WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.360 --> 00:00:01.360 Stuck at home. 2 00:00:02.879 --> 00:00:07.320 And alone. You'd think I could have some fun on. 3 00:00:07.320 --> 00:00:16.960 My own, but not all. I thought if with Cecily 4 00:00:17.039 --> 00:00:21.879 and Stephanie, what's up, everybody, welcome to boord af It's 5 00:00:21.960 --> 00:00:25.640 me Stephanie Wilder Taylor, and I'm here with the beautiful 6 00:00:26.039 --> 00:00:27.000 Cecily Nobler. 7 00:00:27.440 --> 00:00:31.679 I just agree with that, super beautiful. Thank y'all. What 8 00:00:31.800 --> 00:00:34.960 if I pretended that you didn't think you were and 9 00:00:35.000 --> 00:00:37.759 I was successfully, stop you are. You're pretty? 10 00:00:37.799 --> 00:00:39.479 Look at this old look in the mirror. Go to 11 00:00:39.520 --> 00:00:41.320 a mirror right now, And I'm like, no, I'm fine. 12 00:00:41.359 --> 00:00:42.200 I don't think I'm not. 13 00:00:42.359 --> 00:00:46.560 No, I'm you are not ugly. Stop stop thinking that. 14 00:00:46.560 --> 00:00:49.960 That's ridiculous. You're so pretty. 15 00:00:50.840 --> 00:00:53.399 I had a little argument with a friend somewhat recently 16 00:00:53.920 --> 00:00:56.679 who we've had. We've had this argument before, and I 17 00:00:56.719 --> 00:00:59.240 don't try, don't try to guess who it is, Like, okay, 18 00:00:59.399 --> 00:01:01.399 you know, but I don't want to. But we had 19 00:01:01.439 --> 00:01:04.319 this little thing where we took a picture and then 20 00:01:04.359 --> 00:01:07.159 I was like, let me let me filter it a 21 00:01:07.159 --> 00:01:08.920 little bit, like not a lot. I don't do the 22 00:01:09.079 --> 00:01:10.959 filtering where you take out all the wrinkles and stuff, 23 00:01:10.959 --> 00:01:12.599 but I like to lighten it. A little and take 24 00:01:12.599 --> 00:01:15.000 the dark short a little bit, like not where it 25 00:01:15.000 --> 00:01:17.359 doesn't look like me, but just a little bit better, 26 00:01:17.519 --> 00:01:18.200 slightly better. 27 00:01:18.239 --> 00:01:19.359 I don't change my body. 28 00:01:19.359 --> 00:01:21.400 I don't change a lot, but sometimes I just want 29 00:01:21.439 --> 00:01:23.159 the light to be a little brighter before it. 30 00:01:24.280 --> 00:01:26.239 And so I was like, does this look okay? And 31 00:01:26.280 --> 00:01:29.159 my friend was like, my god, like you look how 32 00:01:29.159 --> 00:01:31.239 you look? Like what are you gonna do? Oh? 33 00:01:31.400 --> 00:01:34.000 It was so and I we got into this and 34 00:01:34.079 --> 00:01:36.280 I'm feeling like, okay, I don't even want to say 35 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:39.799 I'm feeling sensitive, Like I'm always sensitive. I've been sensitive 36 00:01:39.840 --> 00:01:42.640 since I was like two years old. I have a 37 00:01:42.640 --> 00:01:46.200 stage mother. I'm a woman, you know, an older woman 38 00:01:46.319 --> 00:01:48.000 who like who is beauty? 39 00:01:48.120 --> 00:01:48.599 Always? 40 00:01:49.000 --> 00:01:51.760 Not that I'm beautiful, but like that's what you led 41 00:01:51.799 --> 00:01:54.239 with with my mother and with Texas and you know 42 00:01:54.239 --> 00:01:56.079 what I mean. And it's just and so we had 43 00:01:56.079 --> 00:01:57.680 this little thing and I go, you know, it would 44 00:01:57.680 --> 00:01:59.519 not kill you to give a compliment to your friend, 45 00:01:59.680 --> 00:02:01.439 Like that's what friends are for. We like build each 46 00:02:01.439 --> 00:02:03.079 other up. And my friend was like, you know what, 47 00:02:03.120 --> 00:02:04.959 You're right, and I need to work on that. But 48 00:02:05.040 --> 00:02:07.000 now it's just gonna be like, oh my god, you 49 00:02:07.159 --> 00:02:08.439 are like a model. 