WEBVTT 1 00:00:03.200 --> 00:00:05.799 At Steady Swims. I'm Mix ninety six nine, Persilla here. 2 00:00:05.839 --> 00:00:08.919 So I just read that gen z A millennials think 3 00:00:09.119 --> 00:00:13.000 relaxing on vacation is a waste of time. That boomers 4 00:00:13.080 --> 00:00:15.199 are the ones that like to take vacation time to 5 00:00:15.279 --> 00:00:19.440 just sit and do nothing. And as a millennial, I 6 00:00:19.480 --> 00:00:21.920 ten ten agree. I don't want to take time off 7 00:00:21.920 --> 00:00:23.640 to go sit in a hotel room. I can just 8 00:00:23.679 --> 00:00:26.239 go sit at home. If I'm gonna go visit a 9 00:00:26.280 --> 00:00:29.000 new place, I want to experience the things that that 10 00:00:29.079 --> 00:00:32.320 place has to offer, right Or is that just exhausting 11 00:00:32.320 --> 00:00:34.079 because your life is so busy during the day and 12 00:00:34.159 --> 00:00:36.039 during the month and the week and at work that 13 00:00:36.119 --> 00:00:38.079 you just want to not do anything. I guess it 14 00:00:38.079 --> 00:00:40.399 depends on who you are. But this girl, if you're 15 00:00:40.399 --> 00:00:42.600 going on vacation with me, get ready, we're gonna have 16 00:00:42.640 --> 00:00:43.520 an itinerary. 17 00:00:44.840 --> 00:00:45.359 Good morning. 18 00:00:45.399 --> 00:00:48.200 It's Mixcity six to nine, Persilla here. Producers said, you 19 00:00:48.200 --> 00:00:49.799 would consider yourself a happy. 20 00:00:49.560 --> 00:00:51.640 Girl, right, yeah, fake it till you make it, like 21 00:00:51.719 --> 00:00:52.479 Rihanna said. 22 00:00:52.920 --> 00:00:55.119 I like that, And I have a list of things 23 00:00:55.119 --> 00:00:57.560 that are give you a happier life according to research, 24 00:00:58.200 --> 00:01:01.119 and I think we should add our to this list. 25 00:01:01.320 --> 00:01:04.560 Oh okay, so on the list of what makes you happier. 26 00:01:04.640 --> 00:01:07.560 Things you need to do is don't neglect the basics. Basically, 27 00:01:07.840 --> 00:01:10.120 take care of your mental and physical health, eating well, 28 00:01:10.519 --> 00:01:13.439 you know, not getting enough sleep, all that kind of thing. 29 00:01:13.519 --> 00:01:17.000 That's huge. Actually, level up your social life, it says, 30 00:01:17.000 --> 00:01:21.000 to investing your personal relationships and improve hanging out with people. 31 00:01:21.480 --> 00:01:23.840 That one's tough because it's always hard to make plans. 32 00:01:23.879 --> 00:01:25.719 But then once you do make the plans and you're 33 00:01:25.719 --> 00:01:27.760 on your drive home, you're like, wow, that really filled 34 00:01:27.760 --> 00:01:28.079 my cup. 35 00:01:28.400 --> 00:01:31.239 You're right, But getting out of the house is that 36 00:01:31.359 --> 00:01:36.239 first step. Yeah. Strengthening your existing relationships, like with your 37 00:01:36.280 --> 00:01:40.400 friends and family and your loved ones. That's also hard 38 00:01:40.439 --> 00:01:44.879 because life be life in maintenance. Yeah, express yourself, like, 39 00:01:44.959 --> 00:01:49.120 don't be scared to tell people how you feel or 40 00:01:49.239 --> 00:01:52.280 be your authentic self. Don't like minimize yourself because you're 41 00:01:52.280 --> 00:01:53.200 worried what people think. 42 00:01:53.359 --> 00:01:55.159 I think that one comes with age, don't you think. 43 00:01:55.519 --> 00:01:56.840 I think you're very comfortable? 44 00:01:57.000 --> 00:02:00.439 Yeah? Absolutely, And then accept an embrace chain, like be 45 00:02:00.519 --> 00:02:03.799 okay with things changing and evolving. In fact, be open 46 00:02:03.840 --> 00:02:07.799 to it because that's what makes you a better person. Period. Wow, period, 47 00:02:08.080 --> 00:02:09.840 Now what would you add to the list of things 48 00:02:09.840 --> 00:02:12.159 to make you happy if you could a full fridge. 49 00:02:13.680 --> 00:02:17.439 That's the first thing that I thought of food. What 50 00:02:17.560 --> 00:02:21.800 about you? Kind Of on the heels of that is gratitude. Yeah, 51 00:02:22.360 --> 00:02:25.800 so basically and in the moment, not even in passing. 