WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.360 --> 00:00:04.400 Let's go with a Minnesota Goodbye already. Okay, Hey, I 2 00:00:04.400 --> 00:00:07.879 want to know a question for you. As you listen 3 00:00:07.960 --> 00:00:11.359 to the Minnesota Goodbye? Do you listen at one times 4 00:00:11.560 --> 00:00:16.239 speed one point two five speed, one point five speed 5 00:00:16.440 --> 00:00:19.199 or what speed do you listen? I know you actually 6 00:00:19.239 --> 00:00:21.039 listen to the show, Bailey, I do not. Do you 7 00:00:21.079 --> 00:00:21.879 listen to what speed? 8 00:00:22.039 --> 00:00:24.399 I listen at the regular speed one speed. I only 9 00:00:24.399 --> 00:00:28.039 listen to books at like one point three speed, But 10 00:00:28.640 --> 00:00:30.640 if it's a podcast, I always listen to it at 11 00:00:30.640 --> 00:00:34.079 one speed. Okay, unless like if we were talking really 12 00:00:34.119 --> 00:00:35.799 slow and it was annoying me, then I would speed 13 00:00:35.799 --> 00:00:36.039 it up. 14 00:00:36.079 --> 00:00:37.399 Okay, I do that with tiktoks. 15 00:00:38.159 --> 00:00:41.920 I listen usually at one point five if it's a podcast, 16 00:00:43.320 --> 00:00:45.079 And yeah, because I think one point five is about 17 00:00:45.079 --> 00:00:47.119 as fast as I could listen. So I'm just curious, 18 00:00:47.200 --> 00:00:49.200 what speed do you listen to our podcast at? Send 19 00:00:49.200 --> 00:00:51.719 me a quick email and let me know. In anything 20 00:00:51.719 --> 00:00:54.679 else you want to talk about, let's jump in with 21 00:00:55.679 --> 00:01:00.200 this email. Okay, No, that's a fake. That's this is 22 00:01:01.039 --> 00:01:03.439 the first one I clicked on was an advertisement, so 23 00:01:03.960 --> 00:01:08.359 be it. It is basically unleash your full potential with 24 00:01:08.439 --> 00:01:13.560 war bands. Make every rep camp count apparently, imagine transforming 25 00:01:13.640 --> 00:01:16.959 every movement you make into a powerhouse workout without any limitations, 26 00:01:16.959 --> 00:01:18.920 with prices below one hundred dollars. So we get this 27 00:01:19.079 --> 00:01:22.400 garbage that comes to and then I block it. So 28 00:01:22.519 --> 00:01:24.000 I'm going to go up here to the three dots 29 00:01:24.040 --> 00:01:28.319 and hit block block Ashley Avery, who apparently works for 30 00:01:28.439 --> 00:01:31.120 an ad agency, And I feel bad that people. You know, 31 00:01:31.159 --> 00:01:34.319 there are people who like send out garbage basically spam 32 00:01:34.439 --> 00:01:37.200 like that, and they send it to probably every available 33 00:01:37.200 --> 00:01:40.040 email address, and if they get like thirty five people responding, 34 00:01:40.319 --> 00:01:43.680 that's a win, you know, not us. 35 00:01:43.799 --> 00:01:45.640 I used to be on that side of things because 36 00:01:45.640 --> 00:01:48.640 I was a PR intern for Minneapolis, So I was 37 00:01:48.840 --> 00:01:52.159 like sending out press releases to our media list constantly. 38 00:01:52.439 --> 00:01:54.519 All right, yeah, did you ever get responses? 39 00:01:54.719 --> 00:01:56.640 No? No, not usually, but I. 40 00:01:56.560 --> 00:01:57.799 Mean you have to do it. That's kind of what 41 00:01:57.840 --> 00:02:01.079 the media person does, you know, send out press releases. 42 00:02:01.079 --> 00:02:03.319 All right, let's move on to Kyle's email. Kyle say 43 00:02:03.640 --> 00:02:07.680 or Kylie says, Hello, I got a show topic stemming 44 00:02:07.719 --> 00:02:10.680 from this story. One night, I drunkenly sent my now 45 00:02:10.759 --> 00:02:14.680 husband a boob picture on Snapchat. After about fifteen minutes, 46 00:02:14.680 --> 00:02:16.319 I get a call from my best friend saying, go 47 00:02:16.479 --> 00:02:20.319 look at your Snapchat story. Yep, boom, I accidentally posted 48 00:02:20.360 --> 00:02:23.439 my boob picture to my story. Twelve people saw it, thankfully, 49 00:02:23.479 --> 00:02:25.960 nobody too bad saw it like my now mother in law, 50 00:02:26.039 --> 00:02:29.039 