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<v Speaker 1>The things that not everyone knows about you, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when it's happened to those you know, those secret vaults

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<v Speaker 1>that you have, Miss Jaska Rich and let private talk

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<v Speaker 1>know a little.

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<v Speaker 2>Bit more about you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I love that And we always talk about like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the basic things everyone asks me.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 1>But those are important too, because that's why you are

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<v Speaker 1>who you are. And so let's see what all these

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<v Speaker 1>things are going on. So how are you today? Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for coming, thank you for.

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<v Speaker 2>Making a bazy day. Oh my power went out, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the gods have opened you. I'm glad that you've

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<v Speaker 1>made it. I'm glad that you're safe. I'm glad that

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<v Speaker 1>you're here and going to talk with us. So how

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<v Speaker 1>is it for you know, having such you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>big collection that you do, and how is like how

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<v Speaker 1>does it feel having some of the top stars like

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<v Speaker 1>wear your shoes and like ask and reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>you and do those things, Like how does that make

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<v Speaker 1>you feel?

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<v Speaker 2>It feels pretty like surreal?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually, it's like you know how sometimes you like lay

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<v Speaker 3>there as a kid and like you nine men as

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<v Speaker 3>a kid, but like just in life, you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to do this, and I want to do this.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it actually happens. You're like, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 2>did I just do that? It's like almost aha type

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<v Speaker 2>of moment. Yeah, like wow.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean like whatever you set your life in your mind,

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<v Speaker 3>you can get it done. And I just want to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to inspire anyone out there who has streams,

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<v Speaker 3>who you know, gets discouraged, who wants to maybe not

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<v Speaker 3>start a business or like they feel like they don't enough,

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<v Speaker 3>they don't have enough funds.

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<v Speaker 2>To do so just do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just start sometimes, just like don't think about it, just

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<v Speaker 1>go out and just do it. Whatever it is, break

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<v Speaker 1>by brick, however it happens.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally sure when I exactly what I recommend, just starting.

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<v Speaker 1>So you have you recently just opened a store at

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<v Speaker 1>the Bively Center. How how does that feel?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? How is that big of accomplishment?

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<v Speaker 1>Like actually not just website because everything now is just

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<v Speaker 1>like the internet based and having an actual brick and

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<v Speaker 1>mortar store like view about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you know, I actually was on Melros first. I

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<v Speaker 3>started out with a small office down here, like maybe

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<v Speaker 3>like a block away, and it was like a room

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<v Speaker 3>like this big, and I thought that was perfect for me,

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<v Speaker 3>and this is like in twenty eighteen and then that

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<v Speaker 3>we started outgrowing that room. I looked for a space

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<v Speaker 3>on Melros and there was a space I was open,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was like, oh my god, I love this place, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>can I please get the least and they told me

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<v Speaker 3>the rent and I was like, oh my god, it's

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<v Speaker 3>so expensive. That's when I first saw it, Like I

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<v Speaker 3>was like when I passed my hour, Oh what's that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, And I was so scared to take that step.

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<v Speaker 3>And my mom said, Jessica, you just have to do

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<v Speaker 3>it and just not think about it because you might

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<v Speaker 3>go buy that store later on and see another version

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<v Speaker 3>there and where she could have had it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>I took a step like that's empowering, you know, being

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<v Speaker 1>pushed like that with how you know if I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>strong woman.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like that selfs too. It is because sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>it's like you don't have.

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<v Speaker 1>That teetering like oh, let me do it, you'll just

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<v Speaker 1>still think about it and right, it hasn't done it right,

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<v Speaker 1>And if that didn't happen, then.

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<v Speaker 3>I would not hear Yeah, because I did the store

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<v Speaker 3>and I had that was open for like a two

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<v Speaker 3>years and then probably tent I reached out to me

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<v Speaker 3>and that they had some open vacancies, and I went

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<v Speaker 3>told with the vacancies they spoke about, and I gave

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<v Speaker 3>you this incredible store next to Versace and Burbery, And

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, why what that's a crazy So it's such

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<v Speaker 3>a great blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that something that you always aspired to do

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<v Speaker 1>but to be in the Beverly Center or is that

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<v Speaker 1>something that came later on with everything?

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<v Speaker 3>Is?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, how does that feel because of being you know,

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<v Speaker 1>buy those big chain store not even a chain, like

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<v Speaker 1>those big iconic stores, Like that's a big you know,

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<v Speaker 1>achievement that we're hearing any other one too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank you, thank you. Honestly, that was never my

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<v Speaker 2>goal to be proo stores.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I definitely wanted my notoriety later in life

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<v Speaker 3>about like my business and how far have come. But

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<v Speaker 3>like to put between those two, I was like, WHOA,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I really worked hard for it, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Like did that just leads to anyone? But that space,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure, you have to have lots of not just cloud.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you have to have to back up all

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<v Speaker 1>those things you do, all those many shoes, all those collections,

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<v Speaker 1>all those things, all the people.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, but I definitely wanted to try them all.

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<v Speaker 3>Excuse me, try them all because I heard that the

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<v Speaker 3>traffic was a lot better than al roads. So that's

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<v Speaker 3>definitely that we're experiencing. It's great traffic, it's great awareness.

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<v Speaker 3>It's great like your girls that come in there are

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<v Speaker 3>going into like bending and walking into my st because

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<v Speaker 3>there's just where I'm ats.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is but traffic, you know, it's walking advertisement kind

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<v Speaker 1>of yeah in a sense. And now that everything's picking

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<v Speaker 1>up because of the pandemic, you know, it's I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>that's a lot more business coming through, you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>doors and stuff like that as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're finally getting back to normal shopping slowly. We're

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<v Speaker 3>like twenty five grass.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a big step, you know, especially with all you know,

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<v Speaker 1>having to wait those things that happened during the pandemic

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<v Speaker 1>that you actually got your store.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I shut down last March and then we were

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<v Speaker 3>just operating like office work behind the scenes there, and

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<v Speaker 3>then I moved to I wasent in November, so it

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<v Speaker 3>was still like it was barely open then the mall,

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<v Speaker 3>so it was like six people at a time.

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<v Speaker 1>In the store, so, who is the one celebrity that

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<v Speaker 1>you have dressed and that's just been like the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of like fangirl moment for yourself, not for everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Else, but like for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Or it's like, oh, yes, like maybe even designed it

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<v Speaker 1>for that person, maybe had it in mind or something

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of like came into fruition.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>People always ask me this question, and I definitely can't

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<v Speaker 3>sing off any single celeb. I would say every single

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<v Speaker 3>one has definitely made an impact him in an awing moment.

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<v Speaker 3>Did I ever design anything specifically for someone?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I did design shoes for Kylie not you know,

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<v Speaker 3>in my in my mind, I'm like, okay, I see

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<v Speaker 3>her wearing always.

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<v Speaker 2>It just fit with what was going on in the closet.

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<v Speaker 3>At that time, and I'm like to hope if I

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<v Speaker 3>drop these off to wear, I'm sure enough she did.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think just watching the stars and watching what

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<v Speaker 3>they're wearing with trends are doing with their styles, are doing.

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<v Speaker 2>Just helping out. Yeah to know.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, so I have a question and I have

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<v Speaker 1>to know the answer. How many shoes do you personally

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<v Speaker 1>have in your closet?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I have less shoes in my classes

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<v Speaker 2>than I do my website.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, so you're like you just keep you give them

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<v Speaker 1>a way to everyone. You're not keeping anything for yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what's crazy is, you know my customers come first,

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<v Speaker 3>but more so I wear them a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 3>I just awsome because I design them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I can just imagine all these shoes and just

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<v Speaker 1>like having because me, I'm like, I'm a Gemini, and

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<v Speaker 1>I like, if I like something, I get like three

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<v Speaker 1>of them because I'm like, I'm gonna wear them a

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<v Speaker 1>lot and I want to have them, and because I

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<v Speaker 1>have access to them, like your stuff, I'd be like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I need three of these threes three And then I

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<v Speaker 1>guess because you do have access, it's a little easier too.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just like, I still want to horde some

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<v Speaker 1>for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I like have them all like lined up,

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<v Speaker 3>but I don't have all my styles, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm really that's.

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<v Speaker 1>A shame you need to think of, you know, self care,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like have those in a vault somewhere for

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<v Speaker 1>you and just no, I keep my.

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<v Speaker 2>Own secret SATs, my own shoes.

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<v Speaker 3>We know what it's funny is that I used to

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<v Speaker 3>wear my own shoes so much to the fact that

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I get it, I'm a designer, but I

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<v Speaker 3>do enjoy other brands.

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<v Speaker 2>Like tonight, I'm not wearing my shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>I just get to switch it up. But I think that,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like, also, you know, it's a walking average,

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<v Speaker 1>and I get that, but it's also you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>have those like good pieces that you do that you

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<v Speaker 1>just have to, like, you know, always have them on display.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true.

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<v Speaker 3>That's true then, And it's definitely like I've learned to

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<v Speaker 3>fill trap things I don't wear. So it's a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of other shoes that I don't wear as much as

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<v Speaker 3>I've been given away and like closet sailings I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>HORD or some horder like shoes from like five years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I always kind of like a guilty victim of that

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<v Speaker 1>too sometimes where it's like I've had to have the

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<v Speaker 1>push be like do you really when's the last time

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<v Speaker 1>you wore this? And I'm actually at the stage right

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<v Speaker 1>now in my closet because you know, we were the

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<v Speaker 1>pandemic for so long and then things were kind of

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<v Speaker 1>opening up and whatever, and I'm like I halfway shopped

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<v Speaker 1>and then I stop shopping and now I'm like.

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<v Speaker 2>Where do I a sell my clothes? Help me?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I feel like I have I built a whole close,

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<v Speaker 1>like I took a whole room in my apartment and

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<v Speaker 1>made into a closet.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks like a Nordstrums. And I still feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I have no clothes right close.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, how do I walk in here? And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing to luxury problem. So that's not really a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good problem to have. But yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's just time for me to shop. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>time to crazy because I did the same thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what it is, girl, It's like you worse

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<v Speaker 1>than on the Instagram and you can't wear it again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because you're photographing look with me, like with the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast every episode sometimes you know I can't really I

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<v Speaker 1>worth Yeah, I have the problem too. That's maybe that's

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<v Speaker 2>Like the same same. I'm like looking like twins. Nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>things I did. That's right, private talk, exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you're liking this episode. Make sure you subscribe,

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<v Speaker 1>comment and subscribe. We'll do all those things because it's

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<v Speaker 2>I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>So we talked about nord Strums you just signed a

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<v Speaker 2>Talks about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Like did you just I mean that these are all

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<v Speaker 1>big accomplishments that you have, Like these are obviously something

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<v Speaker 1>that you've been working for a long time and up

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<v Speaker 1>to these things. But it's amazing that it's you know,

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<v Speaker 3>No, honestly, DSF, you emailed us back in October and

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<v Speaker 2>Hey do you love you? We love to put you

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<v Speaker 2>on our website. I'm like, what, Oh my god, this

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<v Speaker 1>That's even better, Like you know, not even yeah, because

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<v Speaker 3>So we got on the phone with her and she's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Month for February. We found you on footwear news dot com,

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<v Speaker 2>Africanmerican designer and we didn't even know. We love to

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<v Speaker 3>We're online with their site and then a students open

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<v Speaker 3>the Beverly Center nor Trum's called our phone.

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<v Speaker 2>was like, get out of here, are you serious?

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<v Speaker 3>And she's like yeah. I'm like no, that's a buyer.

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<v Speaker 3>She asked to be wholesale.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, do we wholesale? Of course, we whosale.

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<v Speaker 3>So I called her back and I was freaking out

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<v Speaker 3>because like, she didn't she didn't aswer the phone like

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<v Speaker 3>the first two days, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh my god, did I lose her

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<v Speaker 2>to have the right number? Did she write it down wrong?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I should have red the phone. Yeah, oh god.

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<v Speaker 2>And I literally was like freaking out.

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<v Speaker 3>And then finally she called me back to the Sorry

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<v Speaker 3>we were in market, we were busy, Let's talk next week.

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<v Speaker 3>And then it went really fast, like when I'm talking

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<v Speaker 3>like it went from looking at our line sheets to

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<v Speaker 3>us not telling We didn't really tell them our price

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<v Speaker 3>points at first of the wholesale, but we said let's

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<v Speaker 2>Go from there.

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<v Speaker 3>And when they ordered everything, I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>this is gonna be a huge order. And it was

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<v Speaker 3>a massive order. It was so much stress for us

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<v Speaker 3>because we literally like like made our factory work over

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<v Speaker 3>time to get on time to them, and it got

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<v Speaker 3>to the States on time, but then FedEx screwed up

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<v Speaker 3>the entire area of it, like by three So three

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<v Speaker 3>weeks late to Northrums is like the worst thing you

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<v Speaker 3>could do. Was the first time, you know person. But

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<v Speaker 3>they were very leaning and very understanding and they're it's

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<v Speaker 3>all in store now, just like.

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<v Speaker 1>COVID, like everything COVID nineteen, Like that's the excuse for

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<v Speaker 1>everybody deliverate it's it's COVID.

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<v Speaker 2>COVID.

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<v Speaker 1>No, this is really this is the truth, but disclaimer

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<v Speaker 1>this if we're going to have a warning like, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they finally got everything like last week.

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<v Speaker 2>That's awesome. That's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a really big accomplishment to have part of you

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, that's really cool.

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<v Speaker 3>And I and I know that the buyers, I'm sorrying

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<v Speaker 3>that the buyer, but the stores are telling me that

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<v Speaker 3>the reactions are really good, that they needed, like they

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<v Speaker 3>all they always needed, like a midpoint of like above

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<v Speaker 3>Steve Madden, but then under like a mena movie or

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<v Speaker 3>something like that, because girls don't always want to spend

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<v Speaker 3>some of her dolls on a shoe.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and they want to be a little bit more high.

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<v Speaker 1>In then and still good quality because it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a big you know thing. I'm a shoe girl

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<v Speaker 1>on myself. So it's like I like to have I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like to spend it depending on what.

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<v Speaker 2>It is, right, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's all about for me, it's like shoes or accessories.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I love them so much. Successor as a

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<v Speaker 1>report of the like the best part of an outfit.

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<v Speaker 1>You can do it from jewelry to shoes. But so

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<v Speaker 1>it's like depends on what it is. But for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I also like the middle ground because it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>want to spend money, but I also want to wear it.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of times I don't want it to like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's why I feel like the ones I

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<v Speaker 1>spend that are really high, like I know it's gonna last,

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<v Speaker 1>right if you know, I'm not drunk and like fulling.

