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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to. Sorry for asking, Sorry for asking. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Cole Connor and I'm Adam Ramsey. This is where we talk, shop,

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<v Speaker 1>ask questions, tell stories, and laugh some laughs about being creators.

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<v Speaker 2>As well as consumers of adult content. We love watching too.

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<v Speaker 1>We certainly do. We also discuss the impact adult films

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<v Speaker 1>have had on us, on our guests, and on the

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<v Speaker 1>LGBTQ community. So strap on and strap in and here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Three two one.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, hello, welcome everybody, welcome to Sorry for asking. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>Adam Ramsey, I'm Cold Connor, and this is this is

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<v Speaker 2>our house. Is our is what we're doing now, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, well new setup. This is a summer of

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<v Speaker 2>shakeups man man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So to fill you all in, Yes, we were

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<v Speaker 1>told like a week before our last studio was closing

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<v Speaker 1>that it was closing, Yeah, that we needed to find

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<v Speaker 1>a new place to tape this. And here we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we are.

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<v Speaker 2>This is our preliminary, our first time. This is where

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<v Speaker 2>we're testing the waters. We're dipping our toes in.

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<v Speaker 1>How are we doing? I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>We are post fourth of July weekends. A lot has happened,

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<v Speaker 2>A lot's been going on since we saw you last,

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<v Speaker 2>which was with mister Judas King, And do you feel like.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a summer of shakeups?

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<v Speaker 2>There are so many changes in my life right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like there's like a lot to manage. But

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<v Speaker 2>first of all, how you doing. How was your weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's my weekend was fine. It's for of July.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do too much. I did accept I you

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<v Speaker 1>were there my Porn without the Porn improv show. Yes, congratulations,

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<v Speaker 1>which was so fun. It was a lot of fun. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>with Girth Brooks and Sylvia Sage and Tony Genius. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>they're also great.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We had Oscar Montoya and Meatball and Betsy Siddaro and

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<v Speaker 1>Mono Agapion. Yeah who I did it with, Like Mono

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<v Speaker 1>and I are hosting it. Yeah, you know, so we'll

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<v Speaker 1>always be in it. I hope. I hope you get

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<v Speaker 1>to do it like once a month. You guys had

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<v Speaker 1>like a full audience.

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<v Speaker 2>I know when I when I got there, there was

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<v Speaker 2>a line to get it, and I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Holy, we had drinks at Birds before then we like

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<v Speaker 1>we walked past the line and I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>that was for us. Yeah, Yeah, it was awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulations, Yeah, meat balls hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>I love the repeated when she would.

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<v Speaker 2>Go no, but also yes, because you know you never

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<v Speaker 2>say no an improv. Is it exciting or was it

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<v Speaker 2>like nerve wrecking as fuck to do It's?

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<v Speaker 1>UCB is a really fun place to do it. So

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<v Speaker 1>I did Groundling. I went through the whole Groundling school

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<v Speaker 1>like fifteen years ago. Wow. So I just remember my

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<v Speaker 1>last few times doing improv at that stage in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>getting really nervous before anytime I had to do improv

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<v Speaker 1>because it was like the school becomes more about writing

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<v Speaker 1>and performing sketches than the improv, and you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>forget how to improv when you're doing like the writing

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<v Speaker 1>right re e sided. So then I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot how to improv. But uc B, I mean everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>the improvisers we have in both the show and the

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<v Speaker 1>one we did in May, they're so strong that they

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<v Speaker 1>can I feel safe that they can they can take

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<v Speaker 1>care of you, yeah, you know, and then I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like we Yeah, I feel like everybody was on the

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<v Speaker 1>same page. So you know, sometimes an improvview mis hear

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<v Speaker 1>something and it's kind of and someone goes off on

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<v Speaker 1>like a weird tangent you're like, oh, I realized that

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<v Speaker 1>they they heard something else then the audio. But then

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<v Speaker 1>you can always tie that in like happy accidents. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, can I do the next one? I think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Mono and I were messaging and he was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>should do it. Oh totally, it's so fun like it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, you get anxious before, get nervous, and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I did a little like meditated and like an hour

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<v Speaker 1>before and yeah, I just I was really happy with

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<v Speaker 1>how it went in the turnout and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun. So I will post when the next

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<v Speaker 1>one is perfect, sounds good.

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<v Speaker 2>I will hopefully be featuring mister Adam cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations. Who do you think was like the standout of

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<v Speaker 1>the of the porn people? I think Sylvia was like

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<v Speaker 1>fucking amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a big fan of Sylvia's. I've been on her

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<v Speaker 2>podcast and she's just she's just such a person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I just love her the way she carries herself where

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<v Speaker 2>she talks. She's so funny and so cool and so beautiful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we got to have her on. I would love to

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<v Speaker 2>have Yeah, she's so engaging, Like I feel like having

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<v Speaker 2>her on it would like it would.

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<v Speaker 1>Just fly by have we had Tony on. We have

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<v Speaker 1>not had Tony and yeah we should have Girth on too.

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<v Speaker 1>Girth is an interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>They were all a lot. All four of you were fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you had some of the best closing lines.

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<v Speaker 1>You had like two times.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like when you were like right before Blackout,

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<v Speaker 2>you had like a killer.

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<v Speaker 1>Of a line like smells like shit in here. That

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<v Speaker 1>was my favorite. Well done. It was like I was

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for the right moment. I knew that had to

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<v Speaker 1>end because the characters on the stage were like smelling

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<v Speaker 1>each other's parts in the scene, so it was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it has to smell so funny. Yeah, yeah, good timing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was good. What's being shooken up for you? Shaken?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness.

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<v Speaker 2>Streams of income, I guess are all kind of being

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<v Speaker 2>like called into question right now. I'm and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm about to go to Berlin, which I'm really excited about,

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<v Speaker 2>and we can get into that in a second. But

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<v Speaker 2>like everything that is like my line of work right now,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's just like halting a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm just kind of like, Okay, I need to

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<v Speaker 2>like kind of make some changes, like you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>high tops and.

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<v Speaker 1>My only fans. I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like kind of like trying to beef up a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. I'm realizing, Yeah, for.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, it's so fun. Guys subscribed. Yeah it's gonna go.

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<v Speaker 2>So I also I also reached out to a director

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<v Speaker 2>who we both know, and I was just like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I bet you know I'm in great shape right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just like really missing studio work. Is there anything

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<v Speaker 2>you got for me? And like, you know, he basically

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<v Speaker 2>was just like yeah, what do you He's like, I've

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<v Speaker 2>been really getting into fetish stuff, like are you into fetish?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, well that could mean anything, So

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<v Speaker 2>what exactly are you asking me? And he was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like I'm about to shoot something with a

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<v Speaker 2>fuck machine?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you into that?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was just like, oh that kind of fetish,

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<v Speaker 2>oh bondage and pain And I was like I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, role play and voyeurism could be you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it doesn't really matter who it was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, because I'm not calling you, it's just more

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<v Speaker 2>he works for a bunch. I was just like, shit,

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<v Speaker 2>isn't there like hot daddy porn? I could be in again,

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<v Speaker 2>Like you know, Daddy's on Daddy's or something like.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like with gay porn, it's just people people

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<v Speaker 1>are just like pushing the limits more like people just

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<v Speaker 1>want to want more limit pushing.

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<v Speaker 2>And I also think that a lot of content creators

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<v Speaker 2>are like going for niche, like they have like their

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's been kind of also something like people

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<v Speaker 2>have been kind of telling me forever, which is like.

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<v Speaker 1>Pick one thing and do that. I just can't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just not my thing. It's I know, and it

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<v Speaker 1>would get very boring if it's not something that you're into. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. It was like I was talking with a

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<v Speaker 1>friend so about the back to not to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the mprov show, but someone someone was saying that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not all the scenes end up being about porn,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like he was like, yeah, the first couple

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<v Speaker 1>of scenes you kind of like used it a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, yeah, because every scene would be boring

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<v Speaker 1>if it's like there's only if you're just horny for sex.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I was kind of curious about so you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>his show is called porn without the porn, so I

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of curious like if it was supposed to be,

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<v Speaker 2>like like the setups are around porn, Yeah, it's like,

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<v Speaker 2>but the improv is not at all?

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<v Speaker 1>Or was it was that the.

