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<v Speaker 1>Canceit cancel, it's not saving.

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<v Speaker 2>They always come back. Well, they always come back when

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<v Speaker 2>you embody this specific energy that we're going to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about today. Now, this podcast episode isn't how to get

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<v Speaker 2>your X back. This is about how to stand in

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<v Speaker 2>your power. How do you have big aura energy, how

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<v Speaker 2>to magnetize your highest timeline desires to you. This is

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<v Speaker 2>not about a Brad or a Chad or Brittany. This

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<v Speaker 2>is about how you take your power back and live

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<v Speaker 2>the life that you came here to live. I know

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<v Speaker 2>it's mercury retrograde, which is a time famous for past

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<v Speaker 2>lessons coming back around. So you most likely have either

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<v Speaker 2>had people or circumstances from your past revisit you. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>this isn't because some demonic force outside of you is

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<v Speaker 2>testing you know. This is because your higher self is

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<v Speaker 2>reopening to pass experiences to train you to stay in

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<v Speaker 2>your power. I recently had an ex comeback and they

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<v Speaker 2>sent me a song. I said why, and they told

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<v Speaker 2>me made me think of you, And obviously I had

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<v Speaker 2>an answer because well, duh, I am me. I am

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<v Speaker 2>a lover girl. I channeled the divine's unconditional love to

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<v Speaker 2>the human beings on this planet. I know that the

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<v Speaker 2>love that I give will forever leave a legacy within

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<v Speaker 2>your heart. I know that even if you date someone

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<v Speaker 2>else or get married, that you're not gonna forget the

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<v Speaker 2>experience you had with me. If you are listening to

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<v Speaker 2>this podcast, Mah friend in Christ, it is because you

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<v Speaker 2>have a similar heart posture to me. And this means

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<v Speaker 2>you don't try to get revenge on people. You speak

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<v Speaker 2>to God and say how do I heel through this?

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<v Speaker 2>It means you don't seek to chase, to try to

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<v Speaker 2>claw your way back into people's lives. You release them

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<v Speaker 2>and know that what is yours, under your divine right

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<v Speaker 2>will find you. And let me just tell you what

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<v Speaker 2>I have seen in the collective time and time again,

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<v Speaker 2>is someone like me? Is someone like you showing up

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<v Speaker 2>in relationship giving love, overfunctioning, showing up every day with

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<v Speaker 2>our best mindsets. And then we're met with someone who, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they look at us, they want us, they like us,

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<v Speaker 2>they might even love us, but they aren't capable of

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<v Speaker 2>receiving our love or being in a frequency that matches ours,

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<v Speaker 2>or they're not willing to rise in their masculine So

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<v Speaker 2>what do they do? They choose to go back to

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<v Speaker 2>their comfort zone, choose to go back to their maladaptive

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<v Speaker 2>coping mechanisms. They choose to go back to their shadows.

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<v Speaker 2>And what happens is it's a very painful experience for

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<v Speaker 2>us with the upright heart posture, when we're trying to fix,

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<v Speaker 2>when we're trying to help, when we're trying to heal,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're rejecting that love. And that is a karma

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<v Speaker 2>experience that we need to feel and go through. And

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<v Speaker 2>if you have recently gone through a breakup and you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like, damn, that was karmak, congratulations because now you

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<v Speaker 2>have chosen yourself, You have removed yourself, or maybe the

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<v Speaker 2>divine stepped in and removed that person from you, but

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<v Speaker 2>you are free and your karma is cleansed. What happens

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<v Speaker 2>when that person does not rise to meet you is

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<v Speaker 2>the second your karma ends and is cleansed, theirs begins

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<v Speaker 2>because now they have to live the rest of their

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<v Speaker 2>life knowing the type of love you could give, knowing

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<v Speaker 2>the type of person you are, knowing your heart, and

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<v Speaker 2>also knowing they can't have you, that you've moved on,

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<v Speaker 2>that you've chosen yourself, and again they might date someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>They might marry someone else, it doesn't matter. They will

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<v Speaker 2>still be thinking of you. And I know this to

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<v Speaker 2>be true because I've literally seen it in my life experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Another specimen of mine was texting me asking me about

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<v Speaker 2>my whereabouts, and I just said, what makes you ask this?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just questioning everyone. He was just curious, And guess what,

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<v Speaker 2>you being curious about me? You missing me is not

