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Speaker 2: Mike, Welcome to the Jesus Christ Show.
Speaker 1: Hello, how are you?
Speaker 2: I'm well, Mike. How can I help you?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 3: There's two questions. I know Biblically, to be absent from
Speaker 3: the body is to be in the presence of the Lord.
Speaker 3: Once we passed away, Christians and believers, he accepts us
Speaker 3: if anything, through grace, that we are accepted to heaven.
Speaker 3: Two questions, going back from day one on New Year calendars,
Speaker 3: going back to follow thirteen, fourteen hundred and all that stuff.
Speaker 3: Millions and billions and billions of people have passed away
Speaker 3: and died. And number one isn't Heaven getting ele bit
Speaker 3: crowded up there like a four or five on a
Speaker 3: Friday night. And then number two reading a lot of it.
Speaker 3: Maybe here's I don't know, George Nori. He has special
Speaker 3: people talking. But I've heard a lot that once we
Speaker 3: pass away, we go into a spiritual worm while we
Speaker 3: go through a learning process or a period of time.
Speaker 3: I heard some say that it's up to this old
Speaker 3: spirit if we want to come back into different body
Speaker 3: and go through this whole thing again, or we can
Speaker 3: just stay up in heaven. It says that most people
Speaker 3: prefer to come back, and then they said, you do
Speaker 3: come back, you don't remember what you did before. You know,
Speaker 3: once around, there's enough this life right now. I'm ready
Speaker 3: and I'm done. I don't want to go through the
Speaker 3: getting fill. Remember your view on both of those places.
Speaker 2: Okay, First of all, there's room for ten more people
Speaker 2: in heaven. I'm just kidding. That would be horrible. No,
Speaker 2: there's plenty of rohim. Heaven does not have the walls
Speaker 2: and the restrictions of time and space the way you
Speaker 2: think of them. Here, there is no limitation. I didn't
Speaker 2: make it, and in say, oh my gosh, I invited
Speaker 2: all these people. I didn't think they were all going
Speaker 2: to make it. It's not a situation like that. So
Speaker 2: no worries there. There is there is no limit to
Speaker 2: where somebody will be left out that believes.
Speaker 3: But isn't it I mean, but if there are all
Speaker 3: these people and not people, I say, but souls and
Speaker 3: spirits going around and have and I know the soul
Speaker 3: in spirits like many skill as far as a waiting
Speaker 3: of course or whatever.
Speaker 2: But still isn't it does not it does not take
Speaker 2: up space. You're applying human restrictions and attributes of this
Speaker 2: world to the next, and there is none at a time.
Speaker 2: There's no time continuum, there's no spatial concerns. It is
Speaker 2: not the same way in the same sense at all,
Speaker 2: in any way, shape or form.
Speaker 3: So there could be sillion people, it wouldn't matter right now,
Speaker 3: and Christ and God would still be in control over
Speaker 3: all of that.
Speaker 2: Yep, wouldn't matter.
Speaker 3: That's what was going on on earth.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't. It doesn't matter, doesn't There is no
Speaker 2: limitations there now. As far as the second question.
Speaker 3: Before your justice side person, I appreciate card do have
Speaker 3: a very brief, brief third question about the healing practices
Speaker 3: of evangelists. Since very brief, if I may ask to
Speaker 3: have to answer this other question, sure, sure, Okay, See,
Speaker 3: after being reborn, not being able to remember, going through
Speaker 3: a learning podcast, coming back.
Speaker 2: Again, that's not Christianity that you You had quoted some
Speaker 2: verses earlier in Corinthians and in Hebrews. You loosely paraphrase
Speaker 2: them about uh. In Corinthians about is to be absent
Speaker 2: from the body is to be present with the Lord.
Speaker 2: But it also says in he Is that you're it's
Speaker 2: appointed for men to die once and then the judgment.
Speaker 2: So there is no there's no place for what is
Speaker 2: referred to as the sumsorrow, that cycle of life. There
Speaker 2: is no place for reincarnation. Reincarnation was never in scripture. Uh,
Speaker 2: there's no place for it. It doesn't fit and uh
Speaker 2: and and so that doesn't make sense with Christianity.