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<v Speaker 2>Plan for it not to be or was it supposed to.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually it actually wasn't really discussed with everybody. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>an improv show and there's four of us that do porn.

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<v Speaker 2>And did you notice that every time you guys ask

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<v Speaker 2>the audience for a prompt that like it all Like

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<v Speaker 2>I would say half the time it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like stuff that had to do with children. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you hear me?

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<v Speaker 2>Like at one point, like as some dude like after

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<v Speaker 2>like the sixth time, like somebody was they were like, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>pick a scenario that has like not been in porn

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<v Speaker 2>or something that was like kids doing homework, and I

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<v Speaker 2>like called it out. I was just like what because

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<v Speaker 2>we need another thing about kids right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what is with the audience? There was there was

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<v Speaker 1>a show right before us that was kids like it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was a kid improv show right before.

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<v Speaker 2>Us, Wow, followed by porn perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>Followed by porn without the porn on the same on

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<v Speaker 1>the same little chalkboard on the street right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, another thing that was different recently, I was asked

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<v Speaker 2>for the second year in a row to be part

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<v Speaker 2>of Seattle Pride, which I don't know if you have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever been to Seattle.

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<v Speaker 1>Just once I went, and I went in October, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you like it? Yeah? It was it rained, of

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<v Speaker 1>course and that. But the day that I left, I

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<v Speaker 1>had like a good chunk of the day before I

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<v Speaker 1>had to go to the airport and it was beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>So and this guy that I had hooked up with

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<v Speaker 1>it took me to brunch and then showed like drugged

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<v Speaker 1>me to a couple of parks and stuff, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we took pictures and Seattle's pretty cute, little nice day.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was just like I've been.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been to Seattle before, like for touris Sea stuff

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<v Speaker 2>for when I was a touring musician, I went to Seattle.

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<v Speaker 1>But these last two.

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<v Speaker 2>Years going like in late June for Pride, when the

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<v Speaker 2>weather is perfect, everyone's in a good mood.

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<v Speaker 1>Seattle is so clean.

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<v Speaker 2>Seattle's like San Francisco, but greener and not as dirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I can see that.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was just like, wow, y'all, don't brag about

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<v Speaker 2>yourself enough, Like Seattle is a cool place.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably stay clean because it's raining all.

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<v Speaker 2>That, right, and like why would end the homeless people

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<v Speaker 2>seventy percent of the year. The I just had a

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<v Speaker 2>really good time. I went up there with the Ottero

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<v Speaker 2>which I hadn't done in like almost two years. So like,

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<v Speaker 2>and a lot of people on our team are people

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<v Speaker 2>and they were kind of gagged. They were like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was just like, yeah, Dad's gonna show everybody

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<v Speaker 1>how it's done. It was fun. Oh my god. I

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was on that stage feeling my rock star

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, fantasy and just like a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>And when the sun went down, like the lights turned

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<v Speaker 2>on and it felt like we were at Coachella and

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<v Speaker 2>was a moment where hold It Against Me by Britney

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<v Speaker 2>I turned into a monster in the best way I

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't be sending anything, damn it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I had another moment with Jay's Angel in my dreams.

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<v Speaker 2>And then like right at the end of our very

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<v Speaker 2>very long we had like we did it for many hours,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, the Mulin rouge, like that foursome, and

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<v Speaker 2>are you kidding? By the end of it, full performance,

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<v Speaker 2>full like tableau at the end, you know, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>with the four like that was us brought the house down.

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<v Speaker 2>I was very very proud, lip syncing the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 2>Like it was really really fun. So it was fun

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<v Speaker 2>to go go dance again. Seattle Pride highly recommended. When

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<v Speaker 2>was that June? Like the end of June, so basically

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to do a buy.

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<v Speaker 1>gunnery in my throat. Oh babes, So people still get

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<v Speaker 1>gone Aria. That's like if I get Gonerria, it's in.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope I am not chinking my throat really.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, at this point I was a c sematic, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it sucks. I was like I went

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<v Speaker 1>to get tested for that by Orgy and yeah like yeah, sorry, guys.

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<v Speaker 2>getting tested just in time for Berlin. Apportude is the

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<v Speaker 2>new prep by the way, you guys, and the injection.

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times and it's like not easy to.

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<v Speaker 2>Get on really, Like oh, they offered it to me

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<v Speaker 2>the place that I got my doctor's office. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 2>were like, we have this option if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>change from truvada, which you know I've been doing for twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>Almost twelve years. Oh, I'm on to yeah, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's something like something always gets in the way, Like

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<v Speaker 1>times for it, and it just like never gets done. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, I'm into it. It's nice not having to

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<v Speaker 2>take a pill every day.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Yeah, I'm not. I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Jinx myself, but I have not gotten gonnery or chlamydia

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<v Speaker 2>in quite some time.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you on doxy also?

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<v Speaker 2>I am not on it as like a regular thing.

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<v Speaker 2>This is doxy pep for the moms. This is something

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<v Speaker 2>that people now in you know, in our line not

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<v Speaker 2>line of work, but our queer existence, just general guys

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<v Speaker 2>who are sexually active, because tax.

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<v Speaker 1>Could be sexually active at any moment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I feel like, yeah, preventively, this doxy cycling is

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<v Speaker 2>taken to avoid mostly chlamydia, but I think it works

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<v Speaker 2>for to oh in syphilis. So I don't take it

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<v Speaker 2>as PEP, which is post exposure or pre exposure. No,

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<v Speaker 2>as prep. I don't take it as prep. I take

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<v Speaker 2>it take it as PEP as post exposure. So if

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<v Speaker 2>I have like a particularly mild risky encounter or period

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<v Speaker 2>of time.

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<v Speaker 1>This I'll be like, I'll take you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes sometimes I was. I was like with a performer

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<v Speaker 2>recently who had had I mean, I'm you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to say his name because I wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about him anyway, Teddy Graham.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you worked with him before?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, First, I'm going to say what I'm talking about,

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<v Speaker 2>which is that I knew he had had a very

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<v Speaker 2>busy week in Los Angeles and we filmed something together.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, this is the time to take

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<v Speaker 2>a doxy pep.

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<v Speaker 1>So I did.

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<v Speaker 2>However, I want to talk about because you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to talk about our recent experiences and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you worked with Teddy Graham? Yeah, I am. He

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<v Speaker 1>was in the Nashville content house that I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, okay, okay, I had one of the best, one

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<v Speaker 2>of the best scenes I've ever filmed.

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<v Speaker 1>In my life.

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<v Speaker 2>And let me tell you this too. This this is

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I'm terrible. If you're a performer who is

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<v Speaker 2>reached out to me to film and I've ghosted you,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm terrible. Lately.

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<v Speaker 2>I just have been you know, I'm I've just been

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<v Speaker 2>very protective of my energy and I don't want to film.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even want to hook up like outside of

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<v Speaker 2>filming with people that I don't know anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just so rare for me these days.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's been reaching out for a while, just like hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be in town, like you know, let's

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<v Speaker 2>get together.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm always like, this is what I do a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Of times because I know I should film more, so

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just be like, yeah, totally, like reach out when

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<v Speaker 2>you get here. And then he did, and I totally

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, oh God, like I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to say like maybe I want to meet you first,

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<v Speaker 2>or like or no, or like I get weird about scheduling.

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<v Speaker 1>He came to gym class.

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<v Speaker 2>Like right at the end, and he was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you're Adam, right and I said yes, and he was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm teddy. I was like, oh my gosh, I'm so

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<v Speaker 2>glad you're here because I'm sorry. I've been really bad

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<v Speaker 2>about messaging people back. And he was like, I totally

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<v Speaker 2>get it, don't worry about it. And I also was

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<v Speaker 2>just kind of like, damn, this motherfucker's sexy, like even

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<v Speaker 2>sexier in person. And I was just like also, I

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<v Speaker 2>think I just needed to meet you first. It's nice

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<v Speaker 2>to meet you. He's like, it's nice to meet you too,

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<v Speaker 2>and I kind of we just kind of like instantly

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<v Speaker 2>kind of started getting closer to each other. And he's

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<v Speaker 2>a great kisser and he like makes eye contact and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, so, how long are you in town?