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<v Speaker 1>I think them somewhere, you know, something happens to my

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<v Speaker 1>dog who knows, but you know, but but yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's one of those things for me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like why I also liked I have several shoes

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<v Speaker 1>from everything from I mean high end to low end

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. It just dippends if they look hot and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, somebody come to and some of them are

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<v Speaker 1>like the most more comfortable ones where it's like that

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<v Speaker 1>middle point anyway point that cushion.

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<v Speaker 2>The cushion literally there's no cushion in high end like zero.

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<v Speaker 1>So talk about a little bit more of like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being in the industry and like coming into as being

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<v Speaker 1>the black female shoe designer coming up in this industry,

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<v Speaker 1>Like how it was this, you know, was it struggles?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it you know open doors? How you know talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it. No, it's definitely wasn't open doors.

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<v Speaker 3>It was more so like what I noticed mainly I

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<v Speaker 3>would say, is like, you know, I was this fresh

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<v Speaker 3>designer out of nowhere, like never I was doing clothing

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<v Speaker 3>at first.

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<v Speaker 2>I did have a clothing store at first online and

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<v Speaker 2>people are kind of me from that.

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<v Speaker 3>And when I transitioned over to shoes and then I

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<v Speaker 3>put all these girls and all my stuff, people were like, whoa,

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<v Speaker 3>what'd she like? How did she come up with this idea?

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<v Speaker 3>And then then everyone's copying me. And then next I

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<v Speaker 3>set this trend of like this PBC trend. I did

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<v Speaker 3>PBC shoes, like the whole line was called transparent. It

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<v Speaker 3>was called transparent because I didn't think right. I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>want to like compete with a lane that I knew

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<v Speaker 3>I wasn't even involved in more than a couple of months. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want to think of designs. I just figured

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<v Speaker 3>everything clear, it'd be easiest.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes basic is like oh you need right, and people

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<v Speaker 2>forget about that. Yeah, that's kind of where my niche was.

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<v Speaker 3>So then I became the popular PBC designer and then

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<v Speaker 3>from that I started doing more designs with different fabrics

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<v Speaker 3>and things like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But took that took me two years to get there

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<v Speaker 2>because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, there's levels, you know, but we were good

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<v Speaker 1>at what she did. You know, when you sing in

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<v Speaker 1>everybody liked it, you know, they grew into something. And

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it just takes that signature look and that signature

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<v Speaker 1>thing to like rocket and then again like your name

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<v Speaker 1>speaks for itself because it's then that goes with like

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<v Speaker 1>your style, Like you said, you're on with trends, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's doing these things where it's like if you would

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<v Speaker 1>wear it, your girlfriends would wear it. You kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like you know who's gonna buy you know who's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be your buyer.

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<v Speaker 2>That's very true. That's kinda happened.

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<v Speaker 3>So then then like me find them find out it

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<v Speaker 3>was black or whatever African American, it was like a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit harder, Like I noticed that, like I'd have

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<v Speaker 3>a big celeb or my stuff, but I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 3>covered on like press certain places. But then, so did

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<v Speaker 3>you find your yourself kind of like hiding a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit more behind because you didn't want to attach that

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<v Speaker 3>to or did you because like people knew like obviously

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<v Speaker 3>it's my Like on my personal page, I promote obviously

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<v Speaker 3>it's my collection, but on my brand page, I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>really ever put that I was African American because I

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<v Speaker 3>felt like, oh, yeah, she's cool, but she's African American.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not gonna ever be high end. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>people think about me, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel how you could feel that way, but

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's a shameful way. But I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's society in a sense. It's makes you like

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<v Speaker 1>with but it's like you are high end. You know

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<v Speaker 1>you're high end from the beginning. It's just like when

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<v Speaker 1>they tell you to hold onto something and they think

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<v Speaker 1>that nobody has its worth, but you know what you're

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<v Speaker 1>worth is at the end of the day, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>what makes it shine even brighter at the end.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's kind of like why your.

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<v Speaker 1>Blessings come into fruition and everything is coming that's good

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<v Speaker 1>to you right now. It's for you sticking it out

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<v Speaker 1>and being you know, knowing that you had a good product,

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<v Speaker 1>and even just your mindset and your attitude about it

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<v Speaker 1>is really you know, humbling and very cool to see

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<v Speaker 1>someone come up through all those things and still come

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<v Speaker 1>out really successful.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Yeah, it was. It was difficult, but now

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<v Speaker 2>we're like we are African American. I'm here, I'm staying.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here for sure. You should you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's like you should stand up, you should

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<v Speaker 1>have your face, you should have you know, your market

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<v Speaker 1>if that's who you are and what your brand stands for.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it seems like to me is who you are,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and it's a part of stems from that,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's you know, you're after American and that's a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, thank you. So you said that before about

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<v Speaker 2>the major brands like copying all your things. How what

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<v Speaker 1>Is that like, you know, it's it's it's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things that it's like imitation is flattering, but it's not,

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<v Speaker 2>Used to hurt me a lot. Yeah my god, Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god. I remember I cry. I would be like,

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<v Speaker 2>no way, I literally just put this out. You know.

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<v Speaker 3>What's kind of funny is like I designed things that

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<v Speaker 3>be hot, but then once I put it out in

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<v Speaker 3>the world use it, I'm like, dang it, why I

428
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<v Speaker 3>just give them the past.

429
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<v Speaker 1>It's also but you're also benefiting it as well. So

430
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<v Speaker 1>you know, how do you distinguish what you don't give up?

431
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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm sure there's certain things that it's like when

432
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<v Speaker 1>those moments come, like how is that struggle?

433
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<v Speaker 2>How does that? You know? I had to let it go.

434
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<v Speaker 2>Like one of my good friends is called He's been

435
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<v Speaker 2>a legend and I love him.

436
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<v Speaker 3>He was one of our first episodes. Yeah, I remember,

437
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<v Speaker 3>I'll never forget, he told me. Jessica's like, Jessica, you

438
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<v Speaker 3>have to just keep going. Don't you think about when

439
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<v Speaker 3>someone cop is you, You're onto the next knowing you

440
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<v Speaker 3>did it first, Like you have the energy you spend

441
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<v Speaker 3>on that you can be taken from your creative and like,

442
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<v Speaker 3>you know what, you're right and I'm gonna happen now.

443
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<v Speaker 2>It's like I don't care. That's good.

444
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<v Speaker 1>You know you have to like not dwell on the negative,

445
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<v Speaker 1>and that's that. It's a negative. But it's again, but

446
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<v Speaker 1>it's like imitation flirt. You know, it's flattering, but like

447
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<v Speaker 1>you said, you did it first, you get it. You're

448
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<v Speaker 1>onto the next one, bite, your next, next movie.

449
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<v Speaker 2>What's going on? Right? So what do you think is

450
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<v Speaker 2>the best advice you've ever been given.

451
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<v Speaker 3>My mom always tells me she's the best advice always.

452
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<v Speaker 3>My mom always tells sorry, tells me that just go

453
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<v Speaker 3>for it, like, don't think about it, your gut in sync,

454
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<v Speaker 3>because it's gonnably twice your you a different way. But

455
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<v Speaker 3>whatever your initial thought was, like should I wear the

456
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<v Speaker 3>white top tier of the black if it was white?

457
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<v Speaker 3>First word the white, there's a reason why, you know,

458
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<v Speaker 3>So you always go with your first choice always. That's

459
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<v Speaker 3>important to have because I struggle with that myself. I

460
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<v Speaker 3>feel like it's one of those things where it's like

461
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<v Speaker 3>it's like you know your own intuition, but it's like

462
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<v Speaker 3>when you start to second guess it, and it's the

463
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<v Speaker 3>more you start to dwell on something, then you second

464
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<v Speaker 3>get your intuition and.

465
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<v Speaker 1>Then it's like which is it? And so that's that

466
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<v Speaker 1>that gray area. So if you were just listened to

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<v Speaker 1>your first thing working on.

468
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<v Speaker 2>That, yeah, but yeah, but it better, you know.

469
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<v Speaker 1>But it's it's I's practicing, you know what I mean.

470
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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's something that may not come easy all

471
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<v Speaker 1>the time, but you know, you still think about it.

472
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<v Speaker 2>You still think about what if I didn't do it? Then, Yeah,

473
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<v Speaker 2>I know, I'll just make sure that's good advice. Mom.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that your mom's invested. And whenever I don't

475
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<v Speaker 3>listen to my mom's advice, it's never good. Ever, she said,

476
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<v Speaker 3>when you come become a parent, you know, I'm like, wow,

477
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<v Speaker 3>it's insane.

478
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<v Speaker 2>It's pretty insane.

479
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<v Speaker 1>So tell me something that everybody talks about and hypes

480
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<v Speaker 1>up about, but you think is overrated.

481
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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, so many things, my god, Bitcoin and

482
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<v Speaker 3>all this stuff like kryptoquarancines, like, nothing is overrated for

483
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<v Speaker 3>Jesus Christ. I gave money to Sorry and invested money

484
00:16:51.759 --> 00:16:54.840
<v Speaker 3>to dogecoin. I put four thousand dollars. It's so much

485
00:16:54.879 --> 00:16:55.519
<v Speaker 3>money for me to do with.

486
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<v Speaker 2>I hate gambling unless it's not if it's not mine,

487
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<v Speaker 2>if my money, I hate it. But I it's one

488
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<v Speaker 2>some money, I can roll it, Yeah, roll it, give

489
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<v Speaker 2>me ten that's good. But my own money. I'm like,

490
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<v Speaker 2>oh my god.

491
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<v Speaker 3>So I put four thousand and I left all of it,

492
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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, my friend had just won the day

493
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<v Speaker 3>I put it in and I lose. So it's like

494
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<v Speaker 3>I hate gambling, and I feel like, just stick with

495
00:17:12.559 --> 00:17:14.079
<v Speaker 3>how you make money, don't try to gamble.

496
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<v Speaker 2>So what was the hype and what made you be like, oh,

497
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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do the four yeah.

498
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<v Speaker 1>Oh, because like I think, like I don't know, So

499
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<v Speaker 1>tell us about so you you went in at what point?

500
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<v Speaker 1>And did you like kind of like how you because

501
00:17:25.400 --> 00:17:27.319
<v Speaker 1>there's some people that are still doing well on it.

502
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<v Speaker 2>It's the thing.

503
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<v Speaker 3>So I went in I think it was like at

504
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<v Speaker 3>sixty sixty cents or something like that, and then I

505
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<v Speaker 3>pulled out when it was like forty. I don't know,

506
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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how this is how it works. My

507
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<v Speaker 3>friend was running it for me, but he left all

508
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<v Speaker 3>his money and he now he like thirty thousand dollars

509
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<v Speaker 3>he made. And if I had to, like because it's

510
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<v Speaker 3>one of those things you gotta like leave it in.

511
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<v Speaker 2>And I can't every day, I'm like, what does you say?

512
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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, You're like for me too, I'm not a gambler.

513
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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I worked hard for this day and I'm

514
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<v Speaker 1>not about to give it up. And if i am,

515
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<v Speaker 1>I'm a look at it right here and like so

516
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<v Speaker 1>I'm like checking numbers, like I'm a numbers person too,

517
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<v Speaker 1>So I'm like, so I'm very like, yeah, I never

518
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<v Speaker 1>got into it, but I wanted to there was times

519
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<v Speaker 1>and I was like I can't I don't even know

520
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<v Speaker 1>how to get into it or like whatever. And then

521
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<v Speaker 1>I was just like I don't know enough about it,

522
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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know, like I'm not a trader anyways.

523
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<v Speaker 1>I just started, you know, investing into like in the

524
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<v Speaker 1>market and things like that too, and a smaller scale

525
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<v Speaker 1>and learning like a little bits like that. But as

526
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<v Speaker 1>far as that, I was like, right, I'm going to

527
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<v Speaker 1>keep my coins over here. But there's people that like

528
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<v Speaker 1>did really well, so it's like, you know, yeah, but I.

529
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<v Speaker 3>Definitely am like I'm very smart with my money. I'm

530
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<v Speaker 3>very like I'm tired, I can be trying.

531
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<v Speaker 1>Me to be like that, Like that's not a bad thing, though,

532
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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, you know, you spend it well, you know, worry.

533
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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure that you want to you know, that's you

534
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<v Speaker 1>know what it is, but you work hard for it,

535
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<v Speaker 1>so it's like why just throw it away? But somebody

536
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<v Speaker 1>else is sure exactly if you want to throw yours

537
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<v Speaker 1>away and mine for like, wait till mine at the end.

538
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<v Speaker 1>So what is one of your social media weaknesses?

539
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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god? Are you a troller? Are you going

540
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<v Speaker 2>to like memes?

541
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<v Speaker 1>Are you like stalking people's pages, which one Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok.

542
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<v Speaker 3>On Instagram all day long, but more so like because

543
00:19:01.200 --> 00:19:04.359
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to wreck my followers more like when they

544
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<v Speaker 3>write me comments and dms and stuff like that.

545
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<v Speaker 2>But for the most part, I think, so it's all

546
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<v Speaker 2>work related.

547
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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's usually work related me just knowing what's going

548
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<v Speaker 3>on in the world. But for me, like taking personal

549
00:19:13.880 --> 00:19:16.160
<v Speaker 3>photos is so difficult. People think I'm a model and

550
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<v Speaker 3>I'm that model.

551
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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like, why because you don't think about it

552
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<v Speaker 1>or you think that you like don't look and you're

553
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<v Speaker 1>good in your picture, Like why is it hard for

554
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<v Speaker 1>you to take a like Instagram?

555
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<v Speaker 2>Like people think that that's its easiest thing.

556
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<v Speaker 3>Like so I get paid for brand deals every month

557
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<v Speaker 3>and like being on time the exact day, the exact tag,

558
00:19:32.519 --> 00:19:34.480
<v Speaker 3>but cash if you miss a day, if you're it's like,

559
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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, I got like some food Yesterdad.

560
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<v Speaker 2>Make sure put four story posts within.

561
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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, what about I can't eat that day if

562
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<v Speaker 3>I forget what we hear yo, And I'm like, oh

563
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<v Speaker 3>my god, this just too long.

564
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<v Speaker 2>I think I saw that post. Yeah, it's really good

565
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<v Speaker 2>food too, but I'm like, but it's just the fact

566
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<v Speaker 2>that like having to do everything with that when you're

567
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<v Speaker 2>so busy already, so it's like you really have to

568
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<v Speaker 2>like pencil it in, which is like and then you

569
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<v Speaker 2>like forget because you're already hungry. And then you're like,

570
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<v Speaker 2>damn it, I forgot. It was so key already doing

571
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<v Speaker 2>that a lot of life.

572
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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I was the same, and like my

573
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<v Speaker 1>brain thinks, like sometimes it's like in certain other things.

574
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<v Speaker 1>But if you shift gears because they do like thousands

575
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<v Speaker 1>of different dogs by your head, right, you forget that

576
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<v Speaker 1>one back there that you're like, damn sing it.