50 00:02:09.120 --> 00:02:12.800 So I'm like, okay, well you don't, and then you're 51 00:02:12.840 --> 00:02:14.400 gonna say you don't have to do that, and then 52 00:02:14.439 --> 00:02:18.319 she's gonna go, oh my god, you can't be satisfied. Wow, 53 00:02:19.479 --> 00:02:22.080 I'm sorry. I thought you asked me to give you more. 54 00:02:22.400 --> 00:02:24.000 You're like, yeah, but I just didn't want it to 55 00:02:24.039 --> 00:02:26.639 feel I don't want to feel forced. Oh okay, you 56 00:02:26.680 --> 00:02:29.360 don't want it to feel forced. Sorry, Sorry, I didn't 57 00:02:29.400 --> 00:02:33.159 give you compliments, right, Cecily. I mean, it really is 58 00:02:33.199 --> 00:02:34.919 so crazy though, to be like, oh, let me, do 59 00:02:35.120 --> 00:02:37.080 you think this is a cute picture? And it's just like, 60 00:02:37.400 --> 00:02:38.919 I mean, what are you gonna do? You like how 61 00:02:38.960 --> 00:02:39.439 you look like? 62 00:02:40.000 --> 00:02:43.680 It was insane. It's very Estyan. It's like did you 63 00:02:43.719 --> 00:02:46.840 take the Landmark Forum class or something like? Look, I 64 00:02:46.919 --> 00:02:48.960 just tell it like it is right, and I like it. 65 00:02:48.960 --> 00:02:52.960 Get out my god. I was literally Okay, I would 66 00:02:53.000 --> 00:02:55.759 have even forgotten that this could be a topic, but 67 00:02:57.000 --> 00:02:59.199 I don't, and I have to I have to think 68 00:02:59.199 --> 00:03:01.560 of carefully, like how to even bring this up. But 69 00:03:02.039 --> 00:03:05.120 I was at a I was at a meeting, a 70 00:03:05.199 --> 00:03:10.960 meeting of the minds of people that don't want to drink. Okay, 71 00:03:10.960 --> 00:03:14.960 st An Stan scientology was not an AA meeting, Okay, like, oh, 72 00:03:15.039 --> 00:03:17.639 I get it, sorry, be real, let's just tell it 73 00:03:17.719 --> 00:03:21.759 like it is. Anyway, afterwards, with a group of people 74 00:03:21.800 --> 00:03:24.840 hanging out other people that don't drink, and there was 75 00:03:24.879 --> 00:03:29.840 a woman there who, uh was very she was she 76 00:03:30.039 --> 00:03:33.639 was a older woman, you know, older than me, and 77 00:03:33.960 --> 00:03:36.400 because I'm also an older woman, but she's older than me, 78 00:03:36.680 --> 00:03:38.319 and she was very proud of the fact that she's 79 00:03:38.360 --> 00:03:41.000 from New York and people in New York are very 80 00:03:41.159 --> 00:03:43.840 she's I was like, yeah, you know, new York vibes, 81 00:03:43.879 --> 00:03:46.599 I go, but she's lived in LA and she's lived 82 00:03:46.599 --> 00:03:48.840 in New York, so but she was really proud of 83 00:03:48.879 --> 00:03:50.560 the fact that she's like from New York and she's 84 00:03:50.560 --> 00:03:53.759 from Long Island, even though island she didn't talk like that, 85 00:03:54.080 --> 00:03:57.120 but she was from Long Island. But anyway, I was like, yeah, 86 00:03:57.240 --> 00:04:00.360 you know, I love like there's a vibe of people 87 00:04:00.400 --> 00:04:03.840 that are from either coast, you know. And she was like, 88 00:04:03.919 --> 00:04:06.680 I said, it's sort of like a you know. She goes, yeah, 89 00:04:06.840 --> 00:04:10.120 we tell it like it is, we're blunt, and I 90 00:04:10.159 --> 00:04:12.960 was like, I mean, that wasn't what I was going for. 91 00:04:13.080 --> 00:04:15.719 And then I realized that you know these people that 92 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:17.759 are super proud of the fact that they just tell 93 00:04:17.839 --> 00:04:20.360 like it is. And then she proceeded to be like 94 00:04:20.639 --> 00:04:25.759 kind of insulting, sort of cold. Yeah, but like I 95 00:04:25.519 --> 00:04:28.160 she had the whole vibe of like, yeah, that's who 96 00:04:28.160 --> 00:04:28.439 I am. 97 00:04:28.560 --> 00:04:30.199 Take it or live it, you know, I don't say 98 00:04:30.199 --> 00:04:32.040 what I said like your mom, like your mom. After 99 00:04:32.079 --> 00:04:35.160 she got off the phone with like your aunt, yeah, 100 00:04:35.360 --> 00:04:36.639 from this is who I am. 101 00:04:36.560 --> 00:04:39.120 Y's who I am. Yes, And then she was trying 102 00:04:39.160 --> 00:04:42.199 she was being political, and at first