cousin's mom, co workers, et cetera. God, So my possible 51 00:02:29.039 --> 00:02:31.680 topic is, what did you accidentally post send email to 52 00:02:31.719 --> 00:02:36.319 the wrong person? Love you guys, kylie ps. Snapchat must 53 00:02:36.360 --> 00:02:38.960 be troublesome in that aspect, because a couple of months ago, 54 00:02:39.000 --> 00:02:44.280 my brother accidentally sent me a dick video. My God, enough, 55 00:02:44.479 --> 00:02:49.680 there are some things you cannot unsee, traumatizing l O L. 56 00:02:50.479 --> 00:02:52.479 I've told this story before. I was in a group 57 00:02:52.599 --> 00:02:56.800 chat with Carson and Susan and I accidentally sent to Susan, 58 00:02:56.800 --> 00:03:02.199 how's that pussy? And she wrote back juicy, And then 59 00:03:02.240 --> 00:03:06.159 we realized that Carson was in on it, and I said, God, sorry, 60 00:03:06.159 --> 00:03:08.639 Carson just ignored that, and he, I think sent the 61 00:03:08.639 --> 00:03:12.159 wide eyed like holy shit emoji, but I don't remember, 62 00:03:12.479 --> 00:03:13.479 but it was kind of funny. 63 00:03:14.000 --> 00:03:16.319 But also, god, I don't know react. 64 00:03:16.360 --> 00:03:19.639 If I was Carson, I would probably just like, I 65 00:03:19.680 --> 00:03:23.120 wouldn't say anything. I'd be like just forget it, just 66 00:03:23.400 --> 00:03:24.759 hopefully forget it. 67 00:03:26.800 --> 00:03:28.960 Yeah, I don't know, we've never brought it up. 68 00:03:29.879 --> 00:03:33.800 That was gonna tell the story Carson from the time 69 00:03:34.039 --> 00:03:35.000 that your. 70 00:03:34.919 --> 00:03:42.520 Mom juicy remember that, which was a great response, all right, 71 00:03:43.240 --> 00:03:45.560 please don't say my name. And listened to the podcast 72 00:03:45.599 --> 00:03:47.840 where Bailey saying the alphabet backwards made me think of 73 00:03:47.879 --> 00:03:50.240 a story for you. I got home late from work 74 00:03:50.280 --> 00:03:52.960 one night. My husband was sleeping and try not to 75 00:03:52.960 --> 00:03:55.120 wake him up. I took my bladder infection meds, which 76 00:03:55.159 --> 00:03:57.159 were sitting on my nightstand. I tried to go to sleep. 77 00:03:57.960 --> 00:04:01.000 Saying the alphabet backwards in my head all always puts 78 00:04:01.080 --> 00:04:02.680 me to sleep, but this night it did not. I 79 00:04:02.680 --> 00:04:05.080 said the alphabet backwards so many times that night it 80 00:04:05.199 --> 00:04:07.159 became muscle memory. So I started to do it in 81 00:04:07.199 --> 00:04:11.280 Spanish for context. I took Spanish in high school and college, 82 00:04:11.360 --> 00:04:13.240 so I'm not fluent by any means. Still, I couldn't 83 00:04:13.240 --> 00:04:16.279 fall asleep. I didn't sleep all night, arose the next morning, 84 00:04:16.279 --> 00:04:21.079 looked at my bladder infection meds, which were not bladder 85 00:04:21.120 --> 00:04:24.439 infection meds. I took my adderall prescription. 86 00:04:24.720 --> 00:04:25.360 Well there you go. 87 00:04:25.480 --> 00:04:29.279 At eleven o'clock at night, I'm gonna guess adderall like 88 00:04:29.399 --> 00:04:30.079 caffeine kind. 89 00:04:30.319 --> 00:04:31.000 Yeah. 90 00:04:31.040 --> 00:04:33.319 On the plus side, I can awfluitely say the alphabet 91 00:04:33.319 --> 00:04:35.519 backwards in Spanish, which is a fun party trick. I 92 00:04:35.600 --> 00:04:36.279 guess I know. 93 00:04:36.519 --> 00:04:36.759 Cool. 94 00:04:36.959 --> 00:04:39.319 Have you ever accidentally taken or consumed something you thought 95 00:04:39.319 --> 00:04:42.600 was something else? Possible show topic idea. Love you guys, 96 00:04:42.759 --> 00:04:45.680 Thank you. I won't say your name. Yeah, I think 97 00:04:45.759 --> 00:04:47.439 Jenny was here on the show. I went to the 98 00:04:47.480 --> 00:04:51.040 doctor many times for my stomach pains, and a doctor 99 00:04:51.120 --> 00:04:54.680 gave me something for my stomach pains, and for a 100 00:04:54.720 --> 00:04:57.319 month or so, I'd get so tired during the show 101 00:04:57.839 --> 00:04:59.800 and I would lay down on the studio floor and 102 00:05:00.319 --> 00:05:04.040 about how tired I was, and Steven Fallen were like god, wow, 103 00:05:04.639 --> 00:05:07.480 and I said, yeah taking. Then I realized that these 104 00:05:07.519 --> 00:05:10.120 were basically meant to be taken before you go to. 105 00:05:10.040 --> 00:05:13.079 Bed, yeah, like drowsy kind Yeah. 106 00:05:12.639 --> 00:05:15.839 And that saw that when you ever taken anything, Jenny, 107 00:05:15.879 --> 00:05:16.680 that was the wrong. 