577
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't be mad at me. I know.

578
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<v Speaker 3>So these girls I have like millions of followers, and

579
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<v Speaker 3>they like health junkies and they do all these things

580
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<v Speaker 3>and make up at ten am, and I'm like, if

581
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<v Speaker 3>three cameras to their house with lighting and editors.

582
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<v Speaker 2>Are like, I don't know how up? I cannot How

583
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<v Speaker 2>do you afford to do all that? Yeah? Because that's expensive?

584
00:20:31.720 --> 00:20:36.680
<v Speaker 2>That adds. Yes, I'm just stick to designing. So what

585
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<v Speaker 2>advice would you give your younger self if you could?

586
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<v Speaker 1>This mom gives you a lot of good advice. I'm

587
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<v Speaker 1>sure you have good advice inside of you too? What

588
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<v Speaker 1>would you give your younger self?

589
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<v Speaker 3>You know what's funny is like I'm not saying that

590
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<v Speaker 3>I'm like I'm perfect or anything, but that's the way

591
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<v Speaker 3>I used to live my life, and I still live

592
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<v Speaker 3>my life where I don't have things to tell myself

593
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<v Speaker 3>that makes sense, okay, Like I never I never live

594
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<v Speaker 3>in regret like.

595
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<v Speaker 2>Any you have everyone to do. I did it.

596
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<v Speaker 3>Like if I had ten dollars for my name and

597
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<v Speaker 3>my rent was you tomorrow, I spend the ten dollars

598
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<v Speaker 3>on and I care.

599
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<v Speaker 2>You know, I just reckless. I am just like reckless

600
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<v Speaker 2>way you know what I'm saying. But it always works out.

601
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<v Speaker 2>It always works out. God always has me. But have

602
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<v Speaker 2>you always been like that? Always been like that since

603
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<v Speaker 2>your Yeah? So you would you would tell her just

604
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<v Speaker 2>keep doing the same thing, baby, Yeah, the same thing.

605
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<v Speaker 3>And I would say, maybe try to live a little

606
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<v Speaker 3>bit more like in the moment, because if you're ever

607
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<v Speaker 3>around me, I'm on two phones at a time, but

608
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<v Speaker 3>that's the thing.

609
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<v Speaker 2>I work from my phone.

610
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<v Speaker 3>So I'm very blessed to get to this point in

611
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<v Speaker 3>my life where I could be anywhere at any time

612
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<v Speaker 3>and work and I don't.

613
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<v Speaker 2>Have to anywhere. Yeah, so people have to respect that,

614
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<v Speaker 2>and people just oh my god.

615
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<v Speaker 1>It's a guilt thing sometimes and sometimes it's like for me,

616
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<v Speaker 1>it's like you have to you do have to micromanage

617
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<v Speaker 1>it to a point, right. But then it's because it's

618
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<v Speaker 1>like okay, maybe at seven or eight o'clock, pick a

619
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<v Speaker 1>time where it's like, okay, maybe I should put it down.

620
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<v Speaker 1>It's like I'm the same way, like I work on

621
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<v Speaker 1>my phone. Everything I do for the podcast is on

622
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<v Speaker 1>my phone. But it's like sometimes they're like, what are

623
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<v Speaker 1>you doing. I'm really working.

624
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<v Speaker 2>I'm not on it. You know.

625
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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it isn't Instagram thing, but you're working, you're posting

626
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<v Speaker 1>things or doing whatever.

627
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<v Speaker 2>And sometimes it's not. You know, it just depends on

628
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<v Speaker 2>what is. So it's for me, I'm like, okay, at

629
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<v Speaker 2>this point when we're either eating or doing whatever, I'm

630
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<v Speaker 2>gonna put it done right. But other time you are

631
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<v Speaker 2>just that's hard. You're here to deal with it. But again,

632
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<v Speaker 2>it's a work in progress because it's so hard not

633
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<v Speaker 2>to not make money.

634
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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're missing out on something or it's

635
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<v Speaker 1>like that fomo of like where's the next this or whatever?

636
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<v Speaker 1>Or if I don't do this, Like you said, you

637
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<v Speaker 1>have all these checklists that you need to do that

638
00:22:28.440 --> 00:22:30.279
<v Speaker 1>you're like, fuck, what if I do? But then it's

639
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<v Speaker 1>also sometimes it's like, okay, like really my machine to

640
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<v Speaker 1>work properly, I really need.

641
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<v Speaker 2>To shut down, you know what I mean. And that's

642
00:22:37.200 --> 00:22:39.359
<v Speaker 2>for me. With the pandemic, I feel like taught me

643
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<v Speaker 2>a little bit more. I'm still on edge of a

644
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<v Speaker 2>little sometimes.

645
00:22:42.039 --> 00:22:43.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like I was talking earlier, I was like, last

646
00:22:44.000 --> 00:22:45.880
<v Speaker 1>week wasn't the busiest for me, but I had like

647
00:22:45.920 --> 00:22:47.640
<v Speaker 1>the next two weeks were crazy, and I was like,

648
00:22:47.720 --> 00:22:49.720
<v Speaker 1>I found myself on the couch and I was like, man,

649
00:22:49.720 --> 00:22:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm lazy.

650
00:22:50.200 --> 00:22:50.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm this.

651
00:22:50.480 --> 00:22:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, but I have so many things going on.

652
00:22:51.759 --> 00:22:53.359
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, you know what, fuck it. I'm just

653
00:22:53.440 --> 00:22:55.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna sit here and do nothing because I deserve it.

654
00:22:56.359 --> 00:22:58.960
<v Speaker 2>I know. I've been on this road for like ten

655
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<v Speaker 2>years of my life.

656
00:23:00.319 --> 00:23:02.359
<v Speaker 1>The last year because of the pandemic was so the

657
00:23:02.400 --> 00:23:03.880
<v Speaker 1>first time that I've actually stayed home.

658
00:23:03.799 --> 00:23:06.599
<v Speaker 2>The longest in my life that I was like, who

659
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<v Speaker 2>am I as a person? I'm like, I don't even

660
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<v Speaker 2>know how to function in my home. I didn't remember

661
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<v Speaker 2>like I was.

662
00:23:11.000 --> 00:23:13.880
<v Speaker 1>They're probably fifty percent of the time, and so I

663
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<v Speaker 1>had to learn how to be love a real persona

664
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<v Speaker 1>and learn how to do real relationships and not.

665
00:23:19.000 --> 00:23:20.359
<v Speaker 2>Be like I'm out like you know.

666
00:23:20.640 --> 00:23:22.920
<v Speaker 1>So it's it's a lot of personal growth, which is

667
00:23:23.000 --> 00:23:26.440
<v Speaker 1>always amazing, especially this stage of my life, but definitely

668
00:23:26.640 --> 00:23:29.039
<v Speaker 1>challenging of whatever. But those also things of like what

669
00:23:29.200 --> 00:23:31.559
<v Speaker 1>you put into yourself where it's like, oh, maybe I

670
00:23:31.599 --> 00:23:33.599
<v Speaker 1>should have taken a bath or just turned it off

671
00:23:33.720 --> 00:23:35.720
<v Speaker 1>or watched a whole fucking Netflix series.

672
00:23:35.960 --> 00:23:36.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

673
00:23:36.400 --> 00:23:40.359
<v Speaker 1>Fuck, I watched so many Netflix series. I've been netflixed out,

674
00:23:40.440 --> 00:23:41.000
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean.

675
00:23:41.079 --> 00:23:43.160
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, did you ever catch COVID? I did not,

676
00:23:43.440 --> 00:23:46.279
<v Speaker 2>while you're lucky not you caught COVID back in July? Yeah,

677
00:23:46.440 --> 00:23:47.519
<v Speaker 2>how was that for you? Was it?

678
00:23:47.720 --> 00:23:49.640
<v Speaker 1>It was a mile though, Yeah, So it wasn't something

679
00:23:49.680 --> 00:23:51.480
<v Speaker 1>that took you out completely. You just kind of like

680
00:23:51.599 --> 00:23:52.599
<v Speaker 1>a normal.

681
00:23:52.400 --> 00:23:55.640
<v Speaker 3>Cold or something mild, thank god, like anything. But yeah,

682
00:23:55.680 --> 00:23:57.160
<v Speaker 3>I lost my piece of smell, but I got back

683
00:23:57.200 --> 00:23:59.920
<v Speaker 3>within four days. I know how I got in. My

684
00:24:00.039 --> 00:24:01.759
<v Speaker 3>friend came to my house lively, and I had seen

685
00:24:01.839 --> 00:24:04.559
<v Speaker 3>no one the entire COVID, not one person. My friend

686
00:24:04.599 --> 00:24:06.240
<v Speaker 3>came over and dropped off a bottle of wine for me.

687
00:24:06.400 --> 00:24:08.119
<v Speaker 3>And that's when things are trying to kind of open

688
00:24:08.200 --> 00:24:10.319
<v Speaker 3>up maybe, like you know, end of July for like

689
00:24:10.359 --> 00:24:12.839
<v Speaker 3>a week, and he was there for five minutes. When

690
00:24:12.880 --> 00:24:15.000
<v Speaker 3>he was there, he was like, ess, it's really hot

691
00:24:15.039 --> 00:24:16.880
<v Speaker 3>in here. I'm like really, but but my place is

692
00:24:16.880 --> 00:24:19.279
<v Speaker 3>always hot. I'm black, everything's always you know. So I

693
00:24:19.359 --> 00:24:20.279
<v Speaker 3>was like, okay, I'll turn the air on.

694
00:24:20.400 --> 00:24:20.880
<v Speaker 2>Turn the air on.

695
00:24:21.039 --> 00:24:23.640
<v Speaker 3>He left next day, He's like, just I'm so sick. Yeah,

696
00:24:23.680 --> 00:24:25.759
<v Speaker 3>my god, feel so shitty. I'm really bad temperature.

697
00:24:25.759 --> 00:24:30.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you're like yeah. He's like, I get tested.

698
00:24:30.920 --> 00:24:31.920
<v Speaker 2>And then I was like I'm fine.

699
00:24:32.079 --> 00:24:35.200
<v Speaker 3>Four days later, then I started feeling like cold, it

700
00:24:35.319 --> 00:24:38.160
<v Speaker 3>kind of like achy sweats, Like I'm oh, it's just

701
00:24:38.200 --> 00:24:39.680
<v Speaker 3>a cold, and then boom got cold.

702
00:24:39.720 --> 00:24:42.920
<v Speaker 2>Do you have anything like lingering effects afterwards? No?

703
00:24:43.279 --> 00:24:45.000
<v Speaker 3>I mean know, my mind smells a little off for

704
00:24:45.039 --> 00:24:47.079
<v Speaker 3>about month. I'd say it was like not as strong.

705
00:24:47.400 --> 00:24:49.279
<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's still as strong as it was

706
00:24:49.519 --> 00:24:52.519
<v Speaker 3>because I live. That's like everyone, it's been different, like

707
00:24:52.599 --> 00:24:54.519
<v Speaker 3>I know for me and like I don't know, I

708
00:24:54.559 --> 00:24:54.799
<v Speaker 3>don't know.

709
00:24:54.920 --> 00:24:56.480
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I've gotten it one time in my life and

710
00:24:56.519 --> 00:24:58.759
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know about it or like whatever. But I

711
00:24:58.880 --> 00:24:59.680
<v Speaker 2>mean I'm pretty healthy.

712
00:24:59.720 --> 00:25:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I you know, I'm on a like I do he

713
00:25:02.160 --> 00:25:05.319
<v Speaker 1>like blacks and sea moss like every day, like like

714
00:25:05.480 --> 00:25:08.720
<v Speaker 1>on a red like for the last six months or so.

715
00:25:09.279 --> 00:25:11.000
<v Speaker 1>But even before then, I was still doing something like

716
00:25:11.039 --> 00:25:12.519
<v Speaker 1>ginger like all this stuff whatever. So I don't know

717
00:25:12.519 --> 00:25:14.039
<v Speaker 1>if it's just because of that or like I've gotten

718
00:25:14.160 --> 00:25:16.119
<v Speaker 1>before in January, who knows, I don't know, but I've

719
00:25:16.160 --> 00:25:18.200
<v Speaker 1>been luckily not to so.

720
00:25:18.559 --> 00:25:19.400
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, but I feel like.

721
00:25:19.440 --> 00:25:21.240
<v Speaker 1>At this point in our in my life, like I

722
00:25:21.319 --> 00:25:25.759
<v Speaker 1>will get it eventually sometimes, you know, but exactly I

723
00:25:26.759 --> 00:25:28.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm not running in line to go and jump and

724
00:25:28.839 --> 00:25:31.160
<v Speaker 1>go and do it. But if I have to be

725
00:25:31.279 --> 00:25:35.079
<v Speaker 1>forced to for travel purposes or whatever, then I will

726
00:25:35.119 --> 00:25:36.400
<v Speaker 1>cross that bridge when it comes to it.

727
00:25:36.559 --> 00:25:37.160
<v Speaker 2>But I'm not.

728
00:25:38.440 --> 00:25:39.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm just like we said that I've been you know,

729
00:25:39.880 --> 00:25:42.079
<v Speaker 1>I've I've traveled a little bit, you know, not crazy

730
00:25:42.160 --> 00:25:44.720
<v Speaker 1>like I normally would, but I have gone places and

731
00:25:44.799 --> 00:25:46.519
<v Speaker 1>I haven't gotten it. And like I said, it for

732
00:25:46.599 --> 00:25:49.119
<v Speaker 1>what I do, it's working for me. I'm so cautious.

733
00:25:49.119 --> 00:25:50.960
<v Speaker 1>Like you know, I've always been like not a germophobe.

734
00:25:50.960 --> 00:25:52.640
<v Speaker 1>But even when I traveled before, because I traveled on

735
00:25:52.720 --> 00:25:56.400
<v Speaker 1>that plane every single week. I cleaned everything I watched.

736
00:25:56.440 --> 00:25:57.759
<v Speaker 1>I was mindful of what I did, you know what

737
00:25:57.799 --> 00:25:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, just was things. I definitely wash my hands

738
00:26:00.160 --> 00:26:02.440
<v Speaker 1>way more than I've ever in my life, which is

739
00:26:02.480 --> 00:26:03.960
<v Speaker 1>crazy because it's like it kind of puts you back

740
00:26:04.000 --> 00:26:06.200
<v Speaker 1>in the basics of things that you were like personal space,

741
00:26:06.440 --> 00:26:09.480
<v Speaker 1>doing these things or whatever that You're like, oh, this

742
00:26:09.680 --> 00:26:11.680
<v Speaker 1>is what like normal life should be and not just

743
00:26:11.839 --> 00:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>like greed and like everything being you know, So you know,

744
00:26:15.000 --> 00:26:17.640
<v Speaker 1>both stressed about certain things, but you live and you learn.