Speaker 3: Even though the George No, I know, he's a little
Speaker 3: not out there body, he does have inners and people
Speaker 3: that he So it's basically this.
Speaker 2: Is once we're done, that's George Nori is a lovely man,
Speaker 2: a very smart man, and he does have very interesting
Speaker 2: guests on Coast to Coast, I am, but but his
Speaker 2: his job and his focus is not the same as
Speaker 2: the focus of the show. So so he's looking at
Speaker 2: things from a broader spectrum than this program is. We're
Speaker 2: very focused on the Christian Judeo Christian presupposition and the
Speaker 2: Christian theology and specifics, so we obviously have a different
Speaker 2: point and when it comes to that, So in this
Speaker 2: particular case, there is nothing in scripture that allows for
Speaker 2: that reincarnation and there's no need for it. Now, there
Speaker 2: can be those that argue our Catholic brothers and sisters
Speaker 2: argue that there is a purgatory, but there's different but
Speaker 2: there's different beliefs in that that has changed throughout the
Speaker 2: years as well as to what that means and what's
Speaker 2: taking place. But as far as mainstream Christianity or Protestantism,
Speaker 2: they differ. So mainstream Christianity, do you put Catholicism in
Speaker 2: Protestant in that same basket they're going to They're going
Speaker 2: to differ, So keep that in mind. There is differences
Speaker 2: very quickly so we can make sure that we're fair
Speaker 2: to everyone else. You had one more question you wanted to.
Speaker 1: Ask, Yes, just really very quick.
Speaker 3: The known evangelist Katherine Coleman probably most probably known other
Speaker 3: a local evangelists with the healing powers. They went to
Speaker 3: a Catholic church, going up on stage for print everything.
Speaker 3: I mean, they didn't even touch me yet I felt
Speaker 3: at people, my wife and other friends. They said he
Speaker 3: was presults anyone near me and I just supposedly felt
Speaker 3: under the spirit other places where I went up actually
Speaker 3: felt this presence for you just I mean, it's like
Speaker 3: just falling backwards. How what is that manifest? And are
Speaker 3: is really true of I want to say, I won't
Speaker 3: to say heals, but the presence of falling under what
Speaker 3: they call pulling in the spirit. I don't get that.
Speaker 3: I mean, I get it, but how's that explained?
Speaker 2: That? It depends because and this is not specifically speaking
Speaker 2: about anyone who refers to themselves as a faith healer,
Speaker 2: A lot of that is garbage, a lot of it
Speaker 2: into theatrics and whatnot and psychology that takes place during
Speaker 2: a group experience like that. That doesn't mean that it
Speaker 2: can't take place. Of course, there are gifts of the
Speaker 2: spirit that do take place, and there are healings that
Speaker 2: could take place to this day. But that is God's will,
Speaker 2: not the will of an individual or their ability. God
Speaker 2: will speak through somebody like a prophet, and God will
Speaker 2: heal through somebody like a healer, but it's not done
Speaker 2: in the theatrical way the way it often is betrayed
Speaker 2: in Christianity. Across the board, there are many of those
Speaker 2: that act as if they are faith healers, and really
Speaker 2: it's an amount of theatrics and people get caught up
Speaker 2: in something the same way you can watch a movie
Speaker 2: that you know is absolutely fake that it is actors
Speaker 2: that you've seen many times before you can start to
Speaker 2: cry or get angry or be thrilled by the outcome
Speaker 2: because emotionally having experience with those other people in the
Speaker 2: theater while watching something.
Speaker 1: So you have to be.
Speaker 2: Careful as to what your experience is. Your experience should
Speaker 2: always be lining up with scripture and the things of God,
Speaker 2: and it should never be to the glory of an
Speaker 2: individual other than God. You shouldn't have to pay for
Speaker 2: such a thing. These types of things should be thought
Speaker 2: of before you go and experience on things, because they
Speaker 2: can be quite emotional and you can catch you up
Speaker 2: in that kind of overall attitude and excitement, and you
Speaker 2: can think that it's spiritual when it's just psychological. Something
Speaker 2: to think about, brother, and not be lost in that. Trisha,
Speaker 2: Welcome to the Jesus Christ Show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Jesus Hi.
