 6: Thing like mortgage in your soul.
Speaker 3: You don't want to I do.
Speaker 2: I do, like the kids. I would love to have
Speaker 2: a matching last name with my children. That's I don't think.
Speaker 2: I don't. I think he's moved on from it. I
Speaker 2: don't know if he cares so much. Well he does,
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 3: Twenty twenty six. Huh yeah, so you get like five months?
Speaker 3: Yeah all right, let's you know Christmas chill.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what if I did it all behind
Speaker 2: his back in surprise and surprise him for Christmas?
Speaker 5: That would be a very nice change. Yeah, you mean
Speaker 5: something that you were supposed to do? Oh yeah, that's
Speaker 5: surprise him with Christmas new name. I should have did
Speaker 5: this when we got married, but oh did I.
Speaker 2: Date everybody this morning other than wake up like what
Speaker 2: like I'm breathing everybody off.
Speaker 3: That's something should have been. Should have happened on the
Speaker 3: day of marriage a week later. Name change.
Speaker 2: I take it back.
Speaker 3: Now we're gonna make it a surprise. He opened the box.
Speaker 3: It's a name, have a point. Then it's gonna be
Speaker 3: like But at the same time, I know he'll so maybe.
Speaker 2: I'll buy something that's like last name affiliated that's.
Speaker 3: Not new Social Security cards. You still gets me to die.
Speaker 2: God, I'll do it.
Speaker 3: I don't believe you.
Speaker 2: Lexi is in haverol. Lex Oh wow, all right, yea,
Speaker 2: let's talk about you in your life. So you called
Speaker 2: us last week and just give everybody a quick reminder
Speaker 2: as to what's going on in your relationship.
Speaker 10: Just so, we've been together nine years, two kids. In
Speaker 10: the beginning of the relationship, I was doing like OnlyFans
Speaker 10: kind of stuff. Wasn't even really using it right only
Speaker 10: it was just like stuff with like me and myself,
Speaker 10: not even stuff that's crazy bad that's actually out there.
Speaker 10: But I respected that.
Speaker 11: He didn't want it.
Speaker 10: He didn't like that, so I quit my BS and
Speaker 10: then ever since then, it's kind of like every couple
Speaker 10: of years he like does something and like cheats on
Speaker 10: me and goes like all the way, the furthest you
Speaker 10: can go. So this past time, he didn't do anything physical,
Speaker 10: but he did lie and break a huge like boundary
Speaker 10: of trust and did something that was a hundred percent
Speaker 10: of no.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 10: We talked about it. So now I'm just kind of
Speaker 10: baddling with myself. I'm kind of like what to do
Speaker 10: because I don't want to continue.
Speaker 2: And I remember, you know myself foreign Santi. We were
Speaker 2: kind of assuming that you did some horrifying things on
Speaker 2: OnlyFans because we were like, you know what, he's he's mortified.
Speaker 2: That was his girl, and it was like kind of
Speaker 2: light the things that you were doing on OnlyFans. It
Speaker 2: wasn't you weren't out there like having sexuals with other
Speaker 2: men that he's been kind of using that against you. Now,
Speaker 2: he didn't just physically cheap, but you said he did
Speaker 2: something that's one hundred percent and no no, like did
Speaker 2: he send a penis pick? Because I'm confused, like if
Speaker 2: you're deeming it, if you're one of those okay, but
Speaker 2: if you're deeming it that bad and he didn't hook
Speaker 2: up with this girl, are they having an emotional connection.
Speaker 10: It doesn't have anything to do with him and another woman.
Speaker 10: It's something that he did with his friends and then
Speaker 10: he made his They all went and did something and
Speaker 10: he made his friend's life to even their wives. So
Speaker 10: I wouldn't even find out because he knows that their
Speaker 10: girls would tell me than.
Speaker 3: She became a b.
Speaker 2: It's not like it.
Speaker 10: They went on a bachelor party and.
Speaker 2: Just all right.