52 00:02:25.840 --> 00:02:28.360 It's like in the moment, just being so grateful, Like 53 00:02:28.680 --> 00:02:31.199 it is so cool sid that we get to wake 54 00:02:31.280 --> 00:02:34.919 up and talk to the entire state of Arizona and 55 00:02:35.439 --> 00:02:39.159 tell them waste to be happy? Like really fun is that? Also? 56 00:02:39.360 --> 00:02:43.400 Don't be boring? Just don't be boring. That's another tip 57 00:02:43.439 --> 00:02:49.280 for you. Press you'll sell good morning. It's ex. Ninety 58 00:02:49.280 --> 00:02:51.639 six nine in the Valley's Best Mix Forriscilla here and 59 00:02:51.800 --> 00:02:54.159 coming up just around seven ten, we're gonna have your 60 00:02:54.240 --> 00:02:57.159 tickets to Lego Land in San Diego with Priscilla's Lego 61 00:02:57.199 --> 00:03:00.439 Land Pyramid. It'll be a lot of fun. But Produce said, 62 00:03:00.680 --> 00:03:04.199 you are prego about to have baby girl. How many 63 00:03:04.199 --> 00:03:04.719 weeks away? 64 00:03:05.120 --> 00:03:08.240 We're about seven weeks away, So how's it going? 65 00:03:08.280 --> 00:03:08.479 Gives? 66 00:03:08.680 --> 00:03:11.400 I know, well, maybe I'm sure you can relate to this, 67 00:03:11.639 --> 00:03:14.080 and maybe a lot of people listening. I've had quite 68 00:03:14.080 --> 00:03:15.280 a few meltdowns. 69 00:03:16.599 --> 00:03:18.560 I have them without being pregnant. So yes, I can 70 00:03:18.599 --> 00:03:19.120 relate in. 71 00:03:19.120 --> 00:03:21.960 The last couple of weeks that I just cannot explain 72 00:03:22.240 --> 00:03:24.439 other than it's the baby. 73 00:03:24.159 --> 00:03:27.479 Making me crazy. Well, what's your most recent one that happened. 74 00:03:27.960 --> 00:03:29.319 It's kind of embarrassing. 75 00:03:30.840 --> 00:03:33.240 So my husband turned down the water heater because it's 76 00:03:33.240 --> 00:03:35.759 been so hot out. It's like, we don't need the 77 00:03:35.800 --> 00:03:39.639 water as hot. I don't know if that makes any sense. 78 00:03:39.719 --> 00:03:42.800 Maybe someone could explain that to me. Okay, anyway, I 79 00:03:42.840 --> 00:03:44.560 go to take a shower. It's like the end of 80 00:03:44.560 --> 00:03:47.520 the day. I'm sore, yeah, and I can't get the 81 00:03:47.560 --> 00:03:51.400 shower hot. And I'm being so dramatic Priscilla. I'm like shivering. 82 00:03:51.680 --> 00:03:53.879 I run out of the shower and I'm like, baby, 83 00:03:54.120 --> 00:03:56.599 why is the shower not getting hot? 84 00:03:56.879 --> 00:03:58.840 I just wanted to say a hot show? 85 00:04:00.520 --> 00:04:02.400 And so I jumped to the other shower. I says 86 00:04:02.439 --> 00:04:03.280 the guests were better. 87 00:04:03.479 --> 00:04:03.919 Uh huh. 88 00:04:04.240 --> 00:04:06.719 So I'm in my slippers, like soaking wet, running to 89 00:04:06.800 --> 00:04:10.240 the other shower. My husband's like, are you is it 90 00:04:10.319 --> 00:04:14.000 really that cold? So I took the shower, didn't get hot, 91 00:04:14.039 --> 00:04:16.839 and then I took myself outside and sat in the sun. 92 00:04:18.199 --> 00:04:21.759 I was gonna joke like, what did you do? Run outside? Next? 93 00:04:22.240 --> 00:04:25.800 Say in your hot car? Almost I did. 94 00:04:25.879 --> 00:04:27.800 I just had a chill that I couldn't shake. 95 00:04:27.920 --> 00:04:31.120 And it's just ridiculous. And that's on. You know what 96 00:04:31.240 --> 00:04:34.240 I will say, there is something about women in general. 97 00:04:34.439 --> 00:04:37.759 We are able to take scolding hot showers more than 98 00:04:37.800 --> 00:04:41.519 men are, and it's almost like we need it to function. 99 00:04:41.839 --> 00:04:44.439 Well, I was like, who's out here taking a lukewarm shower? 100 00:04:44.639 --> 00:04:49.639 I just it's not satisfied me, especially now so miserable. 101 00:04:49.920 --> 00:04:52.680 Well, you know you're not alone. It's fine. It's part 102 00:04:52.720 --> 00:04:55.279 of pregnancy or just being a woman in general. 