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Speaker 1: Made a decision.

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Speaker 2: A pace sunny sun on Ihaddaysion night.

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Speaker 1: So let's up, suckers. How you doing yo yo yo? Holidays?

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Happy holidays. This is our last show before the holidays.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it is, yeah yeah, next next week is Christmas?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Are you freaking kidding me? Right now? I know

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that's crazy, isn't that crazy? Okay, we're gonna be off

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next week, but then we'll be back. When are we

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going to be back? We'll be back out juy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I know, I think it's close. I think

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it's the very end of December.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, it's yeah.

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Speaker 3: The thirtieth of December is a Monday.

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Speaker 1: So maybe we should have tatt this before we started

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the show. That's okay. Yeah, these guys peek behind the curtage.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry if you don't want to hear how the

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sausage gets. Everyone's like that could have been an email.

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All right, all right, people, Hey, let's say hi to

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our fun fabulous people. Dick frolicking Merry Christmas, Kelly Latti

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Dah happy Honkah, Katie's rolling on e Nikki call your girls,

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wish him a happy eight Christmas. Elizabeth Williamson. You got

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a lot of kids. That's a lot of you got

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a lot of in Yeah, you better get easy. Get shopping,

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girl yep Rita, get a new bassinet. Polly, get some

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more syrup. Valerie hits out of the park with those gifts. Katerina,

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check your moler because you don't want to be spending

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a lot of money for oral surgery. Right, you don't

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want to be in the hospital at Christmas time. Gabby

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and Missy, they're out shopping for us, right, Yeah, I

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hope little elves. Shaan vosh Pei he's gonna get sentence

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his baby's first Christmas, Got baby's first Christmas. Rebecca lub

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Kelly Brandt, She's gonna get you a lot of gifts,

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one of them being birth control. Alicia ask A loveday

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to Monte Leslie, stop coughing, get over it before New

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Year's Sarah Sefano, she's our Priizano. Aaron, you're a dirty Sanchez. Jennifer,

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get up. It's time for Christmas. Sandra, it's not easy

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being green and Red and Jacob you're Prowley. We love

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you guys, Oh my gosh, really appreciative. Yeah, we are

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of our special special friends. We have a great group. Yeah,

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so I had the best time this weekend. Yes, and

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I'm waiting. I'm dying to hear this. Sorry. Okay, so

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of course we needed judges. We have a big speech

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and debate team at my kids' school. So okay, Xander,

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I was kind of talking about the end of the year,

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the end of the semester. Xander had a lot to do.

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He had this crazy essay he had to do for

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his ap seminar class. He had all this stuff. Meanwhile

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he procrastinated writing a speech. Remember that I told you

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that last year he was doing something called duos, So

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he was working with another girl and they did not

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because there was only one other team, so between the

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two of them he won. It was some weird thing.

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It was like for people who had never done it before.

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So he got a taste of winning, but then he

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never won again the rest of the thing. Yeah, okay,

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so he had to he was doing his own speech.

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It's ten minutes long, and he wrote a speech. So

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he had the idea already in the summer that he

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was going to write about like in favor of being

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a softer man like kind of about toxic masculinity and

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for men anyway. The speech is called the Joy of

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Authenticity and it's about men being able to like express themselves,

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not having to be this stereotype only stereotype. Well, he

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really put off writing the speech and then he finally

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started writing it like literally two weeks before, oh my gosh,

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and he was like, well, I have an intro. I

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was like, bro, this speech has got to be. Of course,

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I called him bro his toxic masculinity. Ruh, listen exactly,

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get to the gym, do some reps, and then write

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this fucking speech.

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Speaker 2: So he.

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Speaker 1: Had the intro down and he read me his intro

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and I was like, that's really good, but that's like

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three minutes. Like the gotta be speech. Oh my god,

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it has to be one hundred memorized and memorized. Well.

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work to do, and I and so other kids left

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and right were dropping their event because they hadn't written

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their speeches in time. But he's like, no, I want

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to do it. I still want to do it. So

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he ends up finishing writing the speech three days before

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the event. He's got other stuff due, and I'm like,

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it would take me four years to memory time is

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you know? But I'm trying not to be like, can't

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be done, Like I don't want to say that, but

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it was done, and Lynette, it was so good, really funny.

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Speaker 1: That's so he's so good. He's a little you, right,

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he's turning into you, a little bit of you, like

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less like angsty about it. He's just I don't know.

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to write that. He did struggle really hard. But I'm like,

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from inside out. Oh yeah, joy right, And he's talking

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about bringing out like when the voices in your head

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start telling you that like you're not enough or whatever,

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and he's like, anyway, so he has like it's very

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self deprecating and funny, but also has like very funny

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lines like at one point is like, you know you're

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wanting the validation of your peers can really make you

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second guess yourself, Like, for instance, I almost didn't wear

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this outfit and it was wearing like a little suit

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with like a blue jacket. And he goes because one

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of my friends told me, I look like I'm coming

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back from a bot mitzvah. He goes, but I'm sorry,

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but like there was a sale at h and M

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or whatever. He goes on blue Cambridge jackets and it's

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the middle of like and like honest and you know. Anyway,

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so I was like, well, the speech is really good,

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but it is not memorized. And when I tell you

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remember I came back from my first speech and debate

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thing and I was like blown away by these kids.

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I'm like, this is the These kids are so polished.

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their head, like, not like it's they memorize something. So

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I was very concerned about him because it really wasn't memorized.

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trying to do it, and he was making so many

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he was getting stuck so many different times, and like

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the kind of stuck where he'd be like like I

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got to look at the paper, oh gos. So then

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he had to finish writing a final paper for one

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of his classes. So I was like, oh my god.

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like reading it to me. He's reciting it to me

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in the car, totally forgetting spots of it. So I

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was like, so finally I just said to him, listen,

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do it, give it your all, but know that these

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other kids have had a long time to like prepare,

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I said, and just like do it for practice. Like, yeah,

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there's going to be more tournaments, I said, sorry, tournaments.