it was kind 103 00:04:42.240 --> 00:04:44.279 of a political that I could get behind, and we 104 00:04:44.279 --> 00:04:47.639 were sort of talking about like you know, the Trump 105 00:04:47.720 --> 00:04:50.439 and how terrible it is. But then she started she 106 00:04:50.600 --> 00:04:55.000 was like yeah, she just started talking about like immigrants 107 00:04:55.120 --> 00:04:58.360 and how like she was kind of anti She's like, yeah, 108 00:04:58.360 --> 00:05:00.319 we just don't need to have open borders. And I 109 00:05:00.360 --> 00:05:03.839 was like, okay, like I thought we were like together 110 00:05:03.959 --> 00:05:06.199 on this, but now we're not. But now you're really 111 00:05:06.319 --> 00:05:08.319 leaning into like what I just tell it like it is, 112 00:05:08.600 --> 00:05:08.800 you know. 113 00:05:09.199 --> 00:05:11.360 But also like here's the thing that bugs me about 114 00:05:11.360 --> 00:05:14.160 stuff like that, No, you're not saying that there should 115 00:05:14.160 --> 00:05:16.879 be open borders and then people should just fly Like 116 00:05:17.000 --> 00:05:19.279 no one's saying that that's the thing that I hate 117 00:05:19.319 --> 00:05:21.759 that gets like a talking point that is so twisted 118 00:05:21.839 --> 00:05:23.560 and not true. 119 00:05:23.680 --> 00:05:26.160 It makes me crazy. It just makes me absolutely crazy. 120 00:05:27.199 --> 00:05:29.199 It's like they just yes, she did a like the 121 00:05:29.240 --> 00:05:32.240 Democrats like want open borders, and I said, you know, 122 00:05:32.680 --> 00:05:35.879 just FYI like not trying to like, you know, start 123 00:05:35.920 --> 00:05:37.600 a thing at a at a thing. We were just 124 00:05:37.639 --> 00:05:40.240 at lunch, and I was like, but you know, Obama 125 00:05:40.360 --> 00:05:43.920 like deported more way more people than tell me. And 126 00:05:43.920 --> 00:05:46.839 then and then like that was especially so and then 127 00:05:46.839 --> 00:05:48.839 she was like, well they should have been more, uh 128 00:05:49.199 --> 00:05:54.240 had more visuals. Like my god. I was like, okay, hey, 129 00:05:54.680 --> 00:05:57.160 I was like, oh my god, it's been so nice 130 00:05:57.199 --> 00:05:58.800 talking to you. I was like, but I'm just going 131 00:05:58.879 --> 00:06:00.560 to go because we were at a long table. There 132 00:06:00.560 --> 00:06:02.720 were like, you know, twenty five people, and I was like, 133 00:06:02.800 --> 00:06:05.199 I'm gonna go. I haven't caught up with my other 134 00:06:05.279 --> 00:06:07.120 friend yet on the other side of the table. So 135 00:06:07.319 --> 00:06:12.600 I'm so nice talking to you. Good for you. I 136 00:06:12.639 --> 00:06:16.319 was like, I mean, not the time right for that. 137 00:06:16.879 --> 00:06:19.639 But it was that that thing of like super proud 138 00:06:19.720 --> 00:06:22.959 of like yeah, I'm just blunt okay, but that's not 139 00:06:23.079 --> 00:06:25.839 like not everybody likes that you're gonna find it. 140 00:06:25.839 --> 00:06:27.959 It's just a weird thing to say because I would 141 00:06:27.959 --> 00:06:30.000 never say this because I don't believe this, but I have. 142 00:06:30.160 --> 00:06:31.959 I actually, like, you know, I love the East Coast 143 00:06:32.040 --> 00:06:34.680 vib very much, like I totally feel like I belong there. 144 00:06:34.680 --> 00:06:37.560 And I said that many times through the years. Yes, 145 00:06:37.600 --> 00:06:39.199 and I do sort of don't. I don't want someone 146 00:06:39.240 --> 00:06:41.360 to be like, you look ugly. But my New York 147 00:06:41.360 --> 00:06:43.560 friends are Jersey friends. Like they don't say that because 148 00:06:43.560 --> 00:06:45.920 they're my friends. That's why I've chosen them, and we're 149 00:06:45.920 --> 00:06:48.519 all good like that. But sometimes when people say that 150 00:06:48.560 --> 00:06:50.279 stuff to me, like I'm in New Yorker, you don't 151 00:06:50.319 --> 00:06:52.480 fuck with this shit or whatever, I want to be like, well, 152 00:06:52.519 --> 00:06:54.800 I'm a Texan and so we're gonna like smile at you, 153 00:06:54.879 --> 00:06:57.120 but I do have a gun, Like I'm not gonna, 154 00:06:57.120 --> 00:06:59.319 I mean, if we're just gonna lean into whatever the 155 00:06:59.360 --> 00:07:01.920 thing is, I'm gonna be really nice to your face, 156 00:07:01.959 --> 00:07:08.560 but I am packing, so. 157 00:07:06.120 --> 00:07:10.040 So look out. Yeah, it's it's like I have a father. 