745
00:26:17.759 --> 00:26:17.880
<v Speaker 2>You know.

746
00:26:18.000 --> 00:26:20.079
<v Speaker 1>It's definitely I'm glad that things are starting to open up.

747
00:26:20.119 --> 00:26:21.400
<v Speaker 1>But it's also one of those things too. It's like

748
00:26:21.880 --> 00:26:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to You're like I I'm like, do

749
00:26:25.079 --> 00:26:25.960
<v Speaker 1>I really want to?

750
00:26:26.640 --> 00:26:27.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to open up?

751
00:26:27.799 --> 00:26:30.440
<v Speaker 1>And I'm a homebody and now I love you know

752
00:26:30.480 --> 00:26:32.240
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. So like I've made my home my

753
00:26:32.400 --> 00:26:35.079
<v Speaker 1>sanctuary of things, so it's like why leave or whatever?

754
00:26:35.200 --> 00:26:37.759
<v Speaker 1>Like I like spending time with myself, Like I'm pretty fun.

755
00:26:38.240 --> 00:26:43.119
<v Speaker 2>I know, I feel like myself. You can FaceTime people exactly.

756
00:26:46.519 --> 00:26:48.279
<v Speaker 2>There's a lot I found a lot of things you

757
00:26:48.359 --> 00:26:51.440
<v Speaker 2>can do when you're at home. You didn't code. You

758
00:26:51.480 --> 00:26:54.039
<v Speaker 2>don't have to even spend as much money as you

759
00:26:54.119 --> 00:26:54.440
<v Speaker 2>want to.

760
00:26:55.000 --> 00:26:58.119
<v Speaker 1>But I still, you know, adulge, indulge whatever. But you

761
00:26:58.200 --> 00:27:01.200
<v Speaker 1>know those yeah, those I have date nights. It's funny

762
00:27:01.240 --> 00:27:03.480
<v Speaker 1>because now I'm like, on Friday, I'm like nine o'clock

763
00:27:03.519 --> 00:27:04.200
<v Speaker 1>in bed doing something.

764
00:27:04.240 --> 00:27:06.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, man, my life's so different. I used to

765
00:27:06.200 --> 00:27:09.079
<v Speaker 2>be like going to work at nine pm and like

766
00:27:09.160 --> 00:27:12.440
<v Speaker 2>being in a club hosting doing things. I'm like, I'm

767
00:27:12.440 --> 00:27:14.960
<v Speaker 2>gonna go to sleep. I have no regrets, no regrets.

768
00:27:15.000 --> 00:27:16.359
<v Speaker 2>You know, I had a lot of fun doing everything.

769
00:27:16.400 --> 00:27:19.480
<v Speaker 2>But it's yeah, it's it's evolution and where you are

770
00:27:19.559 --> 00:27:21.400
<v Speaker 2>and what you got in life. That's really good.

771
00:27:21.440 --> 00:27:23.000
<v Speaker 1>Though we have all learned to like be home, so

772
00:27:23.119 --> 00:27:24.880
<v Speaker 1>with all those things sometimes, you know, even with a

773
00:27:24.960 --> 00:27:25.880
<v Speaker 1>pandemic going down and.

774
00:27:26.000 --> 00:27:28.720
<v Speaker 2>Being slowing things down, but you're still like, you know,

775
00:27:28.960 --> 00:27:29.519
<v Speaker 2>a designer.

776
00:27:29.640 --> 00:27:31.119
<v Speaker 1>So for you, I'm sure I also give you more

777
00:27:31.119 --> 00:27:33.559
<v Speaker 1>time to design things or even get like business wise,

778
00:27:33.880 --> 00:27:35.759
<v Speaker 1>what are your go to strategies to kind of keep

779
00:27:35.799 --> 00:27:37.680
<v Speaker 1>you focused on like the road to like success and

780
00:27:37.759 --> 00:27:41.960
<v Speaker 1>getting your goals done and achieved. My go to strategies,

781
00:27:42.279 --> 00:27:45.400
<v Speaker 1>I would say, just, uh, you know what's funny is

782
00:27:45.440 --> 00:27:47.400
<v Speaker 1>I learned I was putting out so many styles. I

783
00:27:47.519 --> 00:27:49.359
<v Speaker 1>put out so many styles because I was kind of

784
00:27:49.400 --> 00:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>like on a mission to just like make sure that

785
00:27:51.079 --> 00:27:52.839
<v Speaker 1>I put them out first before anyone else because I

786
00:27:52.839 --> 00:27:56.200
<v Speaker 1>could see trends really come. I feel like a person

787
00:27:56.240 --> 00:27:58.079
<v Speaker 1>who works like every hour of the day, Like I

788
00:27:58.119 --> 00:27:59.880
<v Speaker 1>could see you just working aimlessly trying to get you

789
00:28:00.160 --> 00:28:01.960
<v Speaker 1>out there because you wanted to like prove a point

790
00:28:02.000 --> 00:28:02.960
<v Speaker 1>to people that you need.

791
00:28:03.039 --> 00:28:04.920
<v Speaker 3>That's how it was the first years. Now this is

792
00:28:05.000 --> 00:28:07.920
<v Speaker 3>like last year, like since COVID to now now I've

793
00:28:07.960 --> 00:28:10.000
<v Speaker 3>had so many styles. Now I'm being very particular about

794
00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:11.799
<v Speaker 3>what I put out, Okay, when I put it out,

795
00:28:11.920 --> 00:28:14.480
<v Speaker 3>and now like this year, i'ven't put out any shoes November.

796
00:28:14.839 --> 00:28:16.000
<v Speaker 2>So now I feel happy about it.

797
00:28:16.119 --> 00:28:18.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but if you were, but it's like it's a

798
00:28:18.480 --> 00:28:20.200
<v Speaker 1>stress you know what I mean, where it's like you've

799
00:28:20.319 --> 00:28:21.880
<v Speaker 1>done those things where it's like now it's like why

800
00:28:21.920 --> 00:28:24.200
<v Speaker 1>shouldn't you make it a like people are.

801
00:28:24.119 --> 00:28:25.079
<v Speaker 2>Waiting for the next job.

802
00:28:25.160 --> 00:28:26.440
<v Speaker 3>Like now that's what I kind of miss Like I

803
00:28:26.720 --> 00:28:28.480
<v Speaker 3>kind of missed the customer being waiting for it because

804
00:28:28.519 --> 00:28:30.240
<v Speaker 3>I used to put it out once a month and

805
00:28:30.319 --> 00:28:31.480
<v Speaker 3>so it's a new look of them.

806
00:28:31.480 --> 00:28:34.799
<v Speaker 2>Rashing those shoes and be like where the Jessica can't

807
00:28:34.839 --> 00:28:37.160
<v Speaker 2>be their like shoes? Yeah, like some growing DM. It's

808
00:28:37.160 --> 00:28:39.119
<v Speaker 2>like just it isn't about time for I'm like, oh

809
00:28:39.240 --> 00:28:41.400
<v Speaker 2>yeah like tap tap miss Jessica.

810
00:28:41.799 --> 00:28:45.279
<v Speaker 3>But yeah yeah, so no, I think just doing them now.

811
00:28:45.319 --> 00:28:46.880
<v Speaker 3>It's just kind of more about my personal life, like

812
00:28:46.920 --> 00:28:50.039
<v Speaker 3>I'm getting older, I'm single, I'm you know, I need

813
00:28:50.079 --> 00:28:52.680
<v Speaker 3>a boyfriend. It's so hard to say dating life.

814
00:28:52.720 --> 00:28:54.839
<v Speaker 2>What what's all that about? Day life is disaster?

815
00:28:55.119 --> 00:28:57.440
<v Speaker 3>So you're not on any like sites, you're not anything

816
00:28:57.640 --> 00:28:59.279
<v Speaker 3>going on. The guy I'm dating right now actually met

817
00:28:59.359 --> 00:29:01.079
<v Speaker 3>him on his side people, But you are dating. I

818
00:29:01.119 --> 00:29:01.880
<v Speaker 3>mean I'm dating someone.

819
00:29:02.319 --> 00:29:05.319
<v Speaker 1>It's very fresh, like five dates and six so what

820
00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:09.079
<v Speaker 1>does that mean, Like it's like five or six dates

821
00:29:09.160 --> 00:29:11.480
<v Speaker 1>in and what kind of span like a week, two weeks,

822
00:29:11.519 --> 00:29:11.920
<v Speaker 1>a month?

823
00:29:12.240 --> 00:29:14.839
<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's going okay, like steady right now? Okay, Yeah,

824
00:29:15.079 --> 00:29:18.720
<v Speaker 2>you're not exclusive though private talk listeners out there. You

825
00:29:18.759 --> 00:29:19.400
<v Speaker 2>still have a chance.

826
00:29:19.480 --> 00:29:20.680
<v Speaker 1>So if you want to go and like you know,

827
00:29:20.799 --> 00:29:23.119
<v Speaker 1>splid in her DM, you know, maybe you have a chance,

828
00:29:23.200 --> 00:29:24.759
<v Speaker 1>but you have to have a great resume. I might

829
00:29:24.839 --> 00:29:27.920
<v Speaker 1>have to be like yeah, the gatekeeper of those things

830
00:29:28.039 --> 00:29:28.839
<v Speaker 1>because I cut.

831
00:29:28.720 --> 00:29:31.160
<v Speaker 2>My I love you know what it is. It's like

832
00:29:31.359 --> 00:29:34.599
<v Speaker 2>I am very picky and I have to be obviously.

833
00:29:34.279 --> 00:29:36.920
<v Speaker 1>Because there's nothing wrong with that. I don't don't say

834
00:29:36.920 --> 00:29:39.559
<v Speaker 1>that as a bad thing. Girl, speak it out loud.

835
00:29:39.680 --> 00:29:41.160
<v Speaker 2>You can always ask why am I single? Like, well,

836
00:29:41.200 --> 00:29:43.559
<v Speaker 2>it's not that easy to date me like it is.

837
00:29:43.720 --> 00:29:46.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, speak for us, girl, I'm a single too.

838
00:29:46.559 --> 00:29:48.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean for me, like I said, I get dating

839
00:29:48.319 --> 00:29:50.359
<v Speaker 1>life is word like, but for me, like that, you said,

840
00:29:50.519 --> 00:29:51.440
<v Speaker 1>how did you find this one?

841
00:29:51.519 --> 00:29:54.119
<v Speaker 2>Now? You hinge? A hinge?

842
00:29:54.160 --> 00:29:56.400
<v Speaker 3>Okay, my girlfriend from a boyfriend hinge another for a

843
00:29:56.480 --> 00:29:58.200
<v Speaker 3>year now and she's like just try a hinge.

844
00:29:58.240 --> 00:29:59.519
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, are you serious? I mean, I feel like,

845
00:30:00.039 --> 00:30:02.039
<v Speaker 1>but did people like know who you were? What did

846
00:30:02.079 --> 00:30:04.440
<v Speaker 1>that make you feel? Kind of like intimidated to know?

847
00:30:04.680 --> 00:30:06.720
<v Speaker 2>Like it's so funny. I've had a couple, that's the thing.

848
00:30:06.759 --> 00:30:07.480
<v Speaker 2>The people that I met.

849
00:30:07.720 --> 00:30:09.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure maybe people saw me on there and said,

850
00:30:09.640 --> 00:30:13.000
<v Speaker 3>but people I didn't match with them, so that okay, yeah, okay, yeah,

851
00:30:13.119 --> 00:30:14.920
<v Speaker 3>but like I haven't had anyone saying like, oh I

852
00:30:15.039 --> 00:30:16.880
<v Speaker 3>know you, but just one guys, oh I know you,

853
00:30:17.279 --> 00:30:18.640
<v Speaker 3>but it's like, why are you want here? I'm like,

854
00:30:18.720 --> 00:30:22.160
<v Speaker 3>why Instagram was so hard to meet people? It's all thirsty,

855
00:30:22.359 --> 00:30:24.039
<v Speaker 3>like crappy guys that I don't like.

856
00:30:24.200 --> 00:30:26.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm so particular. My type is so TWI tea that

857
00:30:26.319 --> 00:30:27.000
<v Speaker 2>if it's not that, I.

858
00:30:27.000 --> 00:30:29.000
<v Speaker 1>Don't want to describe it to us. Yeah, Like it

859
00:30:29.119 --> 00:30:31.279
<v Speaker 1>has to be like entrepreneurial. I have to have your

860
00:30:31.279 --> 00:30:33.960
<v Speaker 1>own business or like not be strapped down to like

861
00:30:34.400 --> 00:30:36.039
<v Speaker 1>nine to five. I mean, could we have a nine

862
00:30:36.079 --> 00:30:37.200
<v Speaker 1>to five? It's fine, but it has to be like

863
00:30:37.240 --> 00:30:38.200
<v Speaker 1>your own thing, Okay.

864
00:30:38.240 --> 00:30:40.640
<v Speaker 3>I mean because I've dated guys who don't have their

865
00:30:40.680 --> 00:30:42.359
<v Speaker 3>own companies and it's just hard.

866
00:30:42.200 --> 00:30:45.079
<v Speaker 2>For us so tie down to somebody else's idea. Yeah, okay, because.

867
00:30:44.880 --> 00:30:46.400
<v Speaker 3>Then we don't have about to talk about on a

868
00:30:46.480 --> 00:30:48.720
<v Speaker 3>day to day basis. That makes I mean, I want

869
00:30:48.759 --> 00:30:49.720
<v Speaker 3>the same goals with my guy.

870
00:30:49.880 --> 00:30:51.119
<v Speaker 2>We both want to do this. We both want to

871
00:30:51.160 --> 00:30:52.240
<v Speaker 2>get the house, you know what I mean?

872
00:30:52.319 --> 00:30:55.079
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no kids, preferably someone who want to go to

873
00:30:55.119 --> 00:30:57.880
<v Speaker 3>their family. Someone that has a great style. That's like

874
00:30:58.000 --> 00:31:00.400
<v Speaker 3>number one for me. Like style looks like you don't

875
00:31:00.400 --> 00:31:02.519
<v Speaker 3>want to be a stylist. Yeah, I used to be

876
00:31:02.680 --> 00:31:05.119
<v Speaker 3>a men's stylist, be honest, and I'm very good at

877
00:31:05.160 --> 00:31:07.240
<v Speaker 3>telling guys. So this one has their own like.

878
00:31:07.480 --> 00:31:08.759
<v Speaker 2>But you want to be like make sure that he

879
00:31:08.839 --> 00:31:10.559
<v Speaker 2>has it already put together, Like you're like, let me

880
00:31:10.599 --> 00:31:11.759
<v Speaker 2>just go in your closet. You don't want to be

881
00:31:11.799 --> 00:31:12.759
<v Speaker 2>like picking everything out for it.