103 00:04:55.399 --> 00:05:01.399 Oh man, these beautiful Oh good morning. 104 00:05:01.399 --> 00:05:03.920 It's six s eighty six ' nine Priscilla here. And 105 00:05:04.040 --> 00:05:07.879 this guy's going viral on social media said because of 106 00:05:07.959 --> 00:05:11.680 what he's asking his guests to do at his wedding. 107 00:05:12.240 --> 00:05:14.519 Listen to this guy. It's pretty nuts, all. 108 00:05:14.519 --> 00:05:16.240 Right, T talk tell me if I'm tripping a nut. 109 00:05:16.360 --> 00:05:18.959 So me and my fiance we are getting married, right, 110 00:05:19.079 --> 00:05:20.680 And to be a part of our wedding, you had 111 00:05:20.720 --> 00:05:22.639 to pay four hundred and fifty dollars for a ticket, 112 00:05:22.720 --> 00:05:25.600 and that's for each gift. So we invited friends and 113 00:05:25.680 --> 00:05:29.360 family to our wedding. Tell me why everybody that we 114 00:05:29.399 --> 00:05:32.519 invited has declined the invitation to tell we already have 115 00:05:32.680 --> 00:05:34.759 spun one hundred, maybe. 116 00:05:34.839 --> 00:05:36.959 Almost close to two hundred thousand dollars on a wedding. 117 00:05:37.120 --> 00:05:39.079 We have already pre ordered the cake, we already put 118 00:05:39.120 --> 00:05:42.720 down a deposit for the venue, We've already got the 119 00:05:42.759 --> 00:05:46.920 wedding dress, everything, we paid everything for the wedding, DJ photographer. 120 00:05:47.399 --> 00:05:50.839 And what I don't understand is that y'all spend. 121 00:05:50.480 --> 00:05:52.160 More money, more money. 122 00:05:51.879 --> 00:05:53.800 On stupid stuff, but you can't come out to support 123 00:05:53.800 --> 00:05:56.120 your family and your friends at a wedding. Like, tell 124 00:05:56.120 --> 00:05:59.600 me if I'm wrong, Tell it you're wrong because y'all 125 00:05:59.600 --> 00:06:02.480 paid for TI tickets, Beyonce tickets, a thousand do of tickets. 126 00:06:02.519 --> 00:06:04.240 You'll want to go meet Chris Brown for a thousand 127 00:06:04.319 --> 00:06:06.720 something dollars friends and your family. 128 00:06:07.279 --> 00:06:12.399 You can't pay the ticket, not Chris Brown. You know what. 129 00:06:12.600 --> 00:06:14.959 I'm not gonna lie when he said that, though I 130 00:06:15.040 --> 00:06:17.480 did kind of get a perspective of, like, he's not 131 00:06:17.639 --> 00:06:20.040 wrong in the sense of we do spend a lot 132 00:06:20.079 --> 00:06:23.079 of money on like celebrities in Hollywood and people that 133 00:06:23.160 --> 00:06:26.680 we don't know. It's almost like why wouldn't we spend 134 00:06:26.680 --> 00:06:30.360 money on like a friend's life event, I guess. 135 00:06:30.439 --> 00:06:32.240 But first of all, why is he spend two hundred 136 00:06:32.279 --> 00:06:35.279 thousand dollars on his wedding? To me, it almost sounds 137 00:06:35.319 --> 00:06:38.519 like they spend too much and now they're looking to 138 00:06:38.639 --> 00:06:40.319 be reimbursed a little bit. 139 00:06:40.519 --> 00:06:44.680 I'm curious, Yeah, I'm curious why he would, but like 140 00:06:44.800 --> 00:06:47.399 blow all that money and then charge expecting people to 141 00:06:47.439 --> 00:06:49.319 show up, right, that seems risky. 142 00:06:49.399 --> 00:06:51.399 One and two people are gonna spend a lot of 143 00:06:51.439 --> 00:06:54.560 money to get to the wedding travel outfits. 144 00:06:54.800 --> 00:06:57.120 Let's see what Mike says. Mike in Peoria, what's your 145 00:06:57.160 --> 00:06:59.920 perspective on charging people to go to your wedding? 146 00:07:00.040 --> 00:07:03.839 I think you're asking a lot for people who probably 147 00:07:03.839 --> 00:07:05.639 don't want to go to a wedding in the first place. 148 00:07:05.680 --> 00:07:06.759 I know I didn't even want to go to my 149 00:07:06.800 --> 00:07:09.439 sister's wedding, and if I had to pay any money 150 00:07:09.480 --> 00:07:11.600 for that, I definitely would have just stayed home that day. 151 00:07:11.839 --> 00:07:14.000 What would you do if, like your sister charged you, 152 00:07:14.000 --> 00:07:15.360 would you say no, I'm not going. 