Speaker 2: How can I help you?
Speaker 4: Well, my husband and I have been together for twenty
Speaker 4: five year years since we're eighteen, and we had ten
Speaker 4: years ago we had preemie twins and they had a
Speaker 4: lot of health problems, but you know, we worked through it.
Speaker 4: And I'm a real nervous person, and through this whole
Speaker 4: thing with the twins, there was a lot of life
Speaker 4: and death issues as far as like open heart surgeries
Speaker 4: and stuff like that, and things seemed like they were
Speaker 4: getting by, or my kids were healthy and stuff, but
Speaker 4: then my husband got diagnosed with cancer, and ever since then,
Speaker 4: I have just I don't know. I can't I can't
Speaker 4: come to terms with the fact that I feel like
Speaker 4: everything that I had hoped for and worked for that
Speaker 4: it's just not ever going to be the same now
Speaker 4: and I'm always here. I see almost everything now like
Speaker 4: I'm petrified even if my get a cold, that they're
Speaker 4: going to die.
Speaker 2: And like Tricia, that that's no way to live your expectations.
Speaker 2: Expectations really can be the demon of everything to It's
Speaker 2: good to have hopes, it's good to have desires, but
Speaker 2: if you get to a place where where those overshadow
Speaker 2: everything else, Tricia, and your life becomes this drawing or
Speaker 2: cartoon of what you expect, you will never appreciate and
Speaker 2: see what you have in front of you. And that's
Speaker 2: a huge concern of mine. Don't get lost in that, Tricia.
Speaker 2: I know that you're going through pain, I know that
Speaker 2: you have problems, and there are things that you can tackle,
Speaker 2: but if you start to try and nerf the world
Speaker 2: and make everything so it has no sharp edges, or
Speaker 2: that there's not ever going to be a problem that
Speaker 2: you will lose sight of the preciousness of the life
Speaker 2: that you have and the people that are in it
Speaker 2: don't lose sight of that, not for some hope, some
Speaker 2: kind of make believe this is what I thought I
Speaker 2: was going to have. Enjoy what you do have, Nancy,
Speaker 2: Welcome to the Jesus Christ Show.
Speaker 4: Hi do this.
Speaker 5: I have a question. I am looking for verses about
Speaker 5: the age of accountability.
Speaker 2: There aren't really any if you're looking about something specifically
Speaker 2: talking about the age of accountability. It's more theorized by
Speaker 2: most and some many don't believe that it exists at all.
Speaker 2: But religiously people use them or theologically people use that
Speaker 2: term usually to say there's different schools of thought. Some
Speaker 2: of them will say, well, a child will automatically go
Speaker 2: to heaven if they're below a certain age or the
Speaker 2: age of accountability, which really is a sliding scale to
Speaker 2: begin with, because there are children at very young ages
Speaker 2: that understand and comprehend many things, and then there are
Speaker 2: others that get older and maybe slightly slower and don't
Speaker 2: understand things. There are religious tradition that say that the
Speaker 2: age of accountability is twelve or thirteen because they reference
Speaker 2: that my first readings in scripture come around that time,
Speaker 2: or certain things like this. So people will make kind
Speaker 2: of arbitrary lines saying, well, it has to be this,
Speaker 2: has to be that. But as far as scripture specifically
Speaker 2: saying an age of accountability, no, But there is talk
Speaker 2: that people will come to the knowledge of the difference,
Speaker 2: the difference between sweet and bitter, and as some people say, well,
Speaker 2: that may be alluding to the concept of truth versus
Speaker 2: that which is false, But no one verse that you're
Speaker 2: going to come across. That's why it is a topic
Speaker 2: that's continually argued to this day. Is there a particular
Speaker 2: reason you ask.