882
00:31:12.880 --> 00:31:15.759
<v Speaker 3>Literally, No, you know someone who's like a gentleman. That's

883
00:31:15.839 --> 00:31:17.680
<v Speaker 3>hard to find too. I've been on dates with guys

884
00:31:17.759 --> 00:31:19.200
<v Speaker 3>or I'm even walk on the right side of the street.

885
00:31:19.240 --> 00:31:20.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, dude, why I'm on the right side of

886
00:31:20.640 --> 00:31:21.640
<v Speaker 3>the street. You're old fashioned.

887
00:31:21.680 --> 00:31:23.599
<v Speaker 2>I like it so fast. It should be that way though,

888
00:31:23.640 --> 00:31:24.319
<v Speaker 2>But those are the things.

889
00:31:24.359 --> 00:31:26.240
<v Speaker 1>It's like some women like you say it like it's

890
00:31:26.240 --> 00:31:27.880
<v Speaker 1>a negative thing, Like if that's what you need and

891
00:31:27.960 --> 00:31:29.599
<v Speaker 1>you want, then that's what you need and you deserve,

892
00:31:29.680 --> 00:31:33.000
<v Speaker 1>and there shouldn't be any like if I'm just used

893
00:31:33.000 --> 00:31:33.119
<v Speaker 1>to a.

894
00:31:33.119 --> 00:31:35.599
<v Speaker 2>Certain way of being treated and that looks like I

895
00:31:35.680 --> 00:31:37.680
<v Speaker 2>can't go down. It's a standard for sure.

896
00:31:37.839 --> 00:31:40.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, especially if that's what you like as from a man,

897
00:31:40.880 --> 00:31:44.839
<v Speaker 1>because that's a man quality, then that's okay. Because people

898
00:31:44.880 --> 00:31:46.440
<v Speaker 1>get it twisted like I'm a boss and all that

899
00:31:46.599 --> 00:31:48.880
<v Speaker 1>bowl and I'm thankful for that, but I'm also very

900
00:31:48.920 --> 00:31:50.160
<v Speaker 1>submissive my relationships.

901
00:31:50.279 --> 00:31:51.279
<v Speaker 2>I let the man be the man.

902
00:31:51.279 --> 00:31:53.839
<v Speaker 3>I'm not someone that's like I've definitely had my speak

903
00:31:53.880 --> 00:31:56.200
<v Speaker 3>about things like restaurants and what to do. I'll put

904
00:31:56.240 --> 00:31:57.680
<v Speaker 3>my input, but I let the guy be the guy.

905
00:31:57.759 --> 00:31:59.480
<v Speaker 3>And that's I think people getated by. They think that

906
00:31:59.519 --> 00:32:01.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm just like so autphu all the way that they

907
00:32:01.680 --> 00:32:03.039
<v Speaker 3>don't have any room to come and I'm like, no,

908
00:32:03.200 --> 00:32:04.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm so chill.

909
00:32:04.240 --> 00:32:05.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like that's why, Like, but those are

910
00:32:05.920 --> 00:32:07.599
<v Speaker 1>the guys that are like the ones that don't need

911
00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:09.160
<v Speaker 1>a shot, because it's like, if you're not willing to

912
00:32:09.200 --> 00:32:10.680
<v Speaker 1>see that I have an other side, and if you

913
00:32:10.759 --> 00:32:14.359
<v Speaker 1>can't be alpha too and not alpha, like like what's

914
00:32:14.400 --> 00:32:17.200
<v Speaker 1>the word like over egotistical alpha, because there's a level

915
00:32:17.279 --> 00:32:19.240
<v Speaker 1>of like what your alpha can like be like, don't

916
00:32:19.240 --> 00:32:20.960
<v Speaker 1>try to out alpha me, because I let me be

917
00:32:21.039 --> 00:32:22.920
<v Speaker 1>alpha what I need to be, but let me also

918
00:32:23.039 --> 00:32:25.279
<v Speaker 1>be like okay, thanks exactly in es sense. But I

919
00:32:25.319 --> 00:32:27.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's you know, then they're not deserving exactly.

920
00:32:27.640 --> 00:32:29.799
<v Speaker 2>So what why is this one special? Why is he's

921
00:32:29.839 --> 00:32:32.039
<v Speaker 2>on front number five, number six state? Like, oh, he

922
00:32:32.200 --> 00:32:34.000
<v Speaker 2>kept him around, he kept him around.

923
00:32:34.319 --> 00:32:36.559
<v Speaker 3>Let's see well, first of all, he's he's my type

924
00:32:36.680 --> 00:32:39.000
<v Speaker 3>for like physically everything type. But he has a great

925
00:32:39.039 --> 00:32:42.240
<v Speaker 3>personality because jobs really interesting as well.

926
00:32:42.279 --> 00:32:43.240
<v Speaker 2>We have a lot in common with that.

927
00:32:44.079 --> 00:32:47.839
<v Speaker 3>And he's also consistent, consistent, like everyday text, every day calls.

928
00:32:47.920 --> 00:32:51.720
<v Speaker 2>How are you are you? Like? Is that your love language? Yeah, affirmation,

929
00:32:52.000 --> 00:32:55.519
<v Speaker 2>boards of affirmation or my love language like keeps stuff.

930
00:32:55.920 --> 00:32:57.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm very giving to like someone who are giving is

931
00:32:57.920 --> 00:33:01.720
<v Speaker 2>also is very important. He's really into this family, Like.

932
00:33:02.279 --> 00:33:03.920
<v Speaker 3>You know, he's allowed to day outside of his race

933
00:33:04.000 --> 00:33:07.440
<v Speaker 3>because I usually dating racially and they can't usually day

934
00:33:07.440 --> 00:33:09.759
<v Speaker 3>outside the races. So his parents approven me be fuck,

935
00:33:09.799 --> 00:33:12.000
<v Speaker 3>it's fine, Like okay, So those type of things are

936
00:33:12.079 --> 00:33:12.559
<v Speaker 3>very important.

937
00:33:12.559 --> 00:33:14.799
<v Speaker 1>So all the boxes are checking off, Yeah, like a

938
00:33:14.880 --> 00:33:17.359
<v Speaker 1>lot of them. That's very fifth or sixth day and

939
00:33:17.359 --> 00:33:18.599
<v Speaker 1>you already get family approval.

940
00:33:18.640 --> 00:33:19.440
<v Speaker 2>That's pretty going.

941
00:33:21.000 --> 00:33:22.400
<v Speaker 3>Don't know, I haven't met his family, but what we

942
00:33:22.480 --> 00:33:24.680
<v Speaker 3>had a conversation like are you allowed to be black girls?

943
00:33:24.720 --> 00:33:26.440
<v Speaker 3>He's like, yeah, my girl was talking to you before

944
00:33:26.440 --> 00:33:29.400
<v Speaker 3>it was black okay, perfect, okay, So it was okay okah.

945
00:33:29.519 --> 00:33:31.880
<v Speaker 2>I was like, wow, that's a fast track. Where are

946
00:33:31.920 --> 00:33:35.359
<v Speaker 2>we going? Where are we going? So what do you

947
00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:38.319
<v Speaker 2>think is one thing that men fuck up in relationships.

948
00:33:39.119 --> 00:33:41.119
<v Speaker 3>I would just say being honest because at the end

949
00:33:41.119 --> 00:33:42.559
<v Speaker 3>of the day, we are women and we just want

950
00:33:42.680 --> 00:33:43.000
<v Speaker 3>the truth.

951
00:33:43.119 --> 00:33:43.839
<v Speaker 2>We can roll with it.

952
00:33:43.960 --> 00:33:45.960
<v Speaker 3>If it's you call me and say this as long

953
00:33:46.000 --> 00:33:48.079
<v Speaker 3>as I know the truth. If you make me look crazy,

954
00:33:48.279 --> 00:33:50.240
<v Speaker 3>if you lie to me and I find out later,

955
00:33:50.279 --> 00:33:52.039
<v Speaker 3>it's just freaking true. Is making you look crazy?

956
00:33:52.200 --> 00:33:53.920
<v Speaker 2>Just yeah, what have you done?

957
00:33:54.000 --> 00:33:55.960
<v Speaker 1>What's the craziest thing that you've done that made you

958
00:33:56.000 --> 00:33:57.640
<v Speaker 1>look crazy because of a man's situation?

959
00:33:57.920 --> 00:33:59.480
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, none of my exes have ever from

960
00:33:59.480 --> 00:33:59.960
<v Speaker 2>me that situation.

961
00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:02.400
<v Speaker 3>But if it was that, if it was that, oh gosh,

962
00:34:02.559 --> 00:34:04.920
<v Speaker 3>like be married still and me not knowing about it,

963
00:34:05.079 --> 00:34:07.480
<v Speaker 3>or like I mean like baby mama or kids I

964
00:34:07.559 --> 00:34:09.480
<v Speaker 3>don't know about, or just you used to be in

965
00:34:09.559 --> 00:34:13.000
<v Speaker 3>jail ninety five times. Yeah, honestly thing Yeah, like you're

966
00:34:13.000 --> 00:34:15.760
<v Speaker 3>an ex convict who smuggled money from I don't know, like.

967
00:34:17.280 --> 00:34:20.719
<v Speaker 2>About your dating appoy these men coming from. I'm just

968
00:34:20.760 --> 00:34:22.039
<v Speaker 2>saying those are things that was scared.

969
00:34:23.159 --> 00:34:25.239
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like you know, because I'm in the public eye

970
00:34:25.320 --> 00:34:27.360
<v Speaker 3>and like, I mean, the minute I post a picture

971
00:34:27.400 --> 00:34:28.599
<v Speaker 3>of someone's like, oh my, who is it? Like I

972
00:34:28.639 --> 00:34:29.960
<v Speaker 3>remember I was I have a lot of I have

973
00:34:30.039 --> 00:34:31.639
<v Speaker 3>a lot of guy friends. Like I have a lot

974
00:34:31.679 --> 00:34:33.679
<v Speaker 3>of guy friends. And there's a guy that like likes me,

975
00:34:33.800 --> 00:34:35.360
<v Speaker 3>but generally show me he likes me. And I posted

976
00:34:35.400 --> 00:34:37.119
<v Speaker 3>this other guy like friends. Oh you're dating this as

977
00:34:37.199 --> 00:34:38.039
<v Speaker 3>your boyfriend.

978
00:34:37.760 --> 00:34:40.119
<v Speaker 2>Is like yo, slow doubt. That's when they start getting mad.

979
00:34:40.679 --> 00:34:43.239
<v Speaker 2>Oh why did you like now? So you think I'm

980
00:34:43.280 --> 00:34:44.639
<v Speaker 2>just walking out with girls all day? No, I have

981
00:34:44.719 --> 00:34:46.920
<v Speaker 2>guy friends. It can go both ways. Sometimes you heard that,

982
00:34:47.000 --> 00:34:49.239
<v Speaker 2>You're like, please, I wish I had never heard that before. Yeah,

983
00:34:49.320 --> 00:34:52.679
<v Speaker 2>then I don't know what's funny? That's up? Yeah? Yeah,

984
00:34:52.760 --> 00:34:55.000
<v Speaker 2>So I would hate to tag someone And I was like, Jessica,

985
00:34:55.039 --> 00:34:57.840
<v Speaker 2>did you know he had like five girls? You're like no,

986
00:34:58.039 --> 00:35:00.760
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know. Yeah, tagging some that's a big deal,

987
00:35:01.239 --> 00:35:02.840
<v Speaker 2>Like you know what I mean on your I'm more

988
00:35:02.880 --> 00:35:03.440
<v Speaker 2>so for the girl.

989
00:35:03.480 --> 00:35:05.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm very confident woman, but I'm more so about

990
00:35:05.519 --> 00:35:08.320
<v Speaker 3>this when girls, because I know girls have really nice,

991
00:35:08.360 --> 00:35:10.199
<v Speaker 3>good guys, and if they tag.

992
00:35:10.039 --> 00:35:12.119
<v Speaker 2>Them, I know the girls like, oh my god, who

993
00:35:12.199 --> 00:35:13.119
<v Speaker 2>is he? What does he do? Like?

994
00:35:13.159 --> 00:35:15.840
<v Speaker 3>They want to like they investigate, yeah, negative onto the

995
00:35:15.920 --> 00:35:17.440
<v Speaker 3>relationship and it ruins.

996
00:35:17.159 --> 00:35:20.320
<v Speaker 1>It you'll never see anyone I'm ever dating on my

997
00:35:20.480 --> 00:35:23.199
<v Speaker 1>Instagram at all because it's nobody's busins. I already give

998
00:35:23.239 --> 00:35:25.719
<v Speaker 1>my life so much to like everything else that I

999
00:35:25.880 --> 00:35:28.400
<v Speaker 1>was like, I have some things private, like I don't

1000
00:35:28.440 --> 00:35:30.400
<v Speaker 1>need to advertise it, like I you know, I don't

1001
00:35:30.559 --> 00:35:32.880
<v Speaker 1>not keep him around it, like he's not hidden anymore.

1002
00:35:32.960 --> 00:35:34.480
<v Speaker 2>I mean, there's no guy out there at all.

1003
00:35:34.559 --> 00:35:36.280
<v Speaker 1>But I'm just saying he wouldn't be hidden under a

1004
00:35:36.360 --> 00:35:38.280
<v Speaker 1>rock or anything. But to my you know, friends and

1005
00:35:38.360 --> 00:35:40.519
<v Speaker 1>family and whatever, it is like that's cool. But to

1006
00:35:41.039 --> 00:35:44.320
<v Speaker 1>the world, it's a persona and that's Instagram like right,

1007
00:35:44.679 --> 00:35:47.800
<v Speaker 1>it's not reality of whatever. So I keep mine very

1008
00:35:48.760 --> 00:35:50.719
<v Speaker 1>close knit. Everything that they get to get out of

1009
00:35:50.800 --> 00:35:52.920
<v Speaker 1>me lately is private talk, which is really cool because

1010
00:35:52.920 --> 00:35:54.679
<v Speaker 1>it's been, you know, a great platform for me to

1011
00:35:55.400 --> 00:35:58.039
<v Speaker 1>talk my shit and uncensoredness and learn a little bit

1012
00:35:58.079 --> 00:36:00.679
<v Speaker 1>more about me through my guests I have, which she's

1013
00:36:00.719 --> 00:36:01.960
<v Speaker 1>just in typical conversation.

1014
00:36:02.079 --> 00:36:04.440
<v Speaker 2>It's like girl talk. I'm getting a little bit more intimate.

1015
00:36:04.639 --> 00:36:05.079
<v Speaker 2>I love it.