153 00:07:15.800 --> 00:07:19.319 Oh I know my parents were guilty, but I think 154 00:07:19.319 --> 00:07:20.800 I would come down with a cold that day. 155 00:07:21.879 --> 00:07:26.000 He's like, I got COVID. That's crazy. I just I 156 00:07:26.040 --> 00:07:28.800 can't imagine charging someone. Here's the thing, too, is like, 157 00:07:28.800 --> 00:07:30.959 would you charge them that much money? Four hundred and 158 00:07:30.959 --> 00:07:34.519 fifty dollars a person? That's steep. I would say for anything, 159 00:07:34.519 --> 00:07:37.240 I'd be in lieu of a gift, like, yes, just 160 00:07:37.279 --> 00:07:43.680 give me my money. My good morning. It's mixed ninety 161 00:07:43.800 --> 00:07:47.319 six ' nine. It is time for what's trending, brought 162 00:07:47.319 --> 00:07:51.399 to you by HeLa River Resorts and Casinos and uh 163 00:07:51.839 --> 00:07:55.040 sid nothing bigger right now than the mom in Scottsdale 164 00:07:56.680 --> 00:08:00.600 that stole thirty five thousand dollars from her kid's middle school. 165 00:08:00.879 --> 00:08:03.319 It's so crazy, and then went on the run. Yes, 166 00:08:03.399 --> 00:08:05.199 so basically she was a part of the PTO. She 167 00:08:05.279 --> 00:08:07.240 was the treasure and a course in charge of all 168 00:08:07.240 --> 00:08:09.120 the money. And then it was found out that she 169 00:08:09.160 --> 00:08:12.120 had been depositing money into a bank account that she 170 00:08:12.199 --> 00:08:15.399 had like secretly had. And then when it was found out, 171 00:08:15.399 --> 00:08:17.240 she went on the run. She turned off all of 172 00:08:17.240 --> 00:08:19.800 her social media, she turned off her cell phones. She 173 00:08:19.879 --> 00:08:23.959 hasn't been found for weeks. Finally she did turn herself 174 00:08:23.959 --> 00:08:28.040 in yesterday, but that school in Scottsdale is out thirty 175 00:08:28.040 --> 00:08:29.519 five grand I know, and. 176 00:08:29.480 --> 00:08:31.480 It's for field trips and all sorts of stuff for 177 00:08:31.519 --> 00:08:33.480 the kid. Like you're taking the money from the kid, 178 00:08:33.639 --> 00:08:33.960 I know. 179 00:08:34.279 --> 00:08:37.480 And of course, naturally the nosey person in me, I'm like, 180 00:08:37.519 --> 00:08:39.759 all right, is she in a relationship? Is she married? 181 00:08:39.799 --> 00:08:40.960 What does her spouse think? 182 00:08:41.080 --> 00:08:41.320 Is she? 183 00:08:41.399 --> 00:08:42.320 What are her kids think? 184 00:08:42.399 --> 00:08:43.480 What she used the money on? 185 00:08:43.600 --> 00:08:47.000 What did she use the money on? So hopefully the 186 00:08:47.000 --> 00:08:49.960 school does recoup that money because that was their field 187 00:08:50.000 --> 00:08:52.200 trip money, that was their funding for the year, So 188 00:08:52.559 --> 00:08:56.480 hopefully they get that figured out. Chuck E Cheese, we 189 00:08:56.720 --> 00:08:59.399 love it, well, we love it because we've grown up 190 00:08:59.440 --> 00:09:01.279 with it. Have you ever had check e Cheese? 191 00:09:01.360 --> 00:09:04.399 I have never eaten there. I don't think that I 192 00:09:04.440 --> 00:09:06.519 can recall. Also, I don't think my mom would take 193 00:09:06.519 --> 00:09:08.679 me to a Chuck e Cheese. Why oh, just because 194 00:09:08.799 --> 00:09:09.600 she'd beel like, we're going. 195 00:09:09.480 --> 00:09:12.159 To McDonald's at the play place. That's good enough for you. Yeah, 196 00:09:12.399 --> 00:09:16.159 you know. Check e Cheese is like the for the elite. Yeah, 197 00:09:16.200 --> 00:09:18.200 it seems a little fancy. And right now they are 198 00:09:18.240 --> 00:09:22.159 offering memberships and they started eight dollars, go to thirty dollars, 199 00:09:22.279 --> 00:09:25.759 and it offers different variety of games, discounts on food 200 00:09:25.799 --> 00:09:28.759 and drink depending on the tear that you get. But 201 00:09:28.799 --> 00:09:31.000 it could be something fun to do with the kids 202 00:09:31.159 --> 00:09:33.559 and go because I will be honest that the chuck 203 00:09:33.600 --> 00:09:37.720 E Cheese, video games or like the arcade, it's super fun. 204 00:09:37.799 --> 00:09:40.320 So you got to check that out. Also, don't forget 205 00:09:40.399 --> 00:09:43.480 Travis Kelce and Jason Kelce's beer is out tomorrow. It's 206 00:09:43.480 --> 00:09:47.039 called garage Beer. I'm not a beer person, but people 207 00:09:47.039 --> 00:09:50.679 that love beer say that it's pretty tasty. Yeah, I get. 208 00:09:50.759 --> 00:09:52.840 I mean the craft beer is a whole other world. 