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be so hard, don't be hard on yourself. Because he's

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a perfectionist. I was worried about him getting really upset,

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you know, and I was like, just just do it

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for the fun of it. Yeah. Yeah, So he was like,

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good learn, I'm going to Yeah. He was also in

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another event called Duo Improv, where so he was entered

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into two different things. This time yeah, this time. So

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he has a friend and they were going to do

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this duo improv. So there's nothing you can You can't

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and then you have to come up. You have two

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minutes to come up with a scene, right, and then yeah,

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deliver it for president. But he has impromis. Yeah, so

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he was looking forward to that. Yes, like if all

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else fails, all have fun doing the improv. Yeah. Okay, So,

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by the way, how many kids do you think actually

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really memorize? I mean they probably do them, Linnette. I

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judge three separate events every single kid. But do you

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think they might have like screwed up but you don't

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know it, like maybe they just kept It's possible. Yeah,

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I wouldn't know, right, But but they do such a

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good job. They do a really good job. Most of

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these kids are very smooth, you know. And anyway, also,

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you have ten minutes. This is how it works. If

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you go over ten minutes, you have a thirty second

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grace period. If you go over your thirty second grace period,

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you get a time violation. So what that means is

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that the judge can rank you number one, but due

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to your time violation, you can't be in first place,

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so it automatically knocks you down. Okay, so it's important

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to come in on time. Yeah. So Xander's piece, he said,

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was coming in on time, but he was like, yeah,

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want to be timing it in your grace period. And

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he's like, yeah, but it's too late. I don't have

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time to cut because I'm already like I got to

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memorize what's here. Yeah, So I'm like, okay, yeah, so

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doing it for the experience, for the experience, right, Yeah,

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it's good for him. Yeah, okay, so I have like

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many funny things to tell you. Okay, so we get there.

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get your judging instructions. One of the instructions is you

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don't cut anybody off, like even if they go over time.

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fourteen minutes. Oh my god. It also wasn't good and

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it was fourteen minutes. But you don't say like, okay,

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you're out of time. Yeah, like you just that's it. Okay, okay,

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So anyway, at our judging instructions, I'm hanging out. I'm

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with my friend who's my co chair of the fundraising

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committee at my school, so I'm with her. I'm with

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my friend Tamra that I shouted out her jewelry business,

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and I'm with my I'm with a good friend of

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mine who's from a different school. But kids our kids.

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and her daughter and Sadie used to be good friends

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at their old at their elementary school. So her kids

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at a different school, and like, but I've seen her

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at every she always judges. So we had we have

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so much fun. That's great. I had other friends there

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So Julie Casum her high school friend is this girl

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named Courtney, and Courtney's daughter now goes to my kids school.

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Julie has told many many a funny story by her

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friend Courtney and her crazy life. So she was with

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us too, so it was like a little that's so cool.

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total time violation. Not only did he have a time violation,

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but he got cut off. So the judge didn't understand

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the instructions. It was probably a new judge, and they

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were like apparently they were like, uh, mister Taylor, you

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need to sit down. Oh wow, you went your overtime

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over his grace period. So then Xander was really upset

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and kind of thrown off, and the coach told me

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she was like, okay, so this thing happened. The judge

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was totally wrong. They should they never should cut anyone off,

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and Xander didn't get to finish. He only had a

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couple of lines left which wrapped up the speech and

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he didn't get to say them. So you know, it

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is what it is, right, And I was like, okay,

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she goes, but I told I told him it shouldn't

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affect your ranking. Your ranking is what it is, but

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to finals. Okay, okay, but only only the top people

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nobody watches. So here's how it goes. There's one judge

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in every room. So there's all these different events going on,

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and they have a ton of judges and you go

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into like a classroom and it's just you and the kids.

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Oh then and the kids that are in that event.

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So Xander's event is called original Oratory. So I was

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I judged something called Okay. So one judge and they

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rank all the kids. Then they do a second round

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with a different judge, and that judge ranks all the

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kids and they and then they do a third round,

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and then whoever in every event, whoever's got the highest

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ranking between the three judges, the highest average, goes on. Okay, okay.

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So I saw Xander in between He's like, Mom, you

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know I I I was having trouble with the memorization

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and I was pausing too long and it made me

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go over time and I got a time violation and

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the guy cut me off, and I was like, I

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know whatever, Yeah, you'll learn and you live, You'll learn,

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learn yeah, second second round, another time violation because his

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piece is too fucking long. So he does it the

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same one again. Yeah, he has to do his same speech.

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He does. He's doing the same speech. He'll do it

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all year. Oh so he does his speech again. He

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gets another time violation because it went over time. So

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then he said, he told me later his third round

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went well because he got better. He got and it

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went over ten minutes, but it was in the grace period.

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It was like ten minutes and five second No, because

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he forgot a chunk of it, so oh my god,

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so he didn't even do a piece of part of it.

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So he's like, so it came in faster, so okay.

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So then so meanwhile and then he said the improv

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was just funny, but it was a good time. So

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then so I judged this thing called it's called extemporaneous okay,

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so what this is? This was like the worst. Okay,

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my first thing I judged. I don't remember it might

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have been this, but anyway, So here's how it works.

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Super freakin nerdy brainiac kids get given a topic. They

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have thirty minutes to prepare a five minutes a seven

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minute speech. Okay, Okay, the topics are insane. They're like in,

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these are high school kids right now, and the topics

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are like, yeah, explain why the if Russia will be

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spending more Cold war post Cold War Russia NATO defense spending,

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Like are you kidding? Like completely in the okay, explain

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why China and Brazil's trade will benefit or be badly

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negatively affected or benefit from peace between the two. I'm like,

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oh my god, these kids. Wow. Okay, So they come

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in and then they hand you a piece of paper

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and it has their question on it, right, and then

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they talk for seven minutes on something that I know

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nothing about. That's god, And all you can do is

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sit there and go, okay, mind blown And imagine this.

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They stand like right in front of your death Like

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you're sitting at a desk and they stand like right

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in front of you and just talk at you for

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seven minutes about something that you do not give a

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fuck about, that you know nothing about. And then they're

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giving you like statistics and like according to an article,

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and it's all memorized, so like oh my god, I

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mean it's all based on like they can use note

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cards to write down all their facts. When they're researching,

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but then they cannot read anything, so they have to

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remember that they looked up some study on you know,

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according to Forbes Magazines February issue blah blah blah blah blah.

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Oh they don't, but they don't ever get these questions

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ahead of time. I get it ahead, they get them,

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and then they get thirty minutes. Oh okay, yeah, they

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get thirty minutes to prepare. So that shit like not

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for the debate that just their coach is telling now

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and you're going to get anything. They get it randomly. Oh.

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Not like you can say like, hey, can you give

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me something on trade relations, I'm good on that note.

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It's all political and it's all like international politics. Oh

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my god. Yeah, that's insane. One kid got though this

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was domestic politics, but he got like, explain what all

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of Trump's cabinet member nomination picks. Explain how that is

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going to inform how he plans to what he plans

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to do during his term. Right, oh my god. Then

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the kid's like, well this kid people people I hadn't

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even heard of though, right, Like not even the guy

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for the military who's like, you know, has uh no,

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I think he used him, and then two other people.