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<v Speaker 2>And he was like, I'm here till Monday and I

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<v Speaker 2>was just like okay, and like bam, bam bam. Like

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<v Speaker 2>two days later he was over. Didn't even need a

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<v Speaker 2>bi mix.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was just like I don't always need it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't always, but like I would say lately, like

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<v Speaker 2>especially with someone I don't know very well, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I probably want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Use that, like just to be sure I do it

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm like, if I know, I'm just topping.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, Io just topped with him and I was

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<v Speaker 2>fucking hard as rock, happy as a clam. It was amazing,

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<v Speaker 2>like came at the same time, like pulled it out

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<v Speaker 2>to show the camera like I was like, this is

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<v Speaker 2>like the old days anyway, So props, Teddy Graham.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't been filming much either, No, why is that

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<v Speaker 1>you think? Just I have a lot of content stored

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<v Speaker 1>up and I and I had stuff coming in from

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<v Speaker 1>the Nashville Content House, and I just had all these

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<v Speaker 1>group things that needed to be released. What when other

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<v Speaker 1>people were doing it? So I just I'm backed up

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<v Speaker 1>with content and I wanted to like give it a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to so that I'm not releasing things six months

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<v Speaker 1>after I make it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you like to coordinate your schedule with you don't?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I know some people do, because I know people

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait. Yeah, for I will say months, like I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say, that's very considerate of you, very generous,

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<v Speaker 2>because not everybody is like that. Some people are like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>do not release before I do, because then you're making

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<v Speaker 2>the money off of it before I'm able to. So

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<v Speaker 2>I have some some scenes ready to go, but like

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<v Speaker 2>people are like, no, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Not until I do. And I'm like, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>So ships in the pipeline, y'all. I'm I'm filming again.

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<v Speaker 2>It's happening. I have some things to post, but anyway I.

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<v Speaker 1>Should feel I should start maybe after after this, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to Wisconsin for the Hodag Festival. What is that?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a music festival? Hodag? Is that like, what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? That a name American thing word. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not where, it's not what kind of music. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's like rock and country. Ryan Landers, my friend, Yeah, Ryan,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I was always talking about it, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>let's see what this fucking hodag festival is about. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>see how good it does.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like a hoe bag to me, so I

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<v Speaker 2>kind of want to You're going to the hoe bag Festival.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna ho bag.

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<v Speaker 1>Get the hold app you can host the whole bag Festival.

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<v Speaker 3>Popstar Big loads, better taste.

423
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<v Speaker 1>Cool. Okay, so you're traveling, Yeah, I recently got banned

424
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<v Speaker 1>from Grinder for getting massage clients out of it.

425
00:21:17.400 --> 00:21:19.599
<v Speaker 2>Oh how do they catch that?

426
00:21:20.160 --> 00:21:22.319
<v Speaker 1>I guess somebody maybe I didn't respond to someone and

427
00:21:22.359 --> 00:21:25.920
<v Speaker 1>they got pissed and that you have to be reported

428
00:21:25.960 --> 00:21:28.319
<v Speaker 1>for something like that. I don't know. It was like,

429
00:21:29.559 --> 00:21:32.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, sometimes people would ask and I'd be like, yeah,

430
00:21:32.880 --> 00:21:38.079
<v Speaker 1>it's the price and whatever and soliciting, yeah, but just

431
00:21:38.119 --> 00:21:38.839
<v Speaker 1>for massage.

432
00:21:39.880 --> 00:21:41.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

433
00:21:40.920 --> 00:21:44.599
<v Speaker 1>Wow, it's a weird thing. I don't know how long

434
00:21:44.680 --> 00:21:47.359
<v Speaker 1>bands last or if anybody out there works at Grinder

435
00:21:47.599 --> 00:21:51.000
<v Speaker 1>wants to help me out and help get back on Grind.

436
00:21:51.440 --> 00:21:53.599
<v Speaker 1>I've been using Scruff though, and I like Scruff.

437
00:21:53.680 --> 00:21:55.920
<v Speaker 2>I like Scruff as a as a user as in

438
00:21:56.000 --> 00:21:58.920
<v Speaker 2>terms of like user functionality, user interface.

439
00:21:59.079 --> 00:22:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I like Scruff better. Yeah. I like Grinder too, but

440
00:22:04.400 --> 00:22:07.559
<v Speaker 1>there's just more traffic on Grinder. Yeah, you know, more

441
00:22:07.599 --> 00:22:08.240
<v Speaker 1>people are on it.

442
00:22:08.279 --> 00:22:10.559
<v Speaker 2>I think I feel like, I don't know if you've noticed,

443
00:22:10.599 --> 00:22:12.720
<v Speaker 2>I feel like also a lot of times the engagement,

444
00:22:12.839 --> 00:22:14.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, and I've been on these apps for forever.

445
00:22:14.799 --> 00:22:16.720
<v Speaker 2>I don't really need them or use them, but sometimes,

446
00:22:16.720 --> 00:22:18.240
<v Speaker 2>you know, you just get bored and you browse and

447
00:22:18.319 --> 00:22:22.559
<v Speaker 2>stuff and things happen. But I feel like Grinder a

448
00:22:22.559 --> 00:22:26.079
<v Speaker 2>lot of times the engagement is like, hey, what's up,

449
00:22:26.640 --> 00:22:29.000
<v Speaker 2>Whereas like on Scruff, they're like, I love the drop

450
00:22:29.039 --> 00:22:30.599
<v Speaker 2>dead gorgeous quote on your profile.

451
00:22:31.240 --> 00:22:35.519
<v Speaker 1>It's a little more conversations on Scruff is like more

452
00:22:35.680 --> 00:22:41.119
<v Speaker 1>men like men with the personality, you know. Yeah, that's so.

453
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<v Speaker 1>That's why I've been because at first, when you first like,

454
00:22:44.519 --> 00:22:46.039
<v Speaker 1>get on it, I hadn't been on it. I had

455
00:22:46.039 --> 00:22:50.400
<v Speaker 1>never paid for Scruff before. Now, okay, and it just

456
00:22:50.440 --> 00:22:54.920
<v Speaker 1>takes some time getting some traction, you know, but now,

457
00:22:55.079 --> 00:22:57.359
<v Speaker 1>but also I don't The only thing I don't like

458
00:22:57.519 --> 00:23:01.480
<v Speaker 1>is people are messaging you from like two thousand miles

459
00:23:01.519 --> 00:23:06.960
<v Speaker 1>away because they can just like pinpoint Los Angeles and

460
00:23:06.960 --> 00:23:08.839
<v Speaker 1>then talk to guys in Los Angeles. I guess that's

461
00:23:08.839 --> 00:23:11.160
<v Speaker 1>what they're doing, yes, And I'm like, I don't need

462
00:23:11.200 --> 00:23:15.559
<v Speaker 1>to talk to you, yes, if nothing's gonna happen if people.

463
00:23:15.279 --> 00:23:18.079
<v Speaker 2>Are more like I've kind of made it a point

464
00:23:18.119 --> 00:23:20.599
<v Speaker 2>almost like, if people are more than five miles away

465
00:23:20.640 --> 00:23:22.359
<v Speaker 2>from me, I'm likely.

466
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<v Speaker 1>Not going to respond to anybody. Sorry, guys, thank you

467
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<v Speaker 1>for the woofs in the nice comments. I mean, I guess, yeah,

468
00:23:28.160 --> 00:23:30.160
<v Speaker 1>if you just want to give me a compliment, fine,

469
00:23:30.240 --> 00:23:31.200
<v Speaker 1>but let's leave it at that.

470
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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, have you had any shoots lately that you were like?

471
00:23:35.240 --> 00:23:35.720
<v Speaker 1>Really? Really?

472
00:23:35.960 --> 00:23:37.920
<v Speaker 2>I know you haven't been shooting much lately, but has

473
00:23:37.960 --> 00:23:40.680
<v Speaker 2>there been anything, even studio or not studio, that you

474
00:23:40.680 --> 00:23:43.079
<v Speaker 2>were like this that was amazing or that was.

475
00:23:43.119 --> 00:23:51.480
<v Speaker 1>Terrible or worth reporting? No? I got nothing. I hooked

476
00:23:51.519 --> 00:23:56.799
<v Speaker 1>up with a twenty year old the other night. I know,

477
00:23:57.200 --> 00:24:02.319
<v Speaker 1>I was like, Wow, that's young. Chat. I just turned

478
00:24:02.440 --> 00:24:05.599
<v Speaker 1>fucking forty three, y'all. Happy birthday by the way. Thanks.

