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Speaker 1: I made a decision sunny sun on my head vision.

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It's nun Hey everybody, what's happening? I love you guys.

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It's Tuesday. Yeah, we have a good Patreon for tomorrow. Yes,

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it was from both of us, with love from both

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of us. Yes, with love from yeah your pals Stephanie

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and Lynnett. Yeah. It was a little on, a little

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bit long, a little bit just a tad, I mean yeah,

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because it's like sometimes you gotta sometimes things need context, right,

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My stories always need like a backstory. Yeah, Oh it

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was good. We helped each other. Yes. John always says

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whenever I tell him something, he's always like, you don't

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have to preface ever, because I'm always like, okay before

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I say this, and then there's like a very long

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story and he's like the preamble, all right, I got it,

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you know what's the So what happened? Right? I like it?

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I happen to like it. What's a podcast? As podcast partner?

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I enjoy it? Keep going, girl. What people don't understand

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is that, like we're trying to fill like an hour

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and a half to two hours with content, So we're

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not over here trying to make a story shorter. No,

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in case you wonder like, did we need all those details?

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I don't know. Maybe you did, maybe you didn't like

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looking at the clock. Maybe he did. And Stephanie learned

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a new Italian phrase on our Patreon. Yeah you say, yeah,

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oh no, supposed good you sat posed. It means the

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seventh of seventh than never in Italian like post never

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gonna happen. Yes, yeah, I got that. Yeah, all right,

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So here's here's the thing that happened that I think

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is like crime fcol fodder. Yeah, okay, So, uh, doctor

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knock Around? I love him? You miss him? Oh my god,

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quick quick digression about doctor knock Around. So I went

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to dinner with my friend who is the one who

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sent me to that doctor in the first place. This

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is my friend. I'm not going to say your name,

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but because she was like, oh my god, you talk

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about him on your podcast, and I was like, yeah,

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but he's never gonna listen to my podcast. I don't

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even does he know we have a podcast. I don't know.

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He's never asked about us anyway. No, no, just like,

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what do you weigh right exactly? Now, let me tell

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you about my wife. Yeah, my wife, My wife, and

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how I got this not on my head, and would

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you like a lip glass to go? Is it normal

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for you to go to the store and buy eighteen

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sets of sheets and then not return any of them? No,

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it's not normal. Oh that's what I was afraid of.

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These are the conversations we would have with him. I

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remember he told his wife went to the to the

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makeup store and kingdom with like thirty different lip glass colors. Yes.

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He's like, she just spends my money. Yeah, and then

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she kind of backhands me sometimes too. We're like, she's

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my polar, there's something wrong, and he's like, yeah, I

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just love her though. She's my second wife, my wife.

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So I was telling my friend, Oh, I was telling

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her that we okay, this is a superquick, too long

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to read. When I did our ad which is coming

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up later in the show for Function Health, I had said,

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you know, Lynette and I we love doctor knock Around. Yeah,

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and then I was like, we call that's our nickname

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for him, and she was like, oh my god, oh no,

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and then she's like, but guess what, So all these

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years she was like, he never says that to me.

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And I was like, well, he regales me with stories

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and Benette and me, And then she was like, well

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it happened. She went to him and he told and

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he launched to do it, but he's still suffering, Like

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how's the family And he was like, well, yeah, it's

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been years. My god, I know it has been years. Yeah.

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I remember when I told him I was getting a divorce.

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He was like, God, you're so lucky. Every time I

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would come into the appointment, like I enjoy your life.

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How fast was the divorce? Was it easy? Like I

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got lawyer's numbers for He's like, god, dang, I wish

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I could write off in the sunset like you. He's

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always jealous every time Yeah, I talk to him, it's

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really is sad. I mean, we're not trying to make

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light of this now. The reason he won't divorce her,

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he says, is a well I love her, but also

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because he's worried about his kids. Yes, her, And that's

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what my friend was like. He's worried that she takes out.

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She's very, very angry, and she takes it out on

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the kids right, right, So he doesn't want to chance

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them being like alone with her all the time. Yeah,

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so he's got like full time nanny when they were

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younger and cameras, Oh he does, yes, I want to

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see make an appointment. Now. It's so troubling. The whole

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thing is troubling, right, But the funny fun part is

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doctor knock around. He when I had my first colonoscopy,

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it was he was like haranguing me about it. He's like,

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you got to get a colonoscope when I was fifty.

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So then I promptly did it. Well, you remember the story.

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I literally played a classic episode of this where I

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went to the first guy and the first guy was like, ah,

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you're really thin, you know you might feel it, like,

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you know, you should really you should go for the

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anistee whatever. And I was like, you're giving me the creeps.

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His shirt was unbuttoned down, he had a big necklace,

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and I was like, I don't know. So then I

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waited till my next appointment, and I was like, he's like,

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did you get your colonoscopy? And I go no, because

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that doctor you sent me to was like gave me

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the creeps. And then I told him the story of

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how he was like, I don't know, it's up to

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you whether you want to pay for anesthesia or not.

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Oh yeah, that's right, right, And I was like, I

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want a doctor that just tells me what to do. Yes,

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you know, I don't know. I've never done a colonoscopy

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on somebody. I don't know. Anyway, long story short, went

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to a different guy who's great. Yeah, I remember who

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I liked. After my colonoscopy, which was when I was

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like fifty three, I don't know, he said, you don't

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have to come back. He said, everything's fine, you don't

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have to come back for seven to ten years. Nice.

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So then a couple of years ago, after a yeah

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last year or whatever, knock around, was like, hey, so

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did you make an appointment? Did you you need a colonoscopy?

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And I was like, well wait, I thought I don't

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need one. I thought you don't need one for ten years.

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He's like, nope, five every five. And I was like yeah,

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because he was telling me. He was saying that there's

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been a spike in uh, you know, like colon cancer

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and stuff like that in women he's seen oh recently, yeah,

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and that's why he's been and I haven't gone and

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done it yet. I need to deal it, okay. So

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on that note, I was like, Okay, I'll do it.

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It's been it'll over five years podcasting. Yeah, well there

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already is a little bit of a good story because

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so I contact Well, I'll just tell you is just

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I don't know if I should say the name of

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the doctor because I had just had a bad experience

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with his office staff. Spoiler alert. Okay, so I make

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an appointment to go have a consult you. I make

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an appointment and they're like, you have to come in

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and do your like pre check, and then they ask

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you questions and they take your blood pressure and then

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they give you a time to come in. Okay, so

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I go, it's far. It's in thousand Oaks. Yeah, so

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not to be the SNL sketch, but you gotta it's

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it's kind of it's a drive. And I even I

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literally said, I was like, can't this be a zoom?

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work and stuff. Right. No, they just had to literally

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they just took my blood pressure that's it, which I

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could have just told them whatever. Yeah, yeah, literally ask

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me how much I weigh and took my blood pressure.

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They didn't even like weigh me. So anyway, but I

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get there and the front debt They're like, okay, that's

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ninety dollars right away, And I was like, well, I

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don't think I have to pay a copay because this

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is like a wellness thing, right. So when you have

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ppo insurance, it pays for mammogram, pap smearer wellness things

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are the kids physicals. You don't have to pay a copay.

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So I'm like, I don't think I owe a copey

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mind you. I'm not like what the fut Like, I

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was just like, oh no, I think that's a mistake.

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I don't think I have to pay a copay blah

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blah blah. So the woman is right away like, yeah,

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well I don't know you do. So I said, okay,

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but can you just double check because it's been like

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five you know, I'm not coming in for I don't

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for any thing. I'm just it's a wellness thing, right.

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So she's like, well, it's coming up that you have

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to pay a copay. So I'm like, well, hold on,

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let me just call my insurance company. So I try

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to call the insurance company, and you know how that goes. Yeah,

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see that's where you lose me. I don't know where

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how where's the phone number? Who I talked on my

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insurance on your customer service, and I got them on

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the phone kind of quick. Really, yeah, okay, it's not

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like the old days where I'd have to wait and

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then a rooster you'll be in the background, right, But

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remember that those days, I was dealing with sadie stuff.