209 00:09:53.039 --> 00:09:54.720 Those are totally different people. 210 00:09:54.840 --> 00:09:58.240 Listen, it's gonna sell out just because it's Taylor Swiss boyfriend. Like, 211 00:09:58.320 --> 00:10:00.200 it's gonna be Swifties that I've never had a year 212 00:10:00.240 --> 00:10:03.679 in their life. She's gonna buy a twelve pack and 213 00:10:03.799 --> 00:10:06.600 have it sit in their merch closet. Let's they're gonna 214 00:10:06.639 --> 00:10:12.080 have man buns a glasses. Good morning, It's Mix ninety 215 00:10:12.080 --> 00:10:14.799 six nine Priscilla here and it is time to hook 216 00:10:14.879 --> 00:10:19.399 someone up with tickets to Lego Land in San Diego. 217 00:10:19.840 --> 00:10:23.080 Good morning, we have rubbing on the phone. How's it going? 218 00:10:24.080 --> 00:10:26.000 Good morning, Pill, I'm doing great. 219 00:10:26.240 --> 00:10:28.159 Are you ready to play for these tickets. 220 00:10:29.120 --> 00:10:30.240 I'm certainly gonna. 221 00:10:30.039 --> 00:10:32.840 Try my best. Okay, Well, Producer Sid's in. She's gonna 222 00:10:32.879 --> 00:10:36.919 be your teammate, and we're gonna play Priscilla's Lego Larm Pyramid. 223 00:10:36.960 --> 00:10:39.919 Here's how it works is I'm gonna hold up a 224 00:10:40.000 --> 00:10:42.279 sign and it's gonna have a word on it, and 225 00:10:42.360 --> 00:10:45.000 Sid's gonna give you clues so you can guess what 226 00:10:45.080 --> 00:10:48.720 it says. Okay, okay, all right. So the name the 227 00:10:48.919 --> 00:10:52.720 category I'm gonna give it to you is Disney Movies. Okay, yes, 228 00:10:53.240 --> 00:10:56.879 are you ready? Yes, let's go. First one's up. 229 00:10:57.600 --> 00:11:00.480 Okay, she falls down a hole and then there's a 230 00:11:00.559 --> 00:11:08.360 rabbit and there's a big spoke alice. Yes, okay, next one, oh, okay. 231 00:11:08.399 --> 00:11:10.240 This one is a little animal that comes from outer 232 00:11:10.360 --> 00:11:13.799 space and he has this fabulous older there's a little 233 00:11:13.799 --> 00:11:15.679 girl and then he has a fabulous older sister. 234 00:11:16.600 --> 00:11:18.120 Ohana means family. 235 00:11:24.320 --> 00:11:25.080 It's in Hawaii. 236 00:11:25.159 --> 00:11:31.519 It's in Hawaii, Luna. 237 00:11:31.799 --> 00:11:37.080 When you sew something, it's a when you sew something up, 238 00:11:37.159 --> 00:11:39.120 it's a All right, we're moving on. 239 00:11:39.200 --> 00:11:42.639 It's okay, yes, yes, you got it. 240 00:11:42.679 --> 00:11:45.279 Okay, all right, this one's pretty good. 241 00:11:45.320 --> 00:11:48.960 Okay, so she uh, let's see she's a gorgeous girl 242 00:11:49.360 --> 00:11:53.279 and she gets taken captive by a dog looking guy. 243 00:11:55.159 --> 00:12:07.159 Okay, congratulate Morom and you are going to Legoland in 244 00:12:07.360 --> 00:12:08.159 San Diego. 245 00:12:09.679 --> 00:12:13.039 Thank you, guys, thank you. I'm hitting you off, you 246 00:12:13.200 --> 00:12:16.720 and sid dream team over. I hope I was help. 247 00:12:16.840 --> 00:12:23.440 I think I might have made congratulations take time. Good morning. 