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<v Speaker 2>enough for me. Just because you want to talk to me,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to see me, you're curious about what I'm doing,

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<v Speaker 2>does not mean you can afford my frequency. There are

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<v Speaker 2>people who are gonna want you. They're gonna want to

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<v Speaker 2>taste you, They're gonna want a piece of you. It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean that they are also willing to give to you,

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<v Speaker 2>that they are also willing to ground into their energy

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<v Speaker 2>to rise up in their masculine where am I? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>that's none of any of these specimens business. It's not

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<v Speaker 2>truly just this mercury retrograde that's pulling these people back

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<v Speaker 2>to me. It's my higher self showing me, look how

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<v Speaker 2>far you have come, and can you stay in your power?

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<v Speaker 2>Can you stay in your magnetic energy? This isn't the

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<v Speaker 2>first time exes have come back around for me, and

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<v Speaker 2>it won't be the last. Why this isn't random, This

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<v Speaker 2>is energetic, this is psychological, This is about identity. I

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<v Speaker 2>have made a decision that, as Christa, I don't energetically chase.

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<v Speaker 2>If you are confused in your own life, that's fine,

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<v Speaker 2>but you're not allowed to bleed on me. Today we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to talk about energetic chasing, what this actually means,

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<v Speaker 2>how to stop doing it, how to call your power back,

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<v Speaker 2>and so much more. You are going to free yourself

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<v Speaker 2>into your present moment rather than being obsessed with a

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<v Speaker 2>chat you cannot give you what you want. What's up,

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<v Speaker 2>positive bitches? How are you doing today? If you're hearing

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<v Speaker 2>this episode, then you were meant to be here, So

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<v Speaker 2>keep listening on that Bitch is Positive podcast. Sometimes we

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<v Speaker 2>will laugh, other times the Babe, we're gonna cry, but

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<v Speaker 2>we will always walk away feeling our most empowered positive

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<v Speaker 2>bitch self. That is babe and true connection with herself,

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<v Speaker 2>himself or human self. I don't care if you identify

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<v Speaker 2>as an et alien, doesn't really matter to me. If

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<v Speaker 2>you want to step into your power, you have found

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<v Speaker 2>the perfect guide. On this podcast, we unbecome who we are,

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<v Speaker 2>not so we can fully step into exactly who we

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<v Speaker 2>came here to be. Now, maybe Brad won't text you back,

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<v Speaker 2>But baby girl, baby boy, I have written you a

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<v Speaker 2>whole entire book to help you remember who you are.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't make money on this book. This book is

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<v Speaker 2>truly for you to remember what you came here to

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<v Speaker 2>do and how to step into that energy. I have

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<v Speaker 2>reverse engineered a technique to quantum shift your whole entire

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<v Speaker 2>reality confirmation. If you could hear that notification. If you

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<v Speaker 2>have not yet gone in show up as hert be

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<v Speaker 2>sure to get that. What pair's great with this podcast

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<v Speaker 2>is the art of alchemy. This is going to help

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<v Speaker 2>you really release all of the grief and the pain

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<v Speaker 2>around this relationship, so you can use that pain and

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<v Speaker 2>create it transmute it into your power. You are gifted

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<v Speaker 2>lower vibrational experiences to take the energy from those experiences

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<v Speaker 2>and mold it into your power. So use the hurt

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<v Speaker 2>that Brad gave you and transmute it, alchemize it into

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<v Speaker 2>your light. You can also get the twenty one day

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<v Speaker 2>Breakup Globe Challenge. This is specifically if you're going through

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<v Speaker 2>a breakup that is going to be your best friend

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<v Speaker 2>It is going to help you release what you need

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<v Speaker 2>to release, remember who you are, reclaim your power, and

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<v Speaker 2>have a new lease on life. Obviously, the Calling your

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<v Speaker 2>Power Back Workbook is going to be great. I would

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<v Speaker 2>even recommend getting that right now, pausing this podcast printing

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<v Speaker 2>it out. There are specific pages in this workbook that

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<v Speaker 2>will help you understand where you're energetically chasing, so you

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<v Speaker 2>can then stop that behavior, correct it, and get back

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<v Speaker 2>into your power. We cannot heal what we are in

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<v Speaker 2>denial of without further ado. Let's get into today's episode.