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It was like specialty doctors and bills that hadn't anyway.

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So you called the customer service and got some ice

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on them. I got them on the phone. They didn't

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help me. She was like, Oh, I don't know, like

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I'm going to have to research that and get back

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to you. Is it because of the doctor? You think

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it's probably the doctors, Like every doctor's different of what

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they're right or what they're charging. Oh I know that.

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When I got my first colonoscopy, I didn't pay anything,

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not even a coping. Oh yeah, I remember. It was

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all free because it's like it's a standard thing that

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you so it's a preventative medicine. Yeah. I just went

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and got my mammogram last week and walked in and

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knocked out exactly, you don't pay for that, So I

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was I'm so finally I'm just like, ugh, all right,

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let me just pay the coope and I'll just deal

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with this later because I'm here. I've driven here, so then,

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but I still was like, I just really don't feel

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I think it's weird because this is preventative. Then the

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woman goes also, if they find anything, you got to

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pay for that, like out of pocket, and I was

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like what, And I was like, I don't think so.

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I don't think so because my husband, because John had

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just had a colonoscopye like this this year and they

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did find like a pull up and they removed it

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and we didn't get billed for it. No, So I'm like,

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that just doesn't seem right. And oh, because you know

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you're signing all these papers saying that your responsible, right,

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So my brain is going so they're going to find

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something and then I'm going to be charged like thousands

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of dollars. So then I said, okay, I'm like a

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little bit work concern now because I haven't heard of that,

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like why that's not covered by my insurance. Just then

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this lady pops out like she summoned a Jeanie out

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of a bottle. She comes storming out and she's got

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a pissed look on her face and she goes, yes,

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your husband did pay. Oh really, so she knows. So

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you're in another room listening. I guess she looked it

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up because you know, I guess she went and looked oh,

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because I said, I goes, so wait, you just looked

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it up, and she goes, I sure did. Wow. Like

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this the attitude, it was so much attitude, doctor Jesus,

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Like that's the last thing you need. No, and why

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are you mad? I wasn't even mad. I wasn't even mad.

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history of sometimes getting mad at people with their unleashed dogs,

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but I was not mad at this point. I was

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just like I was just in my mind. I'm like, well,

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I don't know if I'm going to get this now.

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I'm going to go research this with my insurance. I

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wasn't mad at them. I wasn't like you guys are

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trying to fuck me either. I was like very much

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like legitimate questions, like I don't know that I need

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to figure out what this could cost me before I

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do it. I don't want to spend like thousands of dollars.

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You don't want to get stuck with a bill. No,

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So until I talk to my insurance company, which I said,

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they said, I have to call you back. Okay. So

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then I said to the lady, I was like, wait,

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so you looked it up? And she goes, yeah, I did,

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and you did pay for it. And I was like,

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well how much? Because now I'm like, did they just

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charge our credit card and we didn't see it? Like

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they're a two thousand dollars charge? So I go, well

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how much? And she goes, I swear to god, I

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am not exaggining. She was like this, do you want

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me to look it up? Oh my god? And I said, yeah,

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I do, Thanks day, please do? She go too, bitch

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and she just looked. She had such a nasty look

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on her face. Meanwhile, the girl at the front desk,

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who's kind of a young girl, I was imagining like

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if lbe worked at a doctor's office, Like, I don't

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want to come off like a crazy Karen at all.

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So I was like, hey, like like I said, like

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it's probably fine, but like, let me find out the

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deal before I have this, and she's just looking at

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me like if if she was chewing gum, it would

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have been like she'd just been like staring me down

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into it, like I don't give a fuck about you

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right at his central medical office. Yeah. Also, I driven

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like forty minutes to get there. It was really hard

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to find, right, Okay. So basically the woman comes back

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out and she goes, yeah, you were charged eighty four dollars.

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So I'm like, all right, everybody needs to relax. I'm like, okay,

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that's that's that's reasonable. Oh she goes because it went

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oh this is what she had said. She goes, it's

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going to go against your deductible. Well, our deductible is

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really high. That's the thing about health insurance these days.

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We have like a thirteen thousand dollars family deductible. And

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I was like, oh, I thought it goes against the deductible,

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and she goes, well, they pay a portion of it.

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She's still mad at this point, for I know, and

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I was like, I'm not going to argue if I

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live for people to come in and oh my challenge her.

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Oh my god. And she's wearing like pink scrubs and

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I can't explain why it annoyed me, but it was

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just like she thought she was real cute. I mean right,

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like she thought she was cute. She had like frosted

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blonde hair and pink scrubs, and I was like, get

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on my face, bitch, come on, I'm too old for

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this shit. I'm having a call in Oscar. Pa, call

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me when you've had a call in Oscar. She's christ

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So then I go, I go, okay, eighty four dollars

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if that's if they find something, is fine. I go,

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I was worried that you were talking about like thousands

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of dollars. And she doesn't go like, oh yeah, of

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course not no. She just turns around and walks back

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into the other room. So I'm like, okay, fine, So

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I sit down. I wait, I get called in. It's

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not the lovely doctor who I met with the first

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time I had a colonoscope. That guy's it's like a

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pa uh huh, it's just a guy. He's like, hey,

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so what brings you in? I go, my asshole, No,

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I didn't say that. I was like, well, I'm Meanwhile,

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I filled out the paperwork and it says I'm here

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to get like a conn you hate that. You fill

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shit out, you go through like, ask you a million questions.

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Then you get inside, like okay, what's going on? Like

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just look at the paperwork I wrote down why I'm here? Right?

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I just did this at the vet the other day.

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It's like the Phil's having trouble out, you know, standing

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up walking and then they get inside. It's like, what's

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going on with Phil? Like look at your notes? Why

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are you giving it to me while I'm waiting in

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the lobby? I hate that? Right? Right? Or just read

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through it real quick? You know? That always makes such

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a show of like grabbing your file out of the

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little wind to the outside of the door and rustling around.

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What are you looking at? You know? Like how many

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times I get to tell you why I'm here and

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why at the at the at the ass doctor too, like, right,

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I'll give you three guesses. I'm here to get my

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ears cleaned. Exactly where's the vision test? I wanted to,

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like see if my glasses prescription change? Right? Yeah, So

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I go, uh colonoscopy like you know, and he goes, okay, well,

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like what are your symptoms? And I said, well I don't.

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I don't have any symptoms, and he goes, then why

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are you here? Swear to God? I go. I was like,

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is somebody playing a joke on me? Am? I unpunked,

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and I said, because I'm supposed to have a colonoscopy

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because my physician said I need a colonoscope. And he goes,

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so he starts looking through that, but now he starts

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looking through the stuff and he goes, well, the last

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time you had a colonoscopy, the doctor said you don't

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need to come back for seven to ten years. And

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I was like, really, I go, okay, well, I don't

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know what to tell you. I go. My doctor says,

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I do. I go, so is that why I was charged?

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Like now I'm still back on the h I go, so,

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basically what you're saying is oh so. Then I was like, okay, well,

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I drove all the way out here, so you're telling

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me that I don't need you don't it's like not

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appropriate to get one. And he goes, well, not so fast.

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He's like, well, when we did your first colonoscopy, it

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does say that you had some hemorrhoids. M I'm like,

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I have what now? I did have hemorrhoids when I

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was pregnant with Sadie Xanders. Yeah, that's the last time

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as far as I know that I've had hemorrhoids. No

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shade on having hemorrhoids, because obviously I have them. But

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I was like, I don't, are you sure that's me?

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And he goes, yeah, a lot of times you don't,

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like you might not know. And I go okay, and

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he goes, and also, you have like a diverticuli or something.

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And I was like, okay, I don't know what that is.

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But he goes, well, and then he starts explaining to

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me what it is, and he goes and then but

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if it gets inflamed, there's nothing to really do about it.