158 00:07:10.199 --> 00:07:16.120 I have a little a complaint. Okay, So have you 159 00:07:16.240 --> 00:07:19.839 noticed how out of control Evite is these days? No, 160 00:07:20.199 --> 00:07:22.920 the problem with the Evite, the problem with the evite 161 00:07:23.000 --> 00:07:26.079 right now? Is that it's not You're not just inviting 162 00:07:26.120 --> 00:07:29.360 somebody to your event. Okay, Uh that's how it used 163 00:07:29.360 --> 00:07:31.600 to be. It was like, oh cool, it's like a 164 00:07:31.639 --> 00:07:34.560 paperless thing, like paper. You send them an evite and 165 00:07:34.600 --> 00:07:36.480 then they can say like yes or no, and you 166 00:07:36.519 --> 00:07:39.120 can go on there and you see your little who's going. 167 00:07:39.560 --> 00:07:44.480 But have you tried to like RSVP to something? Next 168 00:07:44.519 --> 00:07:47.560 time you get you have to RSVP to something, but 169 00:07:47.879 --> 00:07:50.959 no first of all, or you can put yes first. 170 00:07:51.199 --> 00:07:54.360 The evite is then immediately all over you to buy 171 00:07:54.360 --> 00:07:56.720 them a present. Oh I know. I saw I just went. 172 00:07:56.920 --> 00:07:59.160 I just rcp'd for a Christmas party and it was 173 00:07:59.199 --> 00:08:01.920 like Amazon, Yeah, it's link stams and I'm like, I'm 174 00:08:01.959 --> 00:08:04.079 not bringing al like this is they have like eighty 175 00:08:04.120 --> 00:08:04.800 five people. 176 00:08:04.600 --> 00:08:07.800 That come to this yeah present. Yes, it's not a 177 00:08:07.839 --> 00:08:11.040 registry and they don't want that. That's so weird. 178 00:08:11.120 --> 00:08:14.199 So let's just not use evite anymore. I think that's 179 00:08:14.240 --> 00:08:16.800 a goody six Like what are we doing? 180 00:08:17.079 --> 00:08:19.519 So I got an invite to somebody to a birthday 181 00:08:19.519 --> 00:08:23.199 party with a lot of people are invited, Oh my god, 182 00:08:23.240 --> 00:08:25.600 I want to Okay, they keep the list open because 183 00:08:25.600 --> 00:08:27.439 that's the only reason to do that, because I want 184 00:08:27.480 --> 00:08:31.000 to see who's coming. I think, so, I think there 185 00:08:31.160 --> 00:08:33.960 was I think the list was open. Okay, so this 186 00:08:34.039 --> 00:08:37.200 is somebody who I'm not friends with. It's just it's 187 00:08:37.200 --> 00:08:40.759 somebody that I know. I would say, I haven't laid 188 00:08:40.759 --> 00:08:43.080 eyes on them in person in like fifteen years. 189 00:08:43.240 --> 00:08:45.639 Oh oh, I wait, Oh it's a birthday party. Okay, 190 00:08:45.639 --> 00:08:48.679 I I got invited to a Christmas party. Oh remember 191 00:08:48.840 --> 00:08:50.279 chip Chinery. That's a different one that. 192 00:08:50.440 --> 00:08:52.639 Oh my god, we all used to get invited to 193 00:08:52.720 --> 00:08:53.600 every Chip Chinery. 194 00:08:53.879 --> 00:08:56.159 Were still invited to that. Okay, maybe we'll go to that. 195 00:08:56.240 --> 00:08:59.759 Oh that's hilarious. Okay, And remember how we would always 196 00:08:59.759 --> 00:09:01.759 get in to Retta's pink party. 197 00:09:02.279 --> 00:09:04.240 I still get invited to that, you do. I don't 198 00:09:04.279 --> 00:09:05.279 think she had one this. 199 00:09:05.200 --> 00:09:07.279 Past year, or I'm off the list, but I think 200 00:09:07.360 --> 00:09:10.720 sometimes she skips. I usually make the cut on that one. 201 00:09:10.879 --> 00:09:12.840 But yeah, we got to go to the chip We 202 00:09:12.879 --> 00:09:15.679 got to go to that because was it not you? Who? 203 00:09:16.080 --> 00:09:19.279 Who was it? The hooked up in the bathroom of 204 00:09:19.320 --> 00:09:20.639 a Chip Chenery Christmas party? 