Speaker 5: I was just trying to give some hope to somebody
Speaker 5: who doesn't believe, who believes that if a three year
Speaker 5: old dies today, they're going to.
Speaker 1: Go to hell.
Speaker 2: Well, there's no reason to believe that either. I mean,
Speaker 2: there's there and there. The argument kind of goes it
Speaker 2: does tie into that, and there's people. They go back
Speaker 2: and forth and they quote Proverbs twenty eleven that talks
Speaker 2: about even a child is known by his doings, whether
Speaker 2: his work be pure, whether it be right. There are
Speaker 2: those that will talk about Matthew Mark and I think
Speaker 2: this also in Luke eighteen sixteen, where it says suffer
Speaker 2: little children and forbid them not to come to me
Speaker 2: for such as the kingdom of Heaven. And people look
Speaker 2: at that and say, obviously Christ is talking there about
Speaker 2: the children being in heaven. And this is an argument
Speaker 2: that goes back and forth. This is a place where
Speaker 2: really faith comes in and you have to trust that
Speaker 2: when the ugliness of something like a child dying takes place,
Speaker 2: that God, God has a way of balancing these things out.
Speaker 2: That really accountability and salvation is based on acceptance or rejection,
Speaker 2: not ignorance, and that's where the confusion sometimes lies. Ken,
Speaker 2: Welcome to the Jesus Christ Show.
Speaker 6: Hi. When I was eight years old, I was at
Speaker 6: a Christian camp swimming in a lake and I watched
Speaker 6: the boy drown right in front of me.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 6: It was a horrible, dramatic incident that changed my life forever.
Speaker 6: And now I take it to being an adult. I'm
Speaker 6: forty years old now and I decided to have my
Speaker 6: daughter baptized about two weeks ago, and I get the
Speaker 6: directions to the lake, and my daughter's very excited, and
Speaker 6: I'm very excited to have her baptized. And I drive
Speaker 6: in and it's the same lake that I watched a
Speaker 6: boy drown when I was exactly her age, and I
Speaker 6: kind of relived the whole incident again and I was devastated.
Speaker 6: I mean, the odds of this happening. Of all the
Speaker 6: places that I could have had my daughter baptized, it
Speaker 6: was exactly the same place that I watched this happen.
Speaker 6: And you know, I didn't know why this was going on.
Speaker 6: I had mixed feelings about it. Maybe I shouldn't do it,
Speaker 6: Maybe it's cursed. Is this really what God's plan is
Speaker 6: is to use this lake? And you know I decided that,
Speaker 6: you know, this wasn't about me anymore. This is about
Speaker 6: my daughter accepting Jesus Christ in her life. And I
Speaker 6: explained to her what happened, and we decided to do it.
Speaker 6: But I was wondering if there's any significance to this
Speaker 6: at all.
Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell your first. I'm very proud of you
Speaker 2: because you pushed through it. The enemy had you at
Speaker 2: every turn on that one. He would have loved nothing
Speaker 2: more than you to turn that car around and not
Speaker 2: have your daughter baptized. It would have been a huge
Speaker 2: victory in his eyes. And you push through it. There
Speaker 2: are a lot of things that are going to take place.
Speaker 2: You drive on roads every day that people have lost
Speaker 2: loved ones on. Every day. You've gone to hospitals where
Speaker 2: people have died. You've gone to restaurants where people have
Speaker 2: been have gotten sick, or might have choked on something.
Speaker 2: Death is a part of life. It's everywhere. But you
Speaker 2: need to see the significance of the instance and what's
Speaker 2: taking place, rather than the fact that there's a history
Speaker 2: of something. Now, if that child died because there was
Speaker 2: something in that water, I wouldn't blame you, but because
Speaker 2: of a freak accident or someone dying to not use
Speaker 2: you know, there's reason that it's the same place. This
Speaker 2: particular church or churches in general in that area may
Speaker 2: use this. For you said it was a Christian camp
Speaker 2: or and now it's a Christian baptism that there is.