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If it gets inflamed, it can turn into like diverticulitis,

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and then there's also really no you just take some antibiotics. Okay, Okay, Well,

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well how am I going to know if it turns

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into that? All I know is that when I had

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my colonoscopy, I was told I have a perfect colon.

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Like I was told, like, such good news. We want

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to frame your colon. It looks great. That's what I

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was told. So you're telling me he was holding back

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on me with the bad news. And he goes no,

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and I was kind of trying to joke around, and

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he goes, no, but like that is something that that

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is something we could use to say that we want

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to do a colonoscopy. Now I'm like, what you're saying

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is it's elective at this point, like now I have

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to push. I was like, I cannot tell you how

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hard my physician put it, my general physicition pushes for

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me to get this. I don't want to have a

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call R. I'm not like, you don't be super fun,

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drive forty five minutes to not eat for an entire day,

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drink a bunch of crap, pop my whole body out,

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and then have a calonoscopy. I don't want to do it.

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But now I don't understand because my physician says I

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need it, And he's like, hey, you know we can

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do it. We can tell the insurance company we can

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we can get it covered. I was like, okay, so

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now I'm I guess I want to have a colonoscopy. Now,

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So did you get a prescription for it? Did not

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get out? Give you that that piece of paper and

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you gave it to them and they still are telling you.

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They're still saying you don't really need one. Yeah, but

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he said, we can fight your insurance company by say,

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by telling then that it was prescribed by your GP,

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but all gps, I guess have their own like summer

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like ten years. I guess Hours loves people to get

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their butts checked. Yes he does. He's like, that's one

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of his things. I guess it is his thing. So

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then I was like, all right, I get so. Then

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I called John when I left. I told him and

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he was like, well, at this point, you're only like

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a year out of meeting it anyway, that's true, might

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as well get it done. Yeah. So I'm like okay,

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and then they never called me. Oh. Then they said, okay,

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we're going to call you in a day or two

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schedule the colonoscopy. Never heard anything, of course. See that's

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why when somebody says, call your insurance company, I'm like, no, why,

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I don't know. I never get anywhere. Well, no, I'm

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not saying the insurance company. The doctor is like, what,

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we won't schedule you today. We will call you and

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then we will schedule it. Nothing. Really Yeah, that's crazy.

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I did because I liked the guy. But yeah, I'm

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starting to think it doesn't really matter who does it. Yeah,

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maybe I need somewhere nicer I just need to go

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to place closer, because when I was supposed to go,

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there's car drama. There's a couple things. So Saturday night, Natalia,

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she's leaving. Natalia's leaving this week. She's going to be

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going back to Santa Barbara on Saturday. On Wednesday, she's

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going back. Oh so in two days. Yeah, m hmm.

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And I've been doing a lot a laundry and folding

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and yeah, and helping her get organized and ready. And

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Sonny was gone for a few days with Adam and Monterey,

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so it's just the two of us. And because I

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haven't watched vander Pump Rules ever and now I'm like

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interested because of the Valley. I started watching it from

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season one and Natalia's like, oh my god, I love

465
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,759
this show, and I go, you know the show. She's like,

466
00:25:28,799 --> 00:25:31,599
of course. And then anyway, we're talking. We're talking about

467
00:25:31,599 --> 00:25:34,160
going to tom tom so we might go tonight or

468
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:38,319
maybe tomorrow night. She's like, yeah, let's I go. All right,

469
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:41,880
let's try it before she goes. Anyway, So she was

470
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,839
on the freeway on Saturday night at like eight o'clock

471
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,559
it was just starting to get dark, and she calls

472
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:52,119
me and she's like, Mom, I just hit something. The

473
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,440
car is fine, but there's two both flat. I have

474
00:25:55,519 --> 00:25:57,920
the flat tire and the on both driver sides. The

475
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,759
tires are flat front and back on the driver's side.

476
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,720
What she hit? She's like, I have no idea, but

477
00:26:03,799 --> 00:26:07,559
I felt it and it's it startled me and so

478
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,279
luckily I go, are you in a safe spot? She's like, yes,

479
00:26:10,319 --> 00:26:12,480
I got over to the right. I'm in a space.

480
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:16,559
She has her hazards on and I'm like, oh, fuck me.

481
00:26:17,039 --> 00:26:19,400
You know, it's like you know, it's just you get

482
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,000
that call and it's like, okay. My first instinct is

483
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,759
to go get her, but like, no, I got I

484
00:26:23,759 --> 00:26:27,559
got to get somebody out there to GOA. And I

485
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,759
know we have Triple A, but I she has the

486
00:26:31,799 --> 00:26:33,960
card on her for her Triple AG. I got it

487
00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:38,079
for her. So she sends me the thing and they're like, oh,

488
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,240
you didn't make the last payment or something like that,

489
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,039
and I'm like, what the fuck really, because you only

490
00:26:43,079 --> 00:26:45,400
pay that like once a year. Yeah, they said you

491
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,400
didn't keep up the payment. I well, I have an accountant,

492
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,039
so I had to like text her. She got on it,

493
00:26:51,079 --> 00:26:53,039
but but that was going to take too long, so

494
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,680
I called. So I call these like tow truck people

495
00:26:55,839 --> 00:27:00,720
like TikTok toeing like uh, and I say, I'm like

496
00:27:00,799 --> 00:27:04,960
towing company in the area, and they're like, yeah, I

497
00:27:05,039 --> 00:27:06,839
gonna help you. And I'm like, well, my daughter's on

498
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,759
the side of the free once it's two ten's it's

499
00:27:09,079 --> 00:27:12,640
near Pasadena, it's by Lake blah blah blah. And they're like, okay,

500
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,400
well I can get you a truck out there in

501
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:20,680
about two hours. And I'm like, I'm calling into Pasaden.

502
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,200
I'm looking for a place and he goes, yeah, well

503
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:25,400
my driver's out in you know, bum fock right now.

504
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,000
So it's gonna take like a while. So I call,

505
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,960
then I hang up. Then I call the next person.

506
00:27:30,039 --> 00:27:32,880
It's like doo doo doo. You know, it's I'm like

507
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,079
all go, just going, and then I call. Then I

508
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:38,119
call like you know, ABC Towing and they're like I

509
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,880
got here. I am. They're like yeah, no, we don't

510
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,880
have anybody in the area. I don't even wait for

511
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,039
them to say bye. Click go to the next person.

512
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,920
Finally I get this guy and he's like, yeah, I

513
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,880
got a guy like, twenty five thirty minutes away, can

514
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,200
get there, you know, send me her location. I'm like,

515
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,359
great Italian sitting in the car. Now it's getting dark.

516
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:02,000
People are whizzing by her, and I'm like talking to her,

517
00:28:02,319 --> 00:28:05,240
and now the clock is ticking. Now it's like, so

518
00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,839
let's he said twenty five minutes. Now it's like I

519
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:12,000
was at eight. Now it's eight thirty. Nobody, nobody. And

520
00:28:12,039 --> 00:28:14,880
then I text the guy is he is he close by?

521
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:20,079
No answer? Is no answer? Call him, get him on

522
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:24,319
the phone. And he's like, oh yeah, he's about uh

523
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:29,559
twenty five minutes away. Oh no, like you just really

524
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,440
it's been forty minutes and you told me that twenty

525
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,359
you know. And he's like, now, well, you know it's

526
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,559
Saturday night, a lot of traffic, and now I got

527
00:28:36,559 --> 00:28:38,359
this guy on the way. So I'm like, first, well,

528
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,559
there's not a lot of traffic on Saturday night. Well

529
00:28:40,759 --> 00:28:44,000
now the opposite of me, right, That's what he said.

530
00:28:44,079 --> 00:28:46,039
He's like, you know how it is on Saturday night

531
00:28:46,079 --> 00:28:49,960
there's literally a lot of traffic. And I'm like, okay.