205 00:09:20.639 --> 00:09:22.879 And we're gonna come back to evite but now probably 206 00:09:23.039 --> 00:09:24.440 our mutual friend. 207 00:09:24.679 --> 00:09:26.639 No I don't think it's who you're thinking. I think 208 00:09:26.639 --> 00:09:27.960 it's our other mutual friend. 209 00:09:28.559 --> 00:09:28.919 Oh. 210 00:09:29.120 --> 00:09:33.080 I don't know exactly what happened, but somebody like randomly 211 00:09:33.120 --> 00:09:35.879 disappeared and I swear I think you were there. And 212 00:09:35.919 --> 00:09:38.159 then they came out all like flustered and they're like, 213 00:09:38.240 --> 00:09:40.639 I just blah blah blah, somebody in the bathroom. Oh 214 00:09:40.639 --> 00:09:43.039 my god, it was a little out of character. Actually 215 00:09:43.039 --> 00:09:46.360 it wasn't. It wasn't who you're thinking. So I don't 216 00:09:46.360 --> 00:09:49.120 know what the fuck anyway, interesting. 217 00:09:48.960 --> 00:09:51.840 So okay. So here's the thing about the Evite though, 218 00:09:51.919 --> 00:09:54.279 So okay, yes, you can go shopping if you're going 219 00:09:54.360 --> 00:09:58.879 to go. Also, Evite is very annoying. After the event. 220 00:09:59.000 --> 00:10:02.879 They just start you for pictures, like you're really going 221 00:10:02.960 --> 00:10:05.120 to take pictures, and then like, listen, I'm not a 222 00:10:05.159 --> 00:10:09.200 professional photographer. I'm not please upload all your photos that 223 00:10:09.240 --> 00:10:13.120 you No, fuck off Evite. I'm busy. But here's their 224 00:10:13.200 --> 00:10:17.639 new thing. So I had to rs vp'd no, and honestly, 225 00:10:18.480 --> 00:10:22.360 I RSVP'd no. Oh, by the way, this party is tonight. 226 00:10:22.440 --> 00:10:25.639 That's so funny. Oh shit, Okay, I'm not going. Ok 227 00:10:26.159 --> 00:10:29.200 And while we're at it, since this is bored af 228 00:10:29.200 --> 00:10:31.320 and we can we can talk about all the aspects 229 00:10:31.360 --> 00:10:34.840 of this. I was feeling, you know, when you get invited, 230 00:10:34.879 --> 00:10:38.000 anytime you get invited to something, everybody, this is human nature. 231 00:10:38.080 --> 00:10:42.480 You feel a little like a little obligated because you're like, well, 232 00:10:42.519 --> 00:10:44.559 they took they wanted to invite me, So now I 233 00:10:44.559 --> 00:10:46.399 feel like I have to have a reason to not 234 00:10:46.559 --> 00:10:50.519 leg But yes, but I had talked to this person. 235 00:10:50.600 --> 00:10:52.720 Though this is a little different because I talked to 236 00:10:52.759 --> 00:10:56.679 this person and they said, hey, I invited you. Okay, 237 00:10:57.080 --> 00:10:59.159 let me go back. When I first got the invite, 238 00:10:59.200 --> 00:11:01.960 it was up to my text, which is always so weird, 239 00:11:02.600 --> 00:11:05.519 and I I kind of ignored it because I swear 240 00:11:05.559 --> 00:11:07.200 to God. At first I thought it was an accident 241 00:11:07.240 --> 00:11:09.399 because I haven't seen this person so long. I was like, oh, 242 00:11:09.480 --> 00:11:12.240 I know they be thinking of me. You know of 243 00:11:12.279 --> 00:11:16.240 this person. I'm not friends that you're not friends with them, 244 00:11:16.240 --> 00:11:18.720 but you know of them. But anyway, so I was like, 245 00:11:18.840 --> 00:11:21.519 oh huh, And then I didn't answer, and then I 246 00:11:21.519 --> 00:11:26.600 got another thing from their assistant saying, hey, I sent 247 00:11:26.679 --> 00:11:31.279 you in evite. Did you get it? And I was like, oh, 248 00:11:31.519 --> 00:11:33.679 I got it, but I guess can you resend it? 249 00:11:33.720 --> 00:11:35.480 Because I don't know what happened to it, and she 250 00:11:35.559 --> 00:11:38.080 said sure, and then she resent it. Then I talked 251 00:11:38.120 --> 00:11:39.919 to the person. She was like, I invited you to 252 00:11:39.960 --> 00:11:45.559 my birthday and I was like, oh, okay, dying to 253 00:11:45.559 --> 00:11:46.080 know who this is. 254 00:11:46.120 --> 00:11:47.679 I know you can't tell me this, but you will 255 00:11:47.679 --> 00:11:49.720 tell me off air, but like I really am sight 256 00:11:49.879 --> 00:11:51.120 like is it a famous person? 