Speaker 10: So they went on a bachelor party. And so the
Speaker 10: last time that he had stepped on our relationship and
Speaker 10: had it did infidelity. He went to a strip club
Speaker 10: by himself, met up one of the girls, ended up
Speaker 10: going home with her doing the most wow. So obviously
Speaker 10: that was like a big you know, no, no, I'm like,
Speaker 10: that's now, I'm not going to trust you if you
Speaker 10: go to one of those places. And before he left,
Speaker 10: he reassured me up and down said all the right things,
Speaker 10: we weren't going to do that, YadA YadA. I found
Speaker 10: out that he did go and I'm like, you know,
Speaker 10: it's a bachelor party. I kind of assumed they were
Speaker 10: going to do that, but at least call me and
Speaker 10: let me know be honest. And he instead of like
Speaker 10: respecting our relationship, he did everything that he could to
Speaker 10: hide it and lie to me.
Speaker 2: Well, honey, he does not respect a relationship at all.
Speaker 2: Like he does not respect you or this relationship at all.
Speaker 2: So you know you had said you were going to
Speaker 2: talk to him, I believe and kind of give us
Speaker 2: an update. Where where are you and him at? Like
Speaker 2: to present to seven forty two on a Wednesday?
Speaker 10: So I've you know, obviously like even though this man
Speaker 10: doesn't desire any chances, I have tried to, you know,
Speaker 10: give him like okay, like well what if you know,
Speaker 10: what are I try to get? What are you going
Speaker 10: to do to make this right? Or t like, what
Speaker 10: are you gonna do to work on yourself? Clearly there's
Speaker 10: a problem here. And he I even suggests to me counseling,
Speaker 10: and he was like counseling, He's like, I know that's
Speaker 10: your thing, but like that's just not my thing. I go,
Speaker 10: So you're not even willing like to do that to
Speaker 10: make us like right, to make us better and go
Speaker 10: in the right direction, Like I mean, I feel stuper
Speaker 10: so even wanting to stay with you, but like we
Speaker 10: have a lot of years behind us, we have two kids.
Speaker 10: Like I'm trying to even though it might hurt me,
Speaker 10: Like I'm trying to see what I can do to
Speaker 10: try to work on this with you too, like and
Speaker 10: he was like, it's like everything I try to suggest,
Speaker 10: he's like not even willing to like even walk with me.
Speaker 10: I'm like, all right, well, you're just making it really
Speaker 10: easy for me to just like cut this, like call
Speaker 10: it quips.
Speaker 2: But you haven't.
Speaker 3: And that's why he's staying.
Speaker 2: And that's why he keeps doing it.
Speaker 3: He don't care.
Speaker 5: There's nothing not to go to counseling asks because you're
Speaker 5: sitting there telling me exactly why you're not leaving. Oh,
Speaker 5: we got too many years behind us, we got children.
Speaker 5: It's like, okay, so why do I need to do
Speaker 5: all this If you're not going anywhere? Why would I
Speaker 5: need to put in the efflit.
Speaker 2: Went right on back to that trip club it right,
Speaker 2: I'm back. Didn't care because he knew he was going
Speaker 2: to come home and be able to talk you out
Speaker 2: of doing anything. I can't imagine having two kids and
Speaker 2: trying to figure this out for you had to do it.
Speaker 2: I mean you you had to you called it quits,
Speaker 2: not called it quits, but you, you and the mother
Speaker 2: of your children had to step away from each other.
Speaker 2: And you had two kids. I don't know how young
Speaker 2: we were at the time, but well, yeah.
Speaker 3: There were yeah, there were the preteens. And it was
Speaker 3: hard in the beginning.
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna lie to you, le say it's hard
Speaker 5: in the beginning, especially you being the person that wants
Speaker 5: to keep the relationship right.
Speaker 3: It's going to be tough for you. But here's the problem.
Speaker 3: He knows.
Speaker 5: He knows that you're not leaving because you're telling him
Speaker 5: you're not leaving in an indirect way.
Speaker 3: You feel what I'm saying. You gotta stop tell him.
Speaker 10: I mean multiple times I said I can't be with you.
Speaker 2: I can't do this like what you say.
Speaker 5: So all that is in one ear out the other.
Speaker 5: Because you've been saying it for years, right, what you
Speaker 5: gotta do is leave him. And in the beginning, he's
Speaker 5: going to play nonchalant. Let me just give you the
Speaker 5: rundown on how guys work. It's gonna be nonchalant for him.