479
00:24:05.680 --> 00:24:08.119
<v Speaker 2>Yeah already I think we said that already for the

480
00:24:08.200 --> 00:24:08.559
<v Speaker 2>last time.

481
00:24:08.799 --> 00:24:11.039
<v Speaker 1>What did I get for my birthday? Gonnery and my throat?

482
00:24:13.000 --> 00:24:16.319
<v Speaker 1>What a hope before? What a hoe bag deserves? No?

483
00:24:17.519 --> 00:24:20.319
<v Speaker 1>Just kidding, just like a hoe bag. No, he was

484
00:24:20.319 --> 00:24:23.400
<v Speaker 1>really cute. We had been talking on grinder and then

485
00:24:23.400 --> 00:24:27.319
<v Speaker 1>we were talking on scruff. We finally made it happen. Wow.

486
00:24:27.480 --> 00:24:32.240
<v Speaker 1>And he came over and was the bottom or top bottom.

487
00:24:32.319 --> 00:24:35.000
<v Speaker 1>He's like a little muscle, little muscle twenty year old.

488
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<v Speaker 2>Yum. I've never I don't think I've gone. I shot

489
00:24:39.599 --> 00:24:42.960
<v Speaker 2>a say uncle scene with somebody who was maybe twenty,

490
00:24:43.480 --> 00:24:45.079
<v Speaker 2>and I think that's the youngest person I've ever had

491
00:24:45.119 --> 00:24:47.119
<v Speaker 2>sex with and definitely the largest age gap.

492
00:24:47.200 --> 00:24:49.839
<v Speaker 1>Sorry, well, I think I'm sure her say uncle, I've

493
00:24:49.920 --> 00:24:52.880
<v Speaker 1>had sex with an eighteen year old, Damn for sure.

494
00:24:53.240 --> 00:24:55.079
<v Speaker 2>It just it's just kind of I mean, I know

495
00:24:55.160 --> 00:24:56.680
<v Speaker 2>we talk about this a lot, and like this is

496
00:24:56.680 --> 00:24:58.240
<v Speaker 2>something I wanted to get into. It's like just the

497
00:24:58.240 --> 00:25:00.839
<v Speaker 2>passage of time is so weird, and it's so weird

498
00:25:00.880 --> 00:25:03.880
<v Speaker 2>to me to think, like, oh, yeah, I saw a

499
00:25:03.920 --> 00:25:06.200
<v Speaker 2>broke Back Mountain in the theaters in two thousand and five.

500
00:25:07.480 --> 00:25:12.440
<v Speaker 2>That means this person was born around that time. I've

501
00:25:12.440 --> 00:25:15.720
<v Speaker 2>been I've been on this crazy like nostalgia kick. I

502
00:25:15.759 --> 00:25:18.200
<v Speaker 2>don't know if it's because we're both forty three.

503
00:25:18.279 --> 00:25:19.480
<v Speaker 1>I love a nostalgia kick.

504
00:25:19.599 --> 00:25:24.559
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've been watching watching I recently watched UHF with

505
00:25:24.640 --> 00:25:27.559
<v Speaker 2>Weird Al Yankovic. There's a movie from the eighties I

506
00:25:27.599 --> 00:25:30.440
<v Speaker 2>haven't seen that. It's not great, but it's very funny

507
00:25:30.440 --> 00:25:33.200
<v Speaker 2>and like it's like it has super memorable lines and

508
00:25:33.279 --> 00:25:36.279
<v Speaker 2>like it was just weird to watch something that I

509
00:25:36.319 --> 00:25:39.000
<v Speaker 2>haven't seen in probably thirty years, but like they just

510
00:25:39.119 --> 00:25:41.759
<v Speaker 2>their lines just come right back, like you just remember

511
00:25:41.839 --> 00:25:43.359
<v Speaker 2>these things that you haven't seen.

512
00:25:43.160 --> 00:25:47.160
<v Speaker 1>In so long. I watched or I started, I didn't

513
00:25:47.200 --> 00:25:49.559
<v Speaker 1>finish it. Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken because it came

514
00:25:49.640 --> 00:25:52.960
<v Speaker 1>up and I was a conversation that's on what was that.

515
00:25:53.119 --> 00:25:57.759
<v Speaker 1>It's like, it's a story about a girl who it's

516
00:25:57.799 --> 00:26:03.200
<v Speaker 1>depression era. Okay, she runs away from home because her

517
00:26:04.079 --> 00:26:08.200
<v Speaker 1>her aunt, she's she's a troublemaker. She's like a bad

518
00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:12.440
<v Speaker 1>kid or that's what her stepmom treats her as for

519
00:26:12.480 --> 00:26:14.799
<v Speaker 1>her aunt. I don't know what it is. But because

520
00:26:14.799 --> 00:26:20.559
<v Speaker 1>her mom's dead, so she runs away because the parental

521
00:26:20.799 --> 00:26:22.960
<v Speaker 1>the guardian is going to give her to foster care

522
00:26:23.160 --> 00:26:27.079
<v Speaker 1>because she just can't handle her. So she runs away.

523
00:26:27.519 --> 00:26:33.359
<v Speaker 1>She joins she finds like a circus and once and

524
00:26:33.519 --> 00:26:36.200
<v Speaker 1>starts taking care of the horses and they do something

525
00:26:36.240 --> 00:26:40.359
<v Speaker 1>like the horses jump off something into a pool, and

526
00:26:40.400 --> 00:26:43.400
<v Speaker 1>so she becomes a rider, like one of the girls

527
00:26:43.440 --> 00:26:49.359
<v Speaker 1>that dives with the horse seen and then somehow she

528
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<v Speaker 1>I like, that's I didn't. I haven't watched it in

529
00:26:52.319 --> 00:26:55.240
<v Speaker 1>a long time, but I remember she goes blind from

530
00:26:55.319 --> 00:27:02.359
<v Speaker 1>like something startles the horse before and the horse is Yeah,

531
00:27:02.440 --> 00:27:04.839
<v Speaker 1>eighties or nineties. I definitely watched this from h that's

532
00:27:04.839 --> 00:27:06.839
<v Speaker 1>a Disney movie. Totally.

533
00:27:07.960 --> 00:27:10.799
<v Speaker 2>Wow, I haven't see that's there. There we go, like,

534
00:27:10.880 --> 00:27:14.160
<v Speaker 2>I haven't thought about this probably since then, I know,

535
00:27:14.519 --> 00:27:17.279
<v Speaker 2>and like just you describing it, like I remember watching that.

536
00:27:18.079 --> 00:27:21.319
<v Speaker 1>Wow. Another one.

537
00:27:21.319 --> 00:27:22.839
<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen it probably since I was like eight

538
00:27:22.880 --> 00:27:24.599
<v Speaker 2>years old, And I just like randomly thought of it

539
00:27:24.599 --> 00:27:25.680
<v Speaker 2>the other day and I was like, let me see

540
00:27:25.680 --> 00:27:27.160
<v Speaker 2>if this is streaming somewhere, and I was able to

541
00:27:27.160 --> 00:27:31.319
<v Speaker 2>find it. A movie called Batteries Not Included. Yes, you

542
00:27:31.359 --> 00:27:35.200
<v Speaker 2>remember that, Yeah, with Hume Cronin and Jessica Tandy. Nobody

543
00:27:35.200 --> 00:27:38.000
<v Speaker 2>who's listening is maybe, well maybe our older listeners.

544
00:27:38.039 --> 00:27:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Do you remember Cocoon?

545
00:27:40.240 --> 00:27:44.240
<v Speaker 2>I remember it also featuring these actors. But like, that's

546
00:27:44.279 --> 00:27:46.079
<v Speaker 2>another one. Probably haven't seen this since I was a kid.

547
00:27:46.599 --> 00:27:48.559
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was boring, was it? It's like an

548
00:27:48.559 --> 00:27:49.279
<v Speaker 1>old prison movie?

549
00:27:49.359 --> 00:27:51.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean it's a movie about old people who

550
00:27:51.000 --> 00:27:53.960
<v Speaker 2>feel young again because they'd come across an alien egg

551
00:27:54.279 --> 00:27:58.039
<v Speaker 2>or something. Yeah, Batteries Not included. Another movie about old

552
00:27:58.039 --> 00:28:01.240
<v Speaker 2>people and aliens. But the aliens like are like little toys,

553
00:28:01.759 --> 00:28:05.119
<v Speaker 2>they like fly around and fix things. These fucking eighties

554
00:28:05.160 --> 00:28:05.880
<v Speaker 2>movie like.