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I literally never heard the names Reilly. Yeah. I was like, okay, wow,

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that's insane. Yeah. One kid was not good at all though,

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and was just like mumbling the whole thing. And then

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So yeah, third round. Xander says he did fine. Okay,

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but he also so then we it's after lunch we

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find out and I'm having like the best time. By

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the way, Like who cares about Xander? Because I'm like, yeah,

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having fun judging.

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Speaker 2: Huh.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember the other thing that I judged. Anyway,

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It's just amazing how much these kids know and they

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can just be confident and get up there and just

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spit out facts and stuff. It's insane. Oh I know

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what I did. Okay, So there was the first thing

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I judged was called declaration, which is they they memorize

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somebody else's speech, so they do a ten minute speech

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that somebody else wrote, which and then they have to

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deliver it like it's their speech, you know. So I

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had one of them, and the topics. Sometimes they can

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be really heavy, like one of the girls was talking

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about Afghanistan and women, how women are treated in Afghanistan,

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and it was from the point of view of a

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woman whose mother was beaten in a market for not

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wearing a burka. Like it's like, yeah, it can be intense.

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So but those every single one of those entries for

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the declaration, super smooth ten minutes, you know, didn't seem

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to have forgotten anything. Like really, these kids are just incredible.

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It's so fun. I really recommend going to do this

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because he will be so impressed by like your future. Yeah,

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I mean really it's great. It's inspiring watching these kids.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: So then we find out it's like the afternoon, and

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then we find out like that there's going to be

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finals and who's going to go to the finals. It's only,

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like I said, the top kids. So I'm like thinking, okay, like,

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is it possible that Xandra will go to the finals

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for improv because he's good at improv? You know. Then

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I find out that he quote unquote broke, meaning he's

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going to the finals for both categories. Oh my gosh.

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So I was like, what, how is that possible? Like

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he's he was probably messing Oh, he was messing up

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left and right.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: Right. So his coach was like, yeah, I mean, I

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don't know what was his improv does he do? You know,

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like what he had to do? He said that he

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and his partner got that they were on the Titanic.

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They were on a lifeboat on the Titanic, so that

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seemed funny. Yeah. He told me another one that I

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can't really remember. I can't really remember what topics he got,

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but he says it was fun right, So he made

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it to the great to the finals become easy for

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him to do. But I don't know, I guess. So

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then there's a final round. So I was judging something

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called info, which is a ten minute speech that somebody

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is teaching you about something, and they can have graphics,

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they can bring boards, poster boards, so that was really fun.

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And then for the finals, there's three judges in the room,

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so I got to go in there with my friend

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Julie and then like another guy, and then we compared

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notes afterwards, and that was really fun, like so cool.

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I always picture the finals everybody's able to watch, you know,

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that's what you picture. Is not like that. So the

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finals are just three judges because there was only one

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round of it, so then they can pick they can

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average I guess right who you know? Whatever? Yeah, okay,

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So anyway, we didn't confer about who we were going

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to pick for number what. We all made our rankings

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and then we talked about it afterwards, and you know,

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it was just funny. We were so fun. Yeah. How

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great is that that you get to deal with your

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friends and that's amazing. Yeah. So then I asked Xander,

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like how did it go? Because he had his final

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run and he was like, oh my god, I fucked up,

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Like I messed up so bad. He's like, I messed

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up my end. He's like, but it's okay. He's like,

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I totally had fun. Yeah, and like all have a

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better memorize for the next one, you know whatever. Okay,

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So whatever, it was fun and they learned towards ceremony.

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Then they bring up all the finalists, all the kids

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that made it to the finals. They bring them up

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and then they rank them basically, so it's like it's

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like a beauty pageant, right, they're all standing there, and

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then they go in seventh place and then they yell

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the heist. They say the high school, so it's like

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in seventh place from a Grande high school. Okay, so

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you already know. Okay, so first thing that goes up

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is the hit for him is the improv. So there's

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like seven finalists, right, so then this is just like

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maybe information you don't really need, but for places seven

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through four, you're not allowed to applaud. Takes too long,

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so you just give a clap. So everybody, it kind

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of sucks because all the finalists are up there. So yes,

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it's nice that you are a finalist, and it's the

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call you out. It's an honor, but you also see

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who's last of the finalists, right, so it's like in

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seventh if there's only seven in seventh place. And at

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this it's an awards ceremony, so the whole competition is there,

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all the judges, so it's like a full like auditorium

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and it's the kids are really sweet and they're very

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like supportive of each other and yeah. So anyway there,

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so Xander's group goes up and it's like in seventh

469
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place from blah blah blah school, not Xander. So I'm

470
00:27:04,279 --> 00:27:08,279
like okay, okay. So then they're like in sixth place

471
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:10,640
from this school and it's not Xander's school, and I

472
00:27:10,759 --> 00:27:14,599
was like, oh, holy shit, Like yeah he did. He's

473
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:19,480
not last anyway, So he was like fourth place. Wow. Yeah,

474
00:27:19,559 --> 00:27:21,240
so we got like a class so that was like

475
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,839
pretty huge because there are a lot of people and

476
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,880
turned into it. Yeah, so that was exciting. So we

477
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:31,400
got a medal. Oh key, places three through first, third

478
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,640
through first get a trophy. It's pretty big deal.

479
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:35,079
Speaker 2: Right.

480
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 1: Yeah. So then for his oh oh for his ten

481
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,880
minute speech, I've just felt bad because I was like,

482
00:27:43,759 --> 00:27:46,960
he messed up on like three out of this five

483
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,440
four rounds right right right. So they go up there

484
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:55,160
the finalists, and I'm like, okay, I was saying, So

485
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,319
I'm with all my girlfriends right now, I'm just like,

486
00:27:57,799 --> 00:28:02,160
just just please don't let him be last of the finalists,

487
00:28:02,279 --> 00:28:05,359
even though if he was, he was like, it's crazy

488
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,000
that he even made it to the finals considering how

489
00:28:08,079 --> 00:28:11,920
much he messed up. So it's seventh place. So in

490
00:28:12,079 --> 00:28:15,839
seventh place from blah blah blah high school. I was like,

491
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,960
oh shit, he's not seventh, Oh my gosh. And I

492
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:23,160
was honestly like, anything beyond this is gravy. He made

493
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:24,920
it to the finals. I did not think that was

494
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,720
going to happen. Then he's not even the last one

495
00:28:27,759 --> 00:28:30,519
of the finals. I'm like, fourth place is damn me

496
00:28:30,799 --> 00:28:34,720
fucked up? Yeah, So then he gets then they go

497
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,519
sixth place, not him. So now me and my friends

498
00:28:38,599 --> 00:28:40,759
keep looking at it because they're all the other kids

499
00:28:40,799 --> 00:28:43,519
are in competing with so we're all they're like, oh

500
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,880
my god, he's at least fifth place, you know. So

501
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:52,960
then in fifth place not him, was like, okay, this

502
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:57,039
is crazy. So then it's like fourth place, but this

503
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:01,279
kid didn't memorize it last night the night before they're

504
00:29:01,359 --> 00:29:05,799
like fourth place from Arroyo Grande High School, and I

505
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,079
was like, oh my god, he's at least third place.

