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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to another episode of the Chicks on the Right podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>where we talked to our friend and sponsor of the show,

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<v Speaker 1>Zach Abraham from Bulwart Capital Management. Zach, are you a

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<v Speaker 1>follower of Dave Ramsey?

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<v Speaker 2>I like Dave. I don't watch him regularly, but you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a fan.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think that's kind of like.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have time to watch every episode, but I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate his role in the world, and he's helped a

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<v Speaker 1>ton of people manage their money. And I saw a

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<v Speaker 1>real interesting question come into him that I was surprised

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<v Speaker 1>by his answer. Normally, I'm like, of course, that makes

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<v Speaker 1>all kinds of sense, but this time I was surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>So there was a caller who was twenty six, a

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<v Speaker 1>guy who called in and said, Hey, I'm twenty six,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm about to get engaged, but my net worth is

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<v Speaker 1>way higher than my girlfriends. Do I need to get

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<v Speaker 1>a prenup? And so Dave's like, okay, well what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean exactly? And the guy said, I have fifty

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<v Speaker 1>grand from I'm assuming cash, I have fifty grand from

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<v Speaker 1>my grandparents for a house. I have a fifty thousand

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<v Speaker 1>dollars truck that I have equity in one hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>sixty five grand across four one K accounts, one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and fifty grand left in a college fund. My fiance

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<v Speaker 1>is finishing PA school with about one hundred and twenty

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<v Speaker 1>thousand in debt. Nice And Dave said, well, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you make every year? And the guy said about one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and twenty grand a year. So Dave said, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, if you've got six hundred grand to your

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<v Speaker 1>name at twenty six, that's really really good. But secondly,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not enough of a net worth to warrant a prenup,

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<v Speaker 1>which I was stunned at because he's basically coming in

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<v Speaker 1>to the relationship with like everything, with everything and no debt,

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<v Speaker 1>and so like, what is your take on that? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think just in the in terms of prenups, which

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<v Speaker 1>I think we may have discussed with you before, but

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<v Speaker 1>still like in that example and in others, is it

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<v Speaker 1>something that you talk about with your clients ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it something that comes up.

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<v Speaker 4>Not a law because you know, the vast majority of

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<v Speaker 4>our clients are married right in their sixties. Obviously, when

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<v Speaker 4>you're married in your sixties, divorce rates very low, right so.

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<v Speaker 2>And most unless you captain well there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, obviously to not keep them together. It did

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<v Speaker 3>not clearly together.

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<v Speaker 2>Clear there's.

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<v Speaker 3>Up around for some muskrat love is what he wanted.

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<v Speaker 3>This is getting out of hand. It's getting a hand.

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<v Speaker 2>In a good way, in a good.

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<v Speaker 4>There, my mike, my Mike even took off there and

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<v Speaker 4>it's not where.

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<v Speaker 2>Even are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't you go where?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello? Hello?

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<v Speaker 5>There?

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<v Speaker 6>It was a muskrat love that put him over there.

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<v Speaker 4>It killed it killed killed the roadcast Okay, muskrat love

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<v Speaker 4>out short circus, in the circuits.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, goodness, okay, any of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Do not.

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<v Speaker 2>This is this is gold anyway.

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<v Speaker 6>All the years are like, what's muskrat love?

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<v Speaker 3>Like googling it, the ai ing it right now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's boomer music, guys, it's boomer music. Okay, right, totally anyway, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>When he said that out of curiosity, because I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>super intimate with did he mean like legally, is there

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<v Speaker 4>like a legal amount that you can't protect?

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<v Speaker 6>And I think so, I think he was just giving

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<v Speaker 6>like his philosophical like for that individual person.

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<v Speaker 3>He thought that that wasn't enough because I don't think there's.

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<v Speaker 1>Any legal I mean, if you want a prenup and

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<v Speaker 1>you each have ten bucks. I think you can get

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<v Speaker 1>a prenup like a lawyer is going to help.

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<v Speaker 3>You, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, man, So it's so hard.