248 00:12:23.440 --> 00:12:26.039 It's a scinety six nine. Priscilla here. Don't forget your 249 00:12:26.120 --> 00:12:28.080 chance to go to the twenty one Pilots show is 250 00:12:28.080 --> 00:12:31.440 coming up just around at nine thirty this morning. So 251 00:12:31.600 --> 00:12:34.840 yesterday I was supposed to help my husband put an 252 00:12:35.039 --> 00:12:39.080 entertainment center together in our new house. But I don't 253 00:12:39.080 --> 00:12:41.200 know why I decided it would be a good idea 254 00:12:41.360 --> 00:12:43.639 to make myself a little Margo Rita. 255 00:12:43.960 --> 00:12:44.399 Why not? 256 00:12:45.200 --> 00:12:48.559 What would be a bad idea? Ye, Listen, last week 257 00:12:48.559 --> 00:12:52.200 at work was nuts, so moving was crazy. I needed 258 00:12:52.200 --> 00:12:55.639 a little like unwind. Yeah. My problem was I should 259 00:12:55.639 --> 00:12:58.759 not have done it before we started building stuff, because 260 00:12:59.240 --> 00:13:01.759 I got to hosted and it was just one marguerite. 261 00:13:01.840 --> 00:13:04.279 I must have made it really strong, and so I 262 00:13:04.360 --> 00:13:06.919 thought the best thing to do was go on Instagram 263 00:13:06.960 --> 00:13:10.759 and tell everybody I was living By the way, I'm 264 00:13:10.799 --> 00:13:13.080 sitting in bed about to fall asleep. At seven point thirty. 265 00:13:13.519 --> 00:13:15.240 I turned to my husband, I go, pus, tell us 266 00:13:15.320 --> 00:13:20.000 drunk on the grab. So immediately after that, I go 267 00:13:20.039 --> 00:13:22.639 to my husband. I'm like, Babe, I can't help you 268 00:13:22.679 --> 00:13:26.039 put this together. And he's like, and I told him, 269 00:13:26.080 --> 00:13:28.159 I'm like, I can't. I can't be trusted with power 270 00:13:28.200 --> 00:13:31.559 tools right now. And he's like, it's a Phillip screwdriver. 271 00:13:32.240 --> 00:13:35.480 I was like, exactly, it's not, and I can't do 272 00:13:35.600 --> 00:13:40.320 it a power tool exactly. So word of advice, and 273 00:13:40.440 --> 00:13:42.919 do not have a margarita before we put furniture together. 274 00:13:44.480 --> 00:13:47.519 It's time for our hot topic. And today we're talking 275 00:13:47.559 --> 00:13:51.159 about how to reward kids. Okay, producer sid So, we 276 00:13:51.320 --> 00:13:54.759 had Sarah right into the show and she said to us, 277 00:13:55.240 --> 00:13:57.320 we were eating dinner last night when my twelve year 278 00:13:57.320 --> 00:14:00.600 old son told my husband that he wanted a new 279 00:14:00.679 --> 00:14:03.600 pair of Air Jordan's, and my husband immediately shot it 280 00:14:03.679 --> 00:14:05.960 down and told him, listen, we're not going to buy 281 00:14:06.000 --> 00:14:09.320 you three hundred dollars shoes. But I told my son 282 00:14:09.360 --> 00:14:11.080 that if he makes the honor roll during the first 283 00:14:11.120 --> 00:14:14.480 semester of the upcoming school year, we will get them 284 00:14:14.519 --> 00:14:16.759 for him, and that caused an argument between me and 285 00:14:16.799 --> 00:14:18.960 my husband because he doesn't think that we should reward 286 00:14:18.960 --> 00:14:21.200 our son that highly for just getting on the honor 287 00:14:21.279 --> 00:14:23.799 roll and getting good grades, because that's what he's supposed 288 00:14:23.840 --> 00:14:27.320 to do. That's the expectation of a kid in school 289 00:14:27.639 --> 00:14:31.240 right now. Her question is should we be able to 290 00:14:31.240 --> 00:14:33.799 buy those things for my son? Should he be rewarded 291 00:14:33.840 --> 00:14:36.039 for good grades? Sid? What do you think? 292 00:14:37.039 --> 00:14:41.720 I think, no reward, nothing that big? Okay, tell me why. 293 00:14:41.879 --> 00:14:44.159 I That's just how I was raised and so I 294 00:14:44.200 --> 00:14:46.440 don't really know any different. But it was very much 295 00:14:46.600 --> 00:14:50.799 like you get a's So that's just what's expected. But 296 00:14:51.039 --> 00:14:53.320 as myself as a parent, I'm not sure how I'll be. 297 00:14:54.480 --> 00:14:56.840 I think, what do you think? So for me because 298 00:14:56.879 --> 00:14:59.679 I have two kids both like one are graduated high school, 299 00:14:59.679 --> 00:15:02.799 the other one in third grade, and I think it's good. 300 00:15:02.919 --> 00:15:06.000 It's gives them incentive, it gives them motivation, it helps 301 00:15:06.000 --> 00:15:08.720 them work towards something instead of like think about it 302 00:15:08.759 --> 00:15:11.480 as adults, like we come to work and we work 303 00:15:11.559 --> 00:15:13.440 hard and we're rewarded with a paycheck. 