506
00:29:09,119 --> 00:29:15,240
He's getting a trophy with my speech third place, not him,

507
00:29:15,319 --> 00:29:19,359
no way, he got second place. Oh my god, the

508
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,880
whole freaking category. Oh my god, that's instant. I was screaming.

509
00:29:24,319 --> 00:29:27,720
I was like, it was so fun. I got, I

510
00:29:27,799 --> 00:29:30,359
get the chill. I know, he got a full on trophy.

511
00:29:30,559 --> 00:29:34,359
It's amazing. And he barely prepared. No what he'll think

512
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:38,400
about when he prepares next time. He was really shocked.

513
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:40,880
He kept telling me. He's like, mom, I was watching

514
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:46,240
these speeches. The everybody else was. There was no He's like,

515
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,000
there was maybe one other one that was that. I

516
00:29:50,119 --> 00:29:52,559
was like, maybe I'm gonna beat that person. He goes,

517
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,440
but that's it. The rest of them were like super memorized,

518
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,880
really animated, like really smooth, really well done about it

519
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,519
important topics. And I was like, I'm gonna tell you

520
00:30:02,599 --> 00:30:05,640
what it is. You're funny, he is, and we don't

521
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,319
know if you messed up, like a lot of times,

522
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,440
we don't know. I was thinking about that. He's like,

523
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,680
because I was watching people's speeches and I was like

524
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,720
I'm just watching the presentation and I don't know. That's

525
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,640
what I was saying earlier. You don't really care about

526
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:24,440
the percentages and the how would I know? And I said, well,

527
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:29,000
you have jokes, and I said in as parents, like

528
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,920
that's what we're we're like, And I told him that

529
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,240
one of the ones I judged last year. I was like,

530
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:38,519
the girl did not have the most important speech, like

531
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,920
it was, I said, but she made me laugh out loud,

532
00:30:41,319 --> 00:30:43,920
and I was like, sorry, that's my number one. Yeah,

533
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:47,200
she made me laugh, like genuinely laugh and her delivery

534
00:30:47,319 --> 00:30:51,079
was fun. And her speech was about the pressure to

535
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,799
succeed and how we should like have less pressure on

536
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,720
our kids to succeed, that it's like detrimental to their

537
00:30:57,759 --> 00:30:59,920
mental health to always feel like they have to like

538
00:31:00,359 --> 00:31:04,680
outdo their peers and this this thing of how hard

539
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:06,720
it is to get into college and how like you

540
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,200
have to get straight a's and even straight a's isn't enough.

541
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:13,400
And I was like, it's a good topic, but it

542
00:31:13,559 --> 00:31:16,519
was her delivery that was like making jokes and like

543
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,440
kind of teasing the parents. Yea, and like you're probably

544
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,240
but that's what the parents, that's it. Yeah, that's what

545
00:31:23,359 --> 00:31:26,279
people like. They like. Sander had funny jokes where he'd

546
00:31:26,319 --> 00:31:28,960
be like, okay, I know what you're thinking. He's like, oh,

547
00:31:29,039 --> 00:31:33,559
don't hashtag not all men to right now. He's like, yeah,

548
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,839
I get it, like not all men are don't get

549
00:31:37,079 --> 00:31:39,559
seek help for their mental health. He goes like me,

550
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,519
he goes, Yeah, I'm in therapy. He goes, I go

551
00:31:41,599 --> 00:31:45,079
to therapy once a week. Sometimes I'll even schedule an

552
00:31:45,119 --> 00:31:48,599
extra appointment for a MIDWEK update and he goes. But

553
00:31:48,759 --> 00:31:51,480
guess who. Guess who got me to go to therapy?

554
00:31:51,839 --> 00:31:52,319
Speaker 2: My mom?

555
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: It was a woman who told me, hey, maybe punching

556
00:31:56,279 --> 00:31:59,640
drywall isn't the answer to your problems, like seek some help.

557
00:32:00,359 --> 00:32:04,480
And so it was like fun, great, Oh my gosh, yeah,

558
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,359
it's amazing. Isn't that the best feeling when your kid

559
00:32:07,599 --> 00:32:10,680
just like gets up there and rocks it. It's the best.

560
00:32:10,799 --> 00:32:13,000
That must have felt so good. It felt so good

561
00:32:13,039 --> 00:32:16,559
because guess what last year I had an amazing time

562
00:32:16,759 --> 00:32:19,960
and he won nothing. So like this just was like cheering.

563
00:32:20,119 --> 00:32:22,279
I already like doing this and now I get to

564
00:32:22,359 --> 00:32:24,240
see my kids like yeah, you know, I mean get

565
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:27,519
the second place. Yeah, it's so fun. That's oh that's awesome.

566
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:31,200
That's such a great feeling, I know. And the other fun,

567
00:32:31,359 --> 00:32:34,559
fun feeling was that all of my friend, my immediate

568
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,960
friends that I was with, all of their kids, like

569
00:32:37,119 --> 00:32:41,400
because sometimes like my friend, my friend's daughter got second.

570
00:32:42,359 --> 00:32:45,880
My other friend's son and his partner for their they

571
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,759
were doing a thing, got got third. Like everybody, all

572
00:32:49,839 --> 00:32:53,680
your friends. Yeah, yeah, oh that's so awesome. What a

573
00:32:53,759 --> 00:32:54,279
great day.

574
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 2: You know.

575
00:32:54,759 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: I love having a thing that they get to like

576
00:32:56,960 --> 00:33:00,279
be prideful. When's your next one? I think there's one

577
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,920
like in mid January. Oh, I think there's one January eighteenth,

578
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,200
but not when that we have to go to. I

579
00:33:08,319 --> 00:33:10,279
might not even be judging it. And then the next

580
00:33:10,319 --> 00:33:14,160
one's early February. Oh that's so fun. Yeah. And I

581
00:33:14,359 --> 00:33:16,640
just think he's going to get better and better because

582
00:33:16,759 --> 00:33:20,279
obviously I think it's his thing. I think this speech writing,

583
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,400
the fact that he really wanted to do it and

584
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,599
he thought about his was subject back in the summertime,

585
00:33:25,799 --> 00:33:28,039
you know, like he was focused on what he wanted

586
00:33:28,079 --> 00:33:30,640
to work on. You know, that just shows you that's

587
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,640
his passion and he's going to be good at it.