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<v Speaker 4>I hate to answer it this way, but if it was,

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<v Speaker 4>I'll just take Like if it was if it was

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<v Speaker 4>a young couple that was like my wife and I

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<v Speaker 4>when we got married, I'd tell him not to sweat it,

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<v Speaker 4>just because, you know, nobody knows what relationships are going

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<v Speaker 4>to work and which ones are. But we've all seen,

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<v Speaker 4>like there's some obvious ones where you go, this isn't

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<v Speaker 4>a good idea, right, you know, and then yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you just and you never like to be right, but

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<v Speaker 4>you usually are. Yeah, we all know those circumstances.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>So generally speaking, generally speaking, I told I would agree

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<v Speaker 4>with him.

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<v Speaker 2>I think in the sense that.

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<v Speaker 4>I traditionally I don't think that's enough to protect And

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<v Speaker 4>I think that part of the thing about choosing to,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, share your life with somebody else is coming

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<v Speaker 4>together and sharing the circumstances and figuring it out and

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<v Speaker 4>doing it together and all that kind.

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<v Speaker 2>Of stuff I agree with.

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<v Speaker 4>But but the flip side, let me go talk to you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I've got a friend going through a situation right now

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<v Speaker 4>where you know, infidelity was involved.

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<v Speaker 2>Wasn't his fault.

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<v Speaker 4>He was the one that had assets and he's getting

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<v Speaker 4>taken for you know, probably forty percent of his net worth.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh, oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always been like I feel like what you bring

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<v Speaker 1>into the marriage isn't even the issue. It's what you

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<v Speaker 1>potentially will earn together, or what one of you will

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<v Speaker 1>earn and the other one will be along for the ride,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's cool. Like a Jeff Bezos for example, his

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<v Speaker 1>wife was there to build him up, to help build

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<v Speaker 1>up the business, and so she got a huge fortune

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<v Speaker 1>out of their divorce. But it's to protect what's to come,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, just as much as it is about what

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<v Speaker 1>you're bringing in. And so that's why I was just

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<v Speaker 1>real surprised by his take on that, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know what I mean, because it's well and this is

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<v Speaker 4>why I would have a tough one with it though,

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<v Speaker 4>And I think that I think that you could justify

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<v Speaker 4>either answer. Are we talking about it in terms of

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<v Speaker 4>financial or we And like Dave talked like it's a

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<v Speaker 4>financial show, so he's talking about finances. But Dave's also

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<v Speaker 4>you know, a guy that's you know, very much interested

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<v Speaker 4>in and he's a Christian guy, you know, big fan

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<v Speaker 4>of the institution of marriage, things like that. So I

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<v Speaker 4>think that those are questions to ask. But then it

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<v Speaker 4>kind of goes around, which is, if somebody has substantially

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<v Speaker 4>more going into a relationship, and everybody is there for

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<v Speaker 4>the right reason, then why would there be pushed back

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<v Speaker 4>on a prenup, you know, or maybe even a time

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<v Speaker 4>certain prenup, maybe it's for the first ten years or

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<v Speaker 4>something like that. That's just I have a tough time

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<v Speaker 4>with that one, because what do you tell young people

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<v Speaker 4>to do. I know that, you know, marriage is tough enough,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's tough enough when you're in and it's wonderful,

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<v Speaker 4>but you know it's difficult too if you're both fully committed,

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<v Speaker 4>and so one of you know, party sits there and goes, is.

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<v Speaker 2>This one of you having one foot out there? Or

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? Like, you know, I kind

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<v Speaker 2>of feel that way too.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I mean I think, but I think I'm probably

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<v Speaker 6>the only one here at the three of us.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I'm wrong. That's a child of divorce.