257 00:11:51.960 --> 00:11:54.360 No, they're not really famous. Here. I'm going to text 258 00:11:54.360 --> 00:11:55.840 it to you just so just to put you out. 259 00:11:56.000 --> 00:11:58.960 I know it's going to Yeah, it's gonna bug me. Okay, 260 00:11:59.039 --> 00:12:01.799 I'm sending it to you right now. Yeah, okay, I 261 00:12:01.840 --> 00:12:05.519 got it. Got it. So, so when she was talking 262 00:12:05.559 --> 00:12:06.840 to me and she was like, oh, I would love 263 00:12:06.840 --> 00:12:09.279 for you to come to this to my party, and 264 00:12:09.360 --> 00:12:13.200 I was like, I said, well, will I know anybody there? Like, 265 00:12:13.240 --> 00:12:15.000 I don't think I know any of your friends? And 266 00:12:15.000 --> 00:12:17.120 she was like, oh, I think you'll know like a 267 00:12:17.159 --> 00:12:20.679 few people, And in my mind I'm like, no, I won't. 268 00:12:21.120 --> 00:12:22.960 I'm only going to know her, and if I do 269 00:12:23.080 --> 00:12:24.759 know anybody, it's not going to be like a friend 270 00:12:24.759 --> 00:12:27.240 of mine. Right. So then I thought about it and 271 00:12:27.240 --> 00:12:30.720 I felt guilty because she invited me and was like, 272 00:12:30.799 --> 00:12:32.799 I really want you to come. I'd love to see you. 273 00:12:33.320 --> 00:12:36.039 And then just the other day, I've been going through 274 00:12:36.080 --> 00:12:40.000 some stuff. You know, I just lost my sweet Penelope, 275 00:12:40.559 --> 00:12:43.200 Penelope Pie, and I was like, you know what, I'm 276 00:12:43.200 --> 00:12:45.440 not going to I'm not going to a party the 277 00:12:45.480 --> 00:12:48.360 next night of somebody I don't know and don't want 278 00:12:48.360 --> 00:12:51.159 to go to. Absolutely not. And then I just was 279 00:12:51.240 --> 00:12:54.840 like be brave at RSVP no because I think I 280 00:12:54.879 --> 00:12:57.919 had RSVP'd maybe I met her inner New York and 281 00:12:57.960 --> 00:13:00.960 be like no, yes, like yeah from the meeting. So 282 00:13:01.080 --> 00:13:05.440 I wrote no, and I and I just sent it. 283 00:13:06.519 --> 00:13:09.120 So I get a thing back today six hours ago. 284 00:13:10.159 --> 00:13:13.279 Can't make it to blah blah blah's birthday party. We 285 00:13:13.360 --> 00:13:16.080 heard you can't make it to blah blah Blah's birthday party. 286 00:13:16.559 --> 00:13:18.639 Just because you won't be there in person doesn't mean 287 00:13:18.679 --> 00:13:21.799 you can't still send a little love that's sucking a 288 00:13:21.799 --> 00:13:23.919 little something from the heart. And then I got the 289 00:13:24.039 --> 00:13:28.120 Amazon and then and then under that, so it gives 290 00:13:28.120 --> 00:13:31.120 you Amazon shop now. So I'm wondering if there's if 291 00:13:31.159 --> 00:13:33.080 this is going to lead to a registry, and I'm 292 00:13:33.080 --> 00:13:35.360 going to click on it and tell you momentarily, but 293 00:13:35.519 --> 00:13:39.799 below that it says, everyone loves a gift card. Go 294 00:13:40.000 --> 00:13:43.600 fuck yourself, Go fuck yourself. Everyone loves a gift card. 295 00:13:43.720 --> 00:13:44.799 Fuck off, I'm not. 296 00:13:44.679 --> 00:13:49.799 Getting a gift cardnoxious. That is insanity. Yeah, that's absolute 297 00:13:49.879 --> 00:13:50.679 fucking crazy. 