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<v Speaker 2>In my Calling your Power Back workbook, there's a whole

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<v Speaker 2>entire checklist of different behaviors that are chasing. If you

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if you're energetically chasing, this workbook is going

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<v Speaker 2>to help you identify the behaviors you might be blind

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<v Speaker 2>to in yourself. But I'm still going to give you

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<v Speaker 2>a few so we can get that palette wet. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Most people don't even realize they're energetically chasing, so of

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<v Speaker 2>course they can't heal it. Chasing isn't always physical. It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't mean you're calling them a million times or blue

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<v Speaker 2>bombing them, as my mother says, which is texting a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of times. This looks like replaying old conversations, trying

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<v Speaker 2>to understand why they're acting in the way that they're acting,

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<v Speaker 2>stalking their socials, over analyzing their words, telling your friends

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<v Speaker 2>about them one million times, but still choosing to stay

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<v Speaker 2>with them. Want enclosure, trying to explain yourself so they

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<v Speaker 2>finally get you thinking about them, talking about them. When

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<v Speaker 2>you do this, you are leaking your energy Where focus goes,

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<v Speaker 2>energy flows. The more you focus on what is Brad doing,

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<v Speaker 2>what's going on with them, the more you're sending them energy.

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<v Speaker 2>If you think they can't feel your energy, you got

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<v Speaker 2>another one coming for you. Okay, we live on a

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<v Speaker 2>planet where we have something called gravity. Can you see gravity?

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<v Speaker 2>I know I can't, but lo and behold. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>law of this universe. What you think about you send

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<v Speaker 2>energy to, and that particle in this quantum field can

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<v Speaker 2>feel it and will know that you're looking at it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the observer effect. Literally, in quantum physics, they

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<v Speaker 2>have found that when a scientist looked at an electron,

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<v Speaker 2>it would condense into three D form. But when the

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<v Speaker 2>scientists took their eyes off of the electron, that three

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<v Speaker 2>D form of the electron went into a wavelength. This

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<v Speaker 2>means that what we're observed, no, it's being observed. The

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<v Speaker 2>electron would manipulate its own behavior based on whether or

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<v Speaker 2>not a scientist was looking at it. You might not

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<v Speaker 2>think that thinking about someone, or saying their name, or

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<v Speaker 2>talking about them constantly is sending them energy, But I

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<v Speaker 2>hate to tell you it doesn't matter what you think,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's energetic law. And you can either live within

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<v Speaker 2>side of the law or you can live outside of

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<v Speaker 2>the law. But either way, the laws are gonna be

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<v Speaker 2>the laws. Okay, baby, this is what you need to understand.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're wondering why are they always ghosting? Why do

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<v Speaker 2>they always leave? Why are they never into me? If

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<v Speaker 2>this is a pattern in your life, most likely you

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<v Speaker 2>are energetically chasing them. Why would they come towards you

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<v Speaker 2>if they already have you? Why would they turn towards

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<v Speaker 2>you if they already have your energy? If you're giving

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<v Speaker 2>them your time, your body, your frequency, your presence, your energy,

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<v Speaker 2>your attention, what more could they need from you? Call

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<v Speaker 2>your power back? Get the Calling your Power Back work book.

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<v Speaker 2>When your energy leaves your body instead of you having

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<v Speaker 2>this big or energy when you step into the room,

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<v Speaker 2>your energy condenses, and the smaller your aura is, the

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<v Speaker 2>less magnetic you are, because then you have become more density,

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<v Speaker 2>more three D matter, and less energy. But the bigger

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<v Speaker 2>your aura is, the more energy you are, and the

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<v Speaker 2>less matter you are, that makes you more magnetic. Your

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<v Speaker 2>power cannot be taken from you. You can only willingly

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<v Speaker 2>give it away. This podcast is your reminder that no

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<v Speaker 2>one can take your attention, no one can take your focus,

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<v Speaker 2>no one can take your energy unless you allow them

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<v Speaker 2>to have it. Because you are the one choosing where

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<v Speaker 2>to put your eyes, where to put your ears, and

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<v Speaker 2>where to put your body. From a psychological standpoint, this

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<v Speaker 2>ties directly into anxious attachment. You have learned from a

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<v Speaker 2>very young age than in order to have safety in relationships,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to be hyper vigilant of other. And if

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<v Speaker 2>you're hyper vigilant of other, you can then know how

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<v Speaker 2>to react. You can then try to have this illusion

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<v Speaker 2>of control over them so that they stay in your life.