108 00:05:16.519 --> 00:05:21.480 Med just I have done expired cough syrup before, and 109 00:05:21.519 --> 00:05:23.120 I was immediately sick from. 110 00:05:23.000 --> 00:05:23.879 Me really seriously. 111 00:05:24.040 --> 00:05:27.079 Yeah wow yeah, So look at your medicine and make 112 00:05:27.120 --> 00:05:29.399 sure you throw out expired things, because I just did 113 00:05:29.439 --> 00:05:31.160 it in my medicine cabinet a week ago. 114 00:05:32.120 --> 00:05:34.839 Yeah, I don't haven't taken any like medication or anything. 115 00:05:34.920 --> 00:05:37.319 But did you know that half of the root beers 116 00:05:37.360 --> 00:05:39.680 half caffeine and half of them do not have caffeine? 117 00:05:39.720 --> 00:05:40.000 Really? 118 00:05:40.040 --> 00:05:42.120 Because I definitely had a caffe at a root beer 119 00:05:42.160 --> 00:05:44.040 once and it was like seven pm, and I don't 120 00:05:44.079 --> 00:05:46.319 think I slept a week A wink all night. 121 00:05:46.199 --> 00:05:47.160 And has caffeine. 122 00:05:47.199 --> 00:05:48.079 There's like four of. 123 00:05:48.000 --> 00:05:50.639 Them that have caffeine. It's so weird, like it has 124 00:05:50.680 --> 00:05:53.800 to say caffeine free. I really can for it to 125 00:05:53.800 --> 00:05:56.560 be caffeine free. But I, oh my god, I was 126 00:05:56.600 --> 00:05:58.639 just like, why am I awake right now? I don't understand. 127 00:05:58.680 --> 00:06:01.439 I never drank caffeine because caffeine just makes me not 128 00:06:01.519 --> 00:06:07.120 sleep ever. Bars Yeah, and that's the best root beer too, 129 00:06:08.240 --> 00:06:11.079 Barn w Well, I like both. I like Barks because 130 00:06:11.079 --> 00:06:15.160 it's got like that, it's snappy in its kind. Arisprisp, 131 00:06:15.360 --> 00:06:18.079 I like that, and and w is just fine. 132 00:06:18.319 --> 00:06:20.360 You've a shout out to Northern Soda Company who has 133 00:06:20.560 --> 00:06:23.040 diet root beer that you and I were there a 134 00:06:23.040 --> 00:06:26.360 month or two ago and it was actually really good. 135 00:06:26.399 --> 00:06:28.639 You would never know its diet root beer. Here is 136 00:06:28.680 --> 00:06:31.399 a longer email. It says, don't say my name, as 137 00:06:31.439 --> 00:06:33.680 I dropped my job title in this email, and I 138 00:06:33.680 --> 00:06:41.079 don't anybody connecting those dots. You'll understand later. Okay, here 139 00:06:41.120 --> 00:06:43.920 we go some questions that I thought of for the podcast. 140 00:06:44.480 --> 00:06:47.879 Appreciate that wondering what each of your zodiac signs are. 141 00:06:48.000 --> 00:06:51.279 This is basic, but out of pure curiosity and wanting 142 00:06:51.360 --> 00:06:53.319 to know who you really are. Just kidding, of course, 143 00:06:53.360 --> 00:06:54.680 but would love to know how much you think you 144 00:06:54.720 --> 00:06:58.279 resonate with the basic description of your sign. And and 145 00:06:58.360 --> 00:07:01.079 here we go. I am a Scorpio. I do not 146 00:07:01.199 --> 00:07:05.639 believe in anything astrological in the least and I think 147 00:07:05.720 --> 00:07:09.199 it's purely fun. And so I'm a Scorpio. 148 00:07:09.480 --> 00:07:13.120 Jenny, I'm a Taurus. I do believe ish sort of. 149 00:07:13.279 --> 00:07:14.759 I don't go out of my way to look at 150 00:07:14.759 --> 00:07:17.319 things or like get readings done or anything like that, 151 00:07:17.519 --> 00:07:19.079 but I do like to read things. 