304 00:15:14.080 --> 00:15:14.879 That's true. 305 00:15:15.080 --> 00:15:17.960 So because listen, is it just expected of us to 306 00:15:18.000 --> 00:15:19.519 come to work and not get anything out of it. 307 00:15:19.559 --> 00:15:24.559 I don't think absolutely. So, I think it's okay to 308 00:15:24.639 --> 00:15:27.679 reward your kids. Now, the part that I struggle with 309 00:15:27.879 --> 00:15:31.120 is do you reward them with that big of an item, 310 00:15:31.240 --> 00:15:34.159 fancy sneaker? Yeah, because just because you come to work 311 00:15:34.159 --> 00:15:36.480 and do a good job doesn't mean you're gonna get 312 00:15:36.480 --> 00:15:40.200 a million dollar salary, right true? Yeah, So I don't know. 313 00:15:40.399 --> 00:15:42.279 I'm up in the air about it. I'd love to 314 00:15:42.279 --> 00:15:45.519 hear what you have to say. It's Mix ninety six 315 00:15:45.519 --> 00:15:47.320 to nine Priscilla here. So we are in the middle 316 00:15:47.320 --> 00:15:49.240 of our hot topic and we're asking you should kids 317 00:15:49.240 --> 00:15:52.159 get rewarded for having good grades or is that just 318 00:15:52.399 --> 00:15:55.200 part of what they're supposed to do. We have Marchhae 319 00:15:55.360 --> 00:15:58.279 on the phone. Good morning, Marchhae, good morning, How are 320 00:15:58.320 --> 00:15:59.919 you good. What's your perspective on that? 321 00:16:00.519 --> 00:16:02.480 I feel that if a kid is doing their part, 322 00:16:02.559 --> 00:16:05.519 then as parents, it is our job to do ours 323 00:16:05.559 --> 00:16:05.919 as well. 324 00:16:06.080 --> 00:16:11.159 Yeah. I think having incentive keeps kids motivated, right, absolutely, Okay, 325 00:16:11.159 --> 00:16:13.120 thank you for that. All right. We have Hailey on 326 00:16:13.159 --> 00:16:17.320 the phone. Haley, what's your pa, Hey, what's your perspective 327 00:16:17.360 --> 00:16:18.039 on this hot topic? 328 00:16:18.480 --> 00:16:21.039 The child to not get the sneakers? I think that 329 00:16:21.120 --> 00:16:23.600 we need to set expectations in our kids that when 330 00:16:23.639 --> 00:16:25.679 they're in school, they need to be getting good grades 331 00:16:25.720 --> 00:16:28.159 and they need to be, you know, following the rules 332 00:16:28.159 --> 00:16:31.039 in the directions. If we reward our childs for every 333 00:16:31.039 --> 00:16:34.559 single thing that they do in you know, just normal expectations, 334 00:16:34.559 --> 00:16:38.639 that's setting on realistic, you know, ideas for their future. Maya, 335 00:16:38.720 --> 00:16:40.759 I made the mistake with my own kids of rewarding 336 00:16:40.759 --> 00:16:42.720 them for every tiny little thing, and now every time 337 00:16:42.720 --> 00:16:44.399 we go to the store, they expect it toy. So 338 00:16:45.519 --> 00:16:47.159 I don't think the child can get the sneakers. I 339 00:16:47.159 --> 00:16:49.440 think we need to set good expectations. 340 00:16:48.759 --> 00:16:51.279 All right. I love the perspective. Thank you so much 341 00:16:51.320 --> 00:16:53.080 for that. Of course, have a great day, you do, 342 00:16:53.360 --> 00:16:55.559 all right. If you have an opinion or maybe a 343 00:16:55.639 --> 00:16:58.600 specific situation that happened with you and your kiddos about 344 00:16:58.639 --> 00:17:02.519 rewarding them for good grades, give us a call. We're 345 00:17:02.519 --> 00:17:04.519 in the middle of our hot topic and we're asking 346 00:17:04.599 --> 00:17:07.759 should kids get rewarded for good grades or is it 347 00:17:07.799 --> 00:17:11.599 just an expectation and they should know that that's their responsibility. 348 00:17:11.759 --> 00:17:14.200 So we have Isabel and Phoenix on the phone. What's 349 00:17:14.240 --> 00:17:15.720 your perspective on this hot topic? 