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<v Speaker 2>You may subconsciously believe the more you look at them,

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<v Speaker 2>the less likely they will be to abandon you. The

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<v Speaker 2>more you look at them, the more safety you have.

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<v Speaker 2>But this couldn't be further from the truth, because the

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<v Speaker 2>more you look to them and abandon yourself, the more

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<v Speaker 2>likely they will abandon you. The more energy you give

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<v Speaker 2>to them when they are not reciprocating this energy to you,

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<v Speaker 2>the more you're repelling them. Anything we chase, whether it's

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<v Speaker 2>You're amygdala hijacks your whole entire system, and this is

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<v Speaker 2>You just don't want to lose. It's literally your inner

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<v Speaker 2>I can't allow this person to abandon me. So what

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<v Speaker 2>am I gonna do? I'm gonna obsess over them. Your

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<v Speaker 2>brain thinks if you're obsessing over them, that it's somehow

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<v Speaker 2>all of your energy towards them. You have to get

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<v Speaker 2>back in your frame. What does this look like? Calling

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<v Speaker 2>If your brain has learned to stay on guard, to

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<v Speaker 2>react fast, to protect yourself, your default might be overthinking,

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<v Speaker 2>needing control, reacting emotionally, reading into everything. This is amigsalah

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<v Speaker 2>driven behavior. You're not doing this because something is necessarily

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<v Speaker 2>wrong with you. You're not doing this because this is

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<v Speaker 2>necessarily your future spouse. You're doing this because you don't

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<v Speaker 2>respond well to what you perceive as stress. Magnetism does

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<v Speaker 2>not come from the amygdalahs. Let's start there. It comes

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<v Speaker 2>from your prefrontal cortex. That's when you can pause, you

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<v Speaker 2>can regulate, you can choose. It's where you can have neutrality,

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<v Speaker 2>have self respect, choose non attachment. When you're triggered, you're

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<v Speaker 2>amygdala hijacks the system. It wants control, it's going to

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<v Speaker 2>obsess over them. But magnetism comes from using your prefrontal

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<v Speaker 2>cortex to pause, to detach, to let people reveal themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Let them is not a passive idea or concept. It's

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<v Speaker 2>you learning how to regulate your power. Anytime someone is

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<v Speaker 2>doing what I would prefer them not to do, instead

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<v Speaker 2>of allowing my amygdala to make me feel crazy, chasing them,

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<v Speaker 2>I say, nope, I'm going to take a deep breath in.

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<v Speaker 2>When you take a deep breath in, that allows your

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<v Speaker 2>vagus nerve to instead of sending SOS signals, it will

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<v Speaker 2>send peace sig knows through your body instead of you

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<v Speaker 2>stressing yourself out. You're bringing your attention back to your body,

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<v Speaker 2>not on brad, back to your body, back to your breath.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're gonna say, we'll see, We'll see what they do,

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<v Speaker 2>We'll see what happens. We'll see if they want to

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<v Speaker 2>act like a clown, I'm gonna let them. If they

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<v Speaker 2>want to show me who they are, I'm gonna let them.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are we so afraid to just see people for

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<v Speaker 2>who they are? Are you that afraid to see beyond

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<v Speaker 2>the illusion that you created in your own head about them?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you that afraid to realize that they're not who

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<v Speaker 2>you drew up in your head? The most interesting thing

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<v Speaker 2>about other people is the way that we decide to

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<v Speaker 2>frame them. If you're obsessed with them, it's because you

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<v Speaker 2>have framed them as your future husband, and now that

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<v Speaker 2>they're not acting like your future husband would, and because

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<v Speaker 2>you're so obsessed and attached to that original story. You

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<v Speaker 2>gave them that original roll, you start to freak out

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<v Speaker 2>and your amigdala is triggered, and now you have so

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<v Speaker 2>signals throughout your whole entire body, and you're energetically chasing

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<v Speaker 2>them because you think it's gonna make you safe. The

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<v Speaker 2>only cure to this is to say, wait a damn minute,

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<v Speaker 2>No one can take my power away. I can only

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<v Speaker 2>willingly give it away. How can I take it back?