532
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,160
He's like he'll be there, don't worry, he'll be that.

533
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,799
He'll be there and I'm like, I like, you know, now,

534
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:57,519
Natalie's like, my friend is close by, she can come

535
00:28:57,559 --> 00:29:00,079
pick me up. And we were going to the movies

536
00:29:00,319 --> 00:29:03,240
and we still have time, and I'm like, you can't

537
00:29:03,319 --> 00:29:06,920
leave the car there. So I call the guy back

538
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,000
and he's like, he's like, we're gonna be there in

539
00:29:09,039 --> 00:29:12,200
ten minutes. And I tell her have her pick you up.

540
00:29:12,559 --> 00:29:14,599
I mean, I'll pick you up, but if you time

541
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,799
it right. So she had her come pick her up

542
00:29:17,279 --> 00:29:20,839
and the guy just got there. So she left. The

543
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:24,759
guy took the car and he took it so there

544
00:29:24,799 --> 00:29:26,680
was it was no place to bring it. So I'm like,

545
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,559
I guess you got to bring it home and then

546
00:29:28,599 --> 00:29:32,599
tomorrow's Saturday. I'll find a tire place. Anyway, I tell

547
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,799
him three times, when you pull up to my house,

548
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,359
call me and I'll meet you outside. And also, please

549
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,680
don't put it in the driveway because then she's gonna block.

550
00:29:41,759 --> 00:29:43,200
Then it's gonna block me, and I'm not gonna be

551
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,079
able to get my car right. What does he do?

552
00:29:47,079 --> 00:29:49,680
Doesn't even call me, and I'm like waiting for the guy,

553
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,480
and the guy goes, yeah, I already dropped it off,

554
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:54,880
and I'm like, what and I didn't pay them yet, Like, okay,

555
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:56,759
how do I pay you? And he's like venmo me

556
00:29:56,839 --> 00:30:00,400
or zelle, but like, doesn't tell me. There's just walk out.

557
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,960
There's the car just sitting there. Guy's gone in your

558
00:30:03,039 --> 00:30:06,319
grip in my driveway, right in front of my car.

559
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:10,920
So I get blocked in. However, Natalia was able to

560
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:16,119
maneuver my car back from and got it out around

561
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,319
her car, which took forever, you know. But yeah, so

562
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,000
that was the ordeal. And then today I had to

563
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,599
and so anyway, then it wasn't going to be ready

564
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,319
till Monday at the order of the tires. So today,

565
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,960
so Natalia went to work and took my car. Sonny

566
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,240
has his car, went to his work, and I love

567
00:30:36,279 --> 00:30:38,759
that they're working. I love it. And then and then

568
00:30:38,839 --> 00:30:41,000
I talked to you and I was like, I'll uber

569
00:30:41,079 --> 00:30:44,960
to work tomorrow. And then when tomorrow came, I was like, fuck,

570
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,359
I hate ubering all the way out here. It's far

571
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,799
and this tireplace is right here. So I'm like, okay,

572
00:30:50,799 --> 00:30:52,559
when's it going to be ready? Anyway? So I uber

573
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:55,000
tok the tire place. I missed the exit by the way,

574
00:30:55,799 --> 00:30:58,000
Oh my god, that you know, It happens all the

575
00:30:58,039 --> 00:31:02,079
time when I'm in Uber. Some thing always happened, missed

576
00:31:02,079 --> 00:31:04,920
the exit anyway, got the car. Now I'm driving an

577
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:09,480
Italian's car. And then I'm gonna tell you have the

578
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,480
same car. No, okay, she has a sedan. I have

579
00:31:13,559 --> 00:31:17,039
it like a little suv okay, and hers is a

580
00:31:17,039 --> 00:31:18,960
little differences kind of the same, but a little. Like

581
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,559
I was telling you, I I'm like, where's the knobs

582
00:31:21,599 --> 00:31:24,480
for the AC or whatever? So I'm like, I just

583
00:31:24,559 --> 00:31:26,759
set it on low and it's one hundred and ten

584
00:31:26,759 --> 00:31:31,880
degrees anyway, So that was my Saturday night, and I'm

585
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,519
thinking to myself, like what if I wasn't around, or

586
00:31:35,559 --> 00:31:38,880
what if I was dead? Like what does she you

587
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,680
know what I mean, Like these kids get a flat tire,

588
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,960
you know. So I taught her, like this is what

589
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,119
you gotta do. I guess she would have called triple A.

590
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,079
So I made it right with triple A. By the way,

591
00:31:49,319 --> 00:31:51,920
So that Saturday morning, when they came and towed her

592
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:56,799
car to the other place, it was covered. Oh okay, good, yeah, yeah, yeah,

593
00:31:56,799 --> 00:31:59,400
because triple A is not that expensive, no, I know,

594
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,799
And I got it for her. And when she got

595
00:32:01,799 --> 00:32:04,039
the car, and I was like, okay, perfect timing. And

596
00:32:04,079 --> 00:32:07,119
then you know, now they're like, no you haven't. I

597
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,359
don't know, you didn't make it. You haven't one more

598
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:14,839
payment something. So anyway, got it figured out. That was

599
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:19,200
my Saturday night. So what had happened? Like where the

600
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,079
tires destroyed? Oh my god, the side of her it

601
00:32:22,119 --> 00:32:25,039
was like a huge hole, like you could see inside

602
00:32:25,079 --> 00:32:28,400
the tires something she hit. Just it was like somebody

603
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:32,599
slashed her tire with like a machete. Wow, both tires,

604
00:32:32,799 --> 00:32:37,640
big gashes. Yeah, on a huge freeway like to the

605
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:41,480
two ten in Pasadena. That's so weird. Yeah, it was

606
00:32:41,519 --> 00:32:44,599
pretty so dangerous, like that could have been a blowout, right,

607
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,599
I know. Yeah, And luckily I think she was in

608
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,880
the right lane because she immediately had to get over

609
00:32:50,519 --> 00:32:53,000
and she got into Luckily she got into a good spot.

610
00:32:54,279 --> 00:32:57,799
But you know, it's kind of scary, like what if

611
00:32:57,839 --> 00:33:01,200
it happened late at night, you know, coming home from

612
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,119
someplace far I don't know, don't know, it's kind of scary.

613
00:33:04,359 --> 00:33:07,720
I know that makes me think too, just you know,

614
00:33:08,119 --> 00:33:11,720
not to bring every everybody down, but I do think about, like, Okay,

615
00:33:12,359 --> 00:33:16,359
if something happened, how like what would the next step

616
00:33:16,359 --> 00:33:21,319
be for my kids, right, yeah, I guess my and

617
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,200
my brother would have to step in. But like, also

618
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,720
I have you know, the next of kin is like

619
00:33:28,759 --> 00:33:31,599
my brother. You mean, if something happened to you and

620
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,079
John and John, but I'm thinking like, yeah, I'm thinking

621
00:33:35,319 --> 00:33:39,680
now depressing like big picture or something happened, what would

622
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:42,680
they do? Everybody thinks that way. Yeah, but then also

623
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:46,680
on a small level, yeah, I'm definitely definitely i'lb asks

624
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,880
me everything. Yeah, that's good, that's good. No, it's not good.

625
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,200
She well she asks you ask for help. Yeah, yeah,

626
00:33:54,319 --> 00:33:57,680
doesn't think to do anything really on her own. Well, see,

627
00:33:57,839 --> 00:34:00,079
it's a lesson learned because I told her you have

628
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,519
your triple A card. It was in her wallet, right,

629
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,599
But she calls me first, you know what I mean,

630
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,360
like and she's like, what are we going to do?