Speaker 5: He's gonna play like it doesn't bother him. And then
Speaker 5: he's gonna really realize that you're serious. A few months
Speaker 5: down the line, he's going to try to sweet talk you.
Speaker 5: You still got his whole firm. A few months later
Speaker 5: is when the groveling is gonna come. And then eventually
Speaker 5: he's going to realize that you being serious. You got
Speaker 5: to stand your ground and don't give him noway about
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I miss the kids, I miss us,
Speaker 5: I missed the years we had together.
Speaker 3: F all that.
Speaker 5: Just be quiet, don't say a word, and in the
Speaker 5: year that man will be graveling back to you. Whether
Speaker 5: you take him back or not, that's up to you.
Speaker 5: But if you start a month later and then you're
Speaker 5: just playing bluff, he knows you. He knows that you're
Speaker 5: just calling bluff every time, So stop doing that.
Speaker 2: And this is an aggressive thing to say. And I
Speaker 2: but you're a doormat, like that's really essentially what you are, Walks.
Speaker 10: I get it. He's definitely yeah, yeah, he's definitely taking
Speaker 10: advantage of me. So I definitely get it. I'm allowing
Speaker 10: it because I continue to say so. I totally understand
Speaker 10: that you really.
Speaker 3: Got two choices.
Speaker 5: It's either you leave this dude, or you just be
Speaker 5: quiet and just live your life with him knowing that
Speaker 5: he's a cheetah and he's gonna go do whatever he wants.
Speaker 3: That's really where you're at talking about.
Speaker 5: It like that.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 10: I don't want to be a synth like that, you know,
Speaker 10: And I think that's what it's called a synth.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So you see that you take action and follow
Speaker 5: back your words because all this is just happening at
Speaker 5: the end of the day, you feel what I'm saying
Speaker 5: because he.
Speaker 3: Does not care.
Speaker 10: Before we broke up for like seven months the last time,
Speaker 10: when I found out that he slept with the you know, stripper,
Speaker 10: and then he just like we were in Daytona and
Speaker 10: we were both on like separate vacations. We went to
Speaker 10: bike week in Daytona and he did all this jump
Speaker 10: back down on one knee, said all these things, and
Speaker 10: I was like, you know what, I was like, if
Speaker 10: I give you one more chance and you screwed this up,
Speaker 10: Like I just can't keep doing this, so like I
Speaker 10: really just need to like stick to my grounds because
Speaker 10: he will continue to take advantage of me.
Speaker 2: So yeah, you gotta you guys now, just like do
Speaker 2: you guys live together? I'm assuming and he's in the house.
Speaker 10: Yeah, we just we just broke up like a week
Speaker 10: a week or ten days ago. So like and I
Speaker 10: told him, I I just like, yeah, you're gonna need
Speaker 10: to figure something out. Good because like and but you
Speaker 10: know what he told me? He goes, he was like,
Speaker 10: I mean we put everything too. He's like, well, I
Speaker 10: found this place for us, and like I put all
Speaker 10: this money into it. And she's like, I'm not leaving.
Speaker 10: I go okay, so push me out. I'm like, you're
Speaker 10: the one who gets something wrong. I feel like you
Speaker 10: should have to go figure it out. But like he's
Speaker 10: making me like, no, I got it. I'm like, I'm like,
Speaker 10: how old are you game?
Speaker 2: How old are your kids?
Speaker 10: Six and a half and three?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you have babies in that house, dude, Like
Speaker 2: and is he going to keep the kids? Is he
Speaker 2: going to be on my game?
Speaker 3: Lexi? He's playing.
Speaker 5: He knows that you're telling him that you ain't got
Speaker 5: nowhere to go, so he's using that to his advantage
Speaker 5: and telling you not.
Speaker 10: He knows that he knows that I could. I told him.
Speaker 10: I was like, I can, but like that's not fair
Speaker 10: to me because I'm with the kids most of the time.
Speaker 10: He works second shift. I have the kids way more
Speaker 10: than he does.
Speaker 5: LEXI take your kids, move out the house, go back
Speaker 5: on only fans, make money, live happy.