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<v Speaker 2>First through my focus. So I'm gonna take my focus

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<v Speaker 2>and not put it on Brad. I'm gonna put it

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<v Speaker 2>back on my breath and I'm gonna take a deep

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<v Speaker 2>breath in and I'm gonna exhale. And when I take

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<v Speaker 2>that deep breath in, it's going to alert my vegua

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<v Speaker 2>nerve to send out peace signals instead of stress signals.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm gonna come back into my body and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say, I'm gonna let them. I'm gonna allow them

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<v Speaker 2>to show me who they are. I'm going to take

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<v Speaker 2>off the rose colored glasses and I'm just gonna see

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<v Speaker 2>who they are. Maybe you even say, God, give me

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<v Speaker 2>eyes to see, ears to hear, in a heartful of discernment,

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<v Speaker 2>so I may know them clearly there was someone recently

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<v Speaker 2>that honestly, I really liked, and you just can't help

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<v Speaker 2>when you feel that deep connection to someone, when you

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<v Speaker 2>feel a really strong magnetic pull to someone, there's a reason.

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<v Speaker 2>There is something in them that is either here to

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<v Speaker 2>activate you, be a catalyst for you, teach you there's

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<v Speaker 2>something within them that is meant to come into your reality.

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<v Speaker 2>Before we come to planet Earth, we are almost in

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<v Speaker 2>soul school and we will sit in a cluster of

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<v Speaker 2>souls and we will decide who's going to come into

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<v Speaker 2>our life about when. But timing can be altered because

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<v Speaker 2>we do have free will, and we will have specific

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<v Speaker 2>triggers where we will remember, oh wait, I know this soul.

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<v Speaker 2>It might be their voice is going to be a

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<v Speaker 2>trigger for you that wakes something up within your own

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<v Speaker 2>soul that you remember who they are. It might be

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<v Speaker 2>their laugh or the way that their face looks. It

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<v Speaker 2>might be the speed in which they speak. There will

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<v Speaker 2>be something about that soul that will trigger you into

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<v Speaker 2>remembering who they are. So when you meet someone and

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<v Speaker 2>you feel like you remember them, you feel like deja vu.

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<v Speaker 2>You feel like they look recognizable to you, familiar to you.

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<v Speaker 2>This is your soul picking up on their soul trigger

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<v Speaker 2>so that you know this is meant to be someone

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<v Speaker 2>in my life. This has happened to me so many times.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember I was in a bar once and this

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<v Speaker 2>man walked in. I didn't even see his face yet,

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<v Speaker 2>and I just knew that is someone who's meant to

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<v Speaker 2>be a part of my journey. And he was, and

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<v Speaker 2>he played a great part in it. I was recently

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<v Speaker 2>out and about at a concert and there was this

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<v Speaker 2>guy who is just circling me, circling me for the

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<v Speaker 2>whole concert, and finally he came up to me and

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<v Speaker 2>I kept looking at him, although he thought we never

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<v Speaker 2>had eye contact, because you guys know, I really don't

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<v Speaker 2>get people eye contact. It's just not what I do.

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<v Speaker 2>I rather look at the ground. And I said, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just so weird that you came up to me because

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<v Speaker 2>I was looking at you and trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 2>how I knew you. And the truth is, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know him. I've never met him, but I recognize him.

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<v Speaker 2>And when I was with him, it was just so

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<v Speaker 2>it was so easy to be in his presence, and

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<v Speaker 2>even holding his hand felt so natural. Whenever we would kiss,

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<v Speaker 2>it just felt so natural, and I just knew this

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<v Speaker 2>was a soul that was familiar to me, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>probably going to cry. I might not, but I might

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<v Speaker 2>because I can feel so deeply that I've known this

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<v Speaker 2>soul for so long. And any time I recognize a

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<v Speaker 2>soul that I haven't experienced in a while, maybe lifetimes,

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<v Speaker 2>and I finally feel them again, it's like coming home

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<v Speaker 2>to memories I didn't even know I had. And so

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<v Speaker 2>we went out on dates. He would pick me up,

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<v Speaker 2>He brought me flowers for our first date. We went

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<v Speaker 2>to a beautiful rooftop, had dinner, we did the farmer's market,

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<v Speaker 2>just great energy, and I really liked him. But then

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<v Speaker 2>I started to feel a subtle energetic shift. And I'm

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<v Speaker 2>very sensitive to energetic shifts, and I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 2>pretend like something isn't happening when I know damn well

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<v Speaker 2>that it is. I trust my intuition. So I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm feeling this, what's going on? And he thanked me

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<v Speaker 2>for saying something, and basically said, he doesn't feel like

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<v Speaker 2>himself right now, and he doesn't want me to see

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<v Speaker 2>him in this state because he has a lot going on.