555
00:28:06.200 --> 00:28:09.319
<v Speaker 1>Everybody's doing cocaine. I'm for sure what I'm making it,

556
00:28:09.400 --> 00:28:09.839
<v Speaker 1>you can tell.

557
00:28:10.880 --> 00:28:13.640
<v Speaker 2>But like eighties movie plots like the UAHF for example,

558
00:28:13.680 --> 00:28:16.079
<v Speaker 2>and Batteries Not included, it's always about like you know,

559
00:28:16.880 --> 00:28:20.039
<v Speaker 2>like working class people who are like trying to like

560
00:28:20.440 --> 00:28:25.400
<v Speaker 2>save something from like the corporate bastards. Goonies was like

561
00:28:25.440 --> 00:28:29.119
<v Speaker 2>that UACHEF was like that. Batteries Not included, Ski Patrol.

562
00:28:29.480 --> 00:28:32.519
<v Speaker 2>It's always like these movies about people who are like

563
00:28:32.599 --> 00:28:35.799
<v Speaker 2>let's save the rec center or like save this tenement building,

564
00:28:36.000 --> 00:28:39.000
<v Speaker 2>or save this TV station from.

565
00:28:38.839 --> 00:28:43.279
<v Speaker 1>The bastard evil corporate jerky movies like that.

566
00:28:43.799 --> 00:28:47.160
<v Speaker 2>Seriously, it's relevant to today, is the funny thing. Yeah,

567
00:28:47.319 --> 00:28:49.319
<v Speaker 2>Nostalgia has been all around because like I think a

568
00:28:49.319 --> 00:28:51.759
<v Speaker 2>lot about like just how like our memory works, and

569
00:28:51.839 --> 00:28:55.559
<v Speaker 2>like I put on something else happened actually randomly where

570
00:28:55.759 --> 00:28:58.319
<v Speaker 2>Hulu was really pushing this movie from like maybe two

571
00:28:58.359 --> 00:29:00.759
<v Speaker 2>thousand and nine. It was an animated movie called Cloudy

572
00:29:00.759 --> 00:29:01.920
<v Speaker 2>with a Chance of Meatballs.

573
00:29:02.039 --> 00:29:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, have you seen that?

574
00:29:04.480 --> 00:29:07.559
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I remember going to see it, so I was like, well,

575
00:29:07.720 --> 00:29:10.759
<v Speaker 2>I think I remember liking this. It was like a funny, colorful,

576
00:29:11.000 --> 00:29:12.960
<v Speaker 2>three D animated movie, like let me put it on.

577
00:29:14.079 --> 00:29:18.039
<v Speaker 2>I watched fifteen minutes of it and was like, not

578
00:29:18.400 --> 00:29:21.319
<v Speaker 2>a single shred of this movie is ringing a bell

579
00:29:22.119 --> 00:29:23.200
<v Speaker 2>like nothing.

580
00:29:23.839 --> 00:29:25.319
<v Speaker 1>It was like seeing it for the first time.

581
00:29:26.240 --> 00:29:30.519
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, which doesn't happen often. And I actually texted my

582
00:29:30.559 --> 00:29:32.480
<v Speaker 2>ex boyfriend who I watched it with. I was like,

583
00:29:32.880 --> 00:29:35.119
<v Speaker 2>do you remember this movie Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs?

584
00:29:35.119 --> 00:29:37.400
<v Speaker 2>He was like, yeah, we saw it together and I

585
00:29:37.440 --> 00:29:41.079
<v Speaker 2>was like, Okay, I was just checking because I don't

586
00:29:41.079 --> 00:29:44.079
<v Speaker 2>remember anything about this movie and it kind of scared me.

587
00:29:44.599 --> 00:29:46.440
<v Speaker 1>That's like me when I got a hot dog on

588
00:29:46.640 --> 00:29:48.519
<v Speaker 1>Sunday nights and then I was trying to come home

589
00:29:48.519 --> 00:29:50.960
<v Speaker 1>and watch Gilded Aids and I remember nothing about it

590
00:29:51.240 --> 00:29:52.839
<v Speaker 1>to watch it. Maybe that's what it was.

591
00:29:52.839 --> 00:29:54.799
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I was just high or drum When I watched

592
00:29:54.839 --> 00:29:56.920
<v Speaker 2>Cloudy with the Chance of Meatballs. I was like, ooh,

593
00:29:57.000 --> 00:30:00.480
<v Speaker 2>three d let's get really stoned before we going here.

594
00:30:00.559 --> 00:30:03.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that sounds right. That sounds like me in my

595
00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:07.480
<v Speaker 2>mid twenties. Well speaking, of parties. That's another thing. Like

596
00:30:07.559 --> 00:30:10.799
<v Speaker 2>I high through my Access party. We did it, which

597
00:30:10.920 --> 00:30:12.319
<v Speaker 2>was around the time your birthday.

598
00:30:13.000 --> 00:30:16.240
<v Speaker 1>It was the weekend before my Yeah, that's probably where

599
00:30:16.279 --> 00:30:18.960
<v Speaker 1>I got the gunnery in my throat. Get out of here.

600
00:30:19.440 --> 00:30:22.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, another me throwing super spreader events.

601
00:30:24.640 --> 00:30:27.200
<v Speaker 1>There were a few dicks in my mouth at that party.

602
00:30:27.319 --> 00:30:29.640
<v Speaker 2>Well, the party was great, and we just so everybody

603
00:30:29.680 --> 00:30:33.400
<v Speaker 2>knows who's listening, September thirteen is our next one axis

604
00:30:33.640 --> 00:30:35.119
<v Speaker 2>sweep is what we're calling it.

605
00:30:35.519 --> 00:30:38.599
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna there's gonna be broom. It's a broom theme,

606
00:30:39.279 --> 00:30:42.880
<v Speaker 1>like like the like Nickey Mouse Wizard.

607
00:30:44.519 --> 00:30:47.839
<v Speaker 2>Sure, yes, actually that's very funny. I didn't think of that,

608
00:30:47.960 --> 00:30:50.400
<v Speaker 2>but no, I was thinking more like, you know, broom

609
00:30:50.480 --> 00:30:53.119
<v Speaker 2>is what we use to sweep the fall leaves away

610
00:30:53.240 --> 00:30:58.039
<v Speaker 2>and and keep clean. No rakes, that's dangerous. But also

611
00:30:58.079 --> 00:31:00.319
<v Speaker 2>which is fly away, fly on brooms. So that's what

612
00:31:00.400 --> 00:31:04.000
<v Speaker 2>we're gonna do. But anyway, so Access Bloom was which

613
00:31:04.039 --> 00:31:07.240
<v Speaker 2>was our summer Solstice party. That was the week of

614
00:31:07.359 --> 00:31:11.480
<v Speaker 2>the protests, the ice protests. Yeah, crazy time we've been

615
00:31:11.519 --> 00:31:15.920
<v Speaker 2>having in La with all that. But I had to

616
00:31:16.000 --> 00:31:18.440
<v Speaker 2>do like a last minute pivot to a new location,

617
00:31:19.359 --> 00:31:21.279
<v Speaker 2>which I you know, I was like, literally day before

618
00:31:21.319 --> 00:31:23.319
<v Speaker 2>we were supposed to throw the party, I was driving

619
00:31:23.359 --> 00:31:25.480
<v Speaker 2>to this place on the West Side and thinking the

620
00:31:25.640 --> 00:31:27.000
<v Speaker 2>entire drive, why am I doing this?

621
00:31:27.000 --> 00:31:28.119
<v Speaker 1>This's gonna be a waste of time.

622
00:31:29.319 --> 00:31:30.799
<v Speaker 2>And then I get there and I was like, Okay,

623
00:31:30.839 --> 00:31:32.519
<v Speaker 2>we can do this, pull it off in twenty four hours.