152 00:07:19.079 --> 00:07:20.240 And I'm like, ooh, that fits me. 153 00:07:21.600 --> 00:07:23.160 You know what I want to talk about, Jenny, that 154 00:07:23.160 --> 00:07:24.480 we have this can come up on the show, but 155 00:07:24.519 --> 00:07:26.120 I want to bring this up. But speaking about things 156 00:07:26.160 --> 00:07:28.720 you don't believe in, you're doing some sort of mega 157 00:07:28.800 --> 00:07:31.240 hurts frequency therapy. For pain. 158 00:07:31.600 --> 00:07:34.160 Well, oh no, I was just listening to a podcast 159 00:07:34.160 --> 00:07:37.040 about how frequencies can help you with like certain things 160 00:07:37.079 --> 00:07:39.639 in life, like mental health, and I don't know that 161 00:07:39.680 --> 00:07:41.360 they touched on pain. I'm not that far into the 162 00:07:41.399 --> 00:07:45.199 episode yet. But if you listen to like five twenty eight, 163 00:07:45.879 --> 00:07:47.879 is it what does HD stand for? 164 00:07:48.279 --> 00:07:48.399 Uh? 165 00:07:48.519 --> 00:07:49.079 Hurts hurts? 166 00:07:49.120 --> 00:07:50.199 Oh, it is hurts. Okay. 167 00:07:50.600 --> 00:07:54.800 So those are like very calman kind of songs, and 168 00:07:54.879 --> 00:07:57.000 so it's really good for anxiety and stuff. And then 169 00:07:57.000 --> 00:07:58.680 you think about like what you like to listen to 170 00:07:59.240 --> 00:08:02.160 when you work out. Some people can do podcasts. 171 00:08:02.240 --> 00:08:02.519 I can. 172 00:08:02.680 --> 00:08:04.839 I have to have like very hyped music. Some people 173 00:08:04.920 --> 00:08:07.600 don't like that. It's like it's all about this energy 174 00:08:07.639 --> 00:08:10.480 that you bring into certain situations. And I just don't 175 00:08:10.519 --> 00:08:11.839 know if I believe it or not. But I will 176 00:08:11.879 --> 00:08:15.040 say when I've listened to the five two eight playlist 177 00:08:15.120 --> 00:08:18.079 before and I've been anxious, it has calmed me down 178 00:08:18.120 --> 00:08:19.720 a bit. But I don't know if it's just like 179 00:08:19.720 --> 00:08:22.360 a placebo effect of me thinking like this is supposed 180 00:08:22.360 --> 00:08:24.079 to make me feel a little bit more calm, or 181 00:08:24.079 --> 00:08:26.399 if it actually is, like the frequency is helping me. 182 00:08:26.720 --> 00:08:29.519 It could be either one placebo effect is very very strong. 183 00:08:29.839 --> 00:08:32.519 It's very effective. Bailey, what sign are you? 184 00:08:32.720 --> 00:08:36.159 I am a Virgo and I mostly agree with the 185 00:08:36.240 --> 00:08:39.000 Virgo things because I do like lists and being organized, 186 00:08:39.039 --> 00:08:43.120 but I'm not like clean, like super like anal kind 187 00:08:43.120 --> 00:08:45.799 of organized. And vont is a Leo and that checks 188 00:08:45.799 --> 00:08:46.279 out to me. 189 00:08:46.399 --> 00:08:46.759 Does it? 190 00:08:46.879 --> 00:08:50.159 Yes? Okay, yeah, Leos are like entertainers. 191 00:08:50.919 --> 00:08:53.559 Next one, I listened to Jenny and Falon's podcast, and 192 00:08:53.679 --> 00:08:56.399 Jenny recently talked about the importance of seeing a psychiatrist 193 00:08:56.440 --> 00:09:01.000 for mental health meds rather than a primary care provider. 194 00:09:01.000 --> 00:09:02.440 I want to give a shout out to weather Girl 195 00:09:02.519 --> 00:09:05.039 Jenny for being spot on. I think this needs to 196 00:09:05.039 --> 00:09:08.799 be heard everywhere. Your primary care is great, but psychiatrists 197 00:09:08.840 --> 00:09:14.000 specialized doctors who specifically work with mental health meds. So 198 00:09:14.039 --> 00:09:17.320 there's a psychologist who is not licensed medical doctor they 199 00:09:17.360 --> 00:09:20.480 can't prescribe meds, and a psychiatrist who is a medical doctor. 