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<v Speaker 2>And he said something along the lines of I wish

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<v Speaker 2>we met at another time so you could see this

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<v Speaker 2>is not my norm. I'm just really busy with things,

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<v Speaker 2>and he's feeling stressed out. There was a traumatic thing

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<v Speaker 2>that happened to him as well. But I know that

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<v Speaker 2>we met at the time we're supposed to meet, and

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<v Speaker 2>if we were meant to meet at another time, we

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<v Speaker 2>would have, but we didn't. And even though I'm attracted

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<v Speaker 2>to just his energy and I loved being around him

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<v Speaker 2>and I felt so familiar and I felt so happy,

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<v Speaker 2>I have to look at what's there instead of looking

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<v Speaker 2>at what I want to be there. So what I

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<v Speaker 2>heard is a man that's dysregulated, disconnected from himself, and

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<v Speaker 2>just doesn't have the capacity to hold me in his

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<v Speaker 2>reality right now. And now, an older version of me

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<v Speaker 2>would have begged him to just let me help him,

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<v Speaker 2>Let me help regulate you, let me be there for you,

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<v Speaker 2>Let me hold this pain with you. We can work

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<v Speaker 2>through this. And while I I was willing to have

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<v Speaker 2>a conversation which he couldn't even do, I am not

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<v Speaker 2>willing to overfunction, self abandon and try to prove that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm worthy of being a ride or die. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>not what I do anymore. I can see this person

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't have the capacity for me, and that's it. End

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<v Speaker 2>of story. There's no further conclusion I need to draw.

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<v Speaker 2>There's nothing else I need to know. I don't need

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<v Speaker 2>to try to piece together his mental puzzle. I just

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<v Speaker 2>need to look at what's being shown to me and

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<v Speaker 2>I just need to let this person reveal who he

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<v Speaker 2>is and who he is is someone who doesn't have

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<v Speaker 2>a capacity for me. Period. Now did it feel like

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<v Speaker 2>my skin was ripping off me? And did I cry? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that dramatic? I don't care. That's what I felt.

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<v Speaker 2>Instead of fixing, saving, overgiving, I'm not going back to

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<v Speaker 2>who I used to be. And during this Mercury retrograde,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not just past people who come back around, it's

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<v Speaker 2>past versions of self. Do I want to devolve into

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<v Speaker 2>fixing and saving and overfunctioning and overgiving or do I

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<v Speaker 2>want to rest in my power? And I'm gonna choose me? Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Because when we don't, all it does is make us ugly.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we're in our sympathetic nervous system cortiso's pumping, we

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<v Speaker 2>gain weight, lose weight, feel like we can't think straight,

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<v Speaker 2>hair falls out, acne bloating. I'm not doing that. I

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<v Speaker 2>am not sacrificing myself. This is how we stay in

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<v Speaker 2>our power in real time. My mother sent me this

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<v Speaker 2>video the other day and I want to share the

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<v Speaker 2>information with you. Imagine being bitten by a snak, and

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<v Speaker 2>instead of treating the wound, you chase the snake, asking

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<v Speaker 2>why did you do this? I don't deserve this. Explain yourself. Meanwhile,

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<v Speaker 2>then in your body is spreading. Instead of you taking

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<v Speaker 2>care of yourself, you keep asking the snake why did

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<v Speaker 2>you do this? Trying to understand the snake, And that's

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<v Speaker 2>what most people do. Most people get hurt and instead

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<v Speaker 2>of tending to ourselves, we chase the person who hurt us.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you think if I understand, I'll feel better, But

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<v Speaker 2>the truth is understanding why someone did what they did

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<v Speaker 2>does not remove the wound. Clarity around why they did

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<v Speaker 2>what they did doesn't stop the damage or the venom

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<v Speaker 2>from spreading. When the person asks the snake why they

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<v Speaker 2>got bit, the snake eventually said, it's because I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>snake and it's in my nature. Some people hurt you

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<v Speaker 2>because it's simply their nature, it's simply their capacity. Does

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<v Speaker 2>understanding why sometimes give us peace. Maybe, but while understanding

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<v Speaker 2>why stop them from continuously hurting you? No. No, the

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<v Speaker 2>moment you try to fix them, you energetically agree to

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<v Speaker 2>meet them where they're at and where are they in

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<v Speaker 2>a lower vibration, unavailable, disregulated, not ready. If I was

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<v Speaker 2>to say, let me help you, let me fix this

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<v Speaker 2>for you, let me do all these things in overfunction,

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<v Speaker 2>I would have anchored myself into his vibration instead of

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<v Speaker 2>potentially energetically inspiring him to rise into mind. If he

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<v Speaker 2>ever comes back into my orbit and he's at a

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<v Speaker 2>different energy, maybe we can see, but right now, absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that my power is to stay in my body,

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<v Speaker 2>to stay in my energy, to stay focused on my business,

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<v Speaker 2>my brand, when I'm doing my health, stay focused here.