588
00:33:33,079 --> 00:33:35,640
I think, I mean, I think, give me what he

589
00:33:35,799 --> 00:33:39,039
got two time violations, so like, and he still came

590
00:33:39,079 --> 00:33:43,039
in second, so they must have like overlooked a lot, yeah,

591
00:33:43,599 --> 00:33:45,480
I think. And I told him, I go, I think

592
00:33:45,559 --> 00:33:48,720
that it's you were entertaining and they like that. So,

593
00:33:49,799 --> 00:33:52,000
you know, I don't know like what that means for

594
00:33:53,279 --> 00:33:55,680
going to state or going to nationals. Like, I don't know,

595
00:33:55,759 --> 00:34:00,440
because those kids are those topics are just like damn yeah,

596
00:34:00,599 --> 00:34:03,519
like and these kids are very like there's a certain

597
00:34:03,599 --> 00:34:06,400
way of delivering it. But I told him, I go,

598
00:34:06,559 --> 00:34:10,079
just do you. Yeah, it's working. It's working. Yeah, and

599
00:34:10,199 --> 00:34:12,760
if he has it memorized nicely and he edits a

600
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:16,079
little bit, so it's not coming in long night. Yeah,

601
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:19,360
that's awesome. Yeah, he's just gonna get better and better

602
00:34:19,679 --> 00:34:22,320
as what you know, and it just it's so nice

603
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:24,679
when you when you see your kid has a passion

604
00:34:25,079 --> 00:34:27,679
and they connect to it. You know, it's just great,

605
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,800
really fun. Yeah yeah, and just like a fun day.

606
00:34:32,039 --> 00:34:36,119
That's so cool. Yeah, that's awesome. So you had a party.

607
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,920
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you at a party? I did. I have my girlfriends

649
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from ABC and once a year we try and get

650
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:11,119
together for like around the holidays, and everybody like we'll

651
00:37:11,199 --> 00:37:14,039
go to like one of their houses, or we'll go

652
00:37:14,119 --> 00:37:16,559
to a restaurant or whatever. And this year, you know,

653
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,559
Suzanne was like, you know your house, it's you're moved

654
00:37:20,559 --> 00:37:23,599
into this new house. I decorated it for for the holidays,

655
00:37:23,639 --> 00:37:25,559
for Christmas. I still need to get a tree, though.

656
00:37:26,199 --> 00:37:29,079
You decorated it like by yourself. Yeah. I got the

657
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:31,239
old you know, I out of the garage. I got

658
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:35,840
the Christmas you know, you know the little decorations you

659
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:39,199
put around the house and stuff. Put a tablecloth, a

660
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,360
festive tablecloth, that kind of thing, you know, for when

661
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,679
the kids come home. Did you do lights outside of

662
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,000
your house? I did? You did it? Yeah? I did

663
00:37:48,039 --> 00:37:50,679
because Natalia has always wanted lights and we never got them.

664
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,679
So this house I got, I got. I put them up. Yeah,

665
00:37:55,039 --> 00:37:57,239
I mean we have Christmas lights too, you do. I

666
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:01,039
love it. I know, it's nice. It's really Yeah, it's

667
00:38:01,159 --> 00:38:03,559
just this like they hang like they're they're the really

668
00:38:03,639 --> 00:38:07,400
white like icicle like ones that. Yeah, they're kind of

669
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:12,079
they're pretty. Yeah, it's nice. It's nice, but I still

670
00:38:12,119 --> 00:38:14,119
got to get a Christmas tree. I know, I'm just

671
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:15,559
I don't have a creed tree either.

672
00:38:15,639 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 2: Yet.

673
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 1: We've been so busy, I know, I think we're going

674
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:21,159
to go today. I think so I have to, Yeah,

675
00:38:21,199 --> 00:38:23,320
because Natali is gonna come home. I want to get

676
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:27,960
it going. Yeah. So yeah, And then so I had

677
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:32,159
the party and we Suzanne and I, you know, she her,

678
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,679
she came over and she brought like this cocktail thing

679
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,280
that she saw on Instagram and she wanted to give

680
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,320
like she brought the cute glasses to make them in

681
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,639
and everything. So what did you do for food? Holiday cocktail?

682
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,679
So for food we went her and I went to

683
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,360
the grocery store and we got you know, I made

684
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:51,599
a charmuteri board. You know, we how many of you

685
00:38:51,679 --> 00:38:54,159
were there going to be? There's only six of us,

686
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,960
Oh yeah, not very many, just us girls. And we

687
00:38:59,079 --> 00:39:01,679
made I made a sharp shark couterie board. But then

688
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:06,719
we had pizzas coming at like eight from Pit Fire Pizza,

689
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,639
which is really good, okay, and some salads. So that

690
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,599
came and that was it and we had Yeah, it

691
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,840
was nice, and I got the solo stove from my backyard.

692
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,480
You know, I'm going to return it. I don't want it.

693
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,639
Oh really yeah, it's a pain in the ass. Everybody's like, oh,

694
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:24,000
solo stove is easy. Didn't we do ads? Yeah, we

695
00:39:24,079 --> 00:39:26,599
did a few years ago. Yeah, I mean it's not

696
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,400
for me. It's I see why people would like it.

697
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,639
But you actually have to got you have to get

698
00:39:31,679 --> 00:39:33,519
the wood, you have to put the wood in. And

699
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,239
everybody says it's so easy, but I'm not. I'm not

700
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:41,400
doing that, not building a fire in my backyard. Like what, Yeah,

701
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,239
I don't know what I I my sister and like

702
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,320
everybody was telling me it's so easy. It's you know,

703
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,960
it's smokeless, this and that, And I was like, okay,

704
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,480
I got to return it. Oh yeah, it's supposed to

705
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,719
be smokeless. Now, aren't you supposed to feel like can

706
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:56,880
you cook on it? Or is it just for warmth?

707
00:39:57,079 --> 00:39:59,119
It's just really for warmth. It's like and you and

708
00:39:59,199 --> 00:40:00,960
the thing is it around it and you sit around

709
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,280
the fire. Yeah, and you could do marshmallows and stuff.

710
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,039
And I think that people like it because they can.

711
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,119
It's easy. You can just take it to the beach,

712
00:40:07,159 --> 00:40:09,480
if you're going to you know, you could travel with it.