1016
00:36:05.440 --> 00:36:07.239
<v Speaker 3>No, I definitely if I get a boyfriend, then I'm

1017
00:36:07.239 --> 00:36:08.840
<v Speaker 3>definitely gonna put him on there, but I'm not going

1018
00:36:08.920 --> 00:36:09.440
<v Speaker 3>to attack it.

1019
00:36:09.519 --> 00:36:11.679
<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, I'm saying you don't need to like advertise,

1020
00:36:11.679 --> 00:36:15.559
<v Speaker 2>it'll still find it. Think, yes they will. Girl, What

1021
00:36:15.639 --> 00:36:16.880
<v Speaker 2>are your these Instagram?

1022
00:36:16.920 --> 00:36:18.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean people have no I can't follow him them

1023
00:36:18.960 --> 00:36:22.199
<v Speaker 1>of the follow him the other way you're sweating over

1024
00:36:22.280 --> 00:36:25.280
<v Speaker 1>they're like, oh, damn it, I mean I can't.

1025
00:36:26.480 --> 00:36:28.239
<v Speaker 2>That's funny, that's really funny.

1026
00:36:28.639 --> 00:36:32.639
<v Speaker 1>So sad, No, it's not sad. What is your craziest

1027
00:36:33.119 --> 00:36:36.599
<v Speaker 1>encounter with the celebrity? Do you have any craziest encounter?

1028
00:36:36.840 --> 00:36:38.000
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, there's.

1029
00:36:37.840 --> 00:36:40.639
<v Speaker 2>People like rude to you. Did they tell you like

1030
00:36:40.719 --> 00:36:42.599
<v Speaker 2>any Maybe they try to hit on you and you're like, oh,

1031
00:36:42.719 --> 00:36:44.400
<v Speaker 2>I don't know how to get out of this? Did

1032
00:36:46.519 --> 00:36:47.000
<v Speaker 2>maybe just.

1033
00:36:47.079 --> 00:36:49.360
<v Speaker 3>Being I had some pretty crazy I've had some pretty

1034
00:36:49.440 --> 00:36:50.679
<v Speaker 3>I have a lot of celebrity friends.

1035
00:36:51.280 --> 00:36:51.559
<v Speaker 2>I did.

1036
00:36:51.840 --> 00:36:53.840
<v Speaker 3>I did a couple of celebrities actually, but I can't

1037
00:36:53.960 --> 00:36:57.760
<v Speaker 3>say too many food but one's really know. So I

1038
00:36:57.800 --> 00:36:59.280
<v Speaker 3>don't know if you guys probably know publicly I dated

1039
00:36:59.320 --> 00:37:02.760
<v Speaker 3>stuff in today, stuff about Fonte's Melby's ex husband. But

1040
00:37:02.840 --> 00:37:04.679
<v Speaker 3>when I dated him, he was fresh out of his marriage.

1041
00:37:04.719 --> 00:37:06.639
<v Speaker 3>Everyone thought that I ruined it, I broke it up,

1042
00:37:07.119 --> 00:37:08.920
<v Speaker 3>and I literally had known stuff and even wh who

1043
00:37:09.000 --> 00:37:11.280
<v Speaker 3>was married, but just his friends. I just knew him,

1044
00:37:11.320 --> 00:37:13.400
<v Speaker 3>and then after they broke up, we kind of connected,

1045
00:37:13.480 --> 00:37:15.480
<v Speaker 3>and then I was all over social media and all

1046
00:37:15.599 --> 00:37:19.599
<v Speaker 3>the tabloids like Jessica rich One, I'm like, first of all,

1047
00:37:19.639 --> 00:37:20.079
<v Speaker 3>you guys.

1048
00:37:19.920 --> 00:37:21.840
<v Speaker 2>Can't just believe, and then wrote everything.

1049
00:37:21.960 --> 00:37:25.159
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he's the most sweetest, down the earth guy you

1050
00:37:25.199 --> 00:37:27.320
<v Speaker 3>would ever meet. And he would never even like have

1051
00:37:27.400 --> 00:37:29.760
<v Speaker 3>an argument with me, Like he hates everything you guys

1052
00:37:29.920 --> 00:37:31.719
<v Speaker 3>like see in tablets. He's opposite of that. So it's

1053
00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:33.360
<v Speaker 3>like ghost to show you can't judge a book by

1054
00:37:33.400 --> 00:37:35.400
<v Speaker 3>its cover. And I had so many blogs and I'm

1055
00:37:35.440 --> 00:37:37.480
<v Speaker 3>my god, I was like, oh my gosh, she would

1056
00:37:37.519 --> 00:37:38.320
<v Speaker 3>just go crazy.

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00:37:38.079 --> 00:37:41.039
<v Speaker 1>With So you just got labeled like it was because

1058
00:37:41.599 --> 00:37:43.559
<v Speaker 1>it was the one. It was the one after, so

1059
00:37:43.719 --> 00:37:47.440
<v Speaker 1>it needs to be like that whole thing. It was

1060
00:37:47.480 --> 00:37:49.159
<v Speaker 1>like you were the one right after. So it was

1061
00:37:49.239 --> 00:37:51.159
<v Speaker 1>like you got labeled like, oh you broke them up. Yah,

1062
00:37:51.239 --> 00:37:52.920
<v Speaker 1>you did this, And you're like, wait, I didn't.

1063
00:37:52.679 --> 00:37:54.559
<v Speaker 3>Even know he's a theater in this. I'm like, no,

1064
00:37:54.880 --> 00:37:56.760
<v Speaker 3>she was a crazy one. I'll talk to her face.

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00:37:56.800 --> 00:37:59.159
<v Speaker 3>She was a crazy one. Yeah, And it was totally

1066
00:37:59.199 --> 00:38:01.400
<v Speaker 3>not him and everyone that met stuff in I said

1067
00:38:01.400 --> 00:38:02.840
<v Speaker 3>the same thing, like, oh my god, he's so down

1068
00:38:02.920 --> 00:38:05.880
<v Speaker 3>or he's he's actually like probably a dream guy. So

1069
00:38:06.000 --> 00:38:08.280
<v Speaker 3>you've never seen him act out of character, even if

1070
00:38:08.320 --> 00:38:10.719
<v Speaker 3>he's drunk, mad or something, and like whatever, because people

1071
00:38:10.760 --> 00:38:12.480
<v Speaker 3>sometimes get out of you know, out of character, not

1072
00:38:12.559 --> 00:38:15.840
<v Speaker 3>because it makes him a bad person, but sometimes things

1073
00:38:15.880 --> 00:38:17.800
<v Speaker 3>happen or whatever. Maybe the other persons, you know, they're

1074
00:38:17.840 --> 00:38:20.639
<v Speaker 3>just fighting and things happen, or alcohol, drugs, who knows.

1075
00:38:21.000 --> 00:38:22.760
<v Speaker 3>You never saw any kind of side where you were

1076
00:38:22.840 --> 00:38:24.400
<v Speaker 3>just like it could slightly be true.

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00:38:24.679 --> 00:38:27.199
<v Speaker 2>No, when he when he is drong, he didn't even

1078
00:38:27.199 --> 00:38:29.320
<v Speaker 2>know he's drong. It's the scary part. Those are the

1079
00:38:29.360 --> 00:38:30.639
<v Speaker 2>scary Those are the scary type.

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00:38:30.679 --> 00:38:32.239
<v Speaker 1>And you're like when they tell you afterwards, you're like,

1081
00:38:32.280 --> 00:38:33.840
<v Speaker 1>damn it, I thought you were sober the whole time.

1082
00:38:34.039 --> 00:38:35.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, he's one of my good friends.

1083
00:38:35.960 --> 00:38:37.360
<v Speaker 3>So, I mean, the reason we didn't work out and

1084
00:38:37.960 --> 00:38:40.199
<v Speaker 3>I mean I don't know we at the time, it

1085
00:38:40.280 --> 00:38:42.440
<v Speaker 3>wasn't right, like he didn't want to settle down at

1086
00:38:42.440 --> 00:38:44.199
<v Speaker 3>the moment because he was still going to crazy divorce.

1087
00:38:44.519 --> 00:38:47.159
<v Speaker 2>We're still really cool friends, so there's still a chance.

1088
00:38:47.239 --> 00:38:49.320
<v Speaker 3>So single brought him last week, like he's just a

1089
00:38:49.360 --> 00:38:51.559
<v Speaker 3>good friend of mine still, but I don't think Sepone

1090
00:38:51.599 --> 00:38:53.719
<v Speaker 3>will ever be ready to settle settle down again though

1091
00:38:53.760 --> 00:38:54.840
<v Speaker 3>that was ten years of his life.

1092
00:38:54.920 --> 00:38:57.199
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it's so hard. You know, marriage is

1093
00:38:57.199 --> 00:39:00.360
<v Speaker 1>a difficult you know thing. Well, marriage, yes, it's a

1094
00:39:00.360 --> 00:39:02.840
<v Speaker 1>difficult thing. But divorce after something that was so long

1095
00:39:02.880 --> 00:39:04.639
<v Speaker 1>of a marriage or whatever, and you know, it's very

1096
00:39:04.960 --> 00:39:06.559
<v Speaker 1>it takes you up. Like I, you know, I was

1097
00:39:06.679 --> 00:39:09.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm divorced and I was married for three years and

1098
00:39:09.960 --> 00:39:12.000
<v Speaker 1>together for five but it was still with that it

1099
00:39:12.079 --> 00:39:13.159
<v Speaker 1>was like one of the hardest things I had to

1100
00:39:13.199 --> 00:39:14.760
<v Speaker 1>do and it was my choice, but it was something

1101
00:39:14.840 --> 00:39:17.239
<v Speaker 1>that is like very You see a lot of stuff,

1102
00:39:17.320 --> 00:39:19.280
<v Speaker 1>especially know his was life super in the media and

1103
00:39:19.400 --> 00:39:20.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, things like that. So it's like you don't

1104
00:39:21.559 --> 00:39:23.599
<v Speaker 1>if it's right wrong or anything going on, which is

1105
00:39:23.599 --> 00:39:26.559
<v Speaker 1>nobody business, but what their relationship and their family only right,

1106
00:39:26.840 --> 00:39:28.480
<v Speaker 1>you still have to live it even if it's not

1107
00:39:28.840 --> 00:39:30.039
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So it's like you live

1108
00:39:30.079 --> 00:39:32.320
<v Speaker 1>it double, which is you know, the unfortunate thing about

1109
00:39:32.400 --> 00:39:35.039
<v Speaker 1>how mainstream media is and you know, and sometimes they missed,

1110
00:39:35.079 --> 00:39:39.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, they portray things unfortunately. What are your thoughts on, like,

1111
00:39:40.000 --> 00:39:42.199
<v Speaker 1>how do you feel mainstream media is What are your

1112
00:39:42.239 --> 00:39:44.920
<v Speaker 1>thoughts on that. Do you think that it's a positive thing,

1113
00:39:45.039 --> 00:39:48.000
<v Speaker 1>negative thing? Do you think mainstream media as far as

1114
00:39:48.079 --> 00:39:52.880
<v Speaker 1>like relationships just in general, I mean mainstream media, it's

1115
00:39:52.920 --> 00:39:54.039
<v Speaker 1>it's good they have ways.

1116
00:39:53.880 --> 00:39:55.920
<v Speaker 2>To construe any any narrative they do.

1117
00:39:56.519 --> 00:39:57.880
<v Speaker 3>Like I know a lot of friends that are close

1118
00:39:57.920 --> 00:39:59.559
<v Speaker 3>to Kanye and Kim and like what they're going through

1119
00:39:59.599 --> 00:40:01.280
<v Speaker 3>and what they want through, Like I know what's really

1120
00:40:01.320 --> 00:40:03.559
<v Speaker 3>going on, and like what they see on the media

1121
00:40:03.639 --> 00:40:05.639
<v Speaker 3>is completely opposite why they're breaking up. So it's like

1122
00:40:05.719 --> 00:40:07.880
<v Speaker 3>crazy how you just never know. But people get so

1123
00:40:08.480 --> 00:40:11.400
<v Speaker 3>you know, like stuck on what the media tells them,

1124
00:40:11.679 --> 00:40:14.039
<v Speaker 3>and no matter what they say, they just don't believe it.

1125
00:40:14.199 --> 00:40:16.199
<v Speaker 2>Why are they breaking up? Jessica, I can't tell you.

1126
00:40:17.159 --> 00:40:20.400
<v Speaker 2>We want the truth, no.

1127
00:40:20.559 --> 00:40:22.360
<v Speaker 3>But honestly, it's just insane. Like if I tell your

1128
00:40:22.400 --> 00:40:25.440
<v Speaker 3>shoes are green, it's like you just have crazy.

1129
00:40:25.920 --> 00:40:26.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

1130
00:40:26.639 --> 00:40:28.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's definitely one of those things that it's it's

1131
00:40:29.519 --> 00:40:33.440
<v Speaker 1>very manipulated like into how they want you to see anything,

1132
00:40:33.519 --> 00:40:35.480
<v Speaker 1>any situation, you know what I mean, Which it's crazy

1133
00:40:35.559 --> 00:40:37.000
<v Speaker 1>how it could work in your favor and then not.

1134
00:40:37.119 --> 00:40:38.119
<v Speaker 1>You know, I've had a lot of people on the

1135
00:40:38.159 --> 00:40:40.239
<v Speaker 1>couch too, you know where it's been good and bad

1136
00:40:40.280 --> 00:40:41.840
<v Speaker 1>and you know them seeing the difference. And again, at

1137
00:40:41.840 --> 00:40:44.199
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, we're all people. We make mistakes.

1138
00:40:44.239 --> 00:40:45.800
<v Speaker 1>We you know, we're real life, like this is our

1139
00:40:45.840 --> 00:40:48.119
<v Speaker 1>real lives. We're not you know, doing things for TV

1140
00:40:49.079 --> 00:40:51.519
<v Speaker 1>airtime whatever things is Like, people go through things, they

1141
00:40:51.559 --> 00:40:55.320
<v Speaker 1>struggle from anything from relationships stuff, to family things to

1142
00:40:55.719 --> 00:40:56.840
<v Speaker 1>personal work things.

1143
00:40:56.920 --> 00:40:57.559
<v Speaker 2>It just depends, you know.

1144
00:40:57.679 --> 00:40:59.920
<v Speaker 1>People need to just be more empathetic, I think, and yeah,

1145
00:41:00.119 --> 00:41:03.559
<v Speaker 1>realize that we're you know, the media sometimes portray things

1146
00:41:03.599 --> 00:41:06.159
<v Speaker 1>that it's not so shiny sometimes yeah, and it doesn't

1147
00:41:06.159 --> 00:41:07.440
<v Speaker 1>have to be so bad sometimes either.

1148
00:41:08.400 --> 00:41:08.760
<v Speaker 2>Very true.