Speaker 2: You know, it's a body of water in the area.
Speaker 2: It's normal for it to be used in different purposes.
Speaker 2: But what I want you to take from this is
Speaker 2: the fact that things aren't evil unto themselves. There isn't
Speaker 2: an evil thing in the world. Evil is when morally
Speaker 2: neutral things have bad relationships. So for instance, when a
Speaker 2: child is unattended or doesn't swim well, water can be
Speaker 2: evil in the relationship between that person and the water
Speaker 2: and they can drown. But in a baptism that's controlled
Speaker 2: and there are people around to watch and it's done structurally,
Speaker 2: it can be a beautiful thing about the awakening of
Speaker 2: someone's spirit and the acknowledgment of their faith. So likewise,
Speaker 2: if someone broke into your house heaven forbid, with a gun,
Speaker 2: that's a bad thing. But if right behind them, law
Speaker 2: enforcement broke into your house with a gun, that's a
Speaker 2: good thing. And so I want you to stop, you know,
Speaker 2: not to see this lake as something good or bad.
Speaker 2: It was depending on how it was experienced, that was
Speaker 2: good or bad. But the lake itself is not evil
Speaker 2: and it isn't cursed or anything like that Situationally, it's
Speaker 2: very sad that you had to witness that at such
Speaker 2: a young age or at all, and it's going to be,
Speaker 2: you know, an indelible mark on your life forever. But
Speaker 2: I hope that it will be equally as indelible the
Speaker 2: moment and the beauty of watching your daughter being baptized
Speaker 2: and confirm her place and her heart for God in
Speaker 2: front of all those people that too should have power.
Speaker 2: Wouldn't you say?
Speaker 6: Yeah, that just I just can't believe it. And it's
Speaker 6: you know, some good has come of it, because I
Speaker 6: decided to be a paramedic after that for obvious reasons.
Speaker 6: So it did change my life forever. But it also
Speaker 6: you know, after her being baptist baptized, I'll never forget
Speaker 6: that day.
Speaker 7: In my life.
Speaker 6: That was a day that just stood out to me
Speaker 6: and I felt that, you know, God was talking to
Speaker 6: me that day. It just was a really strange thing
Speaker 6: to go through.
Speaker 2: And what was he saying.
Speaker 6: He was saying, to let this go. He was saying,
Speaker 6: don't harbor any guilt. It wasn't my fault. You know,
Speaker 6: I was a child and I and I didn't rescue him.
Speaker 6: I I panicked.
Speaker 2: But you didn't have the ability to rescue him, right,
Speaker 2: I didn't, So it can't be your fault.
Speaker 6: Right, And I and I it took a long time
Speaker 6: to realize that it wasn't my fault. And but you know,
Speaker 6: just to let it go, I mean, just to say
Speaker 6: goodbye to him to pray for him, and I don't know.
Speaker 1: It was just a.
Speaker 6: Really difficult thing to go through. And being a paramedic,
Speaker 6: I've seen people drown and been on the other side
Speaker 6: of it too. It was just a really strange day.
Speaker 2: I want you to take all those the physical things
Speaker 2: and seeing someone lose their life obviously very potent. Scripture
Speaker 2: says do not fear those that can kill the flesh,
Speaker 2: but those that can kill the spirit. And I want
Speaker 2: you to think about all those people that are drounding
Speaker 2: spiritually every single day because no one wants to do
Speaker 2: anything about it. They're embarrassed to share their faith or
Speaker 2: whatever it might be. And the situation you're describing is
Speaker 2: that you immediately grew into a person who said, you
Speaker 2: know what, I want to know what to do and
Speaker 2: became a paramedic. What you witnessed with your daughter was
Speaker 2: you know, the symbolism of baptism is the death and
Speaker 2: the burial and the resurrection as they come up out
Speaker 2: of the water. And I think all of that imagery
Speaker 2: is very powerful, but what you do with it is
Speaker 2: up to you. You know, the same knife you may
Speaker 2: use for a tracheotomy, an emergency tracheotomy is the is
Speaker 2: a knife that could be used to kill somebody. And
Speaker 2: to not put value positive or negative on these things,
Speaker 2: the water, the knife, any of these things, but to
Speaker 2: see them as proper usage and improper usage. And what
Speaker 2: you got. You've got to see both in the same
Speaker 2: body of water, and you got to see both sides
Speaker 2: of the beauty of that water and the power of
Speaker 2: that water in the sense of that it could take
Speaker 2: a life, but to dwell on it or somehow let
Speaker 2: it weigh you down when it's abviously been a positive
Speaker 2: or productive in your life, piece of your life, because
Speaker 2: you've taken it and said I'm going to do something
Speaker 2: good with it, you have to let You have to
Speaker 2: let the power of that lake or the mystery of
Speaker 2: that lake go away. But you don't have to forget
Speaker 2: what took place there. You don't forget what you learned there.