713
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:11,800
I'm not where am I going with my solo stove?

714
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,920
I mean, what the fuck? I don't need that. You're

715
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,679
going to be out in the parking lot of target

716
00:40:17,119 --> 00:40:20,079
solo stove? I know, like it was a little chili outside.

717
00:40:20,159 --> 00:40:22,239
I want to warm up by the fire before I

718
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:25,360
do some shopping, right, like you have the little uh

719
00:40:25,639 --> 00:40:29,239
you know, uh ding ding ding the bell like raising money,

720
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,239
you know, donations, Yes, yes, yeah, no, I don't know

721
00:40:33,559 --> 00:40:34,320
I'm going to return.

722
00:40:34,559 --> 00:40:34,599
Speaker 2: No.

723
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 1: What I want is one that those those outdoor ones

724
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,199
that you can just turn the gas on and the

725
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:45,000
fire comes on. That's it, that's all. Yeah. Shouldn't they

726
00:40:45,039 --> 00:40:47,280
all be like that? I know, well, I don't know

727
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,840
what I was thinking, like a heat lamp. You're talking

728
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,480
gas exact, except for with a flame with flame, you

729
00:40:52,559 --> 00:40:54,679
just turn it on like a gas like a thing.

730
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:58,039
That would be like fireplaces, like a gas fireplace, a

731
00:40:58,079 --> 00:41:00,760
white gas on, you turn and you light it like that.

732
00:41:01,199 --> 00:41:03,719
They do, they do. I'm just the dumb ass that

733
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:08,079
got the solo stove. Oh, because probably that's not portable

734
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,719
because it has to be connected to a gas line,

735
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,840
I guess. But it's a certain place in your backyard

736
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:15,639
and then you just turn it on. I get like

737
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,800
a gas grill. I don't know if they connected they

738
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,440
have to connect to well. I guess you could connect

739
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,719
it to a gas tank. Yeah. I think it just

740
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,320
needs a gas tank. That's it, right, you know, like

741
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:31,920
he sea lamps. Yeah, I don't know. I don't go

742
00:41:32,039 --> 00:41:34,079
hanging out at home depot and ship. I don't know

743
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,840
andy like that. I don't know. Yeah, that sounds like

744
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,599
something you could get that just has a little prop. Yeah,

745
00:41:39,679 --> 00:41:44,519
I'm gonna do a vault prooank so you could just

746
00:41:44,679 --> 00:41:47,679
get really high like well, then go to sleep and

747
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:51,079
like Michael Jacks, wake up and the fire is done. Yeah.

748
00:41:51,159 --> 00:41:58,639
Propofol Yeah, everyone's heard of that, right, propofol day, pro

749
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:04,920
paane day. Yes, a pro painting thank you, Yeah, thank you. Yeah.

750
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:06,840
I think that's what I'm gonna do. Okay, I'm going

751
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:11,280
to return it. But anyway, the house looks really nice.

752
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,000
I just got to get a tree. The girls had

753
00:42:13,039 --> 00:42:15,880
a good time, you know, we hung out and uh

754
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,000
chit chatted like it's so nice to see them, like

755
00:42:19,079 --> 00:42:21,199
I haven't seen them in so long, huh, you know,

756
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,599
and everybody's a mom so everybody's gone by like ten

757
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:27,400
thirty eleven, right, you know. But yeah, it was nice.

758
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,800
We had a good time and played you know, Christmas

759
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:34,480
music and stuff and sat outside in the freezing cold

760
00:42:34,519 --> 00:42:38,920
because I didn't turn on the solo stove. It has

761
00:42:39,039 --> 00:42:42,559
been really cold in LA, it has. Yeah, dude, what's

762
00:42:42,599 --> 00:42:44,800
the dude with the what's the deal with the drones?

763
00:42:45,559 --> 00:42:47,320
Do we know? Oh? What's going on?

764
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 3: Oh?

765
00:42:47,559 --> 00:42:50,199
Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you know anything, Galen?

766
00:42:50,519 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 3: I mean I know about the drones?

767
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody, of course you do.

768
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the big news right now.

769
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:57,199
Speaker 2: I know.

770
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,280
Speaker 1: Well, is it really a mystery? Do we think?

771
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 3: Well, coming out and saying what it is, which is

772
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:03,000
the weird thing?

773
00:43:04,119 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 1: I gotta believe. I mean you gotta think. Listen, are

774
00:43:06,519 --> 00:43:08,360
they everywhere? Are they only in one? No?

775
00:43:08,519 --> 00:43:10,159
Speaker 3: Now it's on the East Coast mostly.

776
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 2: No.

777
00:43:10,559 --> 00:43:15,039
Speaker 1: Now they're in California. Yeah, they they're like being spotted

778
00:43:15,079 --> 00:43:17,440
all over the place, now, all over the country. They

779
00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,079
were spotted in California, there was some So do we

780
00:43:21,119 --> 00:43:25,119
think it's UFOs? I hope so that would that'd be great,

781
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:29,239
that'd be awesome. Now listen, I think the government knows

782
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,039
what they are. They're just not telling us because obviously

783
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,079
if they're out there flying and they're over air, you know,

784
00:43:35,199 --> 00:43:37,800
they're flying in airspace. First of all, they would ground

785
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,840
all the planes. I would have to think, right right,

786
00:43:40,199 --> 00:43:43,000
they would go out some planes. You know, they wouldn't

787
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:46,679
trust our air travel. They must know something they just

788
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:51,400
not telling us. Yeah, But I mean when would it

789
00:43:51,559 --> 00:43:53,960
be that they're not telling us. I don't know? And

790
00:43:54,119 --> 00:43:56,719
are they saying like, hey, guys, we know what it is,

791
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,880
do not even worry, but we just can't tell you

792
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,599
right now. I think they're not saying it, or are

793
00:44:01,639 --> 00:44:02,360
they saying they don't know?

794
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 3: They're not saying anything.

795
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: That's the that's this, that's the sketchy thing. Yeah, And

796
00:44:09,079 --> 00:44:11,280
here's the thing I want to know. You know, everybody's

797
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,239
posting these videos of these drones. Are they just are they?

798
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:17,039
Are they? How many videos that we've seen are really

799
00:44:17,199 --> 00:44:21,159
drones or are they just like helicopters you know, circling

800
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:25,079
or airplanes or whatever? You know, because I've seen videos

801
00:44:25,079 --> 00:44:27,320
where the guys are like, you know, in Long Island,

802
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,679
they're like like, get the fuck out of here. That's

803
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:33,039
not a fucking drone, dumb ass, that's an airplane. He's like, no, dude, dude,

804
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,400
it was dude. It was going up and down and

805
00:44:35,519 --> 00:44:38,920
moving around and like it was not that's not an airplane, bro, No,

806
00:44:39,079 --> 00:44:40,159
that's a fucking airplane.

