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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, I'm back. Listen.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a good one for you with something for

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<v Speaker 2>you to think about.

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<v Speaker 1>Many people in this world are very caught up into

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<v Speaker 1>other individuals.

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<v Speaker 2>I eat, parents, siblings, family members, friends, and others.

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<v Speaker 1>And when people feel that they are not supported, it

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<v Speaker 1>drags them down.

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<v Speaker 2>They go further into depression, they go further into darkness.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm here to tell you that you shouldn't worry

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<v Speaker 2>about that. You shouldn't not worry about it. I've talked

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<v Speaker 2>about this.

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<v Speaker 1>A little bit before.

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<v Speaker 2>On one of my episodes, but I wanted to do

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<v Speaker 2>a full episode on it this time. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>how long it's gonna be, but I just feel the

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<v Speaker 2>need to talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>When you.

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<v Speaker 2>Put so much into believing in other people, thinking they

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<v Speaker 2>have your back, thinking they love you, thinking they're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be there for you, thinking they're gonna be happy for you,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm telling you you.

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<v Speaker 1>Setting yourself up.

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<v Speaker 2>Technically, it is the way that we as humans feel

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<v Speaker 2>that it should.

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<v Speaker 1>Just automatically be.

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<v Speaker 2>We feel that people should love us because we love them.

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<v Speaker 2>We feel that when we do great things, the ones

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<v Speaker 2>we love should support us. We feel that people who

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<v Speaker 2>tell us that they love us want the best for us,

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<v Speaker 2>And when you think about it, it seems that that

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<v Speaker 2>should be automatic.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm here to tell you it's not automatic.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop investing everything you have into other people getting nothing

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<v Speaker 2>in return.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop it.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop setting yourselves up for failure, Stop setting yourselves up

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<v Speaker 2>for letdown. Learn how to be strong within yourself. That's

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<v Speaker 2>the only way you're gonna stay standing. Those of you

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<v Speaker 2>who have listened to me, you know, my center, my beginning,

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<v Speaker 2>my end, everything is God and his son Jesus. But

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<v Speaker 2>I know everyone don't believe that, they don't believe in it.

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<v Speaker 2>For me, it's first and then myself, But I know

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<v Speaker 2>everyone don't believe in that. So I'm encouraging, encouraging you.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't at least believe in yourself, stop trying

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<v Speaker 2>to live your life for other people, for other people

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<v Speaker 2>to see, for other people to give you accolades, recognition, notoriety, validation.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop it, because the very people you're just I mean

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<v Speaker 2>yearning you're yearning for this attention from, they're yearning for

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<v Speaker 2>from somebody else. Those very people you're yearning and feeding

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<v Speaker 2>attention for or just as broken as you. So stop

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<v Speaker 2>expecting people who are internally unhappy and unhealed to be

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<v Speaker 2>there for you. Most people don't know what love is anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>but they will do anything. They will invest anyway they

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<v Speaker 2>think possible into people they love, thinking that it will

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<v Speaker 2>make them love them, it will make them be there

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<v Speaker 2>for them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not true.

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<v Speaker 2>Now. People will use you. As long as you freely give,

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<v Speaker 2>they will take. They will use you until you have nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be careful of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why it's important to know who you are as

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<v Speaker 1>a person.

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<v Speaker 2>You be your biggest cheerleader. You be your biggest motivator.

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<v Speaker 2>You be your biggest supporter when no one else support you.

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<v Speaker 2>Be there for yourself, Show up for yourself. Stop looking

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<v Speaker 2>for people who are full of envy, jealousy, no time

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<v Speaker 2>for you because they so invested in other people, not

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<v Speaker 2>even in themselves, but in other people.

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<v Speaker 1>They're unhealed, so they can't be happy for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop expecting unhappy people to be happy for you. They

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<v Speaker 2>can't be happy in their own lives. Stop expecting them

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<v Speaker 2>to be happy for you. Please.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a living witness.

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<v Speaker 2>I love my family, I love love my family, and

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<v Speaker 2>I love my friends, even those who are so called friends,

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<v Speaker 2>because I see them, I know them. I'm not blind,

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<v Speaker 2>so I can speak on it because I live it.

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<v Speaker 2>I live it. I'm one who broke chains. But I

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<v Speaker 2>still don't get support. I have told relatives and friends

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<v Speaker 2>about my podcasting, and they may listen to one. But

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<v Speaker 2>in all the years I've been podcasting, I've had no support,

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely no support none. But guess what, years later, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>still here because I don't do it for people to say, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>look at Cherry, look at what she's doing. No, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't do it for that. Somebody listening is getting something

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<v Speaker 2>from it. That's all I care about. Someone somewhere around

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<v Speaker 2>the world is getting something from it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what matters to me. And as long as I

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<v Speaker 1>know that.

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<v Speaker 2>God is always with me, Jesus is always with me,

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<v Speaker 2>always have.