350 00:17:16.039 --> 00:17:19.039 So the way that we reward our kiddos when they 351 00:17:19.079 --> 00:17:23.440 get honor roll is have their favorite meal, like cook 352 00:17:23.480 --> 00:17:25.559 their favorite meal for them, or take them for like 353 00:17:25.599 --> 00:17:28.160 a fro yo that kind of thing. 354 00:17:28.359 --> 00:17:30.559 Okay, but you wouldn't get them like a big you know, 355 00:17:30.960 --> 00:17:32.200 two hundred dollars parasitation. 356 00:17:32.279 --> 00:17:34.599 No, absolutely not. 357 00:17:35.799 --> 00:17:38.200 I get it. It seems kind of excessive for some 358 00:17:38.240 --> 00:17:40.839 good grades. Right, all right, we have Rachel and Chandler 359 00:17:40.880 --> 00:17:43.880 on the phone. Rachel and Chandler, what is your perspective 360 00:17:43.920 --> 00:17:46.039 on this hot topic. I think it's a. 361 00:17:46.000 --> 00:17:51.240 Great idea in terms of preparing your child for adulthood 362 00:17:51.319 --> 00:17:54.839 and working. Yes, the expectation, I mean your husband's right, 363 00:17:54.920 --> 00:17:57.440 the expectation is, yes, good grades and things like that, 364 00:17:57.519 --> 00:18:01.200 but honorall is kind of above and beyond. So in 365 00:18:01.279 --> 00:18:04.960 teaching them to be lay working adults. At the end 366 00:18:05.000 --> 00:18:07.000 of a great year as a working adult, you get 367 00:18:07.000 --> 00:18:09.319 a bonus if you've done really, really well. 368 00:18:09.880 --> 00:18:10.119 Yeah. 369 00:18:10.279 --> 00:18:12.319 I think that's kind of what you're What you're showing 370 00:18:12.359 --> 00:18:14.599 your kid is that, Yeah, look, if you work hard, 371 00:18:14.920 --> 00:18:17.720 you go above and beyond, Yeah, you get a bonus. 372 00:18:17.799 --> 00:18:20.400 You know what, Rachel, You're so right because the way 373 00:18:20.440 --> 00:18:22.640 that I always said in my house is like listen, 374 00:18:22.680 --> 00:18:24.720 c'z get degrees and as long as you get to see, 375 00:18:24.799 --> 00:18:28.079 I'm happy. But anything above that is going above and beyond. 376 00:18:28.160 --> 00:18:31.119 So I like the perspective. Thank you. All right, let's 377 00:18:31.160 --> 00:18:33.759 move on to Chris. Chris in Goodyear, what's your opinion 378 00:18:33.759 --> 00:18:34.519 on this hot topic. 379 00:18:34.799 --> 00:18:36.759 Well, I think it's a good idea. I mean, I 380 00:18:36.799 --> 00:18:39.359 think it gives them something to work towards. I mean, 381 00:18:39.400 --> 00:18:43.359 when our daughter was in school, report card with payday, 382 00:18:43.480 --> 00:18:46.000 so she would get paid for a's and b's obviously 383 00:18:46.039 --> 00:18:48.680 as were more than b's and nothing for c's or below. 384 00:18:49.359 --> 00:18:51.039 But I think it sets the tone for a work 385 00:18:51.039 --> 00:18:53.279 ethic and a child and lets them know that they 386 00:18:53.319 --> 00:18:55.720 have to earn things if they want things. So when 387 00:18:55.759 --> 00:18:58.400 you're working towards the goal, it kind of teaches that 388 00:18:58.519 --> 00:19:01.279 mindset early on that you have the work to get 389 00:19:01.319 --> 00:19:03.000 things that you want. So I don't think it's a 390 00:19:03.039 --> 00:19:06.480 bad idea. Three hundred two. Probably not what I would 391 00:19:06.519 --> 00:19:09.200 have done for my kids, but then again, I don't 392 00:19:09.240 --> 00:19:13.680 know their financial situation and what's average and what's exceptional. 393 00:19:13.160 --> 00:19:15.279 To them, but that, yeah, you know what, you're right, Chris, 394 00:19:15.279 --> 00:19:17.960 because that's where I get lost. Is like you don't 395 00:19:18.000 --> 00:19:20.839 want to give a reward that's way bigger than the 396 00:19:20.839 --> 00:19:23.359 work you put in, because then you start to develop 397 00:19:23.480 --> 00:19:26.440 like sense of entitlement, like, wait, I did my homework. 398 00:19:26.480 --> 00:19:27.640 What do you mean You're not going to buy me 399 00:19:27.680 --> 00:19:29.599 a car. It's like, well, you don't necessarily get a 400 00:19:29.640 --> 00:19:34.920 car just because you did your assignments, you know, right, yeah. 401 00:19:34.880 --> 00:19:37.160