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<v Speaker 2>And if that inspires him to rise through his masculine

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<v Speaker 2>energy to a higher frequency, then he can come back around.

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<v Speaker 2>He can try to find me in this higher frequency.

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<v Speaker 2>But I am not going to bring myself down to his.

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<v Speaker 2>The most loving thing you can do for a man

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<v Speaker 2>is not rescue him. He is on a soul mission,

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<v Speaker 2>just like you are, and he needs to figure out

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<v Speaker 2>how to rise, how to become solution oriented, how to

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<v Speaker 2>leave his shadows and walk into the light. If you

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<v Speaker 2>naturally inspire a man to do this work on his own, great,

436
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<v Speaker 2>But you can't be his mommy. You can't be his therapist.

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<v Speaker 2>On a sole level. This man has called you into

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<v Speaker 2>his reality because your absence is what he needs to rise.

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<v Speaker 2>If your words aren't getting through to him, your actions

440
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<v Speaker 2>aren't getting through to him, your absence will, your ability

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<v Speaker 2>to choose yourself will activate his masculine energy. When you're

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<v Speaker 2>not overgiving, he can rise. When you're not trying to

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<v Speaker 2>save him, he can rise. When you're not trying to

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<v Speaker 2>fix him, he can rise. But if you're doing all

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<v Speaker 2>of those things, you're enabling him to stay in that

446
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<v Speaker 2>lower frequency, and you are trapping yourself, anchoring yourself into

447
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<v Speaker 2>a lower frequency which he is controlling, rather than choosing

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<v Speaker 2>your own power. This specimen's inability to meet me was

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<v Speaker 2>all I needed to say. Okay, okay, you showed me

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<v Speaker 2>who you are. Okay, thank you, thank you for allowing

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<v Speaker 2>me to see who you are. Thank you. Next. So, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to beg I'm not going to chase,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to convince. I'm just gonna say, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to let people show you who they are

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<v Speaker 2>even when you don't like what you see, And really,

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<v Speaker 2>I have to do this for my own system. What's

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<v Speaker 2>more stressful trying to control them or controlling how you

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<v Speaker 2>respond to them. You can control where your focus is.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't control theirs. You can control how you use

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<v Speaker 2>your energy. You can't control how they use theirs. You

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<v Speaker 2>can control if you bring your shadows to the light,

462
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<v Speaker 2>but you cannot control if they do that for theirs.

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<v Speaker 2>You control what you tolerate, what you entertain, and what

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<v Speaker 2>you return to. Remember, whatever you allow, you amplify. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not going to allow someone who can kind of be

466
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<v Speaker 2>there for me but not really because I don't want

467
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<v Speaker 2>to amplify that. In my field, the most important person

468
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<v Speaker 2>for me to take care of is me, and how

469
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<v Speaker 2>I treat myself will be reflected back to me through

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<v Speaker 2>the relationships that I experience. I have been doing something

471
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<v Speaker 2>I'm calling the Queen vortex, where when I go on

472
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<v Speaker 2>my walks, I imagine this tornado around me, and sometimes

473
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<v Speaker 2>it's of golden energy, sometimes it's a rainbow, sometimes it's silver.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever I feel like that day, and I will imagine

475
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<v Speaker 2>this swarming, swarming energy. You can even make it fire.

476
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<v Speaker 2>But right now, I've been working with wind, and as

477
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<v Speaker 2>I'm walking, I'm in the eye of the tornado. I'm

478
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<v Speaker 2>in the eye of the storm. And I imagine that

479
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<v Speaker 2>this energy moves faster and faster and faster, and everything

480
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<v Speaker 2>that is not aligned, everything that's inconsistent, everything that's lacking

481
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<v Speaker 2>the capacity to hold me, gets ripped out. So I

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<v Speaker 2>imagined while I was walking that this golden light of

483
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<v Speaker 2>tornado nests, because that's the thing was swarming around me,

484
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<v Speaker 2>and it just cut that man in half, cut him

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<v Speaker 2>out of my reality. Goodbye, goodbye, goodbye, goodbye, done done.