631
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,360
And I'm like, well, you have your Triple A So

632
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:13,239
now she learned. So if it happens, I don't think

633
00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:16,239
that she would have thought. You know, it's just when

634
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,800
I talk to my kids, it's in one ear and

635
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:19,840
out the other. This is it. You know, here's your

636
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,519
Triple A card. If something happens with your card, you

637
00:34:22,519 --> 00:34:24,639
know you can call them and blah blah blah, you

638
00:34:24,679 --> 00:34:27,559
know whatever, show them put it in your wallet, so

639
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,480
in one ear and out the other. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

640
00:34:29,559 --> 00:34:32,880
she puts it in her wallet and was like, oh, yeah,

641
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,880
I have a triple A card, you know. Yeah, totally.

642
00:34:37,559 --> 00:34:40,760
I think I was. It's interesting. I was having a

643
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,840
conversation with John the other day about LB and I

644
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,320
was like, the thing about her is that she's got

645
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:53,840
certain like anxieties that prevent her from initiating sometimes things.

646
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:56,639
But then you know, and all teens, man, these teens,

647
00:34:56,679 --> 00:34:59,000
they won't make a phone call. Yeah, so like try

648
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,840
to tell olbe here's the for our dentist called the dentist,

649
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:05,239
and appointment never gonna happen. I gotta do it. But

650
00:35:06,199 --> 00:35:08,840
once she has the thing, like now that she has

651
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:13,599
a job, she's uber responsible. Like with her last job too,

652
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,480
Like never late, Not one time in like three years

653
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:20,320
was she late for work. Like she's on it, planning it.

654
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,320
Even if she goes out the night before she knows

655
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,880
she has to work, then she she'll pick up shifts.

656
00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:28,239
You know, Oh I'm not doing anything next Sunday, Okay,

657
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,880
She'll work a lot of hours, you know, And she

658
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,239
does a great job at work, like they love her.

659
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,079
One of her you know bosses, is already like you

660
00:35:37,079 --> 00:35:38,840
should ask if you should if you could get a

661
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,440
promotion and be like a food runner, oh little to

662
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,800
host us. And she's like, really, you think she's gotta

663
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,159
be running that place, but she won't on her own

664
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:53,719
do the thing that you need to do to like write. Okay, yeah,

665
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:59,239
like we okay, this is maybe whatever. I don't really care,

666
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,719
I'm gonna tell you anyway. So we were having this

667
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:06,559
thing because so she dropped out of her sorority, but

668
00:36:06,639 --> 00:36:09,880
she didn't tell anybody apparently. So I got a bill

669
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,559
that was for July through August, and I was like,

670
00:36:14,599 --> 00:36:17,800
and it was for like thirteen hundred dollars. Wow. Yeah.

671
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:20,679
So I was like, Lbie, I just got a bill

672
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:23,039
from your sorority for thirteen hundred dollars. I thought you

673
00:36:23,159 --> 00:36:28,000
dropped And she was like, oh, well yeah, but I

674
00:36:28,079 --> 00:36:31,000
couldn't officially do it because you know, it's just some

675
00:36:31,119 --> 00:36:33,840
bullshit thing of like, no, you just didn't do it

676
00:36:34,119 --> 00:36:37,440
because hey, that seemed like a good idea, but you

677
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:41,960
weren't thinking about consequences. So then I said, well, you

678
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,599
didn't call anybody, and actually take care of it, right,

679
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:47,239
She goes, well, no, because I needed to have the

680
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:51,840
phone the person I'm gonna as soon as school starts again,

681
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:53,360
that's what I thought. I didn't know they would bill

682
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:56,039
you over the summer, right, Well they did, right, and

683
00:36:56,079 --> 00:36:58,440
they frontloaded it. So and I was like, and I

684
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,239
don't want to pay this. You're not in the sorority anymore.

685
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:04,079
You're not getting anything out of it. And yeah, also,

686
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,960
why are you guys billing me for July fifth to

687
00:37:07,079 --> 00:37:10,440
like August fifth? Why what is happening? Yes, in the

688
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:14,199
sorority that she's part of, right, nothing, that's what. Even

689
00:37:14,519 --> 00:37:16,360
for those of you who are thinking, well the kids

690
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,599
go back early and they start doing their whatever and

691
00:37:20,079 --> 00:37:23,000
stuff for the new incoming, No, not ELB because it

692
00:37:23,039 --> 00:37:26,840
doesn't nothing even starts until into September. Yeah right right,

693
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,000
they're late, like Sonny. Right. So I'm like, okay, that's

694
00:37:30,079 --> 00:37:33,440
just this is ridiculous. So then she's like, okay, I'm

695
00:37:33,519 --> 00:37:35,079
on it. I'm going to get a hold of the

696
00:37:35,119 --> 00:37:37,039
right person and I'm going to drop Okay, So you

697
00:37:37,079 --> 00:37:41,320
know what happened. Nothing. A week went by. I was like, okay,

698
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,559
so you took care of it, right, oh, not yet.

699
00:37:43,559 --> 00:37:46,400
I'm about to. Then, like another couple of days go by,

700
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,199
and she was like, oh my god, yes, I just

701
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:52,440
like remembered, and I texted my friend to tell me

702
00:37:52,519 --> 00:37:55,840
to give me the person's number to do the official drop.

703
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:59,960
It's one person you have to contact. Okay, another cup

704
00:38:00,039 --> 00:38:03,119
all days go by, I'm like, did you get a

705
00:38:03,119 --> 00:38:05,119
hold of the person? Did you drop out of your

706
00:38:05,159 --> 00:38:08,960
fucking sorority? And then she's like, well, the person that

707
00:38:09,079 --> 00:38:13,760
I'm nobody has that person's phone number, right, do you

708
00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:16,920
know what I mean? That age? It's a age, I guess.

709
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:21,320
But also it's because she doesn't feel the conse consequence yea,

710
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,960
because it's not so then I said, well I really

711
00:38:24,039 --> 00:38:26,760
hope now. So now we're in the room and John's

712
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,079
in the room, and I'm frustrated. So I go, well,

713
00:38:29,119 --> 00:38:31,840
you know, I just hope this doesn't have a consequence

714
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:35,199
where you know they're going to withhold like you starting

715
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:39,599
classes now I got our attention, you know. And she's

716
00:38:39,639 --> 00:38:42,360
like wait what And I was like, well, I don't know.

717
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,960
And then John has to go like, I don't think

718
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:51,360
you should worry about that because it's not really affiliated. Yeah, yeah,

719
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,360
headphones are hurting my ears. Yeah, it's like it's I don't,

720
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:57,599
I don't it's not really affiliated, right, Yeah, of course

721
00:38:57,960 --> 00:38:59,880
what I see. What I hear is you didn't go

722
00:38:59,920 --> 00:39:02,480
to college, so you don't really know this stuff. Like

723
00:39:02,519 --> 00:39:05,960
me and Lbie were like college people, like, you know,

724
00:39:06,199 --> 00:39:09,960
but I'm like, well, I don't know. It's on the

725
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,880
campus of UCLA. What do you mean it's not affiliated.

726
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,880
He's like they're not going to do anything or whatever.

727
00:39:16,039 --> 00:39:18,400
And so then later John and I had to have

728
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,960
a conversation because I was like, I'm trying to teach

729
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,039
her about consequences and You're like, I don't worry about it.

730
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,280
He was like, well no, I just I was being literal,

731
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:32,840
like that shouldn't actually be a concern anyway. It was like, yeah,

732
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,719
it's really hard. It is hard. It is consequences, you know.

733
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,800
And I told Natalia, you know, when you go back

734
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,559
to Santa Barbara, you didn't have to get a job.

735
00:39:41,599 --> 00:39:45,400
Her last day is this Wednesday. She's going to be done.

736
00:39:46,119 --> 00:39:49,760
And then she's driving back at night with her roommate

737
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,679
to Santa Barbara and she's like, I am going to

738
00:39:52,679 --> 00:39:54,960
get it. She's like I'm so bummed I have to

739
00:39:55,039 --> 00:39:57,639
leave my job like she likes it, which is great.

740
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,960
So now I want to keep her on that path.