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<v Speaker 6>And so I've seen I've seen ugly I've seen I

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<v Speaker 6>don't think your parents are divorced, but I've seen some

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<v Speaker 6>ugliness in divorce. And no matter what, even like even

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<v Speaker 6>with you can agree on whatever at the beginning, but

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<v Speaker 6>if it ends ugly, even in a you know, an

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<v Speaker 6>emotional way, people are going to be fighting over plates, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>It's like so true the bank accounts are like even

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<v Speaker 6>the least of the concern because they just want to

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<v Speaker 6>they're fighting anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I look at it and I'm like, I there's just

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<v Speaker 6>never a win, even if you have a prenup. I

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<v Speaker 6>just don't think there's a It sucks for your friend though,

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<v Speaker 6>Like I think about your friend, and I think what

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<v Speaker 6>sucks is that, you know, they can't just be normal

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<v Speaker 6>human beings at the end of a situation like that

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<v Speaker 6>and go, okay, how did we we started off as

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<v Speaker 6>people who actually loved each other and liked each other

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<v Speaker 6>a little bit. Let's not be complete dicks at the end,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean, Like that would be the best,

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<v Speaker 6>but people just people are always people are dicks at

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<v Speaker 6>the end.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's like this is what stinks, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, especially you know, and this is a tale as

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<v Speaker 4>old as time. But I've learned this and I've had

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<v Speaker 4>this put my face multiple times dealing with honestly, both

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<v Speaker 4>sides of this income tax fight. Meaning it is, it

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<v Speaker 4>is so disheartening to me how important people are gonna

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<v Speaker 4>be like you're.

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<v Speaker 2>A money manager, and I know, I know, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Get it, but but it it just it never, it

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<v Speaker 4>just never ceases to amaze me how people will separate ethics.

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<v Speaker 2>And morality from money.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I mean, We're like, what what like

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<v Speaker 4>they they'll sit there and they'll sing a good song

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<v Speaker 4>about this and that Da da da da, and then

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<v Speaker 4>when a money situation comes up, it's, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a business decision.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, hold on a second, I'm still going off about

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<v Speaker 4>your moral discussion you just had over right, what do

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<v Speaker 4>you mean it's all you know, it's like that will,

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<v Speaker 4>it's not business, it's personal nonsense, and business is personal

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<v Speaker 4>and what you do with money, in my opinion, is

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<v Speaker 4>a true indication of character.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, we've got a lot of people in the

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<v Speaker 4>state right now. I'm so against the income tax. So

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<v Speaker 4>I'm so against the income tax and I'm rich and

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<v Speaker 4>it's gonna hurt me. And then you want to donate no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>And you're.

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<v Speaker 5>Just like Manet, get out of here, right because at

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<v Speaker 5>the end of the day they're reading all they're fearful

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<v Speaker 5>and and at the end of the day they can

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<v Speaker 5>sit there and talk about their politics and I'm fighting

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<v Speaker 5>for that.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not fighting for anything. All you care about is

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<v Speaker 4>your own pocketbook. And that's one of the things that's

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<v Speaker 4>like infect at our country, right, like this money above

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<v Speaker 4>all all other things. Nobody stands on principle anymore. You

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<v Speaker 4>know what, what about the old stand of that could

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<v Speaker 4>cost you everything? Yeah, I'm more yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, And I guess a prenup is sort of like

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<v Speaker 6>I guess, an add on to what the laws that

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<v Speaker 6>are already on the but like it depends on what

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<v Speaker 6>state you're in, right, I mean like something, you know

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<v Speaker 6>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>I was saying all that in defensive prenups, meaning like

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<v Speaker 4>you can see kind of the other side of it,

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<v Speaker 4>because like you guys were saying, like you know, you

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<v Speaker 4>can have the most beautiful art, like my buddy's situation,

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<v Speaker 4>and he's not perfect, but he was the one that

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<v Speaker 4>came in with it. His spouse lived a life that

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<v Speaker 2>Not hers.

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<v Speaker 4>Then she cheats on him and I know for a

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<v Speaker 4>fact he didn't do it to her, that she's not

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<v Speaker 4>even alleging that, and watching what she has done to

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<v Speaker 6>And when you see that, Yeah, that's why I wish

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<v Speaker 6>that courts would look at every individual situation and make

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<v Speaker 6>they did that more instead of had these blanket Well,

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<v Speaker 6>see that way too much. They need to start looking

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<v Speaker 6>individually because that sucks for your buddy. It sucks, and

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<v Speaker 6>that happens way too often.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, think about how amazing it would be and maybe

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<v Speaker 1>how much things would change when it comes to family

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<v Speaker 1>law if prenups were just part of the whole process

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<v Speaker 1>of marriage. Agree, and if it just came with like

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<v Speaker 1>the unfortunate circumstance that we ever split, how would we

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<v Speaker 1>like each other to be treated? And that's and that

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<v Speaker 1>happens across the board, so that nobody's hurt about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's it's just part.