200 00:09:20.559 --> 00:09:23.000 No, just saying like, if you go in for your 201 00:09:23.200 --> 00:09:26.519 PAPSHMIR and stuff, your general physician, oh, I know that, 202 00:09:26.600 --> 00:09:28.440 you know, like they can, so I was kind of saying, 203 00:09:28.440 --> 00:09:32.200 like those people cannot. But then yes, there's like therapists 204 00:09:32.200 --> 00:09:35.600 and then there's psychiatrists. And my therapist could never prescribe 205 00:09:35.639 --> 00:09:38.679 medicine because she didn't have the qualifications. But I was saying, like, 206 00:09:38.720 --> 00:09:42.080 don't go to your general physician to get medication for 207 00:09:42.159 --> 00:09:45.039 anxiety or depression because they really are not specialized in 208 00:09:45.080 --> 00:09:47.279 that area. A psychiatrist is going to ask you a 209 00:09:47.279 --> 00:09:50.679 lot of questions and really nail down what you need 210 00:09:50.720 --> 00:09:52.799 and what kind of medicine you need and what is 211 00:09:52.840 --> 00:09:55.440 the right amount of medicine and stuff like that. 212 00:09:55.480 --> 00:09:56.840 Well, I guess that makes sense. It's kind of like 213 00:09:56.840 --> 00:09:59.759 if you have you know, if you have cancer, you 214 00:09:59.759 --> 00:10:02.360 don't go down to your primary care, you go to 215 00:10:02.399 --> 00:10:08.200 an oncologist. So same thing with a psychotherapist psych psychiatrist. Yes. 216 00:10:09.159 --> 00:10:13.039 She goes on to say, this is so important to know, 217 00:10:13.279 --> 00:10:15.039 as I guess I should have mentioned I am a 218 00:10:15.120 --> 00:10:18.159 psychotherapist and I have so many clients come to be 219 00:10:18.200 --> 00:10:21.720 frustrated after struggling with navigating their own med management. This way, 220 00:10:22.679 --> 00:10:26.200 primary care providers can have a long wait list or 221 00:10:26.279 --> 00:10:28.960 less capacity to be helpful. Help is out there. You 222 00:10:29.000 --> 00:10:31.480 get to know where to look. Psychology Today website is 223 00:10:31.480 --> 00:10:33.840 a great place to start, as you can put filters 224 00:10:33.879 --> 00:10:36.840 on for location and insurance. Thank you for normalizing and 225 00:10:36.879 --> 00:10:41.639 spreading awareness about mental health. Jenny, You Rock. Next question 226 00:10:41.720 --> 00:10:45.320 from the same staff writer, wondering if you guys have 227 00:10:45.360 --> 00:10:48.080 a go to coffee order, maybe Cariboo specific, since it's 228 00:10:48.080 --> 00:10:51.919 a Minnesota company, and I wonder what Vaughan thinks about Caribou, 229 00:10:52.039 --> 00:10:55.039 knowing that he's not from Minnesota. It is the superior 230 00:10:55.159 --> 00:10:58.120 coffee and anybody who disgraces it can suck it. Sorry, 231 00:10:58.159 --> 00:11:01.240 not sorry, totally agree with you. My coffee order is 232 00:11:01.279 --> 00:11:03.240 either I'm gonna be fancy, I'll do a latte, but 233 00:11:03.279 --> 00:11:05.919 I'm usually black coffee with either skim or once in 234 00:11:05.960 --> 00:11:08.279 a while, oat milk or almond milk. I don't know 235 00:11:08.360 --> 00:11:11.080 the difference. I can't taste the difference. But mine is 236 00:11:11.120 --> 00:11:12.679 just basic coffee. What about you, Jen? 237 00:11:12.919 --> 00:11:16.200 Mine from Caribou is a cold brew with a half 238 00:11:16.240 --> 00:11:18.720 shot of milk chocolate to add a little flavor to it. 239 00:11:18.919 --> 00:11:22.519 Okay, Mine's like any iced coffee, So a cold brew 240 00:11:22.679 --> 00:11:23.600 or an iced latte. 241 00:11:24.159 --> 00:11:26.440 I'm like the vanilla ice I do. 242 00:11:26.519 --> 00:11:29.320 I mean I like that mostly if it has ice 243 00:11:29.399 --> 00:11:31.600 and it has milk of some kind like oat milk 244 00:11:31.639 --> 00:11:32.399 in it and then. 245 00:11:32.519 --> 00:11:34.120 A flavor, I'll drink it. 246 00:11:34.679 --> 00:11:38.080 Yeah, delicious, and I know that vont likes caribou because 247 00:11:38.080 --> 00:11:38.840 I've seen him drink it. 248 00:11:38.879 --> 00:11:41.679 Yeah, okay, good, good to know. Also, if you ever 249 00:11:41.720 --> 00:11:44.519 need a therapist opinion for something, I'd be willing and 250 00:11:44.600 --> 00:11:46.759 more than happy to help you all out. I worked 251 00:11:46.759 --> 00:11:49.720 in different three different areas of mental health care, from 252 00:11:49.759 --> 00:11:52.960 