624
00:31:33.200 --> 00:31:37.839
<v Speaker 2>I swear that following week I was like cognitively impaired,

625
00:31:38.480 --> 00:31:43.200
<v Speaker 2>where I was worried that I broke something. I literally

626
00:31:43.240 --> 00:31:44.799
<v Speaker 2>and this is this is kind of what led me

627
00:31:44.839 --> 00:31:47.039
<v Speaker 2>to like these ideas of like these you know, questions

628
00:31:47.079 --> 00:31:49.880
<v Speaker 2>of memory and our memory works. And I was just like,

629
00:31:49.920 --> 00:31:52.680
<v Speaker 2>am I I'm just like on a road to early

630
00:31:53.000 --> 00:31:57.720
<v Speaker 2>onset Alzheimer's, Like it's coming. I'm so scared of shit

631
00:31:57.839 --> 00:31:58.200
<v Speaker 2>like that.

632
00:31:59.079 --> 00:32:00.599
<v Speaker 1>But have any of that in your family?

633
00:32:01.119 --> 00:32:05.119
<v Speaker 4>No, Well, my grandma died of something that made her

634
00:32:05.240 --> 00:32:09.559
<v Speaker 4>cuckoo like where she didn't remember things and remember, you know,

635
00:32:10.200 --> 00:32:11.880
<v Speaker 4>or like first it was kind of charming, like she

636
00:32:11.920 --> 00:32:14.119
<v Speaker 4>would like be like really like sweet and ask me

637
00:32:14.160 --> 00:32:17.240
<v Speaker 4>who I was and tell me funny things that I

638
00:32:17.279 --> 00:32:18.839
<v Speaker 4>was like, oh, that's I'm gonna write that down. But

639
00:32:18.880 --> 00:32:20.519
<v Speaker 4>then like towards the end she was just kind of

640
00:32:20.519 --> 00:32:24.200
<v Speaker 4>confused and scared. And I sometimes wonder like maybe that's

641
00:32:24.240 --> 00:32:26.039
<v Speaker 4>a good way to go because you don't know death

642
00:32:26.119 --> 00:32:26.519
<v Speaker 4>is coming?

643
00:32:27.039 --> 00:32:29.039
<v Speaker 1>Is that is that like a big like one of

644
00:32:29.079 --> 00:32:30.799
<v Speaker 1>your biggest fears dying?

645
00:32:31.039 --> 00:32:36.160
<v Speaker 2>No, or I don't know which one's worse is of

646
00:32:36.240 --> 00:32:38.839
<v Speaker 2>like you know, knowing it's coming, or like being so

647
00:32:39.000 --> 00:32:40.720
<v Speaker 2>out of your mind that you don't know in that

648
00:32:40.759 --> 00:32:41.799
<v Speaker 2>way you don't really care.

649
00:32:43.440 --> 00:32:47.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I feel like this podcast, yeah, let's

650
00:32:47.240 --> 00:32:52.519
<v Speaker 1>get dark. It depends on like the if you're like

651
00:32:52.559 --> 00:32:55.440
<v Speaker 1>a control freak, I think it would be really scary

652
00:32:55.759 --> 00:32:59.279
<v Speaker 1>to never remember what's going on or how you got somewhere,

653
00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:02.400
<v Speaker 1>you know. But if you can just like go with

654
00:33:02.599 --> 00:33:04.880
<v Speaker 1>the punch and like roll with it, then I think

655
00:33:04.920 --> 00:33:09.240
<v Speaker 1>you could just be like yeah, yeah, I know I

656
00:33:09.319 --> 00:33:13.559
<v Speaker 1>should who that is? But right, yes, I don't. Do

657
00:33:13.599 --> 00:33:15.319
<v Speaker 1>you want to end up in an old folks home together?

658
00:33:15.599 --> 00:33:20.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's got to be gay though, yeah, yes, yeah,

659
00:33:20.200 --> 00:33:23.279
<v Speaker 2>you know that would be great. I mean I want

660
00:33:23.279 --> 00:33:27.480
<v Speaker 2>a community of my old homo friends and like us

661
00:33:27.599 --> 00:33:31.240
<v Speaker 2>just be like yeah, where we get to like, you know,

662
00:33:31.920 --> 00:33:34.759
<v Speaker 2>put on VHS tapes of things like batteries not included

663
00:33:34.799 --> 00:33:36.480
<v Speaker 2>and be like you remember.

664
00:33:36.200 --> 00:33:40.559
<v Speaker 1>And people fuck and yeah, and apparently they get lots

665
00:33:40.599 --> 00:33:43.079
<v Speaker 1>of gunnery. Yeah, oh my god.

666
00:33:43.599 --> 00:33:46.039
<v Speaker 2>It is just a preview of our of our future

667
00:33:46.039 --> 00:33:46.599
<v Speaker 2>as old men.

668
00:33:48.680 --> 00:33:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I mean we have said before, like I we both

669
00:33:52.799 --> 00:33:57.960
<v Speaker 1>tend to get hornier as we are aging. Yes, And actually,

670
00:33:58.039 --> 00:33:59.400
<v Speaker 1>so this is interesting to me too.

671
00:34:00.279 --> 00:34:03.039
<v Speaker 2>You just got with a twenty year old and I

672
00:34:03.079 --> 00:34:05.119
<v Speaker 2>feel like like this has kind of come up in

673
00:34:05.160 --> 00:34:06.839
<v Speaker 2>conversation a lot lately too, is that a lot of

674
00:34:06.880 --> 00:34:10.159
<v Speaker 2>gen Z people are just like less sexual than millennials

675
00:34:10.840 --> 00:34:14.840
<v Speaker 2>because like the pendulum side a lot of sides.

676
00:34:14.639 --> 00:34:17.320
<v Speaker 1>Yes, which I think is a side is a good

677
00:34:17.360 --> 00:34:17.719
<v Speaker 1>way to be.

678
00:34:19.480 --> 00:34:21.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like I think I mentioned on one of

679
00:34:22.000 --> 00:34:24.559
<v Speaker 2>the recent episodes that I have kind of like a

680
00:34:24.639 --> 00:34:28.199
<v Speaker 2>dad's son relationship with somebody and like we've we've never fucked.

681
00:34:28.239 --> 00:34:29.719
<v Speaker 2>He just comes over and he just wants to like

682
00:34:29.800 --> 00:34:32.320
<v Speaker 2>suck my dick and cover me with this huge load,

683
00:34:32.360 --> 00:34:35.159
<v Speaker 2>and like that's kind of all that happens. So he's

684
00:34:35.199 --> 00:34:37.880
<v Speaker 2>like very much a side and it's a blast.

685
00:34:38.159 --> 00:34:41.159
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's great. Yeah, I could get into that as

686
00:34:41.199 --> 00:34:41.920
<v Speaker 1>long as I get to.

687
00:34:41.880 --> 00:34:46.840
<v Speaker 2>Suck the decks of course. Yes, you know, you know

688
00:34:46.960 --> 00:34:49.400
<v Speaker 2>me an Ooral top. You got to get that mouth

689
00:34:49.440 --> 00:34:53.480
<v Speaker 2>moving a bottom? Well, are you an oral top.

690
00:34:53.320 --> 00:34:57.639
<v Speaker 1>Or an oral like sol bottom, meaning meaning you service

691
00:34:57.679 --> 00:35:00.480
<v Speaker 1>with your mouth? Yes? You eve.

692
00:35:02.400 --> 00:35:07.800
<v Speaker 2>Give well? Yes, okay, but wait, hold on, wait, this

693
00:35:07.880 --> 00:35:11.519
<v Speaker 2>is a funny because aren't you because if you're a bottom,

694
00:35:11.639 --> 00:35:12.679
<v Speaker 2>aren't you receiving?

695
00:35:13.639 --> 00:35:18.039
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? But if I'm eating an ass, then I'm giving tongue.

696
00:35:18.199 --> 00:35:20.519
<v Speaker 2>But isn't that like a top that's like a.

697
00:35:20.559 --> 00:35:24.400
<v Speaker 1>Top thing to doing that sucking dick isn't a top

698
00:35:24.440 --> 00:35:29.280
<v Speaker 1>thing to do. That's a bottom thing to do. Yeah,

699
00:35:30.440 --> 00:35:31.039
<v Speaker 1>I guess this is.

700
00:35:31.199 --> 00:35:35.360
<v Speaker 2>But this is an interesting kind of question about like, uh,

701
00:35:35.480 --> 00:35:43.119
<v Speaker 2>what's the opposite not receptive, but that is active because

702
00:35:43.119 --> 00:35:45.880
<v Speaker 2>you're receiving, you're getting sucked in the mouth.

703
00:35:46.559 --> 00:35:50.840
<v Speaker 1>I know this is so confusing. I know.