298 00:13:51.360 --> 00:13:53.960 Okay, is there a registry person doesn't need? No, I 299 00:13:54.279 --> 00:13:56.320 looked at it. I clicked on it and it says 300 00:13:56.360 --> 00:14:00.320 gift shop. And then I's just doing that ye shot 301 00:14:00.360 --> 00:14:03.960 by occasion, birthdays, new home, baby shower. No, no, she's 302 00:14:04.000 --> 00:14:08.320 not doing it. And Evite is pushing it. But it's like, 303 00:14:08.759 --> 00:14:12.600 stop forcing this consumerism that nobody asked for. 304 00:14:12.720 --> 00:14:15.000 Just because they have a deal with Amazon. Everything's one 305 00:14:15.039 --> 00:14:17.360 big fucking corporation. I finally get it, and I'm going 306 00:14:17.399 --> 00:14:19.639 to tell you something else. This right here, right now, 307 00:14:19.879 --> 00:14:22.080 we're going to break some news for us. Because we've 308 00:14:22.120 --> 00:14:24.279 been doing this show for a really long time. I 309 00:14:24.320 --> 00:14:27.559 have finally come around. What's today it is when we're 310 00:14:27.679 --> 00:14:29.559 recording this, it's November twenty second. 311 00:14:29.679 --> 00:14:34.399 Yes, this is the day that Kennedy died nineteen sixty three. Yeah. Oh, shape, 312 00:14:34.799 --> 00:14:35.320 Like I don't get it. 313 00:14:35.360 --> 00:14:37.559 Happy birthday Kennedy And you're like, no, no, no, that's 314 00:14:37.639 --> 00:14:38.360 not a birthday. 315 00:14:38.440 --> 00:14:42.399 Died opposite Yeah, terrible. Uh, I think that, Yeah, I 316 00:14:42.559 --> 00:14:43.679 get Okay. 317 00:14:43.759 --> 00:14:46.159 It's not that I didn't like him before, but now 318 00:14:46.200 --> 00:14:49.600 I totally get Bernie. It took me to this year 319 00:14:49.799 --> 00:14:52.679 to fully understand and appreciate Bernie Sanders. 320 00:14:52.720 --> 00:14:54.559 I thought we always liked him. We just didn't like 321 00:14:54.600 --> 00:14:56.440 the people that like him too much. We don't like Well, 322 00:14:56.480 --> 00:14:56.840 there's that. 323 00:14:57.039 --> 00:14:59.120 But I also was such a I was such a 324 00:14:59.200 --> 00:15:01.559 Hillary person, and I was so upset that I felt 325 00:15:01.559 --> 00:15:04.120 like he derailed some of that. But now as I've 326 00:15:04.120 --> 00:15:06.960 gotten older and life has gone on and gotten and 327 00:15:07.000 --> 00:15:09.120 there's a lot a couple other reasons, like he's very 328 00:15:09.200 --> 00:15:11.399 in bed with like the NRA. You know, he's kind 329 00:15:11.399 --> 00:15:14.080 of like wouldn't give up the guns because Vermont and 330 00:15:14.159 --> 00:15:16.399 all that. There's some stuff that I didn't like, love love, 331 00:15:17.840 --> 00:15:19.879 But now when I hear him speak, I like, I 332 00:15:19.879 --> 00:15:20.480 feel like it's just. 333 00:15:20.840 --> 00:15:23.000 A warm blanket around my shoulders. 334 00:15:23.200 --> 00:15:25.519 It's like a safe, like oh my god, like yeah, 335 00:15:25.559 --> 00:15:28.039 it is billions, the billionaires and the billionaires in the 336 00:15:28.039 --> 00:15:30.480 corporate like not that I didn't get it before, but 337 00:15:30.559 --> 00:15:32.480 I used to sort of think, like, oh my god, 338 00:15:32.600 --> 00:15:33.840 this is just how the world works. 339 00:15:33.840 --> 00:15:35.840 This is just our country. It's always been this like 340 00:15:36.240 --> 00:15:39.360 get over it, stop with this. Now, I get it. 341 00:15:39.360 --> 00:15:41.440 It took me a really long time, and I like, 342 00:15:42.320 --> 00:15:45.480 I get it, I understand, I get it, and I 343 00:15:45.559 --> 00:15:47.399 really and yeah, like it's not that I didn't like 344 00:15:47.399 --> 00:15:49.840 Bernie as it as a human, I mean, he was 345 00:15:49.879 --> 00:15:52.679 on the good side of things right for the most part, 346 00:15:52.720 --> 00:15:54.360 but like I just was sort of like, oh, you're 347 00:15:54.399 --> 00:15:57.759 being crazy now, and you know, yeah, the Bernie bros. 348 00:15:57.799 --> 00:16:01.399 Are the killery people and all that. It got confusing. 349 00:16:01.440 --> 00:16:04.039 But now I'm like, hmmm mm hmm. We need him 350 00:16:04.080 --> 00:16:08.039 on that wall. We do, we do, really do. We 351 00:16:08.080 --> 00:16:10.399 need someone younger on that wall. But that's very so 352 00:16:10.480 --> 00:16:14.120 that's guided by him, and that is just that we. 353 00:16:14.080 --> 00:16:15.919 Don't even get political on this show, but. 354 00:16:15.879 --> 00:16:20.000 We're eve got us there with their bullshit corporation nonsense. 