residential to outpatient, and I have a ball or sense 253 00:11:52.960 --> 00:11:56.759 of humor in my opinion, So let assist. No ps 254 00:11:56.879 --> 00:11:59.639 waiting for nothing but improv day on the Minnesota goodbye, 255 00:12:00.120 --> 00:12:03.320 do that again soon. That's it for now, have a 256 00:12:03.320 --> 00:12:08.120 great day, y'all. All Right, Sleigh, I'm gonna be real honest, 257 00:12:08.159 --> 00:12:11.240 and I would love to have a therapist on And 258 00:12:11.320 --> 00:12:17.000 we've tried several and sometimes because therapists are so smart 259 00:12:17.080 --> 00:12:21.320 and they're so well qualified, they're not always able to 260 00:12:21.399 --> 00:12:23.519 keep it concise. And I think that's one of the 261 00:12:23.559 --> 00:12:25.480 things we've run into with a lot of experts, because 262 00:12:25.480 --> 00:12:27.799 I've learned over my years in radio. You could have 263 00:12:28.039 --> 00:12:32.000 somebody who's an expert in nutrition and you get them 264 00:12:32.000 --> 00:12:33.360 on the show to talk about, you know, what's the 265 00:12:33.399 --> 00:12:35.879 best thing to eat for being healthy, and they get 266 00:12:35.960 --> 00:12:38.600 so deep into the weeds because they're so smart and 267 00:12:38.639 --> 00:12:41.919 so qualified and passionate about what they do, but they're 268 00:12:41.919 --> 00:12:44.639 not always the best people on the radio, So I 269 00:12:44.679 --> 00:12:47.440 would not say I would say that when you say 270 00:12:47.480 --> 00:12:50.279 you have a baller sense of humor, that's a plus 271 00:12:50.279 --> 00:12:53.120 for me. Yeah, because for you to call yourself out 272 00:12:53.159 --> 00:12:54.799 as having a great sense of humor and use the 273 00:12:54.799 --> 00:12:57.679 word baller, I would suspect that you probably be pretty 274 00:12:57.679 --> 00:12:57.960 good on the. 275 00:12:57.960 --> 00:13:00.960 Right And then with Sleigh. Yeah. 276 00:13:01.039 --> 00:13:03.559 But we but we oftentimes don't put experts on the 277 00:13:03.639 --> 00:13:06.799 radio anymore because Jenny and I have experienced. You will 278 00:13:06.840 --> 00:13:10.639 get somebody on who's a great expert on cruise ships, like, Okay, 279 00:13:10.679 --> 00:13:12.279 here's the best way to go on a cruise ship. 280 00:13:12.559 --> 00:13:15.600 At about thirteen seconds in, we're like, holy fuck, wrap 281 00:13:15.639 --> 00:13:15.919 it up. 282 00:13:18.879 --> 00:13:20.480 No, no, not at all. 283 00:13:20.559 --> 00:13:22.919 I mean we just don't in general do kind of 284 00:13:22.960 --> 00:13:24.919 like intervieweek type of. 285 00:13:24.879 --> 00:13:26.320 St it's not really our tone. Yeah. 286 00:13:26.440 --> 00:13:27.639 Ways, so it's a lot. 287 00:13:27.759 --> 00:13:30.759 It's like, if something really big happens, we get Sharon McMahon, 288 00:13:31.120 --> 00:13:33.559 who she is very much media trained, so she does 289 00:13:33.600 --> 00:13:37.480 such a fantastic job. But we don't typically have too 290 00:13:37.519 --> 00:13:40.320 many experts we need on for things on the show 291 00:13:40.399 --> 00:13:42.600 because because we are the expert we are. 292 00:13:43.399 --> 00:13:46.960 We love hearing from you to give us your opinion. 293 00:13:46.960 --> 00:13:50.120 And we love when therapists or doctors or cruise experts 294 00:13:50.200 --> 00:13:52.759 right in and say, I am a blah blah blah 295 00:13:52.799 --> 00:13:55.879 wedding planner, and I know this. Jonathan Fogel is really good. 296 00:13:55.960 --> 00:13:59.320 He's an entertainer. He's able to keep it concise and short. 