1149
00:41:08.840 --> 00:41:11.159
<v Speaker 1>R All right, private talk. I hope you are liking

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00:41:11.199 --> 00:41:12.559
<v Speaker 1>this episode. We're going to take a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>are back and we are ready for Truth with Texas.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited. I've been enjoying this episode. I hope you

1186
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<v Speaker 1>guys have two. I hope you've been having fun this

1187
00:42:50.440 --> 00:42:53.280
<v Speaker 1>what's fun? You're ready to play truth with Taxes?

1188
00:42:54.119 --> 00:42:54.960
<v Speaker 2>Ready? How do we play?

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00:42:55.159 --> 00:42:57.199
<v Speaker 1>All right, so you're gonna pick a card. You're gonna

1190
00:42:57.199 --> 00:42:59.480
<v Speaker 1>pick each of the cards, and each one is going

1191
00:42:59.519 --> 00:43:01.920
<v Speaker 1>to mean a different type of question, which is going

1192
00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:04.239
<v Speaker 1>to be get to know you a little bit more intimately.

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00:43:04.320 --> 00:43:06.519
<v Speaker 2>We have private h you know.

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00:43:06.679 --> 00:43:08.920
<v Speaker 1>Information needs to be coming out right now, just Jessica

1195
00:43:09.039 --> 00:43:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Rich but no, it would be a naughty question or

1196
00:43:11.440 --> 00:43:13.400
<v Speaker 1>romantic question, a kinky question.

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00:43:13.480 --> 00:43:16.280
<v Speaker 2>And yeah, let's right with it. I pick So I

1198
00:43:16.360 --> 00:43:18.440
<v Speaker 2>picked four. Just pick one at a time and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>see what I gotta go. Okay, it's nice.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a diamonds. Okay, So the diamonds. It's a spicy question.

1201
00:43:27.719 --> 00:43:32.079
<v Speaker 1>They're all a little spicy. Don't don't be shy shy, Okay,

1202
00:43:32.719 --> 00:43:34.280
<v Speaker 1>craziest place you've ever had sex?

1203
00:43:35.000 --> 00:43:35.559
<v Speaker 2>In the woods.

1204
00:43:35.840 --> 00:43:38.599
<v Speaker 1>In the woods, can you explain the labyorn a little

1205
00:43:38.599 --> 00:43:40.800
<v Speaker 1>bit in the story? And they are you camping or

1206
00:43:40.840 --> 00:43:43.480
<v Speaker 1>you just like ran into the wood he's camping?

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00:43:43.559 --> 00:43:45.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, this is we take this back to like

1208
00:43:46.000 --> 00:43:49.159
<v Speaker 3>my twenties. I literally was eating a guy and we

1209
00:43:49.400 --> 00:43:50.400
<v Speaker 3>were what were you doing?

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00:43:50.800 --> 00:43:50.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

1211
00:43:51.000 --> 00:43:54.119
<v Speaker 3>I know, his car broke down and we like pushed

1212
00:43:54.159 --> 00:43:56.400
<v Speaker 3>the car and then we were waiting for the tone trunk.

1213
00:43:56.440 --> 00:43:57.960
<v Speaker 2>So as you're pointing to the tone truck, he just

1214
00:43:58.039 --> 00:44:00.760
<v Speaker 2>started like you're like, damn, I'm so it's like a

1215
00:44:00.880 --> 00:44:03.760
<v Speaker 2>porno movie. It's like, you know, the car breaks down,

1216
00:44:04.119 --> 00:44:07.320
<v Speaker 2>waving the mechanic and off in the woods out of nowhere,

1217
00:44:08.760 --> 00:44:11.920
<v Speaker 2>like heart deck just came about wait for an hour

1218
00:44:12.280 --> 00:44:14.280
<v Speaker 2>hour wait. So yeah, that was fun. It was fun.

1219
00:44:14.320 --> 00:44:17.440
<v Speaker 2>It was fun. Was it like, was that the first

1220
00:44:17.480 --> 00:44:20.000
<v Speaker 2>time you never had sex outside? Yes? First time? Are

1221
00:44:20.039 --> 00:44:22.559
<v Speaker 2>you like an exhibitionist like that? You know, I'm very

1222
00:44:22.639 --> 00:44:24.840
<v Speaker 2>kinky when it comes to like I'm down for whatever,

1223
00:44:25.000 --> 00:44:27.599
<v Speaker 2>like you know whatever, chains will you know, say your name?

1224
00:44:27.760 --> 00:44:30.400
<v Speaker 2>Don't like us and chains. I'm not only being comforted.

1225
00:44:30.199 --> 00:44:32.119
<v Speaker 1>Like no, but you're doing them not to like you

1226
00:44:32.239 --> 00:44:34.920
<v Speaker 1>being changed, like you're doing it to them there, going

1227
00:44:34.960 --> 00:44:38.159
<v Speaker 1>to be a mistress, be like with your whip, get

1228
00:44:38.239 --> 00:44:40.760
<v Speaker 1>on your knees and serve me now.

1229
00:44:40.880 --> 00:44:43.719
<v Speaker 2>Mistress rich you know it's just rich, mistress.

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00:44:44.639 --> 00:44:47.199
<v Speaker 3>It just rolls off the tongue, it does, it roils off. Yeah,

1231
00:44:47.360 --> 00:44:51.199
<v Speaker 3>I've definitely done something like that before. I've changed someone before.

1232
00:44:51.519 --> 00:44:54.199
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you have some sexy costumes, like some black

1233
00:44:54.320 --> 00:44:55.280
<v Speaker 1>latex like a picture.

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00:44:55.320 --> 00:44:57.599
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I'm just having a sexual fan like now it's

1235
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<v Speaker 2>like an out right yeah, like a nurse out there. No,

1236
00:45:00.280 --> 00:45:01.960
<v Speaker 2>you can't be nurse because you know it has to

1237
00:45:02.000 --> 00:45:04.559
<v Speaker 2>be like dumb like black laid text. You have fish nets,

1238
00:45:04.559 --> 00:45:06.280
<v Speaker 2>you know, like a little whip. You know, cat will

1239
00:45:06.280 --> 00:45:08.440
<v Speaker 2>be like like if you know, like a dungeon vibe.

1240
00:45:08.639 --> 00:45:10.760
<v Speaker 2>Got it? You need to be like, yeah, I'll give

1241
00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:13.320
<v Speaker 2>you some pointers. I see where this is going for you.

1242
00:45:13.360 --> 00:45:14.400
<v Speaker 2>I see where this is going for you.

1243
00:45:15.400 --> 00:45:17.840
<v Speaker 1>All right, what are some completely like off limit things

1244
00:45:17.880 --> 00:45:20.559
<v Speaker 1>in the bedroom, Like you're like absolutely no, I will

1245
00:45:20.679 --> 00:45:22.119
<v Speaker 1>not do it. Maybe you've tried it or you will

1246
00:45:22.199 --> 00:45:25.480
<v Speaker 1>just won't try it? No anal no, anal ever again?

1247
00:45:25.679 --> 00:45:27.800
<v Speaker 1>Why it was just something absolutely painful, just hated it

1248
00:45:27.960 --> 00:45:30.159
<v Speaker 1>just it was I used numming cream. It's so it

1249
00:45:30.360 --> 00:45:34.079
<v Speaker 1>was disaster for your first time you use themming What

1250
00:45:34.119 --> 00:45:34.519
<v Speaker 1>do you mean?

1251
00:45:34.880 --> 00:45:38.880
<v Speaker 2>But how do how do you hold up Jessica, we're

1252
00:45:39.000 --> 00:45:40.960
<v Speaker 2>new friends here, but we're about to get into it.

1253
00:45:42.599 --> 00:45:43.639
<v Speaker 2>But this is my question.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but how do you, like, did you pre plan

1255
00:45:47.079 --> 00:45:49.760
<v Speaker 1>the anal play well, because like, how do you just

1256
00:45:49.920 --> 00:45:51.719
<v Speaker 1>be like, this is my first time and wait, I

1257
00:45:51.760 --> 00:45:52.400
<v Speaker 1>have anal loop.

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00:45:52.639 --> 00:45:53.639
<v Speaker 2>I mean an he.

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00:45:53.679 --> 00:45:57.519
<v Speaker 3>Requested it prior, like, oh my god, let's try this.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, okay, you must have a big dick

1261
00:46:00.280 --> 00:46:02.280
<v Speaker 3>because it was small. It was not crazy, but so

1262
00:46:02.440 --> 00:46:04.639
<v Speaker 3>I just don't it's nothing supposed to be meant.

1263
00:46:04.480 --> 00:46:06.639
<v Speaker 2>To go in that area. It's I don't understand how

1264
00:46:06.719 --> 00:46:09.360
<v Speaker 2>someone with a small dick is requesting you know what

1265
00:46:09.480 --> 00:46:12.039
<v Speaker 2>it held out? Wait? What is it called anal sex? Yeah?

1266
00:46:12.119 --> 00:46:14.320
<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, the little part No, but you

1267
00:46:14.400 --> 00:46:17.400
<v Speaker 1>mean it it's it's numbing, numbing. Yeah, you know, it's

1268
00:46:17.440 --> 00:46:20.920
<v Speaker 1>called anal ease, anal ease. Okay, if I was personally,

1269
00:46:21.360 --> 00:46:22.679
<v Speaker 1>I have a small dick.

1270
00:46:22.800 --> 00:46:25.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm not asking anyone to me like seven seven is

1271
00:46:25.400 --> 00:46:28.039
<v Speaker 2>not that small. It's not small. Yeah, seven inches is

1272
00:46:28.119 --> 00:46:30.079
<v Speaker 2>not like what if gale? Are you on?

1273
00:46:30.239 --> 00:46:33.519
<v Speaker 1>If small is worse? Seven starts just your most Most

1274
00:46:33.559 --> 00:46:35.599
<v Speaker 1>girls think like seven small, like someone's big for me,

1275
00:46:35.719 --> 00:46:37.960
<v Speaker 1>But it's not small. Yeah, I mean no, I mean

1276
00:46:38.000 --> 00:46:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I've done porno in my life, you know once you're

1277
00:46:40.760 --> 00:46:43.480
<v Speaker 1>a times. But yeah, seven's not small.

1278
00:46:43.800 --> 00:46:44.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like normal.

1279
00:46:45.239 --> 00:46:47.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I think, I mean yeah, I think I think

1280
00:46:48.079 --> 00:46:50.960
<v Speaker 1>average is like six. I think really, I think I

1281
00:46:51.039 --> 00:46:52.400
<v Speaker 1>could be lying though I don't really know.

1282
00:46:52.599 --> 00:46:53.880
<v Speaker 2>It was just so painful. I can do it. The

1283
00:46:53.920 --> 00:46:55.679
<v Speaker 2>next day, I try to go the bathroom death. So

1284
00:46:55.760 --> 00:46:58.239
<v Speaker 2>I was never You're like, no, was it? Like it

1285
00:46:58.280 --> 00:47:01.079
<v Speaker 2>doesn't feel good at all? It's terrible. It's like a technique,

1286
00:47:01.079 --> 00:47:01.559
<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean.

1287
00:47:01.639 --> 00:47:03.599
<v Speaker 1>Like for me, I'm not an anal person whatever, but

1288
00:47:03.639 --> 00:47:04.880
<v Speaker 1>I have done it, and every time I had I

1289
00:47:04.920 --> 00:47:06.639
<v Speaker 1>had to be like horny for it. I couldn't prepare.

1290
00:47:06.639 --> 00:47:08.199
<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm like, how do you prepare? You know

1291
00:47:08.280 --> 00:47:09.920
<v Speaker 1>you have this on this side. I'm like, you just

1292
00:47:09.960 --> 00:47:12.039
<v Speaker 1>had to be Like I was really horning for it

1293
00:47:12.119 --> 00:47:14.800
<v Speaker 1>and I just needed it, Like but again mind yeah,

1294
00:47:14.920 --> 00:47:17.639
<v Speaker 1>like I just but I couldn't, like if I premeditatedly

1295
00:47:17.719 --> 00:47:18.800
<v Speaker 1>know you want it, I don't want to do it.

1296
00:47:19.119 --> 00:47:21.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm my pussy, my ask. Everything won't be dry.

1297
00:47:21.400 --> 00:47:25.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, not happening today, Sorry, not happen desert doesert storm?

1298
00:47:26.199 --> 00:47:28.840
<v Speaker 1>All right, let's move it along. Let's get another one. Okay,

1299
00:47:29.559 --> 00:47:31.639
<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna have an ace of what do we got?

1300
00:47:31.719 --> 00:47:35.760
<v Speaker 2>Got? Another? Ace of hearts? Is romantic? Would you consider

1301
00:47:35.840 --> 00:47:39.239
<v Speaker 2>yourself a romantic? I'm so romantic? Like hopeless romantic.

1302
00:47:39.480 --> 00:47:41.760
<v Speaker 1>What is the most romantic thing someone has ever done

1303
00:47:41.800 --> 00:47:42.000
<v Speaker 1>for you?

1304
00:47:43.599 --> 00:47:47.000
<v Speaker 2>Wow? I would say, And if you want to tell

1305
00:47:47.039 --> 00:47:48.760
<v Speaker 2>us who, I won't be mad at you. I mean

1306
00:47:48.800 --> 00:47:50.280
<v Speaker 2>the little private talking gosh.

1307
00:47:50.360 --> 00:47:52.880
<v Speaker 3>I remember was dating this guy. I'm all about like

1308
00:47:52.960 --> 00:47:56.000
<v Speaker 3>little Keith small gestures. So day, this guy he was

1309
00:47:56.079 --> 00:47:58.360
<v Speaker 3>like I was a film A grade the day. So

1310
00:47:58.440 --> 00:48:00.840
<v Speaker 3>he's like and mind jumping dan him maybe like two

1311
00:48:00.880 --> 00:48:04.480
<v Speaker 3>weeks right, Jess, I'm wrong, I'm not feeling well. Send

1312
00:48:04.519 --> 00:48:05.840
<v Speaker 3>you to his spas and sent me to the spa

1313
00:48:06.119 --> 00:48:08.480
<v Speaker 3>and my favorite hotels, the Bandarin Oriental in New York,

1314
00:48:09.039 --> 00:48:10.320
<v Speaker 3>probably the best hotel in New York.

1315
00:48:10.400 --> 00:48:12.079
<v Speaker 2>And send me there for the full day.

1316
00:48:12.199 --> 00:48:15.960
<v Speaker 3>We're talking, like for four hours, I walk outside two

1317
00:48:16.000 --> 00:48:16.840
<v Speaker 3>dozen roses.

1318
00:48:16.639 --> 00:48:18.679
<v Speaker 2>On the freaking thing for me, I'm like oh what

1319
00:48:18.840 --> 00:48:21.920
<v Speaker 2>the heck? Like nice, so sweet and then is wet?