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<v Speaker 1>The Holy Spirit. Really, that's all I need. It's been this.

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<v Speaker 2>Way for me since I was long as I can remember.

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<v Speaker 2>As a kid, I've always been like the black sheep

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<v Speaker 2>quote unquote. I've always felt like the outside. I've always

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<v Speaker 2>been different. So I'm good with it, and I know

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<v Speaker 2>my family loved me. But I also understand the other

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<v Speaker 2>dynamics as well. We get along, we talk, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>some of them daily and others not so daily. But

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<v Speaker 2>we get along, we communicate well, we have an awesome

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<v Speaker 2>time on that we're together. But just like anybody else,

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<v Speaker 2>they your family when I say they a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>times at least for me. And I know I've heard

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of other people say they have no support

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<v Speaker 2>and this and that. I don't get into that. I

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<v Speaker 2>really don't. I don't get into that. Hey, I look

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<v Speaker 2>at it like this, do you boo?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you If you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't support me, if you can't say congratulations, if you

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<v Speaker 2>can't say whatever, that's all good for me. It don't

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<v Speaker 2>make me, It don't break me. It does not make

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<v Speaker 2>me feel less than it strengthens me. See, I use

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<v Speaker 2>negativity as strength. That's what I use negativity as, not

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<v Speaker 2>as a weakness, because it's not about me, you know

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying. How a person reacts or act towards me,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not about me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's about them. So for those of.

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<v Speaker 2>You who feel you have no support, it's okay. If

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<v Speaker 2>you are so caught up and you're so devastated because

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<v Speaker 2>someone is not supporting.

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<v Speaker 1>You, you are one.

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<v Speaker 2>Of your biggest problems, the main problem, how you think,

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<v Speaker 2>how you feel. You're your biggest enemy because you're allowing

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<v Speaker 2>things to affect you that shouldn't affect you.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't force people to support you. And what's funny

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<v Speaker 1>with me is to know me.

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<v Speaker 2>I've definitely broken chains, definitely without a shadow of a doubt.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm treated like everyone else.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is fine, which is very much okay with me,

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<v Speaker 2>because I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand. I truly understand.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny to a degree because sometimes I be talking

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<v Speaker 2>and I've been many places overseas and I've dealt with many,

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<v Speaker 2>many different people from different cultures and things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was in the mental health field.

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<v Speaker 2>For many years, fourteen fifteen years, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I've dealt with a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>But sometimes when I'm talking to family, it's like and

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<v Speaker 2>not just family, other people.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, it's like, oh, you know, I don't know anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't like your children.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes they act as if you haven't been here before,

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<v Speaker 2>You wasn't here before them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that kind of thing, and it's just it tickles me.

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<v Speaker 1>It tickles me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll be saying to myself, Lord Jesus, but I just

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<v Speaker 2>let people say what they want to say and whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't let it bother you. You have to be

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<v Speaker 2>strong within yourself. A lot of people have given up

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<v Speaker 2>on life because they didn't feel loved a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people have given up on themselves because they feel that

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<v Speaker 2>if people don't support them, they must not be good enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I know I'm good enough. I know I am.

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<v Speaker 1>But when people can't support you, when they're not there.

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<v Speaker 2>For you, you have to show up for yourself, period, and

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<v Speaker 2>you can't keep taking in that negativity thinking it's you.

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<v Speaker 1>People tell me all the time. It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>People say, oh, yeah, I've been listening, right, And I'm like, oh, really, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I've listened, and I go right to my stats and

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<v Speaker 2>I see there's nowhere in that area that anyone listen.

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<v Speaker 2>It is hilarious that people think they're fooling me. Bottom

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<v Speaker 2>line is I know this for a fact. People don't

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<v Speaker 2>like the truth. They don't They do not like the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care who they are. People do not like

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<v Speaker 2>the truth. They don't like coming sense. They don't like

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<v Speaker 2>things that's going to try to help in their self development,

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<v Speaker 2>to help.

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<v Speaker 1>Them grow and mature.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't want anything like that because people want to

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<v Speaker 2>stay where they've always been, in those low mental states thinking, feeling,

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<v Speaker 2>and acting. The same, being stagnant and stuck. So they

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to hear anyone telling them the truth. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's all I do. All I talk is the truth.

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<v Speaker 2>All I try to do is inspire, educate, motivate, things

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>People don't want the truth. They'll listen to.

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<v Speaker 2>The truth from someone else, but they're not trying to

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<v Speaker 2>hear it from you. But guess what the Bible tells

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<v Speaker 2>us this people in your own home, your home, your

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<v Speaker 2>own your own country will not support you.

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<v Speaker 1>Your own.