Speaker 2: You don't have to forget the life. But you couldn't
Speaker 2: do anything. And guilt is irrelevant, It doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 2: It has no benefit in this particular case. And I
Speaker 2: think that you should enjoy the beauty of what your
Speaker 2: daughter went through and that that should be a significant
Speaker 2: part of your life, equally as significant as the death
Speaker 2: that you witnessed, because if you really believe what it
Speaker 2: says in scripture, it says that the fear is not
Speaker 2: in the flesh being lost, but the spirit being lost.
Speaker 2: And so you were able to sit there and watch
Speaker 2: your daughter come into a new life in Christ. And
Speaker 2: that's a very powerful and wonderful thing. I'm sorry that
Speaker 2: you went through that experience, but it's obvious that it
Speaker 2: has done something and meant something in a way that
Speaker 2: has become very very productive in your life. That glorifies God.
Speaker 2: The other gives the enemy Total Foothold Dale, Welcome to
Speaker 2: the Jesus Christ Show.
Speaker 1: Hello Jesus Hi Dale. I'm first time caller I have
Speaker 1: listened to for quite some time.
Speaker 2: Well, welcome, How can I help you?
Speaker 7: I was married to who to whom I perceived as
Speaker 7: my actually my soulmate at a young age.
Speaker 1: I was actually twenty and she was she's eighteen. We
Speaker 1: were blessed with with my with with the daughter and
Speaker 1: fleet and then two other sons after that. Married for
Speaker 1: fourteen years and worked so hard to build a good
Speaker 1: life and all my plans for the future and all
Speaker 1: all the plans that I thought God had and sore
Speaker 1: for me were there and it was probably, I mean,
Speaker 1: the utmost happiest time of my life. And I had
Speaker 1: you know, it was fairly successful in the field that
Speaker 1: I was in at the time. I actually put my wife,
Speaker 1: my ex wife never worked because we wanted her to
Speaker 1: be with the children as much as possible and daily.
Speaker 2: I hate to rush you, but because as a time,
Speaker 2: is there a question.
Speaker 1: That you have yeah, been divorced. She she she had,
Speaker 1: she committed an adultery, had an affair on me for
Speaker 1: a year and when I found this out, it broke
Speaker 1: me more than than I mean, I've never been able
Speaker 1: to get over this. And this is four years ago
Speaker 1: now and it's still like it was yesterday. Will the
Speaker 1: pain ever stopped? I mean, I have to watch another
Speaker 1: man raise my children? Mhm, how does someone will? I
Speaker 1: still have yet to know. I do not know how
Speaker 1: to deal with this.
Speaker 2: Shale, hold on tight. I have some thoughts for you.
Speaker 2: Just after this break, we were talking with Dale. Dale,
Speaker 2: You're still there, I am, okay. So you said that
Speaker 2: this woman you felt was your soulmate, and you get
Speaker 2: married young, you have children, she has an affair, and
Speaker 2: now she's with someone else and they're raising your children.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she she she married the man that she was
Speaker 1: in an affair with and they actually have a child
Speaker 1: now together. And do you have it seems that all
Speaker 1: I do is I'll live for I see my children
Speaker 1: every two weeks. That's what you know. They that's that's
Speaker 1: what they said that I mean, that's all I could do.