297 00:13:59.720 --> 00:14:02.759 And but even I've got talked to by the boss 298 00:14:02.799 --> 00:14:05.120 because once in a while, Jonathan Fogel and I will 299 00:14:05.120 --> 00:14:07.120 get too chatty and the boss will be like, you 300 00:14:07.120 --> 00:14:09.000 know what, you don't need to talk to Jonathan Fogel 301 00:14:09.039 --> 00:14:13.399 for eight and a half minutes after ward, Thanks for 302 00:14:13.440 --> 00:14:19.240 that one. Next one, longtime listeners thought of a couple 303 00:14:19.240 --> 00:14:21.480 of things. I had an older brother. Mostly we got along, 304 00:14:21.519 --> 00:14:26.159 but he had a stray streak of boy mean. One time, 305 00:14:26.360 --> 00:14:28.480 running away from him, I tried to climb a barbed 306 00:14:28.480 --> 00:14:31.480 wire fence and caught my leg coming down on a 307 00:14:31.519 --> 00:14:36.399 barb Literally, a three inch deep gash should have had 308 00:14:36.440 --> 00:14:40.559 stitches three inches deep. That'll go down to the bone. 309 00:14:40.600 --> 00:14:44.799 Do you mean a three inch long gash three inches deep? 310 00:14:44.840 --> 00:14:46.919 Hold your fingers about three inches apart. 311 00:14:47.039 --> 00:14:48.000 That sounds like it hurts. 312 00:14:48.080 --> 00:14:51.639 That would go to the bonew Okay, I believe you. 313 00:14:52.279 --> 00:14:54.559 They said I still have an Astis car and no stitches. Also, 314 00:14:54.639 --> 00:14:56.960 for funny, spray painted my barbie all black and then 315 00:14:57.000 --> 00:14:59.120 turned the spray paint on me and got my eyes. 316 00:14:59.519 --> 00:15:04.519 I was made five wow. Er visit no long term damage. Lastly, 317 00:15:05.360 --> 00:15:08.080 this dumb college girl was visiting a state park with 318 00:15:08.120 --> 00:15:11.000 my then boyfriend. Was wearing a denim skirt and thought 319 00:15:11.039 --> 00:15:14.320 she would jump from one set of parking posts. They're 320 00:15:14.320 --> 00:15:16.879 almost like a balanced beam in front of each parking spot, 321 00:15:17.279 --> 00:15:19.879 so the skirt held me back and cracked my head 322 00:15:19.919 --> 00:15:23.720 on the bean post. Thing concussion and er visit fun times. 323 00:15:24.679 --> 00:15:27.840 I've also had concussions on backyard skating ponds and skiing. 324 00:15:28.240 --> 00:15:30.759 Yike's Luckily I can still hold a high level job. 325 00:15:31.240 --> 00:15:38.279 Keep up the amazing entertainment A right, D. Thanks D. 326 00:15:38.919 --> 00:15:43.360 You are definitely injury prone, but I appreciate that. Let 327 00:15:43.360 --> 00:15:46.240 me see here. Let me go back a little bit, 328 00:15:47.320 --> 00:15:49.360 and there's some that we didn't get to yesterday, so 329 00:15:49.399 --> 00:15:53.799 bear with me while I page around here. Caught up 330 00:15:53.799 --> 00:15:56.480 gang hopef, you're having a wonderful week so far. Need 331 00:15:56.519 --> 00:15:59.600 some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together seven years. 332 00:16:00.039 --> 00:16:02.879 We're both twenty five, lived together since junior year of college. 333 00:16:02.879 --> 00:16:06.720 We're having differences about moving out of Minnesota. We were 334 00:16:06.759 --> 00:16:09.320 both born and raised here. She really wants to get 335 00:16:09.360 --> 00:16:11.480 out of Minnesota due to a lot of family and 336 00:16:11.519 --> 00:16:14.600 personal problems she's been having lately, and just says she 337 00:16:14.639 --> 00:16:16.840 wants to try a new lifestyle in a different state. 338 00:16:16.919 --> 00:16:19.720 I feel the opposite. I love Minnesota. I've got a 339 00:16:19.720 --> 00:16:22.799 great paying job side hustle, and I play semi pro soccer, 340 00:16:22.840 --> 00:16:24.919 so I love it here. All of my friends and 341 00:16:24.960 --> 00:16:26.960 family are here as well. I'm open minded to movie, 342 00:16:27.039 --> 00:16:29.639 but she's really pushing the idea and I just have 343 00:16:29.759 --> 00:16:32.320 second thoughts. I am open minded to moving, but I'm 344 00:16:32.360 --> 00:16:35.559 a bit hesitant as everything's going well for me here. 345 00:16:35.639 --> 00:16:38.279 Any advice on how I should handle the situation. Do 346 00:16:38.320 --> 00:16:40.799 you guys recommend moving or trying out a new lifestyle 347 00:16:40.879 --> 00:16:43.279 somewhere else? Would really love your input on this. Also, 348 00:16:43.399 --> 00:16:45.279 just for fun, if you guys move out of state, 349 00:16:45.279 --> 00:16:47.600 what state would you pick? And