741
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:02,159
I want her to get you know, she's gonna have

742
00:40:02,199 --> 00:40:05,119
to get another job. It ain't gonna be Jimmy Kimmel alive, obviously,

743
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,000
but she knows of like a you know, boutique store

744
00:40:08,039 --> 00:40:10,599
that some of her friends work in, and blah blah blah.

745
00:40:10,639 --> 00:40:14,159
So she's gonna start looking and she's excited about it,

746
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,679
which I'm saying. I always say to l B. I'm like,

747
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,880
where do you do your friends work? First of all,

748
00:40:20,079 --> 00:40:23,000
a lot of her friends don't work, and they're her age,

749
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:27,880
and they always have money, like they're traveling, they're doing

750
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:31,239
all these things, and I'm always like, how like is

751
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:36,840
everybody wealthy? Yeah? Like remember we had this conversation a

752
00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:39,920
long time agoes like we'd see these women with their

753
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,960
diamond rings and their range rovers at school pulling up

754
00:40:43,039 --> 00:40:46,400
and they got their fucking, you know, Gucci bag or whatever,

755
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,000
and like how like where you know what I mean? Like,

756
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,920
I you know, I was had lucky enough to have

757
00:40:53,079 --> 00:40:55,239
you know, a nice life when I live with anam,

758
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:58,480
but I never like, like why like with the blinky

759
00:40:58,519 --> 00:41:01,119
bling blings in the in the herses and the shoes

760
00:41:01,159 --> 00:41:03,360
and the dressing up to go. You know, it's like

761
00:41:03,519 --> 00:41:07,719
how like yeah, like you're with what Like I don't know.

762
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:12,280
And Los Angeles is so expensive. It's so expensive, you know,

763
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,559
Like I would understand it if it was like, well,

764
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,159
you're just not like this, but if you were like

765
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:21,320
that and you had your Adam was making a lot

766
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,480
of money. But these are just like regular people. That's

767
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,119
anybody you've ever heard of. And I'm always like, what

768
00:41:27,199 --> 00:41:30,440
are these jobs these people do? Yeah? Right, they're all

769
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,760
in finance? Are they all? Like? Right? I know, you

770
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:38,360
don't understand anything about like what a finance job even means? Yeah,

771
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:43,039
I know me neither My Natalia's best friend's mom worked

772
00:41:43,039 --> 00:41:45,599
in finance. They moved out here from New York, so

773
00:41:45,679 --> 00:41:48,599
both of them are like her and her husband I was,

774
00:41:48,639 --> 00:41:50,519
you know, she's she would tell me she works from

775
00:41:50,559 --> 00:41:52,239
home and stuff, and I'm like, what do you what?

776
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,119
What do you do? Like I would sit at games

777
00:41:55,159 --> 00:41:57,679
next to her and she would, you know, she's like

778
00:41:58,079 --> 00:41:59,760
I deal with a lot of people, you know, the

779
00:42:00,199 --> 00:42:03,880
money for people and handle it and like that's great.

780
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,039
What do you do? Like if somebody was like, can

781
00:42:06,119 --> 00:42:09,599
you help me with here investing money? I don't even

782
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:14,360
understand anything about Yeah, I'm not bragging, by the way, people,

783
00:42:14,559 --> 00:42:17,519
I'm not saying like I'm learning. I'm stupid and I

784
00:42:17,519 --> 00:42:20,239
don't care. No, but I just don't understand what that

785
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:24,079
even Like, Okay, are they doctors because I don't even

786
00:42:24,119 --> 00:42:26,440
feel like doctors make a ton of money. Look at

787
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,559
doctor knock around. He's not making he's not bringing it in.

788
00:42:29,679 --> 00:42:32,320
He can only afford thirty lip glasses for his wife.

789
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,320
You know, yeah, I want like fifty, I want a

790
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,800
fifty lip glass lifestyle. Yes, yes, yeah, okay, so a

791
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:48,000
regular physician, no, I mean like realtors realtors? Yeah, but

792
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,280
what happens when the stock not the stock market, but

793
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:55,440
when the real estate market is down or interest rates

794
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:59,199
are high or are they still and also like they're

795
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,840
not all going to be like you know, the selling

796
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:06,199
sunset sunset real estate ors, real estate agents? So is it?

797
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:09,039
Are they business owners? Do they start like a line

798
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:13,599
of like a clothing line? Yeah, I guess I don't know,

799
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,199
but you got to figure for every clothing line that

800
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:20,679
does well. I look at like Lisa Vanderpump, by the way,

801
00:43:21,159 --> 00:43:25,239
whose just exxudes money. I do like what she does

802
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:27,719
with dogs. I have to say I'm warming up to

803
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,559
her a little bit watching vander Pump. I'm on season

804
00:43:30,639 --> 00:43:34,760
like four. But yeah, like she's and I'm thinking, why

805
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,000
does she have all this money? Because she owns a

806
00:43:37,039 --> 00:43:40,800
restaurant and didn't like a restaurant, go under one of

807
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,559
them or two of them? Listen' she just have, sir,

808
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:48,239
I think Pump is gone. I think, well, she also

809
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:51,280
now has a lot of TV franchise that, yes, But

810
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,960
before she had a ton of money too. I think

811
00:43:54,039 --> 00:43:58,039
she had restaurants and bars in London too. Oh that's

812
00:43:58,119 --> 00:44:02,559
what I think. But how did how restaurants seems so risky? Yeah,

813
00:44:02,599 --> 00:44:05,559
I know, and then like it seems so hard to

814
00:44:05,599 --> 00:44:08,760
get it, to build it up and get it, you know,

815
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,199
having I mean listen to us, we're just don't come

816
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:15,199
to last. Restaurants fail, yeah, a lot of do. Yeah,

817
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:19,960
even hers, Yeah they fail. It just seems so hard.

818
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:21,519
Like if you don't have a TV show, how you

819
00:44:21,599 --> 00:44:24,719
getting people in the door? Right? And even like Jack says,

820
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:29,400
a TV show that's gone right his restaurant right? Yeah,

821
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,960
Well he never had a restaurant, he had it. They

822
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,719
put his name on the bar. Somebody else owned that

823
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,159
bar and they just branded it Jack, so he felt

824
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:40,320
like he was like a part business owner. I doubt

825
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,280
he paid one penny into the pace. I never thought

826
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,480
about that, but yeah, that makes sense. They just branded

827
00:44:46,519 --> 00:44:50,119
it his brand. Oh god, that's why he you know,

828
00:44:50,199 --> 00:44:52,559
and he tried to make it famous by wearing his

829
00:44:52,639 --> 00:44:56,280
stupid like hats and sweaties and stuff all the time

830
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,880
to advertise it because his name was going to bring

831
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,480
people in because it was now a like vander Pump

832
00:45:01,639 --> 00:45:05,079
right right far Yeah, well, joke was on them now,

833
00:45:06,159 --> 00:45:08,480
I know. Well, I'm sure it still gets a lot

834
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,800
of business for people that want to be although now

835
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:13,719
he's out of it. Yeah. I think they took his

836
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:19,320
name down. Yeah they did. Yeah, yeah, but you know,

837
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,480
I mean, I had a TV show and let me

838
00:45:21,559 --> 00:45:24,679
just tell you, it did not make me rich. It

839
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:27,679
was nice. I got healthcare for two years. Yeah because

840
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,440
of AFTRA. Oh my god. Somebody showed me that they

841
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:34,519
got a residual check from doing my show. It was

842
00:45:34,559 --> 00:45:36,679
only for a penny, so that was why they were

843
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,079
showing it to me. But I was like, I've never

844
00:45:39,119 --> 00:45:42,280
gotten a single residual for doing my own show. Well,

845
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,719
that's weird. I guess it was a buyout. So are

846
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:50,119
they airing it? It airs on Hulu. It does, you

847
00:45:50,159 --> 00:45:53,239
can watch it on Hulu. Why aren't you getting recient?