Speaker 3: That's all you got to do. If you do that,
Speaker 3: I'll stop talking to him about it.
Speaker 2: If you did, I know somebody that will sign on
Speaker 2: and give some money.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, I'll go by the gift for.
Speaker 6: Recon for research purposes.
Speaker 2: Lex, you gotta let this man go. I never in
Speaker 2: my life, like I hate using the word that, like
Speaker 2: saying you're a doormat, but essentially like I know you
Speaker 2: know this. If you heard, if you heard your story
Speaker 2: from another female, you would be like, what are you doing?
Speaker 6: What are you doing?
Speaker 2: Yep, I know how hard that is? What the Yeah, listen,
Speaker 2: you know I got a three year old in the
Speaker 2: house too. It's like the wild West.
Speaker 6: I get it.
Speaker 2: I know how hard that's going to be. But they
Speaker 2: really do watch and see everything, and that's we don't
Speaker 2: want this, this is this isn't a great environment for them.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I will have to say that we are very
Speaker 10: we we do not like we barely. We don't even
Speaker 10: ever argue, and if we do it's never front of
Speaker 10: the kids. Like we are very I'm very strict about.
Speaker 3: That, Like I believe you.
Speaker 2: I just mean for you, you're not happy, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean, Like Mom's not and that sucks. Yeah,
Speaker 2: all righty well, I'm assuming you have to choose those kids,
Speaker 2: choose you choose happies and maybe down the line, like
Speaker 2: Foreiren saying, I mean, I believe, I really do believe
Speaker 2: what Forearren saying, this guy is gonna think whatever if
Speaker 2: her and he's gonna go on. He's gonna do his thing.
Speaker 2: Maybe he'll hook a couple of other couple of strippers,
Speaker 2: but eventually he'll be like the grasses and greener, I
Speaker 2: missed my family lead, you know.
Speaker 10: Yeah, and maybe then he'll be won't put in the work,
Speaker 10: but it'll be too late.
Speaker 2: So I mean somebody else will have swept you off
Speaker 2: your feet and treat you the way you should be treated.
Speaker 2: You never know.
Speaker 10: Yeah, the male species is just kind of turning me
Speaker 10: off right now. If I'm that's gonna do me, you know, I.
Speaker 3: Mean, females are not that much better anyway.
Speaker 2: This is this is turning LEXI keep us posting, girl friends,
Speaker 2: stay strong. If you go back to only fans, santy
Speaker 2: Will santi Will customer support you to goode.
Speaker 10: Well I will not, but take you guys.
Speaker 2: I appreciate them all right bye, She's like, really off.
Speaker 2: The only fans she the tough part is is she's
Speaker 2: gonna call us next week with the same thing.
Speaker 3: Absolutely. She kept in the whole conversation looking for reasons
Speaker 3: why they were He's really nice. We don't fight. It's
Speaker 3: not gonna you know.
Speaker 2: And I really think Foreen's I think that's spot on.
Speaker 2: I think he'll be like, oh you do, and then
Speaker 2: he'll go and he'll do all these things, and then
Speaker 2: in time he'll be like, I want to come home,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 5: And that's when you still block him and then wait
Speaker 5: for him to gravel back and show you that he
Speaker 5: really loves you. Right now, he knows you ain't going nowhere.
Speaker 5: You're telling him that you're not going anywhere.
Speaker 2: Why do we need to imagine? She actually said to him,
Speaker 2: I know you cheated on me. A ship club. You
Speaker 2: can go when you're on the bachelor party, as long
Speaker 2: as you tell me. And yet he's still didn't even
Speaker 2: at least say I'm going, but I won't like he
Speaker 2: is jes work nasty all right six one seven nine
Speaker 2: three one six one seven nine three one one nine
Speaker 2: four five. What is happening in your life? We're checking
Speaker 2: in only on jam and good morning. Hi everybody, good morning,
Speaker 2: It's Ashley in the jam In Morning Show. We're checking
Speaker 2: in on you, your life, your world. Every time this
Speaker 2: comes up. This is not anybody like we just had
Speaker 2: a woman call in and tell her entire relationship life story.
Speaker 2: Only fans is involved. But y'all just want to keep
Speaker 2: going back to this. Everybody's obsessed.