why? Hope y'all have 350 00:16:47.639 --> 00:16:49.360 a great rest of the week. Thanks for everything you 351 00:16:49.440 --> 00:16:53.159 do all right, which, if you don't know, that is 352 00:16:53.159 --> 00:16:55.000 a sign off that we use and I don't know 353 00:16:55.039 --> 00:16:56.080 how it came up, but. 354 00:16:56.279 --> 00:16:59.279 All right, old country buffet guys. 355 00:16:59.159 --> 00:17:04.480 Thank you, Bailey, exactly right. Yet the old country buffet guy, Jenny, 356 00:17:04.519 --> 00:17:07.240 you start, Yes, he loves it here, she does not 357 00:17:07.440 --> 00:17:07.880 move or no. 358 00:17:08.839 --> 00:17:12.000 I think that that is like going to build resentment 359 00:17:12.000 --> 00:17:14.000 in your relationship if you really don't want to. So 360 00:17:14.039 --> 00:17:15.799 I think you guys got to talk that one through. 361 00:17:17.119 --> 00:17:20.279 But I would say move yes, personally. I think that, like, 362 00:17:20.400 --> 00:17:22.599 especially if you're young enough you don't have like kids 363 00:17:22.640 --> 00:17:25.079 holding you down here, I say, yeah. 364 00:17:24.720 --> 00:17:26.759 I kind of agree Bailey. 365 00:17:26.880 --> 00:17:27.240 I don't know. 366 00:17:27.279 --> 00:17:30.119 He seems the way that he worded it seems very 367 00:17:30.240 --> 00:17:32.319 much so that he does not want to move, and 368 00:17:32.400 --> 00:17:34.279 so like he says, oh, I'm open to moving, but 369 00:17:34.319 --> 00:17:36.240 then less a million things why he wouldn't want to. 370 00:17:36.599 --> 00:17:40.240 So I feel like it would create resentment if between, 371 00:17:40.359 --> 00:17:43.440 like for you, if you moved for her and then 372 00:17:43.480 --> 00:17:45.119 you didn't like it and you missed it here, and 373 00:17:45.160 --> 00:17:45.519 then what. 374 00:17:46.119 --> 00:17:49.519 I think you're both right. I have another little observation. 375 00:17:49.759 --> 00:17:54.400 I know somebody who had family problems here and they 376 00:17:54.960 --> 00:17:58.240 moved away, way away to get away from the family 377 00:17:58.240 --> 00:18:01.400 problems to start a new life. The problem was they 378 00:18:01.799 --> 00:18:05.119 were most of the problem. And I want you to 379 00:18:05.200 --> 00:18:10.119 ask yourself to the person who wrote this letter, is 380 00:18:10.400 --> 00:18:13.720 she part of the problem? And in other words, I 381 00:18:14.119 --> 00:18:16.720 wouldn't want to live near my I wouldn't mind living 382 00:18:16.720 --> 00:18:18.279 near my family, but I have to keep my family 383 00:18:18.319 --> 00:18:22.599 at arms distance because I cannot support Donna. I cannot 384 00:18:22.599 --> 00:18:27.480 support other sisters. And they're not full of drama, They're 385 00:18:27.519 --> 00:18:31.759 full of can you loan me money? And so I 386 00:18:31.759 --> 00:18:35.359 would have trouble. But if I were to move, I'd 387 00:18:35.359 --> 00:18:37.160 move to Colorado. Where would you move, Bailey, I'd moved 388 00:18:37.160 --> 00:18:40.880 to Chicago, Okay, Jenny, Oregon. Now we get into a 389 00:18:40.880 --> 00:18:44.759 little odd part of the Minnesota goodbye Now. Yesterday we 390 00:18:44.799 --> 00:18:47.039 recorded it in two parts. The first part was about 391 00:18:47.039 --> 00:18:50.000 fifteen minutes long, and we recorded probably another ten minutes 392 00:18:50.000 --> 00:18:53.000 after that. Well, because we have terrible equipment, the second 393 00:18:53.039 --> 00:18:56.079 half did not record. So I tried to go back 394 00:18:56.119 --> 00:18:59.079 and restore the emails that we had read and deleted. 395 00:18:59.559 --> 00:19:02.160 And I'm might repeat some because none of us can 396 00:19:02.279 --> 00:19:08.359 remember exactly what we read yesterday. Are you with me? 397 00:19:08.400 --> 00:19:09.160 Does that make any sense? 398 00:19:09.240 --> 00:19:09.799 I'm with you. 399 00:19:09.880 --> 00:19:11.359 I just want you to check in make sure it's 400 00:19:11.400 --> 00:19:13.839 recording right now. 401 00:19:14.039 --> 00:19:16.319