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<v Speaker 3>Of the process. Would save so much heartache.

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<v Speaker 4>I agree, I heard, and it caught me so off guard,

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<v Speaker 4>right because I hear I'm watching an interview of like

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<v Speaker 4>one of the nation's most successful divorce attorneys.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sitting was it, Yeah, he's like one of our

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<v Speaker 1>James Sections tell me, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm prepping myself for a reaction to what he says,

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<v Speaker 4>something along the lines of what I feel every time

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<v Speaker 4>I hear Gavin Newsom talk. Right, I'm gonna feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I need to take a shower, right right, Yeah, Because

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<v Speaker 4>he made this point that just stopped my anti Yeah, Prina,

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<v Speaker 4>it just stopped in his tracks. Where he goes, where

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<v Speaker 4>did this idea come that having a predetermined agreement to

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<v Speaker 4>protect all parties involved, especially if you have children, Why

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<v Speaker 4>in the world would that be a bad idea? Because

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<v Speaker 4>we know that one of the most contentious, horrible things

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<v Speaker 4>in the world are divorce processes that turn into fights

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<v Speaker 4>over assets and money, and the kids are often the

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<v Speaker 4>biggest loser. And he goes, why would it be a

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<v Speaker 4>And I went that's a really solid point, right right,

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<v Speaker 4>because we've all seen the war of the roses type

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<v Speaker 2>Right and it smokes everybody, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>That was another one my buddy went through, is he

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<v Speaker 4>tried to explain to her and he goes, listen, here's

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<v Speaker 4>now or we can waste another two hundred and fifty

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<v Speaker 4>or three hundred grand on lawyer fees and we're still

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<v Speaker 4>going to end up here.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess what happened. She wanted to fight over it.

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<v Speaker 4>It looks like he's going to get a favorable ruling,

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<v Speaker 4>but he has to pay her legal bills too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this is my thing. He's lost so much. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>it's his money. So what does she care?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that she doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I agree, it's this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just nuts.

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<v Speaker 6>If they could have some sort of a plan up front,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, that would be the b It's changed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's changed my stance on it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think it did for me too.

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<v Speaker 1>Like as soon as I listened to him, I was

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<v Speaker 1>like because I was so anti because I'm a romantic.

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<v Speaker 3>At heart, and I was like, oh, you don't need

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<v Speaker 3>that if you love each other.

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<v Speaker 1>He completely changed my mind about the entire issue. And

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<v Speaker 1>now I've become just like, everybody needs them all everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what money you have, no matter what money

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have, everybody needs them.

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<v Speaker 3>That's my stance.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, well, like I said, seeing what I've

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<v Speaker 4>seen up close now and hearing him talk, I am

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<v Speaker 4>much more open to it. I'm much more open to

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<v Speaker 4>I think doing it the way my wife and I did,

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<v Speaker 4>and we were so lucky. Like That's the other thing

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<v Speaker 4>you realize is when you have a great marriage, you've

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<v Speaker 4>done some things right, but you've also been really lucky

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<v Speaker 4>and really blast and you know, get both. Starting with

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<v Speaker 4>nothing and building it together sure makes it a lot easier.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, in the event, in the event that one

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<v Speaker 4>has I've really.

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<v Speaker 2>Come around on that idea. I think it's not a

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<v Speaker 2>bad it's not a bad way to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the good news is that people tend to not

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<v Speaker 1>if they.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a conservative one like you. It has integrity.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell people how they can find you and how they

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<v Speaker 1>can seek you out for financial help.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, not hard to find, go to Bororcapital Management dot com.

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