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Arro dot net A r r oe dot Net. Enjoy

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your exploration. Yo yo yo. I am back that guy

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that likes to ask questions. And the reason why is

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because the fund begins when you start researching for answers

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such as if opposites truly attract, then why is there

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still war? Plus how do we mend areas of distraction

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inside a gift of attraction? My name is Arrow. I'm

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a daily writer, a silent wolf. I stand on the

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sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study that activate.

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I happen to call it the daily Mess. It is

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a chronological walk through an everyday world. Yeah, it's my

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morning ride. As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we

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as people tend to throw things to the side because

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we have convinced ourselves we're gonna deal with this later, okay, self, Well,

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when a subject arrives inside of me. I know it's

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time to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal.

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But but but but but by doing the research, that

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picture becomes clearer. This is the daily mess. If opposites

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truly attract, why is there so much war? Wow? Let

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me tell you what research did with me. It quickly

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readdressed my process. The term opposites attract applies to individual

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relationships through thick and thin. There's going to be differences

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pulling the lens back though. We see that there is

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a story here that compliments each other, Meaning opposites do attract.

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War happens for very different reasons. People don't automatically go

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into a war because something or someone says, well, oh,

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we've got something that is indifferent. Political leadership, propaganda, or

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historical grievances push countries into war. The situation in Israel

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and Gaza isn't about opposites attracting, but rather their history, land, identity, trauma,

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and power. Having an opposite can feel like a threat.

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Now on a personal level, remember the individual thing having

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an opposite view can be intriguing, whereas group levels, Ooh,

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that opposite can latch onto a feeling of something being

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very dangerous the Cold War. Let's bring that up. That

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is a great example capitalism versus communism, the opposite created friction.

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Coming up next. If opposites do or don't attract, how

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can we just get along? Hey, welcome back to the

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daily mess. If opposites are said to attract, why do

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we always fall witness to war? Well, first, attraction requires safety, awareness,

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complete control of your emotions. When opposites do attract, there

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has to be curiosity, mutual respect, and internal security. War

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breaks out when fear steps onto the dance floor. Other

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fire starters include unresolved trauma and a power imbalance. Without safety,

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differences will turn into defense. The human being is wired

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for belonging, so we got to bring in the psychological thing.

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And psychologically speaking, we bond strongly with groups. When the

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identity becomes you know, a little bit rigid, Well, that's

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where your enemies are born. So why don't opposites that

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attract prevent war? Well, when you're attracted to a person,

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it's about complimenting. War is all about control, fear, and

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the act of survival. Opposites do attract when people feel

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secure enough to not feel threatened by these things. That

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are around us that create the indifferences. The real question

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is what are you thinking about in the house of

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opposites attracting? Is it personal or is your opposites attracting

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more of a global level. I A Yi, I'm harrow

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and that's the daily mess.