807
00:44:40,199 --> 00:44:40,280
Speaker 2: Bro.

808
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 1: Look zulmantly. You know, it's like, how many of these

809
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:43,559
videos are.

810
00:44:43,639 --> 00:44:45,679
Speaker 2: Well, a lot of them are really close to one another,

811
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,400
and a planer and a helicopter aren't going to get

812
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,320
that close to each other, right, you know, unless maybe

813
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:52,840
there's like a news story and there's a couple of

814
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,199
helicopters covering it. But aside from that, you wouldn't have

815
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:56,920
aircraft like that that close to one another.

816
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 1: And they say they're big too, like they're the size

817
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:02,440
of a mini cu where they're saying, but don't regular

818
00:45:02,639 --> 00:45:05,159
people have access to drones at this point, not like

819
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:05,559
these ones.

820
00:45:05,599 --> 00:45:07,639
Speaker 2: These ones are big ones with lights like you can

821
00:45:07,679 --> 00:45:10,000
fly it's the regular little drone up in the air.

822
00:45:10,119 --> 00:45:13,119
But these ones are like really high in the air

823
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:14,719
and they have lights in they're big.

824
00:45:15,599 --> 00:45:20,519
Speaker 1: Right, interesting. I don't know, that is pretty crazy. Yeah,

825
00:45:20,559 --> 00:45:24,480
But speaking of mysteries, I started watching the John Benet

826
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:31,000
Ramsey documentary last night, and uh, I've never really gotten

827
00:45:31,079 --> 00:45:35,480
super into this story, So who did it? I know, Well,

828
00:45:35,559 --> 00:45:38,320
did you finish it? Did you watch I haven't finished it,

829
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,079
but I like the brother for it. I like the

830
00:45:41,119 --> 00:45:45,880
little brother for this. Really. Yeah. Now I have, of

831
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:48,880
course heard this theory before, but it is making sense.

832
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,159
I was what the brother. The little brother was ten,

833
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:55,920
and he seems real shady when he's like they're interviewing

834
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,480
him and he's kind of laying on the couch. He

835
00:45:58,679 --> 00:46:01,199
kind of seems very nonchalant. Do you know what I'm

836
00:46:01,199 --> 00:46:05,840
talking about? Yeah, Oh my god, that is so loud. Yeah,

837
00:46:07,039 --> 00:46:08,320
is that too loud? Hear it?

838
00:46:08,639 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 3: So I hear it, But it's that right, Okay.

839
00:46:12,519 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 1: It's literally like right next to me. Okay. So the

840
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:20,000
brother is getting interviewed by the police right afterward, and

841
00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:22,480
he's like laying on a couch kind of like with

842
00:46:22,639 --> 00:46:25,239
his feet like waving in the air, and he's like, yeah,

843
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:30,320
it seems really weird. Yeah, this is my theory, but

844
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,519
not based on finishing the documentary. So I want to

845
00:46:32,559 --> 00:46:35,840
know yours. Yeah, I'm thinking that the brother did it

846
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,880
because the the girl was getting way too much attention.

847
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:43,440
It gets all the attention. He's kind of last, so

848
00:46:43,559 --> 00:46:46,480
there's all the the dad has other kids from other marriages,

849
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:52,280
other relationship. Then this the mom comes along and has him,

850
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:54,480
and then John Benay and then John Benay is like

851
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:58,880
the little princess who's getting so much attention? Do you

852
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:02,000
think he just got angry? And like, I don't understand.

853
00:47:02,079 --> 00:47:04,480
I I can get that theory. But the other part

854
00:47:04,519 --> 00:47:07,159
of too, it is that they what what what they

855
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:11,400
She was found penetrated with a stick. Well, kid could

856
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:12,760
have done I mean, if the kid was a little

857
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:17,840
like psychopath. I don't know. I think I think after

858
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:21,679
watching the whole documentary, I think that somebody broke in.

859
00:47:22,199 --> 00:47:24,320
First of all, they didn't the cops, I don't think

860
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,840
checked to see if there was pedophiles in the area.

861
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,280
I don't think they looked into that. Second of all,

862
00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:32,719
she's a beauty pageant girl. Some nutjob could have like

863
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:37,519
in the area, could have you know, wanted to wanted her. Yeah,

864
00:47:37,599 --> 00:47:40,840
but here's the thing. Why the ransom note? Though the

865
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:44,360
note was very bizarre and seems to me to be

866
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,599
a rushed thing that, like one of the parents wrote, yeah,

867
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:50,599
the ransom note, because why would it. Why would a

868
00:47:50,679 --> 00:47:54,719
pedophile who broke in and molested and then killed this

869
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,760
little girl go through the trouble of writing a long note.

870
00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:59,920
Remember when the police were like, this is like the law,

871
00:48:00,199 --> 00:48:02,679
this note. It just doesn't even make sense that you

872
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,880
would write like right, I mean, what even if a

873
00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:09,360
crazy person obviously a crazy person who's like a psychopath,

874
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:12,440
But why would they write a note? I don't know.

875
00:48:12,599 --> 00:48:15,599
And the note was directed to the dad right and

876
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:19,199
talked about his right you know, bonus or something, And

877
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,519
I don't know. It could have been somebody he worked with.

878
00:48:22,039 --> 00:48:25,639
I don't know. I don't know. Did somebody worked with

879
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:30,199
that wanted the money? Why would they kill her? I

880
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,760
don't know. And they have to know she's about to

881
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:36,119
be found in like a minute, Like, I don't know.

882
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,079
I don't think the dad. I don't think the dad

883
00:48:38,199 --> 00:48:40,760
killed her. I don't think the mom killed her. It's

884
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:43,639
hard for me to believe the brother killed her, unless

885
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:45,679
maybe he did, Kaylin, what happened?

886
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have no idea. I don't even really know

887
00:48:48,519 --> 00:48:49,079
about the story.

888
00:48:49,159 --> 00:48:50,199
Speaker 1: You don't follow that case.

889
00:48:50,559 --> 00:48:51,079
Speaker 3: I don't know.

890
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 1: Well, what are the theories? Do you know any of

891
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:57,239
the theories? Well, you got to watch that documentary. They

892
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,239
go over a lot. But remember there was this guy

893
00:48:59,519 --> 00:49:03,599
I heard the theory the documentary was biased because it

894
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:07,719
was because John right, right, which one could be happening.