355 00:16:20.200 --> 00:16:24.919 Yes, yes, okay, I have one more thing. Do you 356 00:16:24.960 --> 00:16:27.080 want me to do do another thing? Or do you 357 00:16:27.679 --> 00:16:28.840 do you want to get to your story? 358 00:16:29.240 --> 00:16:31.120 Okay, well I'll tell you this really quick because it's 359 00:16:31.159 --> 00:16:33.440 good's I mean, well, you can whatever you want, whatever 360 00:16:33.480 --> 00:16:35.759 you'd like, all right, I'll I'll. 361 00:16:35.559 --> 00:16:37.360 Just do one more thing and then I'll be done, 362 00:16:37.639 --> 00:16:39.399 and then I'll just be on the receiving end of 363 00:16:39.440 --> 00:16:42.000 your stories and build on them. Don't think I'm I'm 364 00:16:42.000 --> 00:16:45.600 going to build on them. Okay, it's just a Remember 365 00:16:45.639 --> 00:16:49.159 I told you I had a song lyric thing for you. Yes, yeah, 366 00:16:49.200 --> 00:16:50.679 so I want to I want to bring up this 367 00:16:50.759 --> 00:16:52.679 song lyric thing. And I went and looked at it 368 00:16:52.759 --> 00:16:54.519 and brought up the lyrics to look at so we 369 00:16:54.559 --> 00:16:59.320 could talk about it. And I realized it's the shortest song, 370 00:16:59.440 --> 00:17:02.360 like it is such a dumb ass song and it 371 00:17:02.440 --> 00:17:07.279 only has like one one real verse. But I think 372 00:17:07.279 --> 00:17:10.200 you're gonna like this. Okay, so this is bread. Do 373 00:17:10.200 --> 00:17:12.720 you remember? This is from the seventies and the song 374 00:17:12.799 --> 00:17:16.079 is I want to make it with you? Remember this? 375 00:17:16.359 --> 00:17:21.400 Don't remember this because I think sort of a blind spoty. 376 00:17:20.519 --> 00:17:26.920 Have you ever tried really reaching out? All the other said, 377 00:17:27.000 --> 00:17:30.200 do you remember the song? Nope? Okay, keep going on, 378 00:17:30.400 --> 00:17:35.640 maybe climbing on rain mos. But baby here goes. And 379 00:17:35.640 --> 00:17:38.480 then there's another Oh it's called a pre chorus. But 380 00:17:38.519 --> 00:17:44.079 the chorus is I want to make it with you. Okay, 381 00:17:44.160 --> 00:17:47.799 I want to make it with you love. Yes, yes, 382 00:17:48.559 --> 00:17:50.359 I want to make it with you means I want 383 00:17:50.400 --> 00:17:53.279 to fuck you. And it's so it's such a gross 384 00:17:53.279 --> 00:17:54.960 song and I just want to I just want to 385 00:17:55.000 --> 00:17:58.200 talk through this beginning lyric, Hey have you ever tried 386 00:17:59.400 --> 00:18:02.720 really reach out for the other side? What does that mean? 387 00:18:02.880 --> 00:18:06.200 A person who died, like reaching out for the other 388 00:18:06.240 --> 00:18:09.519 side of what? And it kind of this next line 389 00:18:09.559 --> 00:18:12.279 sort of goes towards that, like I may be climbing 390 00:18:12.359 --> 00:18:17.000 on rainbows, so that means like, hey, this probably won't 391 00:18:17.000 --> 00:18:19.119 happen because you've already passed on to the other side. 392 00:18:19.319 --> 00:18:19.519 I know. 393 00:18:19.839 --> 00:18:21.720 I think what it is is like this guy is 394 00:18:21.759 --> 00:18:23.839 trying to be like, I'm just an everyday guy. I'm 395 00:18:23.880 --> 00:18:26.079 just I just live in a studio apartment, and you're 396 00:18:26.119 --> 00:18:28.640 like a princess, You're the uptown girl. I think it's 397 00:18:28.640 --> 00:18:30.599 what they're saying, like would you reach out like I'm 398 00:18:30.640 --> 00:18:35.680 a mechanic, I'm over here doing this, I'm over here, hey, yeah, 399 00:18:37.319 --> 00:18:40.119 island or he's like some kind of hippie like I'm 400 00:18:40.160 --> 00:18:43.240 sliding around on rainbows and I know you don't like that. 401 00:18:43.640 --> 00:18:45.200