848
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:57,639
You should be, didn't? I don't know. It's weird. But

849
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,199
also the pay that I when I did that show

850
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:05,079
wasn't very high either. So it's like, you know, when

851
00:46:05,119 --> 00:46:09,599
you think about like working actors, it takes a lot

852
00:46:09,679 --> 00:46:13,440
to be like living well, even if you are working

853
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,960
on projects, right, Like, you got to work on something

854
00:46:17,039 --> 00:46:20,199
that hits, and then you've got to renegotiate for like,

855
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:24,400
you know, I've had friends who worked on like Netflix shows,

856
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:28,599
like regulars on shows, Uh huh for a long time

857
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,719
that we're living very normal life. Oh yeah, I know

858
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:35,880
a lot of those. Yeah. Yeah, it's true. It doesn't

859
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:39,280
pay that much. You have to like have this and

860
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:41,000
first of all, you have to get lucky to be

861
00:46:41,159 --> 00:46:43,320
on a show that gets renewed first of all, or

862
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:44,719
then you know, then you have to be like a

863
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,920
character actor that you see and that kind of gets

864
00:46:48,039 --> 00:46:51,039
jobs here and there. Yeah, acting doesn't really pay that

865
00:46:51,159 --> 00:46:54,679
much unless you're Halle Berry or Brad Pitt or whatever

866
00:46:55,840 --> 00:46:59,400
exactly yeah, you know, unless your box office smash. Yes,

867
00:46:59,559 --> 00:47:01,639
like stupid with Ryan Reynolds, I want to punch in

868
00:47:01,679 --> 00:47:05,880
the face. Yes, exactly did you hear about this Isabelle

869
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:11,159
Fierra stuff that with Blake Lively that she's she they

870
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:16,519
subpoenaed Wayfair subpoena and Baldoni subpoenaed her. Isabelle who played

871
00:47:16,519 --> 00:47:21,320
the young stupid Blake in that movie It Ends with Us.

872
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:25,639
She's like a young actress. They tried to subpoena her

873
00:47:25,679 --> 00:47:28,800
for this lawsuit like three or four times, and she

874
00:47:29,639 --> 00:47:33,320
played dumb like she didn't know about it. And now

875
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:38,320
I guess she's backtracking. She's basically trying to I think

876
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,360
that she got blaked, Like I think that Blake has

877
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:44,320
like love bombed her. Well, you know about how she

878
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:46,719
would have her spend the night during making the movies

879
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,519
and like do like sleepovers and yeah, you know do that.

880
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:51,880
And she's kind of been missing from the scene, like

881
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,000
nobody's really heard or seen from her where her allegiances.

882
00:47:55,199 --> 00:47:59,000
You don't see her out with Blake. But I guess

883
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,800
so there's this was all in the in the news.

884
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:04,079
I'm sure by tomorrow people know what I'm talking about.

885
00:48:04,119 --> 00:48:07,000
But I saw it this morning that they finally got

886
00:48:07,039 --> 00:48:09,840
a hold of her, and I think she was subpoena

887
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,639
and she was saying that, uh, I think she was

888
00:48:13,679 --> 00:48:16,840
like acting on behalf of Blake, not really saying that

889
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:22,039
she was sayed by Baldoni but felt uncomfortable or something.

890
00:48:22,119 --> 00:48:25,800
Oh wow, I think I don't don't quote me, but

891
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,599
I think it doesn't it's what people were saying didn't

892
00:48:28,599 --> 00:48:33,800
look good for Baldoni's side couch. But then you but

893
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:37,119
then people were playing like clips of her in interviews

894
00:48:37,119 --> 00:48:40,320
where they didn't even ask her about Baldoni, and she

895
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,559
was like and the door and Justin was just so

896
00:48:43,559 --> 00:48:47,599
so so great and so wonderful, and I just loved

897
00:48:47,639 --> 00:48:50,760
coming on set and felt like this was my time

898
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:54,159
to show. Like she was gushing multiple times, not just

899
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:59,360
once when not even really asked about Baldoni. Unnecessary, just

900
00:48:59,599 --> 00:49:03,760
very effusive, very going on and on. And you know,

901
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,239
now she's saying like it's really weird. I don't know,

902
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,719
like or she was unco I don't know. She's not

903
00:49:10,519 --> 00:49:14,039
sticking up for him, that's for sure. That's so interesting.

904
00:49:14,119 --> 00:49:16,480
And I feel like, you know, Ryan, I feel like

905
00:49:16,559 --> 00:49:19,440
Ryan Reynolds has a lot to do with this. I

906
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:23,159
feel like, you know, talking to her and getting her

907
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,039
in their you know, in their head, like I'll put

908
00:49:25,039 --> 00:49:27,360
you in my next movie. What who knows? You know,

909
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:31,559
it's such a douche. Can't stand those two. How old

910
00:49:31,679 --> 00:49:34,880
is this girl? She's only in her like she when

911
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,760
she was filming the movie, she was like twenty two

912
00:49:37,079 --> 00:49:40,119
or something twenty and Blake's pushing forty and she's like

913
00:49:40,159 --> 00:49:42,920
grooming her, which is kind of creepy, like when they

914
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:45,400
were making the movie, you know, like, oh, you know,

915
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,840
I wear all my clothes and this and that. And

916
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:52,800
then Taylor Swift's album is going to be dropping, and

917
00:49:53,039 --> 00:49:56,719
they're saying that there's going to be like Easter eggs

918
00:49:57,119 --> 00:50:01,000
in there about uh, Blake. I think there's a song

919
00:50:01,119 --> 00:50:04,400
called something like end of the Road or something, and people, oh, really, yeah,

920
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,559
they know the names of the sound of this of

921
00:50:06,599 --> 00:50:09,039
the songs, but it's not out yet. What if the

922
00:50:09,079 --> 00:50:13,360
song was called it ends with us, wouldn't I? But

923
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:16,440
it's like a disk track, yes, like oh my god,

924
00:50:16,519 --> 00:50:21,320
a dis track, yeah, like that would be great. And

925
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,199
now they're saying she might play the Super Bowl Taylor Swift, Yeah,

926
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,960
I'm like, did she already. I guess she hasn't. Oh yeah,

927
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:34,039
so it makes sense now's her time to shine. Wow,

928
00:50:34,119 --> 00:50:39,400
that would be interesting. Yeah yeah. And it's her twelfth

929
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:43,360
album and she like had this countdown blah blah blah

930
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:45,719
the other night. I'm kind of getting into her a

931
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:47,719
little bit. I don't know. I couldn't tell you one

932
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:52,840
song she sings, shake it Off. Oh yeah, that one. Yeah,

933
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:58,679
I'll say a toothing. Yeah. I mean if I heard it,

934
00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:02,559
maybe i'd know, like the pop ones, you're in the bleachers,

935
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:06,119
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know. I feel

936
00:51:06,119 --> 00:51:08,039
like if I listened to her lyrics, I would like it.

937
00:51:08,159 --> 00:51:11,360
You'd know all the songs, yeah, a lot of them. Yeah,

938
00:51:11,519 --> 00:51:14,320
But I feel like she's really talented and good songwriter.