895
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:12,599
But remember there was a guy that that kicks. He

896
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,639
confessed and he was put in jail and everything, and

897
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:19,280
then they found out it wasn't him. Remember that. No, Yeah,

898
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,400
they go through that in the documentary. I don't know.

899
00:49:21,599 --> 00:49:24,679
The theories are the dad did it, you know, or

900
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,679
the mom did it. But then you watch on the

901
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:31,440
documentary and they're they're explaining like if she there was

902
00:49:31,559 --> 00:49:34,320
no urine, and like they say that she wet the

903
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:37,039
bed or something or something that she got mad with

904
00:49:37,159 --> 00:49:40,000
her But in the bed sheet looked like somebody pulled

905
00:49:40,039 --> 00:49:42,960
her off her bed while she was asleep. This this

906
00:49:43,599 --> 00:49:47,320
expert that goes over everything said, it looked like it

907
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,480
looked like she was asleep and somebody pulled her off

908
00:49:49,519 --> 00:49:51,159
the bed the way the sheets were left.

909
00:49:51,519 --> 00:49:52,519
Speaker 2: Not like you know.

910
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,599
Speaker 1: And I don't know. I don't see her mom. I

911
00:49:55,639 --> 00:49:59,119
don't know. I don't see the parents killing her. Maybe

912
00:49:59,159 --> 00:50:03,320
i'm nai, but and the dad already lost a daughter,

913
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,559
Like what's he gonna do kill this other daughter? He did? Yeah,

914
00:50:07,679 --> 00:50:10,440
his daughter died in a car crash. Oh gosh, Yeah,

915
00:50:10,519 --> 00:50:14,679
he's one of his older daughters. Yo. I don't think

916
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,559
the dad did it. No, I think they covered for

917
00:50:17,679 --> 00:50:20,280
the sun. I think the mom was like, Okay, I

918
00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,320
already lost my daughter. I'm not going to lose my

919
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:23,960
son too. I'm not going to let him go to

920
00:50:24,039 --> 00:50:25,639
jail for the rest of his life. I'll have like

921
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,480
no kids. So I think they did some like weird

922
00:50:28,559 --> 00:50:34,840
cover up. Yeah, wow, well yeah, I think. All right,

923
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,519
I'm gonna watch it. Also, just a little thing for

924
00:50:38,599 --> 00:50:42,079
you guys later daters. Oh, I know, I have to start.

925
00:50:42,119 --> 00:50:44,679
I haven't seen that hinge the whole thing. Oh really,

926
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,800
let's talk about it after the holidays. Kaylin watched her

927
00:50:48,039 --> 00:50:52,280
later das on Netflix. It's very fun. I can't wait. Yeah,

928
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:56,360
although I did hear that all of the people are actors. Oh,

929
00:50:56,519 --> 00:50:57,320
don't tell me that.

930
00:50:57,599 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 2: I know.

931
00:50:59,079 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 1: I mean, you know what I mean. And they're probably

932
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,239
really going on dates. But they're all people from like

933
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,400
that have like ages, you know, or with like you know,

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they're trying to be like reality stars. It was still

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good though, It's really good. I think you'll like it

936
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all right, before we go again, always every episode. Adam

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00:51:18,639 --> 00:51:22,280
Lerner he's a car broker, Adam's got a Car dot com.

938
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:26,480
He can get you a car best deals right probably

939
00:51:26,559 --> 00:51:30,000
before the holidays, so like get him now to get

940
00:51:30,039 --> 00:51:31,840
you a car. He just got Robin a car. I

941
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,559
have to hear. I have to see if she actually

942
00:51:33,639 --> 00:51:38,559
took the car. Also, Ferncandle our friend Kelsey. She has

943
00:51:38,599 --> 00:51:42,840
a candle business the candles Smell Delish. She's on Instagram

944
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,599
at Ferncandle or go to Ferncandle dot com. Are Also

945
00:51:48,119 --> 00:51:52,639
our friend Darcy is amplifying her brother Colin and sister

946
00:51:52,679 --> 00:51:55,880
in law Anna's podcast for kids called The Get Up Show.

947
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,719
It incorporates yoga, music, jokes, learning, and lots of fun.

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00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:03,280
It's called The Get Up Show. Go find that. Our

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00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:08,119
friend Sergio is highlighting ASPCA helps the animals in the

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00:52:08,159 --> 00:52:11,639
aftermath of Hurricane Helene. But all of the hurricanes and

951
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:16,800
you know it's winter. ASPCA does amazing things for the animals. Also,

952
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:21,480
our friend Carrie Kibbler is highlighting Trevor Project for me.

953
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:26,559
This is needed so much right now. It helps all

954
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:32,760
lgbtq IA youth and they have a suicide prevention hotline

955
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:37,559
and please give to them for the holidays. Also, Christine

956
00:52:37,599 --> 00:52:41,880
Black is waves and Wonder Travel. Her instagram is Travel

957
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,400
with Christine b Or you can find her on our

958
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:48,599
Facebook page. And Maren has Sugar Skull. It's a bakery

959
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,400
and gift shop on the island of Kawhi. You can

960
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:54,360
go to their website now Sugar Skull eight o eight

961
00:52:54,679 --> 00:52:58,760
dot square dot site to get some delicious treats. They

962
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:03,119
make handmake trees there and gifty items, so check them out.

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00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,159
We love you guys. Oh, really quick before we go,

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00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:12,800
I gave our friend Anna, Oh yeah, Mila Crocodile's mom,

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00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:17,960
uh the money we all raised. It was thirty three

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00:53:18,159 --> 00:53:22,880
hundred dollars. Wow. And she was absolutely floored. She did

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00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,679
not count it in front of me, so she didn't

968
00:53:24,679 --> 00:53:27,039
even know how much it was. But she was so

969
00:53:28,079 --> 00:53:31,639
grateful and says to thank everybody so much, and like

970
00:53:32,079 --> 00:53:35,519
we made their Christmas. Oh my gosh, guys, thank you

971
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,960
so much. Everybody did such a great job helping. Yeah,

972
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:44,320
very incredible community, and it just felt so good to

973
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:45,960
give it to her. And I, oh, I made sure

974
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,519
to say, like this is not from me, this is

975
00:53:48,639 --> 00:53:51,559
from a lot of people who care about your family,

976
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:55,280
and like yeah, and she was she was tearing tearing

977
00:53:55,400 --> 00:53:58,760
up and just like, please tell them how grateful I am. Yeah,

978
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,760
thank you for doing That's definitely the holidays, everybody, they

979
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,119
check out our patreon because it's kind of a crazy one. Yeah, okay,

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00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:08,440
all right, you're a parent now, don't f it up.

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Let angle