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<v Speaker 2>People will not support you. The Bible tells us that.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's nothing new. You can't get caught up in it.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be strong within yourself. That's why it's

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<v Speaker 2>so important that you allow inner healing to take place,

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<v Speaker 2>because when you don't, what happens is you're of negativity already,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you get no support, and so you start

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<v Speaker 2>that negative self talk, I'm just not worthy this and that,

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<v Speaker 2>and you feel worse about yourself. You should never allow

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<v Speaker 2>anyone to make you feel bad about yourself. Anyone who

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<v Speaker 2>is trying to make you feel bad about yourself feel

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<v Speaker 2>bad about themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Trust me. And one thing for sure is a person

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<v Speaker 1>can't make you feel bad about yourself. You do that

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<v Speaker 1>all on your own. They are being who they are.

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<v Speaker 1>Let them be who they are.

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<v Speaker 2>If they don't support you, it's okay. Keep moving forward,

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<v Speaker 2>draw strength from it. Don't get down and the dumps.

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<v Speaker 2>Draw strength from it. People keep telling me go on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have that in my spirit to go on YouTube.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not doing this for the reasons most people do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people are trying to get clout.

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<v Speaker 2>They trying to become well known, you know, they trying

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<v Speaker 2>to get fame.

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<v Speaker 1>They're doing this strictly for money, not me.

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<v Speaker 2>Not me. Whatever God has for me is for me, period.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's not what is about.

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<v Speaker 1>For me.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've been doing this for several years now. Those

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<v Speaker 2>who will listen will listen. Those who don't won't, matter

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<v Speaker 2>of a fact. And this is the truth. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>even publicize my podcast most of the time. I've told

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<v Speaker 2>a few people about it, but for the most part

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<v Speaker 2>ninety nine percent, I don't broadcast it. I don't because

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<v Speaker 2>I've learned that people will not support you anyways, so

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<v Speaker 1>Who find me will find me.

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<v Speaker 2>The few times I have told people about it, they

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<v Speaker 2>still don't listen, or they may listen one time.

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<v Speaker 1>Nah, I don't want to hear that. I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>That has been my experience for every since I started podcasting.

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<v Speaker 2>I get emails a lot from people saying they want

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if these people are real or not.

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<v Speaker 2>about that stuff. People that I know that I've asked

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<v Speaker 2>to come on they don't want to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't want to talk.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, well, no one sees you, but they just

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to talk. They you know, don't have the

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<v Speaker 2>confidence to do it. So it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't let anyone stop you. You can't let anyone

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<v Speaker 2>block you, because if you do, the truth is you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing it to yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing it to yourself. I see people who YouTube that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's an embarrassment, but they still do it, and guess

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<v Speaker 2>what they give many, many, many followers and subscribers to

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<v Speaker 2>jump because that's what people love. People love mess, people

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<v Speaker 2>love gossip, people love discord and.

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<v Speaker 1>Chaos and drama. They love it. That's not what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>about I'm not about that. I'm trying to teach, educate, inspire, motivate.

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<v Speaker 1>So always always stand alone.

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<v Speaker 2>But as long as I have breath in my body

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<v Speaker 2>and Jesus's Lord and God sits high on.

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<v Speaker 1>The throne, I'm oh kay.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the mindset you have to have. You have to

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<v Speaker 2>be all right with yourself. You must be all right

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<v Speaker 2>with yourself and never let anyone or anything make you

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<v Speaker 2>other people say or what they don't say, or what

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be confident within yourself. See. People mess

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<v Speaker 1>up when they do it for people.

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<v Speaker 2>When you do it for other folks to see because

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<v Speaker 2>you want accolades from other people, you messed up anyways

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<v Speaker 2>from the start. When you have that mindset, you have

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<v Speaker 2>what it is. If people listen, they listen. If they don't,

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<v Speaker 2>they don't. And you have to keep it moving, moving,

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<v Speaker 2>and keep it moving and just trust trust God, believe

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<v Speaker 2>in yourself. Stop looking for other people to do things

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<v Speaker 2>for you that you must.

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<v Speaker 1>You must do for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>And I promise you you will see things differently and

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<v Speaker 2>you will feel differently about things.

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<v Speaker 1>When you are looking to other people, especially your family

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<v Speaker 1>and friends. Now, if you were like I used.

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<v Speaker 2>To be, you know, given, given, given, given, Oh man,

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<v Speaker 2>all man. Everywhere you turn, someone is there. But when

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<v Speaker 2>things like that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but that's just life.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to know yourself and love yourself above all humans.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be good with yourself above all humans.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care who they are. Trust in yourself, love yourself,

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<v Speaker 2>and God will do the rest. It may take time,

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<v Speaker 2>but trust and believe His word is true, stick and safe.

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<v Speaker 2>If you don't learn to love yourself, you will always suffer.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's all I'm saying. I'm leaving it right there.

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<v Speaker 1>Much much, much much love.

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<v Speaker 2>Please share. Also go to From the Heart to the

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<v Speaker 2>Heart by Cherry. Just check it out and please share.

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<v Speaker 1>I end every episode the same and I hope you

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Think on it,