486
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<v Speaker 2>I don't need to ask why, I don't need to understand.

487
00:29:31.640 --> 00:29:33.759
<v Speaker 2>I just need to know exactly what you're saying, which

488
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<v Speaker 2>is you don't have the capacity. And then I allowed

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<v Speaker 2>this vortex, my queen vortex, to snap this man in half.

490
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<v Speaker 2>He got ripped out. That's it. The interesting thing is

491
00:29:44.039 --> 00:29:46.960
<v Speaker 2>when you keep thinking of a man sending him energy,

492
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<v Speaker 2>doing all that jazz, they can feel that they're still

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<v Speaker 2>connected to you in the five D. I'm not allowing

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<v Speaker 2>this man access to me in the three D, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not allowing him access to me in the five

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<v Speaker 2>D either. I sent him poss energy. I hope he

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<v Speaker 2>can figure his life out for his own sake, but

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<v Speaker 2>he does not get access to my mind. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going to keep thinking about him. I'm not gonna obsess

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<v Speaker 2>over him. I'm not gonna be wondering what he's doing.

501
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<v Speaker 2>Anytime I feel like I want to go in spiral,

502
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<v Speaker 2>I imagine my queen vortex and he just gets shopped

503
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<v Speaker 2>in half again because I don't have time or patience

504
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<v Speaker 2>for that. I just need to be in my own body.

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<v Speaker 2>Many of us think that we want closure from that person,

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<v Speaker 2>but really the closure is the inability to show up

507
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<v Speaker 2>for us. The closure is the inability to regulate themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>The closure is them not doing what we know we

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<v Speaker 2>actually want. So why do they always come back? They

510
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<v Speaker 2>always come back when you stop energetically chasing, when you

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<v Speaker 2>stay in your power, When do people come back? They

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<v Speaker 2>come back when you stop energetically chasing, because you remove

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<v Speaker 2>the repellent spray, which is your energy, You remove the pressure,

514
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<v Speaker 2>you remove of the control, you return to yourself, and

515
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<v Speaker 2>that creates space for them to miss your energy and

516
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<v Speaker 2>then want to come back around. The real truth is

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<v Speaker 2>you are no longer the same woman they left You

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<v Speaker 2>are not the same woman that maybe left them. You

519
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<v Speaker 2>are the woman who chooses herself, who chooses to stay

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<v Speaker 2>in her own power. And yes, is there a side

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<v Speaker 2>effect of them coming back around, that's true, But does

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<v Speaker 2>that mean they're right for you? No, there's plenty of

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<v Speaker 2>people that have come back around, my excess, other guy

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<v Speaker 2>who wanted to know about my whereabouts as if it's

525
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<v Speaker 2>his freaking business. Neither of these people are right for me,

526
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<v Speaker 2>and I know that. That's why I'm just not answering.

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<v Speaker 2>But I use the evidence of them coming back to

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<v Speaker 2>remind myself, good job, Christa, you're staying in your power.

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<v Speaker 2>They always come back. We know that because we stay

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<v Speaker 2>in our power. But the real question is will they

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<v Speaker 2>have access to you when they finally circle back around.

532
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<v Speaker 2>The true power is not in them returning, it's in

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<v Speaker 2>you no longer needing them to. That is the fine

534
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<v Speaker 2>old power move of being in your own body. And

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<v Speaker 2>you'll notice the time they come back around, you really

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<v Speaker 2>won't even care because you will have leveled up and

537
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<v Speaker 2>you'll see they are still exactly where they once were. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>do not forget to get the Calling your Power Back

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<v Speaker 2>only eleven dollars. Eleven dollars to change your life. That

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<v Speaker 2>is so worth it. I'm sending you all the love

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<v Speaker 2>in the world. If this episode resonated with you, I

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<v Speaker 2>do have a gratitude jar now below. Please be sure

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<v Speaker 2>part in sharing this energy. You are a light worker

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<v Speaker 2>and it's up to us to share the positivity with

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<v Speaker 2>our loved ones. If you would like one on one

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<v Speaker 2>coaching with me, I'm a life and energy coach and

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