704
00:35:51.000 --> 00:35:53.519
<v Speaker 2>I like this conversation because it's like it's like kind

705
00:35:53.519 --> 00:35:56.639
<v Speaker 2>of the question of like don versus sub Like if

706
00:35:56.679 --> 00:36:00.360
<v Speaker 2>you are the one who's sucking dick, are are you

707
00:36:00.440 --> 00:36:02.360
<v Speaker 2>the one who is active or are you the one

708
00:36:02.360 --> 00:36:03.119
<v Speaker 2>who's passive?

709
00:36:03.480 --> 00:36:05.159
<v Speaker 1>You're the one you're active.

710
00:36:05.360 --> 00:36:09.159
<v Speaker 2>Okay, but if you're getting fucked, that's considered passive.

711
00:36:09.760 --> 00:36:12.079
<v Speaker 1>Although interesting, so I'm.

712
00:36:11.960 --> 00:36:16.079
<v Speaker 2>Still again that's another question, like you're in control even

713
00:36:16.119 --> 00:36:18.400
<v Speaker 2>though you're the one receiving. So I feel like the

714
00:36:18.400 --> 00:36:21.400
<v Speaker 2>whole binary of dom sub and top bottom. I think

715
00:36:21.400 --> 00:36:25.480
<v Speaker 2>it's getting really questioned. Yeah, and I love that it's

716
00:36:25.519 --> 00:36:28.920
<v Speaker 2>getting a questioned. Okay, I have another I have a

717
00:36:28.960 --> 00:36:31.920
<v Speaker 2>hookup story. I wanted to tell you. It was very interesting.

718
00:36:32.159 --> 00:36:35.440
<v Speaker 2>You know, after I work at my parties, it's really

719
00:36:35.559 --> 00:36:37.039
<v Speaker 2>rare that I go home with somebody. I know I've

720
00:36:37.039 --> 00:36:39.800
<v Speaker 2>mentioned that before, but right at the end of one

721
00:36:39.800 --> 00:36:44.199
<v Speaker 2>of my recent high Tops nights for gym class, somebody

722
00:36:44.679 --> 00:36:47.159
<v Speaker 2>came by and just like in ctitat was like hi

723
00:36:47.519 --> 00:36:49.239
<v Speaker 2>and I was like hi, and he was like who

724
00:36:49.280 --> 00:36:51.360
<v Speaker 2>are you. I was like, oh, I'm Adam whatever, like

725
00:36:51.400 --> 00:36:53.880
<v Speaker 2>it's my party, you know. It was just like within

726
00:36:54.000 --> 00:36:57.000
<v Speaker 2>three minutes, I was giving him my number, which is

727
00:36:57.159 --> 00:37:00.599
<v Speaker 2>so rare, and he was being very like, I'm very.

728
00:37:00.440 --> 00:37:02.679
<v Speaker 1>Interested in hanging out with you tonight, and I was like,

729
00:37:03.280 --> 00:37:03.960
<v Speaker 1>very sweet of you.

730
00:37:04.280 --> 00:37:06.320
<v Speaker 2>Not going to happen. I was like, I don't hook

731
00:37:06.400 --> 00:37:09.119
<v Speaker 2>up after work because.

732
00:37:08.800 --> 00:37:12.840
<v Speaker 1>You've also been there like for a long time. Yeah yeah, yeah,

733
00:37:12.880 --> 00:37:16.199
<v Speaker 1>like you get there how many hours before like anybody

734
00:37:16.280 --> 00:37:16.639
<v Speaker 1>not that.

735
00:37:16.719 --> 00:37:19.079
<v Speaker 2>Like it depends, but like but by the end usually

736
00:37:19.119 --> 00:37:20.199
<v Speaker 2>what I want to do is I want to just

737
00:37:20.199 --> 00:37:22.000
<v Speaker 2>like get myself home and like watch an episode or

738
00:37:22.039 --> 00:37:24.719
<v Speaker 2>something and fall asleep. Cut to three point thirty in

739
00:37:24.760 --> 00:37:26.880
<v Speaker 2>the morning. This guy is coming over to my house.

740
00:37:28.760 --> 00:37:32.000
<v Speaker 2>We just had there was just chemistry. He told me

741
00:37:32.920 --> 00:37:38.039
<v Speaker 2>that he needed it to be DL, which if you're

742
00:37:38.079 --> 00:37:39.559
<v Speaker 2>listening at home, if you don't know, it means for

743
00:37:39.639 --> 00:37:42.639
<v Speaker 2>the mom's down low, right, isn't that what DL means?

744
00:37:42.639 --> 00:37:44.840
<v Speaker 1>Which means like basically, this needs to be kept secret?

745
00:37:45.960 --> 00:37:47.840
<v Speaker 1>And I kind of was like, it's usually like a

746
00:37:47.960 --> 00:37:50.760
<v Speaker 1>term if it's somebody that isn't out.

747
00:37:51.159 --> 00:37:55.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes, So of course, knowing me, this ends up being

748
00:37:55.840 --> 00:37:58.679
<v Speaker 2>a therapy session because I need to ask questions about

749
00:37:58.679 --> 00:38:02.239
<v Speaker 2>this stuff. I'm like, why, what's the purpose? How are

750
00:38:02.239 --> 00:38:04.400
<v Speaker 2>we feeling about it? Are you okay with this?

751
00:38:04.480 --> 00:38:06.079
<v Speaker 1>Can I talk about it podcast?

752
00:38:06.400 --> 00:38:09.440
<v Speaker 2>I Meanwhile, I'm not naming names, but essentially, like without

753
00:38:09.480 --> 00:38:12.519
<v Speaker 2>giving too much away, this person was in a monogamous

754
00:38:12.559 --> 00:38:15.239
<v Speaker 2>relationship and he was coming over and he did not

755
00:38:15.360 --> 00:38:17.360
<v Speaker 2>want his partner to know. So I was just like, okay,

756
00:38:17.440 --> 00:38:19.119
<v Speaker 2>is this something that like if your partner find out,

757
00:38:19.159 --> 00:38:21.840
<v Speaker 2>he would feel bad? How many times have you done

758
00:38:21.880 --> 00:38:23.400
<v Speaker 2>this in the years that you've been with this person

759
00:38:24.480 --> 00:38:26.920
<v Speaker 2>in the times that you've done this. By the end

760
00:38:27.039 --> 00:38:29.920
<v Speaker 2>of your experience, do you leave it feeling really good

761
00:38:29.960 --> 00:38:32.000
<v Speaker 2>about yourself or do you leave it feeling awful?

762
00:38:32.440 --> 00:38:34.719
<v Speaker 1>Do you like the feeling? Yes?

763
00:38:35.159 --> 00:38:37.320
<v Speaker 2>And I kind of I was like determined by the

764
00:38:37.440 --> 00:38:39.840
<v Speaker 2>end of it to break it no for him to

765
00:38:39.880 --> 00:38:41.519
<v Speaker 2>be for I was like, I want you to leave

766
00:38:41.559 --> 00:38:45.719
<v Speaker 2>my apartment feeling really good about what just happened, and

767
00:38:45.760 --> 00:38:47.199
<v Speaker 2>like he kind of was like, wow, I really didn't

768
00:38:47.239 --> 00:38:49.000
<v Speaker 2>expect to have this conversation. So I was like, you know,

769
00:38:49.039 --> 00:38:51.880
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm really not mood. Fuck, but I'm

770
00:38:51.880 --> 00:38:54.239
<v Speaker 2>glad we're having this conversation. We're cuddling and making out

771
00:38:54.239 --> 00:38:57.679
<v Speaker 2>and stuff got to thirty minutes later, he fucks.

772
00:38:57.440 --> 00:39:00.519
<v Speaker 1>The fucking shit out of me. It's so good.

773
00:39:01.119 --> 00:39:04.039
<v Speaker 2>We like really connect and I was just like, Okay, well,

774
00:39:04.719 --> 00:39:07.199
<v Speaker 2>I'm really down to hang out with you again, but like,

775
00:39:07.239 --> 00:39:08.719
<v Speaker 2>I really want you to think about the things that

776
00:39:08.760 --> 00:39:10.760
<v Speaker 2>we've talked about, and he was like sure. The next day,

777
00:39:10.760 --> 00:39:13.519
<v Speaker 2>he calls me on the way to wherever he's going

778
00:39:13.559 --> 00:39:16.159
<v Speaker 2>to meet with his partner and whoever, and he was like,

779
00:39:16.159 --> 00:39:17.679
<v Speaker 2>I want to say I had a really good time

780
00:39:17.719 --> 00:39:20.159
<v Speaker 2>with you. That was really good. That was really a

781
00:39:20.199 --> 00:39:23.480
<v Speaker 2>good time. And also I'm going to talk with my partner.