Speaker 3: I think everybody just wants to help you.
Speaker 2: Christina is in Attleborough, Christina, good.
Speaker 11: Morning, Good morning everyone.
Speaker 2: So you and your husband have been together for eighteen years,
Speaker 2: married for three years.
Speaker 11: We've been we were together for eighteen years before we
Speaker 11: got married, so it's twenty one years total, three years married.
Speaker 2: Okay, And you are refusing to change your last name.
Speaker 11: So I changed it legally, so as far as sour
Speaker 11: Security goes, they have the last name. That's what I
Speaker 11: did is I hyphenated my middle name so that I
Speaker 11: kept my father's name, which was important to me. So
Speaker 11: my middle name is my middle name and my former
Speaker 11: last name and then my new last name. But my
Speaker 11: credit cards, my bank, none of that's been changed. It's
Speaker 11: been three years. It's the original road to get things changed.
Speaker 11: I have to send my marriage certificate to random fact
Speaker 11: numbers in twenty twenty five. That just doesn't seem right.
Speaker 10: So I have light.
Speaker 3: Fine, it works for everybody else. For you two know
Speaker 3: we do.
Speaker 2: Me and Christina. No yet, we're not trying to you know,
Speaker 2: have our information stolen? Christina, I stand back. I will
Speaker 2: tell you this. If I went to my husband and
Speaker 2: said I'm hyphenating my last name, he would ask me
Speaker 2: for a divorce straight up. So I wouldn't disrespect him
Speaker 2: like that. Not saying that your husband clearly was okay
Speaker 2: with it. Mine would take it as a disrespect. So
Speaker 2: if I do it, I'm good. I am gonna do it,
Speaker 2: but I'm I'm not going to wrap it up in
Speaker 2: a present.
Speaker 11: Because I didn't hyphenate my last name. I hyphenated my
Speaker 11: middle name so that my last name matches. Got it
Speaker 11: all right, kids, It matches the family.
Speaker 10: But I still have my father's last name, which was important.
Speaker 2: No, and I guarantee you he understands that. I don't
Speaker 2: think mine would.
Speaker 3: She'll do that, but she won't send the facts. Imagine.
Speaker 2: Christina, thank you for the input for and I'm going
Speaker 2: to play this talk back for you because this guy
Speaker 2: loves this.
Speaker 6: He loves when me and you yell at each other.
Speaker 12: I just wanted to say thank you for and I
Speaker 12: had a great laugh. Actually can't take it when you
Speaker 12: throw it at her. But she wants to criticize the world.
Speaker 12: That is awesome on you because you told her the
Speaker 12: truth and how you felt. Keep up the good work, brother.
Speaker 12: I love listening to you, my mom.
Speaker 3: I sound like juice.
Speaker 2: No, I was gonna say he actually done. Okay, that
Speaker 2: guy has definitely called him the show and I've clearly
Speaker 2: come at him before, so he's he's so high that
Speaker 2: I was like, shut up for because Thorn's right and
Speaker 2: he knows. I know Fororen's right, I know Santi's right. Hello,
Speaker 2: we all know this. Listen because you know what You're right.
Speaker 3: That was crazy, I said, that's why I got just
Speaker 3: if you admitted the fact that you don't want to.
Speaker 1: Do it, I.
Speaker 2: Will not You guys know I want it because of
Speaker 2: the kids.
Speaker 5: So you will do everything else. Yeah, I need to literally,
Speaker 5: you just print a paper, sign it. You might even
Speaker 5: be able to do it online. You will do everything else.
Speaker 5: The kid who won't even remember decorations, gets the whole
Speaker 5: house decked out in skeleton. We go into Barnes to
Speaker 5: do what God knows what. We get in tattoos.
Speaker 3: We're doing X, Y and Z.
Speaker 5: We're going to the middle of Earth. We're going to
Speaker 5: ranches that we watch on TV to visit, but we
Speaker 5: can't just well, I wasn't going to tell you guys this.
Speaker 5: I got ready for us, I went to do it.
Speaker 2: I fell out the paper and they asked me to
Speaker 2: fax it to somebody. I said, I'm not that's dangerous.