Speaker 2: Dale, Do you drink it?
Speaker 1: All I did? I did?
Speaker 2: But you're cleaning sober now? Excuse me, you're cleaning sober now?
Speaker 1: Not quite?
Speaker 2: Not quite? And what is not quite? Mean?
Speaker 1: There are times when I when I would do anything
Speaker 1: to kill.
Speaker 2: You know that that's not productive and it won't help
Speaker 2: you see those children.
Speaker 1: As absolutely, and I am a Christian and but and
Speaker 1: I know that that's not the right thing. Are you?
Speaker 2: Are you drinking today at all?
Speaker 1: No? I'm not?
Speaker 2: Okay. Good, that's a good start, so Dale, when it
Speaker 2: when it comes to relationships, you get two people. Obviously,
Speaker 2: you both have a say, and you both can take
Speaker 2: the You know, you can either positively move in one
Speaker 2: direction together, or you can move in two different directions.
Speaker 2: Chances are, if we parsed your whole relationship, when we
Speaker 2: looked back, there was a time when you saw signs
Speaker 2: of maybe she not being the right one. Then people
Speaker 2: bring children into the equation. All of that. We don't
Speaker 2: have time for that. But what I do want to
Speaker 2: tell you is that if you live in the bowl
Speaker 2: of just staring at that circumstance she's married and she's
Speaker 2: moved on, you won't be able to dig yourself out
Speaker 2: at all. If you get to a place where you're
Speaker 2: bettering yourself, you're not you know, getting into the hoots,
Speaker 2: you're not drinking, you're being productive, and you're finding ways
Speaker 2: to I would encourage you to help others, and there's
Speaker 2: programs for people that have been cheated on and things
Speaker 2: like that that you can go into and talk and
Speaker 2: find out the things that people have gone through and
Speaker 2: how they've pushed themselves through it. Prayer and church and
Speaker 2: all these things play a part of all this. Then
Speaker 2: you can move forward yourself and find you know, that
Speaker 2: happiness or a partner in life. But if you're going
Speaker 2: to focus on the past, on the program a lot
Speaker 2: of times, and I know pain is difficult to get through,
Speaker 2: but there's a limit. There's a certain amount of pain
Speaker 2: that comes from the experience, and then the rest is
Speaker 2: you putting it on yourself. And I like in the
Speaker 2: past to driving. And when you're driving, you have a
Speaker 2: rearview mirror, but you use the rearview mirror only to
Speaker 2: move forward right, to change lanes, to make sure that
Speaker 2: you're driving safely. But you would never drive staring in
Speaker 2: the rear view mirror, wouldn't you, Because if you if
Speaker 2: you just stared at the rearview mirror, you'd crash right absolutely,
Speaker 2: And that's what you're doing right now. You're driving staring
Speaker 2: in the rearview mirror.
Speaker 1: So and I don't want to. I want to move forward,
Speaker 1: I really do.
Speaker 2: So today you need to. You need to start and
Speaker 2: actually have a process, whether it's setting up time to
Speaker 2: go to church and be constructive there. You need to
Speaker 2: find a charity or something where you can put your
Speaker 2: time into helping others, not wallowing in your own pain.
Speaker 2: And you need to dedicate yourself to those things and
Speaker 2: continue to build up your wants and desires in life
Speaker 2: and the things that make you you dale so that
Speaker 2: you'll be attractive to somebody. But somebody who's wallowing, who's
Speaker 2: boozing it up, is not going to to be attractive
Speaker 2: to any woman. That's going to be good for you. You
Speaker 2: gotta clean yourself up. Your daddy and you're a child
Speaker 2: to God, and you got to clean yourself up. And
Speaker 2: then women will come and you'll build your life and
Speaker 2: fulfill it by yourself, and then you'll be ready for
Speaker 2: another partner. But to sit in the pain isn't going
Speaker 2: to help. And that's the best I can tell you.
Speaker 2: It's about you applying that now.
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