1320
00:48:21.960 --> 00:48:24.880
<v Speaker 3>For sure, go shopping today, but I want to sell

1321
00:48:24.920 --> 00:48:27.119
<v Speaker 3>me a thousand dollars. I was like, definitely wet, done

1322
00:48:27.159 --> 00:48:29.159
<v Speaker 3>and done. That's the kind of thing like guys don't

1323
00:48:29.159 --> 00:48:30.840
<v Speaker 3>want to say house the small things matter, like.

1324
00:48:30.880 --> 00:48:34.280
<v Speaker 1>It's yeah, yeah, because it means you're going out of

1325
00:48:34.320 --> 00:48:36.280
<v Speaker 1>your way to make me feel good about it and

1326
00:48:36.360 --> 00:48:37.760
<v Speaker 1>not just something that just like if.

1327
00:48:37.840 --> 00:48:40.320
<v Speaker 2>You know, yeah, I like, just like random, that's what

1328
00:48:40.400 --> 00:48:43.119
<v Speaker 2>I thought. Yeah, so thoughtful. Have you ever dated a woman?

1329
00:48:44.079 --> 00:48:45.360
<v Speaker 2>You know, I've never dated a one, but I've been

1330
00:48:45.400 --> 00:48:48.280
<v Speaker 2>with a woman twice. Twice? Yeah, you like it? Love it? Hated? No,

1331
00:48:48.360 --> 00:48:50.320
<v Speaker 2>it was a defend It was like a fun thing,

1332
00:48:50.599 --> 00:48:52.360
<v Speaker 2>like just for the moment. It wasn't anything that I

1333
00:48:52.400 --> 00:48:54.239
<v Speaker 2>could do it Like, but was it with like a

1334
00:48:54.400 --> 00:48:56.320
<v Speaker 2>guy and you and her? Or was it just one

1335
00:48:56.360 --> 00:48:57.039
<v Speaker 2>on one? Yeah?

1336
00:48:57.159 --> 00:48:58.840
<v Speaker 3>So my one of my good friends, one of my

1337
00:48:58.920 --> 00:49:01.599
<v Speaker 3>best friends, like, my god, do this thing with him?

1338
00:49:01.639 --> 00:49:03.480
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, what it wasn't me having sex with him?

1339
00:49:03.480 --> 00:49:05.280
<v Speaker 3>Which just me and her like pooling around. Have you

1340
00:49:05.360 --> 00:49:06.519
<v Speaker 3>had fooled around before with her?

1341
00:49:06.719 --> 00:49:08.840
<v Speaker 2>No? Never? How do you even start that conversation? Hey,

1342
00:49:08.880 --> 00:49:12.840
<v Speaker 2>we've never like we talked about everything. It's like girl didn't. Yeah,

1343
00:49:12.840 --> 00:49:14.440
<v Speaker 2>but I talk a lot about with my best friends.

1344
00:49:14.440 --> 00:49:16.239
<v Speaker 1>But I don't know if i'd be like, hey, I'm

1345
00:49:16.239 --> 00:49:17.559
<v Speaker 1>gonna fuck you and I've never fucked you.

1346
00:49:17.639 --> 00:49:18.960
<v Speaker 2>But it was all bull. We didn't really do. It

1347
00:49:19.079 --> 00:49:21.719
<v Speaker 2>was all for all think like my hair was here,

1348
00:49:21.800 --> 00:49:22.159
<v Speaker 2>but I wasn't.

1349
00:49:22.679 --> 00:49:25.400
<v Speaker 1>We were acting like, don't get me wrong, I'll fuck

1350
00:49:25.440 --> 00:49:27.440
<v Speaker 1>somebody if I wanted to, but I would intentionally be like, hey,

1351
00:49:27.519 --> 00:49:29.639
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna whatever. Cause like with my girlfriends, like even

1352
00:49:29.679 --> 00:49:31.880
<v Speaker 1>when I was in when I didn't you know, poorn before,

1353
00:49:32.000 --> 00:49:34.559
<v Speaker 1>Like we never like people thought we would be fucking

1354
00:49:34.559 --> 00:49:34.840
<v Speaker 1>on the time.

1355
00:49:34.920 --> 00:49:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I never fucked ever any of these people. Like it

1356
00:49:37.119 --> 00:49:38.800
<v Speaker 2>was like if we work together on set, it'd be

1357
00:49:38.840 --> 00:49:39.039
<v Speaker 2>a thing.

1358
00:49:39.119 --> 00:49:41.960
<v Speaker 1>But we never were out at a party doing whatever,

1359
00:49:42.000 --> 00:49:43.719
<v Speaker 1>and people be like thinking all kinds of like, no,

1360
00:49:43.840 --> 00:49:46.599
<v Speaker 1>that's all your imagination when the perception of what it

1361
00:49:46.719 --> 00:49:49.639
<v Speaker 1>is it's actually a job and job's not right now

1362
00:49:49.840 --> 00:49:52.559
<v Speaker 1>and so see you later, you know what I mean.

1363
00:49:52.639 --> 00:49:55.039
<v Speaker 1>But so that's why for me it's like I and

1364
00:49:55.119 --> 00:49:57.239
<v Speaker 1>also too, I'm from Texas, so it's like being with

1365
00:49:57.440 --> 00:50:00.719
<v Speaker 1>girls was like very taboo. Like all my girlfri and

1366
00:50:01.039 --> 00:50:02.519
<v Speaker 1>a lot of them, I've made out with them and

1367
00:50:02.519 --> 00:50:04.199
<v Speaker 1>they'll be like the next day, we were drunk, and

1368
00:50:04.199 --> 00:50:05.679
<v Speaker 1>then they'd be like, I don't know what you're talking about.

1369
00:50:05.679 --> 00:50:09.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, sure denying, Sure, I liked it even

1370
00:50:09.320 --> 00:50:09.840
<v Speaker 1>if you did it.

1371
00:50:11.519 --> 00:50:11.679
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

1372
00:50:11.719 --> 00:50:14.599
<v Speaker 1>So I didn't know sexually about girls until like later

1373
00:50:14.719 --> 00:50:17.639
<v Speaker 1>on where it like opened up and I was like, right, oh, yeah.

1374
00:50:17.440 --> 00:50:18.840
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't really be with a girl though. There's no

1375
00:50:18.880 --> 00:50:20.559
<v Speaker 2>way I eat a man like me too.

1376
00:50:20.880 --> 00:50:24.400
<v Speaker 1>I like being with girls, but like in a relationship manner,

1377
00:50:24.639 --> 00:50:27.119
<v Speaker 1>it's like I need someone to alpha me yes.

1378
00:50:27.559 --> 00:50:29.719
<v Speaker 2>And that's hard to do. That's hard to do. That's

1379
00:50:29.800 --> 00:50:32.519
<v Speaker 2>very hard to do for sure. All right, next one, okay, cool,

1380
00:50:36.480 --> 00:50:39.119
<v Speaker 2>all right, So it is a naughty question. Which were

1381
00:50:39.559 --> 00:50:42.239
<v Speaker 2>more naughty than the ones? I mean they're all all naughty.

1382
00:50:42.239 --> 00:50:45.920
<v Speaker 2>It's truth with Texas, got it, all right? Favorite place

1383
00:50:46.000 --> 00:50:49.559
<v Speaker 2>to have sex the bed, Very traditional when it comes

1384
00:50:49.599 --> 00:50:53.000
<v Speaker 2>to that doggie your missionary missionary for sure. One night stand.

1385
00:50:53.199 --> 00:50:56.159
<v Speaker 2>Never in life, never had one. This size matter. I mean,

1386
00:50:56.239 --> 00:51:00.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't like anything over seven. I'm sorry, it's seven

1387
00:51:00.320 --> 00:51:04.360
<v Speaker 2>is your number? I just like, yeah, just like I

1388
00:51:04.519 --> 00:51:08.840
<v Speaker 2>like my type. Keep it tight, keep it right? Hmmm,

1389
00:51:09.440 --> 00:51:15.199
<v Speaker 2>oral sex, slopy or clean? Clean? Have you ever scorted? Never?

1390
00:51:15.440 --> 00:51:16.679
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to learn. I don't want to do it,

1391
00:51:16.719 --> 00:51:18.920
<v Speaker 2>don't want to don't it? All right? Last question for

1392
00:51:19.079 --> 00:51:28.920
<v Speaker 2>you naughty? Alright? What type of porn turns you on?

1393
00:51:29.440 --> 00:51:31.599
<v Speaker 2>I don't watch porn, to be honest, never watched it.

1394
00:51:31.639 --> 00:51:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I've watched it before, but it's not my thing, so

1395
00:51:33.480 --> 00:51:35.199
<v Speaker 1>it's not something If you were a horny you'd be like, oh,

1396
00:51:35.880 --> 00:51:37.440
<v Speaker 1>so are you like in one of those people that's

1397
00:51:37.480 --> 00:51:40.320
<v Speaker 1>like imagination? Like are you thinking about past events? Are

1398
00:51:40.360 --> 00:51:41.800
<v Speaker 1>you like what's in your Pandora box?

1399
00:51:41.920 --> 00:51:45.719
<v Speaker 2>Like? What are you masturbating to? I would say, gosh,

1400
00:51:45.760 --> 00:51:47.920
<v Speaker 2>do you have to drap? Dangerous question? I mean you

1401
00:51:47.960 --> 00:51:51.920
<v Speaker 2>could pass if you feel uncomfortable. Yes, yeah, alright? Favorite

1402
00:51:51.920 --> 00:51:56.599
<v Speaker 2>sex toy role play? Yes or no? Not really into it?

1403
00:51:58.199 --> 00:52:01.639
<v Speaker 2>Last dirty dream you had? Last dirty dream? Or do

1404
00:52:01.679 --> 00:52:03.760
<v Speaker 2>you have dirty dreams? I never remember my dreams. I

1405
00:52:03.800 --> 00:52:06.559
<v Speaker 2>don't really remember my dreams. I don't I'm not really

1406
00:52:06.639 --> 00:52:11.159
<v Speaker 2>hiding good naught dreams. Have you ever been caught masturbating?

1407
00:52:11.440 --> 00:52:11.599
<v Speaker 3>Never?

1408
00:52:12.599 --> 00:52:16.800
<v Speaker 2>Sneaky? I live alone? All right? Last question, what's the

1409
00:52:16.920 --> 00:52:18.760
<v Speaker 2>most number of times you've had sex in a day

1410
00:52:19.960 --> 00:52:22.920
<v Speaker 2>three three. That was like very rare.

1411
00:52:23.159 --> 00:52:25.199
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had sex with multiple people in the

1412
00:52:25.239 --> 00:52:28.679
<v Speaker 1>same day. No, it's fun sometimes.

1413
00:52:30.519 --> 00:52:33.440
<v Speaker 2>One person the one guy. I'm very like traditional when

1414
00:52:33.440 --> 00:52:35.159
<v Speaker 2>it comes to that. Yeah, so you're not a one

1415
00:52:35.239 --> 00:52:37.599
<v Speaker 2>night standing like a person, you're not kind of like any.

1416
00:52:37.679 --> 00:52:40.639
<v Speaker 3>Thing tested first, I don't even do anything with that's like,

1417
00:52:40.760 --> 00:52:42.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm sure crazy with that, and.

1418
00:52:42.960 --> 00:52:44.599
<v Speaker 2>I just like the same guy. I don't like to.

1419
00:52:44.800 --> 00:52:48.239
<v Speaker 2>There's nothing wrong with that. Don't don't you don't yourself, don't.

1420
00:52:48.559 --> 00:52:49.360
<v Speaker 2>That's nothing wrong with that.

1421
00:52:49.519 --> 00:52:51.880
<v Speaker 1>That's why mister five and six the date over there,

1422
00:52:51.960 --> 00:52:54.320
<v Speaker 1>he's still in the running. He's probably still I don't

1423
00:52:54.320 --> 00:52:57.000
<v Speaker 1>know if he's been anything. He's dipped in the poniet

1424
00:52:57.000 --> 00:52:58.679
<v Speaker 1>because he needs to go through whatever. But you know,

1425
00:52:58.719 --> 00:53:00.920
<v Speaker 1>there's a reasons and that's you know, if that's your protocol,

1426
00:53:01.159 --> 00:53:03.079
<v Speaker 1>you're inting baby steps into what it is, but that's

1427
00:53:03.079 --> 00:53:04.800
<v Speaker 1>how you manifest to read a full relationship.

1428
00:53:05.039 --> 00:53:05.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just feel like.

1429
00:53:05.679 --> 00:53:07.760
<v Speaker 3>All my relationships that I've had, like real boyfriend titles,

1430
00:53:07.800 --> 00:53:10.519
<v Speaker 3>have been slow roll, like you know, dating for a

1431
00:53:10.559 --> 00:53:12.320
<v Speaker 3>couple of months and Okay, now it's like excuse it.

1432
00:53:12.480 --> 00:53:13.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to date otherwise.

1433
00:53:13.679 --> 00:53:14.920
<v Speaker 1>So do you think he'd be mad right now if

1434
00:53:14.920 --> 00:53:17.320
<v Speaker 1>you dated somebody else at this current moment, Like, if

1435
00:53:17.320 --> 00:53:18.960
<v Speaker 1>you want a date with somebody, and would you tell him?

1436
00:53:19.960 --> 00:53:21.599
<v Speaker 2>I mean, if he asked me, I would be honest

1437
00:53:21.639 --> 00:53:23.360
<v Speaker 2>about it. But you're not just going to indulge.

1438
00:53:23.480 --> 00:53:25.239
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I haven't been on a date with anyone because

1439
00:53:25.239 --> 00:53:27.719
<v Speaker 3>he's my full attention. Like, I mean, the people always

1440
00:53:27.719 --> 00:53:29.679
<v Speaker 3>say keep your offense open, of course if someone text.

1441
00:53:29.519 --> 00:53:32.519
<v Speaker 2>Me wrong, and like, you know, so they're so hope

1442
00:53:32.559 --> 00:53:35.320
<v Speaker 2>for you guys, But it seems like she's taken. I mean,

1443
00:53:35.360 --> 00:53:38.079
<v Speaker 2>I mean just I mean, I just like like what

1444
00:53:38.199 --> 00:53:39.679
<v Speaker 2>I like, and like I don't want to focus on

1445
00:53:39.880 --> 00:53:41.440
<v Speaker 2>I love that though. If that works for you, then

1446
00:53:41.480 --> 00:53:43.360
<v Speaker 2>that works for you. It's a beautiful thing.

1447
00:53:43.679 --> 00:53:45.039
<v Speaker 1>And then if it doesn't work out, then I'm okay,

1448
00:53:45.079 --> 00:53:47.079
<v Speaker 1>fine that I'm and then you're onto the next.

1449
00:53:47.280 --> 00:53:47.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah,