939
00:51:14,559 --> 00:51:16,760
She is. I'm gonna listen to this shit out of

940
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:19,880
her Blake track, this track, I can't wait. I know,

941
00:51:20,639 --> 00:51:24,920
but let's save something for Friday. Yeah, you know, I've

942
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,159
got I've got a few things. I've got a few

943
00:51:27,159 --> 00:51:29,960
things up my sleeve. I but let us say hi

944
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:34,639
to our friends like Dick Frolicker and Christa Get this Drop,

945
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:38,199
and Jennifer Get Up and Sandra. It's not easy being

946
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:41,440
green and Stephanie's a stinker wrinker and Athena, we love

947
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:46,159
your dancing. And Nikki call your girl. And Kelly Laddie

948
00:51:46,199 --> 00:51:50,719
dah and well know Kelly, Kelly not your aunt. Sorry,

949
00:51:50,960 --> 00:51:54,079
she'll take you to you know. Yeah, And Elizabeth Williamson

950
00:51:54,119 --> 00:51:57,239
has a lot of kids. But Rito Baciette's there on

951
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,559
the waiting for him to rock them asleep. Polly, we

952
00:52:00,639 --> 00:52:02,760
love your pancakes. Valerie hits it out of the park,

953
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:07,280
Katerina check it. Yeah, Gabby and Missy you're up to

954
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,679
no good. Well, they're hanging out at the doctor's office

955
00:52:11,119 --> 00:52:15,559
out one thousand elks outside going do you want us

956
00:52:15,559 --> 00:52:21,320
to call your insurance for you? Vajpeg? Repecca open is

957
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:25,840
so cute? Alicia ask Alante, Well, he's got COVID again. No,

958
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:33,119
it's going around. Aaron's a dirty Sanchez and us frolicking. Yeah,

959
00:52:33,559 --> 00:52:36,639
did we say, Athena, we love your makeup. Yeah. Also,

960
00:52:37,119 --> 00:52:41,159
my friend Tamra, speaking of COVID, she went to Mexico,

961
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:46,400
came home with COVID. Yeah, but she has a wonderful business.

962
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:50,920
She's called Gray by Tamra Mellow it's over on the

963
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:56,400
Etsy and that she just does great anniversary gifts tons

964
00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:59,840
of stuff for guys with all really cool metals and

965
00:53:00,079 --> 00:53:02,760
use the use fcol twenty and she'll give you twenty

966
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:07,280
percent off. Also our friend Courtney Moore, she has ie

967
00:53:07,679 --> 00:53:10,719
embroidery on Facebook. You guys got to go check out

968
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:12,519
our stuff. She wants to send us some stuff. By

969
00:53:12,519 --> 00:53:14,400
the way. Oh nice, I know, so I'm going to

970
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:19,159
send her my address. They do hats and polos and

971
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:22,719
whatever you want. They'll like embroider whatever you want on it.

972
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,800
It's really cool to check it out. Very professional, but

973
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,480
could be a little bit like Becky Baris where you

974
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,039
can put ask her for what you want on your

975
00:53:31,079 --> 00:53:36,800
hat or whatever. Now Becky does prints, t shirts, mousepads,

976
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:41,000
what have you. We love her just basic Becky or

977
00:53:41,119 --> 00:53:46,079
basic Becky on Facebook. Robin was in Ski got her

978
00:53:46,119 --> 00:53:48,639
dog bossco from a charity called, I mean, from a

979
00:53:48,679 --> 00:53:54,079
rescue called Popculture Rescue dot org. Cutest name and any

980
00:53:54,199 --> 00:53:59,199
donation is tax deductible and it's nonprofit. That's what I'm saying,

981
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:02,960
So give them a little bit of money. Gabby Fonseka

982
00:54:03,159 --> 00:54:08,360
is doing u f W. That is United farm Workers. Nice,

983
00:54:08,519 --> 00:54:11,280
get on that ufu W. Throw them a little money.

984
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:15,840
It's a labor union for farm workers. My friend writes

985
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:23,400
on medium dot com at Unbecoming Stories really good pieces

986
00:54:23,519 --> 00:54:29,039
about our crazy ex husband. That's always a good read. Yeah,

987
00:54:29,079 --> 00:54:33,800
and The Family Skeptical is a podcast about raising kids,

988
00:54:34,039 --> 00:54:37,679
you know, without believing, you know, without shoving God down

989
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:40,800
the road. That's all. And they drop an episode every

990
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:42,719
three weeks, so check them out. If you're in Palm

991
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:46,400
Springs or Palm Desert, go to Wilma and Freda's. They

992
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,760
have really good food. If you're on the island of Kawhi,

993
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:55,920
go to Sugar Skull cool name sugars. Yeah, they have

994
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:01,079
an Instagram page two at sugar Skull eighth eight, so

995
00:55:01,199 --> 00:55:02,920
check them out. And if you want to get there

996
00:55:03,679 --> 00:55:06,199
and you need a travel agent, why not use Waves

997
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:11,159
and Wonder Travel. That is our friend Christine Black and

998
00:55:11,199 --> 00:55:14,960
you can find her on insta a Travel with Christine

999
00:55:15,159 --> 00:55:18,440
B or find her on our Facebook page. And if

1000
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,320
you want to give somebody to a really good cause,

1001
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:23,239
why not the ACLUH We're going to save our asses

1002
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:28,719
right now. Yeah, it's crazy. Yes, thank you Jacob Crowley

1003
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:32,320
for that. And if you want a delicious smelling candle,

1004
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,239
why not go use fern Candle love. Hey, that's our

1005
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:40,159
friend Kelsey. Have them in my house. They smell so good. Yeah,

1006
00:55:40,199 --> 00:55:44,960
And on Instagram they're at Fern Candle. Adam Lerner right

1007
00:55:45,039 --> 00:55:47,719
this minute is trying to get us an ID four.

1008
00:55:48,159 --> 00:55:50,800
Uh huh. He is looking at dealerships all over the

1009
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:52,920
place for the color that we want. But we're going

1010
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:55,159
to be getting a car from him nice in the

1011
00:55:55,199 --> 00:55:59,119
next Well, the problem is that we really wanted white

1012
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:03,760
or gray. Yeah, they they're really out, so we might

1013
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,719
get this like it's like a very pale blue. Oh

1014
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,280
I like those. Yeah, it's it's pretty yeah yeah. Yeah.

1015
00:56:10,519 --> 00:56:15,440
So that's Adams got acar dot com. Also, if if

1016
00:56:15,440 --> 00:56:17,519
you need a plumber, listen, if you're gonna buy a house,

1017
00:56:17,559 --> 00:56:21,400
you're gonna need somebody to do the drain, go down

1018
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:24,559
the drain and do the sewer line inspection. And that's

1019
00:56:24,559 --> 00:56:27,920
what my friend Mike Gerstein is here for. And you

1020
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:33,079
can catch him at drain Surgeons as so it's Drained

1021
00:56:33,079 --> 00:56:36,639
Surgeons with a SAZ dot com. His phone numbers there,

1022
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,800
his email. If you mentioned FCL you'll get the ninety

1023
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:43,440
nine dollars sewer line inspection. And and if you're not

1024
00:56:43,599 --> 00:56:47,599
in the Maricopa County, Arizona area. You can just go

1025
00:56:47,639 --> 00:56:50,000
on it, get get in touch with him, and he'll

1026
00:56:50,159 --> 00:56:52,920
help you out for free over the phone. So he's

1027
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:59,960
a cool guy. Yeah. Yeah. Also, Drunkish drops an episode

1028
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:06,360
same day as fcol Tuesday, and it is a woman

1029
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:13,119
named Kayla You and she's this like Asian model. She's

1030
00:57:13,199 --> 00:57:15,920
really beautiful. She was like really fun to do an

1031
00:57:15,920 --> 00:57:18,199
interview with. And she has a book coming out about

1032
00:57:18,239 --> 00:57:23,440
the fetishization basically of Asian women. And also, guess who

1033
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:27,599
I recorded an episode with who? LB you did? Yes,

1034
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:29,840
because she's going to tell us all about like her

1035
00:57:30,039 --> 00:57:35,760
experience like drinking in college. That's a great age campuses.

1036
00:57:36,239 --> 00:57:41,159
I might throw that one up on Wednesday. That's good.

1037
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,000
I might put that up on Wednesday. That's awesome. I

1038
00:57:44,000 --> 00:57:47,480
had an Italian listen. You should, Yeah, you should. It

1039
00:57:47,519 --> 00:57:50,800
would be interesting. So anyway, thank you guys for supporting that. Yeah,

1040
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:53,440
and we love you guys. We love you your parent Now

1041
00:57:53,559 --> 00:58:01,719
don't f it up. That ain't go