782
00:39:23.960 --> 00:39:28.480
<v Speaker 2>He was like, you planted some really healthy seeds and.

783
00:39:28.199 --> 00:39:31.039
<v Speaker 1>I thought, so good. Yeah, I feel.

784
00:39:30.920 --> 00:39:33.960
<v Speaker 2>Really good about it. And also I want him to

785
00:39:34.000 --> 00:39:36.280
<v Speaker 2>come back, and I wanted.

786
00:39:36.079 --> 00:39:40.400
<v Speaker 1>To feel I wonder I want to follow up, you

787
00:39:40.480 --> 00:39:43.679
<v Speaker 1>want to follow up? Okay, if it happens again, yeah,

788
00:39:43.199 --> 00:39:45.079
<v Speaker 1>I want to hear what.

789
00:39:47.480 --> 00:39:50.679
<v Speaker 2>If anything, Let me ask you this. If he comes

790
00:39:50.719 --> 00:39:53.440
<v Speaker 2>back and he's like I didn't have the conversation with

791
00:39:53.440 --> 00:39:56.119
<v Speaker 2>my partner, or he did and it didn't go well,

792
00:39:56.320 --> 00:39:57.920
<v Speaker 2>but I still want to come over and see you.

793
00:39:58.239 --> 00:40:02.400
<v Speaker 2>Is this in a morally questionable or ambiguous place for

794
00:40:02.440 --> 00:40:04.599
<v Speaker 2>me to continue occasionally seeing this person?

795
00:40:05.000 --> 00:40:09.000
<v Speaker 1>What do you think? I mean, it's up to him.

796
00:40:09.480 --> 00:40:12.800
<v Speaker 1>He could also I mean, he could also lie to you.

797
00:40:13.960 --> 00:40:15.639
<v Speaker 1>You can also be like, well that's true.

798
00:40:15.639 --> 00:40:17.159
<v Speaker 2>But I mean, I know we talked a lot about

799
00:40:17.360 --> 00:40:20.559
<v Speaker 2>on this podcast about like cheating as a construct, right,

800
00:40:20.639 --> 00:40:22.760
<v Speaker 2>and like it's really like not my business if this

801
00:40:22.800 --> 00:40:25.239
<v Speaker 2>person wants to engage in that way. But I know

802
00:40:25.360 --> 00:40:27.719
<v Speaker 2>that maybe there We're probably going to have some listeners

803
00:40:27.760 --> 00:40:30.519
<v Speaker 2>who hear what I'm saying and think like if I

804
00:40:30.559 --> 00:40:34.760
<v Speaker 2>am complicit and perpetuating in this person's essentially lying to

805
00:40:34.880 --> 00:40:37.840
<v Speaker 2>his partner, Am I a bad person?

806
00:40:40.440 --> 00:40:43.920
<v Speaker 1>It just depends on if you care. You seem like

807
00:40:44.519 --> 00:40:48.079
<v Speaker 1>I know you pretty well, like you would feel bad

808
00:40:48.119 --> 00:40:48.559
<v Speaker 1>about it.

809
00:40:49.360 --> 00:40:52.599
<v Speaker 2>I just the thing is, I think I think secrets

810
00:40:52.639 --> 00:40:58.400
<v Speaker 2>are fun. So I think secrets are fun, and I

811
00:40:58.480 --> 00:41:02.119
<v Speaker 2>and I think it's okay to have secrets sometimes. However,

812
00:41:02.519 --> 00:41:06.039
<v Speaker 2>like the other thing was like this, this person seemed

813
00:41:06.039 --> 00:41:08.239
<v Speaker 2>to be a little bit tortured by what he was doing,

814
00:41:08.440 --> 00:41:10.679
<v Speaker 2>even though he was enjoying it very much. And I

815
00:41:10.679 --> 00:41:13.400
<v Speaker 2>feel like that partly was the seem like you.

816
00:41:13.440 --> 00:41:18.719
<v Speaker 1>Opened up a thought, which I'm very gladly think about

817
00:41:18.719 --> 00:41:20.559
<v Speaker 1>it because he's probably used to just doing it, and

818
00:41:20.679 --> 00:41:24.480
<v Speaker 1>like because he wants to, well, he can't talk to

819
00:41:24.519 --> 00:41:27.639
<v Speaker 1>his partner about it because his partner would get upset.

820
00:41:27.840 --> 00:41:30.440
<v Speaker 2>Well, and maybe and maybe that's part of the appeal

821
00:41:30.480 --> 00:41:32.119
<v Speaker 2>for him, is like most of the times when he's

822
00:41:32.159 --> 00:41:34.840
<v Speaker 2>had these hookups, he's kept it to himself. He hasn't

823
00:41:34.840 --> 00:41:36.679
<v Speaker 2>talked to this because you know, he doesn't come into

824
00:41:36.719 --> 00:41:39.119
<v Speaker 2>somebody with a fucking therapy background who asked them all

825
00:41:39.159 --> 00:41:41.800
<v Speaker 2>these questions, So he doesn't he doesn't.

826
00:41:41.519 --> 00:41:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Really even go there.

827
00:41:42.440 --> 00:41:46.000
<v Speaker 2>He just has you know, illicit sex with some stranger

828
00:41:46.159 --> 00:41:48.199
<v Speaker 2>and then leaves feeling like a horrible person.

829
00:41:48.440 --> 00:41:51.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. But here's my thing. I'm like, I think secrets

830
00:41:51.320 --> 00:41:57.360
<v Speaker 1>are fun. Like I don't get couples that only play together. Yeah.

831
00:41:57.440 --> 00:42:00.679
<v Speaker 1>That I'm like, because sometimes you just want your own

832
00:42:00.719 --> 00:42:04.159
<v Speaker 1>experience with somebody. Yes, And I'm like, I don't want

833
00:42:04.159 --> 00:42:07.519
<v Speaker 1>my partner to be there if we only play together, right,

834
00:42:07.639 --> 00:42:09.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I want to just do this with this

835
00:42:09.920 --> 00:42:12.239
<v Speaker 1>other person. Well, which is why I love a fucking

836
00:42:12.280 --> 00:42:14.119
<v Speaker 1>open relationship. I'm so glad I'm in one.

837
00:42:14.239 --> 00:42:17.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and I actually we yes yesterday the day before

838
00:42:17.920 --> 00:42:19.880
<v Speaker 2>I ended up had a pool party and like met

839
00:42:19.880 --> 00:42:23.000
<v Speaker 2>somebody with a friend of ours, somebody I've hooked up

840
00:42:23.039 --> 00:42:25.000
<v Speaker 2>with and he's definitely made out with at a parties,

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<v Speaker 2>and the chemistry was just right, and we were like

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<v Speaker 2>in the pool and like, you know, we were just

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<v Speaker 2>like should we go around that? You know my boyfriend

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<v Speaker 2>lived like two blocks away, and We're like should we

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<v Speaker 2>just go and have a moment? And it was so

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<v Speaker 2>much fun. And after we were done having our like

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<v Speaker 2>posts like wow, this was great moment. I full on

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<v Speaker 2>was like, well, I've had a moment alone with this person.

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<v Speaker 2>You haven't. I highly recommend it. I was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want you guys both to know while I'm

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<v Speaker 2>in the room, please have a moment alone.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we got to wrap up.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything that you wanted to talk about that

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<v Speaker 2>we can get to I know, I think, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>Cole's got to get to work, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Work, people, people being one massages, nothing, We're good, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. It'll just give us more to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>next time. Talk about this. This was us testing the waters. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like the look of it and everything. I also think, hi, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>well this has been. It's been. Sorry for asking.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm Adam Ramsey. Thanks you guys so much for

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<v Speaker 2>tuning in. See guys next time, see you next time. Bye,

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<v Speaker 2>this has been. Sorry for asking.

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<v Speaker 1>Be sure to like, comment and subscribe, and until next time,

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<v Speaker 1>stay sexy.